Ep33: She Get It From Her Mama feat Mandii's Mom

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you know what. And I'm gonna just say this because I'm gonna move today. Yakabody's mother fucking tickets. We can do all this free content. I have a really expensive fucking rent. I'm fucking right now. New York sucks. I spent a hundred dollars on drinks last night. It was only four of them, only four fucking drinks. Okay, that is New York. So if you want to buy this ticket, you should. Did you listen to all this ship and

we come here? We buy mt A cars there a hundred dollars a month or unlimited to come this fucking studio and pay for this ship. I can't wait to see you. I'm sorry, see you guys there. Okay, so we're gonna start off the show, y'all with this song. Let's see if you know this song? Um, probably you should. So we're gonna do this thing along. Are you ready? Okay? Whoa? Sorry man? Sorry? So you know I have to play it on YouTube because this song is not okay, I'll

try to find it. Here we go, yeah, hello, wait? Wait? Who do you love? Fish? Essential? Essentially? Here we go. I don't notice though trying to I'm gonna love to play one Louis you know what can you sing? Singing book? No? Wait, it's just not your song yes, that is you're a guy. They're a lot. Oh it's not, it's like her. Okay, Yeah, anyways, I'll try to play Hoody and the Blowfish for my mama, but they ain't work. So how hard is that? Yeah?

You see, and that's what the funk I thought it was, but it was because you know, when you try to do all this ship at once, it just doesn't work the right way. So anyways, hi guys, welcome to yeah, another episode of horrible Decisions. Clearly, I was trying to be good for my mama because we got my mama in the studio. You may's wearing tonight. What's wrong with it? So when were you trying to be good? I got these tidies from my mom? The hell? Anyways, guys, welcome

to yet another episode. I'm your girl Mandy b And and we got wheezy and we're just gonna call you um. I guess dammy, I like karma. We are not using your you want to be called Karma? Can I ask you? Is that the profile? Maybe you give up fenty of what everything? Karma? Karma is a bit like okay, you women, Oh my god, we're not calling my mom Karma on this show. They really said, you got hoops onto it sounds I put smaller ones in tonight because she ragged

me on my big ones. Yes, bracelets, yeah, no, so let's night. She had on hoop earrings. I was like, Mama, why you got these big old ghetto assop No, it was fun, it was she couldn't hang. She was like with my friends and she was like, listen, I cannot mix liquor. You guys just want to drink all this ship. She's like, we already did whiskey and vodka. I'm sticking the vodka. Goddamn it. Don't give me nothing else. Is that what you normally drink? Drink anything it tastes good

to it. Well, there we got. So I wanted to start this episode off. I wanted to give you guys an introduction slightly to my mammy, so unlike Wheezy, and we discussed this. Wheezy is biracial with a black mom and a white dad. I am biracial with a white mom and a black dad. Um And I kind of wanted to discuss this because I don't know when this episode is gonna air. I wanted to talk about interracial dating again. Um And coming from clearly, uh, the white

woman who dates black men who has biracial kids. Um, clearly, we had Marcus Black from UM Love and hip Hop who kind of didn't even like the fact that you dated white guys even though you're I got really upset about that, and I wanted to touch back on that. But I wanted to bring up into racial dating because it's something where as much as we kind of preach unity and like everyone to just love is love, there's still this this little thing when you see two different races.

I don't really know if we preach unity is do we not know? I think that we want equality. I don't know if there's a lot of unity. I think that, like we're you, you're misconstruing. The people that are preaching unity are for this, but most of us aren't. There's a lot of bitterness and feeling like we're not equal.

So you know what, the media also plays a big part of that, because the only negative I've ever received being and having interracial kids and being in a black environment was when O J and Nicole really got into the club and all the black guys are yelling Nicole Nicole like that. That was like probably the most negative experience.

Now it is actually a little fearful because knowing what happened with all that, you know not you must you're saying like, I don't know, I didn't read your questions yet, but you're saying like with you, you've got three beautiful mixed girls, right, and you live in a a black neighborhood. You never had black women treat you aren't no, because there's never really a true friendship. They're they're kind of snide.

It seems like I accept you, I love your kids, but like everybody gets the birthday barbecues, but the white girl never gets one. You know what I mean. You're not really that important. You're just there. You're you never really feel like you belong anywhere because you're like, don't belong with the white families, you don't belong with black families. And even in your own family, you have people that are shunning you. So you just kind of take it

as it is and your family becomes your kids. And I want so and I wanted to bring that because her side of the family, UM didn't really accept us because we were black. So I know a lot of our families in California, like we don't know a lot of them. Grandma father's mother never accepted y'all either because we were Yeah, yeah, did he have did he have other fully black children? One my brother, and yeah, we didn't know. Was it because she didn't like you or

met her? I never ever met that. I met his sisters and they love everybody. They're just open and never ever And you think it's because we're white. I just think she just as an evil person. I just don't think birthday cards, Wow, yeah, she's so. I got that

from my father's family. Um. My mom told me that the day I was born, that some Jewish woman came in so my father's in Israel for those you don't know, and she says that they were like looking inside of the glass or like trying to go come in the cradle. And my mom says, she was in the bed, was like she's light. She came out light because she said that,

you know, she just was waiting for that. Um. Now, my mom, as much as I wouldn't like her to hear me say this, I think my mom has a little bit of a complex about her blackness and um, which is why sometimes I think her family sees it like they've never really been that way with my dad. But I think she's sometimes uncomfortable about her own blackness and and things like that, and maybe doesn't vocalize it.

