Ep51: Gold-Star Lesbian feat Vickatrillion

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and we love you Zoe. Hey, y'allum, welcome. It is yet another episode of horrible Decisions And I am your girl, Monday Bay and you are who are you your co home? I feel like that was really good. I'm wheezy, hey, hi guys, um, and we are here. This is one of these episodes where we've had a lot of our listeners write us in a lot on Patreon and even some on our Instagram, and they've been like, y'all talk all this ship. Look are you gonna read what we got?

So Clarissa hit us up there you go and say with She hits up February one and said I love y'all show, and I had to ask, well, y'all ever have a guest on the show that's a gold star lesbian or at least a full blown lesbian. I understand you're both bisexual and you've had other bisexual guests. However, I feel like when you discuss your experiences with women, there's a little bit of heteronormativity in such discussion words. I have been listening for a few months now, and

I haven't heard all of your episodes. I apologize if you did have a lesbian the show, but I think a discussion about lesbian sex, relationships and culture can lead us to people more to respecting us, and then it's on a phase and understanding the mechanics of sex between women. I still get asked by grown heteroes how sex between women works. I really love this UM email, and I really appreciate it. I was actually really embarrassed. I think I wrote her that. I was like, I can't believe.

We haven't. I can't believe. And so, bitch, look at that turnaround? What is it? Motherfucking February four? Come on, turn around? So you better be a fucking patriot, you know. UM, it just only made sense, UM to allow Weazy to go out and seek this goal star lesbian? Um did it only make sense for me to do? It just made fucking sense. Um for Wheezy to seek out a gold Star lesbian, which she did with gold Stars. She found that. UM, so I want to give her a

stick this whole episode. I want to give her a gold sticker, ye now, because they're really so if you guys follow um Wheezy on social media, funny guys, just say, okay, how we have a wonderful guest in the studio today, um who is an alleged gold Star lesbian. Well, we will get into that, but if you've been following Weezy, you've seen her. She's lit. She has like three thousand followers. So I do want to ask you because I asked Wheezy because she throws all the shade. Are you an

Instagram model? No? Okay, so there's a what's the difference? Okay, so the differences Instagram motto is known as a girl who has a ship ton of followers. Okay, what you do, you're right, But they actually you can kind of tell the difference because they do like flat tummy t and and and I'm not against that, I'm just saying, but like, okay, okay, okay, okay, So they do that and then they like, you know, when they're promoting a brand all the fucking time on

their feet. I'm actually signed Humble Brand and in Paris, so there's a difference. Okay, global, but it's just so global goal. It just so happens that I always get named that. But can you tell us something like the brands you worked with or whatever? Yeah, um, c K two, which was the big Calvin Klein reub fragrance that I did with them, that was worldwide. That was amazing. We actually shot there in Puerto Rico. Um, I work a lot with Hello, You're not you don't want that close

to your mouth. I'm cool anyway because of the cylinder shape. Yes, but they was like alex is over here putting the mico. So, um, Calvin Klein. I've done stuff for Jill Stewart and Nike and b A and all that fun stuff, so it's cool. We were leaving the gym and she's like, I just want to see if I see myself in here. I sure said that, and I did, and then she's like, let's scal you know your famous. No, I just wanted to see it. Like like, I still get happy when

I get to see myself. Okay, I think that's dope. I think that's dope too. So Wheezy here has an icebreaker. So what we like to do with all of our guests is kind of have an icebreaker. Clearly the ice has been broken with us, but we're gonna break the ice just a little bit, um and so we'd apparently this this game is made specifically for you. Um, how gay are you? How gay are you? So? I feel like, because Mandy and I suck dick any pussy, maybe we don't know as many terms. He played this game with

Michelle Hope where she had his name off. How many different ways you can say penis? Penis? Yeah? I want us to see how many of us can name the different terms for eating pussy. Oh, so I to go in a row. But it doesn't necessarily have to be. It could be like it could be like carpet munching, like ship like that? Okay? Can I be in different languages? Look, don't be, don't be drop your little other languages? God damn it? Can you pussy in Brazilian? I? Okay, First

of all, it's Portuguese, get it right. I know I was sucking around because you know how I feel about John. What's going on? I want to go first. All right, go first, and I'm gonna say it in Portuguese. Oh make us pussy wet. Let me see what's actually I st sex in the city when Samantha was saying, and she was like, it's my puss. Yes that too, yes, okay, yes, um, I'll go next. Um love it the y Oh yeah, that's the position to do it. Um can I say,

like eat the bar? Yeah, okay with carpet munching, um eating out, eating out, well then fine, pussy eating um ship Now I don't know. Um, you do this way too much to not have any other names. I just do it. I'm going about the names kind of like that's right, all right here, I have a list of something. Please give me some go down on, have a box lunch munchable, muff dive munching lunch dive, munch dive, give brain eat. I thought that was just for dick eat hair pie. But not no. No, I like I like

my pussy shaving. No razor bombs, like I think a lot of people. Right, I don't know that we have Ah, did you? I know you gotta wax. I was very much aware of that. She know she didn't. They're the Kicking a week. So we have two males in the room, and I know that while this is the lesbian episode, I want to know how different it is from do y'all like the landing strip? Do y'all like hair fully shaven? How do y'all like eating pussy? Like? How does the

pussy have to look? If you're gonna be a question bear, So I'm giving you. I've been wanting to you. You would eat pussy with hair on it? I think guys are less okay, but like, but like, are we talking minimal hair? Thank you? Do you mean crazy like trimmed or just like fuzz before I shave? Like what you're saying or is it's just peeking out the It can't look like the fucking Amazon, Like that's not what I'm

trying to eat. But see, guys, I think and it just you gotta comment you got home your your pussy hair. I would hope brush your pussy hair. I know, but I get him. If you're gonna have a lot of hair, like keep it. I like this port she has hair on her pussy, but it looks neat. I don't know. So I think we had this conversation with one of our previous guests, and she said that, and we kind of made the correlation that maybe lesbians are more particular with what a pussy looks like than a man, like

I think a man will eat a pussy. However, well, I was about to say something, but I was told, oh, but yeah, I don't know what it was, but but yeah, I think I think men would eat pussy with hair without hair. Is it just you that likes that, or do you feel like more lesbians in that way? Honestly, I prefer it that way. I know I know many lesbian friends of mine that love the landing stripe. Yeah. Yeah, but but I can guarantee that majority of lesbians that I know we don't want it to feel like we're

certain like searching. That's literally landing srip is above your clip's high up. It's not like you can get the landing strip in your mouth. Isn't because you kissed the pussy? Yeah, okay, I'm feeling so that's what you do? Okay, Um one of my many tricks. Oh girl. I also want by the way, I didn't add this in there, but I want to write this down. I want to talk about some eating pussy tips for men. I think that's yes.

Niggas do not be knowing how to eat pussy, and I like think they eat the best pussy and I think it's just something we should discuss. Oh, so before we get into kicking the week, I want to just talk about a few lesbian terms. I actually wanted to hit you up before I made this list because I couldn't think of any more than these four them. Butch, DoD and Dyke. Can you explain what a fem is? Oh, it would be a lipstick on there right now she

thinks everything about her Now. No, I don't have lipstick on bish the list. I don't know what you like. Um lipstick lesbian know, I don't. But lipstick lesbian and lipstick lesbian are basically the lesbians that you know, go all out like they had like thirty pounds to make up high heels up they so they're just considered that. But but ironically enough, they are the type that will go for the like the butchiest type of lesbian. It's

that interesting how that works. So that makes and what's the difference between that and FM um um, butch is for me, in my opinion, butch is more like there's a man like qualities about them. No, no feministic lesbian. I'm sorry. Okay, Um, well I already told you lives like femin is like not as crazy. What would you call yourself me, I'm a cross between fem and like. Now, I have a word for you that I want you to describe to our listeners. I would consider you androgynous.

