Hey, guys, welcome to get another episode of Horrible Decisions. This your girl, Mandy b a k A Peggy Bundy bitch a k A the booty be a k A man does Little mintle a k A that bitch? And I am sitting across from I am wheezy. I don't have any a k oh a k Forty eight months is two years? There you go? Because I was getting on, how do man for ship? I don't know how I let that happen? I think because I was like thinking, forty eight hours, forty eight that's that's what it is.
That okay, wait, that's what it was. I was just thinking that when you said it, I was like, yeah, it's two years. I really that. Actually, now that you're actually coming from you saying that, I could say, that's what we're just talking, we're having and yeah, I can see how you can make that mistaken. I think I ain't even gonna hold you. Forty eight hours is two days. That's two years, Okay, Okay, I bet you. Okay, So hor have y'all, gotta y'all gotta can you tell you
what it's like? It's one of these ready all right, spell stop as t op spell Top TLP. What do you do with a red light stop? What do you do with a green light stop? Oh? Ship, Yeah, I wasna make sure you're as you guys can tell. We have a third voice Ambi Mike, and we've been actually trying to get your ass on, but she's like, can you guys record at eleven am during the week. It was like, pitch, honestly, yes, you have time to really grow on me. Like now I like you. But at
first I was like, are we gonna be honest? Be honest, I will be honest, bring it to bring you on a while ago, and we were riding back and forth and I was like, you know, she has her pod and we was last when we first started talking and was trying to hate Oh. She was like, she was like, I'm not even gonna lie. Maybe if you can bring the second girl on, She's like she's has some very um that action. She said, um, but wait, you know what she's like, And then she tried to be like
have you heard her on Brilliant Idiots? Have you listened to her show? It's like me time And then like she used to even said, like some of your like it's the stories like you you agree with you want to bring her on our show, and I'm not gonna lie. We have sometimes you gotta have people on that you don't fully agree with. You know, you have grown to learn. Yeah, my most convert like, my most intriguing conversations come from people that I don't have the same opinion with um.
But it took me time. Actually, I think it was Alex who changed my mind a little bit. He was like, yo, I filmed an episode of their show They're dope, blah blah blah. And I was like, and then I loosened and I was like, Okay, yeah, so you really really frant episode. You probably should have been all like like eight month. It took eight months for her to really like warm up to you because you And I was like, why are white women so mad? Were you? Like? Yes,
I like you from some all sides, you know. I mean, it's the same thing when you listen to Brilliant, it's hard to like. And I get it because the reason I fell in love a Brilliant Idiots years ago was because they were so different. There were certain things Andre would say that would really piss me the funk off. But then once you get to learn and know someone and like listen through and through you just realize they're trying to spark the convo. And I see that's what
you're doing now. And also it's like so especially like right now in like the climate that like we live in, like if we could all just like allow people to like have their own And I'm not saying allow their own opinions where it's like we want to kill all the Jews or anything like that, saying like people like are going to have different opinions on things because we all have different life experiences and just because someone might think a little differently doesn't mean that they're x y
Z and you should cancel them and never talk to them again and forget them, you know what I mean. Like even Kanye, like, so don't even say that because with with our platform, like me and we are open to a lot of things, um, and so even bringing people on here that may think differently and I'm not even gonna lie me. And we thought we were open until we've had some guests and we both looked at
them like like we ain't doing this ship. So like even to finally be able to come across people and just genuinely ask them questions, you like, growth, bitch, all growing here? You know what? It took my wokest friends, seriously, my most socially conscious for the people friends to tell me like, yes, you can be with friends with someone that voted for Trump. And I've like was really struggling. I was on Instagram live like trying to like have
a breaking friends with this one. No no, no no Dada is like breaking up a friendship over it, you know. And someone that I've known for a while that told it to me and I don't even want to say their name. I was really hurt. Asked about three friends that I know are like in the streets for black people, women fighting for our rights every day that we're like, it is what it is. You have to get over it. You're gonna have to grow up at some point. You
just have to. So why are you still like uncancelled Kanye? Because I think Kanye is detrimental towards black people with the ship that he says, and you don't think and I think he'll be voting for Trump is technically detrimental to black people. I think that someone voting for Trump for a financial gain and that didn't realize what they were doing, like as long as you voted for Strup and you can realize that you made a mistake. You know,
people thinking, wait, hold because are you a Trump supporter? No, I'm like not, like, but I'm gonna tell you I didn't vote. I didn't vote. Remember you saying yeah, I didn't vote. Then I said yeah, no, because guess we get the freedom to not vote, like that's the thing. And I've never not voted. I was like, at one point, women couldn't vote. This is my women for this, And then this last election, I was like, hell to the fun, No, I'm not voting for voting for him. Voting for E's
a Green Party thing? Right, like if it gus, yes, I could have voted, like right exactly, but it was just also my mind like I just wasn't. But no, I mean, I'll be honest. I need the people in my life that And it's only two that I know that voted for Trump to acknowledge and tell me that they realized that they had done something wrong that they weren't all the way like, look at it, bro, what if kids are in cages, but hold on, kids have been in cages. Fine, Okay, they've been in cages, but
they've been tear gassed. You know, we've been bombing people. George Bush was not a good president. His father wasn't a good president. They that wants conversion therapy for me and Mandy with eight pussy before Wait, wait what for caes He wants conversion So because me and you are Mike parents, he wants you guys to go to conversion therapy. He about it. He has like horrible decisions. I got you. I'm sending you sucking bitches. You gotta stop being home
stopping pussy. Me and my wife are gonna get the Holy ghost going through you and you. But I'm a cheerleader. Wait what the movie with God the girl from American Pie with a curly hair name starts with Natasha something, but I'm a cheerleader. Her parents were saying that she thought she was a lesbian. She's like, but I'm a cheerleader. And they sent up to a gay conversion therapy and all the guys they were like, no, I totally love women.
Now it changed me. That's amazing somebody to remember that movie. But look, my look, you know I have family that's that are Trump supporters, that are not racists. I think, I think, I think it's it's cool that you can't align the two together. It doesn't mean are they There's also this really like there's a lack of understanding for like the white working class, Like white working class and black working class people have so much in common with each other and they don't even know it. But I
don't know it. Have more um foodstamp and section eate the black people. And of course they attached they attached it. And it's not just white people, are they? Yeah? But no. I think another thing that I had to realize is and that friends had to put in my head. These
are black friends. They were like, Look, prejudice and racism are two different things, right, So like when we see certain things happen with women in the street called the police and black men or just people doing shings like that, that's a prejudice in their mind right, where racism is more of a hatred, where we still have to destigmatize both.
But we keep aligning Trump with racism. And the main thing that I have to be willing to accept is that I can't vote for Trump because I do feel like what he's doing is hurtful towards people that look like me and that army, right, but not everybody is going to put that first. The hardest thing that I have to learn to get that. The hardest thing that I think I had to realize was like and that I even had to openly admit, was bitch. I'm still
a fan of American. Friend is bitch the American American? Well, well it was in America because they have other apprentices in other countries. So there's that and celebrity apprentice. Everything that Trump was when he was on TV. I didn't even gonna hold you. I like Trump on TV. A lot of people didn't why he's on right in and watch You're fired. That's why he's present, I mean. But also hip hop community like loved because he represented like
so much him with Puff Daddy and everyone. I don't think that he's like I don't think he's like straight up, he's not. But here's what makes it bad, right, he is inciting people too. He's exactly he's race baiting and was a liberal in my opinion person before that phrase more misogynists than yes. I think he is. Even just the things that he the things he aligned himself with shows he's a quote unquote more liberal person that he's
trying to act like today. But what kills me is like you get someone like Mike Vinson's total opposite that really can rile ship up for the people that you know be kind of sketch about you, and now you've pretty much enraged them to fucking act like these white nationalists.
