Ep23: Pointless Sex feat Tahoe

Change like that's it doesn't? Did it all? Right? Well? Anyways, guys, that was four a M featuring Travis Scott on the Pink Trap album. What's it called Pretty Girls Like Trap? That's the album. It's a pink traphouse on the album. So that is actually like the other album I like to listen to when I'm feeling like I want some Southern dick because apparently I can't find that up here very much. So I just listened to Trap musically. I can't get enough to where you should get the field

Who Bronx. I don't funk with Bronnings. They're all cheekos um and yeah I don't. I haven't met people I live in the Bronx don't do that. Don't look at me like that as legal queen. As long as it's not a queen's nigger, you could do anything. I don't like queen's niggers. They're like they all live with their families because that's new. That's new though, right Long Island City, they do their best to be like Brooklyn. So I ain't at it. Long Island Bronx nigger don't like going nowhere.

They don't come out with the Bronx. I'll test, Actually they do, Harlan, you know they jet back to the Bronx. So where and hear myself? You know, I'm not I know now it's okay. If we're trying to get the sand alrighty and sheet, we don't need to hear. I told you my niggas be like above the Bronx, like New Rochelle Mount Vernon, okay or yeah, anyways, guys, welcome to another episode. We just want to talk of horrible decisions. This is your girl, man, dad. Did you need to

read your name? Bit? No, bit, I don't know what I was like. Decisions, of course, horrible decisions. Was horrible decisions, horrible, horrible decisions. That's what it's horrible, horrible, horrible. Don't make it horrible, horrible, horrible, like a horrid God damnit. People people know by now that's what you are. Um, and do you want to introduce you? Easy? And we have the very long tongued man we just found out. So guys,

we brought Tahoe back on the show. If you guys know, he was on episode like one of them episode we had to bring to back for the culture because Matt chicks wanted to said white out and it was like, Okay, we need another man and the bitches want to but more they speed saying white But I just meant, you know, like like black met bitches was going crazy like bitch for a culture that so even a few girls like y'all don't bring never bring niggas on them like we

are top again. Um, but we literally, um, I thought we'd bring him on today because we actually have been getting emails sent to us where we feel like it wouldn't do justice for us to answer them. Um, So we kind of want a guy's perspective. Not only that me and t Ho be going in at it all motherfucking Twitter, and I think I argue with him every other day we start. Gave her a little argument the other day you called me, was like, girl, you know me and just got on Instagram. You just wanted to

come for me. That's all he wanted to do, even when I was like, damn, can you read what she said? You know, I gotta keep my foot on y'all. Next man, you're not here taking over, and I don't want to be a movement the last minute standing out here. But let's do it. So the last time you came on the show, we didn't have you ever, and I feel like you you you're a grown man. You talk about how you growing been. They're done, They're so horrible, so

we can't figgered. You've done a lot. So we're gonna switch it up and today, are you gonna just take them out? I'm not taking actually in abroad tonight, I'm not taking much. Are you gonna show them two tips out? He's not seen it is not your tips are the one almost popping out of your fucking onesie hiding your gut, right, that's what you said, tod sucking asshole. Yeah, my home girl was saying, like, what do you do when you feel fat? I'm like this, I don't really feel fat

because my titties is a distraction from ull. You know, I'm just so shameless guy. So I'm gonna just keep staring at them things till they come out fun. You know, you came all the way out here. So we're gonna do the this or that. I'm gonna ask you. I have two questions. I don't know if you have any I sent you my two questions, so if you have any other one, um, I would love you. So before we start, we're gonna do to this or that. Guys, So for Tahoe, would you rather m date an escort

or date a porn star? Now there's a difference, so I just want to know which is the worst of the two. That's de fine, that's define first of all. That's define, okay, So to so to me, an escort is someone who, whether they post on, they have sex for money. Um, however, it's possibly not pulp companions or companions you could lead into sex, but they sell their time for money. And then a porn star, clearly you can see on porn Hub they have sex for money

as well, but they get filmed. So you know, porn stars can do one or two films and that's that escort too. It is acting. So I think those are good definite. That's the difference. One is being taped the other. Does it have problems with this? It's a trick question. The reason why I feel it's a trick question is because we can I do Can I give my understanding? Firstthing, I want to take too much time point start. You know, I love point I love love, love love. He just

closed his eyes when it comes down. You know. First of all, they get tested thee they That is one thing that I do know. Janet jack me. I don't know if y'all know. That was one of my closest friends for a while. I was a close friend of mine for a while. Um but I couldn't bet. I had seen her fuck so many niggas in so many different ways. She used to want me to beat and I couldn't do it. I was just like, really, just keep it. Really that was me. I just couldn't do it.

