Ep31: Millenial Dating Feat PMuna

cut the grass, niggers peeping. I ain't sleep being now. Saving used to back, I used to see, I used to sleeve. Now I stacked my money to the syling and just yo and thetis never saying no. This dick is like to you, guys, just heard a clip of p mun as a red bone. I suggest you look at the video while you listen to it because it's definitely be some masturbation material for something. Um it's a great song. Um you can check it out in our description click on the link. Can they find it on

Apple Music and stuff? Oh? No, Apple Music. Actually they just rejected me because you know, obviously you know they own all the rights. Child's Game I've figured that sound SoundCloud. You just type in a child's game being a remix PM, so we can get this ship for the free. Yeah yeah, you know the music video too on YouTube. You know that's just dropped. So I think some of our listeners are just as poor as I am. So everything is so free, everything everything goes nice. So I guess this

is Yeah, this is probably worth which episode. Welcome to another episode of horrible Decisions. If you guys haven't noticed already, we do have a guest in the building and I went video and I was like, you're coming in here with you just have a question before you're rapping. Did you ever consider being a stropper? Uh? Yeah, I was like, you have all else fails, I will become because you've

never struck before for money. Body, you definitely have money, body, Yeah, I mean, like I said, if all else fails your I was like, man, I'm coming port star. I'll be a dope as point star because just like you don't have abs, but you got the higher, he's got the beard but not good teeth. It's crazy. I think all guys um have this thing of they would become a porn star. So many guys that I talked to like, it doesn't matter if they work incorporate, if they're a

basketball player. I've really talked to so many guys and they're just like, if I wasn't doing this, I would be doing porn. So something's wrong with you? Then I think, how far did your curve? Not too much? Okay, a little? Are we coming on too strong? I think this is a little strong. He literally came in here with no I think it's okay. He came in here with any bottle? Have you not listen to us? Yeah? A little bit? But wait was the episode of um the one he set me up was one of course, did you the

Whole Jobs? I loved it? So mall told us, um, like, what are the whole jobs like? Where girls are? Like I in the style was but like, you know, you really sucked it for money? What have you found? Is like the whole job? You think the number yo, that has to be the chicks to me trying to you know, in the center of the mall, trying to give you a little hand. When you out in the club and you see this girl that's like like looking good, little Blenny likes, what do you do? And she's like I'm

a oh ship um mall said real estate agents. Did he said nurse too, didn't he? No, he didn't say nurses at nine. I don't think nurse counts neither. Yeah, A model a model, Yeah, there's real models, man, Like that's something I've never had. Yeah, but but there's a difference because we're like I'm five. One thing is I'm not on a Victoria's Seeker run way. Those are real models will Amina's role models. The other models is um you know. So, I guess we like to do to

kind of break the ice with our guests. We like to play little games and wheezy, you have the questions for this game, are we doing this or that? Or have you ever? Which one are we going? We're gonna go back and forth. Okay, so my first have you ever? Is threesome? Based on your body, I'm going to go with yes. Yo. I had a two and a half something, so I'm as I thought it was kind of it was almost listen. So I had these two shorties, right. She called me over, She's like, yeah, we down. I

had a three something like I bet went over there. Okay, So me and Shorty getting it on, sucking her then I'm like, I bet I'm gonna go to a friend. Soon I started getting on a friend. She just got jealous. I was just like, happens. I'm sure I'm fingering her right now. She's like, no, she doesn't like it. I like, yes, she does. Look at her. She's just like no, No, I just like friends and jealousy think they are you know, just you know, da, Why have you ever had a

male male female? Three? Something like DP? Or yeah, I mean not a train, but like what you know you have your Hennessey bottle here, so I feel like a train is hand? That's a train. Wait, no, I'm talking about so we don't consider We don't consider two men and a women a train. We consider it a threesome. Face called grouping. We just called yeah we just grouped there, right? We call a group? And have you done DEP? Or just like spit rost like mouse? You don't know what dep?

He is? Who do we have? No my phone? So do you want to do? You want to do? I don't know what the DP is? So DEP double penetration, which means one guy has his dick and a pussy. And you really got to be nigga like my brother dude, I mean I never I never did it. As your question, I never never happened, and it's something that you would do. I mean, y'all, listen, ship happens. If he's in it might be like, yo, let me slide like watching it.

