Ep114: Astrological Heaux feat Mecca Woods

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y'all love hearing us on a motherfucking Monday. It's work, y'all, work, It's the motherfucking what's your DVD Adam and E dvd z I y'all noticed the last full week before y'all get ready to go pop your pusses for Memorial Day weekend because I know, I'm ready shipping my pussy with who beer bases here you go wait wait since this is coming to l A, I'm not going to wait. Oh yeah, you're going somewhere else. Huh. So after we all funked it, it it was great. We were like, ship,

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is another episode of Four Decisions. I'm your girl, Mandy B, I'm wheezy, and we are joined by a lovely guess. Now, this is an episode I ain't even gonna hold you, bro. They've been asking for this, um and I don't know, do you follow passport cutty or so Passport Cutty stay reading people before they got damn Zodie low key reading Mandy. So we have an astrologist here with us and Cutty,

Mandy and her were hanging right in Houston. So we're at the pool and Cutty was like, y'll have an astrologist. I was like, yeah, it's such a good idea. And I was like, but Mandy doesn't believe in it. She was like, so why she call herself a liberta? You believed? And it's a good point. Well, I am a libra. Have you believe in God? Are you going to be a Christian? Or j or? And I believe in a higher being? So bitch, how are you a libra? But

you'll believe in it? Listen, bit questions we get sorted, So go ahead, introduce yourself to our listeners. Let them know your name, what you do, and why are you a motherfucking astrologist? Okay, So my name is Mecha Woods. I am an astrologer. I've been practicing for about ten years, going and raised in the bronx, UM v xand up.

And the reason why I've been drawn to astrology and I practice it is because way long ago, when I was at a cross roads in my life, I found that it was a great tool to empower myself and to make empowering decisions. So what I do is use that as a tool to help people through their challenges and make the most of their lives and opportunities at present. So real quick, before we get into like this deep you know, astrology is it closer to science or religion?

It is not religion, Okay, Um, it is not a science either. It's I once heard a colleague explain it as being like a marriage between math and myth. And the thing with astrology is what I always tell people is that, um, you don't need to believe in it in order to use it. It is a tool you can use it to like you can use it um

the way that you would use any other tool. And as a matter of fact, there's a favorite quote of mine that I love to always talk about whenever this subject comes up, and it's by Kevin Burke, who's another astrologer, and it says, um, you don't need to believe in a hammer in order to use it. And that's the

same way that you would do astrology. Like it's just a thing of studying cycles and patterns and basically informing that decisions and experiences that we have in our lives so we can make the most of the opportunities that present themselves and learn how to navigate challenges and things that we can't control. So I've heard a lot of people say things like they don't believe in astrology because it's too broad, Like okay, that if there's a million Pisces in the world, are we all really going to

have a hard week at work? Like what? Okay, well, I guess let me yeah, because we're gonna get into them questions. We go, oh, we got them. We gotta let's do the icebreaker. Let's do the icebreaks because you just brought up pisces. We don't have to use. Let's not bring everything. So we should all say our signs. So I have a Pisces rising, a core Sagittarius, and my moon is an aries. Okay, I'm a about the salo. So I'm a Sagittarius son, a Leo rising and aquarious

moon and I'm a Libra. That's all. I don't know these risings and dips in settings and all of that raises. Um So before we start, guys, um as you see what this episode is going to be about. I think a lot of us UM look for signs UM as kind of a reason to why our partners act the way they do, why we have the type of sex we have, UM even sometimes our friendships and how we communicate.

So we're gonna delve into that. But before we are going to start an icebreaker and Meca kind of gave this little game and I kind of like it because I think as soon as we hear of a sign, one word comes to our mind. So what we're gonna do is, I'm gonna name off the sign. And she actually corrected me, y'all because I started going by the actual calendar and she's like, no, actually starts with aries, um. It does not start with Capricorn, bitch. So she read

me before we started. But I'm gonna go down the list of signs and all of us are gonna say the very first word that comes to our mind with the signs. Okay, so we're gonna start with you, Mecca, You. Then I'm gonna say my word, and then I'm gonna say the next UM sign and we're gonna go like that, all right, and let's see, let's see what we think of Y'ALLU says, can we say skip because there's something I don't know. Okay, yeah, you can say skip if you don't know. Um. So the first is aries sex

mm hmm, passionate air. I don't know about aries, Taurists, luxury, I don't know horns. That's like theyta horns right that they signs. They have Gemini, chatty, crazy, bipolar, cancer, nurturing, fuck, nigger leo, uh, conceited. I was gonna say attention, horror, dominant, virgo, control freak, I'm not sure controlling, that's my mom um, Libra wishy washy oh. I was gonna say indecisive. Oh, the same thing. And I was gonna say the best

motherfucker's sign in the world beat no libra. So the word that I have for loyal, I would say, that's that's um, the word that I have. Let me get it, Let me get my mall. Because Scorpio intense good sucks, sneaky Sagittarius, while the ship I'm not sure fun Capricorn money outgoing, Um, I would say nurturing for capricorn Um Aquarius eccentric, artistic, I would say indecisive. And last one is Pisces weed weed emotionalist fault you know, I already

know I don't even want to meet normal pisces. I got were right by me. That's all the motherfucker's pieces needne So, so I decided because there was so much um to actually talk about on this topic. Um A lot of you started sending in questions im which they I'm pretty much just gonna send them all to your book and email because they're like, well, can you really delve into what a Capricorn and Aquarius and what's what

it's like for them to be down a little? Literally, everyone was sending their actual sign with you know, their compatibility with our people. Every episode we are going to go down this like a regular Horrible Decisions. But it is all about astrology, zodiac and horoscopes, and I think that's all the same thing. But um, so I actually found for our van a little shit. Um You Porn launches a sex zodiac service for horoscope lovers. Have you

heard of this? I've heard of it. Okay, so you already know about your Okay, let me just get into it. So the folks at you Porn have teamed up with Dalcie via Trendo wells of know the Zodiac to give you your sex zodiac dot com. This is a monthly sex horoscope, so you know whether to go on the

prow or maybe just stay in for Netflix. According to a press release, the site will let users find out who they are compatible with, what their sign says about their sex taste, what their sexual interest means based on their horoscope, and much more. Taking a glance at the horoscope for say this month, check out this excerpt. This

was for aries Um. So it says on the six a major astrological monstone takes place as Saturn, the planet of challenge, ends it's five month retrograde in the sign of Capricorn, and that already is I don't know what the funk that means. This retrograde was affecting your social status and reputation sector. Okay, so it just goes into a horoscope read which I want to get into that because I think, because there's stuff that's coming in my

mind and yes, right down your questions for sure. So basically what this app does is tell you kind of if you can expect to have a whole lot of sex, who you will be compatible with having sex with and all of these things, and what do you think about this app? Is that a thing like that you think, Um,