That was what you up watching her. I'm gonna keep it a thousand and damn, Janet. I'm sorry to do this to you. Baby. Janet was on the East coast, Okay, I already know about and so it just bothered me that she was over here. She used to wear the hat down and like a trench cold, and I was wondering what she was hiding from. I was literally like, is there something wrong? Did she burn the wrong mother? Wait? You know, I was thinking West Coast for a second

because that's where the hide, right. But then she showed up on my block and she lived on my block for a good year year and a half. So I made my introduction, and I just I don't know why she was hiding. I felt that she was hiding. Maybe she didn't know, or maybe she just didn't want regular. Okay,

so the escort on an escort, then the escort. You know, I'm a I'm a non broke, cash tag broke nigger, and I just feel like an escort is going to do her best to charge as much as she can, for as much as she you know, for anything, she's going to do anything. You're gonna charge me for, asshole, you're gonna charge me for this girl. This isn't charging you. This would be your girl. Which one would you rather? Wife? Yes, which one would you rather? Yeah? That's what I'm asking

you would do. The escort did not think you I don't think you're so you have a problem with the visual, so you don't want to be able to see you. I know that, well, I know you out there doing this. Any of how are you gonna be my girl? Let's just not my style. Like I'm gonna tell you a nigger that don't really want my girl. Sucking of the nigg is like, what am I going to do? I can't stand. First of all, you know that something is more. I don't know if you've ever like but you have

other people in the room. You know this is one hour, it's on film, it's completely done. I've even seen porn where I could tell the girl's face is like, all right, let's get this overweight. But with an escort, you have no idea what's going on? The emotional connection that people want girlfriend experience, even I mean the dinners, even the intimacy from being an escort opposed to I had to work for Okay, you know what I come from. What

do you say? What A mean? Send a chick to link with a nigga so I could rob that nigga. You could you do the black dot fucking truck waiting for you to come out with a nigger point to which pocket he put it in so I can go get that. I don't care what you had to do in side. Bas basically, a pimp is not a pimp is actually paying you. The escort is not necessarily fucking. It's a lot of chicks out here that with sugar daddies and fun with niggas just to get that bag.

It ain't sucking them like. That's a lot of them. You you're living on hope. My thing is this trust is everything. Tell me whatever, tell me the truth. Let me deal with the truth. If I know what it is with you, I know what it is. If it just had to pop, because because it's what you just said to me, to me, you just you would know more of what it is. With the point what you're saying, he don't want to see that, that's what it is. Yeah,

I just don't want to see it. I don't. I'm saying, I don't want to see my chick getting twenty bang like come shots. Like what's ther chick name? Divine? I remember she lives out here, yeah boy, and she had like just gonna come bucket like she was niggas, niggas coming out mouth and out with us in the club back in the days. I'm looking at it like kissing. I'm likee manka kissing. So this is another one and we if you could just get the instagram ready, I

can't do that. Why I want him to see the picture. If in case he can, I'm gonna ask. I'm gonna ask, and it doesn't matter because I got it in my d MS. Then so I want to ask, would you fuck a girl missing one leg or missing one arm both? Some time? Ship, I've been wanting to mention my whole life. So one leg? Are you looking like that? Do you know that fetish? I just don't want to pull up someone and then like make us go to her Instagram and sh but she looks good. You made me go

to her Instagram. I just don't want to like put her on the slane fetisize her like that. I think that's sucked up. If you want she's sitting on the show. I'm just saying show. I don't want us to give out her Instagram. You could do what you fine. Sometimes your legs beginning the way I'll be trying to fold that ship. I don't want to pay anybody on the tracks to be you know what I'm saying that's fine, but this man super sexy and she's missing an arm.

We really want to fuck for real, for real, I totally. Sometimes the imperfection is be making you more. And I think she's gorgeous, Like I don't see En had a burned walk on her face when I was when I was doing it, and I used to want to pound her the last out just because I used to do a bit of lego. But what like with Winny Harlow has like the spot Harlow the black model, and she's got the like white patches. Hot dude, he had a little bit on the way to his dick bit, can

white people get this ship? I don't know, man, the one and let you said, you said the legs get in the way, So do the arms ever get in the way? I mean, I think I couldn't do I could suck a guy because we talked about your mama and your mama, I don't think she'd do it again, and I said I would, like I think one arm is not a big deal, like a limp, and like like you need your legs to suck me, which is

why you want to. I think maybe your weight, like your hands, But can the guy I like to get throat fucked and I want you to stand up on one fucking you think his balance saying white, he gotta live with that one foot. He gotta live with that, yo. Can you imagine she's like yo? She position with this ship. She leaned over on her shoulder and throw that ship back. So the only thing is I with that on wiggling and ship like you know how that ship looked funny?

That should start wiggling and ship you look like, oh man, now you control that ship? She wiggling? It's up? Okay, yours I over here, Julian, that suck on your baby on? Come here ship? You know what, nigger? Start looking anything like sucking? Man, I'm looking at the baby on. Quick, you'll look the baby on. Let me tell you why, because I try to thank someone that I like. There's two people in this world I want to most bit elbow and go so stupid for John Snow, I don't

know why you just really turned me on. It just had one arm. You would lick his baby on, bitch if he wanted me to the fuck she didn't put that ship then in her asshole. To be honest with you, I wanted. I'm sure you would on it. Would that be considered fisting like I'm making an educated guest? No? But okay or no arming. I don't know why. I just feel like I'm gonna lose my leg because no, I have this like really scary feeling every time I

want to subway platform, somebody gonna push. But we're talking about having sex with these people. So we're talking got one leg and gotta have a n talking about like I was still you know, she can suck the day, right, Listen, we talk about Listen, we talk about physical inferfection. Their motherfucker's sucking around. First of all, shout you know it's the motherfucker's with them weird ass quirks that actually get

