Ep94: Role Play, Flewed Out and Blue Checks Feat Sarunas Jackson

the nineteenth. I do want to let you guys know we have added a second show because y'all show us so much mother fucking love. We sold out in four days, so we do have two shows. Yeah, it's definitely no, maybe not. I don't know. Christmas niggas, can you wait till I finished? We could do that in the intro. Damn you always sucking shu up. Anyways, after that should be announced. Anyways, we will be in Atlanta in February.

I'll just throw that out there. I'm not gonna give you all the date yet, but tickets should be up soon. We will be in Toronto meet us in the sixth Bitch March ninth. Um. I'm hoping Drake comes by. I don't know if he's gonna be in town. We're gonna try to get the little light skin got got us there or whatever, and then we're gonna be in Chicago on March thirtieth. We also went ahead and added a second show for Chicago because y'all love us in Chicago.

Dates for Houston, l A, New York, and we don't know we're doing Miami or Orlando yet, apparently because we're not doing both. We're doing Miami. I want to be a thought. Okay, well, well I guess we're gonna do Miami, not Orlando. We're working on the rest of those details, but we're coming on tour anyways. Guys, welcome to yet another episode of Horrible Decisions. Now you can say Merry Christmas,

Off Mary, Christmas, Loving Light. I hope that you guys buy your girlfriends, your boyfriends, your love us, your brother's, your mother's some Horrible Decisions tickets. Come see us, come fly out and see us. People do that ship all the time, so stop telling us you ain't coming to Detroit or Philly, yeah, or New Wanles. Hope your ass on the fight. Not only that real quick, this is a high. This is the horribles. You can come by yourself, like there's tons of people that be hitting other people.

Just started a post on Patreon. If you're going to any of the shows by yourself, come me a friend, jump in the car. Um. I mean, you know I'm all about the hippies. Shipp you are, I'm not. But anyways, Marry Christmas, y'all. Hose um. I know I'm getting were like, I know I'm getting old because I'm My Mom's like, what do you want for Christmas? And I'm like, no, I was really thinking. I was really thinking, Wait more

adult than that. I was like, you know what, I really need some new pots and pants, So I bitch, I'll ask for Christmas. And now I'm old. As if you guys are listening to this, I'm currently in Mexico with my family. They're probably driving me crazy. They leave on the twenties six and then I'm wiling out. So if you're there too, a lot of people have hit me up. I didn't know Mexico was like a thing for the holidays, but come kicking me in cancoon to loom and ply a the carmen um letang. I love that,

and I think you know that's dope. You're just rich. I will be wherever someone flies me out because these tickets are too expensive. So I'm waiting. I gotta come. Maybe you know my hotel is. That's how expec the flight is discussing. So I'm like, people are like, where are you going for the holidays? Wherever nigga fly me? But you know my niggas be mayor he got kids, So I gotta like wait till like the six so as I don't know where I'm gonna be. You know, I asked one niggerd He was like, I said, I

just want some nice shoes. He's like, I don't know when I shoes is. I don't like, fine, get me a scar if I want a nice scarf, like an expensive sea. We got no, no, no, you what you ain't gonna introduced? We was both wilding this week. I got drunk and fucking asked scissors to move in with me. On Instagram, you posted some niggas. First off, why are you bringing this nigga up? First off, let me tell y'all. Now, let me tell y'all real quick. I am single as

the fuck. Um. We were on the phone, so I'm bored. It's the holidays. I bringing old niggas back to the world. Work day, not going in this nineen though. So we was on the phone. We was on the phone and I was like, you got your holes. He was like, now, I ain't got no holes right now, I ain't talking to nobody. And I was like, well, shoot, I got my holes on lock. So I bet you if I post a picture of you right now, your phone gonna blow because I'm kind of hot right now. I'm kind

of lit. And he was like, na, man, no, I swear to god, that's what I said. I was like, I'm just gonna post it with no caption. He was like, they don't mean nothing if don't got a caption. So I was like, fine, I'm gonna put egg plenty Moji mine and that's what I did, and I'm not gonna lie. I realized after posting that I will never post my boyfriend as as as long as we're doing this show. First off, mom gonna hit me up like this is

how I have to find out. Then then his cousin hit me up like, I'm so happy, welcome to the family, cousin of law, you know, his cousin. Then then his old teammate hit me up like, man, I knew you were still working with that nigga. And I'm like, I said, his old teammate, yeah, because what it is this? This old teammate's Jordan? Because well, I said, but I said Jordan's name. I said Jordan's name on the podcast plenty of times. I even told him he not special enough

to have a nickname. But then this is the problem. Oh no, it's Jordan's first name. Basis, I'm gonna fun, but this is the problem with this podcast, and you motherfucker's had he been a regular nigga. The fact that y'all is this seven? Is this Laurya bay? Is? Is this a nigga you pegged? Is this a niggaho? They listed like four different niggas and it wasn't him. Bro, Now I know I did. I can't post my I

didn't have her right. I just posted some pictures of us, but I mean we we dated years ago, so like I figured, people, I didn't even believe that. Why I got a head of girlfriend because I still don't believe you really beating pussy like that, but I mean I guess you do. You've seen it. I got sucked up all right, and I was like taking videos and I was like, damn, who can I send this to that I would appreciate it? Sharon has got one. Being with a girl, it was just like you know what it was?

It was I would never watch porn like girling girl, that's me, but real like if I'm like if I know you and ship or like you know, like some real candy, real life stuff, not a production. I want like real grny like you want amateur. Yeah, it's crazy and I just I just a good one. Well, and I just woke to the the girl this weekend in Atlanta, and I'm not gonna lie. The whole time I was with her, I was like, where's the dick? Like I

wanted to be penetrated so funk back. So she figured the UK out of me and I was like, okay, that was cool. Yeah, I was like, damn, I wanted I wanted the three soome I was low key about to be like did you ain't on Niggason fight over here? What's up? But I was like all right, I know, but it was like two o'clock to me, and this is my first time two o'clock in the morning. This is my first time. If I get that at two o'clock in the morning, we're talking, I'm waking my eyes

side like oh what okay, back yeah. But then by the time he would have came, you know, it didn't maybe the drunkness would have been gone and she would like the looker was done. Let's ensow our guests they don't find the voice because they're like, we can't wait to hear his voice. Oh yeah, okay. By the way, y'all, his teeth is better in person, So now I know I ain't talking about it. There's a lot there's a lot of you know, what's one of the best things

I've ever heard with your voice? And I think Joe buddon podcast was talking about it. It was great. When you said, that's what you're not gonna do is bring up my wife. I was like, my pussyway, because that's what my niggas be saying. Let me stop, let me stop. Anyways, y'all, we got how do you say your name? Because you've got a weirdass name. What are you black? Panamanian. Okay, well, I was just gonna say, y'all, we got drove from

insecure up in the building. I feel really bad. I was like, I really don't want to have to like say that. I don't care. I was gonna say it. I'm gonna ask all the questions. You won't. So we got the little light skinning it up in the building. He bought six eight y'all, so you know, are you circumcised? Wait? Look wait, can we wait? Wait? Wait? Okay, okay, So

we're gonna get into Icebreakers. We started it so before, so you we don't know if you've listened to a full episode, but basically what we're gonna do is our icebreakers. This time it is going to be from comments and questions from our listeners. Um, you started replying to some on Instagram by your damn self, and I was like, damn, just one. You don't have to come for that girl's wig. You know, she came from our teeth. Now she could handle that word here, she could change that, and now

she could cut her hair or whatever. You can change takes time real quick. I don't know why you don't think changing hair don't take time. I'll be in the chair for like five hours when I get what do you think that? How long do you think? That's? Okay, that's not every hairstyle. Let's just say if you decide to chop it right now after moving forward and just take a little trim, faith the size, and you're good.

