Ep157: Relationship Sh-t, Condoms and the L Word Feat Brandon Hall

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slot with it on Adam and Eve dot com. Okay, welcome guys to another episode of Horrible Decisions. Did your girl Mandy b a K a k A full core pumps a k A dead beach? Hi, I'm hungover? That's your name today, bro? I honestly didn't even know my own name, like two hours ago. I was so fucked up, you know, like you know, and then I'm looking at the flight and I'm like, oh, wow, we're taking a long time taxi. And well I could just send it a flight number and technically and will me my fault

if I missed the episode? Now I have come to the studio like I was super sick when we did our episode with a pastor Cory. I mean not everywhere, just ye and I mean like right now, like I see two of you. You know what I'm saying, that wouldn't be a bad Actually, have you have you been tested for corona respiratory? I hear you. I just want to have you. Have you been tested? Now, y'all? Hear a third voice on the mic. We haven't had I

noticed I was looking at the episode. We haven't had cesasterone on the Goddamn Horrible Decisions podcast in quite some time. Um So when booking today's guests, I was like, we need a goddamn payenist in la Ron doing. I mean, yeah, no, we got a lot of male listeners. Male perspectives are important. I met sometime, al right. I forgot they'd be paying up on Patreon. You're not about to jump me, No,

we're not so. So the thing is, many of our heterocis men who have been guests really aren't that like. So we hope that are female audi they'd be kind of problematic here. We I could go down the list of niggas ain't like, but I feel like that you are the probably gonna kill you say, I know you did our show, but I wasn't here that time. What did your guys my first time? This was the first time on our show. Did you get canceled? Yeah, because I don't No, No, I canceled it because I ended

up getting flew out anyway and a check. I mean, technically you have to because it's a horrible decisions if you have to make it, Like, I don't think it's a bad reason to cancel. I don't think so. The story I was, I was only type because I'm being on communication only shemdicated to you like three days before though Mandy hit me and said, YO, we want you to come on do the show. I said, splendid, I would love to come to the show. She said, all right, cool,

she books it canceled, No problem, no problem. Maybe a month later, Yo, sorry about that time, Sorry about that. I got you, all right, cool, let's figure it out. And then that second time, I had to whole trip trip yo, but I respected. She said, YO, I'm gonna keep it a buck with you. I know I got you on the show, but any of the international checks the sanctity of this show. When Mandy has sex, it really truly goes better. There's days like like what's up

with her? But I think everyone does better under those circumstances. So that's why I didn't knock it. Right now. I know we've done an awful job introducing today's guests. We've just been talking, so I do want to introduce him. Um. If you guys are into listening or searching for another podcast, Brandon is the host. Well he is one third roots pod. Um. Also for the ladies, this is what y'all need to know.

I went to the Grassroots Podcast live show. It was the best looking set event in a New York event that I have ever been to him. My motherfucker. There was former NFL player, isn't there that I used to following Scott. I ain't gonna say the name, but I'll let you know after the show. It was like Nigga's dressing a little like Frox or whatever you call it,

with the motherfucking Scarnox like Frox Fox it was. It was just it was, I don't know, you're not looking for not for nothing, and we just had a good crowd. I ain't gonna lie like it was. It was a great crowd. Like a lot of people showed up, you know what I mean. We sold out in less than twenty four hours. That's amazing. Yeah, we have another event which is going to be way better Saturday. About Grassroots

is about everything. It's about your upbringing. It's about what makes you you, what put you even in the seat right now, like it's about where your path led you and where it's going with sprinkles of like other little components. So get it like you guys spelled it like right. But secret about that you want to hear a secret? The secret with that was that because Roots was taken R O T, we went routes, which made more sense

for marketing perspective. It was actually better because horrible. That's why I brought it up because when I when I met you, I said, Yo, that's a hard name. Yeah, like and um but yeah, so and I was on his show. Oh my god, maybe two years ago now right, that was a while ago. Um and so yeah, like you guys sprinkling pop culture. So that's kind of what we're gonna do today. We're gonna talk about sex, dating

a relationship. But as it pertains to things that have been going on on the timeline and with pop culture. We often don't get to do um a lot of episodes like on Trend because we pre record. But y'all, this is episode one fifty seven we on Turn Baby. We're talking about ship currently bites. Anyways, because you don't talk about sex often, we wanted to start this off

with a little quick icebreaker. Um. We I want your answers on these as well, because they're pretty um, well depending on what she because she she's incoherent right now, come about the plant, so we gotta make sure it's not This is a job where you can come to works. On our last Patriot episode, Shorty walked in. She was like, yeah, I h I fucking left the studio right and I was flying. I was like these buildings are I was

freaking out, but I mean it was good. So right now, it's just I still have it in my system, but you know, I've seen people. It's the funniest thing ever. Yeah. Um, I'm kind of nervous because we have and Charlotte. I don't really have anybody um that I'm really gonna like beyond beyond. But Orlando we got like an afterpart, like I'm gonna get sucked up. Fucking Vinnie has been already like I think we're gonna go out of Charlotte. I don't know if you want to join us, but we

was getting so my best friend does our tour. It's like as an assistant on our tour and so many nights because I don't really go out during the shows or whatever, it's like a lot of energy for me. He'll look at me and he's like, I'm just gonna

go hang out with Mandy. Literally I have on my writer, I have a bottle and literally he'd be like you ready do shots, Like let's go, let's do it, And they give you selling merch in between, you know, and he does the job right, So we're gonna get into the icebreaker, so this one and again, guys, bring these two not only the timeline asking your followers, but also bring it to your group chats. And I want to know what your friends, how big of hose they are.

So the icebreaker for this week, would you rather have group sex with strangers or group sex with all of your exes? My exes? Yeah, like I could think of three. I'd want to like train me right now because my ex is an excess for a reason. M So they didn't know. Yeah, so you wouldn't want to suck them again stranger. But then my other thing is I'm weird

with strangers though too. That's That's what I'm saying, Like there's a that's why I got to really think about I may go exit just because that would be the easier thing. Two of them are in the dick, and maybe, like you know, he liked that little should be doing when it would have to be excess. It would only just because I feel like meeting people is a lot of energy and and and he doesn't. There's a whole

lot of stuff with that. There's all that stuff with that you've never been something like a sex club or anything to where you've had one night stands with any type of strangers. Well, say, there's a way that I

conduct myself. I've been noticing with strangers like we're women that I'm sleeping with, Like yesterday, um my boyfriend, I stuff with this girl, and when she left, the sex we have was totally different after she left, right, And it's always like this anytime we have sex with someone else, like it's got to be like within twenty minutes and

they leave. I don't know if we're fucking because we're still thinking about it, or if it's the aroma or what, but it's like we start doing ship we want to do, and like during a three times it's more like about her. I don't know. That's interesting. So you got you guys in your home or people pleasers to the person that you're welcoming in, but the moment they leave, it's about y'all, right, and then we'll start talking about it. So when she leaves,

the energy is still good though, like it's fright. But there's a different like dynamic that goes on with strangers. And I think it's because as givers were probably most like, Okay, let's do what she likes. We make each other come on time, and I feel like the strangers, I'll be

putting in more work. So with me when I do threesome, the sex with the man is normally different because there's things that maybe I'm allowed to do between us that maybe when a third girl joins in, he like, all right, don't don't be eating a finger in my ask while with us, like maybe there's things that he doesn't want everyone to know that I do with him in front of someone else. I know what I've been in there before, like to where like certain things were saved until I

