Ep187: Boundaries & Toxic Love Feat VenusX

half Jeeves? Jeeves was white. That was two years ago. Your day was black. Hospital dick was black, Old Bays black. Who else those are about to say? Everybody else? White? Beat dot. You know what people think, I've sucked more white guys and I have black guys, and it's not true. I just went on a white guy spree. But in my time of fucking, I've sucked more. It was just a phase. It was just the pink dick was just a face. Can we call it a pinknic face? I

like pink dicks, do you not? Really? We have guest, you guys a latina and Latin X. Is that what you call it? Is that what the fun. I personally don't funk with that terminology, but you can do whatever you want, okay, Well anyway, I don't know because it passes people. I was like, what do you mean you don't want to be part of the revolution. I'm like, what the funkina Dominican exactly, I don't know what the y'all. So we've had Amelia who has a very like New

York Latin, but like you're isn't as bad. But God, because that accident. This New York accent is crazy because even me like watching just like Super New York like TV. I love it because it feels like it's not real but it is. And she really talks like that month. I like, do you like that right? No, like like everybody's different, but everybody is different. I'm not gonna lie Dominicans, we don't have that relationship to the Spanish accent because

New York Spanish. It's a New York accent in Puerto Ricans who don't speak Spanish, I like to stop, stop translate the whole episode for my people out there in dry fuck. I ain't got to talk about accident from Dykeman, bitch, pussy talk, pussy talk, Venus Excess, one of my favorite people. Gila introduced me to. Venus actually was like, oh my god, there's just like super feminist, like fucking DJ gonna love her.

I don't even know how to describe Venus. I know you had one of the best parties ever ghetto gothic, niggas and techno and what just black people doing beautiful things that are not just wrap, you know, but also

just like fashion. Everybody was there. It is like the last ten years have been I think categorized New York as like you know, the New Wave was the party that I created because everybody could go there, which you know, we go to the hood, we smoke Cuco, we got a strip club, we've throw money, we go to Brooklyn, we rave out, but very rarely does that all come together.

And the reality is that New York culture has always been dependent on that fusion, like whether you think of the Tunnel or exit, Like these are clubs that we're having DMX on one night and we're having a literal house DJ like in another room, and you was just like like, well that was like man, that like literally one night you'll have to chains, the next you have

Dead Mouse. That's literally, but I love that. Imagine like in New York, when you put fashion designers, visual artists, you know, rappers, everybody, skaters, dj is all in the same room, you end up getting the fashion brands like so far, you end up getting the astap rockies. That's like, you know the swag that a lot of people ended up taking on this ghetto goth thing, Like we've been doing that for a long time. But we weren't just like, hey,

let's dressed up. We were like, let's cultivated. Was the out was the whole experience because the reality is that we weren't the first, We're not gonna be the last. And you know, like there's a lot of other things going on. Trends come and go, but you have to have space for culture. So people think that it just pops up out it the dinner, you just empowers doing a fashion show. No, but we was wearing those clothes

for years. We was giving people room and it's because themselves and so we need you to throw a ghetto sex party. You know. We had a party call play with My Pussy. There were the whole season we made T shirts. We had like a like a a prescription that was like eating for this long to all the ship. It was like a real right now thing and we was like, no, it's pussy power time because yeah, has

been taken up to swarch space. And then the concept would have been if it had graduated, we had like this beautiful club that you could hang um swings from. We wanted to do a sex party that was scared towards women. But it's just not the thing in America. It's really hard to find normal people who are like to go out. It's very Europeans. I've been to a few lesbian nights. I ain't never been to a place

with so many fights in my fucking life. What I mean lesbians to be fighting like holy ship about it is like we're like they in the city and closed it. Maybe I mean it possed up whenever they picked right out is closed, bitch. I want to god, damn lobster, it's closed. Nothing that pandemic. When I went to Cocoa Compana the last time it was, and it may have been even during during dry um, not last year, but like two years ago. Because I went with me at this girl. I love her, but going but bro oh

it's hard. That's the thing. You have to train people. That's why the space that we originally created no cameras. There was no social media at that time. We was like coming coming straight leave gay, We don't give a funk, do whatever you want before next turned down the lights, like but we would have everybody in their diplow and my day, everybody was just nasty and people was really sucking. It takes me. First of all. I also want to say, yes, people know Venus for being a dj I. Some people

know Venus for a quashion. I've seen articles on you. I don't know who Venus is, but what I found out, bitch, is that Venus is a problem. This bitch takes me to a lesbian party where remember that it was like three in the morn and she's like this fucking party and she's trying to warn me as we get in there, like you know, like because Venus well humble herself, but also be like mad people know me, right, and we're going to know me when we walk in here. Bitch,

we walk in here. This girl was like, how you know her? I was like, excuse me, she's my home girl. She was like, oh, because I thought you was together and I was like she don't beat my act. So then we're dancing. Venus takes her shirt off. This pitch is in a bra. I'm like, do I follow suit? What the doing? Like I don't have a bra, And she's like, yeah, whatever, Like it's a lesbian party, Like you don't have to act like this. So we're dancing.

We're having a good time. Bitch. Someone swoops on in it starts dance in with this bitch looks at me. Is it a problem? I go to the bathroom. Of course, there's horrible delist decisions listeners in there. This girl's like, it's gonna be fine. Lesbians are just very territorial. Maybe you'll still leave with her, maybe maybe trying to coddle me.

It was that, Yeah, I mean I dated a girl for seven years and it was I'm good on I'm good ones, I'm not a fighting can't tell you how many iPhones I have at least four or five countries that we threw iPhones out the window. You and your ex Abisa, Korea, Harlem Brooklyn, the Bronx because I just like to fight over pussy. Wait, but why why the phone? Because they're toxic? Was it like someone got a picture you was like, you ain't on talking because I weren't

sing a lot of things. I was, I was, I was, I was definitely like, I love you, but I like Dick. But I asked you to marry me when we first started dating, and you said, no, do you think that since you like being by do you find I think it's an angel thing. Women don't believe in bisexuality that well the funk. No, they don't until they realized that Megan the Stallion is bisexual. But not only that, so

let me like this. It's weird ship like that where it's like a celebrities like, oh that's my dream girl. But it's like, but she likes Dick too. But here's here's the thing. When I when I so, when I went to these spaces, although everyone who I've like had sex with as a as a as a woman has been really fem when I go into lesbian spaces, give

me fucking Britney Griner. Okay, I like the studs I like because but but literally, as soon as they find out I'm bisexual, studs don't want to funk with me at all because they're like, oh, no, that's probably what it is. It's like they just or they know, like they really can't compete with real dick because they do got the stress. But I ain't gonna hold you my strap. Ain't compete in with a real dicky. It's just not

But they literally don't want like I can. I can date fems and have sex with fems all day long, but it stud them. I want to say that, you know, I really want to have on a friend of our Sydney Dean, Like she just started dating and they may have known each other for a while, but she has a new girlfriend. I don't know if they used to date in the past, but like I would love to talk about that dynamic because they have such an out there relationship. Her girlfriends stood and super Man dated a lot.

