Ep126: ATM Meetups Feat. Mcfly

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That's this Thursday, August eight at the Well. Come ready to drink and ready to mingo. Now let's get on with the show. Wake up bits well Ship. They probably already a woke They at work home, I know, but like you know, damn and I don't even gonna hold you, bitch. I'll be waking up early, even though I gotta go to work. Everybody has a job to listen to the show.

They do have jobs, broke. We have jobs, but they're not all heard working listeners like the holes listen to and they work hard, but they listening to us on their way back from way. I guess that's the job. It is a job, and we got a whole job working right here today, So I'm exacted. Whole job, the whole job worker. Hey guys, it's Monday. Welcome to yet another episode of Horrible Decisions. I'm your girl, may dB Hi, I'm wheezy, Welcome to the show. I'm excited really quick.

I want to say to all of the Latino listeners, I want you guys to band together because, as some of you know, I don't really get party about fourteen Street, but somebody took me to two hunety seven. That's above me. So what happens when I go uptown? Like a lot of our listeners listen up to look like our uptown. So I'll go somewhere and they'd be like hot in there, you know what I'm saying, I'd be like, oh shit,

like mad listeners for the show. Nobody, nobody even spoke to me in English, and then when I told them that I don't speak us, bunny, They're like why you never learned, like why are your mom made teachers? It's and then I'd be like, okay, bitch, that's it. You just gotta do to welcoming. It was like I was

deep the goddamn in there. And then what I realized is like, these bitches are hoes, like amazingly hose, and I just feel like, why can't we blend them in together as people of color with our black girl listeners in the seventeen white listeners? Whatever you guys, I don't know if you dropped down because we'll be talking shit, but I just want all of any of our Latino listeners spread this ship to other Latina friends. I'm telling you, these holes were lit well. I want to go ahead

and extend that to our Afro latina's. Yeah because yeah, because we got an email from a Puerto Rican who apparently is one of the white Latinas and felt that we exclude her from the conversation. I'm gonna be real with you. I don't like that sometimes, and I think I've even made this mistake and I've had to learn I used to when I was in high school. Can tell me if y'all feel this way or even colleg or whatever, and like Latino will say, nigga could be

cool with it. But the more I get to know Latino like because I'd be like, oh, the niggas too, but they're not, not all of but I would be around a lot of Dominicans, so they are black to me. A lot of them are more so Cubans are. So however, that's the thing too with Dominicans. They're darker and skin color, especially because they share the island of Haiti like it's split. But they are the most and I'm sorry to say that they don't want to hear the basis Dominicans acknowledge

that the other one I hate it. So the older I've been getting, I have been getting to know, like I don't know Latino culture and realizing a lot of them are whitest and tell them y'all can't say that in word amore, and they really cannot tell you. I'm so glad you said this bit. I just had this argument, So I'm so glad you say I don't think that they should be allowed to say at this point. I don't think so either. But I didn't always feel that

way because my Latino friends were black. But we're also, I think it's different growing up also in Florida's I think it's different being up here. I didn't know how much it was like we are us and black people are them, like they separate themselves from blacks. But it's like, yeah, you know, you shouldn't be able to say the N word that in Florida. I think it doesn't feel like

that because it's already so racially charged. So white people make anybody feel like so you do be like okay, And not only not only that, I went to all black schools and it wasn't many African Americans. A lot of like the black people that I grew up with were Haitian, Jamaican. Yeah that's Florida, especially Orlando. So I mean, yeah, so I'm glad you said that. Yes, we got to take the N word away from them. If you're Latina friends that are not afrol Latina, you know, just to

give them a little you know, Latina. What's the Latino nigga in? What do they say? So? So I know the word that each other what it's spick right, that's the slur, but they don't call that but nigga technically was they haven't reclaimed. They haven't claimed it yet, reclaimed not just like Asians haven't claimed changing because it's crazy. Is we embraced we embraced ho and slut on this podcast, But yeah, I just told her like agents haven't embraced

chink either. Those are still slurs. The black people took nigga and embraced it and changed it into uh. And that's the one word. That's why I'm very adamant to on the F word with gay men and women they have because they don't use it for it ain't no what I'm you know, No, they don't so like and

and bit too. By the way, I've had to stop, like when I meet a girl for the first time, now, i'd be like, oh, that's that's a bit and yet and I mean, that's that's what weis becoming for me because our very first venue, it was in d C. And she was she started off just cool as by the end of the show, I was like, yeah, a bit and I was like, oh, hold on, let me let me tell this story because Mandy's wilding right now.

I didn't do it at this gridgeous theater. I don't know. Actually, one of the best staff they were great shout out to DC Arena Stage A stage one of our best Amzo White Girl. We get in and so I'm on the phone with her and I'm letting her know about the show, and she's friend and fun, like fun and friendly on the phone. So once we arrive, I'm like, you know, this is like a really bast show. She's like,

people have been outside. They are so invested. I mean, we have a theatrical performance going on, and even they're like, what's going on on this side? And you know, we just there was a divide there was we love your energy. So we do one show. They're they love it right there. Dope, there's like lesbian chicken back. So we live. So by the time the show was over, Mandy says to the girl. The girl gives us up. She's like, I hope you guys come back. And Mandy goes, oh, bitch, we've got

to come back. Look at it because I'm not as she was so cool like during our whole thing. Wait, the staff was also so cool. During our homemail portion, one of the fucking um workers asked a question. They did it was but one of our sta She was jarred a little bit, and I said Mandy, and so Mandy apologizes. So on our way out with the girl girls, Hey Mandy, bye bitch. She did. It was so cute.

It was so cute. It's crazy. How um. So sometimes Mandy and I have walked into theaters and they kind of look at a shady and then the second it's over, they're like, wow, oh, let me we're updated. Look at

you guys with your little business. She no, I was actually wait wait wait no, I was gonna bring up l A. So first off, in l A we did the matinee Bullshit four to six because when we hit up these comedy clubs, they're like, y'all comedians, y'all can have the time slot that nobody wants, but we can't give you our prime time slot. So we did l A improv um Hollywood improv in l A. And the first day it was rocking on us. They was like, okay, this is cool. We got the no name God damn

bottle water and ship. The first day like thirsty, here you go. Oh. The next day they were like Fiji, here you go. That's right, Yes, they gave us fig The next day they was like, you know what, we'll be more hands on. They like provided next curity. The next day, they was like, we've never had a matinee show. Do this well? And your audience, how are they so lively at four o'clock in the afternoon, basically turned up.

It was so you gotime you have, which is funny because one of our venues, I know, you know what you're talking about, treat us like ship so much so that Ian who manages Joe Budden's podcast, we were like, he came back stage to see us. He was like, y'all good, and we're like, no, like d D He's like, what y'all want me to do? It was second the show was done. These people sold mad liquor. Now they're hitting us up to give us the venue for free.

Mandy and I spent five racks. This was our most it's the venue, they said, but not only not only not only free the prime time slot that they didn't offer. Yeah, so but yeah, anyway, enough about that, We're gonna do a look quick catch up. Um. We haven't done catchups in a while. We have been super guest field and we have a great guest today which we're gonna get into you because bitch, I'm ready for you. You guys

met on a great fune. I actually wasn't there that episode that they recorded that I was out of town, so I didn't make the recording. But when I saw this episode that I wasn't a part of, I was like, oh, bish, I like you, Like she just speaks so well on everything. She just so I wanted to bring her in all

the time. I think around that the same time I found her on Instagram out the guy she likes, don't he speaks so well that it's like maybe I'm more of a said like the white lady who just like you little nigga bit just you and I and good for you. I hate you, know, but I wanted to

catch up on some recent sex paides. Recently UM Wheezy and I were recording UM Patreon and she was like, I want to save this story from other fucking A regular because she was ready to tell you now it's something that good, and you know, it's like it's good. So I met this dude into the East party. We went on some dates, super attractive, but I don't know why we just weren't connecting. It was weird and it's funny. The last time we had someone from Great Ryan which

was aisha. I mentioned how we slept in the bed together without sleeping together. Wait, that was when you that's right. We talked about intimacy before being intimate. So he was looking so good the other day on Instagram. I was like, you want to go to dinner? He was like yeah, I get to the place, the restaurant by where he lives, which I figured he lived in the area because he mentioned even before. I was like, already know what's up. And to be honest with you, I knew I wanted

to suck him like. I was like, fuck it. We had some weird dates whatever. I get in there and he's looking at me and he's like a word because I had my tities out. He was like, okay, that's what you are. I was like yeah, And then he told me I had something on my top and like brushed by my nipple and he was like, you look really good. I was like you. So then we started talking and I'm like, you know, why didn't you call me back? Like because we were vibing and you could

feel it. I'm like, why why didn't you like hit me up to see me another time? He's like, when I was in your bed, you made me feel like you were uncomfortable that I was there, and I completely felt the opposite, and I was like, really, why is that? And he was like, well, like you were turning her back to me, like you weren't like really letting me

touch you. So I said, like, I knew I didn't want to have sex, so I didn't really know how to touch you think, and he was like, yeah, like I was scared to even put my hands on you. He was like, I wasn't even on that type of ship but you. And it's crazy because I knew he wasn't pressed for pussy, but I also thought if I lean on him too much, is that going to give him the wrong idea? And it's so that's very interesting. Yeah, I think that's very the small things we think about,

like women. She remembered it, and I remembered it. But with the crazy part though, is how you had such a different response and thought we were so intimate and I love that we were in bed together and didn't have sex, and he thought that you weren't coomfortable the whole time. I think it's crazy how that happened, he was saying, Because I was like, I even I told him. I even talked about you on an episode like how

