Ep71: PusséPalooza Feat. Kaz & Low-Key

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all right, that's how you start a goddamn show. Hi, guys, So I really wanted to call this the Gaming Episode because I have so many men here with me. I'm very excited to tell you guys that I am in the studio with Kaz and Mr Loki the do say boys, Hello, Now I'm gonna get drags the full disclosure. Low had no idea what I was breaking him. Did you text him to name that horror with that? Yeah? I just didn't think it would be like, bro, come with you. So let me just say black shoot. Twitter is gonna

drag me. I was doing a podcast earlier and I was like, oh, I got a dip. I'm going to do one with Kas from Flagrant and this dude Low He's like and he was like yeah, Loki. I was like, oh yeah, yeah, no, no no, no. I was talking to someone and I was saying I wasn't sure who you were, but I think it's because I don't drink. Say it's like it. So can you tell people who you are?

I go first. I'm one of the official hosts for Pelosa, official hosts for Trap Karaoke, host on Beach one Radio, and new host to my own podcast called Doing Scared, which actually dropped today. So am I allowed to come on? I don't never do it? Yes, you can do nothing Scared A wide open. Okay with my booty, but training camps? Can you introduce yourself for the people who probably know

but maybe don't know? Whatever? Sure, I'm kas one of the three hosts of Flicking two podcast and last week is not worth shout out to Alex is also producing this year. Sure, everybody who listens to this show exactly

who he is. Yeah, you were just saying that, um when you were in l A. The people some women new hour show on your show and yeah, yeah, well I'm not really I don't be saying the same thing to me right now, like you said that outside of when do you hit recall No, he said people knew the show, Like now you did say a girl knew the show, because like, yeah, not like those those A home girl. I think I'm not gonna Homegirl, Like it

wasn't even like I was meeting here for anything. It was just like, oh, she was a fan of the show and she knew your show. And I was like, Okay, I only brought that up because he said loudspeakers. So the reason I say that is because it's been really

cool to have this little community of black pods. I'm really happy about it, even why I'm really not feeling you right now, and I don't I know people can't see you won't talking to about me and Alex you talk about about we don't need to talk about I'm not talking about you. Damn notice Science send that quick pay yet for this episode. So me and me and Alex's gotta me and Mandy bab going on right now. I'm kind of like I'm about a lot before before we just larious. All y'all need to know is he's

trashed and he is not working on himself. So whatever he's been telling you on the podcast, I think there's a lot you know, it's gonna sound like me and you're fucking because that's what everybody if I didn't know keep a stack before. Like I've seen y'all two together and hung out together. I thought y'a was working. Everybody does, yeah, because I always on each other's Instagram story and because we'll be working. Let me tell you how it happened.

My first time recording with Alex or him recording our show UM LUPI was supposed to come on something happens, I Love Lupi, And so what happened was we had to do a random episode and we did it about breakups, and him and I were both going through a breakup, and we decided to be each other's breakup buddies. So they saw we want to be black, that's necessarily break up. Actually, this doesn't sound like it. It doesn't help, no, but we want to see lax hanpus. And so we went

out together for the first time. I'm gonna call you out and you were like, yo, what is this? And is this And I'm like no, this is like a run thing. And we never talked about again and we have been friends ever since the store. It's hard to get it out the way like now we quick. And then when Alex came to the Atlanta show to film for us UM, we shared a room together and I took a ship and he looked at me after and

was like, it's never gonna happen. It's definitely never gonna happen. Now, like, I've never had a girl take a ship in my present. I mean, you probably ain't know, but we was texting when I was on the toilet. He was like, Nigga, that sink ain't doing nothing. You know, when the sink is running for a long time, it's like smoking and I don't see the towers on. All right, So Low kind of mentioned that he was a little like he

didn't know what he was getting into. So I'm just going to start this off with a bank no pun but pun. So I have a few questions just to kind of get to know you guys a little bit better and test your kink, all right, I got some Have you ever would you ever and would you rather? Have you ever tasted your own come accidentally after like a kiss, or tasted it on purpose maybe when you're a teenager something, just to see what it was like. Have you ever tasted it? I've never tasted it on purpose.

You tasted early. I've done it accidentally. Because no, I'm not gonna lie like I've definitely kissed the girl after. Yeah, I've I've kissed the girl after she's swallowed. Yeah, so I don't know what that. I guess it doesn't happen. He tastes like a salty sodium thing. I don't I wouldn't know that. I don't. I don't know what it's. Yeah, I don't know what to what to look for. I don't know looks like I don't know you're talking about. Oh that's you. Ever have you ever been curious though,

like as to your own taste? Seems I'm not that kinking, so not even a little bit. I mean, not saying like you're gonna taste like have you ever been like, damn, it's my ship? Like well, I mean I got what Shorty says. Like, If Shorty says like you taste good, that's all the conviction I need. So have you ever had someone to say you taste bad? No? No? No? So I ken a hunted. I was dating this dude that was taking mad crazy and is ship and when nigga got off and I'm like, yo, now, like a

swallow nigga. It wasn't strong, It wasn't like it was a stink like a because to me, stink smell is like a fishiness. It was just a very strong, like like metallic, like like a manufactured advice. Yeah, it was a very strong all right. Have you ever uh fuck a friends girl? Not after, not before during? Never? No never, no no, no, you know you ain't ship so afterwards, like with conversation and context to ask you for consent, not consent, but like you know, like you know this

either it's to situation fall sex. You were talking dirty at ennis girl watching I've men during I just want to see if you was trashed all right, I know even after, but just like the phone sex. Hey, bro, like months after, I'm gonna tell you, have you ever done a chat? All right? Have you ever have you guys both had anal sex with women? Have you ever seen ship on your dick or your finger after anal? Play? My finger? Yeah? One time? What? Yeah, I gave it

a thumb ski one time. Wait. Now, I just want to know it at random. I mean, like, did you did you supplies her? Was she ready for it? I think she was ready for it? Like, So the reason I bring that up, I never I don't want to exaggerate like it was like a big old joint. It was just a little residue. It's nasty, but I bring it up and we normally don't read hoole male in the beginning, but I got this one. The subject is some ship. I need advice someone literally, so a guy

just recently signed it up to beat my side. But we haven't had sex or anything, but he really enjoys my company for now and I know in the back of his heads he wants to funk. Not a problem. I want to suck too. But the other night we was sitting in the car. I had a dress on, no bra panties, and I attempted to get out. He grabbed me back and stuck his finger in my ass. Surprisingly, it's slipped in, no pain at all. It surprised me even more because I don't even have sex in my

ass because I can't take the pain. It's been a while since I've had a finger there too. Anyway, he takes it out. We're flirting it talking and I think I smelled ship on his finger. He didn't mention anything, but now I know when we finally do have sex, he's gonna do it again. So I'm ready to figure out how to clean the inside of my booty hole because I'm not trying to get ship all over his hands.