some ship out of your ass. So shout out to your mother fucker one on one leg out there getting it fucking stuck and get one absolutely as fine as that girl is, I'm telling you her down now. Listen. I that girl before, I a bitch with two arms. Fu. Yeah, mine is really simple. Me and Mandy had this question recently, Um, would you rather look ask or lik feet me? I think it's all the same. No, But you remember Sam was out here and he was like no, like a

lot of people would chose feet. They feel like anal is like too crazy? Do you feet? Do you like? I hate? And I did with some looking fee because they're on their feet all day? What they work on the feet? Nor tell you what in your mouth? Oh my god, I appreciate I got a great toe? Can we not? No? No? Not? She look out and then actually look warm and ship? Okay, okay, what to They're not washing it as you? So let me ask you because we asked um two episodes ago or last episode?

We don't know which one we're gonna drop first. So how much money the least amount would it take for you to lick a foot? Like put some toes in your mouth? Is there a feel like? I feel like you're do it for free? I wouldn't you would do it for freeing how we're dealing with guys, bro I think what would be? How much? Holy ship? How much? How much would I take the lit for me? And maybe did you we were talking about I put that foot then in her mouth? She ain't gonna say nothing?

Is you talking about? Give? You're gonna ask me for an in your body? I'll do all kinds of crazies. But no, you're not putting your foot in my mouth and you're getting on make you? Are you right now? I believe? I mean if you got a pedicure. But bro, I can see here and think of last week. I got a pedicure last week. No, but what happened to this?

Like that ship? Okay, So this week I actually chose um the Kink, and I chose this for a reason because me and Tyler have gone on this and I feel like it's a topic that's kind of been a of discussion. So the word is a depophilia. So depophilia, I'm about to sit here and give y'alls the definition is that what you think it is on as there's not a baby, So a depophilia is the strong or exclusive sexual attraction to overweight or obese people, as well

as traditional attraction. The topic also incorporates federalism and gaining, where sexual gratification is obtained via the process of gaining body fat. So other fetishes that are associated with this are fat admiration, padding, inflation, stuffing, and all that good stuff. As a feminist, I can't comment on this, that's fine. I actually brought this up for so, if you guys have been following, what's what does the qualdination look at him? You look at sick. I can't stand you right now.

So qualdination whatever, it's not even a big real thing, but it's the feeding thing. I've seen that on any it's on any So the lady right now who has been accusing us, Oh, there's another one that I read. It's called um I was just telling him what did I say, pounding or something, But it's basically where they lift their stomach and pound it on the nigga. Well, I'm sure it's like two fifty plus. Maybe it's carnatia. Two fifty plus is overweight bro over waitst net what

I mean? I guess it depends your height and height and all that. But to me, so anyways, I bring this up to say, so everyone knows the usher accuser and to me, yes, she's a scammer. She's a liar, which is what I get it. She's probably a terrible person. However, the comments that I have been reading associated with her because of what she looks like. So I'm gonna bring up one of to what Tahoe said, and I want you to see here and tell me why you feel

this way, because I had. I felt offense to it too, said he would believe that Usher, a straight male, would fuck a nigga. Liket, Yes, Little Duva said that. You agree. I listened to so Shame podcast. You said it on the on the podcast as well, he said, as well as Little Duval, which I hate. He said that he would believe that Usher, who was a hetero sexual straight man, would fuck a nigga before fucking this overweight woman. What the fun kind of ship is that you would believe that?

You say? What happy in Atlanta? He's a like like literally everybody down there's sucking and sucking nick unless they like something, that's a bullshit bullshit if you're gonna put the comparison, so you shouldn't even put those comparisons. Really don't want to agree with made it easy for me. I hate to agree with you here because you're exposed to a little more in Atlanta. But to see here, he's already a dancy asthmall do you think that he

hugged And that's a different story. But if you're going to compare to two, she's been living in Atlanta all that time. The niggas is eating so I want to see here, but a straight guy, let's not sit here and put us here in Atlanta, you would believe that a straight guy I would get what I'm saying, right, you snig out here fat chicks getting sun every So? Is it because he the celebrity? Is it because like? Is it because he lives in Atlanta that you believe

that he would a guy talking about big girl? Let's because there are fetishes over big girls. What I said was, and this is not to offend no big girl. See what what I said was, let's not act like like, okay, even if he did fu shorty, let's not act like we're surprised that people wouldn't believe that he funck shorty like it's usher a cute sure, like fashionable blush and ass nigger like with dimples and ship. We wouldn't just

think that that would be his tightness. I think there's something wrong with it, but it was shocking the people. Like That's all I said. I hate to say that it came through my mind because I tried to push away from societal norms from me too. But I'm not gonna lie. Even his track record didn't make me think he was working a girl. But he hasn't datedn't even dated,

