Ep158: Good Moms, Bad Choices Feat Milah & Erica

get them on. But because there's new listeners before we start, y'all, the raspy bitch voice is me Mandy for y'all holes that don't know the bitch with the braids if you're watching on YouTube, that's wheezy, Like, can we at least introduce ourselves? So she just did. Yeah, this episode should have happened a long time ago. Because I describe you,

guys as horrible decisions with kids, like pretty accurate. I've always felt that, Like, y'all, every time I even click and listen for a few minutes, I'm like, oh my god, this is me but like with a baby, and like really one of my favorite concepts I think I've ever heard, and I know I'm like piping you all up and not and I know we're friends, but I just have never really heard of a more original idea like hearing your children, and like, it's just such an amazing show

and I'm not even something I think kids are gross. I mean, now you're getting into opinion, you're gonna introduce them or not. I just am so grateful for what y'all do. I just want to start by saying it because I really think it's a it's a dope concept and I wish more people so the dope concept that she's talking about. I mean, well I am. But can we introduce our guests? Hey, guys, we have guests today

from um the Good Mom's Bad Choices podcast. Um, go ahead and introduce your names and kind of maybe your personality on the show, like what differentiates the two of you. Hello there everyone, that was amazing. Thank you. I'm Mila. My personality, I would I would describe it as spunky. These are black girls, by the way, they're just yeah, they're from That's why they talk like from the valley. My nickname is is Perky And um, why because you're it's when okay, well let me tell you since when

it was fatty catty. It's also fatty catty plenty. You don't have to explain why, I know, self explanatory, but just you may even have a secret Instagram called fatty kat You have a fence, so they're dropping a plussy bit. No, but I need to start this year because I'm holding I'm really considering my fans only page, the only fans whatever, because I got I got a nice fee to ok you have a fucking Footipedia, don't even start a wicky

foot page for me. Get the fuck? They updated like weekly that your only fans could be lit I know, but don't like what your nickname is that how you describe yourself pretty feet? Hey the foot It was funny. It's your name for My name is Erica, and I would describe myself as feisty and judgmental. Okay, great, you are one of the first black skins I've ever met. A way, I didn't know they made black in Florida.

They don't have those. I don't know. That's more like Mexicans in l A. Black guys, but they there's a lot of babies being made by blacks of Mexicans. Callie to that side of the So many of us over there. So your show is good Mom's Bad Choices. What's it about, Well, it's about a lot of things, ladies and gentlemen, but mostly about being moms and not having to subscribe to this like archaic stereotype that once you give birth, he's fucking morph into Martha Stewart and are bacon cookies and

ship and you don't have sex anymore. Um, Eric and I are both single, So it's a lot about being single, mom, life, dating, fucking you know, mental health, actuality, which ship just just sleep out everything. Oh yeah, she does sacrifices and wait, but you don't sacrifice animals? Ship? You like fucking throw me sweet? Did a whole episode about it on the Pie. I told you, you do look like you could have been one of the actors on the Craft, right, like the one that was no, she won, the freaked out

was the one that breaked out. I just got to know, did you sacrifice something for like dick or love? Was that sacrifice something to cut ties? And they were? It wasn't like a gun Wait, it was okay girl, And I didn't do it like the my shaman did. And if you check out her the episode with him and we talk about it. You're sacrificed to what That's what the episode is called. Actually that to cut cord. No bit, I'm not killing animal to cut cord. Okay, what's what's

the big deal, Let's just think about it. Let's why wait Yeah, first, just killing murderer. I like animals. Calmed down everyone, Okay, read the Bible. They was sacrificing ship, so it's spiritual. Did you eat it after at least? No? No? So the pigeon sacrificing ship we saw a lot of firsthand in Cuba, and it's so part of their religious culture. Like and there, I think Kathleen like religions sacrifice all

the chi. It was gone. And then I was wondering, like maybe the chickens are here because like this is when they cook them. And I'm like, okay, but I guess the body wouldn't be here still, it's just the head is gone. It's fucking crazy. But I learned a lot about sacrificial ship and I was like, I'm definitely gonna kill something to get something. Well, you don't. You don't actually have to do the killing, Like I didn't snap the necks of the pigeons the guy did, and

then he put some blood on me. And that was to the extent. This is the call Casian one of the show No Bitch. Eric is very Caucasian. What Caucasian ship does she do? Child say? Sh like I was. I was going on a date with this white guy, and I was like, I was like, oh my god, he's so white. He said he's making a res and she's like, yeah, a reservation. I totally say rez. So I say, let's make him res in her. I said,

I have a resonate pretty five for sure. She's when I told her it was so white, She's like, what are you talking about? I say res all the time. I was like, oh, do you don't make me pull your card? That all is bad a thing fetch never, it's just a bradiation she is. I wouldn't say too white. I would just say it's so obvious that you've like grown up in l A and not even in an offensive way. We talk no, no, no. So I was in the car with Erica, I think, where do we come?

We came from sohouse, which makes it even more l A. We're in the car and she's dropping me off my hotel and she's like I can't. This is exactly why I don't do Beverly Hills. It's just ridiculous. This is stupid. It's like they just they have no regard. They just can't drive here, and I'm just I'm over it. It's true they can't drive anywhere in Los Angeles. Because I feel like I'm a New Yorker at heart, because I hate driving. I just want to be driven everywhere. And

I'd rather take the subway than sitting in traffic. Traffic, Would you rather sit in traffic? Are you? Are you moving on the subway? Subway? My phone died yesterday on the subway, and I'm like this sucks. Like and I'll actually when when I commute in New York, I'll look on my app to see, like the time is going to take in a car, time's gonna take in a train. And if it's quicker on the train, likeny, I'm gonna

hop on the train. Yeah, because y'all have traffic and ship we have a lot of traffic, Like you could go four miles and it's gonna take you forty five minutes. I still think l A traffics work though, traffic stupid. No, I don't know if I was like, where can we get that? We need a subway and there's no option to have don't need the valley the value fucking god, Yo, can you tell me the blackest shop you guys have done with it? Which black king? Oh that is, and

interviewed him with his right right. Yeah, the blackest thing we've done lately. Yeah, we are, We're we're very but I mean these braids look new. That's a black thing to do, Like I'm gonna prove my blackness. Like that's really bitch here talking about what's the blackest thing? Don't do? What is the most Jewish thing? Right now? I got pindled all roundmas, so let me not funk with you. Then he went to cutebu got something, got some moves down with no trouble. Um. Weevey went ahead and compiled

some icebreakers for you guys. So when we have guests, we like to kind of break the ice a little bit, although I don't think we need to with yours. But she got some cute ones. Um, so the first Ibreak icebreaker for you guys. And these are really only gonna pertain to y'all. We can't really answer them because we ain't got kids. Um, so the first icebreaker is, have you ever had sex with your kid in the bed? No? Wait, she was asleep? Wait are you serious? How old was

she's a baby? I mean, okay, first of all, let me say this. I think Eric is lying. I'm not lying, you know, I don't. I don't bring people around my I've only brought one person, the dad. Okay, well it was the dad. It was it was the dad of that baby. And I know and he wouldn't have done that in the beginning. There's some a jesting that has to happen, you know, you just become a mom and be like, oh ship, there's things I need to change that.

It takes time. That question in When I first read about someone doing this, I was reading Terrible Dusting, and then I was talking to my friends about it and she was like, bro, She's like, you have no idea how hard it is to put my kid asleep. And she was like even sometimes moving, like she was like I could leave the room and like bam, it's over.

