Hey, guys, welcome to Yeah, another motherfucking episode of horrible Decisions. Did your girl Mandy b a k A full Core Pumps a k A dad Bitch a k A the Booty Bandit? Apparently I'm the fucking booty Warrior. Y'all motherfucker's want to give me all the goddamn booty titles in the world. Um, but I am joined today with a very special co host. Um. As you guys know, it's now getting holiday season. UM, me and Wheezy are traveling a lot. We have a lot going on with work.
So because of scheduled conflict, you only got me today. But it's not really only me because I brought a special co host who was previously on our show. Kid alrighty, Hi, this is Kiki once again. UM. As you know, I have a podcast, It's Kinks with Kiki, where I discuss, you know, freak shit every week. Alright, freaks every week every week. Freak ship every week is actually a good thing to live by, Yes it is. It should be a mother completely um and so I'm excited to have
her on this episode today, our lovely guest. I'm gonna let her eat these main goes real quick before I put all but our episode this week is super exciting for any of you listening, UM, specifically to the ladies, but also to the men. We want to talk to you. This is a sub versus dome episode, So you guys. When K was on the show, she was a super submissive UM. She shared a ton of um interesting stories. She had to ask UM if she could turn the
light on when she entered. There was toilet drinking, there was looking, there was fine bottles and assholes. There was there was a lot of things going on. And I'm super excited because I've been trying to get our guests on this show for a very long time. Um. She goes by the name of God is Unk, but she is a beautiful black woman who is a true dumb in every of the matter. So we're gonna go ahead. Do you want to introduce yourself while you're looking sexy
as hell? But the man goes eave y'all know to pust the smell goody good, introduce yourself. Mistress Unknown a k a on Instagram because you know they banned me, So now I'm God is you and K's got his own, So Mistress Unknown, and what are you you really you known for it? Though you're not unknown? What are you known? Um for doing it? Showcasing on your Instagram everything. That's why I keep getting banned, trying to find a home. I'm trying to find a social media home where i
can put my stuff on because I'm an exhibitionist. I love it. So I liked a show. I like to like all eyes on me. And the reason why, um, you know, unknown, is because I just wanted to protect my At first, I'm going to protect my identity. I didn't want my family and vanilla friends to know what I was doing, so, you know, tucked away your alter ego. Essentially, you know, essentially I was living. I was living two lives until I was Instagram. No yes, Instagram exposed me.
It exposed me to my aunt who's a pastor, and I didn't want her to know. And when she came to me and she told me, she was like, I don't want you to be Mistress Unknown. I've seen your website, I've seen your Instagram. She's like, I've seen everything. If God wanted you to have a penis, he would have gave it to you. So you ain't know where this is going. So with with both of you sitting across from me. The icebreaker for this episode, I want to do UM kind of a again, a sub versus dum
with terminology um. And you actually just said one again for the new listeners that may not know what is vanilla? You called and you're not talking about the white people, So what is what is vanilla? When you when you referenced someone as vanilla, Well, vanilla is basically anyone outside of king just like people in the military they say civilians,
is anyone that's not within the community, you know, police. Obviously, I was like, you know, so that's vanilla, and you know vanilla is you know that playing playing ice cream? So yeah, so I'm like, you know, you're y'all a normal people, y'all, y'all, y'all be about his life. That's what she's definitely not about this. Another term um switch.
If someone references themselves as a switch, a switch is a person who may be in a particular role as a dom or a sub, but sometimes every now and then they'll like to switch over to the opposite role. So a doub will a dom will become a sub and a sub will become a dom, which I think that's me and realized for me. So I love playing the dom role, which is why I've I got my dick in my cloth that um and so I have played where you know, I've been dominant to a man.
But I also do from time to time like a man to choke me and like to feel at their wills sometimes exactly let me interrupt you as I'm eating my main goes, Okay, when we get started, I do smack. So if you're a person who was you know hard with you know, hearing people smacking this episode, you're gonna
deal with that doesn't deal with it, okay. And secondly, is a lot of times women feel that if they want to get smacked or like you know, choked there and sex and they're submissive, it could be you just like of sex. That's how I came into this, that would be ready because I'm somewhat of um. I just felt like, you know, actually, this past month I kind of came to the realization that I am a sado massacust. Okay, Okay, a sado massacust is someone who is a sadist and
also a massacust. But I'm writing yes, like like some people say this, like to inflict pain and okay pain and so like that can be. And I realized that I have like a sado massachism side, but only with sex period, absolutely outside of it. If you're like, oh, let me spain, let me do this, nah, but if we haven't said like, I want to like like, I'm
very primal, primal, physical, animalistic. So when I'm having sex, I want you to like, I want like we're ravishing each other like that's my know, that's how I am. So I'm thinking just because I want to be choked out in sects that I'm submissive, But that's not really submissive, says But it's not even about being a say this, um you know mass metal, just that you know, just what I kind of came to. The real relation doesn't
make sense. At the end of the day, this is all a journey for each and every one of us. I'm on a journey going through this year. On your journey, I am still Look. I remember when you was like, yeah, on my bucket list, I want to get money, money, and now that's that's there. It's just all there there and here to stay. I'm trying to you know, I'm trying to get more people to get out here and pay UM. So I'm gonna go ahead and do one more before we get into our vanilla ships. This is
something that I believe. Actually, Oh, here's one negotiation. Do you all know what that means? The most important thing about So that's what I want to discuss because our last guests, UM or one of our last guests, UM was he came on. He was the fake sugar daddy, y'all, and we realized that he wasn't a sugar daddy. But one of the things that he mentioned, UM, is that if you walked in on him having sex, you would probably assume it's a rape. This is what he said
in the episode, UM. And then we were like WHOA, Like you do you let them know it's gonna be this rough before then? And he was like no, UM, do you guys want to kind of talk about what negotiation is in this BDS some sense? That's what I'm thinking, Like, like a negotiation on my side is well, purposely, I say, it's kind of like a finesse thing, like where a sub will definitely negotiate their way out of being punished or having to go to bed. Because I was a
bit of a bread as a submissive. So it's like I would negotiate little things like he's like you need to go to bed at ten, and I'm like, no, let's neg I'll do something like all finess. It'll do some ship and just figure out a way to get it pushed, like an hour or two hours. That's negotiation for a dumb well, I would say negotiation slash vetting. That's okay. That's the time when you say, this is what I'm not doing right, this is what I'm doing.
