Welcome. It is horrible decisions. I'm your girl, Mandy b a k A that bitch a k A pet Stallion, and I'm sitting across from my co host with her and Haller. What's your name? Charge up? And y'all heard a third voice in the building and many of you may have already guessed, well not only by the title, because your name and the title, but we have another part of our family in the building today. Are very good friend dasty. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm happy to be here.
I'm a whore. I want to see at the table, baby, yeah, I want to be here. I ain't gonna hold People were like, well, doesn't want to talking about like what's the nastiest ship you ever done? Um to who you? What have I ever done to somebody? Like the nastiest thing last name? Like I did like the nastiest the
one where you were like I need a shower. I don't know if I had done if I did it to somebody else, if they did it to me your sexual experience, yeah, because one time, like I don't know, you know, gay niggas sink, so you know I'm gay on the weekends and ship you know. Yeah, so like niggas think like, you know, well, some gay niggas I shouldn't be used. Some gay niggas thinking sexy, like you know,
for you to be sweaty and athletic and ship. And one time I met this guy at the gym who you know, it's just we had a friendly rapport or whatever, and we left the gym and got to pop in and like, no shower before. That's interesting because I think women it's the Yeah, like most gay male friends that I have discussed all types of ship with, like the gym meet ups, on the room ship like I don't do that. I feel like that's for people that look
like virgins, you know what I'm saying. That's the people who you know what I'm saying, like they're going there to be sneaking as que quote and that's a big thing. Yeah, the way your sexual orientation. By the way, when I first met a sante like years ago, I had always thought you were by Yeah, he made me, gave me a little gay, So that really don't compliment. You ain't say like, oh I thought you were straight on the years ago. He was like, I thought you was fine.
That he didn't say that be a compliment. Okay, I don't know how much you did, though, why like you knew that means you just thought he up here. I would never ever, ever say someone's appearance would be a compliment. I don't like you're passing. I don't like you look you know, like you're not gay. I hate saying ship like that. The reason I thought you were by was
because I had gay friends. No. I was talking about it and m fantasy and was like, do it, that's me And I was like, oh well, if he'll do it, he must be fine. Me up to the nasty ship. And it's because sci is not ship, but what's crazy is and I ain't even gonna hold you. So I was with I was with y'all, Darren. I was with Dustin and the scient side weekend. First off, dustint know the finest niggas in all of the land, and I'm like, look at first off, they bow with your feet when
we walk. I'm sorry, listen with Dustin. First of all, first off, dust't has them vibes. And Carl even said it just straight fu nigga vibes like he walked around like, thank you so much. I think I love the fact that it's connected, like he got beady eating all them niggas because they'd be like, oh Dustin, hey, Dustin Dustin like everybody though, can't you imagine, like I need that beat Dot. You do like the perfect gay, Like you're the perfect gays model, right, so like wanted to be
black gay. You already could get all the niggas, right because you're like got the podcast, so you're popular in that way. Like, who can't you fuck um Republicans? That's a lie, you know. I don't want to. I don't even want that spirit jumping off on me. I'm saying. I say it's the studio just in case there was one in here, and you see how they'd be looking to all the Republicans inside. I think that was shade because I think we got a white cameraman. You thought
he was a Republican? No are you? Are you white? Okay? You had dark hair. I didn't know you even, Like, I mean, I just don't assume white people in New York went against us like that much. But but this is red lad, it ain't it. But no flagrant be bringing on up. That's a Muslim dude who fucking like Trump and ship. Yeah, just a bunch of weirdos. Yeah, you never know who's but we did. We did have
fun when we went to the club and ship. Oh you know, I'm so so I like to give hugs and say hi to everybody that you know I want to doesn't just tell you. It was actually a spot where I thought, oh, I'm gonna dance, bitch. I wasn't just giving a quick little um lot dance. This nigga picked me up over threw me on the couch. I said, I am not at dance hall vibes. I don't know. I wasn't all of that. This nigga literally picked me up like like nothing. It was like dancing on me
like he was Chris Brown. And I was like, yeah, damn okay. So I'm guessing you've heard the show before if you're listening right now, and you would know that. Literally every nigga in my phone is game. So all I do is go to the gay club. And one thing that I have learned is like, hey, you need the right shoes and be you need good because when do you think for a fucking second that I didn't know, make sure you show your ass out, like look at
everything around us. That's amazing, right, architecture, clothing, style, fashion TV shows. Bitch, do you think that you could just give a mediocre dance? No, you can't, danglings nothing. And that's why I get hugs because I believe when you, you know, spend time with people, you shouldn't leave them with a mediocre impression. So that's why they was everybody hug You didn't spend time. That's all entertaining, Nick, That's that's what I knew. Beard Bay was a fucking ho
that one told me. I was like, yeah, where you working? He was like, I mean we entertain each other, but yeah, that's how I was like, Wow, you dog sum It was hot though, and at that honesty it it's funny because we're talking about sexuality and not to make this get deeper. Um, I did want to bring up because this is recent a lot of you guys maybe seeing
the r I p. Reese hashtag. Um. I wanted to quickly talk about that because for a lot of people who listen to this show, we do actually have a lot of six hetero men who tune in, and I want to talk about kind of what happened. Um. This is a black man who recently killed himself after being bullied by other black men because he was openly outdating
his transwoman partner. Um, this is actually big because I saw a a tweet that because we're in an era where a lot of trans women are dying because people are um not comfortable with what they like and being out at or whatever. I hate that he took his own life, but this could have also been another instance where he was pushed to possibly kill his partner because
of the shame that's associated with it. And I just don't understand why we have And I don't want to bring up Black Lives Matter because I see a lot of people doing that, um comparison of how we're all together for Black Lives Matter, but we're not together in
the sense of black people in their sexualities. And I just want to say that for the six hetero listeners or even some of you who may still have some sort of homophobic tendencies, like who someone dates is none of your mother fucking business and something really important to this story. Yes, I thought you would say at first.
