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We're so excited to do this. We've created a bunch of fun things to talk about and I will see you guys there. Check my Instagram for tickets. Chat tune. Welcome back to it, yet another motherfucking episode of horrible decisions. This your girl, hold on, I got my A k as to drop. So this your girl Mandy b a k A full core pumps a k A the Booty Band. Y'alla gave me that nickname a k A that bitch and who am I saying by I guess marrow what my listen I'll be y'all live And they didn't gave me.
The nickname is the booty band and they know what I'll be doing my a K S. So I was like, let me go ahead and drop stand bro, and they do. When I like, listen to Ada boys, if anybody listens their A k's last for twenty minutes, I know I need, I gotta, I gotta start getting But Booty bander just got added, So we're gonna we're gonna keep adding to it as we and I know you guys have loved listening to the two of us. But we're back with a bombsque guest um for this episode. I'm really excited
we got my girl Nilie in the building. I had an O G. Nilely, what you got a K is or anything like that? O g Nily drop Instagram. She's like, oh G O G I'll just score O g NII. That's good, yeah, O g or Nyally we both so it's crazy because we sat here and like, so normally when we have guests, we like to do icebreakers, but I feel like, I don't know if there's even really an we're talking to break the ice with your ass, because you'd be mad, like the way that Nia broke
the ice when she first came in. My first time meeting her, she was like, oh, I'm sorry. You know, I don't really listen because I haven't been on so I'm just kind of tight. But it was low key my phone. I've been trying to stay on brand. I never listened. I don't want to know your form lot just want to be surprised. Yes, and then of course you know I got the best. She's like, bitch, I know you in real life. Why am I just coming on now? This episode? God damn, we'll be happy that
you're coming on when we live we is lit. Now. I'm support you regardless, bitch. So what we like to do, um just to kind of, you know, start converse station in the show. Sometimes, UM, we have a segment called Vanilla Ship. And in Vanilla Ship we find articles um in which touch on anything anything sex related. UM. This one I actually ran across on Time dot com. It says, why getting back together with your ex maybe bad for your health? That did not need to be an article.
All you gotta acts every woman. I lost my hair from stress. But no, what's crazy? So they did a study and it actually showed that people who go back to their exes actually well they have a case of like anxiety depression. They tied it to mental health crazily like, And to me it was kind of crazy because we talked about it all the time and I've been talking about it with my friends lately. All the niggas on my phone right now are niggas who were like ten
years ago, seven years ago, five years ago. They're reset. And so then I was thinking as I was reading this, I said, am I depressed or anxious? Like? Do I have a mental health issue that I keep going back to the niggas in my past? Yeah? You gotta let them go? So how do so? I wanted to have that conversation. Remind me. When we had an Amelior teeth on she was like, you need to cut cords. Cut your cords with everybody, because it so how do you get past really a nigga, like, get past him, get
a new one that's way better than the last one. Yeah, right, you see me? Okay boom, that's what I'll be alone. We're talking pre We're talking pre pre, we're talking thought days for me. Okay days, we're gonna We're gonna go during the whole phase. Let's go right during my whole phase. Right. I would like it was a thing like, oh, we got a new nigga, gotta say bye. But when you say about you, I mean, if the new nigga start acting up right, you go back to the old nigga,
that's what seconds going to the next thing. And then see, if you go back to the nigga, you go back to the most recent one before. Like I'm going back. I'm not going back to the archive x like like for example, I don't niggas that haven't seen new titties. I've had these tips for five years. If we'll see that's that's a fact, pussy. That's how because pearls but didn't sunk Nili and a lot of niggas suck NAILI
but they didn't get to og. So see, but that kind of feeling now too, like there is something about me where I'm like, fuck you. If you wasn't working with me when I was fat, I ain't gonna suck you now. And so now that I lost this way, I only want to niggas that me when I was fat. So I'm gonna tell you where my new line is now. Have you guys watched Consent Special and Rice? We were only on there for like two or three on HBO
with the Humble flicks. It elevated my pussy because the nigga text me that, like, like like what you've been up to him? Like the funk? I was just on HBO your TV, motherfucker paper pussy beer. I was fist. I was like acting brand new. My mom was on Facebook talking about everybody got look at my daughter. I know my mom took I get off one like now, especially because I had such a checker thought history pass. I get the checkered thought. Hone is deleted is hopping everywhere?
Was your hone is deleted? You believe in that deleted phase? I wanted want my to be deleted. It was there. That's one of my resume because that's you know, and I wanted to do an episode Legends, She's this is probably the holest legend in this way I do with my ship with finest Like a lot of ladies now like to like everybody to extra, I do what do you mean there to like boom? Back when I was
a stripper, right all right, boom bussy. Back when I was a stripper, I definitely never posted like spread eagle, like yo, come to the strip club. Like I was like like cheek, you know, but you're just going to internet like here's my pussy, here's my titties, here's And do you still think like showing less is more? Is that why you say that? Yeah? I do like it.
It's cute. It's good. I appreciate that coming from a former home, you know why, because some pictures be like, oh, do whatever you want to, But sometimes it is that you can still be a home and show a little I like like back in the days. To me, I feel like I was the thought that got wifey treatments sometimes? So how how does that because I was because I did less? It's more like nobody really affiliated associated with me with like whole ship like that. Yeah, it's obviously,
but a big one. I mean, I mean, like all out there holes, like if you pussy is on the screen, I still think you know you can get. And I only say that because my fear of my new thing. It's like I just know, I just never was comfortable like going around like yeah, you know, I'll be fucking niggers like yeah no no, no no, you can't say no no, but say yeah, we'll be talking about our pussy. But I don't think there's anything wrong with talking about our pussy. I mean, we talked about a lot about
our sex, bro like, so it is our job. But that's what other bitches be saying to this is their persona, so this is why they do that, Like no, I know Mandy, Mandy, no no, no, no no, no, I'm talking about you said, this is me out here talking about they'd be blah blah. Bit just do that because they feel like there's that's their brand. I don't know, Cardi b it wasn't her job to talk about crazy like that, but people liked it because they feel like it's organic.
Bitch is legit feel In my opinion, I think girls put it out there because they feel like it's better for me to say than yeah, that's the own personal think me personally, I don't think so. And I think that's why I had so much longevity in the stripper world in the strip in my stripper career, like I always re invented myself and like you knew I was working because like I never act like I'm an angel my nigga. No, I wasn't angel ship. He wasn't no
fucking angel. But I think that not everybody be in my business. And people kind of hearing like yo, this bich got bomb mass, but stripper longe evidence, Um, you know, having a consistent six years of making better on your birthday when you were in Vegas made like sixty in Vegas or something like that, like labor Day weekend. I was not actually had a life cycle. I watched this uh this thing called Hot Girls Wanted, and they talked
about poor port stars lifestyle life cycles. How it's like three months and then a girl who's in the middle six months and then a good point star is gonna be in the gaming year. What's like, that's really that's it? Well, yeah, because you know, you get amateur and they try out a few videos and then it's done for a stripper. What's like the short term life? Like, how what do you think? All my stripper friends been strippers over ten years?