This is what you give your hard one. This is what you say, how soon do you give those immediately? That's what I think that. I think that a lot of women feel this insecurity to kind of before they have sex with a man, say how they like it, what they expect. You have to because women are so
used to pleasing a man. If we don't get pleased, we will get a man's ego and black, oh yeah, you was good knowing this motherfucker ain't nothing, And then you'll be like, damn, I wish I would have told him he ain't know what the fun he was doing. So you have to help people what you like, what you want, what you want it out and lose even as when I do it, I'll do like, you know, what are your interests? What are your hard limits? How long you've been doing this? Right? Plade? How come you
didn't play between? And do you have any do you take any medications? Type of medications do you take? Do you have any? You know the thing that hinders your movement is it because you have an old sports injury you have to find And I think that for for most of us women, UM, not me, because y'all know I'll be straight asking the nigga can I've been him over? But what ladies don't feel like you're more of a hoe or damn, I'm starting to sex talk to really like a lot of women will feel like damn, now
he's gonna judge me. But in the same sense, you do have to look out like, bitch, is your pussy walls worth getting slammed by name man? Please you anyways, just because you may not know if you guys like the same things in the back room. So we're gonna we're gonna make it a little light now for y'all. Go Vanilla ship, y'all and vanilla ship. Um it's actually uh, I saw it. I thought of Rory Shout out Rory
from the Joe Budding podcast. But a woman who has had sex with twenty ghosts is now engaged to a spirit, so she is like Europe. Sorry to white listeners, Um, she definitely is. She and I wanted to explain this. So basically, she's from London. She found this spirit while she was visiting Australia. Um. She has had sex with previous um ghosts before. And she said in terms of getting proposed to in now celebrating their nine month relationship, she said that there was no going down on one knee.
He doesn't have knees. For the first time I heard him speak, I could actually hear his voice. It was beautiful, deep, sexy and real. By the way, guys, she's thirty years old. UM. And she met him again while she was in Australia. She said, I did not I had not had a phantom fling for a while. So if you're into ghost or you've had sex with a ghost, it's called a phantom fling. And as I was away on business, starting a new relationship was the last thing on my mind.
Then one day while I was walking through the bush, definitely white, because who's walking through bushes, was enjoying nature. I suddenly felt this incredible energy. A new love had arrived. Um I wanted to talk about this. I didn't know if you guys had ever heard of sex with ghost or sex with a ghost. My fingers, he had sex. He had sex with a lot of people. Though I watched that documentary problem every clip there's a new kid that's going always pretty much. Um But I mean, I
don't know, I said it before. I'm not into spirits or ghosts or any of that like witchcrash shit. Not only that, UMU that I mean, I do feel like my fingers get possessed something because these figures gonna be having that same energy. Like but that's another thing. Um So, the kink of the week this week, we're gonna go ahead and move into that. Every week we do a kink. Um Kiki knows this because she is kink switt kink.
But basically we talked about a kink trying to um not only normalize these things that a lot of people are turned on by or maybe into, but also just to start the conversation, just to see if maybe your partner or your friends would ever do it. Um So, this specific one is because I saw it on your page. We've never had anyone do it, so I'm gonna ask the funk out of you. Um, it's called cigarette ashing or human furniture. So I bring up the cigarette ashing.
You may have heard us speak of this and human look see human furnishing now, Bright, it's astray on automit. Even though all of my ash trays are candle holders sore, not real ash trays. But I brought this up because on your page you do have a photo of you asking a cigarette onto the tongue of one of your subs. Um. Now, I wanted to know what you know about this kink if you can explain it to our listeners and how they ask you for this, So just say I'm a
human ash tray like that. The thing about it is you have to understand vanilla people don't talk about ship Agreed, That's why y'all so so with your sexuality, agree and kink. You know you have to talk, and you come across someone who knows how to vet you, you're gonna learn how You're gonna have to communicate with someone. So you have to say, I'm You're gonna ask what are your interests?