I was. He was like, you told me when I came upstairs we were gonna have sex, like I already knew, so I was. I didn't know, and I just thought if I was, you know, that don't mean because i'll get you, I'll selling nigga we ain't have a sex and they'll be like and they'll know. Still try so yeah, I get so anyway, um, he was like, but you good. You know I'll send you the bober when we've done, even if that's you know, I'll get you. I'll get

you home, and I was likely, so hold on. He takes me to his place, and what was so great about it is I like we both knew we were gonna fuck, and I could. Very few times in my life do I know it's gonna be good, and very few times this good the first time. So we go smoke a little bit, he gives me something to drink. I take like my pants off, having a body suit. He's touching me and I take a shower. I come out and he starts eating my pussy like he's already

ate my pussy a million times. Well, normally the first time they got to show out right now, he knew everything. I like when niggas eat my pussy from the side, right, No fucking way, he knew all I'm talking about that. I only do that our live shows. So he was he out my pussy right. I'm on the couch. He stands up over me. I started sucking his dick and he's talking to me while I'm doing it, and he's like, yo, I knew it was gonna be like this. I knew he was gonna suck my dick like this, like to

you right, And I was like, we start sucking. He takes two pumps, bitch, and he's like, oh, you're sucking me all the time and looks at me again after he's sucking me, and he's like, why do you kept this pussy for me? And I was like, I don't know. So good, like his dick fit me, like it was meant to be in this pussy. Bro. The entire time we were sucking, we kept talking about how good it was. He's like, I knew it was I was right, could not stop sucking talking, and then we were done fucking.

He was looking at me and I'm like, I know you gotta wake up. He's like, oh no, no no, no, no, no, no no no no no, like you stay here. I want you to be comfortable, like because you're sucking me in the morning again was good at so, like you know you might have a local regular d I can't wait to get up amazing sex. And then like I'm about to start getting dressed, he's like, what niggas you tell me you to leave ship And I was like, I know. I was like, nig's not be treating me

like that. He was like, you stay as long as you want, like I could feed you if you want. I like shit. He got dressed in a little soup bish dog. So the next day, it's two o'clock in the morning, right some nig is talking to me. The niggas lame and I text the dude. I'm like, yo, I can't get you out of my head. He text me back a second later he's like, where are you? I tell him where I am. Ten minutes later he's there. He comes up, kisses knees, like you're sucking me again tonight, bitch.

We leave the club and I'm telling you, dog, I mean not for my life, but for my pussy. But when I say that, ship above. You want to be like, that's your boyfriend. You don't want to just do video trying to get to listen you phony. He's just like my model nigger. You know what I'm saying. He's bougie. He was in the South of France. I love all that ship and not ly that's my white boys, because I like that bougie. But the end of the day, he's a fucking nigga. Damn bit I'm talking about God.

I love that you didn't found you possibly some forever dick, because I was just with seven And I don't know how I keep saying this, Like, first off, I didn't think there was anything left for me to do, especially with him. We've been sucking damn near seven years coming up, So I'm just like, what the funk. So I'm with him the other day. I see we're getting on a pattern now, like I'm seeing him either as soon as he gets back from out of town or right before

he leaves. So I'm like, all right. So I go to see him and he slumped. We're trying to like different ship, but not really different ship. So I'll tell you one of the different ships we did. So he was slumped in the car. Actually, when I pulled up, I didn't even know he was sucking. Like. I was like, why are you not answering your phone? So I'm at the door and I look in the car. I'm like, hearing something vibrate. This nigga slumped in the car. I'm like,

what the fuck? So I see his phone vibrating in the car, and I opened the door to get his phone. I'm thinking he left in the car. He's in the car. Oh my, this nigger, I said, wake up. So he's so he turns around, he sees me, he smiles. He pulls me into the goddamn car, and I'm just like, really, just like, what the fuck. So we're in the car. He of course starts smoking, smoking his blunt. I go to suck his dick. Okay, can somebody make a cartoon

out of this? Can please make Mandy? Seriously, I'm dead as serious. If you've had the graphic design skill, the Lord knows, I don't. I'm gonna pay you a decent amount. That can't because it's about to be pouring. You're not letting me finish. So we're in the back seat now, we in the car to the Oh yeah, there's more to the car, so he pulled me in the car.

He smart. He starts smoking his blunt, and bitch, I see his little his little boxes rise, So, bitch, you aren't already boom, I ain't gotta do much work get you up. So I pull his pants down, start sucking his dick, and I'm just like like sucking a dick, and he's talking how much how good I am sucking a dick, and I love it. So then I go down to the balls, but because we're in the back seat, there's not that much room. So then he just pulls, like pulls down his pants and he's like hop on top.

Y'all know I don't like writing, so I'm literally the front seat is pushed all the way to the front. So I get to where I'm riding his dick, but like my legs are together. He's sitting on the seat and I'm bouncing up and down. But now we're in a position to where he noticed something weird and he

liked it. So let me tell y'all, So his because of how we were sitting and how my how far up my my legs work, he noticed that his balls were like hitting the soles of my feet and he was turned on that his balls were kind of being massaged by my feet. It was like, oh, your feet on my balls? Like he even mentioned it and he liked it. So I started like kind of moving trying to get the visual in my head. I'm like, so I'm literally like the cat, Wait, Taylor and many can

you guys show us? Let's do it? So yeah, sit down, hold on, I'm about to show you. So we're in the back seat. Wait, let's get what balls? Can we see? I hate you? Those are not the balls. So we're sitting in the back seat, so the front seat is pushed all the way up. So I'm like this, like but you see how my feet have to come up because it's the ground and this is ain't strong. So I'm like this and I'm going up and down and he screwed it up on the seat so his balls

are hanging and they're hitting the bottom. Okay, I picturing, Yeah, I picture. You got it right? Now, you got it right yet? Now you got face to face okay. So basically, yeah, so that started. He was like, oh, let's go inside, So bitch, we go inside. He sucks the ship out of me. Up, No, no, no, but so he gets crazy. It becomes so that was the first, but then you reach another first. So he was sucking the ship out of me so bad. I was just like, oh, okay,

I'm relaxing. You sucked the ship out of me. I want anal sex today. So I was like, okay, bit you ain't. You ain't eat nothing. Crazy, it's too early to have coffee. I thought, my booty hole, I'm good. So I'm like, okay, put your thumb on my butt. I'm like, open her up. I'm ready. So tell me why he he goes because we're on the couch for the first time in my life. Y'all know, I don't even ride dick. How did I ride reverse cow girl in my ass? It was amazing too. I came. I

didn't think I could. No. No, So my pass was faring, but my ass wasn't. So my pussy was far and then he was putting all the air in my pussy. But so he lays back on the couch anything and I mount him. What pussy parts when you're ass? No, my pussy was farting before he went in my ass, Like I'm just saying, he fluked shut out my pussy. I wanted to give my pussy air because that's kind like science. So he lays back and I mount him from the back like this, first off my legs here,