She's like crying all day and baby baby Okay. I was thinking about and I'm like, well, if it's on the other side, I don't think you got a California king. It was it was a California king. Actually, actually that big as bed for no, that was the only good use of it because it took up the whole goddamn really good. I got the daddy. Okay. The craziest thing is I've never said this on any of our episodes because I didn't know consciously because it's like that sounds

I've judged myself. Well we're getting you out there. Okay, well judge you. I actually think it's fine. Okay, good hall. It wasn't my wasn't my greatest moment, but ship happens, and she's fine. She's not going to remember it, I mean until she gets old enough to listen. Has your kid ever found one of your sex toys? Yeah? You

just lie and say it's a tool. It's like it's like a pink I've, I've I've or like one of those i've whatever, I one of those Doc Johnsons in like like like a rabbit, like kind of like one of these mom what's said, like it's Mommy's tools, fixes things, fixing what is not found me. I'm a good hider, you're I was thinking though, because I went as a as a kid, I went through all my moms ship like all the fucking time, and I was thinking, like,

she's it's about time. I have to start like hiding things higher, up higher, So I just leave it right in the drawer, my underwear drawer behind. I know my housekeeper she'd be seeing all my ship, but plugs all the ship. But no, Irie has not yet, Luna, right, yeah, okay, And the last icebreaker is, what is the one major change about yourself since becoming a mother? Everything? If you don't you mentioned that she said I would never bake. I'm more empowered. I feel like you're like, fuck you,

get out of my way. You know, like I'm a mom, do whatever I want. I can't tell me sugar, um a smaller scar over my pussy. Um? You know section I did, and I do. I feel more empowered to I don't have time. I feel like the I'll never realize when I was single since dub a friend of the show said to me once that she didn't use an EPI journal when she pushed her baby on. I'm

like why and she's like, the fucking slaves didn't. I wanted to feel my son come out of me, and I can appreciate that to me was like, first of all, I think no man could really even like I wanted to know fucking way, Like, have you seen the videos of men when they experienced pain, they put those little things on them like they that's not appropriate word to describe them, because are clearly strong could take a pounding bounce back into shape. It's so crazy because your magic

is magical science. That's how we are magic. There's a lot of moisture happening. It's like a cut on your tops, a muscle right and elasticity. Like my boobs they're not like my breastfed for hell a long like two and a half years, and like the nipples are kind of looks like but the boops for the most Parker back, What what do people say about how long you're best fed? Like at one point, oh yeah, like oh she's too big. Um, it's like should like fall asleep and get scared that

she's gonna clench her teeth. So it's like, you know you, you get you if you figured out what made you do it so long? I'm all natural And also I didn't I opted not to immunize her, and I feel like like natural immunization is from my titty, from God himself or herself. So that was my motivation. Like you're an anti baxy, you want your child? How did your child get into? Okay? I mean, oh girl, I gotta

I got a special doctor for what I have. You look at a space right now, because so I'm not gonna lie, like I feel like it's a it's I've had this conversation before because so there was a child in New York that died of the musles because of

a mother who believed in not vaccinating. That's and so to me, I feel like it's kind of a irresponsibility and a and a harm to society to not go through with doing that now knowing that, Like, I mean, we have ship out here, and they are you to even start school with these Let me school you a

little bit. Um go ahead. I ain't got no kids, but I know, girl, I's not about to tell other people's so um Like, compared to when we went to school, there's like three times as many vaccinations as there was then, which I think is us um measles. I mean, I didn't hear about that case, but like that's been not around for a very long time. Um, I'm black. I don't trust the government. I don't trust pharmaceuticals. I didn't exist it up myself. You came shaped for God through

my pussy. I think you're cool. Um. And you know there's like there's like the Syphilist experiment in Alabama and they just given nigga's syphilis because I wanted to see what would happen to black people. So no, me and the pharmaceutical companies in the government of the US, I don't trust you because of slavery. So I don't want to just let just because of this nigga in a white coat who paid a lot of money to go

to school told me to do it. I'm not going to just be like, sure, no problem, bob, because I just I just that's I think people. I would like to say, you know, there's this fear you might contaminate other people. But the truth of the matter is vaccinations. Right now, bitches, we ain't vaccinated nomo. How would you feel about a coronavirus vaccination for her? I don't do vaccinations period. I don't like, let's we're traveling out of the country their mandatory and then we'll do it. And

now she's older. I mean, if I had to consider if we're traveling and maybe you know, like I feel like she's more like they try to literally shoot your baby episode and come out your pussy. The bitch just came from God. She's cool, Like I. I, you can't convince me like that you can inject something that's ir irreversible in my child that I did not mix up myself. I didn't even see the nick and mix it up.

I don't even know what's in this ship. Nobody asked for itemized copy of that ship because nobody just everybody just believes with their spoon fat have a feeling about like any So I'm gonna vaccinate my kids unless I live in Europe. I feel like the intensity of American drugsure right, is absolutely fucking insane, and I think that the iMusic like I'm always fucking sick and I've had

every food shot all of that ship. I don't necessarily always believe in it, but I do know that it's more rampant in children and elderly people here, like the common colds and the flues and chicken pope and not measles, but um just ship like that. But I've also read a lot of stuff about vaccines with like giving kids autism, and it's mercury and that's Tremelda hide. There's like all those things. And I do just because I like that chicken. And I know you live on the other side of

the country. Um, but measles has been around. Um, there's actually a real quick New York City has declared public health emergency since there's been two and eighty five cases of measles that's been reported in Brooklyn and Queens Um since October and by the beginning of May nineteen, four hundred and twenty three confirmed cases of measles reported. And it's there's eleven million people here. Okay, wait wait wait, And and also I know you guys are aware and

this is not going to be like probably googleble. But there's like this secret like very high end doctor that all like he he's like been a whistle blower and he like meets with all the like celebrity parents to tell him not to anti like they're joining together forces. And basically he said that, Um, I gotta text my

friend and see his name. He said that, you know, just like in any vaccination, they put a portion of the virus and it had a lot of these these measles outbreaks that they're they're they're trying to make crisis to shame. Parents like myself are from the actually from the vaccine, the fact that they put so some of you know, I have an egg allergy. Um. I talked about it on the show. I've it's gotten to the point where it's like almost starting to hinder my every

day life. Is actually getting worse getting food that's not doesn't have veggas. Find like I broke out in a rash from touching something that had mayonnaise on it, Like it was crazy, um, and it was almost on my face, like it got how really high up and I had to show that Daniel's freaking out. So I've been googling how to get rid of it, and this doctor was like, well, we'd basically have to shoot you up with some eggs. And that's not not literally all eggs, but like a

little bit. It's something that starts with it's some word whatever is in egg. I can't remember what it is, but anyway, and he's like, and you probably will, you know, get an allergic reaction. You may have a respiratory issue, but it has to go into the point where you just and I'm like, yeah, I don't really know how much I want, how I feel sick just to not like that ship is wild to me. The fact that you have to shoot me up with it. Yeah, I

vaccinated my daughter. I don't know, you know what. And the thing is it's fear based either way. And I agree with that because I mean it's funny, because I mean there's a lot of questions about even me. I know people are gonna be like, oh, so you vaccinate, but you don't believe in science. But I do agree and a little bit with you as far as to me, there are a lot of things that are perceived to us just based on government um spectacles and what they

want society to believe. Um. I was even listening to the Brilliant Idiots recently and Chris Morrow got on there and talked about even the coronavirus, the government has only told us of what they want to even about who's been infected and died. Um. So just to the point of science, like, I do believe that they tell us the things that they want us to tell us. They'll go to extreme measures to prove their point right, right,

kind of getting on my nerves a little bit. I know that I'm going to speak in turn from when I don't know. We could be dead by the time. The way they're acting this is like this is gonna happen. But I know recently, I just saw something and we're recording this just so you guys know, probably a week and a half before you'll hear it. Um. I already know New York is gonna hit this week because it's in Connecticut, Rhode Island. I would already hit Manhattan. There's one.