That's when you say, oh, human ash tray or yeah, I really like it when you like ash the tongues and then I ask, okay, well, have you ever had it but put out on your tongue or just the ash on your tongue, because that's different. The but put out on your tongue is now I'm taking that hot, I'm or do you just want the ash and swallowing
in it? Swallow, swallowing sallow. We got that bird. So yeah, So that's the thing you you find out Once they tell you that, that's when you okay and you start to vet them and ask them questions because you want to try to get a makeup of how you're going to play with them. I can't just come and and then just take a cigarette and put it out or a blunt or a cigar out on your tongue and you be like, whoa, that's what we didn't talk about this. What other furniture pieces outside of ash train are you
familiar with? Guys asking to be or girls in your in your carpets, human carpet. They want to be walked overman table, so table like sitting, not sitting a cup on your ass, but like he had his whole dinner on your back. Yeah, a tray and you can eat or hold your glass or you're gonna be How long are you those furniture pieces? You to be? How long
I want you to be? Yeah? Now what comes into play is now like I had a sixty year old yesterday playing with me, and I'm like, you know, usually you have to be naked on on your knees when you're in my presence. But he's bad, you know, Oh, so I'm not going to keep him on for hour and keep for an hour. You have to be when you're playing in this you have to be cognizant of you're very much so. And I'm young, but my dumb knew Okay, I have joint issues. I can't be on
my knees that long. So there was usually a pillow underneath me. He wouldn't even he was very soft witted. Okay, you just wanted me in a kneeling position. Didn't necessarily have to be painful. He just wanted me there. You gotta be beneath. But I have bad crazy What I see is this, And I don't think people put it for doms that doms are caring or having And I like that because the guy to come and saying you probably think I'm raping hear like to know that. Listen, well,
she's not enjoying something. Don't tone it down like you still have to be connisant of the person because when you like, you know what, it's not even not At the end of the day, submissive have to submit their power and that is what you do. So is a very big way to show your position in the like your position of submission, and they do that as well to you. You have to like the guy that you're talking about. He doesn't playing. He doesn't play saying safe
and consensual risk, where do we go? So that's not he's not playing like that, which means that he's just one of those guys the soft shades are great. There was like that and wants to act out and those there's some girls as incidents. But he don't know how to vet and you don't know how to do it right right, So he's the one going out traumatizing as a woman out there. Yeah, can I'll make you. It'll make you as being a person in that position. I've
been that person before. After it happens, it can't kind of make you feel like well, damn, what did I do to deserve this? Like it'll make there are some people that there are some women that will like that. Actually right, But then that's the case. I have to discuss that course everything everything is discussed, yea. So guys,
if I think every guy, damn thing comes out to communication. Communication, And it's even it's it's funny that you guys say this too, because even having conversations with the guys where I strongly let them know I like taking charge, I always wait to hear that, well, I want to be your sub before I even take it all the way like, and there's we need to have an understanding that there's these roles that I want to play and I want
to be sure that you'll play the opposite. Can't have to two doms in a room like then one of us ain't gonna please one of us aren't. So that's very big. So guys, this brings us, of course to the horrible decision if you guys did not know by now it is kind of dom versus sub. But we're gonna focus on Mistress Unknown with all of her dom tricks, her dom stories, what led her to owning her dominess?
Um and hopefully because some good stories bitch, because a bitch like storytime, I'd like to hear them, always giving them. And I specifically ask Kecky to do this show with me because she is a super sub, but she is someone who would be interested in switching and playing the domb role. So any questions that she has for you, you know, as a sub, she'll go ahead in and chime in. So I guess, yeah, let's start off with
how you started with owning your dombness. I'm a naturally dominant woman, and in hindsight, as I was getting dominant, i am six foot tall, barefoot, but I'm six six stepping on these motherfucker's skull day the bit get out of here basically for real. Yes, yes I do have it. You know, I'm not gonna say to high school, but yeah, you have the record of me about yes I was. But yeah, So where did you get into your dominant
in the bedroom per se? Well, I've always had it, but I would say I didn't really have an awakening until after I got out of another relationship and I told myself I'm never doing this ship again. And that's when I started to explore my sexuality because It first started with me exploring my sexuality though in how let me back up? And two in UHD is when I started exploring being a swinger. Yep, that's that's right, man. So I started exploring being a swinger. So that's what
eighteen years. I'm thirty eight, so I've been a swinger for that long. And being in the swing world you get exposed to different things. So this is all making sense to you, do, I would say, and and real quick, I'm not going to cut you off. I want to let you finish um specifically, because I will say it wasn't until um I was exposed. I went to hedonism at two years old. I'm now taking my friends to
sex clubs. And I most recently took a home girl to the sex club and it opened her mind in the slightest way, because now you go to a sex up, you become a virus okay, expeditionist, all these things that she had never been before. She felt it and enjoyed it, and now she's she just like that this first of all this stuff like this out here right right? What else can you do? Right? How else can you explore?