was by myself instead of in the threesome. I know guys like that though that that don't give a fuck, like they don't care, like Nas my man nas my show is like in the previous like he's married now, but yes, I would know how nasty is he should have came with NAS is crazy? Okay, nas is crazy? Don't don't you got an ethicole? Now? I'm an, so

she's allowed to like so you have car blanche. I mean blanche just means you have free reign to do what you want because you know, there's some boundaries to it, Like I to be honest with you, the last person I did it, it was like this. It was more of like, okay, like this is someone you see on the regular, like minding would rather me just like have a moment, not even like not to be someone you're emotionally tied to. Yes, because he knows I'm emotional. That

makes sense. So I'm like, why would you rather that? Wouldn't you rather have someone that's like, you know, like my regular dude if I have to travel to l A. Because then that puts him in jeopardy of being the dude that's now just the guy that's on the side. Why he would ever feel like that? Like, because I'm that way too. So I didn't know we were alike. So I've met her dude, and I think he's completely opposite of like anyone that I'm like. I didn't know

we were a lot of like like in that sense. Um, because to me, I said that if I were to have an open relationship, I want you to just hit it, quit it, and no emotional ties to any bitch that you're sucking. So I'm like him, I would rather not be emotionally connected to who you're having. But you know that's hard for a bit like me because I'm just like I want to like him when I want a vacation.

Nia was like throwing me to con and like, go, bit, you have a good time because like and then of course it can't happen because I'm like, I don't have enough time to connect. I feel that though. That's why I haven't done, which I didn't really know until this weekend. We were just talking more about it openly, no local people, and that makes sense. I get it. We moved too much together where out everybody knows me from you and you for me, And he was like, I just do

that makes sense. The second icebreaker is would you rather have a partner who asks for sex a lot or one who asks for news a lot? Sex? Damn me too, because you ain't even news bro, because it takes it

takes a lot of time. And then even if I sound like archive ones niggas like if you just if I just had pictures of my titties and they want to ask, then they want to spread open, then they want the lips, then they wanted from the the motherfuck out with the whole camera and screenshots part What do you mean now when you send a photo, you know how you can crop it or archive it's change date. These motherfucker's got screenshot and photos separated in that message,

which really fucked up. No way, Yes, so you know how I send news Now, if it's like for a true request, I'll just be like this just here, it's fresh, that's fresh. Titty even gonna tell you. I don't let him know it's gonna be archive. I say it's from the archive. Nigga, I'm out, you're not getting anything up today. I've done that. I'd be like, let me see what I got. Yeah, like you're gonna be it's gonna be archives because honestly, like my hair changes too much, girl,

my nails. They'd be calling me out. I'd be like, yes, right now I'll be sending white nails and pink nails. They'd be like, so you just switch your nails between pictures. That's that's that's why sex is so much easier. Pictures take away. There's too many things that you have to do to send a picture the same. But women do that though. Women take an abundance of pictures. No out of here, no y'all got the ones with the feet on the bottom, the one on your hand. No, no, no,

I believe that because that's think about it. Would you would you ask a guy to send you an ask picture? Yeah? Yeah, I have one. Actually, that's weird. That's weird. That's thinking about that. I'm like, that's weird. Listen. So I'm a visual person, right, can you imagine an is standing in there like this? That's so how I got it sent. So he was on his way to work. It was like, hold on, did he send it in work clothes? Well, he pulled his pants that at ups. No, Now you

don't know he was. He has a real job. He lives on the West Coast, and so I was already up, up and going and he hit me on his way to work. Wanted to talk nasty, and I was like, damn, I really missed when you used to send me videos of your ass. So, literally, he gets to the parking garage of his job, he sets up the phone in his niggers. He bends over in the Do you want to see it? No? No, get pretty fucking lit. I've

been getting to cinema. So I appreciate I have that visually that doesn't that's not odd to he be over. He fingered his booty hole far bro look at any moona. But y'all can't hear him because I got my air pods in why you, because I'll be forgetting them. Holding god, you had your air pods because if I heard this nigga out in your ears like he did as pretty much. Oh so we can't get it deep enough yet. Yeah, this is nuts what he does. Oh my god, this

is disgusting. Alright, alright, we got but it was really good. So he was fingering his booty hallway his middle finger in the driver's seat of his car. The best videos from my host. I'm not thine your Uber driver did that? Like you know what I'm saying. Uber drivers to be weird though in general. Yeah, I've met some really weird Uber drivers with that where I was concerned for my safety. I've got the most chatty ones. But I don't be liking him talking like I'm talking on the phone, not

to you. I thought they had a silent ride option. They do. They do have it, and they don't respect it. There is a say you can you can easily say hey, do you want conversation or not conversation and they still will conversate with you or con verse with you rather.

You know, that is nothing missing that you're still You're still, You're still there, You're still Don't you need a moment listening to this ship Like, I know she didn't talk about my pony hole on I know, but he got right it sucking a sex podcaster who literally is known for this is the nigga paid when we ten times. I'm assuming that's the hairbrush nigga. No, it's not the hairbrush nigga, this is nig p Yeah. I'm so curious

about y'all and just your dating stuff. Like, it's not like we're gonna be like tired you Literally one of the comments today just to let you know, will be damn. They couldn't just shut the funk up and let this nick the talk about his booty hole. Bitch? We do we do? We need people the hotent. So the last contact breaker before we get into the vanilla ship is would you rather find out that your partner slept with your parents in the past or that your ex now

sleeps with your parents? Really, if I got a new nigger, but if I'm like I'm about to say, It depends where I'm at in life. Because if I'm single and you now with my mom's and my part like that, that's that's some other ship, Like that's crazy. But if we're separated and I'm already in love someplace of rock out whatever like that, I won't care at that point. Like for me, would you get mad at your at your mom or dad for sleeping with your I gotta say mom or dad because you date both. I said,

would you would you be would you would be upset? Yeah? I think families a weird boundary. The older I get friends, to me, I think it's not a big deal, like a friend sleeping with and like I just feel like and I think that I've gotten that way because I have a lot of gay friends and that community is so small with lesbians and gay men that it's like a certain maturity level on learning your boundaries, communicating with

dating old partner and ship like that. And I'm like, I like, I get it, You're already in a small space. Um so like with friends like passing are around, I think that's different. But I think families, like definitely now, I think family is messy. Yeah, I think that that could go bad but even to like my friends, like people, so friends, I compartmentalize my relationships the same way whether

I'm dating as I do with my friends. So the people who I consider my friends, a lot of them have been in my life at least a decade plus, um eight years plus, and so there are certain niggas who are off limits, and we discussed which ones of those are. That's different though, like to me friends, family, I'm not thinking like that's that serious. Yeah, that's me. I don't. I don't, That's what I'm saying, Like like

a someone that there was emotions with. Everyone knows you think your crue or y'all, y'all know who you were passionate about the guy you're just talking about in um in l A or whatever. Right, definitely pass nigis to my homegirld that that you've been like seriously intimate with that beard bay one. But I just thought they were both I kind of wanted to see the That's different though, that was for your pleasure, I'm saying, just nasty. You

know I was with him at the time too. Oh, you were with him at the time, So this wasn't ex this was you were in the current relationship. There was a home girl that was in the same city as him, and I was like yo, like linquids so and it was like a whole back and forth texting thing about how it was going. It was kind of hot. It was like I was jealous and turned on at the same time. But I love that ship, like I love being mildly jealous during ship like that. It's so

fucking it's sick. You're sick. That is kind of like I've never heard. That's like it's like cut holding right there. You're feeling like you want to get in there. You might have a mild jealousy, but it could be like it doesn't have to be like this huge. I'm not

like overwhelmingly jealous, like she's gonna take my nicked. But like last night I didn't have sex with my man while he was sucking a check, like he was sucking the shit out of her and I was living it and like I wanted to get some tick that I was like staying and watching. Yeah, like I was a little jealous, but it was like a hot jealous. There's any therapists, let me know what's going on. That's now I will refer you like I was watching her stuck as dick and like she was super loud and long.

