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Ep93: Straight Men Can Make Sense Feat Lex, Drea and Meezy

Dec 17, 20181 hr 7 min
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While in Atlanta, Mandii got some studio time in with the girls from Wine Down Wednesday Podcast, Lex P and Drea and were also joined by an old friend Mega Meezy to have an episode on double standards and why men just be playing games. They get into why both men and women cheat, loyalty, and crew lovin! This episode should have been titled RNS (Real N-gga Sh-t) as nothing but gems are dropped! Tweet about this week's episode and use the hashtag #WhoreibleDecisions or tag @Whoreiblepod @Fullcourtpumps on Twitter Follow our page on IG @whoreible_decisions Mandii @fullcourtpumps Weezy @Weezywtf Follow today's guests on social media: Meezy @Megameezy Drea @dreanicoleee Lex P @lex_p Come see Whoreible Decisions LIVE in your city! For tickets click here https://www.eventbrite.com/o/whoreible-decisions-podcast-15329901366 All caught up with episodes? Don't forget you can receive 2 bonus episodes per month and merch by becoming a patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions

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Hey, ho hi, I'm super excited to announce that we are going on tour. If you haven't yet, we will be in d C on January the nineteenth. We went ahead and added the second show everyone, So for all of you in the d MB who was scared that you couldn't get a ticket, we have added a second show. So from four to six we will have the first show followed by an eight to ten show. We are also almost sold out for Chicago, so we will be going ahead and adding a second show in Chicago as well.

That is going to be on March the thirty. Also be sure to check us out in upcoming cities. We went ahead and also drop tickets for Toronto, so we are coming to the six I don't know Droke gonna be there, but we are coming to the sixth and that is going to be on March the night. So again, go into the link in our bios. Click on the link and you can see all of the tickets. Get your tickets now before it's too late. We are selling out and I am super excited to meet all of you,

So get your tickets. We will see you in twenty nineteen and enjoy the show you're what's going on, y'all, that's another episode of horrible decisions. This your girl, Mandy b a k A Full cor Puns a k A de Bitch a k A. The Booty Band aka the Booty Wire a k A. The Pegasus. Everything that y'all want to say about me getting in these niggas booties. But I am here, and I'm in Atlanta, Georgia live, and I have some wonderful guests alongside me today. I

have the lovely ladies of one down Wednesday. I want to go ahead and introduce You'll say, y'all, y'all already know it's big Mama, so should be doing a k A next b A k A Big Mama. I don't have no okay, this is dry okay with three. She always introduced herself like that. She introduced her. Hey, y'all, it's draying the cale with three. You forgot the You forgot to add in front of it, though, you go right.

I forgot to say, that's how. And then I know y'all might think this is like a girl's night or whatever, but we actually got a penis in the room um for this episode, and I'm excited about this episode. Because we're gonna kind of do a girl co versus guy code and we're gonna get to the bottom of some ship. So you want to go ahead and introduce yourselves, like people know who you are at Mega Museum, Twitter and Instagram. Just a regular guy. You're just a regular guy. He's not, y'all.

He not he kind of he kind of popping in the streets or whatever in Atlanta. So how we like to start off the show. And before we start, I do want to give a shout out to all of your patrons, everyone who's subscribed to Horrible Decisions. We appreciate y'all, and you know we're dropping another one for y'all. Um, but we like to start off with icebreakers. So this is so that y'all are a little comfortable in the

type of topics that we discussed on this show. Um, so the first ones I'm actually gonna go for YouTube ladies. You first. So as an icebreaker, you are a buttass, naked sucking dick. He starts rubbing your clip with his toes. What do you do? I don't know, I don't know what I want. You know what I'm going off because you know, niggas got that little black. He's got me funked up. I don't like that one. You have one because y'all athletes, it's only one. It be nice. I

don't know. I mean, I ain't a girl, but I mean like that, that's like, that's a that's a vibe

you can't do. If it's a vibe, you ain't think about it black to if he Okay, let me ask if you so, what if what if you laying with a girl on the couch and she got her legs on you and then she starts rubbing your dick with her foot, vie if it's just a random beach like just at my house and she started doing and I'm like, hey, but if you know, if it's it's gotta be a sit like but let's keep it on it, you know what I'm saying. It's my bitch and she just some

freaky sh do that ship. I'm like, I feel like it's different though they may usually have nice feet and not only that, but that's like but not only that, I feel like, you know, when you watch movies, they're sitting at the dinner table, she's playing with his dick on his head, but like that's normal for like women to you know what I'm saying, get a little foot. So I'm not gonna lie to y'all. So with this podcast, and we've been talking about this a lot, so we

used to have a question all the time. Would you rather lick asks or suck toes? That's like the main question. I'm like, ass, I'm wouna make ask anyway I like. But like, since openly discussing feats so much, I've been like, we all eat that because I want to eat that boot that you know what I mean. They're not gonna admit it today. Guy friends. But guys, oh, they be holding their legs up for me. Honey, baby, I had a guy he got on all fours. I was eating

that ass. So it's too far for I got to get on all four he was tooting that ass up. The problem he's six. But now but now it's easy for you. You don't have to spread for you. He wanted to, you should have said he looked back at it like this, look back since since if you're scared, you could give him my number, take it, take him. So the next question is when you break up with your girlfriend or boyfriend, when is a good time to funk? The person you were accused of sucking. I mean I

was already. Wow, she think I'm sucking somebody? Probably I probably was already. Yeah, But if you haven't, if you haven't sucked that person yet, and they break, y'all break up because of that, I'm hitting the nigga up, like, oh yeah, you don't created the bond for my girl tripping, Like damn, she think we're around many. I don't want nobody to take nobody out on know dates. I don't

have no time for that, Like, I don't know. So this is This leads me into my next question, and I guess you can answer it, but I want the girl to answer it too. Can a woman be in love with her man and be intimate with someone else? Yes, that's me every day and looking kind of like what do you think you rather have loyalty than love? Well, you're gonna get one of love. It's just a feeling. You can love somebody still having me in the back. Wait, wait,

don't so you'd rather have loyalty over love. So love me and kill me out of anger. You can hate me and you be so loyal you'll never do anything to hurt me. That's true. Wait that's kind of deed. That's true, you know. I Actually that's because I don't fight, love, make you do things out of you, don't think right, loyalty, it don't matter. I could hate you. I never want to see you again. But if I'm loyal to certain certain she will never fly right. I don't love, but