And that and I just started other people going down the rabbit hole, like you know, grab, that's what happened, you know, rabbit. Yeah, we had the bottom flow at this point. I don't think any of my whole we can make sense. He always is there anything else we haven't thought of? I've said that to so many men before, like what else could we could we do? I think we talked about there there's so much stuff, didn't you. It's so much out there and when something comes, you'll
be amazed. I was like, I can put him on a leash, like hello, like and I think, if you got my new page, that's I don't even have much on here, so I don't even know if he was with my old page. I think, I think this is now the second one that I fall. I see it's
a new one. But they got me. So the swinging life got you to where you started exploring, opened up and export and and one thing is my fetish because just I'm Adam, but I also have fetishes and interests and my fetishes sex Okay, So I love sex period. I'm very sexual. That I had my um was it psycho sexual, which is basically the time when you know you realize about sex at a young age. I was exposed to sex young, so that opened me. Like I was constantly exploring it because I liked it. I liked
the feelings. I had an orgasm at ten. I can make myself have an orgasm at ten and me not realizing that that's what I was having until I got older. I was like, oh my god, like I was having orgasm. Was my clip on all my Teddy Bears. I guess I was getting bigger my Teddy Bears. This is too on now I'm rubbing it. I got a really big Teddy Bear one year. That was my hubster right there.
I'm happing ship out of that. And then I started reading fucking Zane books and they went downhill from everybody started like ten years old ready they know I was going to sex stores engage. When I was like in high school, I was going to like there was a gas station by my house and they had like magazines, and so I would go and like look magazines. I would go through my cousins and my brother's stuff and get their porn. I was like a horny guy. I
was always trying to seek out. But then being in a Christian brought up in a Christian card, it's you know suppressed solid is when I started, I had my first threesome. I tried to, you know, figure out like women. I went to school in my hat and writing village everything, your age group, because I'm thinking I was like, oh, even back in the day, like a New York Nickels everything I know. I was just like Timberland's come here, sir, I don't like that. Through the ship. Probably by then
they was so fun, can go ahead rock? We were wearing rebox in Florida. So you get to the point where you know exactly how you want to be treated in bed, when do you actually start communicating this to the partners you're with? And where I am right now? I just want to share with you where I am right now. I am to the point where I'm aware
of what I want. And so when I have the vetting process, if I know that they're not going to be able to play the role I need them to play, I literally now can say there's no need for us to talk. We'll never have sucks because I eat. When did you get to that point and how were you able to start communicating that to your partners? I started communicating that early. I started letting people well actually wasn't.
I started communicating. I started communicating what I liked. So when I would be in relationships like oh, yes, you know I like girls. Oh let's get threesomes. Okay, let's go find our blockbuster until right, you know, like I'll do little things. But the thing was is that I was in a relationship and my boyfriend at the time. I wanted to have threesomes with women, but I also
wanted to experience it what other men. And this thing was like, oh yeah, we can have three sums, but I'm not reciprocating that you ain't you ain't having And of course I'm in a relationship and I'm like, okay, you know I love him, so I'll do the threesome thing. Well, I threesomes out because that's as much as as though y'all had so many threesomes, you just weren't interested anymore, Yes, because I wasn't getting what I want right and I
wanted to just doing what he was wanting. That'll that'll bore you, Like told me my sexuality, I knew I just had more like I'm a horn Like I'm always morning, always one set. So when we broke up, you know, I told one of the chicks that I was having a three somewhere. I was like, you know what the writings on the wall when we break up, I want to get gang banged by eight dudes, and she was like, I was like yeah. I was like, I want to get gang banged. That's the point I like, I want
I want that. And so when I broke up, I'm on Craigslist, I'm trying to meet guys, I'm trying to do things. And that's when I started to explore more. Okay, did you ever get the eight guys? Yes? Hello, Oh trust me, I've been How did you? How did you? How did you find eight guys to where they were all comfortable knowing you guys sented to this because this could end very badly. Wasn't just I'll be trying to find two goddamn like making sure you're gonna be coming
me like problem? But you said the whole team, lakers, Nick, it had to be a team, And I was like, well, first of all, I was didn't just start me getting it? I was that was my goal. I wanted to be gang bang period. That's when I started realizing I like groups sex, okay. And then I also after that that's when I met my boyfriend. So I was doing, like, you met your boyfriend in a three summer gang bang. Yes, oh, I met my interest. I met my boyfriend on Craigslist.
I put out an ad I want to have sex with two men, and he responded, yeah, we've been together for nine years. Why you well craig list is no longer hey, but I'm getting on. I got a lot if I show you the nigg is my phone, the nontroduced right, And thing is is that when I want to my boyfriend. But this is the thing is like when I broke up with my ex, I was in this hole, like I want to be in a relationship. I don't nobody want like I wanted to, Like, I
just want to be in a relationship. I'm trying to find a dude, right, I'm having I'm sucking five dudes. I'm but I want a man. Okay. So I want to my homeboys and I'm like, like, you know, just getting advice, Like why don't nobody want me? And he's like, because you're giving too much out. You're letting guys know everything too quick in they're running okay. And then after he said that to me. I was like, all right, that's what I want because I want to be open
with my man. I want you to be he I want to be able to like tell you what, babe, Let's have a threesome. Let's go here. Let's I want a gang bang, so my boyfriend will put together gang bangs. Okay, I have gang bangs. Have you guys talked about your your limits? Like, so in gang bangs? What are you not allowed to do with these other guys? Like? The first thing? That is because as far as we're swinging, we talk within your relationship, you have to have your rules.