Like I watched this documentary on Netflix where they were like, he follows our rule book, like all of the principles we have and stuff like that, making the country whole again and getting back to its roots and ship like that.
Like it's just crazy. And I think the more and more I educate myself about it, I get more angry at the person that voted for Trump, knowing they might not have the information that I do or And this is the other thing, because when when we just had like the mid terms and really quick, I just want
to remind everyone you are listening to horrible decisions. If you guys didn't know what show you all were listening, should we switch it to Cana I really like the fucking and I'm like, yeah, none of my friends voted for Trump, so can we go ahead and get off this off throw listen? I'm sorry none of my friends. Trump was black. That's fine, but none of my friends voted for you know how hard that was. They told me we were, and I was. I was shaking up set.
I was like, bit, you've been looking at me. We've been out here, I've been talking about these people. They're scared. Yeah, it was awful. Alright, eyes break up for you because we got to get you open to talk some hole. I'm still thinking how happy I am that I've grown on her. It's so much better. No, it's like a corn because it's like it's so much better, like when someone doesn't like you and then oh it's even better. It's because if someone automatically loves you, it's like there's
no talent, you know. But those are my favorite dams from people and they're like I used toy you. I'm like, thank you. So know. So Leah, I text Lea today because I was like, damn, what should we talk about? Right? We thought Laura would be able to join us. We really wanted to do a horrible decision. It's in proper etiquette. Oh my god. Yeah right. So I'm like, well, real quick, before we get into this, can you let the listen because we kind of introduce you, but not really. We
just did the white bitch that like real quick. Lea was late and here goes we weally don't text. She talked into her phone, so what in the caucassity? And then that you're late. Man, you are not allowed to be one time woman. You're like, I was like a whole woman. I hear you that you're a whole Caucasian ass moment. Then let our listeners know what you do and you know why the fun you're here? Um, my name is Leah nick Sweeney. I'm a whole Caucasian woman.
Have we Yeah? I like that. I like to make sure that you know that I'm calling the manager right now right, I'm getting where is where is your manager? Um? And I have a podcast called improper Etiquette. I have a brand called Married to the mom etiquette about ahead a weird section of We don't even like that. I don't think we even pay like, I don't know who put it there. We just like do it. We didn't get to pick comedy. No, but where was it when it's in music comedy? I think it's in music because
of Laura, I would assume. I don't know if I got like shoved there or something or does it matter where it is? I don't even realind it does, like if people want to look because if y'all play music or talk about music, no, yeah, you got to change music. Second, all right, I'm gonna tell her. So what is it about? Let's see, um, current events, okay, sex, relationships, parenting, which I'll chime in a lot about. We have guests, um pretty much every episode. I know y'all tried to book
me but that eleven am. But we're going to change it so you'll be back on white women. Just think we could be available to twinty four hours. I don't care. Just believe your office. They come here like, I'm like, no, sorry, I can't make it. Actually, you have one of my favorite cover arts for a podcast. What is it like? Its gonna that? I know? I was like, I have to that was in my mind for so long. I'm like, we need a male blow up doll, and we need
to be molesting this blow up doll. Laura. She was like all right, Leah, like she's you know, not as extreme the mob. I feel like I've heard that name years ago. I've had the brand for a really long What is it it's this female street where brand I've had it for thought she was like mob wives or something, and say it again. I thought she was on like mob Wives, looked a lot of people like it, and then I read like, you've done a lot of featured articles,
like a lot of people. I've written on you. When I write, I write for Penthouse. Okay, yeah, okay, right now we're gonna talk about you. Basically, forget all that she has any importance of worrying. Hey, I know. The reason I wanted her to talk about certain topics today is because when you came on Flagrant, you seem to be going through current events. So it's like, hey, what do you what should we talk about with you? She's like, well,
I recently started getting anals, so there's this. Okay, well I know, But the thing is is I used to be like, not about anything near my asshole. I don't want to playing with it, not fingers and a half. Right, And I'm a thirty six year old moment, can you believe this? So don't look so ashamed at eighteen, I did. I started. That's when I even I was looking in Atlanta. What do you think? Of course, they all wanted to get in my ass. So, yeah, let's talk about the
new boy six thirty six and you just started. Does it have anything to do with his size? I want to ask that, No, he's got a good size, like average size dick. What's average? A lot of guys one of the American average five inches is definitely not five. It's like seven or like, I don't know, and it's definitely like thick too. I like, but I'm like a size queen. I can't say no small dicks. Like I once went out with the guy with a small dick.
My sister knew, and she was like when I broke up, and she's like, Leo, it's just you can't ever You're never going to be with a guy that's got a small dick. You just can't. You never feel finished. You're not little dick shaming. By the way, because they say that, I'm sorry, I mean a lot of women, I'm shocked. I asked so many in my anti dating game show. Women raise their hand that they liked met more than big dicks. They don't like pain, and see, I'm not
gonna like for me, I get pleasure from pain. Yeah, I wanted to hurt like a motherfucker. I want to. I like sometimes when it gets dry, just so I can feel I'm crazy, but yeah, I'm like yeah, but I also like to, like I wiped the dick off before I cleaned myself off. Yeah, I just like a challenge, just wipe it all off. And I'm like, okay, I'll say we differ there, it's too one for that. Just try.
I'm just saying a little. I don't like friction at all, Like that's one part like to me in my mind psychologically, I do like I get really wet for certain guys, like who really wouldn't turn me off. So as soon as I start drawing up or I feel friction, I'm like, oh yeah, bitch, I'm I ain't into you in real life. Like I know my pussy is telling me, like girl, they say what you want, yeah, not from you being dry.