He hasn't even been late to bad. She was whack, Bro, it's not because she was just whack and I was at the Daisy and like, Bro, I've seen banging as big ship, y'all have got to be fucking me. If y'all don't think that these celebrities are out here busting down busted, not but because she's been. But that's what everyone was saying. Ain't no way in hell he fought that big girl celebrities down bust downs. They are maybe me gooes, bro, but true Meg fucking fatty whop us

not a fatty wap bro. Bro. What okay? White people know who Usher is? Are you out of your mind? Twenty years? So that means that can't back how huge he is. This is a list like R and B singers, Bro, are you out of your fucking mind? Brott. First, he was differently from loving him bop because that's what he deserves because he's sucking fatty him. Usher has been getting fucked unshure. Wait, Usher has been getting fucked since he

was ten years old. So that's what I'm saying, he's been getting pussy heads, blow jobs, wait, since he was ten years old. So the fact that us we've been sucking for ten years, that nigg has been sucking for probably forty as we've had sex, we've sat here and done things, and guys, because we've gotten bored with one thing, let's try another thing, like the sperience another thing. Right, So it's a very It's possible that this could be a fetish for him. He could be fucking big bitches

on the love. I don't think it was a big thing. If she was a different big. He was big, and everyone kept saying if it was an I G. Model, I wouldn't be surprised. That's all. People kept saying that it was her size. That's what she's saying. It was her side. She could have been a saying model, yeah, ye bad as I'd be like, yeah, you that bitch. So but let's keep it a thousand. Come on, now, we don't associate certain ship with other ship. The fact

that it happens, Okay, that's the surprise of life. There are things out here in surprises every day. That's what keeps social media bossip. Uh, motherfucking um. That with the other one in shade Room. That's what keeps these sites open to the ship that we don't think comparison was not at all the same like cele But that's because just saying it has not been to do it one looks get on one. Don't Wayne is getting better pussy than Fatty Wap because he's Wayne. He's bigger than that.

He's got better pussy than that. He's cat. That's bullshit because you're saying that if I be here and show you some of the bitches that I know personally don't fucked Wayne, you'd be like, Bro, she fucked Waynefetty. But I feel like that we're putting these men essentially, that's all they are, on a pedestal because of what they do for a living. Oh my god, he's been in

the game for twenty years compared to whatever celebrities. But to think that celebrities don't fuck, they're regular men, bro, So to think that usher at the end of the day because of who he is, what this bitch? And I'm going based off of the comments and the disgust that I saw, the disgust that was displayed through men through women, and it's just like, Bro, it can happen and are getting Yeah, I have a bigger chick. If it came out that he sucked you, thank you, you

got shades. See not the same crazy say that bitch looked like she grew up on bankhead, Like I just don't see it, nigger saying your heart right the security for her, I just didn't see it, Like I just didn't see it. If it was a different type of that says a bit that kept herself a certain way. It don't matter how big you are, it's all about your sty your person that your character surely look crazy.

Come on now, I'm come on, just about her being big, she looked crazy, had a good time, and he asked at Lisa, and she's like, plantaga, this is what we're gonna do. I'm what are you gonna say? Over? But he's right though out you bad I at right now, don't do that. Don't do that, don't do that. Ship all right. I'm sorry, But like I believe a certain caliber and like I just feel like you know the pussy you can get. Okay, Well, I hear you. I still think that a straight man will suck a fat

bitch before he would suck a fucking guy. Who said that straight. He's saying straight, are you? Why you? Why you sex? He got to be straight? He he's married to a woman right now. He's never wouldn't be bisexual. But that's what I'm saying. Can you go with the bullshit? Why are you trying to do? He ever come out and say I'm not gay. I don't funk niggers in the ass my week days. He never said that talking about straight Asia. But he didn't go against the dudes anything.

Why he can't nigga? Why he can't I'm brilliant idiots. So Charlottage did say, he said, I feel like some things you hear are just sucking untouchable, like what I'm gonna do tell you anything? Like No, some things are just beneath you to answer, like that girl did a press conference. Didn't do so answering to that, fine, but I did think it was sucked up. He said it was a steam booster to bring her on stage. Apparently a lot of them said that. They said that that's

why they choose those types of girls to bring. Yeah, she did that. You find her piece for twenty million, right, because you can't prove who then gave it to you? I love it, they said a checkout girl song. I see there's someone coming, like very few. She was like, how much? Just someone out verifying the story that they were at the days in together by our cameras. Right, No, ship,

y'all got to pull the footage bad. I'm sorry. I don't think it happened even the way to describe it, the bound like the dude came to get you, but I don't. Man. Okay, Well, anyway, so this week, and I actually chose this topic because so I listened to the Sociameless podcast, um that Tahoe is on with Passport Cutty and Reckless. But you know what, to the point that Cutty almost seems like she's just got the most patients in the world. Okay, so you think women are horrors?

And and why is that She's just be like, Okay, I'm gonna let you talk. But no, no, I never heard you say that. I'm just saying that. So we're getting into the horrible decision for this week, and I wanted to talk about this because it's something that we've all done and I'm sure even some of our listeners do the single ones who are having casual sex or the ones who are in relationships and not um having sex like one of the listener letters that we got.

