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of Horrible Decisions. This year, Girl maybv a k A Full Court Punks a k A pad to Stalling a k A that bitch, and I am joined by course Corona beer. I have been drinking Hella Corona because it's actually on sale. Of course it is at the bodega. Buy my apartment, of course, and if it's just a beer makes me burp like crazy. But um, anyway, I'm really tired of this Corona hysteria. I do want to
indulge in the cheap flights. Found the LIT joint to fucking answer dam for one night and and it was on Delta but just kind of rainy right now there, but like Italy, I was about to buy a flight that morning and then they locked down there locked down. Um, I I don't know. I don't see too many flight deals by the time I'm like, okay, well I need a bag, so I'm not gonna get this ship with no with no luggage. Then I'm just so spoiled. Now I want to make Norwegian and all those Well, I
won't fly anything else, like right now, I'm only flying Delta. Um. But I did get a LIT deal. I'm gonna go to Hawaii, which I've never been to, so I'm excited. Um, I got on flight. Well, no, I'm going breaking up. No, I'm going after l A. So it's from l A. Um, so you're breaking it up. Yeah. So it's like it was only like one forty one way and then I used miles to come home. So I got the whole trip for less than two hundred dollars um. So I'm excited to do that. Um, I don't know. I'm I'm
honestly fucking pooped out of traveling with the tour. Like I'm just like even even this week, I'm like, okay, I have a few days. Let me tell this thing that you can fly me out now. And I'm just like, honestly, I don't want to get on a flight. I'm tired of I'm sick of it. And I mean, I'm not really worried as far as the coronavirus. I know a lot of people are are super worried, but I mean, we're black, so we're fine. We're not gonna get us talked about how the first case in Africa was someone
who in Egypt. However the person was German of course, and then so we're still is zero. We still is zero. So like everyone, I mean, that's fine, we can not going whatever. But I think it's just something in our like DNA. We're not gonna catch the corona, so we might get no, but we're gonna catch the red stripe whenever that comes out. But you know, maybe the Guinness, but the corona now you know where where is my drum roll? Didn't do? Oh? I do want to talk
about the show that we just had. Oh no, I honestly, well, I'm gonna talk about it. I'm not gonna I literally put like just how negliation from my catchup. But yeah, Orlando, listen, y'all. Oh, let's talk about it. It was a lovely day in central Florida. Our hometown, might I add it is Orlando, which wait, wait, just add in that. Well, I actually expected something like this to happen where I'm from, because in no other city in my life have I ever
got in a fight. Now, maybe Miami, um been to jail, UM felt unsafe in spaces right like more than I have in Orlando. And I and maybe it has something to do with just by the way, before we start a lot of y'all, I guess because we've been talking about New York so much. I mean, if y'all haven't gone back to the beginning episodes, we used to talk
about Orlando a lot. People didn't know that. There were so many people that were like, wait, hometown, Like, yes, we are from fucking Orlando, both choy, Well, I'm not really claiming that place anymore. But I would like to give a shout out to Duva. Motherfucking If y'all don't know what Duval is, little Duval, you probably hear that name. Duval is the county UM that is prominent of the black people of UM. A lot of Tampa, Miami and building.
Shout out to the girls in my flight that was going to the show, so let's get back to this place. It has been said that Orlando is a city full of haters, which I don't really like to say, because I've always felt like I was shown love UM. But I think small town cities generally don't. It's always hard for people to prosper, like, whether it be rappers, it's
hard for them to support their own city. And not that that's necessarily the situation that happened, but I had that feeling just weighing on me all day and it was hard to get rid of. I do want to give a shout out to Posh who made a comment to Scissors that came. She said she came because she wanted to learn and she wanted to grow, And I always appreciate when other podcasters can say that and openly, you know, just acknowledge that there's maybe a blueprint for
them and something someone else is doing. Maybe I can see what you're doing and emulated to work for me or take just notes because not well, not only that, I think, um, and and this is gonna be just a quick detour before we get back into the show. Um, we do have a lot of podcasters that not only
reach out to us, that listen to us. And I know that even prior to you and I starting live shows, we went to The Brilliant Idiots Live, We went to you know, I went to friends like we we just went to people who were doing live shows, and it wasn't as prominent now. But we do go about the show in the same outline, but we make it interactive and we make it to where you don't feel like
you're just coming to hear people talk. One live show that we went to together recently was lip Service, and I remember thinking, I've always felt like lip Service shows so much love. And I mean, I know Angela talked about how we were one of her favorite products. I was on there, and she's always been great. And I feel like everyone else likes to cause riff, like, oh well, they don't do it anymore, But it was so nice to watch that live show and be like, wow, this
is a really different sex show. Yeah, like, yeah, it's totally different. They have celebrities, I know, but like I think, I think it's different, Like their mission is different there, the girls are different, like Stephanie and Gig to me always remind me of like party girlfriends that you always want to have, Like everyone needs one of them, you know, in their lives, and they bring that energy in their dope. And I just think there is a lot to learn
from other podcasts. But anyway, so back to what happened in Orlando. So the I'm on stage, and I do want to say that I've had a lot of feelings and rethinking how I want to work through this game. But we play games and we do different things that involve people. Our show is probably one of the most interactive UM Live podcasts that you'll go to. I think Andrew Schulz said he feels like we've gamified it and
that's what makes it so interesting from start to finish. UM. I don't necessarily feel like it's Game five, but I do think there's so many moments where you don't feel bored watching someone because you can be included, so UM one of the games we play. We allow people to quote unquote when our love in essence UM by coming up and doing things with us, and some of it requires touching, doesn't have to, but we allow those people
that are on stage to touch us. Some bitch was drunk the whole motherfucking night and really really, really really loud, and I've noticed this happening in improvs, so much so that at the Houston show I actually went up to a security guard and said, I need this dude to
just quiet down. And I don't feel like people should be kicked out for being loud, because if you're getting excited, that means I'm doing a good job and I'm not gonna lie to I also prefer the venues that allow our guests to drink and eat and it becomes like a thing, and I mean not everyone can control their liquor, and we're not here to. I don't think that has to do with controlling liquor because I've been wasted and never jumped on stage of anything, so I don't want
to give her that much credit. But I will say that people that get two there's an entitlement that some people have. UM and to me, when you don't have any kind of social cues, like, how could you have thought that that was okay? So here's what happens. Whatever. So I'm on stage, me and Mandy switched back and forth from doing the game from city to city, and this time it was mine. And here's basically what happened when I replay it, and I talked about some of
you guys you know through this on Twitter. But um so the guy that was doing the position on me wasn't as good, right, but he was very nervous, so everybody was kind of like, awesome. The problem was he put you in an oral position. It was supposed to be a penetrative position, so it was just but I still he didn't know and it was like, more so, what position would make her wet? So that was the
one he thought of. Um and I think it was maybe on us for not saying penetrative, which I did after when we but we haven't had to say that all tours, so it was just how he interpreted the game. Um. So he puts me down on the floor and it got awkward and everybody was kind of like huh, so I'm turning around to get up so I'm on my back and I used my hand to turn and get on my knees and immediately I feel someone grabbed my hair a hard grip and like jerking me and like
sucking me from the back. Now what's funny is because it was so fast, I thought it was you saying, no, this is what you're supposed to do. But then girl, I was stuck behind the contestants. I was might to see anything. I just couldn't imagine it being someone that jumped from the crowd. But then I also thought in that moment, like why would me Andy grab my hair? But yeah, I was on the other side of the day. So when I finally like pushed her off me or
I don't even remember how it happened. I can't wait to see the video. I look, I have the video of Nigel sense it. He caught the whole thing on tape. I'll forward it to the horrible citness what happened this morning? She just jumped, you'll see it. I'll send it to you. So basically, the girl jumps and I'm like, what the fuck? And what did I say? Now? You gotta go. I don't remember, No, you were like you cute but no, like no, and then yeah, then so bam that happened.