So the reason that this one is kind of crazy is because and actually go back to five minutes ago where I said I don't like saying things like straight or passing identified a straight right because he was straight get quote unquote is more so white people are saying that he got bullied, right because they're like because very few times, I guess, are we gonna think, like, Okay, we see a gay nigga with a trans woman, Like that's not as crazy as seeing someone who's quote unquote
super straight, right, But trans women are women, right. The guy is may not have ever been with someone trans before. He may not have ever been with a man before. He may not have ever been We don't know. Well, I told y'all of the story of um, a good friend of mine and he's the person who I took to fairy tales and things like that. Um, he's into
trans women. And he said that his trans women has like, like liking trans women and knowing that that's him has led him down through like alcoholism and even pushing his self away from his family because he's like, Yo, I brought a white woman home one time. Do you know the look my mom gave me? Do you know the
look I would get to bring a trans woman home? Like, so like even just just the hate that you have in your own household, he feels like now I don't want to lose my family if I come out saying that this is what I like. But it's literally what he likes, and he knows it's what he likes. So it's just it just sucks that like people are hiding
this part of themselves because of things like this. Your own family members, people that look just like you, were supposed to be brothers and sisters and root for each other. And we're bringing each other down just off of who we like to have sex with. Bros like come. It's ridiculous, and um, it's actually something that's a lot more common than people realize. And I wish people would just wake up and understand that this is a part of life
that they've been really adjacent to, knowingly or unknowingly. Um, I can't tell you how many beautiful trans women I know who live a normal life just like you and I and everybody else, have healthy relationships, you know what I'm saying, and people just don't know. I can't tell you how many people I know who have had experiences with trans women and don't know that I know, but I know because I know that trans women they've had experiences with you know what I'm saying. This is something
that is literally hidden in plain sight kind of. And it's just sad that, you know, people get to a point where they can't take um, the effects of quote unquote bullying or whatever, and it becomes an issue where they kill themselves. That's heartbreaking. Um And I God bless him man and funk all them niggas that was talking about him, who probably all have had experiences with either
a man or a trans woman. I was gonna say, just it's it's all about to me, like what I've noticed from homophobia most of the time, like the niggas that I've sucked with, fuck with, fucked with, like my besties. You know, I'm not like you. I can't call my home girls to go on a hoe trip. It's like my niggas is really right, and the men that I deal with know that, and they know that. Sometimes if you want to link up with me and night I am at the Gate Club and you don't have to come,
and you have to be cool about the ship. And if you're not cool about the ship, we need to talk about why, because that is an issue for me, right. I need to know what's going to make you uncomfortable. I need to know when my best friend gets married, that you're gonna be hyper as we're about to see him and his nigga get married and we all love each other. I need you know that our kids are gonna have a uncle and maybe his god Mama I won't have a vagina? Is that crazy for you? Is
she not a woman anymore? And this is why socially conscious men are just really important to me, and in terms of Black lives matter and people thinking that these people are exempt, It's all about the shame that we feel right being bullied for wanting to kill yourself over that is because internally you think you're doing something wrong. You're not confident enough in choice. And in my opinion, men that tease other men for their choices aren't confident
in their heterosexuality. I just don't feel that way at all. When I watched the men that I deal with embrace my gay friends and feeling comfortable and not feeling like this gay ass nigga because you know you like pussy. You know this nigga about to fuck you. We're not tripping at There's a confidence that certain hetero men have that leads them to not be ashamed of having relationships and friendships with gay men. That's shame is about feeling bad.
That's where killing your off comes from. And we are perpetuating that stigma every day. See. I stopped the shift to even get rolling because to me, why it's sex even a part of the conversation. Why are you worried about who I fucked? You know what I'm saying, So why are you thinking about saying? Why are you thinking about gay sex? Weirdo? You know what I'm saying. I
wish you would let me tell you something. Ain't no way, Ain't no motherfucking way that I'm about to walk outside in this world after paying rent, working hard to be a good person and ship, you know what I'm saying, being a stand up nigger, being there for my friends, ain't no way, no go on the street fit the funk with me for who I fucked. It just ain't happening. And also, I understand that if you know that I'm gay and you want to disrespect me, that should be
your first move. So's so going to say it, so now we can get it popping, because I guarantee you you're never gonna forget what happens next. That's what sex a part of this conversation. I'm a human being and I live like a godparents and you're not Finn disrespect me period, whether it's about my sexuality or not. I'm you just not fin to disrespect me. It's so they can't be homophobic with me. You know what I'm saying, you can't do that with me. People are so weird
about sexuality. It's so weird. There's there's so many um pictures and things that go around with even fathers and their daughters, and they create whole narratives. Is the way they kiss? Is this celebrity that was on top of him? I don't remember, but they everybody was like they turned everything sexual and it's just like why why why is the father do you think his daughter? Why are you
thinking sexual? Because that's why I don't like when videos of kids doing something silly and people start sexualizing it. That is weird. It's weird as me and one, and I'm like, it's weird, Like I get the joke with this weird you know what I'm saying, It's weird, and it's crazy that like we have all of these different thoughts surrounding sex, but that sex, while it is still so taboo to even bring up in certain setting some things that everything becomes fucking sexualized. Even but we just
talked about even the god damn vegetables were eating. Now they all dick shaped, the cue coumber. We can all ship cucumbers and just creating, and now we're look at vegition. You shouldn't even want a dick that looked like a cute cover. You know, cucumbers got them bumps all the way down, up and down. The motherfucker if you are right with putting a bumpy dick all the way up. We just talk about conversation. You understand what I'm saying. Worn and ship did we talk about? Did we talk
about corn? There was something we just something we did talk about. You only talked about it or ate it. Well, I hadn't thought just now about curious to know how you guys think we could normalize. There's no normalizing ship. No, no no, no for other people. So for example, yes, um, not to say my father is or was transphobic, but I watched something happened to him when it became someone close to him. Right, So a lot of people have
not met trans people or gays or whatever. Right, so my father is Israeli and my aunt this was maybe ten years ago, canceled a long time. They don't now my mother right, Like I said, my my godmother was a drag queen was growing up like I was born in San Francisco. It's case, so ten years ago, my kind of hys directed me. She had cancer for a while on and off, and when we went to the area to talk to the surgeon, the surgeon was a
trans woman. And I remember looking at my dad's face and it was like just the wheels are turning while he's thinking, and I'm maybe I was old enough and not old enough, and I was like okay, And my dad hugged her for a long time and kept telling her thank you and how happy that she was there, like happy is that she was there, and blah blah blah, and like the whole card right home. I know he was thinking like wow, like this saved my fucking sister.
And it's weird because what instance is this person? Okay, Like maybe my dad might have looked different from her on the street, but I know you kept her alive. I know you saved her. I have to think, what does it really hit you? Family? Friends, like, how do we normally family and friends to hit you when when it hits you, When it hits you, when it becomes a reflection of some sort to you, about you, because
it's really internal. Really, it don't matter. It doesn't matter if you adjacent to me, you know what I'm saying. But if you my mama, if you use my mama, man, I'm saying, if you my mama or whatever, you feel some kind of way about how I live, you know you feel like it's a reflection on you. And that's
where it comes. Happened in my household as well. Um, for a lot of you guys that do listen to the show, you guys know that I'm have Jamaican, So of course Jamaicans are very like homophobic in a sense, and my very homosexual too, but go ahead that too, Yes that too, um. But my cousin left Jamaica because
he was gay and felt he feared his life. But also my sister came out as lesbian maybe when she was around eighteen nineteen, and she was always my dad's favorite, and my dad actually removed himself from her for quite some time because she was lesbian and he didn't understand that and also was like, so you'll never give me a granddaughter? Like it turned into of course now like just different things as lesbians have to deal with. And
so luckily they do have a relationship now. But I think because they both hate me, but whatever, But I love you too. But I do feel like even to have experienced that with my own dad kind of distanced himself from my sister because of her sexual orientation. That's just the whole thing. Like, that's still your daughter. You love her as a person. Why does who she have sex with matter to you? Even as a father? Why
does that matter? Parents think this made you gay? My mama was literally laid out on the floor and her walk in closet when she found out about me and ship, and my father told me not to tell her. Really, that's actually opposite. Did with like a religious family? Yeah, my parents are devout Christians. Yes, when what they found out I was gay? You were in your twenties, Yeah, when they found enough to say that, I'm thirty seven?