Totally yeah, okay and so um. I guess for the listeners that didn't know, androgynous would be a female who's more like chill with maybe style. Do you? I know you were like but you you just dressed more. And I don't want to say masculine because it's still very feminine, but still it's like a mix between I think. I think, um, that word can be so misunderstood right now because people like, oh my god, are you're a guy or your girl?

First of all, I'm not trying to get into this right now, right but like at photo shoots, it's mainly like I'll go and I know that I have to be extremely girly and they and I let them do that. Sometimes I'll be doing your shoot and they'll literally do all corn rows and the like, tease the funk out of my hair. And then I look like a dude,

but there's still that girl quality. It seems like I was gonna ask you, do you like a lot of the pictures on your page are like a lot of your shoots, like that gap thing you did, Like it seems more your style. Do you find that like you get jobs based on like you have a certain swag about you. They like that about America's next top model, there's always one that looks like her. First of all? Can I ask the questions a lot off of this podcast? Let me talk, thank you. I'm just saying, do you

do you want me to answer her? Okay, all right, and answer to your question? I think, um, I think I have a good group of people that work with me, like agencies and owners that sit down me, like at least once a week kind of like a daily like no, sorry, a weekly report, you know, to just kind of see what's working and what's not. But a lot of the times, people they just want me because of how I look and because I dance and I do all these cool things.

So they're like, yo, let's just give her a gap campaign, or let's do this or so. So we we went down this list and we've had gay men on the show, and we know what is wrong to label or call it gay man? Are there any terms that are offensive

for lesbians? It needs to be a slur. But then when I was looking it up a little bit today, Urban Dictionary saying there's such a diet community with lesbians that are self Yeah, but the situation without word too is how you say it because it's it's it's equivalent like if one of my gay friends, like like takes me to the point of like anger, I'll call him a faggot and then he gets angry at and two point five seconds and then we're not talking, okay. So

I didn't know that. So the interesting thing about dike is a lot of people assume that dyke is butch, but dyke is actually just a slur that people used to use for lesbians all the time. So here I think of like manly and it's not okay that I didn't know. It's just a slur that people were using for lesbians period. They were calling them dike. Um. I have been called that in high school. Why because he wasn't eating pussy back now, but you don't know what

I was doing back But she wasn't eating pussy. I know that much. Goddamnits That first taste was look, listen, what we're not gonna do? Okay, anyway, I know how Mandy really be think is you know my pussy? I just know that was on the last episode talking about what we know? Yet do you I know I did a bit. I mean, the same thing to spend a license to you? Y, you still couldn't drive your ship for seven years? UM? Say anyways, like this whole episode,

I appreciate the terms. So what you decided to do UM this week is of course related the kink of the week UM to lesbian sex. So do you want to I want to tell you how I found this word? Um. I was looking up lesbian porn and specifically scissoring because I like it and I'm kind of tired of watching lesbian porn, and I just want to know we're gonna talk about how lesbian. But wait, you like it and you don't? How does that work? Okay? I don't like

watching mediate. Okay, you're supposed to be producing this fucking show and you're just gonna let her do this to me? Are you fucking kidding me? She's because him and outside do you see this as another gay episode, and she just did her gay voice on again. I'm telling you she changed. No, that was my white like this is I feel there's a gay voice. So can you explain to her the gay I have not heard this. Wait,

you didn't hear that. So she did an episode with a game mail cup couple last week explain the gay voice, you know when you get with your gays. And he'd be like, oh yeah, hey come and then they were like, oh my god. Yeah. I'm like totally like, dude, you're right, my god, totally, it's just like natural, like nigga, don't. When I was a stobell last weekend, Holy fuck, I think the dude I was it was like she was another bitch, like like are you a gay man? Yeah?

It was bad. Um, Sorry to get back in the trap. So I was I don't like watching lesbian porn with toys, although I like to use toys, but for some reason, the toys I feel like they do too much in porn with toys. Okay, sorry, I just wanted to add that. Go ahead. And so I don't like watching it imporn Okay. I like scissoring and so it's also called tripping so tripping is our kink of the week. It refers to um,

I have not heard that. It's derived from a Greek word tribus, which is a lesbian and triboh, which is to rub. So refers to scissoring, which is when two women rubbed their vulvas and clips together in a form of non penetrative sex. It can also referred to be referred to frautage, rubbing of the vulva against something for sexual stimulation, which is why I think me and you were talking about when I was a kid and I like rubbed myself on the edge and that's just ya,

that's fritage. M. It's not for specific to humans. It's also observed in nature with monkeys. Um, we're the same sex monkeys. Yeah, we're female to female genitalia rubbing is common about once every two hours. Wow, that's very act. I just learned something new. I did not know that. Um. Yeah, So so when you is scissoring, because it's funny. So a lot of the a lot of men who are ignorant to lesbian sex be like, yeah, so here's what let's get into it, Like how does lesbian sex work? Okay,

So for me, Lord's right. Now you can look at me and thanks. Okay, So for me, you know, I like to tease, So okay, I'll spend at least hour and a half eating you out. That's a long time. How does your tongue not get tired? Because I've had my tongue now. I ate pussy one time for a long time because I really enjoyed her. It was during a three stime, so there was dick involved, but um, my tongue for the next two days I felt like it was It felt like it was going to fall out.

How do you Yeah, I paid myself though, so for a lot of times you're just like, okay, well you can like you can come off of it. You can use your hand. Yeah, wait, okay, So do you use your nose at all? Yeah? Sometimes? Oh that's a trick. I didn't know. Wait, so you put your nose on the clip. You've never sucked someone's nose? No, you don't remember, like training, I gotta ask that a big and she goes, I want to suck your nose if you want to. I did not know that. That's what she said. From here.

You got her kind of hard. She's hard in here. Um, but Okay, so you like to tease, so you'll eat the pussy for an hour and a half. A lot of the guys don't. I don't think you can go that long. So when I when I see the female body, I want to I want to enjoy that moment that I'm having with that specific person. Okay, so I love teasing, and then um, you know, just caressing. And then when I know I kind of got her right where I want her to the point of begging on her end,

I cannot look. Okay, the glasses he's keeping them on keeping anyways, maybe we shouldn't have said across from each other. That's what I said that right, alright, go right, everybody's everybody getting hard. I get her to the point of begging, then you know, I'll gently put not one, but just two fingers just right in just to see if she

could take it. So I want to say that, um to kind of our male listeners, because you're you're giving them gems without even knowing a lot of men, I feel like I have to ask to finger me um when giving head, right, That's what I'm saying. But no, no, no, he's right. A lot I have not asked for it sometimes because I feel like someone's gonna do it wrong. There you go, so there's a difference, like they're doing

it wrong. So the thing is too when you go in there, Yeah, you can't be fucking like said, ain't no type of order, so you think just be all over the place. So when you look at first, you're getting her wet, you're getting her aroused. You can't just shove a pussy into until she's ready down there. You'll know because at that point she's secreting, she's wet, and it should be very wet before you go to start trying to say a question. Normally a lot of people

want to know that was happening. Oh, what does this? What does the shiver look like? Whow No, honestly objects in the studio? Can I get? It's about its about lesbian's but I want to know because we're talking about fingers. When lesbians say I want you to fuck me. A lot of people are really confused when lesbian's fun is it scissoring or fingering? What is it's fingering? Right? Fingering? Is a lot of us assumed that fucking is dick and pussy fucking. I learned from lesbian is just the

penetration period. That's what it is. We think. I'm I'm gonna be honest, you can fuck somebody. Um, I well, I was informed. I think it's like ten percent or eleven percent of female and I'm actually one of them. I can't get off off of ctoral at all. I need penetration until recently, someone doesn't change that. That's a Often it's all right, I'm gonna I gotta get some new air sounds from YouTube so we can like do like drum you know, drum rolls and ship through. But

um okay. So so that leads me to ask you, if you've never been able to come clatorally, why didn't work clatorally? And it's come from penetration? No, because I don't need you to check them out words. So if you haven't been able to come by clatoral simulation, um,

