Ep115: B is for Bondage feat Sir Dash

with a bunch of rope. So this episode, if you ain't reading Tiger is B is for bondage, Um, Wheezy and I just had her friend on an episode of our Patreon and she titled it A is for anals, So it only made sense that now we're on B, let's go ahead and get it going like that. I guess before we start, go ahead and introduce yourself, um, and let us know what you do. Hello, everybody welcome. My name is uh, Sir Dashington. I am a erotic vision performance artist. I am a healer. I ain't dumb.

I do a little bit of everything. A little bit of Everything's a little passive to your dom, do you find Yeah, you feel very calm and you're soft spoken. I feel like people always assume that doms are like yo, Do women ever say that to you that they're surprised that you're a dom lader because you're so they will.

I kind of thrive off the concept of people not you know, getting caught up in whatever they seeing, whatever they're the mirage as they see, they want to they want to claim in say, Okay, don I'm supposed to be this type or whatever, but I'm a type of person. I really don't fall into any type of box that's you say, if you say yeah, I'm this, then somehow enough, somehow fit that, you know. That's how kind of made

this whole thing for work for myself. I don't necessarily, you know, going out and say yeah, I'm don't I'll

never call myself a dom Really. The reason I brought that up is like a lot of women have said things to me, like when I talk about doms in my life, asking if you know, they're like super assertive, if they make me feel like I even have a choice, things like that, And it's like realizing that being a stub is the choice relinquishing that power to somebody, and I'm having, you know, the honor of being dominant to you, Like,

it's not every domb isn't one and the same. You don't have to think, you know, it's someone out here with a whip ready to like make you get on your knees and get the ship out of you. It's absolutely what you asked for. It's absolutely what you asked for. And I feel like, um, there's different types of doms I'm saying, and when you get into it, you start to realize there's different type of just sometimes are really

statistic and they really get off from getting pain. And then there's some guys like myself, I'm more of asential dom so um and I like to do that within the realm that I'm doing it with him like a living seven am I expecting nobody to you know, yeah, I want you want, I still want to we want. Yeah, I still want a power black woman to make your own decision. That's a boss that when it comes down to me, come on the bedroom and when I when when I make my faces, my show, we're certain things

and it's ready to make that move. She already knows where's where to go. I kind of reminds me of a King Noir, like he's very sensual and his videos and how he even treats a woman, but he's very much a dom. So you said you're an erotic visual artist, a visual performance art performance artists, and that is your full time job. Orb's my full time thing. You full time. You want a bandage full time, Well it's not something in the bond full time where what happens is is

I started doing this as an artist. I'm an artist. So I was doing shows out on Brooklyn. I had this party called the Mad tea art party. Was giving anybody shroom t get them zudo on shrooms, and I would do these scenes. We'll have girls dancing in front of a canvas and I would throw paint on them. And then yeah, even all this stuff I do, it's all some trippy shroom down ship that I just started

from back in the day. I just want you all to know, if y'all are not watching us on YouTube, well you're sitting across from a black man with dreads. This is because I mean, I associate like the shrooms and like those type of parties. I mean, three white people ship. So to be real, all these plants come from people like medicine. I just kind of don't fall into any of those dudes. Dudes, I don't just know.

I never let whatever I am or whoever the people think that I am, stopped me from doing anything I want to do or try. So I didn't even like think about it like that in my realm. But I start to events and then um, one of my whole gros for me, the spanker with with whips dipped in paint and make a canvas painting. And I'm like, oh, fuck, helly, I'm gonna do this ship. And I actually um started looking it up to see anybody was doing the ship,

and I didn't see nobody doing it. And then I seen girls tied up and be being a cup scout. Boy scout was a path find I grew up like learning. I had to learn my not to get my little badges and ships. So whom I saw that, I was like, oh I could do that ship. I'm gonna tire up first and boom boom and literally I did yeah, literally yeah, literally a brount of the church because we come down to it was like a church boy scout program. Did they put your head? Didn't put a little soldiers into this?

And I went when I was in Japan, like they had a section of a sex story that was all about like taking a class and learning how to tie. So I sat in there for like five minutes. Name speak English. But I was like, oh wow, okay, Like YouTube really helps, but that ship is really hard and really I started, like literally, I went to YouTube a week before my show, learned one fucking tie how to do the likes whatever I do and figured it out and did that one time for the show and did

it from there. And once I did that show, people like, yo, that ship is We're doing again, Girls like I'm next. Oh yeah, you were sent in by about three of our followers on Instagram and they're like, if y'all do bondage, you have to get this guy on something your page has been said multiple times and I know we talked, yeah, I know for a long time, wanting to get to have someone that like we've been chatting with for a while. I was just thinking too when you mentioned tying someone up.

We had a guest a few weeks ago, Liz Goldwyn, who talks about our friend of hers who tied her up and it took three hours. What's the longest she was completely bound? I think, like, what's the longest it's ever taking you to tie someone up? Well s, Yeah, I I maybe a performance artist, and I think about

the show. I think about people watching, how many people, how long is it will get people attentions being so I do different things to to intreat people while I'm doing a tie so it doesn't look like you're just getting tied up for a long time. But I do sessions that my my, my, my sessions. I have my clients, you know, two hours minimum, two hours minimum, two hours minimum and minimum being tied up. It's not gonna be

tied up for the whole time. Like when I just do what I start off with the consultation and beginning, we talked. I find out what you with you with you, what you're comfortable with with you? Now you dudes, your dones. Um, we kind of vibe out, we laugh, we joke, I'm saying, and then you know, just get into the session. Tell me what you want to do. I sent you guys earlier. I have a whole menu. You tell me what things you want to do. Can mix them up however you

want to do within the time. Friend, you want to do it. And and I come to people, I come, I go to them, I travel to them. In house call. I do in house call. Is that how you make your money? I do that. And I do a lot of shows. Do you consider it sex work? Um, it's weird feeling a weird line because I feel like it's for me, it's not sex work. Like as far as how far as I concerted, like I ain't pull my dick out in insert and nobody, so that's to me,

I'm not having sex. However, strippers, Yeah, I was about to say strippers dance and they're not having intercourse, but they're considered a line of sex working. I'm not going to read off the prices because we'll we'll give your booking if anyone's interested, but I want to read off some of your services, um, and then maybe we can be like, how can you not consider the sex work? So? Um? Some of the services that um, Sir Dashington um provides

is goddess pampering service. Um. It's all sensual play, no pain or ropes. But that's optional. Um, it is optional. So um, real quick, I'm actually going to compare that to a boyfriend experience a bf E because a lot of that or GF for girlfriends. Um, it's they don't necessarily have to have sex, but it's more of the intermac. People want to touch, you want to cuddle, people want to all that stuff. So it's it's it's and their sex workers just you know, because we're gonna get you

to reclaim your sex work title. The next one is toy Land, so that that includes ropes and sex toy sampler. You have a spain can paint which includes ropes and floggers dipped in paint. What you explain um, electrocutioner, electro play and toy ropes optional? Can you explain what electro play is? Electro play is um just like a whole

unit of things people like to play with electricity. And so there's toys as the neon wine, which has like a little dial on it and you can kind of touch one kind of tables really really light version of you can control the volume of how excuse me, how hard and how high high it is, so you find people really good spot. If you do it really at a nice level, it could tickle somebody that I've seen people laugh until they bust utters. They normally wanna be electrocuted.