What did you think I was seven? Right? So wait, okay, so you when your mom finds out that, yes, when did your dad know? Since he said don't tell her? My father found out before that because someone in my family went and told him. So. One of my family members was living with me at the time because they were about to get married and they had kind of been envious of I've always had a close relationship with like my siblings, money and my parents always been cool.
I've done what I want to do. You know, I never really once I decided not to kind of follow the program of what they wanted for me as far as like the religion and all that. Ship, I still maintained some sort of like you know, good rapport with them and so, um, but I was still doing my thing. And so once I had started like hanging out and really actually going to gate clubs and ship or whatever. Yeah, man, you know that glory day. So but uh manbe it's
so stupid. But um, so, long story short, my family member was living with me, saw I saw that I had been coming back and forth to New York. Actually had met this guy here named Kareem. He was so fun. Yeah, he was like it was just different. You know what I'm saying. I wasn't. I had just started working with niggas or whatever. So anyway, my family member saw that saw something like that on my computer and ship about me,
you know whatever. I went and told my father, okay, and so my father one day, this was actually right around new It was New Year's Eve, New Year's Eve. I was out party and in the next morning I was supposed to go help my father repair like some eaves, traffic like gutters on my grandfather's house because you know, my father told me how to do all that kind
of it. So um so, but I overslept because I was out party and I really never even came back to my apartment or nothing, and so my father called me kind of upsetting. He was like, YO, come meet me at Bob Evans or whatever so we can like, you know, I guess go do it. I'm assuming, But what he really wanted me to do was come up there and talk to him. Because I overslept and ship, he knew I was doing something he didn't know, you know,
specifically where I was. I think that that kind of just made him think, you know, that something else was going on, and he might as well just talk to me about what he had heard. And so that's what he did, and he wasn't disrespectful. Um Surprisingly, my dad was like he just kept it a buck from the from the beginning. You know what I'm saying, Like, that's your life to live. He was like, you're gonna face a lot of adversity for that. Make sure every area
of your life is on point. Get money, you know what I'm saying, Work hard, do your thing because you're gonna need all that to balance out the negative ship You're gonna get it. Like that's your story tale. I wanted to ask you that quick before we get onto our kink of the week. As a gay black man, do you do you fear your on the weekends? Do you fear for your life anymore than if you feel like you weren't gay? Oh? No, but I'm very well
aware of the fact that I'm walking. So you know how we black We walk out every day and you know you're gonna face certain adversities, right, So add another layer on top of that same layer, but even a broader spectrum, because it's not just from people who are against you because of your skin color. This can be people that look like you, people that don't look like you, family members that don't want to funk with you. It's all those sort of things you have to think about.
The men of mental turmoil and trauma that gave people face think about the most critically important relationships to your life being a jeopardy. You know what I'm saying, just over something that you can't control. Yeah, I just said that about my friend. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. If his mom would just own him, that's the real ship. And I thank God for like my brother, my sister. Really my brother and my sister. I thank God for them because from just our siblings are bond as siblings
like nothing matters, and it's never mattered. My sister been to the gay club with me, my brother. You know, Meg, people have dated kicked it. We talked every day all day. You know what I'm saying is a real relationship. So I don't that's why you can miss me with that bullshit, you know what I'm saying, Like I'm not I'm not having not having to having experience like watching your mom. One of my best friends came on our Patreon episode has told his coming out story shout out to Christopher
where his parents like prayed over him and ship. Yeah. Of course. It's like when you're turning your twenties and you live living this life and you know who you are. It's hard and to experience you're literally it's hard. You're praying over me, Gonna stop my dick from getting hard? If I see a fine nigger? This is ridiculous. I at a certain point, you know what I'm saying, What are we doing here? This is? This is I'm like, what are we doing? Way? You want to? We can
go to camp and get that ship. Yeah, no, that's a bull remember the movie. But I'm a cheerleader. Yeah, we talked about that before. Yeah, anyway, let's talk about we get into Nancy because I actually want to know this because I have mine in my head already. So the kick of the week for this week is torontophilia. What that's a spider? I say so. Torotophilia is a sexual fetish that involves being attracted to people with physical deformities.
There are many subsets of torontophilia, specifically to different types of human deformities. For instance, acrotomophilia involves sexual attraction to amputees. As stigmatophilia refers to deriving sexual pleasure from people whose bodies are marked or scarred in in some way, like little Wayne. So I was gonna say, fella, you got a scar on his face and it's kind of cute. Uh oh yeah, right here do men just like rub on your scar from time man, Grandmama's motherfucking aunties nieces everybody.
Hell really, and I'll make up a new lie every time when I think of a story that I got a really bad car accident and that's not sexy, Like when my nigga was like yo, like these niggas came up behind me and jail. Not everyone has a scar from a car accident. It's really light now, but I feel like you don't want me to touch you, like then don't touch Oh, I've been skipping around it when
I touch your face. When I thought of physical deformities, I thought of maybe things that look like abnormal, like the American horror story freak Show. No not, no, I wouldn't know. I went a little bit more vanilla than that. Like I really like ears that are like really big in this stick like I like I like ears that look like, oh, your ears are like they grab attention.