why not just why not just try it? Nigga dick? Honestly, Honestly, what it was was I dated this incredible guy, and um, it just got to the point where there was something inside me that I knew that A at the time, it was either I wasn't ready and I didn't know if I was ever going to be ready, and there was always that lingering question of why and then and I didn't want to hurt him and I didn't know how to tell him. So then I took a trip

to California. I was there for like two weeks working, and then I met someone on set and then she came to them. They're all gay out there, don't you know? Um, and then um, and I'll never forget. She came to my hotel room. And then that was like the first time I was ever with a girl, and I wasn't afraid, there was no and then that's when it happened. And then I had to break it to him, and thank god we're still okay, and good listen. I like pussy and I don't like your tools because it needs that

blue pill and we have a problem with that shade. Um. I want to get back into the word fucking. A lot of people are going to hear this and think it's bullshit, but I want to explain how much we don't even realize that we use that word for penetration. Fuck my face, And that's when you're just thinking. It's when anything is like inserting is fucking, or in lesbian it's you're writing her face in lesbian in you I

can't say, okay. And then also when you say you maybe want to funk a guy, you're either riding him, you're controlling the fucking or of course, like we've talked about with pegging, but that's still penetration with we have to like kind of like, let's not make all these sound effects back, guys, pegging is a thing, okay, So Alex, y'all don't even share blunt because it's you think it's kay,

because boy, because germs. So I have a question, um, as a male, is there anything about a lesbian relationship that either of you feel like y'all don't understand or don't really or kind of question or don't sure. I'm not sure how it happens. I mean, you're just gonna get all by the way, Um, if you guys, listen to the last episode, a king dropped in from the Combat Jack Show and he is apparently getting on the mike.

Now are you are you well? We got Alex asking, Okay, go ahead, Alex, I don't know a lot, Okay, So what is it? What are questions that guys normally have when they meet a lesbian and it's like, you really don't want this dude, Like what do y'all think? My question? And trust me when we say we don't. We're not trying to play hard again, we really do not want your dick. So, so I want to say something. I went out with Vicky last weekend. We were hanging out. Yes,

I think everyone here knows. Yeah, these fucking people don't know. They might not follow me us. Okay, chill out, I'm talking about them. So we were hanging out last weekend and we went out, we read The Hair of the Dog. We were just like flirting and dancing, having fun, and this dude kept coming up to her. What did he what was he doing? And at first, off she looked gorgeous, right, and so like I get it, like you're gonna get

hit on. But like we were super flirty and it was very obvious like we didn't really want male attention, and the dude was just like me coming on to her, coming on to her, coming on, just like so you guys like lesbians and she said yes. So then he walks off he comes back, so like, uh, like really, like you guys don't want to try something out? Like yeah, it happened for a good thirty minutes, like, so it's funny and I want to know why guys do this.

So when I'm out a lot with my female friends and maybe I don't feel like getting hit on, or maybe just not hit on by that nigga in particular, I'll be like, I'm with my girlfriend, hold on, I want to play something real quick. Oh you got have y'all? Ever? Um? I mean, of course we all have watched Jazz She's dope. Um watched jazz as her Instagram name. She made a video I think, Um, me and Vicky said it to each other, right or someone said to us, what do

you know what I'm talking about? With the girl who was like, you can't really lie anymore about being gay me? Oh no, I want to put it. Okay, listen to watch when like a guy trying to talk to you, you can just tell him you and your friend were lesbians and they leave you alone. What's going on? Ladies? Gonna are you a drink? Sorry, this is my girlfriend. We're lesbians. Okay, no disrespect, y'all be easy now that this ship don't work. Yeah, y'all look good. What's suck

by yourselon? What's up? Sorry, um, this is my girlfriend. We're lesbians. Shit, I'm a lesbians. We don't like men me neither ship no, no, no, no, I mean like, this is my girl and we don't deal with men at all. We're lesbians and you know that's what I'm trying to say. I'm a lesbians too. I'll do let's just all be lesbians together. Come on, but let me get three shots ahead and say lesbians so or or

they'll do. This is absolutely accurate, but another thing that maybe they used to do it more in the days than they used to now. If I would be out with my friends and I'd be like, this is my girlfriend. Let me see y'all kiss, prove it be time and I want to let you guys know. First off, it's really rape. You know it's got some nerv Did you do this? You've never done? Have you heard friends do this? Have you seen it? It's try. It's so we have to lie and say we're lesbian. Like if you think

we're lying where you anyway? Calm down? Do you need some water? No, I'm tired of you need some mill? So you know how like typically hear more from male gaze, where do make a guy switched teams like a heterosexual. So I think I I sometimes think we have the power to turn a lesbian straight. Also, I want to say one thing, um that I think a lot of lesbians have sometimes found insulting. You were like, well, you like penetration and you can't you can't come from your clips?

Like why not just sucking it? And it's just like me saying to a dude, like I think men suck better dick for men, but if you like blow jobs so much, we don't you have a dude do it? Like that's the thing, like where tracted to what we're attracted to? If I don't want to be penetrated and look at a man on top of me and I'd rather see a girl in hair and tits instead of like, you know, big, you can't help you to Well, I think it has a lot to do to like even

talking to gay men. If you're a top, bitches have assholes too, like if you just want to as girls have as too. But it's like, yeah, I think it definitely has to do with just what you're interested in, um, But which is why we always Honestly that argument is to the defense of peggang honestly, like if you really wanted to get fun in the asked why I do, just go do it? But you don't, but you do. You want to watch you do it, and you want me to do it to you because you're into me

and you just want some prostate stimulations. She listened to the gays talking about how you gotta get a knuckle deep and pull back. Oh I already, Well that's why so I have they like, yeah, well the strap on that I do have. And for any of our female listeners interested in buying um a strap on for their for their man um, there's it's. What I have is a prostate strap. So it actually is curved at the top.

And when I asked the lady at the sex store how do I use it, she's like, in your mind, just know that that curve needs to always face the belly button because that's how you're gonna so when you're back in there, and you know how they said that like that, well like this if he's on his back, if it's on the other end, like and that's literally because like they told you, you have to act like

you're doing the coming motion. But yeah, that's how to reach the prostate like you want to go ahead and like that, So I want to get back into lesbians. Oh wait, you guys left fingering combo. You didn't really go into too much detail. No, no, no, we know. We do need to listen, we need we need to

talk more about lesbian sex. Like, guys, go him with the fingers, and that's not how you squirt, and it's like, dude, chill out and well and there's a way to make a female squirt and if she's not aroused, there's a whole lot of it's more psyche. So explain with the fingers. So explain with the fingers for our male listeners and our other lesbian listeners. When you're fingering a woman's vagina, what is the right way to finger a pussy? Alright?

So me, personally, I like to go slow because I'm not about the whole take it no, because like honestly, I could either hurt her and I didn't, so there's that. Um. Normally for me, I like to just go either like a simple one stroke in your fingers in because it's not too much, just not too little, just right and

then um, let's see. Basically, I guess slow and steady tends to win the race, so that way they become adjusted to how slow you can be, right, And then again I love begging, so then if she wants more, then I'm like, okay, and then I like you, and then I like and then and then I actually like to choke her as I do it, and then I just I pick up the pace. Now, Um, I don't want, I don't want, I don't want. Can you shoot? I

love this freaking professional? You be professional or leave weethy entire You took your hand and you're like, y'all needs need to pay for the video of it. This is real life ship, okay. And it's a while you're doing the fingering. Are you still playing? Like, are you still needing cli or have you specifically stopped? Because I want her to enjoy that the penetry because it can also be too much. But then I always like to double

back and do it. Okay, so double back, yeah, and like do both at the same time eventually, so um, I'm choking her and then um I'm sucking her at the same time. By that time, you know, my movements become quicker and harder and better. Um, and then hello, I cannot look at me easy, lord, helping now um and then um, I mean we we have like thirty more minutes after Um, she got pottery, you have to go make a pot I like potter. I'll see the thing.

