Ep46: Busting a Load in Heels and a Hoe Coach Feat Imani

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us someone else. Go ahead, I'll leave that task up to you. Hi, guys, this is yet um Like I said, another episode. If you guys have not tuned into us before, this is the show where you can kind of listen to us talk about how shit. Um, we talk about kinks, we talk about things that may make me feel uncomfortable. And a lot of people about their kings were diusting to things and stuff and cigarettes ash out in mouths. But that wasn't this episode. No, but you guys can

go back and tune into the last one. This is your girl, Mandy B. And I'm sitting next to Wheezy High and of course we are, you know. Well, not only that, all that just when we were sitting here with a guest in the studio this week, and I'm so excited. Um, hey girl, you ain't gotta be um soft spoken. You're gonna make us sound like like some loud mouth. You able to tell people how to be a home and maybe that's the way to go though. I just want to tell you guys, how we found

our guest Emaney. So my friend dub as well as we got her on the show. She was episode taking seventeen. She was the unicorn and um, she hit me up a few weeks ago and was like, bitch, I have been talking to my whole coach. She's literally about there, but she's telling me how to get money from newsningers. I'm like what and so like I kind of thought it was a joke and then she was just like, you don't understand actually wanted I wrote a quote Dubson.

She told me today she understands men way more than any other woman I've ever met in my life. And I was like, well, how do I find a bit? So we have a money today? Um, this episode is all about know when you're worth. I want her to kind of talk about what she instills in women confidence, um, the things that she does, and then I pretend really want to talk about confidence in relationship to the asease story.

Um yeah, so um yeah. And another thing I spoke to dub as well, because I was just like, what is the whole code you're paying this girl? Like what's she doing for you? And she like had nothing but good words to say and was like, listen, she revamped my dating sites and you listened to the last episode we talked about online dating and she just had nothing but good words to say, so, which I'm hoping you could say something to let our listen good. Um, And

so I guess how we wanted. Normally, what we do is we start off with an ice breaker. However, today we're not going to do a game because it's something that we kind of had some strong emotions about. And you said you've read the story as well. We want to kind of get into the season Sorry story. Now, by the time this episode drops, it'll probably be like two weeks old news, but hopefully it's given all of our listeners enough time to read the story and come

up with their own opinion on it. I also want to read a segment of Lisa's opinion, which is very different from most of our from most of ours. So, Lisa Splitten was a former guest of ours. She was a Finn doom and radical as fuck um and and the one that I sounded off about. We're gonna We're actually gonna start with what Lisa said or are you going to start with her? Um? Let's talk and then I'm gonna I'm gonna try to give as much of

a brief reefcap of this story as I can. So on a website that nobody's ever sucking heard of, baby baby dot com, a girl went on a date with his zis on Sorry Um. Basically, they met at the Golden Globes party. She's how twenty three years old. She's in Brooklyn. She lives in New York. Um. She took pictures with him at the party. He asked for a number. They went on a date. UM. She met at his apartment.

First they had a glass of wine, then they went to dinner, and then she said she felt kind of rushed to leave the dinner and then went back to his place. Um. She talked about how UM, it started off with her complimenting his countertops and then he's like put her on it, and they started making out and it got really intense. Um. Apparently he undressed her and then himself. He gave her oral sex. She gave him

oral sex. Um. She talks about a lot of not engaging, saying that she gave a lot of non verbal clues UM as to not wanting to have sex with him, which I think makes sense. She said there was at one point she didn't kill him back or even move her mouth. She talks about how he was stuffing his fingers in her throat in a V shape I guess, and them trying to put him in her pussy. UM, I guess. Basically feeling forced. Um. By the time he tried to put a condom on, I'm still scrolling through it.

She then basically said no, something about like, let's do this on our second day. I don't think she said no, excuse me, was like, maybe we should do this on her second day, and he said, how about haw it right now? And we wanted to for another another glass of wine, and said, well does this make a second day? Um? I am trying to figure out how she got to the bathroom because that part is very important. So they were still on the on the countertop and he moved

to the bedroom. He asked her where she wanted him to fuck her? Oh, and she was still seen it on the countertop. She says she found the question tough to answer because she didn't want to suck him at all. I wasn't since she says, this isn't court taition marks, I wasn't really even thinking of that. I didn't want to be engaged with that with him, but he kept asking, so I said next time, and he goes, oh, you

mean a second day. Um. He then poured me a glass of handed to me as the second day, and she excused herself to hand it to go to the bathroom. She spent five minutes in the bathroom, collecting herself in the mirror, splashing herself with worle went back to him. He asked if she was okay, and she said, I don't want to feel forced, because then I'll hate you, and i'd rather not hate you. He said, oh, of course, it's only fun if we're both having fun. Then he said,

let's chill on the couch. By the time they chilled on the couch, her remark about not wanting to feel forest had added a verbal component to the cues she was trying to give him nonverbally. When she sat down, um she thought he might rub her back or play with her hair, and said he instructed her to turn around. He sat back and pointed his penis, pointed to his penis emotion for me to go down on him, and

I did. I think. I just felt really pressured. It was the most unexpected thing I thought would happen, because at that moment I had already told him I was uncomfortable. All right, you ain't gonna read the whole guy. Damn no, no no, Let me skip back to her when it stopped, because I'm just like people don't read it by now. No, I don't think a lot of people have a lot of people are just judging cliff notes after and this

part is important. Halfway into the encounter, um he led her to the couch to a different part of the apartment. He said he had to show her something. He went in front of a large mirror, bent her over again and said, where do you want me to fuck you? Rammed his penis against her ass while he said it. She said, I remember looking in the mirror because his mirror seeing him behind me very much caught up in the moment, I was not, and finally I stood up.

I said, no, I don't think I'm ready to do this. I really don't think I'm going to do this, And he said, how about we just chill with our clothes on. That's when they stopped. They got dressed, quote unquote, chilled on the couch, but basically he kissed her. She was uncomfortable. He called her an uber. Yeah, they sat and watched fucking Seinfield. So we wanted to bring this up because me and um Wheezy had a conversation off air, and please, we're gonna love to hear your input on this as well.

And so when me and Weezy first had this conversation, she's like, well, I get where she's coming from, but I still think, you know, there was a way she could have said something. And my response was, which I don't think she should have went to the apartment. And this is where we disagreed, because yeah, this is this is where we definitely want to man input in this.

So our disagreement I felt like to me as a grown as adult, I don't I don't invite men over just to chill, especially we're not going in the bedroom. If I don't feel like I'm in the mood to have sex, I mostly won't have a man over because a lot of time, wait, let me feel it, because a lot of times it's kind of implied you're coming over, especially depending the time of night that it is. You don't have to know if you're gonna have sex with someone.

You don't have to know, because sometimes the vibe can be good. And I like that she has the right to change her mind if I completely know that I don't want to have sex with you tonight, which she made it very clear she knew she didn't want to have sex with him. Maybe the second date. I feel like, when did she make it? How does she when did she know? She said? I mean she said she said it once he started doing that, we don't know so to me, so I want to ask you, if you're

on a date, you asked for a nightcap. To me, a nightcap means well, he didn't ask for that. Wait, wait, let's okay, well not a night He didn't use those words, but just saying come back to my place, let's chill. What does that mean from a man? Are you trying to thank you? But do you think that if a girl comes over that instant? Do you think it always has to mean that? Have you never like? Do you

think it? So? I feel it's implied if you said if you say you want to come back to my place, yes, and went out to dinner so that they can be over at dinner, I'm gonna be really agree with you. Lover boy, who was the only person I've been sucking since we started the show. You keep saying it that's not true, But is it not? Because she didn't say that a couple of times. It's the first five episodes you had five different people and then you met Loverboy.

I did you know. I mean it sounds good though, Okay, no, no, no, I kind of forgotten about him, Okay, okay, my first date with him went so great. My second day, sorry, and we were making out. It's like three am. I was drunk. I didn't really want to go back to my place. I still wanted to have fun and smoke. And I said to him outside his apartment, like, you know what, I think I should leave because I just I'm really not ready, and he's like, honestly, I really

want to kick it with you right now. You can go if you want to, but like, I want to keep hanging with you. And we made out and we like kind of touched a little bit, but we didn't have sex, and I wasn't pressured to have sex. And I feel like you can still hang with someone after a date if you want to. I don't want to keep sitting in a bar with you. Bro, Like, did he try to have sex with you? No? He did not. I said it when before I got upstairs. Let's see,

before you got upstairs, that's maybe. Yeah, there you go. You made it clear. She probably did not, because I've also not made it clear and still just chilled it. And but but I'll make it so right. She no, right, right, right, right, But hold on, let's stop for a second. We're talking about women before her man's house, and I feel like this is very important. Do you think when a woman goes upstairs with a man that it always has to be expected? Always, not always, but for the majority. And

I'll be completely honest with you. I met Lawyer Bay at a barbecue in Harlem and we were walked up nutcrackers, nigga, summertime, Hello, nigga, what you think? So we were super feeling each other and we were talking about coming back to my place

after and we had such a good time. I literally told him, listen, I really like you and I'd like to go on a date with you, and if you come back to my house, we're probably gonna fun because I just know if I'm inviting you over my house, we've been drinking, we've been vibing all day, it's gonna happen. And if you don't want to funk somebody, don't allow them into your space. I feel like, especially in certain circumstances, and I feel like after a date you've been drinking,

