Ep119: 50 Plus Threesomes feat a Couple

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like to think that. Well, I like to think that everybody has got damn desk. Okay, it makes me feel good. Or in your car because you might be a truck driver or goddamn post office person or FedEx. Not me talking about FedEx, which yo, I told you. The con niggas been into me right, Oh see, maybe on the wire. So for those of you that do not know what con it is or live in New York, it is our right. So I'm walking like George and them niggas like, yo,

that ship. It's so crazy because some one tweeting was like, I don't know why I'll be acting like y'all k listen to the podcast out in the open. I'd be having the podcast on and my job without headphones. I said, sir, you're a construction worker. I was like, what do you listen to our podcast when my headphone taking voice always say this is our podcast and we will get you fired from your job us um. But as you guys know,

I'm your girl. Um. Mandy b a k A. Full Core Pumps aka the Booty Band a k A. Debt bitch Um and I am sitting next to water drinking wheezy hey, and we have two guests, and I want to say I'm really excited for this episode. I feel like we're getting back to our roots with you two here. So like our roots of this show was genuinely to interview just every every fool about their sex lives. And the more that we grow, like industry, people want to,

you know, come on the show. It's weird because when even when we were talking about it, I was like, industry isn't kind of just We've had authors, we've had people who are part of, like not part of, but we feel like sex industry and also kind of creative industry. They've all been coming on. So yeah, to have you guys on, I was like, Oh, this is dope, but we hadn't got misled in the past by somebody's trying

to come on. Sugar Daddy favorite episode. That's yeah. She was like, yo, yo, so wait, you don't pay for themselves. You just paid for pussy. Basically, you just paid for pussy. That was it. He was crazy. And what was crazier about it is he was like, yeah, I'm on these sides. These are how I find my sugar babies. Do you think it was completely well versed how you find your prostitutes? And it was just like right, And I was like, yo, okay,

the preliminary ship he noted ship. And then once we started talking about it, he's like, well, I mean it was splendid. Daddy. We had held a little bit. Was like, I could have made wait for the episode something else, and I'm it when it changed what was the original name? Remember,

I don't remember what. I was fed up and then I literally came the next episode and was like, see, y'all, we really don't be doing because everyone asks us, our patrons um that we get a lot of d m s about girls wanting to be sugar babies, so like for that were super excited. What han't like, It's very hard to bet someone on how they speak, right. We'll have guests sometimes it may stutter or may like talk too slow or too light, like how do you know?

But the basic questions and First of all, the dude is well off, got hundred, hundreds of thousands of followers like he I know. But when I spoke to him and we spoke to the phone, he was like, yeah, like I've been doing this for the X amount of years. But I was like, oh, great, that's gonna be great. That's what it would real life. But no, I'm super glad to have you. Sorry, So what do you want us to call you? We're gonna say your name, name you want to call it to be A and B

who you want to be? Wet I'm looking at her. So so we do you guys are together? Correct? So we have a married couple in front of us. Um, well, I guess we can. We got all of us explain how we found our guests. I was on i G Live two days ago and this nig it was like, yo, we've had fifty threesomes interview us. I was like, yeah, you know, I found that when you slide, like when you hit somebody, you guys just hit them, like hit them hard. That makes more sense than some of the

ship I'll be saying. People be like yo, me and my wife be fucking and I feel like we should come on like everybody, what's what's it like? But seriously, though, what is interesting or what makes you special? What would make people want to listen to you? A lot of girls hit us up to like, hey, I'd really love to be a guest on the show. We especially when we first started the show, we like would be like, okay, well what makes you? What makes you special? Girl? You

know I'm fun. I go out. I said that me and my one friend, we're just like crazy and we got the craziest stories. And I was like, bitch, so do we right? We are started podcast? Ma'am? I think I figured if you hit somebody what we'll get your attention. Basically, if you're a guy, I have to get your attention somehow, you know. So I felt like that was the pack. But also like having fifty three sms is like really fucking interesting. So that's where I guess we're here. And

what's funny about this super right now? She's super side. I don't because they ain't hurt my personality. I'm just oh, she said, that's no. But it's crazy because when I was looking through we just mind you, we were recording with mad guests. Literally there's five guests in our next five episodes. So we're juggling them and I'm reading her email. She's like, yeah, fifty threesome. That's already. So I'm telling my friends. She's like, what's your episode? And I was like,

I don't know. They're fifty and they have threesomes. Literally your pictures. I'm like, wait, they don't look We definitely rebring the email a few times and I was like, wait, they've had over fifty threesomes. Oh, I said, Oh, this is gonna be fun. How long you guys been together. We've been together for ten years. We've been married for six Damn. Sorry, that's a long day. She was supposed to put me on the spot then, like, oh babe together.

Yeah yeah, So what are your names? What can we call? Well, you want to call your husband? Yeah, let's do husband away. We said, what trying wife? You have to ask permission, cannot call your wife. Guys been having threesomes for ten years or just six years or just you get into the I just want okay, No, well this went back to your girlfriend that you right, this is like even before we get married, like dating. So I won't say your name, but name fifty threesomes in ten years. Yeah right,

that's just a threesomes. So you guys been married for sex, you have children together? Yeah, we have to do we gotta get so. Um, how do you guys identify are you? Are you hetero sexual queer? That's interesting, I guess by curious. I don't know. I just okay, you're one of those that don't one of those. I'm sorry, I'm not offended. Okay, but you don't want to identify yourself in any type of sexual orientation at all. You're just you. You have sex. Okay,

I like that. What about you? Do you? Are you the same? I'm most likely straight? Most likely I say that, I say that in a way. Let me let me tell what I mean by that, because because when you when you have have threesomes or foursomes whatever, you have been in scenarios where you know you and a guy are very close proximity. So it doesn't like alarm me. You know me, you are some one girl, you know what I'm saying. So, yeah, I'm straight. DP you have to be like cool with a guy, like being somebody

there you. I wanted to dive into that for one second because you said most likely straight, assuming that that just means you're comfortable. Heterosexual people should be comfortable. That like crazy homophobia, like can't touch on with the dick, that's too much. That's that's what. But that that you're not hetero like just to be like but that is what people would think of you, right, Like people will misjudge and be like, na, that's like, which is crazy

to me. If you want to nig you have fifty three so I guess as a black male, who is So we've talked about MMF threesomes before and there are a lot of guys who even don't feel like they can get hard in a room with another man. So as a black man and knowing how black men are raised, and you know you're not supposed to even be again naked in front of someone because it makes you gay or y'alli ball slapping at that point if you're deeping. So what made you comfortable I guess to be with

in a room with another man. I think it became when it's not enough. So when you have sex right one person, all right, when you got us with the girl all right, boom, let's say you fast forward. Let's say y'all bringing a female into it or Let's say you start going to strip clubs. Now you're seeing multiple women naked. Now you're like oh, and then rap videos are saying, oh, I got this. Can we cuss? Because I'm just making sure and you got this. But let

me not say we just saw feminism. Let's say when you have this lad there, this lady so down, now you're involving, especially if you have like a debt of personality I guess a scorpio or whatever you want to call it. And then um did not translate into going forward. And now you're like, all right, well this is not enough. So let's all right, let's fun two girls. And now you're like, all right, well, what can we do next?

