We ain't here, y'all, we beck again for another motherfucking episode of horrible Decisions. I am one half of the host of this show, and I go by Mandy b a k A pit Sign, a k A full Core Pumps a k A Mandy Baskins a k A debt bitch. Hi, I'm wheezy. I'm going to practice my phone sex operator voice because that's technically a possible side ho hustle. This voice that I'm doing right now is Kelly, and I don't know where she's from yet, but actually, what's yours?
I have a Heather voice. Heathern No, It's like, OK, hi, man, he was Heather good? Yeah? Is this what you guys want to pay to hear that? Well? They want to pay me to hear my voice? Um, I got a little bit of rest, So I'm gonna be like you want me to know? That's exactly what I'll be like wood, Just so y'all know, you guys hear a third voice in the mic. And guys, we have a repeat guests one of the phase that we've had on the show. We are joined today with Ashley Chubby Baby, one of
my favorite pages. I mean, it's funny because like I was reading that she put blogger and I'm like, what's her blog? But technically instagrams are blog. Yeah, because I ain't gonna hold you. I can't get past a lot of your captions because it'd be like four paragraphs. I know people that have I like, I am not here forgot down paragraphs. I hate it, Like, okay, if I watch your lives man, okay, okay, your videos, I go
through all your instagrams. I was like, she's having a great and a great meme online that says, uh, if you see a long paragraph before a picture, it either means congratulations or sorry that happened to you. But Ashley, if you guys don't know, she did one of our Body Positivity BBWT episodes and it was really fun. And this time we're not gonna talk about the same ship. But I feel like, a wait, it was Devil Dick Portal. It was double but we also said, Wade, Yeah, we're
very good about handing the conversations. Okay, we did handle a lot. We handle the last I wanted to talk about, like top side whole hustle today because everybody needs some extra cash and food and anybody in this world, all of us, the billionaires that are in debt, everybody, but we I just felt like I want of the third bikes if we could go through this, and actually it's perfect for it. So let's do a quick catch up and anthy, what do you have? I mean, I'm like
just giddy. Oh sorry, just went on. You could also be an athlete because but I'm keeping up with the niggas on the bubble. Um we're not really, Um, I don't know, I'm like super giddy. Um, I don't know. Every time I talk about this boyfriend now, I just smile and like my cheeks hurt. So um, we're good. I went out of town and we shared like I miss youth for the first time. So that's cute. Um.
And it's funny because my friend hit me. It was like, so I had a dream, you know that he wanted to restrict you know that he wanted to some restrictions on you because which I've traveled every week for the last three weeks. He knows I'd be around you know, rich niggers, you know what I mean, and my friends.
He's met quite a few of them and they SHOs so um, I guess you know, we just kind of had the conversation because I know my lifestyle is different, um, and it's so it's just funny because my friend was like, yeah, so I had a dream that he wanted to put restrictions on on you and all of your extra activities. And I said it to him. I was like, look, my friend having a dream about us. And his response was just maybe smiling more. He was like, you should
let her know. She confused restrictions with restraints and was just basically like, you know, we talked about our boundaries and I'm fine with everything you do. He's like, I'll let you know as soon as I have a problem with anything. And I'm just like a really good with any new relationship the end. People wait till they're too far gone, or wait till the problem arises, until they create boundaries, which good and I just like it too. So um, shout out Glamazon tell me she came over
my house to record. We recorded, and we did like a two part episodes for periods this, and so we're sitting there talking and of course we're talking about sex and we're talking about relationships and stuff like that, and so I get into like, yeah, well I don't even get to be dominant with him. And I like get into like this little funk because I am the most
submissive that I have ever been with any partner. I'd be hating it, but like so literally I'm I'm on the couch like telling till on me how much he dominates me. And here he goes getting in his back. He's like, well, I let you dominate. And I'm like, when you'll let me dominate, Nigga, when do I dominate? And he's like, well, when we go to the sex what not the sex but when we go to the
nude beach. He was like, that's you taking me to an environment that you're very comfortable with and I'm letting you be the leader. Um. When we went to the sex club, he was like, that's your environment. He's like, you also have brought me around a lot of your friends, like you play with people at the sex book. Uh yeah, two of the girls. I didn't want any of the guys, which I think he thought I had my guard up. I think he Loki wants me to play with other guys.
Love that. Yeah, So like it's just it's just really dope because he's just like he's almost like you're sitting there and you're like, well, she like, do you feel the gilt? Yeah? Well. So it's weird because throughout this podcast, we like talked so much about swinging, opening open relationships, polly blah blah blah blah. And it's so crazy because as much as I've talked about I love MMF and how it was fun, I don't know if I don't
want to do it with him. So I'm in this space where I'm like, damn, that's the only person I want to do. Yeah, this stuff that I just don't want to do. I do really terrible things, like I'll see somebody out that I want to fuck. I don't think about sucking him alone. I think about sucking him with my NU every time that makes sense, I'm like, oh my god, I wanted to come in the room and starting facebuck me, like I'll fucking masturbate about a
daydream bread. It's so weird. I don't know why I laid with him last night after he goddamn ship out of me, like where I'm like, I'm leaned over the bed, I'm crossed. I'd be like, wait, I'm gonna get you your rag. But nig I gotta breathe first, and so I'll be like, and you want me to fuck you with someone else? And this is how you fuck me? Like I can barely keep up with you. Well maybe he could just do like a half beat juice day. Here we go. So what about you? What's going on? Well,
let me tell y'all. Everything's great and the same as far as my love. And so let's talk about a bit. Sha needs another side hustle hustle in her name's Anushka, a Caucasian cunt. Wow, I was so who is not even horrible decisions related? This ship just happened to me and it showed so much growth. I go shopping the other day because I needed an outfit for something very particular, and I go to a story that I can't name because they reached out to me after I talked about
it in my live. It's a very popular story, kind of hype beast. Either be a line outside. But I needed something in particular, so I go downstairs. I get this jacket. It's comed de Garson. It's three hundred and forty dollars. It's a trench coat, was perfect fault piece, and it had a belt to go with it. That was forty or sixty bucks. I get to the register in this Caucasian Nushka said, she goes, um, it's that alten. I was like yeah, And so she takes the jacket
and she goes, this is not sixty dollars. Did you know? This wasn't sixty dollars? And I'm like what? Because I was confused, I thought maybe she's gonna say the belt was on sale. Yeah, the belt is sixty dollars, but the jacket is three hundred forty. So I don't know if you knew, yes, I knew that, why would you bring that up? Like bring the coat up there and be like heya. The same way when you go out to eat, if you go to order another drink, they gotta let you not. So it's not free, it's gonna
be in. It's gonna be enough. It does. I don't want to say to the Caucasian cunts that listen to this show, I only can name Shannon, there's not another way, all right, there's a lot of them, bro I'm sure the actually in barbers andsion. I'm using the term Caucasian cunts so abrasively is because she felt like she threw it at me. So here's what happened through her Caucasian I immediately am about to start going off about how I have money, and then I thought, let me relax.
