Ep5: BDSM, Licked Buttholes, and Promiscuity

with the guy who might Posty the babe cry. So if someone goes down there that fast, I'm assuming they do a really good blow job. Log on to their app Go on their website www dot Jolie Beauty Bar dot com Jolius filled j O L. I book your appointment with our code w d P twenty and get off your first visit to go make a horrible decision. Yes, so, guys, I'm so excited. This is episode five of Horrible Decisions, and I'm so excited because this will be a good one.

I don't know if you guys are ready anyways, you guys know me. I am Mandy Be and I'm Wheezy w T and we are Horrible Decisions Maker podcast. You could tell like, we don't clearly think it should we just go do ho ship and then come on and talk about the ship. So I guess my week has been very uneventful. Actually, my mom and sister came to town, so between work and yes, my mom the dom Oh god, no,

it's perfect because this is a b DSM topic episode. Yeah, and my mom is literally into Dominatrix, like every Halloween she thinks she's, oh my god, I'm doing leathern whips and I'm like, do not Halloween. Why do you think you have no stories about this? I know, well, no, actually I do sort of. We're gonta get that, but um, it's super cool. Yeah, so we've been cool. We went. I took them to the Yankees game last night, which was cool. Did you anybody on the team to get game? Girl?

I can't meet baseball players because they look like regular you don't know. Not only that, bitch, I don't speak Spanish, so bitch, because I don't speak Sana, I don't think it's funny. I don't speak it's funny, So I cannot talk baseball. I don't know baseball. I sucked one. Actually, of course, look at me. I'm like a real I'm almost you, oh bit. I don't know his name. You

don't even know his name, Jesus Christ. He played on the She don't even know he was really hot though he was here for like in Orlando, for some like base probably camp. Yeah that sounds not right, sure itways, how about how about your week? My week is clearly uneventful. I'm six weeks into having no dick, so I don't have ships to you talk about, Um, what about you? I would lead with this girl's pussy that I ate

on Friday here in Williamsburg. But I have to update y'all on this real estate bullshit because they gotta be fucked up. I don't know why she thought she was gonna be able to come to New York And yeah, it was easy moving here. Now she's really having to find a place like and I just knew it was not going to be easy. So, like, as I told you, guys, I'm trying to get this apartment in l e s. And it's under budget, it's only which is perfect. And this is a studio by the way on Orchid in Rivington,

is perfect. Um, so I make well over what was qualified to make it right. So I'm like, oh my god, I got this in the bag. And this is the first time in my life that I've ever worked for I mean, I've been working for this corporation five years, but you know, like in an executive role, making enough money to live in there and fucking paid off all my ship and debt, have good credit now. And this motherfucker calls me and he's like and we have to talk.

I'm like, okay, what's going on, Alan, because you know it's some fucking Jewish Yes, you know, of course, and I thought he would hook me up, you know what I'm saying, because he read my name and he's like, whoa, you're Jewish too. I was like, oh yeah, my dad's yeah, full full full, it's pass over happy sat shell. Um Hello. He's like, yeah, I need to talk to you about something. I said, Um, okay, what's up? Because like I knew, I gotta prove you know what I mean, because you

you assume it's money. What happened in two thousand and eleven, I'm like, I don't know, And what about two thousand twelves. I'm like I don't know what. Don't you tell me? So you've been to jail? If you google, there's definitely some fucking mug shots. Dude. First of all, let's just be really about it. Who hasn't been to jail? I haven't, and everyone else in the room there was just literally a unanimous raisin who has not been to jail and she's has She's a dude, what is it? What is it?

When is it a multiple offender? When you go again multiple? Like I'm a felon. I've never been in there, like more than twenty year. I did because I got both Martin Luther King like, no, it was just my license and it wasn't even a d U I like, I know all y'all thought it was. When I tell y'all she whatever she did with this driving though, you know, your license wasn't and I was just broke. I couldn't afford to pay them, so, like your license get suspended,

you know for seven years. I know that's why she moved to New York. She had to get a car. Look, we didn't ask to I'm kind of talking about me that you're probably not gonna get. Let's go. Um. So I was like you know. I was like, look that was six years ago, Like I'm a new woman. And he's like, you know you lied to me. Tell me you're a good person, and you don't. You don't say this.

I'm like, I'm a good Jew. I'm going to have the rabbi last the face come on, and then I'm trying to like think of all the Hebrew words that my dad taught me. I had a bad mitz but just because my mother wanted a party, you know what I'm saying. She was like we had everybody there. It was not even about the bat mitzma ship. So um, anyway, I'm like doing it up as much as I can't think about it. Then you want me? And he won the slow or do you want the Johnson? No, you

want me anyway. So now he's gonna make me have a guaranteur and I'm just kind of upset about that because I was like super proud about being able to aford it on my own, Alfred, this guy six months of prepaid rent um and he was still because you're a criminal too, guys, I am not a dude. I drove a fucking car with some tickets and the ship was suspended. It's not even nephibious. Yeah, well he doesn't want people living with bug shots in his building, apparents.