But I'm curious I have to and it does not get easier. Like that's the thing, Like there there is a sense of masculinity that comes with patriarchy or misogyny, and like even with even the most radical feminist lesbian who's like well read and like super progressive, you're like, oh, you want to fight me because I like sex. Really, at the end of the day, I'm just really comfortable. I like sex. I love sex. I'm like let's everybody. We know you are bitch, and that's why we're here.

I'm just like, why demonize me? Just don't pick me? Then you picked me, you picked me, and you fell in love with me. Why I mean, just suck me. You have a lot of home in you. I've been out out and like been on the brink of tears talking about it. Nigked and she's like, girls, just suck somebody, look around the motherfucking room. Listen as long as you don't want to sue us in a couple of of weeks. What I love. I love to tell people that is okay,

suck us. No, I'm talking about I told you don't look girls a lot somebody sued you try to That's why I really I was like, oh, let's see, this is what I mean. Don't get in relationships. You can handle it, don't on podcast if you can handle it, don't. No, it's all the same ship. It's all the same ship. Like it's more so like the exposing thing. We had someone else on here too. I think it was Candy deep throat. We we didn't even ask her anything about names or and then she just suddenly hit us up.

After the episode, Ardin was like, we need you to take this out, like I want this out. This has to be gone. And it's weird because when people get on the mic, they start exposing themselves and getting comfortable and are super comfortable until they go home and think about it. And I think that's the issue with sometimes having a regular person on person on versus a personality. But she's not. She's not a regular person a personality,

but Candy deep throat. What's even crazier about that ship and she was known for it and came on and did the same thing. It sounds messy, it was bad, mom, just telling you, Oh, don't make this miss I'm not messy. What I am though it's spicy and a lot of people can't take it, you know what I'm saying. But that's why I just do me. I'm like whatever, I have a wild, Wild, Wild, Wild, the wild fucking memoir in the works when i'm when I'm like, I have stories I have like wild, we don't, and I'm not

worried about nobody Vanilla ship this week. Someone who is worried about everybody is Pope Frances. Now, a lot of people know Pro Frances because he is the pope that's like more of the lenient pope we've ever had. Right, He's the one that basically said, you guys won't go to hell for being gay, like God loves everybody, and he's a pope that we feel like. It's more so new school. And something he recently said was that simply

divine pleasures are eating and sex. In his view, people have fallen victim to both food and sexual pleasures, pleasures arrived directly from God. It's neither Catholic nor Christian. It is simply divine. The Church has condemned in humane vulgar um and language, but accepted human and simple moral pleasure. However, the most divine pleasures you can have are by eating and sexual pleasure. Just like that. There is a way to make love more beautiful and guarantee the perpetuation of species,

basically through food and sex. This is from the pope's mouth. He connected food and sex. And I want to know what food you guys have eaten that got you the closest to orgasm, because I know mine. Dude. Oh, this is like on a food network, like the best thing I ever ate type of thing. No, but it's just it's like a what have you ate, Mandy? Oh? I mean what that was just like so so good, you

go first, I gotta think about it, easy, bitch. I had at William May's in New Orleans a lima bean and fried chicken plate that was like I remember eating it and knowing that I was getting louder and louder because other people were looking at me and I was alone. And you know, when you eat something and it's so good, you order another one to go. Have you ever done that?

I mean not in the last two years because my stomach is but so big, so bitch one meal last meek three, bitch I was three back to I was excuse me, I need another one? Put it, boxed it up. Bitch. I went back to William Mays every fucking day of my trip. Actually, I will there is something so much so that I don't even live there. And all of the servers know my face, all of them were like, hey, weren't you just here? Weren't I brought everyone to this place?

So I'm not gonna say the name of the restaurant because you motherfucker no, because you niggas in Atlanta are not gonna sunk up my motherfucking place. But there's a spot in Atlanta that I go. No, I was gonna say, definitely it's Asian and fuse, I doubt Niggas is in the back. But it's a motherfucking tuna crisp like pizza, but it's not a pizza's like this big. It's tuna truffle oil, little like I don't know the little green things trule oil. I keep it in my house and

it's on like a little like a rice paper. Chris, I don't fucking Nope, bitch, I go there and order for them holes. Literally when I walked through the door, like you're the one who ordered all the tune of Chris. And then I bring my friends and I'd be like, you just gotta try it first, but I'm gonna let you have have and then you gotta order your own. Apply to this episode or in the YouTube comments like

were you talking about that in Atlanta? And you know what, let me give a huge shout out to who introduced me to the place. Shout out to Kiki from the Cocktails the podcast Oh my fucking got we went there? Um, I was just there too with lex Andre. I brought Nigel there about Crystal there. I brought Anthony. Shout out Anthony. I've literally brought everybody there in Atlanta. I go there every day to eat, whether lunch or dinner. We go into this motherfucking spot to give my mother. What's my

spot like that Dudley's in the Lower east Side. I show up and they're like, uh crabbling, gueenie e gallergy. We got it, bitch. I eat that ship so much that sometimes my stomach starts to get a little bloated. It's disgusting much my food is um. I don't know. I guess you know what it is. I'm not going to the front. And this might sound mad annoying, but don't tell me not healthy ship. It's not healthy. It's

actually mad. So I used to tour an Asia a lot of Deejay, and you know, you get hosts and stuff like that whenever you go to a different country, like the promoter will set you up with somebody. And so we got lucky because the host parents was had a restaurant fisherman. So they cut that tuna and they literally put it on ice and then gave it to us. And I've never had like sushi that was fresh. Me neither. That was That was my first time. I just got chills it no, no know what I'm saying. That was

my first time. It was Bob. I was like, we should not freeze deep frost could do all this actra ship to fish because this ship is so buttery and yeah that it was good. It made you come ya. No imagine they kill the animal. It was close to orgasm. It was God made food and sex one and the same. Bitch, I don't want to know what food. It was tuna, cris tuna and agea got it speaking of food literally wow yeah, and grabbling greenies. We all like pussy for venus.