So the girl jumps on me, and I guess if you're watching it, you can't really understand what's happening. So my mom is always on high alert when I'm in Orlando, because, like I said, those are my most ratcheting moments of life. So when the girl jumps on me, my mom assumes it's not a playful thing. She thought it was a fighting thing. So my mom rushes to the stage to curse this girl out, telling her to get the funk back,
blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. And I'm like, oh my god, Mom, please come down, please come down. I can't remember what Mandy was doing, but I'm actually excited to watch the video now. So all I remember is my mom chills out, someone's moving the girl out, and then I heard the word bitch. For some reason, it registered a different ways to me. It could have been someone at the table saying, yeah, get that bitch out of here or whatever, but I thought it was
the girl talking to my mother. So what do I do? Fucking I almost took my shoes off that and that that's okay. Continue. Sorry, that was the part where as as us being on stage and us having to put on a show like that put you in You don't know how many people she was with. So if you jumped off stage, yeah, it's in defense of your mom, but not knowing how many people she had, you put yourself possibly a more harms to get jumped into the audience. Like You'll be real with you, I'll get jumped for
my mom all day, any day. I'd get jumped for your mom all day, any day. But the words bitch, I mean she called her a bit like we're in a professional state, like where I mean, I guess this is when when they go low. I don't always know how I'll go low to the flow, which like I'm sorry, but I don't give a funk where I'm at if I'm at work, Bitch, you called my mama out her fucking name or just anything. You don't have to know
her fucking name. That was super disrespectful. That's why I flew off the stage, and I absolutely do not regret it. Time and time again. You could ask me all months from now, ages from now. I feel like what I did was the right thing. I don't really think that there can be a time or place that would be appropriate to like, Oh, well, maybe if I was just at the club would be cool. Not it's my mother.
And when when I heard it, it really felt I thought it was from her because she was screaming things out. Turns out it wasn't, and I was like, Okay, in that moment, this is what was a crazy thing. It started to then hit me. My reaction was what I felt was right. And then as I walked back on stage, I was like, Oh my god, are people out here nervous because they don't know what's going on. So that's why I said, Oh, don't kick her out. You can bring her back in. She just has to go to
the back. And I only did that because I thought maybe that would lighten it because I was so angry. Everyone was so hype and angry, and if she got kicked out, maybe people would feel like they can't engage. I don't know, So that part was really confusing for me too. But I felt like what I did wasn't wrong. Um we're gonna I just feel like in that mom and that's fine. I mean, it's the word is bitch.
There were over three hundred people in there. What I didn't want is a a full blown chaos to happen again. Let me time to disagree with me. This is I mean, And that's fine if you think it's shitty. I'm just saying, thinking of not only the safety of us, our families were in the building. And these are three and I get that. I'm saying, our families were in the building. So I'm just saying, knowing that you going on stage, not only are you putting more of yourself at harm,
you're putting your parents at home. You're putting my parents at home. You're putting over three hundred No, no, no, no, I'm not saying that. Let me but I know exactly what I'm saying. I just I'm just saying that there were people that were getting her out and her calling anyone a bitch. Shouldn't like it. To me, it just would have caused a lot more chaos, and we don't know. That's fine again, we're gonna agree to just I don't want one jumped on you on stage. Your mother didn't.
I get that, but you you jumped off stage over the word bit and I'll do it again, my mother, Like, what are you saying? I'm just saying that there was a lot of things in that instance where I was just like, oh god, chairs can be thrown, Oh god, we're live, we're out of place, we don't know there's like to me, it was also it was also nothing to do anything has everything to do with the security, which is fine, Yeah, I get that, and we'll be
working on that. But I think if you're you're saying people were carrying her out, I don't know who those people remember. I don't I didn't see those things because it got very like hectic, and so for a while the last two days, I was like, am I ever going to play this game again? That that that really got to me, and I was like, you know what, when I was talking through Twitter, people were saying that the girl had never even listened to the show, that
she was almost rooting their experience at the table. And I think that moment was so important for everyone in the audience because right before King Noir was about to do some impact play or whatever, and he was talking to the girls on the side that he brought up and one of the things I said that I wanted everybody to know was he's talking about um consent with them and what he's allowed to do and boundaries before
they get to get rough and have fun. And that moment is so interesting from a listener for someone who doesn't listen to the show to know that what she did was all about consent. Because when we were in what city was it was it Houston when a girl wanted to dominate you and another girl raised her hand in cans aside and said can I help her? And we both said yes. Maybe you said yes because it
was for you. And it's just interesting in the difference in how much this show can really teach someone, not just like manners when it comes to consent, but just from such a broader aspect. Just to know that that was someone that doesn't listen that jumped up. So I realized that, yes, I still do want to do the game because I'm not going to take away what I think is to be one of the most fun parts
of the show. And I think just moving forward security is just a way bigger d All And I also believe, much like we've said from the l A show, it has to do with it being so niche maybe people not feeling like we're quote unquote big enough celebrities, but understand that everyone was crazy packed at three pm for a reason, And I feel like if it was the Marlon Waynes who came after, that could have never have went that far, but it did because it's like or
whatever thing. So I'm glad that that moment happened because there's only been issues during the game when it comes to people jumping up, and from here forward, I think it just shows us so much more of how how much room we have to grow as far as what our team is. Yeah, we know we have security there, but like, do we ever have security team meetings? No? Sometimes many doesn't, but we don't other podcasters. I just I just feel like this could never happen to someone bigger.
