Ep145: Anti-Ghosting & Frozen Balls Feat. JustLatasha & Jameer Pond

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all that motherfucking free ship. Now let's get on with the shot. Oh what's good? What's doing now? Thank you so good? At a popular at all of that. This is another episode we here again with horrible decisions. It is just me your girl Mandy b a k A pet Stallion a k ada bitch a k A. I really ain't getting no dick right now, but we're gonna talk about that. UM. Wheezy actually is on her way

to the studio. UM. She was getting dick in Miami and apparently because of the fucking weather, flight got canceled, then delayed, then canceled. She had to buy like two other flights today, just a whole lot of mass. So wee they may or may not come in midway through this episode. But I'm super excited because I am joined with two of my friends, two of my creative, very wonderful, very melanated so so so before we get into a little catch up on my sexless sex life, UM, I

wanted to introduce the two of you. So I am sitting across from Latasha and Jamir. Can you please introduce yourselves to our audience to let them know who I can see a birth mark? You don't only a special for you can see that. Yeah, alright, I'm just Anatasha. I am on YouTube. You guys can subscribe and follow me there. I'm also a cast member on the grape Vine TV and I'm also a filmmaker, catch seasons one and to a Sit Black and Relax on Amazon Prime

and Sit Black and Relax dot com. Sit Black and Relax is beautiful. Thank you. That is thinking creative. It's really funny. Yeah, that is dope. Isst ship And I'm not gonna lie now I'm gonna really need your help because I told you I'm having a problem with thinking of titles for some other ship I'm working on. So yeah, thank you for And you guys probably know Jamir as well. Jamir where may our listeners know you from? From Brooklyn? If you're from the um, my name is Jamia Pondum.

I'm a content creator and a host and just a genius a little you're that louder genius. Yeah. Now you might have seen me on BT on Stars, on BuzzFeed and also the grape Vine. Shout out to the great, Shout out to the grad tell them I'll be together friend great as times learn such a fun fact about you? Oh wait, well, you know all the capitals of every state.

And I'm ran I'm really geeky and nerdy. I can't get words right for on this show, but it's one of those things I was probably in kindergarten, and if y'all from Florida, we gotta do the FCT, so they make us learn all these random ships in Florida because the FCT is the Florida Comprehension Assessment Tests that you have to take in order. Even if you get all as all year in certain grades, if you don't pass this standardized test, you get held back. What age do

you learn stand your ground? Oh? You see one that I'm sure if you are, I'm not sure if you looked up. But Florida is not the place where we brag about our education. This country is not about education. Matthews. Yeah, yeah, but yeah, I wanted to do a quick catch up, um kind of with what's going on with me. Me and Latasha just had a drink before coming here to do that. It's crazy, don't have to say, because you

don't be drinking. The last time we went to the beer hall, you was like, my bad, she said no. But so Latasha and I were talking and I think even the last time we record for the Grapevine, I told you all, like my love life has been pretty non existent. I'm not even getting dick, so I feel like I'm not doing what I need to do with a show like this. Um so, as your sex become performative for your creative endeavor. So here's the thing. We have to do things for research purposes, I feel like.

And so now I feel like I'm going to be the one on the show that talks about a sex life with sex not being there. Um So two weeks well, two weeks ago, I'm not gonna Two weeks ago, I got my wisdom teeth removed and I ended up with Christmas, which is a severe case of lockjaw. And so I really thought that the Lord Kurt, like, I thought the Lord told me that she has been enough. Your mouth is going to be out of commission for the rest of you. I thought, God, he went from yea way

to no way. Oh no, oh, absolutely not that's what you thought. No, I'm not gonna lie. I literally was like he did this on purpose. Absolutely. So I've been talking to him like I've been doing my little job exercises, and I'm like, I can't even fit an Asian dick in my mouth right now that if you look okay. So I thought of a census of it. So I have no idea. I don't know racist because they're no, No, it's not really declared it when it's a fact, it's not.

They have smaller penis size of the stereotype comparison to like dynamics. That's why I'm able to kick and move, and that's why it ain't so smart, like alright, alright? Can we could actually rail it in real bad here because there was a loss control. This is the line. So I wanted what I can't say? Do you think? Okay, sorry, y'all. Apparently I'm being problematic again, and everyone is telling me to chill okay, so um go see crazy rich Asians

howling on all your streaming services, y'all. So I wanted to bring up to where I'm like, Okay, I can yellow black, I can't dick. Do you see what y'all do? Y'all shut up? So as I'm talking to him about um taking away my ability to suck dick um, I think he didn't like the conversation very much because he also has cursed me from getting dick um. And I want to tell you, guys, the links of which I

attempted to get dick um. No, well, his dick is good, but this is the links that I went to um to get so I'm just listen, listen, so no, I'm telling you. So, I'm chilling at home. As y'all know, there was like a snowstorm in New York and it's snowed for like two days, not really in the Bronx. I don't know if it's because we ain't buy water or the snow just scared of the Bronx. But you don't really get much. Snow wasn't really bad. So I'm like,

I'm like, what are y'all talking about? Canceled flights? Nigga is raining, it ain't snowing, Like, I don't even see nothing white on the ground. I'm like, the Bronx is still Bronx. Todain't a white Bronx. So I'm like, bet so this nigga hit me up. We go to Sexton. He's like, I'm horny. I'm like, man, I'm me too. He's like, you'll be playing. I'm like, no, I'm not. He's like, come to Denver. This is at five pm on in the area. So he literally listened. That's where

it's not. There's no, there's no, there's not a Denver in Harlem. She said. He said, come to Denver. This capital of what Denver? I don't it's Colorado, but I don't know if that's I think it is the capital. Right, Uh but wait no, wait, let me correct that. I don't know all of the capitals of the states. I know all of the states in alphabetical order. That's what it was. Um. Anyways, right, it's a random thing to know.