So the horrible decision that I wanted to bring up and discuss today was fucking to fuck and that's it. So I wanted you to introduce. I don't want to tell the story, but you've been talking to a girl that you refer to as the no Come girl, and so you looked like beautiful So you're not. Yeah, so I'm just curious. You're you're single right now, but this is a woman that you have dealt with on It's been over ten times. It's been over ten times. Okay, so this is what I want to know. You weren't

coming when you were sucking her. You also clearly didn't have the emotional attachments to where you made her your girlfriend. So why yet, No, he wasn't coming. You didn't write that to me. Mandy was trying to tell me. That's what I'm saying. One time they did, they fucked for thirteen times, but he wasn't coming to where her name was the no Come girl? What psyche? Or for what reason would you fuss with somebody you know? It's not aesthetics, isn't making you come and that you don't see a

future with what for what? We had great times together. We had a really good conversation. The sex was amazing, although they were no climaxes, they were man. We fucked on every wall in my two three duplex floor house, like we did everything in the world. Do you think she looked me and my eyes just so seductively my thrones and she makes sure it asks out the way

so I can see were just now right? We just recorded arching it back, looking in the eyes like we literally didn't because when we first started, she would go mad hearted, right, and I'll be like, yo, yo, you gotta slow down. Directions, God damn, we know did You'll not listen. We're trying to tell y'all we know how

to suck. I feel like I could do a contest at this planet, right, So this is no no. So I brought this up because right now I'm currently at a at a point where I don't want to suck someone unless I see a future with them or less I know they meet my sexual like you change, no absolutely, which is why I'm no. I'm not absolutely. I do. I tell, no, I tell and I tell Cristal all

the time. Bro I'm not sucking just the fun. So that's why if it's a nigga that I can't see a future with, which is why I do the sex thing in the pictures beforehand, because if you're not gonna because if I just if I'm shallow, if I sit here and I want to funk you and you look fuckable, I could put you as a body I mentally would love to have somebody that that can just please me. Want the future with someone. Why do you lead with

sex before you know? Because the people who I want a future with, like Lawyer Bay, that's not how we lad with me and with me and Liam seven Footer, that's not how we lad. Was saying, that's what you do. Then me and me and Laurie Bay have been talking for three years. I'm I'm saying, if I do this, if I want to know, if I sit here and there's a guy that maybe I'm not gonna lie, I'm shallow.

If I don't like your job, if I know you're not financially where I want you to be, if I can't look at you and see a future, he has tattoos on his face, I'm not bringing you to a corporate event. Four years down the line to where my coworkers have to see you with you said, that's why

I do the sex thing. That's why I do the sex thing because to me, if I can't put my finger in your ask, if you're not into the kinkyship that I want to be in, if we can't go to sex clubs together, if I can't sit here and experiment and get those cravings out, I'm not just gonna suck you just a fuck like if you haven't made

a bit squirt. If I can't sit here and put a strap on before you absolutely, Oh, I talked about all that could I and that there was a nigga, the DC nigger was in my phone and all he wanted. He just kept talking about how you wanted to out of me, Da da da. I wasn't really interested in him, It didn't matter would be interested. I wasn't interested. So to me, you're gonna let me suck you an ask? If not, I don't really think we're compatible. You're telling me if if you meet a man and he won't

let you fucking an ask, you can't be with him. No, So you're not listening. Everyone knows I have categories so you're either a friend, a zaddy, a body, or a boyfriend. Right now, I'm good on my money. I don't need a zaddy. I don't even want no more sugar daddies. I mean if they come along, you know, I don't need any more. I don't need anymore. I'm actually good. They're all acting like friends. Those you know, those are friends.

But I look at guys too as either I'm going to fuck you and you're gonna be my body because I do have sexual needs, or I look at you as possibly we could build something later. Okay, well that's just me and Ty said. You said, I can't anyone anywhere if I can't see a future, which is no, which is why I've been absentent, because I've had mediocre

dick with niggas, with bodies that weren't pleasing me. It's which is what I'm saying to me, and I have sex again until you fu somebody that you think that I know, which is why I'm waiting on Lawyer back. No, I'm not. I can Lawyer Bay and green Eyes, which I'll see green Eyes. Let me tell you something. You just haven't met nobody to make you shat at everything. That you think about what you're talking about right now.

That's so you've just been you just keep working with mediocre niggas based on whatever it is that your criteria is that you keep choosing these niggas. Stop doing that because you keep picking them on these are your choice. No, no, no no, stop talking over me. You can't do that. But I'm telling you on your show right is go ahead. The reason you're going through the things you're going through

and your relationships are based on your choices. When you find somebody that just fux everything that you're talking about right now, you're gonna do whatever the funk that nigga wanted to do. I'm telling you that's how woman know. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I know you ain't gonna agree with me, But when y'all believe in somebody, you're gonna sunk with them. I'm not with them. I think there's a lot of things that I've done insip because I

was with and the same and the same men. For me, there's a lot of things men have done with me that they never thought they were because they wanted to keep working with me. A lot of women they've cut off a lot of things they had to stop doing. That's what happens, though, when you really funk with somebody, you change up a lot of ship and it'll come to it later. Bro, there's a difference. I'm talking about the same way you were just working with your nigga

and the same way missing condom. You didn't want to be with them long term. That wasn't in your mind emotionally. You were not tied to them in that way sexually. They did not make you come. They did not please you to where you were like, oh my god, even though you didn't come, how are you pleased? And you're not even coming going through the money, Why would I keep sucking you think I ain't had nobody she used to another girl, which now they're sucking each other. You

never had good sex that you didn't come from. I won't suck them again now I used to come, Like to me, I want to fill the orgasm. I don't really curious about what other people think about it. And see, I don't give that a really good sex having came from I'm not fucking. And that's my thirteen times I said, I say fucking to fuck because in my eyes, you're fucking just to go through the motion. If I don't sit here and have an emotional attachment to you and sexually,