Let's three girls, which yeah, you're just like yeah, And now you're like and then your boy like, hey, yo, this girl want to fantasy if having two guys, which a lot of girls have that fantasy. So what's your first FMFF like with her? Did you have were you? Did you bring it up to him? So this is a really interesting and wait, thought was gonna start off this way, but now who'na fire y'all? So I want to get into your stories for a horrible decision, But

I am really interested to know you guys. But then mm f idea, you said, you know it came to you to where you would allow it in that way because you've done so much now you want to experience more. Was this something that was that you brought up to him and said, hey, babe, we've been bringing all this pussy in the room, I would like another dick. Or was it to where you were like, baby, you want to try something different. Who brought it to who? And

how was it received? Okay? So this was definitely a decision that he kind of brought to my attention, and he was just like, you know, I don't want you to feel so it was unfair. You know that it's only one sided that you know, you only have a bunch of females coming, but you don't never have a male. Is this something that you'll be interested in? You know? How do you feel? So, like, what do you get? Okay? So he kind of just talked it out with me. At first. I was kind of like, you know, I

never really thought about it. You know, I enjoyed just you know, just my husband. That's it. You know, when over time, I guess we kind of worked our way into something like that, you know how boundaries I'm sorry, sorry sorry, um so is this something that before actually happened? Did you set boundaries and stuff? And also is that something that is set with women? So not to just make it like a you know you're in charge thing, but what boundaries are set when you bring women in

and what boundaries are set when you bring men? Comes down with it when yeah, so you know what it is? That's the uh like so it's just like innate, like animalistic thing they say that happens sometimes with women and other women where it's like once ye're in the threesome, right, like maybe you're submissive with him, but when another woman is there, it's like nope, and it's like you have to dominate the situation in order to have control. I've

actually more dominating in three somes than I thought. Not right now because I'm having them with the same people over and over, but like whenever it would be just like a one time thing, I was more dominant than it's ever been in my life. Like sexual experiences, which is wild. I've never seen anthing like that because it was just this chick, the one girl that was over topic and then you I've seen her was like her from the back right now, from the back range. I've

never seen her at like that ever ever. And then I think the dominant side comes out with a female. I think when the female gets involved and if she's a sub, what's you know? If she's a sub, then I feel like you kind of like take over a little bit, not like rules like oh you can't do this, this and that, but yeah, there's not really many rules. It's not really there's no, there's not really many rules. So you're able to do so. That's so, that's what so.

And we talked about this often when having threesomes, that the boundaries need to be very clear. And I talked about on a Patroon episode where I had a threesome with a homegirl of mine and I realized we didn't really talk about girl. Is that like a friend or could you'll from like Florida and all the other ship Like no, no, she's my own girl. We've been friends for I would say since to at least ten years.

We've been we've been friends like real in no homegirl, home girl, um like her kids, like we're friends like all of that stuff, Like I'm aware of our kids and so she wants to wear of all her wearing her kids. I'm aware of your children, your friends home, you know. Like she brought me in, and it wasn't until we got into the threesome where I was like, well we didn't talk about boundaries because her nigga was kissing on me and I was like, whoa. I know

kissing is an intimate thing. And so there were all these scares while I was the person being brought into the threesome, like you know that there was asked licking. It was a whole lot of ship. And that's why she wanted to bring me in because she wanted to help like open her nigga up more, not literally not open them up. But it wasn't until I got into three Simons. Since you guys have people that are brought in,

you may not know the third party feelings. There was a lot of times during that threesome I was like, oh ship, we didn't discuss this, Oh ship, can I do this? And it's also as a woman being brought in with a woman and her man, it was me feeling like I don't want to disrespect you or feel like I'm crossing boundaries, so you'll allow these other women who were brought into the threesome to kiss him and

do like I guess intimate things. Is that something that's I don't want to say allowed, but yeah, so pretty much they'll they'll ask me, you know, like what's allowed, what's not allowed? To ask me, you know, like am I uncomfortable with this or that? And I mean, yeah, they'll ask me, you know. At that point, sound like okay, because I've had situations where they say blah blah blah blah blogh, givers get mad whatever. Like I said, I'm really straightforward. It is what it is. I know what

he will and we'll not allowed. So I mean, whatever they try to do, either he'll just be like you know or allow it. So okay, Well, I we we're gonna deep dive into you guys send us emails all the time about how to have threesomes, how to bring other people in. So that's gonna be for the horrible decision. We want to save that, but we didn't got y'all motherfucker's in now, so we are gonna I guess we're gonna start with our kink of the week instead of

the vanilla shape. She has really good vanilla ship, but this kick in a week is pretty nasty, so I'm excited to bring me. I'm not looking at it again. You can't look at it's really so I shout out some own ship. It's starting. I want to show you. Don't think that it has I dount No, there's not a sound to this kink um. I do want to shout out my homegirl, Um Liz in l A. It's really building. It is something I have never done before, which now we have something new to do. Bro Um.

I don't know if you can maybe put a blur on this because YouTube, like can you if I just show it to them? So the kink of the week for this week guys is called anal acrobats. Anal acrobats is something if you type it in porn Hub, if you type it in your Google search, you will see some things. So my homegirl again, shout out Liz who told me this. This is on Evil Angel Video dot Com. I want to shout out their website because this is

kind of what they focus on. Another one with people Angels is not focused on anal This is like one of their maine This is for a long time, but this is one of the their they do whole productions on exactly anal acrobats if they people want to see the good ship for an acrobats, So you guys are probably like an acrobas what is that? So in these videos, what you will see is, um, the stretching of the anus, but they put the cameraman is laughing, he likes, he

likes said. What you will see is the stretching of the anus like sucking doctor mania. I don't know, maybe I'll be able to see some of this on YouTube. Um, but basically this video that I'm seeing right now, she's pushing a ball out of her as. One of my favorites is she puts a whole wine bottle into her asshole and she she is bring look. So they also they also spit out plants pairs. They don't spit it out vicious ship it out. Um. But it's nothing but

women um fitting these very large objects. This girl has a mermaid costume on that's pretty exciting, and drink she poured it. So basically I don't want to do too much of this, but yeah, they all look, it's mashed it out of its Look we look and they opened it up, so it's mad gaping us all of that stuff. But basically one of the best scenes in here, like I just said, is she has an entire wine bottle in her ass and the girl has a glass and she pours the wine into the glass out of her

ass um it's what you do cream pies. This is the nastiest cream pies. This is not just nat cream pie. Also would like to say, I didn't think I was gonna tell people that were listening to this show, but I will our last guest we just had mars. I had to throw up in the middle of the episode. I'm not feeling good and pray you just fucking no, I'm not sorry. I was, and alcoholis, you know, not feel like she's So it's okay, she's gonna do it

like aproach fortunate we can go away was conceived. No, No, I ate the cream pies, wasn't he But my point is, right when you showed that video, I thought I was gonna throw up again. You're so dramatic, bro, So it's not that nasty. You like Rose, didn't you say you like rosebud porn. I don't like Rose that literally, so because when they're talking, the only pointing is anal gaping. If you watch on YouTube, we just said I do not like rose and heard your face look so disgusted

when they turned their assholes inside out. And that is really the set store lines the one in Shilly and Philly. It's the set store after you leave the club. They have like a set store attached that's open seven and they had like a fourteen inch fist like I mean, it was like, I don't know, why does it stressing? Why are you stressed out? Bro? You're so dramatic. It's honestly,

the anal gaping thing. It really fucked me up, dog like seriously, I would so I am not like another thing that you can I can't like gaping, like seeing the insides. It's just like so that's another thing that if you want to look up antal gaping, maybe something that will open you into open you. But to get you into this, one of the other things is um D D P in the ass um So I actually, of course, because I watched gay porn. Um there's not

another hole. So I've been seeing a lot of guys be able to fit two dicks in there, asked at one time, and to me, I even was talking because I want him to me and ask him. We haven't done that in a while, and I'm like, I got a whole new toy, Like you're gonna have to use that to open me up first or whatever. A whole new asshole, but it is, it feels new. If you don't ask for a while, that ship go right there? And do you make I know what girls watch gay porn?