Why the funds in my mind? Anyways, So he hits me at five o'clock and it's like, come to Denver. I'm like, do you realize it's snowing on the East coast? Like I don't think I'm gonna get out? Like her flights is canceled, he said, not all the flights, So he wasn't wrong. The most big risks not moving. Just so he's like, look up a flight and see if there's any flights available. So I look up the flights and I find a flight and I only fly Delta. So I find a flight on Delta. It leaves in

two hours and forty five minutes. So within twenty minutes of us sexting and him telling me to come to Denver, I'm like, you know what, I'm horny. I ain't got nobody here fuck it, I'm gonna go to Denver. So to Denver for some day from New York. So I'm like, bet so, I look up the flight. It's eleven dollars, he said, get it, say less. So I get the flight. I'm heading to the airport. I have the slowest uber in the world. Thing god I left. He was Asian. Actually, um,

all right, I get to the airport in time. It's lit. So I get I board my flight. I'm letting him know I'm on my flights see you. So ow I land at this point. I landed like ten thirty five, So I'm like, I bet ten thirty five solid. We got time to kick it do some things. It's a little freaking dickey. So mind y'all, here's here. Here's the craziest part. I landed at ten thirty five. Do you all want to know what time my flight was leaving

ten fifty the next morning? What so? I was about to fly to Denver for twelve hours to get some dick. These are the links I have to go to get dick right now? Can y'all not look at me so crazy? Please please? We're thinking about a train ride that I don't like anyway, half of my pain. Anyways, long story short, this is how the curse worked. Um. Unfortunately, I sat on the runway for three hours, and due to federal regulations, once you sit in a plane for so long, you

have to return back to the gate. So I returned back to the gate. By this point of flight was supposed to be a seven forty five. It was about eleven o'clock and so I hit him. I'm like, I'm not coming there. I won't get there till four am, So I gotta refund no dick for me. Went home and played with myself miserably, and at this very moment, Um, my couchie is fed up with this monogamous relationship that it has with my fingers, and they fight in because my COUCHI is like, Sis, I didn't sign up for

this monogamous as motherfucking relationship. So there's me doing manual labor. I respected, this manual labor is actually driving me nuts. Um. But if you guys first fun listen. Um, if you guys were you know, maybe not wanting an episode with just me, you got it. Yeah. Um, I'm joined with my co host who made it from the airport. So I don't know if she wants to introduce herself. But she has a horrible decision. So while I'm not getting sex, she's getting a lot of it. So on dicks, I'll

tell you that, and on and off them. Absolutely, I know how I'm gonna keep this brand up. Legit almost didn't make some of my horrible decisions this weekend, and I thought, you know what, I haven't added juicily episode. Are you able at this point able to have sex and get the dick that you want and the lips that you want without thinking about Oh I do all the time. Yeah, that's why I haven't had sex. I

don't give a funk. I'm gonna talk about maybe me not getting dick, but I'm not gonna do you in the moment going ham, You're like, this would be great for the show. I'm not. But it's really it's really good. It was really good. It was I'm not saying it was fully the reason that I made my horrible decision, but I will just say this had a great week guy I'm dating old Bay, came for Thanksgiving, met my mom,

we headed out to Miami for the weekend. I was gonna say what happened until I realized I probably really shouldn't because I did something with a listener from this show, and that bitch probably is the reason I have a fever. But I will say I was thinking about it all weekend and I was like, because I tweeted about it because I was so excited, it was so much fun, and I was like, you know what, that wouldn't be right.

I don't know her numbers, so it's not like I could ask her for consent to talking about her, So I probably shouldn't do it. But you're doing nicknames anyway. Yeah, but when we were in the spot dog let's call her, let's call her her PO for short, her PO. It's not hurt because it's not herpies, but it's also not not herpies. I don't know. We don't know. You don't get fevers with herpes, you don't. Okayophobic, but I will tell you this. I think I'm providing representation of visibility.

It was really wild. I woke up and I was like, oh my god, like, I don't know what the fun is going on. Overnight there was this. It was a thing. It was all right, Now, that's problematic. Twelve cast that day. It ended around like seven am, and then I woke up. Look, all I'm gonna tell you is three. What's three times four? Stop doing? Man? What kind of stopped? What is this four? What is for? Represent ya box? Oh my god? This is right now? That was pretty good. It's hordap this

is I feel like you're about to cast. Its happening. I'm not people shout out mouse jone, my mouth shut and out of the building just that fast, please please, that's what I heard about you in and out that's what I heard about you to check over your show that that's not what you heard about my mouth zone. I didn't hear that about things. Well I told you, okay, sorry, and it's not coming quick if if I'm supposed to come that you know what. Hord te tip, it's a

hord tip tip. I love the horrible decision love. I wish jug there's some great black people. It's about three black people. A mouse get out. I take it to show hord Tip of the day. I would love for that to be a new segment. That's like every time I smoke weed. I've been doing a lot of writing lately and I'm like, what could be a great new segment, right and I was like, it's either horror derves and it'll be like, I don't know what it's gonna be, but I really want to call it horror nerves or

I like that horror tip tip of the Day. Yeah, that was cute. I gotta start thinking, if you guys have I'll just collect a modest there we go get your ticket. No, but it was a really wild weekend. I can't feel my throat. At first I thought I had a bruise esophagus um, but that wasn't the case. So like I've never I thank you, but I thought

I had to bruise esophagus. After Old Baby flew back to New York, I went to Palace in Miami, the gay club, and I was telling everybody how my throat hurts, and they were like, oh my god, girl, you probably was choking on date. Especially if you go upside down, you can get a bruise esophagus. I was like, I had no idea, So here I am in the middle of this fucking gay club, like do you see it? It was really ridiculous, but it inspired me to do an episode about sex injuries because I have another one,

my nigga in the middle of fucking. I got a pinched nerve. Basically, I can't even pull up my pants without doing it like an old lady. My back is sucked up. Like that's how much sex I had this weekend with my nigga. I just get to walk away scott free, like it's just like, no, it's not gonna be without a limp, It's not gonna be without a sore throat A lot he did you know that if I was tearing up at one point during sex because of the pain or because like this does not sound fun,

it was you promise you had a good time. I really did twice. If you had a good time, I can't my word, but I will tell you one funny thing because I can't really go into detail about what happened this weekend. But all I can tell you is someone had a busted lip. That's how rough Ship got. You almost lose a tone nail that was off my Yeah, yeah, I let to talk about it. No, no, no, let me tell you. This is a show about horrible decision. I've never heard it before. You're talking about that's that