I feel like a bit to stair master. So I'm holding myself up while he's laying down. He's in my ass and I'm writing like how they do on the gay porn, and I was like, I feel like real good right now. And I literally I will say ladies for those of you because he tried putting it from like the back, and it hurts like hell. It actually didn't hurt while I was writing it control. That's why I didn't know this because I don't ride. But bitch, if y'all want to try, you may want to try

getting on top first. And again I did said that. Who said that we had? I don't know what you have couple that I interviewed once, They talk about first time an I've heard that a lot. I mean, you gotta have strong legs, because sis, I woke up the next morning, I said, what is this called? So my groin,

my hamstrings, everything lower body was on fire. Um, but if it actually felt good, and I came, well, I mean you're gonna be able to come because you have anal sex a lot with him, right, Well, you had a lot of experiences, like two or three months with You've had enough with him right to know that. I was reading that even women that have had anal sex ten times in life still have an increased anxiety on

if it will go to deep powetal hit. So I wonder if you were able to come so hard because you were controlling your own like asking that could have been it so you can really relax. All I know is every time I come to this show, I'm thinking you and Ida did every goddamn thing, and I know how we keep sucking having news did this made me

think of something having with Beard Babe. I don't know if this is when he lose in Miami or what, but I remember he asked me to get reverse Kyl Girl, and I already didn't want to because I'm like, we always talk about you know, he loves my legs, but he like, you got a cute little booty, but you know it's mainly my legs, and so I know my assets, you know what I'm saying. So when he asked to get reverse cow Girls, like damn, because like I'm good at riding, but not from the back. I thought, so,

this nigga likes my feet. And what I realized was so he's laid down. I'm in the bed, and I'm like this, you gotta do the feet trick. Then he was looking at the other way. You gotta let him. It wasn't in the ball my feet. I know he was looking at them ships and I could tell because I was looking at him, and I'm like, I guess if I had to ask to look at that would be the visual. However, he was like, fuck it, we're

gonna do these people look at the feet. You gotta you gotta try the foot Imagine if you did the foot trick. He already loves a bit. He gonna come, bitch with a little tickling to do feet on the balls. He gonna come be. But you have down like this like no, look looks she missed the instructions. I'm a draw a picture for you, Sis, I'm a draw a picture for you. Well, we did pictionary on Viceland and

you can't draw? Can you give me a notepad? I'm gonna no, no, no, no no. Since you're a I have to practice, I'm gonna I'm gonna get some I'm gonna get some of this. But but wait, we do have a guest. Guys, y'all hear a third voice in the motherfucker's studio today. So I want to introduce our guests. Go ahead and let them know because I don't know if you're gonna give an aliens or not what what they know you as. But go ahead and let our

listeners know who is. So my government name is Taylor, okay, never, but my clients call me Mistress Marley, Mistress Marley. So if you guys have not known by Mistress Marley, can you let our listeners listeners know what it is that you specialize in. So I'm a pro dominatrix specializing in financial domination. What's pro dominatrix? So pro dominatrix, you have

two difference, Okay, So there's pro and there's lifestyle. Lifestyle dominatrics they just want to do it for the fun of it's me pro They want to make money while they're doing it. They want to charge I've never heard those neither, So that's interesting. Okay. So lifestyle dominatrix are ones who just are me. They want to make people. They want to be in the community. They just want to experience, you know, learn new things whatever. Okay, but I need my goddamn coins. So you could either be

a pro ho or just a man. I guess wait, I like, okay, well, I like to do both too. Though I can be lifestyle with just it has to be certain people. I can't just be lifestyle just to be lifestyle, like, of course, I can't be lifestyle with these white boys. They know have the progom treatment and that's it. So you're a prodom. So I'm gonna guess you don't suck for money. No, oh, this is gonna

be good. Well, because you said finndom right, And like the more I've kind of been like learning about escorts and stuff, I find that and I think mistress Unknown too doesn't work for money. Like being a sex worker doesn't mean having sex all the time. Oh no, it's a lot of things that fall under the sex work umbrella. Period. Yeah, you guys watch. So I've been I've been talking to my friends and I'm like, you know, I quit my job.

This is going well. Everyone wants me to make a foot page and then I don't know, if you see, it's so much bread and not that. Um shout out again to Sophia Gray. They hit us back up and we are willing to set up a page. Yes, I saw that our panties. I don't know if you're interested in selling panties on the fun They want your panties that you've worn all days? Want what because I don't want people to have that much access to me. But it's just your panties. It's not you. But what about

your sample? I go hold you. I saw a wheezy story the other day. She said, I'm putting words over my feet just because y'all are really at I did. But now let me tell you why. I got some coin in there, some coin my pedicure off live exactly. Just show me your foot on live, I said, send me a cash to pay for my next pedicure. He did. It's just some of them are just a lot, and it's not like I'm uncomfortable, but okay, it really is from an experience I had in person. Um, I go

to this bar called Maxi Fish all the time. It's my neighborhood bar, and so I always tell listeners because they'll pull up and I kind of like enjoy that. So this one dude came up and he was like, yo, I love the show. Did it? I was like, oh, thank you? And he goes and your feet out too. So I was like okay, right, so I'm by myself because there's a bar tender downstairs always kicking with sob rolling up alone. He's like, get your feet out too.

So I was like, so I started clinging to the nigga that it's at the bar right, shout out to my nigga, James. He came to our shows and ship and I'm just like, oh no, hold me close to me. And the dude was like, so you still single, right, And I was like, bro. I was like, I ain't looking that and he was like oh. He was like I'm just saying I just want to make sure nigga cool. You know, as soon as they do the feat that

I get pedicures. I was like, well, I don't have anything to offer my feet, like that's not I don't really do anything with my feet or anything like that. He's like, I'll teach you if you want me to wheezy, like that's no problem, I'll teach you. And he was having this like like when people like I'm like oh, yeah, you know, I'm trying to work on audio and stuff. Oh,

I'll teach you. He said the same thing with my feet, just as if it was a craft that is hilarious angles pictures like yeah, and he was like, it could be other people, if you want to make some extracrash, it could be just me. And I'm sitting fucking terrified for my goddamn well, I'm ready, y'all can send me shoes. I'm getting a peel box. Um, I'm gonna set you all up with all of that because I'm about to do the whole foot page and probably seal these draws.

So we're gonna go ahead and get into We're gonna go ahead and get into our vanilla ship for this episode. And it only makes sense because New York just got over a goddamn heat wave. It was hot as fuck, and then everywhere in the goddamn States apparently except for l A. I'm hearing l A y'all getting in the sixties at night this I clicked on him. Look at the messages. I wish you weren't so afraid of guys with food fetishes. Look, everything is about say your souls

in the background. Damn I would have paid for that petty you get in girl, you playing really paying for a massage today? Wow? So them vanilla ship for this week actually comes from Metro Lifestyle. It is a UK site and the title is how to Have Sex when the weather is Unbearably Hot. So you know, well, I feel like we've all made comments about this, yeah, like it's just so hot. It's like, damn, I don't even

know if I want to be around anyone. There's like you don't want to cuddle, you touch, It's just fucking hot. So here are some tips for some of you people who are in the hot weather, like New York who just had the heat wave for Florida, Georgia, the fucking Southern Belt whatever that heat waves it was. It was on a Saturday. It was fucking invited me to the pool and I was like, no, it's I saw your fucking chats and then he's like, okay, you want to

go eat and so hot. So here are some tips for you all who are looking to steal get your goddamn freak on in the blunt of the summer. So one would be ice cubes um. However, make sure you use them with caution. Do not put ice cubes directly on your genitals unless you want a painful tongue on a lamppost situation. Um. Something else which I really like is that you can take sex out of the bedroom. Lelo sexperts Too says that the bedroom tends to be one of the warmest spots in the home thanks to

all of the bedding. And if you live in a house rather than a flat, being that you're elevated. So also for apartments, if you live on higher floors rises. Yes, so you can actually take sex to other parts of the bedroom outside of the bedroom, including the shower another I hate shower sex to another tip of the bitch, you could just have sex outside sometimes sex outside outside, I mean, but it's outside. How about this in front of the freezer. Well, you could do that too. You

can do that too. Here is actually one of the best tips that they said is, Um, this is the best time for you host to get lazy. It's hot, so don't get fancy with wild positions and super energetic thrusting. Take your goddamn time so slow. We don't have to get by the way. Um. I was at Kinfolk on Saturday in Brooklyn. Uh, there's this gay couple that's making out right, two men, and I said, no one is next to me. I'm sucked up. It's like three am. But I'm watching them kiss, right, And I said, these

niggas is really kissing in this heat. So they turned around and look at me because they heard me, and I was like, oh no, like I'm not I'm not homophobic. It's just really hot and you guys are like making out and they're looking at me, and I said, the whitest ship that could ever, I'm totally gay. I'm gay friends. I was like, I have a black friend. I've I see how white hot, so because I've never that's never happened to me. And then they start laughing. I'm like, no,

like I really like I me eating pussy dog. I have a whole lass bitch, like I'm gay as fun, like for real, like I said what I said, Like I said what I said. So then one of them is laughing and the other one is not. I'm like, how about y'alls drinking? And he was like, I guess you need to because the and I was like, oh dad, I felt so bad, but really, like you see two people making out and the heat, and I just I

didn't even know I said it was hot. Really? I mean, but we do say sometimes we're hot and bothered, like sometimes hotness can make you horny a little bit? No, does it not. I'm just did you guys go out last? Yeah? I was at the pool though, Okay, I had my swinger party, so I was a nice Joe was like, it feels like a hundred degrees. I got a few people coming over. I want to do the pool. I'm like, hell, yeah, they're the pool. I'm in New York. But you're also