I liked here, maybe like dumb bolt type ears, like I really like ears or ones that are either really small or really big or I do okay, you know what I like, you know what I like so weird how you got to it? So you know how something like something I don't. We'll fun, you know how like some Dominican they just have like the real big nail bid. You know what I'm talking about? You like, do you know what I'm talking about? Okay, you know what I'm
talking about. Do you know what I'm talking about? They know? The people know what I'm talking about. What I met somebody I met somebody specific that had no this is a thing on God. Watch watch the emails you get. Watch the emails you get, and they's some people have an exaggerated nail bid like hands, so you know, okay, so okay, and then the other one. And I brought this up on the podcast before. I really like protruding Adam's apples. Oh yeah, but that ship is that that's
a physical deforming. You're not all men. It's something. It's really big. I don't be licking. I just like to never have you tap it. Yeah, like I just like to like my hand. Well I kind of like the finger it, but I'm not. I just like to go over. I hate you so much. Do you like any physical deformities of people? I'm trying to think. But the only thing I know that's kind of weird. They're like his ankles. I like ankles too, but that's not a deformity. You
just like ankles. Actually, when XT was when I was like when niggas wear them joggers, and I could see their ankles like a deformity. Bro, though it's just weird and big nails ankles, that's a deformity. I'm informity, bro. But I'll take a ank You said you'll take an ankle, want a cank? I don't want to cank because I like to see the little what's this part called ankle? You like to see the ankle? The that's the ankle. Okay,
there's an ankle, bolly okay. The more you know, right, we need learning some real elementary as this show looks like a science anatomy, which it doesn't matter. Shut up, my god. So you don't like any deformities, we're gonna get into our horrible s. I met a deaf nigga on the train that was so this ain't a deformance. That's a real thing as well, but I forgot the name of it. But there's a there's a thing to that I was literally First of all, I was on
a New Jersey transit, which let's start there. But but when I was and he was deaf, but he was so cute and we just had a connection. You like, no, I just kept it moving, You didn't. How do you know he was that hand motion him. He wasn't he wasn't talking that he was signing you know what I'm saying, yeah, yeah, but to you, I mean yeah, I knew how to weigh yeah. And then plus I knew how you know,
like like my my facial expressions and ship. You know, I knew how to communicate to the nigga without talking to would nigga? Yes you would, well, I bet you, he relied. I would really actually prefer to fuck you got to go with his hands. Remember when some more said if Stevie Wonder was her man, he would have one outfit and all the clothes in the clothes that would be her. She'd be like, look at all this all this ship is yours. You'd be so shocked. This
ship is Remember that what we really be saying. Okay, why like the rest thing, Ray Charles, that ship was hard. Remember he was touching her wrist. Is ship to know if they was pretty. And then on top of that, I feel like the senses are heighting more with like a blind man than the death that you think he would come hard to see. You think they come harder. You say, real nasty ship to a blind nigga. Yeah, you gotta because he got to be able to imagine it, right. Yeah,
So what do you say? How do you say? You know what I'm saying? I mean, he's still donna like you sucking his dig where he can see you or not. You know what I'm saying, he can feel that you talk. What are you saying? If you fucking a blind man? What are the things you're gonna go out of your way to say? What? Area so big? We should see the way my mother fucking ass shake. When you're saying, not slap it, you feel a vibration? Bang, you should
see a shade? Oh god damn. So I think that's gonna make it feel bad when you say you should see it you can okay, well okay, so how would you It would be more about like my clothes, like you know, I don't know what the dress looks like. Oh you mean the material like it's smooth? Would touch me right here it's black. It's black, but everything is black. That's what I'm saying. You just gotta fun, which I feel like, Okay, okay, you shouldn't talk. You got a
little birthmark on this dick right here. What you do and I'm liking it? Okay, that's cute, that's okay. So what was so different? You know? That's what you got to say? You were so different? I would never do my hair if I had a black again, he can feel. He'd be like, bitch, you ain't been a nough. I know I can count. You didn't put the money. I could also smell how long you have to break? Feel? So? And you know they said to this heightened bit, so
you definitely can't. I'm saying, hey, I'm a sucking date, so I abody to get the front box praise read tonight. And I'm thinking of what, like, yo, if I had a blind niket, this would be so easy. So what would you different? What would you do different with the nigga was deaf? Because then you really ain't got a mown. Yes you do, because they can feel that vibration. That's why they go to concerts and dance all that. You gotta bann extra low. No, you just gotta smack into it.
You gotta really give, like a good one, like okay, now I really think about it, right when you moan your mouthing like but like you probably have to let like so the whole time, does he have to hold my throat so he could feel it? To me? It would be so much more beautiful because I could just touch you and that's how I could let you know, like I don't know, it just would be high. But like how deaf do you mean like you can't hear
a bit? Not like motherfucking I literally was about to say, like no, like everything is just off like okay, like sounded off, it's on completely mute. Okay, I'm with it. You gotta do more faces in because see my orgasm face is really ugly. So I just like to get a nigger right here so I could just moan in their ear and then that's not gonna so I just gotta find a fact right here, gonna be like okay, like you had the one sense I do got you take it over here, Yeah, yeah, yeah, we we got
I'm so sorry I was because we got it. We got it. We're gonna get get through this horrible decision, and I like this. So for this week, we are going to define dating terms. And I think that we all have a different sense of what dating means, how we define the head. But I know it's stressful and we need to get through this because I think everyone I listened to the show I want to learn. So we're gonna start with something easy. Talking what doesn't mean
to talk to someone? Sit here and tell somebody, Yeah, me and her talking what doesn't mean? Because I have an idea of what it means. Talking means that number, but it never went anywhere. No, that means we had each other number. No, it don't. Talking means. All talking means is that you and another person have established that y'all are both attracted to and interested in each other, and you're in communication. That's what you mean to be
talking to somebody. Y'all both know, y'all like each other. So here's my thing. Let's let's put us let as you can fun and then start talking. We're talking no words. So here's here's where I find this dilemma. And maybe it's a Florida thing because talking to me yes means because here is the scenario, you me, you and your friend are chilling with each other or whatever, and you go to show them a picture of the person that you're currently talking to and your friend says, oh, we
used to talk. That means that if you hear that from even one of your home girls, that's on someone A girl say oh yeah, man, he used to talk. That to me still gives me the inkland that at some point or another, y'all may have had sat absolutely as when I've heard it that way. But when I say I'm talking to someone, but when you hear someone else say that was me, yes, So when I'm fucking someone and I don't have a definition behind it and maybe not be dating to be like, oh, yeah, we
used to chill. We used to chill. Yeah, chill definitely means I used to fuck. Yeah, it was a sex thing. But is that not a damn shame? When I put that scenario, y'all all went from oh, yeah, talking could mean I want to be clear, it doesn't mean that talking. Don't mean that y'all are fucking. That means that you're in a situation where for you to have fun. What is chilling me? Chilling Chilling means you Because Netflix and
chill is the whole thing. Now we know fucking is included with Netflix and part of the nine that I'm now the as moved it up the twelve and I'm still are gonna pay it. No, I'm starting to kick people off. I'm like, y'all pay your own twelve, nine and nine. I'm kicking everybody off, especially because they don't got no part where, like if they start watching the same show I watched. These motherfuckers don't even make their
own profile. So now you're talking up where I was when I was watching this, like I was on episode two, not seven, Like now I gotta go back. It's it sucks me up. So I like this to lead into the next. Okay, dating, what is a date to you? And what makes it a date? We talked about this recently, plan where you didn't know if it was a date or not with the person you were going out with. So what makes something a date when you could say, oh, we're going on a date, or what makes it too
when you are dating somebody? What does the word date mean? So I didn't know it was a date because there was no like I would like to take you to blah blah blah. Didn't I feel like that kind of plan. He was like, Yo, you midtown, I work midtown. Let's let's say let's eat at twelve. Like okay, So that was too casual to me. A date to me is when someone makes a plan with me, not same day. That's a seraily. When they say they use words like I want to take you out, I want to take
you to blah blah blah. You agree with that? I mean, I guess you don't even to box me in no corner. Speaking for the Nigga delegation, you know what I'm saying. First of all, the date is the most literal sense of that word. We're spending some time together exclusively doing an activity. That's a date. It's funny that she said exclusively because I literally when I don't want a guy
to think it's a date, that's when I'll invite a friend. Yes, because if a guy invites you out and he wants it to be on some exclusive solo the easiest way to make it not a date is to invite a friend, or to make it even if she's the third will like, because you can't go on a double date. That's different. As soon as I invite a home girl, it's no longer a date. So that's a day I want to take you to catch and be like, okay, I'm bringing Susie.
If it's a nigga that I don't want interested in me or feel like, I'll be like, oh, well, I'm with my homegirl. Do you mind if she joins? Like as soon as I don't want you to think we're on an intimate setting. That's why all of my business stuff, I bring friends along, or I'll have friends pull up, or I ask them if they have anyone else they can bring your business stuff. No, like things where I feel like people might not really have been misunderstood misunderstanding.