And because you know, sometimes like the chicken is like bent over, sometimes she's like sitting on right, you know, you know, I feel like I don't have the elasticity and either hole for it. Yeah, no, I don't know. I will tell you what. Actually, we posted a picture on our Instagram today, Yes we did. Did you see that every woman slows every woman's fantasy? And it was her bent over sucking and dus dick and yo, I

feel like that's every woman's fist. This is what we posted every woman's dream and so it's a female getting fucked and sucking other guy. I feel like that that would feel amazing for her. That's what we like to say to But now let me ask you, would you judge a female if she sat here and told you that was her fantasy or she's done it before? Because a lot of the comments said a lot of the comments, yes, what about if it was somebody you were dating? Yes? Good, question,

could you handle your girl wanting to bring another dude in? Um. Yeah, So there's a couple that's been writing us and she actually tagged her man and that, and I was working with it. She was like, you've already noticed my ship. I don't know, Like, if it was my girl, my girl girl, I'm just I'm a little too selfish. I'm a little too so I would would have to be another girl that has to be another girl if I'm

gonna a lot of guys. I think it's crazy. I think it's crazy that as a female, we're supposed to be okay with you bringing other women and pleasing other women. But for a female wanting another dude in it, it's you know, I don't have to be But I mean, if I'm with you, I mean, that's probably one of the reason why I'm with you, just because you're down, because you're down fat Okay, I mean, I get it. I mean I'm gonna tell you, when I saw a picture,

I immediately agreed. But like, I feel like it's such a hard thing to admit absolutely, you know. I mean, like I don't know, I just feel like, yeah, I mean, fun all that ship people think. I mean right, yeah, Yo, Like I wonder how much I could internalize it, right because I would want to do it with somebody else with right yeah. And then the other part about it is like, of course he's not gonna be cool. Where do I find the do this? Gonna do this? How

do we kick him out? It's so crazy because a lot of our our listeners, um, we're writing comments under just like how would I find someone that I trust for this? That's like that's like a shorty fucking you know, riding me and another shorty sitting on my face. It is lit. But see it's only two do I ask my two homeboys? And then am I homie if I do? That's that's just the word. We live in double standards everything everything. So you guys gotta know the game, Baby,

is our this or that? For you? Which is our famous this or that question? And it is would you rather eat asked or suckts um? I mean both? If you had a big one. Yeah, I like, I like nice feet. I'ven gonna front like I'm sucker for nice feet. Actually actually never maybe I did that one time. Oh yeah, I did that like a couple of times. You know, a couple of times. Maybe I did that one like legs in the and I'm just like, yeah, the toes look good, you know. I'm just yeah, you know, I'm

gonna get it popping. So you're not the feet and eat as I mean, I wouldn't. I mean, if she gotta have nice feet, you feel me? Okay, would you consider yourself having a fetish? Yes? Okay, nice feet though, nice feet. Have you ever had a job? I think so? Yes? How hard I mean you listen, I had. I had some women that really just put me onto like sex. Yeah, I mean like you know older, Yeah, a lot of older. It was like ten years, you know ten. I was like,

great years, you're six years old. Okay, what you guys older? Younger. I'm gonna tell you why I don't really meet men. Honestly, I thought you gonna. I don't want to tell you that it's your face or anything, but I don't see a lot of young men that have a hair on their But that's something that's very mad, very just grown like thing. And like, okay, we know you pumping right, And it's so funny that we're talking about this right now with the chest hair, because so we have kinks

of the week that we do. Yeah, well it's close. So the kin the kink of the week, it's so funny. We just kind of segued into that ship. So our kink of the week um for this week is pubic philia pubiphilia, So it is actually a sexual attraction to pubic hair. I've got it. Most commonly, people with pubophilia, known as pubophiles, are attracted to noticeable pup hair. Pubic files may become aroused by the site or feel of human pubic hair. Love touching dudes with hair, oner I like, Harry,

I've been begging it. But it's so weird because so I like hair stoping like three Well, no, I like it shaved too, So I like hair on the dick. But because I like asked, I want to ask shaved. So it's like, can you have shaved hair? Especially with women to like right, because at the landing ship it's about like main, what's the word I'm looking for, well maintained grooming, grooming? Thanks? Do you like women with hair

and the busies? Yeah? I do like it. Just it just depends upon it just depends upon, like it depends up yea, the hair type how it was growing in like I had a chick, like I just wasn't going. I just like I wasn't ready for it was like everywhere she had to be from Brooklyn definitely hip definitely was I'm just gonna shave. She was and like and like she sensed it. She was like, you're so thrown off, and I'm just like I just wasn't ready. I wasn't ready.

Like yeah, it was like it was there, you know what I mean. But at the same time, like when I was in college and I this one Brazilian bitch one time, Oh my god, and like she just had like she was natural. She just had like hair there, but it wasn't all over. It's just like it's like right above her pussy. It was just fire. I was like, oh see, I think that's how mind grows in when I don't get a wax, like in between wags. Yeah,

and guy's got a good little pattern. Now now my ship's mad light and they're like, you got hair, And now I'm into shaving just because because I do deal with no Bro, my niggas think it's wax. I think I don't get shag. Bro. I can't too. They're lying to you. Bro, Bro, I have no ingrand. Any grown hair is none of that ship your favorite. And I don't don't want to. I'm going to pay for it. I don't want to get no look how I'm telling you.