I think it could be a great app. I think for me, Um, it would just be a matter of like who they're actually getting to write the material, because unfortunately, I have seen some apps that are astrology apps, but when you open it up, the descriptions and the horoscopes are extremely vague and they don't really offer you any insight at all, and and it kind of kind of feeds into that thing where people feel like astrology is bullshit.

You know, we're saying. I was telling you I know about co star, that's I learned my rising and moon, and you said that it's not as accurate. You suggested another one, which one was that, Um, well, I don't try to steal people away from certain things. Like you use what you use. But the thing that I use is the old school website, which is astro dot com.

Astro dot com, and you go to astro dot com and plug in your birthday, the day, month, year, the location that you were born in the time that you were born, and it will give you a readout of your birth chart. Oh ship, I actually didn't do the co started and ask me the location, but that makes sense. Yeah, that might be so all of that matters, yeah, ovation the time, all of that matters. Yeah, Okay, So then

I guess that's how I guess people would differ. I know you introduced yourself, but I just have two questions, like how are you different from a psychic? Like what? How do you make money? How? What do people come to you for? So people come to me for advice on anything that has to do with like love, uh, in relationships. So it could be like you know, family stuff, it could be things between I've done parent and child readings. UM.

I have done stuff around businesses, around uh, career paths. Um. You know, like let's say someone wants to come to you about their boyfriend. Do you need them to figure out where the time that their boyfriend was bored? It depends. Like if someone is coming to me about relationships, UM, I usually like to have permission of the other party. You know. That's kind of like because I don't read charts without permission. I find it to be very intrusive.

But what I usually do, like if a person is coming to me and they don't want their partner to know, I'll just get very basic sort of information and focus to reading on them and what they need to do as opposed to like talking too much about the partner because at the end of the day, it's about them anyway. Yeah, yeah, okay, So what what I guess I want to know too outside of astro dot com, what other websites are apps? Because this is clearly something from you porn that they're bringing.

But what other apps or sites would you suggest our listeners to maybe go to. Um? I have seen a uh another website called astro dash charts dot com. Um. They have where you can go and get your birth chart and things like that. Um. But I really feel like when it comes to like kind of getting like the basics of like astrology and kind of like astro dot com is kind of like the best one of

the best resources that you can go to. Yeah, I mean just to read, you know, I like to read, but I want to see what to say about libras, just just just to see. Are you not the person at flips to the last page in the magazine? Then what do you mean that always has a horsecope? Nah? I used to be looking for ve Street boys and ship first, do you That's that's what I really look at magazines? They really want to get into it. Can

we what is astrology? Let's say that, like you're we're talking about moon and sun and all of that and Venus and there's a Chinese rat what is the ship? No in real life. So the astrology that practice is Western astrology, and it is based on some very old stuff from like pre biblical times, and basically what it is it is a study of patterns and cycles that are rooted in time. So whenever. So you were asking earlier about like what is like different makes me different

from a psychic? What I'm doing is kind of going back in time and looking at things that have happened historically and looking at that and how that, like the planets moving sort of correlates with that, because what we're doing is really giving the planets um they're they're acting as a language for what is happening and what's going on in the world. They're not causing anything, they're not affecting us and not like physically doing anything to us.

It's just as above so below. That's sort of like the context to it. Right, So as we are looking at things that I've happened in the past, we're making inferences of things that could happen in the future. So it's similar to the way like economists look at trends in terms to see like how the economy is going to go or whether like meteorologists are looking at like weather patterns and seeing like this is going to happen,

you know, on such a such day. So we're doing that similarly, like looking at trends and then saying, Okay, if this has happened in the past, because history repeats itself, then chances are that these things are going to happen again in the future. And this is why there's certain traits attached to certain signs, and when you meet people, you assume that they may act away based on how

someone else who held that same sign may act. Is that kind of the same um Somewhat yes, But I would also kind of want to let people know that, like every leo is not the same, you know, like every side, because like, is it that was all motherfucker's Twitter talking about oh scorpio big they got devil did. Like I guarantee everyone who was born in late October November does not have big dicks. There's a lot of a lot of stereotyping that happens with astrology, as I'm

sure you know. Um, there was something that came up the other day about someone who was like trying to deny someone housing because they wear Capricorn. I don't know, you guys saw that that was particularly because they were Capricorn. They felt that Capricorn wouldn't blend well with their new made cent situation. Completely ridiculous and and nasty, and the kind of astrology that I do not support. Like it's not for discriminating against people whatsoever. But yeah, there's a

lot of stereotypes, you know. Um, you know, I've met scorpios. I have a lot of people, like a lot of scorpios in my life. Not all of them are freaks, you know. Not all of them are freaks, not real quick. Not all virgos are neat and clean freaks, you know,

not all sages are like party animals. So there it really depends again, like you know, on the day that you were born, because there's also your moon and you're rising your Venus and your Mars and all these different things that kind of blend together to make the whole. So it's really there's there's different things that happened or happens within astrology that gives us some variety and some differentiation when it comes to the Zodia signs and how

they express themselves. Um, but at this end of the day, there are some core traits that we can kind of build from. And I ask you, sorry to interrupt you. We didn't talk about doing this, but I feel like, why not. Have you ever heard our show before? You have not no worries? So Mandy and I are known for acting like front of mees right, and we've done therapy on the show together. Do you think you could maybe read us and our signs? Business? Jesus? Do you

need to do many need a verse start? Yeah? Yeah, I guess you need, you know, but just tell us. We're fighting this small around, but I gotta worry about it because I'm amazing. Ships don't need mass. So Mandy's a Libra Yeah so, um, Mandy's a Libra son, a Pisces rising, and a cancer moon. H okay, And then I have you. This is so hard to feel good, damn pieces pieces, pieces reaching Pisces. And then wheezy, hold