That's a fact, all my stripper friends years. Bro. I think that I think as long as you're still making money, go ahead and get it. But you should definitely there should be a point that you evolved and you have something else going on outside of it, because like you know, I would take breaks and shipped like that. So I think that you have longevity as long as you stay exclusive sometimes so something that that's what like stripping is
your only job. Yeah, like I'm stripping it Like to me, I feel like, you know, niggas was sucking me, throwing me money and ship like that, because like after a while, like I start traveling and being out in different places, and I put myself in different positions and I'll start branding myself. So now niggas was coming in not necessarily
trying to throw money at the baddest bitch. They wanted to be affiliated with me because not only am I a stripper, now I'm going out with different celebrities and I'm being on TMZ and things like that. So before Black China was black China. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, I'm from the South, so I don't know, like I'm serious because you know how like each state, each state.
I was the first celebrity stripper because when I when I started dancing, right, I started dancing at seventeen, honestly, like, I'm way younger than what people assume me to be now, but I started dancing at seventeen. This is when people still was like, oh, it's not like a crazy and they're trying to catch all stuff like that. Yeah, yeah, that's not mad and like o G. Yeah, but I think, like, you know, like I realized, I realized how to finesse niggas,
you know what I'm saying. And you can't funk every nigga, so you gotta hang out with other bitches that want to funk the niggs that you'll be around. So that is why I was able to be out and around certain rappers and different things, you know, some different people because it wasn't necessarily I was Were you known or is there like a certain rapper that he was in your collect that people knew, like like somebody that puts
you on. Basically, um, I hung around fab and Meek and Jada because fab Meek and Jadakasse are like the top three rappers that people will you songs and yeah, not this, No, not with Mika. Well she said, yeah, so we're gonna go ahead and get into this and and I love that we're going to be able to talk about this. Actually, so what we do also, um, is a kink of the picture out Now. Okay, that's fine. Wait are you gonna you know we're recording this right? Yeah, okay,
what you're gonna show the camera? I'm sure are you saying here? Let me Okay, well, let's go ahead. And the kink, it's not it's the way she bring it up. She's like, I got the perfect kick after this saw. The kink of the week for this week Guys is called xenophilia. It is an intense attraction towards people from other cultures or strangers. Um. I actually brought this up because I wanted a way to politically We all in
this room have that, I think. But so, I don't know if you've just recently heard so we and we talked about it on Patren episode. But the Guys We Fun podcast is like super in fire because how she was talking about a black man. So when she brought this up, I was like, oh my god, I don't want us said it. I said, dude, how do I stay away from like sounding like I'm fetishizing Because so I'm going on a date tomorrow to Asian dude, an Asian bitch. And first of all, we are all watching
Insecure and he kind of looked like Andrew. Actually he's hotter than that. Um, I mean, he's not my it's not my type. He's not bad looking, I get it, he's not my type. He's not my type either. Though he looks like Andrew, but more mask. I think in the face he has like that defined jawline. If you'all trying to actually she said she wanted niggad it look like jul Tal from motherfucking Rush. Well do but stop. So I don't know when we can't get listen. Asian
are people. Asian people are people of color too, bro. So here's the thing. I've never been in an Asian uh male and female. Well I was with a tie woman, but he makes with black, so we said that that doesn't count. Well, see, here's the thing, because I was like, he's Japanese, she's like he looks like he's with European
he looked half white, he looked white. He looked half white. Right, But that's just because you think he don't look Asian enough, which is a problem and very problemly thinking can we say Asian enough? That's what I'm saying, Like, that's what she's saying that when you said he must be Asian and white, it's just implies that he's not Asian. People do that to us all the time. So I think it's sucked up to be like, well you okay, so you know you just got some black dick. You clearly
like pink dick. So was this I'm gonna stop you right there because you really getting on my nerves. What I What I do you doin the last two dudes that I dated seriously white and now everybody thinks I fucking cast black men off the island. Just to be clear, I just spend like I got my virginity, take my black man. I've been with more black when but no, no, no, they're not necessarily you. It's just the idea that's on
this podcast, and I'm tired of it. So I'm blocking the ship out all y'all to be like I would come to you, but you don't my niggas. First of all, I do, but I've just been in my euro realm. Now I'm moving on to Asia. Calm down, I'll be back.
You'll be back to Africa. I've been. So do you do you have any concerns or things like do you watch Asian born, Like is it something to where you feel like he would be able to arouse you, because like, I don't think get like, I think he's so fucking hot, so I'm like, it's not necessarily, but I'm scared of Asian guys because of the stereo type of supposedly they have small Well, I'm glad you brought that up because the thing is that I was worried about that when
my first white guy, and I was like, oh so I think but no on average though, like per country, right, like in general, I think Black and Latino countries have the biggest dicks. I think it's Congo, then Venezuela, then something else in Africa. But I'm not that worried about that. Was he's six too, so he's already beaten one stereotype he has beaten, so like I'm not gonna I'm not gonna worry about that bullshit. The only thing is I felt fucked up. I'm just gonna say this, y'all, don't
come for me. I'm just I feel like I'm a white person trying so hard not to offend somebody black. And I'm gonna tell you why. There's this bar so lit called the stray Light. It's a hidden bar in Chinatown, and I invited him there, and I was like, you invited him to Chinatown. But I'm like, oh, should I not done that? Maybe he's gonna think and I don't want to do that because I feel like white men have done that with me, like oh, we want to
get chicken chicken, right, That's what I'm saying. I don't want to like wrap my head around like bullshit of trying to be so PC when I know I'm respectful and I'm I think, go ahead and just let it flow, and then if he does get offended, then you let him know, like yo, he can say to me first first of all, his hair is would you be with him or do you just want to suck him for research. I'll be honest, like ultimately in my mind like yes,
I want a black man. But because I just really don't want to deal with bullshit in my life with haven't explained everything, but I mean, I don't know. He seems dope. Like today it's Columbus Day and we were both as research Yeah I think. I mean we were talking about how Columbus is a piece of ship. Right, he's Indigenous People Day, and I'm like, okay about making
world because you know about Columbus Day. Oh, he was like schooling me on indigenous people how like people of color of like discovered every kind of land and white people are trashed. And I was like, oh, I like him, all right, that works. That works. I'm trying to think, have you ever like seen, I guess, someone from another culture and wanted to date them just because they were part of another culture? Yeah? Du Bi like oh yeah,
but isn't they got money? Because I feel like that's like no, no, no, no, no, They're actually some of them are beautiful? Are they are beautiful? It looks really really really good, like this game Complexion to me, They're like because okay, I had a like a Puerto Rican phase like when I was younger, Puerto Rican dude. Then I went then once I started in my beginning of my dancing career. I love the Dominican niggas from uptown.
