Ep109: Have Your Kink and Eat It Too

I really haven't been having much sex because I still don't know what I've been I've been wanting to start the shows with like like Andrew, like when the last time everybody have sex? But then I realized, like, maybe

we're not getting fun. I'm not really getting funk like that. Also, I do have sex since we recorded with Andrew, but we're we're recording right now, and it's March, whenever this episode drops whatever, but it's um, it's March, and I literally don't have a free week I haven't had a free weekend since February and that literally goes all the way to June. So with me, Yeah, clearly. Yeah, so with me trying to make plans with people, which we still have our fucking jobs because the ship bringing in

money but not enough to quit. Manny, I'm not even allowed to you. I've already planned how to propose to you that we need to quit. Wait what so I'm getting to the point very close where I'm about to quit May one. I told them July for us sabbatical. I like that word. It feels very white and right. Um, I just need to spend more talking in my family. They're just really old. I've saved enough money. I'm gonna

here's what I've come up with. My therapist kind of help me come up with this though, because he's just like so basically, he said to me, you're depressed and stressed, and I can't give you a pill like I did before because that was an irrational depression. You felt like you would never meet someone, you felt like you could, you were helpless. He's like, right now, you're just stressed from all the ships you're doing. You got to eliminate one of them, and it sounds like the one that

doesn't isn't progressing as much is your day job. He's like, you've saved enough. I've been investing a lot, I've made some money, flip some ship. He's like, why don't you take four to six months to relax, enjoy your family, your life, and if you don't make as much money from gigs as you would have made in four months at work, then go back. So my job does have

that offer. I'm not sure at my UM like no. So, so one of the partners that I know UM shout out to you because I know you listened to the show. One of the partners that I know from the San Francisco office was in UM in New York, and that's what she did. She actually took a year off because it was a mental and a lot of big companies are here for mental health and making sure that their employees are happy and in a good mental state. So my therapist was telling me that, He's like, I mean

a lot of complight. You just take an unpaid leave or say that you need it for mental reasons, and a lot of UM companies do offer that. So I'm still I told my company if I if I have not quit by July, it's because I sucked up somehow. I've literally been taking I don't see me July and if I'm still here, just know whatever I thought I was gonna be doing some sh it ain't fall through. I've been thinking, like, like even I was telling my therapist, He's like, are you what are you scared about? What

scares you so much? Why are you scared? You told me you're gonna go to You're gonna gonna go ontour and fall. He's like, why what are you freaking out? And I was like, you know, I'm used to the routine. I'm used to the consistency. And I'm also used to insurance. And he was like, why wouldn't you and Mandy then take insurance out on your business account? That makes sense? And I was like, I know, but you know what

I mean, Like, I'm just not used to that. But honestly, bro, like the things that I've turned down because I had to work that wasn't horrible. Decisions related might be small, but they could have grown into bigger things. And I hate it. I hate that I had to do that, you know. I hate that when I go see my family it's for fucking hours, you know what I'm saying? Like, literally, we're going to the Miami Show that Sunday, my grandma made it very clear I need to be at the

nursing home to see her motherfucking birthday party. She was like, you're funna be that. So I'm gonna go fly from Miami to Orlando for five hours and then fly back because I gotta go to work. That's insane. Yeah, no, it is. I was talking to Joe yesterday actually and was telling him everything that we have going on with the podcast. And then after I let him know and you know, shout out again to everyone at the Joe Button podcast. They all supported us at our New York

Live show. I told him, Yeah, so we're doing all this and then yeah, I'm an accountant and she's in tech sales and we both work over forty hour weeks on top of everything we do with the podcast. And he was like, y'all do what I said. Yes. So, there are a lot of interviews that we haven't gotten to take and a lot of just different things that we weren't able to be Like, listen, y'all gotta see us after six pm. Other than that Monday through Friday,

we can't see you during the day. And I think that that's limited us with a lot of things and it's crazy because there's a lot of podcasts that I know are inspired by us and are like seeing our growth. So just know, if you stay consistent, if you guys continue with with building your brand strong. Like I didn't think we could be sitting here saying we've about a quitter. I mean, two years is a long time, but it's not you know, and honestly, you know my therapist and

his name is one. He's like, yo, he's like four months, right, He's like, and you need to be honest with yourself. Let's use a small amount of money, a thousand. Let's say you don't make six thousand dollars. Used to say you make a thousand a month. If you don't make six thousand dollars in those six months, go back. He's like, but you need to realize you may make five thousand one month and zero dollar is the next. He's like, that's that and that's my concern. So I've bartended. I've