go in right now, which is good. So I went out with my home girl, veenis enis Sex and we go to the strip club right and it's nice and cold in there. When we stepped outside, it felt like you would step you were stepping in a club. That's how hot it was. It was five am that the daylight was out. I was light was out. Well, I don't know what I mean. That's like me saying, is nighttime? What would I say? It is dark time? Wait? The sun wasn't out, but the light was out. It was

lighthouse there we go. Hold on, wait, how did I rephrase this? God? Damn, I feel dumb. Hold on it's dawn, the sun sunrise. It was sunrise. Damn Donna thumbers. Everybody on me right now? Um yeah, I just saw your kink and that's how I lost my virginity. Yeah, so it's funny. So the kink of the week I wanted to bring up because of course I have been enjoying anal sex and so I was just looking for different things. I wanted to know if also our guests may know what it is. So the kink of the week for

this week is hot dogging. What would be your guest if you had to think of what hot dogging was? I don't know, Multiple Dixie. You know, there's just like Jeff were like, I've seen these. I thought of the gif. You know, it's jiff me me me whatever they got, Okay, definitely me bro Hey, do y'all a nigger? Me me, no bitch, just me. So for any of you guys, I would love to know what you guys maybe have

thought hot dogging was when you heard the term. But for those of you who did not know, it is actually when someone rubs their penis between another person's butt cheeks. Not about annal penetration, although it can lead there, but It's literally just the act of putting a penis. I used to do it. Funny it was with Jamie, who was the guy. How how me and Mandy fucking met because like if you guys have heard the story me and Mandy, I dated a guy, then she dated him.

So I never had sex with Jamie, but my cherry pop. So what happened was we would do that because it would rub on my clay. I would like it, and he would come that way like he would never be insertion. My mom ran to Publix, so we had time. So he was, he was sliding and it was feeling good and then suddenly, damn. I screamed because I felt it. He pulled out and there was a stream of blood ring my leg and I freaked out and I was like, oh my god. But it started with him having his

dick between your butt. She was it was we were hot dogging. Yeah, I was. I think I was on my stomach. Um, I freaked out. Actually we never did it again. We never had penetration. So like it was like the cherry popped with no set. It was crazy. I mean it was literally right at the edge, so my cherry was low ready to go. All the sex chat rooms I was in. I was ready. I used to be in the Yahoo chats. I liked all that.

So I actually used to be really into just the message boards where they created like sex stories there and read'll be like thinking I was sucking a b two k oh, my god. I used to read no ship I wrote one one time, bitch, I thought, you know what the fun I was talking about? Never has sex on that dollar? I used to. I used to read all Oh, I wish I could go back and find it. Yeah,

I was hanging with a little fist. Then O Marion came over and it just there was one where they had to force them in a closet and they took this bitch Virginity, she loves her Virginny and the threesome from I don't know if they're still up. But if y'all want to ever read sexual erotica from message boards, I don't know if you could just look up message boards took. But it used to be a whole bunch of like maybe teenage girls or young twenties, but they

used to sex stories. I ain't read middle school message I don't know if gonna message board fan fiction there go there you go do. Y'all remember these message boards, which one which good under? Oh my god, they were so good, and my mama didn't know what the funk I was doing, but I was getting my pussy real wet in middle school reading these goddamn favor and then they would bring in bow wow little Romeo before you. No, I haven't started. Okay, there's a girl there who writes

fan fiction and the show yeah, yeah, so good. But um, I'm sure people told you get anyway, there's a girl there who's not that popular in regular school, but online she's popping because she writes dope ass fan fiction. And it's so funny because I had that feeling when I was around sixteen, like I would go out and like I'd have a good time, and I was like, you know, you know, Dan screw, but I was really enjoying myself,

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let's get on with the show Double as Life. Well, speaking of double eyes, we're gonna get into look at but we're gonna get into our horrible Decision. I'm super excited because we're sitting next to someone that could be you just know, because all of our listeners have jobs. Listen, we have our dope as Um guest today, Taylor, who not only works a nine to five from time to time, she's in corporate America. She also gets money out these niggas,

so she's a pro do ho name my bio. We are going to talk about how it is possible that you could not only be working your job, but you could also be a part time sex worker on the side. So before we get into this conversation, knowing that that's what you do. I want to know how can a woman get into sex work? Um, if they want to do it part time on the weekends at nine People ask us this all the time, all the time, So

how can they do it? Since you've achieved it? So my thing is, if you want to get into sex work, you gotta know what type of sex work you want to do, because it's all you gotta know if you want to be a stripper, escort, dominatrix, sugar baby, because that's still sex work to the people. Is definitely sex yeah. Yeah. A lot of people think it's not, but it is. Yeah. So I feel like if a woman wants to get into a part time you just need to figure out

your schedule. You need to figure out how it works for you. You gotta be able to separate your corporate job from that job. You can't run into your corporate job saying this ship they're telling people about this. You gotta know how to fucking separated. So I want to ask you because I think, um, a lot of people don't know how to do it themselves, so they may go about trying to find someone to help them. Would

you suggest they go through a pimp? Or agency. Okay, what are your thoughts on don't go through a pen or sex agency because one, not only are they gonna treat you bad, be ruthe like, they can do whatever they want to you. They're gonna take your money. You don't make it agency. I'm curious to know agencies seem to offer protection for girls, which is their main selling point.

So can you talk or speak to that? So in my opinion, like there's agencies and escort and right, and they they they feed off or tell you that they're going to offer protection. That's just to get you in. Um. In my opinion, they honestly and from what I've seen, they take your money. They take a percentage, right, So you're doing all these they get you clients, but they take your money. So my thing is, I just recommend

everybody be independent. Yes you have to do more work, Yes you have to do more research, whatever, but you're gonna keep your full profit. You're gonna be able to make clients that you're more personal a wit, and you're not gonna even like be subjected to the abuse that could possibly happen because it's not always physical abuse, it's emotional abuse and mental abuse that can funk with you

in that way. So I met this girl in the airplane and I've got new feelings about sex agencies coming back from Miami, and we just start clicking, right We're s she was black, so are we talking? So anyway, she says, I'm like, so, what do you do? And she's like, what do you do? So once I tell her I have a sex podcast, she was like, oh bitch, She's like hermo. So she starts telling me as she has scores and I was like, oh, well, how do

you find your clients? You use Twitter and stuff, And I was asking if I can interview her and she's like, honestly, I've worked through an agency. She was like, it's a very upscale agency, and I was like, why would you do that when you can make your own money? First thing out of my mouth, she's like, it's a set dollar amount. They already pay her. I don't have to deal with begging niggas for my money. I don't have

to deal with all that bullshit. Then she mentioned she was like, the background checks that they do are so much better. She used to be independent. However, Aliott Triple X revealed on a very old episode, I think it's forty six maybe madam something. Um, how there were websites removed where like there was forums about protecting yourself. So she joined an agency after that, She's like, granted, they take which is really high, but all the guys have

been safe. They treat me well, and I'm already fucking paid. She's like, they've paid before. They were saying, what is your experience as being independent? And like what red flags would would you know? Do you see when you have to try to be safe by yourself, you have no one but yourself when you're being an escort by yourself, right, So yeah, so, um, I personally have never done escorting, but I do have escorting friends. Um, but you still meet men escort. But so escorting is more of like

a they called a girlfriend experience when you're an escore. Yeah, so I think people get escort in prostitution mix up. Prostitution is more so I just need you for this hour, this time, and then that's it. Right. Most of the time with escort, and they want to take you to dinner, They want to do the whole girlfriend experience, They want to have conversations, and girls charged for that too. Of course they'll charge separately from the sex. They'll just charge

for conversation period. Yeah, So I always thought like escorts could be booked by the hour. They can't. You can't be booked by the hour. But it's more within it, Like so it prostitution is like, I'm booking for the hour, We're just gonna have sex, I'm gonna talk to you, let's just funk, let's just do what we gotta do whatever.

And I have a friend um who she escorts, and they'll she'll get booked for an hour or two hours, but literally they may only have sex for like ten minutes, and then they lay up and she's talking, she's taking in all of the stuff that they do from work, then complaining about their wives, and so that's a part of the hour. But then they also want to lay up. She sometimes has to wipe them down and you know, give the massages and all of this is with the

out they call a companionshipship. If I had to pick one of the two, prostitution, probably don't want to prostitute. So I think a lot of women do escort, and because within that you can network so much, because some of these men are actually taking you to like their work, events too, when you're think does feel more and I think in the head for women, it feels more like

you're doing some elite ship. Yeah, and you feel like you're securing more of a bad because not only do you got him, you at his event with all his other friends. And think about the word itself, like escort does sound better than prostitute? Why because we've been thinking that our whole lives well, speaking of prostitution, they've been proposing recently and clearly, seeing all of the laws that are going against women rights and our bodies, it's never

gonna happen. But what are your thoughts about legalizing prostitution and do you think that would be a good thing or a bad thing for the for the woman. I don't think it should be legalized because what's going to happen is when it's legalized, you're gonna have more people that want to make money off of it. You're gonna have more people that yeah, you're gonna want to have more people that want to come in. You're gonna have corporations that are gonna start like monetizing off and stuff.