I've known him for a year, but we just got serious. I'd say, like six months. Wow, you guys are breaking some boundaries no point. So I mean, I really believe that's why it's worked so well. Like I was just sucking him and then we just started falling in love. But like at the core of it, I know that we're hosed. Like me and this nigger was on the plane, I'm sick as fuck heading his lap flight attend and walked by. She got a bad ass. I'm damn you about to throw up. He's like, I think you ain't

feeling good, but did you see that, bitch? I'm like, yeah, like I realized, like it's cross you just can't or it could be just because it's good communication. That's important. You think that it's a good communication to express to your partner when you're looking at someone else. Though, absolutely really think that. I think that that's honestly and open, and I think some people can't imagine if well, handling

it is something different. Handling it is something different. I'm saying you as a person, is your responsibility to just communicate your feelings and what's happening or what's not happening. So when you do that, at least you kind of take yourself off the hook where the person can't say, Yo, you didn't know how I was feeling, You didn't know what I was talking about, and you didn't know I was into communication is the key to all of that.

We were saying that this episode one I got we got really upset with him recently because we don't fight, and I got aggravated with something he didn't. He was like, all right, well, I I just ain't gonna do that a one. I was like, that's not the funk I want you to say. I want you to say, how are you going to fix it? I'm like, I'm a good communicate it and you just sucking take what I say and be like, Okay, I hate that. I want you to talk back and forth with me. You like

the dialogue back and forth. This is what I don't understand about when you like what I don't understand. So let me let me ask you a question. Let me let me ask Here we go, Yeah, here we go? No? No, that sound like I'm tripping. You just said you agreed with me. That's that's how I know y'all crazy, Yeah you do. So listen, this this is my thing. This is my thing. I know we've we've be tripped to b So my my only thing is when you when you're talking about stuff like that, Like again, it just

goes back to communication. If we're having a dialogue, we have some sort of understanding, it shouldn't matter as long as we're on the same page. If we're not on the same page, of course, it's gonna be conflict. Yeah, so what what do you Yeah, I guess my question is you're mad that he doesn't all for solutions. He just makes it seem like what you said and that's it. But this will do it like this is so this is my thing. See that's that that that's you, right,

I think it's I consider I've dismiss it. So I'm going to tell you what. This was not the actual thing that happened, because I feel like that's too private. But let's just say this. Let's say I cooked him dinner and he's like, you know, I really like when you make spinish better. You know what, don't worry about it. I'm not gonna cook anymore. That's what we'll do don't

worry I'm gonna do it any more. He's that type of don't worry, I'll never do it again, just very dismissive, not like, Okay, I can make dinner for you again, but what about blah blah blah. There's no resolution. He'll just hear what I'm saying. And so when you say that you don't like things, instead of maybe asking you why you don't like it or how it makes you feel, because you're very emotional with things you don't like that, he says instead, Okay, you don't like it, fine, it

won't do it again like you would you think. Or maybe he knows that she's emotional and tries to dead the beef before it gets to a beef because he knows that she is crazy. He's not confrontational, but we really don't fight at all. There's no disagreement. So I guess that you almost taking it, But like sometimes I feel like there is no disagreement because he'll just sit with it. Like if I'm angry about so, I get

what you're saying. You think he's more so harboring things versus communicating, like he'll just debt it and really not be over the situation, but we'll still just And I think that's just the one thing when someone is like just trying to appease you. And and he told me like because I was very upset about it, and he was like, I can't leave you flipping out over the tiniest thing. And I was like, I just want you to talk back to me, and he was like, but

I'm giving you what you want. I'm like, that's the thing, though, because that does if you say, if he says, or if you say, yo, I wanted to spinash whatever, I'm really like that he says, all right, I won't make it no more because he knows you don't like it. He's giving you the answer. That's more like if I said, can you put garlic in the spinage next time? You know what, I ain't gonna make spinagh Then no, that's different.

That's different. That that's a little different. I can see if he's like, no, I got you, ill laced it next time or whatever. But if he's just dead, I don't know. I don't know. I've never really been with some that is that easy going about when I need to like get something off my chest. Um, the last person I did it was a really good communicator, just like overly communicative, and he's more so like yeah, it's

almost like to chill, but he owes. So maybe that's why, probably why, that's probably why I ain't got time for the bullshit. Tell him about something that's going on, like some argument in whatever, and he'd just be looking at me and he'd be like, you are really arguing this bitch on Instagram? Maybe like looking at me like out here, Well, I want to get into this week's vanilla ship. Um. It comes from New York Times, and I found it interesting because I have vowed to be condom dick for

the remainder of the year. Um due to seeing how much live feaes costs with no insurance. UM, A little bit what you got, not a little day back. No, at this point I wish because now I feel like I paid a hundred and fifty dollars for no reason. But anyways, So basically had an irresponsible sexual encounter in the first month of January that led me to take the Plan b phill be Cool. However, for the last

two months now, I've had two periods a month. So in February now I've taken Plan be before and it's caused maybe one extra period, but the fact that in I've already had four periods and it's fucking the end of February March. I'm fucking pissed. So I go to look up what periods me shouldn't have googled. Shouldn't have Google thought I was gonna die. It said, so it's anywhere from tyroids to stress to all types of STDs. So I was like, So, I was like, you know what,

fucking let me go get tested. So I went to City m D because it's like it opens early, it was during the week, and it was right between us having to leave again to Texas. So I was like, you know what, let me go ahead and get get tested. So I go to City m D. They're like, um, what you know. Can you fill out for your insurance

or are you paying out a pocket? So I have dental currently and I have prescription insurance, but I don't have full health coverage yet, hopefully waiting for whatever contract comes to see if we can get insurance do that if not, whatever, So I'm like, I'm paying out a pocket. It was two dollars just for the visit. I said that, don't include nothing. No. Then I go and the doctor comes out I'm gone through it, so I literally will well. I went in thinking like well, I went and thinking

because I'm reading on Google that I'm gonna die. So I went in thinking, whatever it costs, I'm gonna get it. So I made them. So they drew blood, they did the blood drawing, and they did yarin and tested for everything. So they're like, by the way, it's gonna take three to five days. Bitch, we was in Texas. I'm nervous. I'm just like, oh funk, I gotta wait for these results now. So I get the results and clean nothing. But now I need to make a reference to a

guy no to what's going on? Yeah, because I'm just like, okay, they're early menopause. Is it like there's just is it really just stressed with all the my grandma, well, my grandma had menopause in her thirties and once you have metapa, Yeah, so that's that runs of my family and that my mom has. Now, if you were going through menopause, that

would explain a lot. You shut you shut. Anyways, Anyways, I realized I wasn't gonna sit here and charge Nigga's three fifty for raw sex for the rest of the year. So instead I'm gonna use condoms. Mandy, you have to still get no I am, but I'm also using condoms. What you always talk about using, I do be using gun. I ain't never had no worries long seven for all them years with goddamn condoms. Period period came out changed. Man get it, I get it. I get it, coronavirus,

all this bullshit. But I did want to say for New Yorkers, Um, I only know about two places that you could go for free ones in Chelsea, go to w w W. It's just three. Wouldn't have read it, but they had three at the World. But it says www one dot NYC dot gov. It's sexual health clinics that are free. Um, basically you go. Um. I ain't on front. I made too much. But I even told on myself because I could have lied. They ain't even check. But I ain't even saying was under what it was.