But I'm just saying I've noticed when it gets too wet, I don't like I feel like I got a big gass pussy when it's all wet. I'm like, it's like sliding in and out. Ship. I'm like, sorry, I swear like I do kegels. You know that's valid. That's that's a little embarrassing and it's like really, well, but I'm not like I think. Also, I'm a side queen. So especially when I was bigger, I had an issue where I would be sucking a guy and I like, he's in my pussy. But it's like blah, but I've had
guys because I do get so wet. I had guys sucking the inside of my thigh. It's not realizing it was just my thoughts. I just want a guy with little dicks. That's happened, you know what. I think It's happened to me too, and I'm like, that's not my pussy, that's not like, this is embarrassing a little you have
like spread I not like the BBW thing. So to know that y'all have experienced this too, like I don't think a lot of guys realize how much does this happen to Like y'all be strike in between our thoughts with some pussy juices, not even knowing. This is why you can make anything feel like a pussy, your hand, your fucking mouth, anything you have you can utilize as
a fake pussy. You write it's just a crevice, just literally just hello the dick once right and I remember it was like buying my cheek and I just started sliding my hand like this my mouth and he came just like that. Okay, so how has anto been for you? So we kind of slightly had anal but not really but then she did but then she didn't, but the head went in. But then it's like I feel like I thought I got sucked in the ask, but I
don't think I did well. Every time I tried, I didn't get like fully like its whole dick didn't go inside the same. It was like half but it was stroking. Oh if it was stroking, it was stroking. It was stroking. It doesn't all have to go in, right. It was stroking half in because I can't do the hole yet. It's really like because you were like, I love it, now I do. I mean there's sometimes I can't even come unless he's playing with my ass. Now that's that's good,
But I have to be in a mood. It has to be that just happens out of nowhere, Like we didn't eat that heavy exactly exactly. I'm not into any type of anal. If I knew I had a crazy ship that morning because I drink coffee and certain coffees just don't don't sit right. And if I had kind of like a running ship that morning, I ain't have an anal because I feel like not, you don't know what all clean out yet. It ain't even been twenty four hours, so do you know before you're gonna be
asked it? No, it just happens, like I just want it hasn't been dirty. No, I've been so worried about that though. I'm like, I know there's on your diff right now, and I'm like, you're never gonna want to suck me again. He's like, Babe, there's no ship, Like what are you talking about? And if there is, it's all good like anything, but y'all are going to be like, what the fuck? I hope it's not related. I don't want to just wait until it happens. What she had
a skid mark? Look at that? I can't see it could be a birthmark, bro shuld I mean see, this is why I'm so scary and acts in general. I mean, it's very you gotta make sure you're totally clean. You think that was a skid mark? So this dude, for all of you that there's no video either today Okay. So this dude sends me a fucking sex stape and I said, what are you doing? And he sent me that back and I'm like an hour later, I reply and I'm like, Nika, did you look at what you
sent me? He's like l ol huh. Then he clicks on it and he's like, oh wow, that's crazy, and I'm like, so was that him? It's so funny. So I have a story and it actually started um where I tweeted and made it started a whole conversation on Twitter Instagram. So this dude sent me a video. So both of us are into our partners sending us videos of them sucking other people, and so he like this guy that I'm talking to six seven, the one I went to the sex club. Boy, he sent me a
video of him sucking a girl. And when I got the videos, they were old videos, just that and he sent it to me and as soon as I saw it, I was like, did you know she had a yeast infection? Oh my god? His whole dick was so creamy, but it was a thick cream and I thought that it would be no bro, I'm like a chunky, thick creaming. It was like it was like, and I'm like, I know you might have thought maybe the pussy was just extra wet, my guy, but I know that you know
your pussy like pussy juices. So we should talk about what cream is, right. We can't only cream while ovulating, Okay, so I use an ovulation calendar and if you actually I think it was the kink of the week. I remember the first episodode with Jesse. I met Jeeves and he was like, yo, like the first time he had sex. I feel like I came too early, but I want to explain why I'm really into, you know, creamy pussy. I even like search gruel. I'm like, what the fund
is that it's basically like a white thing. What's gruel? I don't know you're white, you don't know. I'm just I don't so cool. It's like another word for when a pussy is ovulating. So if you type it in on porn hub g r o O L, it comes up and it's like creamy pussy. Now, what about that slime something that's that's obulating fluid. However, there is there is a difference. So when you're pussy is wet, when you're turned on, when you're aroused. Our pussies get wet
all the time. Um, but particular slimy white, so that's obviously that's the thing. When it's slimy and white, you're good. When it cleamy like logret, that's not okay. And if it has like chunks in it like that, if it's thick, so even if you're ovulating, it's still going to be
kind of it's not gonna be chinking. Also, a period, so this is is called my p tracker, right, so this is an app I use, I mean using it for a year and a half now, so right, this gray shows when my period is, right, so basically tomorrow, let's see this. Okay, this green dot and this flower, this is when I'm ovulating. So I would screenshot at him me like, even though you're pregnant, this is this is when I'm ovulating, super stretchy, puzzy. I'll be like,
you can come inside me. Wait no, nook, So that's like my that those are my ovaries talking right now, because I do you know what, though your post is more wet because it's ready for a baby, right, it's when I'm ovulating. I'm better commnition. Now we have none of them problems over here. See, I'm really scared to get pregnant because I use the rhythm method. But I always want to funk when I'm obulating, by the way,
Like I'm taking a sex cation. I'm time soon right with this guy and this girl and fucking and what is a sex kid when you don't have sex? But I'm going on vacation. Yeah, well well well we'll confirm it. So we'll confirm it soon. Yeah, we're both going on this sex cation. Yeah, but they confirm it pay a bit shit, so we can't We can't say and you're going to Yeah, now we're not gonna fun. Hell no, I'm bringing the motherfucker I fucked. And actually, so I
have two options. I hit both of them up depending on who's available. So the one he allows me to fuck him with a strap on, so I really want to bring him. He's the one I took to the sex club. The other one's my second option. He just not playing right now. So in the league, yeah, he ain't playing. He can't get picked up this year. So I'm like, you want to go to Jamaica and we fucked a lot. Wait Jamaica too, When are you guys gonna go. Basically, a company reached out. They want us
to come to this sex thing in Jamaica. We'll talk about it once they confirm it. They get flights. But yeah, I haven't. I asked him, like, yo, and I bring another person's I have a guy flow and Beard Bay Right. So I was writing her because Mandy's going, we have to go the same time. Obviously it's a horrible decision thing. She's also going. I text both of them when is
your periods? Literally we're talking and she's like, okay, so let's figure out the weekends we want to go when your period beyond bitch, And I'm like, do you notice we have our parod we get the same good thing? Yeah, but not good because this bitch want to bring a girl. So now we got to go base off three people. So now we're cutting out two weekends out. My point is we're all ovulating when we get there. So if I haven't, you make a child. I just gotta know
they're gonna have seven brothers. Choice. That doesn't mean that you're gonna like necessarily we might we might need to go. I was gonna say, we still might need to ask them for the five hunting. Take care of that. Just in my bad. Bad these people are geting a free baca. Okay, bad, all right. So anyways, what we like to do as well, every week we like to have vanilla ship. We like to talk about some vanilla hole ash ship and apparently we found some vanilla as ship. Good to talk with you.
We've been people send us some vanilla shipped too, but this one I thought was fucking crazy, and I actually didn't pick it at first. I wanted to do the one you sent me, Leah, but this I really wanted your opinion on, since you know you'd be very problematic. So this was on BuzzFeed. Okay, this is the headline. She thought she was in bed with her boyfriend until she saw his face. This happened in Indiana. Oh I saw this. Okay, he's a rapist. Yeah, he was sleeping
her boyfriend's bed when she felt him. Officially, they've been going out for a few weeks, one of those college romances where someone in the friend group slowly becomes more than a friend through private, joke stolen moments. Um. Let's fast forward. So their dorm rooms were down the hall from each other. She went to a party. They were drinking at the party. She's nineteen years old, by the way. She wasn't in the mood, so she went upstairs fell
asleep in his bed. Her boyfriend popped up the ladder every now and then to snuggle in and check in on her. At one point, his friend Grant made a gross comment about hoping that she would get good sex from her boyfriend tonight. She thought he was being drunk and stupid. It was done, so it got late the night peered out. She fell asleep. Her boyfriend was next to her. Apparently her boyfriend reached up behind her, fondling her breast over her t shirt. She let him touch her.