I'd rather I'd rather be be criminalized as and if you get caught. There's nothing that's gonna happen to you. There's no more getting caught. And we need to decide what are your thoughts on the legalization of prostitute. She didn't say the decriminalizing things so now, because I was gonna say absolutely not, because women are got a fucking record. Now,

so where else am I gonna work? And then I'm gonna keep going to jail because now I can't get a job because I'm a sucking hello all over the damn. I'd rather be decriminalized. But together, have you ever been to a place where prostitutional legal? Have you ever traveled somewhere? No, I haven't, but it's it's legal in Vegas, in Vegas? Not is it not Vegas? It's Nevada, but it's not Vegas. Where do you know if there's somewhere out of the country, you know, is where the brothel is? I think it's

only I don't know if it's out calls. We should definitely look Amsterdam too, it's she's been well. My recent experience was in Panama, where they're a lot of sex to them because tourism, because it's legal, and they do have identification cards and required certain health. UM. Oh well that's good. So that's why when I thought about it

being legal. I don't know from what I know, a lot of sex workers pushed for it to be illegal, and I can't speak for it myself, but I feel like they must be doing it for a reason because it must really be hard out there. So it's it's very interesting because this topic was actually had on the

grape Vine. UM. So I want to shout out to Ashley A. Kuna and if you guys are looking for UM another show that really digs into deep rooted conversations and issues and concerns from different people, UM, check out the grape Vine. But Aisham, who was also a guest on our podcast, she actually said, what's crazy is the part that is criminalized is the act of receiving the money. So it's not even the act of having sex. It's

huge charging for sex, which is the crazy part. And what I wanted to do is because we do identify as we look for equal rights on this podcast, we consider our self feminists, we are also pro sex work. One of the guests on the Grapevine UM said something and Chris is gonna pull something up. Wheezy, I want you to take a listen to this because I think a lot of the guys on this show feel the

same way. Can you go ahead and play that? And you know, on one side have a narrative of must value women, women are eager, right, But at the same time, I'm able to bind it right and and that and that's something that I've always been struggling with in regards to people who are in regards to people who are feminists that are pro sex worker, uh, because like, like, how how do you not going to erode this sort of perception like women are valuable if I could get

like two for one specials on Black Friday. I hate this. I know, I'm not actually uncomfortable with the idea get him on the show. I know, hold on, you know, bi sex from women, because like it's not like it's not like any other physical labor, Like I pay a barber, he has a skill for that. Construction workers sex Let let it either all right, let's go ahead and and and pause that. So I feel like a lot of men who do listen to our show may have that

same thoughts. So what are your thoughts to grow sex worker? First of all, we know why we are because it gives me the choice over my own body. I can make my own decision. One too, I'm going to tell you right now, I can't do what you do only because and I admire your work, but I'm too emotional. One, I'll get too attached to three. I don't think I could be that safe or not. Lack of daisical, not relax. I know escorts and sex workers that talk about how

they won't drink with their clients. I can't see me not needing a drink to relax and calm myself down. That's a fucking profession that you have drink with my clients because a lot of them aren't nervous, because maybe you can't handle that. But what if I couldn't? Yeah, you can. I don't think I could, which is the same in the strip club a lot of women, but they do drugs and liquor just that. But to be able to perform while under an influence and still do

a job. It's to say that that's profession in the world because it is something that is necessary. Another thing that I find interesting that he said is like, you're born with the vagina, why do I have to pay for it? Right? Like why do I need to buy it? We know how much time and effort it takes to get to know someone and then you may end up having sex with them and it may suck. Why would I not want to go to a professional? How many times people offer us make up for freemandy? Oh a

whole lot? And how many times do we say? Now? Pretty much every time? Exactly? You know why? Because I know there are fucking professionals that deserve my money instead of someone thirst didn't do it for free. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, and I'm not saying every month. Part is just the level of skill at that point, which is why, Like you're good at what you do

as a dominatrix. Like, so for someone who does want to become submissive, you can't all the time just talk to anyone you're saying and say, Hey, I like to be submissive, can you be my dom? So, knowing that you're a professional, they're coming to you because they're going to get the experience that they're looking for. His argument is even really interesting perspective to let's talk about free sex when a dude is in the club. A matter

of fact, that's just happened to me. In beard bab We went out and these two girls was on his dig hard and I was like, damn. And at first we were both looking at it. She's like, damn, these girls are fine. By the end of the night, it was almost ridiculous, And there was another really, really beautiful girl that was smiling at him but not giving him no play. By the end of the night I saw him.

All he was doing was talking to his girl right oncent. Sure, he probably wouldn't ever be able to suck this girl, But these other two girls, like, were you all about to go what you're doing today? Why is it that that one was so attractive? Because we all want something that's like you know what I'm saying, We don't want someone that's two pressed women are the same way. This thing is blowing me up. So what happens is when you have something for free, it doesn't have that much value.

I could be sitting here talking about sex all day, how I'm so fucking great, and y'all might feel like I'm the woman that's more quiet than me. You might find more attractive. Because that's the anomaly about it, and what happens with women that are quote unquote civilian hose. You don't really know what you gonna get with that. When you have someone that's confident and is there like, oh it is so good and you have to pay for it. That is exactly why we're attracted to do

your research. You do all of these things. So as I guess we're gonna look into financial domination. You said you don't have sex with them. So when people contact you, what are the things that you do as a financial dump? So basically the act of findom is a fetish, just a kink of controlling someone else's wallet. Right, So you have these men, most of these men have high positions, there in control all day, so they need even it's just for an hour two hours, they need that power

stripped away from them. That's why I will say a lot of my clients are law streatment because there used to be in power all the time. So basically, like with financial domination, will come to me and say, mistress, please drain my wallet. Mistress, I'm spending too much money. Please take it from me like it's and they get

off by you talking ship to them. You're telling them don't go spend your money, you don't go do this, and then there's things like a TM meets where I just meet a guy, tot a t M, take his money, walk away, might talk him, might spit on him, he might kiss my feet in public, whatever, and he walks away. But that's how they get off. And I'm like, who am I to judge how you get off when I'm making bread from it? And in a way that so a lot of women maybe like that's it. I could

do it. So what are the things that you would say you've done to become a prodom to where you know what to say. I'm sure you've looked up like how do I need to talk to these people? Because we may think damn, I could do that, but it's actually a skill, which is what he took away from sexually. What are things that you've looked up and maybe could you give some of the words that you might use. We're gonna get it a role playing. Okay, you pull up.

We got a pocket fool, but she gonna go to the A t M. This is this is your John. What do you say as you guys, as you're approaching the A t M with this man? Well, hold on, I want to ask you a question. Are they normally asking you to say something to them. They already happened on this. They already have the assumption, and I'm going to do that. They when they when they come into it, they they're expecting I know, she does a service, is

what I'm expecting. So basically, here we are. I'm in there. Okay, hi mistress. Why the funk are you talking to me? I'm so sorry, mistress. I just wanted to just get the money off the A T M. Talking. What do I put? What do I do? How much do I take out? What amount you think is right? Saying amount hundred? Are you suing playing with me? I'm sorry, mistress, No, not take out five dars right now? I only have six. Take out six hundred dollars. Word and then you take

it out. And that's how it is. And the crazy thing is it's all about getting out of your own head because naturally, I'm from the South. I'm a Southern sweetheart, period, So I really got it. Yeah, and I'm and I'm okay with has that like I'm okay with it, And a lot of women have to get into character for it. But once you get into that, character becomes a part of you. And now I want to ask you because, um, you are beautiful black queen. Do you feel like your

clients come to you because of your skin color at all? Definitely? They hit me with that ebony goddess ship all the time. Ebony goddess. I want to worship your ebony goddess ass. Like you're okay with you're paying me, You're gonna You're gonna lick this ebony goddess ass. How about that? That's why? And some of them wants to be slaves to black women and you're that, we both said, and you're okay with playing the slave master role type ship in reverse?