So now I gotta get a guaranteur. And I'm trying to think all the guys I fucked that actually have money to sign, Well, no, they all do, but which ones make it legally? Or who doesn't have a wife. Now, I don't know. It's it's not even I mean, you know, I have my friends, will do it whatever. It's not

a big deal. But I just I'm embarrassed about it because I thought that I could do somehone and I really don't want to ask somebody to put this on their credit, especially when I finally got over with the seven under Lie. You know what that ship felt like. I already know because I got all the way over it and bit qualified for all these credit cards and which I also was that the credit card I love pulling out my inmage. I literally have five credit cards

and two are just about max. The American Express wrote me, sent me a fucking letter in the mail. I dropped everything the pizza mail, and I said, oh I fucking made it. And I called him, as did should Overton, and they're like, you got to prove a nine, I said, and um, when can we express this card? Is there a location that I can get it too? And I love dropping that ship, especially even if someone takes me on a date and I just pull it out real quickly.

Oh I know, because here goes weezy every time we go. I girl, I got it square, cash me you happy? This is love pulling bitch, get because I get plaint. Uh. Anyway, Friday night, I was out with um, a girl that I met online. Of course, I actually met her on my threesome page and UM, so I think we told you guys, but I was dating somebody a few months ago and we had a page together where we were

looking for girls. Um. Anyway, so she's super sexy. She has like a sept in rings, like badass Brooklyn kind of chick. You know. She works doing some kind of marketing ship. So she calls me or text me and she's like, I text her, excuse me. I said, let's grab a drink and she's like, actually, there's a Beyonce part in Williamsburg. And I know you was ready. I don't even know if I took a shower. I was out. I was on the L train. Sitting in the like, is it here? We get lemonade? Your whole Mike just

went out, hold on, hold on, plug it in. She knows how to put it in. All right, we got this. She know how to put some stuff in some holes. Go ahead, just one. You know, I haven't done it in my asse yet. So anyway, we get to this Beyonce party and she was looking at me and like asking me questions length some of them in you in your ground, friend, I'm just listening to lemonade like that, man,

what getting everything? And yeah, she was. She's walking around the club right where Baby's all right, and she's looking for gum and she keeps asking random people for gum and I'm like, you ask me for gud because you want to kiss me. She's like yeah, definitely. And it was super sexy because she's like, oh, bit, you already know, like you thought you was getting around this already. She has this like you know, I date a lot of scanny girls, thickest like girl, and she was not she's

not thick? What she is not thick? Should I pull their seat? She's not thick, bro Okay, I'm slim thick. And she's thinking the fact that Wheezy considers herself somethick. That's how y'all know. She ain't think anyway, So she'd be lying the little four um come and um, I

was very obvious. I was going home with her. Umber at home, get up to her apartment four flights of a walk up, which that's how you know I was ready for that pussy, because I almost said, now, I'm convinced that at this point you're okay with walk ups because you had walked down a walk up from sucking a guy, and now you're walking up four floors to lick some pussy like you're you're gonna su people to walk ups. It's sucking New York. Get over it. I

don't want to. Apparently your standards aren't that high. So my walk up apartment is costing me a twenty one fifty. I have to be under an eight square feet terrible. So we get upstairs and she fucking puts this music on and I'm like, oh my god, you just tell us like the sex music music, some like deep House. It was kind of sexy. So the candles we're laying in the bed and anything. No, you just know, it's

just like fucking happened. And we've known each other for for a few months now and we've never had sex, and I kind of felt like it was never gonna happen, and the fact that it was happening, I was nervous because I like her as a friend. Dude, this girl got on top of me. She was ready to make you her girlfriend. She was like, you got you got to be dude. She was so fucking sexy, Like the way she was kissing me, like putting her hands on my neck, like sitting on my face, Like my jaw

hurt the next day. That's how much pussy. That's when you know what's good. I didn't even know I could get there. And like she was saying sexy at Ship like when he was getting good and I was fingering her and ship and like going down on her. She's like, you own this pussy, And I remember being like what, It's so crazy because I was like the hottest eat pussy in her life. And I really didn't, did you not? I didn't think so. Of course she made a porn

of them laying together, her her sucking or titty. So I was like, bro, I believe you now because I still can't see you eating no pussy? I like really, because mind you, guys, I was probably sucking with girls. What eighteen, I was working with girls early, like I had a full blown girlfriend at the age of twenty. I had like smoke. Yeah, So when we talked about dealing with girls, I know, Wheezy was always just like

the one that hadn't really gone the whole way. Honestly, I just didn't had a lot of experiences a litte but with her, like I in her and I had been talking about threesome so much and I was surprised it was that. I mean, she talked and it wasn't like talking too much. It was a lot of sexy talk.

She sounds perfect when she's moaning. She likes him to spank her, like being choked, and I just think she's I thought about her like all fucking weekend, and I tried not to text her because I wasn't about to be thirsty bitch, you know what I'm mean? Oh my god, and yeah, I love and boy texting me was like, how the last night my mouth is I need twenty When I was eating, what's with you? But it's my mouth? And I give props to guys because I don't think

they understand that eating pussy gets your mouth more tired. Absolutely, Like when I was when I had three something with one girl and she was just so bad, I like licked her pussy so long. The next day I was just like I was talking like I had my tomb beers. I was like every time, the only thing that does it makes your like whole face hurt. I guess that sucks, like if you go really hard, like i'd be like, NIGGI, you made my mouth numb, my throat hurts, my jaw hurts,

my entire lower face hurts. I don't know why. For some reason, I don't think I've ever heard like this much from second day, like I've maybe many you deal with white guys, so I doubt there man dingoes like the ones that i'd be putting my god. But it's okay. I understand. I understand that this white boy thing is new when you know, wait, dude, the biggest dick I've ever seen is still a white dude. I feel you. That's nice, good to know. I still don't think you

know what a big dick is. But it's okay. Girl, girl, I've been trying to put you on She used to call me back in the day and I'd be like, bitch, I got a good dick. If you really want one, I'll let you have it. Yes, but she would have fucked your life up. Okay, yes, And what does he do now? He's a trainer. He's a trainer and a third grade teacher. He's actually a teacher now, and I'd be like, who teaches? Who allows you to teach you?