You know, oh god, I've never had these, but I didn't like la, No, I've never had you never had a Dominican, I mean Dominican and black, or like Puerto Rican and black tieing black, black and white. Hold on, let me tell you why. I do like guys like like those guys over there and like the Middle East and ship like that, because to me, I had like the Puerto Rican Dominican phase. And then of course I love, love love black men, and to me they're like a blend of like a black man and a Spanish man
or black. Yeah, and then of course they buy you have some money, but like really though on the surface, like they dead, look mad sexy. I love the hyebrows of Middle Eastern people in general. Women. I like the facial hair. It's funny to me. I don't know if this will count. It was hard so the definition mentioned culture, and I think you put me on this. I kind of started becoming a trade because I didn't see it
intil I was up here. I love um black man with the little what you call the Muslim things on their head. Yeah, I don't know, but that to me is like another culture. They Muslim, but they're but they're black with the Muslim thing on their head. No, but I didn't like you kind of even introduced me, like when we used to go out and she'd be like,
there's mad Muslim black about Muslim. If you like the Muslims, they just can't be the Only thing I fear with like black Muslim is that they went to jail first. Is that where they all convert? No, not what I was like, Oh, but I know what I was gonna say. I feel like a little too like old school and values like being you have to be the woman, you have to do this. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie me. And the only issue that I do
have with that, and I remember I felt bad. So now it took me to breakfast one time with one of her old niggas. You know what she's talking about. Well, I don't know, bring more more details because we don't. Yeah, yeah it was it was breakfast. It was breakfast, and it was a Muslim nigga, and I felt bad because bit want real bad, baby, I felt, oh yeah, I don't. So I ordered the bacon, but I felt bad because I know you're supposed to be respectful, Like it happened
another time. I'm talking to this other he was actually a ballplayer but was Muslim or of Muslim religion, and but I ordered a grilled cheese and they had him in it, and then I kind of feel bad. Is that? Why is that disrespected? It's not supposed to because even baking, I mean, you know, but you can't eat pork and my house, but that's your house. But before you converted, like even like if we're paying for it, Like if I'm at dinner, her nigga paid for it, I feel
bad he had to pay for my bacon. Yeah, Like that's that's a disrespectful part of it. Like that, how are you gonna ask a Muslim to pay for you know what? So my father is ISRAELI, my mom is black, and my dad eats kind of kosher, right, so he doesn't eat pork, he doesn't make me and cheese. I ain't gonna lie. I'm a grown woman. I'd be paying some of their bills now I'd be eating that. What else? Today I went on a It wasn't a date. It
was like a business meeting or something. I forgot what religion he was, but he kind of looked at me sideways because I had shellfish. He went into a whole goddamn speeling. You know those are like roaches, like they're the bottom. What what? What? What culture? Can't you have shellfish? It's some type of Christian religion maybe Islam? Is that? How much different is that from Muslim? It is? So I don't think he's Muslim? What do you mean right now?
I'm like the other day, I don't know. See, that's why we need a producer. We're save on that when you need him. Guy, you didn't know that that's Islamic whatever. I'm not religious, I told y'all I don't do religion. So even like when people be just I don't, I'm come on, I'm not. I'm actually sticking on and I'm not religious. Okay, I'm learning. I'm still learning. God Damn. I do want to say one thing I wanted to try to figure out because like, where is the worder
line between fetishizing and being into other cultures? Right? Like? Can I want to explore but not be fetishizing? And that's the thing what exactly is? Because I feel like if white girls want black men. It looked at like they're fetishizing black men, but then it's like they just
want some of that big dick. And I know all of them got on, that's right, but like big like to me, it's like, I think if you want to go with money, like if money is your thing, you'll go with like any race, if money is your thing, and if you go on for a big dick, nine times out of ten you'll lean to. The fetishizing is when that's all you need is sex from that person, right, Because a lot of white men that are into black women just want to funk them and then they're done.
White girls that are doing that, they wouldn't date them. So I think that's the fetishizing thing. When it's just a fantasy and smart bit, that's kind of good. Okay, Now that is because I like or you feel like you have to sneak because that's what you want, but technical but you wouldn't be with it or you wouldn't
bring them to your to your parents homes or anything like. Yeah, it's just usually people are secretive about secretive about it, right, So if it's something that you're like tip someone on, then yeah, it's probably God taught you last weight just a chair just collapsed. Whoa I put and I pulled the guy there a little ship. I'm over here playing with my old feet playing this ship. Boy bad. No, but it's crazy, but I'm not. So let me ask
you then if so we're talking about that. Uh, let's say that you know white guy that only dates black girls. I do, I do? Would you be fetizing even though he's in relationship with them? Would that is that fetishizing even though because he like, you know, because I dated this guy that I'm talking about right, um, And at first I was like, like I was like looking at this thing, like what the fund is? Like what's your
what's your thing? Because that's the only white guy ever dated, dated like seriously in my house, met my mom, like all of this. But like his whole passes like his black girls. So he goes out on days all that. He's not embarrassed about it, he's not ashamed about it. But now a lot of people do say, like when white guys are like only with black women is the thing. But I think the thing is too to make sure that like we all understand that preference and like your
surroundings are thing. For example, Sam white out not only that our goddamn camera guy. We was talking earlier, you in you Indian, right, we was talking he's never dated another Indian, but it's he like he looks at himself as black. I was like, Oh, all the black girls like playing it you're here, right, okay? Not only black girls, not like, but he's dated everyone. Do you think that has something to do with you not being being a textbook Indian guy? Wait? Why what do you mean textbook?
Are you from looking at what he's wearing? We should all be feminist. I'm being dead out that textbook Indian. You know what I'm saying. Like, for example, A cost talks about how he's a comedian not a doctor, and how he's like right, right, right, right, okay, which is why I said Sam, Sam lives in Harlem. Sam sitting here went to an hbcut white guys like a white guy. I'd be like, yo, like, I hate what it was
like Tommy, Yeah, I like exactly, Tommy. I googled it and apparently I said that anyone else kept this like googled it and apparently it came out in the acting scene and it wasn't in the script. And they chose to leave it. That's trash. But wait, look, look, wait, wait, it's funny because that wasn't in the script. That's crazy TV saying. It's just something like to go. It's like, yeah, nigga, we family like that. And I think I think he
was in character. He was imagine if you were in this hood Asked movie, you can't that's like one of your white friends slipping and saying nigger in a song. It's not like they called you a nigga, but they just in the song. Bro, they have the concert and they're like, what up? What are you gonna do? If? I mean, I ain't gonna do nothing. But I know. I was in Vegas and I was talking to this couple from Canada, and I think because me and my
friend were black, they just felt so comfortable. They dropped the nigga the M bomb like sucking four times to where I just felt uncomfortable talking to them. You gotta say something, Yeah, I don't like when you're too comfortable with why are you saying? I was just like, like Tommy probably was in character. I went to a concert with a white friend of mine who shall read me nameless, and we got real fucked up and he looked at me. He's like, dude, I love you. I love you too,
and he goes, let me just get one. I said one? What and he goes, never mind. So then ten minutes go by, I said, were you asking me to say n He's like, absolutely not, I mean unless you want me to. And then we were at me and I saw him the whole time and he was like it and he was he was holding it back and I found that because the thing is, you can't give a pass because then he know what's happened. The next time. He could end up saying it on me go saying
ni niga a lot? Isn't there a whole song? Wasn't just know? We'll figure it out. Well, we're gonna go ahead before we get into the whole decision, guys, y'all, we gotta add for the week, and we want to let y'all know it's some dope ship um we have. Actually I'm really excited. So we've um dropped other podcasts on this platform before, and a lot of you guys have really um enjoyed the ones that we have suggested you guys to listen to. I know that you guys
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throw this out. She's like, you don't Zane out. I used to sneak and read a couple of pages my mom was reading speaking of Mommy for Insecure. She was dating that Asian. It's pretty much my life for real. Now. Yeah, it's like like so, so anyways, guys, if y'all want to check out a new podcast, it is called Purple Panties. UM. And so let me go ahead and let y'all know what what a little bit it's like. It's actually, um
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value is so dope. So I'm listening to it on the train and it starts off with this stud and she was like talking about her strap and she like that and how she's gonna suck this bitch and then they start sucking right and they're like fucking fucking, And I had to look around the train because like it was like full on moaning, and I was like, oh my god, yeah people gonna it wasn't. I was so
honting had to turn it off. But it was so well made, like I felt like I was watching TV but didn't need to see it, Like I'm excited, that's my first scripted podcast. It was and then you know what, it was thirty minutes. It was short enough, like I love it the sound of like it really is, like the actors are good and I'm super excited and red I read some more into it um and even like one of the cliffhangers is like what happens when you find out the man of your dreams as a woman.