Like that. I love gay porn. But that's not why we're here. We're here because y'all. But I guess you guys didn't really identify sexually. So before we get into our vanilla ship, which is a really good article, No, no, I did. I didn't ask, are you guys, uh couple wives swinging? You're not monogamous? But how do you identify as a couple? Look, they looked at y'all don't know? Is it open? Never? We have never came up with

any rule. I'm telling you, like, this is not okay, So like, let me ask the questions and then I'll try to do it. Do you guys have sex with people together? Do you have sex with people apart? When you have sex with people a party? Know what you was about to say? I was about to say we've been to swing clubs before. Okay, that's fight without her before, that's what Okay, okay, that's monogamush No, that's swinging. I

would consider them swingers. Swinging Also bonoga mish is that coin dance Savage coined it, and basically it's when you cheat together, which I think is cute. So basically could funk other people, but while together, which is so I said, that's how I would always want to be with my partner, Like we've talked about, like to me, the whole open relationships or a guy going off with someone without me. I feel like in that way, you can grow a bond with someone else, and that's what I wouldn't want.

I don't want you to be in love with someone else. I want us to just have fun together. And if you feel like you need more pussy or you just want to experience new things, I'm okay with being there, even if I'm watching or participating. UM. So I would maybe consider you guys swingers. Um. And so that the

reason why we go to swing clubs. I think it's because that's the only place I guess you can have drinks and still at the same club clubs, But because like if you go to a rock work club, then you gotta like go back to the crib or get the Kelly. Like the sex club is just so convenient? Are you covenient? Are you guys swapping? Has anyone ever you can be heard full swap? Have you heard about that? So you guys on other couples, We've been up here

to Lula real quick. This ain't no ad. So literally that's been as I'm gonna be taking my friend there, but literally all shout out to the group chat, they all came. They flew on from there. I think no and none of us suck, but it was so my friends. My friends are all planning to come back. Um, and that's literally they're like, oh, sax club. So when we went, this was all of their first experience at this type

of place. And so at the bar and we didn't even make it upstairs at the bar, this girl was given a nigger head at the bar, and so my friends this was their first time being in a public setting because it looks like a club, it looks like a little lounge downstairs, and so this is just going ham on his niggas dick at the bar because you know, you drop your bottle off to the bar and where he's trying to get shots because it's the most most

she's going ham. So we go upstairs and as we go upstairs, this white woman is funny because we just talked about this white woman has the largest they have to be like Jesus fs. And literally we go to the couple's room all the way in the back um and all she's doing, she's given about four different niggas and all you say, I'm like, damn, my titties don't move like that. And she's like, so now me and

all my friends are so so amused. We're all just staring and she's like, watch this lady's and she likes now, she's like, this is what you do. So she's spitting. She was giving us so she wasn't really sucking the dick, but she was just spitting so much and you just saw her tips. She's just like and it's all black guys in the room. She's the only big and she just and I'm like, damn, I never did that before. And there's a lot of ship out and did and

so literally my friends are all having fun. There's a couple having sex and literally next thing you know, bitch, one of my home girls start there and we're all like shocks. We're like, oh, bit, she really fucking but she experience. So that's the thing. And we've talked about these sex clubs and swingers clubs before. There's also a ton of resorts in Mexico Jamaica where you can go and have open sex with something. I was wanting to talk to her because, um, while we have a couple

who does go to those places. You posted a video on Twitter and it was like a sex resort but somebody but it wasn't. It was a hotel. It was Safari Okay, So someone was videotaping two women and that they were eating each other out in the pool. I wanted to ask you guys down. It was like, it's still a great fear of mine because you just you guys have that fear of being videotaped or someone catching you in the act with someone else. What are your

y'all spears if you're going to sex clubs together? I would definitely say that was one of my fears. Um. We had an incident maybe recently where I ran into someone that's really close to being with my dad. He's looking at me. Yeah, he's like real close like my dad. She got comfortable. Now, she got comfortable. I tried to play it off like I didn't see him, but you know he's over there doing his thing with his girls and stuff like that. And then you know, just like

just say what's up. So we all here, We all here from the same thing. I was saying, I get it, because maybe you just want to get it over with. Yeah, I mean it turned out good. I mean he was like, hey, you know, I didn't see you. You You didn't see me, so be good, you know, And that was it. So it worked out. That was funny because you yeah, she's keeping on for a second. She was like, I don't know what to do. I don't know what just go talk to that Like he got too big. Girls got

too good for the girls. Can't worry about your So, uh, this is fellowship. This is from Ashley Madison. By the way, So if you guys know about this website now blog dot Ashley Madison dot com. So used to be known as a site for men to have affairs as women and um moment. Most of the time they would pay or offer exchange money. So that's why this site got

taken down, but basically it's an a fair website. This article is everything you ever wanted to know about nonmonogamy, so it gets into um different aspects of non monogamy. It says one in five Americans has participated in consensual nonmonogamy, more commonly as an open relationship. UM. It also says when you get into affairs, which of course is what makes something non monogamous, affairs are the most common form of non monogamy, with sixty of men and of women

saying they've had an affair at least once. UM. Open relationships were very familiar with. UM, I guess we do. You want to talk a little bit about open relationships and then we'll get into swinging as well. UM, I mean we did you read it well? I guess I could, because I mean I can talk a lot of it. I think we should talk about it. And in an open relationship, both partners agree that it's okay to have

connections with others outside of the relationship. People define open relationships differently, and there are many different types of open relationships, but they all follow under the non monogamy I'm Another big word about that is connections with other people, right, that's I don't want that ship you. You better not like no all the whole you can like you see, but I don't want you to like a bit. But some people connect like if I know this one, like

there's want to be. The reason that I have to have a relationship is because I feel like if I let a nick out the bitch, like, I can't really fuck other nigga's or bitches without a connection. So it's only fair to have it this way, right, So like, um, the personal dating is a similar same way, right, He's like, I just can't puck these as like I gotta go, I gotta like feel a little bit of something and

then like I'm into it. And whereas swinging it wouldn't really be for me because a lot of people that I in my opinion that sway like really like having that sex with their partner, like having that experience, whereas I'm more so like I wanted to be a whole thing. You even mentioned like if we go to the club, we have to bring a bit home today. I would

rather do all of that than a swing. You were gonna say, well, I feel like I feel like that's the difference between swinging and then people who are non monogamous or like all the whole swinging, you're just GTF. You're like just down to not not like you know, you still have to have a job, talk a little bit string Essentially, you're there to have sets with someone else. People who are just not monogamous or you know, in a Polly relationship or whatever their situation is, they want

to have a connection with someone else. They may want to get to know the person, this, this, and that, and sets may not be priority number one at that moment. So before we continue our conversation on three stones, which we know you all of, I want to let you guys know that this week's episode is brought to you

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back to the show. So I like that. I like that you said that. So swinging is actually the most widely accepted and practice form of non monogamy. It became popular in the nineteen sixties during the sexual Revolution. UM but two thousand eleven CNN article claim that there are as many as fifteen million couples in the United States alone who engaged in the swinging lifestyle. And it's crazy because I do go to um a nude beach in Jersey in the summertime, and it's that's where I've found

out about I'm in the lifestyle. Maga hello, um yeah, so like to me, that's also something that's more important to our listeners to know because when I go to Caligula, there'll be like two white people in there. It's all black. It's hell Spanish people, but maybe Collgula is the Spanish word. It sounds like, I don't know Calligula's that I don't want to look closer to. One of the other forms

of non monogamy is polyamory. UM. Polyamory means exploring multiple relationships with different people simultaneously, based on negotiation and open community, open communication between all partners. Um. It's funny because well, I don't identify as poor, no, you do. Open But it's funny because I mentioned a relationship that I'm possibly like we're talking, and well, mad people wanted to be like, that's not what that means. There's there's polyamory, there's polygamy,

and there's polygamy. Polygny is when or ligan, So polygny is the practice of having one husband or like more than one husband or more than one wife at the same Polygany is what I was referencing, which is where a man is able to have multiple wives and be a multiple relationship. And I say that as polygamy with an end. For those that wanted to try to correct me on SoundCloud, Um, it's because he would not allow

me to have multiple husbands or multiple relationships. He would be the only one able to have which is actually it's a common practice. And yes, polygany is when it's the man who's able to have multiple multiple wife so polygamy could be a woman. Um. And so with polygamy, that's actually what's commonly practiced and not only Africa but the Middle East. Um. But it's also to where the man takes not only control of you know, not control, but has say of what going on. But all of

the women are pretty much treated fairly. So if one gets a new house, all of them get a new house. If one gets a new car, they are in the car. So it is something to where you do kind of have to be financially. Yeah, no, it's not a sugar daddy. Don't do that. No, man, I know that. Not even bring up what happened. I get what you're saying. He's the ultimate or something. I fucking flip. He was so mad at that our Toronto Live show. So I'm not gonna say his name, but probably have popping dude out

there in Toronto. Came to the show. A lot of people k who he was. He was just like I

want to in Toronto watching a round. I don't know if he's a rapper like something, he does something, he does something, But anyway, he came to our show and he jumped on stage and he did this battle with me with like back and forth of catory categories in right before he left, he said, by the way, like because I've been talking about a trouble that I mean, He's like, you know my girl, and I like, you know where well, he said, he's with one of his girls.