I say it is? Why not? Why not? Okay, it's crazy that you say that because the other um dominatrix that we've had, we've had the Lisa Splsson and we've had I believe god us unk. Both of them were not into um that type of plan love it. Wait wait wait no, no, no, no, they weren't. Lisa, she doesn't like it the other way. That's the way I think both of them were. I think she didn't. Damn,

I can't remember. There was something specific about her. We gotta have her back, yeah, um, but I I don't know if it was them acknowledging that she's black or what. But there was something specific about one of them, and you love getting into those types of Yeah, I only have one sub right now. Sub short for submissive. Only have one sub right now. That's into like ebony everything. What's the least bit of money you'll take from a man? Like?

What's a waste of your time? Honestly, I'm gonna say anything under twenty five because there's something I call it initial tribute where if you at least pay twenty five dollars, I know you got your ship because there's something that wish your time all day. They won't even pay five dollars. They broke five just online. Talk to me. That's that's a message me. That's just a message. Yea. They know what's up if you message me and you ain't paid.

I'm not responding to anything you say. I'm gonna start that. You're gonna be on red. You're gonna see that. I read it, but I'm not rested. As soon as they write you, you say in order to can in you this convo send, I don't even say that to them. So wait, how do they know? Let me tell you, Because some men will try to play. So some men get off. So a lot of girls come in. When they first start out, a man could message him and be like, God is blah blah blah, I love you,

I love the way you look. They'll keep replying back like tribute. Then the man wilply back, God is, I'm such a loser. Then the one where like the more you reply back to them, and where they get off, like they're getting off for free. This is what Lisa talking about, letting them get free and sh like, stop fucking talking exactly like putting her cash out because they're getting off for free. They're getting on. We got Benson.

You want to come on the mic. Hold I feel like maybe hold on, hold on, I can't remember, Get on Mike, Get on the mic, Get on the mic. We got our to God. Un you trained me. I got fifty bucks, but I scared them off because it can afford me. So you're a cash master. You're a cash master. That's what they call men. Cash master. Me. I'm super just are not like that. Yeah, so there's many find they call him cash masters. So wait, what happened? Please shout out to God his uncle, shout out to

my tattoos. Also nutcakes. She was actually a dumb also, and then we connected and then like I was actually about the team up with her, go to get flood out. You were going to get fluid out. I mean he was bro He wanted to wait, wait for a for a man. H wait you a culde. Some men like to watch other women get fucked, but so what was going He wanted to get beaten by the girl while I watched, and just like just cut cold, yeah, just

cut cold, shut a little horse. Yeah because even looking, because he knows what's good for real, so and so a man, so a man can do this as well. Oh yeah, men and women. I really thought, you know, look, it's okay. We shout out to Alex who used to war a video. We had our Corald man, you whom doing a video more fun. I'm like, Benson's a nice, sweet guy. He probably it's so safe, Okay, Benson, I'm sorry. I have this little brother feeling with him and out here like the more in his hand, like put me

in the game, coach. Please send us emails to Horrible Decisions at Gmail. Let us know about your video skills, because I can't do this. I love this. Well, we're gonna go ahead because there's another part to this that I wanted to get into. Oh wait, wait, wait wait quick questions go ahead. Where do you meet them? That's what everybody wants Twitter Twitter community the hashtag findom pay pig, pay pigs, somebody pays you, um, ebony, dum, cash meat,

all of that hash meat. We'll put these. We'll put these hashtags as well in the description. Men walking for this so much. By the way, I made a joke about many black women. What my sugar daddy? Oh Andrew posted an old man picture of himself. I was like, Yeah, that looks like my little sugar daddy. Four people wrote me because they're searching the words sugared out. Yeah, it's crazy,

it's disgusting. I'm excited. I'm excited though, because another part of you, um is that Taylor actually throws swinger parties for black people black people. Um. So our mail this week um actually is titled parent and Child at Swingers Party Together. So here we go, evening, ladies. We were at a party last night at our swingers club and we noticed two men, two men and woman couples we had never seen before. It's a private club, so you leave so you see a lot of the same people

over and over. One couple was probably in their fifties and the other in their late twenties or early thirties. Don't think anything of it until I'm talking with one of my good friends at the club and she tells me that the two men are father and son. It really caught me off guard, like, who would want to bring oh, who would want to be at a swinging

party with their child? So later on the even later on in the evening, after my friend has been in the hot tub with both couples weird again, she comes over and sits by me and we start talking and this is where she gets really crazy. She told me that they were insinuating that all four of them wanted to take her to a private room. Not to kink, shame or judge anyone, but what the fuck? Thank you, b So this was one of our male listeners and he was thrown off right. I don't know who it was.

It could have been um, but he wrote us saying that he saw uh father and son. Okay, the guy was writing it. Noir Swingers is his Twitter name, and he tagged us in it, and I was like, please email me this story. He's like, I wonder what horrible pod would say this. I'm like, email me the story that was so fucking weird. What is that something that you've ever seen at your party? And is that something that do people bring their moms and children to sing?

Do they go together? Is that a thing to do together? I've never seen that, but I kind of look at it at a look at it as like, look how men view their son's kind of kind of like we're gonna make him a man, you know, you know how men are like they like the older the men get, they want to know like are you what you know? Like they want us, And especially if he was a legal age, like it's different with like a mom and a daughter. They're not going to go to no ship

like that. I ain't gonna hold you. I was almost going to invite my mom to Jamaica and passport. I would have like my mom's heto funny you say that because um my mom was like are you really going to go alone? And I was like, yeah, I'm just gonna experience it. I end up not going alone. And she was like I'll just go and I was like, no, you won't. She's like, but it's a free like, why wouldn't I go? I don't understand. My mom would never do that anything like that. But crazy thing is, my

mom supports everything I do. But I never no, honestly that it would have been too much, too uncomfortable. But I've never seen that she looked at it as a nudist resort, which is why my mom wasn't thinking you would be uncomfortable as a sex resort. My daddy is Jamaican, she was he back in the nineties. Okay, my mama know what that is. It's crazy. So I wanted to get into the conversation. You throw swingers parties? What are swingers parties? Are different than sex clubs? So what are

swingers parties? I think swinger parties are more intimate. I kind of know my list. I know who's coming. I might know them personally, I might vet them, like you know, I know who's coming. I think it's sex clubs, anybody can just pop up, they paid a fee then get in. But a swinger parties is like, Okay, you crazy, I know you're not coming for sure. Like it's kind of like it's a personalized list, like I might how many people would be at your party this past Saturday, I

had thirty five people. That's the most I've ever had. That's like orgy almost everyone kind of how big is this? That felt that to me, I'm like orgy that okay. Origins, I think club sex club. Then when I hear something small like that, I'm thinking group sex orgy. So basically, I got an airbnb in Brooklyn. It was like a duplex. It was huge. It had like three bedrooms, but in all there was thirteen beds. Because a party or anything, yeah, yeah, So like there was like all these beds. The couches

would pull out beds. I had. It was bring your own bottle. But I had my best friend bartending, like he was there bartending for me, like I had the upstairs rooms. I ordered food like all that little ship because I charged him a good amount. So it's like I gotta have something. So so for the sex clubs again, I've been to college A single girls can get in there for twenty five couples or eighties, sometimes one fifty.

She's been to sex clubs that ranged from two to three to four hundred dollars for a couple to get in the most expensive one I've been to. I actually can't even say the name of it. Was a thousand dollars for a couple. Um a guy his girlfriend backed out, went on like two dates with him. He was like, hey, not interested in having sex, but I don't want to waste this ticket, and I feel like it'll be good content for your show. What ended up finding out I

couldn't say the name of it. When I walked in the name, he signed something and my phone went in a lot. So for your swingers party, if you don't mind asking, like or even if you want to do just a generalization, what would you say that the generalized pricing would be to attend a swingers party? Mm? So personally for me, my swinger party, I had his past Saturday was my first one I've ever thrown in my life, and you had almost forty people come down. Yeah, yeah,

so I charged well. Single women were free because for the most part, you want to get the single women in there. And I know it was my first one, so like, I didn't know how many, mind you, The whole time, I was thinking, the hardest thing is gonna get these single women in here, especially our age like our age ranger. So I was like, let me make them free. When I tell you, I a lot of twenty single women tickets, all of them were gone in less than a week. My y'all was scared of that.

I was like, no women gonna come, It's just gonna be a sausage fest. The ship sold out. So then I charged single men one dollars like even, and I charged couples seventy dollars. So and I had people try to buy tickets a day of Biden allowed at because I was my only host. So having all those people like my next one. Yes, I'm having another one Halloween edition in October, Okay, so definitely put her in. It

was it exceeded my expectation. I did a Halloween party at Chemistry like two years ago, and it was like I think it was fifty couples, two hundreds, and I remember thinking like, oh my god, some of these people are weirdos. But also like I like that. I feel like if you spend a certain amount of money, they're committed to a certain level of experience. So when you charge a couple of something like that, like you're like, okay, like they're in this. They didn't just pop out by

to get a nut off. I don't know of Caligula was during a Halloween party and it was like, yeah, so I wanted to know, Um, I guess what was the most wildest thing that you saw at your swingers party. It really exceeded my expectations because I came in thinking this ship about to be lad. I'm gonna be honest, I was like, this ship about to be lame. It's my first one, but fun people are spending their money. This one couple, mind, we was having like an icebreaker.