So my rules with me and my boyfriend is no kissing a condoms at all time, okay, and the guy just has to be respectful of him. Yes, and then we've grown Now we full swap only if he ain't fucking, I ain't fucking. If I ain't fucking, he ain't sucking. So you got like both of us or we out.
Oh yeah that is so you guys are now doing But we've been focus out for a while, but we really real quick because I want to make sure our listeners are understanding of this because I'm wait, so the people that you have sex now including the gang bangs with the other men. They have to be open to also fucking your man and no, no, no, no, they have to be It has to be full swap because you have a lot of times in swinging, well you'll have a couple and I'm just like, oh, we just
want the female supply. So god, couple and couples. So the girl, the wife or girlfriend will play partner has to him and and your husband, boyfriend, whoever you and the woman. That's what we play. Full swap. Everyone is fucking right, okay, so unless you're bike couples and everyone's but okay, full swap. We full swap only we don't fuck. We love swap. We can be cool, but we only with you guys still doing gangs things now or is it's just swapping right now? Now we're just swapping. We
still do we'll go to parties. I'm going on clubs. You don't do clubs. We go to parties and stuff. So I might need to talk to you because right now I've been bringing everyone to sex clubs. So I've gone here's good because my wild lifestyles as a party. Yes, that's where I go. People, they don't you go Okay, I'm not supposed to mention it, but I'm gonna mention this. Someone got on me gunna and beach in the summertime. Go out there, dude, beat y'all is your twenty one
International swing? Is that what I'm okay, I'll be gonna go because they gonna be at Roba Moses until you can't be neud anymore. Well now, well now in Jersey, they so much fun so so it's liberating. It is nude. This so it's like, I just love my friends. Just gotta know y'all gonna see me as woody naked. Bit Okay, my friends naked, all of them. You're gonna see these is. So I'm gonna take this now real quick if we can get into um all. Wait but I didn't answer
your question. Wait go ahead, So yeah, because we gotta get through this hold all that being in swinging, I got introduced to cuck holding. Okay, huck holding, what you know? A cup holding is? Right? Yes, Ma'm go out and explain to some of our listeners who may not know. So. Cuck holding is when the man in gets um turned on, like sexually turned on or pleasured in a way can be however he's you know, they have their gratification by his wife or significant other having sex with other men.
It's like cheating on him without him knowing in those types of and that's cut holding. So I got introduced through cuck holding, through swinging, and then cup holding is a real up tie into B D s M. So that was my segue into that I've always been dominant and doing dominant things and doing it on things other people. And realize, like, oh my god, when I was choking him out and liking it at me like I was a say this fact, Look you got me. I'm finding what I am. We got to do another episode, and
I think I just realized I'm queer. So I'm like all these titles like fuck them, like, but I'm sitting here like seeing what's going on. I'm learning myself. So what this? What this fucking podcasts? If you guys have listened from the very beginning, I would cringe if anyone mentioned anything about feet. And now I'm staying here kissing up to the ankles and writing big toes. I didn't write it all the way. I just gave it a
lap dancer. I didn't that, but but it played so like now I'll be I'll be given seven foot massages and ship I don't know who the funk I am. And it's with this podcast and having these conversations. So so we know you're in a relationship. We also know that people are so uncomfortable with this that they feel like they have to be in secret and find people
and donate to them. Um, so you're in a situation where people specifically come to you because this is what they want and they take care of you, bitch, so big bitch mistress unknown, Hello, when did you get into the part where you're like, Okay, these people will sit here and pay me to step on them. Like you don't even have to have sex with some of these things, you know had sex with any of them? So what
did you do? And you say here getting paid? Like damn, you could get paid to the power to the Hello, women have power. It's there's so much. But there's power in your leathers, your straps, your cigarette butts at this point. But it's not even not because that's the little bits of things that I do. Anyone can put a cigarette
out on you. But it's more to all this, what's more to it tells What's more, what happened was what happened was I was doing you know, I was exploring B D S M and one of my girlfriends she just started and she was telling me about like, yeah, she told me that she was um, a guy paid her to eat her pussy when she was on her period. Who I should have told you. I don't do blood.
I don't even like looking at my own vagina when I wiped my limit, I looked, But you heard that she that she got paid for a guy just to eat her pussy while she was bleeding. And then you were like, damn, wasn't that. It was just like it's like and it She'll be like, oh yeah, like this dude pay me, And I'm just like wait, wait someone's paying right, And so me, I'm a businesswoman employed for a very long time, so I'm like, why would I not want to do something that I love doing and
get paid for it? So okay, I was like I want to do that, and so I started because when I said I wanted to be a prodom, I was practicing vid SEM but it was just my fetishes and now I had to learn other be fetishes and so basically, you know, go through classes, read books, videos, try to get you know, people to teach me. So this way I can learn what's out there and what's going on.