It takes it. Oh my, it takes ten nigga. I would know now a body five man body count is deducted by five with every act that you take a negative point. I had a theory. I had a theory about body count earlier. I swear I was thinking about earlier. Always think about you. I just have a new like just answer like response, you know, like what is your body count? Like how wait, females ask guys what their

body count is? Should but and like and sometimes we think like I try to give him a number, and like now my answer is gonna be like how many chicks? How do you fun? I'm just like crazy, I'm ann grown as woman. So even man looks like he has a lot of women. My question, how many baby mom's you got? That's my mother question. Yeah, I really don't care about how many are from Okay, I thought, like

the Bronx non because you live in the Bros. So then I thought, okay, you definitely do have kids to dud if past Parchester, somebody's pregnant on this, I have all of that already, Like all right, let me just get my right shout out to thank you. Okay, So, so yeah, what is your answer? Because I have a theory clearly I'm gonna grown as woman. So they assume it's more than two hands. So I go to eleven. I stopped at eleven. That's my story and I'm sticking to it. I don't give a fun what do you

say I want to see? Now? I over to hands sweat. I thought it was earlier, and it's just just simple. My answer is just a lot. I feel like it's fifteen per ten thousand followers. So is this a lot? You know what I mean? I'm gonna stop right there, like how many have you? A lot? And next question? Keep pushing. It's just like why does it matter? You know what? The way? It is an irrelevant question, say

so what, I don't care. As long as you're disease free and baby mama drama free, then you know, I think I'm you can do it all your life and end up with mother sucking times like what does it do to my press? So we're gonna go ahead and segue into our horrible decision for this week, and our horrible decision. Actually you helped us choose it, and it

makes sense. It is going to be millennial dating, you know. Okay, So so you, I guess, UM came across with the page and kind of came like you're the guru of this millennial dating, which I will have to say, we're gonna segue into it. We matched on Tinder and I saved some of our messages and he's complete millennial dating out here, and I hate it. So we're gonna go over these messages that we talked about on Tinder and we can read it in my voice. O god, she

swears it was a little ago. He said he's no longer on tender. I mean like I'm on like because I deleted from my my app from I did the app from my phone because it just gets the track read these mother messages, you know. But it's still it's still like attached, like people can still match technically. Okay, So let's go ahead and for our listeners, give us

the definition or what you feel millennial dating is. Um. Millennial dating is just basically like you know, um, is it where you find Yeah, it's definitely No, that's not what you find is. It's just more about like fucking around, you know, but at the same time like situation. Yeah, like you know, like everything without the label like want your cake and eat it too type ship, you know what I mean? Like that's really what it's about. You know, Let me about real quick. Okay, I just want to

read us on it. Okay for sure, dating for the millennial male perspective. Now, okay, question, so what made you want to write a book about it? Well, um, so, if you don't know, I came up an MTV show that's u MTV show called Are You the One? Um. I was on the fourth season of that, and when I came off it, I had a lot of like fans and d M me in box me just a bunch of questions and and oh so the show is um um yeah, I got you. So. Um there's area The One shows about ten dudes and ten girls on

a private island. We're okay, okay, We're in Hawaii, and um you have ten tries to hit ten beams of light that signified the ten matches and if you do that within the ten tries and you win split a million dollars between all the twenty people. So we won. But yeah, um so so so after that, you know you got some real change. Okay, a little okay, you

and the girl one on the show. Well you know, so no, no, So it's like ten random we had to take a bunch of compatibility tests, like you know, she was crazy, like so everything was predetermined, like who my match was before I got on the show. So you go in the house and there's ten girls. You have to figure it out, and everybody has a match. Everybody has to figure it out together. So well, so we won the show. When I came off that, I just had, you know, a bunch of questions. How many

black people were in there? I'm really one with just like three well black dudes. It was one. It was me really women, it was like light skinned girl was like black black beticized. Were you like when you got messages from people being that you're only black on the show. Um, I mean like, oh my god, I know the game, the book, I really really just I know the game. I know what they're trying to do. I know you

know what I mean. It was a sprinkling feel. Of course, only three and then one was probably yeah, you know, so did you end up with a black girl on the show. So that's so funny because I guess I'll segway that into actually a tender message you sent me. Um, so I was. I asked you on Tender like your preference. We talked about what you like. He said that you do love black women. Um, and you said that into that you just fuck white girls. Um. This is a

this is all on Tender. We are in this conversation and you said you said I could never see myself being with one long term. Yeah, why is that? Yeah, this is a little too more to push over, you know what I mean. I don't like to push over. So it's so funny because well and a lot of people, actually it's so funny because that's the best Bobby. Not only that, that's the opposite of what a lot of people say on Tender, on Twitter and social media that

black women are too aggressive, they're too dominant. It was even a topic on being Mary Jane. Um, just her independence and her is a lot of women that will come back with that and say that they can handle it and they enjoy that. Nobody but I love that we have a black man on here. Saying I love

black women and you're our second. Now. Marcus Black from Love and Hip Hop, who also was on here, he said he loves black women, and I love hearing this because there's so much topics about um, black men dating the light skins or the white women, and to just know that we do still have brothers out here who love their black women. I think that's you don't get a twisted like I don't discriminate, like if you're beautiful man, you're beautiful of the Asian, Brazilian, Spanish black, you know