I like legit as. I was like, oh, I need you to come up with a sex tips, so like figure out something and she mentioned a food and I said, bitch, don't even keep going, please don't. What is this sex tip that you have. It's a really old school one from when I was a teenager. Actually, so what is bad girl? I was a very bad girl. Um so I used to go two Starbucks and get tea like anybody else. And I noticed that has small honey packets and I had I think he was honey at that point.

In sects that some for some reason, you know, like you know, I was really wild. I was like a nasty girl, and so I used to take the honey packers and Starbucks and carry them in my purse. So if I wanted to give head, like you know, the stairway or in a car where I was literally at working, it was bad working that you can't say because was it no? I mean, was it a club? Is at a restaurant, at a bar? It was a club? Wait?

So you were just out here walking around with honey packs in my bag so that I could put it on both So you just opened the Starbucks pack. It's like real freaktion. But would that mess up an like a pH d? Honey? Go wash it after you wash it? And you want to about your All I know is that if you put honey on business and they can say it is better. So the same thing. But you like sucking dickto you talk about how you suck dick. I don't sucking dick. It's a form of intimacy, that is,

you know, sufficient for me. My mother is my vagina too. Do you believe that you're better at sucking dick or giving head? What's the difference what's the difference of the whole you are getting? You mean giving your girlfriend sucking dick or giving head gr at both, I'm great. I'm great at both because I genuinely um. Don't funk with nobody that I don't really really like adore you know what I mean, even if I don't want to be

with them. I'm like, I adore you for now, so I'm gonna go in for you on the trap phone. I adore you. I'm gonna go in because this could be love for the moment. I don't know, I just be I'm a Gemini. I I am serious about everything I do. I think second dick is way easier than what you mustn't like it that much? Why you saying that? Because eating pussy is fucking fire. I'm good at eating pussy. Tho' saying though? Why not? A right? Okay, this is I didn't see it. Tell me we was gonna be talking.

I just want you. Of course she's good at it. But what I'm saying is that equal opportunity. But I still feel like sucking dig is easier. It's not easier. There's macum that's out of its moisture, out of a yeah, but it's difference. I guess I like bit is more than I like dude. Maybe I mean I like things in my mouth. Let's just say that, because it's like food. Here we go, there we go. Are you bringing it back around? Um? I don't know, but you know what

it is too. I think that sometimes you like the dick, but you don't like the man all every time. Right, But that's why I'm like, I always like the girl and I always like the post like I usually hate the dude, but I love that. You know. That is a great point because I feel like most of the guys that I've had the best sex with have been niggas that I really can't fucking stand. They annoy me, They get on my fucking you talk about I never thought it talk about it because I don't fuck bitches.

I don't fun with talk like if I don't like you like that, or if I'm not into you, but dick, I'll take it. Hello, I'll be like, he aint ship whatever. But if a bitch ain't ship, no, not talking to him for two years called me back like, Hey, what's up? Okay, I missed that, dick, Let's go don't call for two years?

I guess it's different for me, Like I mean, because yeah, I sunk a lot of my friends, but I mean I've also had like three somes with girls that weren't my friends, and it was just like it's all the same, you know. I mean, if it's a random chick like yeah, But I'm saying, if I'm not having vibes like non experience, it could genuinely be like how a man looks and I could suck him, but with a woman like I kind of like a little more into But I feel

like that's how society is. We make so many exceptions for men, like they'd be fat. Don't let me feel bad, I don't. I'm just saying like in general, like America, have a career and be fat, and a woman can't have a career. You would, ye did that? Like the number one body? Now, I don't know they did say that. It's like been had a dad body ever I had to maybe I'm sorry daddy did. But the last guys that I wanted to funck No. But I just also like men that are active, Like that's a turn on

for me. I love niggas that are fit, active that take care of their body. See I'll go to the active niggas, but then I'll go to the like count a rib niggas, like the snoops and the like I break you, I love you. I don't want to like them, but niggas they like me. But the way, but the way their kickstands are set up, especially they do Oh my god, oh my god, oh my god, long legs. How am I going to really like? I keep writing my legs around him? I'm a short. Look, I got

little limbs. I can't even a little. And then I told you, here's the thing with a fat nigga, right, I got as if they got a belly from the back, it's just going They're gonna bounce off of each other and the dick ain't even gonna be able to be in my Plus, I thought we should watch bat Nigo porn tonight. I think that's a great idea. Yeah, I feel like would big no, big beautiful man, big beautiful man. Uh And if I n maybe I'll have this. The

whole fact for this week is postnut clarity. We all know what that is, but postcoital tristise is really the main term, and it's the feeling of sadness anxiety, agitation, or aggression after sexual intercourse and most males, so it happens with women. However, it's said by Gallant, who's a Greek medical writer. Any animal and every animal is sad after coitius, which is basically intercourse, except the human female

and the rooster. However, this quotation, UH sad after seximes like maybe with regret, this quotation had been like they did, like you know, they went through it. In two thousand and twelve, forty six percent of male participants on a study of twelve male participants had experienced it at least

once in their lifetime, and only of women. UM, let's see the symptoms for a percent of those people say they occur on a regular basis UM, and it's always distress uh, sexual abuse during childhood or sexual dysfunctions for those people that get in on the regular. That makes sense. Yeah, yeah, I feel like a lot of people who have sex and then experienced some sort of UM depression, appression, or

some sort of sadness. I do feel like maybe they're battling something sexually that maybe they haven't um UM kind of either talked through or gotten over. UM. Sexual trauma, the big one with that for sure, for sure. But I think that that's why to a lot of black men um they hide behind their pain with sex, which is why sex is so important to just I gotta I gotta sunk as many women as I can, I gotta have sex as much as I can, and they're hiding behind whatever issues. Ever had an episode or am