So we did an icebreak where like I was spanking people, we was tying. There was one guy that was like experienced and bondedge. She was tying people up like we made it interactive before. You just don't come in and fuck like because almost everybody there was new beasts. It was their first time. So the crazy thing to me, this one couple came in didn't even say hey to nobody. They walked straight upstairs and started fucking like right away,

like crazy started before. It was both like they were both like they were a BBW couple, like they were okay, and they went downstairs after that got something to eat and dip. I didn't even say I was like, they got any money's worth for sure, but yeah, no, no, but no. The craziest thing I saw all I think was how many people are watching them? Everyone? Yeah, so it became a part like people started going upstairs to

play like gravitating. People are downstairs too, but everybody went upstairs and may be in a host, I'm checking on everybody. So I went upstairs for the first I was like, oh yeah, because like where did I go? Right? And I when up stairs everybody was up there fucking like there were so many orgies. There was so much scoring

going on. I did a scot show in the beginning, like I just laid down and I said, this is how we're gonna do part of the icebreaker, and everyone just watched me score and it was just like I was like, that's what I was like, that's what you're getting out the host tonight because y'all looking at me like who's gonna start it off? Right? But yeah, it was. It was. It was crazy. There was people fucking outside on the back patio. Get people to find you. I

just put it on Instagram. Yeah, and she literally made a flyer like it was a club partur So I love it because I guess that that would be the next part is how can people find these in their place? And I'll say you can even easily go on Google typing swingers, party swingers, club swingers. Now you got me. Because Mandy and I have like the Scott We discussed this horrible like we like, like, what can we do with fans? I ain't friend? Is that fucking y'all can

make it lit? Yeah, y'all can make it. Letting a thing. I'm gonna be real with you. Ain't sucking at the party where horrible decisions listener to that, but I will definitely an I would be a great job. I sucked at the party, but I sucked the funk buddy. I waited till he got there. Oh so you invited some Yeah, because I was a hostess mall all night. It was

so hard to just like break off and fun. But like around one two am because the ship ended it like four or five, And I allow people to stay tonight if they needed to because it is an airbnb. I had it till eleven o'clock next morning, So if you got too funked up and can't go home or you live way uptown because it was in Brooklyn, because I live in Washington Heights, so I'm like, I'm not going so I want people to stay. All the sex parties minus in Queen's. I've been to one in like Midtown.

Oh sorry, that was the expensive one. I want to but it was. But I will tell you this, the one that I went to that was that expensive. I was in shock how hot they were and I see why they took my phone. I was like, WHOA had to be Victoria's secret. But like even at my party, the amount of attractive people, like I was expecting weirdos, because I think that's almost everyone expects that when they

go to sex clubs or anything that involves sex. They either think that everyone's going to be skinny sixty years old, or they expect that everyone's going to be ugly as fucking not attractive. I think the oldest I had there was thirty two, and I was the youngest at but it was a good range. Yeah you did, you knew everybody? So did you make everyone send I DS? Like? So I made them send like their instagrams, like especially they

had a couple, like send your Instagram. Single men definitely vetted the hell out of them, like like some nigguld try to come and I looked at his Instagram. I was like, no, baby, like no, no, I didn't tell him. Nobody just didn't reply. I was like with men with women, it was it was such a different amount, like group of women, all shapes and sizes, but everybody just had so much fun, like nobody and the truth be told, it is sexist, is and is gonna be like damn

the bitches, here's the truth. Men have proven themselves over time to just be the more threatening person in a space with with women. So I I completely understand what you did. And that was big on privacy, Like I only allow phones at the bar area, Like you're not about to just be sitting here on your phone. You can go somewhere else for that Like that, why come to the sex party just be on your phone the whole time. That's the same with the sex club I

go to. They have lockers and things, but once you get upstairs, belonging to everything exactly. I provided condoms, lupe, I had toys, I had all that ship like I went all out toys. But if guys, that's there. But now like the icebreaker, like the vibrators and stuff like the clip stimulators, strap ones. I had all that stuff. I did do U like the city and ride, but they surran wrapped that. They made me feel safe on it. When I went to chemistry. Do you guys know what

citian rides? I don't know what that is. You can get on top of this thing. I guess it could look like you saddle up and it's like bound to the floor and you're just like, are you is there something inside of you strong? I was just to they have the bounty balls like that too, Like it's like the bounty, but I feel like I we will over well. I'm so glad that you were here to join us for this. And guys, if you guys have any questions

about Finndom Femdom, we're gonna put the hashtags in the bio. Also, she has another swingers um party coming up in our edition. If you guys are in the New York City area, again, we're gonna put her description in this bio. Go ahead and let all of our listeners know where they can find you um and yeah, drop your drop your ship. So my Instagram is at Taylor McFly t a y l O R M c f l Y also run a private Facebook group for black women that want to

be dom's. It's called the Black Doms Sorority. Yes, it's new, it's only like a week o. But I have like we all yeah, we all talk, we all give every type of vice, talk to each other about confidence, all that ship. I want to know before before this goes up. I want to know how many people were in that group. Yeah. Yeah, it's a lot of people. It's like to have to so what are the ump what was the name of that group? Again, Black dom Sorority? And this is on Facebook, Yes,

on Facebook. So I have to prove you to come in into like a private group, like you know whatever, Okay, and we'll put the link for that. Yeah. And then in September, I'll be at the sex Expo. I gotta exhibit and where it's in Brooklyn September. It's gonna be so many people there. I think Candy from Real Housewives gonna be there with her product. Oh yeah, yeah, it's gonna I think, what's the webcam website cam Soda is

gonna be there. It's gonna be It's not like it's like an exact like yeah, go Sex Expo is like everybody black, white, whatever, and they have it in Brooklyn is more for I think, I don't know, it's been around a while. Yes, Sex Expo is more like products, businesses, brands, stuff like that. Well, we hope you guys enjoy Taylor on the show UM once really good. Yeah, I think you were that. This is a lot of a ton

of info to taken. I hope that you guys, you know, are still learning more about yourselves, your sexual all the things that you may like to experience. And before we get out of here, I want to give a huge shout out to all of our patron members. Because of Patreon, we have been able to do so much um, including our last tour. But something that you guys may not know.

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bonus episodes. So thank you, guys, and once again this has been yet another episode of horrible decisions by al Right, So guys, we're taking a break real quick because one of our recent guests, you guys know her as Taylor McFly. She has not yet been on the show start overs whatever,

because she's not recent. Okay, hey guys, we haven't had her yet on the podcast, but she is bringing a ton of good tips and things about ben Dom ben Dom and swinging to Taylor McFly, who was a future guest that you guys will be listening too soon, has also experienced hedonism too at a girl Jamaica, and so we're now sitting with her now and wanted to kind of bring up some of your experience since Wheezy and I have gone through ours. So what was your experience like? Who?

So let's start with who'd you go with? So? I want with a girlfriend. She is very very like conservative about sex, so I had to convince her and that was very interesting. Why did you guys choose hedonism? Um? I brought it up to her. I'm like the friend that's always like suggesting the crazy ship and she's just like I'm just like, girl, I'm gonna quarius. You know, I'm gonna suggesting a friend that you would have fucked.

Is she a friend you would have fucked? Yeah? Okay, So like while I was there, a he know, like I did eat her pussy and we played a lot and stuff like that. She's really kind of strict about what men she kind of interacts with or whatever, but she's she loved just being an environment. So when we got there, the first place we went to was the beach where you know it's all nude and ship Yeah. Yeah, And immediately, like guys just started coming up to us. I was like, look at your thirsty ass. Like we

literally just sat down, like y'all been here? How long? But yeah, so it was just just seeing everybody naked. But when I went, it was so many young black people. I went during Young Swingers Week. Okay, so they mentioned that to us before, So what what kind of crowd was that Young Swingers Week? Because definitely the time we went, they were definitely older. So what type of crowd was that Young Swingers Week? And we're they're black people? Yeah, so it was majority black. A lot of them came

from Canada. Um, just like an age range maybe between twenty five and thirty. It was a lot of singles. It wasn't a lot of couples. Yeah, it was a lot of singles. And the guys were like fine, fine, like fine, I don't know what they did, but I'm glad it was there. They playing. Um, they were playing.