I have to have a skill, you know. So one of the things was is that after I started learning and then getting boys, that's when I started just getting experiencing hard lessons, easy lessons on you know what's going on. But yes, people men, yes, pay me to do what for an experience? Okay, they're paid? Why do they when you said that in this experience, tell the people some of the things that you get asked to do. Oh my goodness, ye scat sht do ship in men's mouth
and shipped on them. I make them consume it. They have to eat it. Basically do full toilet. So that include what did I tell you about the human toilet? He talks about the human toilet? Yes? Brother, let is this what excuse the Okay I just just started to Now I don't blood is my heart limit? So I can't like have them, you know, eat me out or that because you don't y'all not even can't even touch me. Yeah, now I don't get my tampons your words open up? Yeah?
So yeah, I oh my god, that is something that is done and that is requested. Uh. There's also, of course, you know, to slap and tickle stuff like worship. I a foot guide, as I do have side for my footboys that follow I have long, slender size of leven feet, long toes and black. Oh there, I didn't know all those details. I'm not like my boy. You know, I posted my feet now. So since I got all the foot finished page pages following you, now, I'm like, do
I need to show my arch more? Yeah? For the soul. I live in New York. It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. It's not even it's not even a wait, they're pretty, okay, don't I don't understand, Like it's not even like meaning you can go. You can go and walk on dirt and have your feet black and show it and they'll be like pain and like oh my god, yeah my god, still be like still like um manzie mansie, can you show more pictures of guy like that? Feel powerful? There's
so many aspects to every fetish. Yes, okay, so had the pretty feet, then you have the sweaty, stinky feet, then you have the dirty feet. Then you have to crust the ashy fields. You have to fail is looking all crazy, like the long told fetish, short sold fetish. They like it when you got certain color. It's so much to it, like when you got because somebody loves that, goddamn it. And then I didn't know that. I'm not gonna lie. I knew of the foot fetish in the
sense of pretty feet. I'm just pretty feet to know that there's fetishes of dirty feet, fresh from the gym, fee fresh all day work, don't want me, I don't want me to out, don't want me to like work. Can you go work out? And then yeah, it's so many levels that they want the students pungent and nastiest than Yes, that's what they want the better, like yeah, you know you have your stinky shoes and you're walking all the day in them and the comments right right,
and they want to smell yeah, your shoes. Yes, a shoe part. We've had, you know, someone coming and say when he worked in Marshalls, he'd liked to jack off into shoes and that, and he's like, you know, I had a last night that's not I had a footboy and he worked at a shoe store and I was like, yeah, we know what you're doing at the shoe store. You was looking at stinky feet, so I was like, let me help you down trying to smell woman's feet, looking after him like I'll help you he was doing at
that foot store. What the craziest thing, in your opinion, that you've been asked to do? And all? I think we may have asked you as a sub, so I would love to know as as a dom what's the craziest thing a stub has asked you to do? Blend the hamster and um put a hamster and a blender and blended. Whoa wait? Wait, wait man, what wait? Someone asked you to do animal whoopie and then we bring them on. That's a serious you are doing those sins, right,
I mean, you probably can't admit if you did or didn't. Honestly, I don't want to know. I don't know how much he paid you for that ship. I mean, but that's s that's the makings of killer. That is a serial killer. I think they have, you know, people that like to have the fetish of people to like people like to have have sex with dead bodies. Go ahead and they want you know, crushing, crushing where they want you to take your heal in a cat and crushed out. You
do some as well? What is it that you do with heels? Because I see you got your lace up. Look what type of stepping do you get asked to do? Oh like stuff on them with your heels, with my heels, body parts, everything, Just walk along them on their dick, on their head and their mouths. Their mouth does not bruise them. Yeah, well I want the bruises. Oh let me,
I'm gonna say state. I was about to say you you didn't really see my right because you didn't see it in the marks and the stuff I put on people. I like to paint your flesh. Oh like, I like to inflict pain on very physical I like physical domination, like to wrestle. I like to punch, like I like choke out the men that like this. Would you say there's one type that comes to you or they all typespes because because he here's a shock. I get a lot of black men and want to get shing on
sh a lot. But what you know what you like and the thing about it is they'd be going home and kissing their girlfriends. What are you went too far? We're not now you went too far? God damn it. But yes, there's a lot, and they're paying people in their mouths. People think that it's what is white people do. Like everyone is everyone dooin Hispanic men is into this, into these fetishes. I get all of them. It's just
that I like that the white men. She's like, it's like the white men they don't mind putting himself out there because one thing is your privacy is a big thing for me. So you know, I would have pictures. It's very particular with how you take the photos of these men. They either have masks or tattoos, your very if they know they're being film. That's what you see,
like on my social media and stuff. I'm there a lot with you know, men who don't want I don't want no one knowing right, they got the bad phone, they don't want the company to you know, it's not that they got wise and they don't want people. It's none of their business importantly. Yeah, I mean you're right, it's not it's not. So you know, I'm very you know particular with that. But there's a lot. It's an array of people that's into this, and for me, all
men can get it. I dominate every black, white, Spanish agent every man. My philosophy is all men were created in this universe. They've created this universe to serve, protect, and adore women absolute period. So you come into my space, you know that's the underlying the foundation. As long as you know that, then you can cross over and we
can start. Yes. But that's the thing because I'm a womanist and a I'm a black female supremacist, and I'm a female supremacist, So I feel all men inferior to women, not men are not even about men are not equal to women. Y'all are my equals, not them, right. So that's how and that's how my philosophy, that's how I feel.