But I have absolutely seen it. Like when I went to Israel, Oh my god, they were like, is she the nurse? Oh yeah? So I wanted to ask you, um, if having us besides you know how people treated you, if having biracial kids ever affected you dating white men, Like, okay, you date black men, clearly, I know that. I don't think I haven't seen anything else come through the white men at all. There's nothing attractive. They're not sexually attractive. They're not I don't even like to look at their

nude porns, at the porns with the white guys. Don't want to look. So let me ask you what got you into liking black guys? Because you grew up in an area where there weren't many black people from California,

San Diego. Okay, oh yeah, okay, But the only relationship I remember prior to because my mother and my my real father, who I've never seen, don't know, and there may be some hidden, you know, resentment that way, but she was in a relationship with a black man and so he I remember him treating me well, and as I grew up, I got mistreated by more white men and white men and for different situations. So I just your mom and then your family is still weird about it.

But when it came to like the girls, when when it was the Christmas and I sent him a video and they saw my boyfriend at the time was black, and they asked my grandmother, who was loving love my girls took them for the I mean like the summers and stuff like that, and they talked to her and they said, how do you take those girls on public? Like they were that ignorant right now that he's on my mom's Facebook and never requested me, never said ship. So I'm like, you know what, I ain't got time

for that ship. Do you matter what? You'll never respect my disrespect my kids. And I never allowed the N word anywhere people, And that's what I have white friends that had biracial kids and they would make comments about in this and no, no, no, no, no, I'm sorry. We gotta go because I'm not going to have my child around that because I want them to be proud of every culture that they have in them. Jamaican Haitian white, whatever I want them to be yea, yeah, I'm jamake

it right. So do you feel like it's changed since raising us in the nineties to and I think it's taking now a really negative turn, and I think people are becoming really you still look at an interetcial couple, but you still get the look, and the look is like getting the look. Yeah, but look at the racial tension that's building in America now period. It doesn't matter we started. We got to put up her fast with thee.

It's crazy. It's funny because I feel really hypocritical sometimes because the truth is, like, as much as I'm a product of biracial you know, dating and whatever, sometimes I do see black men with white girls and I'm like, and I feel, I don't know if I feel jealous. So why why? Yeah, why do you, as someone who's into biracial because someone who's biracial, why do you feel any type of thing when you see a black and a white man? I mean a black not black and

white man. I don't be honest with you. I was trying to gather my feelings about it on the train, right because I knew we were gonna talk with you about business, Tammy, But I don't know. I think that I I feel like successful black men want white women. I feel like they just ship on black women so much, and it just feels like the prize. You know, you've

made it, so you've got a white girl. I mean, like, you know what, I'm going to totally say that I kind of disagree with that because I've dated different kinds of ben and I probably put up with a lot more ship than a black woman would. So maybe I'm following them to do things, but in the same turn, it's gonna be on my terms, it's not gonna be

on your turn. It's funny you say that because that's something that black women throw a lot of times at black men for d anyway, Oh, because they're gonna do it and we won't andla lot a lot of black men. I know black girls don't like to suck the there you go, there you go. You do a great job

at it, mom ship felicio. Anyway, anyway, they're gonna be like I actually worked with with a nurse that her husband was a police officer, and we were talking about it one day and she said, like, I'm not sucking that thing. You crazy and I looked outside of myself. Somebody sucking it, somebody's doing it. But yeah, of sexual I don't think there is. But we talk about that with why she's now dating white men because black men

are very cookie cutter. I feel like I feel like everybody's they're gonna go through my house take off all my black lives matter. Ship from me for saying this, but yes I do. I did start dating white guys that I want to explore more sexual days. And I will tell you what I think. We have a few issues here, Like in the black community, you've got to be masculine. You can't do like some homemotion it. Let me say, I'm gonna pull that one back. In poorer communities,

you have to be more masculine. So we are just a product of that, right. It's like, I mean Black and Latinos and minorities and these communities are going to go through ship like this, so like they just have this idea about it. Black women, I are totally way more conservative of sex. I mean the conversations that I have with my black girlfriends besides the actually even umally different, totally different conversations. They may feel like I'm disrespecting myself

by having this podcast. Even I don't I don't know why black women feel this way. It makes me really sad, but I do see that they are totally like you got Kylie Jenner, acid titties and lips out there, We're like, oh my god, she's super hot. But then if Nicki

Minaj does is she's the hope? Yeah? Yeah. And being that most of my friends growing up were black women and now that I'm pretty much single without kids, we raised the kids and we were friends, but the things that I'm introducing myself to now are so much more.