I'm not being pleased, Why am I fucking you? Which is why I have the problem of keeping all the same niggas from my past. You know, nigga, I piste on fucking sucking all my niggas. I've been sucking for ten years. I'm the type of bit so this summer I was trying to leave all of them in my past and meet new people, and it hasn't worked for me. That's what I'm saying. I'm not gonna sit here and fun. People who I don't see a future with or be

are not sexually. You're just waiting for somebody to make you feel that, which is what she said. Sounds good yes your face and you're like, I can't do this. You gotta end date. You have a time, you have a reason of space that you want to cleanse yourself the people you're lying you, you're disrespecting the people that who are who are truly on that mission. You're just waiting for the right dick to suck. That's it. That's it. You're not absolutely so, you're just tired them. You don't

really want to, right, So that's why I'm asking. So that's what in the psyche. So the letter we got, she wasn't even really feeling him, he wasn't initiating sex or that's all they did was when he initiated the sex. Why do you think people do that? Like? So me and Wheezy text and I was like, why did you keep sucking him? And you weren't emotionally tized to him? And he wasn't pleasing you? Food company and I was bored. She said, food company and she was bored. We both

like Game of Thrones is last year. He would live three blocks away. We used to eat and watch Game of Thrones. I didn't know a lot of people wind up in long term relationships based on those, and it's scared. This is just a neighboring thing, you know. I mean I didn't like really fucking him, but it was just like, Okay, we're eating and now we're drunk. You cute and see. Sex to me has become such like a fulfillment that I that I seek that I don't want to that's

to me, it's sucking. Just I don't want to go just through the motions anymore. That's kind of where I guess I went sexual anticipating sex. I mean I hung out with him, and I think they're like kind of different from how he's describing because we didn't have that banging on the wall great sex. But yeah, this is just someone I had a company with and was like, all right, maybe I'll suck him. We had motherfucker, don't talk about no Comb girl. Her name is no Come girl.

She used to listen to the show and be mad. She was like, yeah, Dick is broken at the wall, Like, um, I think that once. I think with men, I think with people, Um, mental sex is mental. Yeah, And once it locks in, whether it's I'm not gonna come, once you say I'm not going to come to yourself, or you're not like or if it just became a thing in my mind want to come. No, once you say he's saying like once it's in your mind, like, oh my god, it's never gonna happen. It's not it's not

gonna happen. And I did come the day of that did come. I knew at one o'clock that I was going to come that day and we didn't fun till eight nine o'clock at night. We weren't even together, and I just felt I knew that that was the day and it happened. I just think it's mental and we had a mental block, and we made it a thing and we were doing everything we could to make it happen, and it just became aim too much. And then especially once it became vocalized on the show and ship like that.

But then it's like a thing you got to conquer every time. Nothing is worse than when I've learned to give in. And this is what man I'm with that care about me, that are coming all the time for me, when there's a session where they're just not coming giving and I'm like, okay, it's not gonna happen. I feel and it's okay. And honestly, like I've had men told me like I'm happy you haven't like look having right now.

But in the morning, whatever we can read, we was battling because, like I said, she hadn't come either, and obviously I want because I made her come first and ship after that. I guess she was just struggling with it. And maybe I'm maybe I don't know, if this nartissistant. Maybe I'm just an evil nigger. I just wouldn't do it. I just wouldn't come for I don't know why. I don't know why. I think it had to been in

your head. After that, I wanted to I want to get to this question because this girls wrote us a few times wanting this question answered, and Mandy wanted to read it, and I said, I feel like this is the blind leading the blind. So we're gonna ask you what you think. And I think we all been there too. Um, I'm not gonna go too crazy because I want to answer another question, but let's just get to it. I have been chronically single for basically what seems like forever.

I've dated people but never quite make it over the relationship finish line thirty one, literally on every dating app and find myself matching with assholes. Body done, Let's move on. How shut the next question. There is no fanticism anymore. Everything starts off like a normal conversation between two people, and then I slowly find out I'm speaking to a douchebag. I've listened to your podcast episodes and it seems like y'all have this ship to a science girl. On the episodes.

I try to slipe in different locations I'm starting to feel like a needle in the haystack vibe, except the needles become a smaller and smaller. My male friends say that I'm intimidating because what I have going for myself beauty, brains, wildly compassionate, immense sexual appetite. But what's my problem? What am I doing wrong with these apps? How can I find someone to at least take me out to dinner before he wants to eat me out? Most likely she's

doing too much. I have a friend put post the wildest pictures and talks while raunchy, and you know, you got to speak to the boy and the man, you know, like just just not. I can't introduce you to my mom, Like I can't like you just you're a wreck, You're a hit. It's crazy because everything that you're suggesting right now is not her. She doesn't seem like she's doing the most. She doesn't seem like she's posting over flirty pictures. Because I think you have to look at it too.