I agree. I'm like, I'm here with you like I don't. I don't really go to due's houses unless I know I'm gonna I'm gonna be honest. There has been moments in my life where like I'm hanging out with someone and I don't want it to stop, and I feel like it's thank you, and I feel like they can. I'm really fucked up, guys, And that's why there's two things of water the video, Um, thank you, Chris. And I think that it's okay for women to still want

to hang out and not feel pressured into sex. It's fine, and it sucks because it's something that I've done often. Sometimes you don't want to kiss in the street, bro. Well not only that. So there's been times I genuinely just want male company because I'm a Netflix watcher and I just like to cuddle, and so I have to go through a huge like listen, I don't want to funk tonight. If you want to fun, don't come over. If you want head, don't come over, like I genuine

but I have to lay those guys. It's like, goddamn shame we do. It is but I think and as niggas, I ain't gonna lie. Some niggas be trying to front. That's not all I wanted from you. What you mean and this is this is a problem with what happened to this girl. I'm gonna tell you right now, and I'm the one to fault for it too. I've told niggas like I'm not gonna suck you when I come over there, and I and I knew I was lying, right, okay, you know what I'm saying. I'd be like, why and

have you had a female do that? Been? Like? Now you know we're not gonna fuck, And then they come over and we're all guilty. Yeah, but then we think we just have l g Oh she was but they called him, but I do I do want to say, um him her not moving her mouth for a kiss and things like that, I honestly thought should have been enough for him. My whole role. We went to eat together.

Name's Maya. She was sitting in front of me and she says, no, my nigga, Like, I've played that bullshit too, and I wanted some day to be like because maybe all me and I'd be like and this is why that actual no was really necessary. Now, this is why I want to talk about it with you. And money because I felt like a confidence issue is why this

girl didn't say no. I have been this girl. Like, to be honest with you, this couldn't happen to me today, but I've definitely slept what didn't want to because I was with a celebrity or an athlete and I was like, oh my god, this guy is high, and like I really want him to like not kick me out, or you know, just like the young dumb mind thinking like what do you think women have to know? Or like how is it easier to get out of those situations?

What could have been done for her? Honestly you already Yeah, I think more women need weapons in their bags. Then I tell all the ladies that I work with this, you guys need to have visible weapons, and I tell them you need to pull them out by accident, on a on a date. If it gets, if it gets exactly, if it gets, if it gets a little bit weird,

because it's because you get weird. You're saying that because people are saying the reason this girl didn't say no, which is one of least the things, is because he could have got violent. That's why you're saying that. I work with a lot of girls I see. For me, I'm a bigger woman, so a lot of men, they're not gonna really test me like that. And I know that, but I work with I work. I'm telling you because

I already know. I already know when I sit my ass down, they know ain't too much pushing you're gonna do to get me down, So they're not going to try that. But we're sitting there, there's her face is weeked off, but she's a tiny little things exactly, and a lot of I feel like, this happens, and this kid is more, Uh, this happens. This can happen with smaller girls. So I always let them know, you gotta take something on these on these dates, I don't care what it is. And I think that a lot of

us underestimate that. I think you have to dying out here. I also think that it's very important to let our listeners know if they're in this position. I get them possibly being scared of physical violence um occurring or an actual rape, But to me, I feel like it's important for women to know that they have the power to if you're uncomfortable, bitch lead um. There's a lot of times that a lot of times that even if I'm on a date and it's not going well. You know

what I do. I pay my portion of the motherfucking bill. So to me, if you're at a Nickel's house and you feel I'm not saying that on the countertop, I can see her being confused. Once she got to that bathroom, that was time to go right and at that point be like, listen, I see what that was your shape? And all she had to say was listen, I see, Um, we're not on the same page, and I'd love to see you again, but this isn't what I want tonight, and bitch, grab your bag and leave. And I listened

to It's funny. I listened to Andrew Schultz a lot. He's been talking about it all week, and he's like that bitch probably didn't have no heater on at her house or something, that we just wanted to be in a nice house. I mean, it was funny, But um, I want to say this one thing. I had an experience like this with um, a popular R and B singer to this day, and I met him, and I gotta say the name. I'm gonna beleef it. But bitch, I want to know. I want to tell you what

is it. I'm gonna write down have him no so embarrassed, No way, I almost sucked him, but I had pink I okay, really yeah, it's so crazy because I hung out. It's someone that I mentioned that was the first first day. But see, I guess both of us. That's even just us saying we've had different experiences with guys because I've been around him many times that I've never gotten that by firm. He wasn't forceful like that, but he gave me this Like I was only twenty I live in Miami.

Maybe I was twenty one. I don't remember. But anyway, long story short, Um, I was out there and came um, and so I went back to his room and like I remember feeling like he left with me. He was like, do you want to keep kicking with me or something like that, and I remember feeling like I left with him. So I had to do something with him, like he chose me. And but this is a young like I see this person on TV. I'm like in this fucking and I remember crying the next day too, So we

went back to the hotel room. It was he was in the Fountain Blue and I remember being there. He ordered food and I was like, oh my god, like I'm going to have to do this. And it was nothing that I might have looked uncomfortable, but I was there and he may have not have known how uncomfortable I was, But in my mind I remember going down on him and like in my almost shaking and feeling

like I wanted to leave. We never had sex. I couldn't finish, and like I remember crying the next day and I felt disgusting and I felt terrible, But I never in one second thought that was sexual Sadly, I don't we all camera. I can't even mouth she So this is what I wanted to ask you, Um, that is not sexual assault? Yeah, I don't, And that's what I wanted to say, even that young and not knowing, I feel like sexual assault is a little too popular, and she pulled that card. His celebrity made me go

too far. If that was a regular cute nigga, I probably wouldn't have done that, and I could even understand that, Like that's why I was upset with myself. I knew why I did it. That man did nothing wrong. Maybe he could have stopped me sooner because I was on the other bed there was like a double bed. He might have he could have took the clues, but like I was there, and I also sucked his dick. And when I was reading it, I felt terrible for this

girl's sexual assault. And I'm just playing, honestly finished and the girls funny too, and maybe like these are the biggest celebrities she's ever seen and whatever, and you're in this fucking dopest Rebecca apartment. I get it, But we need to start teaching girls how to fucking feel good enough about themselves that somebody will see them again. That you don't need to suck his dick tonight. She even texted her the next day. Look at that you didn't

suck him? What was going through your head that you didn't think to leave? She did leave? No, like initially because you didn't want to do anything. I was honestly as embarrassing as it is. I mean, this is seven years ago, so I'm comfortable enough to say it. I think I was just so excited and overwhelmed, and I felt chosen, like this guy is so huge, and like, honestly, it's a feeling I can't explain. You're feeling like you can.

I've never had slept with someone like that in my life, and I was just really overwhelmed and I felt special that I was there, and I felt like, Okay, if I'm here, I have to It was very strange. He wasn't rough with me, he wasn't rude. He was kind of like all right, Like it wasn't like, you know, sweet or kissing or anything, but it was very like, I brought this girl upstairs, you know what to do, right, And it kind of made me feel like obligated. I mean,

I've learned along the years. Um, there's been times I went over um somebody's house and it was four am and I didn't want to funk. I was on my period and he was just like, so why he came over here to where he didn't ask me to you know, use my mouth. And it's just like I didn't want to do none of that. And so as a female, to me now being twenty seven years old, I think that there are certain situations that women should just eliminate

themselves from being a part of. And so I wanted to ask you this, but I want to well, I wanted to ask you three different things. Um, if a woman does these things, does a man expect sex? So the first one, of course, was going to date, going on a date, going up to your house after a date, yes, yes, coming to your house after what certain hour means sex, say after ten o'clock to me, that's what it is, o'clock after ten o'clock. Yes. And the third one being

flown out. Oh, so that's so, that's what I'm saying. So those three flown out, I feel like you shouldn't put yourself in a space. I mean, I've gotten flown out and haven't had to have sex. It was a friend of mine, of guy it right, So that's what I'm saying. So for our for for a female, I like you want another room? Yes, saying so for for females who are putting themselves in situations where they don't

want to engage in sex. I think it's important that women, because it's okay to be to make a decision later. But don't hop on a flight if you don't want to suck the nigga, don't go to his house after a date if you don't want to the nigga, and don't be trying to ask him or have him come over. You go over to him after ten pm. But I

just do want to say we all don't know. Maybe she thought she was going to and maybe he was like the putting in the fingers in the mouth, like that ship is hot, but not if you're not into it. Not if you're not into it, and honestly undressing her. She said within two minutes her clothes were off. That ship would have made me want to not suck nicket too. So maybe she did. You have the choice to decide, you don't. I don't care if I'm naked. I don't care.