You in that chair for about well okay, Well, anyways, we're gonna get to icebreakers and she do you want do you want to ask him again? Well the circumsctance, Yes, we were gonna share. I'm good because I do not like because everybody's asking what your dick looks like? All right, So it's like, you know, it's a good looking dick. I gotta, I gotta, I gotta. I gotta a beauty mark on my shaft. I do, so we know when the dick picked licks. We know hair, no nod, I

trim on shave, I trim girth. That was a big question, girth. Is it thick or skinny? I think it's in between, osh medium. Alright, alright, So we're gonna get into one of the questions that someone asked um and this was actually one of the main ones. So do you believe in open relationships? The way your character drawing insecure? Does Um, I guess I would say yes, because I'm all about

doing what works for you. So if that's if that's not you gotta think, like, because I'm thinking about all the women being in my life, I know there would be something that would not be down with that at all, So I wouldn't do that with them, But then there'd be something to be open to that then yeah, Like so I guess all in all, yeah, because I'm all about doing Would you bring that up as something that you never so I've been in one, okay, and I

never brought up She always tell always tell Fellis, it's always works out easier if the woman brings it up, it just works out. How did you handle her dating other men? I mean, I just don't know, you know what to be with that specific situation. We had a telling of relationships, so we're just trying to hold onto something that was gonna end anyways. So like, I guess I was just trying to do whatever, you know, and

I didn't think about like they say, open relationships. Can't say, but I think primarily that was the best we ever been, I will tell you that. And we were on and off for years. The best we had ever been because I think, you know, everybody automatically thinks about just sexual relations with other people, and for us, what I noticed what was better was the vulnerability and how honest and

open and the communication between it. And I'm talking about communication about everything, but that's what I feel like open relationships do. Like when you're when you're willing to be vulnerable with someone and let them know your deepest desires, like communication is like, but that's also the sexiest thing

about somebody. So it could have been that's what also brought you guys closer, because you didn't felt like, Okay, I can be my full self absolutely, And then you're talking about like and like when I say like your communication improved in all areas, like I'm just talking on from things like how we were feeling about certain things or things in the house where we were living with each other for a little bit, so things, um, you know, just from the little things like I don't know, I

would just start opening up and all right, well you know, like I really don't like this whole setup cause we like you know, but I wouldn't have necessarily said that before we started doing all that. So were you open about asking for booty play. Are you into that? That's sorry? Sorry that was the next question. Yet there was hair up in there? Yeah, because so we a lot of people ask like if you're into like maybe ask like maybe a finger in the ask maybe more so we

talked about being done to you. Yet nigga, you talking about you? Because I'm thinking, like, you know, obviously I could do that to ask you there was hair in your asshole and you still conde asking you got hair up in there? I thought the dick, I thought you're talking about you need to be more specific. Man, Okay, your booty hole, yeah, I mean it's it's light and there. You know, I got a little light, but I trim it up. Okay, so you trim up your booty hole

for me. Honestly, it's because it's easier wipe. I'm not even thinking it's just like but not for me. I'm down with a lot. Don't with my boody, that's I just don't like it, no boody, hopefully. So what if they what if they just like what if they down by the balls and just licking you're jumping or you're not jumping. I'm jumping and my ex remember for a

couple of years. She was like trying to, like she tried for years, like yeah, and I was like no, no, no, so hard about no, I don't like that ship And she'sa liked you never tried. I was like, I know, I'm not gonna like it though I know it. And then so we was in the shower and she was like, baby, like, just just let me a little bit, but you have to now I'm in the shower, your fingers like, yeah, it was, Oh, I was spreading as this week. You just like give me on my back and get him.

I like the spreading. I spread for me to like my spreading. No, I don't like necessarily squeezing, because when you squeeze, that's gonna spread it and it's not gonna you know what's really good about the squeeze, And a lot of people don't know, so like when squeezing it gives you like a lot there's a lot of nerve endings that you feel that you don't you completely spread, like in your pussy. So if you could squeeze by

like the pussy opening, pretty gay now, um. But yeah, So she tried it in the in the shower and when she was in there. Mean, I was like trying to be a trooper for her for like what it was. She was like three seconds in there. I was like, I get out, get out, get out. But it was because it was in your mind. It was more so your mind. Yeah, you just relax, man. I didn't like how like it was. No, I don't that it wasn't

enjoyable for me. That's what I'm saying. It's kind of like after it's kind of like after you bust your nut and the girl starts specifically working with your penis head, that ship's not fun for me. I pushed a girl off. I don't give a fun like as you come. Yeah, after an like I understand, you know she's trying to like finish it up and everything, and I don't mind she's going all the way down, but when she's specifically focusing on my dickhead. The question that wasn't on it.

Do you have like a coming routine? Like is there something you say? Is there a place you like to come? I let her know I'm about the bus. Yeah, but like where are you saying? We know you got a kid? Yeah, I mean you know, but um, I guess it just depends on the experience what's going on, like in who it is and stuff like that. So like if she hasn't like if she has no booty, not no no booty. Basically it's not enjoyable. And I want to ask this while we're talking about sex. So I don't think we've

had a man your heights on our show yet. So one of the big questions that we ask as a tall man, are there sex positions that you prefer over others because of your height? And like what is hard for you during sex because of your height? Right? Okay, so uh well, I mean when I'm if I'm having sex with a taller woman, like a tall woman, then

I basically can do anything. But like, yeah, well I'm talking, so I'll be walking like six ten and I'm five for one, so I don't yeah alright, So now, like getting it from the back, I can't necessarily like do it when if a girl's on all fours and I'm on the bed with her on my knees, like trying to get her from the back, that's difficult. I literally have to punch over her with like and get a

hall for my damn. So so I usually have to be because usually like you know, the beds tall, so I get off the bed, stand up and then give her from from the back. Damn should get a box spring bed. I'm probably I have like I have like the links. So it's like my bedest calm down beach is I gotta hope, hope for a bit. I'm grown, thank you, thank you, bitch. I got a grown girl bed.

But it's short, and so I know, I realized. I mean, but I have a lot of hotel sex, so I guess that's like, you know, the beds be high what they do, so it works out good in the hotel, but in my house hotels in my house, I'm like, maybe we should take this to the living room because I gotta hide bad. I gotta hide. Yeah, so like I hate that little ika Japanese bed. Shoot mine is in my bad ikey or a Japanese It's just that's

the Japanese style. Yeah, just like that. I'll tell the teller feels like if it's like that, then you just you you you go on your knees on the ground, put a pillow there and let her be on the bed and you can still tall. You know what the pillows normally for art woman that if you ever have a partner that's like a little bit smaller in size and you want to feel more, you need to put the pillow underneath you, like right towards the groin, and it'll lift your vagina up at an angle to it.