goddamn clip we need for Instagram. So how did you almost lose your whole big all gonna ask me. I just I got strupped throat for me pussy goddamn, I hope right and that so we're waiting on the story. Latasha, go ahead of chair. I tried to perform an action on a reclining chair over the summer um and I forgot that. You know, we had had some drinks. I was tipsy, so was debating me at that at the time, right, I said, now I'm gonna extend the chance, so we

leaned back. I was sexy. It was like a whole movie. Was like damn, like that's fire right, And I was like, oh, I'm I'm gonna move on down. So I put all my weight on the foot of the chair. The entire chair tipped over with my feet under it, landed his weight, my weight, the weight of the chair, everything on my big toe, my cuticle, and slid back. Had a bruise my throat. Just yeah, did y'all y'all stop sucking at the point or did you at least know so you

know what I mean? That little blood. So I think it's like growing up. But y'all caught your nut and then you then you were worried about your what the adrenaline. Probably, well, I hate to be embarrassed. I was like doing off like sharning. He was like, are you okay? I was like none, it green and said yeah, but you literally can't like anything happens like we're we're embarrassed, Like I don't fell off the bed before. I didn't have to keep wig up like I got hit when the wig

slides and should be so irritated. We was walking in its windy as hell outside and she's like, this is holding off. The one is lucid in the other ones. I think I got a Jewish woman's wig slide ones fire and it was you, But I mean the whole thing. I've got a problem. So I'm the Jewish one. So it's fine. When I was talking about Asians earlier, it was an art was about it. The stereotype, like their penis is exactly. You've been here before a stream please stream,

I mean the lighter black panther. You have you guys ever watched Asian born? Uh No, they seemed fine to me. I've watched people Asian women with black men. I've seen that too. Why do you say it's crazy? Everything I like, and that's a lot of it. Was filmed, and once it was filmed America. Um, they have to blur out the genitals and stuff in a lot of Yeah, and I find somebody that does porn in Japan. Shout out to Ray little Bit Black. She's a Japanese porn star.

It was my first like pay for porn person. Oh my god. And it's so dope because she'll record in Europe, so like you can see her pussy. It's great. But I always wonder, like, damn if you go back home or you even gonna make movie, and what happens to like only fans, Like what kind of ship is blocked? I mean not even that when it gets one fan? When when when I lived in Asia, um, and even when I went to the Middle East, I had to use a VPN on my computer. There's like no porn allout.

None of the porn sites pop up, Like you can't visit porn over there is. Yeah, Like I literally had to my IP addressed to either Europe or America in order to I just hate having to use my own imagination when I'm trying to please myself so much worker teacher and I don't know friends, like I've tried to practice so in Japan it worked for me, but in Thailand it didn't. I think it's just more of those like little rinking you know that was sucked up to

say too, I guess Dan, but whatever. So it worked in one place for me and not in the other. And I will say I had to really learn. I was in Thailand for two weeks, were friends. I had to really learn how to like masturbate and enjoy. I also went to Morocco and had to masturbate on my own and it's like it took practice, but it made the orgasm stronger. She's like me, I came all over the world, so it's like a serious I'm expensive. You need to know that, not European orgasts. I haven't had it.

I was coming in Morocco. Prayer came, wow you heard me, and I was just like, okay, okay, it's not okay, alright, we're gonna go ahead and get We're gonna go ahead and get into the vanilla ship this week, if you guys all right, first time listener, Vanilla Ship is where we find sex in the news. Go figure So for this week, um our Vanilla Ship comes from the New York Post dot com and it is the first male

birth control injection that is almost ready for penises. Um. The product is ready, with only regulatory approvals pending UM. The trials are over, including extended phase three clinical trials, for which three hundred and three candidates were recruited with a ninety seven point three success rate with no reported side effects, which I'm honestly jealous as fuck. How the funk do you find a birth control with no side

effects for men? And we're all out here fucking getting fat, getting acne, having mood swings, being fucking miserable, just so that we don't get think it's just long term. I don't think they've figured it out yet. Um, the product can safely be called the world's first male contraceptive. The birth control method, which lasts approximately thirteen years, involves injecting

a polymer called styrene male hydride. Listen, I looked on these before, and I don't know into the deference, effectively blocking sperm from leaving the text from leaving the testicles. The shot preceded by a dose of local anesthesia. It's like to plant a traditional can't stand there. You can't even say paint my face. It's like laze it right, years is too long, though I can see somebody not doing It's like getting your Yeah, thirteen years is a long time. I don't know if I would. Yeah, that's

long saying kids sometimes. But that's really like even for a lot of the female birth controls UM like the Marina and I don't even know if that one's approved as much anymore, But there's so many other types, like the five year one to me is even a lot like I just know where I was five years ago and where I might be five years from now, and I'm like, Okay, maybe I'll do the ring. But than the ring, you gotta take in and out every like

what twenty seven days or something. It's just a lot like I don't know, getting people, you know anything, something's going on, and then it shifts and then someone has to help yourself. If someone's gotta go, you gotta go in there. My friend is on it now after just getting off of UM. She was on Marina or she had the copper thing in there UM for for years and she had the ring and it's literally fallen out.

They've had to find it. Apparently she squirts, so it's shot across the room during one act and they had to find it as a man. That's a bragging right, Yeah, if you ain't shooting new vote rings, that's why it's my contraception. I need that. I number wanted something like diaphragms rings. I got offered hell of money to do an I U d to like get it and do like six posts, right, bro. I didn't want a phone

call with these people. When they read me the side effects, I was like, this is this is the reason that calls an hour you can die? Like, did you guys see the picture of the baby with the I D on the side of its head? Yeah? He was, he was, I've seen it before. Yet the birth control didn't work, so she got pregnant, and when the baby was born, the little the thing that was supposed to keep up

from not coming was that beautiful? Do they expire? Maybe hers was old and she kept it in for nine months clearly, so I mean maybe I think, Um, I know that there's different ones you can get per year, Like there's there's one that you can get for three years, five years, ten years. I believe those are the things. So maybe it was towards her end where she was supposed to get it taken out and maybe she didn't.