There's one case in Manhattan, so I'm gonna be real. I'm not that freaked out, only because Stars was more deadly. There's been eighty two cases. Only two thousand people have died, and they're mostly elderly or children. But we we black, so were good. It's from the droplets of a cough or sneeze and it has to touch your his nose,

her mouth. It's not airborne. So it's crazy because when I was on the plane and I was like, Wow, more people should be wearing gloves than the mask, even because it's it's contractions to your face, which is why they're saying wash your hand, don't do Um. Santitizer sanitizer because sanitizer is antibacterial. But the coronavirus is actually a virus. Virus is not bacteria, so we're not protecting right all this, I don't know, that's what they're saying. I don't know.

It's like string STDs, like that's why medicine it's like not all in one, you know what I mean. I read something that was quite funny. They said that there was two hundred thousand cases of the coronavirus. And we're sitting here having a goddamn uproar, but over two hundred million people have died from HIV. Anyway, I really have to work to life what then everybody'll be fine. I think people are more concerned this virus than what they

have been over aids. That's literally captured. Dude watches the news before he goes to work every morning, right, I swear to crying laughing because this woman on CNN dead ass to the camera was like, so yeah, it's pretty much gonna hit the East Coast soon. I would suggest everyone get canned goods, get your water water. The roads are clear. People have been told to stay in their houses.

There's been a lot of business stopped. All the stars are they're not even letting um goods be exported from China over here, Like, do you know how much is sucked up my Alley expressed, Like, let me just tell you guys, no bullshit. For those of you watching on YouTube, I normally buy um A lot of y'all asked about my braids, like, oh, is a human hair? Yes? I get bulk hare from Alley expressed, because I don't want

this synthetic braids because I leave the hair out. I was just shipping hair to go on vacation this week and I can't get any fucking shipping from China. So last minute, because I already had the appointment, I had to buy packed hair. Okay, my hair is so fucked up and it's been three days. I can't even brush it from this fucking pack. I missed so much. I swear to God, I'm like, I'll rinting myself. Give me. Are you all eating from the Chinese restaurants? You're good

on it? You know? Oh, I wonder if I didn't even think about that. I just thought about it being like chicken wing. People have been talking ship like doophobia going around? Yeah, which is not cool I mean, first of all, we're in America. I just yeah, just again with the fear. Am I gonna be fucking tripping out now if it gets me, it's my time to go.

Because they're saying, because no one knows rumors. I'm on a Washington Post Chinese food in the coronavirus rumors and reports that the virus may have been contracted by eating exotic foods in China. So yeah, that's so basically, So basically, what they're saying is, um, they were like lab testing animals, and so in the US you have to get rid

of those animals the right way. What they're saying is there were animals that were being lab tested and instead of getting rid of them, they were still selling them on the black market to be consumed. And so what happened is these live tested animals were consumed and that's how it started. No bit, she didn't hear. You didn't get there on it. They found the scientists at Stanford, a professor that was that was at what is it?

Partner trying to originate from I don't know. He did a little African used to be like you want to come to go on zoo? Was what is do put that under the age. There's a h in there. Oh, they don't want to stop talking about these Chinese people. Now they apparently it's it's man made and it's always aids all this shi is man made. I'm saying, find y'all whole just mixed it together and then in fact it isn't man made. Yeah, but they don't know it don't mean it's right. Is killing people. So I don't

believe in science. You know, vaccinate your children? Um? No, Well, Um, while we easy gets from MICI, if y'all are watching us on YouTube, I'm gonna go ahead and jump into our vanilla ship. This is actually a cool conversation as we have four women talking here. Um. We just had our Fairy Home Mother Tay that was on and this conversation got brought up. We were talking about to get money. Gut Um Wheezy from she Knows dot Com found an article um that says chubby or met may just do

better with women than fifth ones. If you think sexy model men are the ones who get more women than anyone else, you might want to think again. A new study says with the infamous dad mom actually has more lifetime success with money than hard body hotties. As it turns out, women are looking for Mr. Hard body trainer dude anymore. They're looking for comfortable, tallish man who is not too fat, not too thin. I don't know, it's

as tall ash, I don't know. I guess I was gonna say just six ft because and then niggas really be five it's tall, not sixas really be five ten especially. The study comes from New Chapman University study and was published in the journal Evolutionary Psychology. It looked like any

other study when it comes to height. However, men who are relatively tall may be preferred by women because taller height is acute and dominant social status, access to resources, inheritable fitness, leading them to have more mating opportunities and

sex partners. But the surprising part is that men who are considered quote unquote overweight tend to have more lifetime sex partners than men who are fit and trimp, which means that somewhere along the way, women really did not decide we like someone with a little bit Women did really decide that they like men with a little bit more meat on their bones. I wanted to ask you, ladies, because I am not one of these women in the studies. I want to either count your ribs or count your abs.

That's it. Um, yeah, I'm cool with a little skinny niggas cat ribs. I liked Wiz before he put on the weight. So your wife you're wanting you, Yeah, I'm cool. I'm thinking of I'm the one that feels like that was a bird chest. I'm I'm cool. I hear what you're saying with like lean I love. Actually I prefer soccer and basketball players for a body type. But the bird chested, yea. Sometimes sometimes those bird CHESSI niggers to be having pink ticks today. Knees, bitch, it's a third,

it's it's a kicksting. Also a short guys also be having thinks. I don't even so. I'm a highest for sure, but I've recently we have changed my mind because I found a nigga that is short and what a short? Five nine Okay, that's really short. But guys listening to this, they're probably like bitches. I'm sorry. I don't don't call me a bag because I said I changed my mind. Okay, mother, look, okay, I'll tell are you I'm five six you, So I wear heels so like, I don't really want to be

taller than my nigga. And I was with someone for seven years that was six two so and then my father's six three. Everyone, every man in my life has always been tall, so I equate that with what like I think of a man and um, but recently, actually I've had two experiences. Actually I think my R and B bay is actually even shorter than that ship uma. But that's the shortest. Um. How did anyone sink to

your pussy? No, he's saying your pussy vibrate like his mouth. No, I want to give me your hands, okay, because this is what he did, and I couldn't believe it because I want I'm gonna make sure to hear this. I don't feel like I'm getting my palm red home on your bus because it isn't do it. There's a sex tip well known, humming during blow jobs because of the vibrations. Okay, but it was not he homed on your clip. Okay, So I did it. He was one time and I

was like, did this pendy just happened? Like what the fun? And then he did it again recently and he's perfected even more and like it's like he does more things and the ship is as strong as a vibrator strong, Like it was amazing. Okay, both of y'all like you guys maybe above like ivertight men. But what means okay, so chubster um, I generally, normally I am attracted to lean, tall men. Um. I have slept with a chubster before and I didn't like it. Um. I feel like I'm shaming,

but like you, it's your preference. I just felt like there was a lot of belly on my belly and it was just like there was a lot of sweat. He sweat on me. I'm not it was skinny niggers. Yeah, I like this ny was sweating on the space Like I like my baby daddy. I'd like to see what's happening so like I can't. I like to see what's happening to right, and I can't do that if your stumming's an way, Um, what about you? Oh thank God that I'm working on it. Wait, um, big niggas, love

love you little bitches. It will come find me in the class. Literally, I know everybody. She has a body for a tiny girl and and soap. I'm so happy you agree because I was like, I'm thick, bitches, I don't know what anyone else is talking. Okay, Mandy, sorry you didn't get a clear. You didn't get you don't get clear. Okay, don't worry, I'll show you later. You see, I'm curvy, curvy, petite. I don't like I mean, I

prefer like an athletic body. I want to look at you and be like, oh yeah, I'm gonna sit on that, and that's like abs and all. I mean. Also, I don't want something super skinny, like I'm you're gonna start fucking fire, you know, even when I did even with women like you need to be the thicker. You need to be thick. Kind of a thick girl, because what the fund are we going to do together? You know something? And that's where I would prefer. So I like thicker women.