My friends right now they got their own businesses. I ain't even gonna shut their names out of nothing like that. All these holes on Medicaid, I said, bitch, do you know? But they file their business returns and their personal because they pay themselves. Something like I could apply for Medicaid, but I don't want no Medicare fraud, so I ain't even gonna sunk with that ship. I'm selling autom holes like that. You should not be all medicaid, but you're

making over tanger in a money. What the fun is you're doing medicaid? But anyway, wait, whit more in Orlando, super easy. Don't even have to bring paperwork the center Orlando. I'm gonna keep it a honey with you. Okay. I went in there and I peed in like a Dixie cup. It wasn't know, like real, but it's free as fuck. It's an l g bt Q center and they asked like literally no fucking questions, like just free testing period, nothing about myself, nothing, which I thought was dope because

that makes people feel a lot more comfortable. I'm gonna have to look it up, but yeah, there's definitely some more. Maybe we can put some of those on the descriptions of this episode. Anyways, the Vanilla Ship, um, it's talking about condoms that have extra things to them. So sperm sides, tingling gel and other condom add ons are doing more harm than good. So if you are interested and and

maybe feeling like you're fully protected. UM, this article on New York Times is saying that spermac spermicide and other add ons to condoms can have negative effect some of the vagina um, and it doesn't increase how well a condom can actually prevent pregnancy. A sperm side free condom with liberal use of an appropriate lubricant is the best

choice professional health. UM. I'm gonna actually put this link as well because it does say that, and I didn't know that when using condoms, they suggest that it's used also with lupe, so I know once again. UM. One of the recent episodes, we talked about how a lot of women are kind of insecure about having to use lube with sex because we feel like we should just be so wet that the guy knows how much for dripping and leaking, and if we're not, we think it's

something wrong with us. But it is saying that if you are using um condoms to prevent irritation, you should be using condoms with lubricant. UM. So that was interesting that I thought I never understood the spermacide so as you was saying that, I feel like I've learned that in like eighth grade, the spermacide, that one sperm hits the condom, that the ship that's on the condoms what kills the sperm. That's how you prevent but in the condom.

But like, but maybe if it come out the condo, but even if it comes out the condom once the air, I'm saying, can I be honest with you, I don't really believe that should Let me tell you why, because I was reading some stuff where it's like are they

myths or not? Like I was looking up some ship for vanilla ship and it said that there's a common saying that when sperm touches the air, it dies, which is pretty much the case, but it's been proven when doing um not turkey based in whatever I'm saying, like, let me meet your with like, yes, God damn, but yes that it will touch the air for a little bit, and women are still getting pregnant either they're opening it up,

they can't, or it's exposed. Not to mention, when men jerk off and the cup sometimes it can be open for a little bit. That is not always the case. That does make sense. How else do you guys, jerk into a cup. It's not all the way. Don't touch their at least into a cup for money. Yet you

only never do it. I've never done that. I know people that have done it though that Like I know people that make a living off that ship I'm saying, like they like when they're loaded, Like yo, someone that does this, Like how many kids is one person they limit? But that's that's how much we know. Like women are really like worth way more like our eggs worth thirty y'all sparm only worn't like fifty dollars, Like it's a

huge I think. I don't know if it's you're talking about surrogate prices for like I mean the egg you're still gonna get like eight grand. I saw it when I was probably looking on craigslist. You're getting at least eight grand for your eggs. It's like harvesting. You're yeah, bro, like here you go. I mean it would make sense. Hold the baby's the womb and everything everything that goes into reproduction. It would kind of make sense just give

up an egg to one of my husband's. And I'm just really hoping I'm not the friend they asked first, because I'm gonna do it, But like I think about it all the time. I'm like, if anybody ask me, I'm a few more years from this, Nike taking one of my eggs. I just want to have my own kid first, because I don't want to get too attached. Other than that, I'll be like, y'all can't wait till y'all start hearing um the pregnancy updates from Wheezy. This year,

it's coming, It's coming. Bro. Every time we're in the studio, everyone says, I'm gonna get pregnant this year, but you are, and y'all are about the year her pregnancy. I'm not keeping. But then where I get anymore, I am not already said, you ain't gonna be a good mama. Bro. Let me tell you how. There's a hollo. We're not. You're not gonna squeeze bad, she said, I wanted to. I'm not watching the baby. Say I'm gonna watched the baby for you. She told me that. Now I know there was a context.

I was like, all right, when I get pregnant, I move up to New York so she can watch the baby. She's like, that's not what I mean. I mean, I'm gonna watch the nanny watched the baby to make sure she'll do nothing to it. She's hap be a bad mom. I think she said, was my mom used, you're gonna you ain't. You ain't gonna be a mama. She really thinks I'm never gonna happin if you're a great mom. I don't know, honestly, do think you'd be a great

mom just because you have that whole emotional thing. Yeah, yeah, that oxy toasting. They're getting all that for me. It's funny because I was just talking to my mom. I was like, bitch, what you did to us? Because all of so, I grew up with two sisters. I'm about to be thirty, my other sisters about nine. My other sister is about to be twenty two or twenty three. I'd be freaking her age, I do, I know. I'd just be fregetting She was one of seven, so whatever

the math is for that. Um, and none of us have kids, mind you, I don't want kids. The sister under me can't really have kids because of epilepsy. But she's also a lesbian, she don't really want kids. And then the one in the army she hates niggas just like me. So I'm just like, Mom, you ain't never gonna be a grandma. You better wait till I get a kitten, because I'm gonna get a kidten after the tour. Are you fucking what? Didn't what? Bro? This is? This

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I'm excited to bring some of what's just been going on in pop culture and getting you guys takes on what's been happening in other people's relationships, in your thoughts. Um. So I'm not sure if you guys have heard the interview, but little Baby y'all heard. He got a whole bunch of I'm going on with all these girls saying they fucked him or whatever. But anyways, We're not going to talk about the back and forth with the Instagram UM models. Instead,