He's a teacher in life, but she has his bachelor's I met him when he want to NC state, why are you trying to act like he's bitch? Because I don't deal with no dumb naked bitch. She still ain't ship. Oh he's definitely not ship. So yeah, my face is back to normal. I will be second dick when I leave here there when I can't wait for that, She legit canceled plans with hanging out with me tonight. She said, bitch, I'll give you till one am. After one, I have

a dick date. So he is coming back. I feel like, like I talked about girls that do this ship, but your she's leaving me. He tes and was like, yo, doing tonight going out? Are you going out? What is your plan. I was like, oh, we're recording the show, you know, we're going to take the guests out to dinner. Blah blah blah. He was like, well, I'll be free at one and I'm liking your asshole. That's pretty much what the text message. It would made a few more

sentence in there, but nope, telling me a mask. And so I wrote back and said, Okay, guess I'm canceling and it'll just be dinner. Um. Would you like any snacks they're waiting for you? Is there anything else I can do? I cannot fucking wait because we've been just getting to know each other, and now like the more we get to know each other than nast year. I'll let him know I am. And b D s M came into the conversation and yeah, I told him I

wanted him to tie me up and speaking. I guess we'll get into that, okay, Okay, So I guess before we start the horrible decision Um discussion this week, would you feel free to let our listeners know who don't know? Because I get this confused often what b D s

M stands for? What it is kind of you know? Okay, So a lot of people use a B for bottom, but b d s M is bondage, discipline, dominance, dominance, submission, or it could be sadism, massacre, massachism, mask should the words that find out Oh my god, fuck you remember when I said um, that one't word and he funked it up. He couldn't say excels or some shi it. I just felt like that. I don't you know why

you watch? Oh maybe is that me? No? I mean, okay, I don't, probably because that's the only reason I know the name. We're not going to talk about that. Oh my god, we have to leave this ship out now, go bro, you did it? Shut up? Okay, But no, I don't know what. So b DSM is just um the erotic practices role playing involving bondage, um, discipline, dominance, emission,

and um just a lot. So it's something that you like to do often with It's more see a lot of people are always saying like, oh, but you can't handle pains, how can you do that? It's more of the I think mental dominance that turns me on, Like the role playing is something that I really enjoy and you like. And this is where I think it's going to be cool to kind of discuss this because we're on opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes to this. Aside from the bondage, which I am completely I had

bad experiences with it. I'm not into bondage. Also, I think I'm claustrophobics, so which I need to be able to move um. But I think this will be cool to discuss because you because so Weezy enjoys the dominance on the side of the man and where she is submissive, and on the other end of the spectrum, I enjoy control and I like to dominate my I'm in often like I'm bad. Like I like when like let's say I do something right or wear skirt this too short,

or maybe I'm flirting with someone. It's like I like knowing that I'm gonna get punished for that because it's not a real like let's not get a twisted anybody out here whoop up my ass, right, but like you know, maybe like when we get in the door and grab my hair and tell me to get on my knees and like say I'm fucking sorry, or even like a little spit it gets slapped like I like, I like, and I like knowing that I was bad and like, if I'm a good girl, do what you ask then um, yeah.

And see I'm on the other end, I feel to other people in this room and it's un Suddenly I'm feeling like, yeah, well then damn. How hard it is for me to admit these things because be treated like shit and still be respected. That's a very hard dynamic, like we like we discussed or like on the opposite and me and I think it's I don't know if it's like the size difference with who I deal with in my size or what is okay? So guys, I'm

five ft one. I think pretty much everyone that I really deal with on a long term races is over six six. The last guy who was super serious with with seven shut the funk up. So no, I like really tall guys. Um. And I also, I mean, I just feel like I like to be in control a lot. So it's more so like I'm running the bed. I want to make sure moan if it feels good, Like I like the talking. I like kind of just to

be in control and the submissive part. I can get into it if it pleases them, But for the most part, I want to run the show. If I sit here and you know, want you to eat my pussy, go down and eat my pussy. Look up at me while you like. I like to be the kind of director, and oh my god, I sent her this video of this guy. You should play the video and just please play the sound by the where you said you better look at me. Yes, I literally told him to look

up while he ate my pussy. And he looked up into the camera because I had he did, you know. It was the best part about this video. I was sitting there watching it. One of my gays and me and his motherfucker is rolling because he said, still always clothes up, Jesse. He still had on a money we got on a shirt but whatever. It looked like he got in store and she said, he said, hey, how's your David? How my David? There's really not much talking.