We're not to go no, but I'm just saying, I mean, there's things out there that you never got your mouth to kick her out, that I've never experienced that I'm starting to experience with black men with a yes, with a right, she ain't dealing with man, don't pat my mama. The things that I've never known, and it's like I never heard of and now I'm like really like, like

I never watched more. Do you think it's because it was with like black men don't like to do these certain types of things that you're now and you're almost fifty. I'm sorry, but you're getting up there and you're just now finding someone to experience that. I feel like it's because you've only dealt with black men and they are so yeah, because that's very I just want to screw

and you leave. I never ever, really, Yes, I've never been one that's been like and that's because I don't want to keep somebody around because I'm very opinionated and if you don't do it my way, you can get the funk out, period. It's my way. So with this one, I wonder where you get that from. Like normally I do, but this guy, now, he's like, I can experiment, I

can do different things. But it's definitely open a whole new world to me that I'm just like what you said, even things that the name of that you like, you said, I've never heard of this, Like what's one? I mean like when we're watching porn, we watched the Peggane, we watched the The Bisexual Parties. You know, we're watching all this and I'm like, you know, I mean, it's it's picking my curiosity because it's something that I knew was

out there. But I know that it's more of a world because I've talked to more people now and I'm meeting different types of people that are more introducing me to it, and it's like, hell yeah, I'm down what I'm saying, which is why explore yourself. I mean, I've

seen thirty years raising the kids. I never even had a porn in my house with the kids that I did have dildos that they found, we definitely felt no, no, no, no, what no. Remember the time that the bobby was baby sitting, y'all and they went upstairs into the into the bedroom that was upstairs, and they came back down with the dildo wana plate and ask him did he want to dog?

You should have a man and shelby my sister. I felt like, so, well, what we like to do, mom, we like to have kinks of the week, So we're going to get into one. And I chose this because me and my mom were on the train coming here, like what we're gonna talk about with you? Because I didn't want you to say something she has a story about it. Um the oh, I'm sorry the one today. It's not a weird word. Actually it's b clity. And I wanted to talk about this because so bright it's

not her story? Is that why b C. Reality for those who do not know, is sexual intercourse involving a human and an animal. So this is actually something if you go onto porn hub, any of your porn sites that you go onto, you can actually find this. I know there's I mean, I like porn hubb. Which one do you use? Why did I just get totally uncomfortable you watch I've never even heard that said, porn hup? Why it's pornhup? Like so many categories, what's see? Don't

be debate me. I'm so sorry. It's so good. Okay, So for you guys who whatever porn site you do, watch if you type in what city? Right, are you seeing what comes up? Right now? And actually I was just going to try to take a picture mom, but whatever, so you can look up. I know that they do horses, dogs, like there's different dog, sheep, chicken, cows. They're like whole videos you can watch. My mom said in Mexico and she's like, yeah, yeah, that's like the big thing everybody

goes over. I don't know how to wait because when I was in New York City yesterday at the at Central Park, there was a horse and his slung was hanging about that you've never noticed. Like I remember we used to have dogs growing up, and when the little pink thing came out, like, oh my god, get him away. Never liked animals, period, everything. No, they just I go away on trips and come back and they're just not

alive anymore. Isn't that what happened to Karmelo Anthony? It was Durant and Duran I do okay, So she said that, not literally Carmelo Anthony. I didn't kill Carmelo. But I have a thing with naming all of my pets after athletes since I was like in middle school, so we had pets. Story tell I was, I can't remember where

I was at. I ran into mental healthcare field. So I ran into a fellow paramedic who told me about a story where he had He was in his orientation and they went to this retirement community and the lady had called nine on one, so they had to break down the door to get in, and when they got there, they saw her on her hands and knees, and she went to move and the dog went so they couldn't figure out how to separate them, so the dog was

stuck inside of her. They had to put the two of them on the stretcher and push them out in front of all her little retiree friends who as she had the dogs still stuck in her because he was they couldn't get him out. Every time they tried to move the dogs or move her do that wine. And that's what why was he he was stuck because when that's how dogs have babies, Like when the dogs go together, the dog male dog swells inside the female and that's

why they get stuck there. That's literally do you see what? Literally the dogs get stuck. That's what That's what happens. Now. I want to ask you because so my mom was like a crazy house. Is there a psychological things but not you? No, no, no, just crazy as people like the stories I hear. So for someone who has a bcality fetish, is this a mental thing you think? Or is there one ideal in actions? So, I mean I deal with like bipolar, borderline personality addictions and things like that.

Mostly they don't come out with their sexual fetishes and anywhere in that arena. I mean, you have your true psychosis, but even psychosis doesn't become sexual. Okay, honestly, I don't. I think it's just a kink I think it is, Like, I don't think it's a fucking weird thing in your head like I mean, I mean, I think everybody has a tendency to try something new and again. It just becomes the fear, not new weird, you know what? Like that saying says everything the best things in life lie

on the other side of fear. So you have to remember that everything. Yeah, everything that's over there is something that you're afraid to get to, but it'll be rewarding when you do. I'm not a text disnay you're talking about don't want to go out? Like everything right? Okay? So I guess, well you want to happen to the horriblest we we got you talking a whole lot tamnit um. So what we're gonna do is happened to the horrible decision? Before we get into it, I wanted to ask if

this has ever happened. I'm gonna ask if this happened a wheezy before though, Has anything ever happened embarrassing in the middle of um sex to you? So we talked about the girl who piss on ourselves, Like, has anything embarrassing happened to you? So? Do you remember or where were you friends when I that dude from No I no, wait, no,

I don't think I was. What happened there was like a popular rap group but they still another not but what eight years ago or so, they had Me Goes before Me Goes Yes, And I let him fly me to Atlanta and we had a great time, and then they came back for a show in Tampa and I went and got wasted and smoked weed and I'm not a weed smoker, and the weed had my head going to heavy, feeling dizzy. So in the middle of sex he was sucking me from behind, I was throwing up.