So even if we're linking on that sense, like I want to know the other people involved, are you bring other people because I don't want anyone to ever think, you know, what makes sense a business meaning bring like oh I bring I bring paper laps and like a notebook and let them know like I'm ready to talk. Yeah. Yeah, So to me, that's like my my way of making a nigg and not confused what we're doing. If you're dating, that means that we ain't working with nobody else. We're
dating each other like we are dating. That doesn't mean that for me A thousand people, well I can't. I mean I'm there. We all with like okay, right old Bay season and like are's probably sucking other people other people, But I'm definitely dating him right now, Like we're have a date with him tonight, like we make plans to see each other. We're in because in time, I'm dating Muslim Bay but we didn't even have sex yet that
I wouldn't say I'm dating now. There's a difference to me and saying I'm dating this person and saying we date to me like like to me, like, if I'm dating you, that means that, like we're kicking it, Like it's me and you and we're dating and we're about to be in a relationship now. But if if we date, that means you know, like you live in l A. I live in New York. When we be together, we be together when we now we now we still flirt over from something we date. You know, here's the next
here's the next dating term. Curve. What does it mean to curve someone? And it's curving and ghosting the same thing? No, okay, so what does curve mean? You actually responded in a way that was less than favorable. Ghosting means you don't
even respond, you just I agree with that. Ghosting to me is actually when something has happened and like whether it be a date, whether it be sex or whatever, and you've completely like went away, because I don't think you can go someone that you were just talking to, like I think you like it really has to be weld in some sort of way and we no longer involved ghost you my friend. Y'all know who it is, but I don't want to say her name. He told me he fucked someone else raw that's why he ghosted.
That's what she just said. That's that's the thing. I don't know. I don't know if now there was a dude that I knew. They hadn't hit her up for a few days, and she was like, what then just goes? So I wanted to know what what time is ghosting? And so what happened next? What did she say? No, so you you knew him, and she had to out I was doing. So they were talking. So they were talking, she met this dude, they started sucking right Basically, she told him that she kissed him to do in the
club and she wanted to be open with him about it. Now. What happened was after she told him that he ghosted, she did and hear from him. He wasn't texting her every day. He just totally disappeared on her after they were making plans to see each other, texting and talking all the time. Right, she told him she kiss another nigga she expect and was about not everyone is okay with the truth. You mean you think you can call me and tell me, Oh, I kiss another niggat, But
I just want to be open with you. But okay, thanks for telling me so now I can't be like some people aren't okay with that. But something, which is why, why the hell did she feel obligated to tell him? Yeah, she said they did them molly together. It might have came out. Maybe she needs to learn how to tighten her ship up and be honest. Or maybe he goes because she don't like he don't like girls that do drugs like he did it with her. Oh he did
it with her. Still he still might not like girls like literally, you know how many niggas like I'm either like hooked up with girls as I say I do, and I'll be like Dann don't to her no more, and that's like one of the main things they go to Liken. Man, she got on some ship and started acting crazy. I don't do that drug ship like niggas, especially niggas who were just weed smokers. Well, I wouldn't do drugs that do drugs that judge this phone call
I had literally two weeks ago. White girl used to work with. She calls me. We're talking catching up thirty minutes in and she's like telling me about the story. She's like, yeah, we at the cloud like doing blow all night and blah blah blah. So then she's like, he's like so much fun, but like he does so much coqueasy. And I was like, did they did it with them? She was like yeah, but like I can stop a white woman, go ahead if you take them. Did she just asked to speak to the manager and
this is the same ship. Is like, I'm not that much of a hope because I've only done this all the time. Hierarchy of drugism Um. The next one, which actually, of course I co care. The next one I think actually came from Facebook. I would say, what does it's complicated me from Facebook to the real world. What does this word mean in terms of relationships. You don't use it. It's complicated aint. Nobody trying to identify the gray area.
That's why it's called the gray area. But you just want to know you've got something going on equal to the situation ship. It to me, I don't know what it's complicated as a situation ship. I've met married people that have told me it's complicated that you could be separated. It just means you're could be single and then it's complicated your right or it could be towards the end, it could be it might not be working. You never know. It could just be complicated what I'm saying. I think
that's interesting. I think that so many people use it. Though I do believe it's complicated means that you don't have a definition for what you're currently in. But you just said married people being a it's complicated. They're still married, but maybe they're separated divorce, you may not be living together. Um. I have used the term it's complicated in two times that I can remember. When I knew I was kind of about to break up with someone, like it was
right towards the end. We are now complicated. No, no, no, it's complicated. Okay, okay, that's complicated and then complicated. I also have described when like I've had a situation ship that maybe we weren't sucking other people, but we had to tell each other about something dumb. Ship see like to me because even even though I have someone that I fun on the regular, I wouldn't consider that it's complicated.
But I also still do feel kind of the need to let them know that he's there, which is like sexual life, that's semantic dating life. These are dating terms you're trying to figure out. That's why you wouldn't use it's complicated. You wouldn't use a sexual partner to define a relationship. But I feel like a lot of people do like bring up like their sex, Like if they have someone that they're sucking, the sex that you'll be talking about you have, Ain't that Why are they asking
in the first place? They want to know if someone else Yeah, and to me, I don't think he's in the picture. So when they know if you fucking somebody else, that's why. But that's where the question comes in dating. They want to know are you. They don't give a funk if you're going to eat motherfucker apple beets two taking you to catch they want to know. They don't want to catch nothing. That's all they want to know.
