Ep17: The Perfect Threesome with a Unicorn Feat Dubs

that you guys have short attentions. Man, So once something is fucking gone, it's gone. And y'all don't want to hear us talk about something two weeks later and we're trying to keep you. So thank you to everybody, um who left us an iTunes review, just to let you know. This is how we gain traction and how people end up finding us. Oh my god, did I tell you about the guy that I fucked years ago? It was

the first white guy I've ever fucked. He sends me a text, He's like, Hey, it's Matt, Matt, Where does this Where is this coming from? My? A? D? D Just let me tell the story. Jeez. He said, I found us after listening to the Joe Rogan Show. And I think it's because we've been getting more reviews coming in and now we're popping up and suggested podcast. Well. I also have a lot of my followers that are telling friends to hey, check this out, and they're binge listening.

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I D like crazy and I've been enjoying it so much. No. I love especially like the girls with kids that are like I used to be a hoo and I'm like, it's yeah, we get for you find a lot of followers. And you know, I'm married now, so I'm living through you guys. Still do this, Mary, but nothing of the top week. UM, you just got back. You has had a trip to Orlando, and I just did Miami and Orlando. Um, seeing family, Lord, why are we always away? We're always

away catching him? Like two weeks, I'm going to Europe to see loverboy hugging. I hadn't sat here and told my boss I'm done with the traveling for a while. UM, I'm gonna go ahead and let her know I do want to keep working, because Lord knows, she probably think I ain't even trying to work no more and she's never here. Um. I want to cut you off for a second though. Me and Mandy were talking um a few hours ago, and I wanted to address something with

you guys. The more and more listeners we have, especially new people, I just want to give you guys a little background on us. Mandy and I haven't been friends for five years. We got each other for ten. We dead at each other because we're not gonna get in today. But if we shade each other or you think we're slept shaming, it's because we still kind of don't like That's that's pretty pretty accurate. Look, we can make some money out of his podcast, but you're still a home Yeah.

Like it's like, I don't ever want to shoot on a woman like this extent for you and The problem is to the way we talked to each other when we don't understand each other about something or what we're going through currently. You have to remember we let off five years ago is when we stopped talking, so we were at our biggest whole phases, like twenty one. She had just gotten out of a relationship. I was just hopping on flights every goddamn weekend for whoever booked them.

So so us shading each other, We're still seeing each other as these year old trying to find each other our sexuality, still experimenting, still doing this, and so we're still catching up with each other as far as what we're doing now in our lives, um, and how we have grown. We still do. I don't know if you have heard for the first episode, but if you have, you would know. When we first met, we fought. We

fought her. Her ponytail was flying around the club. It was the DJ was yelling as your ponytail was being passed across money. This was a team. This is how long ago. We're not gonna edit this out. I'm just gonna take it because now a bitch has hang time. Um. Yeah, like so I think that it's just in our nature

to always kind of talk and argue like this. Actually, Mandy and I got in a fight after the Promiscuity episode and she was going off on me and I was like, I just want to tell you my feelings, and at the end of it, she goes, Okay, I'm sorry. Are you being sarcastic? Bit because you know we we we should on each other so much. I don't know what I don't know. We're still getting to know each other too, guys, so please bear with us if you

find that we are too mean to each other. I don't want you to think we would be mean to you. I also, I just want to say I've had a few people write me and tell me it kind of hurt my feelings. I didn't even tell you this yet, but tell me that they think I am encouraging cheating. And I just want to say that cheating to me is hiding and lying, and I'm not encouraging cheating. I'm encouraging openness. And what works for me may not work

for you. Maybe you're not gonna eat with your man, Maybe you just gonna, you know, look at bitches together online. Maybe that's your way of you know, cheating or checking out, girls out together with being mind. We're gonna fuck. That's all I'm saying. What I do ain't well, I'm gonna go ahead this actually, Um, we do have a guest coming into the studio. But this actually brings me to an email that we received from one of our listeners. UM, and we have another one that we're gonna do later

in the show. UM that weezy got. But I'm gonna go ahead and read this because it does. We're gonna do an email first, and then we're gonna do the second email towards the end of the show. UM. But this email actually is about cheating. And I don't know if you guys have listened yet, but about two episodes ago, we talked about why women cheat and we actually received an email from a man whose woman cheated. UM, please don't do your side comments. I'm not going to do

the side comments. UM. But so this is the email. It says, hello ladies. Found you guys like a week ago, and I listened to every podcast you ladies have published. I am so into mostly all the freaky Nancy ships y'all talk about. I performed in a room full of people at two or three sex parties with my then girlfriend. See look at your sad by the way, you're both beautiful. I'm writing you to get some honest advice. Be not both okay, my bad? I saw be Mandy be you know.

I'll try to make this as short as possible. So I've got a girlfriend and we've been together for five years. Was ready to marry her, but asked God for a sure sign. So come to find out, she cheated on me. Now we've talked about it, and her reason was she believed I was cheating on her. I admit I talked and entertained two girls, but never got physical with them. It was more of me just making sure I still had it, and they pursued me more than anything. Anyway.

The guy she cheated with, I shook this nigger hand when I met him, and he was just her homeboy. Now, this dude knew all about us, but when she thought I was messing around, she let him get in her head. And she claims they only fucked once for not even a minute in a bathroom. Not even a minute, because apparently a dick in my pussy for a minute doesn't count.