I'm loyal to that's my family. That's because I don't suck a lot of dick out of anger gets out of anger. Wait, you do like reaving this? It's not that, but I'll just be like, I'm not working with this no more. We're done. Girl. Loyalty head anybody you know I have morals, Loyalty would no matter how you feel about the nigger, Loyalty will how you never his friends. Loyalty will love. So it's crazy that you didn't get

us into our next motherfucking segments. So for Vanilla Ship, as I do know, I normally pick a topic, um, something that's going on in the news, and we're just gonna, you know, talk about it. So I wanted to talk about um. So if you guys tune in and I don't even think ironically we like ninety episodes in and we ain't never really talked about the Kardashians, but Chloe came out and said that she stayed with Tristan after cheating on her with multiple women for the baby, for

the family, like and letting it slide. So it's a it's very different when women stay with men for cheating. So I guess I'll ask you real quick before we dive into this. Would you stay with your significant other for cheating with you? And if so, what and you stay with her? I mean because I had to look

at what I did prior. Okay, I see now, I've never been in a situation where I've been cheated on first, so I had to charge my ship to the game, like, I had to look at it, like I could be mad at her any sheep, But then I'm being hypocritical because I didn't did so much. She's the game and she funked up once, So I need to take a step back. How did it happen? I need to look at things and be like, A, you know, we could feace the sheets because I popped the ship off in

the first place. Okay, that's a different I don't even don't look that way. So what about you ladies, Like, would you stay with your man after finding out he cheated on you. Yeah, I'm not gonna cheating break from you. Yeah, I'm just being real. I'm not I'm not so here. So here's my question because this is where I think, and we talked about this a lot on the show.

I think communication is a big thing. And as we're talking about cheating, if you feel like you're gonna cheat on this nigga and you as a as a guy are probably gonna cheat on her, why is there not a conversation about possibly doing the open relationship? Probably amory, Like, why isn't this just settled in the beginning, like instead of this, because the act of betrayal is the thing? What do you mean it doesn't work. I'm going through it now. I was in a relationship for eight years.

Damn at a child joke up, So I look at all my mistakes I did with that said, moving forward, I'm not gonna hurt a woman. I'm not gonna lie. I'm gonna live by certain rules. I'm gonna be upfront with everything. So my little voyage these past eight months is being this is is what I'm on. I can't do this, but this is what I can do bet first couple of weeks, cool didn't get into just what we're doing? What you mean what we're doing? So you guys were together, was there a clear line as to

what you like? We're rocking? But we could do what we want to do together. But see, why is it? Why can't y'all be together and still be active outside the women? Don't women act like they wanted to a certain point. It don't never work that way, especially with what I do. Women intimidated because I'm out and ship like that. So it becomes like a what's the attitude for? And you don't want to say because now you're not really mad at me, you mad at yourself. Con put

yourself in the situation. So then we have a deep conversation. She like, I just don't know why I even fucking rag me. It's so weird relationship. It's so crazy because I'm like, I'm like to the point now where I want a boyfriend, And so when I'm speaking to people, I'm like, listen, I don't need dick, I don't need pen pals. Like, if I'm speaking with you, we need to see what we can be. And this is where we haven't had the conversation yet about monogamy. But I

don't believe in monogamy. I know it doesn't exist. He

probably gonna cheat, but I would rather know. I don't want no girl to question my position with you, which is where it is like, so I think with you and her, the fact that you're able to say were together but we're not together, and the fact that she feels like she has to ask you what y'all are That's the point to where if I'm in an open relationship or I'm gonna let you step out, I should never have a female question my position with you, and

I should never question my position with you. As soon as I start questioning my position with you, now it's like now it is what then are we doing? Like now we have got off because I know where, but maybe you're not showing that to her. Yes with me all the time every day. If I'm calling you an you'll be with a nigga all day. He's taking this girl. I love you, girl. I haven't been, but that's what

I'm saying. Don't be with somebody if you're thinking in your head, because if I'm leaving my I mean right, I mean, you don't ever go into a situation being like, oh, I'm a cheat. I never do. I'm not saying I've

been faithful. I've been in many times. There's been one dude that I funk with where I really when I fun with him, I don't do nothing because he gives me everything I want to me like, So, let me ask you, if you have a guy that gives you everything you want and need, what makes you feel the need to step out to somebody else? I don't, But it's only been one person that's done that, only one If I what you mean? Why? Like? Why is why is he the only person you feel like you could

be faithful to? One thing is I will say this because I know if he found out, he is not working with that ship and I would rather because I'm a cheater. I don't do it on perfect. So so here's my questions. Horrible answer, that terrible answer for answer, he gave the answer. So let me ask you, why wouldn't you go into relationships with men or become committed

or whatever. Why don't you suggest the open relationship package or this or you could even offer the swinging package, which is something that I'm been doing, like to where at least he's present or y'all know exactly what y'all are doing to where that betrayal aspect isn't added. You know what, I would be open to an open situation. I'm not gonna lie I would, but I feel like no I would, but you know what the thing is though,

guys do not like it. But as soon as you'll be like girl, you get deek from another nails exactly, don't want to wait, but you eat as too, right, I would like she really want to back a girl's ass that I have like things. Oh girl, you skipping step You have to come first, like the fact that he letting your finger without licking at first, like you're

skipping stepsis, I'm about to try your own. I just told lead, and I'm mad that we are technically getting into our horrible decisions without meaning to, because we're doing the whole guy girl versus you know we're gonna get into it. Hold on, we're gonna talk about that too. And you might think that we ain't gonna sit here and ask kink shame. That's what we're not gonna It's both ways, though, I don't even not even to a woman.

You don't you don't Okay, you know if you eat put your technically eating as guess what was technical whatever? I ain't never just knew I'm not eating like so you didn't know you was eating ask, but you did know. I ain't never. You ain't never even leaked. Okay, with you down by the whole of the pussy, then you was down by the whole of the pussy. The ASK is like a cinimeter away, That's what I'm saying. But I didn't eat the ass. It don't matter if I was point to I was have a centimeter away from

the fish line. I ain't win the race. Anyways, We're gonna go ahead and we is going into get into the kink of the week, the kink for this week, guys. As y'all know, every week we give y'all a king. We don't king shame around here, but we like to let y'all know that some people listen to some kinky ship. Um so this week one and thank god I can actually say it. It's claustrophilia. This is when people are turned on by and or prefer to have sex in

tiny places. So this is interesting because I feel like this would be like maybe if you've had sex in a stall, in a bathroom or car sex, which I am so against Carson I hates, first off, anymore. I mean, I don't lost some weight when I'm still a thick bitch and I like niggas over six three? So where are we fitting like? And clearly the word comes from claustrophobias with claustrophilias, So it's people who are turned on by being in closing me. Have you ever fucked in?

