Welcome guys to yeah, another episode of Horrible Decisions. I'm your Grandmandy be aka Pantistan aka bitch everybody, it's again for my husband. I mean pleasing here. I blink twice. I blinked three times. Nobody helped. Oh my god. Well, guys, I'm excited we are bringing you another episode of Horrible Decisions, and this one I am joined by someone that I met last year. But also we just ran back into each other. So let me give you a good, warm welcome. Guys.
Today we have one of maybe are one of five white people who have joined us on here so occasions shout out to our On one hand, I feel like we were listen my friend the Arthur. The other the girl who wrote that book that I liked, right, the which bitch right, the Herpes girl. Damn, that's up. I mean, but she she talks about it openly self. She at Lex but that was Patreon, Alex Demo, Alex Demo, but that was who Lena Kay, the porn start. That's right.
So you're number six. We're almost getting there. But guys, who we are joining with today is Zachary Zane. He is a sex advice columnist at men's health and also a relationship advice columnists at Queer Majority UM. And he's also very active in the space here in New York. And I say that because we just ran into each other last week. Do tell us the team a very fine man. I can't say that, So tell us what they were doing. We want to know did you see this?
Was there come swapping? How nasty you can share? I don't care. Like, what's funny? Is we all ranted to each other? So of course is B y O B shout out to Daniel sat we were at? Was there a certain was it a a theme night? No? It was kind of just like Daniel hit me up, was like, hey, so we have a few people coming by tonight if you want to come by. And me and um my boyfriend had did the last day kind of at the nude beach together. So literally we were at the nude
beach all day that day. Let me go ahead and tell you before we got uh. So after Labor Day weekend, it just like there's no lifeguards, people can bring their dogs. And also just the temperature drops in New York. No one wants to be at a nude beach with a fucking hoodie on, you know what I mean. So I'm fucking exhausted. We spent like eight hours there. So we get to the house, we eat, he puts on the game. I'm like, oh, I know what I'm gonna do because
I knew he wanted to go to that. I was exhausted, so I went and put on my little teddy. When it took, the shower came out. We're watching the game on TV. So I'm like, oh, I got my little my little outfit on. So I started sucking his dick. I'm like, oh, perfect. He's like, all right, baby, okay, dress, We're gonna go to the Sexton. He knew I was trying to get him into the room so we could just fucking to sleep. He was like, I just know
we were going to go in the room. You were just we were gonna go to sleep, and I like wanted to go out. So we go out um to the sex club, and we didn't know what to expect. This was our second time there. He actually really enjoys it, um, and so he was like, you know, we'll just go with the flow. So a beautiful girl, because you were also at someone very beautiful, So a beautiful girl walks up to me and it's like, what's your stage name? And I'm just like, you know, to me, that's a tripper.
I'm like, I like my name Mandy coming to stay, you know what I mean? Stage name is a tripper name Bushing. So she's like she's like, no, it's like full court and I was like, oh yeah, yeah yeah. And then she's like, see, babe, you didn't have to be be oh. So she didn't seem like I was being so shine, Like is that Mandy? Do you know who is? Because I didn't see you with the new hair. Yeah you know, I told you niggas don't recognize you. But no. The last time um I had met you.
We actually were a part of a pro sex panel together last year in a s W and I had the long bundles in, so I get it. I'm also naked at this point, I believe where everyone's naked, so we're like, hey, this same so so I hate you. So we're literally drinking at the bar um and we do shots and everyone goes goes back to their way. So I actually wanted to start the episode off this way specifically because I wanted to talk about how crazy people think I am period that I'm in a sex
club during a pandemic. Yeah. I this is probably the first time I've spoken about it, just for the sake of like not necessarily that I was hiding it. But I definitely know that some people are like, oh, you should absolutely not be doing this. It's being responsible, You're making crazy. And the way I mean I just started going, it's like I'm going every week, but I just not going. I've lived there now, by the way, I'm actually you
didn't know that I woke up monthly. I'm just the guy in the gim suit who cleans up all the condoms afterwards. Um. But no, I like I the second time I went since it's like and it's very different, I think, than what people are expecting. Right. It's like when I used to go to s W there would be a hundred people people fucking all over the players. It's crazy versus now it's like like twelve of us. No, but we do get our temperature taken at the door. Um, And there is we love to see someone with a
mask on. There is hand sanitizer, and of course he has a bathroom. There's a shower if you if you feel like you want to get all the way clean first. I guess that's usually Daniel. Daniel be like here's a ball. I'm like, am I gonna do from the like fifty people in the bathroom? No, dude, Like we're not having sex right, Like there was this girl I wanted to that was there, and then like she went to the bathroom for a second and she came out and she
was like, should baby wife, I'll never forget. Oh, you can come go ahead right in. We didn't go to bath And I'm like, well now, But you know, it's funny because I've actually said I feel safer at the sex club than I did Home Goods. Home Goods allows a hundred and twenty eight motherfucker's in there at any
given time. Literally you go there, and yet there was maybe fifteen maybe fifteen people, and at least I'm going now with the people that I am seeing or dating already looking up, so I'm not going and like fucking random people. Okay, I did that the first time, don't know, but like I mean, like maybe I've done that, but like I'm gonna say no, um, yeah, it's different. I wouldn't have done this, you know, four months ago three months ago, like numbers have been super low consistently and
things started to like raise back up again. I wouldn't be doing this as if I was in Los Angeles right now where numbers are super high. It's just like you gotta look at the numbers. You gotta look at your odds. I'm doing as safely as possible, and like, so let's talk about it. How right now do you have safe sex during COVID or at a sex club? What does safe sex look like right now? Because we really said, ain't nobody wear a mask? While we now
it's actually did that yesterday for the first time. But I'll tell you that's a different story's story. But actually literally just wrote an article about this, Like I really was called what constitutes save sex? Because you ask certain people, answer is nothing Like it is whatever you want it to be and whatever your partners agree upon. Um, but you have people I interviewed someone who would suck like thirty different people are like I still think I'm having
say sex. These are partners I know, these are people that are getting COVID tested regularly. These are people part of the polyamorous sex positive community. That's what she said. That's not what I would say, and you have certain people are like, but that's what she feels as safe. It's it's that's what she feels as safe. And as
long as you have consenting partners. The only thing that's different about this, right because like when people often compared to HIV, it's like HIV, you of a consenting partner, it's between you and them. The idea with this is like, if you have it, you could potentially spread it to someone at the grocery store or something. So that's the
fear that you can give it to other people. But I think we're kind of realizing and I know there's like new data and information at all the time, but it's like if you wear a mask and someone else wears a mask and you're six ft apart, or you're at the grocery store and you're not in anyone like face her business, and you're both wearing masks, like you're not going to spread it, Like if you're being smart and good about it and doing the precautions, you're not.