on one second, all right? So then I have you as an Erie son, a tourist rising, and a Gemini moon. Hold on, I'm not a pisces. Wait a minute, hold on, you said April. No oh no, okay, sorry, that's my fault. Then, oh my damn. Right wait, I'm not a muse. We sell you guys. Mecca is on astrology astro dot com

right now. She we just called her mom's um to check and see what date we were born for I mean over time we were born because we need daytime and location to get an accurate birth start reading, I asked, am I gonna check it out for us so that we could see how well we were worked together? Well, we already know the answer to that. Good, but maybe we need to hear some bitch. All right, so wait,

you said more at seventy right now? Okay, alright, alright now I got it good, alright, alright, alright, so let's see what this is like a Nike all right, So wheezy, I have you uh there's your sunning pisces, your modern aries, and your ascendant and said, okay, that's what I had. Yeah, perfect, Okay,

So what does this mean? Alright? So basically, like when it comes to the Big three, your sun, moon and rising um, your son is your identity is how you want to shine in the world and how how you want people to see you, So has a piscey sun. You want people to see you as someone that is compassionate, carrying intuitive um and that you have the ability to

basically understand people at a very fundamentally fundamental level. But then you have that aries moon, a moon like that all the area's moon a clap back moon, right, because your moon has to do with your emotions and how you express them and process them, and you don't know how to do it. You're definitely yeah, so mooning areas is definitely gonna be feisty um, definitely going to look out for their friends and family, be very fiercely protective

of the people that they love. Um. But as an area's moon, in terms of what you need, you also need like adventure and independence, which makes you somewhat different from like the traditional Pisces, which if you read about it, they'll say like Pisces are clingy and and too needy and all that kind of stuff like that. But with your home, with your moon being in areas, you're a little bit more independent and freedom freeom loving than with

the typical Pisces. And then that's also and that also kind of ties into your Sagittarius rising, because your rising sign has to do with how you approach the world and how you see yourself. Sagittarius is the sign that is associated with freedom and travel. So even though you have that compassionate, nurturing and tender piscey self, at the end of the day, you're approaching the world from a place of life, wanting to explore, taste, and see as

much as you possibly. You never heard our show and you know nothing about me, So I feel like everybody's listening like, oh ship. I mean, you know, I haven't met the tenths of thousands of listeners, but I feel like they would at least know that. I'm so curious. Okay, what about what about me? All right? Right here? Isn't uh son Pisces rising and cancer? Yes, okay, so let me. I'm just gonna pull up your chart okay again, so that way I could have it in front of me.

That was awesome, No, it really was. And that's why I come out of somebody climbed like she really didn't read you. Wow, that's crazy. All right? So, Mandy, so we have you as a liber's son, Yes, right, Carson moon and Pisces rising. So you know, just kind of a little bit I'll tell you about yourself. But I think this kind of ties into like why you guys work so well because because you do have a lot

of just too. So those two things, you both have a lot of water between you, so like water is cancer pissy scorpio, right, so you intuitively get along and there's like a fundamental sort of understanding that you have between each other. But at the same time, you also have a polarity between you with your aries moon and your Libra son, so there's like a dynamic of like

that push pull so things don't get boring. But with you being a Libra, the way you want to be seen, Mandy as some is someone um that basically, you know, wants to be fair, that wants to be diplomatic, that wants to be that knows how to hold space for other people and understand right. The other thing about libras that the other thing about libras is that libras love

playing the devil's advocate. So if you say something is blue, they will come along and say, well it could be green, you know, and they they'll have the capacity to are arguaboth sides. Now with your moon being a can so your moon has to do with your feelings. Your moon is actually at home and cancer because cancer, Um, the moon, the moon rules cancer. So cancer moons definitely have big, big feelings, a lot of feelings, which kind of goes

against the grain. With you being a Libra, there's like a battle internal struggle with you, like how how logical. It's like, how logical and rational am I? But at the same time I have all these big feelings, right And then with your your pisces rising um, the way that you approach the world is from a place of compassion and wanting to understand and make the world a better place. That is men it Now, I mean it's cute, um, you know, I like my son is a scale, it's cute. Um. No,

So I like that. I mean I think that it's interesting because this is a way that kind of we can maybe I guess this is an explanation as to why maybe we are the way we are, um, in terms of how we do approach the world, how we view ourselves and how we want others to view us. Um. But I would actually kind of tie that And I know you said it's not religion, but I think it just gives us an explanation for something which I feel like is what sciences, which is why I don't believe it.

But also religion as well, like religion is faith because it gives us something to believe about life after death or what um and giving faith. So I know this is horrible decisions. So we're all gonna get this and make this horrible decisions. We're gonna get into the Kike of a week. I'm like me, while I'm not going, I'm doing a lot of self analyzing right now, Like just you're saying that you ain't shit, you ain't shit,

you ain't ship, that's all yours. Maybe I have a meeting, right we are so like when we're in it, we're in it. When we're in two, Yeah, we're gonna do this thing. We have this, we're going, we're good. But the second one little opinion doesn't agree. No, it's hard. So this is what it is. She's no no real quick.

She is an only child. And so I feel as I'll be honest, I'll be honest, and this is kind of this isn't a therapist session, and this isn't me ratten on you, but even for other people who are listening, if you're an only child, to me, I feel like you don't have the gag to kind of compromise because your whole life here's a talking about compromise about but

must be fair, let's and that's what it is. But not only thank you, she's never had to really argue or compromise or share with someone else growing up as an only child. If you want something, because you were almost a miracle baby with your mom, you were very spoiled and you got what you wanted. No, I didn't stop. Don't. It's very hard for the things i've I've have to work as we don't. Yes, I'm saying right the last ten years, but look how that compares to the first eighteen.

That's shaped a lot of how I am able to be compassionate about things that other people go through and working hard. I believe all of that. Working hard I'm talking about when it comes to disagreeing and someone literally just saying and I don't think I want to do it that way. It's your way or the highway, and a lot of a lot of scenarios you think that

I work with you, Well, this is funny. You know, it's funny you both have Mars and Gemini, which is hilarious to me because Mars has to do with like how you fight and how you take action with things, and Gemini as a sign that has to do with communication.