I took them well. I usually would be my choice when you're tied up and stuff like that. So I used to tantalizing and message you and find your sweet spot. That's the whole that's my niche, that's my differ. Everybody's different. Before I start a session, like if I do section, most time, I sniffed the girl from head to toe. My sniffer from head to toe on some primer ship. I swear to God, I super from head to toe. And when I finished sniffering, makes I connected with her body,

and her body kind of tells me. I did this recently during like a body worshiping session I was talking about on our Patreon episode, how like we did a lot of foreplay for an hour. Yeah, it wasn't like a weird sniff, but it was like really going down and smelling my entire back, your entire but it's kind of hot at me. It actually lacks me into your energy and your vibe. It's weird. And then from there,

literally I probed myself off of women. I have to say, you have to do a B C D. From there, I just your body is till I read your body and I teach people how. I'm sorry I did say it wrong. I was the one who did it. I used the wrong wording, like his hair to bear neck chest, like I love the smell of just I don't know. There's those pheromones and like female and stuff you can't even explain. It's hard to even say. Just like the things sometimes my sessions, things happen that are like really

hard for me to explain. What happens really out of my hands. I feel like, can they tell you're doing it? Because I w see me what I was doing? Yeah, people tell what was doing. I've done stuff, we're doing suff I might even touch people's body and I pull up their whole body, lifts the funk up, and I'm just like, like they had strings. Well, it's it's energy. That That's the real thing with erotica, right, It's like figuring out a way besides penetrated or even sometimes your

genitals of like turning each other on. So the next one kind of goes without explanation. It's wax on wax off, which is wax play. Yeah, rope therapy, rope bondage for beginners, sensual dominance for men. So is that you teaching central dominance? Those last three year classes. The those are like courses that teach or trainings or lessons. I do um beginning

rope bonds for beginners. I do role therapies, different roal therapies, different roal therapies where I tie people love and we talk about things that are actually binding them and holding them down, and we can go through breathing exercises, and then I released them in a representation of like letting that ship go. Yeah, getting past certain things, you know, and travel. A lot of people, a lot of wom

to come to a different trauma. They can't come. They can't they haven't came in forever, or they don't know how to squirrel, or they don't want these different things. So they come to me and I showed them how to do it, and I do these things to them and in release it show them out to climax. Right. The these next two are the last to that we'll talk about. Um. You have one that's called what's for dinner food porn Um depends on the menu. The menu price may vary for this, but you climax with food

or dinner served in a kitty bowl. Yeah. Sometimes it's like well sometimes like like I'll basically I'll tire up. I'll tire her up. And now like raid refigerator, cook the whole fucking meal, refrigerator, make a and then put that ship in the bowl and then feed it to her like a look at and this is coming from a negro up one of our This last one that I want to talk about, if you can um, what

the funk is it? You do a unicorn kidnap and this is the most expensive on the goddamn unicorn kidnap is is basically organized kidnap where you kind of you know that you know the day we we A lot of people have seen that in the bonding the other day, but you don't know that when and where I'm gonna snatch you up from. And I came, I get a you hole of in and I call my snatch as up and I'll tie you up in the van and take you to the location and then do a whole

full videos and scene. So this is kind of playing into I was having this conversation. Actually, oh my god, it was with Jill Soloway. So we met up with this lady in in l A. It was me and her in Beard Bay, and I was like, there's a lot of guilt that surrounds me around rape fantasies. And I'm like, all I want to do is give someone to keep in my house, right, give him like a three day span. Don't tell me when you come in, but also the ship on me when you get there.

I don't want it to be like because unwanted is a porn category, which I don't like that. I more so want like the excitement of it, Like I don't want to be like really saying no. I just wanted to be like are you taking me? I feel bad Like that whole unwanted thing there's actually because there's a difference between what you're talking about and rape. Get a difference did that and actually like I've girls that was having sex with until you're seeing rape me, Daddy raped me,

daddy rap me? Screaming that s loud as I'm like whoa, whoa, whoa right, whoa you know why because that's part of it. And then it's playing into this because and then she thinks I'm playing you listen to shut the funk up, like can you screaming? I s like I mean like someone can come get kicked out and doing kick my ass. It's so crazy. There's this porn um that I've been watching recently and it's so kind of it's along the

unwanted thing um. What is it? It's called mall something, but basically it's they they're in like a back room where like you get caught for shop lifting, and so it's all these guys that get caught for shoplifting and in order for the police or for the mall security not to call the police, he's like, you gotta fuck me. So if you all these men like no, I don't know, but okay, just because I don't want to go to jail.

And then he starts like he starts making the guys like suck his dick, and then like he also like records it so you see like a camera phone angle then actual room England. It's really like some wants to all straight men that now we're having to suck to keep out of jail. So it's kind of some weird ship.

I want you to go back really quick to UM talking about the releasing the ropes and the releasing the traumas, Like I don't really know if we've ever talked about this on the show, but I do know what you're talking about. I've heard about and read about it. Can you talk about that one more time? Like just how much like when doing UM certain type of psychedelics or drugs, right, we just brought up iahuasca it's funny I'm bringing it

up again. They say that you go through this period of darkness to then you know, release it and feel better even throwing up during it. Is that ritual is like letting all of those demons go, like releasing yourself. Talk about the trauma and like how untying the ropes break? Is it a little bit? Well, well, I've noticed that

with with with the tying ropes. But I do is I make sure that when I do this this session, that um, we have a nice full consul consultation before we even start, so so I know exactly what we're talking about. We get into and then I kind of um, once I get to a certain place where I knows I'm hitting certain certain um uh trigger areas, then it's like, okay, it's trying to tie you up. And then I tie them up into this into the situation. And then from

there I kinda started asking a certain questions. It's kind of like let them speak upon it, saying let them speak upon these things, and people, um, you know, they talk about it and and and and a lot of a lot of these things are the things that people don't really speak to speak to people about, and they cried. What I'm saying, they cried. They um. Some people just you know, they talk about athers done, like how much better they feel because they got a chance to really

release that stuff. And um, before I even get into the consultation and kind of really get into and talking to them about creating your own reality and creating your own your own reality with with your thoughts and how you think about things and projecting you know, and manifesting your thoughts and so um, this is when we start to get into our breathing exercises. It really kind of