So I see it more as being between you and your partners and what they can send to and what they're knowledgeable about. As long as you're doing ship right correctly, if you're walking out without a mask, you're going to the grocery store and coughing on ship Like no, if you're like be smart, be safe, But otherwise it's between whatever you and your partners feel comfortable with. So Liz Goldwyn, I don't know if you know who she is. She was one of our other white people that's right, is
not bitch. So she came during COVID and was basically like, I'm not seeing a lot of people, but we had both just got a PCR test and she was like, I feel safe. I want to see you. And Liz was telling me that she feels like we have so much to learn from the kink and b d s M community about safety with sex. She's like, I think that people need to be consulting with them and how
they use precautions. Because she was like, nobody else has safer sex than people that are into and it was a great point and she's like, and everyone's leaving them out. They eve been the one who've been using masks, getting tested regularly, asking for space. Are they allowed to touch each other? Who else was doing that? Ship? Nobody in the same with the poly community to like they really have this down in terms of they've always been thinking
about how this affects my boyfriend's wife's girlfriend's husband. So you've always been taking into account multiple people, and like even me, like I never let my married niggas sucked me wrong, you know what I mean? I was like, we got to use condom the irony. What I don't know if you're saying that you don't know what you have, No, it's not that I don't know what I have, but protect their wine. Yeah, I mean that's what I was. I've been thinking with the wife in mine, I don't
want to ruin your marriage. I don't need you bringing nothing back. And I do have And at the time, I was having casual sex not only with married men, but seven and my other lovers. So to me, like, yes, as someone who was having multiple partners, That's why I was such a condom stickler. Now reminding me of people who are like, I can't do that with you because you know you live at home with your mom. You know what I mean, she could get COVID. Man, I'm
worried about you. Same thing. I mean, you know I get that too. I tend to be much more careful and like use condoms with women as opposed to men. I think a lot of it just comes down to the fact, like when you're having unprotected sex with men on grinder all the fucking time, like they're used to getting gnera in clamydia, you text like like I don't want to perpetuate this, like stereotypes like gay men are
like slutty and doing the ship. But in New York, every game man I know gets gonoree and clamydia once a year. If you're like sexually active, it is just a very common No, I mean, because I kind of just thought this was in the community that I know. Oh no, it's just it's fine. Maybe it's that they go to P Town. If you guys don't know what P Town is, Providence Town is in Rhode Island, Massachusetts. That, yeah, I'm thinking of probably Providence, Rhode Island. Province Town is
on the Cave of Massachusetts. The town is like a place where the gays, much like a fire island if you've ever heard of it, just come together to fund each other. Actually, Vinnie was telling me Benny's a friend of the show in our assistant. He was telling me how oh my god, there's this doc Dick. It's on Google. Bit is what is about? But are we to put this out there? You know a lot of people listen to It's that one to one commercial commercial provin It's
been there for like decades. It is a known cruising hot ST's underneath the boat slip. I'll let you go. Five star reviews and one one star reviews on Google. My name okay, Daniel says, I only visit here when showing to a curious p town guest, although I did find a twenty dollar billed in the stand. Please the sign open to all lawful purposes right, And they've got
a picture of Daniel on there that he took. Here's another one awesome spot that a bit sandy definitely will recommend if you're looking for a real romantic en or next to the water under the moonlight, will definitely come back. Don't forget your papers. I think people are trolling with you. I think not Renee left that review has you know a few he's a local guide. He's got a start on that yelled certified or something. I am very shocked. So when I heard about Dick Doc, I googled it
just too. I was like let me see that fine, And I couldn't believe the dick doc was on Google. I saw a guy I like, I've definitely gone, not during COVID, but I've definitely gone and like fucked people there. And I remember seeing this guy called this like older daddy, maybe in the sixties. Like I don't know how long he was there, but I see him like finish, get up, go to like the ocean, and I just see him like ship out like so much semen like literally like bads.
And I was there like, yeah, it's time for me to go. Yeah, I think I think I should leave now. But I remember just saying what you saw the semen like when you like shoot out, see like you I mean, maybe not, it's like this like farting, queeping. You just feel like your bootle is loose. I was like, what how many loads did you just take? Not that I am sex shaming at all, We've all taken our fair amount, flad. I've just never seen that happen. And I was just like,
was it was? It was just an image that's forever burned in my head. I'm drinking something like that has a consistency of it's oh wait, let me read you at Mandy. We could get into renewed ship, but I just want to know stuffing to post the real quick on the Dick Doc, Come one, Come all, the most notorious game like they should today, we embark on an adventure to one of the most notorious gay cruising spots
in the world. It's an open secret for years. Gay bye and curious men come here to uncover their quote unquote darkness. Much like a bath house. It's often anonymous glances and body fluids or exchange more than names and formalities. And yet the sex can be passionate, wild, ecstatic, even oddly intimate. Under the Dick Doc. There's a magic that
happ happens involved in our history. I sat down with Brad Tantra Code from North Carolina to talk about how the Dick Doc can really help men get into the magic of sex and when they engaged, and it goes into so many stories of people at the Dick Doc wasn't magical for you, Za, This is such like honestly an exploitative, like funked up peace to write that, like like like why are we writing about Like, oh, there's a subset of cruising culture and let's just expose this
to the rest of the world. We're telling you yeah, and I go lie, we damn near probably been bigger than an article written nobody read the damn I do. Have you Have you seen women at the Dick Doc? No, okay, no, no, I don't know. There was like a hag was like I want to come. You know what I'm saying. Oh no, it's not. It's like the guy also described as man, it's like a dark, seedy cruising area and like the eighties and nineties you also see like syringes and ships,
you know what I mean. They have to go underneath. The guys at the Boat Slip would have to go every morning and clean up like the drugs and the ship in the past paid at the Dick Doctor. Some people like like, you know, no, So all it is is like the boat Slip, which is above it is like this like barpool open space. And then just the way it's set up is there is this underneath area that is not It's not like an official place that
you signed into that you walk into. Just underneath it is a dark, sandy area and motherfucker's just no they could go there and get they handled exactly or poked or sucks or whatever it is. All it is there. Well, I want to go ahead and get into our vanilla ship. Our vanilla ship does come from Daily Star. Um. And because we have a man with us today, I did want to ask you as well, UM in guessing because men reveal the three words that they love to hear