So when I'm interacting with these boys, all of them want to come, all of them want to come, but it's who's gonna come, correct, Because the thing about it is I'm a lifestyle professional, which means money is not going to dictate what I do. I like that, So I have turned down money. I have walked away from money because you're not gonna dangle money in my face and you're carried, and I think I'm gonna jump because people that use money, and men know they use money
as their power. So you're not gonna get that over me. I walk away from this. I walk away from this now. I like that. I like that a lot because when we get into where we discuss even you know, sex work or how women are often can't leave abusive relationships because of money, and that money is put out of power situation. We had this toast over their heads, so they're habitizing. You can't allow that as that monetary thing
to be where you see yourself. If you do, you're you know, you're in need and a friend, like a male friend or someone who're like, okay, i'll give this to you do this. It's like you're taking advantage that you want me to do something that I don't want to do. But you know, I get that exactly. So you're thinking, you're you're gonna try to right there. But I took the money. Uh. But the thing is the thing that's it's awesome. This is all what I have
to and it's caused me to be peace. One thing about me is I control who comes into my life. I'm self employed, so I'm not to worry about coworkers. I have my boyfriend, my friends. If you're not about me, if you don't bring no use to my life. You don't deserve to be around. It's freeing. So so with these boys, like your potential is nothing for sure. So even though you have the money, you have to come.
It's my way to highway how you approach me and then okay, you went through my process, you got vetted. You want to see me. Okay, let's set the terms, let's negotiate. Let's let me scream you and see if you're worthy enough to even be in my present. Okay, you worthy and I'm so doing that now. It's so empowering women. Ladies, I don't know you know where you are in terms of your sex lies, if you're going through the whole phase, if you're going through um a
dating or your vetting. But when I tell you opening those conversations to even see if they're worthy of you opening your ladies, honey, you know nine times out of town were not come insist, So make sure you come. But know what you want as a woman, and don't sit here let the man dictate where you might think you're going, or don't even sit here and feel like you gotta change yourself to become more of a girlfriend
or cereal you're into these things. Communicate that in the very beginning, so that you're a not wasting time, but you're not wasting his time. Insists you can go to the next one because there's always a next one, and if they want, they come back. Every time you're trying to get these niggas out, My fucking always come back always. So I'm loving this. We're gonna go hey, because we actually got a question that I thought this was very funny.
I think both of you might have your own personal stories for but we're gonna get into the homemail for this episode before we go ahead and get up out of here. But this one I laughed, so it says, hey, I love the show. I need your opinion on something because I don't know if I'm tripping or justified in my disgust. So I'm twenty seven and my husband and I have been together for five years, two kids, good life.
We fit traditional gender roles. His career was on a faster track than mine at the time I got pregnant, so I'm now stay at home mom and he works ten hour days. We both stay stressed. So when we got a weekend away for a wedding around my birthday, I was excited he got us a nice, big room. I was in a great mood till I realized he forgot my bag with my heels and makeup. Fucking annoyed. But I didn't let that ruin our weekend, so I planned to make a target run before the wedding problem solved.
They had a welcoming party for the wedding guest the day before, and we barely knew anyone, so we were enjoying the free alcohol a lot. We get back to our room, him poor nightcap, twist one up and start talking and taking off our clothes. We get to it, and I stopped and start topping him off, and I'm going at it for a couple of minutes. He's laying back, hands behind his head. I see his toes curling. I'm already in my head thinking, okay, let me stop before
he bust, before I get one more. As I look up with his dick still in my mouth, he farts and and not like a little oops like it started a little that's respectful, kept going I'm sorry because I'm thinking you can't hear he started. I'm sorry, let me finish, let me finish. I'm sorry. So so the nature was like, no, we already started, let's finish strong. So it was elongated and ended in a question mark. Now I love him, but I tasted Oh my god, she tasted the fart.
I immediately felt mad and disrespected. I got instantly selfish and hopped up. He said sorry and looked embarrass so I tried to laugh it off and got my nut and went to bed. This was almost two months ago, so clearly I'm still thinking about it now. When I see dirty socks and balls or dishes left hell, I'm muttered. This nigga parted in my face with a dig in my bow and he can't aload the dishwater the dishwasher.
I'm not usually the chick to bring up the past, to pick fights or linger over things I can't fix, but for some reason, this is always at the tip of my tongue. Literally, when I'm annoying. I mean, I'm not going to divorce him over it, But am I tripping? Should I just get over it it's just gas, or sit on his face and let out of retaliation? Thanks in advance? Mrs Oh no, he did it. I'm literally she said she was embarrassed. He worked embarrassed he looked.