They're like, don't eat before you so help me. Please hurry with the response, Vicky, let me tell you what you do, Vicky, A lot of fiber in your diet. I think we just had the episode with um mr fuck this bussy open e pray thoughts a boy, so he said, fiber helps um also fleet, So that's what the gay is called. Douche in their ass, totty much, stick something up your ass, get the water in there to like clean it out. Also, before I know, the dude's gonna stick his finger in my ass after I shower,

I stick my own finger in there, just double check. Wow. Wow, I'm learning a lot of cast your own asshole bit. All right back to the would you ever? Would you ever get a tongue or a finger any and if so, are they what I ever? I'm not gonna lie. I had I had a thumb my ass when I stopped it. Why because the girl was way older, girls like six years older than me, and she was waiting at the time, well at the time I was. I was like, it was like a couple of years ago this wait wait

wait wait wait set the scene. Set the scene alright, So how what happened. Then she was like she's, um, she's sucking my you know, she's giving me a head or whatever, and she just like for her thumb, no my ask she did it. I was like, yo, like no, I guess like the tip of it. But because like that, no, no,

I'm very comfortable with myself and my sexuality. But like because she's she was older, so like she's done that before, Like I can tell how press it was like just like it wasn't a jab, but it was just like it was an uppercut. It was like like like she knew what she was doing, Like it wasn't a sudden movement, so she knew what she was doing. So did it feel okay? But my response was a sudden movement like my name, what you're doing? And she was like, don't worry,

don't worry. If I'm curious. Did she ever licked down there like she like the gooch like you know, yeah, yeah, now for y'all gooches the skin between your balls and your ass. Yeah, she did that, like and I had no problem with that ship, but like she apparently has done this before, and I thought I was another crash than me running in that ass so I don't like, maybe all got the high like it has happened. It

has happened. I think that a lot of men that are like willing to try it will experience because I mean, look, there's not all these gay niggas sucking in the ask for nothing. It feels good, right, there's a cross state stimulation. But I believe the cross state is way deeper than a finger, which is why I think a lot of men can't or don't experience that pleasure because you've got to get higher up and and it's a little more

of a curve. So like niggas that have had a finger, they might be like oh and then feel like nothing or it was okay. It's because they haven't hit that spot yet. But that's why you never seen the movie, um the ship fun what movies that oh my god, broke back man? Uh, that's what the time green dude, you trip, No, not your old trip road trip, road trip.

And remember they went to the doctor and the nurse fucked Stifler, the stiffer dude from yes yeah, and she with two years with two fingers, and he felt it was like going to a prostate or like some price state ship. No, I think he was some price state ship, you know what it was. He was money. And then the bad the bad nurse came out and she did and he's thinking he's gonna, you know, the movie, and then the movie like I don't. I don't feel like I feel like you need consent before you put even

in my ass. Dude, I was sucking for months, have asked me, like, yo, can I still? I mean, mainly that's what your cleanliness though I don't don't. I don't, I don't. That's not a preference from me when I'm sucking a girl to the funker in her ass. It's just like that, it's too much work, and it's just like that's not you might have a big duke. I mean, I know I have one, but it's not I'm gonna

tell you what one of my boys to me. One of my boys, um, he told me like listen, I sucking my girls and ask and I know it's called my dick. Probably a debate, you know, like you see how she hears one of these like somebody we know, somebody he knows, act like there's not a camera directly, but you do the editing somebody alright. Just it's not enjoyable. By the way, I want to say, I appreciate you

all for having that dialogue. Um, A lot of our listeners come from brillion idiots and a lot of niggas was on. You're like, oh, y'all just had energy wax, and now you got this gay nigga this week. Listen, I'm putting the gay niggas on here to give y'all some fucking T too ship. Enjoy the combo, Enjoy this.

I know the previous I'm sorry to last week like so now it's been brilliant, y'all haven't and listening with a lot the previous episode before y'all seven days and honestly it was one of our funniest episodes that it was hilarious. Remember what Mandy told that story about the dude with his wife and kids. He said, bit it ain't judgment, it's amazement. He was awesome and that people I can't handle this, and I'm like, I don't get it. So I just want to let know we are going

to always switch it up like that. Now we've got some real heterosist ship going on. Next week, I don't know, we might have a t girl. But when you kill it yourself. It's like you can listen to whatever, because I listened to the read and like, like we all do what we do, like it ain't gonna make me uncomfortable. Just don't break it this way. But like, dude, you'll put it in my ask but take your tale, all right? And our hour inevitable question we always asked to everybody

is would you rather he asked our suck toos? Like I like you, I like treach ask for It's like keep your toes away from I don't know what is because here's the thing I know. I know you wash your ass. I don't know if you watch your feet. Who said that? That's what I'm saying because an argument is like, oh, will you ship out of your ass? You out of your feet, and it's wipe that ship to the point where it's like it feels clean. It is clean, like you don't you ain't wiping the bottom

of your feet and most of the shower. Yeah, a lot of it's not doing that. A lot of toad sucking most of the time and not suck toes. That's not a thing. But a lot of times, like the asaton is more pleasurable. It's there's a preparation for it because most of the time it's like right after the shower, now when you have suck toes. Was it requested? No, I was just I was drunking drunk, Yeah, I was. I have to be drunk toes like I'm not talking your toes over what what is it about? I just

don't like I don't like feet. I'm not a fe so I don't If I'm doing it, I'm doing it because I'm off the ships. I was using a strap on once s with not who you think? But anyway, I'm sorry. You want to give a lot of clues. I don't right listen to this episode and she maybe now she is. She wasn't listening for me before. God, we're not gonna find we can talk about it. So we can two too many. Let's keep it one day. I said, Now you ain't blowing them tonight, all right?

So the end of this episode, we didn't get you told about this, people listen to it. Got to deal with them. Show got that, man, I was just sitting the back show. I love that watching everybody go through. I go in a group chat my man, I got Alex had to interject a few times. Me and maybe about to come from table and good, I'm sure I'm gonna have some. So we do a to the week every week and it's basically when we talk about different

philias and different fetishes. And this week I could not find the like super long word that I can't pronounce for it. But there's something that I keep seeing porn and it's under the hashtag come gusling and it's specifically when it's like funneled into the mouth, but like normally boot cocky, you nasty name with the funnel with the funnel, like an actual funnel girls that like yeah, okay, no, so like I like to watch Bookocky, right, it's when there's a lot of people in the room they come

on base okay. But the weird thing is like now when I click on BOOKCOCKI sometimes they bring out this weird ship right to like like feed them come with spoons or like putting it in the thing and the drinking it out of the glass, which I really don't like because like it like I've seen that when I was really young, I was watching like real sex on HBO, and I think they were like they were like freezing Colm and it was putting in like sereal there was

some girl who like restored it and Bob, that's so much like a little Kim had to get a stomach pot. Well, I was that like a real story was that it dissolved. But how would you know to get food pumps? I was. I believe that, I believe anything. So you've seen it and like what you made a smiling face when you thought it was the girl bubbling it up? Yeah, I like, I like that. That's beautiful to me. Right, Like, once it's not in the face or mouth, I'm good. Like I don't need to see you put it in a