what I mean. But I do love my black women. It's a fact like queens, my queen shout out to my But you know what, that's a good thing to hear, especially when you could feel like I'm just not worthy enough. No for sure, you know, like I'm gonna be honest. I've seen dude's reaction from when they think on latinas when they find out on that Oh girl me too. Absolutely, Oh you're im are black? Yes, actually you look more exotic. So we're gonna get into millennial dating, like I said,

and I'm going to again. I didn't want to let you guys know so normally I do fuck a lot of people if I like them and if I'm into This is segueing into because when I do, I did, well, I who I like. So when we were on when I was on Tender in the beginning, I was looking for just kind of people to feel a void at one point, I thought, and it just so happened when I met you, I was actually looking for something more

and so, yeah, well, not not specifically with you. Do you remember this at all, just our conversation briefly, No, I don't think we even made it to phone. It pretty much stayed. And I'll tell you why, because this is what he said he wanted. And I was like, oh, he said, I'm not really looking for anything serious but good vibes. Not me. He said, I'm super I'm super laid back. I like to have fun, travel, I smoke, I drink, I work out. I'm spontaneous. Just not the

relationship type, at least a serious one. He said, you know, I'm just looking for good ass company, good ass other things potentially. Why why why don't you want anything meaningful? It's just not I just can't right now. My response was, sounds like everyone else serious relationship right now for me?

I mean, it was just like, I'm very passionate, so like if I took a relationship seriously, it would take out a lot of like, you know, prioritizing for music, Like it's been a whole day today from the gym to music to hear and I'm going to like an MTV event, you know what I mean? Like you know, I mean, it would be dope to have a girl that could like, you know, dig that and be like yo, you know what I mean. But a lot of people, I feel it go to people drappers and athletes, and

they understand the Sketchley. I'm just I'm just not at that. Yeah, definitely just not right now. You don't want a girlfriend because you want to a bunch of different people. Yeah, I just want to have fun right now. I really just want to have you still just want to have fun? When does when do you feel like you'll get to the point Because we both think almost forty, I think

my early thirty is gonna be crazy. I think my early thirties going, oh my god, I'm gonna have actually have real money, like money and I'm just gonna be like this makes me so sad. It makes me so because you know, what it is you mean, So I have a really hard time fund an attractive black men that they're saying that don't have kids, And so just to hear it come out of your mouth, it's almost

like depressing. I get bored easily and like, yeah, you just gotta be you just gotta be like fucking amazing for me to just be like something that's just non monogamy. What about if you met somebody that you wanted that you couldn't let go and you're just like, how about we just a monogamous but like you know, yeah, I mean that the situation. Yeah, but like like even in the book till I put like somebody always catches feelings a little more, always like no strings attached to the movie.

That's just what it is. Somebody always just a little bit then the other. And it's just like whoa, whoa you get your feelings? If it's the girls saying that, like whoa, why are you catching feelings? I thought we had like a little bit. Somebody may get out of line or like go through your phone or see you, ask you, you know what I mean, And it's just always, you know, I just don't want I just don't put

myself in those positions. But how do you feel about open relationships you think you could ever be in one? I mean that's something that's momenial to me. Um, like I said me personally, like if she get that girl another woman, Yeah, that's that bullshit. And so I want I don't want my my wife to be fucking rammed out, but she's supposed to be okay with you sleeping with other women, nor then I just won't, Like I'd rather just not be in a relationship. So where do you

go from when? Because clearly these are the relationships you want to start. So you have women that you're sleeping with, whether you have Monday through Friday and just one on the weekends, whatever, you know, you know, what do you do when she starts catching feelings? Is there a conversation there? Do you completely cut her off? What is the transition to where when you see someone catching feelings? Yeah, a lot of them get cut off. How do you cut them off? Well? I just you know, just they just

don't get text back. They hit me up just like I'm just I'm just super dry with the text. Like you know what you're doing like text back late? I got my re receipts on for everybody, So everybody just you know, why is she just being honest? I am being honest. No, you're going away and now being short with her? Why not just tell her? Listen, you're catching feelings. I told you what it was from the beginning. This isn't gonna work. Instead of because now we come to

the point where you're stringing her along. No something, No, honestly, Well, actually, first I don't even get I don't even get into some ship without them even knowing, like they know, like clearly you say it, you know, but you can't. But you can't help. Clearly you're gonna start catching feelings one way or another. So like when she does catch feelings or like when I see it coming, I'm just like,