I said, you know what do you guys work on commission? Oh my god, you had your pretty woman moment a bit. She goes, what we do when we don't? I said, what do you mean? I've always wanted this show, which I didn't better. Okay, she goes, um, well, we do, but it has to be over five dred. I was like, oh, I'm only at like four something. She's like yeah. I was like, you know what, I actually wanted some airmax in a seven and a half. Can you go get
them for me? She takes about ten or fifteen minutes because apparently they were really hard to find, and she comes back almost sweating, like I had to go get it today. I was like, thank you so much. Can you hand it to me? Let me take it. She's like, okay. There was a black girl that was helping someone else got across the storm and I walked over to her with my things worth five hundred dollars and she's like, do you need help? I was like, oh, yeah, I just need you to ring me up because the news
isn't able to do so. And she's looking at me and she's like, what THEO is going on to The black girl started laughing, and I mean she had a mask of Jesus. So anyway, she fucking finishes with her client, she starts talking me. She actually had nothing, but I could tell she's trying to laugh. So then a news girl goes, oh, my associate ideas three four. I said, no, she doesn't need it, honey, she doesn't need it. So now the black girl want to be petty too, because
she already could tell how upset I am. She's like, you know what, we got some real cute rings, not to you like rings. Let me go take I'm my girls, take me to get them, bitch. The rings were like eighty bucks. I didn't really want to spend it, but I bought it. I was like, what else can you get me? What else can you do? She's showing me this jacket right that I don't want to see. But I noticed that a Nushka standing by persons. I was like,
show me those bags rushed by. Now I knew she was helping someone else, right, She's trying on the top. Tell me why it's happed. The black girl was like, what do you think? Give your expert opinion? I love it? Do you like it? Or what do you think? This witch wanted to kill me? Hanny? Anyway, my total came to about eight hundred something dollars and I just want to say, did I expect to spend that note? But to the feeling of fucking this bitch over was absolutely amazing,
And then you redistributed that wealth to another book. Really, did you know what? I'm not going to shop at this story anymore? But then I was like, she's just a bitch, you know, like fuck her and I really want to write about you'll review about it. But instead, when I get confirmation that I can drop this story y' all because they hit me up about my experience, I'm going to tell you that black girl's name. She was fun. She had a little um, what's this thing called a
little septum piercing. You know, she's a little cling back black bitch. I'm telling you I'll funk with her. I was like, you listen to horrible decision. I'm gonna talk about yes, hello, hi there, So anyway, um, that was my pretty woman moment. Big mistake, Big mistake. I would have still said that on the way huge. Yes, I had to go have her get them sneakers too, And I know she was so upset she kept walking by the register to see if the girl put her number.
Said now, honey, when you email me, let's receipt. If I don't see your my name, I'm returning to ship. She was like, hil how has how has quarantine been for you? Ashley? Oh my god? All of my little long post the job and we got to talk about one that you do that people are kind of like about my favorite people ever, one of my faves in y'all have heard me talk about my socks and ship. You know what I'm saying. Markets back up. We were in the red a few weeks ago and guess what.
Ian hit up the group chat and was like, y'all need to be getting rich. Get these Tesla stocks. Put a low. That's what I get now that I'm a part of the Red Panda Stock Club. Oh my Goddy, and I hate that name, but whatever, it saves me money and makes me any so our horrible decisions listeners get half off of Ian's club. The Master investor is Ian. That's who I'm talking about, is a black owned company. Black dude. He's fire, he's smart. He got me rich
by the way, rich broke. I'll mean rich rich. I ain't trying to sell a false pretense. I'm just saying I'm the nigga got my ship up right now. My Portsmolio was a up. I love it. I've got some in savings and some with Ian. He is super helpful, loves helping black people, especially women. I think he got a little home with him. But anyway, like I said in the description of the show, notes, there's a link you're gonna click that's gonna take you to his site
and it's going to be half off. Now. If you aren't sold by that yet, okay, if you don't want to join his stock club, check Ian out on market mondays. He's on YouTube. He's a podcast now and he does it with Earn your Leisure. They are so helpful, they are so smart, and they really want to help us get our finances together. Don't just invest in yourself, invest in niggles that I'm let me apple and test like I'm a money to me. I'm gonna get a little
cut and Shi. You know what I'm saying. I'm a shareholder now, and not to mention, I'm not reading a chart. I'm not doing anything I don't want to do ship. That's why I'm part of the stock club. So thank you so much. Do the work for me, Ian, let him do the work for you, and let's enjoy the horrible decisions. Baby. You always post when you're on bumble or tender when guys ask you do you have roommates or not? Oh my god, you just saw that. But
you've done it a lot. I have, and I saw some people be like, oh, he take stuff too personal, some fake page, but I blocked them. I don't know who that was, but I was like, I don't engage with Bernard. I'm always interested in what people think, because when men have asked me that, I didn't necessarily think creepy immediately when you made a great point, tell us why it's so creepy for a guy to ask us
if we live alone? And well, first of all, pre COVID, that was a very popular question, and as someone that does have roommates, I understand like being able to be courteous of that situation and be like, oh, well, if I come over, but I'm just like, that's if we get further into the conversation. These are questions that are happening pretty early on, Like there's not a raport yet, so I'm just like, why are you concerned? Like I'm I like kind of calm down about the where do
you live? Thing because I'm like, if you see on the app like I'm a little bit away, like you could, I think it's it's so much of a New York thing. This is a New York it is a New York thing. But like at the same time, um, I don't ask men if they live by themselves. Even when I was in college, I didn't, like I was fucking I have roommates, Like it wasn't you know we I think take offense to it. But it's crazy because you even saying you
don't ask men if they have roommates. That's something where I think technically, as women, we should know we're walking into a house. We should but I didn't. Actually I never we should know. We should, but I don't bring it up because I'm not presumptuous enough to think that that's where this is going necessarily. And like the excuses that I've been getting is like this is a tuck up at I'm like, yeah, but this app also for people that want to meet friends. I know people have
got married on this app. So either way, even if it is a hook up, why don't we get to that point first before we set up logistics because you're already out the gate being like do you live by yourself? So let me tell you the tweet and let me know if you if you agree with it. So there's a tweet that went viral this week and it said that when you live in New York and a guy spends the night over your house two nights in a row,
you think he really likes you. Little do you know he's just trying to get away from his mama and aunts and cousins. And they don't have a home, they don't have a home, or they don't have a home because really just be trying to spend the night in they do homosexuals up here And how do you? Where do you? Because I want to know, like are you in the village? Are That's why I calmed down that.