You roll up in the middle of sex. Let me tell you on the pillow. Um, yeah, it was on the bed. I don't really remember, but I remember throwing up, like harling throwing up. And so I don't know if he couldn't he didn't see it or what was going on, but he didn't notice it until the smell. He's like, what is that? And then yeah, it was really bad. What really bothered me though, is that like he was a hud okay with like he was okay, it was

still fucking you and throw up. It was disgusting. There's a kick because you know what, one time I did that, but it was really bad because I now drinking with with a friend of mine and met somebody and then changed me and just keep all over him. He wanted to know and he wasn't. He wasn't. He was like, I gotta go. But about it. There's ghetto gaggers like that was a really popular um like forced blow job. It was like a very popular thing to do a

forced blow jobs Latina of use. Ghetto grossies are like really demeaning asks and not only are is it just like the forcing the bitches to do it. They like talk ship to you while they do it, but they want you to throw up. Um. I don't know if he had to throw up fetish, but I remember when I woke up in the morning, almost in tears. I was like, I feel like I fucked a rapist, Like I honestly like you felt like you were a little too drunk for him to even still want to sleep

with him before. It's not like an ask for it. It's not like I didn't want to, but like I just was shocked and still right culture and to show you as kings you didn't know about maybe he did get turned on by you throwing. I never stopped him again. I was terrified with him after that. I was terrified. So, speaking of being terrified, my mom ter private Benjamin. You've seen that movie, right, Goldiehn. Yeah, the same thing happened to her. That's why she ended up going to the army.

It was on their wedding night. Oh, I don't even I'll talk about We'll talk about the story, remember that. So anyways, um, so again, I guess today's horrible decision is embarrassing ship, But in my mama's case, it's almost

she caught a body. Almost friends, we're still friends. So explain what happened and kind of the embarrassing moment during So, I knew the guy for a few months and then we went out to dinners and stuff like that and chilling, and you know, I got through different phases and it was like, I'm gonna try a guy that's a little older than me. How old was he he was? I was like, was a few years? Are you dining younger? Guys are? Really? I'm usually it's my age or younger.

She's like older, but I'm like, okay, I need somebody. It's a little more sor God, I'm just like, what else? What else you have to say? Actually he's about six ft three, he's and he was built. However, he did have a heart condition and a penis pump, so needless to say, I've never tried a penis pumps. Said, well, let me see what this is about. So I what a two months. It's uh device that's implanted into the

penis and it's almost like a like we're pump. Yeah, the in the balls they have the little squeezer and you squeeze it and it pumps it up and then when you want to release it, you just put squeezer and hold it down. So I'm sorry, I thought you were going to talk about like what strippers do, like that glass thing they put over there. No, this is like a true penis pump. It's like ja, it's internal, it's inside the penis. He's really old. No, he wasn't

really old. No, he had a heart condition because I got a pacemaker, my mom. That's what I'm saying. I find out all this stuff like, well, I have never heard of this penis, So I want to know you to google the penis so I want you to see what a penis pump does because I want you to go. So it lasts the balls, right, it's it's got the pumper in there. And then did you watch him do

it or did you do it? I've seen it, I've didn't watch him, so anyway, so then we were we had entered into the intercourse and I'm like, okay, let me try to first time for everything you can say. We started sucking. We've entered into the ill. He started to the floor in front of me and making me squirt. Okay. All of a sudden he kicks back and I'm like, what the fuck? And his pacemaker went off. What do

you mean it went off? It shocked him. He had a pacemaker the food later, and it shocked him while he was oh my god, look who's clothing. Speaking of pacemakers, mom, we're on air with Mandy's mom and she's telling us about the man she funk that at a pacemaker that had a heart. It's act real, smile with the paramedics, all right, love you buy. So it shocked like three more times, and I'm like, what am I supposed to

do because we're both buttass naked. So he and he's call so one gets there and they're like, what's your I call him, They're like, what's the address. I'm like, I don't fucking know. How do I know the address? So I have to find a piece of mail and I'm like read the address off and they're like, what's his Uh yeah, that's the full name right there there. You listen. I don't remember ship like that when I've just been shots with the defibrillator in my pussy. I mean, okay,

So I just keep going. So they show up all of a sudden, they're like, so what were you doing prior to this? And I just looked and I was waiting on him to redress him, put his shorts on and make him presentable. And then when they got there, they gave him like a shot in the arm of like uh whatever to stop the because his heart rate was like a d. So then they get ready to take him downstairs and he's get the get the wheed. Yeah, He's like, take the weed and put it in the car.

I'm like, dude, So then they put him in the ambulance. Did you tell them what y'all were doing? I didn't say a ship. I said nothing. So when he said nothing, you just think he responded with like watching TV, and they both kind of looked at us, like all the whole group of them, because they literally had him hooked up to the machine like ready to shock him. They shocked him twice and it was terrible. It was terrible. So then we get to the hospital and he's a

little narcissistic. So once he gets in there, not only have you almost died, now you want to start talking ship. So they give him a shot at doon to shut him up. It's like an anti psychotics. So then they give him not to shut him up because he's just like I want this, I'm shut the funk up, lucky or a lie asked right there in the house and not called No, why is it safe to say that your pussy is deadly? You got that listen, I don't know how I would fill with like a heart attack