Are you Is there somebody you fucking? When? When when someone asked, are you talking as someone else in the picture? To me, it's not are you texting someone else? No, it's do you have someone you're sucking right now? When I say are you seeing somebody else? I mean, like are you saying? I think we need to be more just like actual with our words. When you have a girlfriend and girlfriend, I mean, does she call you her boyfriend? Do you have a bitch that you raw? Do you
have a bit? That's what I'm saying. Are very different questions. Do you have a bitch that you and do you have a girlfriend? Or two? Differently different? I know, And that's what I'm saying. Like that, that's I'm saying, maybe we need to be more upfront like that when we're having these conversations and we ain't telling you no, Dad, So you might want to get creative with the way you're asking us so that we can I guess have less. I don't know. A girl starts right, let's just say
it happens. They just stopped sucking with condoms, it just happens. It happens often. Right, How does she then in turn say are you sucking anyone else raw? After she's already been working with this just like that, it's because she's sucking them wrong. Now, you were just saying, you feel like I'm part of the delication. You can't ask that way, absolutely,
I'm just answering your question. You don't agree with the way that you could, Sam, I asking to get that, Yeah, and it would be by straight shoot him a fair one, like look, I know we just did or whatever. I respect my sexual health and so I'm asking you, like, respectfully, is there anything I need to know so that maybe I can make a different choice or we're gonna go
back to using condoms now? If you are having sex with someone else raw, I want the I want to make the choice whether I continued sucking you roll or if we now have to bring back condoms. And so I have had to say once with the dude, I was sucking raw And I only said this because I was fearful that he would lie to me. So I asked him if he was sucking someone else wrong, and he said no, And I was like, look, I'm not
gonna stop sucking you. I just want us to use condoms and I need you to understand, like my pussy is really important to me. Bro. I'm not gonna ask you nothing about this, bitch. Just tell me if you sucked another bitch raw. Since you sucked me raw, that's all that I care about, because if you did, we are about to have an argument. We just we're still sucking it. I know it's crazy. I wouldn't believe that,
but she just did this. It's like her text messages when she write me that should be a whole paragraph to say one thing, and that's what you just did. Let me let me tell you, let me tell you something, let me let me, let me tell you something. Let me tell you something for the story. Let me tell you something about having a game though, let me tell you about something about having game. Though you're telling me all that and wrapping it in all that package in
that bowl, that's cool. I don't give a funk about none of that, because at the end of the day, are you are you asking me? It's some ship that you can react off of afterwards. I know what you want to know. I also know because I know what you really want to know. No, you don't because you didn't have to suck me in the first place. You're asking me on the back end of some risky ship we already then did. So don't be trying to come
to me. Don't come to me on principle now that expect me, don't know, don't expect I shouldn't say, don't come to me on principle, but don't expect me to have an automatic you know, in a respect for the way you're stepping to me now about how much how worthwhile yo good pussy was because I just had it wrong. I'm a partner that shares results and expects them back when wrong. But I ain't going to be fair. You
need to share that up front before you period. But even I've been already there at the point in the conversation, but I had him. We're not we're talking about this pathetical situation. It's been so long, which was why I felt like I had a I mean, I ain't gonna hold you. I suck this one like and you know him from back in Orlando, but we used to fuk very intimately. I was like, very like he's one of the only special but in like within us fucking He
came at me. Do you know this nigga didn't ask if I was on birth control until after he came in me. And that's when you think that's kind of wasn't worried about it. He didn't have a reason, literally as if you have a dog. That question came kind of late, like but come kind of late. Okay, we're good, funny sometimes so Beard day and I will do cream possh it because they tracked my opulation, I mean saying ship.
So anyway, I remember we were sucking one time and like he knows the calendar because I'll send it to him, and like he knows when I'm opulating. Oh yeah, I respect that time with my pussy, right organized puss, but the best pussy you're like super like when you're obulating because it's all white and like creamy and like it's sucking hot and it's super well. But that he can't get in there in that tight So I remember he was saying to me always sucking me, like damn your pussy,
what is fun? And then he was like you know right, and I'm like uh, and I don't want to ruin it. And I was like, just come in my mouth. I really want to taste it. Oh my god, I don't do the apps and ship. You already know. We talked about that. Honestly, I haven't gotten pregnant yet. Knock on wood, but you knock, but it's not just that right there
in between them there, Yeah, there you go. You just knocked on everything that wasn't would before get into the wood like long as she made it there would I don't know. What's the one who said he picks and rules and ship. Of course we're gonna we're gonna talk about this last topic because as we're talking about terms and dating. Yeah, I'm good, I'm good. Yeah, no, no no, no, I am She get on at three fifteen, I got Um, we'll talk about this last one. Um. And this goes
back to kind of talking dating and defining things. How long do you talk to someone before you ask if there's something more or what the title is? Well? Who asked what the title is? Everybody? You just wake up one day and be like, damn, I guess we're together. And that's how I go down. Yeah, that's happened to me. That's that word. It's like literally wake up and be like, bitch, we live together. Like, what that's not okay, not like god, that's a little extreme, but like when you've been hiking
for sime so long. I had a person asked to be my boyfriend a long time, but I think you got the note they said circle one yes or no. But but not the case. But it happens when you meet friends and meet family, like this girl where a girl says someone his boyfriend, but to everyone else that's not his girlfriend. They lying on, they dick and pussy all the time. But there's a I think what you're
saying is a very accurate gauge. A lot of times when you're introduced to people, that's the way of having that awkward conversation without having it. So like they'll meet your family and you'll be like, so this is my friend. This is my girlfriend, man, and you look at you in the eyes while you say like, this is my girlfriend. Man,
that's what you're gonna do. You ain't gonna do that, And I'm gonna say, friends gonna roll whatever a family And sometimes yes, the introduction that I've had, we weren't. But if you win it, if you win it and you are in that same page and they do that, that's what I'm saying to like the conversation of even talking because I have been introduced in a way where
I'm just like, am I really? And I wasn't there with that person, So then it becomes an awkward conversation like, Oh, this is how you're viewing me, this is why you're bringing me around. But that's not what we're talking about. We're talking about with somebody who you are already dating into, gonna put me in a relationship one who you're already into. Yeah, so I'm gonna say this one thing about meeting family too.
This is not just meeting family. This is like, Yo, this Sunday, my mom is going to have dinner and I want you to come and meet Like at that point in the relationship, theely what I'm saying, I mean, I guess that has a dude then with planning to meet family, because I'm saying I've been brought around family before,
but now we're talking about it. If it was your boyfriend that you had been with for three years, say, I go to say, this is where also why y'all are saying the planned thing, because there's the delusion with dating that if a guy brings you around family or friends. That now it means more when technically just because you brought around friends and family isn't necessarily tell I bring
people out casually. That I would bring a personize casusy day into a family function that I knew it was fun, and the whole conversation, Mom, it's like, we're funking it. Now you're bringing me around family. I haven't Wrott Castle partners around my mom, but they were at least some SEMII came a funk about him. Maybe there was potential later They weren't nothing to me. But I brought Felling Bear around my mom and it was like it wasn't he was, but my mom was still there. So I
brought him around my mom and my sister. That's a circuit like and in no way could he be like damn, yo, but I met your mom sister. Dates don't count. Like if I had somebody just you know, roll through that night or whatever. My sister is see him and Shi in the morning all that ship. I had a conversation about your lover. No, she was just like that was I feel like that was her way of like checking on make sure I was all right. What I'm saying she would be friendly to my dates. So okay, I
can dig that. Like. So it is well, y'all know, I know y'all want like to our episodes, but we ain't that podcast. So um no bit, So we're gonna go ahead. We're we're we are going to give you the homemail. Dustin has to get up out of here and myself I gotta rush up to Harlem. So before we leave, can you let our listeners know where they can find you if you got something coming up, and where they can find your social You can find me at Bank of America, Wells Fargo, Chase Bank, UM cash
app now I'm just playing. You can find me on all social media platforms that look at Dustin look at them to y'all. I appreciate all the love this week. I'm one. I'm doing horrible decisions, which I love. UM. Shout out to Star Brim. I was on the first episode of her podcast That's My Home Girl keeping it um and yeah, you can catch me that all things look at Dustin. That's you can keep up with what's going on ship um. And I do want to thank you as well because you brought me on to your
live show. So with the friend Zone. That was super fun. I got to come on there and I played our game. I know what you said kind of early. I don't know if you had. I know you came to our show. Have you ever seen our game? Oh no, he came late because he went to Caroline's first and said, of guy, he didn't. Honestly, I didn't know. Assante hit me up the week before and he's like, you're out of town. I'm like, nigga, if you would have told me at a time, y'all know, first of all, I didn't know
what I was doing. So he's like, just come on. I said, okay, let me let me ship I had. I said, what are we doing? He was like, I don't know. Y'all figured it out. He said, we're handing out sex toys. I'm about to go up there. Who want to deal Dove? Who want to clip Rubber? Who shout out? Tahoe was so shameless. We'll be there this well, last one of these fridays. Posting this episode, I'm probably
already in Vegas sucking dick. I hope I'm in Costa Blanca, smoking in a sick right at the top of the rocking, fucking Pyradid while they're like, bitch, you know you can't have your arms out right, Um boy, y'all that definitely make sure y'all check out Destin And we're gonna go ahead and take a break before you guys listen to this week's homemail back. Yeah, we're gonna go ahead and get into our homemail. If you guys want to send homemail to us, please go ahead and send it to
Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com. You guys are sending us a ton of homemail to our d M, and we all know what to do with that ship. No, there's just a lot you need to email it to us because we we found an organized way of starring it and all this other stuff. So I actually picked this one because I want to talk to you because we just had a recent conversation about this, I think with Bridget Kelly. Um, so this one is titled just because I get paid? Am I a sex worker? Yes?