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just asking. Anyways, I'm gonna continue for the rest of this episode. Anyways, guys, we're gonna go ahead and job into the horrible decision um for this week. And I'm super excited to have this conversation. So if you guys do not follow Naya now only is she like an o G in real life, was a stripper, now a rapper on TV. You can see her really everywhere. She's also a mom and y'all know me and Wheezy we'll be talking about whole ship, but we don't have kids.
So a lot of our listeners do have kids and kind of want to worry like not worry, but kind of want to have us discussed how to stay sexy after having a baby. Um, and you're also in a relationship, so I wanted to get into that. So I guess what what do you think was one of the biggest changes with you after having your baby and even your
your body vagina? Okay, so this is what everyone tells you, like when you're about to have give birth and stuff that, like contractions, contractions, but you should know this because you are going to push a baby through your vagina, right. No one tells you that you truly could possibly be
ripped from the ruta to the fucking tutor. So when I when I when I get birth, they have to cut me right like in my area to like make more space for my baby to come on, they're gonna go listen to ain't no. So I had a couple sitsches down there that I needed to heal. So I had to definitely sit out and sit out and wait and stuff like that. Did you feel like she got knocked around? It was just it was bad. Honestly, the first six months after having my child, it was the worst.
It was the worst. Sex was horrible. It was you just don't feel like your vagina. It took my vagina I would say, like ten months to get back to normal. But so you pushed the baby out, right, does it feel like you're taking a ship out of your pussy? And I had I took a epidour, so I didn't feel ship. I didn't feel anything. And that's another thing. So I'm sitting there and I'm looking at her. The
baby comes out, the baby is crowning or whatever. She's like, give me the scissors, and I'm like, for what And she's just like and I'm like, bitch, is not that much space between the vagina and the ass. I did a lot of space once your vagina experience, between the pussy and the ass and this, but just like, wait, she cut between you're pussing your ass to like she has to make it likely that didn't alive about with just girls in it, right, And it was so funny.
It was only like fifty people in there and we were just all it was me and a friend of mine had a baby. We were talking with women about all of the questions they had about vaginas and she Hina got a hell after ye and she was say, comes back on really hell your vagina because I wanted to fun like three weeks later, and my man is like, babe, like they told us we had to wait at least six weeks, and you should wait a little bit long ago you got said. I was like, that doesn't feel loose?
I did? I did? I had sex at three weeks? You did have sex at three didn't? Did it feel like it went back down? How long does it take for a vagina to get back down? My vagina? The inside of my vagina, to me pretty much like went back like normal. It was really the going like the entrance of my like my grand opening, like that ship was all funked up, Like my curb appeal wasn't Did you consider vain whatever now? Because it's like the statics was so good, but just like that one, the the
little area between the vagina and the asshole. Yeah. So I wanted to bring something up that I don't know if you remember, and I want to talk about it because I wonder if other people have the same feelings. Do you remember when you were saying like, I'm not suing, nobody just had kids? Yeah, I used to. Yeah, Now
what scared you about it? I don't know. Um, you know it's crazy because then I told you I with his baby mama and she she had mad kids with him, and thought about it until now because you were like, I don't want to and then and then we said you didn't want a girl with no kids? Yeah, like you said the babies too new that I said once, once my friends have babies, like because you know, I'll
be working all my friends. But once my friends have kids, I was like, oh, I don't know if I would want to suck them after a kid, like I don't have to meet either, not I like them seven years I've had kids. But then I mean, no, no, you said that they had to have seven year old I said seven year old kids? Like once they were I said, at least a two year old? Like do you think about like because I'm like you putting your dick in it? Like are you worrying? Your face though? Is in it? Bro?
I know, but I'm saying for the time, but I mean, my whole face is down there, and I just know a whole last human being just came out to eat a vagina. And I says, got to give two years, especially going through with my parts her child, but to be like two years and better, maybe even three. But like, what is it though? Because I know what I went through and my healing parts, I don't want I don't want it. I don't want it. I don't about to make me request the C section with this talk. I
don't want to keep a hundred Yeah, I don't want it. Now, what do you think? Um? Was the biggest issue with Like did you have any kind of like body image issues? Were you feeling a certain way? Yeah? I definitely. I gained a lot of weight, but I mean my dude is like into like all my body types, big, small, a little whatever. He never makes me feel no type of way, So that helped. But um, honestly, the big my biggest thing was letting the pussy hill because I
fucked crazy. You know what I'm saying, Like, I like like turning up, but when you're vagina is broken for like six eight months in the relationship, that's now when it comes to like so like you have you have the baby. You pushed him out right, and then like how did you get to go back because you know you've talked about threesomes and things like that you've had with your man. Could you go back into that after the baby. How did that we have three sesomes after
the baby? We had three sasons before. I think the number one thing when it comes to threesomes, whether you're you have the woman has to want it. Like I tell girls that all the time, Like, don't try to have a threesome with your nigga because you think like, oh, I gotta be this fun turn up girl. Then this bitch comes in the room and you're like in the corner crying somewhere because you emotionally could not handle this. So so we get like bitches because I like bitches,
and I like threesomes because I like three SOMs. It's not like, let me have a threesome to lock my new dude down. We get We get asked us a lot. How do you bring it up with your partner about wanting to have a threesome? Oh, I'll be like, baby want tonight? Oh reverse with dude? What about a dude that's never And by the way, we have already talked about this, but johns asked the same question every week, and so let's go on reverse. John wants to fuck.
Oh no way, that's that's two way. You know. Damn Jamale wants to fuck Tierra with another chick. Tierra had been together for like a year and a half, but he doesn't know how to bring it up without making Tierra feel insecure. So how can he bring this up in a way that will make her feel comfortable enough? What are the things that he has to do? How should that conversation? Um? Okay, boom, this is This is what I go up on my dude right like I go.
He deletes it now, which gets on my nerves. But I always go into his like cash at his history of like what porn he watched, to be like, oh he was looking at Spanish bitches. Huh, I gotta go. Let's go Spanish bitches this week. So I would say for a guy to put to put like threesome ship like in his thing and then like purposely let her find it and see what she says, and then you could test the waters there. I have actually brought the same thing up, saying like I think you'll should watch
pouring together and be like what do you think of this? No, but I don't even think that, because that's like what if the bitch ain't searching for his through his phone? I think leave your laps, bitch, just looking through. Leave your laptop open, because I'm gonna give you the reaction that he could say. So you're really looking up three suns? Is that what you want to do with me? Yeah, bitch, is with it or not? You know what I think?
To New York wor a great question, Mandy hasn't here that like it says, as a new mom, how does having a baby change your body and your libido? Like your sex more sex or less sex? Or it goes up and down? Like before my baby, I was like a little sex kid and I wanted to definitely work. But now because you're you have you know, you have to take care of a child, you don't have as much energy. So honestly, my sex job goes up and down. And it's crazy because I don't think I lost it completely.