That's her logic. Come assuming, so you can didn't get in the mouth, and then it's okay, okay, I can't even don't like I take my time, so then hello, it takes time anyway, So you can imagine my level of piss, especially to think you let some nigga fun you in a bathroom. To add the insult to injury, I didn't find out until four months later. You wouldn't believe how I found out. I say all this to say what do I do moving forward? He didn't say how you found out? He just said you wouldn't believe.

We bitch, I don't give me, you know ship, I don't believe. The question is what do I do moving forward? I love her and we have a child together, but I just don't know if I can get over it. It's like it's damn near all I can think about when we are about to have sex. Help a brother out because we're either gonna work this out or I'm gone. Thank you, beautiful sisters for your time and hope to hear from you with love from a loyal as just as freaky as you two are fans. Well, damn were

you like? So? I don't do you want to go ahead and start with the advice for we'll go ahead and give our advice, and then maybe we'll go ahead and introduce our guests and see what she has to say. You're going to have to decide to get over it. That's what I would say. I mean to me, and women decide to stay. Don't you the same? I would

tell the same to a woman. Absolutely, but absolutely don't think it's I mean, if you can't look past it, if you think about it during sex, then don't be I mean, you have a child, and you said that you want to work on it, but you know that's something that you have kids. I feel like you could be together when he's four, when they take some time. If you find yourself back together, find yourself back together. But I don't know how invested they are and like

living together or they've been together five years? Well should she do so? He said, he keeps thinking about it during sex. You can't say. You can't say, right, And I think that it's also it should be noted because you were clearly entertaining two women. Regardless of you had sex or not. You you were seeking some type of something,

whether it was approval, whether it was attention, whether something. Yeah, he said that he was entertaining two girls, but they were pursuing him more, but he didn't get physical with them. And to me, this ship is word. Hello, listen, if I got a dick in the bathroom, wait, I don't know how Wait please, what are you about to say? I'm gonna be honest with you. I was texting for

a second and I didn't pay attention. Of course, of course, if I just randomly fox somebody in the bathroom, I feel like that's just a little bit better than you continue to text a bit because good morning text and all that. Ship. That should take effort. Bro, No, it does. Absolutely, That's the only reason this dude be on point. So this should probably be something where both of you admit your wrongs, say you won't do it again, and move

on from it. At the end of the day. Cheating is something that you're you can't go back and change. She had that dick in help pussy mouth whatever for the one minute in the bathroom that she was in it like sixty seconds, sixty seconds? Why are you still it happened? Why did you stop? You stopped because you felt like it was wrong, and you stopped because he came like, what are you saying? So what for a minute, you for an hour sixty six? You technically we're entertaining

two girls at one time. So I don't know. To me, entertaining a female is still cheating. That's my thought process on it. I don't know if everyone agrees. Um. Speaking of everyone, guys, I want to introduce you, guys to our guest um for this show, the Birthdaker. She is the birthday girl here in New York, all the way from Denver, Colorado. I'm coming to the stage, Lady W. I had to throw the eighty seven. That's that's that's the Twitter hand. You ain't on twit. You all know.

First of all, didn't you change your thank you? Okay? Well talking about best friends, Well, guys, we have dubbed here um and she is super popular around the Twitter streets and black Twitter. And wait, she's a little off black Twitter. You don't really do black Twitter. I feel like black Twitter is its own thing, and you're like, she's black gate Twitter. I think, what is that? Kind

of like I'm adjacent to black Twitter. I'm not a black Twitter comment because if I run into a white two on the street, whatever I say, Lady W may not know you well, black person that uses Twitter might know they might know you, bro. You kind of tweet A lot of Twitter has a really negative connotation. No, not butter on Twitter Twitter, Like if I meet a nigga and I see he's a part of black Twitter, where I gotta dead you bro, we can't talk no more,

dude with someone who uses that in conversations. Well, she's also, guys, a part of um and this was funny. I did want to share this with our with our listeners. Me and Wheezy used to watch her videos on YouTube before we all became friends. We sound like stalkers every time, every time because Girls Cutty came on the show and we're like, listen, bit, we've been following you since two thousand by how we met to a lot of people talk about like making online relationships and being so scared dub.

I don't know if I wrote you were what? But it was on Twitter ten years ago? No, okay, like oh nine, so like eight years okay, So I don't know how we hit each other up. But I was dating at the time, and I remember I was like, look, this girl's coming to Florida and she's gonna stay with us. And I was like, what, Yeah, in my first meeting with I've never done this with anybody, like maybe talked for twenty minutes and we sat in our bed, me and his bed, and fucking talked about like deep ship

and then and then you came just totally connect. And then by the second time you came, we all went on a cruise. You girls crew that we we snucked liquor into shampoo bottles because we weren't yet of age. I tell everybody that now heause I was also like, twenty, hold on, y'all, remember how you snuck this fucking ex on me? Okay, but I'm gonna tell you. I don't know who did it, but I don't know. I was super scared of my ex because he was a piece of sh it. I was so scared to get of

my friends and I had a drink. I was real scared. I was like, eve gonna find out I had a drink. And when you just said, look, you're going to feel a little something, that had to because that was the first time I ever did Molly. Yeah, we all did Molly. That the first that revelation came, I was like, you know what, I think I'm done. And I was super, not like this free trip to Paris. I wasn't I