A lot of people aren't gonna agree. Like, I'm not gonna lie. I don't have a Could you put the condom on in my chain of my mind? I said, no, oh bitch. I had a guy get all the way naked and I was super into him and his dick was small, and then I was just like, you know what, I don't think we should be doing this. What I'm serious because I just knew it. I wasn't gonna feel ship. I just the record. Hold on the third question. You

asked me, no women ever have to have sex? How you don't want to happen because you said I you have to. But but it's implied to the thousand degree. Okay, yeah you should like, I mean, I agree. So it's crazy because a lot of our listeners have been asking us to talk about the me Too movement and it's something that me and Wheezy Um. Apparently we were told quote unquote that we missed the mark in um and discussing it. Um. I read it in all, screenshot you

and show you the message the Twitter. It was a Tweetum. We were told me that. Um. It's also something to where me and Wheezy both have just different idea is and we do come off as feminists. We are here about women empowerment, but even something like this where we don't all the way agree with the woman, it was just like, are we gonna be attacked because we don't

believe this? There was also we were just on the Premium Pete Show and if you guys looked, there was one of these letters also written by a member of Dream. She wrote about um Nick Carter from the Backstreet Boys, pretty much the same exact as these and sorry story where she felt like, oh my god, he's Nick Carter. I I have to do this and it's just like so I think even if you ladies are dealing with these men of power. There ain't no different than these

regularly luk story. If I'm working with you and I walk into your jerking off, that's too fucking much, Harvey Weinstein, too much. I'm so mad because I love House of Cars. But Kevin Spacey, the ship he pulled, it's wrong. It's motherfucking wrong. But now we have these blurred lines going on where it's just like, and this is I don't want to business, not to victim blame. This is just because I know she felt that way. She didn't. I don't think I don't think this girl wanted anything. Bitch

called the cops. Why are you writing a story if you were sexually salts did go to the cops and file a report. I don't think her writing to a whole news article to me that just didn't say that you were really assaulted. I felt like she. I don't think this girl wanted anything from me. I think that was the way for her to feel better about what

happened to her. Well, it's trash because it affects someone's life when when you're tying, when you're tying it to sexual assault, and we've seen people lose their fucking careers and and all of that over this stuff. So to me, that specific incident, you felt like it was okay that

she went over to the apartment. I don't think she should have, but I think that there's a lot of things that she might have wanted to have sex and then maybe he was trashed, and so when you didn't want to have I have been like your uber outside. We can't fun tonight, but thank you for coming over. Like there's ways to just eliminate yourself from being in situations. So it's just like, to me, you're a whole ass human being and you're not fucking like you have feet,

you have legs walking the funk out Now. I want real quick to talk about this. I want y'all both to tell me what you think about what Lisa said. So, um, let's check this out. So and bullshit. I didn't like it at Lisa. I love you, and I know you said he's not block people that you that didn't release me because honestly, this is why I funk with Lisa, because I followed her after Umhugh have to die and she was like, y'all, niggas is wild and he was

doing this some super woke ship. So if y'all have been feeling the wokeness of the podcast, here we go with the woke segment. All right, here we go, ho tips. I've been quiet about this season, Sorry bullshit, because I've been carefully listening watching you defend a man you've never met. Here, what excuses you come up with? See the strategies you'll try to prove what happened was nothing. I hope you know survivors and fems are watching, because unfortunately, this is

constant behavior. I cannot count how many times I've been coerced and guilted into performing sexual acts I never wanted to do. I cannot tell you how many times I was rushed and pushed, But it was more than enough time for me to believe that I was existing to please. I was conditioned to believe that my desire with my body and my needs boundaries never mattered. And sadly I'm not the only one. What he did is called coercion. It's despicable, traumatic, wrong, and so many of you do it.

Coercion is stripping someone of their agency through guilt tripping, nagging, and entitlement. That is a fact, and it is not okay. Sex is about communication and consent, but you'll totally miss that because you've been conditioned to see what fems that fems are receptibles, not people. I'm high when you when you describe your best sexual encounters, you describe it as what the female let you do, how far she let you go, and what she let you do to her.

You never hear about what she liked and her desires and how you made her feel. Because it's meant to boost your ego, it also boils down to you seeing us at all as objects. All of this I agree with so far. What does these did is rape culture. It is violent, it is disgusting. Y'all are running to defend him because you think of the times you've pulled your hand to someone's repeatedly wind for head, push for penetration, lie to create a foulk comfort, only to push again

until they break down and give in. It's not hard to ask your partner what they like, how they want it, and what they want to do. That's where you want me to suck. You did that and she didn't reply. That's why communication always leads to a better time. If you can't take a few seconds to ask these questions, then you should not be fucking Consent isn't just about saying yes, It's about creating a safe enough environment to say no, Okay, Um, yeah, I think she just wanted

to be on her hotep? What do you think of money? Um? You know, I don't think I think it was. I really I agree with you. I think it was the whole celebrity thing. And I think it took her a while to snap out of it, like to be like, look, I don't want this, you know. I really think that's just what it was. That's why I went on for so long, because yeah, I think she I think I think she was just like really caught up by the

whole situation. Said and then she paid her pussy. She gottam no, I both you just said that what and then said, oh, but she was over there. Niggas can eat your pussy and you don't have to suck them. I mean but no, no, I mean you're right. No, you're right, but a lot of niggas. You can change your mind, right, but I have changed my mind. But I have put it in my pussy. I can change

my mind. It's my right. It's okay, But i'd be having nigga's come over and say I just want to eat your pussy, and I'd be like, Okay, they say they just want to eat your pussy because they know they got the fun. No match, I mean, like you said, you just want to eat especially if they did get small. The niggas know they take the risk, but most likely and be like, all I put it in, she did it.

I don't know. To me, Lisa's Plusson's read talking about violent and coercion, he pointed at his dick and said, suck my dick, or he just pointed at his dick. I don't even think he said. I don't think it was. I think that doesn't make a lot of people's experiences. But I will tell you I am sorry. He should have known that girls uncomfortable like and you know what, he took advantage of his celebrity. I'm not saying just how it was, just like, however did we didn't want

about it? How is he supposed to know she's uncomfortable when bitch, you do the same thing. You'll go to a nigga's house and say I don't feel like I don't know if the girl is sitting there telling you maybe not tonight, maybe not right now, and she's like tightening up. Come on, do you want to a girl like that? I'm just so funny. I've said that to a nigger and it's just to make my pussy one out. I just feel like it was just too much moving around.

If she wanted, she would have opened. You're a different type ofho. Can we talk to the average person there? Don't move your lads bad because they don't pay for us. We got no spot because I'm excited about this one. Okay, we got kick of the Um. Have you listened to one of our shows yet? Money? Yes? Which one I listened to? The last when we play people on a blast because people be like, yeah, I listened to it, and he could be like, which one? No? No, I

mean I'm still listening. Yeah, I know the last one I listened to the last one with Yoming that was a little rain Man. All right, This one, I feel like it is some creep shit. This is called fetishism. It's a very plain word, and it's an arousal to objects that have been in physical contact with the desired person.

You want to fuck? What so I've masked like a lot of voice boxers on, and I wonder if that's it or like dumpster diving for like celebrities when people like, yes, that's weird as fun, But I mean, it's not that crazy, isn't it. I'm trying to right now. Had the shirt on, I might be like, you're gonna I'm a stand bro.

That's gonna make your pussy to taco about. Like, there's a lot of things I would do to get close to Beyonce if she had a smelly pair of panties and I had to be fibay, I might smell from I'm not telling you how much I would pay for them, but yes, I just want to know where he pussy smell like dog, because I bet you, even when it's at as mustiest, is still like lavender. It's just like expired lavender. Trash bro. Tr do not know at all? K to corner store. Actually you masturbated or like touch

yourself with something that someone had that you wanted to fuck. No, I really don't do that. That's some WPS panties that white people. Wait, what that is the thing? What did you just say doing in socks? People always like masturbate inside of shoes. I wish you would masturbate them some of my motherfucking heels. Oh wait, you let the internet? Oh yes, yes, I did have an ex who took my who liked my shoes, and he would exx with my shoes and my clothes and he would do that.

So I do know what we gotta limit that is, Steve Man, I don't know how to go income. You're not doing that with my red bottoms. I'm like, oh my god, look the first thing to pop up. I secretly borrow shoes from my lady friends and masturbate into them. People tender frowned down upon this when they see you lick the inside of their shoes. Wait wait, they lick their own cops. What okay? You know he like, I don't like. I don't, but you have jerked off inside

of shoe. Okay, that's not weird at all. What kind of shoe was it? What kind of shoe? Okay, that's not too expensive? Can we hear him? Can we hear him? No? No, we we gotta get Can we get you on the mic real quick? Oh? Hey, hey, Dallas pan, we I met you at the Hi. Wait we got to get that on the mic, though, Come on, because we really need to get this crocodile Caviclin ship with this. Did you come in? Okay, so we have someone in the room who has all right, I'm talking about a pair

of fire ask black Label Calvin Klin. Does it matter if they're like fire or like I mean, they just just the design was obviously thought of where you turned off by her wearing them first and then you wanted to masturbate an them. Well, I gotta be honest with you. No one had put the shoe on yet, but I imagine the person wearing the shoe, whoa how fire they would be. They were just gonna be so fucking incredible.