It was laughed off. There was no apology from what she should be like, Oh my bad, ye doing a real apology in black people terms. But I look at that as I wholeheartedly apologize. If I disrespected you, my bad. Don't say all that bros I was. I would definitely to my boyfriend bad. But I would be so mad because I always get mad when he farts around me, like something I did not like him. There's for you to fart on them. Oh, yes, I fart. But I don't like. I don't like that. I don't like that.
This is just because I should on someone. It's not that I like it, is that I like humiliating and degradating you. This psychology humiliating to be ship. And while you're eating my ship, I'm laughing at you. I'm putting the ash to my blood out in your mouths. I'm making you eat. If you don't eat it, I'm gonna beat your ass. Yeah, okay, it's scared over here, you know, letting like you know, just like, that's what I like about it. I don't like. I don't like. I don't
playing my ship. I don't do that. I'm not with the front. You know fetish. I'm with human toilet because when I go to take a ship, I'm not talking to my tollboll. I'm just going squatting and then leaving. You're going ship, I don't have to talk to you, right, So that's what I like about like something like that.
It's not that I like this ship. So when anyone farts from me, I'm like, ill, really, I'm like, it's funny because if you guys go back, I don't know if you guys are going all the way back from the beginning. But I share a story. Um, I was in a fourth something. It was three girls, one one guy, and the girl that I spent the most attention on. Um, while she was sitting on my face, she farted, but I kept going and so he had that conversation because in the moment, like I heard it, but I just
kept going. And so if you came a conversation like you weren't grossed out, and I'm like, it's like damn, now, I gotta think, Okay, we're human bodies. I'm sitting here looking the juices at your pussy like is a bad so for her, I know she feels traumatized right now because now she feels like she was violated with the fart. Um. I mean, he can't take the fart back, so I
would fart on. I would actually, I would definitely fart in his face, just give it back to him and and then and then I'll be like, oh my bad. But remember doing retaliation to too. You gotta make sure like like if you don't, if you can't get to his face, like fart on his his thigh or lass his back, you know, like like the only time you can fart. I can't stay noning if you sleep in.
But I'm still disgrunted, So like you definitely you gotta get him back, act like, you know, get him on the back, because I know when you when you married, and you'll be sleeping wild and I sleep wild each other, so you do a lot of opportunities to fart in his face on him. Yeah, and the guys I deal with a lot, honestly, maybe because they're athletic. Um. Yeah, they fart and just act like you're gonna far Oh well, turn over and be like, oh oh well you already
Like I'm like you're so rude. Yeah all I do. I laugh it off, like, yeah, you can't do, and then I want I thought of forgot about the farts that come out of the booty hall and all that ship by the end of the goddamn night anyway, like damn. Then it's like, okay, you did just fart really bad out of it earlier, but whatever, like hopefully all the airs out. I don't know what else to say, like I don't know, well, you rather be out and said that.
You know, why start? Oh you're trying, you opening up the ask to get up in the end, all of a sudden, it's like up. Oh hell, now that I think about it, I forgot your one that also pegs yes, m up Ebony Pegg and queen damn you take don't take my fALS all the booty being the title bitch, let me pay these things about myself. We'll have to
bring you back on and talk about that. Maybe you'll get another um story from a fellow pegger who is a beautiful black woman who we been in these things over Hey, I love it so before we get up out of here, thank you so much for coming. Let um lose you know where they can reach you, where they can see you, and all that goes, I would say, because I'm constantly being banned from everywhere. The best place to go is my website, which is Mistress unknown dot com.
But currently goddess you and k on Instagram and y'all gonna stay away from my snapchat because that's my personal heavy. So you guys follow her, I will say, you'll probably get mad quite because I'm sure there's a lot of women and owning their dominant for a lot of men
feel uncomfortable asking to be dominated. Um and let me tell you they are comfortable because they'd be all up in the d M, feel like they can trust you for you and I we put it out there, we're accepting of this, and so I feel like that's why we're getting, you know, because they'll come and then they'll be like, oh, yeah, I'm straight. You know, I'm straight, you know, but I like it and what it is
because that is straight. Pegging is still straight sexy. I I pegging is still straight sexes between a man and a woman. Woman. But when they realized that that's what you're into, oh, they come and and they be coming in because when I have my strap on and I'm the real quickly lives of my um me fucking them and so I got banned, but you were on I pegging. Oh I was Carasco depending Now we know why you ain't got no page no more. Well man, the old one ig you do not I'm much horribles. Do not
come over because you don't like some ship. It's a horrihive. But it's horribles works too, Okay, the horribles works too, ho hive. Please don't come and bring you a Vanila van way of thinking like, oh I don't like this flag. Yeah, Audi, they're not They're not real in real life. And where can they find your hey? God, like, you can definitely find horrible though, Calm down. You find me on I g A Kinks with Kiki podcasts also on Twitter at Kinks with Kiki and guys. Thank you guys again for
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