They were quiet, his friends were asleep. She felt his hand slide under her pajama pants and she started touching her clip. She went along with it, still facing away. She grabbed his penis and put it in her vagina. They had sex maybe for a minute. She stopped and told She told him she had to use the bathroom. When she was done, she got back in bed and she saw it was the friend Grant. I remember him grinning, grinning at me. It was a freaking image. I was
so friendic. I didn't know what was going on. She ran downstairs, noticed her keys were missing, rushed to her dorm and her boyfriend was there. She asked how long he had been there. He said that he couldn't sleep because she was taking up space in a small twin bed,
so he left three hours ago. Dad now, so she was confused whether it was illegal, basically on state law saying what he did was not technically illegal, even though he admitted he knew she wasn't consenting because in Indiana, sex is only rape when it's compelled through force or threats, if the vintom is mentally disabled and can't consent, or the person is unwhere that the sex is occurring like that. But basically, she knew she was having sex, she just
didn't know it was him. And I think something someone said to me that I thought was very interesting. They told me someone they felt like your boyfriend was in on this there like maybe a couple of weeks. I wouldn't doubt that. They definitely maybe he was, Like that's what I was gonna say. I was gonna say that specifically because only because there are a lot of men, or there's a lot of things where women will create a relationship in their mind, and it's technically not my
stomach turn. I know it does. But now other women in the comments on BuzzFeed were saying, there's no way I wouldn't know my boyfriend's dick. Oh, shut the funk up when you're first off, when you're half sleep, when you've been drinking. Well she wasn't. Yeah, but depending on maybe they have the same dick size, bitch. So there's a lot of dicks that are comparable. I'm gonna be honest.
When I thought about it first, I was like I used to think about when I went to sleep with Collette and the guy that we were sucking, right, we were dating this guy together, me and this girl I used to date, and even though I couldn't, I could I would know when who touched me when I was sleeping. But I thought that too, like even just from my face, I don't know. I felt like new it's right. I was, but she was too. But here's the other thing. If they were only dating a few weeks and someone was
already touching your tips and maybe you wouldn't know. Like I agree, I'm not gonna lie. So when I had my threesome, Um, I was on edibles and literally during the threesome, I'm not gonna lie, I don't know which one was sucking me, but one was like almost making me squirt and yeah, and I literally didn't know which one. I was like, so out of it. Have you ever sucked either before though one of them, yes, the other one the other one no. Well that's a that's a
great point. I think it's I think it's very easy to not for her to not think that it's the boy. If you're behind me too, like you started, she got up, listen to the story. If she got up, she ran, she looked for her boyfriend. You know, she did all these things. And listen with this problematic things, I say,
I am so I am. I criticize this kind of stuff because rape, because I think rape and sexual assault is such a fucking disgusting serious gnarly asked, fucking matter that when people call things rape that aren't rape, it makes me fucking crazy. You because I remember the last time that rape was regarding the rape that never triangle with where things started the levels, and you were like, this is bullshit. Yeah, Now, why do you feel like some of the things towards the bottom are bullshit? Watch
things like sending people or things like that. Yeah, I know. Do you think there's Do you believe in rape culture? Do you think that's the thing. No, I don't believe it that we have a rape culture here. I believe that we have a culture that objectifies women. That is beyond it's through the media, it's through society, it's through culture. It's crazy. But we do not like we frown upon rape.
Rape is very weird do But I think that the reason that I always find myself disagreeing is because I don't think we have a culture to do bad things. But I do think that those things can encourage rape or rape. Things like you know, being too forward or snarky remarks. There are things that are unwarranted or unwanted. But I will say, just with what you're saying, I do get so you said that rape to everyone is by disgusting, it's violent, it's something that no one stands for.
We know what's a bad things, of course, but with the rape culture in that pyramid, we're putting a lot of more like um things like miscellaneous things. I would I would say things that aren't as like we wouldn't consider vile or dangerous or or stuff like that. And so when you include those into the idea of rape, it's just like then you start creating a really puritanical kind of society. You know, you start creating a puritanical society,
you start creating a really hyper sensitive society. You start creating an anti sex society. Don't you think that we should be a little more Okay, I know you're more, you're so sex positive. I'm surprised that you're not a little more cautious or that you're not a little more like um against all these things being in a rap bubble or triangle. Because I've had things happened to me
that I didn't want. I think that's why. And I've also when I read that disease story, I can't even friendly, like we not, let's not get into because you don't happen today. And I wished I said no, all right, And I remember being that age and like I had sex with a guy of nineteen ish, I had sex with a guy that I wish I did not, And I remember like I was giving him all of the cues, like I was closing my legs. I couldn't do. I don't know why I couldn't do it. I couldn't get
it out. But see, so to me so and I kind of said this, and I said this one. We talked about this and I don't want to get into it because I don't want to, but I still feel like with that. Unfortunately, we are in a society too where we do try to the woman is the victim and the man is always the you know, and so I can I didn't understand. Why didn't that be wrong too? But when that's why I think consent is important Because I'm not that person anymore, right, I would absolutely say no,
I'm more confident, I'm older, understand and myself. But I do remember from that. I remember for months on end being traumatized a little bit from me. He had no idea did you watch the vice consent thing? I want to wrap this up quick, but so we were on it or whatever. I need to see it. Yea, it was dope. Um. So at the end of it, they have this couple right where this girl wants to confront her rapists. It's been ten years, she's went through therapy,
all kinds of ship. He sat down right next to her and had no idea that he raped her like was like, I didn't know that I did that. Yeah, He's like, I thought we were drinking and sex. She was fucking traumatizing, know what. I believed him, And I only believe him because he showed up and he hear him crying and feeling guilty that she felt so much hurt. And I know that night that guy didn't think he
did that to me. So I think because of women's that women that get that feeling, like her and myself in that moment, we should have men more sensitive to the idea of But again, we're making it the man's responsibility. And it's something that I said even in that episode, we don't whole accountable what we as women need to do and as mothers instead of taking your teenage daughters and saying, don't give up your pussy, don't do this.
This is your sacred you know, pouch to keep it to yourself, it's you know, it's all of these things. We need to teach women to voice these and we need and even in a situation like you, But but even in a situation like you, like where now you're with someone may be of power or of success and now you you want to do it, But you don't want to do it. Those conversations were never had with you or me, likely even my mom. I feel like
told me enough. I think. I think in that moment, I genuinely wasn't confident enough to say no, or I didn't. I just kind of thought he would stop when he saw my face. It's not that I don't listen. It's not that I don't think men should be more sensitive to women's needs. But that's like I also think that like World Hunger should end like facts, you know what I mean, Like humans are humans. They're flawed. We have to.