Have y'all ever sucked in a small space ship? I mean in my car, but I always had big cars, though. What's a big gass car like a suburban like I got like my truck. But the seats come up, so it's like big, wait there, like the back seat I had my jeep ringers, So I let the back seats down. He's down like a whole lot supposed to anywhere, and the seats go down. Okay, it don't happen that fast, like there's a whole transition like we're playing Transformers before.

In that case, you can just get your ass up and going out. Pull the seats go down. Many in the car I used to be. I'm not gonna know I've had sex in the car. Before you talking about you like Nigga's that six story bitch. I'm six story big big, absolutely not. I'm not solid big, I'm too big. Like my my leg over here, your leg right here. It's no used to make it exciting. Have y'all ever had sex in like a bathroom tall ar? Yeah? How was that? I mean it was cold, but it's a

very tiny space. And then I, like, what was kind of nervous just because all the germs and she grue I'm not a germa foul, but I was trying to be like as you or you'll be down by the ass. You can't be seen here talking about I'm a gummer folk. You know ship come out of the person who asked I'm leaking. I know who asked I'm leaking? You know what coming out here? It's crazy because I was talking

with my friend shout at DeAndre. I was talking to her before and when I found this, I was like, okay, So I was thinking, I was like, I don't like car sex. Then I was thinking of maybe like a fitting room in a in a store, and I feel like the only thing that would be exciting about that to me would be possibly getting caught people I was like, I don't think I would enjoy it because it's small, but I would enjoy it because I know we're not

supposed to be. That's how it was. When I was working in the bathroom, I just it was a woman's bathroom, by the way, and he when he gave me to the woman's bathroom, I was, yeah, I s what you mean. We wasn't at the bowling nelle y'all, and I was with my dude at the time, and this was a couple's day. It was a couple of days they was friends. So she was like, hold on, I got to go to the bathroom. He could already win. Yeah, So she

just ran to the bathroom. She was like, I'd be right back late, and she gave me that look, I'm drunk. I'm like a ship nigga. They was gone, this makes me feel And it was people walking in the bathroom. I remember that I had to like basically kind of like try to get on top of like the toils on my legs only his feet. But wait, why wouldn't you want your legs to show instead of his? Because

this is the girl's back. I wasn't she always be I got caught in the bathroom at her apartment because they was sucking in the living room and I was like, who want to go out, fir. I was like, please help. I'm like that time I was working on a balcony. He was in my room and then see me through the window. I was like this, y'all have a y'all have a real friend show. Oh it's crazy, It's crazy.

This is literally a lot of compromising positions. My apartment is a loss, right right, that's what I come in here and pass out my niggy coming through, Like I'd be so respectful for my friend DeAndre. You don't even know that night we was playing, Oh we had the card game and you know who came through, which we was working in the staircase because I was trying to be respectful of you and I we went to the staircase that you're building at the Atlantic, bitch, and we

was working in the staircase. Oh, we didn't do the no, we just went straight to the staircase because I wasn't in your house. Like, I was like, I ain't gonna do DeAndre like that. So I'm jealous right now, me get this man. I'd have been And I was like, because when I first lived here, I was staying with her before my apartment was ready. I would have been in a bed with this girl, somebody rubbing on me. It was another chick that was in her pussy. I'm like,

what the fuck? Bet See this is DeAndre, you listening to this. I just wanted to cuddle last night in this bitch was like cuddle a who bit anything. I'm gonna turn her out, and I'm not gonna like when I'm sleep Like sometimes I'll stay at her house, she'll come home, she'll be sucked up. She'll be like right under my back. But that's what people think that me Andre, and we never never, never touched. Never. Why let me ask you, why do all men think that friends fun?

Because I get asked that all the time with Marko right now, No, you don't. I think I live with a woman for like seven eight years, Okay, I kind of seen how she moved her, seeing certain things where I got a better understand It is just using the imagine she got to be. It's gotta be. I think people like see us on the outside, like they see us on instagram'll be like, oh, I know they when they actually hang out with us and see how fucking dumb we are, how they're like, oh fun, they are

not y'all childish? And remember that girl tried to start eating your plassy? Hold on, you got the wrong one, ware you? So you don't deal with girls. I have been with it, but it's not my thing like I have, Solex, I'm gonna stop texting you which we got first? Noble, I thought you got the wrong one. That's that one right now, that's the one to me. Let me start. I always be trying to punch my trains. So we're gonna go in two guys now the horrible decision, and

we've kind of touched on it already. In this episode, we're gonna do kind of a girl code versus guy code as far as like what's acceptable on our end as women and kind of how men view it and vice versa. I kind of wanted to start off with something simple more so like dating, just to get kind of a grasp between what we think in the room. So I want to say, how long should a girl wait to be claimed by a dude that she's dating?

And so you're a man, I would love your perspective on this, but how long as women do we feel like we should wait before a guy starts to claim us? How do I feel like y'all should feel how you feel like if you're dating a girl? How long does do men normally wait before they know like, damn, I like her? Let me it ain't no time. Everything a vibe with you, because I swear, But for my first experience, I learned that certain things I just let happen instead

of trying to make it happen. Or fortunately, if I feel like if I'm looking at you and I'm like, yeah, you going on my grand I know that's right. I'm not about to be over when I know I'm working with you, And see what he just said, I think that's what a lot of us girls do. We overthink febory thing. So let me ask y'all. I y'all are talking to a guy and y'all are dating, and it's to the point where it may he got a nickname,

all the friends know about him. When do you guys maybe start being like, Okay, why am I not his girlfriend yet? Look, y'all, and you know what me and Lex had a conversation about, because like a few months ago and we're stal totally opposite like me, I'm kind of I just kind of go with the flow when it comes to day and the guy like, I'll let you do what you wanna do, like whenever you're ready, then let me tell you something about me. The next week,