He has a lot of girlfriends. Yeah, he brought only one, he said. I don't know if he said he was in a trouble two but he was like, yeah, like we're open. I was like really, so like you pointed to her super cute black girl, he was a blacked to. He was like yeah, like we're open, like completely open,

and you know her as well and me too. And he was like, ethically non monogamous and he said that word, and I appreciated that because you know, ethically putting that word in front of it, a lot of us assume nonmonogamy is a bullshit. Those are all non monogamous terms, and some of them are like affairs, isn't there as one of them? Right, which I don't believe it because like we talked about just one, but affairs is more betrayal.

Affairs is what you will someone not being monogmous, So like it's it's part of that, right, and it is how people associated in front of I've heard people tell me like, my nigga is cheating on me when he's telling me he's going out with a bit, like oh my god, that's like that's how people think about no monogamy. So see, putting ethical in front of it lets you know that there's both consensual parties, right, Some cocksucker so mad, she got mad in the audience shouts out, Nah, that

ain't no open ship. He's just as a pimp preferred to him because he said he had multiples. He pretty much called her and me, and I was like, look at the girl, because I think a lot of people have that idea that when you deal with a man who you're allowing to have multiple women, they want to put this title like we don't value ourselves as women because they do. It is also another thing that I

really don't like that happens to me. A lot people act like this isn't my choice, like I'm settling, Like I'm choosing to be this way because oh, he's just gonna suck other bitches, you know what I mean. Like, so that's why you're doing you know what. He can't understand that situation for himself, so he put that on you. And a lot of women do that more to me, they don't believe that I'm making a constant choice every

day to be in something open. But I'm in a very healthy relationship with both people, like two people and looking to have another one. Like I'm not just like settling on these two. I really like exercising my right to fun other people should they both do, you know? And they enjoy it, and like, I'm in a really healthy and safe space. And it doesn't necessarily mean that it Ni is a pimp because he's sucking the both

of us. Is that when it comes to emotions and having these threesomes is what is the I guess aftercare, um of would you guys invite these people into the bedroom? Not that I don't necessarily sweet, but not not something when there's when there's other piece. Don't let this mean she'd beat yours. But but it's definitely like, so, first off, I guess I really want to ask, like, how do you find the girls that you're having threesoms with outside of swingers clubs? Women in mentire? Oh wait? Can we

can we segu into this? I guess this is a horrible decision. Now we're going full throttle with the cigu segue it with it. This was really know a segway. I'll just you know, I'll just think she does um but I guess. Okay, So if you'll haven't noticed already, this is an episode on three Sins. Once again, after this fucking episode, uh, don't ask us when we're goddamn three some questions because we're about to ask all of them now. By the way, again, for those of y'all

that I think we cannot keep having conversations. This is our third Threesome episode no ship in life, and they are not the same. None of them are. Know they do, but they don't. So one of her questions, which I want to start, because this is how it all starts, how do you not only communicate with each other that you want to bring someone into the bedroom, but how does it happen? Thank you, everybody wants to know this. You know, this is seriously, Um, you got notes inst um.

I think personally for us, it kind of just happened that way. And like I said, because I had a friend who you know, she was my best friend, who was she's bisexual, she was you were in love with okay, in case they didn't hear that she was engaged with another girl. You know, we hung out, so she kind of introduced me to kind of like that lifestyle. You know. Then when I got with him, Um, what lifestyle? The lifestyle just being with other females, just like your girl

and girl action. Um. Yeah, And then I would say maybe like he just brought it to my attention one day during dating, like, hey, what do you think of you know? Yeah? Can I ask you? Because I'm actually I actually cringe when guys be like, oh you like girls, can I have a threesome? So what how did you introduce the threesome to her? Like what is it that you said? Because I actually hate when guys ask me that,

knowing that I did with women? So how did you bring it to her to where you were okay with it? We'll be behind it, um, So y'a would be a nice like sev five. All right, let's say go right into this. So so like, all right, this situation happened. Yea situation happened. I know, I know now I know he can bleep. I can just suck it up, like no, no, no. When the first girl happened, that was like years ago.

That was before like ship was in you know, like now in music you talked to Cardi B and everything, like it's mainstream now if you your girl don't have a girl's kind of like what's wrong with y'all? Almost? So this was like years ago, so we'll fast for it, like maybe five six years um, And this girl um

that we were No, we weren't flirting. She got my number at like this store whatever, and so something told me like, let me stop keeping this ship like on the load, like let me just come home and just say like this was what it is, like, Hey, what's your thoughts? Wanta bring us you know, someone home? Or do I continue want to be I don't like the word boy or like, but didn't want to hide it from I didn't want to hide it. Yeah, and a lot of guys, I guess they felt like, yeah, yeah,

they want to be deceitful. But I guess we we want to be because we feel like our relationship at home can't handle. Hey, you know, I want to another girl every once in a while, like you know what you think about that? You know? And don't get me wrong, that's not going to work for every guy, So don't take this and run with like, oh, I'm just gonna take this bitch home. It's gonna work. Like no. But I came home and I was like, hey, actually I asked the girl first. I said, Yo, are you into trips?

And she was like yeah, I'm I was like, okay, I feel your energy. So I came to I came to her and then I was like, yo, what ship thoughts? And this is at the time we this was at the house, and we at the house and we had like a room that we were making when what's the movie called came out? A dungeon in the house? Great? What we had my bedrooms? So what we're gonna do? I know? No, so fuck big, let's just make you

gotta leave. I got an extra bedroom. I want everybody keep thinking, not for the blue check like houses, like regular people houses. We actually got her first blue check three some off, so um, so I asked her and we were making like a room, like a red room. So we started buying toys and ship like that, and we don't know how to use toys, but it just was the ideal. But honestly, like that, I think that's really cool because that's just a moment of like learning together,

Like how do I like? Just I love that too. So we was making the room and then that girl happened and I was like, let me just bring her home and then she was like all right, cool, you feel me? So from then no one this is what made it, I feel like, because the first one was so great. It may have been the best experience, and like we've had plenty of experiences. We made it so great. Were you like just super comfortable? Like? What was it?

Was it? Her? At first? I was a little uncomfortable, but when she came and she was just really just cool. You know, we we bob people for moms, you know, we shared the same interest, and she was just really relaxed. She wasn't like going overboard. It's just it's just clicked.

Like I can't even describe it. It It was just like, here's my question to you though, because I feel like a lot of women, especially when they're super um and I don't want to use the word possessive, but in a in a relationship, that idea of jealousy comes across right away? Was there no inkling of Nigga, you really got this bitch's number and now you're gonna bring her into the bedroom with me? Like, was there any inkling on? Damn?