during sex. Now it's big. Now we've had, we've had, we've had a conversation regarding um dirty talk in the bedroom. But these are actually, um three terms that or three words that men really enjoy hearing during sex. So before I read the top three, I would like for you to guess maybe two three word phrases that you enjoy hearing during sex. Wait, so they're like they're literally three words. Uh, fuck me, daddy, harder me, daddy, daddy, fuck me harder,
give me one more. It's your pussy. Oh okay, I still think I still think it's so big? Is it? Oh? I tell everybody it's there pussy. Okay, So are you all ready? Are you all ready to find out? So for the ladies listening, these are the top three phrases that men loved to hear while they are fucking the dog shit out of you or damn we just talked about I just came, you know what I mean. So we'll start the start on the phrase that is at
the very bottom. Okay, I love you? Oh wait, I thought I'm thirteen percent of men want to hear I love you while they're fucking you never. I mean, we've been married for fifteen years. Then you can say, maybe you could say that. So we'll go to number three at seventeen percent, as Wheezy's guests, You're so big. That was seventeen percent. At six percent, it was that feels good sense? And then are you all ready for the one that had percent of the vote. I'm thinking to Daddy,
please don't stop, so please don't please don't stop. Um. I think that that makes sense because it lets your partner know that whatever he is doing is right and making in these rooms like Cosmopolitan normally does these things do they get men at a round table and they're like, here we are. I do want to know how these surveys aren't suck me, Daddy? Is it be I'm so try my ass? Or is it d it's so big? Well, because one thing that I've been saying is it doesn't
fit and that's one thing that I know. He actually said he likes to here because he hates that I can take the dildoes so like I take certain dialdos better than others. But when he gets to King Noir, like he tried to put King Noir's dick in my ass and I was like, no, it ain't been. He's like, I want to hear you say that about money, and I was like, well, all right, well maybe you need to give a break. Let me tell you break. I
said some ship one time. But I was so high when I said this ship, and I'll just be saying dumb ship. I let's hear yo high ship, you say dar and say. I was like he was trying to suck me in. It was like I can't remember what was going on, but like it's not that it wasn't fitting. Maybe I wasn't ready for dick. I was like, oh my god, it doesn't fit, but I'm gonna make room.
That's cute, but we know, we know we like saying paragraphs though in the middle of like she literally has a whole like go ahead and do she does her Wow, look at that glorious cock you're putting in my pussy today, thank you so much for stopping by the Lower east Side. So we're gonna go ahead now and get into UM. I decided to add Hope Facts to this episode. I love it. This one is actually very interesting and I felt it recently, so I was like, oh, maybe this
is why I'm coming so much. So Hope Facts for those of you who are maybe listening for the first time, UM, and shout out to maybe the white people you're bringing over. Our Hope Fact segment is just facts about sex that maybe you didn't know. This actually says that a strong sense of smell makes you more orgasmic. Did we did you? So? Actually, it's saying that it's not even about like smelling lavender
or candles. It's actually the smell of vaginal fluids and and sweat that can make your sexual experience more enhanced.
It says that there is a positive correlation between a heightened sense of smell and having more pleasurable sex, as well as more frequent organ How the guy used to that did not like me to shower before sex, And I think there's a difference between like your natural musk and odor and b oh, and I think what they're going to say it's like that's your natural smell versus just like I think if you just like but then some people obviously just like sweaty and if you smell
like that in a live show, like something like what does body smell of my pussy? When I can smell my pussy, like I think it's not I'm not not talking about like when I'm even equal. I'm talking about like just me sitting here, like I think I have a nice smelling puss and I like the smell of it. But this dude be like, don't go in the shower,
Like I will say. The crazy thing is like, especially right now, like I am enjoying just a sex smell, but the smell that actually bothered me during sex was the smell of fucking condoms, specifically that gold Rounder Magnum ship. You smell that skin would ruin it a little bit. What's your guys favorite condoms? Mine, sk y and skin
And it's had a wide fit. Oh well, I mean I like Trojan, I like anything but the Gold Rapper, honestly, And I mean I've mentioned this often, but I think that there's and I don't know, I guess because we identify the gold Rapper with meaning extra large or something it is. It's bullshit though, and it smells awful. Let's not even talk about how it tastes. You know, there's I think a few articles I've read about like you're having a higher chance of getting baby after Magnum's really yes,
definitely don't use skin for what it is worth. And I used the extra thin skins which they have. Can they have the ribbed kind? Skin actually has a lot of options they do. I know who's like skin it's lifestyle. I'm pretty sure it's lifestyle. I feel like lifestyle. You're thinking bear skin um a lot of the way. We're not sponsored by any of these tims yet, but if you want to sponsors, we can. Really, you don't know. One of my friends shout out to Gucci and her
name is Anna, but she loves Gucci Mane. She designed a uh like a casing for this condom called one, and she was like it was on condom Like I guess she used to teach sex set and she's like, it's one of the only ones, like has the most durability. But I don't know if I mean I can gonna hold you. I got bored one day on Live and I have a variety. Now. I started like literally putting either my hand or my foot in these condoms because a lot of guys will sit here and be like,
oh it's too small. Oh I can't fit it, making it seem like they did. And I'm like, my foot fitt in this one, so I don't believe you. It's not that tight. I did my own experiment on Instagram Live. I didn't imagine if someone like screen grabbed out of Mandy. Now, I'd be so scared of what I got me, Uh, making lettuce and making a salad, and I was holding the cucumber and I was like, do y'all think that is expired because it's when it gets squishy and all
you see is a cucumber should never be squishy. Well that's my point, is expired. And it was right by my mouth and he screenshot at it and I was like, Wow, people are just gonna think I'm giving dick sucking lessons on the internet. Well, there was a there was a nice rain for the cucumber and en and go hold you on a nice little rain. R E I g N. I did not hear that at first. It said rain, What did you hear. I was like what it was
when the raining, I thought it was raining cucumbers. Alright, bitch. Anyways, we're gonna go ahead and get into our hord derve. Now. Our our hord derve is our sex tip segment and when we basically speak franch hord derve. Okay, anyway, we're actually gonna give this on to Zach for this episode. I actually wanted you to drop too. So you've already mentioned that you're bisexual. You have sex with both men and women, So I wanted you to provide a tip from the male perspective on a sex hip for sex