So you guys definitely fight with your words. But but again this is highlighting what I was talking about earlier, the dynamic between you in terms of the Libra, who's like you're not thinking about other people and the aries that's thinking that the way that it sounded like, oh, the Aria's part of you is thinking solely about yourself. But that's kind of like where that push pole kind

of comes in between those. And so I think that this is something that maybe a lot of you who are listening, if you have a partner um that you know you've been seeing for a while, whether it's intimately sexually or you guys have been together in a long term relationship, maybe just making this kind of an activity for one night, get some wine and look up your charts and kind of read into it and see if maybe this could be the reasons So basically said, you ain't ship, but no, I do want to get into

Kistie was rising, and so was y'all gig and when the moon went down, I thought you So we're gonna get into our KIK of the week, guys. This is where we're gonna talk about sex and signs. And so with this, I know you guys want a whole motherfucking episode about how your sign relates to every other sign in the book. But we're not gonna be able to do that. Here goes someone else, Well, why don't you guys just have twelve different episodes on each side podcast?

So I'm like, no, I'm not gonna do just you're doing that for us. You're about to get some money. So, but I do want to start, and we're gonna start. Um. So what I found is from Elite Daily. It says that the fetish each zodiac sign has definitely thought about at least once um and this is based on the sign and what they feel like the fetish matches them. So let me know how true this is. If you can elaborate on any of it, please feel free to.

And if you have had any sort of sexual experiences with any of these signs and what it's saying they're fetish, would be also tuned into that. So The first one is aries. They have aries fetish as dom Aries are doms by nature, doms or dominants that take reins and get off by watching a strong, confident person willingly submit to them. This person becomes their sub or submissive. Aries love the chase, though, so pairing up with someone who is more of a brat is a better choice. I

can see that. I can see that. Actually there was a study sort of like a um an informal study that I was reading about, like doms us subs, and uh, the signs that tended to show up the most work cancer capricorn aries, and I think that might have been it. Okay, that makes sense. Cancers to me, definitely have and well mostly so. The next one is torres. The fetish for tourists is master. Masters in the b D s M

community are like doms on crack. They have a sub they call their slave, and the agreement they enter into goes outside of the bedroom. A master and slave relationship is exactly what it sounds like. The slave often has one master, but the master can have many slaves and he, she, or they tells them all what to do. Tauris is extremely possessive of their lovers and are terrible at avoiding temptation, so this is a perfect arrangement. They get cheated the

last tourist. What do you think about that? Um? I can see it from the from the possessive standpoint, So tourists are mostly possessive. Oh this one fits so good, bitch. The next one is Jemini. Can you guess what they're fetish is? Probably Jemini's love to have options. They need the freedom to make one choice and then an another, and then another and then another. They need to be able to make all of the choices at once. They're polly people. They need the freedom to explore with multiple

partners in different places in different ways. This way they never get bored. Plus they have that beautiful air sign ability to think through their jealousy before they act on it. That's hilarious. Um No, in some ways, yeah, I can. I can kind of see that. Um. But you know, I feel like Geminis in terms of kink, they would probably be the ones that would kind of do like um,

they would be switches. They make good switches. I mean, so the ideal with the Gemini right now, and he's super dumb, but I think we still are able to have kind of that dynamic where we switch to where he still allows me to feel powerful even if I'm not. So I do like that. And then of course he liked mad options, so yeah he does. So the next one is cancer for cancer. It's actually suck up. Cancers are submissive in a multitude of ways, but especially when

it comes to sex. The qualities that make for someone who loves submission is to be giving generous um, and they feel their best when they're giving to others. Is that kind of wouldn't agree with that? You would disagree with that one? Okay? Why that? Why would you put a fetish for um? Maybe you said them more. I'm like, like, what is it like? Um? Like baby play? Maybe they get to be like the parents? What kind of like that kind of role play? I mean because because cancers.

See here's the thing. A lot of people people don't misunderstand cancers. They always put paid cancers as being so tender and sensitive. But cancers are very protective and they are also very bossy. They love to take charge. So I would yeah, I would put them more in a dominant sort of role. Okay, but kind of like what you said. Still, it's the maybe the daddy doma. Okay. The next one is Leo. This one is alpha. Leo's shine in the spotlight and they have an alpha personality.

They'll play a submissive for sure, but if someone isn't as dominant as Leo wants them to be, they'll switch to the natural emotional habitat and go full alpha on the poor sucker. Leo's are extremely picky about their partners as well, another alpha characteristic. They know what they want and they go get it to some degree kind of. I would say Leo's I think make good subs because they definitely want to be put on display or maybe like a humiliation fetish um like around. I don't know

about the humilia maybe maybe uh. The other one exhibitionists. Yes, yes, girl, you know so the next one is Virgo, and Virgo goes back to B D S M A. Virgo is And this is so crazy because my mom and I see, do you want to take a guess? Go ahead, slave, Yes, bottoms. Virgos are the best bottoms. So no, we actually like have this conversation with her and her dynamic with relationships. She's very sub but then when it comes down to it, like you're cooking, your cleaning, your pain. But let's not

even get into the pain in the bills. But um so virgo is a slave UM and b DSM slaver first is someone who engages in dom sub role play and it's consensually at the complete whim of their dahmer master. Virgo is at is natural at serving others, and they give everything to their partner. If they can't, they might even be willing to allow their partner to go find what they're looking for somewhere else. This doesn't mean they

won't be jealous. It just means that. It just means that they care that much about making their partner happy. This is crazy. Yes, I believe that. Oh my god, here I go, Oh my god, this is me Libra. Can you guess what libra is? No bit so it's not dumb, which I would so it is. Also in the b d s M, it says a princess and b ds I was thinking baby girl means someone who loves to be pampered in a very vanilla which not

vanilla way calmed down though not me um. It says vanilla being a term for more monogamous traditional relationship dynamics. Someone that needs to be seriously, That's why I'm like riding Dick, you do everything. But princesses also have the tendency to be dominant personalities. They want to be the center of their partners world and wants to run their

lives in the bedroom. Yes, and how this partnership Libras, perhaps because of their concern with justice and equality out of the bedroom, tend to be completely the opposite when they're in it. You know what I'm thinking about that, I'm thinking about Libra and taurists and how both both signs are ruled by Venus, right, and I think about like financial domination can m as far as what you brought up Venus. So Venus has to do with seduction.