gas like you don't have to teaspoon it. You don't have to put it in the measuring cup, Like I don't want you mixing it up with macaroni and cheese and then freezing it and then cooking it like just swallowing dog. Let it drip down, you shin. I think the weirdest thing I have ever been requested of. I actually want to show you this picture. I was fucking a dude. It's my dumb that I used to fun and he's like really into some crazy shit. He had a fetish for wanting me to wear gloves and licking

the come off of the gloves. But there's something specific he wants me to wear, like long black leg text gloves hold my hands like this him clok, well, they looked like clean gloves in the gloves. I'm trying to find the picture of the girl that get pictures. I don't think I'm prepared for. But he's like, you're not. It's you're calm, it's a girl. You're you're gonna So he used to want me to like hold my hands open, okay, and like with the gloves on and like lick it

off like a cat. Now it was milk, like it was like milk in your hands, and yes, So I bought the gloves, and then every time he came over, I kept saying I couldn't find them because I was scared, and I kept feeling like this is like here, I don't know where the funk they are, and he was like, yes you do, and I'm like, no, idea, it would have been nice if you had the picture ready, dude,

I'm gonna find it um scrolling through. And I wanted to talk about like what is the fetish with like seeing your semen and somebody, Oh god, is it so this girl this is in a threesome. Okay, we can't put this on YouTube, hunh, but let me describe it. Let me show you. So this girl put on a hood that he was sucking. You see the leash, So the key came on this girl's face on the hood, and the other girl licked it off. So that's the girl with the hood on. And then she and then

she licked it off. Someone else looked it off the hood another girl that he was with, Yo, what the fun? Fun up ship? So he said this to me because he said, hey, this is a girl. He's like, I have a girl that I want you to dominate with. That's the girls hood. So he was like, I have a girl that I want you to dominate with me. And he used to be my dumb right, like I'd have to ask him what I was allowed to put on a night everything. So he's I don't want you

to do this with me. And then once he sent me the hood picture, I was like, she literally just to describe me on this picture. She is wearing a black stocking cap looking thing would come all over it. Yeah like that. It's just I'm not turned on by that. I don't go front. That looks fun so much for me, like if I was there with the girls, but maybe

like premeditating like the so on. You know, you're just gonna put it on your face and then she's at your face and then Kelly over here, she's gonna look at all right, because it was like a very classy way of like sounds like Piers Morgan. Yeah, I love it, so I on it. I feel like uk mother's and they sound like anything they say sounds classy. Just because I was having a reason with him and this girl. And I'm sorry because I remember thinking in my head at the moment, so like he said to me, like

you know what I wanted to do. It was like tell me, and he's like, I would really like for you to stand right there, come and let aushole and wants you to look at out of there. He said, he's gonna come to her asshole. He wants her to look at out of it. Yeah. Now, I for some reason I felt like it was just like too far. I was like, oh, absolutely not. He was like that was too far. I don't know what got me there. It was just like I was worried about it, like

squeezing out of her ass. That's a cream pie, right, I'll graph with the cream pie out of the pussy because for me like thinking then like it might be mixed with something else from earlier. Like I'm good, okay, okay, I can do booty hole surface right, but you know, like you're not. You're not waiting for it to come back out right, like it's the exit already. So I'm good. Just keep keep it there, keep it um. So let's

get a little vanilla for a second. Our segment Vanilla ship, where is where we try to Vanilla is something that's not kinky? Okay? Okay, what we like? Where's this thummy? Okaya? Rue time? You're not stay on the island? Which one Manhattan? Oh yeah, trust me, I lived there too. But you know we're here. Let's spang it out, don't not. Queen's a We can even get dominoes over here. So what we got slice? All right? So something that just came up.

I have this thing five things you should know from the n N every day, and one of the things they had last week is that um sex sex addiction two days ago was classified as a mental illness for the first time. Sex addiction with the treatment plan so it says compulsive sexual behavior is a mental illness. The World Health Organization says in a landmark move that can mean two to four percent of UK's population, with three of the U s s population is addicted to sex.

It's a behavior that tends to be hidden as it's shameful and sex addicts don't come forward. Um. People that are suffering with the problem aren't unsure on how to seek help. It's persistent. It's failure to control the intense, repetitive impulses. UM. It's the central focus of someone's life where they neglect health, personal care, or interests and responsibilities. Um. The behavior should be clear for six months and cause distress, which is kind of ironic because fucking makes me feel great.

But it's like point addiction and mental issue. I think all I think all addictions is a mental Well, they've never classified it a mental illness, and so like they did. The only thing in here is that it doesn't describe how much is too much. But it said something about like not taking care of responsibilities, and to me, I was like, I sucked a lot of ancient niggas back in the day. Yeah, well that could have been It

is that not taking care of responsibilities, just making bachelors. Yeah, no, I think I think what you're trying to get at is like, you know, neglecting life. Yeah, like if you're having I've called that a work for dick, that like you're forgetting to fucking pay bills, right, Like have y'all ever gone through a phase of your life where you were like, I gotta stop, stop, like I'm doing something

I had. I had a couple of periods I had to stop where you were like sucking back to back, like maybe fucking let's say this, maybe you're dating a few girls at the same time, you've had two or three of them in the same day. I haven't done that. I've never done that, but I was definitely, I guess

as like too many people ondn't know. That's the part that makes it like an illness, because you're taking these two women who probably know nothing about each other, and like one day you're this person, the next night there's somebody else for that person, and like that's kind of sucked up. But you know this, I don't know. I've never gotten to that point, but it was definitely a point like after I had like a bad breakup shortly

after college. Oh boy, I don't think I've come across the point where I have to say, like, I gotta stop this. So my first threesome was that way. I had a threesome the next day well after a breakup. Wow, I went through a breakup. My first threesome was with But even that's not bad. This is why I should never try to outfund your ex. That's my that's my golden rule. Like what do you break up with somebody? Don't even look what they do. Talk toon they'll do nothing.

And if you're trying to out like you know, when you get on social media, you're trying to show that you do it. Oh I'm cried after like, damn, I miss him up this one. But I don't think there's a problem. Like you break up with someone, you have a three from the next day. I just thin like, oh no, no, no, I didn't explain it. Well, So, like I had my first reasome and it was so amazing that the very next day I wanted another one.

So I called the dude and was like, yo, you know anybody we could suck and he was like yeah, I went. So it's kind of funny because they started at Blue Martini in Florida. First one was in Tampa Blue Martini. My homegirl turned me out. She was like, listen, you're gonna suck my little man's and you're gonna like it. And I was like, oh yeah, I was young in them. Then the next day I loved it so much. I wanted it to I wanted to do it with a guy I had had sex with before and loved it again.