men with men and then men with women. I okay, so I think we'll start with men with man. I think we are so used to grinder and casual hookups that we do not do nearly enough for play, Like we just like fucking are so used to getting straight to business immediately and um, and that kind of carries
over even when you like someone. I feel like when I have sex with a woman, usually that sexual experience lasts like double as long as when I have sex with a man, like every single time, and just because like maybe you'll suck each other's dicks for like a minute if that like all to do with it being harder to come as a woman, and I think it takes more without like perpetuating gender norms. I do think it takes more to potentially turn a woman on versus a man's just like oh that's a dick and I'm
hard now. And with me, I don't even be seeing a soft dick's very often it's like it's it's just rock solid. Yeah, it's ready. I think it takes it just takes a lot more yeah, effort and where I mean like because also with guys, like you know, even when you have a bad sexual experience, I feel like most of the time if you come like okay, Like I'll go over to Grinder's a guy's house on Grinder and he would did not look like his pictures like funk,
I'm here whatever, I'm going to turn him around. I'll sex for three minutes, I'll come, I'll be out within eight minutes, you know what I mean. Like limiting, but so yeah, my bike surmads like slow it the fuck down. We're so used to like being these casual, quick encounters. And maybe I'm just speaking to like the slutty Grinder community but that is I know, like pretty much everyone I know, So I feel like that is a big
demographic of gay men. Uh for men with women. I think one of the big things is sex is not over just because you come. I think that's huge and I think there's a way afterwards because what I used to do and I think it was wrong. So I would like finish and then afterwards I'd like stop, I'd pause, I'd catch my breath, and he'd be like, hey, like do you want me? Do you want me to go? Like, hey, how are you? Are you it? It's kind of what I would ask, and they would always say yes, even
if they weren't. I feel because a lot of them were baby just like, Okay, he just finished, he's tired, he's done. I don't want to be a pain in the ass and asked for more. So I think to kind of avoid that, especially if you afterwards you finish, you're like, oh, are you good, and then they have
to be like, no, I'm not good. You need to finish me off right now, actually, and you should say that, and you should say that, but also maybe take the pressure off or afterwards it's like you just go back to eating them out or fingering them, like, don't necessarily like assume that they've come because you've come, Yeah, and don't necessarily make it that awkward thing of being like,
well do you want more? Because I can like if you want more, and that's how it comes a ch Yeah, just like we don't feel like just get just do it without asking. And I mean, obviously you have consent in the situation to keep going, but like instead of just pausing and then make it seem like it's a big deal or you don't really want to, just like you're still excited, you're still there, you're present, and then just keep going quickly inconvenience. Yeah, right right. I don't
like that. Well, I love those tips. I hope that you guys enjoy those tips. We are going to get into our horrible decision and it's kind of called sexplanation. How is it kind of called? I mean, because I don't. I'm kind of gonna start a kind of I like kind of because it ain't kind it's the name of my sex column at me, So I didn't, I didn't added added to it or whatever. Okay, So what we're gonna do is basically sex plain commen dating issues and sex.
So I actually I went ahead and picked through not only seeing what you had written, but I went through and picked um certain issues that I think a lot of our listeners go through, as well as maybe some that are just constantly coming up. So the first one is, and I got this one from your page, I'm constantly being cheated on? Is it me? What do I do pretty much to get to where I am not being cheated on? So you give a lot of advice and
all of the columns that you work on. So for someone who's listening and feels like every time I'm in a relationship, I've been cheated on, what advice would you give them, um to maybe not be cheated on in the future or eliminate feeling like it's their faults. Yeah. I think initially when I read this, a part of me was just like, oh, this like ship happens. But I think at some point because I was looking at
the numbers of like how often do people cheat? So if you're getting cheated on five six partners in a row, I do slightly want a victim blame you a little bit. I think there might be something that you are doing because you know, once or twice this ship happens. But if this is happening repeatedly, I think this is a pattern or behavior. So I think you're either picking or
wrong people. You're somehow enabling this type of behavior. Uh. Specifically for that column, I like the guy asked more and he just seemed to be someone with absolutely no backbone kind of whatsoever. Like people people know when like they can walk all over you. I say it all the time. People will only do what you allow them
to do. So to me, it is more so like if they felt like they could get away with it, or they felt like you wouldn't leave them for it, and then they're going to continue doing It's also I think just people don't like that type of they like, people want to be challenged in a good way. People want to like or want to have someone with their own opinion. So I think this guy, the way I read it was like, I think the women with them
were just kind of like fucking board. If this is yes man who's going to say yes to absolutely everything, let me decide everything. I'm going to start seeking things out elsewhereks I want to be with a partner or not someone who's always just saying yes whatever you want honey. So there you go. So you need a backbone, if you could pay you being cheated on, that's the advice. You know, it's harsh, it's tough love. It's tough love.
But I mean this is again, sometimes it just happens one to three times, but when it's when you're at six, seven, eight times, like every relationship, you're getting cheated on coming. So the next one is, um, we often talk about threesomes. Um, my partner keeps asking for it reason, but I am in no way interested in myself, which is also common. What advice do you have for someone in this situation?
Don't Yeah, it's boundaries. I mean, it's especially if what you agreed upon in the relationship is you guys being monogamous. Like if someone wants to have a threesome and you don't want to just make it clear, Hey, this is something I'm not interested in. Please don't keep asking me. Keep please don't keep talking about it. And if it's something that you know they really want to do and this is a deal breaker, okay, then you guys need
to potentially talk about opening up your relationship. I just think that people get especially women, have way too much pressure on them from men by having about having threesomes, because it's this ultimate fantasy thing, and we've got to stop the idea of thinking like I'm going to have this threesome to keep them, you know what I mean. I really don't believe that there's one specific sexual thing that you've got to do that will make someone love
you forever. Like I think that's bullshit. Good sex will keep you a little bit longer, but sex, ultimately isn't it. Love is not enough either. There's a lot of components to lationship, and about threesome is the thing that someone's asking for and you feel pressured enough to do with that person obviously doesn't give a because I wouldn't want someone to do something they weren't comfortable with either, agreed.