And did you buy this? Well? Actually I was. I was working at Marshall's at the time, and I'm in the back. I wasn't. I mean, yeah, I was younger. Marshalls didn't get in my car. I was. I was. I was in my thirties now, I was. I was just in the backstock room and I was like, Yo, the person that's gonna wear this shoe was gonna be so fucking fire, She's gonna be beautiful, and she's gonna let me fuck because I made her laugh and ship, Oh my god, like her calfs are so crazy, and

I just I gave it up. Aside aside from the shoes, you would say you're a man with a foot fetish, I would say that I like nice shoes. I would say that I like nice shoes. I don't. I don't considered that so much a foot fetish. But but but I love the architecture of just a really nice heel and what it does to the person wearing it, the confidence that it gives them, the tautness that it gives their because he's just so, the way that it makes I mean,

a superhelo makes you walk a certain way. And I love And this all goes through your mind, does you kidding me? You kidding me? The older you get, you start processing all this. You see somebody in heels, you can be like, oh, they just got those heels. They don't even know how to walk on yet. They don't know how walking yet. Y'all can tell when we're just breaking in a shoe right right now, right now, I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell you when the last

time you got your eyebrows threaded? Microblade? Thank you? Okay, okay, I'm gonna have to come and inspect that when he went on the premium show and he said that he sucked a mother and a daughter. This is better than that. Hold over a second. The god is in the detail. Else that's crazy. Do you buy shoes for women? Like? Are you do you currently have a wife? I am married actually And and the crazy thing, the true story is that my wife, um, her feet are actually two

different sizes. So she has to go to Norshroom because northrom Norshroom is the only department store that will let you buy like you know, it's not like a half size off. There's more than a whole size difference between Yeah, so Norsham will let you actually have one shoe and one size one shoe another size. But she's the one who kind of got me out of She kind of show what my story was my issue was, which was what was your issue? We are not an issue? I

want to go ahead. And I had a small collection of heels um and she bought just a jerk off in bro Is this real? This is real? This is some real ship I had. She came to my apartment, man and she got to just see all the ship that I collect and ship that I had fucking hoarded and stuff like that. And I had, like I had baby clothes with matching adult clothes. Like I had adult Polo Bear sweater, four of them with the matching baby sweater. Why for when I had a child that we could

twin up? Oh, I thought this was still get sexual. I was starting to freak out, all right, But no, no, no, no, no no no. And I had and I had, I had a collection of Again, I worked at Marshals and and every now and then they would get in these incredible designer uh like these cow and con joints in the house. Yes, she was like, yo, whose shoes are these? Like? Whose shoes are you at? They're too small to fit

your We did, guys, we did not playing this. These are just they were the first thing she was concerned about. The real talk. Was like she was like, Yo, can these shoes fit you? And I was like no. She thought you were cross. She thought I might be you know, I might have might have that in my steee. But I was like, you know, that's too far. No, But I just I love the architecture, I love the design

of them. I'm just imagining. And this is what I told him myself I said, I just imagine the person that's gonna put these on, how they're gonna have to walk in them, the confidence that they're gonna have because people are gonna be looking at them. People are gonna be like, oh my god. This come stem from this is something else. No, it stems from me just loving being attracted to a confident woman. And it doesn't have to be the heel she has on. She could have

on skippies. But she could again have her eyebrows micro blazard. But whatever, whatever that she got, whatever that she done, you could build a bit if you wanted to. First of all, first of all, all these all these robot chicks, that's from my brain. Sex dolls, they're from Dallas, pen guys,

that's from That's from my brain totally, all right. And and and the reason why we have anyse sex dollars now anyway is because sex dollars they haven't been programmedyet to say me too, shit, Yeah, we're going to go into our horrible decision with our guests for the week apologizing I don't know what that was awesome, Like, I never knew. You also say, like when you hear fetishes, like the first thing someone's like, oh my god, this

is so weird. And then when you kind of describe it almost normalized, it's where we're like, yeah, okay, okay, it makes sense. Right. You carry at first and it's very jarring, and then it's like, no, it's about the confidence, and it's when it's naughty to do it, and like it's we're not judging, yeah, although we kind of are, but now I'm just like, uh no. But we talked about kinks all the time. She was super judging. We we had toe fucking as a kink. I don't know

if that's something you've ever done. I feel like that's going down your house now, But you have you put your toe up your wife's any or I don't. I don't understand why there's nothing on our body that cannot be fun. We're gonna leave it with that. Listen, I got a big gas rushings, bitch, I mean, I mean still I'm still a man. I'm still a man. Okay, nothing goes in my ass larger than a pinky, or less loving than a tongue. Loving your work right right,

but there's nothing I got any belly button. So wait, wait, okay, now we're going now we're going to you, you can put your finger in the We're going let me smell it after let me smell it was not that bad, but the any when do we draw the line? Well, well, Lupie said, we we did a show with Loupie and um Lupy said he'd be putting his tongue in his wife nose and she loved it. Oh my god, my wife being there like, oh yeah, I was so I was called gripping my purse. So now, well that was

a great ass kink of the week. That would probably be probably one of the best. Um, so what we're gonna do for this show is do you know why you have redeemed yourself for up that studio time? I love you again. I was so that we missed that studios time, but this is all we wanted. She was holding the ground. I had to record audio clips from my goddamn iPhone. Okay, I stuck myself in a work conference room and I was like, I'm still on the call, Jen,

I'm still I'm doing something for work. Yes, So do you want to talk about what we're about to get into with Imani for the US? First? Why I wanted to do this with you. Yeah, like the parties and stuff. Let's go in to that. Okay. So I'm dating consultant in life coach, and what I do is I talked to these women about what they want individually, and um,

it's all dependent upon you really and your goal. Some women really just want to work with me to build their confidence, for me to really get into them about why they what they should do to build their confidence and why they aren't confident. You know. Then there's some women who come to me and they're like, look, bitch, I just want to be a home I just got out of ship for five years and I want to I want to date, but I want to know how to do this right. And so that's what I'm gonna

tell you. I'm gonna tell you where to go, what to do, what to wear, who to talk to, when to stop talking to them, who to attract and who not to give any play too. And I always tell them, you have they got sixty seconds if you do talk to them to impress you. And there's a there's key things that you need to be looking for and they will say those things. Dr let me tell you how they go. We're gonna talking about we were jerking off

in Calicorni. But here we go. So every man, I've done this a thousand times, especially in my whole days. That's how I developed. They were then will come to you, and they have come to you with the same thing. Okay, you you'll be sitting there at a bar. They always want to mess with the women that don't want to be met. Swizz. You gotta look like you're having fun and not looking for nobody because they can see that they're looking for that man. So we haven't been nodding

their head. Yeah, they they know. They know I want you to interject when you feel like a yeah. So first they're gonna talk to you. They're gonna be like, uh, ask you about something stupid that has They're gonna ask you for the time the iPhone? Where did you get your shoes? I said, why do you like them? Do you want to buy a prayer for your girlfriend or another one for me? They're gonna actually something and then they're gonna slide. They're gonna slide and joke like no,

not for my girlfriend, maybe for my ex girlfriend. And then they're gonna say keep going from there. So from then they're gonna be like oh so, uh yeah, while are you in town? What do you do? And then from there they're going to keep turning it, flipping it back on them. Well, I'm an executive at such and such and such. That's the first thing you want to look for them telling you what their position is, what

they're doing, because that's what's gonna tell you. How about if they have money, or if you wasting your time with a broke ass dude who's probably going to ask you to take him out, Like they're a drug dealer. I was about to say, or let's talk about illegal ship. Okay, So a drug dealer. You know they're not gonna back. You don't know they're going you know, it's just there and they got there's an eye sole the kilo look in your face trying to know it. Sure drug dealers,

they're really they had no no class about it. They will show you the hundreds before any absolutely pay that thinking out in the pocket and it will be a four dollar bill and they're gonna drop a hunting so petty, you've got a five nigger. They go to the bathroom, come back, and this headed was sticking out there. Yeah. Yeah, it's really obvious. They're so check off for the for the work. They bring that up, e what I was asking for the work? And then they're going to ask you.