And that's kind of what Fox with Me is. There's a lot of this that makes me feel like it's because it's us. No, it's because we don't pay a team to travel with us the same way because we are paid by the venue. He was security. No, we're we're supposed to have our own security with us. That's
how the other people travel. So we're gonna compare ourselves to the other podcasts when when rap come to a show security team, But so does the venue, right, So so their security communicates like, well, I have two conversation, and their security communicates with the with the security of the venue. So if it's really that conversation, it's not only the security because they're supposed to secure the venue.
They are not our personal security. So if we have to have the conversation well okay, this is where they need to be placed, that's a different conversation. But then we then need to hire our own security. Like so if if we're going to compare ourselves to the bigger podcasters, they bring their own security. The irony of you remember saying like last year like we don't need security. Remember that if you want to ask no, I think we just talked about how we normally like our space is intimate.
We are now getting into bigger venues. Um, but we we together while we booked our tour, felt like we have a very mature audience. So even with speaking to the venue is when they would ask if there was security, whether we needed it or not, we didn't. I mean, but now we're doing larger I thought about I was like, bro if and during the meet and greet, everybody was like, we had you girl, we had You're on It's sweet
because my mom. Really they were saying that too, right, But it's sweet to think that everybody wants to join together in this camaraderie. But it's just like I wondered if it was another city, like what would have happened, Like it just happened to be the city where all of our friends and family were there, Like what if it was another one? And I'm I'm telling you, I mean, this is the third, almost the third time it's happened. It happened in DC, our very first show. Um, so
this isn't It's not like this hasn't happened before. It has happened before, but never to this extent with someone putting their hands on me. It was more so people just not being able to like handle themselves and get on stage. So all I know is again, if it happens again, I feel like for someone who touched me, like what, especially because I had to do my mom. I I ain't wrong, and I do want to make
sure that the experience is consistent for each person. Um, you know, each person that comes up for the next time. So for those of you guys who do come to horrible decision shows, I wheezy. I'm gonna speak for myself when I say this, if you are one of the people that comes up on the stage and are chosen by us, If you're one of those three people, you
can do whatever. You won't have fun unless I have a wig on, And I'll warn you other than that, you can stay you're ass in the seat unless we decide to call upon you to help enjoin the gang bang orgy or whatever the funk it is on stage. But act accordingly, be respectful, keep your hands to yourself unless I want them on me. All Right, I'm just gonna just not to keep going on this topic any further. UM, I'm gonna switch into the Vanilla shift. UM for this week.
This comes from Huffington Post dot com and it is about compliments. Um. We talk about the importance of communication, and for this one, I thought it was really good because it does have to deal with um body positivity being an inside job. But UM, for this one, it's women's share the compliment that makes them feel, um, the
most amazing about their bodies. So I wanted to go through some of these because I do know that we have a lot of guy listeners, and I know even in the episode that we had with Ashley Chubby Bunny. We had the conversation on specifically the compliments that men think are compliments to us, um as in like calling us fluffy or you know, or squeezing our our art, what is the teachers or something our stomach. Um, guys, I think sometimes fail in giving compliments that are received
as compliments. So I wanted to go through some of these and then maybe weezy you can share some compliments that you've gotten, um from some of your lovers or friends that made you feel just really confident. Um. Um, Well, I want to read through the ones in in the article first, UM, just so that you guys can get an idea of things that do sound good from guys. UM. So this one is, you have the most beautiful legs I've ever seen. You're like my just like a rabbit.
You make the hottest sex face. I think that that's funny because I think a lot of us are. It's kind of cautious about what we look like during sex. Um, you wear a wicked grin. I don't know if many black guys use the word wicked, but just saying someone's smile is nice, wicked is what that's Boston they say Wicked and Boston Wicked is like their ship, and I feel like in the UK they do. Um, you have the softest skin. Your body is perfect exactly as it is.
I like that compliment. Um, baby, you smell so good and I could wrap myself in you all day. So these are just a few that women has said bringing them the most confidence. Um. I would say the compliments that I think make me smile the most are the acknowledgments of the work I put in and where I'm at now. Like I think someone's saying how proud they are of me, I thought you meant like your body. No, well that too. That that I think speaks to my mind. Um.
As far as my body, UM, I don't know. I like, I love my thighs, and when I started losing weight, I actually hated how small they had gotten. But I'm like into my thighs. So I love when guys like compliment my thighs because it is a part of me that Um, especially with shopping for jeans and skirts and how they used to make me feel, I didn't really like them as much, but my thighs are something that when that compliments me, I'm like reassured, that. Okay, big
thighs are kind of you know, cool. I also like the compliments on my breast um, specifically my large area. Is so when guys talk about how much they like silver dollar, Hell, yes, silver dollar. Maybe fucking cup mats. I don't know, but the bitches they're big. They're big at fun like hoster it. Oh is that what it is? A cup matt? It could be called a cup matt, a coaster bit I am so, I mean a coaster. I don't think going to work. This is pretty bad. It could be called a cut mat. The dope it's
only called a coaster bitch. Fuck you anyway. My ariola is I like when niggas compliment on my big old arials. Fuck you, bro, fuck you. I took my head um. Oh okay, I think I'm trying to think of something that compliments the specific. But one thing I like that Amanda's is like he'll like we'll be like in the mirror and he'll like tell me to look at myself and tell me a compliment about myself. He'll be like,
look how pretty you are? Oh that's cute. Yeah. He always does the offsets of Cardi on me, like fixes me up and that makes me feel so special. And then it used to actually really know me. I'd be like, I would think something is wrong with my face, um, and he just tells me how much he loves touching me. I'm thinking, like something that I really loved. Obviously, you taste so good. It's like the number one compliment, because bitch, I'll be drinking hollow water to tastes good. Um, I
don't know. I had this girl say something when we were sucking her in Puerto Rico and she was like where she's from, Oh, New Zealand, I can't do the accent, but she kept talking about how she was both of us were making her so wet. She's like, I can't I can't even look at you. You're bothn'tet me so wet. Boh blah blah blah blah blah, and like would say it over and over and it was kind of annoying, but I started to believe the bitch, not like, yeah,
I get it. I would say that that's uh indirect non verbal compliment that I would say I get is when a guy is around me and we're not even having sex. I ain't sucking his dick, but he's hard as a rock. That just makes me. You you gotta say that you know I look good because now I know you think I look good because you think is man. So I love like not. And I told y'all, I actually hate seeing soft dick because I'm not used to seeing soft dick, like like he was hard upon arrival.