Seduction Venus is uh, you know, your ability to attract things. And Venus is also associated with money. So when I think about like, um, you know, expensive things or um luxury, luxury, yes, Libra is the same way, like very indulgent, very um luxury. So when I think about a whole lot of things, Mandy is pretty frugal. Actually, the think about Venus soon because Venus is so seductive, they have the power to like get just basically whatever they want. From from people

to begin everything, it just be okay. So we're almost the guys um, so scorpio for those that are listening and waiting for their sign to come up, so Scorpio, this fetish would be primal. Primals love to let out their inner animal in the bedroom, and sex for them is about exposing their raws. Most primary emotions during X Scorpios switched between the roles of predator and prey because they get off on the power dynamics. Obviously, Yeah, the person who wrote it says, obviously they sucked a lot

of scorpios. Um. What's crazy with with me is when it comes to the scorpio dynamics that I have. So I've dealt with two scorpios in a long term setting. Now, maybe I don't know their rising sun and moon and all of that stuff, but they've been completely opposite as far as how they are in the bedroom, which is probably why I've viewed scorpios kind of like I don't really believe them. So one of my scorpios I've talked about on this show, he was in my life for

well over ten years. He's the guy who I pissed on um and was really into like meet him being my bitch in the bedroom. The other one was not half as freaky as this one, but I guess they were freaky in different ways. Maybe it is a freakness. So the other scorpio is who I had the male male female threesome with, but he got off on seeing me with others more so. But he was innately, he wasn't that freaky, like he liked getting head, but he really couldn't last in the bedroom like the other one.

I guess that's also more body wise. But yeah, so it's just weird, like when I think of scorpios, because I've dealt with two of these scorpios that areis a sign of extremes. There's no middle ground when it comes to scorpio at all, So you either have one on one side. That's kind of um. And you always say too I remember reading this a long time ago, like when I first got into stral They always say like, if you meet a scorpio who has hang ups about sex,

you should run away from them. Why is that because um scorpio? You know, I hate to say that Scorpio is a sign of sex. Scorpio is not the sign of sex. Scorpio is associated with intimacy, which is which sex is a form of right and when you also put the power and control dynamic into it, then it becomes a thing around. Like ultimately, what scorpios want is at unconditional, no hole's barred, unfiltered intimacy with another human being that allows them to touch souls as well as

their body parts. So if they have hang ups around intimacy as they're seeing as like something that's wrong or dirty or bad, then there's usually something else psychologically going going there that they need to work through. Okay, we have two more signs before we get into like definitely talking about this. So Sagittarius, they're fetish is swingers, while Geminis are also polly they need to have someone to

match up with. Sagittarius people don't see sexuality as a one on one thing, whatever the construction of their relationship is. They like to keep a variety of sexual partners or even attend parties with their partners because of their expansive sexual imaginations. Gemini is the perfect sign for the knock up with you and as a as a Sagittarius, geminis, I think Geminis, I mean that's that's our opposite sign.

So your opposite sign is always going to bring to the table whatever it is you need and you're lacking. So when it comes to Geminize that I've dealt with in the past, yeah, there is definitely this incredible tension and heat, but at the same time it's very love or hate at the same time. Pisces, we're not there yet. We're not there yet because you said it's last oh and that's you. So we're going right now to Aquarius. Actually, wait,

we got Capricorn, then Aquarius and Pisces. So Capricorn is satis, consent being a requirement for this. Satis enjoy inflicting certain types of pain on their partners. The reason Capricorns would be say this is because the disciplinarian roles they often play in life. You agree with that, We're gonna go to Aquarius real quick, Aquarius, this is funny. Perverts. Aquariums are the most offbeat sign in the zodiac, and their

odd ball antics exist inside the bedroom too. They're like the original sexual deviance and enjoy things like voyeurism, state of masochism, or wearing women's panties on their faces. Their freaks on the street and freaks in the bed. But at least they're consistent. Would you agree with that? Yeah? Okay, And now we're at fucking pisces, So moment that has been waiting for a bitch and it's you home. So brats in b D s M community are not a

submissive types. Typically, they pair up with dominance and like to test the limits of their partner's dominance by disobeying them. Oh my god are brats because they can never decide on being just one way. As the last sign in the zodiac, they're liking, why why they got to give me a big word? I've been doing so good? This magala mgamation, amalgamation, Oh there we go alright that way. Um, They're like an amalgamination of all the eleven signs before them.

Although they prefer dominant partners for the most part, they also want to enjoy the freedom to do whatever they want. Fifness you push like literally I've said, I'm just writing down things for our Instagram. I've literally said I love to like say I'm gonna do something bad or tell you about me doing something bad so I can get spain. This is herd like to a t that is insane that the leabor read me as a princess, because but

I don't even like ride and Dick. I mean, the only part about me not being a princess, but the dominant part that I take is me enjoying sucking Dick. So it's just like matched so perfectly with me. But now, guys, yeah, we are gonna before we get into our horleor decision,

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But I love discussions. Someone asked about mercury rectigrade? What the fun is that? Why are we always feeling ship? What's that ship? Okay, so here we go rector grade? Like what does that mean? Like? What is that? I love it? He says, it's in micro bread is. So the planet, uh, planet mercury has to do with communication, like you know the way we right thinks speak um

nonverbal verbal communication and technology. So when we talk about a planet being retrograde, there's a thing that the planet, um,

there's an appearance that the planet is moving backwards. So when it applies to astrology, it's a time for us slowing down, reflecting, looking at the past, and doing things over The reason why mercury retrograde causes so much UM issues is that people are so used to like doing things very quickly, moving forward and not really thinking about things, where mercury retrograde forces us to really pay attention to

what it is that we do. And so that's why would people say like, oh, you know, um, don't sign things earing a mercury retrograde, and you know travel is like all delayed and things like that. It's a moment for us to kind of take a step back and really like pay closer attention to the things that we are saying and doing so that when mercury starts going forward again, we have a clear idea in terms of where we're headed now, because retrogrades have to do with

the past. That's also one reason why, like our exes, you know, we can end up like hearing from texes around the time of retrograde UM and usually they come around because it's a moment for us to kind of like reflect and say, like, you know, is this X an X for a reason or is it a situation where maybe they could be a second chance, And see,