So it was literally like four people in two days, and it was a lot, and like it didn't hit me until after. I was like, oh my god, I'm having so much fun. And then it was like two women, two guys. It was like it was there like a wake up call that happened or you just like mentally you were like OK. So at first I was excited about it, calling my gaze. I'm like, let me think

like that. And then when I was like, damn bit you fuck yeah, like what and I was like, oh my god, Like my body count just went from a body count went from three to seven. Let that so on Instagram asked me my body count. I was like, nigga, I lost count. I lost count. Wonder I LOSEU. I stick at the count. Do you have a note I having because I started late. I used to have a

sex twenty Oh wow, I started late. You travel with these dudes, a pellousa dudes, And I'm not sure were you in a relationship this whole time, when this whole run with song, I'm pretty sure. No, Like, yeah, I was getting it in. I mean we've been doing it for five years, so that's not a horrible decision. By the way, it's called pussy paluser, so we could jump

right in at my I just don't remember what happened. No, I mean we've had we've had tour stops where it's gotten crazy, but then there's a lot of tour stops where like she just don't like, we get drunk with bitches and then we go how are you a part of it? How did this started? We started back in hallm Um at the Founders House. His name is you know, Camera mcclor, and it was on on the east side of Harlem. And one night we had a game night

two thousands in the two thousands, twelve December. Um, we couldn't afford to go to the club, were colding the four bottles, so we just told our friends, like you'll bring Hennessey and Chick into the crib, like that's the only requirement. And we had people come over. We had a game night and it was his idea to move like the tables the space tables do. It was Cat's idea.

And then we had Austin Um I think it was Austin and Genius DJ and and then we turned the lights out and then they just just started dancing and having fun. Next morning we woke up there was like eighty five bottles and Hannessey behind the bar, me Cam and my other guy Fox. We're like, yeah, we have something. And then Fox told us to look online and the hashtag Hendy pellots and everybody was crazy like what is Henny Bluza? How much does it cost to get in that?

So on and so forth, And then we did another one and so hold. We did another one at Timmany Hall. We did another one in d C and just kept going because I was going to ask you who came first, say it's all you. It's all the same brand. It's all the same brand. We just switched. We just switched liquors. So we had Chris styles on. I wasn't here for the episode, but he does it with Chris came in. Chris came in like two thousand and he became the

cost still five years ago. So what are these parties like in terms of it's everything you think it is. It's open bar, literally everything you think it is. It's open bar, Hennis's Obar Doo say. It's five or six hours of dobass music, drunk acid, nigga's ambitious and people dancing and then some people get strange in the bathroom. Some people get stranged in So when I got invited to my first party, right, this is how it happened. Something invited me. When I first moved to New York.

I told my homegirl who's from New York, and she was like, bitch, don't go what you're trying to get fucked. I was like, yeah, it's okay. So she's like, no, no, no, I ain't able to take you there. But you are classic Typho. You ain't about to go out there. So

then I'm like, all right, I skip it. Next the next year, one of my friends from work, he was like, bitch, you gotta call me to this ship some other black girl in the office, like you're trying to wear sneakers to the cloud because that's what you're gonna have to put on. And I'm like, what goes on this ship? You know, it's like it's a toolar opposite of going to like a one of the avenue. Like you put on sneakers, you put on leggings, you put on shorts,

you put on something that's comfortable. Because we promote the fact that you're not standing around. Everybody's equal. There's no real v I P where really like and if there is upstairs where you can see everybody like it's it's kind of like an anti that's fine, Yeah, that's what it was born out of. Not so you can't have a table? What do you mean that that's dope? Everybody? So I went I went in l A. This venue

was packed, like you can barely move. The biggest thing I was surprised about was that I didn't see one altercation free liquor. Everybody's drunk, everybody's having a niggers on dark liquor. Somebody's getting clapped, somebody's getting jumped. I mean, there's like a science to it those because like the price point kind of makes you not one of them, you know what it could be like if people are there for a purpose, like you said, to have a

good time and everyone's equal. I think about white people in music festivals. They always say nobody's fighting, they're there for a purpose to enjoy themselves, to have a good time. Like I ain't no flexing, And it sounds like they say like that flexing at all. Like if there's there's special guests, they'll either like come on stage with us or they'll be like the little raft watching like there's nobody. There's no bottle wars going on, there's no table ship,

So how big is the douce all crew. It's like, yeah, it's me, It's me, Am you five, Rorry Benner, Raven Bruno, Austin, Dwayne and carlm So And we said, pussy, oh, ye're all some good friends. You know nothing. Why would it be you? Because you like one stuff like light eyes, the face of the bread, like don't try to back. And now that's the reason why I would think that humble and modest as possible. But it's like you know, like Low and Chris and andys like those guys are

the faces of the party. Like you go to do Seluci, you might not see Cam you might see me if I haven't water going around, So people like bitches are really wanting to suck the Pellusa dude, like like is it? What is it? Like? Do you have a Twitter status? Is a status? Are you there about? I'm not? I'm not. Yeah. But the thing about here's how it goes when you're

in a city where you're not known. When you're in a city you're not from your new your new blood in the water, right, So it's like, who's this nigger from New York or New Jersey wherever you from? Like, who's that guy? And why is he on Why is he on stage? Why does he have to mike? Why is he controlling the crowd? That's attractive to women that you don't know? Like power, it's power, Like look at the power that this guy has and who is he?

Why am I not sucking power? The dude? The only do we interviewed about a groupie sex was real Timmy, and he told us about them stories And to me, that's like TV kind of right kind of fame. But there's something different with your fame because it's like the community. You're accessible, but you're not so like have you ever fucked a girl? That like was bragging on home pussy about you after I never heard that. I never heard.

I've never heard that, and I'm glad I haven't. I guess the women I have indulged with have just kept it quiet and just kept it moving. Would you say that you're sucking the I don't know upper level groupies is that I wouldn't even liked of things like. I wouldn't call them groupies because like they're just girls, like wore like the fun more than we do. I was ware they act at these parties. Okay, so we'll not call them groupies. I'm saying groupies as is a vague term.

Maybe that's just me not wanting to call people of the show fans. There's definitely something that's That's what I'm saying. Okay, we can use another word. He won't. He won't say it because you know he's still smashing. No. I'm just I don't look the I'm not that person to have a groupie, that is all I'm saying. Okay, So what do you call somebody who who follows you from town to town, who is not from that town, who knows where you're gonna be at, who knows you're the host

who knows your name. Stalk that's what you call them, a stalker. I'm gonna tell you right now, like I'm groupie, they know where your hotel is, that they know what they want to get back. It's not a stalker because I know there's something that he said that groupies are fans of air crafts. Like I'm gonna give you pussy off who you are their supportive throw a name out there because I'm gonna give you one of them. I'm not. I can't. I can't do that. I can't. I can't.