I want to talk about his take on relationships. UM Little Baby says he isn't in love despite currently being in a relationship with the baby mother of his child, Jada. He says that he can funk with you, but not love you. UM. I wanted to ask you guys as thoughts on whether you can be with someone and not love them. What constitutes you actually loving somebody? And when do you know you love somebody? So let's start with

the first one. I want to know what are your thoughts on whether or not you can be with someone and not love them. I think that's just partnership. Yeah, that's partnership. Like the same way when you when you originally when you first meet someone, you're only just meeting someone's representative. You don't love them. You're drawn to them

or connected to them, but you don't love them. Once you get in the relationship phase, that's when you start to develop the love and then manifests into something else. When when do you know that it's beyond like and you actually love them? Because he was like, Yo, I really funk with her. I funk with her, and you know I got love for her, but I'm not in love, he said, he hasn't been in love with a woman. When do both of you guys know that you've reached

the love phase in a relationship. I know mine, what is yours? I think when I start um feeling empowered by that person, not just somebody being like, oh yeah, you're killing it in your podcast, I mean strategically thinking of how to help me grow. And when I'm concerned about themselves, about them almost like a family member, it gets real family. It's weird, but it's not weird. Though that's not weird. That's the start of it. I believe that I'm big on that. Like love for me is

everything else. But sex, Yeah, it's everything else. Best sex is the caveat that's the cherry on top. That's that doesn't define it. Like it's the same way you people have one night stands all the time. That doesn't mean that you're in love with the person. It just means you just see, there's is what I was trying to tell you seven. It was just sex. All of those

other elements. Fuck you, I don't like your face right now, but all of those other elements like y'all are saying that would lead you to love someone or like someone beyond that which I cut like we never got there. I feel like you loved him, And this is no shame. I'm being so serious for what he did to you. Make me come when you got upset. It was me, you and Shan Booty at lunch and when I heard the way that he you were so disappointed that he

could have thought something like that of you. But but that, to me is my ego. But no, I really think that it became from a place of hurt because you expected more from a person you've known so long. Yeah, I did expect more from but like to me, it looked like not like you were crying, but like it was like not but to me, here you hear, But yeah I was. I was pissed. I could be pissed without here's my question. Why why were you pissed? I

think it's more so my ego. So I'm not gonna lie even with the so so here's the thing, um, and even for like the women listening, um who maybe have been dealing with people for a long time, like there's still people in my phone that I was fucking went in high school, the lovers that I have currently in my life that's known me through being poor, through moving from Miami to New York and Atlanta, and just

the growth that they've seen over the last decade. Although I'm still literally the same person personality wise and what I give to people, I've I've grown as a person. I've had a lot of growth over the years. So to me knowing that I'm getting that respect from people who have seen me grow from someone who's been in my life for seven years, literally from the start of me starting college, making it through college, starting my first job.

He's known us since the start of this podcast, and seeing where we've taken this podcast, I expected him to have the same respect for me in that sense as my lovers have, and so in that instance, I felt not only a level of disrespect, but my pride was shot because it's like, my nigga, you know everything that I've been through over the last seven years, So for you to almost demean me as being something less than what we both know me to be now, I felt like, damn,

so you're still looking at me as the bitch that you met seven years ago, because I'm not that bitch anymore. So that's really that's really to me what it was. But now hold on, this is my only thing just playing Devil's advocate. Did you ever set a boundary where you guys had that conversation and said, Yo, we've been doing this for X amount of years. I think we're a little bit more than that, and you sound like my friends. So I pretty much just goes to him,

we haven't since Octobers, and you grow up. That's you. That's your fault. You can't get mad at him if you never told him how you felt. But to me, but to me, that level of communication, we like it's seven years, I know. But then to me, I think I did just that and then like feeling and you're feeling should be hurt though, but not for those reasons.

You just you just failed to come municate. He don't know that he'd probably gonna hear this ship and be like, oh ship were like I don't even know, Like, had you communicate, you probably would have been there. Ye. To me, my ego is just like it goes back to my point of effective communication. Communication sults everything, the overthinking, the emotional ship, the times where things are just running around your brain, help the skeleton. You're thinking, I go to therapist.

I go to therapy. Well, I feel like I didn't talk that way until going to therapy, Like I always like to think that I like to talk things through, but I didn't understand how to do it effectively and how much it was worth until therapy. Well, no, I'm big on therapy, but even outside that, I've always been like this. I just don't talk like this is everyone because everyone can't hear real ship. That's really what it is.

So when platforms like this where you guys get it, it makes sense everyone can't hear real things like that. Most people can't couldn't hear. Hey, that's your fault and understand it, Like I said that to you and you got it, because it's just communication. Someone someone less savvy in a relationship or just in moving about, they wouldn't

get what I'm saying. They because a communicator or someone that can be good at communicating also has to be someone that can take feedback, like you have to know when I'm talking to you, like you have to take the help to me. It's also um a big thing with confrontation. I'm not a fan of confrontation, and to me,

there there. I mean, I don't especially to me someone where we're not necessarily grow like I don't argue with pretty much anybody like me and my friends don't get into any b for drama, like I love my friends. And then as far as my lover is, there's really not anything to argue about unless they don't give me something when I wanted, you know what I mean, Like,

so there's not really any real confrontation. And so I guess in the sense of not only dating, but in that situation, I was just like, instead of me even hearing what he has to say back, I was just like, I'm just gonna go said I'm not interested, just because I felt like it would be a back and forth. Don't that don't help you, because what happens is now you're sitting here feeling the way, and he over here chilling. Oh yeah, Like, well I'm chilling that because I'm not

interested in him anymore. Now you are. But six months later and I'm still what I only agree and I don't know. I've done it two ways, right, I've done the ghosting thing, but sometimes sometimes you do sometimes kind of a toxic nigger that's about to say when it's when it's a toxic person. But sometimes you have to say something, almost like a Miliorities taught me that she

came on I think her episode was eight. We had like a breakup episode with her and she talked about cutting cords and how like sometimes it ain't even for them, it's like for you, it's for you. Sometimes you have to say when you got it off your chest, he knows what you meant, what not, even back and forth. Just cut them, even if it never even fixes, even vice versa, like me talking to my significant significant other or whomever. As long as I know I share what

I'm good, I will sit in peace. You could yell, do whatever, at least you know what it was. But the moment you don't, it does way more for you on you than what it does for them. Yeah, way more because it's your hangdu well, we don't want this because I feel like I'm being technogisal. Uh So the next conversation I wanted to talk about if you guys have seen what's been going on UM. Relationships UM, specifically in the realm of celebrity are often on and off.

So you've got Kailani and yg who just broke up for the second time recently Big Sean and Janet Ako Um who are back dating. Um. We know the card we know the Cardian. Also, I have been back and forth. Apparently Lorie Harvey just posted a dog that she got two years ago from the Nigga Future and he had five babies in the last two years. I don't know what relationship they got, but I wanted to talk about

on and off relationships. How many times is too many times to go back to a relationship that is toxic. I think toxic is subject to for example, okay, the Cardian offset thing right. I saw someone called the relationship toxic, but I don't think it really is. This is a fun thing to say, but I'll just keep it hunt it. He's a hood nigger, she's a hood bitch. He'd be fucking group behold, She'd be getting online and yelling and getting mad about it, and they make it up public thing.