Like you have to use another flies. It is the word another reference point for a person. I mean all the other little one off niggas too well, perpendicular. His dick be hard like when he came right through the door. Green Eyes, green Eyes be perpendiculars the guy you went to n SFW with no that's Canada, bay um. And then oh green Eyes, green Eyes be rock hard too. Who I just saw green Eyes not too long ago.
Green Eyes is amazing. Um green Eyes has has sex seven Like he literally is like the most sweetest chill person. Like we just be smoking together. I'd really just be smoking with my niggas a lot before sex. Sorry, like that's my thing. I feel like wine. I mean, I feel like I'm saying something cheesy now, but actually, you know what I really love to do. This is dumb, but I'm into it. I like, um, so let me tell you guys a name of these cigarettes. They're not
real cigarettes. They're made out of flowers, what seriously, chrysanthemums, what's the lavender? And like herbs? Um? I got them in too loom. I know what I sound like right now, definitely, but they sound exactly like anyway. They're like so fucking natural and if sometimes I feel like smoking actual cigarettes, it's just too hard, but like I want like a little something. But they're these Mexican cigarettes and they're called like Floria to Mesco. If you guys can order them,
fucking order them. They're so fire and they make them out of actual flowers and herbs. Maybe a little tobacco is in it. But I like rolling them up like that's like something I love doing. I love rolling up like little cigarette. The way these nails are set up, the niggas gonna roll. I'd be making them roll extra just so they could leave it when they leave, because I can't be rolling bloods with these nails and be taking can't up blunt because the licking gets annoying, But
the cigarette papers I can kind of do. Um. That's a weird. God damn, why does all my sta do with smoking, alcohol and drugs, what else. Yeah, I do that right before, and I just love like it gets this chill and then he like I said, like that nigga turns into another beast. But like I said, like, I'm not used to being like having to get a dick hard. So like the compliment, I just read the whole facts. Are you kidding? No, I'm not. Well, fine, we'll get into the whole facts already. Yes it is, Yes,
it is real, bro. You know what, let me tell you Sam, I forgot to get my source for this. No, it's not fake news, bro. I literally was looking up facts that women should know about sex and then it went into like some other stuffs. Anyways, let's get into the whole facts. If you guys have not picked up on the new segment that we have, Hope facts is sex facts that you just wouldn't You just wouldn't know
unless you listen to horrible decisions. And I'm just saying, unless you just google weird sex facts that you think we should know. So the whole facts for this is, for seventy five percent of men, ejaculation occurs within three minutes of penetration. However, however, I do want to say ejaculation could be considered pre come as well. Like, if you think about it, nigga's pre come. Ejaculation is pre come, I know, but how did they know nigga fre come? And how do they test it? I mean science, I
don't believe it either, so thank you for not believing. Yeah, well this is just no, it's not. And then, um, so when I get sex facts, I like to like
do the opposite end of the spectrum. So if seventy of men are ejaculating within three minutes of penetration, um, the average woman can reach orgasm in about four minutes through masturbation, while through intercourse it actually takes up to twenty minutes, which is why I would assume a lot of us are not coming because men are coming before we can technically reach the amount of time it takes
for us to orgasm through penetration. A woman will have sex with a partner more than three three thousand times over the course of her reproductive years is also one that I found, which I think that's believable because I would say the nigga that you just said I can't reference anymore, we had sex at least a thousand times like we were fucking we were sucking three rounds every time. I'm just saying I feel bad that I mean that I'm no longer sucking out good dick. It's still him.
I mean there's other niggas, but they haven't I haven't funded him in a while, like green Eyes because they're not local. Local Dick is yeah, and I've had no other local Dick and green Eyes is literally only like ship when he was playing in town or offseason. We see each other a lot because he can. He's met me in cities. He met me in Atlanta that one time. Like, so green Eyes is you know, local Dick is a serious gift from God. Ironically, some of you may remember this,
Jeeves moved into Old Bays building. I'm downstairs. I don't know what made me think of it, but I thought about Jeeves for a second. I'm in the lobby of the plushes of the building and I was like, damn, that was some really good pink Dick, and bam, it was like God wanted to test me. Bro He fucking walks by. He's like, hey, I'm like, what do you live here? Now? So I don't know what to do right and I'm like, feeling so awkward. I go upstairs, I go to sleep. Why had a dream? Both these
niggas gang like, well, is that what you want? You want to three someone with them? BO? Yes you do. But I was like, damn, these are two best dicks I've had in New York and they're right in the thing one blowing up. I know you have threesomes on with girls. Is this something that you've had the conversation about possibly having a threesome with another guy? And would he have a problem? Would it be someone that maybe you've had sex with all right now, I'm sure he would.
That's not just sex to you know. We really cared about each other. But I don't know how he would feel about three sims with another guy. I actually haven't talked to him about it. I did say one night he ain't saying no. There was a super lit couple we were at last Lap and I ain't front. We always suites after the last light, which is so terrible to say, it was true. And there's this girl who was fine at fun when we were flirting with her, and she was like, I really know what I'll trying
to do. And I got a man and he was like, okay, she got a man, it's the point to me. And she was like, he in the bathroom, and I was like, what do you look like? He came out and YA did like a couple of sas. I was thinking about it right the whole time. But they were like being buddy buddy cool. So the threesome ship went away when it came to her, right, But all I'm thinking is like, let's fucking boat. But I just I wasn't ready to
bring it up. But and then I kept thinking, like I was thinking real deep because she was like, yeah, he's playing ball in China right now, and you know, so it's finally nice to have him back. Blah blah blah blah. And I was like, damn, well when you go back, She's like in like ten days. I was like, okay, we got a show on eight, so maybe we got like six days to dude. We get in the car and I was like they were cool, right, and he was like yeah, they were cool? And I was like like,
real cool? Are he looking at me like this? And I know he knew what I meant. And I feel like maybe if there was another vibe like that, maybe he'd be down. But Also, I know he has a thing in his head about like what we do at home. I think he's really are you bringing him to Jamaica. No, he said that ship to get up, he told me. But it's only because ghetto was just black as he No no, no, I made like comments about he didn'tism the first time. He was like, what he's angling Atonism?