hits in what I'm saying. And we sit there, I'm saying, I'll sit there, and we sit there, and else sit there and let you try to talk you to and keep you in a in a place where your where your mind is on black and your focus on nothing but darkness, you mean, and then try to help pull some of these things out of people. And when I when I when I tend to release them from the ropes either they they crossed some people's shout. Some people. UM, some people come without even me having to do anything

touching the genitals anything like. That's not even the whole point of this stuff. And um, and and that's what it is. I've had some sessions where people they they feel like they they've been you know, they've been through some really traumatic traumatic things, and they mostly traumatic sexual experiences, not all the time. Sometimes it's just things that just sunk up your concentration for you about the buzz or not. That's what I mean. Its sorry, it doesn't always have

to be UM. It doesn't have to always be something that's crazy traumactic when maybe you know, to everybody, but somehow affected them in a way where they you know, you know, it could be some some people that just been they were talked. People talk about him as a kid and it'd been really really self conscious and you know when they you know, before they get to the point they say, they overfunk and think things and and blow the moment. And do you do this with women

and men or just women? Just women? And do you notice like a certain UM type of woman, whether it be like their profession or their and or their attitude,

and like my clients are are they? I know one thing that UM within I first doing when I first got into this, and I really didn't realize that, you know, I got into the BDS and I thought it was about sex, and I thought about certain things and I realized that like by having sex with somebody doing the whole act to kind of cut certain type of connection off. And so I realize, okay, me take sex out the

picture and see how how things go. I realizing that people really open up and certain it really really opened up a whole lot more and I'm able to tap into them doing my sessions in another whole realm. A lot of my own classes I teach you guys, and I teach other people, teach partners. Period is to like take sex out the picture. Sex is sucking you up dick and putting dick in the whole pussy. And that's

just sucking the picture. If you concentrate on everything else besides that, yeah, you're gonna get them to another whole level. And of course you can get some pussy at the end. Like you just just a mind fun for yourself and for them to like, you know, I mean, to get yourself into that realm. If you got if the back back of your mind, you're subconscious, you know that you're just trying to get some pussy. You're just trying to

get the honey. You're gonna skip certain levels, skip certain signs to get to the honey I'm saying, I mean and and the thing is to like sex to most people is like people ask me like, how do you have sex with a woman? And I'm like, how do I Not? Like people's idea of sex is literally pussy and a vaginas, So our gay men's virgins are lesbians virgins? Like what is our idea of sex? And to a lot of people, spinking can be sex, choking can be sex,

oral sex whatever. And I like what you're saying about taking the sex out of it, because our societal view on what sex is it's kind of sucked up. Like I've had way better experiences outside of that kind of niche like everybody's having sex and saying everybody gets to

that part. But so if you can focus on everything around that and not you're trying to get you out into right, if you're trying to get about to get into that ship, you pull away from that and actually get around everything else around it, you actually become on a better lover. Do you find that there's truth in people that are wanting to be dominated or generally dominant people in their personal lives? We've talked about how like, you know, cops are always the ones that love to

get piste on or spanked or whatever like that. Powerful people like that. Have you noticed that trend, dude, there is that flip. There is that flip. I know that a lot of a lot of the sisters I deal with did not did not know slouches. They all holding the ship down. They all got the thing going on. They all hold relationships, have families, they have their things. They're not you know what I mean, not necessarily uh you know there there they're they're very dominant. A lot

of are great dominant there in the everyday life. You're saying that they gotta take charge and you gotta whole ship down, and you gotta this is Nata when he comes down to um in the bedroom. Wh It comes down to a certain situations. They want to take they want to they don't want to have to do that.

And I noticed that a lot of times I have, like a lot of I have a lot of clients that are escorts in prostitutes and stuff like that, and they actually see me for for services too, because literally they getting a bunch of you know, they're having sex for money, and it kind of takes away from the they're faking it all day and I'm saying, yeah, right, they're they're faking it all day to do all this is the end of the day that they still they're still point to a certain level, but they don't want

to dick because they haven't dick all day. But they still want like non penetrative services to Actually, my friend that the vanilla ship for this week. I actually found UM. And what it's gonna do is get us into discussing the safety UM around what you do and specifically bondage. UM. So a woman is charged in her husband's kinky sex

death UM. A Mori County woman has been charged with reckless homicide for where her attorneys says was the accidental asphyxiation of her husband after he consented to being bound and gagged. The whole family is upset with what occurred. I'm not gonna say the name. UM. This is coming from the Daily Herald. We stand by the fact that this was an accident. According to the arrest warrant, the woman placed duct tape over her husband's mouth and eyes, put a ball gag in his mouth, and then tied

bandage around his head. Leaving only his nostrils showing. She also tied his hands and legs behind his back. Then she left him for twenty hours. Apparently this was not the first time it happened. Um. Authorities found the twenty nine year old body UM and she now faces twelve years imprisoned if found guilty. UM. There's a lot of accidents suicides like this from the hanging themselves. If you even just look up like bondage, like there's nothing but

stories on top of and there's no lead way. There's like if if anything ever happens to you, something that happened to some I am fux City. There's like when the court of law I was doing something that I had no business doing. City, he was looked at in a certain way to so they just they just throw you under the bus. As far as if people getting hurt, So, so how do you how do you go about being safe with here? Because there are people like he I'm

sure requested to be left for twenty hours. And what we're gonna do this episode, We're also going to get into the thirteen types of bondage and this is on there UM and so we're gonna go through the different types of bondage, um what they mean and how they differ. But for this so that we my friend, I look

like this, I look at this. Bondage is not safe. Okay, I'm saying people want to say, okay, say you know it's it's safe if you can do it safely, and this it's it's just as safe as rock climbing a mountain climbing. To me, I'm saying like it's saying like people can do it and if you have the skill, you can get up and you can actually do it, and you can you're you're able to do it. But it's the wrong oneucker. Get up on that ship you doing,

people fall and die. You'm saying, so it has that type of type of you guys that have to fake us to approach it like that. I'm saying, you gus a project. Okay, if you're a new beginner, you just don't jump into you know, the top of the highest craziest mountain. I think you're gonna climb that ship. Carry like scissors to make sure you can cut someone out of something. Yeah, exactly, Okay, there's a thing nothing. Yeah, you definitely gotta be safe and d we're this lady

sucked up at. What she sunked up at is that she didn't use her own discretion. What I'm saying, I've had a session real time where I had to grow and where the ropes were set up when I twisted the ropes in the middle of it with Choker, and She's like, harder, harder, harder. I'm like, yeah, I'm like harder. At this point, my hand is shaking. I know, I'm

like at the top of my strength. And then she kind of just like kind of passes out and I'm like and she's like all and she wakes out it and it was all good, But my head I was like, never again. Now now it never. You're gonna time to tell me how much I'm gonna do to you. Whatever I'm administering to you. I'm gonna determine how what I'm gonna administer to you, what I'm saying, how much of

that I'm gonna give you what I'm saying. So if this dude says I'm tying my mother, double take my fucking face, throw me in the class, leave me for twenty hours, my mind is gonna be like, no, I'm not gonna do that. Ship What I'm saying, yeah, sure, pay me. He's gonna pay me. You know what I'm saying, all right now to have you tired, I'm pull you out here in four hours. You know what I'm saying, a lot of you have never heard of the tape thing.