But when you're alone or roommates, I got it, yeah, because like it's just also as someone that's recently had to deal with like being like assaulted, Like I don't really want to share that information with a stranger man, like and so the contact like I was even I can't believe you asked about because I was literally in the car likes onting to this person that like I really like, So I'm kind of disappointed that you posted like I think you may be posted different. These are
all different people. These are all different people, and I'm just like, this is not the same conversation because don't know what to say either. So where do you live? Is a good? Like as soon as the nickel tell me he lived in Brooklyn or somewhere far, I'm like, this isn't gonna work, Like I need you to be uptown New Rochelle Yonkers, like you say Brooklyn, It's gonna take me an hour and a half to get to. Also, why are you not asking me to meet in a
public place first? Valid? Why are we leaving with COVID? So I want to people outside. It's bumping in Brooklyn, but everybody's outside with masks and it's just like I've actually been asked by people, do you want to go get a drink outside? Because like they're asking park dates and stuff, so like they're getting creative, but it's just like there is an overwhelming amount of like men that
are just like, do you live by yourself? Because they're already presuming that they're allowed in my personal person because I really ever took into account how creepy that was. And for men, for that tip and for Mandy's tip for women, definitely before you walk in the house, ask
someone else. Yeah, I think you need Yeah, I think it's I think it's women like now that even just you bringing it up, like well out of respect, I don't care if he has roommates, which is fair, but as a woman, if you're dating and now you're going to his place, I think it's important to know are you living with two helpings? Am I gonna walk into a living room of men? Like you know that think it's weird because men usually volunteered that information. I've never
had to ask you because they volunteered that information. They're like, oh well well yeah, they feel like they had to act to they didn't ask your as Yeah. It's like always like, oh, my roommates or whatever the funk, or I have roommates and then they'll be like what about your place, and it's like, Okay, I heard some people saying, well, they're trying to figure out who's gonna host, and I'm like, okay, but we're not at that part of the conversation and
so and that's where the disconnect is coming from. We're not even on the same page about how this is going to pan out yet, and you're already planning on my place being the place we're doing that. So we have a lot of male listener for men who are on these apps because right now, because a lot of us aren't leaving our houses, often a lot of people
are swiping more than ever. What would be your bit of advice for our male listeners as to how they approach going about asking about your living situation or or what time frame is that okay to ask? Make sure you establish a rapport first, um, because like I said before, there wasn't like there wasn't like a thing where we were like already like oh my god, oh my god, and we've been talking for a bit and then you asked, it was like very much like these are within the
first couple of messages. So that's where I'm like, this is creepy, because like we just swipt on each other. We just got past the me moving into my new place thing, and now you're like, well do you live by yourself? Because those are the only ones that I posted because I have lots of screenshots on my phone and like, these are the only ones that I could like find where they're all consistently asking me where I live, because the other ones are buried and stuff because I
have too many pictures. But it's just like, if you're like a sis man and you're fucking anybody that's not sis man, you need to understand that there needs to be a little bit more of a time frame from when you ask that question, because if you are a book on the same page about it, say, for instance, you're like on an app like pure where that's literally just a you have. It's called Pier and it's like it's like purely a hook up app because it used to have a time where you had an hour to
make a decisions where not you're gonna this person. Excuse me, yes, it used to be a lot more like you know, wait what it's called Pierre. It's called Pure pu r E the CEO as a woman and it's really and it's literally an app where you have an hour to decide where not anymore. They're doing all these weird things to the UI, so it's like really good rating. Yeah,
they're doing all these weird things to the UI. The only problem I have is that like it shows you people, you can't show your you can't really change your location like search settings. It's just kind of like you put a add up and everybody around you is just like taking response kind of grinder. It's it's like a straight grinder. A straight strap has four point four views at a five for app. That's very high because remember mind you
technical issues and the actual content. Here's one of the reviews. A little topic my best dates or with Pure guys. And I use a lot of dating apps and this is my favorite. I mean all kinds of people. I'm a woman who's ready for adventure. Bet we need you a little hope, you know what, I know what I want. Pierre gives me the opportunity to get it. Where I've never met really a good fun on Pure literally no, Like, I've only met two people off of there and I've
been using that for a while. And the second person that I actually had a good time with, I matched with him on tender before and then saw him on and then he was like, oh, so now I know what you're looking for. And I was like cool, and that was like one of the best sexual experiences I've ever had in my life. She's still talking about using it during quarantine. She says, the thing is woman, The thing is woman's desire works differently. Sorry for generalizing, but
this is true. And if a man is up to sleep with someone right away, women make sure that they feel comfortable with this person, even if it's on one night. Than as long as we respect each other in the boundaries, I haven't been having an amazing experience. The times are strange considering Corona, but we keep it all fun and we stay having safe chats on the app and find our creative ways. I'm for any adventure. I'm here without leaving the house. But where is like etho, because here
they're just like they asked that do you live by yourself? Thing? Too? But I'm like, did I do even know if I want to fuck you yet? But if you're on pure, don't you want to? I do want to funk because that's the thing I do want to funk. If I'm on here, but it's just like, but even if we like match, you still have to like the work. You have to like show me that this is gonna be. How does the how do the guy? How does the guy put in work? Without like going about taking you
out to eat here? If I'm here, you don't have to do all of that because I'm like, I literally go to that and I'm just like, you know what, I just want to have like some dick come over whatever, but at least and what is him putting in work? Him is like you know they I don't understand why flirting is taking out of the equation. I don't know why we're going immediately to show me your tips? Do you want to see my dick? Like there needs to be I have so many screenshots of that, and I'm
just like, like, what are you looking for? A type of question? Yeah? I just asked me, um, you know what kind of sexual experience? Because I feel like on the other apps, everybody like assumes that their hook up apps and so they think that they don't have to respect the situation. Here is a hook up app, but you still have to like have a conversation with about to someone's going to write us a homemail about sucking someone on this and we need to meet that woman
they do. I the guy that I met on there from, but I like met on Tender and then on there, Like I had fun with him because he was really open minded and kinky. Like when we first met up in person. It was like after like two weeks of talking because he was like busy and his teacher. He spent me in the bar bathroom. We were like and like we were like over in the corner and I had a little slutty little dress on and like this was like last year before definitely pre COVID. Yeah, where
it was definitely pre COVID. You were like and we were like in the corner drinking and like he was rubbing on my legs and I was just like I've never done anything like this before. I put this like flirty and sexy in front of people. And then I asked him. I was like, can I ask you something? And he was like, I said, it's like, can you
spank me in the bathroom? He was like okay, and we went the bathroom and it was just like I felt like I was like in a movie or something because he was literally it was just so hot that he was like grabbing me in sex movie, like yeah, like and then before he was in the bathroom, and then before he left text before he left, he was like, Okay, so the next time we're gonna see each other Sunday, and I'm gonna leave right now, and then you leave
after me. And I was like okay, and and so I left, and I was like, but when I stuck, when I stuck dick in the hot in the in the bathroom, it wasn't hot, goodbye, it was It wasn't on the toilet, but like I stucked the dick, damn. But you made he made. It seems you were sitting on the toilet. He was sitting on the toilet, was there? I don't remember. I think so it was a it was a hotel bathroom moves clean, It looked clean. It wasn't a barack. I'm like, you know, any way, I'm
a back. Why didn't lead? It was then the way man he told this story. We could not match the video a video. We went to the spin class and the whole tell next door. She had to meet her in the public bathroom and she sucked his sta. Yeah, but it was it was a It was cute. It was a nice little it was something about the toilet. It's the toilet for me. Okay, let's just CONVINTI Vanilla ship because this one hot fucking mess hot ass mes Messica Kalisha, who honestly I've been a fan of because
she's been talking about her instaing. I'm like, yo, I love like she first season love and thought I she doesn't. Yeah, yeah, but she didn't touch her face. I don't know, Hollywood, Hollywood, I don't like when the cool Do you remember where her and Nikki had that problem because I was both working that dude, and you see how fine like that. She used to live in Atlanta. When I lived in Atlanta. This was like two thousand nine dope, because she had
like real abs. Her body was banging to me. Now it's just been touched too much for her breast, like the bread. Yeah, I don't think her there, it has been put on top of I think she's had light bulb over her abs that she had at one point, her lips. I don't look too Maybe I'm just thinking of like her and clothes. I don't know. I don't know if you guys don't know who she is she's a loveing hip hop star populating. She had a kid
with Petty Wip. A lot of people know from that, but I don't know when this is coming out, But oh my god, this ship was trash. I'm like, where did that? You said that to me immediately, like I just got I knew you was about this fash. So she posted a fake kidnapping video to promote her only fans. Now, I just want to play a little bit of this sound because it was. It wasn't even good act. It was so bad and that's what made it. Sorry, hold
on could be really bad. And they're coming. They said that you guys have to leave me tips and follow me, so they can take the line that they're not going to leave me. Um, now that I got your attention, I wanted to talk about been very important. I'm sorry if I scared you, but sometimes you need that shock factor. Um, I'm on set right now with me for my new show. She's she's literally a lure. She has bruises on her face as well, like a black a black guy. Yes,
I've been kidnapped. I'm in a warehouse somewhere, I don't know where. I'm so scared. They took all my money and they want more. Please help me click the link in my body and subscribe to my only fans and tip me so they'll let me go. They're coming now. She's crying, She bruises all over her body. She talks about how she's in a warehouse. Nina start flipping out, and then ten minutes later, ten minutes they like that because mind you, this by this time had already made
the shade room and black owned nerve. She she immediately do you immediately sent me the update video? I wanted to talk about him, and I'm sorry, girl, Please, it's giving me very. Can I switch this up now? It's made me very When Snoop Dad tried to act like him getting caught up with that girl was a part of the show that we never saw. Oh, I know exactly Cloud Chaser. Yeah, he made up an entire show was like, oh, this is for cloud Chasing because he's married.