Um So, in terms of like the women that I've had fun with, they've been either my size, are bigger or just very curvy. I also deal with women who have fake bodies, So I'm cool with a whole lot of ass like titties. Like, I love thick women, but I do prefer like my men to be I've never thought with somebody with a fake ask or even really got a great grasp like I've never had I don't want to do that, touched some fake acid strip club.

But I've never hooked up with a woman with so I I have some like, well, I've had sex with good fake ass and bad fake as. So the us so like the like actually most of the women I fakes, Um what do the man? Yeah? But um, so I like when they moved like a lot of a lot of people. So I it was during it was it was during a threesome when I lived in Miami. So I was like twenty years old and I was sucking a guy um who worked on the beach with me, and so he fu mat bitches. I was like, he

was like, you wanna have threesome? And he like knew how to make me squirt, So I was like, yeah, let's have a three some cool. So when I got off work, I used to bartend down there and he brought this chick over and she looked nice, definitely visibly a fake body because she was slimmer, but her ass was like okay. So like when we went to have sex, like and I went to eat her pussy, and went to grab because she sa her ass was hard. It literally was hard to where like like it didn't it almost.

I was like, you know the stress balls were you there, but it's like it wasn't like a jiggling to fall. It was too firm, but you could. It was like a fake firm, not an athletic firm. I was just like, I am it's her be off feeling that she didn't feel like a natural woman, like I know girls that have gotten their bodies done and it still just feels very soft. And it's so she was botched. Yeah, it had to be the few assides that I've touched that are fake. We're cold? Is that a thing cold? Like

no blood flow? Oh my god? That cold. I don't know. Maybe it was they were negative when people want to touch fake titties, and like a girl ever asked me, this is how they touch it. They taped my titties. They take two fingers. No one really they're like so scared to grab it, which I don't understand either, but they always go like this like I don't know, I feel like you've always just like they're like scared. I had a great compliment last night though, the girls that

I slept. When I was in the shower, I heard her ask my dues are fake? Are they real? And I was like, I just love it when you're not sure. That lets me know that Dr Greenberg sucking did it right. That's the best compliment you can have for fake anything. We've nails flashes. Are those yours? Yes? Yes? They all absolutely. Oh so we got through Urbanella Ship. Our Horrid Derve is our new segment where we serve you up a

sex tip every week. We just talked about Humming. I want to know the best sex tips single or collectively that you guys have ever had told you or like we've done, are like we've done best sex tip you have, best one that's passed down from a former home or I mean that Humming ship was that. I don't mean someone someone's done to us or sex Any best sex tip that you give our listeners. Oh my god, I

want to hear this fucking ship. Someone told me in high school and I was doing it for like twelve years. The alphabet this guy twelve years. That's like now this Yeah, last week this guy told me don't don't don't spit it out. It's disrespectful. Oh he is, I like swallowing them all. Now I do too, because I've been doing it for fifty year. That you's respectful. If I doubt oh, he said it was to spit it out. He's like you girl, he got you just been over here swallowing

even when you didn't want to. I started to stop, but I realized that that wasn't a lie. That's not true. It's funny because um it pretending to oral. I had an African that I used to deal with and he actually did not let me suck his dick. Because what is that? Because I just have a question because he said he said that, and like he said, like he had all these feelings for me, but he's African. He

has feelings for every woman he's with. He's married, Like, okay, sure, but he said that, like, and I remember trying to go when he was like, stop, what are you doing? Don't suck my dick because I don't disrespect you. And when you if you suck my dick, that means I have no respect for you if I let you. Yeah, so he literally would not let me suck his dick because he said it means that he doesn't respect me as a woman. Wh there's a bitual listening to this.

Didn't he didn't eat up with the end. He only sucked me missionary. He would not from the best terrible, just like you hear the same excuse from the mind was medical. No wait wait wait please, I didn't know you can't do you need to elaborate. This was This was alarming to me because man said that you couldn't want the wait wait wait Now when I think about it more, actually I'm like, I'm scared, I'm embarrassed and

actually like to tell you j okay. So, so I met this guy and he told me that he doesn't like head. He doesn't like to get head. And I was like receiving yes, And I was like why and he was like, um, it just doesn't. It doesn't like go well with my page balance. And I said, okay, what's with you? He said he has a condition. He said, he's a condition. It's called I don't know some of the immunity. Body starts attacking itself because it's Aliva sends

a message to his penis that something was crazy. No no, but I put it wouldn't you deficiency didn't but he let me suck you didn't hear the rest of it said. Then he said that a few days later he'll be itchy and it won't be good. But so I So he said, but you can lick my ass and my balls asshole? Wait, yes, which mind you is more once he gets in the asshole, Like that's where a lot of things can go on in your anus. So he was willing to let you lick his ass and his balls,

but not the shaft, the deficiency. It wasn't it wasn't his pe hole. He thought that that's where his me his portal for his auto, the portal for the portal for his disease, was specifically in this eresa. So while he actually had sex, I feel like I was like, I don't think this is true, Like I'm not funk, like I'm really good at this, Like you want this,

trust me? So I was like, I like licked my hand and I like went he and he was like, don't do that, and I was like oh, And then he was like and they put the condom on, and I was like, well do you get head through like over with the condom on? Which I don't like that. We talked about that. I don't think I don't I know we should unless you're working, if you share blunts. I say this all the time when niggas act like they're so fucking disgusted at like kissing a bit after

a sucking dick, or like like you share blunts. Yeah, it's your dick, if you're if you're concerned, then I don't need to put it in my mouth. I don't need to. I don't even want to suck the dick of a guy who won't let me suck the dick thing kiss were spit in his mouth like I want someone to like, you need to be like and if you won't let me kiss you after I suck your dick, I'm not sucking your dick. That lets you know what he won't do for you. He's not gonna please do anyway.

But I don't want to be told no at all. We have not done with my story. Okay, sorry, but well I'm gonna tell you because now, oh god, it's really bad. But I I put the condom on and then I was like, you need me to experience this, maybe you'll change your mind, maybe for that mouth. I know this is like I don't have a lot of skills, but this is what this is this is a good one. Um. So I tried. I did that, and I was like, I don't want to do I don't want to do

the ship like felt weird in my mouth. Whatever. So later on after we were done, I was thinking I was in bed with him, and I was like, oh my god, does he have an STD? Does he have an STD? Is that? And I totally freaked myself out. I don't have an STD, guys, but I just I don't think that's it. You don't think maybe? Well then I thought that too, maybe he's what Okay, why would that matter? Don't I don't know. I just sounded it.