And speaking of that, that comes to my next question, because of course, bringing someone in as a third or even maybe a couple is a lot for a lot of people. Because now we're bringing someone else into our union, our relationship. The other thing is and I'm using slapping as the example, my partner is completely turned on by slapping me, but it completely ruins the mood for me. How do I tell my partner what he or she enjoys is actually a complete turn off for me. It's
the same thing. It's the same answer, you know what I mean. If you you don't have to do anything that you don't want to do, period, full stop. That's it. And especially when it's something like sometimes there could be things that are like relatively more harmless for you to potentially try and see if you like. But slapping is not one of those things. Slapping things that's very clearly like, yeah, I know I will not like this because I don't
like being hit. I feel very uncomfortable by this. And yeah, you say, hey, I know something that really turns you on,
this is not for me. And then also potentially giving different options of things that are like alternatives that you like that potentially they like to heying sapping, maybe she would be more the other speaking, like as opposed to For some reason, I interpreted that his face lapping, And I mean that's been a thing that I've had partners that enjoy that I've done it myself where on the tips too, that is oh my god, Like I rarely ask for it, but it feels so good to me.
I think I always forget to ask for it. But like yeah, I think it happened on accident. It was meant to be a face nesative. I was like, we keep going, but I like intense nip nipple sensitivity, but I can't handle like a clamp. But his lap is enough, it's perfect A quick yeah, did you see that? We were like, this was the first time actually at the
sex clip, did you see when I was flogging? I did, so this is where at the sexy on his ass though, there's like this whole little like contraption at the sex club and so honestly too, there's all these sex uh, these sex toys, but he has the cleaner, so I put the little phone on it or whatever, clean off the toy and normally he's slapping me. So we've had constant talks right now because I have felt completely powerless with him, and you see him. He's huge, He's very dominant.
He demands like all the attention when we walk in the room, he takes it all away from me. Like I feel completely powerless from him. Like people will literally be like, hey, you're cool, you're maybe even god damn what he bad? You know? And I think hard, But the person I'm dating is just the same way. They're constantly bringing energy from other people and I'm not used to it. But even but like that's our bring the attention.
This nigga has been named fucking I think even he ain't to the pool party with me and my friend was referring to him as Goliath. I'm like, Goliath tomorrow more bors coulda like you get all of this attract and I'm just like, I'm right here. So aside from even him demanding attention, like he has that or about him in the bedroom, he's very dominant. So when he allowed me to spank him, it was like super and I was trying to make it hard. I was like and he was like all right, all right now, But
I enjoyed that. So even even I think it's nice to take a step back and like you guys said, if you don't enjoy being slapped on the face, or if you don't enjoy being spitting them out, like maybe find somewhere else on your body to where they can still get their pleasure out of it. Um, but maybe
it's not going to ruin the mood for you. What an that maybe somebody wouldn't be into like personally, yes, and like am I sharing that but I can maybe if you could just give us one that was a situation with someone where you to bring it up and they were into it, and how you combat that and they weren't into it? This so I have I can say I have a puke fetish, Like I fucking love like puking on people puking on my dick, I puke
on their dick, like I love. Like I don't think it's already we already did call him like emin ophelia.
There's like a term for the kids, but it's specifically I like, how many followers here I know, But it's like, you know, it's one of those things where it's just kind of like it's almost an extreme version of sloppy head and like deep throating, you know what I mean, and just um, but yeah, I mean usually like i'll like asked like well, I mean usually get a sense, but like yeah, all asks just being like hey, I really want to suck your dick soaper hard, like yeah,
I don't really want to deep throat, and I'm like, yeah, I really, And then you kind of from there, I'm like, okay, so he's into deep throat, he's into rough head. Yeah I really want to puke on your dick, and I'll just say that boot playing. Will you take my tongue, You're gonna take my tongue, You're gonna take this finger, you gonna take this thing, You're gonna take my strap. And at some point like, yeah, I'm ended that. No, I'm not into that. That's too much. I said, okay,
and then they take a step back. What about you? Is there anything that you feel like you've had with a partner where they like to do something and you realize, oh, after doing it, I was you were not interested at all. No, But normally I feel like I'm the one, oh that gets them to an uncomfortable space. Yeah. I feel like I've like brought up three stoms with every single partner and they're not always into it, including you're the one
bullying people. And that dude like hospital Dick is one person that when I was dating him, he was not into the idea of me being with other women with him. He was like, I don't need that, like I need to be with you, that's what I want, Like I don't need us to fund somebody else, Like I don't
see the purpose of it. And I was like, okay, Well, I like both, and he was like, well, I like you, like he's very door ball, but like, yeah, don't you want It's like, it's crazy because I'll be honest with you with this, With this show, my mind goes to like way out and beyond. And it's crazy because the fact that my my nigga feels like we ain't done everything. Let me tell you, I got super drunk after a pool party um that we were with high I really
shouldn't have ate the edible. So we go home, we start fucking and he had never seen me this drunk. So he goes to bring me to the bathroom, puts a little pillow down from my knees and goes to lift up the toilet and me with this fucking podcast and how kinky he is, I'm like, I don't want to drink the toilet water. And I literally thought he was trying to make me drink toilet water. He's like, babe, I thought you needed to throw up, And the whole time I'm like, no, babe, you wanted me to drink
toilet water. You're so nasty. That's how fucking crazy this fucking podcast has made my mind go. He's literally trying to take care of my drunk ass, and I'm like, Pep, you're nasty. I don't want to drink toilet water, and he's like, your life. But I didn't throw up and I was like, hey, I'm not gonna throw up, but he like that. I mean, it was cute. But then it's you know, I think I'm starting to date, like, um, the woman he met there. So we've been dating and
she's so cute. She's the best, and it's nice dating someone who is like equally, if not fucking sluttier, just like I don't think to like were I call her my slutty angel. That's like my endearing turn right um, And she loves that. But it's just like it's I feel like so often it's tough when you're not quite on the same page with someone when you're just like, hey, I really like you, I really like you, and we're also going to funk everyone, but you know what, are
used to that? Like, I've just gotten to the point and I love it. Oh my god. When he goes out of town and I'm like, so, it's almost like he knows I'm gonna be disappointed. He's like, there's some bitches or whatever. I want to sleep, Blade Tennis went to sleep. I'm like, why go fuck them? Plussy? Oh my god, I think like Miami is the place he goes where I'm like, I know you're gonna get some and he'll call me in the morning and then the have and be like yeah, I mean like me telling
me that happen. It's so much fun and I love it, and like, I've learned so much about compersion through that. I learned that mainly from Aisha, who I think was on the sex Panel that's where you met her. We had her on our show. I should that. Damn no, no, no, I should she she was there that night. I don't know, but we made it. Aisha is a girl who runs the Violet b k wait you name. Her name is Aisha, but she spelled like y e asa. I think we are.