I something? It could be something I was reading about, but a lot about a lot about like healing through b D s M. Did we ever talk about that? Possibly I may have read about it, but basically there's a lot to be said with b D s M because you can be in control and healing your sexual

trauma through DA. I feel like we actually talked about that with Dash maybe maybe maybe because he does a lot of bondage and like, and that's what I was talking about, Like it's because it's control when and that's something that I've actually been talking about lately, just me and my partner. Literally he thinks that we have so much more to do and I'm just like, do we really, Like we ain't done it all already, And bondage was one of the things and I was like, listen, that

is the one thing for whatever reason, to make. Maybe that's something I have to talk through. Bondage and blindfolded, not bonded, but it's more like a aware He's like, babe, you don't want me to tie you up, and like, have you not be able to control like me making your orgasm? I was like, no, like I feel anxiety talking about being bonded. For whatever reason, I did get stealth while being blindfolded, So blindfolding is just not a

thing for me now. But bondage is, yeah, one thing I'm doing when the condom without you, without your without your consent. Yeah, there's a whole word to it. Yeah, because nig out here doing it like bit you ain't No, I didn't yet, right, so do you know it's the worst part. People were in our comments so I may destroy you were just really can't feel it if my pussy is soaked. No, I can't tell. Actually, don't get me wrong. There are times I've been able to tell,

but there's sometimes where I can't tell. Men is sometimes very evil when it comes to sex. Like I remember I was talking to this guy once and he went he wanted to rot, and I was like, no, um, because I haven't sucked you before, and also, we're not dating, so don't know what you're doing here. And he at me like he wanted to kill me. And I was like, and you didn't enjoy it, Like I enjoyed it, but I didn't enjoy him. You get me like the thrashing was fab. But then it was like, you need help. Yeah,

I also just want to I need help. The fact that even like that was his response to you so angry from what Weezy was even saying, like, you go through these comments and again, I don't know if how many of you guys followed up. By the way, this is the episode, uh that we did called Cinema I May Destroy You. What's the date on that post that people get to? This post is from It says four days ago, it's this week, but it's okay, so it'll be September eight or something. Yeah. So basically there's a

lot of men in these comments. So and we pretty much were discussing the violation that we as women feel when a guy removes their condom. And some guy responded and was like, and it's disrespectful and reckless, but that's not rape. Someone else was like, really, though you don't notice. Um. Someone else mentioned that they check. They constantly check the guy's dick, so they'll act like their massaging guy's balls just to feel that the condom is even still done

that when I'm changing position. Awful. That's awful that. But also can we talk about them? Is that an issue for us, that we're even having sex with someone they're going to even keep on the condom. I think that that's just um, that's just us reacting on something that's happened to us in the past. I don't think I have to do with that person. I think that's just the cautionary you know what I'm saying, Yeah, DTSD. But

also I think that we we are very reckless. I mean I have been at least with like sexual partners not necessarily being intellectually like ready for a bit like me and then me being like that just happened, but the dick was good. But also like wow, that nigga. No. I mean, and you've surprised. They're very successful men out there who are fucking incompetent. They have no emotional intelligence.

We're not physically, they don't know how they're not they're not good at Because we have also a lot of male listeners and one of the men actually compared stealthing too when women say that they're on the pill and they're not fair. However, I will say this, the main difference with stealthing and women saying on the pill and they're not is that pill, we know for a fucking fact, does not mean that you can't get a pitch pregnant.

Fat That's where my mind went. Fat. Now, I will say on the counterpoint on that, I guess condoms don't either, but pills protect you against pregnancy and std S, where no protect you against pregnancy and STDs, whereas the pill is just pregnancy. And I also think that we know that it's more human error on that other person's part, right propost. So we both make this choice to put the condom on together and we can acknowledge it. So

I don't know. I think that's I hear him on that, and I'll give him that as well, because I have heard cases of at least not friends, but guys that I know saying that the person they had a baby with said that they run the pill. But also the

lack of college. Again with what you said at the fact that the pill is not a percent regardless, So if we're having if we're agreeing to having consensual, unprotected sex where you just busting a load to me because niggas think, oh, you want a pill, that mean not nutting you as a man. You're also ignorant of the fact to think that that means I won't ever get pregnant, Like, if you're gonna nutting me, you need to bear the

consequences that I still make. It also very trash because they think the pill like I feel like men are turning into a niggasine trash episode. But hello, there's one. Because even if you're like, well, I love the dick, but I don't love him niggas because and I think they all know it because they don't love me either.

I'm too difficult. I'm too difficult men. Every time she would tell me she was dating this guy last year, and every time she would tell me how she checked this hood asnia she was dating, I'm like that she can't handle this, understand he's like processing the mergence. She's like, I need him to read a book. He's not going to read a book. Bit I ain't gonna hold you.

That's what I don't do. Hood niggas, Like last one but I'm cool, Like I just feel like a my life is in danger and I don't feel like we have much to talk. When I get the opposite feeling, you feel like you protect my life was in Danga. I remember we were driving. We were looking for parking and I was like, why is your seatwret client all the way back? Can you help me? I'm tired? When he was like, my ops outside, they live around here, and I was like, get shot. See no, that is

not okay, bro, we're too blacks from my house. They see you going in my house, it's now they're gonna think they could kidnap me. Also, every nigga that I've been like everybody, I mean, I go up around criminals, so I know what they're capable of. Yeah, but besides the guns and ship, they all also think that they're hiding spot in their car. No one else knows where, Nigga, your drugs ain't hidden in no other place that they ain't never found because it is not going to stock.

Niggas think my pussy is just it. I would never put drunks out, well, I have, but it was for my own accord. I had some really good mushrooms and all I could think was, well, if I ain't finished them, I'm gonna definitely have to bring them home, you know what I'm saying. I'm like, okay, so now I'm already right using a private browser trying to figure out how to smuggle these tiny bit of drugs. You didn't get on a VPN to find out how to smuggle shrons back into the stage why, I was in the teck.

Of course, I have a VPN multiple for when I want to watch corn, for when I do my banking, for when anything. For horrible decisions too, like because of the passwords and stuff like that. I don't want our browser to ever not browser. But i'm SoundCloud should ever get deleted. Yeah, I always think about using VPNs and ship. So anyway, when I tried to figure out how to smuggle let's smuggle the shrooms, I kept googling do airport dogs smell mushrooms? Which my mushrooms were so soaked from

the sweat and pussy they weren't even okay. I couldn't even use them. So by the time I took them out of my vagina on the plane, I was like, were they not wrapped? Yeah? But I was so scared. I didn't drug jacket, but you know then I'm in the airplane. I do not do not hire her airplane map room. Like okay, these are kind of like sucked up now, but also like if I eat them, what's gonna happen? You know what I'm saying, Maybe I'll be cool, which I don't go hold you. I came back from

l A with edibles. I just made sure that the things that I really cared about was in my carry on because if that ship just ain't come out on the on the goddamn rolling thing, I was like, they got my bag, they got my bag. I just was going I was gonna be good with losing everything carrying it on. It is better than where they can search. They're not gonna go in my pussy, right, but they'll go in my bag. They will go in your pussy.