They're gonna be like, oh, so um, what are you drinking? Um? And then they're gonna act like they know something about the wine or whatever that you're drinking. Oh, that's all I had that back when I was in dubde no no no, so yeah, they never even drink drink it before, so it's gonna be them and they act interested though that's them. They act interested in what you drink because

they want to remember that for the date. So after that, then they're going to ask you if they're really really interested in you, so you know, what are you doing after this? That's when they're gonna ask you, oh, let's catch up after this. But that's when you want to turn them down and say, actually, I have plans after this, So what we're gonna do is so after that, he's gonna be like, oh, so oh um, so I mean,

how can I catch up with you after this? Or you'd be like, I mean, well, I have to look at my schedule, but I do have some stuff playing, but maybe I'll be free. And you always give them a date that's more convenient for you, because you don't want to seem too available, right a bit if you don't want to be exactly okay, because if you hop on that first one, they are going to play with

your time. And I've worked with women who thought like, but he's so cute, you know, I want to hop on it, and I was like, don't do it, and they still went against me late he would just play with this time. Okay. Oh I'm sorry, I'm so tired tonight. Let me catch you tomorrow. Oh I'm so sorry. I'd answer your text last night. Let me catch you on Friday. And they'll keep doing it. So you want to make sure that your time is the most important. My my

big rule is turning down the first dage. Okay, so you talk about what needs to be done when you first meet a guy. Now, our friend that introduced us to you also said you teach women how to get things out of men, not only date men, but you teach women. And then and the niggas is rolling their eys is two thousand dollars and right, so you also you are still teach women. And this is where the episode was. We wanted to talk about worth Now. In this episode, I don't want to say we're gonna talk

about bitches selling a pussy because there's a difference. There's a difference in putting a price on your pussy and a difference from getting things out of men that you funk with. So we have three different types of things that women need to know they're worth for. So I'm gonna run them down and then you pick them how you want, all right. The first one is cheating, How to deal with it? Do you say things like that? Situation ships, how to get out of them? How to

be a girlfriend. These are just top three things people are always asking questions about how to be a girlfriend, do you need it? How to ask for more? Do you start dating other people? And then the next one is sex for pay sugaring. It's how how do you get shut out of niggas? And I got some advice for that one because I'm kind of a pro with that. But what bitch, I'm just saying, um, but what kind

of shoes you've got? No seem mad? And he's mad? Cheating, cheating, So the question for that basically is for our listeners, who are you know, keeping the track? What should a woman what should a woman expect out of a man, and how does she value her worth after she's been cheated cheated on? Wow, that's that's interesting because I was an ever cheater. So it's like that, have you had any clients reach out to you that been cheated on? Needed help? Um, it's like, if they are cheating, I

feel like they don't tell me they're cheated on. I feel like they'll tell me it was a break or if something something was happening. They don't tell me, Oh, yeah, he just left with another woman. I feel like for some it's a lot of yeah, and it's funny and that they stayed too, So it's so funny you say that. I don't know if you guys watched Mary to Medicine. I'm a huge fan of it. It's actually a really good show. And Dr Jackie, which is one of the doctors.

She's an O B. G yan At. Her husband got caught in the tabloids cheating on her, and I think one of the biggest things that she faced was whether to stay with him or not just because and there was a whole episode. He bought her a Louis bag, he bought her flowers, He bought her jewelry. He bought her like a diamond for their fifteenth anniverse like, and he was flooding her with gifts. And I think one of the things was, and she said in the confessional,

people don't think I'm crazy if I stay? Are people gonna think I'm not secure enough to be by myself? And are people gonna look at me a certain way? And so do you feel like a woman devalues herself for staying with a man after she cheated. I feel like it does all depend on your own confidence, because honestly, if you if you want to stay, you go ahead and stay. You know, only people, only you to understand

what you have, right. But um, if you do decide, if you do decide that you're gonna stay, I do suggest that you give him a run for his money first, Yeah, because that bitch got a fucking rock on her. Goddamn. Do you not just go back like, Okay, you know he know with home is, don't do that, you know, don't do that, don't have that, don't do that, because then it's just he's just gonna do it like he liked,

Oh it's a new day of school. You know what I want to say, I do appreciate you saying because I am really exhausted with women thinking that other women are shitty for leaving someone that cheated when and it's like we're made to guilt trip ourselves so much, you know, and I feel like we don't think we're worth enough. Actually, as much as I love Crystal, she said on the read about Cardi B, like I was just about to go to the Cardi B she did, so Cardis said,

you know what am I gonna do? Just find another nigga that cheats on me? And Crystal references feel bad that you don't have enough worth to feel like you can meet someone else, But what if you really have something great? Right to me? Like when it's a nigga like that, it's like sex probably didn't mean ship, right, that's the truth. Do I give up all this love and all these things I have for some for some bitchy fu one night? Does that really means he doesn't

respect me or love me? Or like? What is it? And so I like hearing that from you that you know it is between you two? So what are some things? Like what about is there a thing where it's like okay if it's been six months and they cheats no, or like, what do you think about that? I mean, And do you coach women that go through this or is it more so for the beginning phases, because if it is, we definitely want to talk more about that.

But have you talked with women and coached them through either staying with their partner or leaving their partner and getting back into the dating See, it's a little it's a little weird to explain because anytime that a man I feel like, they come to me and they tell me that their boyfriend because I do deal with women who are in relationships and a lot of them have a problem with not just cheating, but boundaries period, Like where, um, is it okay? If I allow him to do that?

Will it ruin my relationship? If I say something about it? You know? What does he is he should? Will I look like the jealous girlfriend? If I say something? Am I being too possessive? And they come and talk? What do you say about so? And if it's something they don't like, we it's all up to them, you know. If it's something they don't like and I tell I talked to them about how to deal with it individually.

But the thing is with the cheating. I always suggest at least playing like you're gonna leave first, at least at least at least play like you're gonna leave, and you need to be serious about it. I don't care if he's calling you, showing up at your house, showing up at your house, your job, your job, whatever, buying you whatever, take the gifts, but you need at least be likely if you're exactly exactly. But don't but don't be like, oh yeah, my man love No, no, because

he ain't learned his lesson yet. So what you need to do is you need to keep that going. You need to keep it running along. And also I do suggest you do date around a little bit or at least and make him believe that the face you need to. You need to make him believe that you're dating around a little bit, just to prove to yourself that you have other options and to prove to him that nigga, don't sunk with me, Like it's not what a situation ships. Okay,

I don't do those. That's just it, that's just it. I don't like this, I don't I don't do those now like I don't like that. I don't do that. Now, I'm gonna tell you why. The question we had um a few weeks ago was a girl saying, how do I get him to make me his girlfriend? They were dating for two years at right in and say, oh, I know I'm the only person he's sleeping with and they don't know what to do. Wait wait, the man over there said, Nope, when you guys say that, that's

a lie. Yeah, exactly, that's why you. Okay, but or well, hold on, let me stop that there, because maybe no commitment. A lot of men just don't want to commit. It's not a lot. It's not a lot, and it's not a lot that even understanding that, I don't know. I've heard some homeboys tell me that there and it's crazy. No he said that, And I know guys who have said I just don't want a girlfriend right now, and bitch,

a month later, he got a motherfucking girlfriend. I think it's no. But even if you want to be with the girl that wrote in that told us about this guy for two years, and how do we explain this girl? It's hard. So the letter that we didn't read last episode, basically this girl wrote in and said, we do everything like boyfriend and girlfriend. He's at my house five times

a week. We're fucking. We're two years. Two years they were doing and then he finally wrote like I asked her to be his girl after two years, so she said she she said, she asked the multiple times and he said no, and then finally he asked her. And about now. She just kept going to what they were, what they were doing. I mean he probably got tired. I mean women, sorry, part of me look and she's she's an agreeance and you agree with that because it's like it's like, are you that one, uh that stayed

after all the bullshit? Because this is what I try to talk to women that are in relationships and try to remind women who because you know, a lot of women carry a lot of pride when they are in relationships and they aren't single women. I try to remind them, maybe you were just the one that stuck around and stayed when everybody else somebody, because that's usually what it is.

Maybe you were just the one that stuck around through the bullshit and and and the mail in the room is shaking his head, Chris, you agree, you know that? When I was with you know who, the first man a little it and I left him um for cheating and he was just like emotionally abusive. The next check that he got with she was like, you just mad that he left you, And I'm like, girl, that nigga

sucked your sister. Yeah, and it's still sucking other bitches like you enjoy the Lubutan's dude, right, I understand like bitches will put up through ship just not to work or pay bills or you know, there's a few bits we all know. And it's funny. Well we we talked about that too. Even with the situations of a lot of women who are dealing with these celebrities, these celebrity men or men of power, they'll take a situation ship because they feel like that's good enough to be in

without getting that title. They are getting played played played are hard thing too, because I think a lot of

people don't want to rock the boat. And I think the one thing that I've done with mine is I was telling Mandy recently when lover boy and I talked about titles and I finally know I was gonna get one, I was like, wown't know, she only even't want it now, Like we're not going to get into that either because it's a little emotional and wheys like, I don't I don't know when I'm ready to talk about this on air, but yeah, she's Once it finally happened, I was like, well,

it's not even what she doesn't know if that's what she wants. So I think it's important too. I think I just didn't play the field, and that was the problem. That's when I was in my situation ship. We were talking about dating other people, but I really didn't want to anybody else, right, I don't care. He was all

I can think about. Once I found out he'd make me something, I was like, well, wait, wait, wait, I should be as a mother jail And so I think it's funny in situation ships too, Um, you feel like a woman should be vocal about what she wants or should she just ride the way, because that's say you're saying, I don't do them. I don't do them. But some people don't really even realize there anyone yet. Okay, so

let's let's take this back. So when I'm dealing with women, um who are dating, and they're like, immediately when they start with me, I know what I want. You don't know what you want because you don't know who you're gonna meet, and you don't know what situations you're gonna meet them. Man, you don't know what you're gonna want from them. You may just meet a guy that is great for sex, but you can't see yourself being with him.