If you watched it's a very popular or not documentary. But what's it called bio docum something the Assassionary Nation of Chiani VERSACEI um the fashion line. There's a whole fashion line of a tape. Yeah, there is in there. He tapes the dude all the way around his face. And I remember googling and like, oh, should we have to make this a kink of the week because a lot of people have never seen that. But it's totally common. I've seen it. I do I do it. I do it.

I do it with them with plastic wrap. Netflix. I do plastic wrap. Yeah, Netflix to take plastic wrapping, like I do this thing from fast wrapper. As I got her tiedle and once I get her fully fully full, you up and she's like locked in and then I just kind of go over a face. He's kind of panks a little bit and then it just pop a hole right in her mouth. You mean, make sure she could breathe? Is this a lot of shep? Was mine? Fun?

I'm saying, like a lot of people, I'm claustrophobic. Yeah, that to me would completely be like but I can't count on my face. I couldn't handle it. But it's one thing that I know that people are going to. I know people love, So I'm not gonna sit there and let you start to actually gag for air. It's just whoop, whoop. Leave me your eyes for that. What do you think? Like? Yeah, like, how long is someone

wrapped up? It's too long? Um? Well, usually I can feel it, and I can I can feel when I keep my people tied up different things the West first start the session, I thought, a girl these ropes right here. These are more of a stretchy material that they're made up of, out of, um, like the material you know MAXI dress. This sung's basically it's basically it's spandexing. I taken the ropes out of it because I was doing stuff on dancers and they couldn't really dance and do

what they want to do with this. So they still want to look and they still want to glow. So I found so I made these terally sold these hands, sold these together and put them together and make them long enough and tie somebody up with And then when I put them on the glow and I get different different materials and flavors and do like that, and I sell the ropes and all that good stuff like that. So we're gonna get into if you guys haven't known already,

the kink of the week is bondage. So we're gonna get through um these different types of bondage. And if you have anything as far as historical background to them, or if you've done them or have any experiences you did said this before, I was like, keep speak on these, um. So the first one is shabari, also known as kin baku. It is one of the oldest and most popular types

of bondage today. This form of bondage originated in Japan um and is known for using silk ropes, artful tying skills, and layering ropes to turn the bound person into work of art. So is that pretty much what you would consider what you do? This one? And I think we may have a story about this. It's gagging, um. So. Gags are one of the most common bondage related sex toys on the market. Um, and she actually brought one to the live show. If you guys came, it may

have been New York Show last year. Um. But this is a whole genre of bondage. The concept behind gagging is to either bind someone in a way that makes it impossible to speak or breathe if you're into breath play, or to force someone's mouth open. Um, do you want to let them know kind of the ball gag? Or I don't think she had a ball of the gag that had holes in it. Um, it's just a ball gag, Like there can be all different kind of ball gags like this one is. I guess you could compare it

to a belt, right and you put it on. I like the holes in it because it's easier for me to breathe. That's them. I mean, some people don't need that, and the holes are so to me. The holes will have to be a little bit easier, which makes the saliva don't build up so fast. But the one with the ball, the holes in your mouth and your jewel lot with it, which is I don't care to keep you from speaking like I want you. I want to hear all that ship, but I also want to gag

you and see you just working. Just the drul is my favorite part of it. But I have such a bad gag reflex I'll drowl regardless. But I think, um, I don't know, it's funny because there's such small amounts of gagging that people don't even realize they had done to them, right, whether it be like a pellow in your mouth or like putting something in your mouth to make you quiet, like, it's all just using one thing

or another. Like, I think that gagging can be super sexy for you, either like the quiet thing or like the drooling, which a lot of people don't realize. The hand gaw like you reach around and you can basically gagger with your own hand. Bite like right here, just meat right here in your hand until the bite it and just hold it, hold it right. It's like when you're even though it doesn't mean not sound like gagging

to y'all when something's deepen up. Think about like going to the dentist when like they put something in there and you have to clamp down when you do the X rays right and they put it deep enough, it makes you gag. That's the same with the hand gag, i'd so. The next type of bondage is sensory deprivation UM. This one specifically I've shared on the show that I'm

not into because I was dealth while doing this UM. So. Sensory deprivation is one or more extreme types of bondage UM and it's the practice that uses restraints to reduce your ability to hear, feel, or see things around you. The most common example of sense sensory deprivation gear is the ever present blindfold. As we all know, UM. There's actually an extreme cases sensory deprivation chambers. Do you know anything about that? It's like soundproof rooms you can go

on where you can't hear anything. Those are not really extreme. It's really get some of them little soft ear plugs. You put the ear plugs in, you blindfold them, UM, and then they don't really see what. I don't know about the blindfolding again. I like that. I like to UM, I like to use well. I realized that to tap into people the way I want to tap into and just some just gotta be some sensory deprivation going on. And there's got to be some some some sensory of

other types of fields going on. So I use a feather and like a spike at the same time. I like to give pleasure in pain at the same time as I'm doing it, and it kind of sends your mind into, you know, a weird place. If you can't see and you don't hear what it's coming, that's another thing I'm saying. So that's very interesting when you can't hear. Yeah, even you can't hear. Keep in my bag. I keep my bag really slow. I don't want you to hear

show y'all whole things. You don't hear the which whipping on me grab because some people they know my stuff, they know what it sounds like. They know they hear the ship rattling. They're like, oh you mean So sometimes we use that to the funk with him. I also do this to Uh. I have them blindfold for a

little while, and then I take the blindfold of. I showed him a blade, and I popped the blade in front of him and then literally did not put the blade did I blindfold them back, grab baby oil and the credit card and sliced across the chest and put the blade at the same time. It should feel like they're getting sliced open. They fucking freak up. It's just the people, very Vanella bold. It just somebody put me onto that and I was like, yo, I the way

did I say? People? That's I'm so like, there's I don't know working because The Weekly did recently, but it's like that operation thing with being sliced. One of my friends there's a place in the Orlando called the wood Ship. Shout out to James, my friend, and he was telling me like, Yo, there's a guy that came up to me with like mad cuts all over him, like he's super into that ship. And he's like they do it all the time, like in a super safe way, like the people that know how to do it can well.

I mean that's where you go and there's a professional that doesn't probably much like yourself, right, you'll probably maybe you could get a little bit of a I don't do no blood play like I don't do no I want to pay because that's what someone makes it feel. It feels real. There's even like on porn Hub, like the fake blood scenes where it's like super, um no, I have a blindfold like fantasy that I'm really excited to do soon where um so like during a threesome.