I was like, oh my god. He taught me a lot about compulsion, Like I first met her on Tender some years ago, and like she was like yeah, like I genuinely get joy from watching my partners with other people in intimate ways, like I've learned. By the way, do we have to believe her name out? No? She bought our show. She talked about it with us, like we talked about the sex we had on the show. Um, but anyway, she said in front of me and was like, yeah, we made out. I was like, did we? That was
after I drink toilet water. Concursion is really the opposite of jealousy, and like when you get to that point where you're like congratulating your partner for being slutty, like you're fucking there. And I think what's so important to know is compersion. People often think of like, oh, you're innately experienced this, And I used to be someone who was super jealous and seeing my partner talk to someone else, and it was a matter of being insecure, not feeling
confident in myself, not trusting my partner. Also, when I was monogamous, I think I was more worried of theun lying to me than actually cheating on me. Take up over a lie dude, more than I would achieved you fu somebody else. I'm cool, But if you lie to me and tell me you didn't, I'm done. And exactly, but I think so with compersion because especially the party, like,
oh I could never do that. I just want to be like I was one of those people who thought that and used to say that, and then I kind of like worked hard on being like, I really trust myself, I really trust my partner. I really love my partner. Word that conversion. Trust is the biggest thing, because here's what it is. I believe. I don't even believe it necessarily has to do with insecurity in yourself more than
it does the relationship. Let's say you could be a confident person, but you're not feeling good about this person with someone else, if you're not in a place with that person to where they feel like yours and you feel like you could lose them to someone else, or as though your sex isn't enough or you're not enough, but that's why they're looking at someone else. They've got to make you feel that. It's on both ends. It's yourself,
but it's also that person. If someone's not making you feel comfortable and secure, you're not going to get to a place where you won't be jealous. That's why the threesome, because they want it is a very fucked up thing to do. You have to make sure that that person that you're going to have the threesome with feels like this is about us, us enjoying our time together and
experiencing something new opposed to I need. But not only that for the men listening, um, it's it's also something with affirming the relationships, like even with the titles kind of mad and not even with the titles though, like with me and my partner. It's crazy because I felt like I almost cheated on him. The other night I was with my homegirl. We ended up making out, cuddling, it got crazy, but she was on a period so
we didn't suck. But I told him the next day and I was like, I think we may be able to, you know, I'll have a threesome together. And so I sent him her picture and he was like, yeah, babe, like she looks great, but I want you to know you don't have to be worried or anything. And he literally just affirmed like, if she comes in, you don't have to worry about me wanting to take her out or me wanting anything, like she's cool, let's have fun together,
but just no, you don't have to worry. And he literally like, real sure that I thought you looked great naked, and he was like, well, baby, you want to go join them? Literally that this is the guy you were talking about. She was like, there was a white man there. He was tall. Yeah, you look like a whole little attack. Even though you're hot, you are not in my mind many's white. But he's spore. He looked like a basketball
player he was. He was like, he's, well, my man is a little taller than you because he like, you need the wigger type. Though, no, I don't want to wigger. And I said, I don't want to wigger like and I want no Paul wall Bro. He reminds me of like Keaven Love with his hair grown out so like basketball. No, I mean he's on the basketball team, but he's talk anyways. And his girl had this little cute little linger right
she has. Like, so I'm telling my man like, you know, I've never had pink dick before, but they look really good. And he was like, you should go telling this you're We just had an episode where we discussed the sex club and it was like actually there wasn't like it was literally and that was like damn, I actually like as itterad and my man was like, well you should go. And it's weird because he thinks I have this this guard up to where I have not played the other
black guy that's at that Seth club often. I don't know if you know who he is there. He has blonde here and UM like literally, my guys, like, you know, I've given him permission, but you have to be comfortable. But I'm it's crazy because I want an MMF but for whatever reason, not with him, don't. I don't know where my mind is right now. Honestly, I think it's gonna take time. Like I think that you probably can't wrap around it yet because one, you're just falling for
this person. It's a new relationship and you're having this new experience and I think the rules of monogamy like you, but you're being a monogamous because you're feeling in love. And I think that's the other thing. When you're feeling like that. At least for myself, it's very hard to be like, well, I'm so into you, I don't want someone else, And I think this is no shade. I think when our puppy loves smoking, mirrors goes. And that's
why communication is great in establishing your boundaries. When that goes, and then you're like kind of out of that, you're secure, you know what you have with this person. You're like, no, you're getting too bad of an idea, and I think you can't get there yet because you're still in it.
I always say this to people, like people aways asking me, would you be open to being like monogamous again, I said, I'd be monogamous in the beginning of a relationship, knowing that it will open so you can like build that trust and do that. And I say that to partners to where they're like, hey, we like he kind of wants to be open. He's coming from this place. I'm like, start with monogamy. Start with three months. It's not the
end of the world. You guys will live or you'll cheat and realize this is not for me And I really hate this. You like that why you build that foundational trust you know you love them, you've had this time together, and then you can branch out from there. I would started start with start with what you want, and then just reassess. You know what I and I think. So maybe every three months, you know, I mean, reveal on this guy damn relationship. I want to power point
out you were fine. Now that we're branching into flights opening up. You know, Nick's got a little masks on and off. No one's coming down. I feel like, seriously, before we get out of guys, we are gonna get into our homemail real quick, because our wholemail comes from a freak home in need. All right, He'll said, Hi, ladies, I just want to start my email off letting you guys know how much I love y'all. In this podcast.