You really just out here giving your number out? Like how did how did you respond to him saying, yo, I met this woman. Because we've always said that the woman should bring in another woman and you shouldn't allow that for the man. So for him to bring this was there ever, what we saying I think in order to like stop, but there ever a shitty feeling to him saying, yo, I gave my number to this girl I asked her. She liked he did all the betting

before bringing her here. Right, what was your immediate thoughts to him saying, hey, I got a girl for us. Well, honestly, I did feel some kind of way a tabbit, but it didn't bother me as much, only because of the fact that he's been you know, we've been discussing it for a little while now communication y'all, So we was kind of just like when he brought up to my attention, I was like, okay, al right, well, you know, let's

give it a try. You know, I didn't try to think too deep into the fact that, oh my god, you know, you over here and talking to some girl on the side, because you know I can easily just find him, you know, not trying to be smart, you know what I mean? Up Like, I don't know, guys, we just be sucking up. If you're gonna do something, you wa get caught eventually. So you manage jealousy? Now, like,

do you still have those feelings? Like how do you guys know I mean, because I mean, at the end of the day, you with me, you know, do you ever feel like bringing people in? Because I know that this was again we're getting us up for a second. How do you deal with managing jealousy? Like I feel like if I was younger, if I was like two, would be different. How about you if you don't late my late twenties, So no, no, no, you're like, no, no, no,

you don't know what sex is like until over twenty five. Blah, It's fine, but I can only imagine. We are only twenty eight, but I can only imagine now, like what my sex maybe like. But I couldn't handle jealousy. To me, it's finding a man though, Like who thinks the way that you do? Because I still meeting guys, and well I do talk the young niggas, but I still talk. No, I'm not playing. But if I do our audio, every every boy, what social let's go. You can't see on

the camera. You can't see in the audio our engineers. It was Christopher and he's does all of our episodes, and this thing is looking shocked, right, I mean, I mean, how many episodes been here? Their episode? Well he was coming by her look co signed everything, Maybe because they'd be trashing me for it, but they'd be going through the same issues that I go through with my two year olds and they go through with a little thirty

seven year olds. I ain't worried about it, but but it's shocking to hear that because I feel like a lot of men at that point still have that possessive mindset or aren't open to doing the things that you guys are doing. Maybe also that you've been together for ten years, you guys have communicated a long way with growth, not only out of the bedroom but in the bedroom.

I think it feels like how you I don't want to get all like worthy and ship like that, but I think it feels like it feels like how you view your sexual experience to a degree, So like if if you've used sex as this is something that we share one on one, passionate, this is our love, this

is our atmosphere. It depends. But if it's like if you feel sex size like yeo, I got this seven two year old thirty seven year old, like I just want to I just want to come, maybe come, because women don't come, Like it depends on how you view it, so I feel like it sex. I like that. I think I think what it would be even better said to us, how you view sex with other people because you're sex can be sacred, but maybe with other people

it's not that big of a deal. Actually, damn, I don't know if you want me to say this, but the girl I'm dating, let's go hunt it suck somebody else. And she was just like laughing about it on the phone with me and the nigga that we're dating, because she was just like me, y'all was fucking I was like, damn, oh kay rny at the videos whatever, and like it's so crazy how and the moment I'm like you that weekend, But at the same time, like you're the phone a me.

Now we're playing on our vacations together, Like I know where your energy and attention is. And that is how she treats sex with other people. That's how he's been treating sex. Well, that's how I treat sex other people. So it is nice to know that there's something different there right like when it happens or if there is a person outside of that open relationship, Like we've all made it very clear, there's certain people in our lives

that we have to respect. That's part of my open relationship rules, right, Like, if I'm just talking about sucking some nigga, you'll know. But if I meet someone I'm interested in, like you to tell them before you decide to do something person um No. But I mean, like if if it's just a fling thing, that is how we talk about them. But there are people that hold

more weight in my life. Right, maybe if I suck a X, right, Like, let's say Jeeves have stuff to him a few times, right, Like, they don't talk about nigga. They don't be making jokes on me yet because they know that that's someone in my life that's is here to stay and they respect that. But I think what's dope with y'all is that it seems like you put more emphasis on your personal sex lives and probably swinging is fit for you because you don't want it otherwise.

So here's my question to you guys. After your first threesome, how do you bring up that you want more and at this point more lad into threesomes, to foresoms, to find someoms and eventually MMF threesomes, which I also want to get into a little bit. Well, we kind of got into it in the beginning, but how do you continue to grow in having three suns with your partner? And also, I really also want to get into how do you guys stay safe? Are you guys asking these

other partners to get tested? Are you guys bringing them in multiple times? Do you guys have like regulars? How does it work? You guys have had? Goddamn the first one still here? The first one, y'all had a three Well this night, I know, you know how your friends were talking to like for like five hours on that. It's really happened, Like it really was like all night for five hours. It was. It was like, yeah, like

we into the next day. She still there walking out the sun coming out like like I said, like her, she's awesome, And so do you guys have conversations with her? Because then would she not be considered a unicorn? How does that work? Is she in a relationship or she had a kid? Recently? Y'all talking her while she was pregnant? Actually for the podcast something like yeah, we the podcast just asked us what we were, like, would you if

someone asked someone there was a girl mis pregnant? She wrote us in and she's like, what should I do? I'm pregnant. I want to have a three show. She wasn't showing you. She wanted to know if she could tell the she should tell her. The girl, huh are you right now? Y'all are just what you're looking at? It? Choice over here? Um, I want to know something hilarious. What's funny about whole pregnancy conversation. I'm positive I'm not pregnant because she took a pregnancy test. That's how much

she would I'll tell you what test. Home girl really ain't really accurate all of that. So six in the morning, I'm walking home last night, right my homegirl with think she's pregnant for like the last two weeks. I'm passing by the bodegue. I'm like, funk the ship, we're getting it. I go in there. The fucking pargness has thirty dollars. I was so pissed. But anyway, there was three in it, and she was like, oh my god, I can't. I

was like, can one make sure it work? But really I was like, anyway, no, I just have a period. But anyway, um, but that also does not mean any right. I'm just oh wait, wait, wait so you can have wait wait, wait so bad and be pregnant. You can all these years when a girl touched you, like, oh I got my period, like I will say doctors, and like my mom was pregnant with the period. But they've all described their period as different and there was not as much. By came on the twentieth last month. They

came on the twenty this month. My ship is okay, but I want to make sure we answer all these questions because if y'all motherfucker's write us another email about three sons getting deleted, so I guess, but I guess we didn't get into um, and it's something that I think is important. More so, like I said, the aftercare of three stims, you now invited another energy into the bedroom. Um, whether it be two vaginas three have y'all ever did more than two men? It's the bedroom, No, just one

other man. So you've invited these other people into the bedroom, and of course energies are exchanged. That's what sex is. How do you guys reaffirm the love with each other? How do you guys know that you guys are still a couple in together and that y'all aren't gonna go away or straight away? How does how do you guys reaffirm like that that stuffer each other? You answering you on me? But that's question. But come right into this last night, that kind of almost happened. It assume many

drinks of well, everybody was like everyone wasn't there everything? No, my friend, so my friend in Atlanta shout out. I'm not gonna give her name because she probably don't want to know, but Trapeze in Atlanta. She went there. You want everything closed down? So let Trapeze is in Atlanta for all of our Atlanta followers. And she went one weekend, literally went the next weekend and had to call me and be like, I feel like this can become an addiction.

I probably shouldn't go anymore. Is this gonna be like damn is addicted? No? I mean it came in bro it's fun. Crystal was like, which, let's go again. We went on Halloween for our first time, so it was kind of like a party. We all went. I've never so here's the crazy thing I gotta bring you to. You go to the one, the expensive ones five and like none of them I had sex in It was more like I think the bad miscaf staction about sets clubs is that everybody's like fifty five plus and like

old and up there like oh my man. Okay, anyway, so after care, what do you guys say to each other after a three? It depends on the girl because she'd be right like time to go. She depends on you kick them out. I don't care, say gir outside, I don't care him out, but I get irritated. I feel like a dude. No offensive guys in here. I feel like I do because I'm like, okay, you have fun, get out? Why are you still here that? I don't feel like you should still hit me here? I like that,

but they hanging. They likes emotions. I do that. If you feel like that, how how does it start? Are they just sucking you the second they get in there? Because if they're not, they are feeling comfortable with you a little too comfortable. I'm sensing that. So that's something we're still trying to, you know, figure out where it's like, yes, I think you're like you're more so like, all right, we had this experience we gave you. Like some girls

want to be blindfolded, tied up. Some want to be It depends on what I mean, Like, think about it. You're entering, like I've never really been a guest star like that, but I can only imagine if like, because I'm a sensitive person, right, so if I come in on the space with this couple and then like I'm already feeling like I'm the one who's alone, and then I'm like left out because you kick me out, Like maybe I do want to be touched a little bit.