You'll feel it more. You can do that for I mean, from my understanding women, I said that that no matter. I mean, if you want a deeper pit period, Yeah, I'm saying yeah. The only time I've had a pillow under me was when I was on my back getting anal sex because normally, yeah, a little bit like you're not ready for anal sex. We'll be talking. You just do the hit, so you still technically do it. Let me tell you. Somebody put fingers in my ass recently and I felt it for the last two days, Like

not the last two fingers. I'm usually just thumb finger. But I think he like pulled up while he was working because I'm walking around and did it go in there? Are you working? Inexperienced fingers? It sounds like it was on top. It's not my thing like that. I just feel like I'm not really good at it. But then once I'm in there, I'm like, oh, shoot, about to come on top. Yeah, that's a lot of art. A lot of women don't know how to ride like that.

Not great to cure about it because I don't really know, Like I work out a lot, and I'm still exhausted and I wanted to be really good, like I'm trying to be. We feel like when we on top pound daughter, you might be a yolar athletic. Yeah, well that's true, but are shaking. I'm like, I'm still going your arms shake after a while. Yeah, I mean I finally started riding dick, and but I do, and I think I do feelly. Well, I'm not even a lot of so I love looking at me. I'm not even I don't

look in the mirror. I'd just be like, like the mirror, I mean, if there is one, sure, But I mean, yeah, see, I mean the niggas be looking in the mirror. I don't need to look at look at that. I'm not looking at myself. I'm looking at well like I like watching the sex, like I feel like I'm watching like porn within me. So also, because so we'll go So this was probably one of the other most popular questions. Um, and we don't ask you because that's what the we do.

So you had a baby with your costar, so you believe in having sex with your coworkers, because that, to me is like a bad thing. So how did that happen? She was written off the show by that point? Oh so she wasn't a coworker. So you she got fired? Fire you, Patty? Okay, she was written off, got you okay? So then you guys still just maintained a relationship. So someone said, did you want to her after looking watching her in the scene with Lawrence? Is that what made

you like? Oh, you know what's funny? I mean, okay, well the first time I saw that, I mean I had no idea what's gonna be on the show yet the audition season who wasn't even written yet? Okay, So I saw that, and I mean I was like, damn.

But I was so invested in the damned storylines and characters that I wasn't necessarily looking at the hours let's go like, you know, so I wasn't necessary like but so but when that came about, when I got the road and everything, um, I still wasn't we know what, to be honest, we still wasn't even like I wasn't looking at her thinking like I was gonna bag or

anything like that. Um, because we were just friends, to be honest, like the whole time we've been friends, even when we just I don't have my niggas have friends. My nigs they't have no friends, talk about we just friends, just friends and stuff, so you know, and then um, we just happened to conceive and stuff. But I mean, like we're still friends now. And I do see that you. I like that you're posting the baby. I like that you're a good father. Looks like you're really I like

that you because niggas be hiding the baby. They don't even show up for the baby shower. But something, I mean something babies looking like girlfriend. I mean I wasn't. I wasn't the baby shot because it wasn't. It was a whole another state, and I wasn't able to go working. Were you working? I understand, But no, it does seem like you're controversial. I want to bring up Shan Booty. What else controversial about her? You said you love raw

sex on her show. You're like talking about how much you loved it, so like I mean everybody does know. I like, I mean, I wrap. The majority of the time, I'm just saying though, like my my main joint or like who I'm working with forever for yeah, I'm going, oh what, Yes, I love that. I mean yeah, but you made it sound like like like I'm just raw thinking no, no, no, no, that's not. But even when I read like tweets and men talk about raw sex, they act like they don't want to put on the colum,

they don't want to have sex that they have to. Look, I still even enjoy it, like especially when you know, forget the nickname, but my nick is called it new beats. When it's new beats, like, it's still enjoyable because I never had or explore this girl before, So I'm put on the com of regardless like I don't like, no, I'm not saying like, yeah, I guess I should have

clarify that. Looking back at it didn't at all because even like Eve even like having a child, but with her, like you know, that was like, no, I didn't mean the only time the way you said it just sounded like, well, I really like, Um, we're gonna go ahead and segue into our vanilla ship. Um, it's something that we actually brought up do you want to talk about this show? And then we got some questions to you about it

because it has to do with sex and movie. This movie is old and actually I posted it because I just I didn't even get to finish it yet, but you already like I didn't like it. So it's called love right, um, if you want to look it up on Netflix by guests bar No. It has Zoe Prabvit's fiance in it, and if you've seen My Braids, obviously I'm into Zoe right now. And the movie starts and it's two people like touching each other, which I love

because I love masturbating together. And I was already into it, and when I was tired, like I love Yeah. So he came writing on this girl's maybe in her mouth a hand and she's like, wait, they showed the dick. Come you don't understand. So it's the most sexually explicit movie. That's everyone on Netflix Somiac. Well, they said it's not as much as Inphomaniac. And then I think Blue is the warm Colors, the lesbian one. But he also did that one, so I can see it that come on Netflix.

It's real. It's so I looked it up and I was like, is this real sex? Like, what's going on? So, he says. The guy who made the film says he wanted to have real people, not porn actors, create real sex. They edited the faces on the porn bodies. He said that he um, really yeah, so this was just compained a prosthetic penis and on the train, I heard about that,

but I didn't know if that was real. He says that with Karl Gesman, who's always fiance one of the main characters, that he didn't see his dick before, but he knew a girl that he fucked and he heard he was gifted. It's crazy to even hear this because from what I've heard with even really big actors, when they have to do maybe when the director wants a nude scene or these type of sex scenes, they asked

for more money sometimes to perform these ways. So to know that the whole guy to look, yeah, so to know that like the whole head and wait, is there a pain? He is he black? What is he? I feel like he might have a little bit. Yeah, I think he's a person, he's a he's a boy of color. But the threesome scene, oh, my god, it was so real. I was so turned on. I said it to scissors. I was like, you always gonna so I want to

ask you then? Um, and this is why I like, I thought it was a great segway to even like ask you because someone asked on our Instagram, how awkward is it acting like you're having sex on Insecure when you're not? Oh, man, like have you got to do multiple scenes? Right? Someone that is as like, I didn't know Ivan doesn't curse and personal life or anything like that. Who is so look he's laying Oh yeah, I guess not. Yeah, she's substitute word sometimes once mighty but usually no. But

I mean she's a version of her life. So that whole comedy show. I went to see it like nothing, And I didn't realize that until we were sitting at the table talking about it. Um, but like if someone so que unquote Vanilla, I guess and how is that? Yeah?