And know they will are my Cary got arrested in Switzerland and was in jail for too many hurt for smuggling drugs for a dude in dr stuck. Hopefully my pussy would I have my lie ready? You think that dog will open your what is your lot to have drugs in your pussy? Because it wasn't like cocaine or weed or something like that. In China. Mushrooms is the same as anything. And why are you I've done today?

This is a yon thing and I'm using it to like, you know, it's from the earth and I've got it's holistic. Here's the problem. Wheezy watches way too much Ninety Day Fiance, not enough First forty eight and locked up Abroad Dust. We need to expand your horizons. Boundaries is the name of this week's episode, Like the boundaries of the countries that I can't bring my shrooms through and the boundaries that I won't be doing in the bedroom with bounding.

So I picked three because I felt like these are the top three things that we all really need boundaries around. I picked three things I felt like would be good for each and I want you guys to give me

your thoughts on him. Friends with benefits? Right, So, friends with benefits obviously we've all had one, but also I want to know what you guys think is because my first one is I don't think friends with benefits are good for an actual close friend, and I'm starting to think they're friends with benefits is the modern day situationship right, just because like he's not your nigked, but chall are cool enough to where they could like quote unquote sleep

over and do whatever. Like do you think friends with benefits can really work with someone who's actually your friends? So here's the thing, um, because friends with benefits by definition, is a person you fuck that you are not with. I get it. Um. I actually just had this conversation kind of last night. One of my old I would say, I don't want to call him a lover because he ain't break bread on me. But we've we've been we

were fucking for probably like the last eight years. The nigg I talked about who said I couldn't go to the wedding because I sucked his friend to Like long story anyways, he was in town and um, he hit me up like, Hey, I'm in New York. My I heard from this nigga all pandemic. Well you couldn't go to his wed You just asking too much. I just brought it up. People from the past will will remember

the context. Anyway, he came into he came into town, um and hit me up and was like, you know, trying to be on some may where you live again and I was like, well, nigga, you would know if you would have came up a few times. I invited your motherfucking hats up here. So we're talking and he was like, dang, you ate my friend no more. And literally over the eight years that we fucked though, I

would consider us to be friends with benefits. But in real life, when you're in these situation ships or you're just having sex with someone, I'll be honest to you. When I look back at the those friends with benefits and situationship relationships, the things that they did and how I felt like I was treated. Their dependability and how much I could really count on them as I would

do my friends was not existent in those relationships. So I really feel like that term kind of sugarcoats, y'all are just fucking like because the idea and I hold friendship really true to me, And when I look back, they did a whole lot of funked up ship that to me doesn't hortify them. It's like, I think friends with benefits is honestly like a term we can't use anyone.

I really believe because when I was sucking doing the outline, I'm like friends with benefits like but I've never had a friend that I was like, I told you, I don't like sucking my friends. But now when I look back and even those those situations that when you bring this up, it like I literally just had this conversation last night and my text messages like he was like, Dann, we ain't friends no more? And I really was like,

but were we ever? Like there were so many things where when I felt like I either needed you or friend Mandy. You know what I mean. I honestly, God, this bitch is thinking true, Oh my god, let me be happy. But now that I have someone, yoh, don't want me to be happy. My nigga right now is good and so now I am looking back on like the last niggas y'all. Perpendicular Sex hit me up today, right, Perpendicular Sex been hitting me up and perpendicular dick that nigga.

So he hit me up this morning on some can you send our videos? The nigga make me like delete our videos because he'd be on and off with his bitch, so every time they get back on, he deletes all of our primes. Yeah, so we can get the calculator. Nigga hit me today like yo, can you send our videos that we made together? And I was like, listen, listen, I really don't like how you goes to me. He ain't goes me because he felt like I made his booty hole fillip regular, But we ain't gonna get into that.

They didn't go back to normal nigga, but apparently it took a little longer than he liked for it to come back to normal. But he hit me on some send me the videos of us as and I literally was just like, I'm good on you, like I have a nigga who makes me happy right now. I want to also add I would love for you to acknowledge as long as we've had this show, I've been telling you old because the truth they are the truth. And I just I wasn't. I was staying one and I

told you a lot about him. He wasn't ship though he don't count. He doesn't count. He's amazing. I love him. He's one of my good friends. For all the years I wasn't sucking him, and the years that I was sucking that I was talking to him. He was a piece of ship. But was it because your feelings were involved? It's because I couldn't call him when I had an emergency. But then he would do the same ship where he would get back with his wife and then he would

be like, I deleted all the pictures. I deleted them by mistake. Okay, wives Muslim wives, okay. And it's a different context because I don't think he can be emotionally available to know, we've been friends were almost a decade. Yes, he can if you once you start talking sex again with dudes, that's when it's like, if they're not your man, they don't understand the boundaries and the necessity is to

be a good whatever you're developing with them. You know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, maybe we weren't going to end up in some fantasy where I was a new wife, but you weren't trying to be a wife. But the relationship at the beginning, but now I was thinking about it. But either way it didn't matter because I'm like, I'm your friend, right So if I'm having a bad day and I can't call you, but you're gonna ask me for videos that your wife definitely deleted, or you want

to ask me for pussy when you want it. But I depend on you when I need you outside of sex or yeah, you're your communications exactly. So the other two I want, We're gonna go into the next one because we basically covered it. But the other two rules I put were no playing house and ensuring your emotionally on the same page. Definitely no playing house with friends with benefits because that's where I think the quote unquote situation things happens. And if you're not emotionally on the

same page, then you can't handle just sucking. So the next one I have is breakups. I have a few cup rules. We did. Actually, Amelia's episode was about kind of about breakups, cutting chords, letting people loose, and I feel like we've got to talk about breakup boundaries because we get a lot of breakup mail and breakups are very hard. Nigga. I was on Alexa bro damn near. I don't connect it to a breakup, but like it was something that was going on, Like it really takes

your body down. So I have this one in there because I am a person that and I don't know about you guys. When I'm in love and I break up, I can't necessarily go cold turkey. That's very difficult, even though it's the best thing. But what I will say is don't try to be friends right away. I think a lot of people want to end things amicably, like let's just be cool as be friends, But I think immediately after it's really difficult because it does because we

can't separate the difference. So if you are being amicable, here are the rules. I think no cuddling or close contact, spending the night together, treating each other to this is when you up with a partner, but you decide to still being in contact with you right if you're going to be in contact um providing emotional support consistently or financial support, I think that is those rules are how you get away from feeling like you're still with them.