I know I'm not. Let's put this in perspective, is that this is not just yo, it's like ten eleven they come over and then like one o'clock, let's let's go. Now this is like like you know, seven, like whatever coming through. But that's my way morning. A little more understanding to that. Now, if you don't like that, maybe that should be said up front. But I think she's picky.

It depends on who the person is, That's what it is, and what capacity do you want them to like when you're not picky, when you feel like they could chill. Is it like all of you guys in the like you like them in your bed? Do you guys have a guest room that maybe you offer them? Like what do you do after, it's more like, okay, if we've been like I said, we've been doing stuff for a couple of hours, I don't want to see the sun come up and you're still here. Say that ship you read,

I'm ready asleep. So how do you feel about do you ever? Is there any scenario where you feel okay with a girl fall asleep with you all on in the bed. Never? I think that that should be said, especially if it's coming from because that's the thing with a lot of women, um, when it comes to sex, especially when you're involved in So when I had my threeesome, I got flowed. I flew that um. So I was with them for a whole weekend. We did everything together,

but I would let them have their special time. I would either go downstairs and watch TV or I took a long shower because I knew they were gonna keep sucking after we all had sex together. But a lot of women don't like feeling like they're being kicked out. They don't like the idea that they felt used. Because this is especially when it's two people. Now you feel

like in the bed with them every night. Yeah, we slept all together every night, We slepped all together in the bed um, so that was like a thing to me, like and he slept in the middle. I cuddled behind it like we all slept differently, and I would. And it was crazy because he had a problem initially with me coming in the bedroom because he saw all of

our messages together. But she was a friend that I've been wanting a funk forever, So in his mind he was like, oh, well, bro, she really just want to suck you. She don't want to suck me too. I think that's that's the difference with us. It's not we're not I'm not trying to our horn or whatever, you know.

But I think I feel like when people come into our atmosphere, our situation, they liked they like both of us, you know, because typically when you get with a couple is like one and I mean, he's a really good looking like dope. But I really want to I want to mention one thing that I think it might help you a little bit into getting the interest of the unicorn.

And I can't speak from my personal experience, but one of my best friends, her name stuff, she's in an episode, our Unicorn episode, and when she started doing it, like we would have conversations and I would be like, do you ever find yourself going on these states with couples and getting a little bit jealous of their love together? She's like, no, the more than love they are, the more attracted I am to them. She's like, I'm almost like high off it, Like it's it's hot to me

that they're so into each other. So it's just gotta remember sometimes if you're giving off that energy, sometimes they do want a piece of what you have for little bit and enjoy it together. I think when I was having um, I mean right now, it's not like that we're all together, right, but um, I've had three sims with a reoccurring girl with it the guy was dating, and I noticed that was what she did like about it.

She got to be in that couple or at Truffle for those few hours and maybe that did include the cuddling and ship like that that I had with him, and I noticed it was her things. She never said it, but I get it. She'd come over and be like, what's he gonna cook us? And like be smiley about it, y'all was scissor. And when I woke up, so see, I think this is what you just said is a

good segue into the next question. So I want to know, and I think a lot this is also a question that I think a lot of our our audience wants to know. What is the range of different type of women that come in? Are these sex workers? Are they strippers? Are they your friends? You guys also have a sugar mama who's involved with you guys, um and so in what capacity are what was the range of Dude, it's a girl. Yeah, you ain't gotta shows right now, We're gonna do it because we got cameras. I want, I

want put on streets. Okay, but it's what is the range of women that are in the bedroom with you guys? Because they're not sex work? Are you guys paying? They're not saying so y'all aren't paying. They're not sex workers. So what is the range of women that are joining

you guys in the bedroom? This is anywhere from a I guess friends was like the beginning, I want to say, and then like as we graduated into it and went to like we used to go to strip clubs happy like okay, I mean like when strip clubs and so wait, you wouldn't at least pay strippers when you asked them to come home, they want to come. Ye, strippers. Not all of them are sex workers, I know, but I'm asking like ever because he said we did it a lot like so that never what's the spot in Jersey?

Whatever the places up in Jersey? They these strippers straight off the boat. So they're like yo, straight off off like poppy poppy back chew U. Sorry, I'm sorry, we got no chill. It's like you but not um. I think maybe only once or twice. It's just that one strip club, but everybody else here I wouldn't know. I think it was probably like three something probably, I think, okay, But for the most part its women who genuinely want to join you guys in the bedroom, and you do

meet them out in public. Do you find on the internet, like where do you where are you guys finding these women? What's the A couple of them websites, websites share they want to because answering these questions anymore, guys, well you have tender, which is a really popular one. Um, but people suck it up because they don't allow I think guys sucking up because they think it's about them. You have to allow the woman to make that connection. Like if a man I want to just I know it's

probably a female audience. No, we have a lot of an speaks. When it comes to threesomes. You have to back the funk up. You are not one a, you're not the first mint, You're not beyonest anymore. All right, so just definitely, Michelle, let them know you are not even Michelle. You are the camera. No shape, you're you're now you get paid right now? He go, yeah, right now, he's like, I let you in here. No, but like you're you're in the back. Like and this is what

I had to learn too. I was like, you know, trying to be involved. And then like when the girls don't establish a connection, it's just it's not a genuine experience. It's not the math. You're not maximizing your experience. So when you like just step out and let let's just let the girls rock out, like let them talk. If she's on tender, let them rock out. And if they're vibing, they're gonna want to. Dick's going to be Yeah, they're gonna want to Dick Like you're good, you're good, trust me,

you're good. But just like just fall back, let your girl take the lead, and that's advice everybody usually. So do you guys used Field as well? Oh that's not orange one. I think it was whack. You didn't like that Field were good? So I really want to get into this because one of your threesomes that have been ongoing outside of the friend or the person who joined in the very beginning. Um, y'all got a sugar mama?

How does this go? How does this work? Because a lot of man I want to know how they find sugar mama's. So how does this work? How did you guys find her? And in what capacity of ships? I got you? I got she the caraman want to know? You want to say, she just took us. She took us. She took us to a c um last week. She's taking trips. We went to a c we got yea, yeah, she got the fat are like you has a trance sittor Okay, but you guys have grown to like really

enjoy her. How did you meet her again? She likes stripper? Um? Yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't never find sugar sugar love and on tender. Actually I just find zellas. Apparently it's kind of like not spoken about, like it's not a place to even for sugar mama. So she's a sugar mama because clearly we had a splendid daddy in here. So what did she do for you guys as a couple and in exchange, you guys give her the threesome experience. But like y'all go on trips? Is it like y'all love each other?

How does that work? It's where like just you know, trips, you know, we might go to from places like he said, a c um hotel room. She got the cabana, yeah, and the bottles. Yeah, I mean it's all my snap. She owns a car. Damn, I got paid one. I know. We didn't know that. We didn't know at first because right when we just kind of she just got she got the room. At first, she was like, yo, all right, I'm gonna come out where y'all at. I'm gonna get the room at like some like couple of spots they

had like a hot tub and stuff. So we didn't think too much. I didn't think too much of it. I don't know, Yeah, we just saw all right, she just got the room for us, and she wanted to chill out that night. Just it was a good night yeah, and then I think later we was like and then she paid like our rent for a couple of months. Whatever. What y'all y'all like dick and pussy like that. Yeah, she a real one, but happen it just like it sounds cheesy, but it literally naturally. No people do ask

me like how did I get my apartment? The nigga who had me on pay roll and shout out to him because he listened to the show, But like, did you ask me where I met him? And I'm curious to Applebee's because I didn't ask, you know, we were just taking about that. No, No, I didn't ask. We worked together for a whole year and he was just taking all my friends out. It was a gradual thing which I met him at Applebee's. It wasn't think where.