I don't know. I'm actually gonna be like, yo, I told you not to catch feelings are like spending time as far as like sleepovers and things like that, like because women are getting attached, right, I'm gonna be honest. I've never been attached with someone that just sucked me ever nothing. It was men that gave me more than that. So what do you do? So it's the face times, it's the good morning text, it's the everything that kind of would make her feel like you're liking her a

little bit more. But yeah, you're really still just dropping dick and being a nice guy. So it's just like, what else are you giving them beside dick to where they're catching feelings? Um? Are you? Are you spending the night? Are you seeing her more than twice a week? Are you you know? I mean, I don't know, you don't leave. Maybe they just they just fun with me? Ask you a questions? Were confused? What time I be in the

gym in the morning five am? You know? I mean you can't leave and bring a gym clothes to her house, bring the work close over hell little bit? I mean honestly, like you know what, I'll be right back. You stay here, I come like, I mean, I go to show these cribs and I dip in the morning early Like here we go here, we got back for a second. You don't want someone to catch feelings, but you're staying at

the house. It's not just sex. And why are you doing it because you wanted to We're staying at the house. You just said, I'm saying a short the house, leaving in the morning. Why are you supposed to leave night. I mean he's getting flustered. No, I got break this down. He's writing this book. Break this down because like I said, like, you know, you know, if I'm not sure, he's crib and she's let me over and stuff like from the jump she knows like I don't even want nothing serious,

like so she catched feelings. That's you know, it's really on her, like you know, she let's right, what's the point because so we have women that are very confused relationships there or how men feel about them because they're doing these things right now, Why are you staying there if you're just looking for sex? Do you like companionship too? Yeah? I mean, like I said, I do like good company. Okay, Like I said, like like I mean that's that is

a relationship. I just said, not a serious one, Like, that's the relationship even if I'm just hanging out and I'm chilling. So you're gonna admit that you could possibly lead a female on because to me, if I have done that ship like and that's and that's my point. So with this dating, you have women who are being confused with where you stand, what your relationship is. Because

if you're sitting here spending the night. We're probably spooning, we're probably talking about our day, about what we're doing tomorrow. And now you're becoming a listener. You're like a whole kiss in the mouth. Oh we make it out every time, goddamn, like heavy breathing in my ear while you're gonna watch ticking me slowly. Goddamn. And now you catch them, now catch the feelings? Got I got moves. We had schedules for Game of Thrones. WI we was gonna eat. I

never never get that far bro. A few months in, I remember saying to him, like, oh my mom's coming to town. We gotta grab drinks because he'd beat like Temy. And he's like, I mean, I think that that means that you know we're really dating. So this is the right And that's so crazy because to me, I'm not gonna lie if you're spending the night and we happen to put on Netflix and now we started serious together, like we can't watch it. That shouldn't be getting that far.

But you really watch the Netflix to watch TV. I don't watch TV. Netflix don't. So I want to leave this into possibly scaling. I think the word for this do you believe that this is commitment? Phobi? Do you think that you have a phobia being committed to somebody and as someone dating? Now where do you think this comes from? Why? Why are men right now commit? Well? I think me personally, you know, I didn't. I didn't

really uh um. You know, I didn't really grow up like I grew up with a single mom, you know, So I grew up I didn't really grow up like a father. So I never really like seeing like you know, like you know how like other people's like fathers like

love their mother, you know what I mean. Like you know, my mom, you know, even though she only had like you know, she like stepdad you know, um, you know, and my little brother's father, Um, you know, but like she always like it was very he's always very respectful, you know what I mean. But it wasn't. There wasn't the husband, and you know they were always like but it just wasn't like you know, like my dad. It wasn't like my dad or my mom, you know what I mean. Like, so you know, I always I was

always like I was always kind of had. It was always um what do you call it? It was like vacant, like I had to like it was something that was empty, like I had to figure out myself and I'm going to rap music, I'm going to hip hop, you know what I mean? Commitment could like your phobia to commitment

could because you think you're gonna find something better. Um that's I mean, that's one of them that's definitely nodding their head, like because I do think that, like even like because even like I'll like say, if I'm like kicking with a girl like may go out or whatever, and then like I'll be like damn crazy, like yeah, like you know, so like you know, but this is me, like I'm feeling like I don't know why, I'm starting to feel bad, like somebody's being too honest. I can't

handle it. This is like, well this is what Well, I think a lot of our listeners want to hear this because um just knowing that you're probably the type of guy when I said everyone else like you sound like a lot of niggas that are in my phone or guys that just want to kick it, or guys that just want to drop the dick off and be like all right, well see you next week or hit

me when you want more. And it's just like do you You clearly brought up not only hip hop, but I think the single parent thing is a big thing, and it's something that a lot of our generation has gone through. We're not growing up with the mom and dad and the picket fence and just you know, that typical household up. Have you ever been heartbroken? Um, you

think this is a heartbreak? Yeah, I mean I guess it's got a stem from somewhere that you that you can enjoy company and like all the dating things but not one. Yeah, and I had a girl. I had a girl in high school. She uh, dating doesn't even count because I mean, like that's because honestly, like when I tell people like I've never been in a serious relationship, you know what I mean, because all my things were like in high school and like it's just like shorty,

I should go to the prom. She was with it, and she dumped me to go with another dude. You know what I mean? You like a girl curvew for you playing games? H Um? Yeah, I mean I can't recall, but you know, yeah, I just shoot my shot. Just curb me. No, no, no, I'm not talking a shot. I'm talking about you sucking with a chick. She's like, hey, like what are we doing? And you're like whatever, She's like, you know what, I'm good. Have you had girls just

like cut you off for doing this playing a game? Yes, yeah, yeah, definitely, yeah, as they should, as they should hand to all of your motherfucker walking away from this type of bullshit. Now, the one thing that are doing this, like, do you what's different about him than these other girls? See through my bullshit? But are they? Are they older? Do they have different jobs? Are they different kind of girls? What? What?