If you're a body and you're coming over, I know what the funk you're coming over for, and so oh, I'll tell them as soon as you come in, your pants better be on button and you better be ready. The only submissive thing that I do is get on my fucking knees when they and that's it. But then after that I'm running the show, and so yeah, maybe I didn't get the shirt off yet before I made

him in my pussy. Jesus Christ, they're a problem. I don't know, but I mean, that's just something that I do on top of that, and it's something that you can't say, is not you being dominant the whole um anal play with men that, to me is definitely a dominant side if a woman does that. Actually, I have a story that just came to mind, and I don't even know if I told you this story, but it's really fucking freaky, and it's the only time I can

really recall me being dominant. And I realized just now in this moment that I am only submissive when I really like somebody, because I love it. I love sucking, being a good girl, good sled or whatever that makes sense, because we're real. QUI, I don't like your ask get your mother asked thing. So do you remember restaurant guy. I remember restaurant super in love with him? Um, some European fucking restaurant owner. Yeah, which, but oh god, I

have to talk about that later. Um. Anyway, so entrepreneur super sexy, and I was really falling for him, and he's very, very controlling, but he's still always made comments about how he would, uh if I sucked another guy, the things he would do to me, how you punt, how you pun is me. So he did something that really made me upset, and I said, you know what, you fucking piece of ship with that regular size six and a half as dick, I'm gonna suck somebody else.

And you know what what I'm gonna do after I do it, come over to your fucking house and let you taste it. I remember this story. Now, you're not just not going to do that. So um, yeah, I have this investment banker that lives a block from my job. He's a girlfriend. No, this sucks. It's so convenient for lunch. But anyway, I called him and I'm like, listen, I'm coming over there. Um, I need you to suck me and I just want you to know I might snap it to somebody. And he's like, I don't care, just

don't get my face in it. Go over there. And I'm dressed like a fucking wore, but it's like super sexy, like when I was in the Uber and I had this fucking outfit on. I was like feeling so empowered, you know, because I have this guy that fucking is shipping on me and breaking my heart. And I'm like, I'm gonna suck somebody else with a bigger dick and you're gonna watch. So I go over there. Literally we don't even talk. He's just like, hey, HOWR. I'm like

not replying to anything he's saying. I'm pulling off my skirt and I I still have on my knee highs and I bent over. I think I spit on my hand and I said, go put a conto your jack. He did. He came back over. I get my iPhone and I'm like literally trying to face time him, but it didn't work. So I just started snapping, and I'm talking into the snap like do you like this? This makes you feel better? Do you like that? I wonder if it's too bad you can't suck me like this.

It's so fucking sad that you can't, so bitch. When he was about to come, I said, you tell me when you're gonna come. He's like, okay. I made him come on my chest and like a little bit on my thigh. Now he lives on Park and the dude I was talking to all the time. I was at twenty six and six. So just so you guys know, Park is like fourth we could say, so this is maybe like a five minute uber. The second the dude comes on me, I started throwing on my clothes. He's like,

where are you going? Like, I gotta go jump in the fucking cab came only cost me five dollars fifties stands. Don't ask me how I remember that, but that's how I knew that ship was close. I go to his fucking doorman. He's like, who are you here to see him? Like, I'm going to you know, apartment, blah blah blah. And he says, who should tell is here? I said, you're telling his mistress is here? That's what the fun You can tell him doorman is dress he's dying and he's

like she so he can wait for Nancy. Money's like, your mistress is here. I get up the elevator. He opens the door and he's looking at me like and this is someone that's literally had me in rope, standing over me, like slapping me in the face where like I can't hear anymore. Like he opens the door and he's like and shocked because he never thought I would do something like this. And he's like, I was like, why don't you get on the fucking floor. You shut the funk up? And I sat down on the bed

and I said, did you watch my videos? And I'm like playing with my hair and shi and he's like, I said, did you like it? Yeah? Yeah, I liked it. I'm like, okay, and what do you think do you think you sucked me like that? Or now? I said? And he goes and and and what happened? Did you leave when you came here after you about to? I said, why don't you come here and taste it? So you know, bitch, I pulled the fucking skirt up a little drafts until I came again, and then um, I left. Wait. Best

part of this story is quick. I jump in at Uberpool and I was looking at me and he's like, my lipstick is fucking smeared my hairs. He was like, I've been taling for Miami for the night. Um, you probably looked like I'm sure? And did you take them up? Like you know, I don't want to go out for a drink. He's like, oh, I was going to go to Zoom and I was like, okay, huh, that's it. Yeah, so um yeah, that was my horrible decision. And I'm gonna tell you I even told my mom that story.

That is like, he's just when I thought I was gonna feel okay with and that was like that was more on like a disrespect level. Like when it comes to me, it's just like I literally want to make I don't know, and we've talked about it. I don't know if it's psychological or what it is, but I like to see man in vulnerable positions. I guess I don't. I do, and because I just feel like I deal with such masculine men all the time, like I just like for them to be you know, intimate and relaxing.