She likes to be alone, annoying us. Anyways, moving on, Um, So again, I don't want it to feel like I'm poking her, which I think a lot of men do poke. Don't poke a woman. When you're in there, You're doing an actual emotion, like kind of like a wave if I could, I guess describe guys poke a lot, and it's not enjoyable, like like guys like think about like literally poking a girl on her arm, Like that ship hurts after a while, so imagine that a boy. Um.

So it's almost like a wave. And then once I get a right right where I where I want her to be, and like there's like that arch in her back, then I just put three in and then I just that's when okay, and then I flip her around and then I slap her us and then it's a whole different. And at this point I wanted you mentioned slapping ass and I wanted to to mention this to all of our listeners too. When you reach that level of a cousal, the pain or slapping, and asked, that's when it's enjoyable.

Start by slapping early on or being rough early on. It set will terminate. So to take your time and to make it to where she has been aroused to then you could start doing the slapping, even the choking. Are you really texting? No, I'm looking at the outline, Okay, checking cool, But I think this is this is a lot of tension in here. But yeah, I feel like this is more uncomfortable than my mom, which is yeah, which is why I'm yo shout out and I love her mom and her mom is amazing. She's been on

our shows. So I want to just say again, so, like you said, you get her really aroused before you get into the slapping, and I think that that's important for all dynamics of relationships or people in bed at that point, is because then it becomes more enjoyable. Um. I want to talk once more about like scissoring. People are like, I heard it's your favorite thing to do from who's been around. I heard I'm in these screets. So scissoring a lot of people are like this bullshit,

Like how do girls really enjoy this. Can you explain scissoring and talk about like how we get off from it? We as in So, I mean scissoring it's like rubbing, right, So I don't know. I I personally I love feeling if I'm on top or she's on top and I'm on the bottom. Um, I just love feeling, you know, her pussy against mine and then parts of her body well because again depending if she's on top and I'm on the bottom, again parts of her body against mine

as well. So, um, scissoring for me, I just love. I guess it's almost like dry humping, but like not really it is, but it's not really. I mean it's dry humping, but at the same time scissoring, it's like you get to like, I'm I love my clip stimulated and at the same time someone else is getting into it. Yes, clip simulation. That's right now. Look a so so one of our UM. I enjoyed talking about even just the

sex of it. But I think something that me and Weezy wanted to discuss with having you, Um, I guess we can define gold star lesbian. That's our horrible decision. A gold Start gaze on a few weeks ago, we did. So a gold star lesbian guys is someone who has never been with the opposite sex. Um. In this case, you're a female who has never been penetrated or been with him. Now, So I didn't believe her because I mean one and nigger we talked about Weezy hit me

up and was like yeah, so she totally did. For like, um, leave that out, y'all gonna be out. So she's like no, but I thought that it was interesting. So six months did you say? Six month? Didn't and he didn't fuck him? And what was your reason reasoning for not sucking him? This was I guess the story you said earlier. Literally just didn't feel comfortable at it. And so at what

age were you was that he gonna kill me? Um, let's see, I was like at the time, okay, again you know when you're at that specific that was him, That was like probably him and his prime. Six months? So so was what was the conversation? Keep your opinions to yourself? Okay? So so you met him at this point you were clearly a virgin um and you let him know that. So how did you, guys go six months?

Niggas can't go two weeks without getting you find it very surprising with him once he actually I wouldn't actually

because I believe he's a bottom. Um. So actually, um, because this is where him and I were very much alike, and like, yes, I used to like have my howish ways or whatever as as does he or I don't know, but once we really really start to like someone, and it's we don't want to welcome no, no, no, no, it's it's it's honestly more about I want to know what's in here first, so that way everything else is perfect.

And we we actually we just took our time with it, and like again, I felt really like I felt like a horrible person. And then I had to, you know, we went out to dinner and I told him and he he kind of he was like, yeah, I kind of had a feeling. I was like, okay, you should have said I had one about you too. Maybe problem both of y'all didn't know that y'all really liked the same sex, but y'all were trying to. But I think he's really hot, and people came, I like this question,

um that she has next. So this guy was a celebrity, beautiful, gorgeous fucking model that probably all of our listeners would fuck what celebrity guy just based off looks, would you let funk? Oh my god, Chris Brown? And two, really that's such a strange one. Maybe it's a dancing thing you like, dancing ship. Maybe it is the first of all, you know, it's like, first of all, it is not dancing ship, it's dancing ship. Second of all, I'm a Kanye fan, right, So i'd give you you would like

Kanye because I'm a fan. And maybe that's why you some groups ship no, no, like J Cole. But I mean, like a fan, what I wouldn't know. So I'm gonna tell you, guys. Why can I tell you guys? Why? So there was this basketball player who is a really big fucking basketball player. I was a fan of his. We fucked and it was so bade him so little, so bad, really so trash. He's huge, his body is huge, but nothing else. It's he's probably six eleven rough about that.

And so because I was such a fan of his, like would watch all the games, like really enjoyed him as a player. After I fused him, I was just like, okay, ball, those balls aren't the same one now, So you think Jake. I would hate if Jake Cole had bad dick because I listen to his music. So I mean a fan when I say like not on something like groupie, throw you the pussy. But like I'm just such so interested in him and like so consumed with Kanye, like I want that for me so so so I could see

what you got a question over there? What this is? I think this is why guys think that they can make you switch teams because you just said fair fair Okay, so you guys hope No, no, no, I mean men have a celebrity. Absolutely not. You said that guys have a celebrity guy they would go gay for if you had to go straight, if you had to go gay for a guy like girl. No, but like no, dude, be like yo, I mean I maybe Jason. Oh my god, guys are not here say who they would go gay

for it. That's a major pause, bro, that's just because they're when I realized I was gay, And then I was like, yeah, I got this one girl that all I want to do is sucker. Oh we're good, Okay, I did what I had to do. Wait, and she's a very very famous model. So I'm like I'm trying to think of a back off. Who So we just did guys real quick while we're on lesbian play right here and we're all kind of dipping in that pool. Um, what is the celebrity girl that she would most want

to fuck? Chaf Oh, she's on that. Mine is just because we actually know a lot of the same people, so we know about each other. Ish, but it's just the day that happens. I will rita or like, I just want her, you know, I do like her. She looks like she was fun in bed by the way. I do want I feel like I could have said a Beyonce or Rihanna or whatever. I feel like that was like I was really trying to think I was having about Brianna though, I just I just want to

get high. There's a celebrity couple that I'm like talking right now. Okay, so here we go, wait, because I have one. Who's the celebrity couple she would have? Three? So Altered Carbon is a show on Netflix. The dude from Yes I didn't realize how tractive hosted him him and his wife Wow, Joel Kinneman and his wife. His name is Chloe or something like that. Cleo. Anyway, she's like tatted up to her chin, which I'm not into. But the two of them together, like they're they're pretty

consturbated to them already. You definitely episode five, there is a great their pictures. I'm I'm probably going to be really basic again with this one, but I love them and I know they're open and I I've heard that he goes, oh, well them too, that's but that's a given.

I actually would love to have Will Smith and Jada Pinkett really yes, and because I love Will Smith, he's taught, and I hear that he possibly goes both honestly, they see it would be fun, fun sex and then and then you lay in bed after you you're fucking dressed and exhausted, and he says a joke because he's just fucking funny. So I get to laugh after sex too, like I would just genuinely for um. Alright, So what's your type? And I want to ask this to everybody

because we all fun girls, like what's your type? Oh? Oh, I guess I can go first? Who wants to say? I model? So it's so funny that they're not, I G. Models, but they kind of are. I actually like really thick women. Um, oh name and I model like you would like totally well the bitch, that would be so real, Mia be that's oh you're really do out here with that pussy is great and pierced, and um, she have good. We have confirmations. It's really good. It's really good pussy. But

she claimed that, like I'll be claiming that pussy. Um, but Mia has great, She's amazing, not gonna need that was the first person. I can't believe you. Oh yeah, no, no, Like in real life. We went to the club one time and it was all white party and we ended up going all white people are like all white Jamaican party. Clearly you know my crowd. It was just we dressed in all white. Um, everyone else was colored. Um, I'm

just saying we glue in the dark with our white clothes. Um. And then we went to our home girls house after and I wanted her so bad. We went into we read a condominium and went to like their area with the TV and pool table. Took her into the bathroom and and she just knows, she's like, but we were in the club and I say, I don't give a fuck, And it was still just beautifully tasting and everything. Even after beautifully tasting, it was amazing beautifully you got know.