You know, it was crazy about it. She was the one that had to come from me about that because I've never done it, and she has a whole season under her belt, you know what I'm saying, So, like, you know, getting my TV Cherry Pop version was interesting and I was just like, actually, um die one of our one of our costumes designers. She or she's in the roldrobe department. She was the one that made me feel real comfortable, cause I was like nervous. I was like, man,

because like you're cool. You think you're cool with it, and then the day comes and I'm going on my trailing as see from my wardrobe is a robe and a cock sock, right, yeah, you know, so that's what you have to put over the stuff and not just you gotta put your balls in it too, and then you tighten it up. It's like it's kind of like you know what those little sacks like where the sunglass? Yeah, so you type that gives you like, you know, you could tighten it. And then um so did you feel

like insecure? Like it made you look too small? I mean that's what I was going to ask. Did you get hard? We'll get to all that hold on. So um um she the lady I was in the wardrobe department, she was like, um she, I was sitting down. She was like, look over there and she points over. So Ivan Ivan was like talking to some of the writers or like the hair people, and She's like you know whatever, being normal and laughing or something, and she was like,

are you see how comfortable and cool she is? And I was like yeah. She was like and she's a version. She's like, you do this in her life, right in real life. And then it was like, you know, you know how she is, Like if this was like something that uncomfortable, she would be like, no, okay, cool, Yeah, you're right, you're right. So that made me feel a little better. I also talked to some of the fellas like j in the line um and got some of

their like, you know, advice on it. And you know, there was just one thing where like because there is this thing when you're doing in the studio, like when you take off that road, there is a vulnerable like breeze, I just at your cheeks people, what you got, your camera operators, you're sounding deep and director. It depends on it varies per set because I mean, because if I'm sucking, I'm watching that, if I'm Will Smith or George Clote, I could be like, only want one person in here,

and that's gonna happen. But so give me a couple of years. But so now, but so they have they close a set down they'll shut down the monitors and other department, other sections and just half theirs depending on who it is and um and and then they'll have who whoever is absolutely necessary for the scenes to work in there. Um And that was fine, but I'll tell you what, even like, I'm doing a new show right now and I had a sex scene in there, and

it was even more. I was more nervous doing that because it was as close as you could get, like you know, I mean we both because Evan, when we're doing it, she's not naked, she's covered up. You know, it's I'm the one, so like that's one thing. But when we both are naked, like the girl, like there's this thing like for the for the pussy they just have like this strip, you know, and then just for the nipples that cover up. Like so, I mean she's naked in front of me, I'm naked, and then like

there's a certain position we're doing. I was just like, man, this is graphic. I was like, wow, all right. So I was nervous doing that because it's one thing, like you know, because there's one part where she kind of has to start like you know, going down on me, and I'm standing up, so before we cut to the bed, she's like right here, and then she's like kissing on me, kissing down and she's like gonna go down on me,

and obviously it cuts, but like they stop it. But like when she did that, I just remember one, particularly the last one. Actually she started going down and I looked up and I looked right into the eyes of the sound guy and he was just like I was like, man, this is weird. Like when people be like you almost got hard and then just like, well, like nothing, I

even almost got hard. It's just like I'm experienced, so it's not like I'm gonna get hard so easy like that, but like right, like the sexual attention, like when you know you're working with someone attractive and like finally to see them like that, That's what I was thinking about.

That's why I thought you would get trying on. You would think, so she's beautiful, but how like that's like okay, that's like you know, let's just say right now with okay boom, we're about to shoot this right now, right, But then we got these niggers looking at us, and then we've got some other people here in the corner. Like audiences aren't even gonna hold just be down for that ship will be how many times have you seen them? Now? It would be weird, right, No, bitch, I'll be asking

all my friends to watch people that's your friends. But I'm talking about like a chubby bearded white guy. You know what I'm saying. Like, it's not necessarily audience. You wanted have been the sex clubs too, though, And I ain't like everybody. I like everybody in that bit. I was like, hey, I can still watch it, but that's a sex club. That's my greatest fear about when we take that sex trip. Like I'm like, like I have sex, I'm sucking nigga dick on the beach right in front

of everybody. Does Like, no, I could do the beach sitting, but like, don't put me in. So I've been there, there's canopies, there's um oh, I've been there before. Yeah, so this will this will be fun. But I went with my home girls last time. I didn't go. What a dude? So mind you the dude that I want to bring, I'm just I'm waiting. I'm waiting because I'm like Nick, if I have a boyfriend by then, you

can't come anymore. Right, So I've been telling scissors right because she's like I don't really want to suck some random dude. I'm like, cool, we're gonna bring the Dickt's cool. So the only thing is like I'm wondering, like are we all somebody else? What were well? And that's the thing, like don't we like like do we like have to like time it out? We all three in one room where we be like, yo, I'm bringing this bitch back,

like are you in or you're not? Like? Well, see, this can actually lead into our kink of the week because I have a way that maybe I can help you guys with this um um. So kink of the Week is sexual roleplay. It also goes with you are a actor. Hello, So I thought it just made sense bitch, fuck you because I know that's not a cheesy hole. This is very actually, this is very common. I don't know if we've done this before, but I want to get into it. So, sexual role play is role play

that has a strong erotic element. It may involve two or more people who act out roles in a sexual fantasy and maybe a form of for play and be sexually arousing. Many people regard sexual for play as a means of overcoming sexual inhibition. So if you're nervous, I already know. So it may take place in the real world or via an Internet forum, chat room, video game, or email, allowing for physically or virtually impossible erotic interest to be enacted. So real quick, we propone to get

a day. Wait, you want to be a pedophile? Okay? So here, So I wanted to give some examples before we get into our role playing fantasies. So um, here's six examples for any of you who are interested in role playing with your partners. So you have good cop, really good coup. So this is you're waiting in the blankets here gation room with a couple of really bad coffee when who walks in but the sexiest detective on

the force. But you'll never talk no matter what his copper has up this sleep and then you get into it. This one. So this role play, right, that's this is why people ship. This role play scenario has power dynamics, some coercent and manipulation. Another one is a fun ride, so you could be a hitchhiker getting picked up. That one you picked somebody and she's like ok. You know, and then you gotta start with roll hey road, Hey

got that point of a good day? You know, family l a reference, right, it was real until I was recently like the real place in the car with Erica. We were just talking about her. That played an insecure to shout out to Erica Dickerson and Church Bay. I'm like, bitch like the name. So another one, this is actually one I've had a fantasy of. So teacher and pupil.

So I'm gonna I used to love the motherfucking basketball coaches bitch well clearly, but they would have pe teachers soon and now if you wouldn't know, they made man bitch ye right, I didn't even go right in private school? Please thirty five? I think he said high in private school. Okay, they might make six figures? Is that Marty day one? Oh yeah, I'm sure probably even like like the big schools that they are good with basketball, like Okaill and Ship. Yeah,

don't act ever, trist a girl. I know what is ever Hooper? Every season? What the is that? Yo? Chill? Chill? So I used to have a sport It's blog first off, credentialed media with the NBA for two seasons. Yes, let's us. Also, I was a very very huge growing up. I was a very huge Mellow fan. So yeah, yeah, so I mean it just makes sense. And then seriously I had I did, and I had a Syracuse jersey. I was in love with him. Um. So another one is the