It's a whole different and not I think that's what he's associated with. So I was like, you know what, we already do enough at home, might as well just let it be like a girl's trip. So I think I might bring Rashida and Brandon if you guys know Brandon from the Patreon episode, and a couple other friends. I don't know, but I don't think he's gonna come. Plus,
it's Memorial Day weekend. He's gonna want to do the Hampton because it's nikaboogy, which I would have been doing if I wasn't in Jamaica anyway, So it might as well be up. Let it be my whole time. Let me fuck somebody new Well. I wanted to get into um this week's horrible Decision Um, just because like I think that there's a lot of talking points UM and things that UM this actually has to do with UM reality TV, and then just questions that came about just
the relationships and things like that. I don't know if y'all know, but I am a huge like fucking Real Housewives of Atlanta married to medicine l A and we might have an ad for one. Listen, I don't already like, can we bring one of them holes on the show? Because I stand I actually just listen. I just ran into UM Angela. I had to go to the studio to pick up a box, and bitch I I looked like, ma'am, the next time you have Ninie leaks in the fucking building.
I said, I'll just come and be your bartender. I don't care if all the girls are here, all come and just make drinks for everyone. But I stand, Nini your we gotta get you a new hunt love those things. So actually, because we've been touring, like from Charlotte and just UM Orlando and all of the touring, I've been
so behind in my Real Housewives. So I went ahead and binge watched UM about four or five episodes, and while I'm watching it, I'm like, these would be some really good conversations UM to have between us as far as just atta, well this is all I've been just yesterday. Um. And so these were the questions that arose. And because we do have so many, I know, we just had the episode with Brandon where we talked about relationships stuff, um, and then you know, um the girls from Good Mom's Choices,
we talked about dating with being a parent. Um. So this is actually one that stemmed from of course Kenya and I don't even like Kenya ho um, Kenya horror. But if you're yeah, more Kenya horror. Um. Anyways, her relationship was trash, but you could tell like there was very there was differences where in public she was I would look at it as disrespect. But I want to know what you think. So, say you don't like somebody, is your spouse supposed to also not like that person?
How much do I not like them? Um? Well it's it's Niny and and and Kenya their relationship, but regardless,
I mean regardless, I just want to know. It's actually a very interesting question that you proposed because Scissors made a comment to me, Um after the Orlando show, there was a girl with that it was speaking to her and when we were leaving, she was like, I felt so bad in that moment, like she was talking to me and I didn't know what to do, And I was like, tell you something like I don't ever want you to have energy that I have. You know what I'm saying, Like to me, that's just just so honestly,
I'm on a different frequency, bro. I'm not worried about someone that's talking to someone. And went like, no, don't get me wrong. If they're like kicking it and going to lunch, sure i'd feel a way. But you speaking to someone and being cordial. I want my partner or even my ex partner to be that way, like be high above that ship, because I'm not. As we know, I will jump off the stage. But I just think sometimes it can get cancerous when you don't like someone,
and I don't want to be that person. If I don't funk with someone, that's for a reason. I don't need you to feel like you can't speak. Now. I don't know the extent of her and Nini, and I also don't know how far her spouse went. But if I was in a party and my man so so so I'll get hey to a bitch online. No, no, no, I'll give you the scenario. So Kenya's man is friends with Nini's man. Can you can you? Nini don't deal
with each other, but he deals with man. He was throwing a charity event and wanted the couples to come, and he was like, I'm inviting Nini to even knowing his wife does not funk with Ninie at all. Was like, if Greg is coming, Nini needs to come as well. So imagine if you're in that sense to where your husband knows that you don't funk with someone, but he's like, Na, she gotta be at my event too. But that's a
different thing because they already have a tie. It's not like he just invited Ninnie of the Street he fuss with her husband. Imagine that now, I don't know, I don't know like that. That's why it's weird because because a lot of the other girls on the show and a lot of the other words, you gotta right, yeah, but it's like you're supposed to be on my stat Like Porscha was like, if I don't like a bit
my nigga, don't like a bitch period. Yeah, that's that's where I want to have but so what where I have these feelings as for example, what happened to me with scissors? They know each other right like it just it was a new thing. So what are you supposed to do not to I just I really feel a way about your partner being a good representation of you,
and I don't really like to be that person. That's just like I'll fuck that hell to get Like no, like my man ain't gona kiki with a bitch, but like if you smile and he's cordial, like that ship is fine for me. Now. I think the other thing too about this is like we associate loyalty sometimes with within our circle, as in like you can't you know, like there's no fucking way, And I just don't believe that.
I really don't. So I'm glad that you brought that up because the next conversation actually comes um from something that Kenya was saying. Um, but also think a conversation that I've had with my friends. And so I want to ask you if you think she's does a good man cheat she's That's literally the question. She said, you can't be with a good man if he cheats, because if you're a cheater, then you're a liar. And she was just like, you can't be with someone and claim
that he's a good man if he's a cheater. I could see that because I think that cheating is dishonesty, which in that case now I agree with that one. It's hard because I haven't had that. You can be a good person to to slip, but I mean, if you're a fucking liar, you're a liar. And of course this is the conversation that you know, so many people
are uncomfortable when when I admit to it. But I recently had this conversation with my home girls because I kind of brag about, like my my lovers, like the married men, because I think they are some of the best men that I actually that I know, and I have both we actually said this maybe a few months back, when you kept talking about how great they were, and I'm like, but they lie, but yeah, and so like when when she posed this conversation, she was sitting with
Cynthia and not yeah, she was sitting with Cynthia, and she was talking about, like, well, he can't be a good manny be cheats. Literally, the conversation that I had with my what my friends were like damn, Like no, but that's I mean, they're not such good. They're good,
but you have them for moments. There's there are women in their lives that they've made vows to promises too, and that have deeper connections with than they do to you, and they're lying to them and being deceitful to someone that trust their mind, body and spirit with that's deep ship. And if you're continually lying and doing something like that, no, you're not that good of a man. If I got to wonder because I don't even know if they lie anymore.