I really want to be blindfolded, but like and bound, so like I can't really do anything, and like if they let me taste something, maybe, but like basically just sit there and have to listen to everything that's going on. And then if I'm allowed like masturbate, great, but I'm so hyped. I got the Jet blue massa. Um. The next one is really interesting. UM, And I don't know if anyone has ever asked you to do this. The

next one is actually humiliation bondage. UM. For some people, the elements of b DSM that turned them on are the concepts and situations behind them. Humiliation bondage is one of those. For example, a form of situational bondage would be tying up someone naked in public just so people would point and laugh. Or it may involve using a gag that has a toilet brush on the end and

forcing a slave to clean the toilet. Humiliation bondage is incredibly versatile when it comes to both the tools and situation it can include, um, just as long as humiliation is involved. Has anyone ever asked you for this sort of bondage? Yeah? I mean it could be done in a different extremes just different stream. It could be acmilation where people want to be outside and be humiliated, or it just or or you know, you know, they want

to be embarrassed, you know what I mean. Um, And then it could be as simple as some people just want to be called slut, dirty, nasty. This isn't there like be a fucking verbally abusive I'm saying. And it could be just in the bedroom I'm saying. It could be like you know, yeah, it could be to be just in the bedroom and in this humiliation within the within the dynamic, I mean whole outside gets not that that's what we talked about. It's facial bondage UM, which

is exactly what it sounds like. Facial bondage and gagging often go hand in hand, but the difference between these two types UM is actually that gagging is specifically focused on a person's mouth, while facial bondage tends to focus on the entire facial bondage yes, eyes, cheeks, nose, and I don't I have some stuff where type of face like that's facial bondas too, but also facial bonds would be I've also tied girls face into my lap and

like just tie their face into my lap. Where's yeah, you can't even like they can pull their head up only for so far because the ropes are directing. I can always just just spin my fingers out the second. Yeah, he's like, this is that for a show. This is my personal ship. This is my personal ship. I do it and do a different realms. So I have like my archie farti stuff. Yeah, you know, I do my archie fartie stuff that I do for for show, and I do for for shows. I do a lessons with

people people just want to rope sometimes. This is I have my clients, which are the fetish services that shold you guys. And then I have my personal situations I'm saying, which I would have my my, my, my, whoever heard you, sir. The next one is predicament bondage um. Predicament bondage is bondage that's done to put people in a more uncomfortable situation,

which is actually probably what you just talk to. This could be anything from being hog tied with a massage across the clutteri ist um to being forced to ride a horse while tied an awkward position. The entire thing that makes predicament bondage a different kind of b d S SIM is the fact that it's designed to make the submissive squirm uncomfortably. Um, So that's probably kind of

more what you talked about. Shout out to Cold when she was just on the show and she talked about how she knows someone who did the hog tying, and it like became emotionally like draining for her to be into that position for as long as she was and then also untied. But it was hours of it. How long do you normally spend hog time? Maybe maybe it depends depending personal life. I usually don't do nothing longer. It has nobody in the ropes longer than two hours.

And for that that happened, that means we had to been in this situation for at least two and a half hours. What I'm saying, but I do on ties of my and put them in another position. I tied from one, tied them three or four times if I wanted to. I'm saying, if I have to, I mean, I'll tie you in a certain position so I can get to a certain way a certain way, and then I'll flip you over, tip in another position and then tied to across. Then I just, you know, just flip it.

And I have no since to not keep somebody. My thing is if I tie person in a position that they're actually comfortable sitting in, I can play longer, I can get to the I can I can get to them better if I gotta, if I gotta change and pull them out and change them out, because the realist, realistically is that if somebody's hurting her in their pain, I don't want to hurt I don't want engine nobody. I'm saying, I'm not trying to inbody. So you gotta you know you're telling me you gotta suck up me.

You gotta sucked the elbow and and I'm not gonna take your arm and jacket behind your back or have you on your knees. I know your knees sucked up what I'm saying. Or if you ever in a position you're like yours is really hurting and I'm gonna put it. I'm gonna stop right there and put you out right there. And none of ship have you ever had to cut someone out and I had to cut somebody up. I

have to take people out and read them. I've had people have like panic attacks in the middle of it ropes after like rub here and listen, if you keep pulling, do you keep like you do it again? Yeah? And actually they we smoked some weed and then we started over and then we finished the session. It was dope. You know, she just needed to get higher. I'm gonna go through about two more and then, UM, we're gonna maybe do a little quick demonstration. UM. The next one

is hair bondage. UM. Hair bondage is often done to restrict move meant at a certain psychological layer of subservience to a sub or for that incredibly appealing pulling sensation that many people love to feel. UM. So what I'll do for our patrons is there's actually a video of the basics of hair bondage. UM. But what it does is kind of give you that effect of maybe when you ask a guy to pull your hair, um in the bedroom, and it actually as her sitting down and tying.

So I'm gonna make sure you guys who are patron members get to see that. UM. This last one is probably the most interesting, UM. And so I wanted to get into this before we take it back to maybe a little bit more vanilla bondage. This one is called mummification slash vacuum ceiling. I've seen the flat vacuum ceiling. This one looks crazy and I'm also gonna post that for you guys too. So mummification and vacuum ceiling are two types of bondage that either terrify people, soothe people,

or turn them on. That being said, it isn't the type of bondage for people who are claustrophobic like myself. Um this time of this type of bondage use this either bondage tape, a leather suit, a latex suit, or a vacuum bed to give people a full body bondage experience. Almost every inch except for maybe your head, will be covered with material during this kind of bondage, regardless of the method used. This is considered an extreme form of

restriction bondage. Depending on how extreme you are with your bondage practice, you may or may not be able to breathe. UM, so this is definitely brings in the element of breath play, but also being to where this kind of probably isn't something you want to do without a professional or something you definitely want to do as much research and as possible before you try with your partner. I say, um that too, and say just it just trusting your partner. I mean you need to have a partner that listen

to you. If you're looking at him like you know what this is you on morning bugging? You're gonna just stop if you if you have yeah, safe words, just telling people they pick a saf words, but what's my savings? Like whatever you wanted to be. I don't pick relative to choose the safer because you heard, oh, all kind

of stuff, you know kind of people just whatever. I think I get all kind of STU get uh likely yesterday a guy said come quiet, his come quiet, and he said, when else will I use the word come quiet? See that's that's cool. But see I tell people, don't

use nothing crazy. S you something that's just gonna come off your tongue really easy, like stop because they stop say stopping, I'll stop, Like you don't gotta have nothing crazy because if you're in Paining, you're in a certain city, sometimes you not do you forget that the extra like oh I said stop, I said stop and remember your first one. I could break your fucking arm, you said, or you can choke the funk out like this is serious.