And then you may meet a guy that's perfect like for dating and hanging out a little friends and got a little bit to spend. But that's why I'd be liking aun kind of early, because if your dick ain't what it is need to be, we probably not go on, motherfucker keep going. It's like, Okay, I like you a little bit too much. Letmember that I waited to dude. You remember him in Orlando. He was like buying me out for the clothes and take me to dinner as me and my mom, and I was like, oh my god,

I love him. And then finally it was time to have sex and it was so special and I was like, where's your dick? And it was I think that's a good way to look at it. You just never know if they're going to be that exact package exactly, so it's like have fun and sitation. The situation ships I just feel like you gotta be confident in yourself enough to date out. You have to. You have to be like you got in situation ships. Never be too sure

about the partner that you had if it's a situation ship. Seriously, always tas the waters, always, because there may be somebody who may have sent you in a situation ship, you got a little freedom. Okay, so it may be somebody who may be a little bit better in some areas. And even if they aren't the whole package, at least you got these picks. Okay. Don't eliminate your picks for a situation ship. Okay, yeah, don't. You're not do not unders.

They're not reoccurring. What about women that are dating and that want more from the situation. A lot of people are writing about that, and I think they're at that point where it's like, you know, you're early on, it's a few months and you're kind of just stagnant. How do you take it to more? How do you or

do you not? Okay, so, uh, you have the conversation and you say it communication, You say it, and you make it real short and sweet because these things you know, you don't don't hit you don't hit you with a hull. You know what the fun said saying what I thought we were I thought we were wrong, wrong, But we're not good. We're good. That's all you need to know to be good. No, nigga, that's not all it is. So yeah, I making you have I know we've been

talking to truth up here, niggas. We had a couple multiplied by a couple, have we before? No, no, you don't talk about yeah you but no, Yeah, you keep it real short, you keep it concise. I always say, don't make it no shorter than three sentences, but no

longer than five sentences. So definitely a paragraph. Yeah, you're saying you need to text about this and keep us keep up, keep a record, Yeah, write it down, get a legal pad, yes, get write it down, but would also be on the phone, right, Yes, if you bring it up, just don't long wind yourself and that don't do that. Let's get the perfect they know they know what to do. I'm having fun with this pen and now the weeds were enough. Yeah, can you cross out

that name? All right? What do you like? What would you say? Here's a girl she's been dating to do for three months. Let's just say make make a six three months is still earlier. Situation. Ship turns into like, nigga, we've been dating half a year? What's up? Okay, nigger, that's half a year. We're at the halfway mark, all right, six month, let's say six months. So they're getting along there, fucking let's saying wrong wrong? I met your friends, you

met my friends. Um, maybe you you instagram and shipped together. But you're not calling each other names, you snap you, you're only catching the arm on dates. That's just the arm. Okay, I'm tired of you're watching this picture? How do I get? You know? Because bitches really be on this ship. They'd be posting niggles with a little know what doesn't need to be explain what. I hate that ship? But she wants more? Now what do they do? What? What does she say to him? You you texting? Are talking? We

a role play right now? Okay? Okay? So he on the phone talking, you'd be like so and they know that silent you were thinking about. They know they know it's about to get real. Okay, So how long do you think that we are about to be dating and not serious or exclusive? And let them man say uh you know, because I'm chilling. Okay, I'm here. Let me be the niggas. I just answer what you're talking about. I thought we were showing you ain't happy with me?

What's up? Why are you talking like this? We we No, I'm not happy. Simple, So you wasn't happy last night? Like that's what I'm saying that and give them the answers that you don't want to give. Tell them, no, I'm not happy. And I think I think unless we're about to make a move towards something more serious than we need to start spending less time together. Okay, but a lot of bitches. If the dick is really good, that's kind of I don't know if I can get

out and demote him. And you got to show him that he's demoted and that you are dating dating, I tell you what you did? You know, let me tell you what she's saying that because it works because you must have picks. That's why you don't getting if that's the only dick. Exactly, Damn we need atation. I need atation, you need. I was about to say, she's speaking fact and how did Weezy do in her interpretation of man get the adjectives cored um, No, she did. That was

great to routine. The moment you break routine, you can have the mil for free, which is why I said, um at that six month mark, three months is still to me puppy love. You're still kind of getting to know each other, especially depending how much time you spend together. Six months, like I said, that's half a year. And I love that we did this because to me, and I want to ask you this, um, because this is

the issue that I haven't had something instilled in my mind. Um. So to me, I've been fucking this guy for four years now and I'm comfortable with my situation. But a lot of friends are like, why you ain't make him your boyfriend? Why don't even make him your boyfriend? And to me, in my mind, I've had this type of relationship before, and do you feel that it's hard to even um, kind of require a man to make you more after four years of sucking? Like, how do you

if you're doing what you're doing? Like I've had a guys say which we never had to go on days before his Mandy Loki asking for advice right now, I don't want seven no, but I've had this before Christmas that's how good the dick is it? Literally mind you, he don't even celebrate Christmas. And I said, this is the present. I ain't gonna be honest with you because you had four Christmas if it's been four years, And well, I was in Singapore, Um the come on, world traveler.

Don't you know I'm not gonna drop where I was. Well, I just did, but no, no, but it's so it's not necessarily with him, but it was with and I'll say his name or Patty Cake from high school. I don't know if you remember Patty Kate. So there's two niggas that were I've had this situation with where I wanted more. I don't want more. I just wanted to tell you forever you don't you don't have to let me talked about what I wouldn't want him as my boyfriend.

You were like, forever I want to die and he'll be with him in an event, you know what I'm saying. Huh? And you were like, I don't even know if I want to do that because I know you'd be flirting with niggas. I don't know. I don't flirt with the nigga that I just had involved in my Now, why would you even think I'd flirted with him because you bit you flirted with Loopie, bit you flirted with Tomer. Listen back to the episode. You act like you wanted

the three soon with him and his wife. She's a very flirty girl, and I don't need you making it seem like you ready to suck him. I like his dick, and I'm not wanting to share anymore. I was. I was trying to offer his dick to her one time, but now that it's consistent dick, I don't want to share. It's consistent dick. That was the thanks for the good dick gift. That's all it was. You were such I

swear that's all it was. The dick was good. Anyways, back to the question I've how do I make my boyfriend? I don't want to make him my boyfriend, but I did want to make my boyfriend, and I did want to make Patty Cake my boyfriend. And at the point that I wanted to make my boyfriend, we had already been fucking for three, four five years, and so even when I went to Patty Cake and kind of wanted more, that was the question, Like we was cool with what we've been why you want more now? And so do

you have girls? And I know you hate situation ships, but this is a thing where you think you just want them for one thing, and then after a while you kind of start to like him, and then you're like, funk, I put myself into this one bubble? Can I get out of it? Um? Like I said, that's up to you. You decide what you want, and I just end up just keeping the dick. Then I guess, Dick, it is okay. You don't want me. So that's the thing. And I think, let me tell me if I'm wrong. I don't tell

me if I'm wrong. I think that the reason you're giving this answer is because you are giving ultimatums and if someone's not prepared to stop it because they're not going to be a girlfriend, that's why you're saying you got to figure out what you want. Because if you are really gonna say I want to be your girlfriend and you need to stick by that, then you need to be prepared to walk away if they don't let

it happen. And I'm not walking away from the and then that's when I think you'd be able to more of something. Someone taking you serious, all right? Yeah, Like it's totally up to you. I feel like a lot of us are pressured into stuff because of time and all of that stuff. But if you don't see him as your boyfriend, you don't see more. And you got to see him as more than that for real if you want to real relations. Yeah, I know these niggas gonna be like even Jordan's. He'd be like, he's not

going away. We're gonna be forever for life, Like he wants me for life, but don't want to be with me. Are you okay with that? I mean we don't talk to because I'm not okay with it now, but I mean if he come to town. Wait, I want to go to the next one. Now. We had an episode on Patreon where we discussed um sugar dating and things like that. This is a question we had passport Cutty.

Do you know how that is? She wrote a book about It's called The m and Man for Money and she basically teaches them and how to get money, ask some money like that. You wrote in your eyes, but you t hose how to get this ship. So let's go Whyes, right, you did just wrote your eyes Because I feel like there's been a lot of comparison between me and her. Oh, because you call yourself a home coach, and she she calls herself to Hoch. No, I don't

call myself a home coach. It's certain women who want to be hosed that I helped them coch coach with that. How I work with real quick, real quick. I love that you just said that. How do you coach a bit to be a hope? What are the things you say? It's plenty of women who don't really know how to date. Oh, it's plenty of women to date, Like the actively singing like they don't know how to be single, So we hold for actively singing single data. I mean, what's wrong

would be in the hose? You're right, Okay, you're right, Okay, it's nothing wrong with saying yeah that's what they call okay. So have a lot of women who don't know how to be single. They don't know, they just know how. They kind of honestly only know how to follow what a man is attached themselves to men. Yeah, so like by meaning to be single, like I said, correct me

if I'm long again. So a lot of single girls will end up kind of just finding one guy and like sticking with you just the next one instead of just sucking them and learning how to like bounce or at least dating around having some fun here and having going on this day and being like, I don't know, if I'm not sure about this guy, maybe I'll go into these other three dates and see if if something happens there. A lot of women don't know how to

do that. They go on one date and it'll be okay, and then they'd be like, Okay, that's what I'm sticking with. A lot of women are like, how tell me how to like detach from doing stuff like that. And that's what whole coaching is because it's just like that you really do. It's funny because we literally emotional data. I know how to like something that was very like, I'm

not well, I have my form. I just um, you know, I kind of think about myself and I was like, you know, I just weigh out the options, like, okay, well I'm talking to these three guys, right, this one I like, I think he's attractive, I think he's educated, blah blah blah. But this one I think he has a great future. The sex is great with him, but I'm not sure about the emotional what's her name, she's got to have it, Nolo Darling. Yeah yeah, really this one,

this one, this one got this. I'm Mandy Darling. That's that's all. That's all. It's just like weighing your options. So this is the question I have for you, because Dubbs literally said, you help her to get things out of men. So you're single, dating um, and you decide, you know what, I want to be a paid hope, not just a free hope. I want to get I want to be the hole to get shit out. And this is a lot of listeners like how do I

get do give me money? We get so many questions from our listeners because she's had her rent paid up for a year. I have my rent, I'll be on payroll. Um, So we we get a lot of questions from women like I'm dealing with this nigga. How do I get a hunt of dollars out of them? How do I get my phone bill paid? How do I get something where I'm not feeling like I'm a prostitute. What do you tell women on how to get ship out of these niggas? Oh yeah, she bless me? How we back,