during sex. The must to say anytime after that, we like hung out because we stayed friends. I mean that's kind of something you know, every want to sleep with them again. You said no, no, but no we did lunches and drives. But no, that's what I let him do it. But they had to watch the TV and being Mary Jane you watch Being Mary Jane Union, Oh I love it. There was a guy that had a seizure right after sex, and that's scary. You know, the best show in the world is Sex Sent Me to

the e Er. Oh no, it's terrible. So there's so there's a show like people with different fetishes and stuff too, like vampires and all these different they like freaking get their dick stuck in stuff and the females get there and they have to go to I was like, I could have been on that show, but it's a really good shot and it's all I hate. Okay, So what

we're gonna do right now is we're gonna hop into homemail. UM. So, if you guys want to send us your homemail, you guys can d d M it to us apparently because y'all motherfucker's don't like emailing, or you can email us UM at Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com. So this one we're gonna get straight back straight into it. And I kind of picked this one because it kind of deals with into racial um. And then we have another one and we're gonna get into fine leavaniltle ship I had. Okay,

So here's the letter. Hi, Mandy and Wheezy. I am a thirties something straight woman, and I'm a professional dancer and go go dancer. I think my job is pretty cool being that I dance alongside some of the biggest names and pop and hip hop in some of the biggest nightclubs in my city. Now that things are slowing down, I took a side aunts gig at a gay club.

The music is super fun, the tips are incredible, we can drink for free, and because I'm in the gay club I can really twork and sunk it up without feeling some creep making me feel uncomfortable. Here's where we get the good ship, y'all. So last night at work, everything was pretty normal. As the only black woman there and and the only woman with a big booty, my tips come only second to the seriously in shape celebrity look like gays that dance their little booties off while

being tipped by this gay couple, two white men. Both of them are basically making out with each other while putting fifties in my thong. I pay it no mind because it's pretty normal to me. Lots of gay couples club together here. But after I get down from my set, they practically they practically chased me down to introduce themselves to me, which led them to telling me how beautiful they thought I was and how they're jealous of my curves. One then asked if they could play out a fantasy

with me. They want to have a threesome with a black woman with a big ass, and they would love to pay me for the experience. The whole side of me is like being much, how much? But the other side of me feels weird about these white men wanting my black ass. Literally, they say neither of neither one of them have ever been with a woman, but if they were, they both want a black woman. What would you do in this situation? Or has this ever been

presented to you? And what did you do? Signed? Not strapped for cash, but that that well, I want to have a three two gay dude. So I'm the wrong one time, me too, But I think the problem is not that they're two gay guys. It's the fact that she feels like she's being fetishized because she's a black woman. They keep emphasizing that they want to do this because she's a black Woman's gonna sound kind of cold, but being um a sec and well, I mean a sex worker, right,

It's like a stripper stripping is a sex worker. I think we'll go go dancing, isn't go dancing for money or whatever? Like, you have to understand that you are already being criticized, right, I mean you're telling me that, like certain men aren't choosing lap dances, are choosing to dance with you because you're black. Like you gotta be a fool. I know. I know that men go on dates with me because they think I'm exotic, I've never been with this kind of girl, or you have tattoos,

like we all understand that. So I mean, if you're already doing that for money and a part of you would get turned on by this, then I kind of would.

I mean, I think it's interesting. However, I told you about Um, I don't remember what episode this was, but the white guy who came to me and pretty much wanted me to talk about how much I love black dick over his white dick and to kind of make him feel, you know, and humiliate him for being a white man and me being this black woman sucking his you know, And he just made it so racial to

me that it made me feel uncomfortable. I I think I'm also another thing too, Like if you're considering doing it, just set boundaries. Be like, I don't like, I'm not into race play, like Vinean talks a lot about So it's one of my gay friends. You've put him on. He's on grinder and he says that a lot of dudes write him and say BBC and he hates using that word. And he's like, I hate what he's like when I say BABYC, you hate him be saying there I did only and I like it black and big.

I mean, it's only because I think in my mind he made me feel bad about He was like, you don't know how often like when you sleep with someone else from another race, like and you're a black man, Like that's all we're talking about one of your big black cock. Like it's annoying. He said, don't races have different sizes? Know what I'm saying, have bish? We know there, we already know. Now, I don't care. I don't know. Okay,

this sidetrack, like do you ever say that? Yeah, because when I watch a lot of interracial porn, the white women either say, oh my god, your black dick is so or your clock. Sorry you say cock, mom, I do say big black cocks sometimes put that big black cock. Yeah, I don't, and so do they And do they ever talk about honestly, does he he ever talked about you your white ass or your pink nipples or dogs lips

swelling of the lips when you eat it? Right, I've never heard of hot dog pussy and we are too young. So so you don't have a problem with um race being mentioned in the bedroom, like it's something that doesn't bother you, and what about you? It's kind of hot sometimes, so it's like you can turn around and talk ship to be like you think that big black cock is good?

Hell no, you know, excuse me. You can take it anyway, okay. So, so mentioning that it's black, or even in her case, them saying that I want you because you're a black woman, maybe you feel like she shouldn't take that as a fetishism. It is a fetish but like, are you okay with it? But where both of them come from? Where are they coming from with that? Is it? I mean, they ever been with a woman period, that's what she said, that they haven't been with a woman. But then it's a

fantasy for them. I guess they both want to a black woman. I mean, I don't be honest. I like, it's already a fantasy in itself. Like they're gay, they want to fuck you. They want to because you got a big gas the race play to me, like, I get it. If you can't do without feeling just stereotyping, maybe it's just stereotyping that turns them on in a sense, because yeah, it's a big gass, right, you know what I mean. I don't want to be like, hey, I want to suck you with your with your flat white ass.