And then they were part of like they were having like a bodybuilding pageant going on because they have so they were in two separate path just they had one for best ass, so like the women were doing like the ass pageant or whatever, and that was during dinner, like so while you're eating, they have like on stage or whatever doing ship. And then they had a separate one for the men and they all had ripped ass box.

When did you I went June? It was June. Yeah, it was like June fifth through the tenth something around and your friend Marcy. I don't know why, I just that's did you and Marcy? Did you guys go into the sex club together? Yeah? How does she feel about it? It's just weird with her, Like she loves the environment and loves watching and love seeing ship, but like she's very like conservative about who she will touch. That's how my friends were. I'm just like whatever, they were all

vanilla until we got there. Then I was just like, I don't know what the fun got and they got damn drink. It was so fun. What was your favorite moment? Definitely the jacuzi and like the pool area. Yes, the dudes. I did some fucking over there. Yeah, because you know there's like the pool and there's like this whole little cabanah thing or whatever. People go inside and then when they're fucking, it's like ripe aside. I'm curious to know because from what I know, you didn't have sex that

he doesn't, right, And no, I didn't have sex. So I brought someone so I had sex with him and we use condoms. But I'm curious to know, like being out and about were you having safe sex? How did that go? Like? Oh, all my followers, No, I don't play about safe sex. So were you bringing condoms or do they have it? Or how did that go? So he do provides them? Right? Yeah, so he don't provides them.

I always make sure there was condoms. Um, because I didn't just see him by the I thought they were in designated sex areas, but I did see a lot of people sucking at the pool, and I think a lot of them were like couples, are married, couples that used to just having sex. I'm protected. I think that's what it was like. So a lot of the couples definitely, we're having sex. I'm protected. But if you want someone else, I know that, even the married people, they brought condoms. Yeah,

he does provide for sure. You gotta standon ship like always. But yeah, it was it was a good time. Would you go again, definitely. I'm trying to go on in October. They're having another Young Swingers Week. Really think it's the beginning of October. Okay, I'm trying to go long. How many days were you there? I was only there for about like four days, say, but I want to do like a week. What was your biggest takeaway? Like what

what did you enjoy the most? The people really out here doing this ship and and just being like care free and don't give a fuck, Like that's what I understand. I'm like, people funk all the time. Just go experience like one time, even if you don't funk. There was a lot of people just watching just as voyers. People ought to be voyers naturally, so I experienced like the voyers um or whatever, but until we got to the sex club. Oh that's right, I didn't go with you. Um,

I guess Mandy will tell you as a story. But she was saying that she was on the bed and like her and her friends were pretending like they were pretending. We was moaning, but we just wanted to watch everybody around up because I'm not going front that sex club. There's one thing that was very particular. It never happened to me. So we're exploring. I think this is the first night because the nick I was with gossa lessie, so I was like, all right, this is walking around right.

So we walked up to the door of the sex club and you had to remove your everything and your drink had to be down. So it's really not even like because when I've been a sex parties, I've sit my drink and watched and I've been clothed. I was like, oh, you had to take off before you even get into the room. They make you. At one point at the news side, I want to get pizza and I had to.

I'm gonna tell you about it. Yeah, it was amazing, So I guess what what advice would you give to any of the listeners who may want to attend Hedonism or any other sex like resort. What would be your advice? Go to open mind. First of all, just know you're about to see people fucking, like fucking fucking yeah. Yeah, Like I think some people go and think, oh they're gonna suck, but it's gonna be in a private room

and I ain't gonna see it. No, people gonna sunk wherever they want to fuck, and you're gonna see that ship. Did you see a lot of that daring young swingers with yeah, just sucking everywhere. I was shocked. I was. I didn't see. I saw a lot at the prude side,

and I wasn't ready for food side. So what I didn't understand, I will say I thought the frud side ment you do keep the clothes on, It just means you can keep them on if you want to, because the nude side you're required to take them right exactly. So it was the whole goddamn resort. There's no escaping this goddamn at all. Well, I'm glad that you were able to share a little bit of your experience. Um, thank you again Taylor for letting us know how you

experience here. Alright, it's bonus, bitch, that's how we start this. You already know we are here in the studio once again. I know y'all is like, damn, you don't really dropped no bonus. But there's five weeks in July and we're back. I know it's a lot of weeks. It's made us feel like we weren't putting our content, but um, yeah, we're back. And I was gonna try to do one in Miami, but I was like, no, I want to make sure we're together. I missed you guys, hope you

missed me too. And we're joined by two other ladies are really adorable. One of them is Caucasian. Very well, we're here with the Super Trip Podcast. I met one of these ladies and I did a seminar podcast studios last year. Damn yes, but um she was like, yeah, I have a PC about like acid. We should do it together. That's what this girl said to me. You know, seriously,

that was your introduction. That was over here totally. So it's called super Trip Talk, the podcast with Brianda and Puffy, and it's a podcast about radical self improvement and self growth through the antidote that is healing, which is whatever way, whatever the healing is for you. It looks different for everybody, and we just want to make other people also want

to heal. So healing is. But are those vices because you guys said, you talk about drugs and or y'all are at least smoking babes while you're on there, so are you Is it self healing through your vices? No? No, So we like to look at cannabis as a medicine Okay, not really a drug. Okay, you're what you're seeing right now. What we're doing is fun. We're in the studio. We like to record smoking in the studio, but we're very much lucid throughout the day and have we execute tasks

and we're productive. But I understand what you mean by vice or escapism, which I think is a fraction of it too. I'd be lying if I said that part of it wasn't so I numbed some stuff. But because I think that, so when I think of someone who's smoking or enjoy smoking, it's a relaxation, it's it's their advice. Because people still don't technically view it as medicine, even though you can get a medical card to go and

get it. It's still kind of considered that people do a lot of vice every morning, right, Like when mine is coffee, Yeah, I love coffee. Coffee has something that is their thing where they're like, oh, if I don't have it, I can't. It's a routine. My coffee cannabis combination is everything. Right, you have a coffee cannabis combo. Oh my god, a little hit a little cup of coffee in the morning, and I like make my to do list and then I thought it was an infused coffee.

Oh no, doesn't exist though. Flowering cod shout out to Flowering Code. They have like this awesome cannabis seem like weed coffee. I've had it. They sell it all over the city, right, but it makes They're like yeah, basically it'll go up, but like no crash and I'm like so much. They're charging for nothing. It's just an up charge. I'm getting my child difference. That's a good as question though, that that really is, But that's not how that's not

the angle we look at it as. If anything, we want to destigmatize marijuana like that and the use of psychedelic drugs to aid, and I think that we also just speak very much about like our experiences with these things. So your self care, right, so fucking trending now to say stupid like self care. But at the same time, we all are very much trying to improve ourselves, whether it looks like a stupid Instagram housetag or not um, but for like, it's a real thing. No, we're not

even social media people. Like, we straight up check each other all the time because that's the core, that's the vein, that's the skeleton of super trips. How long have you guys been friends? Are five? Four and a half years? Like the break up? So your Brianda, right, Brianda, Brianda, what's your age? What's your sexual orientation? Tell us? So, I'm twenty six years old and I identifies hetero, very sexual a lot of Listen, I've had sex with women.

You know what it is? We mistake friendly for like flirty all the time. I just I just did some heterosis male ship. You're like smiling, You're like, yeah, you gept. I'm like, she wants to fuck me. I just I'm friendly, I'm bubbly, I'm friendly. But it's funny because we actually just got um a homemal and we haven't read it yet. I don't know when we're going to read it. But

that was the question. She identifies as a straight woman but wants to have sex with women, and she was like, confused, but you just identified a straight but yet you've had sex with women. If any man walks around here and says, hey, I'm straight, but I've had sex with men that we wouldn't allow them to consider themselves hetero, I should have. But I mean there's context missing here, like what were

those sexual experiences? Like the very first one, I was coerced by a man and I was eighteen years old and this man like manipulated me and it wasn't get deep. Yeah, I was in time for sure. It was fun and this girl was beautiful and I was obsessed with her mind and it was so cool. The third time, Oh look your friend Helen. What do you talk? Wait? No? Which one? Which time we talk? Time? No? Listen? Okay,

here's the thing. People, Lespian's love me like if you can come across and I'm sorry, and I have like polyamorous leanings in that, like if you're a beautiful last person, God damn it's hard for me not to take sexual meaning there you don't pant sexual sorry and and Polly, but pant sexual leanings and that at some point if I just meet someone that's beautiful and if they if they're showing me that they adore me and ship and treating me like a deity, that the ego and me

is like fun. So we're just gonna say you're you're on the spectrum, but you're not all the way I think. But but I mean, I'm on a goal now to find like a life partner. So I mean you have a life partners still diving down. That's true. That's that's not true. You're right,