We had a we had a homemail about that. And I don't think men realize the energy even of being a new mom, Like, yeah, were probably sucking like rabbits before the baby. But now and not only that, not only do you have a job, like and you're always on the go, always somewhere at events, are somewhere. You're still the mother of the house, so you're still probably cleaning the house, doing everything about the house. But now you also gotta take care of the whole last human being. Yeah,
and my man is like my second child too. I gotta cook when he comes home. He's like, babe, were were like, nigga, you don past fifteen fast food restaurant. You know, I had a full day of work, Like you know what I'm saying, Like they don't understand that sometimes, so that that that's sort of a funer balance. I mean, when you we're pregnant, did you find that you want to text more? They said while I was talking about pregnant? Yeah, did he say your pussy taking? Are you pregnant? I
didn't want him to eat me out? That was so weird for me, Like what's the belly star? You thought maybe he could see the baby inside? I was like, no, I couldn't see what Maybe he was maybe but maybe he was gonna look inside and they hided his child. Why? I don't know. Why? Why do you want to eat you out? Suck my ship up right right so you know you know I'm rubbing into my body. You try to keep snatched. So I'm into myself, Like I'll be like I like sing in front of a mirror, you know, like, yes,
so you were, and I didn't like. I like, I'm a is it a pillow? Is what is it like laying back getting head? Yeah? I like to lay back and get head. I don't really like sitting on faces. I do occasionally, but I don't like it. So when I could come, it's usually on my back. So once the belly start getting to a point where I can't even see the top of your motherfucking head, I'm like, this is weird because you can't even see him anymore.
You're just looking at your baby, and you got the baby like moving, like, oh, whats y'all got going on out there? Like that was weird. So like the last trimester, it was like a pillow and ass up in the air. Honey. I was like, hello, I still wanted to funk, but I just didn't want no head because it was just
weird for me. So so another another direction we wanted to take this because now that you're a mommy, UM, a lot of people, I would say, both men and women, feel like once you become a mom you have to carry yourself a certain way. Um, you have to be a certain way. Is now you're a mom and you went want your child to see this, So, um, could you pull up this picture UM for me real quick. So I have a photo and we posted it on
our Instagram and it got a ton of comments. Um. So because you wrap your on tv um, you are very confident with your body. You wear whatever the funk you want, and this is probably something similar to some things you've worn before. The picture is a picture of a lot of you guys have seen. It turned into a meme, and meme says, are y'all okay with your wife stepping out like this? And it's a picture of Gucci Maine with his wife Kesha, and she's wearing a
see through jumpsuit. I mean she's wearing what it looks like to me underneath. Undwere like, you can't pay she's got an underwear. And honestly, when I saw this, I was like, I've seen mad chicks and mesh jumpsuits. I don't really know what. I don't understand, but I think it's now because of quote unquote, now she's a wife. So she's a wife that's so but have but she's also a mother, and that she also has a brand and things like that. As well, so like, well, she's
supposed to stop everything. Let me ask you for for our listeners who don't have brands and maybe they just want to go to the club, but their home girls and they saw they saw someone on Instagram with this, and it was like, I know, I would look bombing that ship too, and they should get it. They should get it. They should get it the conversations should you are like I like my The whole thing is if you are living in your troop and you are in a relationship, they should accept you for who you are.
When my deal met, I was a fucking thought and I was willing to stop being a thought if he was willing to stop being a thought because he was a thought. So we got together and we both just you know, love each other and stuff like that. But I didn't have to change the way AD dressed. The only thing I had to not disrespect him, and you know, obviously in different aspects, but my clothes, my appearance, the
way I speak, Like I asked him something. Sometimes I'm like, baby, you know, sometimes i'd be like my thought days on He's like, I don't care, Like I know, I know you. So when your partner knows the core of you. I know you got that hole in you. He was like, I know there's a little hole still and there's fun maybe since you that you used to be thought, he used to be thought. Have y'all ever discussed no monogamy and open relationships? Um, he's definitely not with that, and
I'm not with that when y'all have threesomes. We have threesomes here, Like, he can't funk no bitch when I'm not over No, I don't know. That's cheating to me, that's cheating. No, that is I mean we bought out there and I say, ing, that's what your rule is, and don't look around him, then that's it. Yeah, don't like, just don't like, don't have no. And I think it goes both ways, Like in a relationship with me and him, right, it's been pretty public. Everybody knows that we're being together.
But no, but everybody kind of thinks that we have this perfect thing, right and me and my dude both have had infidelities on both sides. So you know what makes me it's not everybody business. I want to bring black on each other on social media. I want to bring back that because it just made me think the fact that you did say that, Um, A lot of people say you can't turn a hole into a housewife. Do you think the fact that both of y'all was
hosed at one point that that, oh it helped. I think it helped because like coping around the block and you know, yeah, but you guys still both cheated, So do you feel like that's always something that you would expect? So if I didn't have my whole phase and I haven't been a whole and now I'm dating a dude, should he just automatically assume that I'm probably still gonna
be a whole? Like when minds it was like he knows why I cheated and I know why he cheated, right, And that's why we both were able to move on because we both have flaws into why to make the other person feel insecure to go back backtrack and do you know, go back that route. So that's what I'm saying, Like when this ship comes out later on, even like this ship like, oh my god, NAILI are a man cheated on each other before that's never made it to social media. You know what I'm saying, you might try
to put a magnifying glass on there. Whatever. Me and him both know. He knows what he did to provoke me to do it, because I thought it was over like you felt like you were to cheat? What he did to me? Know what he did and I'm provoked me to cheat? Yes, what he did to me, I'm not going to funk up his character that he it to me. I would me and him was going to be over like and that I was like, you know what, I don't want to be with this niven no more
so I'm just gonna jump out the window. This nigga really ain't gonna want to be with me. That's what I'm I thinking was it's retarded. Now I think I'm like that was stupid as I was like, you know what he thinks? I'm getting back when I'm gonna funk somebody. Do you feel like if your partner cheats? I was gonna say, yeah, like if your partner cheefs, do you feel like you kind of have a pass now to cheat or how does that? How do you think anybody has a cheated cheating? To me, it's like and he
didn't cheat first and then I cheated. Oh he did something. He cheating. He cheated before I even cheated, like you cheated before me before. Yeah, like cheating if like I think something's real, cheating when like you're being deceitful right you out here not telling me what was going on. Blah blah blah blah blah. So like that already hurts one person just to hurt back, like, yeah, that's what
that's what we didn't do. I think that that's why we're able to up, Like if you're cheating as a result because you're angry and it wasn't she I don't know, So let me can I ask both of y'all so than actually, because because we all are friends, I know that both of y'all, even you saying this, you both have been in relationships where your partner has cheated and you stayed with them. What a lot of people feel like once they're cheated on, they can't stay with their partners.