So I'm like, I'm like, it ain't gonna be that serious if it ain't say was that this series for me? If you're squirming wrong like you like you, like you was really really hurting, I'm gonna let up a little bit. I'm not just doing the last time that someone used it with you, um less, someone was spanking spanking paddles. We we did spanking and at the l show like and that's where we were like when to say a safe for it? But the girl literally spanked me in

the same exact spot. So it wasn't even that she got harder with spanking, but being that it had been done in the same spot multiple times, I'm like, okay, girl, yeah you should. But what you should be able to say today whatever you say dash it. If you're using common sense, stop me stop like whatever I don't give you say in Japanese. I don't know Japanese. But if you say and you look at me someway, I'm gonna pull back and like and just check to seconds like

you are you good? We were talking about I go back to what I mean like um as far as like I like yellow and red with spanking because that lets me know like how much. Yeah, the spanking with the paddle to the reason I've had trouble with it is because like it doesn't bruise you necessarily, but you could still really feel it the next day. And I'm like, yo, it's not purple, but like I can barely sit. It's weird. That's some people. For most of the black people, I

don't get. I don't never get them bruised. They get some bruises some stuff like that, but not crazy. But I've done a couple of a couple of white people, and I do. I feel I didn't do nothing much different than to my sisters, but they ship look like I'm like, you know what, I'm gonna make you sign a consent if I even give you mind. That legs right now are super bruised up. And I was like, I say a stripping out the damn bruises on my leg,

Like I bruise. So I walked in. I was like, I need a banana because I heard potassium helps with the god damn bruising. Ship right, guys, ever, like do some videos, imn you get really bad bruising, brut bruising. There's a vitamin called Bramleine and the bramoline helps you with bruising. I don't know what it does with blood circulation, but it's just a basic righta main ordering on Amazon and that'll help you. Um. So I guess we're gonna get into real quick if we could do a live demonstration.

Um of I guess let us know what type of of bonding you're doing, whether it's to her hands or whatever. But um, we are on videos, so if you have not yet, guys, um check us out on YouTube. Majority of our episodes are on YouTube. Shout out to Benson, our videographer. You guys heard him on a recent episode, um, but definitely check it out. We have sir dash about to um tie up. So, by the way, I hope

you asked for concent because Mandy didn't for me. Well, I didn't ask to be fucked by shoulders during that episode either, So this is like, this is my payback now, Okay, So I'm gonna do is I'm gonna do like a simple body harness, something simple. Um. I like to tipe people and body harnesses and this stuff because it can still have the bondage look and still be your hands and your fear free. You still walk around and do if you have to do. You can were as an outfit.

This is something I can wear an outfit. I have girls to put these on and teach me on the self time. They literally we're just under the clothes, or can wins on top of your clothes, like I'm gonna put this over your outfit right here, and we leta get flat quickly, all right, So if you can buy your time to speak up louder so that or I can also even I don't know, I'll talk to let y'all know what he's doing. So um again. By the way, shout out to Bernie Duet. She actually lives in the

other way and she has a clothing line that's full bondage. Yes, and it's all really hard roke the hard rope. It's super dope stuff. So if you guys are interested in maybe wearing this as a tire, to check it. Benson videotaping me with this smirk like bitch. Okay, they're normally our cameras are normally on a fucking tripod. And this nigger got up like, let me get the zoom. Okay, So where do you start? So you really to start in the middle of the rope, the middle of the rope.

It's called the bite. It's the symptom of the rope. Find to both ends, mash it ends up and then to kind of pull the pull the rope to the to the center of the rope and side. I know I got the middle of my role. Okay. So for someone wanting to start this on the body of someone, where do you start on the body her? You want to get the center of the rope, right, don't you get yourself the center of this rope and then you can put this around her neck here right, you're gonna

tie her braids. Make sure you get the braves out. Okay, okay, you know what I do here is um I used to measure out everybody's different, everybody's size different. So I will come in here and bust are not here or a quickly crazy don't remember that bust then it's a bust of quick knight. You have to it could be just like you tie your shoe. Doesn't have to be nothing complicated. I did all that the boy Scout ship, but honestly, all that stuff is hard to take out

when it comes down to undoing your ropes. So so he's tying another knot now near the vagina's two knots coming through here, and now he's going between her legs. So this is where she's gonna start feeling that here she's tied up coming here behind her here the same piece I put around her neck here gonna come right off the top of this here and pop that here. Now from there I can start sending the rope and making a little tighter sending. It's now going up her ask.

This could be a cute little bag of sup right right, So we'll do a lot of time these dances. I've come and put these on them, and they'll go out and and and dance on the floor. Then I can switch it. I can switch it up for them. And we didn't have the outfit at first, and to come and do one of these real quick, I didn't suck it in, give me that instant. He just tied my

food up back into my body. Where these come here, right, It feels good, looks cool and so at this point does this cause a sexual sensation at all to some people or for some yes, not a certain place. She had jeans on. But I like to put my nuts like right where when I'm moving around him, I'm getting spicy. She can see what's going on. It's rubbing her clut while you keep tying. It feels really good. And then it's also in her ass, so the back part would

technically be in the crack of her ass. Now they are they naked when you do this, So you watch these ropes. This feels like BB already materials. I can always pop them into Washing Washington, then I um, I sell them in Most of time, I just give people the roles after they if you mess them up with them crazy to mess them up, like with what their faginal faces them up. They scored them up. They scored them up scu So so is there a reason that?

Is there a reason that you go all the way down to because you're now around her ankles and now I'm just doing stuff because I like, we look like if I had the black lights on it, it does look really dope going down, Like I like what you're doing. It was like making like a little outphit of it. Like she was naked. It'd be like someone stripping off. My mom just asked me why I'm not answering, and I'm like, oh, I'm working so for the knot on

the clip, right, can you put a knot inside of somebody? Uh? Sometimes if they tell to get in my roof and drawers, but I tell people, you know, okay, I recommended like little courtesy. You don't need to get see my rootes a little bit. But if you don't, if you don't, if you don't have to, if you have a drugs, it'll sit right right where it needs to be. So

it looks really cool. I like that. Basically, I'm curious to know when I would do something like that, right, So am I gonna am I gonna like sit in this and wear it and like will it start to feel tight or it'll rotate and move a little bit, but it's still for the most part it's it's stretchy rope. So it's not gonna go nowhere make my butt look better, yo.

So it looks really cool with somebody harness, And like, do you do a video to where someone knows they can do when when I sell the ropes out, some do a little show them how to ty because you can do all to yourself. Actually, you mean you really could have put this on yourself which around yourself and do it dif' just is next he's my other hard room. He's like really buying people. But I'm trying to time the down. Did you do something to maybe around her wrists?