I don't know. Maybe because I watched too much gay porn at this point, I am like turned on by certain positions and having men look certain ways. I think that's why I like men to shave. I like them to be fucking clean, but also because which I lick ass and so I'm not licking Harryet. It's like it's just not gonna. I just didn't know that. I don't mean, I just wasn't I wasn't right I'm just saying okay,

So I mean, I don't know. So for the for the most part, like when it comes to the submission part, I I think that maybe what it is because I'm not gonna lie with seven. You know, seven is um when we fuck. There's never been to tell people why his name is twenty seven. His name is seven because he literally has the only dick at the moment in which he can call me literally seven, and I will drop whatever I'm doing this part two, Like he would

literally like we'll talk. And if he says he's gonna bring me dick that day and I fall asleep, my alarm might be set for every hour just to be sure I don't miss Like I'd be like, don't text me, call because and if I don't answer call again, the phone's gonna be by my ear. I'll wake up. Oh you're going to the club, so you'll be done about four, okay, bitch, my alarm is set for four fift like, and I

don't even like after club dick. But he's literally like I was at Weezy's house and he was like, come to Jersey. I said, okay, bye. Weezy and May were having a great day, we went to spin class, we went to see Get Out. We're sitting here having this empowering conversation. I'm like, yeah, dude, white people suck him. And then all of a sudden, like I'm so happy we're here in this moment where podcast dude Mandy left. I have a guest bedroom, and Mandy left. There was

ship everywhere. She's like, but I heard the fucking bathtub run. You must have did a quick bitch. She got mad because I didn't make the bed. You don't what I did. I cashed app her three dollars and said, here, there's the folding bed. Fee. I had to go, bitch. I was on my way to Jersey, and then he had things to do that night. So we literally had what maybe an out maybe an hour window and bitch, that included my community from it was and you know what's

crazy because I'm in my feelings for the past. Well, he was the last dick I did fuck um and he believe you haven't had sex in six weeks. You literally you're definitely sluttier, but no sex. You just had a story where you were with two guys one day and then went one that does not count. This was a submission fan. I don't know why you act like oral sex does not count a se but you got a head. It's still sex. You had sex with two

people off anyway? Really, yes you did, and then when he got then when it had drinks with a third he wasn't I wanted to go to Zuma. No, but anyway, like I found me on LinkedIn by the way and wrote me a message like, hey, remember me from the oper I would love to get together again. I'm like, probably I would too. I definitely what I paid for my own travel and expense it on the am X. Bitch, is your dick up? No, no dick is hitting me.

This is of course, um my homegirl who I'm trying to eat out to I I ain't even gonna hold you. She doesn't let me know she deal with girls. This a rop. Let me talk you about this fantasy I have that I've been having about love a boy. So he's kind of you know, he'd be in the club and stuff, and I don't know having a proposition this to him, but I'm listening. He um, he sucks a lot, I feel like because he's cute and tall, and then the average is kind of suck it up, you know

what I'm saying. So I really want him to go to the club and and bring the girl back, and I want him to sunk her in front of me while he's just looking at me, and then when he asked to him, I want to let me ask you that you allowing stuff like that and allowing him to know how fucking filthy and slutty you really are because you like him. Do you not think that that would possibly stop him from looking at you? Is anything but a fun time? What am I supposed to do? I

don't know until I get pregnant. Maybe keep sucking these people you keep meeting on tender and being regular with him. Let's not make everyone you're funk buddy, And I don't want to do like ship with regular dudes like I want to do nasty ship with the dude that I like. And that's the problem. That's why nobody likes me back, because you're just a slut. The funny thing about this is I want to do all these skanky things with one person. You should get married to someone who also

enjoys this. You can't. You can't give them everything and then be like down the line, I'm generally not trying to give it all. It's just that I'm having a difficult time not you already. So you've already mentioned that you don't want him to funk your girlfriend because you have feelings for him. But now you want to go to a club, pick out a random home and watch you guys, I like watching people get foxed. What do you mean I wanted to swingers club, and I think

that it's very possible. I haven't, like, I want to be home and then I want to know he picked some girl out and then I want him to suck her and look at me the whole time. You know, what's funny everything you're saying now, And we could come back to this, but this brings me to the current event for the week, and I think this is absolutely a perfect time because I don't know if you know, we're good. We're good, We're good. So Tyrese, who I don't even know why anyone listens to him at this point.

Um this week he's on fire for basically for basically discussing women and their promiscuity I've only a little bit of it and saying how basically it will keep them from having a man ever and so I'm gonna go ahead and play what his message was since you haven't really heard it, and I want our listeners to hear it, and I want to see what you think of it. So, um, I appreciate all the ladies out there that are still single and they're holding out. Don't settle. Don't settle, because

I'm gonna tell y'all right now. Now this might be harsh, but slut skeezers, holes, tramps, and overly aggressive, promiscuous women, they're never without a man because they don't have no standards. They're ready to have sex with any and everything they want to have sex with them. But when you are single and you actually love yourself and you know your value and yourself worth, you'll hold out until God send

you what's yours. Sometimes they'd be talking mess to women that are single, but I have a respect for them because if you're single, and you may say I've been single for a couple of years, whatever the case may be, you actually holding out because you have your value, and you've got women that are out here active in these streets. They're going to lunches and dinners every night. I've been played mega yachts. It is cracking, never without However, it comes with a cost. You're gonna put a lot of

miles on yourself down there. Come on, Yeah, that's this ship is tightest, but it's right. So that was his motherfucking message on top of pretty much also saying, Um, I didn't find the clip of it, but basically, how So insinuated that women who lived this promiscuous life have no goals and have nothing going on for themselves. Um So I want to I want to know what you thought of him saying this, and not only that, just

pretty much the shaming of women who enjoy sex. Well for starters, I think that the I think what makes our podcast so cool is that we are two regular girls, right, Um, whether they think smart or not, or whether even show ourselves that way, I really could care less, right, I mean, I watched you graduated top ten of your class. Um, you are one of the smartest people I know, actually the only other girl I know that makes six figures.