So how did both of y'all get past the cheating part? We? I think that me and my man wasn't like no, no, no. I think that me and my man both were able to get past it because he bought his ship to me. I bought my ship to him. And that's why I think that it didn't make it to social media communication. So you told on yourself. I told on myself and that's a big deal. And he told him that's never happened to me, and I think that that eliminates the embarrassment. Yeah,
you have to find out. See I felt embarrassed. That was the number one feeling, and I felt like I couldn't go back from that. She was someone I knew. I got cheated on a lot. But you know, but I think the main thing for me is I was younger, and I didn't really forgive it all. Like I brought it up a lot, and I think that you do
have to forgive. You can't keep bringing it up. And that's the thing that really sucked me up because I would, I mean anything, We could be having a great time and I would just bring it and little things would trigger me, you know what I mean. He cheated on me with a girl that had red hair. If we passed someone in the street, he would, he would watch my demeanor change. Just little things could tick me off. And I am a guys not in his head like yep,
this you've been cheated on. You've been cheated on. Oh my baby's Like can we go Um, but no, I mean you have to forgive, you do. And that is the thing, that thing that ruined it. I mean, he wasn't somebody I should have been with, but not forgiving. I mean, cause imagine if like and that's another thing, you can't sucking out of my friends. I didn't his
friends like that can't a friend. But like a small city and like everybody you know, I could go to the fucking strip club and see the girl he and that was hard. Um. But yeah, if I ever got cheated on again and I was in a serious relationship, I think the main thing would be is me telling him to myself, can I handle this? And am I gonna shut the funk up and move past it? Because you do get started for it too. Yeah, I would bring it up and what can I do about it?
Took me about eight months to like really because like together, we've been together like four years now, so it took me about like eight months to really really because really really digested and say, he came to me with this he like you know what I'm saying, because he saved me in the embarrassment. So that's really the mooth leverage
that he had in the situation. You know. And another thing too, the fact that it wasn't like a bartender like, because that's what I got cheated on a lot back in the day in my strip and I always kept a nigga right, and they would cheat on me with these bitches who you know what I'm saying. Any nigga they see me with, you already know bitches like, oh he was with Nia. He threw two dollars that nire I want to He's so fucking weak. There's this this dude, right,
I gotta tell you all this story. You know, and you know what I'm talking about, but I'm not gonna give them no names. I went to There was this dude I was dating from Brooklyn and you know whatever, we go with me and my girls want to day party. I call him. I'm like, hey, what you're doing. He's like, I'm in a city with some of my friends we
met and my couple of girls. We go meet up with them to have dinner and it's momor Day weakenness coming up, and I'm like, look, I'm not going to Miami, but my I mean, I'm not going to can Coom for momor Day weekend, but my girls is gonna be out there day. I was like, day going. I was like, take care of my girls, like you know how I am. I'm like, take them in the club. You already know the back back. So I'm like, look, just take care
of my home girls. You know what I'm saying him and his dudes because it's him and his friends and it's my friends. So obviously I'm not saying fun any of my friends. Just make sure they're good in the clubs. They go to can Coon, they come back one of the extra girls, like you don't know, such and such,
fun such and such. This weekend, I was like, no, and it was one of it was your friends that I introduced, And I'm like, you know what I mean, So that that ship hurts, Like That's why I'm so happy that my man is not weak for these more the Crystal and um saving the embarrassment when they went to Orlando, I was like, oh, I need this. Yeah.
I feel like the moral of this story is fellas if you got a girlfriend and you didn't cheat it on her, you should go go to her like a grown ass man and tell her that you cheated on her. Because as FBI inspector Gadget as bitches that we are, we are going to find out we always do. We
always do. So I came clean about my ship because I know that I'm going to continually continue to evolve and get bigger and bigger and bigger, and I know that people are gonna try to come in and funk up the foundation that me and my man has built, even even this interview right in here, Like you know, people are gonna probably try to throw their jobs, but ultimately, at the end of the day, me and my Man
have a solid fucking foundation. The only people that's gonna break me and my man is gonna be me and my Man when we decide to go seperate ways. That's you're very public with your relationship, and I actually wanted to bring a question to you as Sweezie, because we see ourselves becoming more, you know, like bigger and bigger, and there are like so many of our listeners who try to figure out who we're sucking and because we brag about them. I think you said someone was trying
to figure out to even love her boy. So as we get bigger, would you have a public relationship on your on Instagram with who you date next or because you're very secretive with that. But I'm wondering if it's because like you're nervous that yeah, same, I think that it's not necessarily Like if I'm worried about a breakup and like going through that, I just more someone to protect that person, like as people as people could be
on the internet towards me and you find you. It's almost like me and Mandy will talk about the ship that we do and then they'll go on and act like they heard some new info. They just a house. They just because just to know that someone could do that to somebody else, Like I would never want to put somebody through that because I just know how ridiculous people are and like how hurtful they try to be in negative and it's just like why bring someone in
my life like that? No, but that's why you you got to see if I spoke to my partner right and even with the infidelities, if I knew that he would be uncomfortable about me even talking about it, and then I wouldn't talk about it. If there's certain things that like I said, he's like, yeah, baby, I know you say thought days like you know, we have this conversation, so I respect. There are certain things that I won't
talk about. Like I said, I didn't give you guys the reason why I treated because I'm not here to assassinate his character. That's still the child of the father of my child. But I feel like once you have that the connection with somebody, you guys sit down and you have like you know, these are the guidelines, Like I'm Alec because he lets me rock and I I don't even feel like I'm like chained up or not, Like it's not about me having this hope for Sona.
It's more so like you don't know if I have just learned, Like the more that we do this, people really try to be hurtful, like they really liked funk with you. So I don't give this is I this is going to come with what I do, but you don't deserve that. That's where I feel like, like what if the guy is like, no, baby, fuck them, like I don't care. The only time I would do that then is if that person is in a creative field like me and can understand why people do this. For example,
is I don't even want to say his name. Someone bigger than us has a bigger podcast than us. I'm like, bro, I can't handle reading these awful things. Well, me and Mandy did a therapist episode. I was feeling great about us having therapy, and then reading things about her made me almost mad at her again. I was like, I don't know how to separate these things. He was like, I don't even see him anymore, Like I just I don't really don't. But it's not even it's like reading
them and not letting them bother you. So all I could think of is like, if I get a bigger and that person still sticks there, something's gonna have to stick. Something's gonna make you wonder too much, or you know, like I think people can bring you more doubt than you want them to. And that's why I think public relationships are a scary place to be unless all they're like suck the world together, like maybe it is best,
but both very independent minds thinking. Because when when I when we first got together, he had an X and she was on the internet like, oh you wanta leave me for a strip of hole and like all of this crazy ship and the just still on site. But um, she don't know, but she said if it wasn't for her, then I wouldn't have my child. You want my child to do it but still on site. But I don't bizarre. Hopper's bizarre, but I still you want to block or
something no shape. But you know when we first got together, you know, even Nix was like, I urge you night leaders stripper, you know what I'm saying. Like and you know, I didn't hear too much about him because he's in Jersey, but he came. He showed me like pictures of him
wearing shirts that said who handler. I was like hands And it's crazy because I feel like there's so many men who maybe won't quote unquote cuff for home because of what other people are gonna say and how they're gonna say it, and be like, that's who you with, that's who you're gonna bring home to you was evolving, you think, because I think that I think that, like, like because when they aren't scared, people everybody want to
But that's the thing. If women aren't scared to tell you they are anymore, then there's nothing to hide, right an It's because we've seen holes get wiped and I think it really started. I know we're talking about Rose, but Kim Kardashian yeah, I think that at least in my age. Right, you got in and the coal or whatever. But watching Kim Kardashian legit go from Niga and no one give a fun Nobody they didn't because you're but the way to me, to me, this is what I'm
talking about. She did her ship with Finesse yeh. She knows. You don't see Kim even now or even around the time when the sex tape came out, Like you didn't see Kim running around like yeah, you know, I sucked it. I'm so good at it. Like she didn't do that. She just kim putting up that picture with the Chanelle bikini this week. I said that the three kids. But
what man knows, I'm coming home every night. So even like I can I say lyrics like even now, I'd be like, you know, I've reminisce on my old days, like yeah, nig gotta pay if you want to play like I do that. You're saying my wraps and stuff like that. What do you think about He's trying to talk about being like when you post pictures like that, right, there are people that say you must be insecure if you need to post that. Oh for like I'm like, honest,
but good good, That's how I feel. But it's crazy because there's also the other side of the coin where people feel like, if you're a kept woman, why not why not save them for him? What do you say some songs, my nigga, take the pictures of I'm gonnahow these niggas? What then and be honest with you. I think the thing that's exciting about like when I choose to show my body when I've had a man or whatever, like whatever the case may be, I feel proud of
what I'm putting up. If you'd be my new titties, old titties, whatever, Like I feel good about my body just because I got a nigga. Yeah he yeah, it's for him. You saw a picture. He gets to funk it. Right. That's a thing like they act like as soon as you post on Instagram, right, a million likes is a million fucks Like no bro, right, Like there's so much more ship on the internet that I feel like this little thing just to me and this day an age
to me. I just want girls to kind of go back to still having a balance and not giving out all of our secrets and like that we've been angle the stuff it. We're gonna go head y'all now and hop into our homemail segment. UM. In this segment, we read some um some letters from your listeners. If you want to go ahead and send in your homemail, please email us. UM that's horrible decisions at gmail dot com.