Um to show maybe how you would what doesn't go? Are you up here? I could do anywhere? I mean where where we choose to do? You're gonna do it with anybody, you know, just for you guys, I'm gonna do this. I'm going to lock your arms. Told you like that, right? And this is is this the most common that people ask is for the restriction of their arms and hands? Or where do you find people between the between the legs and the arms? Where do people what do you get specific exactly? Where do you want

to get tired of? People just come to me and are you tying me up? And then they let me kind of figure it out. I mean, for the most first, relaxing my shoulders or where are they getting tense? I mean, you can relax them, but they're gonna I'm gonna you see hat he said, you'll see. So this is this is just very interesting. I guess for for anyone who's interested in getting this, where could they buy this at any arts and crafts store? Do they have to buy this?

At a sex store or paid to my city. What is this? Where where can they buy these these ropes? I know you make the other ones, but this type of rope that you're using now, these ones that make to these are all blue in the dark. Did they look weird because they don't have my lights on them? But these are just like a hot pink rope. Was like, oh wow, So what he does guys? Um? He actually he actually does this with like black light and make it all a cooney sheet. So do you do it?

Do you do like in calls or something? I do. I go people's homes and then sometimes they get a hotel, you bring their black light, you bring a black I bring my black lights and everything. Do you let them video David? Um? Depends on the situation. If I had a harm, I would snap this. Can you do it? This is? This is really really dope, though I don't know with me. With me, I think, look, how are you feeling. I feel fine, I don't feel like unsafe. I mean there's a whole lot of we got the

lights on you on camera? Well. I mean that's also the other thing, like I can't tell you if I just met somebody and like they wanted to tie me up and they started doing is I wouldn't you know? One. Here's the other thing. I've never let someone dominate me that I didn't feel secure with like I've never thankfully, I've never had a bad dum experience. They also I also wasn't comfortable, right, I also have been with experienced. Um so, and so what are you doing right now?

You're pretty much finishing up the knot? And could you could you turn around? I didn't wear makeup? Oh wow, So it's still really done very intricately. So it's longer. The longer you are, the more you can pieces because then if I want to add on it could just add on add on it. And if it's way too long and I'll be sitting here for a long time time type of right, I really get And then with the here and you could just and how quick how

quick does that one get untied? Is it just kind of like the so she had to stay for it and it was like, okay, I'm done. How quick does she get out of this? That's so fast? That was really fast to get out of that. Okay, So untying is definitely like with a pull of a a couple of strings and she's out, Well that's really really really okay. I'm might to try to eat I mean, I might do the tying up. I don't think I want to

be tied. I'm I'm very close for you. Honestly. The only uncomfortable part for me is probably like the shoulder restraint, like not even the end, but but I mean, but still never was there a point where I was like, oh my god, this is awful. So can I look? She want to keep she want to keep this string Listen. I'm I love that. Guys. If you guys want to try this, I think it's not only does it look hot.

Um and again I'll even post um if you guys are interested in finding bondage lingerie, I know a couple of sites where you can get that. UM and he's cool or whatever. Um, So we are gonna go ahead while he um puts the ropes back into his box, We're gonna get into our wholemale portion of the show. Um. This one is actually really interesting, especially whalle it's current. I would say, Um, this one is called and sir Dash, if you have any advice on this as well, please

chime in. So the title of this one is no sex during Ramadan, but he's not even Muslim. Hey, ladies, I just want to start by saying how much I love you both and how much I've learned from you guys through the podcast. I'm gonna get right to the point. I've been dating this guy on and off for like a year now. Last night I asked him to come over and have sex, and he says he can't because of Ramadan. But the gag is he isn't even Muslim, and he didn't even start participating in Ramadan until it

was three days in. Now. I'm not mad because he's choosing to do this for himself and his spirit, but this is something he chose to do without even telling me about until I asked for sex. And he was at my house laying in my bed the night before telling me about Ramadan and couldn't tell me he wasn't having sex either. I'm not sure if I'm just being a brat because I've been so horny, or if he should have at least communicated this with me, being that

he isn't even Muslim. Sorry this was so long, but I'd like to hear what you ladies have to say. Love. I ain't getting none until after June four. So I just pointed it um our engineer behind us, Chris, because I know that I thought you were a Muslim. I don't know why I thought that. Well, I'm no longer practice, but I used to practice a couple of years ago. Yeah, I used to, you know, practice Islam. We won't have to get into the details because they do pay attention

to ship like this. But anyway, now listener's for me to talk about. It's about like Ramadon for you and sex. I participated in Ramadan for two years, my first one. I was engaged to a young lady. And yeah, you could have sex. Actually it just has to be during the hours of you know, eating and all of that. But yeah, you could pretty much smash bro. What are you talking about? Like, yeah, don't don't. I mean if he is though, like I understand and I respect his

decisions and not smash well. And that's the thing too, Like for Ramadon, you can choose what you're giving up, right, Honestly, It's not like I don't know too much about land, but I know you could pretty much have a selection, be honest with you, Like, tensions are a little higher for me with religion right now, women's bodies, So I'm

just like all of them. But honestly, I will say I do think it's kind of weird that this dude randomly decided to pop up and like is it a keto diet or like, not only that, you're he also joined it three days late, Like, oh, I see everybody doing Ramadan? Let you do that? Is that? Yeah? That thing you before, that's like almost like almost like a consent almost type of things at any point in time.

If you if you that's what you're if that's what you're saying, there's a reason why you don't want to have whatever it is Ramadan as an excuse, I probably to do it for self. If you're doing for self, If you're doing for self purposes and something you have self different things, you're trying to take a break or whatever, then just say you just trying to take a break

of this isn't that um, But if you don't. Sometimes some people just want to take a break but don't have a significant reason why they want to take a break, and so they use whatever ramadon or whatever something like that to maybe possibly I mean, but it just seems like just be honest with just so I don't know. I'm not here for someone using uh a religion reason is like especially when you're like you don't practice it,

I don't know. To me, I would wonder like maybe the communication of why and really seeing if he's doing it for purpose or does he understand Ramadan and what it actually means, because then if it is something to where he's new, because I'm not gonna lie I lived um in Asia for about six months and I was really like interested in Buddhism and what it stood for and what was what it was about. This is something that he's like, maybe I want to convert to this and this is how I want to start, then I

would understand him. But for him just to say, well it is Ramadan, I gave up sex, I mean, here's the thing too. Is this the thing is he is that what really happened? Or is that's her her version of what she's saying, Because some of the people just

break it down and really get simple with it. So when they explained to you just like yeah, he just you know, maybe yeah, but maybe maybe he did really break it down and we was really was been studying, really been because she didn't get no dick, she's just like you might be really out of here. I want to thank Sir Dash or stir dashing tone um for

coming through the horrible decisions. I hope that you guys learned a lot about bondage, but now also may want to ring it into the bedroom before we get out of here. Can you let our listeners know where they can find you? Will also put all of his information in the description of this episode. Sounds good. Well, my name is Sir Dashington. Thank you guys for having me. First of all, Um, you guys can find me at www.