I can't lame my idea to think that these women that we see and that these women that come to our parties are grouppies, because you know that does one guy STOs off. There's a lot of women to go there. Shut up. The high majority of women that go to

parties aren't groupies. But to act like that, aren't groupies that follow us on tour because you might have sex with a girl that's not pressed for you, and that's probably the one that you really want to funk, but I mean, you ain't able to sit here and those are the women that you have sex with, the ones that aren't pressed. The ones that you actually got sucking the girls are pressed. That's like so much more fun.

So I want you all to a couple of years, like, yeah, you're gas because like, oh my god, these girls, I get that. That's like the second year thirty and just like you said two tho twelve, right, we start traveling to the second Yeah. One of the craziest to stay parties are handy blues the parties and if I don't know if you'll have the same one in mine, but I want you to tell me in terms of something that's relevant to the show, something sex related. What's the

craziest thing you have seen at a party? Don't don't use the name right set the scene? Where were you? When was it? Don't use that name? You know who it is obviously do in d C. Yeah when you disappear, Yes, okay, so I it was I know the person about wait is she like I Bob, Like we know? So, I mean this is what we were still kind of like getting our bearings as like a full production, right Like, So it was just like the first couple of years you was just kind of like flying by the seat

of my pants. It's just like you know we in town. We're still getting drunk. We're still treating it like it's a big gas house party, but obviously it's not going to something else. How many people? How many people showed up? This is a this is had to be like people, so, um, you know, before before like the party even gets like really super rocking like that, it's like Loki is wrecked, like contacts provided I want to school on DC University

that day that we do it. It's like the tailgate. Okay, so we're at tailgate like fucked up, and then the parties at like five o'clock and loads, so the party popping, and like usually in the beginning, you know what I mean, when people are still kind of filing in and you know it's not as like rammed yet. You know, you could let the DJ play a little bit. You can

still kind of walk around. I'll be walking around with the water gun, shooting girls with handing in the mount or do say now and then mount just kind of get people warmed up, you know what I'm saying. So we're doing that and then um we're just looking around and and and loads nowhere to be and at this sign, like the party's packed and this at this point, like we need to get on stage and do what Low does, right so that the hype. So, um, you know, we

can't find him. I guess somebody found I wasn't the one who found him. But let we see a curtain and the curtains just going back and forth on the stage like this was like the same is like they're like and it's just like engulfed by a curtas curtains right here, Oh my god, like a theater trash the curtain going back and they're like no, no, so um, you know we find Low. Camp was none too pleased.

Uh this man was not only smacked, but smacking something on Now was everyone looking or was this just you who noticed it? Was? It was angling the way that the crowd probably had no idea, but like if you're on the stage, like with the staff and just walking around, you would see like there's either back to it was a ladder. We found Low, Like Low, you're you're offer

you found him? That is what happened. So like they found me found you like so like my parents down and me and short of you know, doing I forgot I think, Yeah, tell me who it was. I'll tell you. I like my parts down and I think we were doing something like this was something that I was not supposed to be doing on stage, and our guy Benner had found me and he was like, Yo, what the funk are you doing? Like what the like? Get from behind there? So they wait, were you inside of her?

While he was saying this series, I think I was just really really worried, but so he played. He gets me from behind the curtain. I get on the mic at this point like I'm just sucking trashed. I'm like, I'm wasted, and I get on the mic. I'm like, yo, we ran out of Hennessey. It's seven o'clock party for another two and a half hours. No, yo, we ran out of HENNESSEYO, thank you for coming out, Hey, Pusa D home Coming. I've never seen cam Be line it to me as fast as he did he because he

had people present him. He was like, Yo, what the funk? How Henessey ran out? We just got here up cam boo lines and took me snatches and my He's like, go the funk home, literally says it's like, give me the mike. You're funked up to wait why did you say that? Because I was sucked up because Peter was over. It was over. Mike says, to go home. So I took that opportunity to finish the job, I said. Backstage, you know, I was like, yea, we're going back to

the Airbnb. Yeah, okay, okay, took him back to the Airbnb. Classic, get back to the Airbnb. It's raining, it's pouring that she doesn't have a key. You don't have the key. So now no, I mean, so now we we we're on the doorstep, we under this little thing, this little protector from the rain, and we're kissing, were going at it, and I think Raven pulls up and it's just looking at me like, you're so you're so disgusting, so disgusting. Low, So we you're disgusting. So we're getting the house. We're

get in the house. Um take her upstairs and we do our business. Um she leaves, I think, and I think one of them came into the room and I was sprawled out but ass naked, and Nigga was like, yo,

that room smell like sew. You know what it was like? Yeah, I don't know if I know what it is, but remember yeah, like we were like because it was raining, we were sweating like it was niggas was drunk like so all that you could smell like sweat and pussy and look like kind of you probably one with Yeah, maybe you fucking ladder while you oh day, you thought the party was over your backstage, you put one off

then you left show. You know what. I don't want to make you lye so anyway, but thanks you did. This is like, ye give us another precursor to the tailgate. This is you know. One of my homeboys called me after he was drunking ship and he said he had a three some of these girls. He plays ball, he said, niggd I said, he used economy said, I just rolled down the skin of my dick to make sure what that was. That was my most craziest um. Do you have any guys the party, a any of like someone

that it is the past? You can talk about it is the past. I'm gonna change man now, I'm joking. I don't like isn't they like yeah, like you'll you'll you'll have sex with a certain women on the road, But like I don't have. I don't have the same type of like glow that this thing gets. Because he's on stage like he's the host. One you have is a lit no. Alright, so alright, so nothing know if my memory. So I'm gonna tell you all start how this ni it didn't take one for the fucking team.

Oh yes, you can start to share that ship. You know. I was so mad at you threw me the whack is joy? Just make up, just make out the whack is joy? Five for she was just like, out of six to do was just make her outword. Just do something to give me together, like twin bads, I'm just twin bad. Like somebody just give me thirty. Like she's ready to go. She was ready to go and sure that her friend popped on this sniggle back was hopping on the ste because she had a opportunity to good looking.