wasn't here. I wasn't even here to take the Molly on the cruise and then by the time we got to like and then then I took that ship by the time we got back to Orlando downtown and then ended up in a car at the end of the day. I don't say something about because I want to be on this briefly, but Molly almost ten years ago is totally different from from what it is now. Yeah, I mean, I it's been years. I'm telling you I couldn't. I'm not even interested. I see, I'm no, I don't want

for free. I don't want to if you pay me broth. That ship is scary. I feel like the heroin and cracking it like, well, you never know, you never know. The Molly that my mama had, she's like what we called it ecstasy and it was great. So, UM, you heard the story when you came in. So do you have any advice on um? And I guess this will lead into you and how you date, because I know we had this conversation last night at dinner about monogamy period,

so we'll get into that later. But what would your advice be to a guy who's trying to get past the fact that his female, just his woman, just cheated on him. I mean, I liked my advice would be

a combination of both of what you guys said. You said, Tim, yeah, and heals everything right and pretty much also they both were in the wrong and just doing that set of communication, like listen, this is why I did what I did, This is how I felt, and then let her do the same and then you either accept it or yeah, you either at this point you just have to accept it or that's why I liked your advice. Just move on, like either gonna be over or you're not or not.

I feel like you's gonna be over here, and there's no point someone if you're gonna be thinking and like hurting heart breaking your own heart over and over. It's gonna be mean. But I'm kind of in that mood today. You and that mood. But you over there on your goddamn phone. You only wrote in because you wanted us to tell you something that's gonna make you feel better. There's not anything to say to make him feel like just deal with it or don't, Like, I feel like

you want to be coddled. I feel like a lot of people ask advice to situations they already know when I asked of it. Oh, I mean, you know you don't think an remember like no, I just want you to say something's gonna make me feel better, and you know I'm not. That's why he brought up the kid. That's why he tried to say he did something wrong, because he wanted to be like, Okay, well you did

it too well and we're gonna move on. And there was besides the fact that we loved dub Um, there was a reason that we wanted to bring her on the show today because again, we like to inform you all and give you guys different you know, ways of dating,

relationships and just the different mindsets of people. So, um, I guess we think, do you want to introduce what what it is that partakes in Well, I don't want to seek for you, but I will say a lot of you guys, I was excited to bring dub on this episode because a lot of you guys ask about threesomes and how do we find people. That's a off of frequent our kink of the Week to with the title is called a unicorn and a unicorn by definition, according to Urban Dictionary, is the girl you can't catch.

Everything is perfect, unfathomable. She is truly a blessing. Uh N, I got my face up, don't. I'm just laughing right now because I read the wrong definition and it is a bisexual but single female generally at a swinger's party looking for couples. Um. So I bring this up because the threesomes that I have had, even though I found women one on tender, is not necessarily with a unicorn.

Just because there's a single woman. I don't know if you would agree with me on this, but just because there's a single woman that might suck you that night, doesn't mean she is a unicorn. Dove is somebody that seeks couples, that enjoys couples, that plays the role so

to speak, right, that knows how to be treated. And I want a lot of you guys to listen to this because if you are single out there and you're thinking about joining a couple, but you feel like it's too slutty, or you feel like, oh, you know, there's gonna throw me to the side. After she's had Yeah, she's had very meaningful relationships with couples and seemingly long term could be. And I'm hoping that we're gonna read your minds because we're about to ask her some questions.

So I truly hope that we are able to ask the questions that maybe floating through your mind, like what then does this do? So so we're gonna go back and she's a black guy, because y'all be acting like it's all white people should wps. Nope, not this time. So I with, uh, I want to bring into the app how you use it? But um, what the funk? How did it start? How did starts started? Accident? It was a total accident. So I've been very monogamous my entire life. Um, and I was people don't know me.

I am notorious for going on vacation and fucking that's what I do. Going on dates, I say, but just going on dates, meeting people. So I was in Denver visiting and I was dating on around. I was on tender and I saw this couple and I never swiped right on couples, but I was in Denver and I was like, like, what the and the girl was really cute, so I was like and so we matched, and so they were like, let's take you out to sushi and we'll go out. I'm like, guy, and so I was

actually really nervous. I'm like, I'm about to go on a date with two people at the same time, and I don't know how it's gonna go. I've never been with a girl at this point. I've wanted to, but like I did, never happened. And so, yeah, they took me out. They wanted to die me and she was super hot in person, he was lying. It's so crazy because I feel like that is how most of it works.

When I matched with couples, all either really liked the girl and not so much the guy or vice versa, right and so and so you're okay with maybe not being completely attracted to both parties. I'm a little firmer on that rule now, So like I need to be at least you guys both need to be best. The worst case be minus. Do you do the minus plus just to be okay? Okay, up, But it's really the girl, Like, if I'm not little girl, I'm not gonna do like Okay,

she is a pathway to you getting me to the guy. Okay. So that's so the girl is still mostly in charge and this No, I'm just saying in terms of being attracted, like I have to leave be very attracted to her, and then I'll be like, yeah, you get a pass. Okay. So this was the first time in Denver that you did this, and how how did it play? It went great? Went back to his nice as a partment. You gave me a whole bunch of free week and a whole bunch of liquor. They were nice. It would be just

you don't start going at it. And I loved it. I was like on a high. Like after that, you think it's because you had two people like swooning over you. You You had two people that wanted to suck you. It was more hot than just one, definitely. And it was also that I wasn't little girl at that point, and like I had only been with women in three situations. I've never been yet, not yet after your experience with them,

obviously it went well. Um, I want to talk about and I'm sorry to Rushy, but we have a lot of questions. Let's go. Let's go. How did it end? And from what you know now? Yeah, so I feel like this could be inevitable. But if someone doesn't right it won't. So no, yeah, so let's called her Lucy. Lucy was very she was very jealous, very insecure. That's how it ends, which normally and see to me, that's how most threesomes or a third party coming in now.