Really right, Um, I don't really think I need to show that part of myself off to every single person. I don't like talking about that. How I go to fucking museums and read too many books because it's just for what This is something that I do in my private life. But I like to be outgoing and I am an extrovert and it's funny to talk about sex. I don't need to talk about the money I just looked at. But because maybe not everybody else enjoy it.

So when you're looking at someone like Tyrese, who's a personality, whether I mean TV, Internet, whatever, these are the women that come your way, right right right. I get why you can say that. I think I think he is looking at, possibly mentioning the Instagram models in which we talked about all the time, because I am friends with a lot of these girls and they don't poor taste.

To say that women who you know want to have sex or quote unquote from miss have no standards, because I will say which I'm not whether, and I think it goes for you as well. Whether we have sex every day, once a week, once a month. At the end of the day, even though we are single and we are openly wanting sex and you know, seeking sex sometimes we're definitely are our standards still remain. I'll be

honest with you. Maybe you Neil, You're gonna laugh at this, but I really don't believe I'm promiscuous in the sense that I'm looking actively for sex, Like do you think she promiscuous? I'm gonna tell you why. I don't sleep with just anybody and you know, okay, okay, well there, okay, So I don't. I don't have a lot of one night stand I mean maybe if there's chemistry and there's this great moment, but promiscuous like looking for it. Dude,

I don't dress like that, you know, I don't. I don't think I'm crazy putting it out there, but I really enjoy sex and maybe I'm more open about it. But promiscuous to me is like I think I have this this really sexy girl of this girl that's like out there, Like I don't think I wear things that

show I'm asking so what so what he's saying? You agree as far as for what he said as far as single women having sex being promiscuous like that there's no hope for them that there's also that they have no goals, no, Because I mean when I was younger, I like enjoyed being that way, and I don't think no. I was still in school, was still taking care of my family, and I was still trying to do things for myself. I don't think so. I think that there's just a time in your life where it may be

more fun. But I don't think it's just promiscuous with how we define it or how someone how do you because because to me, I'm not gonna lie. I've had people listen to our podcasts and their eyes are huge. How we talk about ourselves first of all, even us being as open as we are sexually, what we talk about sexually, the things we've done sexually. Maybe no, no, no,

Maybe promiscuous is that way. But I will say there's people who can look at us and we're every su whole bitch, all this stuff in the book because of how open we are sexually, because you're having sex with look, promiscuity is the practice of having cash sex with different partners, which is what we'd be indiscriminate in the choice of partners there, So maybe no indiscriminate, but you definitely carrying

no moral judgment. Dude, I don't have casual sex with random It's not bro At the end of the day, since we've started our podcast, which were now in our fifth week, you've had sex with about four different people. Whether it's it's casual because you don't have two girls, okay, and at least two or three guys. Due I've had had the love he boy guy that I'm dating there like, and the other guy that I brought in for the threesome I've been sucking for two years, brought two different

people into the threesome. So okay, maybe that was going No, no, no, no, no, Yes, you and your girlfriend have sucked more than one guy. Yes, you guys did. No, we didn't. You shared it on the podcast. We can rewind it, dude, you can rewind it. No, we didn't. We were dating one guy and then we had sex with another. That's what I'm saying. You. You

guys sucked two different guys. He sucked one guy. You guys were sucking the guy you made the page with, and then you sucked another guy that they were dating a guy. She just okay, cut that out. Then I didn't know. You weren't trying to change. At the end of the day, I don't think if I'm saying because I'm not sucking just anybody I like people interested, that's fine. But his definition and even the definition there is talking about different partners and no discrimination. Just Okay, so not

the end part of it. You're you definitely have your regulars who you like to go to, but at the end of the day, anyone at this point, and it's talked about often on Twitter, not only Black Twitter, all the time as a single woman, which is why I talk about all these people having unprotected sex. If you're if you're single, having casual sex with multiple partners, Yes, that to me has some promiscuity to it. You're not.

First of all, you're not you're not set to one guy specifically, you're not set to one girl specifically, And at this point, you are having casual sex, which we talked about all the time, which is what I'm think I'm next if we want to describe it in that sense of like maybe not having a relationship. But I only suck people that I give a ship about, and I and very particularly i'm very safe sex partner, and

I don't just suck the fuck. Do you remember when we were just talking and I was telling you I hadn't that sex in a long time because I couldn't find what being genuine about that. And that's where I am as far as where I want to to be sexually and emotionally more promiscuity than there wouldn't be times that me and you have had too many droughts, because yes, I know I could fuck anybody where women not even in a hot like this gorgeous girl away. Guys will

suck anything. I've literally before that other guy three months and I was bitching to you about how I hadn't had sex. You're about to throw me a dude to fuck. You haven't had sex in six weeks. If we were more promiscuous, we would have been sucked by now. That's why I think promiscuity is such a miss. If there's a big misconception with that being open and being sexual

doesn't mean you're promiscuous. I don't believe it at all. Okay, however, I'm gonna sit here and say, throwing out the word promiscuous, I still feel like if you're having multiple casual sex partners, and I believe it is casual sex if you're not exclusive with someone, that can be seen as somewhat promiscuous