But I don't necessarily think that's toxicity. I think that that's just the way they handle it. And I don't think that doesn't mean there's love there. I think they're just not the average couple that knows how to keep their ship to themselves, like they're used to their she is just a boisterous but cheating not toxic. That the cheating that part of the toxic part. I don't know the level is. I think cheating is obviously it's disloyal,

is designics. I don't know about toxic if you keepetting toxic situation if you do, but I don't know if she's still getting like, here's what toxic is to me, right, cheating if you can't deal with it. If it's not, I don't know what their agreement is. I'm assuming a bit like Hardy might let him. I don't know, not the way well, but I think they I think they both battle with that just because of who they are on their stars, like that's a lot, but they're huge

to me. If they do have any arrangement of some sort where he is a out to fun things. I think the problem too when it comes to where she's embarrassed, because now the bitch is posting so like you don't with no messy home. But what I'm thinking toxic, I guess I'm thinking of and I guess it's just general use of the word lately. Maybe it's whether it's in the show or in my recent you know, endeavors with people like toxic would be a relationship that I wasn't

sure was going on. Somebody was leading me on a lot of gas lighting. Yeah, man, that I knew wasn't good for me. Like Future, he's toxic. Agree, he's toxic. I'm just asking. I don't horrible decisions. Maybe that was a horrible decision to ask. Don't think of that because of how he talks about women, Do you not think that he's toxic? And what we've seen in the realm of what what how he behaves, would you consider what he does to be toxic? Yeah? Absolutely, I said, from

what I've seen be really piping his girl up. So he seems to really be showing the love. He's just the Future seems like a fucking dog. Seems like a dog to me. He obviously loves his girl. He's trying to be you can see him trying to fix it. Ye Wait, not right for my niggas A lot of my vide Future leaking disrecords to the girls. Really, it's really don't know. We gotta talk about that. Wait, what did Drake do? So is Drake toxic with his relationship

with Babe? Drake is definitely toxic. D is emotional kefinitely. I don't know if he's toxic, So I think he know he's toxic, but in a way where it benefits him as an artist, like it fuels him to make good records based off of this toxicity. Yes, and no, I think he shows his emotions on his sleeve. And we don't get that out of a lot of artists. Name me one Drake record where he wasn't talking about a girl where they either left him or he thought they were the one. Now we're here, right, nigga, Let

me think I thought about money? Yeah, yeah, but that even that, even that siga but amount of times he did make the little kim what I'm saying in every damn every record, I see what he's saying. Jake likes to talk about it. It's a marketing thing. It's a good guy. Most artists talk about women, That's what I'm saying.

There's a difference though he does it. We just like it, future does it where it's kind of like really because Drake is a very relatable person from the sense that he's a rapper who is a huge entertainer and superstar, but doesn't give me rapper energy all the time. When I think about a rapper, I think a Rick Ross of the future. And he used to be like, he's like a different life. He's polished. Yes, he is media trained. Yeah, here's the lyrics that he said. I really thought this

was sucked up. Um, And everybody's like, I don't know what you expected on him. So the lyric is, um, baby mama, baby mama fluke. But I love her for who she is now Fluke definition is an unlikely chance our currents, especially a surprising piece of luck. So basically they're saying, which, yes, he did not want her to

be his first baby mother. He was embarrassed. Um. I think maybe he expected himself to have a higher quality of a woman for someone to be so public, Um, I really but I'm sorry, but I really hate hearing that, because what is a higher quality woman Mary Harvey? Because she's kid. No, we're not gonna do that. Everyone has standards, artists. Know. What I'm saying is, you can't be mad at him for feeling like, hey, I lowered my standards. I should

have caned her. But you don't feel about future right now? Not something Yeah, I used to drug Dylan Niggas Okay, I have nobody to blame by myself if one of them get me pregnant, I know exactly what I'm doing. I also know that when I'm sucking them niggas, they could do better. But that's that's my point. You know that you could do better. You're indulging because you want to, however, not because you have to because you talk about me in a fucking song. I a context, because we all

know that he feels like he could do better. But like, you really just gonna go out and say that ship when you're the one, it's your choice. I was gonna say, here's my problem, and it's the same thing that Future is currently doing by not paying child support, by even taking as Eliza Rain one of the baby moms. He won't even take this, but here's the thing. He knows he sucked her. And the thing is still with Drake.

If you fuck a woman raw, like, even if she's a fluke and she's not to your caliber, at the point that a man sucks a woman raw, you're opening the gates to either catching something from her or getting her pregnant. That's it. There's only the one piece of context. I'm gonna say and trust me, I do not want to be against a woman on this one, right, But I don't. I feel like if I'm this high status of a rapper and I have no if I sucked the bitch, like I don't. I don't know how their

sex went or whatever. But if I feel like you said, I know, if we don't know if they sucked, he wrong, We don't know if like she's like maybe yours. These celebrity niggas don't be asking for condoms. They just think they're invincible to all things. So I would I wouldn't do. And I have a friend future like no, I'm serious. She just closed to that picture of her she just bought herself at home, and he posted proud of you,

and I guess. In the same day, Russell Wilson posted his son and he thought you and his little league game, and everybody's like, wow, you see the difference, And I'm just gonna be I just feel like, why does everyone carries me the fucking robber bro just because that whole ship's messy, Like that's the really thing about at the end of the day, that kid is going to be the one that's gonna be impacted once the kid gets

older and can go back, we expect. But what's also the thing is, I think Future likes to come across like he's not affected by what's going on, when he really is. He shouldn't be affected though he can't. And I'll tell you how. I know. Why do you mean he shouldn't be affected. He's an artist, he's a rapper, he's an entertainer. You can't go out and wear your

heart and sleep. Most people can't do that. His brand is not to be emotional and talking about he shouldn't be affected in the Yeah, in the eyes of the public is what I'm saying. You're never going to see him. I don't think at no point this entire year will you ever see him. Turnover at Leaf and said, Yo,

I'm sorry, you know what's sad about that? I was just thinking when you were talking about that, Um, what fucking rapper boasts about being a good like I think of kids like that's about the only thing you hear. No rapper ever really talks about being a great parent, And it made me think about it. I don't know about like a big family. Le well, he doesn't really talk.

He doesn't really talk about his family like that though he'll he'll mention it here in a social media post right he posted his dog her which q offset posts kids. But I mean lyrically like who really, like, Like it's just not really what rappersucking do. So it's just like that's why I'm like, what are we gonna expect out

of him? You know? And it's weird. Like when I was watching the Kobe funeral, I was like, bro, if this whole thing doesn't make you want to be a good dad, like, I don't know how men could watch that and not want to be in That whole experience made me want to be a better person though, Like I felt like that whole thing, like even now still feel surreal. I don't really feel like he's gone. Yeah, I don't feel like it hasn't hit me yet, but the impact. Yeah, I was a brunch and got the

update and I'll never forget. I looked at whatever, how did you guys feel about people saying um, I thought what Vanessa did was amazing, but I read some comments that said she seemed emotionless, and I was like, clearly they put her on his Danex before she got out there, because I wouldn't need a one people genuinely were like

to say, I think people grieve differently. They I honestly don't even think that she is aware of it yet, Like it hasn't really hit her, hasn't hit I think she was most impacted by her by G Like you can see it, like when she was talking about Kobe. It was obviously you can see the hurt when she went to G. She's experienced more love from I mean, more life from Kobe, but that was like her baby girl, like you could you could see it, you could see

the hurt. I think for her it's a balancing act, right, Like she's still trying to balance out how she feels emotionally between all of this. And then on top of it, you know that people are looking for you to funk this up. I thought I thought those comments were cold. I saw one on MSNBC where someone said that, and I was shocked. Me to me, we have now opened up ourselves to see how strong Kobe was like as a leader, as a basketball player, as a father, as

a person. So to me, Um, I think it says a lot about we know the type of partners we choose. You wouldn't be with no weak as Nigga or no broke, asked Nigga or anyone that you feel like wouldn't match up to the person that you see yourself as. And seeing that we saw the level that Kobe has exuded over throughout his life, it would make sense that he would have a strong partner. And because we haven't gotten to seven us over the years, this is us first

time really getting to see how she was. But I don't think he would have chose a weak partner the whole time I watched it when she first started, because I saw her Lauren was a little more broken, but that's why I said, but it was also just her man, and it wasn't twenty years. And I'm not saying one ways more than the other, but I mean, you lose your kid and your husband the same. That's not that