I had a boyfriend. I was in a relationship. If they is let you are my man and we love Yeah, that's how so are you? Are you as soon as y'all have sex? I mean, he your boyfriend like that, But like sometimes I get vibes, Like he said, I get a vibe. So here's my thing, though, do you not seek a mutual vibe? Because even though you may be vibing with him. But Drian knows this. Every nigga I funk with, they'd be pressuring me for my friends

and be me. But to everybody, I'd be like no, I'd like, sure, yeah, I want you to be my girl. Wait wait wait, you said it doesn't mean anything when a guy does that. Why because as a knee, I could say, bro, nigga would just say she just to get a girl head where you need to be true because I'm doing that ship Wait wait wait, wait, wait, now we're gonna wait, We're gonna post because I got

to hear this, do you We could be chilling. Everything would be good, we would be sucking you went, we were rocking, and I just got the nigga gotta just do the bro let's even, let's stop playing and could be like what you mean like we're good? Like he's like nah for real, Like you don't want to lock that in so bad? Just to make sure mentally you know that doing so. Men will say that, just to make sure she's not. Yeah, you lying, y'all be lying. I don't do it no more, but I've done it.

But this is what I'm saying. We will do that to get y'all where we need to be. And then when y'all are there, that's when we arguing with y'all about your tripping and ship. I hate when they be like you trip so why yeah? Why? Like I feel like that. I feel like it's out of it's out of selfishness and it's other ship. I feel like we're

mentally with niggas like it's ship. How we honestly believe just going to see my therapists and things I talked to him about mental health, that's how we was right. Yeah I did all this? What what what did your That's just how we how we view, how we view

certain things, how we were raised. A lot of niggas got just insecurities on their own and almost have nothing to do with relationships period, just as a man, and just things they haven't been through that they just need to have control over certain things or feel secure about certain So let me ask you, because we do have a lot of parents that listen to us, we have couples, we have a lot of people who may want children

in the future. Is there anything that your therapist said or to you, Is there anything that could change that upbringing to where y'all don't grow up to be these that y'all are like like you. It's it's not necessarily it wasn't like how he was raised. It's just not being able, especially black men. I can't speak for any other that we don't. We don't express ourselves. So anything we've ever been through, no matter what it's been. I'm twenty eight, so it's been twenty eight years of I'm

good or that ship. Let's right. I think it's it's like it's soft black man say, it's how he feels. It's like, oh, you saw you're supposed to care. It's cool to not carrying. You want to talk to nobody. Your mom could have been the best parent ever, did everything, But it's just how like ship be so who but who raises like? Is it more so society that's raising black men to be like? I think a mental health issue wasn't something It's not even our parents fault. It's

something that was never thought about. I'm nine, like anything, it's just coming up now. Kids now are like early we were able to be able to care about that, you know what I'm saying. So it wasn't like our parents like, yeah, you know, we can't. How are they gonna talk to us about It's not even a thought in their mind? Okay, speak on it. Listen like your tweets because your tweets be coming for bitches. But now I feel like, see, I got my views on that too,

But it's I got logic. I don't never say nothing without both sides. I get that. But but at least that you're able to even own up to your ignorant something. I say something about women. But niggas is fucked up, Like I don't need a lot of fun up ship and I'm running with niggas to do fund up ship, and I don't have the conversations, and niggas gonna be

trying to hear that ship. Hey, bro, you don't ever think you'd be doing that ship because it is NI put their hair down, like man, I don't talk about man I talked right, So as women, what do we do if we like meeting you? Because we're all in our late twenties. The woman, the woman that I the woman, the two women that I talked to, right, one of them the one who told me to go see a therapy. You got this going on, you need to do this, because I went, I'm going through this and I go

see my therapist for this, and that happened. The other girl kind of just read me so good. She knows what that she is. She like, how fun with you? But hey, no, nig, but let's go out to this movie. I'm gonna know when you ready. I know you ain't ready, nig. So she's just read me and I just laugh at off sometimes and I have to check myself, like let me stop playing with the girl. But she know me

good enough, so I'm not rushing nothing. And she's smart enough mentally and strong enough mentally to peat my bullshit. But no, no, no, no, no, no no no, these women, these women will see that she, oh, this nigga full of games, fuck them and not try to help them or see something in them. But is it our drive? That's only it's only right right? I feel like in the beginning, I don't know if I see something. We

two So can I bring this? Can I bring this back to the wonderful I'm saying if we just had a quote from the wonderful um first lady of the motherfucker us of a UM, Michelle Obama, And she came through, which I appreciated most recently. She came through and said that she knew that Obama was for her because he was already a full ass, complete human being when he

met her. And so I feel like, unfortunately for black men and not speaking for all, but they expect us as women to take them broken and to help build them or to help fix them. And there's so there's so much things already on our plate as black women wanting black kings. We hate that we have to feel like we have to help you get a job, help with your resume, build you up, and be the men

that we want you to be. Instead of y'all coming as the men that we want than that though, it's like go back to slavery with that sheep, Like how are where we are so embarrassed about certain things to express ourselves and it's weighing on us. Bro, That Willie

Litch ship is real? Is fun? Like do you know like how they they they made they made out, they made black men just they humiliated black men in front of their kids and they women, and that ship trickles, and it's like an insecurity, a generational insecurity with black men. We keep shit in We want to be the manliest man ever, but we need something, but at the same time, we don't want to express what we need. So y'all

don't know what the fund is wrong with us? And you can't tell y'all what's wrong with us because it's like so deeper than just saying one thing. It's like it's a lot, but I can't say so. But it's like, at what point do y'all realize that and start to be like, you know what, let me heal myself because I don't. You can't depend on nobody else. It's a process. I didn't I heard a woman so bad to figure out. I'm a fun nigga and I need to figure it out.