Women are recognizing this um like like a little bit older, like around my age, But they're like getting to the point where you sucking young girls absolutely dealing with this bullshitwey six like you know, you know, and they still imagine us back I was having fun, So it makes sense for them to want to put up with something like this And me, it's funny because I've talked about this before at I'll be twenty seven next month, I'm

now yes, Libra shout out. I'm just now getting to a point where I'm seeking that intellectual um connection more so than just a physical and sexual connection. Sometimes when I can't have a conversation with it, I guess, like, don't get me wrong, I've seen attractive men all the time now of course. And then it's just like I started talking to him and I'm like, like I feel the dryness. Yeah, substance, substance, yeah, And I think that's

kept me from my age. I feel like there's just they're lacking there like that I can't go deeper than like we talked about pop culture and then we're done. Maybe we start talking about Trump and they don't know what doctor is, and then it's right, do you who what's that? Dr flockers get bad? Do you find that like you need that too? For women? Are you just like yeah, I definitely substance. I mean I just you know, like I mean I need something stop stance. I need plenty.

But I don't want to come but I creepy. No, I'm like I'm rewording like breaking, Oh we need no, it's dope. No. I mean, like listen, I just take it for what it is, like you know, like some chicks just want to, you know, give it up easy. I'm not a type to really to be turned down pussy, Like if you fine and you just want to say some dumb ship whatever. I'm like basically dating right now in rotation, I don't know. Two three more? Yeah, Okay, do you do you have a thing about you don't

want them to say about the man? No, I don't care. You don't give a ship that gives you a little more in credibility. I want to ask this question because I tell you there's a lot of men that still, you know, feeling like you like, oh, I'm gonna come off, I'm gonna do this want and feel like, oh that's

could be a bit personal. But I feel like it needs to be talked about because I'm on I don't want to say block Twitter, but it happens often we're single, man as yourself, like these situation ships, are you having prot to sex with any of these parts? Definitely? Definitely was having unprotected sex. Uh Like before I went to I just came from the doctor, like a couple few weeks ago, and before that I was having unprotect sex for a little minute. And so yeah, and then adopted

I'm good. He was just I was just like, what did you want to go? Because I feel like a lot of men we have to push our men to go to the I mean, I just I just needed to go it's been passed through. I had a trifectors ship, like you know, I just you know, backed back women saying nights like raw like you know what I mean, like a lot of just a lot of ship. Okay. So, so I want to ask this because that's why I brought this up. You're having casual sex. You don't want

to commit to any of these girls. What is going through? Why would you have sex unprotected with a female who you don't want to see yourself with. You don't have kids, you probably don't see them as future baby mamas. As a single man who's out here having casual sex, and who was allowing these girls to fund other men? Why would you not protected? Set some some a personal issue I need to deal with. But I think a lot

of guys do. No, it's true. No, it's true. You just don't give a funk for a while the feeling. But we have someone I definitely we're feeling. We all know it feels better, like you know, but bullshit. I've had the best dick from Condom Dick so funk that ship.

And we actually had Candy on the show who said, if you want to have it feel real, put some lube in the in the condom before you put it on, and that well, it's always cool to get like like feeling to get there, but like it is different just general. And I'm just talking. I'm not saying it's good or bad, you know what I mean. But it's just this could be why these things catching feelings too. Raw dick will

make a bit catch feelings. That's that's definitely when I was younger, connect to connect, like what we're doing this together? Then that means I am more important? Yeah, and you are. You're sucking all of them wrong. No, since you came from a doctor and I'm sure you had your like good, what are you going to do it from here on now? When you want to have about what kind of precautions are you gonna say? When you want to how do you have this conversation? Have you when you want to

have like raw sex. Now, let's say somebody maybe even a few months and you feel like, okay, we're consistent with each other. Do you know how to have these conversations and talk about papers and stuff like that. I ain't gonna front. I still be shooting my shot with raw sex some girls. So I want to I want to say this because I tweeted it. I tweeted it. I want to let you guys know, going to a doctor and getting checked is not going to keep you

from getting anything. It's pretty much good. It's pretty much just gonna notify you if you call it it. So going to the doctor is not a preventative measure of catching anything. So I definitely think that. Um, And I wanted to say, I'm not promoting. I'm not promoting. I'm just in general, I'm not just generally a little bit of you brought us some game. I'm gonna give you some game. Yes, Um, I had a crazy, fucking scared