I'm all here for a second chances. So one of the number one questions that not only I had, but a lot of our listeners were sending in is with astrology and these signs, should I date with these signs in mind? So being to where if I'm a Libra and I know maybe Scorpio is someone I just do not get along with, should I make that deter myself from further speaking to a Scorpio because down the line

will that call some greep? So with people dating, is that something that we should keep in mind when choosing our partners? Okay, No, I like that answer. Now why do people believe so? Like, well, I think it's what anything that, like, you know, once you sort of have like the quote unquote code to something, you know, you

try to use the cheat sheet. You know, you're trying to try to um create the shortest amount of time between like what you want and like the pain and the trouble and the effort that it actually takes to getting it right right. But that's not really what astrology is really about, you know. And when it comes to relationships, it's really about learning about ourselves as well as learning

about the people that we're dealing with. And when it comes to astrology and relationships, it's really all the opportunity for growth. I saw something um in the in your Instagram feed about someone was saying, like, um, you know, is it possible that you can miss out on your soul mate by like only paying attention to like certain signs.

And I'm like, yeah, absolutely, Like I have a I have a friend who's also an astrologer and I love him, and he always talks about how he's a Gemini, and he talks about how all signs are compatible with each other, and I agree to spend it again. Okay, all signs are compatible with each other. So to a certain extent, Yes, if you're open and interested in learning, um what you can from a partner as well as about yourself, there's

this opportunity for growth. Right the minute we start to close our minds off and say no, I'm not going to date any more Leo's or I'm not gonna date any more virgos, you don't know your next amazing person could be that virgo that you're shutting down. And the reason why we get certain signs that like, for a long time I was attracting scorpios, which I still do, But the reason for that is because in my own birth chart all I have is fire and air. I

have no water. And so people like Pisces, cancer, Scorpio, or people who are heavily influenced by those signs naturally gravitate towards me because they're bringing me something that I lack. So when it comes to signs that you attract, there's usually a lesson that that sign is trying to teach you that you're not learning, or that you're not avoiding, and or that you're avoiding rather than I never forget the time when I was doing a love and compatibility sort of workshop and I had a a Libra in

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See I like this, I like see I like what you're saying, because I was hoping that you weren't going to come in and say, well, you know, these are the signs that we are based on where we were born, where we're from, and our birthdates and all of these things, and just knowing that you have all of these kind of different interactions with people and we're not kind of based on our sign So when people come to you, I guess my question is, how, without being vague, how

do you really follow what they are as a sign? You do? You know what I'm saying, come you and say I'm a libra, tell me about myself with you saying this to where all of us can kind of relate to any sign all this, How how deep does astrology really rising and all of that? You had you heard of that before? By the way, may day. I mean yeah, because everyone in the comments was like, I'm writing this and I was like, okay, what does that

sounds for you? To give a proper reading? Right, So when I'm looking at someone's chart, I'm not just looking at the signs. I'm looking at where the and it's are falling in their chart. That will also give me some um information in terms of like how they're expressing

their energy. So for example, you know, let's say you're a Leo, right, and Leo's are technically known for being very flamboyant and very like you know, out there and and but if your son is located in the twelfth house of your chart, you're not going to be a Leo that wants to be seen. You're going to be a Leo that wants to be more behind the scenes, because that zone of your chart is all about being behind the scenes in the houses. So we was in the solar system with planets, and now we're in a

neighborhood with houses. Where where where is we? I don't even know where all? Where are we at right here? The houses? I don't know what neighborhood is that? So were they houses? Like are they co ops? If we impartch other wait where the wait of it? Houses and planets? So so here, so let me record like trying to make it, make it plain. So, a birth chart is basically a visual map of like the division, like how how we divide up the sky based on where we

are from, you know, here on Earth. Right. So the houses that fill a birth chart represent different areas of person life in a different different areas of who they are. Right. So there's twelve houses, right, which represent all the twelve signs. So when it comes to houses, um, so, for example, the signs represent a certain behavior, the planets within the signs represent how those signs like, how that behavior is

acted out. But it's only Venus, Mars, and Mercury, right, No, all it is Sun in a planet no mall technically, so, um, we have Sun, Moon, Venus, Mercury, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Um nep soon nep soon, you're this and Pluto. Okay, yeah, so we that that and then you like calling it your anus. You know, I was, I was saying differently because I'm like, you're a I'm sorry, I kept walking out. I'm like so sick. So, guys, if any of your

favorite podcasters get sick soon. It's because it's sweezy spot point. No, no, no, I've been like sanitizing the area and everybody records here. That's the problem. Everybody's favorite podcast. Literally, Yeah, let me put some on this ship too, about I want my boat? You know what I mean. We both stuck saying, oh, I'm saying I'm making a joke because oh, I'm like,

what do you what podcasts? Are you sucking? Look? He's being him literally looked like I was like, I don't know this a new d I was bad talking about Okay, so so the houses, the plants arriving, how you are as behavior? I don't do you have? Like what other questions? Like? She started right one. I liked someone to put in her Instagram. What signs are going to struggle or be really good at non monogamy? Um? Who are going to struggle with monogamy? Actually, let's let's do it that way.

It's someone who's looking for an open relationship. Yeah, who's going to struggle with mention Gemini Gemini Pisces second um. Libra Libra can be serial monogamous, but Libra will always have someone waiting in the wings whenever a son but it. So here's my chest with you even asking that question,

does it still just does it still matter? They're like rising moon and sun instead of just having yeah to some degree because I mean, you know again like if you going just off the sun sign and you say like, oh, you know Sagittarius, Sagittarius is wild and all they do is like you know, they suck everybody. Um, I know Sagittarians who are very like, I'm committed to you and that's it. I don't, you know, let myself like go

anywhere else. So the other signs that in you are in your chart, like your venus, your Mars, your moon, will also play a role in how you express love and affection and what you need in relationships. I'm start looking at that too. I'm start getting into it. I kind of like that, Um we are going to get into Wait can you does your son in mood? And I think they never change? Right? No? They never change?