You know, if you're going to feel sexy about getting paid for it and about like letting get to these two gay guys explore you, then do it, but don't resent it. But if you absolutely don't want them mentioning you being black during sex, just say that's your boundary. I agree. I had to tell you a guy to stop saying it. So it was. It was the second

we had sex. The first time he said like this whole like, I don't know what I said if I used the word dick instead of cock, and he was like to Murray Hill, I'm serious, it's super white neighborhood and yeah. Then he was like, oh yeah, you're just like a tough ass black bitch, aren't you. And I just kind of let it go. And then the next time he said it again and I said, you know what, Brian, it's just it's just too much. It's something about this. It's not comfortable for me, you know what I mean.

You already think all lives matter, and I just this is too this is too much. And he told me, like I thought you were into it, Like I thought that was the reason you were walking with me. So I guess it can kind of go both ways. It can, but if it makes you uncomfortable, absolutely set the President and I have UM one more and with this one, the soule go ahead and wrap up the show for us. Guys. Well it's a good note. This is actually intertwined in

Valil Ship. I specifically chose this letter specifically because of the Vanilla Ship. By the way, guys, if you don't know if and nella ship is we um On our first show we did it. We wanted to have certain um like segments and Vanilla shi it was supposed to be our news segment that was sex. But we talked we never get we never get to it. Um. So this one says, girls, let me start with praise. I really enjoy your podcast, didn't miss an episode, and I

spread the word about it about the last episode. She's actually referring to the episode with lethal lips, when your guests started to talk about creepies and how people important industry protect themselves from STDs. I was ready to hear all about it, but then Mandy cut her off. Can you please revisit it? I had a guy who wanted to fund me raw claiming that you have the highest chance contracting STDs when a guy comes inside of you. I was trying to find scientific papers about it, but

with little success. I understand there are s t I s that you can contact my skin to skin contact, but let's face it, one can live with her p's, but HIV or HEP is a different thing. I have good hotation of guys and I don't know what is wrong with my pussy, But it just pulls out the condoms. It pulls the condoms off the dicks. The first time it happened, I thought the guy got soft. The first time it happened, I thought the guy got soft. But no, they are hardest buck and deal with, and I deal

with well endowed guys, so it's not the condom size. Anyways, you can see why I'm being curious about the STDs. UM, I wanted to actually start this off real quick and a little spiel for our listeners. Um, I feel like she wanted that advice specifically coming from a porn star,

as though lethal Lips was unhuman. I want to let you guys know that if you're having unprotected sex with someone, if you're having sex with anyone, the only way that you can keep from getting an STD is a knowing the the um, the status of your partner, or be being absinent. There are still STDs that you can get from condoms. Know if Mandy told you she reached out to this girl who did a TED talks about having herpes, who never had unprotected sex in her life and had

absolutely because well, right, so that skin the skin. So when she's sitting here saying, you know, you know that this guy um is, you know, I want him to come into me, but how can I stay clear of getting STD? It's like you're you're not going to get this advice for a porgn star. You can get this advice from anyone. And the simple fact of the matter is you need to know the status of who you're fucking.

You also need to get tested every three months because there's like this little period of time where even a test, Yeah, there's incubation, incubation time frames and ship where's the what's what did you have to do with the vanilla ship? But something will show up within a few weeks. But if you don't do the full check, because like, lamdia is something that's rampant in the United States right now, which damn don't be talking about what I'm about to

talk about. So this actually leads us to the Vanilla ship. And I wanted to let um to read this for you guys. Two thousand sixteen was the year of gonna Is, syphilis and chlamydia. Over two million cases were reported by the CDC. This is a record high. Guys. The CDC is sexually the CDCs sexually transmitted reports. So the CDCs sexually transmitted report demonstrates that more than eight of the

cases reported, we're chlamydia four hundred and seventy thousand. We're gonna rha with syphilis only having twenty eight thousand cases. Um dr Gail Bowland, director of CDC's Division of s CD stated, clearly, we need to reverse this disturbing trend. The CDC cannot do this alone, and we need every community in America to be aware that the risk is out there and help educate that their citizens and how to avoid it. There's also a note that these are

only reported cases, guys. So there's a lot of people that go untreated, don't go to the doctor. And as long as you have ten daddies being checked about, are more on more a thing? Are you the father? No? Ship You're basically saying that this isn't okay, and this is a normal behavior. You know, a lot of people are not going to the doctor or not they feel like it's scared. I'm saying, I'll tell you, m lever Way gets CBC's complete blood checkouts. But I went to

the doctor and is that what that's called? Is that your world? That's what that's called. What's it called a complete blod count? All right? I like that. I like that though, because we blood check out. Yeah, I mean, what is it really called? My CBC is a complete blood count? But that normally just does your BBCs and things like that. So unless you said again, slipped it in.

So so are you saying that you can't just say it's sex because, like I was telling you want to train, hepatitis C, which is a blood borne disease, and you probably won't get it sexually. It's more among the needle needle users and things like that, unless you're doing anal sex and you have actually there's blood. Their blood is going to come in contact with your blood, am or whatever let's say. But it stays alive outside the body

for four days. So so you're talking four days. So when everything that you touch on that train, anytime you have a sword in your hand, paranoid, No, no, but you just have to be careful. As long as your skin is intact, you're good. But you can catch if you if you go to the wrong nail salon and they're not cleaning their tools properly. You have to be not gonna like the one I go to kind of staff infection. The prices are really low and not all of that. But but that's just like the tattoo artists.