It came out of the baby head babies baby used to the baby for number one being here reason the reason why because you're not supposed to it absolutely is you don't go past the ring. The ring set stopped sperm for being. Can you imagine if you had a baby that went through all those hoops and he came out to just be like regular mediocre person, Like yeah, like what a million sperms and you get seasoned deeds? Yeah, you're sucking stupid. You gotta be like prince. You gotta

play every instrument, every bay the eyes. Have you ever got your blood? You gotta swear up blood? You gotta That was That was the ultimate of their like you basically it was the beginning. Was before you like even fingers? Wow, that was it. That was your greatest achievement is getting an egg? Have yelling met a kid that was like so smart and so good, You'd be like, Wow, there's no way I'll make one of these because that happens.

Know what's crazy is I met I guess child genius when I got hired um for the Big Four accounting. From that, I worked at all of the first year trainees in US who got hired in the tax division all went to training the training center together. So we're getting drunk. We're fucked up. One of the kids, it wasn't supposed to be a kid, one of the new hires, was eighteen years old, mind you, with a master's graduated at like fifteen years old. Wasn't even old enough to drink.

And we're all just like, I mean, but technically you're smarter than a lot of us, Like eight didn't even make it in the company, now works for some government thing, because we're like, you're too smart to be here. Like, oh, he's smarter. Ship, he's literally a child genius, like doesn't drink, was still a virgin, literally just put all his ship into the books. And I was like, okay, dumn, what's my friend? What do you mean? You know what? I'm

not not to be president? Though. I find that they have no like not common sense, but what's the word I'm looking for it. There's a documentary called Class Divided. It's about the school Avenues that's across from the projects and Chelsea, and so they go back and forth from like rich smart kids that do fencing. They fucking play the violin, they speak Japanese. And then on the other side they they're in the project with these kids, the

super rich kids. There's like no personality there. They have no emotion. It's like the weirdest ship. The other kids like you can't even see it in their eyes. They're happy. Then the other kids like, oh my god, they gotta go to Harvard. I gotta learned viename. You gotta get as they gotta get more than days. And it's like they're fucking going nuts. I don't ever want a kid like that because they never been punched in the mouth as a kid. They go through the ring of life,

they haven't faced adversity. You don't know how to hit bottom moments. I kept thinking, like, you know what, I'm broke. I went to jail. Here's an ankle bracelet. This is it. This is gonna be my moment that I'll talk about when I'm famous and I'll be like, no, you guys, I ate ramen. Like, so I want to get into this week's kick of the week and I want to give a shout out. This is actually on pop dust dot com, which is dope because I got to record with you guys at the popst location of the week.

For this week, I want to see if you guys can guess what it is. Um. It is psychrophilia. What do you think psychrophilia stands something? I was so so um for this kink of the Week. I've chose it specifically because we just got done with a snowstorm all the way here. I told um Latasha that my face was burning it was so cold. Um and so not for people who find pleasure thanks to psycrophilia. This sexual

arousal comes from being cold or watching others freeze. Um. While the majority of folks like they're loving hot and heavy, psycho philiacs would rather get a brain freeze and a heart on. Um. Yeah, this is some weird ship um eskimos aside, it seems unusual that being cold would arouse anyone. We've all heard about the cases of unwanted shrinkage, and getting undressed in order to get it on would be

uncomfortable at best. In subzero tempts, goose bumps and frostbite seem less than sexy, and numb fingers would make for a clumsy, a clumsy makeout session. But this is what psychrophilias um are into. And I actually thought It was funny because Mega Stallion just um posted that she actually can't sleep unless it's really really hot, which I'm not gonna lie before having sex. Even if it's cold outside, I turn on my A C. I like for it

to be cold when I'm sucking. But because I know I'm going to get hot, I still don't think I'm going like I wouldn't be interested in fucking like in the outside temperatures, but during the summer, I'll be like, oh, let's go find somewhere to to go foot behind the have a small fantasy with like a cab in, but it's got to be like some exclusive b and then I would suck the cold like put me in that

like hot. Ask you know when you see those pictures of people like Iceland, I would do that, well like Recovic and they do what was in the Poconos and like what you've been there? No, I didn't know what that was. Oh, because it spelled weird. Oh I don't know what it looks like read havoc. Really, yeah, that's like the blue lagoon Ice Iceland ship. Okay, I don't even know. I don know what is recommended. One of them is going to find answer the std you catch

in the cold. I didn't know what really, just a very cold virus. That's probably a bitch probably gave me recommend shout down to listener Melanie, the one I ran into on the plane. That bitch gave me robertasinum on the flight. Let handed me a little shot cup. I was like, oh, thanks that. She was like, nice medicine. So I know, get no, get well, says get Well. I don't know. I never imagine having sex in the cold. Yeah, no, not for me. So that sounds like privilege shoes. You

mean it sounds shoes incovenence. I don't know my privilege. I don't. Definitely sounds like I go to hand in hand together. They choose weird ship, they choose inconvenient and uncomfortable things to to get off on, and it's just like, we have it hard enough just being us, and we don't want to make things more difficult than they need to be. I've seen my penis in the cold. I do not like the way it looks. I mean, but I mean that might actually turn some people on, like

to see the shrinks. So it's crazy. So it's crazy. This is this is really weird. But I do not that I like flash of dicks or shrunk dicks, but like the dicks that I are massive, but it's so weird because they start off so small, so I really enjoy fucking seeing them be really really big. Then once they come playing with how small it is, and I'll be like, oh my god, it got a little like how does it get so big? And I actually like those conversations after have you seen a dick that has

been in the freezing cold? That's a different film. Two balls go and make one need look wait wait, wait, wait, camera, you're not looking it up on the screen. I'm like, you're not looking up frozen balls, are you? I am? And did that screenshots pointing the cold frozen penis about to find out but he's looking at frozen balls and it's looking like it's just it's just snowballs and stuff.

I've always been curious enough you can describe it, like when people talk about when they can't come and like blue balls and how their dick goes back up you just like the dick turns, I mean the balls turned into one ball. Tell tell me about that. Feels like I feel like your balls got really old really quick, like they just tucking themselves in the psychophagus and like snigger like a mummy, like like like a nut mummy, testy mommy. Just but what does it feel? It feel

like a like a pain. It's tight, it's tight, masage, Like, how do you get blue balls from that hot You gotta be in a hot way, put them in the microwave you got, you gotta saw your dick. You got your ball. That's something like does rubbing them or do you have to get in like a hot shower. How do you get rid of blue balls? So? Oh, blue ball? How do you get the blue balls? Yeah? The difference you're gonna know how you warm up the frozen balls you got and how I would like take a hot

shower and like dropping separation. No, no, no, The last thing you're thinking about when it's freezing outside is jagging off typically because you can't grab your dick, and it's like mine, mine when it's real looks like a palm olive bottle. When it goes it's like, no, that's the girl. But I'm saying it goes in at the top and then it shrinks in the bay like towards the end of it, like a shower. I'm a little bit of rock and room. No no, no no, So I don't know.