And then he also had this special this special um the special sex move that I thought was interesting, A special sex move. It wasn't like perpendiculous Are you talking about that? It was great wait, but it kind of was like perpendicular if you got our patre. We did an example of it demo. But basically it's me like laying down flat on your stomach. He lay down on his stomach the opposite way, and then he tucks it he doesn't, and then our asses are like, so I've

seen that on a lot of the game. Warning that's why I said, maybe he's gay, like this ass eaten he does want to look also gay, like I find that, I find them might be attracted to game. And sometimes I don't even know because I'm not. I don't know. She's like, really think he's gay. I'm like, he's flaming Erica definitely by sexual bitch. I mean in that case, as long as he wants me. Yeah, I mean camaraderie me.

I like everybody to. I get it. I don't mind men with like I like it's funny because I like very masculine men, like a little twist today. Snap no, no, it's one of the other, or like the emotional like sensitive speaking of emotional sensitive. So Erica met old day and I was like, yo, she used to date this dude. And when I was first started working with you, we

were swapping profiles and you followed him. And when I talked about you know what I'm talking about, okay, he was like, oh my god, oh like earth winning fire, like I can't see them together, and he was like he was like he did type of negatively emotional with a bit. And I was like, you know, it's so crazy. He's just so deep, so unnecessarily deep. Deep, Like, give me an example. Let me say, oh my goodness, my beautiful, gorgeous writing and queen, Happy Monday evening. It is a

lesson to see you. Wait that you the god that talked like that bitch? Everybody like to me and I was like, all right, nig you're happy to see me slip. It was the church. I didn't look like that. Oh my god, he's not that loud and ascidable. It doesn't way more. Chill, No, he doesn't. How does he do it? Eric a beautiful queen, You're so gorgeous. I've been waiting to connect with you. I'm just so blessed for you to be in my presence. You know you? So he

holds up. Yeah, and that's why he's a fake. I don't do the holcause anymore because of him. Like she was sucking another night, he called her a queen. She said, don't call me that. I didn't triggered though, he was like, what you are? I was like, I don't give fox. The one thing I remember you said about him? Can I say it? We were eating and we were like sharing pitcher the nig as we're talking too, and she's like, he's great, takes great it's big, but he just can't

eat pussy. And she was like, I was like, well, why don't you. I think he even called me that he gave me so much. I was like, okay, try and do it and help. I was about the fucking volt you know me, So don't let her beat around the bush bach but no pussy home. You will go pus because you're a little sensitive to and you I think you like a little You like a little sensitive.

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not know, Weezy and I both do not have children. Um. I am twenty nine, about to be thirty, and I still don't feel like I want them. I am pro choice and I also like condoms. Um, so I don't plan on having one anytime soon. Um, but you guys are our parents. You guys, we didn't use condoms? Well are you guys on birth control? Though? When you're pregnant? Are you? It was just like yeah, coming me daddy, yep, were you do you? Did you ever track the moment?

Then I got pregnant? Really, Jamaica, that's what my daughter's name's ire, I hate you. A lot of people say that they know the moment they got pregnant, and I got came in the other day and I wasn't ovulating or even close, and it was like a few months ago, and I remember thinking, if I'm pregnant, that was it. That was the that was the swimmer my baby Daddy, which you guys know my baby dadd because he was a guest on the show. Um and he said so

many nice things about your baby daddy. Just don't do oh. He did say you'd be with the moons and suns and shipm be telling me we ain't a line that was cute. No, I'll be set him because I like, you need this, you need to read this. Okay. No, I don't believe in astrology at all. You know, Mandy was we were on a live man. He came in like one of the things I asked it was like, Maddy,

what should like to be a Capricorn. I was like, it's no libra hope, but I don't believe that ship but as but he would tell you that the moment that he got me pregnant is we were in Jamaica and we did anal for the first time and he thinks that he unlocked the key it's a pregnant c which I don't. I'm not arguing with him. I'm not arguing because we are very open. It opened me up like a flot because we have been very irresponsible for

a long time. You're responsible irresponsible? Yeah, like I don't think we ever pulled out like sodomizes and look what happened. Happen And then so I have a question, Um, beautiful, a beautiful story. It's well, my question is about back last year podcast for Being Moms that you know are fluid and sexual, but mainly for you. You've posted stuff with Luna where you're naked and she's naked, and I've

always found those pictures to be beautiful. But I'm curious, you know, if anyone's ever gave you ship in it, and like what what have they said about it? If so? Um, actually we're kind of lucky are people don't really come for us? No one really talks shit to us anyway? Um, mostly from my family and like people closer to me, I get shipped like just dumb ship. Just like what if Luna post pictures like that when she's older? What do you think she will think or like, I'm like

she knows, she knows what the funk I am. But my mom, she don't have to do what I got what I do, But it's what the funk I do. We'd be naked. I'm naked. I'm I'm a naked person. I mean, I think it's always like I'm human. So you know, sometimes I'm like, damn, is this too much? I should have I posted that, But then at the end of the day, it's just like sucking this what

I wanted to know. My body. I love my fucking body, and I feel like I read that read something about like girls saying she never heard her mom said damn, I love my body growing up, not one time, and I was like, that's true. It's powerful. So I'm trying to be naked and like I love my breast, I love my body, I love my brown skin, I love my hair. Yeah, we gotta love ourselves. Nobody else is gonna do it. That's the whole thing. Like like I'm I'm very one with nature and my vagina as a

part of that, you know, the whole. So I don't think and I really am against like over sexualizing ship, you know, everybody's like, just because I'm naked doesn't mean I'm like trying to fuck like that is like my

nudity doesn't necessarily represent like sex. There's a very cute video on the internet of I think an uncle and his nephew um on a pole and they're fully clothed and there's no weird music playing, like there's nothing over sexualized, but like doing yoga and he's jumping on his uncle and his uncle is a pole instructor poll dancing instructors use me, and the little kid is I don't know who was, but the kid is having a fun time because he's like, you know, doing a whole surfboard thing

and he's jumping on him. He's like, let's do it again. And I remember you posted moment Luna playing around too, and I was curious what people said about that. I lost friends off of that off of the pole picture. Why because literally the kids were just playing on the pole, Like, bitch, there's poles at the park. They don't they're not associating the pole but being a stripper night. That's that's imposing your adult, fucked up nous on an innocent child. I

have a problem with that. Too, I had, like, I agree, like, and I was gonna ask you have a daughter as well, right, So I was gonna ask because what I see online as far as um specifically with daughters is aging them too soon. Um. So it's the makeup, the perming up hair sometimes too early, the ear rings. Um. And even more so the style of dress. So crop tops, you know, tank tops thing. And I remember growing up, I couldn't wear two tops until I was almost you know, damn

near going to high school. Like certain even clothing is sexualized. I know you said you don't sexualize things. Is that something that is going to continue on as she grows up as far as how she dresses? Um, I think like even now, I promote like your choice to wear what you want to wear, like you know what I mean? Like I mean, and I think I believe that. I No, there's just like there's scal age appropriateness like no, but

she ain't wear in it. I look at go to the mall sometimes I see little girls and my looks crazy things those things like that I just don't think are crazy. You know, Like for example, me and I could talking about I have a diamond on my tooth, right and she was like, I want looted to get one. I said, if I already asked her one, I don't give an she could have one. It's sucking glue And like Brian Stone, some people would think that's too grown

for a child to have. You know, my daughter asks, but like as far as like clothing goes and those type of things like what do you what does it think? I mean, I'm gonna be honest, I dress I would just lie to my parents. I would rather I'm not going to encourage my daughter to be hoochie, you know what I mean? And I want I'm gonna ask her why do you why do you want to wear that?