Hold on, So I met a guy on fet life one thing to another and I was invited to my very first gang bang. Now I'm going to my third gang bang as a co host and getting paid for it. Does this big host as a co host. Yeah, maybe like hosting the party. Maybe maybe hosting the party? Does this make me a sex worker? Okay, maybe not if I do it just once. But if this becomes a regular thing, maybe even to the point where I decided to host my own, then am I answering sex worker territory?
Technically I'm being paid for my time, not for sex. I don't even have to have sex if I don't want to. She also provided an update. So I must really be good at this gang bang thing because the guy I've done parties with, the host that asked me to co host, has now offered me a trip to Chicago, paid flight, paid for my work days I'll be missing. And I know he's hosted these parties for ten years now, but holy shit, my fete dude says to go for it.
So now I'm really thinking I'm a paid home I brought this up because in the episode, I've recently been talking about maybe figuring out where I want to store my feet, um either patron, which he was like, no, you should be the only fans. Then I'm thinking of coming up with like an Instagram page where they have to pay to become like to follow me. But I really am trying to sell these feet because I'm really making a lot of money on these feet that I'm not even trying to sell. So I really want to,
I really how much I can. Only fans is a good way because one Instagram, you're doing that Instagram thing that can't shut down easily, especially for like making money and like during that exchange. Okay, only fans, in my opinion, is a better marketplace, like especially like a lot of like girls that make videos like be Nasty is one of my favorites. But I feel like you found it through me. But I'm gonna lit rock because she's been my girlfriend for a long time, my girlfriend in my head.
Maybe she just followed even she does the car videos that bit. Okay, Yeah, so anyway, Um, you know, she was his only fans and I heard she used to be in the military, which I found supera she's she actually gave her a whole story about how she started doing those other women and she's great for that. Like not every girl is like this, by the way, not every podcast will shout out other podcasts people don't like
given up people. Ops, you know what I'm saying. But um, she does with only fans though a lot of people share each other in that way, and you'll just make more money that way. Like it's Patreon is lesser known as a sex community as only Fans is, and like, I just feel like it would make more sense if you really trying to make money. But I understand the stigma around only Fans, which I also think is silly for you and this girl, because I know's just horror phobia.
I know, here you go, bitch, it's not horror phobia, but I know, but um no, I think it's more so even even with this podcast, we said when it comes to dating, um, when they find out or even see the cover art and the content that we discuss, it does become harder to communicate or have someone see
us in a different light. And so I will say in in in the state where I am looking for a partner, it's just like, okay, it's knowing that a lot of how a lot of men view only Fans and only is viewed as sex work and I don't want to be so if you do that your feet, you feel like it wouldn't be this because it's content creating, and I'm a content creator. I want to ask thinking about your feet So if money is the goal from it, why don't you just not make Do you want to
sell your feet off of Mandy Be's name? I mean no, I will because I feel like I'll make more money attaching it to myself, especially people who listen to the show. So like, yeah, absolutely, Like I'm even thinking of putting getting a tattoo on my foot just so that when they see the foot they know it's mine. But I heard it hurts like you got a lot of bones in your foot? Is wrong with you? Why are you judging me right now? Judge? No, no, Judge talked about tones.
She's like, she was just like, are you fucking getting it out? This was the judgment came from your own foot in the street. Mandy what then, I don't know. I'm thinking the sun cute. I'm like, you just edit it with like you know what I'm saying. Maybe maybe put a little microphone or something on it on your ankle. No, it doesn't go all the way down to my ankle. I have a tap on my calf out on my foot. I thought I could see it when looking at your funeral.
So yes, bitch, I'm thinking of branding my feet a little bit but where would you put it on your foot? Like on the side of it, like like right here, what does this say? You don't do that? You see? You see what I'm talking about. You see how she'd be trying to be funny with these little jokes. It's gonna be a cute tattoo. Ho you a little puss out anyway? Really high? Right now, I'm so really thinking of like what, let's come up with tattoo idea for my foot? I'm sorry to whoever? What do you think?
What I mean a couple like you know, like I really be liking music, so maybe some music notes or something like that. Um, I was thinking of us a saying or like a saying saying a saying like a quote. I don't know which quote yet. I ain't thought that far time. I don't know I was. I don't know. I want something. I want something nice, Like I am getting a tattoo right here. Actually it's a tattoo that
me and my friend were supposed to get over the summertime. Um, but I'm getting to State of Florida with a heart over Orlando, so I'm gonna get a little flow to tap. Bitch, why don't you get something that's like kind of cheesy but cute. No, because, for example, there's nothing cheesy about the girl. A girl in my improv class has a left wrist like it says left on her wrist, um, and it says right on her right wrist. You could do.
That's not cool. I kind of like that. That's almost as corny as like these fucking Balenciaga shoes that have the size of the shoe on the outside, Like I hate that ship. I don't need to know that you're a thirty eight. We don't even use those numbers. I think I left the other West size it. Get it in another language, like left in like Japanese, and like right, and like yeah, no, no, bitch, this is a this is a hard note for me. Um. The reason is
totally a good idea. The reason, Um, you just said you want to get a tattoo with a heart over at Landa the state of Florida, tat on you, And I can't get to stay to Florida tatted on me? Are you really coming for me? About to stay to Florida? All I'm telling you it's a look like a gun. That's kind of hard, bitch, I got a gun on me already right on my left. I'm alright here. You
are nuts? Why my nuts? I just want to say, this is coming from someone who used to shade me for my big gass tattoos because she had these little hearts. You have fucking corny ass tats. I do you a little heart? And now she comes five years later with a whole goudda have half sleeve so which I'm not listening to you when it comes to tattoo because you change your mind. Okay, you have a gun shooting hearts out. I do because this is now, I have a corny tattoo.