It's just all we have is ourselves, that's it. And we can not checking in though, and at least verbal cues like we can't say if my legs were closed and Leah and how does a guy? But every though, because then at the same time, the very same episode you said you do it as a sometimes we do it like that, but it gets because we do. But but I think that as well, we do like that as the story. That's because I'm like his whole career got And look, I'm not even a fan, did I'm
not a fan. I actually just watched Master of None for the first time, Like two days ago. I don't care. It's one of my favorite shows. So I'm really speaking from a very objective standpoint because I don't have any skin in the games. I don't care about him same and you know whatever. But like that whole story was like such an obvious like that was like revenge, Like
she was getting straight up revenge. She didn't like I want to so much of the sex I've had, I read she wanted a different attach, the way we want to be. She she didn't want to be treated like she was treated like a hoe, and she didn't like that. I'll gave you I don't. I don't know about her
wanting to be more. I think that she maybe felt and to his point, bitches have been doing this and the only thing I'm gonna I don't know how much of the story so I heard um Kareem Hunt, the football player who just pretty much lost his job for kicking the woman. The story that I heard was that it was him and a bunch of friends, and basically the girl got upset because he's like, yo, I want you to suck my friends. So she went in there and got treated like a ho and then it turned
into a crazy thing. They went to kick him out. She and my boyfriend were fighting over this because because I was that she didn't want to be treated like I don't know, because he's very much like he only
pushed her. He pushed her. It sucked up. But his friend was like, the kick was like not really like a hard kick and could have hit everybody, could have killed he could have knocked everyone out, and he played and I was like, the hitting is unacceptable, but it goes back to the point where I lose his whole him first, So it goes into the violence of a
woman hitting a guy first. But that's what I'm saying, women being accountable for our actions and not like just making it like she went to slap him first, right, slap him first. We had that conversation if you guys want to listen. We talked about domestic violence thing though, and women to say the men try to wrap it just like with police, they should be able to pacify someone more than they should reach for something harder. Men should be able to especially at that size pass by control.
His words were trying to like if he wanted to, you know, hrder, he really could, Yeah, of course, but like obviously just watching a video like that is so just I got to look at it. No, ship, let's get into the kink of the week and then we don't have to have a quick as motherfucking horrible well we will, we will kick in a week. I found because I was looking at porn and it came up, how do you find this important? You watch white people porn? I'm convinced. So I was watching there was an episode
like watching paint Dicks with black pussies. I love watching inter racial stuff. It's all I can watch. And black actually black guys with white girls too, but I'd rather watch the white guys with black girls. And first of all, the black women way better. Yeah, black girls who seem like they see just like I like watching them. I don't I have a black as podcast. I can't. I don't really watch many black women in porn only because I feel like they don't keep themselves up the same.
Their production via you is much less, Their weaves are trash, their makeup they put like green eyes watching and so on porn Hub. Unless you can find some free as, you don't read pay with black women like no caprix styles. I don't see you no more. Cherke only matter pinky. It seems to like to get these girls that are like all the girls like this, like off the like that's the only reason I have a hard time watching
that point. There's this one like Tampa Boukocky, because y'all know I love Boukacki and they always get these like on the street, like I love cream Pie gang bangs. Really, I like, dude, this is how I got here. Sex in the City as an episode where she jerked the guy off and like just from that tantric massage remember that. Remember I've been trying to learn how to do it, so in looking up tantric massage. By the way, if you do tantric massage, please come on the show and
write us to come on. Uh, tantric sex anything. I found. Erotic hypnosis here's what it is. Practice of reducing inhibitions and increasing arousal is a notable goal for hypnosis. The placement of trigger words in the subject's mind as a post hypnotic suggestion to produce actions and experiences on demand. As a common practice, it basically improves sexual health. Um techniques to overcome apprehension about flatio, increased sensuality, and improve libido.
Another common form of it is hypnotic fantasy where the subject is taking in a trance through a sexual experience. Okay, but listen to people that I identify with a submissive side that can't as their personal self. So basically they'll take over your like you as someone else. Like let's say, for you, you said you don't really like being submissive. If you went through the hypnosis and thought you were someone else, you can let your inhibitions go. So basically
they hypnotize you. I gotta go somewhere and get hypnotized with my niggag hypnotize me, like you about to hypnotize somebody I was pouring, bro. I don't know what happened in the porn. What had to be scripted, bitch. Okay, so I don't know the scripted or not, but I saw some different ones. So basically, they sit there, they do the ding of the bell like they wait, they do the little swinging there and they're touching you slow, and they like start talking you through it and telling
you that you're someone else. And actually I can't wait. Hopefully they come King Noir and and Jasmine actually do things like this with couples. Good. Yeah, so we'll have
to bring them on. Come okay, hypnotize before I went to a show years ago in Orlando where this dude hypnotize me, and I remember in that moment he just really got me to like get I'm very vulnerable to anything though, alcohol, drugs, whatever, So he got me really just relaxed and he was like touching me certain places I'd make a noise, so he said, I was like
a perfect candidate for hypnosis. So like, if you can do that and just relax and like turn into another person in role play, it's like, really, I don't tara card reading palm reading, so I guarantee you which I don't want the devil touching me. It don't matter. We talked in the episode, I gotta do with some chakras and ship and ain't nobody got time fall. Devil Dick
is the best dick. I got double dick. His name is the devil in my phone and got a he got a big Old Knights did one of the things I'm trying to bring to the sex pation right now. The Horrible Decision for the Week is NSFW. This is inspired by a White listener. He bought tickets to Chicago. He said, he's gonna be three out of twenty six white listeners that go to the show. He wrote me a d M. I think his name is Ryan, I don't know, and he said, can definitely a white name.
How Ryan, don't really I sucked Ryan to a white guy, have you? Ryan? Um? No, I actually call white guys the brads and chads and I'm not interested chat, you know what I'm not. So brads and chads are a very specific kind of definitely uniform. If you look on Instagram, there's instagram called Midtown Uniform and it's that best with the khaki pants and it's like all the frat boys and midtelling. Yeah, I've seen that and like the man, you gotta have that. You don't know, the Midtown uniform. Bro.
The white people that were this like broy looking out, yeah, and they were like those hats look at they look like they're all from Boston or like New Hampshire. Basically, oh, like the Colombia best exactly. So this, yeah, I don't know if Ryan looks like that. But basically he was like, can y'all talk about this tumbler band? Um, all my gays are in fucking they dronk off this Tumbler like this is awful, So basically becauys that know what happened.
Tumbler is removing its nsf W content. A lot of sex workers and a lot of sex performers are like super Piste because they love to share their pages ridiculous, not even Tumbler, I mean ship we these thirst straps. So now, bitch, where are you going to go to be where you like immediately? Bit five minutes. I just like people, just five people. I just saw that Rose McGowan's like partner or like whatever, like I don't know if they were, well it's a heat by the way,
her name, it's like a non binary piper pipe. The person she's mwen. She was. She was charmed. I was like chimed out, so rained of that's the day's name, and they were they decided to go on Instagram and she they have double D boobs and so they were like not wearing a bra or shirt and was like playing basketball their boobs flying everywhere, and they were like Instagram, this is not sexual and I'm not a woman, so these are not actually breast with female breasts. So if
you take this down, your transphobic. And they fucking kept it up. I don't know for how long. I don't know it's still up there, but that is some ship and I'm gonna start doing that, start just putting my tips up there, being like this isn't female nipple. Well I do. That's part In New York, it's actually legal for women to be talking about that's party. If that should cost money is here's a few thoughts. I'm actually just gonna kind of walk through this outline a little
bit and you guys jump in when you want. Here's the things I want to talk about. So Tumbler did this band right? I want to talk about why are people so offended by breasts? Extreme from feminists say that breasts are just for babies and it's disgusting when people sexualize it. Fox says that like evangelical, like what No, A lot of people actually they would be the opposite because they feel like you shouldn't show your breast. But a lot of feminists say that my breast shouldn't be offensive.