Yeah ever whatever, because like when you click on certain apps, it'll say like something about my day and it'll like tell me a new sign, and I don't know, yeah, sometimes it depends because like sometimes like like I was saying earlier, like the calculations for certain sights, um and apps aren't always accurate. You have to kind of. So yeah, y'all, just get you a little Ley's a rise in emotional business. I'm horizon that beat. But now we are going to

get Insto our homemail. And I really like this homemail because what we've been talking with these signs for the most part, and what we kind of talk every episode is communication, So whether it's communication in dating relationships or in the bedroom, and this one kind of has to do more so with the beid you and so I would love for you to hone it on your give your advice you as well. Um. So this is a really interesting one and actually matches one of the questions

we almost had in Miami. So, hey, ladies, thank you for helping me embrace my sexuality as a black woman. I need your help. Though I've been dating a guy on and off for about two years now. I'm not really interested in anything long term relationship wise, and neither has he. But we're great friends and all that. We took a break in the beginning of the year mainly

because I was getting better dick elsewhere. But he plays college sports and I'm just busy with life We recently reconnected and I was so excited to get back to the aggressive, raw sex that we have. But he let me know as I was on my way to his house more than a thirty mile drive, that he now has herpes, and I froze. I'm aware of the facts and myths about herpies, but I was instantly turned off.

Although we weren't together and he could attracted the disease after we after we agreed on a break, I don't want to funk anymore. I told him I got caught up and couldn't make the drive after carrying the conversation a little to not see me. Y'all. He has texts and called me every other day wanting pussy, and I want to give it to him, but I just can't. How do I let him know? Do I tell him that I'm turned off? Do I block his ass? I

need help? Sincere sincerely a conscious free If you listen to our Herpies episode, you would hear that I believe there's a seriously slim chance that you can get it if there's not a current outbreak. Not saying that you you know, willing go funk this nigket, but there's probably a chance to fuck somebody else with her herpes and

don't know. Yeah, I agree. However, um, I will say when it comes to and he's a stand up guy for telling oh, superstand up guy, Like I appreciate a guy that that, like he actually is giving you the choice. I would low key probably be more willing at that point because I'd be like, okay, so you know your body like okay, yeah, so I mean that's a little where do we stand? I mean, I like the question.

And so Ella Ella was Ella Dawson. She was our guests on the herpes and she actually said that she lets people know because that's what she should do, and she does realize that some people are going to be okay with it and some people are not, with him having the confidence to even tell you he's aware that

you may not want to funk with him anymore. And I think for all of us who yeah, I appreciate that he gave me that choice, But I feel like for a lot of us who are into having casual sex, I think that it is our choice to decide if we want to keep working with someone, especially if they let you know that they have something, especially herpies. That's something that is non curable. But again, also like we learned with the herpes episode, and it's something that's been

coming out more and more often. About number twenty about eight of the U S population has either HSP one or two. So I think that's also something you should ask, just to make it seem like you are knowledgeable, because this could be maybe he got a cold store. Nigga never had a cold store in his life until he's an adult. Now he's a college athlete, and Nigga got a cold store. So it could also be that he got an outbreak on his mouth, and he knows that it's a form of herpes, so it may not even

be one that's affecting his genitals. So that's something that maybe you could have the conversation with him, be like, well, hey, is it the one on your mouth or is it the one down there? Like I think it's also cool to maybe just let him know that you are educated. And if you're saying you know about the miss and you're educated on what harpies entails, you should maybe ask

where his breakouts are. I think that that's something smart because then maybe in that sense, if he just has it in the mouth, maybe don't get head from him, or he'll also know if he has an outbreak in his mouth. I mean, I mean, I dated someone. I don't want to say who it was, but he was telling me like I didn't know for months, and then one day he was supposed to come over and he was like, yo, like I thought it wasn't what I thought it was. He was like, I felt this tingle

in my mouth and I have a cold store. And I was like okay. He was like yeah, but like I definitely have hsp one. Like so I don't really want to come over, and you know, we make out and then I spread it to you if you don't have it, He's like, just let it go away and he'll be fine. I was like, why do you tell me about this before? And he's like, I didn't have an outbreak, so it was nothing you could contract. But I just felt like it was fair to tell you now.

And I was like wow, because like he didn't have to do that to be real, he came over with the ship, I'd be like, oh, yeah, no, no, here's my dude. I wouldn't be around anybody. Here's the thing with that too. I think one reason why people are still afraid of disclosing things like that is because of the stigma that's attached to it. And I think that by responding to him being upfront and open with it, by ignoring and dodging his calls, kind of pushes that

stigma that there's something somehow wrong with him. Now, I right, and and my and my thing to that is that you it's it's your right, like it's your right to not want to sleep with someone who you know has herpes or another form of um, you know, an STD. But you should at least say, hey, listen, thank you for telling me. I appreciate your honesty, but I'm going to pass for now. He I mean, what can he possibly say to that? You know what I mean? I

think that's the way for us, Like they've been fucking wrong. Yeah, So like, did you not think you could use a conduct? Is that why you're worried? Maybe that's what she's saying because you feel like you don't want to suck it out one just be like no, nigger, Yeah I didn't. She did mention. She put the emphasis on wrong it bum in all capital letters. I get that you liked having raw effects, like you can still get a good condom.

I get great condom dick, like really amazing, and I think that that's and a lot of people always want to like, damn, how can you like condom dicts so much? So for me, one of the most terrifying things about sex is possibly contracting an STD or possibly getting a god damn baby that you don't want from a nigger that you know you don't want to spend eighteen years and you've got Damn. Life are a big process. It's money, it's time, it's all. And so to me, condoms, yeah,

it takes a wee baby bump, no pussy bump. Actually that's not accurate. So condom condoms cannot protect you from herpes um condoms actually, so herpies is a skin to skin contact type of thing. If there's an outbreak and it gets to you. So even if he has herpies, maybe it's not that they can't protect you from herpes. I think it's just the chance because most of it

is located. Like then the other thing too, is that you know, in addition to that, like is he you know taking um the anti viral you know, val trunks you know, helps to reduce the transmission of herpes between partners as well. I mean it could be undetectable, much like HIV when you're right. So and then that's the thing with HSV as well. It can be in your system as dormant. So he can go maybe he has herpies now, but maybe he'll never have another outbreak for

the rest of his life. Um So, I mean, there's a lot of education on it. These are a lot of questions that are asked us often, and I actually picked this question. So we were just in Miami and this we had a straight mail asked us a question. He said that he's currently friends with a girl who has open casual sex and what do you say partners loving partners. I don't remember the number, I just remember he said. She has a premium Snapchat. Yeah, premium Snapchat.