If you go, you get what you pay for. In that sense, hepatitis B is sexually transmitted and then hepatitis A is for food, A is for a is actually or I'm trying to think of hepatitis A is you can say asshole because it's no, it's fecal. Well if you person's ass and they have fecal matter there yet because because it but the doctor so he gets CBCS right, So I got checked recently. I told him my results are fine, and he's like, all right, well, then I

know I'm good. And I was just thinking to myself, like, nigga, that's really how men thinks. I mean, just because you, you know, got your ship checked out to make sure you're fucking glucose or whatever. Dude, whatever she is, I don't know, but you can't like it just blew my mind. It's grown man, and I'm not shipping on them for it, but it's just really like, Okay, you're good. I'm good. And I wanted to let you guys know that while going to the doctor is very scary, and we were

also talking about this. So if you go um so like clamidia, gonna read some of them don't have symptoms and some people won't know that they have these things and you're not gonna know unless you go to the doctor. So I'm saying this to say, don't wait for symptoms, but also what are some of the things that can happen if chlamidia or gonna goes untreated for a certain amount of it's really bad. I mean if the clamidia and gotta reclad to public inflammatory disease called p I

D and all of it can lead to infertility. Untreated cephilis can cause brain damage eventually. Yeah, it can actually affect your brain. And it's similar to the end, right, yeah, so and and everything is causing internal damage. I mean, like the hepatitis is your liber will be gone, you know it just you'll end up with cirrhosis, you'll be yellow and I mean sometimes you see the people with a lot of yellowing in their eyes could have some

liver damage from getting fucked. And what's and what's crazy is and what's crazy is we talked about oh my god, herpies, Oh my god. But and everyone wants to play down the gunnery acclamity of syphilis because there's cure for it and antibiotic But it's like if these little thing, you know, y'all want to refer to them as you know they're curable, Syphilis is huge. Syphilis is huge. Syphilis will basically rob your life from you because it's something you won't get

rid of. You'll always test positive where you go for life, It'll they'll know that you either were treated for syphilis or you have syphilis. Yes, oh wow, we now are We are getting more in my field. We're seeing more people that are testing positive with an RPR, which is the test force of list. I'm the worst party tonight and you're ruining it. I'm serious. I'm scared. I don't

want to kiss nobody. If people would just take more responsibility for their freakiness, I mean, just if you're gonna be freaking and do crazy ship, just be safe about it. You know. It's funny because like I was saying to someone, so, I'm going to this sex party. It's called Chemistry. It's in Brooklyn. I got invited, um by the guy I used to date, and he's like, look, my girlfriend's out of town. I'm like, my man's out of town. He's like, I just need to see other people fun. I'm like,

this is gonna be fun. So we're gonna go tonight. Um very classy. Like Maxim magazine wrote about it, and I wrote to him. I told him I was like, I really don't want have sex with anyone, like it's like me neither, I can't. And he said like, I'm also really worried about diseases, and he goes. The crazy thing is people that seem to be in this lifestyle

are almost more clean than anyone else. Feel like Craigslist, all those ads that are there like it must be d D free blah blah blah blah, because they are and they get tested for them, and a lot of them are like no drugs, no drinking. We want this, you want. They want you to be so were in the experience because they don't want you to turn around and be like the hell did I just do when

you sober up? Which is something in there. I sent you the rules, send me the rules, and one of it says that they don't want you to be completely inebriated. They don't because you might turn around and be like, oh, I didn't say right exactly. It's funny you said that the consent thing was huge, very huge, and sex with

the sex party thing. I'm trying to find it um but basically, I mean it talked a lot about like even if it's a if it's a maybe, even if you're going to think about it, still say no. Don't let anybody hold onto the idea. Another rule that this ship had that I liked was if men are in the play spaces or whatever, they have to be accompanied by a woman. And if that woman that there was their date leaves, they've got to leave to like, there's no men a copy of that. I'm just I just

like to look it over. You're not going to go back on Monday hunting. One of them is do not touch or physically do anything without a clear vote verbal yes, now, even if the person is sexual in your vicinity. So what made me think about that? Um? Actually, my friends said it something to me. They're like, you're always touching up on girls, like and being party with them, and they're like, you have to make sure you don't do

that tonight. And I was like, you know what, I think, I just assume everything is girls like girls all the time, and sometimes it's not right. And at this party, like if they're looking and you'd be like hey, and I want to make sure like I'm following the rules, but yeah, there's a coach check for all your stuff. So I brought my whole years and they actually also um advertised

for protected sex there. So um again, for you listeners who keep wanting us to talk about std S, t i S and all of this stuff, I just think that it's important, um for you to know your status and know your partners status if you're gonna have unprotected sex, because there's nothing if you're making if you're letting a negafuck you wrong, there's really nothing that's gonna keep you from getting STDs aside from him hopefully being STD free.