I just feel like they're women because of the lifestyles they have. It's cool, like yeah, but if it's a don't ask, don't tell things, well, I mean I don't ask, but you said that you don't know. I don't know. I don't know. There's one thing I thought about. There was a conversation I had about married lovers with um old Bay because he asked me a question about you reading something or it was like watching a YouTube and he was like, why did everyone say many married niggers
or whatever? I mean, but I say, sun me nigga. It was in the comments or something on our YouTube page or it was something that someone was saying, was like, why are they saying that. I was like, oh, well, like she did or whatever, and so he was like he was like, I get he has a chick he's to funk with that was married, and you know, we we obviously some of you guys know. We talked about
being a monogamous and stuff like that. And I said, I'm gonna be rong with you if you are ever sleeping with someone like you know and we like every funk around. I really have a feeling about it being her because I don't like that deceitful ship. I want you to be with someone or funk with someone that I just feel like she could drag him down, like you want to fuck mind again? Secret and then you're going what make him like? Lie to me too. I
just don't like that like lying ship. But I have been for the last few years pretty open and trying to practice honestly with with partners. That's why I've had such an issue with the lying. It ain't the married thing, it's the lying thing. But what's crazy is those be just I feel like in dating people, a lie people out of themselves. People lie in order to get you into bed. People lie because they they're telling you what they think you want to hear in order to get
what they want out of you. So I feel like, well, I feel like that's dating. So I'll be honest and saying yes, they whatever lies they're telling their partners. Again, I don't know the arrangements are what they have set up. We've never had that conversation, but wholeheartedly, those are the men who are the most honest in my life. But you always come on this podcast and talk about communication and openness and like, yeah, but I'm not going to
ask them about that. I know that it's there, but I'm not going to ask them about their life with someone else. I'm not about the people that lie when their homemaale and talk about how they should open up or like not. I mean, I open up to my relationship with them. They know when I'm dating, I've told them as soon as I get someone up, you'm open with them to our relationship. Talking about when there's a homemale and someone's upset about somebody lying, you be acting
like them niggas is trash. So how could you think I don't know if you can reference what you're talking about. Yes, but and then you're they'll talk about how their man's been lying about something. You're like, no, if you can't communicate, and blah blah blah blah blah. I'm and that's what I'm telling you. I communicate with them wholeheartedly. They don't lie to me. Them lying to someone that I'm not involved with nothing car But I'm also but that's not
the person I get. But I'm also telling you when dating single niggas, single niggas lie to me more than them niggas. I mean, I get so like, okay, so do I take four or five six? No, But it's also okay. Do I sit here and take a nigga that I don't know for faith the whole time or dame because he's single, Or do I sit here and because I know this nigga has nothing to lie to
me about whatever he has. I enjoyed the honesty that I have with them, that I have with dealing with someone that I don't know their true intentions until it's too late to me. Dating these single niggas, they tell you the most lies. They tell you exactly what they think you want to hear until they get what they want, and then it is better dating someone married or some mean, I'm not really dating that I don't have the time to do. You don't I mean in the wild? I
mean that's fine if you think it's wild. But the people that have been in my life have been really fucking honest with me, and right now, I don't have the time to date single niggas, And in the times that I have thought I had time to date them, it's just a whole bunch of bullshit. Maybe it's because the relationships that you have with married men are more casual, I would say, right, because you're way more than casual
now they've been in the picture for eight plus years. Well, okay, so casual because you know that there's nothing going on there. Maybe if you met a single nigga that didn't want more and there was nothing going on there, you wouldn't have to worry about that ship either because even when going on you want when you're dating single men or when you're looking to date, which I also applaud, you
let them know what you want. But if genuinely you just wanted sex or to funk around like you do it married niggas, but niggas still lie even in that's but what do they have to lie to you? Because niggas lie? What do you mean what do they have to lie about? Like you literally everything, like like I'm friends with benefits? How do you get it? And they can they can lie and say, oh I got like because I've lied to niggas in that sense where I to be like, oh I got something to do? What
you like to get you to leave? To say, oh, someone's coming over so I can't see you this weekend, like niggas lie, Like, let's not act like nigga's just don't lie, just like people like that somebody, how do those issues come about? They do? Like it's like they just do. Let's get into the next conversation. Because you act like niggas don't lie niggas. I didn't say. I didn't act like niggas don't lie at all. I'm just
saying there's many things that niggas lie out. If they have to take you on a date next thing, you know, oh I gotta go see my mom. If a nigga was supposed to come over next thing, you know, they're not coming over a little and you don't know what the truth is. They could be going to see another hole they could be. Like niggas lie all the time.
Like so, whether they're rescheduling a date, whether they said they was gonna come over and they can't come over now last minute, whether um, they said they didn't want a girlfriend and you've been working with them, next thing you know, they got a girlfriend. Like that's what I'm saying, Like Nigga's lie all the time. Niggas will say whatever they do want, saying I'm I'm I'm eliminated for the rest of the show. I ain't gonna say that any work because I feel like I've just been saying nick
nick Nick is my bad. But men, um, guys, you know the opposite sex. I don't even want to put it to just men. Like if you're dating and you're a lesbian or your non binary, everyone lies specifically to keep you from your feelings being hurt, be because they feel like they can get something out of you. Like
the reality of it is people lie. And I would'k that's interesting too, because it's interesting you brought that up because um, old Bay had a girl he was seeing when we were just casually dating that was angry that he didn't want a girlfriend. And I think she knows that he has one now, and we talked about that, like do you mean it when you say it right? Like do you mean when I say I don't want a girlfriend? Da da dada, because now you have one?
So Nigga, was you lying? And I had this conversation with ChIL a C from Houston shout out to La he's married. He said that when a guy says he doesn't want to have a girlfriend, the with you is silent. So I don't like when someone says I am looking for relationship right now, The with you is silent if they're telling you that. So but however, it sounds good. But there's been a lot of times where Nigga has said I don't want a relationship and next thing you know,
y'all are in a relationship. So I mean, you know, give or take to get true. I think the main thing of it, though, like that happened in our conversation, was he's like if I if I say? Because I I remember saying to him when I was in Europe with Benny this summer. It was in August. I wrote him a message and I said, what are you looking for? And he never said a girlfriend, never said anything. He said something about, oh, I want to skip around answers,
just a dope vibe that a connection. If something happens, it happens. And when I said, like, why did you act like you don't want anything? He was like, because I felt like if I said it and you knew it, it would have to start from right then we would
have to start working towards a relationship. Well or not only that, like specifically now, I think men give you that jump around answer because if they do tell you I ain't looking for a relationship and a woman who may maybe is looking for a relationship, they'll be like no, we'll be like all right, well they're gonna saying by so I mean, you know we're gonna get those jump around So for this, I wanted to get into the homemail. UM. It's kind of long, but guys, this is a good