to someone else. Because I have guys who have mentioned how many other niggas you fucking, So that is that it can be seen as promiscuous to maybe someone that is open to us if I'm sitting here and I'm working with a guy, and maybe he has more feelings, but to me, I'm looking at him as a body. If we're sitting here talking and he's like, how many other niggas you sucking, and I sit here and tell him three and two girls, I'm sucking three other niggas

right now, and I'm also fucking a girl. He's he may put the whole judgment on that because because regardless of the promiscuous line of it or not, he's like, damn you out here really fucking And I've had these conversations before. So while it was delivered absolutely poorly, okay, Harris said absolutely something completely dumb, but as far as that they don't have goals, as far as they'll be

single forever, as far as that part of it. But to me, I guess we kinda are off with our definition of promiscuous to me, because to me that interesting too,

because I do because I'm not gonna lie. If someone sits here and and I'm having a conversation with a guy and he feels that I'm promiscuous because I do have casual sex with multiple people at once, then I can't sit here and say it's not because if you look it up, despite me having standards for the guys I do choose to fuck, it's still me having casual

sex with multiple people. So despite the standards, that's literally the only thing we disagreed on with the definition that we do have standards when we do funk these certain people, but at the end of the day, we're not exclusive to them, they're not exclusive to us. They're fucking other people.

So to me, it's a promiscuous lifestyle. And I said, and it is okay being it is just being single, right, I mean, since we started this podcast, let's say it's been a month and a half, there has been one guy that I slept when me and her at the threesome and we were talking about dating him. He didn't like it. How it worked out, And now I'm working one person now. Granted, if another month and a half comes and maybe it's not where it is and I sleep with someone else. I don't really sleep with a

lot of dudes at one time. I have a lot of dating stories. I date a lot, but I don't know, maybe because when I do find someone I sleep with, I really just like sleeping with them makes me feel safer. Um, I feel like I can be more open with the things I want to do. Like I don't know, maybe maybe maybe hearing the word makes me feel like I'm not, but I guess in my mind, I'm very big on

chemistry and connections and I don't. I mean, sure, has there been one or two times in my life I've sucked just to funk, Yes, But generally speaking no, And that's how it goes so long without it. Like if if I'm not on a date with you and we're not closing the restaurant down because we're getting along that well, then no, I'm really not ready to you and I

probably never will. So I think from secuity is go to the club you fine, I'm fine, We're gonna blah blah blah, meet on Instagram, d M. There's no real subsistence to that, So that's why I think that. And and just the same as you, I know that you don't like to have sex that way either, you like and not only that, Well, if I feel like there is no chemistry or it's bad sex, right, I'm not gonna.

But in the same turn, people listening to this and watching us and hearing us talk to me, we talk and being open, and they can absolutely think worth they do. My point. So I go to say this, Taris, You're a freaking idiot, because at the end of the day, like like you said, we are to two girls working in corporate and we just enjoy sex and unfortunately we haven't found anyone who we want to fully commit to.

Um on your end or my enna, I feel like I always super want guys who don't fully want what I want, and the other way around, there's super there's guys who super want to date me, and I'm just like I'm not. I mean, I know what I want in my personal life, right. I know my financial goals, I know um my goals with my family, what I want to do. I want to buy, like I just said on the last podcast, I want to buy a home. That's why I'm move into a ship hole an LS.

But I think that maybe I don't know what I want when it comes to relationships. I'm twenty six and I don't think I've been enough around the block to to know exactly what I want. It's so funny because he used that being in this being around the block and and that, but That's why I'm saying different people. I literally don't even know who's interesting to me anymore. And me artistic people, creative jobs. He's entrepreneurs, like person is this is? This is? I don't think I know.

So I do have have a question, has any guy that you met? And I will say, if a guy asked me this question, I'm completely thrown off. But have you met guys who maybe did want to take you serious? And has the body count question came up? Because I know it's a conversation constantly on Twitter and Instagram as far as a woman's body count and that again, just like he mentioned, the only thing you do want is putting miles on that pussy, Like has a guy you felt?

Ever not one to take it further because of your past or because of I think initial experiences you've had, right, I think for sure a dent. Initially, yes, they hear the podcast or if they're hearing I used to make funny videos all the time, but then it almost becomes this joke. Once they get to know me, they're like, damn you, we're gonna learn it with me. Because I

like to be more intimate in that way. So I think the catch Tony two with me is I'm so loud and proud about having sex and being such sexual and owning it that it makes me sound like funk a lot more people than I really do. And I think that you do have to get to know me. And that's the shitty part about me. I actually had someone recently. I was in tears when she told me this. Uh,

one of her best friends is getting married soon. She came to New York and she's a doctor, super awesome girl, and she was sitting down with me and she goes, you are so much smarter than I thought, and she goes in, there's so much more to you, and I just can't believe that nobody else knows. And it made me cry because I thought, damn, well, what do I show? But the thing is, this is just Instagram, this is

just face podcast. What do I really give a funk to tell you about how I closed a huge deal at work, or that I went to Cuba to donate clothes and add these super awesome moments, or talking about going to missions and shelters. I say this all the time. That's something that I'm gonna saying and sharing with people I don't know because I don't care to give them that side of me. It's not worth that much. And I think that us doing what we're doing, I still

don't care. Holes are good people too, totally. At the end of the day, homes are fucking good people, and you're not gonna know unless you get to know them. GODDAMNITZA with this homeless guy in my black name Bobby. And it's so funny because we were sitting down for like forty five minutes the other day and he's like,

you ain't got none, dude. I was like about you, and he was like me, I gotta get to the shelters name bah blah blah blah, and like I wanted to snap about it and talk about it, but then I thought people are gonna think I'm trying too hard, and I about absolutely about It's so crazy because I get people who come to me all the time, and I would talking to this one guy and mind you, I sat here. I'm now working at a fortune company.