I can't compare my dick to anybody else's. I mean, when it's when it's young, but when you get gross was impressive. In this last year and a half, I spent a lot of time with your mayor, and we've spoken about his penis more times than I like Badland too. I got a handsome PENI I wouldn't know that. And I also didn't ask what we're talking about air penis, so I would say, I would say it's it's thirty, like not a thirty disgrestion. You know what I'm not.

It's like a CI. You know I'm gonna be road Civics never my eight hundred bucks when I moved to New York, mainly because the window wouldn't go down. It was a really shitty civic. I'm in Orlando this week for Thanksgiving past my civic. How do I know it's mine because there was a Jesus sticker on the gay thing. Not that I don't just Jus, girl, but I was so scared to take it off. That ship is the

only thing keeping that civic together. Jesus do you know how shifty your car you gotta be if you celebrate eight hundred and honestly, it wasn't a good deal. Like over people used to shade me so much in Earlando because I was always traveling. I had a really nice apartment, but my car was shitty, and it was like, and I'm like, this is how I can afford to live in a luxury? Yeah? I probably that was like my baby, my little hound Sonata was chuck that we went all

the way to Times and baby throw that thing. The wheels came on that ship. I was I know I was pushing that thing. I had it from Hi Left America ship. Right now, that last thing before this, before we get into this week's horrible, I want to let you guys know that this week's episode is also brought to you by Blue Chew Baby. So we talked about blue Shoo on this show. If you guys don't want a dick situation like Jamir just talked about, um, you can go ahead and get on with blue Shoo dot Com.

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I'm not sure if it worked. Um, but I talked about my wildest, nastiest, kinkiest night on on here and he took a blue Choo that night and he sucked me ten times and came and two girls at the sex club. So I asked him, has he ever done it before? I'm you just busted twelve times within a twelve hour time France, and listen, he wasn't the whole improved. That's what's why all about it is getting gas station dick with that pill. They'd be like, you know what

I'm saying, little gas station Hill. That was one of like you know, you see how hard you make me? And then I saw the pill in the trash can. My ego was so bruised, and you said, this ain't me, it's the bodegg. I don't know what my fuzzy I want to I want to get into our whole decision this week, um, and the horrible decision this week actually goes like UM against one of the topics we recently talked about, shout out to Eddie Della Seppi. I love Eddie.

He was amazing, we talked about we talked about ghosting briefly with him, and so, because we always talk about how important communication is, I wanted to have the conversation with you too about how to end casual relationships. UM, like the classy bit you are. I want to shout out to salty world dot net. Um, this is where it comes from them. So I wanted to start off simple, UM, I guess are you too currently dating or not dating? Not dating? Not really okay, but you're not in a

relationship okay. So The first person that we're going to talk about how to end the relationship with is called the wrong doer. This person is a guy or girl who gave you a bad vibe after one day or interaction. UM, anyone with unsolicited unsolicited you ups energy or Trump supporters. UM, let's just go ahead and get that out of the way. Umally, this is how maybe you just met them on tender. You guys have a date and you realize he just

wasn't it. How do you end that relationship without ghosting them. We're trying to be the mature people here now, so without just leaving them cold. What do you say to a person that you have one interaction, one date with and it just didn't go well, Oh, we just go away for me to talk. I don't know. I've never been in that situation. I've always like, if it was just a bad vibe, I've always ghosted. Oh you're a ghost, your ghost to like me and it's a bad vibe. Yeah,

that's what it was, right. Yeah, But if it just was like bland, I've ghost Oh yeah, I don't go if it's if it's a bad vibe, though, I'll owe you nothing. That was the conversation wave ghosting that we're talked about, like, but I think it got to deeper and we're gonna go into maybe more profound relationships on how you end it. So the next one, um is the failed bone. So this one maybe you had bad kissing, it stinks. The vibe was also off or one that

we talked about often. Maybe their limits preclude your kinks from being fulfilled. So interesting, but go ahead. You have you ever talked to someone who maybe you guys, finally got into the sex conversation. You've been on a couple of dates and you realize that this person is not going to be able to match you in the bedroom. No, it was already too late, legs up, full of regret, my hair kat and talked me And that's why he got a good conversation because you know he got nothing else.

You're you're taking this time away from me. You have sex so bad that you start to like be like, you know what, dinner was great though, and maybe we could go because he was fun. But let me ask you since now you don't skip, y'all, y'all went to having sex. So the sex is bad and you decide, you know what, I don't really want to have sex with this person ever again, how do you tell them this probably isn't gonna happen again? Hello, Well, thank you

so for me, I've actually done it. Like right after, I'll hit them with the hit them your way home, I'll hit them with the he made thought he was spending the night, and I'm so, what you're doing tonight? What you're about it? I was like, and I just sat there with with regret that damn I just gave this nickel pussy and he it just wasn't good. It's crazy because I always figured, like when the sex is

just okay, it's like mutually bad. But like, no, no, no, no, no no, it's not a good all week, I'm gonna come over with the mall. No. I don't like someone who thought he laid it down so good. He thought I was breakfast the next morning, I was confused. I know it wasn't good like that. I'm angry. That's what that's me. Here's here's another one that I think is good. This one is referred to as the best intentions. So this person was super sweet but just didn't do it

for you. So this maybe leads in maybe they they thought things were going great. How do you end it with someone where maybe you know, they think it's going somewhere and you're like, he's going broke up with my reverend, but we didn't sleep together. Short, Please, I don't know if I should say his name. I don't know his name has a fire name. I think that's the Craflow Dollar, Reverend Randy. What what what happened with the Reverend Latasha Dollar?

We're not out? Did you meet him at the congregation? Of course? Also I was a dashing twenty four year old aspiring model. Uh he was a dafenair reverend running running the car gation. I think he was forty nine or something like. That's fine, right, And I was like, oh yeah, I like older man took me on an awkward day day. It was so awkward. He was really nice and it was sweet, but I was I don't want to do this, Like he a little too old.