Because if you're quote unquote friends because you need emotional support, you know that that was your boyfriend or your girlfriend and they were always there for you, you're gonna blur the lines you need that codependency fucks you up. Like that's actually the hardest thing for me to let niggas go When I know they've been someone I've leaned on, whether it be a hard day at my office or whether it was a hard day with my family or my money. I'm going to lean on this, nicked, do

your best to pivot. And this is why when we get in relationships, it's very important to keep your friends still close, still making times for them, things like that, because if you don't, and when you come back from that relationship, they're like, bitch, what were you? I think a lot of the problems is too though, a lot of women have the tendency to cut off all of their friends when they get in a relationship. That's exactly it's hard than friends like friends and toxic abusive relationship.

It's very hard to completely like cut all those things off. I will say that, yeah, in theory, I'm sure that that would be great, but it took me from when me and my ex boke up after two years of dating and living together and being like madly in love, it took us seven years to break up. Seven from thirty, I was walking the same girl, madly in love but fucking dudes because I couldn't get seriousness out of her

because it was complicated. Basically, I was too young and I was popping at a time, and certain dudes wanted me and that ship was working with her head, so she didn't want to get back with me. But you want to keep sucking me, you know what I mean? So she kept sucking me for seven years. We kept working each other, but we were going around the world, we were working together. We're having this like dynamic relationship. In a sense, I think that that is not realistic

because relationships do not work like a beginning, middle, and textbook. You. Basically, I had to accept that what I did was a seven year really ship. I was basically married, and I was basically like in an open relationship with my wife, and essentially we were very um. We both have mad trauma's mommy and daddy issues whatever that we were taking out on each other. But it's not like I look back and like, oh my god, I'm not I should have just ave just like cut cut her off and

stop cuddling. No, that sex's good. She's kicked me downstairs and ship, but like not in an evil way. Just like she would go through my phone after we fucked and be like, get the funk out of my house, like you suck someone dick, and I'd be like, you know, those are some of the most exciting times in my life because I learned, God, you were really sounding good. No. My thirties and I'm really a bad bitch that I

don't I'm not a psycho. I've been through a lot of ship it's because I didn't try to manage the of course, the lifespan of the relationship with somebody that I was fucking madly. Other people it trust me. It was a breakup and we and she kicked me out the house and I want to move back with my mother and I was like so sad, and then we just kept working for seven years. We were working together. We were doing this all over the world I'm talking about.

We were basically on tour all over the world sucking. It was amazing and magical. But what we couldn't deal with was our emotional situation because I was doing but it was a girl, you know what I'm saying. But the point but no, But the point is that I'm telling you there was no other way it could have gone down. I had to go through that and it was beautiful. My life was dynamic. It was not easy

all the time, but it was full of milestones. When I say like, bitch, you, I'm sorry, but you you'll be a toxic in an apartment, in a one bedroom with sucking old windows and Brooklyn versus you're being toxic and fucking TOKYOI besa is to the and things. You better go live your life. And right we were running a company that sold a hundred million dollars in one season of clothes. Do you understand what it's like to

be a part of that? Yeah, of course I wish I would have been like dude says, I'm gonna work on my mental health. Bitch, I have a history now, and that history is complicated. I will never make those mistakes again. But haven't nasty sex like handcuffed to a bed in Paris, and like learning you know how to fucking not drive someone insane with my bisexuality through experience,

which I would have had either way. It just would have come in different forms, you know what I'm saying, Like, well, I would have split it up across ten people instead of one. Like I was talking power couples and when they do work together and things like that, What the funk happens when y'all break? You're fucked. You're fucked. You build a great business, you do all this great ship, and then it's like, how can you even in terms

like equity? You learned terms like um you know, contract thing, leveraging, like what do you bring to the table, learning to appraise your value. Those are the things that are important, not not working. But you also you also learn how to turn everything away from personal so everything is kind of decisions made for the betterment of the business. We have this money, we make this money together, kind of like with what you and I have. Like you know, we may not be on the same page all the time.

And for a couple who was together and then split up, they are still working together because it's their livelihood, it's business. So I mean, I guess I would never ship on the thing that was created. I would say, yes, I would do it differently. But would I have preferred to

be self destructing on a dance floor doing drugs? I mean I was djaying the dance floor and I just happened to be be d jaying the best after party in Paris that fashion week, and if I do remember you after where it's in fucking someone It was hot. But at the same time, what I'm trying to say is like that is a prescription for basically following the rules. There's no rules in life. There isn't And I was gonna obsessed with until you stop being obsessed with them

and venus. What you said, though, is that you learned from this toxic relationship to not do it again. So even though she gave that guideline, I think that for anyone listening who has had their experience with a toxic relationship, if you're going through maybe a current breakup, to maybe follow these guidelines that we not given because you see that you've Yeah, you broke up with him. It had him come console me during the breakup during the same thing like no, okay, my last two, which we know

are good ones. But it's very hard. So social media is talking. All we want to do when we break up with someone is know what's going on. We're feeling super attached. Maybe they're friends. You want to know, you want to look. It is very difficult, Honestly, I block them both, Like I don't block them because I don't I can't stand them. I blocked them because I don't want you to see me. I don't want to see you. I know how it's gonna feed into each other, you know, selock.

I'll block maybe they're friends or something, but I'm not gonna like like recently recently though, with the glow up I got, which is why I know all these holes, all my all holes hit me up because they didn't see the Charlemagne announcement. I'm like, you little pussy niggers. I'm I'm happy don't come and ruin my hat had But I feel like I don't mind people saying things. You don't they say something to do something, Yeah, but

I'm not gonna lie. I feel like I may not block them because I want them to see my success. But it's the self control of me not going to go look at their ship. That's why how they're doing. I feel like it's equals, not just for me, it's for them. It's for both of us, like engaging with each other, because if you see me do something and you reply to that story, I'm gonna fall back in

it again. You're looking great. All these rules don't make no sense in real life because I block, and then I unblocked, and then I blocked, and then and then I'm block like black block. I can't say it today, and it's the age of media. If you block a nigg on Instagram and Twitter, bitch, I've even been hit

up on Skype, bitch. I don't even be on f love like the last one I have and send a message through a friend like they will find you, you know, wrote me at No, trying to get back at each other in it hurtful way like sleeping with friends, and I do that. Y'all gotta stop. Why sleeping to get back at them, not to get back because we're not really wanted it. We don't win, bitch, I'm moving on

with my life. Okay, You're not gonna block my blessings for the rest of Don't sleep with friends after a breakup because I think that it just doesn't on both sides. It looks like you're trying to hurt their feelings, even if you really want that nigga's dick or you really want that. I'm not. I've just been through it, Like, Okay, my ex girlfriend fucked the girl that I wanted to fuck. She sucked the girl that shot me for like a