I interviewed with the White House. Google interviewed me like, and so I'm currently about to get my BS and accounting, which, by the way, also gets a shock when people know that I'm in school for accounting, and it's literally something to where he said to me, well, you don't never post on Instagram that you had work, How I know you have worked. You'll never post that you in school. How I know you're really in school. The other day it's literally no, serious, you don't have a fucking job.

And I'm like, yeah, I just post my tip a time up for fun. No, And so literally that was that was our problem. Is um, I apparently come off a certain way on Instagram. Of course with my baby and suit, my my thirst traps. People are gonna listen to you say this and say, well, why do you want people to see you like that? But it's like I'm I'm at the end of that. I'm super fun.

And it's so crazy because I've gone on dates and guys see me of this super fun girl and I'm like, yeah, there's like, you know, two sides, and they're like, we'll show me the fun side, and I'm like, I'm not. I'm not that fun get drunk being a bathing suits working girl all the time. Like at the end of the day, like I'm in school, I'm focused, I'm working, like and I love binge watching on movies and documentaries

and I'm really a geek. I'm a ner. Actually laugh at these girls that get on there and they're like, oh, my chakras are aligned, and I'm going to listen. Now I'm reading a book, shout out. No one wants to see that. You put that book right by the fucking Starbucks coffee is on page three, like I did. Shut up. Not only that, like the people you don't know, like why do they why do they need to know? And

that's why I feel like it's so funny. There's so many guys that get in my comments and are always like you don't date regular guys or you're not talking to me because I'm not a celebrity. It's just like you think this because of my follower account and what you think you know about me. And there's so many people like even me going to Dubai. Apparently I'm allow of escort because I want you do buy mind you.

I've traveled internationally all over the place, like I caught the flight deal just like all all of the motherfucker's on Twitter, dude, Thailand trips, I'm going to Tokyo. I went to South Africa for four hundred and fifty dollars round trip. Went with two friends and so we split the funking. You should have bought lubatons, you know exactly. And so it's just like the way that people look at you based on your Instagram or what you decide to show them. I feel like that's hindered my dating.

I think Instagram is not worthy of the good things that I do, or the commendable things or any of my accolades. It's not I don't give a ship with They think I'm going to show them this fun, shitty, fucking drunk side of me. But the people I do

care about, please, That's why it's really funny. People someone asked me, like, um, when I was living with, like you lived with a geeky white dude with the beard and your friends from Q it looks so random, and it's so funny when I have no like gorgeous tip fucking huge body asks and like sexy like and I don't have any of these girls. It's so crazy because I'm the was it. I have all of these stripper escort I G model friends, and so that's the that's

the bubble that I'm put into. And it also could be because I started off modeling. I made friends with all these girls. But I don't even get credit for running a sports blog for four years, which I did successfully. Like I interviewed at the SPS, I interviewed with the Orlando Magic and what I was able to do during that time and now just finishing school now and having this podcast that you get like from other It's just people love to see this ship's out of you know

they do. Do you know how excited they're gonna be about me going to jail? Did they know? I like, yes, I told the story of work, but no, but it's definitely I like to like laugh about my fault. I'd like to laugh about me being broke and the shitty moments I had because I think it makes it and so what I think even off this great part of me when like it's my highlight reel already everybody's already doing good ship. I'm going to show you. Remember when I used to post Mahonda and it was like she

had such a shitty car. I only kept my shitty car because I wanted to make I wanted to go to fucking Croatia like I did with my friends. I wanted to go to Milan so I'm like, Okay, if I get a car bave and I can't afford it, so this ship is just gonna have to be pushed. And it's fine, you know, no, I get it. I get it, And I think that's the fucked up thing about this Instagram and and that's why I can tell everyone. I'm like, everyone, don't judge me based off my social media,

like you can't. Like at the end of the day, I'm like, you said, I'm smartest fault. And so now I have started putting like I've been putting my academic um excellence awards and things that I've been getting from school. But even I just show it and take it right off, like y'all need to know. I'm still in doing this ship, but you know, let me enjoy my weekend. And I don't think that they're worthy of it. I don't know.

The only reason I mentioned what I did in Cuba is because I was so excited that my friends felt like doing that with me. But I don't think people are worthy of knowing that ship. You know, you can see me be a little skanky, You're not gonna see, you know, me crunching these numbers and ship you're not. You're gonna see me bad over little It's a good angle. It's a good angle. Well, now, guys, I am excited.

I think we talked about quite a lot this episode, and I hope you guys this is about being good people. We're supposed to be hard. Yeah, well guys, you guys. Um. I'm also curious to know more about our listeners, so feel free to send us emails, whether you have questions, whether you have advice, whether you just want to tell us you've been a horror Oh wait, hey, what if you want to give us free stuff, I'll totally take it. Yeah, we'll also take free ship, so just let us know.

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