I could tell the story again. When I thought yeah, went to the bathroom, looked down there, I said fuck. Text the group chat. I said, bro, I'm dead, and I text two niggers and I was like a piece of ship. I was going one go into a twenty four hour doctor, get there having tears and she's like, oh my god, you think you're pregnant. I was like, I don't know. And I'm sitting down there and she's like, well,

what's going on? And I was like there was there was a bump, and she's touching the lips on my vagina and she's like has a smile on her face and she's like, Okay, have you been shading? Did you just shave recently? And I was like, you know, She's like, okay, well you probably left the razor in the shower and you didn't get like an absolutely sanitaria one and now you've just got allegiance on your body. It's just like a yeah, And that ship is fucking terrifying. And so

from now on, what I do. I get my papers on a PDA And when I'm feeling somebody and I feel like maybe we're the main people that were having sex with if it's noncommittal, how cool was saying like you want to swap? I mean I send to be a text. I know their name, they know mine. I feel really good about it. And nobody has ever been like this is weird. I did have one dude say like, wow, I appreciate you for this. I'm glad that you want to suck me without condoms. Let me go. I respect that.

I don't listen. I think a lot of men have appreciated it from me and like they feel better about sucking me. I mean, you got to think more like, right, you need to do that even if you're a few if you want papers's real mind stay surgery's breast augmentation. So you know, yeah, I just think it's that's definitely important conversation to have because well, not only that, but

the way you women HIV is super awkward. Um. But the way that you feel about these women and that they don't mean anything to you, I guess you're pretty much clarifying that raw X does not mean that a man likes you anymore than if he has sex with you with a condom. Would you testify to that? Do you have Do you feel like that these women that you have unprotected sex with that there is an emotional attachment there or you can suck them with a condom

or raw and it means nothing. There's no difference. Some I think some of them definitely have a little emotional attachment. I can I can tell you know what, you trust them? You're saying, like you feel more. I don't think you trust any of them. I trust you don't trust anybody, but you trust them for your dick not to fall off after sucking them. Okay, makes all the sense the world. Do you want to go ahead and get to our homemail.

Do you have Yeah? And I actually hate this conversation Jesus Christ, because there's so many black men, unfortunately that have this idea of um unprotected sex, and unfortunately we also have and I've mentioned this in the show, and I know we also have such a large group of men who are on the download, so you have a

lot of mix there is. I'm a men who's dealing with men and women, and so to me, knowing that our men are not out obviously getting tested every three months like you're supposed to, or out here having casual raw sex, it just leaves so much for many of our women to be infected, our men to be infected. And it's just like a routine when all you have to do is put on the condom, put on the condom. So I just feel like we're all here for casual sex.

And her have had plenty of it mistakes too, But now I just feel like my pussy is too important. I grab the condom before I left out today though I felt good, did you think of ship? Are you going to the MTV events that you never know? I was like you by front, you're a black guy from you to want to let's go right, that's funny. Um, let's see. I don't think we've ever read this question that's long as that which we're not reading that fucking story.

It's from a man. Subject is dilemma. Damn we never we normally. I think that with the wife in med school, I don't think we read this. My wife and I have been together for seven years. Sex life was always okay, but just okay until recently. She is in med school at Moore House and met some new people when she enrolled. Of course, one of her girlfriends is very, very open

sexually and did a lot of posting on tumbler. Now at the time, I didn't know exactly what tumbler was, but because I'm just a Facebook and Instagra, not into every social media. But she talked to my wife about it, and my wife created a page. She talked to me about stuff that other people were doing on there, but never really told me what she was doing or thinking

about doing until I saw it for myself. My wife was posting completely naked pictures of herself on the internet, and while it bothered me, I wanted her to feel free enough to express outside of her now and allowing her to do that and not freaking out about it. She has become so much more open sexually. Our sex life has truly went to another level. I've always suppressed my desires because I felt like it would be much better for her because she was so conservative. Like I'm

trying to like black it on. It's long. I'm sorry seeing her be free on the internet. Let me be free with her in the bedroom. And the ship's mind blowing problem is that, well, I'm getting great sex out of this. I can't stand her doing what she actually does. It's gone from Tumbler to group chat on the group ma app where there's twenty people all in our area who exchange naked pictures and fuck each other constantly and

post about it. Now, my wife isn't sucking anybody else yet, But the fact is she's involved with this and being proposition all the time and just has random guy sending dicks like crazy. We've talked and she's assured me that she's not doing anything, and I believe her, But I don't want to have to check her phone all the time and wonder what she's doing. I don't know what to do. Please help a lot. I feel like everybody's

gonna have different advice because I have mine. You know where you I can tell you what I would think. What would you think? I'll just start posting pictures. I'm gonna say this is a phase. First of all, I cannot imagine med school. I think that if you've never done something like this before, imagine how sexy you feel

being naked. It's liberating. I think you know somebody's character, and I think that if you let her do it, and you let her know that you're comfortable doing it, of course she's not going to stop or either have to be open and say that I'm way too uncomfortable with this, and I'm sure she'd respect you for it's your wife. But if you've been acting like you're cool with it because you're getting good sex out of it, then you can't have your cake and eat it too.