Oh they shouldn't be. I'm sorry. I thought even like yeah, they're they're just like these are for babies, Like why does that? Why is everyone? So I also want to talk about places it's legal to be topless, and these places have been tested Asheville, North Carolina, Austin, Texas, Boulder, Colorado, Columbus, Ohio, Eugene, Oregon, Honolulu, Magranolas.
This is like some mad so that means somebody walked out there, like in front of it, some crazy like white liberals, New York and Oregon, Santa Fe, South Beach, and DC beaches. In qus, there are now I mean, these states have laws against not being able to get arrested. I got this from go topless dot org. Okay um, and yeah, I mean I do want to talk about the NFFW shild. Obviously tumber was out there, but about titties, people are super offended. Like I haven't warn a braw
in a while. You know, I wear sports bras just because it hurts when they bound, but I don't really wear flower bras to work. But the female breasts that makes it so weird. Do you think that nipples should be up on Instagram? Do you feel like it is so? I'm not gonna lie with the new fashion right now, and Rihanna was I would say the trend setter in it. I'm not a fan personally of the nude mesh t
shirts with just no brawl on. To me, it is a little to me um, like if you're just out or say I'm out at dinner and I see a girl and her whole last titties are out, Like to me, yeah, I'm not for it. In certain spaces, however, I would enjoy going to a nude you know, resort. I've gone to nude beaches, I go on. I feel like there's
a time and a place for it. I also feel like, to me, breasts like feet, women's breast, women's bodies in general, like the reason why we're sexualized, Like that's such a like historical and like long fucking conversation, and like the reasons why. I go so deep that it's like yeah, I mean they do, you know, And it's like we're our bodies are a commodity like men. I mean there are men prostitutes, but not really like women. We can
sell sex, we can all. We'll always have our pussies to sell, will always have our cities to sell, like you always have at this point if you really want to get into it. We'll always have our mouths, but will always have our feet to sell. Always. Yes, we'll always also have there's hand models where people fetish size hands, like I don't know, we can get into elbows and we had someone on here blood Zilla said he likes arm bits. Like all parts of the only states banned
toplessness it's Utah, Indiana and Tennessee. And who then lives there, Like I was thinking about this actually on the way here, I mean live in Tennessee. You know places like Spain and France, and you know these these places are like just so like my years ahead of us in terms of dealing with sexuality. That was my first experience, like really letting go. Went to the beach in Barcelona and I it was a nude beach and I had my
clothes on, and I felt stupid. I can't believe how like exhilarating it felt to just take my top off and feel good about it. I fell asleep and I was like, oh, probably people probably took pictures of me. But now it's really the u s. It's crazy because we are so ahead, but we're not like also we're not sexually about dealing with like young guys. I'd be like, if we go out the country, he could drink because it's like eighteen and sixteen for legal drinking ages anywhere else,
it's fine. We'll just go to another country together, like that's fine. And it is our culture. I mean we it's just our culture here, you know. And it's different out there. The way they the way they that they teach sex, the way that they like deal with sex, nudity, everything, it's just completely different. I will say, if they do to Twitter what they just did to Tumbler, then I don't know where the funk else to go. But I'm
not gonna lie. I'll be on the train some mornings going just on my timeline wanting to read the updates and a whole dick. And I don't worry because I'm like my kid too, So I'm like looking and then I'm like, oh my god, there's sixteen. How do you have she's not sixteen? She looks like a grown I love it. Actually she's a middle school I'm sorry. She looks past tween. Let me see, she looks the leven You definitely fourteen, a freshman in person. She looks your
video she was so grown. Do you have the conversations with her or do you hide? Are you able to hide? Tumbler Twitter like now knowing that you could just see those things that I'm like, so I no, no. I told her, like, if you ever see like on the computer, have you ever seen on the internet, have you ever come across like pictures or videos of people having sex out of it? I told her, it's like it's not real, it's acting, you know, because I don't want her to
think that that's like real, like sax, you know. I went to a porn panel with Eric Cindy Galla told me that that's what I should say. She's so she's this like she's a genius. She has a ted talk that you should watch, but it's called make Love Porn. But so some of her stuff look yeah, but it's not like she's not anti porn. She's not that. She's just like not she's about sex education and real sex and like also showing people how to actually like how real sex. Probably I went to a porn panel where
this woman Erkalla has shot up to her. She basically was like, um, she's known as a feminist porn maker, where basically the main thing with doing that is making sure you see women come and you see the man's face, right,
so you see real sex. And she said I always felt like in schools they should show to people and kind of how it happens, whether they don't, they make it a huge scene just showing how it happens instead of showing these pictures so people can understand that it can come from love and it's not just bang bang bang, because when they start to search it on their own,
they find porn. And boys are very out of touch with how they have sex with women, and that's why girls are having these experiences because men think are supposed to funk like this. You know, I'm so open, like and I'm totally like comfortable like with sex and everything. But it's still there's something about talking about it with your kid that is is it weird? Yes, school, the school pretty much having the conversation and not you have. I don't know if I've had the conversation with her.
I still do, but it's not like you have. When she was like six years old and she was like, how did the baby get in there? And I was like, do you really want to know? And she was like yeah. I was like, well yeah, I told her. And then she was like, I'm telling dad that you said that, and I was like, go ahead. But it's how it happened. So whatever. What was his response, like that you had that conversation. He was just like yo, she told like all her friends and like all the parents, are you
call it her penis and her vagina? Yes? Okay, oh yeah, I know some of the parents, some of my friends called, have their kids calling there's a problem with that, like to sit here and call it like your coin purse or any other type of names like who who and ship. I'm like, what made me call it my private? And I was like what? And then my mommy so private. We would be in the car and my mom would touch my leg and make me slap her hand if like men did that to me, like she would like
always teach me that. Wow, that's amazing. It was I was young, young, young. I think it's a nasty uncle. She wanted to make sure that I really believe that, because every time I'd be alone with him, they'd be like, where is she? Oh my god, I'm scared, where is she? Where? Where's a little wheezy? Like my daughter is very aware of men looking at me on the street, and she's very aware of all of that. And I told her soon they're going to be looking at you, you know,
like it's going to happen soon. You're developing, you know, like, so that sucks. I worried I'm gonna like murder somebody. I really am. And her dad took her to the mall not long ago when he was walking like thirty behind her. She was with a friend, yeah, and he saw guys looking at them. Adult one adult man was looking at her friend, who's a or older. So she's like extra, you know, she's more developed than my daughter. But yeah, it's starting. It's like crazy. And the other
day she found my vibrator that was really Yeah. Talked about was a single mom um, so I grew up in a single parent household. And one of the things that she talked to us a lot was how dating was hard because as we were getting older and mine there's there's three of us, so as we were getting older, she literally was like, I feel like I can't date certain men and bringing certain men into the house scare me because you guys, now, even if you're covered, now
you have hips and thighs and ass and titties. And I don't want my boyfriends to look at you ladies. But y'all are women like y'all are y'all are crawing? I do want to go ahead and and I think our homel is quite hilarious today. So I want to go ahead and get your feedback on this, because I'm sure you have some in your bag too. Um. So it says, hey, my loves. Of course, I have to be like everyone else to say I love the podcast and love you ladies and everything you're about. Okay, So
I'm twenty six. I've been married since June, but with my hobby since we were seniors in high school two thousand eleven. Jesus Christ, that's a long time. We have a great marriage, and due to me being bisexual, we have allowed other women to join us in the bedroom. Hey, recently I started joking about really wanting to funk my favorite singer who may or may not be out of my league, girl Jack Quiz. We're gonna go ahead and put his name out. You're gonna speaking into the universe.