So a lot of the girls that I do or have had sex with, I prefer they're all bartender strippers as like they're those of that's that's the most start start about like my type. Oh lord, here we go. I like black, um you like black girls really, but they need to be mixed. Like I can't clearly keep going. This is so and I feel like girls hate you know why, Like fuck you, why can't you suck the black girl? We and he went out for sushi with Anthony. You okay, And there was a girl in there, you

bro okay? So what was it? Like four or five girls right came in and then like this white chick is looking at me, and then she not just like the black girl. And then the black girl looked at me and goes, I was like shit, so uh no, no no, but she's actually mixed too, She's actually actually mixed black to me. You look black to me too, anyway. Oh don't you don't hang around a lot of black people, do you? Anyway? So she buys textured weave. I get it, Okay,

I'm cut cut this is going on the bonus episode. Listen, I am at. I'm gonna tell you what I wear. We've I make sure it blends. I like the volume. We had this conversation yet, um I like the volume. Plus I shaved my head on one side before, like all the way back, and like that's she's taking a long time. I shaved it always a dome and so yeah, okay, I wasn't done alright, So black and mix, like I like black and white, black Porto Ricans, we get the

mixed part black and Israelian, Israeli whatever. Okay, okay, we get it. Red Nails Tattoo has a podcast called Horrible Decisions. All right, Next, what's your type? I'll say, and I'll be honest. I saw the other girl. She was sucking, so I don't want to say which you want the French back, get bitch the shape. So I will say, well, there's not only Collete, there's a couple bitches in them. Victoria the one, the one in him. I will say,

there's definitely there's definitely a difference. I think she just genuinely has she has to have a vibe with someone because all of her girls, I will say, look, different, probably the thickest with a big button, like you're answering it perfect. Yeah, so I definitely think just you know, she's an email host, so there it has to be a vibe. I will say this one thing, um that I said to someone, I think there's more like no

the other morning. So I've noticed with me the reason I'm not all the way gay is because when I'm with women, I'm constantly thinking about how attracted to like that I'm with a woman, Like I'm so excited about being with a woman. I like the feminine ship that's going on between the two of us, Like that's something that I love that's going on, and that's very special to me. When being with women, you don't have that excitement with men. I don't really think that I'm with

a man when I'm with a man. When you're with a man, who do you think about when you're with a man. I'm just saying, like I don't know if i'm explaining as well, Like part of the reason when I'm with women, I get off of the fact that I have a girl like that, she's girly, that I'm like that that it's it's not exactly second nature as men are to me, so when I'm with women, it

feels more special in that way. Like I'm constantly thinking about the fact that it's a girl, and I wonder if that's because I'm not all the way gay, So speaking of this not all the way like right, like being with a woman out or things like that, Like I'm so excited that, like I get to like feel like this and be with a girl and feel sexy to be with a woman. And and I don't mean that to diminish something that I have with somebody, but I genuinely feel that, and it's the most exciting part

for me. I love being with a woman because that's what she is, right, And so me and you are on this teeter totter halfway mark um, I and joy being with women for different reasons than I enjoy being

with men. I want to bring this back to being a gold star lesbian because with when dealing with women, I've gone with Mia to gay clubs and I actually prefer aside from the stripper hose, I actually really like like what like the Brittany grinder studs, like the I love like an androgynous tall as female with dreads and so but my girl, Britnie Grinder could have it all, I would have her inserted baby from whatever however the

fun she got that sperm. I love Britney Grinder. And so I wanted to ask this because when I go to the gay clubs where I'm around lesbian women, they have an issue with me being bisexual and still wanting That's one of our questions. And that's one of our questions. What is the issue with lesbians going to or dealing with bisexual women? And there normally is an issue. I know there is. I think I know what it is. I don't want to speak for you, but you know what you heard. No, I think it's more of a

power thing. And I'll explain because it's like, okay, so hey you're by Yes, that means I could suck you great. But then with I guess a lot of situations that I've seen and even with me, I'm like, I don't want to think about you fucking a man a man because I just gave you all of me. So why so I'm not But what if it was another girl? What is it still somebody else? Why is it the man part? Because because you said I just gave you all of me? That's what I mean. Like, so what

if they sucked another girl? What is this specifically about the man that like you? Do you feel like is it a competition? Because I was gonna say I think that's a problem we had someone. Well, we talk often about if a man was bisexual what the issue would be, and a lot of women have said I don't want to compete with men and women. Let me tell you something.

I always find very insulting from men when I tell them I'm dating a girl, or when I have dated a girl while dating another guy, when they'll say things like they're not worried about it. I don't care if you day girls, Like do you think that she can't take me for me? Oh bitch, because I can. And I really don't like that because that's me diminishes, Like you just think I just want to fucking eat pussy

or whatever. Like I've had girlfriends, you know, and I've had real strong connections with women, and I really don't like when dudes will say things to me like you can't funk other guys, but you can suck other girls. You're only saying that because you really find competition in this man. Well, do you know this woman is doing better than you and everything. So I actually have a

question for the bothy of So that's actually extremely true. Um, but is it the same way if it's a UM, I just totally lost my train of thought if it's a if it's a a guy saying, oh, well, I'm gonna like like like our girls. Okay with that, No, not at all correct. If he's gonna another guy. So we've talked about it. I think there's just a huge there's a huge bisexual bisexuality, especially dealing when it comes to men um specifically black men. Which that's all ideals,

this is all societal pressures. We all feel like that bisexuality is not real with which is total. Not only that because even as a bisexual female when I let guys know, we talked about this without with the dating app with Tinder, Alex was in here to take bisexual off. And it's funny because most men who meet a bisexual female automatically assume, YEA not going to you. I'm curious as a full blown lesbian. Um, full blown lesbian, that's

sounded kind of bad. Full blown um as a as a whole as okay, as a whole last lesbian do you bring other women into the bedroom with you? What are the what are the lines that are drawn in lesbian relationship? I mean, honestly, communication is key with us, and like if you say like okay, like if I'll go out with a girl and I'm like yo, like I'm kind of feeling her. But but when it comes to bringing other women in the bedroom, it works as

any relationship goes. You communists as you're as honest as I am honest with you because I don't like the whole Oh well, so it was okay with it and like no, everyone's naked in bed and you're just like, I really do want a bit, but it happens, like I think with three sims across part with everybody. Absolutely, And I wanted to ask you another question as well. So dealing with women and only women, there's this stigma that women are caddy, women are jealous, women are needy,

women are naggy. Do you feel do you feel like you get more of why don't be over here agreeing with that, I say that ship when you're not yes, yes, So when you're as a lesbian only dealing with women, do you feel like there's more drama and lesbian relationships and straight relationships because everything I go to the Gate Club, excuse me, shut up. I'm the one that's supposed to be answering. She's I'm interviewing her. Thank you. Think about

when everybody's they always be fighting. I want to cope with Gabana like two or three times for the lesbian party during Pride weekend. Fight me and got in a fight. We stay getting the fight at the lesbian club. Really mean, look, regardless if you're in a a relationship with another girl, and especially during Pride, especially like I'm going to Pride l A and I'm petrified of what the funk I'm about, Like I just got confirmation I'm going on pet It's

really that much drama. And see what it is? Way like because people you love where they're like the circle. Goddamn, it's like Adam, you know. But honestly, honestly, what it is just like it's Pride, right, so like you want to look your best, you wanna be the best ho out there. And then and so again, if you're in a relationship and then you start bumping into the people and then they're like, oh hey, why are you looking at it? And I'm like, yo, calm down. So it's

just a girl thing. But but I love when girls get jealous of me because it actually shows me that they give a fuck what that's so, let's see. I think it's like we talked about that. I feel like it's crazy that these certain negative things are associated to really wanting me. Oh my god, you're willing to fight over me. Oh my god, you're jealous. Oh my god, you must really like me because you did that. No,

I think that everybody can feel that way. Like, I think it's not bad to see someone get a little your tease about jealousy. I don't like when someone takes it too far that. No, But I like kind of cute tee like it. I like. I like the cute, fun type. I don't. I don't like the oh lord, let me leave. No no, no, no, no no. I don't like that. UM. I do want to say, it's funny you mentioned dudes with a threesome thing like I. UM.