My friends put me on at the beginning of the pandemic, and I'm working my way through until I finished each episode. Only about thirty five left. Or you got a lot to go, let's go. This podcast has opened me up and made me realize I liked so much more than I ever knew, and I was already into some hole ship. Little backstory. In January, I made a tender I matched with this finance freak Terrell and my current boyfriend de Marcus. I hope these ain't real names, because I'm I'm reading
through it. So I slept with Currell literally two days after we exchanged numbers on a Monday. Alright, bit you you real detail bomb ass sex bomb ass head, and he ate my ass like no other. I had my first date with DeMarcus that Thursday, and he's been bay ever since. My issue is this Terrell fulfills all of my sexual desires I have and DeMarcus doesn't. With Terrell, I've gotten to fulfill my fantasy of eating ass, pegging, shout out to you, Mandy, and even getting Pete on.
All right, there's there's nothing romantic between us, just incredible sexual chemistry. He is so open sexually, and I love it because I am too. De Marcus, on the other hand, while a great lover doesn't do the nasty things I like. His dick and head are a one and he makes me come hard as fun, but our sex is still very vanilla. I've mentioned to him that I like different things like gay porn and piss porn to be met with ILL, and I know the oh to be met
with ILL. I guess that's what he says, and I know the relationship would be over if I ever attempted to go near his ass outside of sex. Our relationship is incredible. I feel like he's the one, but I feel guilty because this is the only issue I have with this relationship. I'm in a dilemma because I genuinely am happy with this relationship, but I ultimately am sexually unsatisfied.
DeMarcus and I have had conversations about different things sexually because of this podcast, in fact, and it all ends the same. It just ain't happening. I haven't slept with Harrell since being in an official relationship, which has now been a few months. And it's been and I've been able to hold out so far, but it's getting difficult. Um, I'm really needing those freak needs met. A bitch can only masturbate that tension away, but for so long. Please
help sign a freak co in need. And this is crazy because this is kind of what we discussed, even in our horrible decision, where she's hung up with not enjoying her sex but this man. Ever, she enjoys the sex with this nigga Terrell, but he doesn't fulfill her emotionally. But this other guy who's giving her everything she needs as far as a relationship, she loves being with him. The sex is cool, but it's not freaky enough for her.
So now she's in the space where I haven't sucked the nigga who sucks me amazing and freaky in months, but she she feels like she's about to break. What would you suggest because we also don't meant it was so far. He feels like she's about break and I feel for her. She feels I see the whole way feeling because I feel for her in the sense to where we have never suggested cheating bro so I'm not gonna tell her to cheat on this man otherwise is great.
I feel for her, bro ship. I felt like we were talking about like I can't even get my words. If anyone's watching on YouTube, Mandy put her hand over her heart and she's looking at the columnists. We have like hell, so aside from cheating, because we often say that communication is key and cheating is betraying, you start getting your sex needs met from cheating, you get obsessed with that sex and you don't stop, and you get
caught up. What would be your advice? And then we're gonna ask you as well as that, what would your advice be? I gotta be honest, be honest. I do believe that even though there's not a lot of fish in to See, there's also a lot of trash in the See. And and you know, like the nigga that you have to say you when you have a kinks and you know he's meeting your emotional needs, but I
don't believe those things go away. So if he's not allowing you to do with someone else, which much like we were saying, if you need to do these things, do it with someone else. If he won't allow you to do it with someone else, and like you're getting to the point where you feel like you're about to break bitch, I mean that's the same with like, you know my partner now, pegging is completely I ain't gonna lie, like I don't even thing, You're not going. It's the
tightest I've ever felt ever. So I'm just like nothing. I don't even enjoy trying to fit a finger because my nail don't. I've never, I've never he's not into pegging to the point where you, like my nigga has said, like listen, if that's really what gets you off and you need to peg someone, I'm gonna allow you to go do that because you're not gonna do that with me. But I'm also not going to be the one to
tell you you can't do something. And so that's the thing too, Like at this point, like yeah, he's meeting your emotional needs, but now you have to think Okay, So is this man controlling? He's telling me I can't do something with him, but is he also eliminating your
option to do it at all? I don't think it's controlling to have bound Like I'm gonna be honest with you, Like if someone needed me to constantly be on them, I'd be like, dude, I can't like maybe want of tries, I'll on you, but I don't want to get paid on So like what am I gonna do? Like I don't feel like I'm being Uh, what was I gonna say, like controlling? Because I'm saying you can't do this with me.
You're he's allowed to have his bound. It's just that the way that she's writing that to act as they're like she can't handle like it's yeah, I mean it's it seems like an open relationship is off the table. That's why it's saying that. It seem like and like it's been it's only been holding them, been dating this like two months, a couple of months, and she's already gonna break at this point, like like she can she imagine just like what about your six months from now?
What about you from what if you got married? Like the grocery store. That happens. What do you I feel like when people can't like, act on the things that they want to, they turn into a fucking animal. You'll look at someone, you'll run into a bathroom like that scene, and I may destroy the next thing. You know, you're getting Pete on the public, not Pete on in public. I took it too far, but you know what I'm saying,
it's like pet in public. I just feel like, So, here's the thing too like, And we talked about this before. It when sex becomes a lot for you. So what it sounds like is she met both of these guys within the same week. One the living ships out of her and let her live out her kink fantasies. The other one she saw is more relationship type. But now that she's kind of in more of a relationship with this guy, she doesn't want to cheat on this Niga to go get her king needs met, but this guy
isn't doing it. I believe that you have to be able to look at something and not feel like this is my limitator on Earth. Yeah, I feel like you're limiting yourself. You think that this guy is perfect, but in actuality, this might not actually be the person for you. Okay, with that not a match. And yeah, DeMarcus in Terrell ain't listening bit because I don't know. If I don't know anyone listening to name DeMarcus, you might want to ask you a bit about it. Tom Thilds are definitely
fake black names. You think that, you think? So? She was like, okay, his name is really Marcus, but d Marcus. His name is Darryl. But we'll go with any fake name I've ever given is so bad. Like I remember someone asked me, like, who the dude I was sing were these were these favorite black name growing up? And we was talking about it was to Quantus. I never to this day met to Quantis. Bro. I don't know where it came from me because I never heard, but nothing like me. I was so bad at lying about
this name. The guy was like, who are you fucking? And he's like, hurry, ever tell me before you can lie. I was like, Dike, bike Mike. So bad. To Quantus is not a word. The Quantis Kroger at Mississippi State University. Okay, is a competitive driver and uh is he he's a bus operator? Okay, all right, to Quantis Rashad White, however, did pop up for Orange County public records. Let's see what he did. Why, So this is probably who you don't one time you don't even remember. That's that's possible.