I just said, beat. You want to tell females, if minimum wage went up, then your pussy needs to go up, all right? So no more apple Bee's niggas need. I was a bartender there a work no one for dapple It's when I first moved to New York. They had just opened one across from Barclays, so I was there. I ended up quitting. I was gonna fight one of the other bits, like they was trying to play me on from Florida, I'll beat yours. But it was literally

going to working. I about to fight the other bartenders, like this ain't the environment I need to be in. But he came. He came and sat in my bar. I didn't really Nigga Flatbush and listen, I think apples across the So I'm working and he's literally at my bar. He asked for us to put the magic game on. Money this is I know later that he knew who I was, so of course I'm from Orlando, so he asked for me to put the magic game on and I'm like, you're a fan of ORLANDA okay. So he

goes to pay his bill. I didn't even take care of him most of the night because it was a busy night. I go to drop him his bill. We talked a little bit. I see his idea, like, oh, you're from Florida. Cool, So we talked a little bit. Nigga. His tab was forty dollars. He left me a forty dollar tip, so I was like, oh, you gotta come back, sir. I'm like, oh, nigga, forty dollar tip on a forty dollar bill and make a huntred percent. Hello. So I

was like, okay, you should come back. And it grew from him then like while I'm here, like, let me take your friends out, And we went out for a whole year before we even had sex, and then a whole year he was taking me and my friends. Know I'm saying, I'm saying, like the typical guy, Oh I'm not I'm tipping five dollars or hey, you gotta get to me. I'm not getting you. If you do something that the average guy doesn't do, you're already come back again. And it was just like super chill. But he also

another thing. And what you've even said with giving her more of the room. Niggas who come off is thirsty or like damn, let's all have a three. We get turned off. It's a super turn off. So we don't have a whole meal this week because this is pretty much our home meal, right, like how to do this three stuff that there's something I wanted to address that I feel like it's before so basic. People always asked me this. So I was out with Beard, but who's I was talking to in my trouble? And when we

go out. We danced really hard, like we just love. So maybe people I don't know, they know we're sucking or not. Let's I start working on because he's like all the time. We get in the car when his friends were going to the spot, and the dude is like, to me, I said something about a girl about how she was cute and everybody was laughing about it, and he was like, wait, are you gay? Like you have

a girlfriend? I said something like that and I was like I do, and he was like, but I thought y'all were and he was like, oh, actually, and then he ended up telling his friend about the three of us, so then he was super interested. Right, He's looking at pictures and he's like, oh my god, like this is is this real? And like naked for real? And it was funny as funk. And then he says to me, which I feel like people always ask, so you guys don't have sex? How does this start? Like how does

it happen? How does how does it? Don't? People always ask that? So I don't even know how to describe it because every threesome I have always started different. You're all different. Work. Did you see a pattern at all? Because a lot like, for example, right, like I'm assuming when people ask this they mean like you're in the bed, Like, how does it like? What happens? Right? So like the last threesome that I had, how it started when they had sex for the first time? Wait, say the difference

between your last threesome that started? You guys were in a group chat first, so you all met. What about how did the threesomes start differently? So we have the three something that you've had, not not even what you were doing with the collect and the other guy, But what's a different way than the threesome has started for

you before outside of you? And how when we're talking about started, I'm talking about I think when the guy asked the question, I think he meant literally when we're all three and the alright, so the guy and the guy gets the two girls or the girl gets whatever. Here's how I could describe the last one I had with Jeeves, which was last year in the summertime. We met a girl in field, We got upstairs, we're all

three sitting on the couch. I started pulling up dumb Instagram videos while we're drinking, and she leans in closer to see it and kisses me. Then he sits there and he kisses me. Then we all started making out. That's how it happens with Beard, Bay and Scissors, right. We were all in a group chat for a month before, a month a half before he's known about her for a minute. We FaceTime like it was a long time coming, but it never met. So that night we go to

the club. We're all flirting. It's great. We get back to the hotel room. I don't know what happened. They both sat on the best started watching TV like I guess they just looked at each other. They started kissing. I went to the bathroom to do something. I come out like, I think they're waiting for me too. When we had the three girls over it the stripper and but you had three, I had two girls. It's always about kissing me and two other girls. It's like, that's

not time I've always had kiss start. We went to the kitchen and me and the other girl went to the kitchen and came out, Oh yeah, you're laughing. And then we came out and she was eating her out on the couch. She was like, Oh, you know what's crazy about this? People have rules about not starting without each other, so which is hilarious because most of my three simes start where the other one is like, oh so it's weird. So my I can just name my two most recent resoms. Um, the one where I got

flued out. Um. With that one, I kind of already knew what I was going there for. So once the kids was downstairs and we got our time alone, UM, it just kind of like yeah, um, but it was more so like we were all in the bed together and my homegirls type it. So she like started pulling the toy out and started vibrating and like just rubbing on her nigga and then like pulled her dick out and was like stroking it in front of me, and then we started that way. I'm sorry, I'm not minister.

I don't know she has she has vibrated toys. So while like she's pulling his dick out, I'm there in the bed, so I'm like watching, like I'm trying to let her take the lead. But she pulls the toy out, She's she has a toy on her pussy, she's stroking his dick. This was there. This was their first time bringing someone in, and that's why you know she was safe for bringing me in. Um, Now they didn't have so many I'd be like, oh, bitch, I wanted to go on that trip while you burn that other host.

I know you're playing now, um, but no. So that was that. The other experience, it was me and this guy had been sucking with his baby mama, and they came and picked me up, and on our way back to his house because he lived up like up in White Plains, So on our way back to his house, she just started sucking his dick in the front seat. And so as she sucking his dick in the front seat, he reaches back to me and starts like rubbing my thigh and stuff like that to get me warmed up.

Then we got to the when we got to his house, we couldn't finally got damn wine opener, so that that was that. So no wine. So he rolled all of us blunts and we just started passing the blunting of it, and then she went back to sucking dick, and then I joined, I think this is where the guy, this is where his part comes into play. All right, So besides falling back, yes, the guy, you should be very aware of the situation and what you're setting up so don't set up to pick up a girl at three

o'clock in the afternoon. Nobody's sucking at like four o'clock. I mean, like the average person, Like you know, I don't think I get that because it's starting in three stuff. I'm saying, you can't say. You can't say we're gonna pick up your girl unless it's after brunch. It depends on what kind of brunch. If it's that you know and all that you know, but it depends what kind

of brunch. But now, if it's if you get the girl, you know it's late at night, you got some bottles, or if you smoke, find out what the girl likes, like, find out what they enjoy. So I think when it comes to her and when she's like betting a girl, she finds out like, hey, do you drink? Do you smoke? Like edibles? It's like if you oh, I would say to a female, if you have a problem like coming or orgasm, pop the edible and like, don't say that because he did made me square during the m M.

If it's edible, lets you relax it really does it? Really? Does you have a guest room in your house? I want to offer this one piece of advice. And I don't have as much threesome experience as you, But I can't say this as someone that would like imagine being confused on how to kick someone out. I would literally say, like when you're talking about boundaries where they're asking if you have any be like one that we have is we do like to just like go to sleep together.

But you're welcome to stay if you're comfortable with this, You're welcome to stay in our guest room, like when they come in. Your really been thinking about that at the that. It just came to me when they were talking about like bringing someone over, blah blah blah, Like if the girl has stuff, show her to that room. That way she put her ship in there. That's a good idea. All her stuff is in there, y'all have sex, and she's just gonna end upnaturally going back in the room.