Boston assistant. Of course, go figure French maid. I could see what he's doing that I don't know, you clean, She's gonna be down submissive ships. I could see him the maid helt finish it. And I a lot at another one doctors and nurses. I think that's basic. Um. And then this one, I really like expecting a package home delivery bitch the home. Yes, so I put this in a lot of ports that I watched. It's the plumber. I'd rather be. I'd rather have it could be the

it could be right. So I was gonna go the handymail the plumber or direct TV Nigga who ficky fixy okay, will WiFi day WiFi. So this leaves this leads me into asking you. First off, I'm curious has anyone yet asked you to be drove from insecure in the bedroom. I mean I've had requests. What do you seriously, but not in my real life, not in your real life

on Twitter. And I feel like, first of all, for someone to ask that, I mean, they don't have to be someone that doesn't know me at all, because I feel like if you know me and to ask that ain't gonna lie, maybe drove better than you, maybe dropped out a more swagging, And I mean, you'll be real confident on the show nigger. You might have not had that confident that married Nigga and it's like, oh, you're gonna suck me while your wife is like because you know,

what's the wife daving Candice. So I want to ask you, guys. I guess this is where we'll get into. So if you could have a role fantasy, what would your ideal role place scenario be. Guess we'll start with the guys. Well,

we know you're someone for sure, babysitter. They come home and like mom and dad, yeah yeah, and like even though there's no kid in the house, because I'm already really thinking I'm gonna do especially when you get to a sex because they got theme nights they do oh yeah, so there's toga night, there's lingerie night, there's like he's already like, oh my god, you're gonna wear the school

girls skirt. I'm like down, but babysitter even like fun really quiet because I love to have to be quiet where there's like a hand okay, and then I kind of want the dad to suck me first and then like them in and it's like, oh my god, I'm sorry, I have to eat. I have an awful one. So we're gonna go to you. Mine is awful? What is it? No?

Because mine really bad? Go lie like so and I'm not gonna say the name of the person, but I have like this fantasy of being sucked by a guy and his dad, like a fine dad, this is not you said yeah, but you didn't. We can role play like maybe you got an older friend. I don't know, but like your daddy nigga older friends like nine years older than him. I think, don't have baby the time, y'all suit out spark brothers or something. I mean, I've done that, but like step step they were step they

were the same dad. They didn't have the same she was like basically friends death not real brothers. Um so that would be kind of mine, Like I would want to kind of like, you know, be on some ship like that. I don't know, maybe we're all playing cards or something that's I'm not gonna lie to you. I literally just sat here with the porns that we had on n A K about how disgusting the fucking incess porn was. And that really is that it's absolutely into

step brothers, like a dad and the son. That's like mother daughter. Oh is mother? Oh it is? But they got the same. But you gotta ask me like a I know, yeah, if if a mother and daughter and they both was bad as he and they both wanted to me, I'm not caring about thinking of that story. Remember he sucked a mother and he did podcast and this guy told us a story. Shout out to Premium.

Pete heard that story and yeah, so so we went back to you now, Joe, Um, sorry, what is your fancy because I mean I've done, I've done like I've done some of these stuff. Share share maybe an experience of when you role played. I would like to hear that, UM I did one like okay, well some start. I mean the first time I did it was like something

easy to cut, like use my way into it. It was like going to um this girl was was going to a party that she invited me to, but then like the whole thing was to act like we didn't know each other at all, and like what she actually went with. A dude was trying to funk with her, but it's to his expense, like she was, like she went with him, but like the hope it was to feed into the whole thing of me that's from here.

And that's what I always say. If I ever have a threesome with two men, it's mainly because I want to have my man there and then like float with the bartender or some ship haven't sucked me, and then get punished fucked because I was bad. Yeah, that sounds but that's not necessarily trained. That's like a train with

a transfer. You feeling train that I'm sad. It's not a police just like you know you gotta you gotta get off, and you know what we don't have No no, no, no, I do agree, no no no, but I do agree. If you're just letting one funk you, then you the next person. That's a train like maybe because when everyone's together, well to me, well train is one two at the

same time, right, No, that's a threesome. You guys, are you guys are one of those you guysn't like that or one of those you're not gonna asking, I'm asking you replaces. If two women was like we ran a train on Sharona's, I'd be like, they show fucking did What the fun is? Like, oh my god, we have got three to everything. Neative they show did? They showed it, but the women, but you would the one with the least amount of clothes on in here? How the fun

you are? Anyways, we're gonna go ahead down, We're going to get into anything. But I will say though, anything that has to do in a profession sending or desk for some reason, that's like the whole like I always said, like the teacher thing or like a corporate type of thing, like where it's like a like a meeting or I

gotta go like talking to you. I don't know, I haven't like like yeah, absolutely so it's like even stuff like that, or like now that I'm an actor, I'm like but not like no, not that I'm like that I would do this, Not that I would do this because I'm extremely professional, but like I would for show fucking my trailer if like I was reckless if I wasn't asked, profession are you allowed to invite girls on

set at all? I mean you care, But I'm just like, like I said, I'm a professional, so I wouldn't know, but not I wouldn't want to invite. It'd be like it would be the fantasy is like to play this out is like you know, like like another somebody on

the set. And then even if even if it's a girl that's like you know, doing like you know, camera work or something like that, or like the sound chick or whatever, Like even if it's like that, and then there's this thing where you know, we're kind of signaling it and go to the trailer. I wished me and my work husband were sexually attracted to each other, because that would work so great. I can tell you this studio right now where a Gotham podcast studio. By the way,

all the bathroom I looked around. There's no cameras over there, and I always thought about sucking in that bathroom, but like there's no Yeah, you know, maybe that's a hint. Can kill me? And wait, so like you, I'm telling you. When I tell you, I tell you you're in a relationship. I saw the post. Okay, all right, there's rules, there's rules. What are these rules? If she's niggas, She's like, she's letting you two niggas exactly, and and what and what else?

What's the main thing I said that makes you in a relationship and she can't with another baby? Holo, hold on, hold on. This is a very pivotal moment for her and I because, like I said, we dated years ago, right and like ground, this might be a little different now. Like she's never had a threesome. I'm not saying I've had a million of them, but so write a lot, a whole lot. I love three I feel like you're the most connected to people like that, Like three sions

are sacred to me. Bro, Like I love that ship. I would not waste my time sucking like some dude just because he's cute, Like if we're we go, Yeah, I like I like three stones. It's weird. It's like I like Threeesons, but I don't. But like I only like the thing, Like you're gonna bring a bit I get so dry, Like, don't ask me, like I just wanted to kind of happen. Thank you for saying that.

I'll try to tell him I might look like it's always best when you're not as a man, not forcing you gotta let don't even bring it up, be the fucking passenger, and then when it's time to go, be the captain. But that's the thing, Well, these niggas know that I'm into women, so I think that that's why it's like, oh yeah, you like women, so yeah, like that.

But my thing is, i'd rather like, instead of being so direct, I'd rather allude to ship like you know, or like you know, I knew, like I remember talking to this one check. I knew she she was more gay than she was. Sure, I'll tell you that much, like, like literally it would only be me ever so often if she was feeling like in that mood, she'd be like bad she was like, um, yeah, she's ever so often she hit me up for that. But like I might just be like, um, what do you think about

this girl? Whatever? You know, if I'm just on Instagram or something like that, or she'll talk about girl fine, I hate, and then we'll start kind of talking about chicks, and then it kind of will go into like when she sucked her, would we fuck her? You know what I'm saying happening is great because we never did that. I would talk about before and she was get super jealous. So right now I sent her a dude that I fucked and she's like, h he you like yeah, you

And now we're working like that. So like I've sent her to and I'm like, listen, he's gonna be our threesome possibilities. Okay, both the niggas don't live here, so we're pretty much does she So I gotta like pray to God that they're both on a plane at the same time coming to New York. There's a lot of work, bro. That sounds that sounds too, too complicated, but but I don't want to waste my time. Just actually, why don't you just that nigga better have bread if he's getting

a threesome, tellers, that's fly. Both y'all holds out. Put y'all up nice since you just hand out threesoms, bitch, get a trip out of it. It's not you out beach, I got pussy and at out. You know, she gotta a paper. We gotta warm her up. You know she had up for drinks and then I'll tell you a free trip. Always warm a bit up. I used to get home. Listen, my nigg is gonna flies out. You

can get room service girl, whatever you want. Baby, I don't know what is it about me, like unless like you, I don't know what it is about me, but for some reason, I'm like, I just feel disrespected. If like I gotta like fly bitch out because he's full of himself, I'm like, bitch, you gotta like because me. I know, I'm a with a girl who has something to lose, who's doing well for herself, right, you know, trying to take off good for you. Now, here's what I do.