He hit me with the linen pants and the sandals, like we crossed me crossed a lot of threshold that I wasn't quite prepared for. So so how did you cut it off? With him? Then? I texted him, I was like, hey, he's really beautiful is. I was like, I'm transitioning right now. I'm moving into a different like um like path and it just is just not like working. And I want you to know she's not transitioning her sex. This is a second podcast And yeah identified in transition. Yeah,

I identified with my biological body. Um, and you just said I have other things I'm working, like yeah, yeah. And so I tried to sneak to the church. We had to drop off like a tithe or something, and he was there and I was trying to avoid himsel I was like, give him like the quick walk to get out of there. He chased me and follow me. He's like, heyy what weird text? You said me? What's

going on? And I'm like, yeah, things are just like weird for me right now, and like I'm like a bad place and like it's just like not and I just don't want to drag you into it. We always tell them that it's not you, it's me, but it is that they're good people. It is. Yeah. I don't know who it was. I think it was putting someone shout out to to and fro miss Ga posted something and she was like, I'm so tired of people saying, oh,

he's a good guy, why did you let that go? Like, just because he's a good guy doesn't mean he's a good guy for me. And that is so much pressure sometimes from people when they try to tell you how great somebody is, Like you know, I'm dating someone now that is like all over the place, But me too, and that ship is compute. The that's why nice guys kill us at school. I mean, we are constant whitney and they deserve to have us. And if they can't,

shot them to the face. There's somebody there for you. It's just not me and I'm not a cheater. Stop me. Listen, stop the whole the whole one. All of us are problematic. The next one, listen. The next one is the ultimatum. You like them, but you have to lay down the law. Ultimatums are best served in person, but if you feel you need to get one off your chest in a controlled setting, there's a way to text it. People bashing as a form of communication, but it can be an

excellent tool. So one of the examples that they get for the ultimatum is I really like you, but being polly or being monogamous only seeing you very late night once a week isn't working for me? What would you prefer? Um? And what do you think? So it's pretty much laying down the line as what you expect out of a relationship and if that person isn't going to give it to you, how you then successfully end that relationship? Um,

I've definitely been in that situation. It was more like I was up front with basically going through something and kind of working through the pain and the transgression, everything that was going on and not being able to be a whole like emotionally available. And they kept trying to hit me with the well, then you can't be taking me out and we can't be doing this and we can't be doing that, And I was like, cool, got you, And it was just it was just like that because

how to me, I can't. I can no longer compromise myself or my happiness or my healing for somebody else. It just don't work like that. I agree, And I'm being I'm front with you and let you know everything that's going on, and then don't get me no what we're doing going to therapy, That's what I'm saying. I know she acted the way I acted when I hit my big toil. She was like school boy whatever. I wanted to ask um the last one before we get into the homemail to to jamir UM. So you just

got out of a relationship that lasted years, UM. And I know that when a lot of people are in a relationship four years with someone, UM, they feel like because they put so much time into the relationship that they owe it to themselves to continue to try the relationship even if it may or may not be over. So I want to know, UM, how you go about ending a relationship that kind of has lived its life out and you know that it's it's dead, but you

kind of don't want to leave it. I think it was it's hard as fun, mainly because like it's not that you don't love this person. It's like both of our energies right now are bringing keeping us out of ceiling where we don't need to be, and we need to remove ourselves from a toxic space. Like I was toxic at times, she was she was toxic. So we

needed to separate. And I had to make that hard decision after being with somebody who you thought she was gonna marry at one point, to leave not only the relationship believe like, um, everything you leave in I left you know years almost a decade on and all, yeah and uh almost almost a yeah. Do you find that like since you're well, you've been a relationship person for so long that like dating is hard because you get it. You know what's you know what's you know what's difficult? Sex?

Sex is very difficult because you're so used to being intimate. Intimacy is such a big part of sex for me. Now. When I was in college, I didn't have to look at you, have to kiss you, I'd have to touch you. Why do you feel like you can't be intimate now? Well, you know what I'm saying, I can, but everybody doesn't deserve that level of intimate. You can't just be snacking on everybody's ass. You know what I'm saying that the level of intimacy and comfortability you gotta be with somebody.

I think comfortable comfortability is like the big thing for me, Like I'm no longer interested or desired to which is the person who I've been sucking for the last seven years. I know we'll talk about it, um and so and so. Even with that, I told my friend, even as I was coming back from the airport, I was going through my phone because I don't suck anyone else in New York and literally going through my phone realizing I don't have anyone, knowing that there's people on my phone I

could call just to drop off Dick. But then it's like, is this person am I gonna feel comfortable? Do I want them in my in my bed? Do I want them in my space? I haven't had someone over my house in so long. That wasn't him really well, I's out of Canadian baby. He don't even count that Nigga been in the picture for like six years. But now that I have no local anybody, I'm just in that space now where I'm just like, damn, finding someone new was gonna be hard. This person for the last six

seven years, we've learned each other's bodies. So even if there wasn't the level of intimacy that someone may think as far as kissing or you know, the things that we didn't really do, the comfortability level that I had with him, I feel like I'm never gonna find that, and it's gonna take so long to get that again. And so I can see how you don't want to dive into just having sex with someone because it's gonna be different. Is it even gonna be good? Even? Am

I even gonna enjoy it? Right then, I'm giving out boyfriend dick, and I don't what's boyfriend? Um? Who I'm touching your You know, like man could feel when you just touch somebody's soul, you go, oh my god, I just took the class. You got to dig where they're making your breakfast in the morning? No what Yeah, but it's a certain look, like like somebody can't believe what you're doing in them and you you look him in there like, oh, I've gone too far? You know what

I'm getting? Like that when instead of moaning, it's like the word is ha right, exactly right, and you're just looking and everyone knows good. I think the only piece of advice I can give you for that, like I've dated people like I'm a person that like generally like I'm the emotional one on the show. I make the joke that I'm an email ho because I really can try to connect on deeper levels. I think for me,

the way that I found good partners. I mean, right now I'm mainly sleeping with one person, but I do have great connections with other people, and it's because I really built friendships and deeper, like when I wanted to fund them, i did it. I kind of waited for it to grow a little bit stronger, and it's it's like it could seem like you're playing gay aims, but it takes a long time to see if you virate on the same frequency as somebody else, Like I don't.