He was married with children. Yeah, I mean it was so uncomfortable to watch that, particularly obviously because black sec traffing victims high concentration in Atlanta. We were just talking about Atlanta, like, did you all see the thing that happened in Milwaukee. Okay, so recently, and this is probably like the last month and a half, there was a home in Milwaukee that was in this black neighborhood that the residents noticed a lot of like the younger children
were specifically young black girls were missing. Um, they called the police. The police would never do anything, and so the neighborhood basically got together and we're like, we're going to storm this house. And so while they go to the how so they're like filming and you can see police officers going into the house and sneaking people out and so yeah, so now they have riot police showing up because now the crowd is getting bigger because they're like, we need to get the girls out of there. We
think the girls are in there. Then after the police have escorted, you can see I think the video might still be available. After they sneak the people out. Um, the people go in the house and find all of this child stuff. They find paperwork talking about who's having sex with who, how many times they are. It's literally set up like there's beds everywhere and there's children's clothing. So nobody knows who lit the house on fire. They think the police did it to like so that nobody
else will get more into it. But it's just like this this community had to take it into their own hands to find these people. They actually found these kids. The police weren't finding them, and it's just like because like it's just so tone deaf of her to do something like that, because not only is that still fresh, but like y'all were talking about the six traffing thing,
especially bring their hair out in uber's as DNA. Yeah, I mean it's to the point now as well, like where ubers and lifts are like doing things to protect you more because they say those apps were being used for sexual and people like are now warned to make sure you look at the tech number, make sure you verify the technic videos of the of the conversations where you can protect conversation tiktops that that we have to
go through these measures. There's also something right now and guys, um I'll posted on the Patreon there's a TikTok now that a woman made, but basically something to where you share um a folder with one person that you trust and it literally includes everyone that you're either currently fucking,
that you're talking to. The passwords to your social media's things like that, because this takes a lot of time normally for cops to get access to phones, especially because just of laws and privacy and so what that what she's suggesting that women do is create this folder, give it to where one person knows where it's at, so that if you do go missing, you save the time and possibility of of your your safe return because now
the police have all of this. I think there's also yeah, have you seen that a little the blue thing on there now if you're if you're on tender, it has this option there's like a little blue shield up in the corner where um, it's basically it's it's safety and you turn it on how to deal with harassment. And then it has it where if you go to their profile and you like swipe on it, it will show that they had that in effect at the top of their profile when you swipe on that in the messages
you can see. But also like it's just it just goes to show, especially with all of this, how toned off she is and she thinks that that's something that she needs to do. She's tried and then just say like I'm on set, and so it was like girl, yeah, she said Jocelyn. Girl playing a sex vic was sex traffic. It's like obvious. She wasn't trying to raise where and so you wouldn't have told us about the only fans thing.
Maybe she could have said I was donating it. That would have still been fi, but we would have taken it, and she didn't. She didn't at the foundation or organization that she claims that she was learning about this sex trafficking from. But that is beyond damage control. No, seriously, somebody sat and every where I was like, bitch, put the robo on cover to titties and let's talk about an organization. Let me google something sex trafficking. Non so
somebody put that makeup on her. Well, I do believe that she was filming for something. Yeah, I believe she was filming for something, because a lot of people are like, oh, she's in her bathroom. You guys don't. A movie set can be anything. You can be in a house for a movie set. So I think she really was filming for some But I do think was phony was did you guys watch the whole apology to our view or no?
There's a moment where she someone comes in, Oh yeah, She's like I'll be right there just seemed a little stage, seemed a little stage. Knock on the door, let's get this going. She was like in thirty five, like you can just own up to your dumb ship. Dude, Like I think that cancel culture it's toxic, yes, but there's a deeper rooted thing with cancel culture, and it's we did something wrong. Someone did something wrong, so just own
it and be honest about it. Leeper thing also with cancel culture is that's the only way a lot of times, especially marginalized people can exercise their power because of how we exist within capitalism. We vote with our dollar, people listen only with our dollar, and even when we're going to vote, which you should, but like that's something that
also is swayed by dollars. So when you have a population of people, that the only way that something is going to get across that it's incorrect because you have not broken a contract with our society, you broken a social contract. You are now behaving in a way that
harms people. Then I feel like if we want to say something about it, that's fine, But you also have the Republican National Convention running away with that and spinning this web and narrative like cancel culture so toxic and it's ruining everything because they don't want to put up. They don't want to like own up to their ship and having people point blank access man why he like, is he going to take responsibility? See any of the clips. Let me tell you what I really thought about last
night when I watched Milannia Trump. I watched they say I hate, Oh my god, Milania like her accent where an it was so strong. All I can think is all of the people that vote for Trump, I feel like are the kind of people that are like on the phone, like give me someone from America. I can't understand you. And then she goes, it is critical that
the Republic because everybody needs chance. If you'll think and thinking for me, if you'll know the best the best part was before did y'all see she pretty much stole Michelle Obama speak. That was again her checked out. But if you think I'm bullshit with and I have been able to high like program program girl, if I'm not gonna lie, she reads like she got her finger under each telephone throad it's he's to highlight my husband and children. I am U s CTC in two cardipes. Whatp is disgusting.
But if you want you slokings been Shapiro, are you getting me? Listen when I tell you, I don't think I have ever seen a song makes so many people upset and uncomfortable, and it's literally just like what the entire and we've talked about this. Now this is, oh my god, I've never I've never seen so many white that only fans with the content that I've seen from her, and I think very good. Only fans because we like Russia. Yes,
now she's living. So I have a horror dirve chip that I think that you guys are going to love. I've named it, I'm calling it. I think I'm calling it the slap and slurp, the slap and suck. Okay, this is men. Okay, I guess you could do this too if you're wearing a strap. So when a woman is having an orgasm, this is a lot better in missionary right, So she's coming hard, she's enjoying the orgasm. You have to pull your dick or strap in and out right, so like she's like feeling it a little
bit more. That's why we have ribbed condoms because of the sensation it will get Now, what you do, like right when the orgasm is coming to an end, how you can elongate it is you take your dick out and you slap it on the clip a little bit, and then you suck the come out of the pussy literally to keep the orgasm continuing, continuing, continuing, right, So you're sucking her she's coming whatever, even if she's like touching her own clip to come, which I encourage all
women to do. I feel like it's such bullshit to me how ego and girls feel like they can't do that exactly. Once she's like almost done coming or like even done coming, you slap the dick on there because it's like mad sensitive clicks, always like a little swollen, and then you just start sucking the ship out of the place. I like how it feels when dicks get
slapt on. Like he it's so crazy because when you when you when you said it, my mind went actually go, well no, like so my like my partner does this thing like and he makes me orgasm like just a lot. I'd be shaking like a fucking lunatic. But what he'll do, what what he'll do is while I'm like shaking, like I'm fucking having a seizure. He'll like start slapping my ass just like this, like so it's almost like flogging
with his hands. But it's like a thing and stations like that you can have like right after all where people normally stop after So when a guy help, I had a lover teach me a little bit after care after that, because he was the one that was consistently He's the one I first came from head to He's the one that first taught me, like I have a Jese wall orgasm. Like he was like CONSI instantly doing
different things to me. But like what he would do is that he would take his fingers and he would run them along my body while I was like finished.