So this first one, the title says faithful but tempted, and I wanted to, UM, definitely ask this with you since you're in a relationship and she's actually been in this relationship for four and a half, I see we should him ask coming here. So it says, my boyfriend and I have been together for about four and a half years. I am twenty three and he is five. When I met him, I was pretty much having fun with guys, and it was with seven men before him,
basically in one year. I grew feelings for him before having sex. She was with seven men before him in one year basically, So she was with seven men in one year and then by number eight by monthly. You know that's not bad? Wait seven her whole life or just that year. I took it as my whole I took it as a whole life, did you Yeah? Maybe she just lost Yeah, maybe her whole life. Okay, So I grew feelings for him before having sex, and when
we had sex it was just not the best. I continued with everything and fell in love with the person that he is, and eventually the sex did get better. But the last few months it has gone pretty downhill. We went from having sex pretty much every day to maybe every other week. What kills me is that to him, this is okay. I have always had a higher sex drive, but it has gotten to the point where even when I do touch him or even suck his dick, he
doesn't even really get hard. I have gained some way over the years and it has made me really insecure, but when I get horny, I put all of that aside and really try to initiate it. The fact that he hardly gets turned on anymore really hurts me and makes me want to not try anymore. Recently, I have gotten into contact with an old friend who I had an who I had a thing with but never Oh no, she said, who I had a thing with but never
had sex with. And I'm extremely tempted to cheat. This friend has been making me feel so special, giving me the attention that I just can't seem to get from my boyfriend. He tells me I'm sexy and that he can treat me so much better than my man. Oh, he ain't ship, which I understand could just be his way of getting me in bed, but it just makes me smile and makes me feel good about myself. I have also felt this way with a few guys that have tried to hit me up. I thought about cheating
many times, and I really feel horrible about it. I love my boyfriend with all my heart. It would never do anything to hurt him, but I just can't do it anymore. I need advice on what to do. I love him and picture my life with him, but I feel like our relationship is currently destroying any confidence I had. Thanks in advance, love you guys. They need a break. She said that she thinks she's getting or she feels
insecure about it. You could be projecting that because I really refused to believe that men see our bodies the way we think they look, which I told you I got more niggas when I was fat, So I really believe that. I think like like confidence really reeks, so like if you aren't feeling that hot, he could probably tell. But she said she puts it aside when she's horny, like yeah, but like you you're still she thinks that she puts it aside, but it's still maybe very visible
to him. Like and then for her to mention that she's gained weight, it makes her insecurity. So to mention this is the way she says the thing about talking about it when no, not that she said that he thinks that their sex life is fine. Yeah, so maybe they have had that talk because he's thinking young she said young abe not having sex, that they should have sex all the time. Yeah, like three, and I want
to everybody, Yeah, everybody. I was so scared that, like at one point I seuched so much dick at three. I was like, I'm definitely getting like a cold swords coming. Yeah. Well, now that we know, we were swallowing millions at a time, so we fought, we found the whole. We got to do that update what swallowing millions? Rode in? We had a guy saying we got home. Update. Sorry side notes to the girl, We're coming back to you, but this
is a dope fast update. So a guy rode in last week, maybe a week before, and he said that his wife he came in her eye, and she said she felt the sperm swimming. So it's been like years, maybe a year or two. He said, it went by, and he said, she keeps talking about this. So another girl rode into us and she goes, it's because there's millions of sperm that come out, and if it really went in her eye, it was probably like burrows to find the egg. No way, bro, that's what she said.
I don't think that's real. Told me I've had come in my eyes. We all have. But it hurts. I'm just like, it only hurts for like a day or two. A day or two. He might have burrowed you. No, I definitely, no, he definitely, but you know, and it looks like pink guy, like you're pregnant. I was in the corner and it was just like for like a day day and a half. I was just like it was red. Did you feel anything swimming? Not? I didn't feel nine swimming, that's all. I don't think you can
feel swimming. Two microscopic. I mean, I've never felt a swim in my mouth. I'm never supposed to. But I'm trying to think because if we could feel the wind is kind of micro there's microscopic stuff in the wind, right right, No, we could feel the wind. No look no, no, that doesn't work. Okay, my bad. You know what. I don't like science, just like Loki's saying ship that reminds me of Wax every fucking episode. Because when she mentioned Black Panther last week and she was like, it was
a march and now you're talking microscopic wind. Bitch, islam is don't Mary always see? It's the school for nothing, you know what? I want to get an episode where you will Wax sit across the table, don't have chill, just be like NaSTA. I really don't like what's the stand ford? What's that the stand ford? You really doing this National Association, Space Association, National Association. That was pretty good. Oh it's harder than that. But space isn't it? And
national isn't it? Right? For national? I didn't know say oh you don't even know, bitch, not no space in it. And that's a fact. I was like, they might and I asked me, you know what, and I know a bitch right to be like, damn y'all hos dumb bitch, get your own podcasts and teaching it a national Aeronautics Space Administration. She's a national association space association because A normally stands for association or administration. Any talk that it's
I mean, I think you're young too. Not only that, I guess. I wanted to bring this up because I wanted to ask you, and you I guess and ship myself. I'll go ahead and let you know. To me, when dating somebody, sex to me is very important. So I think, um, if sex is one of those things that is important for you, um, it seems like it may not be as important to him. And that's one of those things that I think to have not only a flourishing relationship,
but one that is honest. Um, you guys have to kind of find a median or sometimes sex from jump was it wasn't good? Actually, that's what I'm saying. He must be looks really good, nigga. If they're different bad in the beginning, people get stuck because would you hold on because you know, sometimes we like and then well we fuck him it's bad. Then it's like I know, I try again, but that's it having to second maybe third time. I was going to tell you, he said,
was this work? Cream bitch? Creamy do you know what cream stand for? I don't have to check it. I'll just check it out. Just check. Jeeves met a new girl. He says that he's been sucking her and it's so bad. He's like, I had cut her off and I told her it's for another reason. But he's like, it's because we're not sexually compatible. He's like she's into art too, like she's pretty, Like I cannot it's cray because we So we had another homemail about this and I'm just
gonna squeeze it in here. So witch, we ain't gonna read your mail, but listen to this advice just here for you. So she's dating a guy and the dick is bad. Do you date someone who has bad dick if you're getting money out of it? Otherwise you need to leave? Even I want, like, I mean, what are you getting out of the dating? Like if you're trying to get some out of nigger? Maybe, but if not, no, yeah, like if it's your girl or this is like why are you guys sucking people? There? Trash? Just go? But
but I don't want. I need girls to understand though, you know, like even me, like I'm a very sexual person. In four years of our relationship, this sex, my sex life has not always been perfect. Like like just the other day, Yes, I want people to know there's an up and down, but you're down two months. So it's so bad sex for someone or maybe someone who just doesn't want to have sex the other Let me get
to what I was saying. Like the other day, like I was sucking my nigga's dick and then I was like, I stopped, and I was like I haven't sucked a dick like this a long time, right, And he's like, yeah, babe, good And I was like, so I stopped feeling bad, Like damn, I don't be sucking his dick like I need to. So like today when he was about to leave, I was like, hold on, nigga, let me get sucked the dick. So girls, we got in mindset and make sure that we're doing what we're supposed to do. Still
and it goes. It balances back and forth because for a while I was thinking, don't be clapping camera. I was we were talking about we were talking about and you don't want to say that. I was like, why my niggers, like, you know, we like we have our downspare I'm like, why my nigga, And I'm like, bitch, you're not sucking dick brown here like it used to all of these like like I sucked his dick, like
like NAILI on the Pole Days. You gotta get Nancy, like I got it like that balls everything and the sex. Right after that, I was like, oh, it was me. It was my fault. You said you technic like when he was on the Pole Days? Is that because when you were stripping? Did you find yourself to be more sexual? I'm talking about even because I was talking to him at the end of my Pole Days kind of I sucked it really because I feel like I've had fantasies.