I would go half if I'm if I'm the one like, hold on half, you're splitting flights on age bo. Yeah, I'm up. Yeah, well I'm flashed too, bitch. If you want me to fly you out, you're gonna get soft dick then because I'm not, don't turn me on. I'm like, why do I gotta you know why? I'll tell you why. I don't like I don't like this like the way that's like the way now to me, like it's such a like it's such a nasty ass rapper type fucking with these weak but just type ship. Like to me,

that's what it's for. Like, to me, if you want to fun with me, cool, because my thing is this, I'm always going around, right, I'm always going to place. I'm always going whatever. It's like, if you want to come, if you're the one pressing it, I'm like, would I fly you out? The girl lives in I don't know, Minneapolis, you live in l A. If she lived in l A, you would have taken her on some dates right before you sucked her. You would have taken her out. You

would have been chivalrous. Uh, probably, who knows. I don't know. I definitely have had sex plenty of times without having But like I'm just saying, like I don't really see what's I don't know. To me, I'm not gonna lie when it comes to me with booking flights. The only the only way I'm either booking my own flight or considering going half is I'm with that person. Like that's it, okay. But see that different to me, I don't want to

give I don't want to give relationship benefits. Let me no, let me finish, because to me, a relationship in that sense is like like it's an investment. I like I'm investing into this relationship. Yeah, but no, I see I think obviously I'm not just I'm not flying myself to just go get dick. Do you know how fucking how

much dick there is available? Why I'm a nig We're not You're not just gonna get We're gonna do some fun ship so you know, I'll pay for that stuff once you here, but I'm not gonna fly you friendship. But here's what I'm saying. What are you talking about, nigga. I'm hooked up nigga, so anywayn and soda for free. And what I'm saying, here's what I'm saying Here, I say, I gotta really funk with you to put money to it,

Like I really fun with you. That's fine, But I don't want to give like for a girl like you know, if you're just gonna come out, we know what it is like whatever, Like, I'm not about to give you some relationship type benefits, you know what I'm saying, Like if you're just like a random chick like on some ship like that. And on top of that, girls are so fucking whack these days with these the cloud chasing

screenshots exposing Niggs. I'm not about to give you nothing for you to be like that's why you flew me out and blah blah blah, bitch, no you're not. Do you feel like flying a girl, I'll make you more obligated to her time, that's the only thing. Yeah, if out, because I'm like like to me, well, also, also, here's what I'm thinking. If I'm flying he out, she's most likely staying with me. That's what I'm thinking. I don't own doing her own things. I paid for my own flight.

I thought you were going to say if I'm not staying with you because to me, but the dude flies me out, I'm with him. But but well that too.

But this is my problem to like. I don't know, maybe it's the ego thing, but when I fly my like for all that, every time I go on a trip, like say Atlanta or Chicago or any of these cities that I've been too recently, fucking Baltimore, Like, any time I fly myself out and nigga's hit me, I'm like, you ain't bring me here, fuck you, And I don't feel obligated to meet up with no nigga, no, no, no, you know, pussy, none of that, because I'm here on my own time. I'm gonna move on my own time.

And then I feel like, wait, you didn't you didn't go. But to me, I feel like you didn't go out of your way to bring me to see you didn't go out of your way to bring yourself to me. Therefore, just because I'm in your city, I don't believe in that whole I'm in town. What's up? Like? No, No, I don't you do. I don't like ya, niggas like enjoy the city. Enjoy the city, niggas. I feel guilt

because al right, anyway, let's go. We're gonna get into the horrible decision because while we're actually talking about this, it actually to our horrible decisions. So, um, I like the title of it. It's called blue checked boxes because he's out a blue check on what uh So it's called blue check boxes. So I wanted to talk about the check boxes we have in our mind in terms of dating. So, like, for me, I know, I like tall men, so they have to be tall, they have

to have X amount of money they make. I'm getting weary on the kid thing right now, just because I'm getting older. But so there's certain things that when we date we sit here and say this is a deal breaker, this is what I want. So I wanted to talk about how many of the check boxes does someone have to have for you to make them your girlfriend? Are you their boyfriend? And then kind of what are the

deal breakers? And you making someone not your boyfriend or girlfriend feel so guilty when you say kids, I think I can't deal with a woman with kids A woman, Yeah, I don't think I could either. I feel really guilty to say it. I really do, because my friend for a long time, obviously until the timing, like it's hard. Dudes with kids generally don't have an old time bullshit. So my my thing is I'm getting older now I don't.

I don't care if you have them five days a week, as long as it's two where we can kick it fine. But with women you're saying they don't have them, like I feel like dating a mother it's a lot more strenuous something I would because like you can out wet, you have to really commit to that ship. So it would be. And I think the reason people straight from that is because or even men, I know that if I started dating a woman with kids, it's like if I start caring about you, then I have to fully

invest in that kids. I'm telling you you got to wait for mommy time for you to get anything. Yeah, but with a man, I feel like without a child, So yeah, you're good. I don't care if I'm telling you afford whatever. But I know, like I know like Ale who basically have like they go like Thursday to Thursday. Yeah, there's different. Different. I was about to say I was dating a guy who had like his kids like three days a week, and to me, like, I'm not gonna lie,

like this is probably why I don't want kids. I'm such a selfish person, so I like, I'm not gonna lie. So to me also with dating, like I want someone invested in me. And in real life, if you if you have children, I feel like now I'm maybe the third or fourth woman in your life because you're gonna have your kids before me. Your mom is going to

be before me, and I'm not gonna lie. In more times than not, the baby mom does like kind of in a lot of situations, maybe not all because a lot of niggas, but that is the mother of their child, and a lot of men go back to their baby moms for whatever connection that they have, and so with me with dating men with kids, it's more so like damn I have to sit here. No, I'm never going to be number one. I can never be number one, don't know. I mean that's kind of success relationships Serena

and Alan, like they have a blended family. They don't have kids to get there for they're gonna get a ten years. I mean, well there are there are there are blended families that do work. No, there's not. There's not Like I don't know, I haven't said that. I haven't seen success with at least my male friends with kids, like they love their girls. Like I mean, a real man is going to make it work between the two

of you. I a dude, but a kid, and he made it very What I say about that, like I never understood the whole, Like, like you know, there's always it seems like to be this priority list, right obviously Zen that's my daughter's name for the ones who don't know that. But Zen is going to be of course,

you know what I'm saying. But at the same time, the woman I'm in love with is also going to be very It's just different range of course, Like my mother is going to be up high to as well, I'm not gonna be like, oh that's before like I'm never gonna have this you versus that that's never because to me, you create that in a sense when you're always like, well, you know, you get an argument here, your nigg is like, you're never gonna be come before

my mama, before my daughter. And that's what I'm saying. So a lot of men will will do that. And that's where I feel like it's not even women doing that. But when you get into arguments, those are the things that come up. Or say a mother doesn't like the girl you're dating, then that becomes a power guy. And

I don't give a funk about that. Say I'm a grown man, so my mom could be like my mom y no no no no no no no the mother man that's not a man with a kid, no no, no, no no no. But said she's saying she relationship that holds weight. Yeah, Like if mom says I don't like, then the guy kind of gets some guys do me. I wouldn't give a funk. I would like, okay, mom, yeah no, I'm just Jesus, why then are you going right?