She's like, first of all, exactly. First of all, it's really simple. Uh, you ain't a good hole if you're not a paid hole. Okay, so just don't even call yourself a home if you can't get out of you can't if you're not getting paid, because honestly, you're just wasting your own time and you're wasting your you're wasting energy, You're wasting a lot of stuff. So if you are just giving yourself a way for free, you're really just a waste of energy. You have to go. You gotta go.

You gotta be straight up and let them know, like, look, I'm not showing up unless I have this paid first, or like, don't be ubering yourselves to the dick, Like, like I get at two different things. I get uber SUV. You're talking about women that are wanting just money. Then now we need to talk about women that are in a relationship that need a man to be more assertive

or take care of things. Okay, So let's start with dating and like things like a uber Okay, so um, come see me, gus saying I want you to see me. Let's talk about New York you uptown New York City now, because we know that it's okay to drive yourself to someone else living in another state. However, we in New York City, y'all. And um, I'm not going to a nigga on the train. So then it's like that after the club, niggas be like, come see me. I'm drunk. Okay,

I'm so, how do you how would you sit here? Say? Because, well, well, let's say how we do this. I'll say what I normally say. You say what you're saying. You tell me what what you told the host to say? Um, so it's pretty I mean, it's funny. It's pretty simple. My texts. You got my uber? Okay, if I'm interested, I'll send my address. Oh I feel like, okay, it sounds great. I'll be like, here's my address. I feel like that's fine. What do you do? I feel like that's leaving it

too open. I like that, send my uber? You are emotional, so and you want people to read come and pick me up? Send my Uh what time is my car driving? Oh? Yes, I like that one. Let me know how much time? I guess? Yeah, because I need to get ready first, like or someone like myself right there? Maybe your girl out there like me, that. I'm like, I sometimes can't say it like that. Why that word? Because you're you

have I'll say that. I think that comes from your just independence and not seeming like you need anything from a man. And we talked about that a lot. Thank you, coach me. I mean, I'm just saying so, and I think and I think a lot of females do do this, especially whether it's a celebrity or whether it's a regular guy. A lot of girls feel like me and you have

talked about talked about money bag girl. So a lot of girls feel like if they ask a guy to do something, they look needy, and then they look like gold diggers, and then they look like someone that a guy can't wife. And to me, in reality, if you're dealing with a guy, the least he could do it gets you a uber to come see him or even going out on a date. What do you think about we have a guy. I mean, I like the assertiveness. So if you just say sending uba, I like that. Okay,

I like that. If you ask for your approaching, I don't like that. They don't. They don't because and you look scared and you look like it almost kind of feels like it looks like, oh, I've never done yeah, so why are you trying to get it out of me? I think my experiences with the sugaring so to speak, not like this. But I have never the most money I've ever got write my whole RAMT page that was and I never asked for it, And so I guess that I sometimes worry about asking because I feel like

it'll be too neaty. It's so funny because they told me out of his mouth, I did this for you because I know you were going to do it bout yourself. And it's so just kind of unlucky like that. And it's different from who I deal with because the men in my life, the men in my life who have been about giving me money, the one he put me on payroll without asking. But it was also if I went on a trip, let me look up your hotel. I'm going to get your hotel, where do you want

to stay? Or the other guy that I had, I would I would be kind of tiptoeing around like I kind of need help with this. I have summer school. How much do you need? And it was literally, I'm not gonna give you a number if you don't tell me. So I've had guys literally be like how much do you want? So it sounds like you need to ask for what you want exactly exactly, and a lot of men like that and they'll tell you no if they don't have it, or you'll negotiating and you take it

to them. That's the thing, that's the part. I feel like a lot of the things that I have a problem with in my coaching is women not understanding that they have the part they compower, they can control it. Like you can't walk away if he says that, would be like, okay, fuck you, nigga, like block, Like it's really that easy. Now. If he says, oh, I'm not paying it because use a gold dig or what is it, you can literally block him in mid attack. I want

to ask. So there's a lot of women that are out there that let's say they might have a a bill that's do or something like that, and maybe that let's say they want into their home. Girl, I can't afford to pay this bill, blond She's like, well, don't you be fucking with that? Blah blah blah. I shall do that. I said, why are you ask me money? Ain't every man that you a man that you can ask this for, and what are your expectations with that?

Because that's the truth. Like, just because I'm sucking that nigga, does that mean I can really ask him for right? Like? I can't you saying it? Should? Well Cutty Cutty does a challenge whatever, nigga, you fucking ask him for a hundred dollars and see what his responses. So even stuff like that, like just to see now see, yeah, you rolled your eyes when Cutty said this because I feel

like that's too fucking cheap. Yeah, yeah, well, okay a hundred dollars is Petty does do that online she'll say say something about like whatever, and then her ideology of it Cutty ain't broke, She's doing well for herself, and she'll say ship like I don't need it either, But wouldn't it be nice not to pay for my phone bill? She's like, that's one bill eliminated. Wouldn't it be nice not to pay for my nails or mine weave or

my hair or whatever. That's so back to the question, is every nigger that you're sucking with really someone that you can ask money for? And shouldn't be girls be doing this when their homegirls like why don't you blah blah blah. No, Okay, honestly, honestly not know. Every guy is not somebody that you can ask for money, um, but you can decide to cut them off if they're not doing that. Some men are just not into It's

just like with sugaring, right, some men. I've had sugar daddies that were not into the whole giving you directly money in your hands. And some guys feel like that too, like I don't want to give you money directly in your hand. I'll pay for something for you, you know. So every man is not like that, and every man will kind of take offense. That happened to me the dude that so my red doesn't cost sixt gs, but he put me in an apartment that was five gs

a month. When I first moved to any Art, I never got a dollar in my hand from him, like the most exactly front road of Beyonce, private it all the ship and never had cash. And actually, at one point in time I was kind of broke when I was dating him, and I was like, oh my fucking god, dud, this nigga just want me lou batons and ills and don't let me be broke and get some expensive say okay,

even wait, why is that funked up? If I'm broke right now and you're buying me fucking six seven, eight hundred dollar heels and I don't have that in my account? Oh my nigga's we got you this gift because you want to see you in this gift and now you just every time we want, I'm gonna act like my ankle broke. And that's why I got to wear flats. We just don't remember how I myself from that, but I was very scared to ask for cash, especially someone

that was that generous right times like that. It's it's it's okay. Understand and understanding you that it was not understandings to you. No, I'm talking about if she needs money and she's completely broken at this time, I was what I was taking The dude that was doing that, he was taking me to fucking thousand dollars. He was spending money, but not giving her money to spend money on you already, he's then you should have just asked him. But he don't understand me selling these shoes. No, he's

not gonna understand. He will definitely understand if you asked him, Look, I need a hundred fifty dollars. I need three hundred dollars right now more than you know. I need three hundred dollars right now. So that's funny because this is how the apartment thing happens, so everybody's out of other happened. So like I I, I was going somewhere with him and Panama, and I was like, honestly, like, I'm so

uncomfortable being here. I'm just really stressed out, Like I'm also moved to New York and I can't believe how much money I've spending around. I'm like looking at these shitty as places, like I feel stupid in here. That's what I said to him, Like every time you get me something, I feel stupid. And he's like, you you don't have to like and I was like he started talking about money, and I was like, dude, I can this is how much I can afford. At the time,

I was likenth, that's all I can afford. And you know, you can't get sh up in this mother really and I had to live in the city. And then it just started coming from there. It was like I expressed that stress and then he fixed it. I didn't know I was gonna be you know, forty four law. I was in the apartment one night, high on Molly and I started crying. I was like, I don't know, but get so so. Dubb said that you of course helped her with even her dating apps and her her dating page.