I've been in the creative space with my blog. I've seen times where I made a whole lot of money because I had a really good story drop and my analytics shut up, and then the next month maybe nothing to where I was getting my Google assents. So that was always my concern with being a creative is that even with our checks, they're not consistent. Like, bitch, we literally not to get too much into our dollars. But we just got paid for an ad we did in November.

We just got that motherfucking checked last week. I forgot about that. Yeah, so it's like it's not consistent. So it's hard to manage with paying bills, saving doing all the things that Charlotte. We come in Dallas, we value lying to these people, but were definitely doing Charlotte. No for the bay Area bit the baby we need to do. We need to be smart about how we move. You know what I'm saying. We're gonna do Texas like Dallas, Houston, Austin, get out. We're gonna do the Bay Area, then we

go on to l A get out. You know what I'm saying, take them flights and are really easy to do that. Yeah, but when we don't have a job, bro, But that's what I'm trying. We literally like that event bite can pay out. I sold my job, like yeah, so let me know what y'all have need me to do tomorrow because I have to leave early because I have a flight to Chicago because I have two shows this weekend. Like so my job knows on Friday's like, bitch, I'm going to the airport and I'm coming into the

office that Monday. That's right. Um, So I wanted to, I guess share a story because this opened up um something to me. So while while I was in London, I did London and Paris in a weekend because I'm looking crazy. I was drunk the whole time. But first off, I felt how rich I was too, because bitch, we spent probably fours in food just on the Friday, between food and drinks, and I don't even eat a lot. That was sucking crumpets and fucking dump dumplings and dim

sum and ship. Yeah, we went to the Shard. It's a restaurant called Hu Tongue. On the top of the Shard. Beautiful was drinking porn Star Martinez the whole time. I love porn so fucking good. Then I love just drinking my ship and so good that I don't know what the porn start is. By the way, it's so good, it's so I don't know why. It's like only in Europe. I've never been offered a point start in the state here. Yeah,

you can make it. I asked the ingredients. Fun, it's pomegranted, it's super sweet, not passion for sorry, passion for to sitting in there. Super juicy. And then you get a shot of champagne next to it. Is that champagne? And maybe you was that it was prosecco, my champagne. You just ain't know. You saw a little bubbly got excited,

That's what that was. No, but um So, anyways, we we went to sketch and then we had dinner reservations at Novikov and my homegirl Adriana shot out at her she had um us on the guest list because she was like, she didn't really want to be around Nick. She wanted to meet new niggas. So she was like, I got us on the guest list. Hillsted us at the table and I'm like, bitch, I don't do promoter tables even in the States, but okay, I'm in another country.

I'll do it. So instead of catching an uber to the club, one of the dudes that really like her right now was like, yo, I'll pick y'all up and drop y'all off at the club and in her eyes, she's like, well, now, bitch, we ain't gotta pay for an uber seeing real innocent, right wrong, He picks us up from the fucking dinner. We go like, I guess I'll share the whole story because but I'll make it short. We drove about fifteen minutes away and we noticed we're

still in the car. The club is only about five minutes around the corner type ship, so we're like, what direction are we going in? Because my friend is not recognizing the direction we're going in. This nigga is like, nah, I gotta go pick something up. No, my nigga. I hopped out of the car so quick. I said, ma'am, we're calling an uber because what you're not gonna do is pick anything up while I'm in the car with you. And there was Nigeria's no shade. But you either a

businessman or you're a scama or a straight nigga. Whatever you are, you're going to pick something up. You ain't having it in a car with me because I know what it is. Yeah, out of goddamn weed, and you need to go pick it up. But it's now now to me, that's a run. I'm not coming with you on your runs. So I hop out the car and he's like, nah, baby, girl, wouldn't do that. You do man? Give okay, I'll take you out to the club. We get around the corner from the club, that's the sound