You know? I think those are the questions we never ask and for me, like I would just sneak the ship out, I would just wear something else, you know. So I also know as a parent, I can't control everything. I think it's the way that I dressed attested or had something to do with the men that I dated being older than me, which is why I'm worried about

my daughter dressing a certain way. And you know what's funny that it's very basic, but I feel like it's too grown and I see thirteen year old girls with like certain kind of nails. Well, I think why and it's I think it's being black. How often do we

hear that she's fast, that's too grown? All my white friends who were like makeup and glitter and my parents made such a big deal and even that, like I know now, like I'm not gonna make a huge deal over every fucking thing because then the bitch is gonna go in the bathroom and pack the ship on to change her outfit when she leaves. But also there is age appropria because there are pervs and we know firsthand because we was with the PURBs when we were in

high school. And I'm gonna be real about that too, Like let me let me keep it real with you, because these niggas are purps, you know what I mean. You think you're rich here, but like and you are, but this way it has no bit. But I'm just you have to like it's almost like playing you know, reverse psychology, because you know, as a high school student,

you just did everything against what your parents said. So if we have the comfortability and you have the confidence to know who you are and make your own decisions, and I'm empowering you, like that then that's how you'll move, you know what I mean, and you'll have to hide ship and it would just be like an open conversation. But absolutely like there's lenits both of you guys too, because you brought it up specifically in the black household

and y'all noticed a Black as podcast. Why what things? And why do you think the black households over sexualized things that maybe white households don't. And you're you're mixed with Mexican. Is that's something that even in the Mexican household that they you know for sure, I mean in like Latin household were covered up like you go out. But I think I don't know. But to answer your question, I think, um, I think a lot of it has to do with, like ore, how our bodies were used.

You know, it's deep trauma. You know, it's not just like we were over sexualized. We over were still over sexualized. The black man is the most over sexualized person on this planet. I don't really know if white people don't do the same with cluse, I wouldn't. I don't. I can't experience. We have to protect like I think it comes from where it is normally When I think kids are molested and and things are going on, it's normally from someone you know, our family members. I think that's

probably the obsession for like making sure. Like I think my mom did that when my cousin and he would bring like friends around, um shout out to streeps who come to the show. And I remember always wondering, cause I was so young, I'm like, why can't I have my pajamas when his friends here in my pajama be just like a loose dress like Little Cinderella or whatever they were. I'm like, why, why why would they do

something to me? But the way she would act was almost over the top insane in my in my head. But I mean, really for her, she's just thinking, like, who fucking knows, she might be projected. She made some experiences that she's had and unfortunately, like that's that's huge, and you know, and and and and also women, was she not right to have done My mom has had those experiences from family members. If it was me, I'm sure I would do that to my kid too. And like,

it doesn't doesn't make you over precautious in a good way. Listen, you could be you could do all the things to protect your kid. It doesn't guarantee shit. Yeah, you know what I mean. But also like I'm not gonna have my kid around anyone I even suspect for five minutes, one second unattended, like I hate, Like like there's a meme going around, like I'm sick of hearing. Uh, parents tell kids, go put this on. You know there's men

around here. If these men are even remotely kind of creepy and weird, I don't care his uncle, cousin, Pete, you gotta you can't. I don't know. I don't know that. I mean, you don't know. You don't know anyone. I want to ask you all, because you're both single moms, you're dating, you're having sex partners, lovers, people that may be potential later on down the line, at what point do you introduce someone to your child? Um, I I'm really like, I don't. I don't you know, like I haven't.

I don't think i've I've she's met one person that I've dated, and it was like I've known him for years even before that, and so when I did, even they even met, it was like in a very social situation, you know, it wasn't like this is the mom this is mommy's boyfriend, even though he wasn't my boyfriend, but it was someone I was with, got it. But other

than that, like I don't know, I'm weird. I was thinking about that too, because Jamila has, you know she has, And I agree with your theory too that you would rather know ahead of time, Like it's like, can you handle this situation? What do you mean handle well? I think also because testing it out with the guy you're saying testing it out, it's like, that's my friend, like I don't have. I don't have a lot of boyfriends. Like if if it goes there, then I'll tell express

to my kids that's my boyfriend. But so I feel like I would be that way too, only because I love seeing with friends that have kids, the interactions and appreciate very much when it's not their baby daddy, and seeing how those men like honor their kids, how they treat them. So I see that. But then it's also scary because what about the attackment. Your friend is not going to go somewhere. Most likely your friend will be

in your life. But if you get attached to Carl and he's just gone, I'm gonna be getting attest, like that since I've been single, I haven't had any real my mom and I haven't really had to face it that much. But I think too though, like I think about when I do date, I'm living a double life. Essentially, this person is never seeing me be a mother, which

is such the biggest part of my life. Then like we could be building and building and have this amazing on one on one relationship and then we introduce our world and he could decide, you know what, I don't know if I could do this because I do it or couldn't do it at the step mom thing. Until

dating someone seriously, I was like, oh, no problem. And that's almost That's why I almost like I'm conflicted about it because I feel like it might almost be better is to just get it out of the way, like in a social way, not like this is someone like she doesn't even realize, but he can see me being

a mother. This is what I do. You have to share my time being a mother is definitely I think I have a question um A lot of social media, like I've been seeing the r A Fletchers thing or whatever, Alex this s guy and everyone's always talking about how so so it was a bad mom Lea is a bad mom because mom, who's Bernie? She's bad grandma? But people like how how can you be a good mom and make that choices? Like what balance from your social media? Like how do you care? Do you care all about

how you project yourself? And do you ever think like oh, I'm a mom, I shouldn't be doing this and like naturally that's going to come out like damn, am I doing too much? Should I go to home? Like did I go into me dates last week? Like that's life? Like did I too many carbs? Should I have ate that? But then how do you not endure yourself that? No, like we always meet moms. I feel like all of us, I've met a mom that's like I never get to do anything, and then the second they do, they feel guilty.

Well there's a difference that I'm have you asked this? Like there's just some a ship fucking bitches, Like let's be clear, there's some bitches I should not be moms. And I think like what makes a bad? Like where are your priorities? Like I heard a couple of people on that list, Like but also how do we know they're bad? Like I wrote you, I know nothing about Lexis guy. I think she was on the I don't know anything, okay, but like she's a stripper, she's an

I g quote unquote ho who cares? Is she really bad mom because she goes out? Or is she not? Because it's not about going out. You could go out, but every every night, you know, you don't ever have your baby? How are you day in the week are you with your kids? How much? How are you how much time are you actually spending over? And they were left unattended? Like what environments are you making for your children?

There are just there are just things that are blatantly bitch no, Like if I had dropped my baby off on Friday with her dad, love you buy and then I go get it popping Saturday and Sunday. Who Like, I'm a grown assom Saturday today, But guess what, I'm not going to not take my kid to school on Monday. My mom. Now I realized, like knowing the life my mom's lived, there were mornings where I thought she was

just waking up. She was just coming in and my mom one of my friends and one of her friends I'll never forget, they were in the kid and they looked a little crazy. I was just like, well, baby, but they just had a sleepover and my mom was like me and Auntie Patty, we're gonna take you here. I was like yeah, And I remember so I was born in San France, but most of that childhood age was living in Miami before Orlando, and my mom was

hitting the clubs. Funny, but I had we had to live in nanny and I remember one morning hearing La da ver I come outside and it was Saturday morning. I didn't have school and my mom had like five gay niggas in the hell one drag queen and they fucking danced with me and put makeup on me. You had the time of your mother life. And oh my god, what my party in the morning. This is great. It was so fun. And now I'm like that you guys are just leaving the clubs. You're like at you sleep.