I do that after thighs after like and I've been doing that with like my recent leverage, and they're all like they're like, I've never had this happen before, because like you said, everybody just comes and passes out or like laserside or cuddles, but like they never do like the touch, because that's what your body is the most things, because it's still like it's still it's weird, like when you come you know, how you're laying there for a second, breathing.
Maybe you're not still coming, but it feels really good to like still have a sensation after towards complete high and low, you know what I mean. But which when I had that slapping suck, I was like, wow, oh, so your friend taught you and then you tried it. I didn't say this didn't happen to me, but no, I mean like the girl was like, oh, my friend called me and told me she comes like her. Oh that yes. I literally started thinking about her right when
you your friend. So I get a call Sunday morning at eight am from a girl I really don't talk to you that often, and she called and I was like, wow, something must be wrong with this bitch calling me. I'm like hello, She's like, I don't know who else to talk to right now. I don't know else to talk to now. When she's saying that, I really think something's wrong. And I was like, you're pregnant. Immediate thought. It's just like emergency every time, when do we get rid of it?
So Na, she needed to explain this orgasm to She's like, honestly, like I came, I came. He took his whole mouth and sucked my pussy. He sucked to come out of my pussy. Have you ever had that happened to you? Mind you again, It's Sunday, the Lord's Day, and I'm just like, I'm annoyed that she like calling me, and I'm like, you know what, let me celebrate this for a second. This is a really nice moment for you. And she's still breathing really heavy right, and I'm like,
I just need to know is he still there? She said, yeah, but I just have to call you. Just feel I feel like I've been missing something. And I'm like, have you come before, bitch. She's like, there's something about when he sucked the come out of my pussy. She said it four times. The call lasted three minutes and it was literally herd just needing to share it to the world. And I don't know if I can share this stories.
I won't say her name, but bitch, it's just funny because it's like she realized, I'm a whole I love that. I love when that happens. I have friends do that all the time and say, oh my god, he just left. I gotta I gotta talk about it. I told you, I sing for it, so I want to give to my own horde. Derv Um and my partner did it recently and it was like the newest thing. I mean, it was so weird because it's so simple, but something that he didn't mind. You we have a lot of
porn star sex, so steering like rounds. He was inside of me and he did like the most sentraal thing, like he started from like so he kissed my forehead and it was like, you're so sexy. They and he went down and was had his arms around my waist. He when he was like, I love your little waist. Then he grabbed my ass and I was like, I love this. As he went down and like was like in these sighs, I love your thighs. And he literally went down and like squeezed and semi massage each part
of my body that he loved. He was like, in your tips, I look like and it was just like what I was like like some sort of like almost like body worshiping in the middle of sex. And I was just like and he was just all of these positive affirmations that he loved every bit of me, and I was just like this wee else now fellas I've been trying to help you out. I gave you all the tip on beat juice, but here is something else to help you last longer in the bedroom and please
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but I'm just stick with flut. It feels more fun. That's funny because it's still the same acronym for sex work. What s W slats and horror is there? Oh s W SEK, I didn't know that, like me being on seeking arrangement with sex work at the time, and you know I too, You've been up there, and so I thought we should go through really quickly anyone that's you know,
been out of work and need some extra cash. I'm gonna try to site if we can remember some Mandy and I UM episodes where you can reference, can give
a precursory first. Okay, So in light of recent events, if you are somebody that is, like everybody else, seeking UM supplemental income at this time, please understand that when you do enter into sex work, you need to respect it and the people that it originally because, like we have seen over the past few months, with the explosion of only Fans and other online sex worker platforms, UM celebrities getting on board it is it has become very
sensationalized what actual sex workers are still being shipped on in the process. The whole yeah, the whole hierarchy UM. The So if you want to engage in that, you have to also understand that this is a legitimate UM form of work for other people that do this outside of the pandemic and quarantine and that it should be
treated as because it is a job. Sex work is a job, but also it's one of those things like even in the space that I am outside of media, but me starting the trucking business, I mean doing this, I research it and I think that that's something that maybe a lot of people just think, oh, I can just hop on only fans, but it is important to see what your rights are when you do it, like how this will stay with you the other sites that
could potentially be posting what you think. Right, So, um, I think it takes a lot into if you are going to do any of these things that we do. Does tax information to right, So you need to literally do your research on what you're gonna owe at the end of the year. Quarters. Yeah, she said some crazy What I like to be in that place where I could even pay taxes a quarter, absolutely, but it's taxed heavily,
much like marijuana's recreational tax and ship like that. I mean, essentially you're independent contractors, so you don't have taxes coming out. But trust me, trust and believe. Although the governm has their little shitty ways of not protecting sets workers, they still want to come in. They that they want they could now, Um, we got the accounting side, how you can hoe responsibly. The number one I have is only fans and we all talk about it. We all know
about it. Um. We have some episodes you can reference with be Nasty Lena the plug many did. I don't know what number it was, but it was a little bit a while ago. Um. And then I saw that Lena on YouTube has some only fans tips and tricks, so you guys can go on there on YouTube and see how people market it. But the number one tip that I've read about, I don't have an only fans I know you guys do, is everybody talks about camera qualities selling better. I mean that's why even for and
I mean I just have a foot page. Um, but time friends, do you know what it so well? And it actually that's one of the best. The only fans doesn't have to have nudity. Well, I bet with my man, so I told him he has to let me give him a foot job and I'm going to sell it on only fans please, So I am going to do a job finally. But that's why, like I shot with Mr Photographer, you guys can literally look up photographer. We did an episode with him. Um, but yes, camera quality
is quite important and he makes it look good. Even when I'm out with my homegirl beat shout out to her she's a photographer, I'd be like, you know what I mean? So, yeah, I think quality is important. And another tip they had, sorry before you give us yours. Actually they talked about how like eight percent of only fans, girl do not have a consistent schedule. And I know you were talking about how you be forgetting literally like
three posts. I hold you, I got like nine. I guess like some girls will do titty Tuesday or whatever whatever they're doing tolls Tuesday. I guess you could do. But basically they're saying if you Sunday date or like day of the week that you're going to post up, people feel more inclined to give you money because they know they're going to get that bank, kind of like how we rock with Patreon and guys, if you don't know on Patreon, you get three bonus episodes month we've
been doing them and nine am on Mondays? What do you have the only fans tip that maybe you heard or are you going to do it? I'm not. I've had my UM account since quarantine started, but I haven't uploaded any content because I was like living in a place I didn't have good lighting for my camera, and
also I just got a new phone. UM. But my tip, because I actually did sign up for another tip is sign up for other people's only fans so you can see what they're doing, right, because I also when I signed up for some I saw how they were doing it UM. This one person that I followed what um consistently send out private videos that you can pay for and let you know they uploaded something, and like be like, oh, like really be engaging. It's like it's a social media platform. Yeah.
But like also they do it in the inbox, and that's a really big terment of like drawing stuff. She's like, oh, like they'll send you like extra stuff in the inbox and you can pay to see it. I have a guy that tips me ten dollars every time I post, and he just tips me ten dollars. He's like, yeah, the second one I have. I feel like we could do a whole episode about this honestly one day. But Seeking Arrangement is an age old app and it's a sugar Daddy, Sugar Mama, sugar baby app. Now I would
stay away from it. Now. Yeah, well, I want to point out a few things because it's one of the most popular sugar baby apps. A lot of people are looking for sugar daddies. Right, there's sugar Daddy for me. This one is the most widely used. However, a lot of fake sugar Daddy and scam, a lot of scammers asking for account information, so you have to be careful with that, UM. And the other thing about this app too, there are rankings like Platinum and different things where guys
can pay extra, so they may be more inclined. But the one thing I'll say about seeking arrangement, I used it email. It's free. You got a free Pamium account. That's right college email UM. At the time, I remember I met a guy that owned a dealership in Orlando, and he was very nice looking and like. We went on a few days to gave me cash. We never slept together, but I remember him telling me like that he wanted me to be careful. The guy told me this. He was a nice guy and he's like, you know,
like I know you live downtown. He did as well, and He's like, be careful because he's like, there's so many people that once they know the area that you're in, they could just easily find you. There's only a few buildings around this area. It's a small town Orlando, right, how many luxury buildings are in downtown Orlando. I've got a dog. They see it in the picture. He's like, you could be walking. He's like, I uploaded my I D and the idea was expired, and I still was
able to get a Paige. He said. I didn't even realize it was expired until months later, and I was like, Wow, I started all this and you don't have to actually pay for the background check on their right, right. It's a very basic thing, So be careful with that one. The third one I have, I have definitely used Debra when I was working at the motherfucking mall. It was like I had an outfit ready to go for warser price.