And it took another girl after that to be like, nigga, you is a nigga, You're a good nigga. But and this is what I see. I feel like, you need to talk to somebody, but it takes it's up to you to make them Still. I think it takes a strong man to to realize that, Okay, I need to go see it or I need to find someone that I can, because some things don't even know how. I didn't even know how to be by myself when I broke up with the mother of my child and I

was single. I didn't spend the night alone. And it wasn't even because I'm fucking bitches just for cool. It's got to a point I just needed somebody that I needed it, like, like I just want to even I guess even a man admitting that, Like I just didn't want to be alone, Like you don't hear men expressions. But I just hurt somebody so bad I don't want to do it again out of my fear. I just had to be real myself, Like I just want to

be fully transparent with anybody. I'm working with. So I just know I got baggage and I'm still fixing that ship. So don't come over here if you're not you know, so what you would you accept that with a woman? Like if a woman was broken and to be built up. Because the woman who told me that I need to see a therapist, it's a lot going on with her and she got a pass and she doesn't did a lot of crazy ships and we could talk about that

and it doesn't bother me. Okay, it doesn't bother you, but I do want to bring that into and you y'all can change my whole outline. But um, when it comes to a woman opening up about their past, if we're supposed to sit here and you know, accept you for you, your upbringing, being a man, you being vulnerable,

but not so vulnerable as a woman. When we do express our past and what we've been through or how many sexual partners we've had, how how is it that we can express that to a man without that judgment being like I told you to grow fun. She tells me everything and it doesn't bother me. It kind of was like a weight off my shoulders to be able to had that conversation and you just a whole out here.

You know. I listen to all that she did and I'm like, damn, you know, we grew up like we was doing ship in between eighteen and twenty before I met you. I don't give a funk what you did as long as you can express it to me. The nigga worst fear is this all we care about walking into a room and but that's very But that's it is. But that you not take care though, But that's like very reckles. Niggas be caring. They do they do. Let me ask you, let me let me ask you this.

So you're in the industry, you meet a girl and you vibe with her. She is nervous because she's no she knows that she doesn't suck Some niggas in the industry. You would you would preferred to You would prefer for her to tell you, listen, I fucked x y Z, even if you're close to them, that she sucked them before knowing you. Yeah, because I hadn't been in that situation and I could, I could have that conversation with

nigga before he feels like he got one up. Nigga's got one up, That's what it is like you understand if you walk in and I sucked you or fucking you, I'm smiling like god damn, and I'm at my nigga like, but guess what he could kick? This is how I kick it if I know you know my bitch. First I'm walking, I'm like, yeah, yeah, but she told me. She know you know around back in the day that you can clear that she's said nothing bad. She said you coolest, she told me. And you know what that

dude that takes shoulders down and then make the room comfortable. Yeah, buddy, no, it's all good. I need to know that so I can make Let me ask y'all how comfortable are y'all because I hadn't had teammates before, like, yeah, I've been there. That just actually happened to me like a year ago. And how did you go about telling like because we so we have a lot of listeners, I'm sure everyone

has been in these uncomfortable, awkward as situations. So now that we see that from a man, and not all men are like, but he would prefer to know as women, did y'all come forward and say it? And if so, how did you say it? Um? I did? I told him that I used to miss with somebody that he knew. But when I told him that I used to miss with the guy, get he didn't know that. They meant that I fucked the god exactly. But that's the same. That's how but right, that's how I felt about it.

Saw two, three or four months into the situation, I'm thinking, he already understands that I used to be fucking right. So he comes to me. I guess the dude said something to him. That was at the party, and the dude said something to him and he comes to me and he's like, oh, boy walked up to me and he's like I can't believe. He was like, I feel like you hiding something from me, and I'm like, I already told you. He was like, um, no, you did, and I was like, yes, I did. And then he

was like, UM, well no. Then I told him. I was like, well, I did suck him one time. He was like, what you fuck that? Nigga? Man also have selective hearing, though definitely, y'all will sit here and even though we tell you something, if you interpret it one way, I hear that you ain't me to say I fucked him. I said, I fucked. You know, I represent for the feelings. I'm not judging, but he was tripping in that scenario.

He was You do think he was stripping, right, because I think even if you didn't, that's how I feel. I feel point to bring it up, all right, So let me ask you how did how did you go about? Have you done it before? This is the thing with me. If I meet somebody and I know, like I funk with your friend, I need to know how far we going first before I have that conversation, because I had

met I was in a situation the beginning. How do you know that in the beginning what like, he can't necessarily tell you how far y'all are gonna go, like exactly, So if we get to that point, then I'll be like, oh, by the way out bad? Yeah, I mean they can't. But at the end of the day, why would I tell you my business if we because then this last situation. But no, but they don't. They didn't end up finding out because it was funny because I was talking to

one dude. Me and him had fell off, so I started talking to the other dude and they owe each other and I was like, damn, dras should I tell him, she was like, I don't know, like you just wait and see, and I never said anything and we ended up falling out and I ended up going back to the other dude. Yeah, and I know they still don't know, but we're not lucky. But I didn't. I didn't like

the second dude. I didn't the second dude because that's what I'm saying, because I don't why would I say, Hey, I fucked X y Z and we're not even fucking yet, but we like each other. But it's like if we never reached that point. So when it comes, so when it comes to when you're finally sucking, that's when you should. Yeah, I mean had already because it's like talking to my partner a year ago, my best friend and y'all, he took you out to eat a show. I don't give

a funk about that. Y'all went out a couple of times. He took you to the movie. If you tell me cool, if he tell me, I'm like, damn for real, you like no, I'm like, all right, what I'm saying exactly real comfortable with how you speak on you know, males dealing with maybe the same woman. I want to take

this to maybe our female listeners a little bit. Would you be okay with Dria going on a date with somebody that you used to talk to, even if you didn't suck him, or if you did him like way both of those options, because this is your friend, would that be okay? And when is when is it crossing the line for girl code? Something I taught her right now. She got somebody on her roster that nigga's prime real estate. I said, if I come across that nig I'll just

let you know. She did, and I already sucked him before, but she was like, did she prime real estate? If I ever run across? If I ever run across the trying of fun with me, I'm sorry, but I let her know. I was like, but you know, but we had Honestly, we're not a time. But I'm not talking about community dick right now. I'm talking about like she probably talking about rappid athlete them niggas for everybody. We don't were in a situation like that before, like I was.