That's not that, it's possible, possession of cocaine and cannabis. Maybe I didn't did because I'm like bitch to quantis, I never heard about. But as far as in thing as always like, we're not going to tell you to cheat, but I think that as women we need to kind of be ready to wear that's what man, you ain't cheating?
Well no, she said, they together the relationship anyway, though, Zack, thank you for finding Like I said, you gotta come to horrible decisions last year when we did the panel and here we are, your lady sucking next to each other, to be like like literally like it took us the fun in the same room. Bring you on the you know what I mean, you know what's crazy, like the proximity. The last guest we had, I actually fucked. She sucked
my man kind of next to me. So look yes at us bringing on like you know, bring everyone together, you know, um so Za go ahead and let our audience know where they can find you if they can or cannot slide in them d M s um and what you got coming up or going on? If you're cute, you can slide. That's subjective. No, Yeah, Twitter and Instagram is anso the best way. Zachary Zane underscore the underscores after it, so z A, c h A, R Wise,
z A and E underscore. Okay, And that's on Twitter, Twitter and Instagram and Instagram all right, and um, where else can they catch your columns again? Like, honestly, that's the way to do it. And it's called sex planets. That's the best place to find I love it. And you're giving really good advice on there too, because I've already liked went Do and Red like super dope. That's why I wanted you for the advice that. Thank you, M. I do also want to let you guys know y'all
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my other podcast and UM it's Tales of Womanhood. So I'm joined by women every week to share their stories, their journeys on different things that we go through as women. And if you don't hate men, you can listen for Facts Sake podcast with a half white half half white. Okay, and he tells us happy he's got a little Latino in there. We talked about fund ship, different facts every week. Zach, You've got to get a podcast like this is great. It's not that problematic if you told a black person
you're really speaking well. I didn't guess what got cut out at the live show like bitch. I go to an HB said, I don't know what she said, but she cuts me out in Atlanta. But I say, you speak well because you don't speak like this. And when we listen to us, thank you guys. It's been yet another episode of Harvard Decisions. If we're not going to open the conversation, you just leave room for people to talk ship. And that's what makes its o unhealthy to me.
You know what I'm saying. And I understand they want to protect him and everything, but and by them. I mean, you know, his wife, I will say though TLC again is a messy bitch that lives for trauma. And they had a show about the mixed weight couples. Do y'all remember that? And people got bad? Did you care about this? Remember that they I don't know who is is working there that and how much they pay extra to come up with the wildest ship they can. But they had
a show about mixed weight couples. The fact that they call it mixed weight couples really killed me. And it was only four episodes. It's called Hot and Heavy, and it was skinny guys with BBWs, but I don't mean to regular BBWs, I mean beating them and stuff like that. Yes, one of the girls was like, oh uh, you know, I want to get a trainer and get healthier so I can have a baby and get pregnant. Her man
was like, oh hey, I'll no like. And the ship was really blowing my mind because it was only women that were big. They weren't really showing big dudes. And I wanted to see the opposite because like, I feel like in time that bitches just fucking fattening because it's wintertime, like we need to know, like yes, like cold Brianna. By the way, where are you from, because you've got a little bit of Angela and you no, don't do
that to me. I'm from Georgia though, so hezel Hurst like, yeah, I'm close to tellahassee, so I want to get into in cinema, we talked about sex scenes that we would like to or like you know that got us turned on or whatever. But this article came out about fiance stars who have an only fans account ranked by price. So Stephanie Matto was recent on ninety Day Fiance. Before the ninety she was a lesbian chick no excuse me, bisexual. Yes, she was a hot not the colorful hair, she's the
other one. She visited Australia to meet this girl. But let me tell you what I found the most interesting about this cast member. So she lived in the Yonkers and she had an autoimmune disease and she was wearing masks on planes and sanitizing everything. Honey, all I could think about was her during the coronavirus. I was like, bro, they filmed this ship like a year ago. You gotta wear masking gloves. She was literally on the show talking
about how she couldn't like. She was like, I need to be careful what I touched and how much I washed my hands because I could get sick and die. And the girlfriend was like, bitch, you ain't tell me this before you gave me the funk right before she came there. She tell her she wasn't gay before she came there. Listen, I felt so bad watching these two girls. She was hot, but when are you gonna fuck me? Lot? Did you don't? You don't want to have sex to me?
It was so fucking sad, but you know, it was a big yeah because they were their first lesbian couple that they had. So Stephanie's on only fans for five bucks. I'm opposed to Linxy. You can go through and see their faces on Fista now. She was my favorite and I think almost hottest ninety Yes, she was the fat one. What was his name? He? Who is skinny? Now? Bitch, so let me to boy hey and on FISA they were on ninety Day Fiance season four and they were one of my favorites. So he's a Latino dude or
George Shorge. I'm saying for it. So they were Fance season four. She was a Russian girl because she brought her over to the States and she was pretty, lips done titties, like very like fakey Instagram model, but she was She wasn't as hot as she thought she was, but she was way hot than him. So there is one of my favorite seats where they're out to eat. He looks at her and he goes, if it wasn't for my money, would you be with me? And she was like, no, no, I wouldn't know. I would not
do it. Why why would I know? And then she, which I appreciate homegirl, said if I didn't look good, would you bean with me? Bitch? Okay, thank you. Everybody knows I got a trash personality. They watched me every motherfucking Monday. So anyway, he ends up going to jail for transporting hundreds of pounds of marijuana, and I guess she went through financial troubles, made that only fans, started a bodybuilding Instagram account. Bitch looks fire now as crazy
she is twelve dollars a month. Then we're gonna move on to a man named Corey. What a little bitch Corey was. Corey was one fiance with a girl named Evelyn. From Colombia and Corey looks like he just ground with his tail between