So I'm just like I'm meeting her getting in and then her friend was like, I'm ready to go. I'm like, I look a cass He's sitting on the bed. I'm like Clare in New York, Bros. Couldn't do it. I'm like, I have standards. I'm taking plenty for the team. But here's the thing. Taking one of the team is like, okay, if you have an eight, you gotta throw me at

least a six or a seven. She was, let's just make out with her, bro, Why didn't she look like anytime, any time you take over the team, like the average is not too far off. Like you're telling me that the girl was so bad looking? At you question? She was, I want to occupied her. Okay, I'll let me say this. Then it must have been bad, thank you. So how was he supposed to acquify? You could kissing his words? All right? To be fair, you could have took her

downstairs then talk y'all. Let's get a quick bite, like say, everybody has the right idea. You know what. I went to Thailand with my home girl and she had this fine ass nigger. Was a group of Italians that she knew. The friend was ugly, and she was like, listen, it was three of us to our rooms, and then it was the two of them. She was like, wheezy, please, I gotta be you. I'm like, bit so I said, listen,

I'm gonna sept my phone time a bit. I wanna go downstairs with the thing that we're gonna get it your I swear to God when you go off on banging on the door, She's like, thank you. So we go downstairs. After about ten minutes, he's like, so this is because you don't you don't like you are being nice night. You know, I didn't know. I didn't. I didn't be in my life ever tost you anything less than no. If it was if it was something where like we've never put me. He's put me in positions

to like bag something dope or vice versas. I'm like, all right, cool, I'll take one for the team this time. There's never been a chip. There's never been a time ever that I've thrown you alive that was whacked. I'm never I'm not. I'm not saying that you ever thrown me a whack live. What I'm saying is in the fucking situation that we were in, all I needed was thirty fucking minutes. Bro. Did you say to him like, yo,

can you? I hoped at him like bro, and I never knew that, But I I don't know to take you take a stand, you take a standing, fucking San Francisco. I got a fucking nine and a half in the bed. I'm sorry. I didn't talked him for four ye hours after that. Perfect How's purpose is correct? Super smacked? Like wait, that's worried. That's worse. You know what, I'm gonna believe that girl was fine. His health because you getting upset again. I'm like, I love how was that? This was like

what RUC's in. It was like six seventeen six. It's probably just don't put years two years ago. You're still hot. She was fine? Well she was so bad. Did you ever see her again? No? No, I wonder beauty. She never called me. None of that ship. You know what. I think we transferred the energy, but that should give me hot. So I think about that ship because I've thrown this man so many, understand that, so many, all

of these joints. Well, I can just Texas, just do the next day, like yeah, yeah, I'm over right now. She's still tell trigger you've punched your hand at times. I've got this man to the mountaintop. I brought water to the fun as well being all I need to do. All I needed him to do was l yeah, this is all she was trying to eat and I got it too. That's what afod to have. That's not a wind. But tell me really quick though, he said, the girl was on top of you and like doing all this

ship like what were you saying to get her? Like she was already at dick and like what was you doing? He just wasn't doing anything. I was just like that and I could hear him. I'm like, he's not into it. Yeah, y'all did going down because I'm so mad and just said I'm like, he's gonna suck it up. And sure enough,

I'm gonna said it, girl, I'm ready to go. I'm like, what I love about this is how they started so humble, like no, we don't really be taken down gross on the water the ship and I was like, yeah, I'll passed you that. You get no comfortable, you can't with us a little dollar, right, Yeah, it's always it's always the towns that you never expand we did one and they got a lot of et opening joints out there.

Have you guys ever had like a orgy or no, no, no, have you guys ever smashed the girl together or ran a train? There's a story, my story. You tell it and you don't say the names. There's a story. The guys, where was that at l in l A. This don't even you don't even say that it was. It was fairly recently not it was, So what happened was threesome poursom pops deep. I don't feel like I was somehow

directly involved with the story. I tell her, you don't even saying it's you who, don't say who it is, just tell us the story. Yeah you, I'm gonna tell you. I want to hear this ship when you get off, all right, I want to get to some questions. Um, we have a question for a guy. We actually had this director towards me and many, but I feel like y'all might be good for this question. Um, so this is our wholemale segment. Good afternoon. Anonymous is my middle name,

So I'm gonna go by black Thunder. That was what you came you could have said, Greg. I recently found your podcast and I've been a fan ever since. Love listening in hearing female perspective on things, as well as working things out in my relationship. After about a week or two of listening on on episode seventeen, I've come to realize that a lot of girls that have come on the show or even you Tube have a similar mindset or a goal in mind when you talk to guys.

Here's my question, is money really a big deal for women is not having enough money. And deal breaker is money more important than sex. I know Mandy mentioned she has a guy that pays for a wint rent, wheezy dates for and white guys that fly her out everywhere. It seems like that's all you guys stress in your talks. Other than Dick, I'm a younger man twenty three, very frugal. I'd rather save it to travel than spend it on a girl. I'll talk to you for two months and

stop talking to again. For example, on first dates, I'll ask to go to a coffee at Starbucks or take a walk in the part because I feel like money doesn't mean need to be spent. Am I being cheap or smart? Best? Black Thunder? Tell me what you guys think about your year old self, my twenty three yeardself. I was well when I was broke. Yeah, um, so I was just sucking my coworkers because it was all broke. Where were you working at? I was working especially single.

So this is my this is my like leigitism whole phase. Yeah, we're gonna double shall tell. And I was messing with my boss. I was messing with my coworker and I was messing with my supervisor a couple like five or six months spend you must have um and now it was just fun Like I was when I was broke and I didn't give a funk and I was just fresh out of college. I didn't care. I was just making dirt money living with my parents and I was

just walling out. That's when I started really drink. So because see, I don't know what this dude is like, are you trying to just trying to imply either? Are you trying to? So I'm gonna be honest with you. You have to remember me and Mandy are women that are making a lot of money, and we're living in New York and we're older than you are. Now is is that all we talked about with men? No, But to be honest with you, if the conquest for men is pussy and that's the thing that they flaunt, then

the conquest for women is money. Right, And I'm not talking in terms of something serious. But men love to this switch I suck this, so we'd be like, oh this and he did this. That's how it goes. Yeah. Remember this is a lot of like the locker room talk for women, so to speak, beauty shop talk if you want to say that. But it's money really a big deal for women, I would say it depends what age you're at, it depends where you're going at, and it depends where you live. To Like, I think women

value money differently in different cities, in different regions. Yes, I think it's way yeah, Like l A. Women look at money differently than women in New York, and different than than women in Atlanta, and differently, And it depends what you have, for example, in New York without a card. But and I was just gonna say, I don't need a car, so they don't have to have a car.

But when I was living in Florida, like they do with car, like a girl, like a girl in l A is not going to date and they go without a car. Yeah no, I mean, like not to sound like shallow, but like money isn't it's not like money is the important thing, but money allowed. Money just allows freedom, you know what I'm saying, Like it gives you options, and women love everybody, you know the best. He was like,

women progress sexually and men progress non sexually. And when men progressing lifestyle, she was like, if I did it a nigger that had apartment, and then I didn't even with the car, and then I didn't go with his own apartment. I can never go back and like the nigga's like I did. If I did a bitch, I suck my dick and and swallowed, then I did the everything that was great I'll tell you about though. For me, what changed is the things that I was able to

afford myself. When I was able to fly myself out, when I was able to get myself this and that in my own apartment and buy my own back, it got very hard to then date men that weren't on my level. Now I have to the theory of Chris Rock. I'm not going back in lifestyle. Yes, now he asked a question about a Starbucks first date. Um, that's swag, that's not wagon. Can get away with that. So it's funny the personality comes. I don't think like this is

what my homegirl does. This one of my homegirl to Josie. She is a director for mac Makeup, making a Hello bank in the Caribbean three times, I mean three days out the week, like every single week, traveling for work. And she does coffee dates because she feels like they're an easier exit, Like if it's not going well, so right, so you can do you can play the coffee things your advantage. I'm gonna be honest with you. I do think the coffee data man ask me for coffee is