one and and we and I want to dig into it. Um. Also just because we've been getting a lot of feedback and how this about how this show has been affecting you guys. UM, So if you guys have homemail and want to send it in, send it to Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com. Um. This one caught our eye The title of this week's homemail is Horrible Decisions Ruined
My Sex Life. I might want to make that the title of this episode two because Jesus Sucking Christ anyways, especially because we we spent so much time talking about the show this episode. Um, so I'm gonna start it. You guys just follow along with the story, okay, because it is kind of long, So I'm just gonna let you all know now. First and foremost, I want to say that, despite the title of this homemail, I love
your podcast. Thank you for creating a safe space for black women to discuss all their kicky inhibitions and allowing me to embrace my inner wore. Now onto the good stuff. W D has ruined my sex life. Although I would like to remain anonymous, the following details involves several of your listeners and my cover may be blown. So guys, if you are involved in this goddamn ship, you know ruin his sex life. Okay, Now, there are no names in this, but I do want to say welcome to
being a member of the whore Hive. My boyfriend and I had the pleasure of meeting you guys at two separate live shows, and we're actually both featured separately. I wish said yeah she I don't think she says which one. She just says we're they're from I think um, and so many people travel, so I don't. I don't know. However, after his experience with the live show, I've grown terribly
insecure and it has affected our sex life. We were on a quote unquote break a couple of once prior to the live show he attended, and needless to say, he was brought on stage and later how to force them with three of your audience members. Now, niggas, I'll be telling you all, this ship is lit. So if you I'm sorry to this man. Um. Of course, I can't blame you guys for his actions, and in fact, I genuinely want to be happy for him. How many
men can say that they've had a successful forsome. Despite wanting to be happy for him, I cannot help but to feel insecure, in somewhat betrayed. Now that we're back together, We've discussed having threesomes, orgies and swinging, etcetera. Multiple times, and I'm upset that he was part of a forsome
without me. Not only am I upset about the actual act, but I am even more upset that he lied or withheld the information initially on top of line speaking of Lyne, when he told me, I respectfully asked him to stop sleeping with these women, and he denied. Mira quest this nigga was like, well, I don't sunk him already. I'm gonna keep sucking these it has been. It has been eleven months since the live show and approximately nine months
since I found out the truth. He no longer has sex with those women and constantly tries to reassure me that I don't have to worry about them. We recently got back together and I've been craving to have my first m F F threesome. I've had an F F F threesome before, so that's three females. You know, y'all get them. But a part of me no longer wants to have one with him since he had a foursome
without me. I'm even somewhat insecure about having sex with him now because I think, to myself, how can this experience with just me compared to three women. I know it's unhealthy and there are some personal issues that I need to deal with on my own, but I'm coming to you ladies, to see if there's anything else I should or can do to top everything all Off, we are in a long distance relationship going on three years
on and off. Can I proceed with having nasty sexual escapades with my boyfriend without comparing myself to his previous slash most recent experiences? Am I wrong for feeling some type of way? Am I just not ready to have a threesome? Or should I just not have one with him? Should I just refrain from having a threesome till we actually live closer to one another. I know this was a long email, but hopefully worth you and the hore hives,
while thank you a bitter ruined whore. That was really long. Yes, and you were texting the whole time, so I hope you got the details I did, so I read it like twice. I feel like you gotta dump him if he could suck three bitches and lie about it and not telling you like he's probably sucking more and that he's long distant. What does this look like? Um felling bait?
Just face time me and text me what nigga? I feel like you can't really have a relationship with someone that you already known has lied especially to that magnitude, because all you're gonna do is question the truths that he think that you may think he's telling you and always think they're a lie. Like the second guessing is awful. Um, this is why I'm such a big thing about honestly within relationships, because I've been in an unhealthy, toxic relationship
my first serious relationship. Um, you know, he was a cheater and then after a while he would just I couldn't even look at him and believe anything he was saying. He could tell me like, all right, I'm just gonna work, and I'd be like I was gonna a bit, Like it was just I became obsessed with the idea that he was constantly lying. And I feel like that is such a quote unquote big lie. Like to have a foursome,
that's a big deal. Um, yeah, I would dump him, But the good news is horrible decisions you think ruined your sex life when in reality and may have just shown you that nigga would ship. Yeah, I would look at the positive on that also. Um, I would think that there is something that Yeah, you can only look in yourself. So one of the questions you asked, am
I wrong for feeling some type of way. I would never tell someone they are wrong in the way they feel like y'all heard it in the beginning of this episode. I'll agree to disagree. Everyone thinks differently. I'm not going to tell you you're wrong for feeling insecure now and that you're not enough. Since he had sex with three other girls at one time, I ain't a lot of dick gotta be five if a you kept going back.
He'd been loan business for three years and he was able to have a successful for someone with three other women. Like purity always that that's a huge thing for women when it comes to sexy enough, especially the appetite of sex that men have. Like absolutely, I felt that before. I would say that this is something that you you if you haven't yet tell him how you feel about this, especially if you guys have still been teetering the idea
of having a threesome together. You need to let him know that you don't feel like you can trust him because he lied during those two months UM without telling you UM. And it also it's weird because there's the idea that there's a conversation between um lying and omission of something that happened, which actually I think that that's what she said. She found out two months later, and it's not that he lied, He just withheld the information, um,
and so that's what was there with him. No, she wasn't. Oh, not at that one that he went to a live show. They were on a break. UM. But I would I would say in terms of this, this is something you just have to talk to him one if it's something to where you feel that and secure even in your um solo sex sessions with each other, um, that this is something that is only gonna like it's just gonna add on. You're just gonna if y'all have been together this long and this is weighing down on you this much.
You said this was eleven months ago, um, so almost a year ago, and you're still sitting on it, I would say it might be time for you to move on. This reminds me of the Sex of the City episode when Carrie found out that Big was married and he told she, oh, she said, have you ever had a three sons? They were in bed together and he was like, yeah, with my ex wife. She was like, you were married.
So the next day she's like obsessed trying to figure out what the wife looks like, all of these all of these details, and all she can think about is she doesn't have wild sex with him because of that one thing she found out and it's existed this whole time, and that it's actually a great point to women that are like digging through phones or looking up ship. You're perfectly fine, and then when you start seeing one thing he may have said, and you're just like your mind
can't stop. I think that it's gonna be hard to get over, but I feel like you have to make the choice to get over it. You know, if you're ready to break up with someone one and two, you're ready to know, like you know, when you can let something go, if you need him to say certain words to you, you can ask for those words. Like I've said plenty of times, I need you to tell me that you don't want to do this anymore and mean
it when you tell me. If you don't, don't say to me, it's crazy because you just saying what you just said actually came came. Like what came to mind is that I don't have the same sex with everybody. And so that's the thing too, Like depending on the partner, like I ain't just licking everybody else. I'm not just dicking a finger in everybody else. I'm not allowing just everyone to eat me out, if you know, if they allow them to. Like, I'm not just writing everybody dick.