It's really what I think happened. My last question for you guys is for those listeners who have casual sex with their baby mama and baby daddy co parenting. Um. I think the only other single parent that like I know, talks about this and he's been on your show as well, Sharona. Is he co parents with his baby mama. Amazing. I'm curious to know, like the sex ruined things? How can just like should you suck your X? Yeah? If you

guys have question? No, I don't know, not speaking personally, but like what advice do you have for co parenting? I think it's very it's very um playing, like are are they saying like are you saying can you handle that? Mostly likely not when both parties aren't saying immature there's you're never wors together so when you break that ship, I mean, trust me, I have back slid because I have like knowing good and god damn well, this is

not for me, you know, like you're crazy. I'll stay as someone who is single who dates men with with baby moms. Um, it's called issues because there's a level of how do you how do you feel this honesty? Because so to me, that's my problem. Like and I think that at any time I decided to date a guy with children, I do want to know not only the relationship and respect he has with his baby mom, but the level of respect needs to also be there with me to let me know. I do think that

they all they always go back. However, I grew up in a single parent household where my mama could not stand my daddy. I know they wasn't fucking, but I dated two guys um in the past where one told me he wasn't working with his ex baby mom. They now have two kids, so there was another baby that creeped in while they weren't together. And then also I had a threesome with a guy and his baby mama, So I know that outside of when we mean him weren't sucking, he was probably still sucking her solo too.

And so I feel like at any given point men always go back to or feel like it's an open gate. I just think connection that we couldn't understand. There's a comfortable and most of the time there is, and there ain't no way they're going back to y'all using a condom because y'all let you use the kind of pop that one goes back to because I never told you that they're lying. Well, I was sucking my baby mama.

What a condom? You were not attention? It's never would say no, never not going back with see I knew it, So then you're also sucking her raw. And if y'all aren't exclusive, whoever she sucking. You don't know because she damned trying. Telling you so that to me is just it becomes I don't want to I don't want to dip. I don't want to deal suck my baby daddy, like I don't want to suck anybody who says it, you know, Like I just want to cut that ship needs to

be cut clean. I wanted to be I think it does. It has to be. It's toxic for the child. It's just it's just it creates too many gray areas, toxic for the child's goddamn back proof. You can't do it. You can't. I've never back slip. Oh, that bitch is cold. I have to for my own great I love too deep, I love him too deep. I can't do that. I really I hate saying it, you know. I'm like a super fan of you guys being together. I feel like

maybe she'll be ten. But I think just experiencing the way you both have spoken about each other, I've never heard someone talk about their baby mama or their baby father in that hiever regard and just even being able to simply be like, it's just not right, like it's not working out. And I think that there also is a time and place for things, like you, maybe we had to have a kid right now, she was supposed to be here, and maybe we're just we're supposed to

be together. I don't. I can't. I don't live my life like that because I can't like do that. Maybe maybe maybe maybe because that's too much, and so I just I think that for me, like it was, that's been the best thing because we know we have perfect trust me. We have our ups and we have our downs, and they're they're extreme, you know. But I think for me, like I just I don't know. I just I can't. And I know there's women out there that are like me.

So for you, someone who you know fears dating a man with another family and there's two people involved, and he maybe he might, but there there's someone on the other side that has to make that decision too. So I know that it is possible. I realize though that it's rare. It is rare, and I'm like, day, I never thought about this. Is weird that anybody And I'm not gonna say I've never thought it. I feel like act like I never thought about it. I mean, no,

of course I have. I just I just also your So maybe that's positions to do that because a lot of like you're saying, you guys were in a serious relationship before you already, right, you're in a relationship, yeah, a lot of time, so you've already had like it's like a boyfriend and my baby daddy. Yeah, like how many feels like my husband? Right? Well? If yeah, if you if you've been just working it again, you decided to have the baby, that don't have the baby thinking

you're gonna be together. A lot of people, a lot of women work like that. I know what I'm telling you all. It's fucking crazy. It's actually don't it's actually dumb as hell. I have to that dumb as hell one of the most hilarious fucket stories review. It was so funny. I actually have to pee because I can't hear it again. But please tell our listeners. We me and Mandy wanna Um revamp Homail a little bit. We're still doing homemaale, but we talked at our live shows,

people tell us thus great stories. So we've been talking about your live show in New York. The stories, the one with the pegging and they can't wait to tell were like, yeah, I jerked off a vix. I can't wait. No, someone jerked off with VIC and someone jerked off with pig moisturize a bitch. Okay, okay, I don't know. This is what our audience be telling us a live shows. So we ended up like with the pink during our

lives show. We do have not only live homemale, but we we walked into the audience of her heels hurt her feet. Then I gotta walk into the audience and like walking into an audience, but she'll walk in and we get stories from them. So She's like, let's start to wear. Maybe not every episode we answer questions, but maybe our listeners can share sexual stories and experiences that you probably won't believe. But bitch is true. So if you guys do have a story, we're about to hear

from one from Ela. But if you guys do have a story, say too horrible decisions at gmail dot com and maybe put hotel not homemail. It's gonna be hotels. Look how quick I am with it. I just made it. So we're gonna do hotels and homemail. Um. So if you guys also just have a story where you may or may not even need any feedback, from us at all. Just write it. Please, let it be less than like two three minutes being read, and we'll possibly read it on the show. So what's the little story she was

so excited to get? You want to talk about this story just so you know, wheezy. When she came on our podcast, we had both of our kids in the room in the hotel room. I don't know if she like painted the picture for when it looked like, oh my god, we did it was a bad choice. And then like and then on ours were called Horris horror stories. So the kids are like over there watching. She's like, should I be saying this in front of them? Like, oh, they're fine. On that, she was like, I just feel

weird because your kids were like, shut up, they're fine. Um. So, once upon a time I was in college. I was broke. I don't know why I went to college in Atlanta. I don't know why. For what reason, I went to Philly even though I was broke. I was like laid on my rank. I was like, I'm so go out there and see some nakeds. So my cousin calls me, this is very rearly my twenties, so this is nothing.

I would tell Luna to do um. She's like, she's like, um, my friend called me and he's picking up his brother from prison and he wanted to take a girl up there, like you know, just you know, so when he comes out, I have a little party on the bus company out of an upstate New York and he'll pay you. So I was like, well, how much. It's like a thousand dollars. I was like twenty So it sounded good, you know.

I was like that's a lot of all. I'm like, really because my barn's only five, so so being my righteous stuff, I'm like, well, just um, well, not giving him any head and can you give me a call Andy to see what the guy calls me. He's like, seems like no the brother setting it up. He's like, oh no, it's it's really good. It's it's really good. Just me. A couple of our childhood friends are driving up running RV. We're taking Jamaican food. He's like, we

got weed for real. He was like, He's like, you know, I have daughters. It's just you know, we just want to welcome him home. That's really that. I was like, Okay, he's not going to try and kill me. He just doing a nice steed for his brother. I was like, okay, well we'll pick me. It's a little booth. Bo Okay, we'll pick me up. It's six you know fine, I'm signed me up. Fuck it. I was like, I wasn't thrilled. I had to drive twelve hours up to up state

New York with something that I didn't know. But he seemed like a good enough character. And my cousin says she knew him. He was get the thousand. I was getting thousand dollars most importantly. And they have weed and drinks and making food, and she's about her stomach. I'm all on my stomach. I've got lots of dates. So I am telling my cousin like, um, can you take the money now? I want to make sure, no matter what, I have my money, So like when I get on

this this thing and take the money. So she she was like her older kinsin and I don't know why she's just leading me to this direction. She like goes outs. She talks to him at the window, takes the money, and I get on the best. I'm like the first time to come down this little ass block. And Philly is like a white family on the side. It's like one of those like the rentals with like there's a

picture on the goddamn press. I'm like, great, this is hot like in the bust and like Hi everyone, I'm Jamilla, like knowing everyone knows. I'm like the hope. I literally going as a homemail to pick up the room like hi. And you know, as I started talking like come California, I'm in school. I'm just here visiting, like whatever. How long is the drive? Like fucking seven hours from Billy You like people, we drug all the way up there, right,

We picked the guy up. He's not bad looking or whatever, like, but they're all like rallied around him, like like there's like the sentimental like first of all, he has been in prison for seven years that had this deep sentimental like connections talking how much they're like I'm so happy to see him talking about old school, childhood memories laughing. It's pretty amazing to before you signed up to this, did you ask what he was in jail for. No, I didn't you know? Now, No, I don't. I don't know.