That's a good idea. What I think what she's and telling me if I'm wrong, I think what she's saying. It's like when it's like seven eight in the morning and we're about to start our day the next day,

it's like, all right, like how do we reap? Yeah, I went up that's what we're Yeah, that's up all night and then you all go to work whatever whatever the day, depend on what you're not mentioning your kids, like, yo, we gotta get her kids, Like yeah, well I'll say I make it no, like like yeah, I gotta get the kids. Okay, you I think need to say something like right before. I think in the beginning like she don't want to be kicked out after a threesome, but

nobody wants to be fucking kicked out anywhere. That was a harsh word, more like but that's how it feels. Maybe I'm not saying the right outside. So I think what you should say is like even before y'all even get down to the should be like, yo, I ain't on the front, like we gotta get our kids, like

to stay before. But don't say that though, And then when you walked up and stay you will because niggas have done that to me, be like yo, I got early they dad, and then right when I'm out to be like nah, you know, I do want you to say.

Her go to line is like when it's like round two three, whatever's wrapping up, and then she's like she starts saying all right, um, if you want the shower, if you want to go shower, whatever, everything's cleaning, got tower whatever right there, blah blah blah and all right, sure you getting the kids when I'm getting the kids.

I think that's her sign to me, Like all right, that was one of my things in here, like what's your sign to like, Oh well last night she was like, uh, the shorty that came was last night with the sugar Mom. Ya just with y'all tosom did be like with the sugar Mom, like damn last night. Then completely go through because like she was like like she wasn't and I wasn't trying to that. Yeah, Like I like that. Don't

get these bitches too drunk. It's not fun. Okay, so real quick, if you can three rules of a threesome,

go three. This is what we're leasing. This is what maybe the advice advice I like advice, okay, not from different in three rules three advice communication, Like you have to talk, like like even people who are shy, you have to communicate with your partner or with the personal you know, your go to, your not go to, what you're comfortable with whatever, Just talk be honest like face because don't hide anything you know, like just for the

second advice for women wanting to partake in three SOMs, um, I don't really have any other one shows, just communications and just know what you want. I like that knowing what you want and don't do it because he wants to do it. Do it to please make sure you gotta come. I like that. And so you don't have a third one because you said bich I barely got to what are your three? Three advice to the men listening who wants to engage in three SOMs, either with

their partners in general verse feminism. Maybe I want to talk to the limit. I'm just dues. I feel like, um, chill the funk out, like it's going to happen, Like just relax if you've got if you got it's almost like the guy that gets the girl's number, Like if you got her number, she's interested, relax, you don't have

to blow her phone up. Um number two probably be have the ambiance, have everything set like he didn't have the wine, like have if they like, I would say, have every if you got if you were like the average job, if you've got enough money for whatever that weekend or whatever your cases have a couple of bottles, have some weed to the side, just have things they wanted, even who're not rich. Yeah, women need to feel relaxed.

They need to feel like they are you know. And then my last one will probably be, um, keep the ship heart, like keep the ship heart keep because you haven't realized just because they're not on you right away. I'm laughing because in my last three selves, he was like so excited. He was like, yo, I can't even like my dick's too sensitive right now this ship, Like

I need to give me a minute. Yeah, to know yourself, know yourself, if you know, if you know you're a quick coomer, then like then pussy like more, if funker a little bit and then come back down eat the pussy again, like or know yourself, know yourself, know your strengths, and your ladies also put a little less pressure off of the man when they stop sucking you in the threesome.

That happens to me like every threesome, like they're like, oh, ship, it's a lot of overstimulation, right, So like the nigga stopped, so I'll be like give me that dick, like get that big a break. The one with the baby mama was He thought both of us still forty still too long. I was like something so weird by ourselves. It was long. I was like, thank god, I pussy get a break. There's another vagina. But he lasted long with both of us, and I was like, companies, But what do you guys

do for a living? Here? She has a little joint working logistics. I love my friends, don't They don't know what I do for a living. They got me doing some other ship, and they they're gonna be jealous because they swear, they swear I'm like a drug or some ship. And I'll be like, yo, I have a job. I have a job like everybody Tommy that they think I do some other ship. I'm like, yo, I work like

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you were sucking a nigga regularly? Like every other day. I mean, I've seven weekly and you still and there'll be other niggas in town that I fuck in between seven. I feel like the only time I want more rounds is when I haven't seen some in a while and I feel like I'm not gonna see him for only four seven knows every time, like and he'll even say like I got two for you, like I need to.

I'm not gonna lie. There's a couple of times, but he'll suck me like one time, and I'm like that's what I needed, thinks, and like I can't take anymore. But we funck also fairly long, like we have like really good sex. But no, any nig I fucked, don't give me just one round. It doesn't matter if I fun three different niggas that week. I want rounds. So it's not even I like rounds, that's just how I like. I also have really long I was gonna say long sex to like I have a long ass for play

my nigga. We I didn't time it on purpose, but I only remember because there was a game about to come on that started five thir so it was four thirty, and I was like, oh, we're perfect. We got mad timeing to fuck. We were like touching on each other, massaging each other, going down each other, making out like just a lot of touching fuck for maybe seven minutes. It was six fifteen. That's how long we were like sucking dick, eating pussy kissing. That's over an hour. He

or bro y'all are childish, you know, spine about. It's like, oh my god, we shouldn't be having sex so much and then you'll end up having sex. I no, no, bro, waitwitch, I say, I stuck different twenty minutes. I also wasn't sucking dick that long like you, was like moving around and doing around like I would sit on the No in an hour, he like me long y'all got up and used the bathroom, ate a sandwich, hot a all. What then do you do for an hour and a half?

You love took a nap, like get the guy here, bro, no way, and you only had something that's literally an hour and a half. Au No, bro, y'all slept and then woke up and then I'm not seeing an hour and a half. I'm telling you that I want to have seven minutes of actual sex. That's bugging me out. I really like, right, there's so much. He also massaged me for like maybe twenty of those minutes, like okay, so you know, like like it was like rubbing up

twenty minute fingers in me, and then took him out. Okay, I'm still trying to there's another hour in ten minutes, so unaccounted for the plus after he eats one pussy, like I like him to kiss me for a while because I like to taste because I'm nasty. Kisses forty five seconds. Okay, I'm I'm trying to get it's like for no reasons, blowing in the situation. Couple of martinis around the walls for banking sessions too, like you went all here doing some like late nineties like old schools

with the jet block. You have to get it ready. It could have filled up a cut. I come four times seven and bitch, I only suck his dick for like fift I don't even like hell, so this is just him actually my four players. We passed the blood A couple of times. And then while he keeps smoking, a blunt down on him one lesson and I'm looking up. I don't want to smoke, and I'm then I go down and he screwed a little booty and I'm like and then he got to reach for the condom and

that's it. But all that happened like all the fun ten minutes. Appreciate you. I got my back. I appreciate that you can. You want that back, But that's my four player is a fucking blunt begging for the next thanking and like choking in it and like, oh, so you got a whole routine in there that's taking up a lot of his time. You got like a whole and then got tight. He was like, it's the second quarter, my I'm supposed to be playing the game that it

was Durant, we thought this calf was. He was like, was my calf, coach? Just my calf? No? I mean, I guess it's different because like when I have sex, I'm not gonna lie. Most of the time it is in a lot of time frame. So either I'm seeing him before he has to do the studio or I'm like, all right, nigga, I gotta bust out and be to work in the morning. So like I like the times we see each other, we both have ship to do.

Like he was in the city working and he hit me up to come see him during my lunch break type ship. Another nigga I went and saw during lunch, but that was before he had to go see his doctor appointment. So a lot of my sex be like kind of rushed. So if I get two rounds, were rushing them to Yeah, I could do too, Like if you're telling me we have an hour or an hour and a half me twice, I guess I feel like that's the only sex I really have are having sex, but I still have it a lot