Vice article, like within months of her shooting me. Like the girl basically was like, I'm going to pray on your ex and was like yeah, Like she just did a lot of things that were like oh my god, and I was like, oh, okay, so now that's what we're doing. I guess that's what we're doing. Because I did that two guys too, and it hurt them and I was like, oh, well, like you annoyed me and

this was never gonna work. Like I'm thinking out that either clarity after and be like, I can't believe I suck this niggest frame because now just what if the got better date? But isn't your show called horrible decisions but responsible? Horr? I'm just saying, if you like, are you saying serious? Are you saying serious dating? It's serious, but for me a horrible decision. Right. Also, remember this is for the sanity of yourself. Sometimes when you're doing

that vengeful fucking, you only end up hurt. You're like, you start feeling like about it right down the line, you feel like, yes, you know what, sometimes you just end up sucking their friends, And I think that you shouldn't. All right, you shouldn't feel bad about it, because from what I have experienced, guys are always pursuing I'm not pursuing you, and that you gotta homeboy go in your Instagram. I'm working. That's the small town on him. I mean, I'm on a plane. I want to fly. I don't

have time to date. I'm not interested in getting I want to each other tonight. And your boy actually he has a better personality and than you, and you're annoying, and he was always funny your birthday party. He was actually the one three. I'm just saying they took three. Some boundaries. We always talk about three sims. I think we need to do another. I think every year we

need to do a threesome episode just to refresh. But for this one, a few topics that come up, so the first one, and I think it's a great threesome boundary. And this is for couples and for the unicorns. I think discussing your fears is a very good thing. I think that discussing what could go wrong, just being vocal,

especially with a partner. Like a lot of people for the first threesome, they're not sure what to do, and I think it's a really good thing to be like, yo, I just don't want you know, let's say that maybe you don't want the if you're a woman, your boyfriend and the unicorn to be talking after If you really

genuinely don't want that, you have to say it. If you don't want them to sleep over, you genuinely have to say you have to discuss what your fear is because if it happens, it's only going to ruin the experience. You have to discuss your fears, your boundaries, what you're looking for now. Following that one, is it fair because I'm experiencing it now in my first like, you know, is it fair to say I don't what if I don't know what my boundaries are until we're in the

situation and then I realized, oh I didn't like this. Well, I think that that's okay. But if you have any fears, you should discuss them, Like, is there anything if you could think you haven't had a threesome with the person that you're with yet that comes to your mind or something you wouldn't want to happen with him. I just feel like so a lot out of our listeners asked about,

you know, tips on having their first threesome. So, to be honest, until you've actually had threesomes or engaged, you have no fear going into there's nothing in your right now right now, I haven't, but like even when we did, like we we just recently had an orgy or whatever,

and you've had noticed. Yeah, but I've never had a threesome with someone that I cared about, like, which I'll be sucking niggs I fun with my friends and maybe sucking the bitches that they fucked when they don't suck me, Like, but this is my first time with someone that you know, I actually have feelings for. So even when we had the orgy, there was kissing going on, and I realized, Okay, I actually don't mind the kissing, like I got them

the kind of like, but I'm not gonna lie. I'm to the space right now where I don't know what I fear. I just don't. But also, I think you have experiences with threesomes whereas I'm talking like, we gotta think about the person I haven't had. Isn't that nuts? Wait? What, I've sucked a lot, but no threesoms. Yeah, my blong term relationships were always opposed to it. Like, so you're always jealous, So let me have you you've never had

a girl who are always jealous? To do you know what you would fear in a threason without having one thing? Take him? What to take her if she don't want me to more? Oh? Well, I do though, I think that's how you should approach life. And maybe I'm just superent because I've seen a lot of ship and I've been through a lot. I've already gone through the dark. I'm like, I'm real good. If bringing her in is going to break us up, then I guess we're broken.

Go for it. Also, Also, if you're not reading me and you don't know me as a partner and I care about you, and you're doing things that are going to violate me, then I'm gonna I'm gonna figure out like that there's a problem in our love, like the way that we communicate with each other, because everything is not Like I don't have the energy to make everything

a therapy session anymore. I used to do that with people, and then I realized, like there's so much communication that you're just doing through body language, through your facial expressions, through how you you know, move, I feel like care doing Otherwise, I'm gonna keep re Moving'm going to say her and explain to you what's wrong about certain things. If you're talking about after why are you talking to us so much? But see, I'll say I'll say that this,

but that is unhealthy communication in a relationship. But like energy to teach every single you have to explain if something bothers you in a relationship talking. You can't just sit here and be like, my nigga, you better know why I don't want to know. I'm not saying that. I'm saying that, like I feel like there's a lot of things to talk about, but in my experience, sometimes you end up going this extra mile to explain to to somebody that's not even going to be there in

your life in a year or two. And like I'm all I'm saying is like for me, I think that you have to be mindful who you spend all that energy processing and like teaching how to love you. I think the great first threeson, by the way, isn't a relationship threesome. I think that a relationship threesome for the first one is a lot more pressure opposed to just kind of getting it out there. My first reason was, like I guess started and think that. I mean, like,

I don't know, it's it's weird. I just I just think that you have to be mindful who you give all that energy too, because I honestly I look at a lot of relationships and all that talking for what I don't even talk to you any more. The three things, Like I mean, at the end of the day, that think it's gonna be that person, but well not only that. That's the thing is, people, we have to stop thinking that whoever we're dealing with forever, because we're not true.

There is going to be a beginning, a middle, and an end. There is going to be an end. But what you have to realize is that person that's in your space right now, you want it to be the most happy, non toxic relationship with a being at that point in time in your life that you can so not everyone is going to last forever. You're not going

to know everyone until you're dying. Day on my mind to your point, we had a situation where we almost had so funny, but I really knew that I had a great person and friend in my life because of what happened after. So we were all flirting, Venus and I and Obey and I got fucking smacked, super smacked. If you and your partner are constantly talking about a threesome, if you are either too intoxicated or or high to have the control to know this isn't going to be

the right time for us to do this. It was good for me and him because I feel like it does set us up now for actually yeah right, well, and also she woke up and cook this breakfast. It was really cute, and I was like, you're not even like shed making avocado. It was my life really why it happened because he and I were just horny and up and you just fell asleep, and I was like, this would happen if we weren't drunk, which I'm not terrible for. I should have never fell asleep like that.