I've been watching Being Mary Jayla. I don't think doing the most means your your physical looks. I mean you could be doing the most by pressing too hard for men you could be doing the most by edging it on that you want to see them trying to get a day. You could be doing too much right now, I mean now looking at her pictures, Um, I think that she and she she does have some good qualities. Year Um, maybe she's looking in the wrong pool. Online

people are We are instant gratification fanatics. We are a minute to minute to minute. We are looking at I G. Pictures and fame and ship like that. And it's unfortunate because a lot of us are rather shallow, even if we don't I'm shallows, but the swiping makes us very shallow. Swiping, for example, she's saying dating apps right, so that heat a guy in a bar like he, You're gonna go off the vibe more than you are the face. It's just an instant gratification swipe. And when I do it, no, yes, no,

sometimes I don't even click to read about them. Yeah, you know, I swiped a white dude recently because in his bio he says every weekend, I'm in Harlem on a hundred and sixteen doing this kind of rallying blah blah blah, And I was like, Okay, eat that cute Bush for us. Okay, turn me on that you're doing that. I'll take a guy who maybe not be that attractive, but it says he goes to Columbia law school. What about a guy Okay, isn't the most attractive person in

the world. So do you think do you think maybe she's reaching for what she wants that she needs to I'm sorry, we're not just talking about yours. You may not be her type. That's fine. I'm not a lot of people's type, and that's fine. But I'm able to own that. I'm older. I'm probably one of the oldest people on my timeline. You are the man. A lot of people ain't really trying to work with that. She, in my opinion, isn't one of the She isn't one

of the most attracted people in the world. Um, and so trying to shop yourself right, I think she wants to striggle you because just trying the advice she shot herself to people that have this shallow mindset, they might just only have one thing in mind. What I would do if I was her is to be the best person I could be. Get to school with your money, go like, be a great spiritual person, go into a different type of space that aren't really judging their picks

on people's looks, looks. I actually, I think that's actually and then you'll find really quick we a lot of men are feeling it. And the people who find that type of love stay together. Mom. They aren't there for the shallow things like materialistic and let me post a picture of me and you in San Jose or you know, we're going into over here. He brought me this type of bag and he's doing this fort for Valentine's Day.

This that's the world that we're living in right now. Socially, all of these social apps, even if people who intend that they're looking at your picture looking to see what you can do for them, and then all right, yeah this is good because you're going on a what you can see, what's it's a photo, I think, and all you would say that maybe to steer away from the

dating apps, steer away from the social media. And if you're in church, if you're in school, if you find yourself around friends and you guys go to certain hangouts, maybe that's those are the areas maybe you should look to meet guys because then they're meeting you on face value and it's not. I have to tell you this. To these dating apps, while you can meet people to have dates, you have to realize too, which people are constantly telling me. Tender is a hook up app. Bumble

kind of is. It's that Instagram advice outside of us telling her to look elsewhere, just because I feel like she asked for dating ap advice. Why not? Um. If you think maybe we have had success on dates, it's probably because I have brought some up. I haven't really had too many terrible bumble dates. But I think it's because I make people meet me immediately. I don't play too much back and forth and forth. I don't want to like you too much because texts are so premeditated.

You can be funny in text because you had to think about it. I like to talk to someone for a few minutes and be like, do you want to grab a drink? I'm on person, what ever, and meet quick, see if the energy is there. If it's not, it's not once I know from there if those drinks were great, those were the best dates happened. Just like you said, I'll never forget it. The best dates is where I don't even know what happened, and it just goes and

goes and goes. When you meet someone first and then they get your vibe, you get their vibe text, it's gonna be easy for a dude to want to fuck you. They're not really gonna talk to you like that in your face. Online it's easy. Oh you bout it or no. I don't like to play the text game. I think you should meet people right away once they get what I'm looking for. By that second day, they already know how to treat me and talk to me. To be frank, because they really don't give a funk about trying a

bit that they've never met. People aren't that bold, they're just not It's very easy to come in a bit you just met online and never have seen in the face the same way that you would in person. And I think it is a lot different when you get that meeting out of the way. For example, Mandy met a dude named Suits that she was super like into. They waited about a week before or a few days. What do you say that is if you would have met him sooner, I don't think y'all to have that problem.

And I agree like it was dragged out and then we just got to wear. It was just like, what else are we talk about it? You could just go get your body done, get some dope titty shorty and you know what you you see here and give that advice.

You'd be surprised how many bitches I know with the eight hundred thousand followers with their bodies done that, who who don't have a nigga on their line, who can't get a negota break bread for them for ship, who can't get a neigta take them on a date, or who only approached them like I got five hundred dollars for you, what's up? So you'd be surprised that body should doing her further than there's one other um listener letter that we were saying, can't keep a man more

than a night? Yeah, I know a couple of minutes. I got you. So. My husband loves to talk nasty, daring sex, which is fine with me. He also chokes me during sex, which I love, but sometimes he goes a little too far with the dirty talk. He'll say things like, now you see why all the other bitches want this dick again, or you see why some of my exes want me back? Our male all admit he's the best sex I've ever had in my life. So yeah,

I get it, but I'm also very jealous. So say, for him saying that daring sex, it sucks up the mood for me. What should I do? Tell him? None of the other dicks I sucked tastes like this. That's but that was so great because to me, he's going to be like this any of us. Oh, I can't believe you said that. It's gonna be awkward. Hes gonna hop out that pussy y. What is you talking about? Other bitches? Just any other like you always disrespected me.