You have revolvers? Are your forearm? What's the pro So we really about to regrets? What's wrong? What's wrong with? Have no no regrets? Something? Bitch you? What's the whole? No? And it's weird. It's regret nothing not no regrets? Thank you? Do you regret that? How to I do? I'm covered up, but like I don't want to get it covered up because like I be hide it. But now that I a bitch right here, I'm a forearm bitch. So now
I'm gonna get it covered up. I think I'm gonna do like a whole elephant, like because I'm gonna keep my little Asian vibes going. Um but yeah, I'm gonna yea um. But any who, It's funny because when I read this, the first thing that came to mind was not only the fact that she is seeing some sort of stigma around sex work, but that, um, I'm just making a note about I've had fuck you, I've had stigma around the fact that my kinks. I have friends
that feel like I should charge for them. So it's weird that she seems to really be enjoying these gang bangs. She met a guy on fat Life, which means she was interested in the gang banging prior to even receiving money for it, and now that she's getting money for it, she's like, oh, damn, am I a sex worker? So
this comes up a lot. When I talked to my friends about like the things I like to do, of course, including pegging, They're like, damn, you'd be pegging these niggas for free, And that comes to me like where I come to them immediately like why that? Okay, I feel like I didn't get it, but it's gonna because that's unusual to them. For example, like if we could take it to like something basic to me, which is like
eating ass. Right, you eat Nigga's asses for free, Like, I guess I'm sucking for free too, You're right, right, But it's crazy, like the shame that comes around sucking for free and then sucking for money, and I feel like that's what she's bringing up, Like damn, now I'm paid, So I guess that does make me a sex worker, But like why do you care? Why are we not all sex workers if we have sex? Because that's a workout, bitch,
I'd be hurting. We all be working out. I have to X or working out during this is there's so much shame around women and like sex and like having too much of it, being good at it, not being good at it, being paid for it, not being paid for it, and pegging like like pegging. Period. It's just looking as period. I honestly, yes, what you're doing is considered sex work. Hoasting sex parties is considered is considered
sex work. Apparently, even we talked about it before, we're considered sex workers because we have a podcast about sex, So I mean I would think so. But then I think we had on a guest that said something like we're not we're adjacent, Like it doesn't sex work adjacent because working making the way we make money is off advertisement.
We don't make money off of someone's like pleasure technically, why so, like until you guys jerk off to this, which, to be honest, weight they jerked off to us, Like I've had messages say that people jerk off to us when we talk, so we get real educational. They'd be like, damn, I couldn't jeck off to this one. Anyways, Guys, if y'all have more homemale gone hay this and for listening to the show today. If you want more holy ship,
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as fuck. Like it's just barely let white people even in the house, no matter if they like did the cable. Now She's like, I don't trust them, So I feel like I just can't give somebody white the ashes to do. So if you live anywhere and you can do those tattoos, hit me up Patreon enjoy this clip. I don't know what it's going to be about. And this has been
yet another episode of Horror Decisions. By that episode, she talks about being taken out to Olive Garden on a date and then going to Michael's and fucking the cashier. That was some wild ship. I really like Kristin. So I met her through James because she wants to funck James's sister. They're best friends and she's been trying for
like years, but now she has a girlfriend. But every time I meet Kristen, she'd just be talking about wild ash Ship and I'd be like, Yo, this bitch is crazy, And I knew she was gonna say some crazy shit. And she told us a story about the employees she fucked in Michael's Kraft and she got their discounts. So I want to know Nandy first, if you had to make a porn in any store, what store would it be? Set? The scene would be in it, who would start in it?
It could be anybody? I mean, does that have to be a point star? Could be anybody? I was thinking about that two point star celebrity. Anybody? Okay. So if I had to have a porno in any store or restaurant, okay, West, we can't do restaurant if you're thinking of that, Okay, Boom. Set the scene right, So I'm gonna do it because that's where these thinks be. Anyway, we at Felipe Chow right,
Oh my god, they do. So Felipe Chow has a special place, like you have to walk through the kitchen and walk downstairs, so you get to see away from you get to sit away from everybody. So there was like this whole downstairs secluded dining room. It's like super cool. You have to walk through there. Yes, yes, so we would be in this private room. Mind you. They let you put the ox. Course, you get to pick whatever
music you want. So ideally I'm thinking of a three Sime scenario, right, So I'm thinking of of course with Khalifa, because I want to fund that nigga. And then I'm thinking maybe a more sensual guy two man of course, So boors coojo he and they're doing business by himself. So meal whizz we you know, eating all motherfucking chickens to tea or whatever. And then you know, I just he catches me. He catches me looking at at Boars coujo.
And then so I started rubbing with his dick underneath the table, and that ship is growing, and Boards looks over and see that I'm rubbing this nigga dick and the next thing, you know, I don't know how we're gonna get there, but bitch, I'm bent over wanted feeding me chicken to tea while the other is giving me back shots and are you eating? And yes, bit secure when she does getting so then I'm also thinking they we're done with the chicken, but they're still leftover peanuts sauce.
So he pours it on my titties and started licking my titties with the peanut sauce on that ship and now it's like a whole thing. This is some real fat bit ship. I just like that peanut sauce but as good as fun like I don't know if that is a slurb. Is it everybody like store and you go, can it be a restaurant? But yeah, I want boards coojo and with Khalifa in a threesome at Philippe Chow where we licking peanut sauce off each other. I'll lick
it off they dick too. I've been trying to think of a store, and all I could think of is there's a story in my neighborhood called Bond Bond. It's a candy shop, too small, but maybe like a Dylan's candy bar, and I would work at the candy shop and it would be okay. So I live in l s right so when I'm coming home, there's a court
where everyone plays soccer. So I'm thinking that the soccer guys would come in for the happy hour that Bond Bond has, which is a happy hour for ice cream, and then you know, I would like survey and they would be like, Yo, how does it taste? And maybe like this flavor is really good, and they would like eat it off of me, and then like the entire
team would like sucked me. And then my manager would come out and catch me sucking all these soccer player guys, and then she would be like, Yo, what the funk are you doing without me? Exactly? Okay, you got to add her in there because you can't get fired because basically you're like, don't fire me, I'll eat your pussy. But I want to be like totally dominated, even by the woman, so I would want her to like force me to like suck dick. I think this goes back
to the right fantasies, but we're not. No, it's not a rapist's not consensual consensual fantasy of her being like, bitch, suck this dick and eat my pussy. I'm already chosen them and I got caught, so I wanted to stop because I was embarrassed. No, she's like, now you're gonna finish. It's not as I'm sorry, You're right, you're right, you're right, right,
you're right. Mainly I wanted to result in so when I watched Bukocky, because my faith, they're always like sometimes there's a woman holding another woman's face open, Like that's what I'm thinking about, Okay, I actually like that. When I had my threesome, my homegirl held my cheeks open for anal sex. I'm gonna send this to Erica. It was really nice. I'm gonna send the story. Yeah, send her what like our fucking fantasy. I'm gonna make this.
I want this clip to be the one that's at the end of the episode, and I'm gonna send her that and tell her to reference that clip and then be like, hey, those are ours. Because Ericalluster's platform is like stories and she makes the love that well, let me tell you, we're going to Felippe Chow and all started