And it's not just her, it was him. He was sneaky. He was inviting me places without telling her. Ain't. So it was both parties and so it was just my one of my hard rules is no fucking drama. I'm not doing it. I'm not sorry, Okay, No, I get that. I get that. Okay. So I asked you this at dinner last night. Um, and I'm gonna go ahead and ask the followers because I want them to know that this is something that you're choosing. So this didn't arise

from a heartbreak or you being like getting like. It didn't arise from that at all. You genuinely seek couples and you are fine with being emotionally unattached, so to speak. How does that work? I mean, so I'm in a casual space period, whether it's a guy, whether it's a couple, I'm just so casual, like I'm just doing me kind of thing. But I would absolutely get in a serious relationship, not monogamous, but serious relationship with a couple and get

very emotionally invested with them. UM. So that's an option. It could go both ways. It could be very casual. It could just be like a one night kind thing for you nights. I don't really do one night or anymore, but like a few, a few months whatever, fool around, or we can really date and be together. Okay, So I wanted to compare the two of you because if you guys listen to this goddamn show, Wheezy always talked about wanting to bring a girl in. However she has

to be in charge. She does, but she also said she would never co star. You are like bitch, co star be right here like hello, you prefer to co star. So what is the actual difference between the two of you as far as your mindset? Why would you not co star? And why are you so only into co star? And because clearly you don't have um a boyfriend to

bring girls in? UM, but sheould neither did she and she still made it had it always has to be like a guy and the guy that she's things and you are both were pretty close to me, So maybe you can tell me, I feel like again we wait, wait, we just talked about a five year break, so in my eyes, still don't eat pussies. I know, like because with the mom and she calling, everybody loves her and real quick, mom, I'm the recording right now and so

love you. I'll talk about three something crazy. Soa keep asking exactly what they thought they would hear at that point. So okay, so what is your what is your reason for the hell why you? I am confident in myself, Okay. I don't feel ever ugly or like get jealous of women, but I wonder if I may have an insecurity of feeling left out, like away from them, like feeling too apart, not necessarily like I don't know, I don't know jealousy is the word, but I feel like I may be

insecure about what's happening behind the scene. Are you good? Jealous? That's what it is you don't want? She did is jealousy for sure, And I think it's something that you pride yourself on not being so that you really are bro Because I don't know how I could say that in one breath. When I'm seeking these things out all the time, I want them, you want them because you like both men and women. But I do genuinely enjoy them.

You genuinely enjoy threesomes, which is and I enjoyed like the emotion when I was like group chatting all the time, having that great thing go. I loved that, right, But at the same time you brought them. You weren't the co stars. So in your eyes, you knew when they

saw each other outside of seeing you. They had some pretty much report about that when I was in Cuba and they was without me and they sent you pictures, right, But you it's because you felt like you was in charge that you had they they gotta send me pictures. You wouldn't have enjoyed it if they didn't send you anything, and you just knew they were together that night by themselves were I would enjoy that. You don't have to

tell about Back to the interview with dub. So for me, you I literally get off the connection between the two people we're sitting there having done like I am like getting off on that. The more in love they are, the more turned on I am. And so no, not at all. No, Well, first of all, I'm the guest to them, you know what I mean, They're providing a gift to themselves. Serious. I told her about this girl. I was gonna you remember and you I sent this piture.

I'm like, I don't know, a you're talking about three some You're like, well, don't sunk up the energy. This is a spiritual connection. And if you're just gonna have a threesome just to funk your waist of time work, yes, like this is serious. You're entering two other people's space. No, it's so crazy. I sent you a picture of a girl that was down for a threesome. I was like, I think she's not cute. I don't think she's attractive. I was like, but I do go want. I think

this is awesome that we all three do. Like are on the opposite sides of threesomes, because me, I have threesomes just with niggas I'm sucking and friends. Like it's just something that happens. I love. I love threesomes that way, like I love when they're unplanned, or like the guy is sucking me and he's sucking this other bitch. Who are I mean, he's not my niggers, so I know he sucking the bitches and he brings us together, like

or it's like hate that. Yeah, I'm gonna be honest, I could suck a couple before I could have a dude, just be like, oh I know this other I know this other bitch, and that's all I do threesomes with friends too. Oh yeah, so I'm a little on the I've like I've like the girl friend. Yeah yeah, we used to. Well I'm not gonna, yeah, we gotta not because they don't like when we have to put all

these bleeps so damn brown ship. Then then she'd be getting mad like, oh my god, I have to sit here and listen back and see when I said that, Like, bro, just let's say this ship you want to fight with me on? Oh she was turned on when people love each other and but yeah, I don't know. But see it's so weird because like how you like the emotional connection. She likes to be in charge. I just like the fun of it. So like even the friends that I have had three sons with, we have we couple a

couple of together. I've never sucked a couple. I've never fucked. No, it's always been How I think that would turn you on? Mm hmm. See, I don't think it would get me because I'm such an emotional person. Y'all know I have an emotional I think I want those hinder and I told you all swipe couples. But right when I think of getting there, I'm just like, I just kind of stopped the conversation because then I think about, like, damn, I'm just being brought in and I'm just giving them

looking like that is everybody still us. I've learned with couples that, I mean, I don't really like doing this anyway. It's easier to have a little bit of a texting relationship one guy, not with couples. So how do you okay, so so so for our listener, if you swipe, yeah, if you swipe right swipe, you know, and you initially meet, whether it's on an app, whether wherever you're saying, don't go through the texting and kind of talk you to death.