I just thought you like that type of ship. I thought that's the type of ship that turns you on, right, So, and that's sometimes you gotta hold the mirror in from the motherfucker people I know that's right, hate to taste of their own medicine. Man, and yourself. If it's something that's making you feel uncomfortable, I think it's definitely something

that we say all the time. Communication is key, and it's something that you need to bring up to him and maybe let him know, like listen, don't bring it up like a problem because the nigga was a problem. He's going to be defensive say the same ship to him. Because men's egos are very frangile. His dick won't even participate no more. He will be like, what, I'd have a little bit of a different advice, But well, now I think that's that's great advice it is. Tell him

you'll dictate. I do agree, though I don't like talking about it outside of the bedroom because then I think it's like, what the funk You've been holding this ship so long? Blah blah. I like to catch it when it comes out, like if someone calls me a name I don't like, and generally I like to be called a skank bish all. It's all that, but it's a little too early on. Then I say something like you know what I would love to be, but not tonight. I'll let you know when I want to be. Well,

I hope that actually was good. At yeah, I wouldn't have thought of so I'm glad that was good. Damn that advice that he gave about me is someone outside of a day in two Sorry, say a d T right definitely, plus the bottle shape like a dick, and I really miss dick right now. I'm around ladies. I love coming on your show. I'm so glad. I love you coming to. Look literally it's coming. We love when you come to. If I ever sucked you to be so embedded in my mind to make you calm now

that you said that, I's just like you can never happen. Well, where can I feel like? You have a big dick? I just get the energy. I get the energy that he has a big dick too. There's a confidence and a motherfucker with a big dick has that's just it's like money. Nothing can give you that. And then some niggas once you know them, it's just not worth the headache. And he seems like a motherfucking headache the feet dude. Anyways, where can our listeners find you? Like? Where you be at?

Where can they find? I? Am on the podcast called So Shamely is featuring the honorable and amazing Passport Cutty Um. You can find us on iTunes, Google Play, in SoundCloud. You can also find me on Snapchat, Taho tv and look forward looking forward to shooting a pilot soon about my life and lifestyle that's going to happen um. And then on on Twitter reality Bites with two wise reality wid bites and I just took a lot of ship off,

a whole lot of ship every day. It's so funny because there's podcast that you listen to someone you're like, oh my god, I hate him, but then Cutty brings me back. Yeah, because I please fucking him. Cutty, and I love your podcast. We mentioned you. I know, I love it. I love a lot um and I really wish you two young ladies the best, and whatever I can do to help at any time, I will be so sweet and were like staying so yeah, yeah we

on the show. No, so I love and I think to likesh, Yeah, I'm like over here turning red, like I'll think you know what I think, because it's humbling when especially people you feel like, I mean, y'all podcast is bigger than ours, and when you hear someone say that to you, it feels really good. Well, that is the fans choice. Yeah, I'm a fan of y'all, So you know that that makes neither one of us any bigger. I mean, the fans chose listen to us, and we listen to y'all. We're gonna have to do a mash

up so shameless. You know, what can I want to do like a live show or like, like, I want to do a live show with like a mash up with both of us would be okay. I think we have a lot of the same, Like you guys have a although y'all talk about sex relationships, it's different than us. Oh, we already made a blood. She turned off the mic and left our episode. She was like, I can't believe I talked about eating pussy. Oh that's the thing I don't think. Yeah, I'm waiting for her to talk about

it on the show. She's like, don't you fucking dare? Yeah, she said, I never said I would never say this online. Yeah, you told some stories you wouldn't say. I went on shout out to Raquel Savage. I went on to the Savage Life podcast and she had me talking about something I damn sure said I wasn't gonna talk about on here. So um, anyways, yeah, shout out ricass Savage. If y'all haven't to do a mashup, definitely tweet them. I'm not on Twitter, but yeah, let's let's look it out. Let's

thinking it. Anyways, Guys, you can go ahead and follow me catch me at full Court Pumps on Twitter and Instagram, and make sure to go ahead and leave a review on iTunes, leave ah, follow us on SoundCloud and listen to So Shameless. But my favorite sociation this episode was the one um that last one where she said do you think me? Andy's aho said, well, well, and he was telling I was waiting, bitch. I was at work looking at my computer, like what, I had Twitter ready? Bitch?

I had Twitter ready to so you think I'm a whole? How you think I'm a whole? I was ready? I was, but then he was like, I was chilling laughing in the second I heard that ship. I feel like the dishes. What does you're gonna say? Everybody? That's good? Yeah, I'm done anyway. Yeah. I could go ahead and make sure you also follow the Horrible Decisions Um Instagram page at Horrible understore Decisions. Also listener letters, email us Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com, or hit us in the d

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