I was having this conversation with someone recently and telling them how I've been seeing this girl and I've been seeing this guy, and they're like, oh, we're gonna bring it together. His name is Jeeves. So, so what's the girl's nickname? Yeah, what's her nickname? I just want to know, come on, so we I can't figure it out yet. I was gonna say lover girl because how I'm feeling about her, but I also feel like it could be because I had love a boy, but love a boy, honey,

that's the past. Welcome to the president. But people like, now do you bring it together? And I think that that kind of annoyed me because just because you've heard I like to have three sims, you know, I'm into it, Like I feel like having separate relationships is okay, and I don't have to just bring these two people together

because I enjoyed being with them. And I frankly would be really insulted if he ever said something like that to me, Like if you know I like this person, you know how I talk about it, and now you're gonna be like I want to like, it's very like, why would you be insulted if he just acts a question?

Because to me, if I'm telling you that I'm with someone who's a lover girl and love girl or whatever or someone that I'm enjoying, I mean it's a separate space, like I'd kind of be insulted because it makes me feel like you think this is for you to Like what if he just enquires like, hey, would you ever be interested in I guess it have to be how I was brought up, but I I don't even I feel like men shouldn't even bring that to a woman because she's first of all, I don't want to bring

to people that I'm really into together unless we all plan on being together. I've had a three way relationship. I would hate to two people have feelings for it, just like that's just weird. And then I'm the one in the middle that it's gonna be weird, like we're gonna have a threesome. Like, let's not choose the person that I'm dating apart from you, Like, let's see that person together. Like, I don't know sex, how what HO ship?

How often do I have sex with men or women? Women? Honestly, the girl that I was fucking, she um isn't here yet. If you look at my nails, it's clearly been a while since I sucked a woman. You'll know when I funk a woman because I won't be wanting to have my cry. Oh I already know they're they're short, but I know, but that's I think that that's a lesbian thing too. I was actually gonna bring up your nails.

You don't even have color on them. Um, But I honestly, it's more so like a drunken like a drunken night after the club type of thing, or a threesome. Um. There was a relationships. Yeah, I did have a relationship with a female. She treated me probably the best. Um it was in Miami that I always in Miami, live in Miami. Yeah, and that relationship, I will say probably of all of my relationships, she treated me probably better than anyone. And just at that time I was dumb

and fast. And I have to have two questions that I really really want to get in before we do whole mail. How did you lose your virginity as in like your hyman, and I feel like a lot of it's still there. How do you talk about why do you think it's still there? Why would we still be there? How does your hyman? How does your chair get popped with fingers? Maybe so, but I feel like that's a very good question because people will always assume that your

hyman is still there. Okay, okay. So for me, how it happened was in a relationship with this incredible woman and just we just decided to like not just fun like we both wanted to actually make love. And then she brought the strap on and then I was like okay, and then it happened and I was like, oh, okay, done by simple that's it. And did you ever deal with a strap on again? Yeah? Of course, yeah, you enjoyed. But so you know it's not my first choice. I want to girl to feel all of me and not

that dinner. Right. So so you again to me coming off you you even classified yourself as half butch you would consider is a verse a thing with lesbian you you do the strapping and take the strap on. What do you prefer? I'm just curious why sex show did you see? I know it's her face, that's why you little face musya. What do you prefer? I prefer not taking it? I love being always like power. Um. One other question, my last one, UM, what is the hype

about sucking straight girls? Because I think me and you both talked about this that we like sucking straight girls. Whatever do you? I don't know if you do, but like like I want to talk about that. Why is it so exciting? Um, they played too many games? No, no no, no, I ain't got a patience. I like, I like, I like, I like fucking straight girls just simply off the again. It's communications. So if I say, um, you know, have

you ever you know? And like I get off on the fact, they're like, I've never done this ship before, and those are literally that's way because you want to be able to be Yeah for absolutely hating on the guy if he's trying to do the same to you, because y'all are just all I think. I'm gonna be honest with you. This gets into a totally type like creep culture and men. No, no, no, no no, it's not hating. Generally, men are very aggressive and it's a pressure thing and

I women. I never it's gonna sound very cocky, but it's true. I never approached them. I'm like, you know, I believe you on that one because I think you have a look that for a straight girl. They're like, you're kind of boyish, but you're beautiful. So like, I don't know what I'm feeling. I think I didn't. I don't.

I'm gonna be honest with you. That is why I always actually heals I like I like you, and she loves me and heels and it's crazy because yeah, but then she'd be ever on leather jacket and like little Vienna be married. Cute. I hate you when I tell you, I hate you. So we're gonna go ahead and get into the homemail. UM. I want to thank all of our listeners who oh ship, I played it. I want to thank all of our listeners who are now sending

us homemail through our voicemail. UM, if you want to go ahead and leave us a voicemail the number, you just hit the call button on our horrible decisions. By the way, I really wanted us to do this, and I meant and I put it in the notes because I feel like this girl, but this is this is really good. When I listened to it, she was even nervous as to if this is even a real problem. I kind of wanted Alex, I'm actually glad you got the mic there because I don't know what to say.

This is a good question. Maybe you can help, sir. So here goes the question. UM, I know that I to say coming from a female. Okay, hey, Weezie and Mandy, I just want to start off by saying that I love the show. I tune in every week. UM with a little bit of home. Male. Oh, I feel like I come too quick to say coming from a female, UM and I only males. But um, let's just put it in short. So every time I'm getting some really

good head by guy, I can come within minutes. I don't know if I like just know my sweet spot or what or ain't on my spot or a lot of times when I'm like riding with it. Uh, I just know my thought and it's it's really easy to have an orgasm. I don't want to do that anymore. It's been kind of sucking up my sex life because especially if I'm having sex with a guy that you know, it might be just the flame. Once I have an orgasm, I am done. Like I do not want him to

touch me anymore. I want and just leave and I want to go about my day. So please and some insight on this topic. I don't know you've heard anything or anybody say anything like this, but UM, give me some advice. Thanks. Love it. Joe By has she tried vaginal exercises like clenching and ship just like stop herself to stop herself from coming. Yeah right, really, but you to stop from coming. I didn't know that. I thought that was just to make it tighter. I wanted to

look up something. Um, there's a desensitizer for men that the spray, and I wonder if she could desensitize her cli. I don't know it's coming to make men last longer. Okay. Well, and it's funny because the dilemma that she does have I've had before and when I'm with a guy that I kind of don't care if he gets off or not if I come before him. All right, I'm done, And I literally be like, I'm I'm done, fucking I came. I'm tired, and as a woman, we kind of get

a numbing because that happened. It's I'm like learning to like work through it. I just get immediately, like it's very easy. She's always so I come really easy, which is why I really was hearing her like I feel like I come too quick, to the point where anyone I've ever stopped with always asked me if I'm lying, Like, it's just really quick, Okay, how quick? Maybe two minutes, three minutes the first one the first night, then the

second one isn't. It depends, like if it's like going well right, like I can't really hold out that well, and like sometimes I gets tired to come into fast and I don't know what to do either, So no, what do you think? So this is like a whole new phenomenon. I didn't know that you didn't know that that happened. No, I thought you guys enjoy coming multiple times. I didn't know. No, no, no, no, no no. Not to say that women don't or anything, but there are some

women that come too fast. I mean, I think we hear so much about women that are hard having a hard time reaching orgasm, but I don't I don't even even say fast. I would think, like you still want to keep it going, keep it going. I didn't know that she said you can't. Sexual desire dies, because that's sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't. It depends. It definitely depends.