Did you hear about girl? The lm A remake the nigg who remains anything Black people will follow you and you do the same. You need to be tipping no, no, no, And he just still and as I sound, okay, anyways, seeing this guy. He is all of five foot six. This bro, that's my favorite song, jack Quis trip again anyway. Anyways, he's blue check mark. Oh, he looks like he's from like or something. He said. I figured he's famous, but not too full of himself yet. Oh he has a
great smile. It doesn't make makeup for five six. Um, sorry for hight shaving, all right, let me fin it. Just says I figured he's famous but not too full of himself yet. I just want to suck him and go back to my life, not ask him to marry me or try to have his baby or anything. My husband said that would be the only nigga I could fuck, because he like a lesbian. He said. My husband is greedy and doesn't want to have an MMF threesome or group sex where another man could touch me. Basically, he
figures it will never happen. So he said, yes, but ship now I'm determined. So here's my question. How do I make it known to jac Quis that I'm trying to be a one night stand without being put on blast or rejected. He's supposed to go on tour next year, and if he comes back to my City St. Louis. I'm tell of y'all. All I need is ten minutes with him. Did you have any questions? Let me know.
Love Wheezy and Mandy and hope to see you guys and say Louis some day signed Hella thirsty for Jacquis bro Net girl planning in St. Louis And you actually no, ma'am. The Rams got moved to l A. There's no more football team. I don't believe. Yeah. I don't know why you thought you would know sports. I don't either. I was one. There was a high in high school and data that went to the RAM. So that's how do yeah, say, Louis Rams they moved there. Now the Chicago RAM or
not chic to slide into his DM. Okay a nude photo, Yeah that's okay. Girls are had it there. Pause. I wasn't gonna say nude. I was. When she said a photo, I heard no, she said nude first, So send the pussy spread over you really just she's married, right, so you're getting what it's called a hall pass. You guys have that one person that each can fuck and it's allowed. I would jack queezes your one em and m would be mine whould be your if you were in a relationship,
who would you want to haul pass for? Jason Momo? Oh yes, Jason Momo was fine man and Carl did I go, He's fine? Yeah, I think, And I just I don't know, I'm really interested in and I know he's here but he's married. But methyd Man, I just feel like he would like, Yeah, I do have like something about methyd Man. I feel like, oh my god, I feel like what meThe Manic looks like my god,
his mouth, his teeth are so good, so good. I love me some Methemic old something you know, I don't even liked because I just feel like he could show me something I love. Old man. Yeah, I just thought the guy that's my age recently and I was like it was good. But you know, he's a fucking women old like old man, you're like elders. She won a wheelchair, not even almost dying, so she's saying new photo. The reason that I'm kind of like sending a risk a photo is a good idea is because she has a
man and she just wants to fun. Whereas like, all right, how about sexy lingerie like Guarden. I think she's just like at least like a cute ash shot something in the mirror. I love that y'all are going this route. I'm gonna take it somewhere completely different when it's worked for friends of mine, specifically maybe regular girls who don't have a ton of followers. So since this is what
you do, you find out who's in his camp. You somehow befriend the people in his camp, so then when he comes to the show, you get free tickets, you get backstage, and you're able to just see him in his seat. Niggas is asking Alex for pictures of my feet. That's why. No, you go to the people in the camp and you befriends someone in the camp because this way, when he does come to St. Louis, I'm sure there's gonna be a lot of girls, but this way you're
able to get in his vicinity. So you're gonna get tickets to the show, possibly backstage, and the homies might be trying to funk with you, but you they ain't gotta know. You got out to hear your motive bit you're trying to go for the goal. With some stories like when you're singing in the car and ship especially music. Make sure your page is public mentioned him in stories. That's actually how I got one dude that I'm fucked from attack. I was like, oh, ship, wait, what tell me?
I don't want to be too obviously already doing mad obvious ship yo. But it was months months months months ago, or just like a random guy, but you just kept like famous guy. It was months ago and I mentioned him in the story and he was like, laughing my ass off, you wild And then months later he did it again and I was like, yeah, it works. You just gotta make sure you're really cute. You know you do so, make sure you have your first couple pictures
are really bomb when you do it right. I will say a lot of men aren't even turned off if you don't have a K behind your number anymore. They like the little low key bitches. So my god, I made a choke about a dude saying like, oh, like whatever you hit me with the lines you a blue check as he's like, I say the same thing with bitches with a K a k oh. They love when I said, like, so, I have a wide variety of friends, and the ones with the low count niggas be really
interested in like oh, don't nobody know her? So like so like, even if you don't have a lot of followers, don't beat the turt like, but you could still get it. I like men that just don't have Instagram or why don't you like when he is coming to your city, right be like, yo, I see you're coming to St. Louis. I bought a ticket just to let you know. I have a whole husband. I've been telling him about how bad I want to fuck you, like or you could
do the other rout. Sometimes it works. It's a little cheesy. But the girl from Howard who just hit up Michael B. Jordan's and was like, I want to get you a smoothie and he responded and they had like a SMOOTHI dayzing bro wasn't the shocker. You know, since I've tked about Michael be joining on this podcast, I have seen him three fucking times. I guess you didn't look like did you have those? It's okay, it's his club bit he's a part owner in it. Okay, Well, I don't
like y'all last lab go check him out. But it's fine. If you go, he'll probably wave at you. But her were these braids because you don't like you don't like black girls. Really, it's always one word here. She goes like, i'ven showing your podcast. You can look a little cultured and some picture right wait, I got arching in my eyebrows. Be she bought a reka. So seriously, look, you don't want to look Latina. Don't feel No, I'm not, I'm I'm it's a consult. Yeah, seriously, you could be a
little mixed. I ain't gonna li so real quick, paulse I had I had a diversity and inclusive way. I had a diversity and inclusive event. So it's all the black and Latina first year highers of my company and we just had it. And I'm not gonna lie. Me and the other black people were looking at some of the latinos like so they just let white people come in here. But I guess I'm all the mother tags like you better say Alvarez, bitch. I better not seeing a white person name and a lot of people of
color spaces. And let me say this, one white girl wrote me, and I was so. I did this event called Sage and Sex with a miliorities, so I put black and brown girls and men ladies and men on bran are people finally have an event for us. This white girl wrote me and was like, hey, I want to buy a ticket, but I also don't want to violate, like if this is a safe space for just them and I won't come. And I was like, wow, of course,
nice of her. I'm not gonna lie. I'm I'm a part of the National Association of Black Accountants, and blacks were very welcoming. I'll be mad as fun when Asians and white spearing on mother fucking events like y'all better go to the people. I've come, but they're not black.