So okay, So it looks like we would all be down, like we're okay, if you have kids, it's not a deal breaker. So I want to ask you if I dated to do with a kid and it got real serious, I may not have a kid if they don't want one like that, that's my thing. I don't want kids. So now that's why I feel like I'm more accepting of men who have them, because I don't want to sit here and say I don't want kids and then tell him I ain't gonna have no kids with you.

So a lot of times men who have kids already they've reached the point where they're like, well, I really don't want anyone. At first I thought I wanted my own baby. Now I realized I just enjoy having a kid in my life, whether it's a close friend. I don't want a dog. I don't want to do you okay, we'll go. You're like, I can do this. This one's adorable.

So what are deal breakers for you and dating? Well, as far as I checking, um, I'm very spiritually led in a way, so like I'm always just drawn to a certain type of energy, and sometimes I like I don't necessarily have the words to say what that necessarily is. But I do know like the way I am, I've worked on myself, you know, and I tracked a certain type of people, and I just know I get along

with everybody I tracked in my life at this point. Um, that's not necessarily everybody I meet, I'm cool because I'll read them and I'm like, I'm not for me right, But like, so I do like spiritually drawn women. I'm not honestly okay, so I'm not religious, So like a girl that's like mad religious, because we're gonna we're gonna just we're gonna disconnect and just have so many disagreements. God's first on someone's like God in a bio. I freak out. I'm not gonna lie. I was just with

a guy. He took me out on Saturday. Like, but it's also weird because it's not like it's not in my life. So like I just went out with this guy on Saturday, and the only reason I went back to his house because I was throwing up. You gotta be so fucking drunk. It was so bad. So we ended up like I slept with him, but we didn't do anything. I was I was ship faced. Woke up the next morning. He was getting dressed and I was like, it's Sunday, find you, but it was like it was

alread like ten forty five. So I'm like he's like, oh, I can make the eleven o'clock service. And I was like, oh, well, I'm gonna go home and go back to sleep. And I was just like I felt like this, probably you're really about to get up and go to church. And I think it's not so much about the guy talk, Like I could talk about God or a high energy all the type. It's like specific energy Jesus or like when they it's like specifically because you know that that's

a specific thing, like the tithing and the money. I'll tell you this. All of the friends that I have in my life right now, Like I just realized I was drunk on a plane yesterday. My friends were texting me love you or goodbye or whatever. Any friend that calls me says that when they hang up, any friend hugs me, touches my face like they show me they care about me and they're affectionate. When I meet men like my friends, total turn off for me because I

know that they're also passionate people. And that's really all it is, and that's that could be an energy thing too, right when you're on that same frequency, Like that's really what it is, and it doesn't take you a long

time to even notice when you meet someone. For me, it's that first interaction, like I feel like I've been blessed with like an intuition and a self awareness where I could kind of just like I know, like I haven't been wrong so far in this past couple of years, like when I'm like, okay, I can continue on in my life with a connectional communication with this person, and so far, like none of them are disappointed me or anything I've been. I've been blessed with a big dig radar.

So I would like to I would like to think that's a blessing in itself. But I really don't have problems. But I know people will me good, okay, nice, all right. So I wanted I wanted to ask you guys now with these preferences, maybe because y'all know I got a hype preference, which I know, we got fifteen we got fifteen minutes and it will do what I got this. I know you think, you know this. This is what I do, Thank you very much. What then do you

think I'm just saying I got this. I've already been checking her alt I mean should know, but I got this. We'll do thirty minutes. I got this, So we got fifteen minutes left. So I wanted you all of all of the time. Special we fight on this episode with you even really weird? Um, So I guess this is a question that was asked by a listener before we wrap up the horrible decision I was getting there. Um, what happens when someone doesn't check the boxes for a

relationship but you still want them around? How do you handle casual sex with someone who wants more? So it's a two part questions. So you have someone that doesn't necessarily check the boxes of a relationship, but you still want that person around. Okay, but like, so but does that are they talking about? Does a person want a

relationship still? So that's where the second part comes from, when yes, So, what happens when someone doesn't check the boxes for a relationship but you still want to be around them? Around them? And what? So, Like, I'm not gonna lie, there's people who I like to funck who I probably would never see myself being with. So the the sex part is that the first part first? And then so I would say the first part is in,

then you just continue on like that. If as long as you're honest about don't take no choice away from somebody, then just continue on like that. If that's not okay with the other person, then you just gotta get out your selfish ways and let that person do them. So that's where the second part comes in, because I'm not gonna lie. I feel like this isn't something that's often communicated, like a guy will sit here and still be and maybe give a boyfriend experience or you're maybe now fucking raw,

but you don't want to be with that person. So the second part, and this is actually one of the questions from Instagram, how do you handle casual sex with someone who wants more? So now you're maybe in this situation right, Okay, you're shaking your head. So how does that work? Cause I'm sure you've you've been like we've been sucking three minutes more. No, this is this is just um from the thing. We got one one homel

that's it. I've been. I've been there, So to do that, to be honest, um, you don't continue that because in my selfish ways in the past, I had continued it, and I kind of it was like, even though I was verbally because Nigga's we shamefully do this a lot, I was verbally telling her what I meant, but my actions weren't always being the same as that, Right, So I was bullshit and in a way where like I was kind of dangling the carrot in front of her,

like we like to call it. So I was dangling the care in front of her to continue the sexual relationship, right and so, and I know she wanted more, so I would kind of give her enough to keep coming back. Right now, you gott understand at this point, I was immature in my life. I was this is so manipulated sitting the custom, right, but there is a little lot of guys do that. This is why I like, because

you seem like you can actually speak. Well, we don't have many straatement on here that actually can get through that makes sense. So, like, I really want you to explain this because I feel like a lot of us women get into these situations from the male person. By then why then y'all do this ship? Yeah? So, because well, I mean, first of all, commitment is like fucking you know. One of the scariest things, you know what I'm saying,

monogamous commitment. At least I could be committed to someone, but I don't have to be monogaous if we agree on that. I always I don't like when people be like, oh, you can't be in a committed relationship. I can be monogamous. Part when they they're like, oh, if you want to someone else, Like, look, sexual desires don't necessarily mean anything else within finding a partner, Like I could want to fund other people but want you for the rest of

the exactly exactly. But to go back to it, like I was subconsciously doing this at that time, like I wasn't quite I was lying to myself in a way to the point like you lie to yourself so much you start convincing yourself. I think we've all done this in certain parts of our lives. You know, whether it's like, well, the job pays well, but you hate it you want

to leave, or something like that. You know, so you lie to yourself to convince you, like, oh, I'm staying there for like more years I should but like six. So I feel it so um when I was doing that and that It came to a point where I was doing some self realization where I was just like, you know, I don't like what would it be like not lie to myself at all? Right? And I was like sitting down having this conversation with myself really, and I was realizing, I've done that to one where my damn,