But anyway, my last and final room before we get out of here is pick a Leader. Say is my favorite threesome? And we do not talk about this enough, and I think this is the best one. God damnit, make it the clip of the week. Do not have a threesome where no one knows their role. If y'all have pick the leader, there's gotta be either one person that is starting the conversation, offering up the threesome, one

person that's taking charge. And don't have that. You couple, you need a director, you do pretty much, but if you're not. If you're in a couple and you're seeking the unicorn and you both don't know what the funk

you're doing. That's not attractive for the other person. You have to be very clear on who's making the moves, who's taking it to the next place, and if you don't and it's just up in the air, it's not a fun threesome for any Someone has to lead from the conversation to oral to fucking and then all kids and the kiss and then directing the position changes in between. So, yeah, you need someone in charge. You need someone to kind of direct you as to Okay, we're all comfortable, let's

now do something else and move along the threesome. I agree to that. I think that's very good. You definitely need someone to take charge and someone who's not sure to be like, okay, like, let's get it going. We have to well today what's fun and all about? Bound good? Even though you're the devil on whoever show now the devil?

Why she was just like, I'm just so happy. I'm so happy, That's what I'm glad that I'm happy because because you know what, women often we grow up with so much shame and guilt, and that's the part that I'm like, we'll leave it in the past, please, Because you make more money when you're not ashamed of yourself and when you're not, your prostitution and I'm just ha.

I mean where they can find you. Venus X on Instagram, venus ex gg on Twitter, even though I don't really use it, Um, SoundCloud, just look on Venus and for the fellows. If y'all like some good little gothic looking thirst traps, she got it, she'd be having a little you know, fashions. I ain't gonna like the fashions. Um, yeah, I'm out here, but there's a lot of fun things coming. I'm working on a lot of music. You have your

Patreon finished, I will, I will. There's a bunch of news shows, um that we're working on, music, TV, DJ streams, things of that nature, you know, pivoting into the digital world. And um, of course, if your Patreon is up by the time we post this, you guys can get all of that information in the description of this week's episode. Um. What else you can also find in the description is

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meet up with the get up. I really excited in this, y'all, Like I'm working tonight, That's why I'm not home and you see me in the studio and I literally just passed by with Alexandrew and he was like, oh my god, we gotta do this for our patrons. We have to be sitting try and whole bitch this ship. Let us fuck no, it really is. I love talking to shut up. Let me tell y'all something. Okay, did Flaker have a

Patreon before Whole of Decisions? Because they didn't. Y'all might have a little bit more money than this, but let's be real clear. My nigked cool asshole Army were the booty hoole army bitch shout out to the boodoles. Anyways, I guess we'll start off like we normally do with a quick little catch up hiding. No, I'm really stressed out and I cried all day because I'm not a fucking writer and I really should never have put myself

in this position. I'm in way over my head. I feel like this is the worst thing I've ever done to myself. You know, when you have an idea and you're like done, of course I can execute it. Niga. I cried for the last two days. Obviously I am a crier, so I think anything could have happened, but no, I'm super stressed. Also, I just want to let you guys know these thing is. I was in l A for work, and uh. They were like, yeah, if you're so stressed out, we could just move you out here.

I was like, that's really sweet. Um, yeah, would you guys pay for my accommodation and stuff. Yeah, we'll get you an apartment right across the street from the studio. The studio is in Glendale, California. Man, so I was like, well, that's not gonna work, but I don't want to live in Glendale. And they were like, okay, well we can get you a car. Do you have a license? And boy, oh boy, if you guys listen to the show, you know, that answers and no, um, they damn sure. I said yeah,

because I know nigas were gonna check up. You know what I'm saying. And then when they had me submit a picture of my license, I sent my passport so I couldn't find it, and he was like this, that ain't gonna work. So I'm back. So for all of you who do not know, we ain't got a license because that ship got suspended for like seven years for d u y ship. It's not a d many what was what was it? Then? I wanted I was driving while suspended, and then I was driving while it was revoked,

so now it's really revoked. But you know what's crazy, The five years is up. I was about to say, wasn't that like ten years ago? Bro? Yeah it was. It's just like now you have to like totally like redo the ship. Yeah I got arrested, bitch, ain't nobody had to bring that ship up. But your damn show brought it up. You technically brought it up, but I wanted left him to my own truth against me. Bitch, don't repeat my ship because now you're embarrassing. Your life

is embarrassing. I don't know what to tell you. I don't. I don't know it is it really is. Um. Yeah, she shared the jail story with y'all. I think here on Patriots at Scissors at the So. And you know, I only shared the jail story because, uh, someone tried to expose me and I said, let me hurry and get this out. Okay, come on, Eminem eight mile give it to him. Who eminem on eight miles said they're calling you Eminem. I thought, no, no one is calling

me Eminem. Bitch. Calm down, Ellen, Bro, you gotta chill with the hair jokes, bro Eve, because I let you rock. I'll let you rock over there. Bro, all right, all right, because we're not gonna go there now, we ain't gonna go there. Who else is a blind? I'm just saying, though, who else has a blind? Shortcut? Bitch? Andrew Schultz ship call me brown. Anyways, I guess it's funny that what you brought up. I guess we've been kind of um

feeling the same way. Um as you guys know, I have been uh doing my subscription box, and so I didn't know how many steps there were to creating like a whole business. So you're patent it because that's a good idea. We need to take this trade trademark has been submitted. Um. I mean I don't think I can patent it because it's a it's a subscription box, um, which is one of those Um. But building the website has been like insane. Have like I just flew in

my team members mind you. My boxes got stuck in customs uh last week, so I had to cancel my my team my team members fights, my my boxes are now ready to be shipped out. I'm super excited. Um. Yeah, it's just been a lot. It's it's been a super lot. Um. I'm stressed, and tomorrow I'm getting a massage because I really need it because my whole body hurts, and my nigga did give me a massage, but then it's like my backstops hurting, but my legs, like my what's it called?

What's the thing? What's the part called in between your thighs? Girl? Oh