She don't like to talk about it, but it was like I had talked to a dude a long time ago, like I was young, and then like some years later, like hearing him and they were like really really talking, but I didn't. I mean, I didn't care because it was just like I had moved on. I was like six dicks. That was like six nicks, So it didn't matter. I got lucky just like that. I don't know, that's

never happened to me. I feel like, so I have like a clear do not cross list, Like yeah, I think we all had a whole Yeah, I have a few niggas really all that. It's that I feel even if we don't, we ain't for seven years. Yeah you know, yeah, I think that for for and I think honestly we're real friends with a bit. We know which niggas is awful. Yea you are already no, but this is don't care niggers gonna cross that, gonna cross that line. They will all the time. Yeah, I had niggas that I was

fucking with. We was in damn there in love and the homeboy was like, yeah, what I'm saying, it's only a few real niggas period. We talk about like I'm really like, I know me, bro a man, a bitch could be so bad till my part and going and it's like a switch in my brain is like, it don't matter what she got on or not. And you are very very rare because not because back to that story, the dude found out any he's still with me, he

was trying to ask. He was so mad, and we still was working with each other for like another saving month after that, and then's the old boy that had ran to him about it. He said again, I think I think it still has all to do with the level of security that man has because um, and I mentioned this on the show before, like there was a dude that I was really, really really vibing with and I had sucked his friend first before I had even known him. But the friend was prime real estate and

this nigga wasn't so much. So he used to always say like, man, no, like I'll funk with you, but man, if we ever got married, I couldn't have that nigga would have to be at my wedding and I out to know he sucked my wife. Like, So that's another type of conversation that's had that when a man really vies with you, there's certain thiggs that he can't look past even if he does, because he's like, listen that nigga will be at my wedding, and I gotta know

he knows what your pussy feel like. And me and this nigga vibe so hard. So you're talking about a vibe we boben and he's like, man, I really fun with you, but it will be my wedding. Like if a girl sucked your homeboy that he knows to be in the wedding type of ship. It's like, yeah, this is the woman. I'm walking down the aisle and I gotta look at my homeboy and know that that nigga was that grown sakes are like teenage six No, we was like get over all, right, get over to you, y'all.

Eighteen nineteen, I get over that. But grown fucking you know. I'm but what if you didn't suck? Se told but I didn't suck the first dude? Remember what I'm saying? Like that got to be discussed because it's some niggas that overlook it, but the whole marriage, right, But it's like, why do I feel like if you don't care about something that was before you, whether it's your patna or not, you either care? Are you don't? Like? I don't know because we are you don't realize how we think it's down.

I say this ship to er God talked to when it comes to niggas and when it comes to bitches fucking niggas that we know it don't matter. Pause. We had a last guest that used bitches. Okay, but let's see now. I don't want you to feel in the way, but look, it is a business sample. I could be the most serial killer. Street is nigga, billionaire everything, the really gangster, richest, helicopter having big right. Guess what it's

a j on the street. If I walked past and I say, if he say anything to me and I say something back, it's nothing I could do after he says, I FU your bitch. And that's how he was like this. And guess what. Guess what. I could pull a gun out. I could kill him right there. And guess what. I could go to jail. I'm saying I could go to jail. Guess what. I'm bit it's nothing worse than the nigga because it's nothing you can do. There's nothing you can do. You can be richer than the nigga. You could have

everything more than the Nigga's no one. I still what you're saying, But let me say this. It has been some situations before where you was like, I funk with people who knew each other and then he was like, man, I know you used to funk with that nigga. But it's like I but when the niggas will try to hit me up being on some sneaky ship, like I if I'm suking with you when I used to funk with your homeboy, I'm gonna make that nigga try to try to pull me now, because you're not gonna disrespect

my niggas. But this is my nigga. Now, this is the thing too, And I'll bring this to what you're saying. It just sucks because as women, I had niggasu my friends, I had niggas like trying to pull like my bitches I live with, and they still just think it's supposed to be okay. So I think that it's very contradicting

and of course the double standard. Yeah no, but a lot of us women have to be just okay with who you don't sun in your past yet, but we gotta we can't have to like we gotta we gotta look man when we fuck off, and the whole got a smart at mouth. It's our job to be like, bitch, shout the funk up. You know, we gotta chuck to niggas be trying to This is where we're ruin everything. We'll funk off, y'all. Try to forgive us a whole would say something and we're still trying to defuse the

situation exactly. Excuse my language, but in this situation, that's what I have got, baby girl, making this bitch feel so small for even trying to come for you. If I care about you, what I'm doing like, chill girl, this is my girl on the side. Yeah, but for you, why we can't check and nigger and do the same and be like, no, I'm cool with that. If you can do that, but most women don't. You feel like, God damn, I bad with this conversation. I feel like

it's something that we had. I feel like everything has to do with egos when come in, but that feeling embarrassed ego. You have to work around anybody's ego and anything you do at the workplace. It would management, music relationships. You have to know people's personality. If I know something that gets under your skin and I'm genuinely your friend. I know how to work around that. It's like, nothing wrong with that, It's me genuinely caring about you as

a friend. I'm like, why would you know what I'm saying? So if something really bothers me, like, okay, you need we need to figure out the way. You know, you know me, So don't do certain things. You know what I'm saying, right, I mean, I'm not gonna lie. I have this conversation with the dude I'm talking to last night and he was like, I told him that my ex called me. He was like, what you're talking to there? So what the fun? I was like, why, I'm not gonna do it no more. He's like, yeah, you see

how to handle that because his friends but fun. It's like he has ago how to handle. This is the last topic that I bring up in this while we're talking on both sides of relationships and egos and insecurities. So I want to talk about how it is for us as women to have guy friends while being in a relationship and men allowing women to have guy friends while in relationship, or us allowing you as a man

to have women like female relationships. So you've been in a relationship you've been dealing with this woman for eight years, you have someone else, whatever your situation is, Is it okay for them to have guy friends. I mean, it didn't bother me the way you me. What I'm saying. Why was rocking while we was good? It didn't bother me? Only time to bother me when we're not good. Why doesn't bother Because niggas do suckers ship. They want to trust them and wait for weaknesses, like a nigga will

really be a free until you week. Then that's when they're trying to So if we do whatever you want with Brian, I don't give a fuck because I know what's going on. But as soon as you crying and you hurt, I don't know what the fun Brian don't because I know what nigga's don't eat that. I'll say this for me, like, I think it's cool, but you have to introduce me. You got, I think, and I think that that's where a lot of men may feel like it's easier, like to maybe keep it a secret,

but I'll say I agree to like. So for as women, we're clearly I feel like we're a little bit more confident than niggas. At this point, we a whole lot of ship that y'all really don't but I feel like for women it's more so I just need can I notice free? Can I introduce her? Because I'm not gonna lie, we know real quick. So let short, long story short. Me and my friends went out to meet her boyfriend at the club and when we got to the table,