So I don't know what your situation is if you want to go outside, if you're feeling comfortable with COVID, but what's your price? Dot com is a website where people can bid on dates with you. I think the best I ever got was two hundred and I've done, and he expected to suck me. The cheapest I ever took I think was um, but my first what's your price? Date? Out played. He was black and he was young, so I was super excited. I don't know if I ever talked to you about it. I feel like we knew
each other at that time. But anyway, he was cute and he did on like a fifty dollar date or something, and he took me to get sushi and he never paid me, and I remember thinking like, oh my god, like this is why they say you get the money first, and I really needed it now I ate for free. But like I think he thought because I was chill
and we were on the same level. And I want to tell you guys that too, Like so not only are you being paid to go on a date, they also pay for the mail, That's right, So like they're pretty much paying you to sit across from them and eat. Honestly, have you ever done it? I haven't done it? Um, I don't. I don't know. The sin of that was like me just going through trying to do sugaring through like Tinder and like bumble, oh really, so what what
did you? What do you put on tender and bumble. Well, like, I don't put that on there because they flag it because the Sesta Fasta, so like Sessa Fasta still has a reach within like our dating apps and stuff they did. I sent Ashley the outline and put a hashtag to help you guys with one of another tip I have, and it wouldn't even let me send it to her. He said it went against the guideline. Also only fans
on only fans. I tried to like, I'm trying to make it like cute where it's like, oh, this is this because I like to take a lot of like nude selfie, so I was like, this is a nude selfie I took before I went to go meet this guy. And they said, you can't put meat on the special keywords. You can't. That's how deep this ship is. That's how deep this ship it was. It was crazy. I sent it and it just kept rejecting it. So the next one I have before we get into the hashtag ship
is miss travel dot com. Now this is that Jason was seeking in which or price. This one's kind of random and a little more risky, but I just want to bring it up, you guys, Obviously safety needs to be a precaution with this, but if you don't care about going on a trip with an old, ask naked miss,
travel dot com is probably for you. How it works, You sign up, you upload photos, there's a travel dating community, millions of members, and they're going to basically offer you a luxurious get away and uh yeah, there is apparently over a quarter million, six hundred and eighty thousand travel companions, uh two hundred thousand trips that were made. This has been a Vice, Cosmo, fucking Huffington Post, but it's very popular.
And then they actually have testimonies from and I don't mean to shoot on her because I don't mean like that, but means girl in the baby she's a very regular She was very like everyday looking white girl. And I don't want you guys to think you have to be this fucking instant model looking ship, because I think a lot of us assume that, Like there is a look that I always think about when I think sugar babies now, and it's like the l A Kardashian looking girl. But
that's not necessarily the case. Like it looks like a lot of these are normal guys too that may even have like a work trip. They want to bring somebody on where. I mean, if you guys are the same place and you feel comfortable, but like they look normal. This looks like a tinder pick, it does. They look the same aid they do, so it's like it's tricking, but maybe it ain't. You know, do you all want
to go to talone? We'll say this the photos. The NBA season almost over football, I don't know if it's gonna start. Y'all gotta go ahead and just slide at M d M and get you a little free trip to Mexico. That's where everybody going to Mexico. Some people don't like those NBA player type of niggas, Like we all, yeah, I haven't been a proof of riot yet, right, you
just kind of okay? Even though my friend like literally was like, oh, I'll send you like the invitation and I didn't help with her because I'm still like on the waiting list, and I was like, when the cool Buyer was on it for like three years, mine took that. Mine took a minute. So I want her on the show so that I love her. I love Buyer energy. You do, and if you listen to why don't you date?
Why don't you? Davy normally don't do like the super other um other podcast shoutouts, But I've been listening Space is actually really good, So why don't Yeah, why don't you Date Me? By Nicole Buyer. I think she was exclusive for a while to like Stitchers comedian. Yeah, but it's it's on like Apple podcast now. I listened to it and I think she's great. So the next one we talked about with very home mother briefly, and I just want to give you the because she's to use
the term cuddle buddy. But the site is Cuddle Comfort and you can log in from Facebook, um if you want. But basically you sign up for free and you search for the nearest cuddle buddy. And I looked into this when I first moved here for my internship. Really I sure did, but it did not look this, you know, you know what what I actually kept running across. So when I first moved to New York, it was this
was prior. This was when Craigslist was still out, So in order to find bartending gigs, I would look on Craigslist, and Craigslist actually had a lot of these things where you would be either the host or you would be one of the women to just be in a room and you got paid literally to to kind of flirt or kick off. And I found out later they were sucking sex sex clubs, but they paid women just to be in the space, and you did have to be a certain size, send your picture and stuff like do
you know what that was? I hate to say it, but that was our trip to hedonism. Think about it. I mean hiring people that you know, we're gonna be fluid, that are attractive, they're fun, and you're put in that place and then you might fuck, you might not, they don't know, but they're gonna make sure you're more ask there. Okay, so I have them to share. Oh it's not as you know, glossy as hedonism. But there are sex clubs
here that do that and it's not cool. Uh yeah, because in order to combat the because usually with sex clubs, I know, with like sex parties now, because it's curated, they're not as like like sex party different like yeah, because they're curative, but like sex clubs, they're like you have that they used to be, like you have to
have a moment with you. You can't come as a man by yourself, which I understand, but now they're like, oh, we'll just charge them more and one night a week for one night a week, but then they'll show up the ones that aren't really regulated, they'll be there all the time by themselves. But whatever. But one of the ones I went to, I responded to an ad on fetlick because they were looking for staff yep, does yep get there and I'm talking to her about my dombing experience.
I'm like yeah, I'm like, She's like, are you used to being this kind of environment? I was like, I'm used to watching people get shipped on, Like I'm this is fine, and then like she was like, okay, so we're gonna do. Then she explains me what it was, and I think that was like really shitty that she waited until I got there to explain. And it was basically, you have to pretend like you're one of the swingers
and then you have to go that's what the crada. Yes, yes, yes, but like the girl, but like the girl, like the girls, they're literally like very homely. But then also like they're not getting paid as much. But she told me how much of it get paid. I was like to do what And she was like, these girls are literally fucking all these dudes that like feel like they're not included and they're getting paid a hundred and fifty dollars for
the entire night. Yeah, I was like so exploited. And then one girl was talking, She's like, I just need to pay for my biking in for my back andury I was like, girl, please, So there's another yes, but yeah, it could be from what y'all said, but all the way down to like, oh, y'all can just pretend like you just pretend like you're gonna ad that I was finding Okay, Um, so they're just but also I would
do it. No. Literally, they made sure to let you know you don't have to play, but we want you to come in and be fun like you would play. Response to Craig, I'd like that to be a host. And they were very upset. Even the guy that was that responded to me for the post was just like, why you're not sucking nobody, And then like he was trying it. He was like, oh, so, like I noticed that you're because there was like an audition. They were like three other girls and so I'm trying to be
bubbly and cute and stuff. I'm like, okay, our titties are out. But I was told and I have fun nobody, so I'm having a great time. And then he's like, well, all the guys are like talking about you and it seems like you're in first place for the host. Yeah, but I kind of want to save you for myself. And I was like, what, Like, yeah, I noticed you're not sucking nobody, Like, what's the deal you got a man or something. I was like, oh, this is what's going on. So like I like left after that and
what the deal is same here for the host. Yeah, that didn't include being a hose I was. I was told multiple times that I didn't have to suck anybody, and I didn't and so but sometimes it's expected, especially when you get there, to start being pushy. So that's why on credits, you gotta be careful. That's that's why my friends love me. Yeah, I bring them around the niggas and I'll be letting them know you ain't gotta funk. But if it happens, it happened, like there's literally no pressure.