But she's literally looking to get things out of people she's dating. How early can you let the nigga know you trying to get shit out of him as soon as possible, as soon as you, guys have a conversation. Honestly, first of all, you what you want to do is you always got to communicate that uh with on dating apps, with your online appearance and in person with your appearance. And I know that's why I can wearing my Chanelle bag, my Cardier braves, put on my dates. Yeah, and like that,

So you should invest in. And I like what you're saying. I want to just like to this for a second. Homeboy and Mind took this bitch to Mexico, right, and he was like, oh, modifies out. Well whatever he calls me when he gets home. He's like, yo, I don't know if it's a dude. They bought her this ship or if she's really doing that well in her job. He's like, put everything down to her lipstick? Is should now? He said, she'll have one cheap pair of clothes in there,

and he's like everything is. He noticed her lipstick. Now he's forty two years old. I was like, I couldn't believe he said. He said her makeup is Y S L and channel, and I was like, that's when he knew I have to treat her like this. Yeah, he said that she wanted a necklace and he said she got to pay for it. And he was like, to exactly that fear in there? How can get because I

got some mixed whatever that called. It's three dollars. But it's funny because me and my friends talked about this, and I think it's important for women to know that you'll get approached based on how you carry yourself. So if a man sees you're rocking a Chanel bagg er, you're wearing red bottoms, or you have certain brands of makeup with you, they're gonna be like, oh, ship, I gotta treat this woman. I gotta take her to certain restaurants.

I can't be doing the two for twenty at Applebee's like, and so I think the girls that have these things that clearly can't afford them. Let's no, we're not gonna do no, no, no, no, no, no, I'm serious. What about girls that have nice things that like? Is it okay to let a man know that other men have been doing this for you like that? Because out there that's just like, you know, bottle girl, but you got really expensive No bottle girls. I did that. So she

worked at the mall and got a channel. There you go, she working at the mall, she got expensive and she don't work at a sort itself chanel. So you better be ready to buy her more expensive ship if you want to be a part of her life. That's just what it is. And it's okay to let men know that, Like you haven't get an these things from other men? Do you think that that's a turn off or like I gotta some men they're okay with it because they

don't really care. And this some men are like they want to know so they know what to keep up with. And it's something it's like, it's none of your bus I was giving this one guy a blowjob. Clearly I used my hands a lot, and I had my Cardier bracelet on and after and after we got done fucking, he was like, so you just got five thousand dollars on your risk. He was like, um, oh, you'll be

working with some boss niggas. Huh, yes he did. And even just by that he knew like she won't be no bum niggas, Like I'm gonna have to approach her a certain way to even rank amongst these other niggas. I'm sure that approach her. And of course it helps, like just with again, how you carry yourself, the way

you can talk. Once a female starts saying she's well traveled and then travel places, niggas you know what to feel like they have to stick in the fust um when I talk about going places with my girlfriends and who dropped the sponsored thing? Guys, A lot of times we might have flew coach. Um, okay, let's get to this on how long we've been recording this in real life? Oh no, bro, we listen. Thank you guys. This has been an episode of you want you want to answer

the quick advice? We got one homemail and then it's a roup. Okay, I didn't know it's been Did you feel like that it's because Dallas Pan came in talking about some goddamn squirting his shoes. We was like, dog, oh, this is good. I can't believe you missed this. This ship is so good. Okay, so we're gonna do one homemail with us. Please feel free to okay, Hi, hi girls. First off, I love the podcast and I listen all the time because not many shows out there direct and

as fearlessly honest as y'all. Um. I am a thirty five year old black man and I've been separated for my wife for three years now. I've been dating a white woman and we have been fucking so much and can never get enough. When we got separated, I came back to home to my family, which is my aunt and my niece. My only blood family left, and my aunt raised me as her son. We came from West Africa and got lots of relatives. We look out for each other. My aunt cousin has been staying here on

the couch for a few weeks now. She lost her job as an assistant living oh person. He didn't write a word for older, rich white women, so she never needed an apartment. She's in her mid fifties and all her family is still in Africa. My nieces always at her friend's house, and Alen's always working, never at home. I'm a pisces, comma very freaky. Let me comma PARENTHESI excuse me. So I'm always having sex and eating the

pussy really well. Why are you laughing? It's funny, This is really this is really a homemail right here, go ahead. I did read this. So I'm always having sex and eating the pussy really well. And I made my girl spread for the first time recently. All right, dude, humble flex. My room is so close to the bathroom and the walls are very thin. This lady always acts like she's using the bathroom and walks back and forth from the

living room to the bathroom. I hear her steps in front of my room, so she definitely hears us having sex. For some reason, me and my girl get more turned on knowing she's listening the lady having had an This is isn't African. Lady haven't had a man in her life for several years now, and I knows she is

missing being touched by a man. When it's just me and her home and we have in a conversation, she tells me stories of her youth, and all I can think about is just sucking her on the load and do her a favorite and fulfill my old lady fantasy. But I'm scared she might get offended and tell my aunt or just say no and make it really awkward between us. Do you guys think I should go for it and see what happens or just forget it? A fan truly African born American raids the guy you can

see all my email in my real name. So basically, the older lady that lives in his house, this is his um aunt's cousin and he which does that not make them relatives? Still? No, no, because your aunt is that No, no, no, no, no, hold on, let thing about it. Your aunt could be your mother. It's your mother's sister and she has unless the cousins through marriage,

it might not be right. I'm assuming they're not relatives. Okay, So basically he has a woman, but there's another woman in the house who listens to him have sex often, and he feels like she's turned on by him sucking, and now he wants to have sex with her or try to. Is that something that he should do? She's like, I'm a life coach for women, just like Alex. Yeah, what do you think later the girl? Yeah, he's another girl. I mean maybe he doesn't want to fill my old

lady fantasy he has. He's trying to throw it off on her like he's not thinking about it too, because it's like you wrote this whole male about somebody that you could you hear their steps like you hear their steps. So basically, he want to know it's okay for him. She coming back and forth and I'm having sex, Like, no, there's apartment building and I grew up in the hood. Okay, you always gonna hear steps. You're gonna hear people next and even when you and you're here in New York,

they made a brick. It's kind of thick in him the project because if it's just the fantasy, there's so many women that will probably let you do this that are older women. I think that there would be a great chance of older women that want to meet someone young for just sex. Yeah, and I think that you could coolgerls bro, this is the thing. But how old is she said? He said, So he's start fine, Okay, that's not that's not too bad. Okay, So that's not Is that not even an old lady fantasy? I guess

you know what. I think she older than he made a sound, but I do like I think he's saying, and this is the thing. Let's say that you do have sex with her, right, Danny, she lives with you, and you don't want it to be awkward after that's sucking awkward? Yeah, I agree, I would say no. And if she let's just say, this is all in your head, these footstep things like the money's saying, yes, you're right, it's gonna be way too awkward, and I think the

risk is too much. Yeah, I agree, I wouldn't want it. But if you want to just talk to the girl he's fucking an invite her A WHOA a little far? He doesn't even he don't know that was supposed to be a senior three somewhere. I mean, if he's having great sex with the girl he's currently sucking, and he this is a fantasy of his, he should express it to the girl he's with, just to see what she says. What if she's open to it, now he can knock

out the fantasy. They're already getting frong on by her listening Okay, I believe the lady fantasy and there's no messiness, like you cut out all the message. So definitely communicated with his current person girlfriend, fucker whatever. I think you should another old lady, okay, And you just think I think I should go on Tinder. I think you should boost the age up to fifty plus. And I think you will absolutely have sex easy because I just do.

I just feel like out of all the things you could come up with, like I don't know, moving her into a home, I don't know, figuring something now, you don't need to live in a home at So I'm sorry for a justify. I don't believe that for some reason, I just don't believe that he's just making it sing. I don't know. Yeah, fifty your old women still have options. That's not right, isn't that? Like angel like? But you

know what's the fanto Obama? Right? I know? Not Obama's talking about people that look at he does look good. I would Obama Obama? Damn. I don't know if I love him, so fun me, that's you wild. I'm doing for your country. You know, someone asked me today, would you um die? Like would you kill yourself? Sacrifice? Yourself if you knew Donald Trump be dead after and I said, yeah, yeah,

because you're a hotep. I'm sorry. I like my life for the great but the Republican Party we get, we're gonna get through these four years, y'all, like, just calm down and give it up my life though they've still got a lot of dick to suck. Calm down. Can I get through my career? Can we see this flourish too? Maybe that's a fucking big button pushed. We might not. So yeah, everybody's pretty much in the room saying no. Is this unanimous decision keep your dick in your young,

thirty five year old pants and don't fuck your grandma? Yeah? Alright, and okay, so he said as a fantasy, like just so imani um, we do have to wrap this up. But for any of our listeners who may want your whole coaching um, whether it's relationships, whether it's getting and and parties, let let our listeners know where they can find you, where they can reach you, and kind of the services you offer. Okay, So my website is still

under construction, but everything is actual Black Mermaid. Every single thing is actual black people put it. That's actual black Mermaid on Instagram and Twitter all together, so you don't have to go too far to look for me. You looked that up. I'm sure if you don't see me or see somebody talking about me, so it is okay,

you will find it. So Also, the parties, the socials that I host just dinners for these women, mainly for the It was just started for the women that I coached in different cities, and then other women who wanted to meet me and work with me in the future. They also got to meet each other. You guys get to talk about, you know, dating and how common your dating woes are you like that, and it's so like cool because it's like especially if you're just moving into

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