And if you don't know his status and you're not using condoms, you may as well just be playing Russian Roulette with your pussy. Um. And that's pretty much that, Like you're pretty much taking a gamble and a chance, and a lot of y'all don't trust the niggas y'all sucking anyway because clearly you think they're all cheaters, or you're having casual sex with someone who's sleeping with other women,

so it's just all clean pussy. It's just something that you guys definitely need to talk about with your partners and be responsible for what. I'm gonna try to, um go, I go to plan parenthood because I like to put money back into um you know you already know, especially since Trump has taken all the money out of it. No, that's I mean, I don't even want to go to

a regular guy know anymore. I had when I was going to introduced panty tube, but like now I'm just making sure it's only plant parents to put that money back. A long story short. They get free condoms. I'm going to try to give some out of our lives. They give NYC condoms, no one uses no plant parenthood gives some lifestyle. They give the somethings. I'm gonna try to ask them for some for our lives show if you guys come. We also used to do, uh something we

don't do anymore, which is say something nice. And it's really because me and maybe fight so much on nothing to say, but I want to say something nice because your mom is here. I am so proud. I don't even know if like as a friend or how I feel. But like even when we weren't talking of Mandy, I just can't believe, Like you know, she's accomplished a lot.

You don't believe what you've just accomplished so much, Like there were you know, days on the phone where we would talk and you wouldn't have ship or you were going through ship and you were done and you want the bartend and you I gotta get flown out and get paid them up. And it's like you could take care of yourself. And I think it's amazing. And I mean especially with three kids my mom. You know, I had my father and I was the only child. But like I mean still, I mean, all three girls have

really like they've reached their dreams. I appreciate all of their uh um an individual I know I've got I've got two of them that are just like out there and just feeling themselves and understanding and learning their was doing thing. Alex is a virgin. She's not. She's not. She's not. I don't face that. She doesn't want to. She don't want to know that my younger sister has had sex. Well, we'll sit um and then something nice

that I want to say about you. Um, I actually want to sit here and say, this is something that's new for Wheezy, for a lot of people that that

follow me. Now, I've I've done the website, I've done like all these entrepreneurs things, and this is something that you just kind of hopped in and you've kind of learned you you're glass being here and and it's something to where although we fight and banterer on a lot of different things, I feel like you're really just taking the brand and knowing that this is you and you really pushing to see it grow. I'm not gonna lie

to you guys. Like when we first started this show, Wheezy's first thing was like, Mitch, we're gonna do this show, but listen, I got a job and literally two weeks ago we hopped on the phone and she was like, I can't wait till we're making enough money for me to quit my job. So inspired, UM, I would love you guys to give some feedback on this. I didn't expect to talk about this, but I'm really curious. So sitting with James, I'm sure you guys loved his episode.

He was amazing. James was like, dude, you can make money on this, and I'm like, I don't know. Like ads they come, they go, even brilliant Idiots Who is my favorite podcast? Sometimes they don't have how you know they have hundreds of thousands of people. There's a podcast called Chapo Trap House that James listens to. He pays

five dollars a month for their premium feature. So the podcast gives if I'm wrong, I don't know, but one a week like we do, and then they give another two or three episodes a week to their listeners to have because they want more. Now I know what I'm done listening to my favorite podcast. I'm like, damn, I wish it was longer, which I hope you'll feel like

that about us. And so Mandy and I are eventually going to try to completely eliminate looking for ads maybe and do this five dollar premium now Chappo trap House UM. So it's called Patreon UM. You can look and see how much people make. They make eighty five thousand dollars a month from eighteen thousand people a month. They have a hundred and fifty thousand listeners, so that means less than ten a little bit more than ten percent listeners

pay files a month. James has been paying five dollars a month for a year now and loves it and it's worth it. I'm gonna tell you something, I would pay five dollars a month for a billion idiots. I would pay five dollars a month for I would, um, absolutely would. Those are two that I love to listen to. And so we're definitely thinking about giving you guys more content weekly and we're gonna we're gonna drive out five dollars.

But you know, I mean these dudes, I think they were able to quit their jobs just to do this, but I mean eighty five thousand dollars a month. When I tell you, I saw that, that was the day I called us, I'm done, So we were done, were being ready to contribute to my four oh on case separately, if that could happen, if this content is that good, well, not only that, I tell you our listeners be like, bitch,

I'll pay for the studio time next time. Why the fun y'all only have fifty minutes, So if you guys don't have to pay for the studio time, but this essentially will, and you won't say we're trying to be super stingy by like you know, like we can't afford another hour, but we just have to be smart about we are paying essentially right now to give you content.

You know, we are doing this on our own. You know, our our studio is you know, producing, producing, and shot using the show so you guys can see that, and it's like I want us to be able to do it on our own, so please come and support UM. It's sponsored by Cast Sound Lab and it's going to be December first, the summer first. Come check us out. Guys, we live we all the way laugh. Oh my mom is gonna come and do our listener advice. Yeah, so

we're gonna have UM. And also if you guys loved any of our previous guests, we're gonna have them in the building to MoMA if you want to come back with that, be great. And mall confirmed from the Joe Buddon podcast, so he's gonna be in the building X and next d UM and then we just got all of our past guests who live in there. You're not going to drink on stage, They're just gonna be. They're gonna be in the build fort but all we are getting hosted by Sam white Out. He's super excited, So

check us out again. You guys can find the ticket links UM in our bios and I'm sure all over my Twitter page by now, so go ahead and check it out. Come see us to Sember first, New York City. UM, we're actually signing out, so you wanna say bye to the folks, Mammy, Bye bye, y'all who