But maybe with the ship with an old guest from the show who's definitely a hope for show and I'll never forget. She takes me out and she was like, girl, I ain't known know you ain't going these niggas. She's like, this is not a little square friends. And I was like, oh my god, like I host the sex Oh my god. But also like, no, everybody calls me square too. It's fine, like I literally work in a dungeon. But okay, I'll be the square bitch for you. It's a weird I'm
the homie. I'm the homie with all the nasty stories. I'm the one too. But so how does that make me a square? I think it's because like summer some dorky or some maybe summer like they want you to be Selina Powell esk. But I'm more like how it gets people caught up? I don't really you know, like I respect her, but I'm not gonna have my friend in no situations. I'm like, girl, I gotta come get you. I'll have to ask him if I could share it
on the podcast. But I have a voice memo that she said, did you get sent that voice memo to oh to a mutual friend of ours. And she's a fucking hot mess. Anyway, with the cuddle comfort thing, you can be a pro cuddler. By the way, people can book sessions with you and you can apply on the platform. So finn Dom, we had Mrs Marley come on here, We've had Lisa spliffling, Lisa splits Carmen right now. They talked about Twitter, the hashtag pay pig, hashtag, fem dom,
hashtag finn dom. I gonna be honest with you, obviously, we can't speak from experience. You guys loved Marley's episode. I know she has an academy. Hey, it's a black owned business at the Patreon platform where basically she can teach you how to dom. I think she does some live stuff as well, but I just wanted to add that specifically with the hashtags, I think basically she'll tell you how to get people to ask. You do have
to pay, obviously your mistress to her teach you. But I think it's really important, um that it seems like one of the easiest things to do. I think this is a great investment into trying to figure out basically how to do it. So the next one, I'm sorry, it's great, but be careful because I've noticed this entire rise of these weird the fake the girl. They will literally have you and I think I share, I shared this story. No, they'll have you still humiliate them, and um,
mrs can I answer this? Mrs Can I ask you a question? And literally they'll pry you into turning them on by being mistreated and still not giving. But also it's fake pages though, and they're called like pay pigs or whatever. They'll reach out to you. I'm looking for a sugar baby, I'm looking for a fandom and that happens on my Instagram, and that happens on she tells you how to navigate through those pages as well, because
she basically won't even like talk through that situation. But I'm not even talking to nobody unless they send me money, like and even right now I have a man. But that's like wad or too, because that's like the thing if you've noticed, like the backlash they have against like
people on these sites. That's why I brought up tender and bumble because I don't put any of that stuff in my bio for obvious reasons, but the way that they treat women on there that actually are like either they think might do it even like on the pier app. I'm not I'm not paying for pussy. There's so many scammers on here. I'm not, you know, no escorts please, because they've been finding other ways like right, yeah, So
it's like you have to be careful. Sorry, And niggas act like they're too good for an escort, like trust me, they're mostly I didn't say niggas just don't want to be trick. Okay, I want to tell I want to tell you all and if we can move on. I looked into finding at yes, bit trio into it, but it's not easy. It is not easy. I'm telling you. This is a field if you have a big fucking dick, are you gotta do with m Okay, but now I know that I didn't know that before. Yeah, go ahead
of King Nazir, King Noir. These are like up their escorts that like everybody like, not that they're unreachable, but like the access to more. How is it only them two niggas. There's more niggas in this. I did my googles. There's more gameal escort. There's a lot of game. But the ones that are like the straight ones, they all kind of look really big and beefy and weird, but also the ones that like are on the lower side. I wouldn't suck them for free. See okay, see that
was so rude. Um No, that was valid, And I actually got close to setting up with one and he dropped the ball because he started with some transphobia ship. He was like, so are you a trans woman? I'm so serious? Yeah, he was like, because I only pussy, and I was like, I don't care what I have. Like, if I'm paying you and you've agreed to this, I don't understand why see pussy down. I can understand even if it's a bussy, So I can understand. I want
to someone in the ask if it's a man. But I like yeah, but like I let him know in my little weird like way of like, hey, so like I'm a sex worker too, and like you have other peers or sex workers at your trans I don't think that this is something you should be doing, especially since they're more danger than you. But this is not gonna work. So I didn't hire him. He was like on, he was on board. We were like planning it, and I was like, yeah, I mad at this for sure. It's
his choice, which I understand it is. That's fine, but don't have that choice on me, Like you know, I don't have any subjective Yeah, the last four I'm gonna run down quick. I know we were short for a time, but selling socks and underwhere we've talked about Google places to do that. Um, there's one I want to mention before it actually gets into her last two men offering
security to sex workers. We saw this on Bonding. Okay, Bonding at the Netflix show was only fifteen minutes each and I think she gave him ten or of her I don't know what percentage someone will give you, or if they give you a flat rate, but if you're a man, if you us like you can protect a woman, or just even being in that space, she paid her her gay her husband, her gay best friend to just be there and be like, I need you in case they try to attack me or kill me. He's like,
which what am I supposed to do? But if you feel like you know you can help these women. Have you've been nightclub security or whatever, like protect these sex workers, hit them up if you see them on Twitter and be like just send a message like hey, I would love to be there and stand by. I can be outside just write anything I can do for you that like yeah, um, and you have chatter bait and you talked about making money on there, Like what's about that
chatter bait? Okay, so chatter bait quickly enough. A nutshow is like a webcam sex site, but it's a lot more open, so it's like, um, the barrier to entries pretty low. You can just set up with a camera and stuff. There's a lot of people that turn it into a business, better camera quality, they have better toys to play with. Um, you can set it up to like um, people can pay to like control your toys
and stuff. And the way in which I've been using it, especially doing early in Quarantine, which is watching other couples like do things together because I was literally isolated, so I'm like paying them ten dollars to make out paying them ten dollars ago, oh second suck and like just sitting there, tell oh, you look so nice because we're pretty And then she led me to her only fans
and I signed up there. But it's just like it's a really good way, especially if you're not trying to get into like the only fans stuff, because I have a lot of friends who have done charibit, but there's not really a trace left behind. You get to keep most of the money, and it's like it's organized in a way where if you want anonymity, it's a lot easier than you know. And I also love that you've
paid for it. I paid for it as well, and like, I think that that's such a thing, like, oh my god, we're women, like niggas are gonna be on our dick, so like why would we pay? But this is a time where, like she is kind of weird. It's not like we have as much access to meet man. We can't go to the club. We can't. We don't even feel as safe going to meet someone on a tender day. So I think that's a dope one. And what's night for it? Oh my god? Okay, So Nifela is something
I've recently learned about um from my friend Gervet. She does a really good job on there. So it's it's kind of old school with the phone sex when lives. Mandy just sneeds for the first time during own and I'm like, well and I turned away, you know what
I mean. No, But like Nightflare, it is kind of it's more of a comprehensive site, so you can do camming, but like I don't choose to do because if I have a chat option where I get paid per volley and also I get paid per minute on the phone, Like I'm not I'm not gonna be like, you know, putting all this extra effort into doing a camp. But it's really cool because, um, it's set up in a
way where it's kind of organized like chatter bait. It's a low buried entry and there's a lot more control over like your back end as to who has access to you, how much money you make, and a lot of couples that like to go on and do phone sex stuff where they're having sex on the phone for people. Okay, yeah, so like if you and your I'm gonna need a three way situation to learn how to sex. Yes, like you don't know how to sex text? He'd be like the majority, I'd be like, oh, I want to molest
you and lick all in that I do. I could say I want to most him? Is that bad? Am I not supposed tell him I want to molesso and that? So you don't want to say that you don't like me? Well, anyway, I wanted. Okay, well him, I do, but he's given me consense to a lesson. I don't know. But anyway, I'd be like, oh, I want to lick all over you and do this and do that. Girl the nigga send the heart reaction and I'm like, sure, I need something back from you if you want to, but if
you know, I can't. I hate the reaction. I think he just learned how to do it, so that's what he does. He just reacts to it. Was like my mom figured out how to do in the group chats like how you need to stop just respine. No, we'll no like my my my other homeboy. He just found jifs so now that's always communicate with his jif. Don't do it because it's just dude mention behind the camera.