Like when I came, I think I am gonna make put the blame to the cody, and I was on when I came four times um with from writing dick. But there is times like when all orgasm, Like there's different types of orgasms for women, and so there are some orgasms that when a female reaches it, it's exhausting, and it also changes the sensation of our vagina to where maybe I don't even want to be penetrated anymore. It's like I came, I'm exhausted, and yeah, I get tired.

So then it's like damn, and I've now I gotta finish, like I'm done. I got mine, and a lot of women don't get there's so it's just like to really have that sensation, we will be done. But what I would suggest to her is that she gives them head for a really long time, get them right there, and then they stopped working, so then they both come at

the same time. Because we always say men should eat pussy and satisfy me first longer, because I just said in the beginning of the show, you you want to eat her pussy, and I mean, but there's a lot of times that women, most women, especially even our listeners, are having a problem reaching these orgasms. So it's funny that on the complete opposite end of the spectrum she says it's ruining her guid honestly, like I've come from

giving head before. I mean, if I'm touching myself a little bit, like I enjoyed musing, and I don't know how she's coming too quick, like I don't know where it is, like you know what I'm saying, Like if she's touching herself and coming because she said, maybe I know my spot and stop touching. She did. Okay, okay, she said while she's writing, So maybe she should do more other positions where she's not in control and he's more in control. Let him be more from the bag

missionary on the side. Don't allow yourself to have so much control to where you know your spot so you're gonna come. So not a problem, by the way, I know what the why are you complaining? I don't The only reason I got tired of it. I don't know if she can relate, but I would come so fast that I couldn't perform throughout, like I couldn't finish. And that's when I knew it was because that's what it sounds like. Her problem is is like her sexual desire

shuts off after she comes. So it's like that's why it's the problem, because it so if anything, if anything, it just sounds more mental than anything. Look into the desensitizing creams and stuff like that online and like make sure you find one that's like safe, you have some good reviews, or going to store and ask somebody. But I would try those. I just think it's van They rush a lot of blood to your pussy. By the way, some of them can keep you horny, so you might

want to keep sucking. I will say though, for a lot of the female listeners to me, I will say it's risky for women way more than men to deal with any of these type of topical or creams because the giants very sensitive, and you don't want to just be putting anything up there because then it could just be a problem to war. Then you itch, then there's an issue. Um. So yeah, I guess that's your advice for that. We have one more. I want to like, if you don't mind following up with us and I

like text or email or whatever. I want to write Dr Kim and talk to her about that. Okay, okay, um, So this next one is Lord listen. I'm glad you wrote it back first. Oh I did write, So this girl writes us. Actually she wrote me in my d MS and horrible decisions, so I feel like she was really stressed. Mean, she just copy and paste of this ship. Hopefully you guys see this because I need some advice. I'm glad you wrote he back because I I was

gonna write her back right away too. I felt like she was tripping, so I decided to make it Tinder because of you two. And I met this guy on here. We were talking on there for about ten days before he designedly deciding finally decided to ask me for my number. Disclaimer, we have yet to hang out. He's had my number since January. We were supposed to hang out before, but there was a really bad snowstorm, so we decided to reschedule Valentine's Day come around. He stops texting me around

seven and doesn't even tell me Happy Valentine's Day. He texted me the next day and acted like everything was all good. I'm a cancer. Typically we wear our hearts immerse sleeps. So should I make a big deal and I the side chick? Should I leave him alone? And I overreacting? Sorry? This is so long? I wrote her back, like I wrote her back like girls, wait, wait, hold on, let me Mandy wrote her back. Is it? I want to read this on the show, period, but cis comma? Y'all?

Y'all never met he owes you nothing, and you're expecting way too much? Is a text happy Valentine's Day one? Y'all have been talking ten days. I'd say when you have lower expectations, it leads to less disappointment. She wrote back and said, I'm okay with you reading this on the show. No, we talked ten days on Tender and we've been texting every day since January twenties six. Is it bad for me to at least expect a Valentine's

Day text? Other homes hit me up but not him, And I'm just overall this texting and I don't want to be too pushy or available. I don't know how to date at all. Once I like you, I like you clearly, and so I wanted to give kind of a p s A too. That's once you know you crazy When I read like we've yet to hang out, I don't want to hurt you have yet to hang out, and you're upset because he didn't text you on Valentine's Day.

I wanted to say, like to our female listeners, I feel like a lot of us expect way too much out of these trash as nigas to begin with. So I feel like, I mean, maybe you're not trash Okay, maybe not you you know, kinda forever. But I literally feel like there's things that we expect from men way, not only too soon, but we just don't allow things to be organic or flow that way. You're really upset about not receiving a happy Valentine's Date text, I don't

even want to text. I got rose emojis and responded these ain't even real, nigga, get it out my phone. So I don't know. I don't know why a lot of women are expecting so much out of men so soon. I think that it's something that needs to be like she's in her head too much, like a yes, and that's fair. They create these relationships because they like them. But it's like, if you take yourself out of this situation and look into it, you've think about it for

a sea. If he's not texting you about like you guys haven't even met, Like, do you not think he was talking to other people? Other people and and that's honestly nothing that maybe he's not been what girl he d How do you know that there's massing niggas? I don't think he's probably dated somebody I don't know he got He got a girl, do you think so? Because he hasn't met her yet. Yes, he's just waiting for an open opportunity to Oh and the other nigga in

the wrong clapping, I'm sorry. Oh yeah, because it's been some ship you miss. It's some ship. Goddamnit. Um she's turning into a tomato, y'all. I know she is. It's so cute. Oh my god. Man. He was like, I don't want to do this episode. I want to. I was like, I'm not interested in this, Um damn not because I was just like, you, sure, she's gold star. I just don't even think. But now after the conversation. And also also another thing too, even in the lesbian world,

this happens as well all the time. And then and then nothing. Then if I guess you're like the other the other girl, whatever it is. If you are too much in your head and you don't want to enjoy that person you you you most likely just ran them away. You really. I'm like, I'm like, if I want to see you, and I'm gonna look at her as I say this, If I want to see you and you don't give me time, to see you, and I go above and beyond to try to see you, and you

don't see me. I'm not gonna lie. That's why I cut Felling Bay off. Y'all don't know he got out of jail. Oh yeah, I was dating a felon everything you just said. I'm sorry, it's resonating with me. So first off, you don't got a job, nigga, and you just gotta okay, okay. But I can say, hey, okay, okay, I guess you have a job. But if even at the gym, bitch, funk your gym, come see me, which is fellon Bayes issue? Work of what gym? When we could just put him but work in the bedroom? How long? Okay?

But hold on, hold on, hold on what well, this is my thing, this is my thing with with with Felling Bay guys. So he got out of jail and quickly got cut off. But um, the problem with what that is Abby at work in school, nig you couldn't go to the gym between nine am and eight thirty pm. You gotta go to the gym when I'm out of working. Free. Here we go. You're getting on the mike. What you got to say? What you got to say, King, we're listening, how you don't do you are? Don't hear about this?