If the couple's about it. I mean, I'm not my business, and I'm there for a couple of things, okay, literally couple. Um, I'm there for some free food because it's double incomes, and I'm also there for um, well we don't you don't have anal sex then, because that's cheese and c and be eaten for free. But I'm also there for like the undercurrent is the threesome, Like that undercurrent, that's the unspoken thing that we're all trying to get to. And couples will sit there and talk you to death,

and so I believe do you think are nervous? It could be a million things, but I don't give a funk what it is. You're never gonna understand the couple's vibe, and they're never gonnaunderstand your vibe until you're in person. Would you mind talking? I'm starry to interrupt you, but I want to talk also about the worst. I don't know this is the worst, but like when you've got flown recently, Um, I want to talk about how they

fucked it up so that people can avoid making those mistakes. Yeah. So, um, I was recently in New York or like a few weeks ago, and this couple flew me out met the moment three math that you were talking to for a year, but like talking it was like very one and off, but like we were in contact for a year for

a year, and we just never could get up. And so they finally didn't have my son, and so they flew me out, and um, the initial was fine, like she was actually sleep when I arrived, and he and I we talked for like three hours and we ended up started sucking and then we woke her up. We all started sucking. It was fun. But in the morning we went out to breakfast and it was like they were on a date and I was not there now one thing specifically, kept saying that, but what would talk

to her? And I could barely hear him. Now, if you're on a date and you're saying it's a little table, little cafe, if you're on a date, you're gonna be like hello, not even if. But he was just like, it's probver to her and just like talk and have a conversation. I'm sitting there across eating my fucking crossng Like what the funk, I can't hear you. And so it was just like and she was fine, let me be clear, Like she was always into me. She was

always making an effort. But he was kind of like I would go as far to stay stand off ish a little bit, and it was just like he was just with her, like he knew how to be with her really well. But the key for couples is that if you're going to bring a unicorn in, if you're gonna find one to even show up and meet with you, you're going on a date with the unicorn, not with

each other. Y'all niggas had years to do that it right, But now you are now dating again, right, And that's what some that couple forgot and I actually have really you know, you know, I have really great experience with couples. Usually have you spoken to her neither the thing that you're talking about. It was so hard to imagine that that happened, because that's the reason that I love being with someone and then meeting a girl, you date them together like you you have already had the first day.

You already know your connection with this person, and now we get to do it again together. Because I feel like with couples, yes, like I'm still going to be in love with you, but that like excitement that spark that getting ready, but I'm gonna now you get to have it with somebody else and learn a whole new person over again and retell stories, whether you retell them together as a couple or sharing with someone else learns.

It's just fun and so for someone to bring you all the way to New York and then go out together and leave you. I just didn't. I can't understand. It was just very and like he was. I mean, he's very boring. He was born he was boring. And see this is then you never sucked him, no, and he never had his penis inside me. No. But he

hate to funk out my post. But there's people that there's couples that are scared to do this because just like you said with the one couple, the guy tried to see you outside, and there's so many quote unquote rules that can be broken and that can funk up the situation. So to me, it would be like you're literally opening Pandora's box every time you invite a unicornet. So I think this is the thing about that. I'm glad you brought that up because I think it's responsibility

for both the couple in the unicorn. So from my end, it's my responsibility to be a woke as bitch. Like if I'm serious about not having drama in my life, I gotta have to ask the right questions. I have to be very intuitive. I have to like watch body language, especially her, and see what's going on, and you said that because a woman is probably gonna be the one

to it the most insecure. Absolutely yeah and also funny enough, I felt like in your story the guy was he was definitely insecure and that, but normally it's usually the woman. If anyone's insecure, also um the guy. Usually usually they try to Usually they try to take control, okay, and then they might try to be in the rule. You know. Niggas are my point exactly, and you give him an they want to take him off time talking about yours. I always try to be an ally to the woman.

I try to let her know right away I am your ally. I'm always gonna be here, just on some woman. First of all, want everyone to know I'm gonna stop you right there. Devi is dream girl. You just ain't

gonna get no listen. You might have to watch out though, because deb is a different breed, and I think that just speaks to your character that you're not that shady behind your back save a check because I've been with I've been on dates where the chick will be like, yeah, let me get your number two and yours, and I'd be like, yeah, I let the couples have control in terms of like communicating with me. So if it wants

to be a group tex, that's fine. You'd rather have the guy text me fine, rather be a girl whatever. Like you guys make the rules, but like I asked about the rules, what are your rules? Give me a list of rules, and I know upfront, I make sure they look at each other and talk about these goddamn rules. And I want to have them discussed their rules. And to me, that's the weirdest rule you've ever heard, like something that's basically kissing. I know a lot of people

don't like kissing. That's too intimate. Never had a kissing rule. That's because that's because white people like that. You're going really one of your game. That's just stupid, that's just stupids. I do want to go ahead and and and just bring it back a little bit because I like to people listen to this stuff and automatically it's so taboo to people. What industry are you in? You're an actual

working woman. She's in media. So I want you guys to know that these aren't couples paying her for sex. It's nothing, but you you hear it a lot that this is what people look for. In Vegas, and you know, it's one of those where you pay a girl and then that keeps the emotions from from being attached to it. And this is genuinely something where it's like, listen, I'm not trying to ruin your relationship. I'm coming in because this is what I enjoy and y'all hit me up

when you want to see me. But it's genuinely because this is what gets you off. Can you get any women? Um? Because we want to ask you another question too. I think I told you about the phone actually, but just women that are thinking about doing this, um and feel like no, like single women. I think that unicorns are so hard to find, and I think that they feel like they're yeah, and they're just gonna kick me to the side. Like what should you tell women to or me?