But he also mentioned like having excess to like current sexual partners. And when he went to ask her, well, when was the last time you've been tested, she said something like it was some years ago, and she also was like, I guess he said she was reluctant to to get tested, and so he's like, I really want to have sex with her, but I don't want to have sex with her unless she gets texted. And his question was, how do I bring up having her get

tested so that we can have sex? So I know that this was a question with also us in this space of casual dating, polyamory, non monogamy and also still wanting to be healthy. Um, and with all of these conversations surrounding sex, we have to also be safe and healthy. But we can't all be safe and healthy if we're not honest with ourselves and honest with the people were having sex. And nothing is wrong with like telling people know,

ignoring someone ghostaying all of that ship. That ship is fucking terrible and it's childish tell someone, especially someone that you've already slept with them that you care about. For someone to give a funk enough about you to tell you, you gotta give a funk about him enough to at least say this is the choice I made. Yeah, I agree,

you know, like, I really commend this thing. If I'm telling you, because the fact that you know you get something like her bees you totally understand what it means. And I know he told you when you were on their way over there. I get it, But maybe he was just like, I don't know how to do this here, it comes better like than never, and I think it's time for you to at least tell them. Just tell him you're scared, tell them with your fears. I'm sure

he's talked about it with doctor Damn. I probably put her fears to rest. I agree. I agree. Well, I hope that helps you and maybe some of the other people who are tuned in listening. If you guys have any specific astrology questions, because I know that coin, it's a black man in front of us. Can't stop. We gotta stop talking about the ship, be about the ship. I'm about to buy black I'm getting my session with Mecca. How much you charge? You know, we get talk, but

now I'm trying to put on the spot. No, but I want to do mine for sure. For a lot of you who have this ccific astrology questions, UM, if you want to let them know where they can reach you, tell them your social media handles and then your website, because your website is actually how I got in touch with you. UM. I went straight to her website and emailed her and she was very good with responding back.

So for a lot of you who may have UM specific astrology questions, as it pertains to just trying to understand yourself a little bit more, or you and your partners, or you and your relationships with other people such as your friends or your family. Definitely hear her up. So where can they hit you up? Sure? So my website is my life created dot com and you can also find me on Twitter at the Mechanism which is M E C C A and I s M. I'm also on Instagram at one Mechanism and UM, yeah, I do

to post these links. Yeah, well, it'll all be in UM the description of this episode, and we'll also be tagging her UM on Instagram and when we go ahead and post on Twitter. So do you have anything coming up? Because I know you do the workshops, you have a lot of little event do you have anything coming up in the month of May, let's say the ending of May. Um. Well, the most recent thing that I did, I just dropped

a web based astrology course for for beginners. UM. The registration just closed, but it's going to be opening again soon, so people can follow me or they can um sign up for my lose newsletter at my website and I'll let them know when registration opens again. UM. I also just published my first book on astrology in October called Astrology for Happiness and Success. And yeah, I'm I'm a frequent contributor. I do the daily horoscopes at Bustle, I do monthly horoscopes that I am and I also do

full moon horoscopes at girl Boss. So you can find me all over. What is the session with you? Look like? Is it thirty minutes? Ten minutes? Um? So chatting phone? Yeah? So I have actually have clients from all over the world, so, um, humble flicks, I do Skype and Google Hangout. I do video. Yeah. Well, um, if people like live outside of New York, but if you're in New York or New York, you know, uh,

like try state based. We can definitely like meet in person. Um, but I do, like my my session is usually run from like, um about an hour, like forty five minutes to an hour, depending on what kind of session. And then I also do recorded readings that people can buy and then I record them and send them to them. Yeah. So why in person do you prefer? Why are looking at someone to prefer that? Um be just because I

think it's more intimate. Also just the idea of like it just becomes more genuine, you know, because I think again, you know, for me being in this line of work, I'm also hyper sensitive to people who are Charlatan's and who are just in this game to take a vamiboy, to take advantage of people and to like I just saw this article that came out the other day about like how all of a sudden people are starting to call themselves as solgers and they don't have the training

for it, you know, which is very dangerous because you are essentially getting people's information and charging the money for it, and essentially it's very sensitive information. You know, people are like coming to you for guidance, and the fact that people are out here just hustling for money. I mean, it's always it's been, it's been time. I just realized that, which is that I want to believe out the time

that we told people we were born. Why bitch, I don't want nobody reading my ship and doing no, don't want me home? Can they do all that ship? I mean you might want to kind of no, I'm believing that out. Yeah, you might want to end out that. But editing this episode, you see this work, she got us do it, and she'd just be like yeah just posted no. I yeah, you got all this, you got

all of this, but no, Okay. So so I'm super excited to kind of actually maybe look more into this because I didn't know anything about my rise and sign and all that. And I hope if you guys are interested and maybe getting more um into astrology, your horoscope sign and seeing what Mecca has to offer, you definitely check her out again. All of her information will be

in the description to the episode. Um and then again, I want to give a huge, huge, huge shout out to everybody who came out to motherfucking l A. Y'all was lit, y'all turned up. We rocked out two motherfucking's shows, and we are kicking off our very last stop into Toronto. It is sold out. I'm excited. This is my first time in Canada. You know I'm gonna be up there what oo views from the six all that ship You'll be doing on on what of them um muntings muntings.

But yeah, we're gonna go ahead. Shout out to everyone on Patreon because if y'all were able to do this tour again. At the end of this episode, you will hear a five minute clip from one of our bonus episodes. We want to thank you guys. We want to thank you Mecca for joining us here on having me Visions. And again this has been get another episode of Hoble Decisions by