Nipsey wasn't tragic. And the fact that you find out about it on social media, that's that That was the part for me. It was just like, I know they gave her something to keep her straight because honestly, how sound. I don't even know how she's functioning now, like even if she could, because I couldn't watch that Kobe like for you, I was crying too much. I was like,

I'll watch bits and pieces. Yeah, I saw just the one part where she spoke about Kobe and went to Gig and you could just see it like she was once it went to g She was trying to hold it together, like you could see it. And I was like, let me turn crazy now, just because um, seeing everything um in the media now, like with people losing children, it's like that's a grief that you know, thank God, knock on wood. I haven't, but when I see it, I literally always say, I don't know how people continue

after losing people so close to them like that. That's really crazy. Before we get out of here, though, I did want to read through homemail real quick. UM, and this one, I'm sorry said home male male. Yes, you know it's a little bit of homel and even the virgins, this one is real home howing virgins have homema? What baby? We met virgins at me, Well, they weren't virgins at our Houston show. I wish I knew their name. These girls came up and says and said, oh, they were

Latin and chicks. We had a podcast when we were in college. We were virgins speaking about sex. But we were holed, we'd be second dick and fingering, but they weren't having penetrated sex. I was a home before I was sucking. Yeah. But and then I actually made one of the friend Zone Live show. Um, and I'm hoping she can come on version. She's the twenty six year

old version, so like, that's pretty interesting. Um. So the whole mail for this week again, If you guys have any homemails, please send them to Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com. This one's a quick one and I actually had to do some research for it. I'm also curious to know if you guys know the answer to it. So, hey, guys, just a quick question. Can a couple create clamidia or is it something that is contracted by having sex with multiple people. I've been with my boyfriend now for four years.

I have not cheated on him, but I recently got tested and the doc said it's plamidia. Helped me. She wrote me, this girl wrote I guess she wrote many separately too, at like two am a few weeks ago, I was in the clubs. Is that a real question? It is a real question. I was embarrassed reading it, and then she wrote me back. Um, emails. I sent it to the horrible email because I wanted to talk about it. Um no what's her name? No? No, No, he can't create cheated. It's not living dormant. It didn't

just wake up and it happened. He gave it to you. Like. What really killed me about it was I looked at the time and I was thinking to myself, like, if you wrote a fucking podcast this late at night, this nigga really had your mind working, your pH been off, I've been whatever. She wrote me at sixty four pm on another day. So yeah, she wrote, and I just talking about yeah, so yeah, she wrote me the next day. Maybe.

So I ended up looking into this because I was like, I don't really know how STDs or maybe people can't create it together. I don't know, but STDs and in infidelity. So guys, if you're in a long term relationship and come across a positive result for STD, UM, I did find that there are three ways that a couple can UM. Actually, now it's very well. Com it very well. If you become infected, it may not mean your partner cheated. Here are the three things. So your partner may have pre

existing infections. UM, you guys have been together for four years, so this may not be the case for you. But it does talk about the incubation period, so, um, your partner may not have seen any sort of symptoms from the STD and then you guys got together and then got tested moving forward. Um, there's also the possibility of treatment failure. So an STD that occurs in a monogamous partner may actually be the reoccurrence of a previous infection

that was treated but unsuccessfully. Some STDs are thoughts to have been resolved after treatment may defy. That's the same answer. It's just pretty that's about to exist necessarily. They really, they really trying to figure this out. They are. And then I oh, she wrote back and says, thank you so much for the quick response. And so it's only oral or intercourse. So like he must have said, which we shook hands, we got corona from chlamydia. It was airborne.

I swear to God for her to ask that. Wait, wait, she asked, I can't believe that was a real quick It was a real question. And we both of us all our separate things, and it's only transmitted through sex and oral sex. That's what she and I couldn't write her back. At that point, I was like, bro oh wait, she was making sure he didn't catch it in the air. I don't know what he said. I want to know what he said. I must go out of this one.

That is because you know, what's the sad part, the fact that she doctored up an email to write to you like dense to where she couldn't google it. You think her head and when you live in it. Let me tell you, Nick, this can tell you anything. Sky green and I'm like ship the reflective rainbow. Maybe I don't know Ship, because when when someone is sucking to sit out of you, I'll believe it. I hear you. But if someone can convince you that STD just magically

appeared in the morning with your serial, something is wrong. No, I said, with the serial something something is wrong. I'm telling you that's crazy. He must have wipe his ask and been like it was came from there. There's no way whoever made this roll of toilet paper? You know, let me call sharm incorporate right the fun now it was want to I want to give her some advice. I'm telling you stop going to them. That's the type of nigger he is. That's exactly what he's saying. You

know what type of nig he is? Wow? Wow, Okay, somebody start with wow they did it? So this is confirmed. Guys, he let it know if they or huh, you heard me? It's English English studio. I will tell you what my when he live. So there's this girl that walked by. We were at the last lap and normally he tells me, but I can tell he was just like because this girl was not moving around, moving away, and I'm like, did you this miss? And He's like, why are you

acting like this? Why I'm with you? Now? The funny ship is he would have been like, yeah, I did it. She would have been mad because he got He gave her the answers did you like it? What do you mean? Like? Then you would have wanted more a week sessions today? If you guys would like to go take your route over to the grass with this native thing. You know

everything Brandon before we did meet. Let our listeners know where they can follow you, where they can find you, and where they can listen to your podcast Grassroos Podcast on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, YouTube, kill a h on Instagram, Twitter, everywhere. What do your favorite episodes to tell people to listen to first, because when I start a new podcast, I get too overwhelms. UM. I would say the Side High episode only just because he talked a lot about himself

where you never really got to tear anything. He doesn't. He doesn't do a lot of interviews. UM. He rarely talks about just his struggles. That's a good place to start. Do you remember your number interview? I think so, But again, last time I spoke to me, he was supposed to put out music and and it didn't come out. So I don't, I don't. I don't really know. UM. There's honestly, if I'm with y'all, like y'all at one, I just

I'm dropping tomorrow, Okay. So I mean there's just a lot of content that tell people to listen to UM. And a lot of people wrote us to me, like what should we tell our friends? Number four is my favorite of all time? UM? I like the ones with our moms. I think Rory was a fun one. It's not my personal favorite it, but like it was a really popular one I like. UM, I hate to say it, I like our therapy episode. That's what I'm saying. Abe.

I've been trying to get him on the show. Red Man has a foot fetish and directs like videos just for feet and he's red Man is, Yeah, he has. He has a whole marketing campaign like he's serious, serious, he's serious. If you listen to the episode, he goes into it like the video for it and everything here he's released Mandy video. She got background noise like whold music don't do that and music now doesn't hold you.