This is so embarrassing. I have dreams about stripping and getting sucked while you're stripping, I don't know, like being in the strip club and then like I give somebody dance and I get sucked in the strip club. Like I have dreams about it. Money. I don't think that's it in the strip club. I don't know. But just reacting like when we was that to there's private ruins what I'm saying. We were talking about lust and fucking stuff something like that. But like I think I have
this fantasy that I'm stripping. If someone looks at me and they want to suck me, and I give them a dance in this room and like we fun. But I think if you're a show girl, ship kind of wait, I'm sorry, I've been the strip clubs. I've been in a bunch of strip clubs. Don't have your passion pit in New Orleans tutsies, uh year, but in private, private rooms, right, okay, like in the strip and then you go give him
a dance. This would be a nice fantasy. But I think because when I'm in a strip shop, I want to yeah you, She's like, I'm not really going to be a stripper. This is just a fantasy. Oh but you know I get too drunk and fall off the poty. I think you should try that, and that's just one drink. I think you should go audition forut tutsis and then you should research purposes. If you're gonna sucking Asian, you may as well be a strip Look, I did it.
The only thing is like I'm gonna have to go too into the outfit, you know what I'm saying that, like the shoes is gonna be a few hunting and I'm like, it's just gonna be. That's fine to get I would do an amateur night another city, just to see how it goes and get the fantasy over with. See now we don't hang out outside the podcast. I would I would travel with you to see this. You know this could be a good I want to see that. I would like to see this. Can I go to it?
Because I wasn't sure you gonna pick that Florida song a stripper and this is my life, remember that. I love that one thing. I left Florida soon I'll pick it up. Who look, well, I gotta stot her for a stripper. You gotta go. We gotta contour my ask because anyways, guys, um, let's go ahead before we leave out now, I let them know what projects you got going on right now where they can find you on this podcast they live, you know, drop somebody yourself, drop
the whole ship. Do do a whole rap right now. You got a whole wrapty, do a whole wrap like they nasty, like I rolled the deac in like that. You even get the city girls up here for ship like that? Don't know. I'm done. You canceled them only because I like their their music, so I do, but they're pretty homophobous. I'm the following was way too upset about that. What fury almost made me cry. I cheered up to me. He was talking about it. But we
have to remember beat the dude. Kids is hanging themselves. I know it's dying in right, Damn, let's not. Let's not in on. So y'all never have heard this songs? You don't remember the song? No wait, where the oh? And this is my life? I got kids on my mind, Like, hold on, that's the dance you got. I don't know what's called make a hustle body eggs should his trash beat? No, it was good, but he's your names. I like pull up, pull up like that? So what you're going on? I know?
Um I'm t go ahead one time. I can't wait for people to see me back on TV. I'm excited about that. Um. I got a new project coming out soon. I still haven't figured out what I want to name it, but um, I went down to Atlanta hooked up with some Atlanta producers. So you know, I'm excited about that
because I think that's what's been missing for me. Not necessarily my skill, but my production needed to elevate, So I'm really excited about the producers I'm working with UM and Yeah, the TV new projects, some songs we would love to drop it. At the end of Yeah, y'all sent it over. And then I have um NAILI Wasted, which is my fitness line. I did be liking them. I do like them, but I feel like I don't want to be one of those girls that just wears workout clothes. But I'm not work out. No, it's I
don't workout. I mean I mean in my head, I mean working out. I write Dick. You know, actually I don't know if I haven't really shared it. That's a workout, bitch. My body hurt right now I writing. I'm like writing Dick every time I felt. But but I be telling something because I used to like, I'm more of a like. Of course, though this asked up in the air. You know that's not me. I don't like writing Dick, but now that I am like, I didn't like riding Dick.
And then then when I staw going to the gym and I started working legs, like how to like you? Because my legs strength, I built the strength. So now like I've well, I'm I'm building to go to the jumper. Dick, cam down, Calm down, I'm building my time muscles right now while writing Dick, haven't I mean, can't do it? Workout closed a bitch naked? So what I need to work? I mean, but I'm saying you could do. You could
go workout. Remember knocked up? When when when you're in the gym and you're like doing squads and stuff, say this is the rod, Dick, this is the rodin canna be honest with you too. So when when I was bigger, I felt like everything on me was so firm, probably because my fat had my skin all like it was firm. And my booty jiggles now and I'm enjoying as well as the nigga I'm fucking is enjoying my but no, but it was like a firm booty. My booty now
jiggles so nice. Where you work there's a gym, Like at the end of the day, we think, I know you work out four times a day, You're not gonna get me to go. So I care about any I'm trying to tell you. I'm trying to tell you all right, Dick, And that's not for me sex game when you got like when I started working out, you know, I knows how to fuck. I know I'm telling you about how to do this thing. You know what I'm thinking. So but when I got in a gym, like you know
what I'm saying, they just got way better. Like my stamina, well I chew gum, so my jaw muscles aren't pretty strong. And outside I don't and you talk what other working needs to be done? Um, I don't know, but all right, so we're gonna go ahead. We're on social media. Can they follow you even though you dropped it in the underscore in y A period l E boom o g ni y y'all know that. Y'all can follow us um on Twitter now at Horrible Pod. You can follow us
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