kind of tacky. But maybe you could say something like hey, I've that could also turn into something else. I can but I would say, like say someone, hey, I have a few hours. I'd love to meet you. I've had a busy week, but what about this Saturday, Like do you have time to meet at this cafe? Blah blah blah. That's the way to kind of play into the money thing. And if the date goes good enough, maybe the next time you can offer to like or just don't stop

the date that they can continue. Oh let's go get some dreams. But it's not like you can't go like that for him, A lot of men make the mistake of doing is leading with money. And if you money, if that's the first thing that you're coming out with, that's what if you take the dude took you on the coffee date and like, you know, just um, you know you want to meet tomaw al right, cool, Like let's um, I'll only grab some coffee real quick, I bet, and then after the coffee you go and do some

other ship and then and by like quickly realized. I don't know if he's in the position to do that, but I will tell you one thing. I think. It's the episode number forty eight. One of my best friends, Anthony Um gets more pussy in women than anyone I know. And he said something about only being rich for the first three dates. He said, that's all you gotta do. Be rich enough for three days, get through three dates,

and you'll be fine. What are you going through the notes from Anthony, I'm reminding myself to blanket, please stop saying his name, because he doesn't want to name up there. He said his name on the show. We didn't damn we said Anthony on the show. Now I gotta blank three times. What do you mean on his episode? Okay okaya? Anyway, No, I think I think that makes sense, like be rich for the first three days, because now you've got her hooked, so like, now you can prove it, you can take

care of her, and you can provide for her. Now it's to you as a man's maintaining. So his theory was just like be rich for the first three days. By the third day you'll smash and then you out of there, okay, because it's like it's like acting like you have more money than you have. So like you on the first day, but super open. I don't know

what you do for a living. But when I was dating a year old, I didn't expect much from them, So that's also a good point, Like dating year old unless he works on Wall Street, unless he has an executive Like, you're not giving me much for probably dick and bubble gums, so don't. I mean, I'm getting men that are established. I'm gonna say thirty thirty one to thirty eight. That's like my range of demand of dating. So I'm sorry they can't be out here taking me

to Starbucks. No, absolutely not thirty old man telling me they won't take me the Starbucks stucks. Continue on the other things, like let's go get some coffee real quickly, as sometimes the dude is trying to test their personality to like sometimes can't have a good conversation with I don't want to deal with you temperature. Let what if

you met a girl, let's take it. I'm gonna take internet internet dating out because internet dating, you got to meet someone for the first time because you haven't seen each other yet. What if you met someone at a bar, would you the next time you meet them ask them taking the Starbucks? Because this is no, no, no, no, that's not true. That's not true because if you meet a girl at the bar, you're meeting her representation one.

You don't know if she's drunk or not to you can't really have a conversation in a bar to begin with depends which bar. Yeah, but you vibed a little bit more than you have if you just wipe somebody, right, I ain't. I ain't with the whole like first day at the bar, Like okay, I could bother her, Like no, let's let's meet somewhere where we can actually have this course, she said, Like you guys met at the box. I'm

not talking about Internet. So here's what I'm saying. Coffee is cool if you swipe someone right, right, So the next day can't be coffee because you're already You've already connected in some way. The point of the Colts internet dating it's premeditated to text. So I got to meet you to know if it's gonna be good. You may not be good looking in person or whatever. That's why I can understand the coffee thing for internet meet ups.

But if we've met at a bar and chatted a little bit and got each other's number, I'm sorry, I think coffee is like what, that's cool and I understand that, but like I want to really sit with you and have a conversation like it's only But why you can't do that over food? Well, I mean you can do that in Starbucks, Like I'm not wasting my money, like for food. You don't have a good personality, you're dud, Like, yeah,

you can beat the ball? Are you talking about? This is Black Thunder's twenty three year olds offer you right now? Well you right now. I can take a girl to Starbucks. I can take you a gir to Carbone, like it doesn't matter to me, Like I'm good for both. But I feel like it's less awkward at Starbucks because like we're really genuinely not forcing the versation and if it don't work, my nig, we can get the fun out. I got to sit there with you. I am drying

the funk up, Like the pressure is off. If you like, if you have something, if you if you had a lower risk type of dates. You got an easy way to put it. I'm gonna give you a budget of forty bucks, all right, and I'm gonna tell you right now you need to find an happy hour. I don't know where you live, happy hour that got four dollars or six dollar drinks and do a quick happy hour

and just find your way out of there. But I'm sorry, I start just talking to I'm going home with three days and I'm thinking the range is either or from me, I can do either or, but I choose to like vibe and fill you out in a place that's not that fucking like. Well, I have to sit there with you if there's free wifiing people coming to right and essay, I'm good. So here's the next one. We got this We're coming from an anonymous person still having sex with

The next is the subject high ladies. I love this problem cast been binge listening. Thankful for my homeboy. You put me on too. You guys, I feel like I have so much more confidence in talking about sex from all the advice and knowledge. With all this being said, I have a question. Not sure if this is something you would discuss. But here we go me and my boy from broke up, but we're still in a sex now that we're broken up, the sex has been amazing,

like it feels like brand new dick. The problem is we fall back into the relationship pattern and then the sex starts to suck again. Has this ever happened to you? Guys? Should we just call it quits? We broke up because of mutual reason. We don't get along and we're completely different. People have a lot of love for him, but I don't see a future with m. Say straight up, she's

annoying any exactly? Why if the sex is good and there's no pressure to to have anything more than that, and then they lead into relationships ship and like the sex gets whacker. It's because of her, because she's born she's annoying, like she doesn't you don't know's something that's There's something that's mentally turning him off. I was going to say that too. It must be something one more or the other one gets too attached to get their intense.

It doesn't even have to be attachment. It just could be personality. Just don't I think it's attached because she still feels entitled in to him, Like because you start going down that road up the hunt. I mean, she's say it's her fault. But if you're going back into the consistency routine of oh, we're having sex again, Oh we're gonna you know, just saying that my crib. Oh we're waking up together like cat out of work, and then that's just something happened, and it's like, man like,

I don't want to go back down this path. We had sex, we had good sex, and we left each other at that. I didn't bother you after that. When you was honting again, you called me and that was that. Now it seems like she's going back into I miss you, stay over. Let's cook said that nigga could be doing that too. Niggas listen, niggas be frying on a dicks. Maybe up this girl. That's the two one t Kiki and all that. Do you say, I'm not saying, I'm not saying we don't. I'm saying that that doesn't her

not of provided context. We're saying it is her fault at this point, I don't know the one side and from maybe you shouldn't. Maybe you should keep it someone too emotional and honestly, if you guys broke up and just sucking each other because you have no one else to funk right now, that's not a good idea either. Yeah,

that is toxic and that word is very underrated. But I'm serious, like when you find that, I mean, if do it again in six months, see if you feel away in three months, you know what I mean, because chances are you going to meet someone else in three months. So I want to read one more question just because I read depression and I feel like, um, it'll be nice to give this to this advice. And it's a question for a man. I feel like, um, I'm a veteran. If that helps, I seriously am reaching out as it

a ton because I need help. I am twenty nine. I'm from Columbus, Ohio. I've been single for seven years. My last relationship ended as usual young love does. We were together very young. We had a baby while I was deployed to Iraq, and I didn't get to witness the baby come into this world. When I got my son back, I was here when I got my When I got back, my son was here and had a family. I cheated, I got caught multiple times, which led to

a breakup. Since we haven't had much communication unless it's for our son. She has no interest in me. I still love her and off that and my son, I would still try to make your work. To this day, I almost feel like that's the one. She's gone, so now here I am years later. I've dated nothing, I've dated, but nothing serious. Now I'm in a place where young girls are too young and inexperienced, and women are my age or in a relationship, have one they won't get over.