I don't need to uh have that connection with someone that I feel like it's a soul mate. I mean, like I have friends I connect with like that doesn't mean it'll be romantic, and I think we can all have sexual partners that we connect with like that. It just does take time, and I think like the longer it gets, you're like, oh my god, Like I've been looking for somebody to fuck, then your horny and then once you suck someone and it wasn't that good or

even more mad, that's the work. That's what I wasn't gonna put up with that last night. I just wasn't. I wasn't gonna be upset. And it's been too long since I've had dick, Like it's been since October. It's fucking December even though it's only the second bitch yes, since yeah, well yeah, we'll talk um. And so to me, I'm just like, the fuck, what's going on? Well, even because we were on tour and then the bitch was on our period, you'll know I ain't working on my period.

So I'm traveling and I'm thinking I should get it because I'm in other cities and I can't. So there's that. UM. But I wanted to get into the homemail before we get out of here. UM, And this one is called am I being too insecure? So hey, ladies, A long time listener here. So I've been trying to figure this out on my own, but I'm giving up and coming for advice. I'm having trouble in my new paradise. Me and this dude have been seeing each other for a

little over a month, and mostly everything is great. We get each other's we get each other's personalities. He takes me out and shows me off, and sex is great, but he hasn't came when we fuck, and when I give him head, he says that it's always been like this. I've asked him if I need to switch it up, and he says, I'm just a pleaser. And it's always been hard for me to come. We are both young. I'm twenty three and he's twenty two, so we have a lot to learn about fucking in general. But bitch,

I know I get off. I'm pleasing my man, and my ego is taking some hits. I'm struggling to see this relationship moving anywhere. If he doesn't come soon, I need some guidance. Y'all talk about the Blue Choo and other products that extend sex for quick coming men. What about the opposite. I am tired. I am tired of sucking dick and writing this man with no outcome XO XO our white patron number four. This is maybe maybe that's the condom, and maybe he's trying to be respectful

about not taking it off. So I just had this incident, which is why I feel like I've gone with no sex. But there was also we were also highly intoxicated UM. But I recently just attempted to have sex UM and it was after the club. We were really drunk and we got hot and bothered, and I was like, oh, you gotta get a condom, and he was rock hard. As we were making out. I was rubbing his dick on my like I was hot and bothered, and as

soon as he put the condom on, that's all. And so then me being drunk, I got into and I'm like, solid, you're sucking every bit. You're wrong, what's going on? But um, she didn't. She didn't mention on here if they were fucking unprotected or not. So if I would say the condom is a good possibility for a month, that maybe is why he's not coming because I have been with

men who can't come in a condom. So the thing that we've done is they'll funk the goddamn shit out of me with the condom, and then when I'm done being fucked and they know that I've had enough of the sex, then we go into okay, we'll suck my dick and they'll come off head. So there's roles like that, you can titty funk, there's a lot of other things

that you can do if you can help it. Because I know it's a big eager bruise, tell him like to jerk off, like like out what makes him finish, because I feel like something like that, like he might like sex could be boring for some guys, like he might be into something extreme that she doesn't know about from something Yeah, yeah, I possibly is it acts. So that's what I'm saying. I mean, I'm to be honest,

Like I've touched my pussy, like if vaginally. It's not the easiest thing for some women to have aginal orgasms. So I don't mind touching my clip, and I hope niggas don't mind either, because I don't give a fuck

you fucking me and it feels good. I want to touch my clip like whatever, just like when a dude like pulls like like they said, they say they pull out and they start jerking off to come like I don't think that's crazy, So I think maybe try incorporating that telling like some nasty ship like you want to taste it right, so young to not be ejaculating, but it could it could be it could be NERD or it could be UM. And we've talked about this before.

If you over like over consume yourself with UM porn or masturbation, you become you know, it could actually affect you when you're having sex with someone because you're seeking a certain way of how you please yourself that this person maybe isn't doing. I would I would say, especially because you are so young, UM, and I know when I was three, the conversations that I was having about sex and what I was enjoying and not enjoying weren't

being had as as often with my partners. So I think that this may be something to wear even if you're uncomfortable because you mentioned young y'all are y'all need to have a conversation like what makes you come? Yeah, we need and I think that that needs to be in the conversations without making him feel bad. You know I need to. I would love to start doing more follow up letters to those who have send your whole bail into Horrible Decisions at Gmail. Let us know what happened.

And you're a patron, so if you do have this UM conversation, I would love for you to send us a message on your update on how the conversation went. UM, and if it's patron, of course we can find it easier you send us an email, which I also like. So if you guys are interested in having UM your homemail read and getting your advice from us, because you'll be liking our advice, UM, go ahead and send us the email to Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com at

y'all for believing. I mean, maybe it's just me. I have no idea what then I'm talking about. Honestly, I sweart of God. I'd be reading emails and I'd be like, I don't know sek friends, I'd be like, what would you say? All caps? And I've done that so much because a lot of the home mails sometimes are things I would say, like when we first started our show, like I would say the first year, I was like in a situation ship but didn't know if I was and I was super confused. So we'd have people right

in I'm like, yeah, what what would you say? Then? I'll answelest, But but we're not experts, and I think we definitely say that often, like it's just listen, don't take you with a grain of salt, and don't consult your tax accountant or lawyer, all the things that we say. Okay, um, I want to thank both of you guys for joining us. I love you guys. Is coming up? Um, so I guess before we before we get out of here, where can our listeners find you? And do you have any

projects coming up that they should look out for? Find me on YouTube? Just Natasha channel watch my web series Black and Relax and um, yeah, I'm coming out with some something fire next year. That's such a good name said that. Yeah, listen, she's she's fraid of right. A lot of people can't do that. Bro, Oh it's time. I'm excited. She's gonna's gonna help me get in my acting bag next year. So we're doing a little creative series. I'm excited. So look forward to everything that um Latasha

got coming forward. Yeah, if you need me to play uh dirty, they're on the couch. I mean, shut up. I'm very talented and sleeping on couches and playing PlayStations just like Quiet Nick on the couch. Yeah that's what. Um. You guys can find me at Jamir Pond j M E R p O n D, on Instagram and Twitter. Um, if you are over forty, ladies, you can find me on Facebook. If you look good. You request. I wanted to ask you are we getting? Are we getting another

season of Black Coffee? Oh? I don't know. You don't know, but I don't work there. DJ black Hu no like the DJ. But it's a show. Oh nigga, I was like that, said I was a black coffee actually us well, I want to say, keep doing, especially what you're doing over with the budd seem the BuzzFeed content. It's super dope, your creative ship. What is it? The cocoa butters to Melvin's in a spoof of cocoa butter. I didn't not.