If she's doing this and feeling sexy and giving you good pussy for it, you just got to deal with one of the two. I mean, it's her face in the pictures of their boundaries that you need. Do you need to be in the group chats? You need to set the boundaries from what you want. For me, I've always felt like flirting and things like that or whatever you need to do to feel good, whether it's post an Instagram pic shirtless, it's not a big deal because

sometimes we need that validation from somebody else. We thought the same person all the time. Right you're married, I'm saying, we're pr people. Okay, person, I think with something that's this quote unquote wild, you just have to set boundaries. And it sounds like you've just kind of been rolling with it. But what I would say is I would um have this conversation with her because what it sounds like to me is she's possibly not getting this attention

or these compliments from her man. So I feel like this is possibly something to where he just maybe needs needs to talk to her, and maybe that's why she's doing this, because it very well could be baby, I don't feel like you like this And I get all these compliments. They say my titties look perky, they say my ass is fat, they say my my waist too small.

So maybe she's looking forward this attention and validation and um compliments from you, And I feel like maybe it's something to where if she's sending you a video, she's not feeling like you're super excited about it. So I feel like maybe it's a conversation you need to have to see why she's doing this and how you can maybe get her that excited that you like that, you like that, Yeah, I mean, I'm gonna add on to that.

I just with that. Even with that being said, for him, I feel like he needs to just find, you know, something, you know, like she felt like like that was like it sounds like that was like her kind of like finding and discovering herself sexy. So I feel like maybe maybe he needs to do that, just find something, you know, why not joining together and do it? Yeah, or just

join in. Maybe that may feel you know, that may make him feel like if you're feeling something way like she's going to suck another guy, then there's an insecurity there and you've got to find out what that is. Did you I mean, were you validated by feeling like you're the only one that sounds like you still are? I mean, I don't know. I feel like cheating is very obvious. It's not hard, especially if you're married, Like absolutely you gotta know like what you're not as I

mean or not at worth. I'm not a good liar me neither. She looking right in my eyes. But you definitely figure out what's up for you if you think your wife is really going about position of the sex, and you decide if you're down for it or not in a step and set the bounces. Have to let it go as far as far as it goes, because you're getting your dick sucks good and more often that's not fair either. Right. And we have one more homemode

that I'm going to read. Um And this came from a female when we asked about situation ships, So I would love to get Yeah, this one. We didn't read it on the situation ship episode, so I would love for you. Yes, So she said, I have a situation ship and I need feedback please. He has a family baby mama, and I also have a family baby dad, so we knew the terms and conditions. Were also co workers. I finally gave him some pussy after eight months of him trying. He took me to his their house and

we fucked. It was decent, he complimented me. I thought things were good. He was already talking about the next time quote unquote it was a little awkward, you know, first time jitters. Well that was Friday and I haven't heard from him since, and my triping he crossed it off. I didn't know that so one time, yeah, and that's the end. And I also want to go ahead and say that I think she coined this as a situation

ship when it was only a one time fuck. And I feel like that's a female again, putting a title or putting more exaggeration on a relationship between two people and whatever really is. And unfortunately, I feel like a lot of us women do that, whether it be because he's cuddling and staying in the night with me, we're getting closer, or whether you know he's sucking me wrong? What about boyfriend girlfriends? But honestly, I just millennial. I'm

gonna tell you something. There's times that as women we want to feel validation instantly, that instant gratification at the next back or something like that. But then there are also very obvious moments that we just don't want to read. You didn't need to write us to hear that. Oh what does that mean? Right? You know what it is that we ain't need to tell you of my own ship? Would love a boy? You know what I'm saying. I've been dating to someone that's doing all of these moves,

taking just every all this effort. But it's like I don't know if I want a girlfriend, So my naga know, like I'm sorry, Like I know what you're doing. You're playing games, Like I'm giving all some names out here like cut off, get to another cubicle, don't talk with him, no more cute. If someone just bucks me and they not hit me back and ignoring me, I'm done. Simple. There you go. And I think women, you need to you need, you need to definitely value. If I don't

text you back, you cut me off. So it's simple though, if someone's not hitting you up there, not thinking about you, it's especially once it's something was a t no. I mean, I'm not gonna call it dumb with its emotions because I'm not going to invalidate somebody's feelings, but I will tell you that you didn't need this advice, you know, right, Well, I am so glad you've been here. What we're gonna do before we sign off is we're gonna read one

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of thing do you snap? Man? I barely snap people? What the fuck? Put your dick on there? Just don't have a snap? My snap is my snap is my channel? You know. Snapp is like I put I bet you put your shirts, put your dick on the table. That's a snapchat is for Yeah, I got time for that. And do you have any upcoming projects or like yeah, I have dropping sometime in October like late October, ums EP dropping soon and um yeah s O B S. I'll be performing at s OBS in October. You should

come out. We're having a live show. We want to invite all of our past guests, so you should definitely come out. I'm sure will come because as long as you wear that will be we are going to see this. Well, actually you can't wear this precisely because we are going to take a picture. The same outfit. You bring the same post around, the same dick around, the same shirt is fine, you've got it in a different color, and we welcome met. But yeah, we're gonna have a live

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