I was a thousand dollars? Did he know that that's why you were there? Yeah, I'm pretty sure. I was the only probably knew everybody else's childhood and then me I saw me drive up with everyone, um so he could. So we drive all the way back. It's actually very pleasant. I'm like, this is this is wow, this is nice. I'm so happy this guy is home. We make it back to Phillip Philly, and I'm like, I got thousand dollars.

I didn't do sh you know, like they forgot. That's how I tell her to take my money before I got on the bus, you know. So I pull over the pull over at the gas station. His brother gets gets out to pump the gashes like I mean how like um, so he walked and he's like, okay, so I'm about to We're gonna go over to Friday's. I'm gonna park in the back. I'll take them with the

guys in hands me a condom. Oh my god. And I was like and he's like all right, and I was like, okay, fucking I signed myself up for this, So I'll my way back to the RV. I'm like giving myself a talk pep talk like yeah, it's gonna get this. Was gonna do this ship and get this. I'm like, yeah, you did it. Now you signed up for it. We're gonna, We're gonna. I'm not a quitter. I'm not. So I'm in the rvy like okay, like pumping myself off in my head. They all get out,

they all get out. I look over at him, I started closing the blindsnography. Just take off my shirt and like walk over to him real slow, and we had like pretty good sex, like a nice dick. It was like put on the condom. I didn't give him a head here and I pussy for like fifteen minutes. It was like maybe it was like twenty five minute transaction and we walk fast. It was twenty five minutes, five minutes. It wasn't like terribly fast. Yeah that's not around and boom.

We we wanted to tea j I Friday's hand in hand, like we went together us a nice dinner, and they dropped my ass up. I thought it was a fair Like we exchanged the numbers. He also cell phone. They got him a phone when we talked a little bit, but nothing ever became with that. But honestly, I mean, I don't would you have for free again? Possibly know I might maybe I just you know, I don't advocate for you know, exchanging sex for money. But in that case,

I thought it was a good deed. I felt I needed I needed the money at the time he needed the love, and I felt it was a fair exchange, and I think that was respectful. A lot of women, even even sex workers, aren't getting a thousand dollars for a I'm a healer. I feel like I can have sexual healing energy. Sometimes I just want to love on people, like let me, let me love on you, let me

give you some love. Yeah. Well, I really enjoyed that story, and it's so funny because I think that more so than not, we have stories like that from our like like late teens to early twenties. Lord, one day we come in here and just bring up some of god damn stories for us, like the side, the Side. Well, before we get out of here, ladies, let our audience know we're not only they can find you, but where

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bonus clip um for Patreons, So join that now. And this has been yet another episode of Horror Decisions by by What's going on over there looks stressed right right. I'm having an issue me being around even my friends families growing up. Um, I remember them blaming me for their daughters dating black men. I remember, um, yes, my like literally like my my friend was Columbian growing up, and you're weezy. Um may actually meet some of them at the Orlando show. Um, but I just remember like

them blaming me for them dating black men. I remember, um, certain music or people that we liked them being like using the N word in a bad way, like to where they literally to me, Latinos have oppressed and shown hatred towards black people the same way I've seen white people do. So I don't agree that all Latinos can no. I never say, ah, well you said Latino shouldn't use the word, but there I don't think a lot of them. I have an issue with the Afro Latina and Latino blanket.

The only close friend that I have that says that is Sharona's um, he's Afilatica. He'll say he's Afi Latino. But I just really feel like like there's this other dude I know that talks about how he's Afi Latino, and I feel like he does it so he can say naked. I know I'm being extraly, it's a feeling. I feel like if there's a weight when you say it and like, oh no, this is like when Merrow says the N word. I don't know. I understand he's Dominican. He is our Dominican, so he's black as ship to me,

Mary's black. Okay, he's Latino and Dominican is ship. So I'm gonna say both. He's not black, Well, he is black, he's Dominican. Actually, what is it gonna be? What is it? Guys? The black black Jesus is here. Here's why Meryl is what you would say, is black passing right, But there are a lot of Afro Latino people with I would even and this is just me looking at you, not even knowing you. I would even call you Afro Latin no saw, but also don't think you're black passing. So

I feel like nika can't be used. Is that weird? I say, if there was a meter, the metric is the way people say. I can tell when you weren't raised in this, you weren't grandfathered in this, like when I can tell what people are just saying it to acclamate or like to like using it, like on some really eilish type ship, some appropriating ship. It's a weight. Of course, when you talk about it, it's hard to contextualize because it to feel it just still like Afro

Latino doesn't give you a nigga pass. I don't believe that, but I believe that like Afro Latino people like when you are when you have black skin as an Afro Latino, I feel like that's different. I know what's fucked up because I'm I'm mixed, you know what I'm saying, and I don't have black skin. But at the end of the day, I feel like, this is a new thing that I've never seen before, that's come about since, like I would say, since I've turned twenty five, suddenly I

started seeing this thing. It's just moved up here though this. Dominicans are all around here a l the aflato. Yeah, I mean we're we're from Florida's so yes, New York is probably on the on a well on a larger scale too, as far as Dominicans. But no one like there was no just white and black in any question for the can Afric Latino say the N word, No, ma'am, I think if I think so, it's a it's a note for me, it's not. However, I do have a

there's a merril thing for me. She just said, as Mary Harrow is, because I didn't know which one made it was Jesus or Mary. I don't know which one. Do they not appear to both the black men to you, though, no one looks hispanic look black to Mell, No, he is. He looks Missy, so he looks mixed. He's not. Jesus is clearly the black one. If you see both, the

guess do it? One looks because he's attained this huge success and now, like, does that give him credence incredibility to see the ANI word, because that's classes that's not fair. That's an interesting point of view because I and and I guess that's where it's like subjectivity because I just said, oh, if you're a Latino black skin, then I feel like you can't when I would say, mayor, I thought he

was black. But see but see, here's the thing. To me, Um, your sister, yeah, even though she is in the skin of a and after Latina, and would I guess identify like view to us as someone who's black. Me to me, knowing that she grew up in a family that that was racist or presented. Oh, my sister says the N word, but that's what I'm saying. But to me, like even that's like with my friend now, Like to me, I joke all the time, and I tell her she's white passing.

I mean, like, bro, don't say the N word on the phone with me, because I know the people that you grew up around are racist. So to me, being that you grew up around people who have that mentality, to me, that takes away the fact that you could use that N word even more because the people around you showcase that racism, which is why we don't let white people say the word right, there's the level of

oppression behind it. And to me, if you were oppressed in that space and you grew up and the people that you love and around you are oppressing you because of the color of your skin and you being black presenting, I have a problem with you even using that word.