Because wh I'll be swiping left, I'd be swiping right on couples like that hang up that women hang up? You just get bored or you just it's like, I want to go through with it. You used kind of and I'm not gonna lie, Like to me, that's something like and I'm not gonna lie. That's why I just made the mention of it to me, like, if you're bringing another woman in, she needs to be benefiting, and

to me, that's compensation. But it's just like, you know what, Like you're going and bringing a bitch in and she's having a third, both of y'all, and you know what I mean. So to me, it's just like, am I really just I'm really just coming in fucking these two and then going back home. Like so like if you're gonna see if you're gonna view it like that, I wouldn't recommend doing it because you don't you do it for you. I really do it for me. And see,

that's why I like the spontaneous. I feel like when it's planned, it just there's so much that can go wrong and you're planned yeah, and they all go fine, yeah, I've been doing this, like and yours are playing. I should try to plan three. Something I've ever felt like dating in my skin. Honestly, I think you're coming into something that's already working too enough. That's why I said. The more the more in tune they are with each other and the more that chemistry is, they're the easier

it is. My job is my hang up? Is? I guess maybe the feeling used to think I don't know, maybe not only that I can't. Like I said, I'm very yeah, but I'm also very shallow when it comes to like what I like physically, and like I said, everything that I found on tender, I really like, you need to get on field, bitch. That's right, that's what I'm thank you for bringing it up. It used to be Thrinder back in the day when I assuming they got sued, but it's called field now. F E E

L d uh. If you guys want to check it out, you can be a single unicorn by yourself. You can be uh, two men looking at one chick like gang bang. Actually, I'm going to tell you, guys something that I never thought I would say on this show. I listening. You already brought it up. I was watching a lot of male male female porn. I love it, and I might have told, but I made a profile that with my face, and I just wanted to see what I would get. Huh. I never met up with two dudes, but I was

so turned on. They're like, oh my god, we're both gonna do this. Don't go do this, and you're the sucking goddess and blah blah blah, like, I know, but at the end of the day, I did get this very like, I don't know. I don't think I'm secure enough to just not sleut shame my own self, right, And it's definitely something where you just have to take um. You have to look at yourself and be like, if this is what you want, it's at the end of the day, you're in a bedroom with these two people.

And that's my problem with a lot of the things I kind of want to do. It's like, should let me wait, Like I gotta go out of the country or something, because I don't want anyone knowing that I did it. I'm not going I've met men that The last restaurant guy was a hundred percent down doing it with me. He it was like, I mean, it's gonna be weird for me. He's like, with the jealousy is that's why I sucked another dude and it went to his house. I remember it's five. He said it would

be hard. He's like, I'm not gonna like watching you second day is gonna kill me. But he's like, the wanting you are feeling teased, feeling is hot, and so do you do that going into couples have you ever done two guys who maybe my sexual or two girls and we should be open to it, both very open. That's lit. Yeah, but two dudes is tough because if you give me French guys that oh okay, you're gonna have to share that story another time. And all y'all gotta know is it was Central Park, they walk me

home and it almost happened. Oh no, it's a good story. What's happening? There's just with me scared. I'm like, I almost happened stories. Then I'm telling the story real quick. Oh my god, tells talking to this dude and then his brand came and was cute, so she started kissing that one and another one got jealous. She's like, but wait,

why we gotta fight? No Savin. Well, what we haven't had the chance to do on this show because we always run out of fucking time because we doesn't want to pay for my studio time is do a topic called vanilla ship. So vanilla ship is where we like to talk about something current topic and give our insight on it and talk about, you know, just the bullshit. There's one other thing we also haven't done either. I don't know if I'm a percent right on this. But

I don't believe we've ever had a mother on the show. No, no, I don't besides your mama second dead guys. Um, So, what we're gonna talk about now, especially because we are actually recording on time? We want to talk about the Rob Kardashian and Black China saga. So I almost want to introduce it, but if you don't know, I don't know how to introduce it. Like I was going to talk about it, but like, how could I even talk about? Who do you? How do you not know? I literally

just want to talk about the memes I've seen. You've been just kidding? A spell surgery? No, no, ship, that was terrible. What was your favorite Rob prodes um? Oh God, I don't even think I can think of. Well, the latest news is so we all knew this happen. Literally I went home Harley from work. God, I hope they don't hear this, and I was like, Bro, I fell in the rabbit hole. Bro, I couldn't stop. It was so I was reading, like how I was reading all of the the he was going hamp the office, so