It's National Association of Black Accountants. Bit they got the organizations, but by coming and taking it, like I'll admit that, I've definitely been like damn no, Like I've definitely caught some like feelings like what I'm white, I get left out now, Like I felt like that I'm not gonna lie like I'm lying, yeah, yes, yes, I mean I have experienced that, like the white tears. It's real. How does it make you feel? You know? I'm just like, can I tell you before we part? I will say
this was great, this was great? All right, we got for a minute. I'm make this really quick. I am, well, I'm glad she didn't say you're leaving me out. But also I'm like, it wasn't black and brown exclusive. It was just that space for them to talk about, you know, sex and motions. And so I had an event. Um it was also talk New York and a friend of mine who's white, she's a woman. Then she wrote me and she said, oh, I have an idea for your show. Text me. I'm like, girl, you hang up with me
all the time, Like you know about my show. You know it's in two hours. Why aren't you here? You funk with me? Right, I've had three shows in New York and you've never made an effort to come to any of them. Are we friends or not? She wrote me. She wrote me back and she said this, did I have to lead her number? How good a friends were you with her? Good enough to where we hang out about two or three times a month ago out. You're not that inviting to white people. I know you, So
I don't take that offense. You're not mean to stay in office. But it's a little jaden and it comes off with some of your followers. They can be mean. It's noticed that, but I mean, I'm not your demographic. I said, I don't mean the fuck you know, I funk white man, and they come bitch or my friends. Yeah,
that's if you're of someone's friends. And she said, you make jokes like my friends Sarah Palin, And that's fine, But say we're at your show and you say that to me, and people are crazy, and it puts me in a poor position. I don't know, maybe I'm overthinking it. First of all, she was scared to go with her. Don't get me wrong, I love you, know what I'm saying, But like, after a few hours, I'm ready to go, right.
I go to these bars with you, with these midtown uniform dudes, and even though I dave white men like I'm talking about far down the European, they got to be like not do so that we go. I just like these places for the drinks in the vibe. I go to places that make me uncomfortable all of the time with her. That is never my space. So you can't for one second come to my black ass show, which you know is my demo. My people, you know what I'm saying, And I only have this space for
them because everything else is for you. And it blew my mind that she wrote me that, and I haven't spoken her like I've been curving her. I've really he had a hard time. Yeah, no, no, no, I'm I'm talking out like you have. But but to me, that also shows that she's not really accepting of you who you are. Why you're so prideful to be black? Why you why you vouch for why? Why? Why? Why you cater to the audience you do? Why you say this ship you do? Like do? We don't have a lot
of things. This Dub has a friend who voter for Trump, but she cut off and now she's friends with her again. And I talked to Dub about it. I'm like, what would you do? And she's like, I'm not gonna lie. She lives doub List in Denver's one of my black friends. Right, how did that one go in there next weekend? Uh? She's like, bro, Like I had to talk to her. I had to tell my friend why I'm upset. Not every friend is going to be there with me, And I feel like I can't because I have so many
white friends that get it. Why do I have to teach you? But at the same time, it did bother me so she meant enough to where it bothered me. It's just crazy to me that someone would think like I don't see like horrible decisions like alive. She's like, I don't see that as just for black people. Say anybody we have such think we also have I do also want to say we've done We've done three live shows. Now we're about to go on a tour. Not one live show, mind you. One of them we had an
open bar. The other we did have a bar available, not one live show. Have we even had security? Also? Why really great, respectable, well worked like higher to upper middle class, like all with corporate jobs, very well respected black listeners black Latino. Let me let me add everyone
in there and we actually do as she feel. But did she feel like she wasn't wanted there or did she feel like unsafe because she thinks black people hate her like I think she's saying those are too differ Sarah Palin friend, I realized that, to be fair, why did you call her that? Like Sarah, She's like in a quest and like I'm going to Saratoga for the weekend to ride my horse, and she could Could I
ask you a question? Would you have a would you be offended if she called you her black friend, because essentially, if you take it to that, look, I know you're saying it, don't say my white friend, but Sarah Palin. Yeah, but even even still, like if she called you, say, a black celebrity because you're black. To be fair, Sarah Palin loves the guns and like all that ship like that's why I call her sarap. But to her, to her, she could be looking at it that way. She told
you that she didn't like that. She could have been like, yo, stop calling me that. He said, you called me her you're Sarah pa never heard it before. She may not like that, so saying she should have said that, she never did so that honestly meant it from the gun thing, you know what I'm saying. If she would have called me, I'm trying to think of a beautiful black Beyonce Sara Palin. Ever, I don't know. I mean, okay, who's a ratchet like
she called you? If she goes and introduces you to her friends as an Jemima bro, oh my god, you have to talk out on text message about this because he's like, and that's the thing. It's like, is it worth it enough to talk about because now that you're saying it, I didn't realize that could have been hurtful. Angel Marma, I could be your new white friends and you couldn't like you could guys. My friend Rosa parks like, oh, that's what I'm saying. She called me Angela. See does
some say Sarah Palin is not a compliment? Si? Yeah, you're not like, hey, I'm with my Like it's not Mi Gwen Stefani over here. I'd be like, yeah, I don't know how the backgirl, I love being outdoors with guns and I would make I would bumble rope out. She's like got she got no. I mean, first of all, people can call me anything, and I'm not like I think a lot of sensitive people. And if she's bringing up the race issue with you, look some type of way of how you view her as a white woman,
being that we always talk about our three white listeners. Also, I really do friend but my white friends does because I'm nobody. I mean, I guess sometimes someone being so pro black and be intimidating because you're like that, does does that mean that they're anti white? So it takes
a minute. It's like some people are anti corn, you know, and then we're having these conversations about gun violence, about you know, the things that are happening within our black community, the appropriation and these white girls now trying to be black. Like there's a lot of yeah, the black fish, and so there's just a lot of conversation black fish. I just saw this. What the hell see when you be having him eyebrows done? No, I'm just a podcast, okay, um,
improper etiquette. We're on iTunes and everything else. She says some problematic ships. So if y'all like problematic view, you don't want the female Andrew, Yeah, listen to hip. It's true. Listen, that's that's a compliment to me. I don't. Yeah, I love him. I think he's great, and you don't want to take him every fucking conversation and push it over the edge that I'm not lied though. This was really refreshing.
I think I'm very in the middle about everything I'm trying to I'm nervous as fun because I've been talking about sympathizing and empathizing with and you are here calling people Sarah Palin this ship. Why are you worried about that? Well, because I mean, for the first time. Everyone I said, there's growth. How I've been learning to accept people for who they are. I think at one point for a while, probably the last year, I was like, funk everybody that vote for Trump? Yeah, well, I mean a lot of
people feel that way. Yeah, But now I'm realizing, like once my black friend did it, I was punk. So were And where can our listeners follow you? Um? You can follow me on Instagram at Liam mob and on Twitter at Liam McSweeney. Hey, well, I of course you're amazing. Everyone follow her. I also want to see here and say shout out to everyone in the d m V area. DC sold out first week, no problem. Um, we will
be releasing some extra tickets. We don't know when. I don't even know when this episode, Like, there's gonna be like ten tickets, and manly decided because I know some people didn't get to hear you, so we're going to release them on a certain day and time. We haven't been it out yet. Keep following our social media's um, so go ahead and follow at horrible underscored decision promoters. Because the show is gonna sell out. It it's only like ten tickets left, so talk to them we'll try
to meet you all in New York. The next one in New York. I'm coming Yeah, And we also have a show guys, if you haven't yet, we're already halfway sold out, so go ahead and get your tickets for Chicago on March and be tuned in. We will be dropping dates for Toronto, al Ai, New York, and possibly Orlando, so we are looking to come to Florida. Um this has been yet though, another episode of horrible decisions by