He's a huge youtuper and he made a spoof of black He tried each other sweep and sato or something like that. It's so funny. It's so funny. So if you guys, um see the things that normally go viral um on Twitter because you're that fucking dope UM. But it is black Twitter, but you were you a part of the um? What is it? Aunt? He's trying to sweep with phone one with potato salad. It's really good salade idea. When it hit the timeline, friends, it's the

most nigked thing I could do today. Not. I don't know anyone who like loves and it's as knowledgeable as much as they love it as Jamir like when culture. Yeah he is. Yeah, it's a kind of sour dating for you. Wait wait, please tell me, because listen, I have to stick up. Sorry for my pumpkin lovers. Don't tell me you were a part of getting black people to try pumpkin spice. That that was. That was over in l A. We have a l A. They they liked some things, but they were they were shaming the

pumpkin and the pumpkin spice. And I'm one the connotation though, just just like pumpkin spicce makes you think Caucasian, and that's you think. I'm never well, I'm one of those that like, I'm at Starbucks. Anything with pumpkin on the menu, I'm getting. I just went to the grocery store and they had pumpkin bagels. Never had it in my life. I bought it. They had pumpkin cream cheese. I want, I wanted just thinking about I love it. Yeah. But before we get out of your guys, just before we could,

let me come back for a minute love black women. Sorry, before we get out of here, I want to let you guys know that once again, we have added a second show for New York City, so that is January at Sony Hall. We is looking forward to see all of y'all. If you guys have not yet purchased your v I P tickets, there may still be available um at this point, I'm not sure them shoulds go fast, but we're looking forward to seeing our New York core hive amongst the Midwest and Texas. So on January we

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and Jamir for finally joining us. I think we've been talking about this for over a year, so I'm really glad to finally bring you guys on. Check out their platforms, and once again this has been yet another episode of Horrible Decisions. It's funny because the what you're saying with just the difference and the guys you're talking to, like, that's kind of well, it's seeing me too. So I have PhD in aries PhD. Although, like you know, he's in the space that he is professionally. He has a

nine to five. So we're talking about what's going on with his job and his career and stuff like that, and we didn't have so many arguments about who's sucking buying flights and who's not and just the ship like that, because he's not used to buying flights. He's like women have flown here and when you get here, I take care of anything. And I'm like, well, my niggas, boy my flight and take care of everything. And then I'm talking to Aries. We're literally thirty six hours into talking.

I tell them the places I'm going this month. I'm like, yeah, I'm going to Boston, Detroit and Puerto Rico, UM and Orlando. And he's like, well, I really want to see your show, so let me know which city I should pull up to. That's it. He's like, I'll get my ticket now, Like I really want to see one of your shows and I think it'll be fun. And I'm like, look how different that is? Like he's just well, I hate to say it, but you're not saying you have to think,

but I'm not gonna frighten my experience. Older niggas do so. But then they are ten years apart. One is twenty nine, the other thirty nine. But it's just like I was like, he's like, um, Aries, as far as what he wants with talking to a woman is exactly where I'm at. He's like, I just want consistency. He's like, consistent, see in connection are what I'm looking for right now. He's like, pussy,

I can get that. He's like, so if there's no connection or I don't want to be around you and you're not consistent, He's like, cause, I'm not gonna text you more than you text me. I'm not gonna call you more than you call me. He's like, there needs to be a mutual interest. Literally everything that I fucking say came out of his mouth, and I was just like, have you been eaves dropping on my fucking calls? Like this was literally just my conversation with my friends. So

I don't know, We'll see where it goes. I mean, I'm not gonna pressure anything. But he's beautiful, like, well, both of them are very handsome um men. But yeah, I'm excited. One does have kids, one doesn't, so I mean, you know, but one is local, one isn't. So the fact that I'm even entertaining someone that I'm thinking long term and that nigga lives in fucking Portland's and then I have one that's local, I'm gonna be honest with you.

I would get annoyed about the play thing, and I know I said, like the DC thing, I would have just grabbed it. I still stand by that. But Portlands to me is different. But the flight is to sixty so it's not much. But I'm saying not the price. The DC thing to me was very like yo, come like he didn't to me in his mind, he didn't New York to d C. If I lived important, I'd be like it was the same ship. Just show up, like it's a train like whatever, Like I wouldn't think

of something that's small. But because you're going across country and now you're coming to me like I can, I would expect him to pay. But for some reason, the way that you brought up the DC thing, like he said it like it's my birthday trip. Just calm dada, I could see him skipping around paying it because it's a different thing. I don't know where. It felt different to me because it was very close. Well that's the thing.

Like the lived in Philly. He wouldn't be like, let me keep getting this forty dollar like you wouldn't think about it. I didn't know how much it was to go to d C. I thought it was a forty dollar train. I know it's more now it's a hunt of each way. So the train was actually more expensive than my flight was, which is why I took But

I really didn't know that. I really thought DC was like and then I've gone to Philly because I got a nigga and Philly and when he's paid for my my train to Philly, depending on how last minute is, sometimes it's like each way. So it's not the hand track. I'm not hos um I did. I did because my friends. Um. I called my friend that wasn't my normal go to friends and she's like, Bro, you spend that on drinks.

You spend that when you go eat. I've been with you and you're buying rounds for ten people said there was a guy. I don't know what you called him, but I don't want to say the city because I don't know if you brought it up it was he was in it. Remember you cut him off him? Yes, you said if something started going with this guy, I would be flying myself. Yes, that's what you said. Yes, So that's so that's where we're having the dilemma now.

Is it's not the fact that it's buying the ticket, especially because my friend was like, bro, you have it. You really you really not gonna like funk with a guy over two hundred all? Is that you actually really like? So The dilemma is oh