Three more kids hurt and stuck in their ways. My friends and I have already dealt with them, or just doesn't work. I'm young and I think attractive, he put his Instagram. I have a job, one son, my own place, newer car. My credit is going up, but I'm having no luck in this single game. I go out, I get talked too often with women. They're either too booge and it doesn't work. For social media, I slowed down.

I'm not with posting pictures. I just feel over it and I'm not sure of being active is the way to do it, because it's ipossible to find someone. I'm not perfect. I'm only five eight and skinny, and I think that's solely the reason I can't find anyone. It's depressing and I'm alone. I don't have one person to talk to her confide in. Um, I don't have any kind of intimate relationship. I need help or a suggestion. I hope you can offer advice and please gauge my

social I'm losing it over here. She's know. The fucking problem is you lost your confidence. Is she's very attractive and I don't know what then I know he's not. I'm gonna tell you he lost his confidence. And he lost his confidence when he lost the girl that he sucked over, and everything that happened to him he deserved. That was called karma. So well he's going through right now is a bunch of fucking karma. You sucked over a girl that you had a kid with, and now

you're looking at the world like, what was me? You gotta get through this patch. It's nobody else fault but shorts. Oh my god, like I feel like I was. I'm not trying to kick him while her ship. There's a lot of that. Calibility is a fucking like that'll set you free in more ways than you'll ever imagine. So, my nigga, strap your boots up. I understand that you've sucked up, and the next person that comes in your life, don't funk it up like it's really very simple and

ask for advice. I would I would get on like one of those dating sites, dating Action. I wouldn't even I don't think he's ready to go on dating. You're only gonna You're only gonna set yourself up for failure if you're just gonna be like and women and tell me if I'm wrong, Like women can smell that shirt on you if you're acting confident, we can spell on desperation and we can. And I feel like I've even had not tay to me like who do you think of? You?

Do you think on those you on that? And honestly, if you're upper ass a little too much or you're too you know, good morning thinking about you go we like it really pushes women away. I don't tell you what we need to know that you have another interest besides us, you know, so I can tell you what I've done to help me through breakups and me Alice is going through it together, getting hobbies, going out like

that's working out. I mean, if you too, skinny sport, develop a routine like my nigga, Like it'll come to you at some point. There are too many women in the city of Columbus is a big city right in Columbus or in the world period for you to be just stached over one like it's kind of the biggest thing, as big as it is. I feel like, if you're getting depressed, you need to start. It's not stenched over one girl that's the mother of his kids. Like yeah,

but suck it up several times. If he's the presson over that makes sense. About the same time, my empathy for his depression is very low because if he repeated, he was a repeated defender understood. All I'm saying is if you suck that once, she didn't want to suk with you after that person, I get you, Like everybody makes mistakes. Understand that several times. I understand that. To

acknowledge that, that's the next step. He's gonna sit there and say, I said, you have to game your commidence back. The same time, if he's sitting there just like oh man, like keep beating it over your head, like yeah, this naked sun up. You funked up. It's your fault, your fault. After a while, like yeah, the Nike clearly knows it, but somebody. Sometimes you can say it to yourself all the time, but until someone says it to you or writes it down, you may not actually get it. He

wrote it himself. You're a feminist right now, and I'm working with it. That might be when you get so much pussy because you out your bus. But a right like to put it like this, he's writing it. He's writing into a show because there's something he's not getting. Yeah, he's not writing it because you know, he's depressing, Like there's something he's just not registering in his head. So he wants an Obviously, your confidence is low, but I think that you just are too obsessed with this idea.

So like I'm serious, Like I would start slow, Go see a therapist, talk your feelings out, get a life coach or something like that. Hopefully you've got some good insurance with the military. You can get a great therapist for yourself. I would get to be accountable for your bullshit. Therapist, therapy, the gym and Jim gives you those endorphins back. The only reason why, and that's the confidence he needs. The

only reason why. I mentioned Dayton because it's almost like dating is like a muscle, like you need to work it out to get your I mean, the apps might give you the instant gratification of feeling better looking, that's the truth, getting swipes back swiping. Okay, Cupid, it got some easy, regular looking girls. I hurt. But even that, even I don't you don't bumble, right, But like even with that, I still don't think he has that component to even go to that route yet. I think there's

something I'm low on this one, Huh. I think he needs to As much as I am offered rebound dating, I kind of feel like he's not there, not there, And I'm gonna tell you why when you're already depressed, because I've been there. You know that I was thinking about taking out in life. I was depressed and just dating to cover that. I went on a bad date and it was like, oh my god, I really want to kill myself because I'm never going to find that.

You're building that because it gets your shoulders from the ships you already got. So you don't want you don't want to date me be obsessed with yourself right now? Start reading books. Books really help you like kind of get out of that thinking space and think about your X and think about it like that. But eventually you got to do time hells on and you will get over it. And I would love for him to find

somebody maybe get back with whatever it is. But before you fix any problem outside money, like fix all that ship up one side first, before you go with as corny as it sounds, I'm gonna tell you this one thing. Meat up dot com has this like adult dodge just like adult dodgeball and like those adults sports, but like a you be going to the basketball ship league. But but right like you can find like a hobby to get into if you really have no friends for those hobbies.

But if you don't set dates with yourself, and I'll let mean that in the corny way, but like things to do, you're gonna be miserable. I'll go to the movies by myself. I'll go bowling by myself just to clear my head. Just you have to just to get right. And then whatever situation I'm dealing with, I have a different perspective, like, oh, you know, I was thinking about this while I was out right. I understand where you're coming from. Instead of just trying to force yourself and

now you're wrong. You're wrong. Here's why you're wrong. Like all that is it's toxic that he got to get out of that, that whole mindset, and when he does. I think that was that was actually really great advice. I know we got to wrap up before you get kicked out of building. Thank you guys so much for coming. I had so much fun. Um. Actually, this was supposed to be an episode with our cash and cast and it was gonna be like a sports sex episode. But

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