there was two girls there with his cousin. The girls didn't speak to us, they didn't introduce themselves to us, and it was just very obvious. Oh bit, y'all know, y'all are the wrong or y'all been trying to talk to him. We catch a vibe with women real quickly what their intentions are around me. And so to me, if a man or my boyfriend wants to have a female friend, we need to meet that bitch and we

need that's most important. Like I got all my partners, but if I know I got female best friend, though, that's the beach you need to meet. But it's not a bad bitch, but that's the girl you need to meet. I need to make sure. I need to roll the red carpet out on making sure y'all cool and you know that that's my partner before my boy my partner friends because it just like I've had got girlfriends, I have a male best friend, and the first thing guys

always say, they'd be like, you got a male best friend? Yes, that sometimes legit. I think it's just tough because like I've been the best friend to a lot of guys and girlfriends never like me like that ass don't you'd be like, yeah, I's like a maid and I lick y'all as the young girl. Better know we're friends, nick, I know you, I'm saying, would be hard for me to argue herd. It's different. It's different from if somebody's a home girl, they're like, you know, they dressed like

you know, they're kind of tomboyish or the book. But it is what it is where I have I have guy friends, and they'd be like man, bitches be maybe not women be tripping they do, I mean, because they'd be like your friends. I'm actually really close friends with my Sister's acts like me and him to stay cool, like we're cool, Like you used to date my sister and we're cool. And it was just like he had went to the club one night he got a section. I went to a section of girls was just like

they arguing. I could be like, girl, no, and I didn't want to be like, oh, he used to beat my sister. I was just like, no, this is like huh my sister, huh no, no, no, they're not cool on where they's both moved on. But it's just that you went over there with your little waists and big as right. But I had to actually let her know. I'm like, oh, baby, girl, like me and him are cool, but you know, it's how do you have that conversation? Oh girl, don't I want your nigger? Girl? He says,

that's how you have it. I be like, I don't watch. When I was in Orlando, I was I came across a lot of guys I either went to school with or that I knew from the past, and if there was a girl in the section, I made it my point to before I even spoke to him. Listen, baby girl, I don't want him. We went to school together. I'm just gonna yeah, you go to it. Women don't do that. Then then it's like, oh, not that you think is right right, So we're gonna go ahead and get into home. Male.

This is the last segment where we can give advice to our listeners. So the first one, you're probably not gonna be able to give much advice on this one. But there's one specifically for a male, so I'm gonna go ahead ask you that one. But first one, we're gonna say. Hey, girls, I just want to say that

I love what you guys are doing. I relate to you all on so many levels, and you've helped me become more comfortable about my sexuality, which is amazing scene that I lost my virginity at Anyways, my issue is that I recently met this guy and we started talking and all that, and he asked me to be his girlfriend. Great, I mean, he checks all the boxes, tall, dark and handsome. Problem is, we just had sex like twenty minutes ago.

This bitch wrote us a home meal twenty minutes after she has sex um and his dick is small, not a micro penis, but small, and the sex was more mad. I don't know what to do. Sex is very important part of my life now, and the guys I have been with, and the guys that I've been with have very big dicks seven inches and upwards, and we have very rough sex. Should I end it now? Or should I wait it out. Maybe I'll get used to a smaller size. Thank you, sexually frustrated chicks. I'm Nigerian and

living Lagos, Nigeria. You have a big audience here and we love you guys. Shout out night Jia. Even though I'm sorry, I've been there and I don't want to go back. But no, it was I mean, they got money out there, that's what I heard. Now, they got the coins. I just it's not one of those places that they allowed tourism to me, like going on tours and ships said. I felt like I had to have security the whole time, right right, But the parties are good.

They fucking party real quick. Shout out. I don't know your name, but this is the first time I went to a club. I want my friends. This nigga just bought me a bottle. I ain't even a kid, beautiful and this was seventy pounds ago. Bit I felt real good. So I guess what is going to be um our advice for this lady. Have you ever been with a guy where you liked him a lot but the dick wasn't what you want? Yeah? I stopped talking to their

goddamn what what about you lex for me? If I really really like you, I'm going to try to explore and things in the bedroom. What else do you like? What else can we do? Like, I'm gonna try to you know what I see if we can. Because sometimes you have sex with somebody once and maybe tray how many. I'm not gonna lie. I'm one time you go out the first time. I mean because I've had situations with

like this dude. I've been talking to him going on three years now, and he just now told me he was like, man, the first time we had sex, that ship was so bad. But I liked you and he gave me another chance, and I'll be rocking that nigger world. So it's like sometimes, you know, you gotta figure out what people liking bead seat, Maybe you can incorporate toys, like there's other ways for you both to get I do want to take you and I don't know. UM

some guys are uncomfortable with UM with sex toys. But I will say we got a toy from Adam and Eve. UM shout out to them for sponsoring UM a couple of our old shows. But they sent us an extensor. So there's a toy where guys can actually put it over their penis and it adds girth or like even there was like like ridges on it too, like simulation. So there's a lot of toys that can help smaller dicksh Not only that, not only that, I want the real deeds. I mean that's fine, but I mean there's

options to me. Um, It's weird because we do have these boxes that we want all of our men to check off, and unfortunately not everyone is gonna check them. So to work around if sex is important to you, I would like LEX said, Um, maybe you can do more vetting and talking, maybe send him porn, incorporate other things. Um, I will say, we say this all guys with little dicks, just have him eat your pussy better or or explore anal. I think that little dick guy that's perfect, perfect I have.

I have a size requirement when it comes to the booty hale, you're not getting in there like um, but a small na, you know, orche medium or whatever. Maybe we don't like the small dick shame. I know y'all think we do. But I'm a size queen, so I can't help it. Um, But I feel like there's I say talk to him, don't tell him his dick is small, but maybe try to incorporate other things sexually. Or we've given this advice before, maybe gauge what he's like with

maybe adding someone else into the vest. Get you aside that that's a possibility to you ain't going for that ship why like an suggestion was right? And then also I don't want to get an extended openis But a lot of a lot of women don't even have orgasm from penetration. So it's just most of the women, can you know, have an orgasm from you know, click stimulations? Maybe you can, you know, there's there's so many of so many other ways that I think he can please you.