A Roddey ropes by Dash dot com, um on Instagram, you can find me at a Roddey roast by Dash three um, Twitter, roast by Dash, Email, roast by Dash at gmail dot com. All of that before we also get out of here. You guys just heard me bring up some reproductive shape. You might have seen me say on Twitter like I had really just was not in the mood to work today, you know, like I was.

It's hard to come in here sometimes when you're just like really in those emotions of what's going on around you, and as someone who's had an abortion and just seeing a lot of Twitter slander and I don't even have a Twitter, like you know, we post about horrible decision ship and I was like, still really annoyed whether just seeing the hierarchy of what abortion is okay to pee bowl. Oh yeah, it's okay if you know, you get an

abortion round this time, but not this one. It's okay if you get to but not four and blah blah blah blah blah. So I just wanted to look up as much as I can and see what I could do. So I found some stuff. Sure, I'm sure all of you probably feel as angry, especially if you're I guess open enough to listen to this podcast. So if you don't know, Alabama, it's now illegal to have an abortion

after six weeks. The trouble with that is that most of us find out we're pregnant around six weeks, you know, you know, four weeks in a month, and then you missed your period and you're like, oh and then boom,

it's six week. It's too weak. So a few things that we can do, right, So if you have I don't know, ten minutes of time, you can call one of your legislatives that are in or anyone that's in Alabama, and you don't leave him a voicemail about how you're feeling affected by this, I'll leave the number in the description. UM donate to local grassroots organizations plant parenthood. Of course, there's another one called n A R A l UM

and the National Network of Abortion Funds UM. Actually, anytime someone passes me on the street in New York about the motherfucking doll, I'm like, dog, I only give my money to black people and plan parent. That's sorry. But I did want to say volunteering is a clinic escort, so I already looked up a place UM in Alabama to do it. As some of you guys saw the Louisville, Kentucky thing on Twitter where these people there was like

five escorts for one woman. She like was totally covered her face, like people were screaming at her, like it's crazy. I know there's Ohio and Georgia that have crazy bands. So if you're in these cities or nearby, maybe making a girl's trip. You know what I'm saying, go with your friends, do something great for someone else. It's gonna do nothing but make you feel good. And I also wanted to talk about just the repercussions of the abortion band.

So currently they're saying this, I don't know how true this is, but they are saying that if you live in Alabama and you go to another state to get an abortion, you can also be charged, yes when you come home. So here are a few rules from Planned Parenthood. Number one, uh taken at home test only because of rule number two, tell no one don't text over the

phone social media. Everybody's like freaking out about it. But three, when you take your VACA in to another state, just go under the guys to sight see your visit family um. And for when you obtain the abortion, do not sign any waivers. If you don't sign any waivers for consent to providers to communicate to other ones, you are safe.

Look up HIPPA. Your information is federally protected. If the one and only person who knows you had an abortion leaks it, they will go to prison because they violated HIPPA. And unless you've broke any other rules, they're the only ones who know. That was from an anonymous source at Planned Parenthood. So I don't know how true it is that you could go to fucking jail or like be you know, persecuted for UM having an abortion another state.

But just keep aware of those things, making sure you don't sign any paper I would even so much as pay with motherfucking cash for an abortion. But not only that, there's a lot of laws. There's about fifteen states currently affected as well, UM, and more bills looking to be passed. So UM, I don't think that we aren't going to speak on this. We have had an episode where we

s I both opened up about our abortions. UM. But I am planning an episode UM in which we will discuss kind of what's going on UM in our current state as far as politically UM, but also just getting some women UM who are in that space professionally to get on this show and really dig deep into abortion, the effects on the body UM, and of course the

political stance in which our country is currently taking. So UM be on the lookout for UM that episode coming in those send some emails two of your personal stories, like especially men, I think that is a great um and untouched space with abortions. So many women like talk about their abortions and get shut on for it. And there's plenty of niggas that have had four or five six out here and don't talk about those moments. Don't talk about how abortions save their lives or their careers

or their money. UM. So definitely share those stories with us. Will totally be anonymous if you want us to, UM, but just share that with us so these women know that they're not alone. And UM. Once again, this has been yet another episode of horror decisions. What is the craziest thing you've seen on the flight yet? Uh? Or craziest moment? Think catching someone give a blow job? Wait, that happened on your fight and to Orlando. It's a

million kids girl and was from Lauderdale. They gotta be Florida. They just gotta And then the short no, it's like from yeah in the no, so they had they were in the background and you put the story. You put a little blanket over here, right, But the flights, the flights are full, Orlando flights are kids and maybe crying back and forth. And wait, she couldn't even give head being quiet that we knew, shut the funk up. There's

a way to give me quiet, bro. Wait, you tapped her on the head while she was in action, except her back. We had to tell her like, hey, there's but two people can't go into the bathroom and it's not against the laws. You're you're telling me you can fucking fucking a bathroom. But do you want to? Yeah, you don't don't know the funk you do not let me tell you. I wasn't l a X this weekend, Okay, drunk Delta sky Club talking with this dude and he's like, I bet y'all. No, I wasn't like, but he bet

everybody at the fucking bar a hundred dollars. He's like, y'all gotta pay for my drinks if I'm right. Two people can go in the bathroom, and you can. They can't say anything to you. And I was like, no fucking way. So someone googled something and it proved him wrong, and he paid for all of our drinks. You owe him some money, So what do you You told her she could go in the bathroom. Now you're about to

give everybody locked up. You can get in trouble. So when you act up and you don't listen to us, you get to it and it's like, hey, if you don't stop, you're gonna get of whatever whoever it is, whoever I thought me and Mandy was about to get a ticket win. She's a lot of help was on the adults are like a baby sues girl that was heading into We were in how Utch. Some motherfucker would tell me to shut the funk up, bitch. No not. My bad experience was going over to uh d R

and um. This lady was with her know she was with her dude at the time, but her side nigger was on the plane with her as well at the same damn time. So they go to the back of the aircraft and the dude the dude to sleep and she goes to the back of aircraft with her side dude. They go inside of the back and there in the bathroom. I don't know if they're talking to know what they're doing.

And yeah, so the guy comes out, the man, the main man comes and he knocks on the door and they opened the door and he slapped the shot out of her. And the side guys just standing there like, what do I do? WI? What you was doing? What do you think I was doing? You just watching a No? I literally was like and I would be like, that's what the funk you get trying to Now we gotta call the captain, let them know that there's an emergency going on at land early for that, did y'all? Oh no,

we actually didn't land early. We diverted even worse. Wait what yes, how do you stopped him? You go all right? Not me? No, No, what do y'all do in a case of niggas? And by that, I mean, however you take it? Can we tell them? Yeah we have flexi rods. Yeah, you for strained them. So they're like okay, okay, And so people are what you do? Throw it at him