I give them enough. I give them enough affection, I give them good dick, might I add, and then I take them out like yeah, until their subjection they agree, so then and then I take them out. You know, I'm I'm cool with their friends. I make everybody laugh and make them laugh, you know. I treat them well. I respect them as human beings. I respect them. I'm not disrespectful. And I realized I'm doing that, but then

I'm not. There's like certain steps to the next level stuff that I'm not doing that, you know, so like I won't be as consistent in their life because I know consistency will run into that conversation of commitment and relationship. And um. When I was realized I was doing that, I was like the parents, that was one of the insecure like bringing bringing some family like when I have parents, I was like, oh want he want he wants me

and her little me and her little brother. Wood was cool out the rip, like yeah, like I knew that I met my first girlfriend, his parents and whole family and her little sister. Be kind of came someone I was cool with for a while before me and her like broke up and stuff. So like that stuff, like all that stuff, like yeah, that's but I would like I would put a wall right there, you know, and like to avoid that stuff and just give her all

the how do we read this wall? I think to me, I mean you gotta ask yourself, okay, like how consistent is he in your life? You know what I'm saying? Right, And then if you were wanting a relationship to the women out there, if you want to relationship, there's questions that you're that um that you're going to have to ask him, right, ask those questions. How is he answering those questions? He running around? It is he direct? And he's like I told you, I don't want nothing from

the beginning. You know what makes it? Because every time I feel like it's classic. But it always works, and it generally works because it'll push you away from a nigger that you need to be with. But when you stop being on a dick, like even when I'm consistently trying, like you know what, I see this is going on where I'm done suddenly bam, that's the ego thing. But being when if an ego things some men, then real life and now you know what, I don't want you

out of my life. And it's like, oh, I'm already, well, let's go ahead, let's rush, let's let's we gotta hurry up. He said, Oh my god, we gotta go. We're gonna do we just do the questions we got you. So we're gonna get into our homemail. Um it's called Deprived of Life's Pleasures. Hey, ladies, love the show. Thanks for being the pick me up I need during my morning commute or in the office at my desk. Our listeners have jobs. Just needs you to know. I've been in

a relationship with my boyfriend for two years now. I love him to death. He's literally my best friend. We don't argue. He's borderline perfect. The sex was great, so for personal health reasons, he just hasn't been in the mood for sex and quite some time. I'm talking three to four months. We just haven't been fucking I'm trying to be under the understanding girlfriend, but your girl is frustrated.

My sex drive has always been on a hundred and listening to the podcast plus watching porn has been wanting to try a new or at least keep doing the old things. Something. He just ain't feeling it. All the toys in the world can't sum up to the real thing, and I just find myself super tense and grumpy over little ship. I don't know what to do because I'm not the type to step out and find it elsewhere.

I would never do that to him, but a bitch is bored in bed s OS send help, signed d on E. I thought I thought that was cute, right right, thank you listener for knowing how to spell and not have any triple over words. And no, we do have some. And I'd be like, what's right, and I can't. I can't even So what would you, I guess, both of you, What would you, guys advise her to do? In this scenario where she said health reasons, I'm hoping you don't

have a breakout. Three months is a long break. That's a long I don't think breakout like oh no, wait, hold on, hold hold and She's right. If you if a man gets HPV and they end up getting general awards, they could last. This is what it is. It's not I mean, okay, so what is it? So? So personal health reasons? Why would a guy be in a sex drout to where he no longer wants to man? The problem? The only thing the problem with this is like I

wish I knew what it was. You know what I'm saying, so I can actually give her my thoughts as clear as right. Did she say that they talked about it. I don't think that she did. I don't think wrote them. I just feel like a simple answer to four months he knows why everybody everybody in the room. I don't want to sit here and lady cheating. But I mean that,

I mean, I'm sorry cheating. I mean if he does, yeah, if he does, and she's but like I mean, so health reasons, I will say I want to bring it, Yeah, I probably want to bring it into maybe a mental health. So there is a guy um that I know, and I brought him up before, very very close um with him. He's a good friend of mine and he's having the issue right now between wondering if he's still sexually attracted two women because he now had with trans women. That's

what he got. No, so he's been liking trans women, and so the guests and so the conversation of to where he now only can watch trans women porn, he like reaches and talks to them, so where he now doesn't know if you have a girlfriend, though he did well, but now that's why it's just like he's like now like I don't know if women is really what arouses me more because I get so aroused. Okay, so from all the speculators transom herpes we're making, here's what I'll

tell her. I'll say, um, for whatever, whatever the health problem is, do as much research as you can about that. Find out what you can on your like you would depression, whatever, whatever, Yeah, whatever it is, like I would do as much research about that and kind of learn about as much as possible to see how you can cope with it, not only how he could cope with it, how you could cope with it, how you guys can cope with it together. What if it's just skem like, how do y'all get

rid of that? Do you know what that is? It's like code? Like you know, you probably don't hash magma because it's like cheese. Is that like when you pull the skin back and there and stuff in it? Yeah, so that's why I said, you probably don't even know about it. You know, it's still like word. Well we're going to whatever podcast. But I guess, Okay, so the communicate with him and do she stay bringing people? Gives I just really sorry, wait, wait you have something? Oh bitch?

I thought it was what is this? I didn't even go hold you because she brought like Andrew Schaltz and Charlottagne. What is this? You gotta read it? It's a coffee. Her face is, don't even like you like that? And I gotta look at you use this for your daily coffee? So you see my face every day? Said that every guy day. We barely make it twice a month. Goddamnit. No, this is cute. So we went to like this. She used to be she makes like calendars and guys. Right,

well she did this one a black guy. She corny is I had to black man when I went to La and then beer bash. You do them on a new way, you do, you know? Yes? You know? I guess anyways, I guess, but I don't know if you heard that last part for the listener, I'm sorry, but like, communicate with him after you've done your researching whatever you have to do, then talk to him thoroughly. She about a d M you for advice? Mean something, y'all y'all

like the way heat down? Um, go ahead and let our listeners know where they can find you if y'all. A lot of y'all are hopping also in our dams and emails about how to bag a blue check. Well, here you go, slide in this Nico DM, what's your What's is that our actual question? So it is everyone they asked me question? Yeah it is. It's like it's a thing. So where can our listeners find you? Because gotta go, We gotta record another episode. But uh Ron j R O N E j A E. And that's

my Instagram and Twitter because that's all I have. And at this point, I will say, ladies, he needs to get a check from invisible line because you you look you look a great bad I think, yeah, because I wasn't wearing I could tell you wasn't. And I'm just say let's stop playing anyway, y'all know y'all can follow us. You know we don't. We're going on to our guys. Hope to see you guys soon. Have patron by the way,

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