So if you're not being pleased like through penetration, I think that that's something maybe you should show him. I think she should definitely talk to and know you know what, you know what's crazy. I'm not gonna lie to you. That's one of And I don't think a lot of guys noticed this, and this is why I stopped having

casual sex the way I do. You don't understand the anger a woman has when she finally give a nigga some pussy and then nothing like it's the most frustrating thing to have sex and feel like, damn, let me go masturbate to make like you adding the body reason I want to get like damn, She ran to her phone. But I don't think men understand how fucking upset were because nigga's gonna nut regardless. Y'all gonna le okay, y'all

want sometimes you gotta act like yeah, but you got nut. Anyways, I feel like men are gonna number whether be good, whether it's bad, because of that freaktion. Y'all as gonna. I'm not about to orgasm every time. Please, actual male followers a question. Had they ever faith the nut and just win somewhere and they go to bathroom, some beat the meat trash? Really I didn't. I don't want to say, because I got a lot going on. But I've heard this before. A man like this is like a conversation

with any man. You get it over with, like you're not by the nut. You don't want to don't feel good. You want to sit here and give our mail listen to some advice. We actually do have homemail from a mail and the topic for this is performance anxiety. So it says what's up my name? I don't know. I'll give you a fake name. My name is the Quine and I'm a thirty one year old black mail residing in Tampa, Florida. I'm a huge fan of you guys.

You guys give such great insight and perspective from a woman's point of view of sex that I have never considered, and I love learning about that. Listening to episode eighty seven, I was a little bit taken back. However, so episode eighty seven, if y'a don't remember, we were discussing erections. Um so it all spawned in the conversation about guys getting in direction, maintaining interaction, or coming too fast during sex. There's a horrible stigma associated with men to perform at

peak sexual performance at all times. This pressure is planted in young men's minds that if they aren't good in bed or aren't satisfying to female counterparts, that they are less of a man and therefore an unsuitable partner. This goes hand in hand. Sex is very much a serebral experience more so than it is physical, and in my experience personally, high have had trouble with getting or maintaining

an erection due to nerves associated with performance anxiety. Of course, comfortable comfortability is associated with that, and it can come from a number of self confidence issues. I guess my basic, Um, I guess my basic the same. I'll be trying. I gotta prove frease some of y'all ship for the perspective that you guys offers was that none of you touched on this very real subject and oftentimes are very unapologetic and realizing that it is an actual thing. We are

I know, hell, neither of you. Two beautiful women who are sexually active with tolerate bad sexual performance. Damn, I'm sorry you reading me right now. Imagine the kind of weight when going into a sexual accounter knowing that if they don't perform at p performance and satisfy the woman, that they are not going to be wanted anymore. I know this is a real thing because women experience it often and rightfully, So I just wanted there to be

a common knowledge that it is all. It isn't always a rectile dysfunction or something that the women the woman is doing to cause mechanical issues within a male. At one specific instance, I literally lost in erection because I was so overwhelmed at finally getting someone that I had once wanted really really really bad, and literally froze up out of fear that I might not please her? Are

there any other males like this? Love you guys? And I would never stop listening, So I guess I wanted to ask you real quick before we sign out, what because we feel like men are just so excited and always have sex more not a lack of confidence in having sex. I was like, you know, like you know, like, but you got the ones who run the people, right, I don't know, all locked up, you know what I'm saying, But god, I wasn't ready for it, Like I didn't know I was gonna get it, but I got it.

So I was like, damn, I'm trying. I'm acting like I wanted, but I got all right, But it was just so much. I was just not ready. I could not. My mind wasn't with my dick, so I could not just it's just get hard or you didn't come like I got hard until it was time to just do what I was trying to do. And I'm thinking about how was she wanted so bad that it just so did you? Did she let you get you to give you another chance, and she loved me now. She love

me now. But it took like about three years for me to like, I had to figure out the way she let you for three years? What I mean, you know what I'm saying, another three years before I got another. Oh, it took you three years to get another till we had to laugh. It was it had to be time for us to laugh and talk about that, right, gonna lie you? You know that was flattering her for that. I was not ready you was that bach that I told you you know, and I leave would call you

and yeah, we're cool now we're real good. But I think that's a good approach to it when I read when I read that that letter, especially just us coming off the conversation came from, I'm like, I'm not gonna lie. I think we do expect, like first off too, I think this maybe needs to stop mental sit here and tell us I'm gonna that ship up. I'm gonna we

do expect. A lot of men come like tear you up, and then when they come there's an issue where it's like this ain't right, just like a girl like I got the best mouth like ice, and it's where where the sloppiness. This isn't so you know what you're canceling. It's never a good idea to hype yourself up. Just let it happen, vibes, I will say, I don't want to go against what I just said another episode. I

also believe betting. So to make sure that you're on the same page sexually, like, I want to know what I am allowed to do, what I'm like, what type of sex we're about to have. So maybe not hyping yourself. You talk about it for sex need to be regular. We don't need about be regular. First, I don't know regular. Well, this is my thing now. I don't like no, I don't like old fashioned, and that's the thing you gotta play with. I got who I want to so let me. Yeah,

I know that, but not not only that. I'm not having sex anymore, just to go through the motion, so to me at I don't have so many casual partners and had sex so much where it's just like, I'm not going to have sex unless I know you're gonna make me come or be you didn't let me because I don't like to do what I mess with Now he does not like he won't let me eat his ass nothing so makes me not every single time, ship, I'm done with you. I like, what is men's issue

with as even about us? It's about ass period for what it's not even don't do it to me. I won't do with you. I won't be nowhere around there on you nothing. We'll see that's understandable that you put your hands inside your asshole to me, Oh I do. I mean, look, I think about this so when you're hitting it from the back, you don't even slyne a thumb. And now I didn't we like the thumb. I didn't trying to be cool because future work. And I didn't like that because I went to why did you don

like y'all real quick thumb with me? With me? It is mental, like I think so hard about that ship. I just can't. I just don't want no parts. And you know I can live my life with it. I don't never will be intimidated to ever think about doing it. That's what you're like. We don't need it, you know, we gotta move on just because if that and that's what I do like, if there's if there's a guy that doesn't if we're not on the same page, or like, and I'm like, okay, well, UM, nice talking to you.

We just gonna need for us to have sex because there are certain things I may want to do and I want you to be open and comfortable the way I'm open and comfortable. So you know something, because you could get them to eventually on the first day, yeah, and then you could do it right exactly. Well before we sign out, where can our listeners find you, guys? I guess we'll do the ladies first because these are

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