I'm not writing a lot of dick I made from time to time, but I'm not like it's that Like so the idea that he had a fourth them without you, but yet y'all have not yet had a threesome together. You have to realize that the comfortability and not only communication about sex, but sex in the acts of it, you behave differently with different people based on how comfortable they make you feel, based on the sexual chemistry that
you guys have. There's these three things that I've said they don't want to have three SOMs with their girlfriends because I think what you were saying could come off as like, um, he can't let loose with you. But I think a lot of men get too in their heads. They're like, Okay, I have three girls that I don't really know what care about, or the girl that I have relationship with that I don't know if I could handle the expectations, Like threeesoms are very scary fermit blessing
because coronableus. But I can seeze is also allergy season. When I sneezed Uber the other day, I felt like he looked at me like, which, I ain't gonna hold you. I was on the train earlier, and now I got this big as package, so I got an Uber. I was on the train and I was sneezing, and I was like, mind you right across me are to a with masks on, and I was like, I should probably
have a mask on too, just like them. They're smart because this is a fucking train and I'm literally sitting and I'm sneezing, and I'm just like, these people are going to kick me off this train. I was just like telling myself, don't sneeze again, bitch. Did you see the flight which I sneeze is a United flight that I saw that got into an argument and they had to land early because they because someone was sneezing. And I'm like, bitches, allergy season. Mind you, you know my
sinuses are always sucked around this. The one thing I just saw you do touching your eyes so interesting, Well, yeah, this is the mask. It goes into your eyes more than the mask gloves like it's your hands, but you better where goggles to the droplets from they go into your eyes, nose, the mouth. And Brandon was telling me like makeup artists, He's like, when I'm training makeup artists, I always tell them you cannot touch the soft parts
of the face. No in your corners of the eyes, touched the bottom, nothing around the nostril, and nothing in the mouth, like that's how germ spread the fastest. So like touching. And it's hard when you have lashes because they sometimes they itch. And I had freaking extension like anyways, strips on. So he listened to the show. You listened to this show, He's definitely gonna want to talk to you about it now. And because and the three um,
any of the three girls that sucked him? Kay, y'all sending the story because we tend y'all hotels, so it ain't even gott to be with no questions at the end. If you had a three a fourced them off of one of our live shows, can you please provide the details to that. Yeah, I would love to hear how I went. So something that um actually an upcoming episode, We've got a new segment whole confessions hold slash home mail where we want you to send in our stuff.
We're gonna do all whole confessions. Um and just that I found online, but I really would prefer it to be y'all, so please those ladies. Also, I want to know what y'all look like. We ain't gonna tell nobody. I don't care about what y'all look like. I don't hear the same one. I want to see if like we ran into it in the same way I read Zane and when Addicted came out all the boards, Coujo was perfect. The rest of the characters didn't fit what
I thought they did the same way. I still don't know if I wan to see Sister Soldiers cold as wone ever, because midnight we all know what he looks like. And if you just give me a person and it's not what I've envisioned, it's wrong. So I like to take Yeah, I won't open the pictures, Wheezy will, but I just like to hear the stories. Um so yeah, But I do have to say, I just saw a tweet come in. It's secured my Horrible Meet and Green tickets,
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gotta be a better knife round tips. So I want to read this. Um, this is um Kinkley. UM. If you want to read more on kinks, you can go to Kinkley dot com. Here they explain medical play. I'm gonna read this off real quick. It says medical play often involves an intimate examination, wherein the dominant partner performs quasi medical procedures. An intimate exam I don't know. It says, I feel like when I was about a plastic searcher,
like oh take your bros. See that's one saying, or maybe examining around the you know, the patient is often oh this is some ship you would like. The patient, which would be yoho as is often restrained, gagged, stripped, naked, or dressed in a humiliating costume. This I didn't know. So this is interesting, it says, here goes the examination. The examination man involved handling of the genitals and breast,
or the insertion of objects into various crevices. The objects may be heated or frozen to reproduce the sensations experience during a real medical exam. I guess you're supposed to experience pain. Strap on play is a common part of this type of examination, bitch, I think I may need to do that part. I have had a thermometer at my butt when I was what, well, that's how they took your temperature as a baby, like uh, some adolescent. So I was really high. Wait when was this? How
old were you? Why are you letting thermometers of your That was really high? And I'm like, yo, this is the highest I think I've ever been. I'm not going to tell you on what but I was like, yo, they know you do drugs other than we'd bro well whatever. So I was like, So I was saying to him, I'm like, yo, I feel like my whole body is hot, Like I feel like I got a fever. I feel like really sick. I don't know what's going on. He was like, I was like, I feel like I'm a
hundred degrees. He's like, I don't know because I feel really hot. And I'm like he's like, so I can't do like a tester. I'm like, can't do this. So wait, So the ass is the only place in Miami. It's like six or seven in the morning. I want to go get a thermometer. And I'm like, yo, I don't even think So I did it under my tongue and it was a normal type waure. I'm like, I don't think that ship right, you gotta pus you. You just didn't think under your tongue was the right temperature, so
you wanted it in your ass. I was like, yo, I got caught in mouth. The ship probably is like not that what it's the right it put up, bro, that's in me. The tongue is like, not that the tongue is in you mean? So I away. So he puts it in my ass and then like I made some kind of noise and then suddenly I felt more of it in my ass, and I'm like, is this turning into sex? Is that he stuck his dicking her ass? And now I mean, like he just kept fucking me
with the dude. I'm so glad this is on the Patreon. Everyone. Oh, I'm putting this video though for everyone to see. So you were getting annally fucked with a thermometer and enjoyed it. You were moaning, Okay, I'm finishing it, says I didn't say it, dude. It could be any it could it was a toothbrush. I wouldn't have known. It's not like I enjoyed it being at their mom said that too quick? Do you be sinking toothbrushes to open your ass before you got the butt fluk? And then you moved to
a brush. Did I show you the video where the nigga was sucking his ass with the with the end of a brother, I told you what the hair rushes? You have someone looking at it. So it says medical sex toys like Wartenberg, wills and speculums may enhanced examination. The examination may culminate with an enema or the asturbation of the submissipatient. In more extreme cases here we go. Medical play may involve the acting out of an anesthesia, fetish, piercing,
skin stapling, or the insertion of urethra sounds. We're going to talk about that later. I don't want to talk about no, no, no, no, the anesthesia fetish. That's fucking someone that's passed out. Right. I was reading about like people using chloroform like for sex and like really enjoyed it, and it's like consensual like chloroform, like they um one of the things that we told me, like her hospital stories. We got an interviewer. She said, like the weirdest thing
she's ever pulled out of someone. She said that she had a girl that was addicted to the feeling of like she was swallowing batteries and putting magnets up her ass and apparently when the two touched, like they draw closer to each other and it was fucking with her intestines. She said that bitch was in there four times trying to like they had to remove it from her. She's like,
stopped doing this. What all the show it's called Sex in the e Er is something where people like go to the e er off of crazy things that happened during I'm just I don't even if I gotta swallow a battery for him to go inside of me, I will. Oh. So that's the kink of the week for this week, guys, And it had a whole lot of ship to do with it. Be hilarious if you set yourself to the yard and then you're like, what, who is this bench? I wanted doctor? How get him in here? Shit? So there