I couldn't do it. So again, you need to be in bed for that for you guys that don't know um. Apparently China sent him a video kissing another man UM in the bed that he paid for that he pays rent at the house. Let me like sum it up as a cosmopoult took as first thing he posted was a video for kissing another man, apparently on fourth to July to make him jealous the number of screenshots, allegedly explaining that someone told him she cheated on pictures of

her naked pussy, her titties, her having surgery dollars. But Injewelry, you played yourself gradually and a hundred dollars of surgery. So we're going to do something different about this. Because I'm sure that you guys listened to amazing podcasts just like ours. That's good, but that talk about gossip, right, there's so many podcasts to talk about gossip. I want to flip this. We have a mom here. A lot of what Rob was doing was saying that your mom

shouldn't be doing this. You've seen the Amber Rose Bush thing. Your mom, you shouldn't be doing this. What how do you feel as a mother seeing people constantly throw that in somebody's face. It's trash. I mean, people try to act like being a parent is a one size fits all kind of thing where it's just not it's just

parents a parent. And then if you're a woman who has any sort of sexual freedom, and then if you talk about it on top of that, or if you put pictures online or whatever the case, or they get leaked or you're or or whatever, it's just the it's just an unnecessary amount of pressure because that to me, that has nothing to do with your parents are one of the best mothers, swear to God, I mean everything you do, and you are also one of the only

friends I have that I'm like, you did what last night? Right? So this was this is my question regarding that a little bit. So of course you still live your life even though your mom. My question is we're now in an era like dream Kardashian. We'll see all of this ship when she gets older. And your son, Um, how how do you go about talking freely on Twitter anymore?

Or even you're you're also you have a new podcast three so anyone by the way, um, she has her own podcast and even your videos from YouTube at any point in time, all of this stuff that is now on the internet, do you feel like you have to explain that to your child or do you feel like it will come to a point where you need to Well, I bought talk to my son about my videos. He knows they're sexual, he's seen them. Hold on, let me scale back. It sounds like a DoD porn makes really

funny She makes really funny YouTube video. Right, it's just her face. There's no problem, no other they're very sexual. I didn't even think about that. But all she does is talk about She talks about basically how we talk how we talk about second and SI. She does it on a video very like pioneer stages of vlogging, right, And I'm just I'm telling stories. It's one thing to like tell the guys and how you second dick. No, I'm like, I saw this date last night and it

was white. And that's what her videos are like. So I'm not afraid you. Which is the name of the video. If you guys want to see her video, it's I'm not a freak. And you guys can see these big lips that she said everyone wants to kiss. So any did you ever or any of your friends that have children? Um, clearly this is mom baby Mama drama and baby daddy drama back and forth. What do you feel about putting that information and going back and forth on social media

so that I'm not that's not cool? Okay, So I think there's definitely a line. So like when it comes to my son, I think when okay, so I separate the two. If there's something that will directly affect him, then I try to keep it pretty private. So like I would never go back and forth with my baby father one okay, Okay, I talked dumb shit about him, so that's my prerogative and he ain't ship shout out to that. But um, but like I'm not gonna go back and forth. I'm not going to do all that.

But like when it comes to my sexual freedom, I worked very hard to earn that sexual freedom and to be like wake up every day and to go to sleep every night knowing the ship I did and I'm

okay with my girl. And so I'm not gonna let my son say like I think a few people will be confused when you say that, And I want you all to know there are a lot of women who do this but can't handle it, or they go back and forth on their emotions This is somebody that we brought on this podcast that owns their sex just much like we do, is comfortable with it, and is aware of what they're doing, not for any benefit other than her own her own, not to just please somebody, not

to appease the couple, not like Okay, I'm here. This is somebody that knows what they're doing, is fully aware, and loves it. So for someone to say that they are, they've earned that right. It takes a lot of work to be able to funk like this. And I looked right at you because I wanted to be like I got the bruise of the provement and I'm just like, I'm not gonna let anyone take that away from me,

my son or some person on Twitter. It's like, oh your hell, your mom, Like yeah, they could do both multitasking and speaking of speaking of the hole, that's mom. That's all that's been saying. That's been said at the memes, Like even the celebrities, Snoop Doggs, all of them are like, y'all know before you got and that's what you know, Like we really don't know because this is the name by Rob Rob Crazy. He'd done this before he did with Rita or and with I think the ledge. So

the nigg is a little nuts. So we don't even know. You know, men are quick to you might you might cheat, and you might do it one or two times, but they quickly be like she five niggas everybody, everybody, And the shitty thing about society is that they're quicker to believe the guy the most. And he shaded her so much for doing drugs. And I don't know if she did, but she talked about the coke and all this and blah blah blah like my nigga, I know he was

doing that when Hello, bro Scott disick him was tight. Hello, you're telling me you ain't do it all drugs. Secondly, another thing that really bothered dub I remember when we mentioned on the phone, was when he goes you had to quit breastfeeding after four weeks just a drink. You got bigger titties at home. Have no idea what it's like to breastfeed. I'm not saying I don't know what she did in her private time, but I do know

breastfeeding and that ship is fucking hard. It can if the you have haven't you seen like people like I don't even like, well, after you breastfeed, you're tired, you're just even though you're just sitting there, and it's it's a mind fun because my mom said she did it for three days. She said she was so drained physically. I did it for three months, ship and I was dancing at the time, I was still dancing in Boston. Um anyway, because she didn't strip. She you, I wasn't

tip okay, so you were go go dancing. Wasn't ballet, the Rocket Feller Center or at Rick's cataracts. But I only breastfear for three months and then a quick that she was hard. Especially you gotta work, you just to do. And again, I don't know what she's doing in the private time is really none of my business, but for him to shade her, but like, you should be you