It looks like it's about to explode the problem. It is all right, but no, Jiffler is a good like if you're not somebody that wants to be out here like that, you want to still remain contain that pride, you completely set up another thing and um in I T E F L I R T brother, it's a very good it's a very good like passive income and
like someone publish beIN gigs. I think chat is really fun too, because like you can just have your laptop and doing other stuff and they're just chatting with you and you're getting paid for each chat they send back to you. Yeah, that's what the that's what that's what the volleys are. So that's why you gotta keep them going because like in the majority of my clients, Yeah, the majority of my clients have been a lot of You have to also recognize who what you're like able
to offer. So Gervy, let me know that with somebody looks like me. A lot of white men like to have the force bisexuality fantasy. Um, then like being yes, so I make one up. Um. And also I have clients that want to help me gain weight. They want to be feminized or like like their feeders whatever. Not really like they want me to help them gain weight
so that they can look like this football player. He's like really handsome, but he's like I just I want to be a beefy a BBW so bad, Like I go onto tour it sometimes I'm just like I don't look like that yet, and so like I set up a diet plan for me. Yeah, and I let him know, like, every time you order this, you set up a diet because he wanted to gain as much weight as possible. Eat, eat, yeah, drink. I was like, you need to order this, know like he wants me to tell him like what to eat
and how to eat like hilarious. Yeah, but it's fun. You have paid to tell nigga what to eat so that he can be a big y'all. Listen, this is it is, y'all. Do not even have to open your motherfucker you know what. This is our gift to you. Your listens counters are ad dollars. Ashley just told y'all that all you gotta do is be a fake trainer literally and tell him I told him eat pizza. I was like, get you two large pizzas and eat both
of those niggas tonight. Actually, just no guy, guys. When I tell y'all she's dope, you need to follow her, Ashley, before we get out of here, We're not we're not gonna have time for a homemail. But before we get out of here, let our audience know once again where they can find you, where they can follow you and all your little goodies. Um, you can find me on Instagram at Ashley chubby Bunny. It's a s h l E.
I g h chubby bunny. That's all one word. I recently started getting into Twitter, so I'm just ash chubby Bunny on there. Um, I've been looking at Mendy and everybody else what they host. We're gonna we're gonna post her Twitter in case you can't figure out how to spell Ashley because it's a different kind of ash leg But you know, I'm really glad you came because it's funny.
When I hit up Mandy, I was like, I want to have Actually, I know we shouldn't talk about like the body positivity again, so we don't have to, but actually it's such a great additive to the conversation. And I love your rants. I watched an Hour while cooking the other day. I can't believe I watched it. I just sat my phone on speakerphone while she went off about housing, and I was like, this is great, this is wild, and I like real content now it is.
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I thought we were about to start just re sharing just how differently we started sucking when I started in the ass. I feel like that will be the point where I'm like, you already had antals sex bro the head barely. If a nigga sticks the tipping your pussy, you fucked right, didn't we know? Bitch, you don't. So if the nigga put the tip in, that's not fucking Trust me. I wish I had anal, but I really don't feel like I did because it wasn't like stroking
like when I watched porn. I'm like anal and you were whole ass walking around the house with but jeweled butt, plus because it was his dick was wider than that. Alright, you like to sit here and say you ain't had no motherfucker if you're not fucking my ass like fucking my ask you know what I'm saying, How was I turning it into a bussy? I told you that I'm thinking about this, dude, I got my pussy eight just like a random night or whatever, Like my man was
in the Hamptons. I was chilling, so I got my pussy eight but it was like really subpar. But it was just a fun time. And it was a guy that ate my pussy before and he wanted to do it and I was like, it's salty, but you can have it. So I did not say it's salty. Bit yes I did. I was fucked up. I was like four am, I like did something fucking mushrooms and I was just like on a cloud and I was like whatever, I don't even care, but I don't really want to fuck.
So when he ate my pussy, I didn't want to fuss. His dick was small, but he's really good looking, and I was like, you know what, he could suck me in the ass. Wait, that was just so funny. Why that was so funny to me? Why? I don't know, Like, wait, he's so fine but his dick is a little What's crazy is you know I'm shallow? So I had like I love good looking nicks, but they did it small.
You can't say hi to me When I walked past you again, bro, I ran into this nigga at a fucking It was called crisis bar in Brooklyn, okay, and he was looking good. It's fuck and I don't even like braids like that, but you know what, they're kind of like you know how Dave East has braids and like it's like that they're like clean, nice looking braids, and like he's so like such a harlem nigga, but like his dick was little, and I was like, you know what, he's like, you still gotta nigga. I was like,
yeahn't Midgod ain't worried about you. And he was like, good, I an't worried about him. What's up? But I was like I can't suck this little dick, nigga, but I can't sit on his face. So he was like, let me taste it real quick, and I was like it's salty, and he was like, okay, so anyway, he ate my salty dot com pussy And the entire time, I was like, he could suck me in the ass one day, right,
like that's what I mean. I told him that I might have something I can use him for and he was like, what you're about to make the only thing, honestly, like, didn't really let me. Let me ask you a question and This is super random. See what happens guys when we go nine hours without recording in the middle of recording. So let me ask you, would you consider double penetration with a small dick nigga in your yes? Did anyone really hear me this week on the episode I want more.
I've been training, bitch, I just left tennis. I'm ready for more dicks. Wait, so is this a conversation that you had with him or no? Who the dude? The little dick nigga and Yo nigga. My nigga will never like, he's never gonna do deep things. Honestly. The only thing has he ever done dep is that something that maybe he's just not into or he just won't do it with you. He's just done like spit roast ship. He's never done DP with um somebody. But he said he's
definitely like fucked chicks with his boys. But but the only chance I think I'll get into getting another dick in my mouth with him. He wasn't completely a posed a couple swapping, but the idea of like me fucking another guy with him, he doesn't like, he'd rather me fund someone else alone like do my thing, but together
he's like really not into that, you know. He's like, I like being with you with a chick, like being with another nigga, just really and I don't want to really see with another nigga, like you know, but but but I think there was a q ASK couple that I sent him and like, the dude looked chill, his girl's fine. I was like, what about them? He was like nah, and then he's like if the move was right.
He didn't give a reason. He just said no at first, and then seconds later he's like, I don't know, we're chill him. We funked up. Yeah, probably, So that's actually a question I have now. So when you're with a partner and you guys are deciding on someone to bring in, look at me. Adding a threesome question is if we haven't had these the whole fucking four years of the show.