That Mandy Matt that was about to come to her house that got arrested again, he broll you out there. I was gonna write him a letter because I really enjoyed his company, Like I really enjoyed being around he listen. Mandy told us about this thing on one episode. Literally the next week we were in the studio. She was like, so what here he's not so but anyways, what she was saying it still only got a job but somehow in apartment. I mean, you can pay his rent doing

I mean, let's not talk about this. You know, look, let's not one question. One question. What's the question? You said your goals? What is a gold start? Kay? So what if you're dating someone bisexual who wants a threesome? What with a male? Yeah? Again communication and she would need to understand that about me. I'm not but but again that's me. But I mean like say, like the dude never touches you during the interaction, I can you can you can watch a girl get fucked. You would

be able to watch a girl that you're fucking. A girl called other guy Oh, I would not. I like kissing and stuff. Would you kiss the guy? Oh? You wouldn't even kiss the guy? Have we ever done? Have you ever? So you wouldn't even suck a dick? And everyone miss okay? So I mean I get that, that makes sense. I get it too. Again, it's all about communications everywhere that like they're girls want other guy, but they're not gay. I feel like we end all of

our shows with it's all about communication, guys. It's all about commun all of our shows. And that make time for the person who will agreed, who wants to Again, I respect it, hold on, hold on. If you are busy and you have a ship ton of ship going on in your life, I'm like, I get it. I respect it. But you know, I don't want people drink and you know what you're in the busy. Do you know what you say? Obama had time for Michelle? And

that's all the funk. I tell all these niggas who don't have motherfucking time what Obama had time for Michelle? So I don't and to me as as a human being, listen, I'm taking seven classes, I work as busy seas and I have this podcast with this bitch, and she drives me crazy every day, so I have to deal with her. And it's literally like, if I am able to find time in my busy schedule, I literally want to see you. So I feel like when someone genuinely wants to see somebody,

they make that time. They don't make time get hurt because I'm like, well, I understand, honestly, I'm going to sympathize with you. Off, Well, I'm gonna sympathize with you because I would feel away if pottery came before me too. I'm just saying I'm going to later this untable. I'm taking sick days, but this is the truth. Since you want to go there, well, I'm going through a breakup and it is I'm my own priority right now. I have to have dates with myself. I have to do

ship by myself because I can. I'm not want to jump into something else too fast. And I enjoy spending time with the people I'm dating and make time for them in my life. But I am like serious about my priority because I don't want to get too needy with somebody. Because that's why it's also been so hard for me to let go. He was my best friend and that ship was hard, and I don't want to, you know, keep spending so much time with someone before I'm healed. I think, Um, I have a friend in

town from l A. I'm going to go out. UM something else. I wanted to um read off this isn't home male, But I want to shout out to Tierra, who wrote our Horrible Decisions page. Oh maybe not. She wrote me, um, same thing. She said, Hi, Mandy, I was in l A for All Star weekend. I live in the Bay and was so hoping that I would run into you so I could tell you in person how much I absolutely love what you and Wheezy are

doing with the podcast. My sister told me about it a month ago, and since then I've gotten all my girls hooked and started listening with my boyfriend too. My sister and I can't even listen to our other favorite podcasts anymore because they just don't compare to it. She ain't say the names, girl, I know, I wanted to

know what we was being compared to. I'm sure you both hear this all the time, but Horrible Decisions is so important, not just because it's entertaining and funny as hell, but because women live their whole lives without ever understanding what it feels like to be sexually liberated. And we're really and we're literally taught to think that we aren't meant to experience that. Y'all offer an example of what it looks like to be a woman empowered in her sexuality.

It's so necessary, So thank you and I got that, and I was like, you know what, I literally heard the same thing a few nights ago. Um, when I went on that day with Jeeves, right, I was telling him how scared I was to meet new people and talk about this podcast, and he's like, look, you're going

to meet people that might think it's fucking crazy. And he's like, but you have to understand what you're doing can be such a turn on for someone that's secure with it because they're going to see it as empowering. They're going to see it as educational thing, like sure, you do it in a fun way to where people do want to listen, people do want to get tested ship like that, and like, I'm starting to learn that

that was one of the biggest hardest things. I was like, I knew he loved what I do and was very supportive and like am I going to find somebody else that's gonna to be cool with this, with this someway they shout out to injectors. That way, I got new fucking lips, nigga. The third well in the pictures was kind of confused because it was a curve. There's a curve.

We don't really like curve dicks. We haven't really had that conversation out there, but women don't really like curb Phoenix to share this with you, what you have a curve dick? Okay, because it sounds sad over there. Why is that curve? I would not It's honestly real. I don't I don't know. I was watching like a gangbang session and then I was like, what why is this dick? Like it's it's literally like a ninety degree angle and I'm just like talking, I know that hurt. That was

It is the weirdest looking dick. I really hope, um, for all of our lesbians listening. I really hope that this episode kind of did justice um for everyone listening. I hope you guys learned how to eat pussy, how to finger pussy, and how no poke, and also just how to not sit here and make things awkward by approaching women asking them the kiss if they're lesbian. Listen, if if a girl. This is a takeaway for the men. If you approach a female she says she's with her girlfriend,

you have no hope. There's no chance at zero. So just walk away, be like I respect that ma, and keep it moving. So there's the takeaway for money to be like, oh you gotta do say you ain't interested, I'll be like, okay, well I'm not well, I'm not too um Again, guys, I wanna say thank you guys so much again. We have merchandise coming out. We will be sending out the information for that. If it's already out by the time we release this episode, you can

click the link in the bio. Also, we got some last shows coming for you hot So Atlanta in New York City. We are coming to you. I know, listen d m V Chicago, l A. We hear y'all too.

We just that's that's too far away. We're trying to get this check and Finley, I am really just you know, me and Alex went to go see Black Panther and like this girl, Well we're gonna see it together there and I'm so excited, so like we went to go see it and I was telling them, like, dude, I feel bad for white boys, Like I just feel like I need to be blacker and black people black, and that's why I'm so happy we're going at Lena Black Like, honestly,

what do you mean you say? When we left the movie, I was like I wish I was darker. That's how fucking regal Africans and blacks are, and like it just reminded you how fucking dope black people are. And I just like, like I hated you. I know, I can't wait to see it. I know I'm excited. I still haven't seen it. I got to convince um Alex to take me to a white theater because I want to

be able to hear the movie. Not interested in you know, the Magic Johnson Theater in Harlem's are I mean the Eye Pick And I was like, I was excited because I never have been there, but like, y'all should go. Y'all should go right over the bridge to Jersey. They have like the laid out leather sea. First of all, we're city girls. Oh, I'm just saying I'm not trying to another stake to go to a movie theater. I mean, but it's cheaper. You know, I'm good Calvin Claw model.

First of all, we're not gonna fuck you, Alex, Okay, I'm talking about Oh we're doing it on Tuesday. Oh yeah, No, I have a thing called a job in all in school, so Tuesday is not gonna work. I'm a weekend only type of girl. Ate Okay, well you could be third. Well, because I can't make way to where I picked him. Get your tickets like now, because it's are we still recording? Yeah? Well sorry guys, Thank sorry, guys, thank you so much. If you listen to this podcast and you have never

done pat I'm thinking about dis by. However, if you listen to this podcast and you want to maybe see some of the things we were talking about, UM joined Patreon and you can see hey more. It's just five bucks, and you'd be supporting us being able to me and Mandy. You are paying for this live show by ourselves. By

the way. Yeah, we're trying to go promoter free and we're just trying to be too independent pocs and you know that's bout as helps um Yeah, and it's also been helping us be able to get merchandise to y'all. By the way, y'all, we just got T shirts and dad hats. Y'all are hitting me up talking about cropping. Can I get We're not a store guys, um, but we're gonna try to listen to all of your advice and get as much of the merchandise that we can and bring to y'all. Um. Patreon subscribers do get um

money off of the live show. Yes, and if you are a top tier patron, we will be um contacting you soon to send you your free merchandise, as we appreciate you so much for donating fifteen dollars a month. Um. Again, that link will be in the bio if you want to become a patron and see the full video edits of this. Don't try to read the lips for where we did our bleefs ho um. But anyways, thank you so very much. Ye anyways, thank you guys so very much.

This has been yet another episode of fourble Decisions.