should be home for two years breastfeeding. My like, men and women are so quick to say that when they like, you have no idea how hard it is to just alone breastfeed on top of having just a newborn. Because I don't know if they were together or if they were separated at the time, but I think that's the all bygone on it. And I think what hurts him the most is at the end of the day, China,

you my baby mama, and I'm paying for everything. But for you to have these niggas in the bed, that's the big issue because to me, no, no, no, that's trifling, like for any female listening. But he was hurt and he brought a social media and he took it too far. It is. But at the same time, if if I

know she didn't deserve what Rob did. However, if I had to take sides, if it's true that she had these niggas in the bed that they made dreaming that he pays the rent for and she driving the cars he paid for or everything, said, I don't give a funk. She need to have the decency to fund these things in a crib. Well, I'm gonna scale it back for a second, just be definitely advocate. So what he pays for the rent and it was the same bed, why

wasn't he there? Do they not live together? That's my point. I don't know if they're separated or not, because if you pay for my rent, that don't necessarily mean I can't fund nobody in his bed? Are we together? If she's still coming up if he's still coming over sucking hurt and if that's what they're doing, well, that's my same thing. That's spaculation. We don't really know that. I didn't think of that point until then. But like, my

baby isn't here. So if you gonna pay for this rent because you know I can't afford it, paid for it, I don't say. I wan't gonau bro, listen to me, then you then you sit here and you fuck. She paid for my own tips. Nobody else paid for them. But if they did, I would not funk nobody for the rest of my life. No, of course, not that as you put your money on the same I think it's easy to be like funking notice house. But like she's tired, she got a baby, baby sleep, she got

a nice house. Come over, dude, if you're not that he's not there for a reason. Did anyone question that? What are you crazy? It might not be together? Bro, Well we're not together and you moved out. You're telling me you're gonna believe ain't suing nobody else that nigga. Now I see what she did, So I alsode have the drug thing because I don't know much about that, but I didn't flinch at anything else. She said, only

because Mom's get such a hard rap. Anything you do, especially if you're actually open, you're gonna be on you sluttiest, which is what everyone says. Mother possible, you don't desire to have your kid. It's such a leap. I wasn't. It wasn't encouraged women just like anyone else, but they

just have a child. And again I don't know the details, but it was just the drug thing that made me be like but I just don't know because he didn't say he was just saying, oh, you you you're doing drugs or you've done drugs, like so have you robbed?

You're in l A. I'm sorry if you give me a few million a year and moved me to l A. Cocaine's on the list, bro, I'm sure expense like I've got goddamn lights Gardner a coke dealer, and cocaine is in the air in l A. No, you're right, like, I have never seen people do cocaine in my life until like l A. I'll never forget it. Of the st K with my man. The show wasn't about to like, oh my god, I love your outfit. I was like, thanks,

I love you. She was like and I was like, oh, now she's in the lovely city of New York City where they do the same goddamn yeah. But you know what, New York is a little too today offering a ship up like l as California, Cally. People are happy. They just want to share their weed. They just want to share the You in New York. You see somebody in bathroom not gonna the fun. Bitch, I share you know how much the ship is. See Calli Cooke comes from Mexico.

I watched documentaries. Bitch, I know where all the drugs that, of course he did not like I'm looking for them. I'm just saying it's very close and problem. York is very expensive everything pussy drugs. Sure, the second we leave here, I need to get bucked. It's raining. It sounds loud as yeah, but it's ninthtime nervous. We all know. Anyway. Anyways, we want to thank you dub for coming on our show. I wish we had a longer time. We would have

to get you one again. So glad you happene Where can our listeners find you and tell them about your podcast? Where they can listen to that. Yes, So my cash app is datters sign dubbs. Du there's the first one. My Twitter is at dubs underscore duh do you be s? And then our podcast is called Threesome Anyone and you can find us on Twitter at threesome anyone and they can listen to you on SoundCloud, iTunes now literally all of them, Google all of them. Okay, awesome, check us out.

And if you guys want to stay up to date with us and what the hell we're doing and we's making all this goddamn noise digging at her empty as purse, Oh my god. Anyways, you guys can follow us on Twitter at Horrible Underscore Decisions. Also, please please please email us your crazy shit um at Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com. Or you can email our asses. Um did I say email? Oh? D m r asses. So I am on Twitter and Instagram like electronic mail. Yes, I

love it, girl. When I blocked niggas, that's how they contact me, you girl. Um, you guys can go ahead and d m me on Twitter and Instagram at full core pumps and where can they find you? One place we already know, go ahead and say it's only on Instagram. I just want to say a lot of y'all haven't sending me your penises that I didn't ask for, and I don't know why I'm getting them, but I feel like I've invited this with my openness on this podcast,

and I don't want it. I don't want to see I want to let you guys know just because we talk about sex does not mean we want to have sex with you. I think that takes to me that are dusty. I see trash hands in the corner, and I hate dirt around the toilet here, and y'all have been sending me some dirty dicks. I don't want to see your clean Maybe I do, but a lot of them don't want to send clean dicks to at Wheezy

w TF on Instagram. Or if you want to send us your porno flix like into the email, maybe will play the audio if it's good. Oh that sounds cool. Um, So this has been yet another episode of horrible decisions. See you guys next week. Bye.