So I haven't updated my only Fans feet page. So I'm out with Cutty Um getting drinks the other day and so we're talking about how everyone got their ship leaked on Only Fans and I'm like, yeah, shout, I got my foot page, but I ain't updated since November. I gotta go on there. So I went on there. It says my pages could be deactivated if I don't

update within the next seven days. So she's like, let's see how what you come over three on it all sitting in there, I was like, you know what, let me go ahead and post my feet this week, so I'll be I'll be updating if y'all are my only fan subscribers, I will be updating this week. Um, but no, thank you Brandon for finally coming on. I'm telling me about my hoss. So are your nails buffed or do you clear polish? Okay, they are feel very good. Fingering nails,

by the way, like I would be fingered with. The ladies want to know and me, do you have a girlfriend? You're in a relationship. Listen, if I didn't flirt with you, it wouldn't be a sign of disrespect on the show, like it almost started where people would be like, oh, Wes so thirsty today. I just have to keep it up. At this point. If I don't flirt with I don't hold you at this point, who didn't. I think we've falling off, so we gotta keep it. You know what

I mean. She didn't try to second leave. No podcasters are Brandon. Thank you for joining us again, you guys go check out the Grassroots podcast. Um again, i want to shout out to all of our patrons. I'm excited to see you guys in the upcoming city that the upcoming tours. But also guys, if you have reached and listened to all one hundred and fifty seven episodes, there are another sixty waiting over for you on Patreon, So go to Patreon dot com backslash Horrible Decisions. There's so

much fun. I'd been walking up many outline and it'd be I hate it, I hate it. I'd be like, well, I guess we ain't got no outline. Y'all hear it? It's yes, I get I get perturbed. Um, but go ahead and again in order to find us because we do talk about a lot of sex. It is an eighteen plus platform, so you guys have to type in Patreon dot com back slash Horrible Decisions. Um. Also again, just thank y'all. I'm looking forward to seeing y'all on

So get tickets now at Horrible Decisions dot com. Um. And yeah, you guys are about to hear a five minute bonus clip from one of our most recent bonus episodes. Again, I want to thank you guys for tuning into Yeah, another episode of Horrible Decisions. Bye by bye bye, say bye bye, okay bye. You know. You know who's really putting out there is Elizabeth Hurley on her Instagram. Have you seen her Instagram? You guys don't know who this Caucasian woman is. She's like a British and an Austin

Powers movie. Yeah, she's putting it out. She's fifty and she she's not hiding at all. She's not hiding it at all. Look at her Instagram, she's not hiding it at all. No, she's like it's out the boy, the girls are out her whole body. She's out there. This is a very instagram. So I'm no, I'm telling she's just got video. She's got like videos of her just like dancing on bred open on this. I'm telling you she's not someone's gonna suck her. Freddie gives a Freddie

gives like these white pitches in my neighborhood. He's a good he's a good man. Um. But like your Instagram is like she's she's not hiding it at all, which which I'm like, I think it's kind of cool, you know, just like, yeah, I don't give a funk out the oldest. It's a beautiful Mine's Angel Bassett. Oh yeah, Jackie Brown? Is she Jackie Brown? No? I don't know. Let me look at how don't you know the Amy Pohler movies. You don't know Jackie Brown, Eddie. Let me tell you.

One of my friends was like, bitch, I was like, oh, it is Black History Month, girl, some something something like I can't remember what happened, and she was like, oh no, you can celebrate on the four tune. I was like, well, because you're half makes sense? What if it's a leap here? Can I get get more? Dude? That ship was so fucking funny. Although I really like to hold I hang on to my father's reeliness as non claim to being half. What's uh so your dad's from is really Israeli? Your

mom's from New York, right, That's cool. If we dive deeper, there's like roots to like Bermuda and Jamaica from my mother, which I'm honestly Barbados in Jamaica. I'm honestly wondering if that's why I went through my whole reggae drug dealing guy face like I'm going to the dance hall clubs. And then I was like shake that thing and a bettle of shake that thing. You're like this speaks to me or like deep in it like five's cartel, Okay. I was like, Sean, Paul, I can tell you something

right now. Growing up in Toronto where I'm from, there's no African Americans. There's Caribbean Canadians because everyone's is black. Their mom and dad are usually usually it's Barbados, Jamaica, a lot of traded dad, Guyana, some Haiti. How did that happen? It happened because Canada was under the British Commonwealth, so it's easier to go there. Because Jamaica is unto the British common so you get a lot, So it's a lot easy to go there. Plus, uh, the immigration

was easier. It was the doors were open a little more. So people like that's why Drake like yeah, what, yeah, yeah, yeah, But he's not Jamaican at all. His his dad's American. His dad's from Memphis, and his mom's like, like, I mean, I don't think Drake was so in my opinion, a lot of people don't think it's funny. But all his friends are straight up like parents are Jamaican and I grew up like that. I grew up in a very like a very black neighborhood in Canada, like all Jamaican

all like, and you still sound like this guy. I know, I know, I know, I sound like a report in the news on in the area. But like it was like beef patties, oxtail, the best food you eat, food like that I love that food because they don't have it here. But when I was in New York, it was with my girlfriend and I was like, I walked by a place I had beef patties. It's just like, I'm like, I have to get It's like why, I'm like, it's my culture, it's my friends culture. But I was like,

I was like, she's like, what is it? When you explain to beef patty to someone who's white, or like any anyone who's never had one, they're like, why is this so good? I go, what is it? It's a flaky yellow pastry with and like what's in the middle meat paste? It's like, wait, what did she have it? No? No, she's like she took one bite. She's like, my dad loves fat. I know they're so good. I grew up on that that in Minnesota's a lot of island people,

so um. I just every time I think about Drake and Canada, I think about it, I'm saying dog, yeah why, But also like thing that's a big Jamaican one. Oh yeah, that's a big Jamaican one. I feel like people that are listening like what but ting means? Girl, I look at a nice thing you know. It's like like she's like a yes, just call her that. No, that's what I grew up with in Toronto, Like look at that ting. But you have a bunch of things. I don't know. No one knows really, Okay, I picked a very l

a vanilla ship, and vanilla ship is our sex. In the news segment with just basically Eddie's podcast, but just about sex. It's not always sex. Could be sexual health, it could be whatever. So i'thing about pussy. So these vegan bloggers say it's fine to stop having your period. Gone to colleges disagree. So it's been recorded that like people that are vegan have way shorter periods. Um. But yeah, but the thing is, I actually tried one month to

stop eating meat. Mine wasn't shorter, but I had no cramps, no cramps, that's a game change, and very very little bloating, like barely any Um. So it says they're giving up animal products that beat robbing and bloggers and they are shortly shortly after our experienced periods. Um that menstruation is a sign of a highly toxic diet, which is bullshit. What Yeah, if there's nothing to clean, there's no reason to men's straight and since raw food diet is your

period naturally becomes lighter and or disappears altogether. Another vegan blogger says um she was thrilled when her period hit the road for nearly nine months. I still believe that largely menstruation is toxicity leaving the body. So a lot of people are having these heavy, painful periods because of their toxic dieties. Now look, all right, I'm not I'm a guy. I'm a dumb guy. When you when you have your period, it's basically your eggs just shedding from

the menstrual lining. You're eural lining, right yeah, and then you get you get you get some you possibly get some spotting, and then you just sucking outcomes out the egg goop out of your old pool right right further control where you said you possibly get spotted, drake, says Pani