of the police. We get pulled over, but it's a van. Five police jump out of the fucking vans literally knock on the window, ask him to pull it down. He pulled it down. He's being very like, respectable high officer, was the problem because we did we did absolutely nothing wrong. So he rolls it down and he's like, where y'all going tonight? D Can I ask all of you guys

to step out of the car. Police we're literally on literally and I'm just I'm looking at my homegirl like, bitch, I told you to get you see if you would have listened to me, bitch, And I'm looking at my homegirl like, bitch, what the funk is going on? Next thing, I know she's a German citizen. I'm a US citizen. They take both of our my passport, her I D Card and I'm like, what you need? Like here it is, I can give you my information. What do you need

my card for? She takes it. She's like, oh, as long as we don't find anything in the vehicle, will give it back. They have two police officers, all doors open, trunk open, flashlight looking under everything, and I'm just looking at her and I'm she told me that that's what I said. That tag is marked and whether it's for drugs or whatever, they're looking to get that Mercedes nice heart. He's telling it's because I'm black. His windows tenda ain't

see you was black from behind it. So I'm literally looking at Adriana and I said, I don't think you understand money. My friend is much younger than me. This is her first time experiences too, that's what's happened to me before. So I'm looking at her and I'm just like, you don't understand, Adriana. If they find as little as a blunt in that car, we are all going to jail. So I'm sitting here to come to the other officer and um and I'm just like, listen, I don't even

know these motherfucker's I just landed today. You could look at the passports kind of I was, I don't know these people like she just made him a month ago. And it's because he drove by a light there, like, bro, we all know these niggers like that, and I'm literally like trying to say I don't they. Then I was like they technically she's just in a call with somebody, you know. Now that's pretty much bitch. And I was like, they technically are Uber drivers. Then I almost got away.

He was like, oh, is this an Uber driver? I said, technically, but we didn't call it on the Uber AUP, so they wasn't trying to buy that. So they're still looking. So this is where a few things happened to me, and this is what I wanted to share with with the listeners. So he starts getting the other money. There's two niggas one in the van. I'll know. This was another reason why I got scared. As we're all pulled out, the drivers already handcuffed, and I'm just looking like bitch White.

He didn't handcuffs, so as yea, as he is in handcuffs, they're questioning us. He's trying to say sorry to her, but now he's starting to get slick with the cops. And this is where I realized, and I didn't realize how much I had been affected that I have PTSD from what's going on here in the States. And as he's starting to get snappy with the officer, I'm yelling at him at this point, like do exactly what he says, Stop with the smart mouth, stop getting slick, give him

whatever he wants. Let's wait till the cars searched. Stop talking to him like that, Like I'm literally telling yeah, so I'm by the way, I only mentioned that because like in France and went to France, they were big rifles to not in France, yellow jackets is a big protesting thing going on, but they shoot out these metal kind of balls. They're not they can't kill you, but they'll like maybe knock off something. But in London they do have guns. So so he's I mean, I was.

I was just glad. I was thinking, well at this point, I was already coming up with how I was going to have my locked up a broad episode. I was already thinking, like conte it, I was already us do you know that's what the fun My friend said as soon as I fucking told her in the car, mona, let me get back to the story so I can tell you how I was crying like a pussy hole.

So Finally they find nothing in the car. We get our I d s back, I said, Adriana, we walk into the club, ho I said, oh, British, I have no gun, no guns, So I'm sorry. I apologize. That means that's why he was talking. Maybe that's why he was talking. I thought that. I thought that the UK was one of the own. They're tight on gun having guns. Okay, okay,

that's why they're always like six people taking someone out. Sorry, there was six cops well in this car at once, so we're all getting there's two check in the car, there's two questioning. So that other guy he's talking slick to the one officer and the other officers with us. So finally they come back and they're like, okay, nothing's been found in the car. They give us our passport and I d back and we start walking away. I'm like, Adriana, we've been a motherfucking walks to the club. So we

walked back. They let him go as well. They uncuff him. He comes running to us at the end of the sidewalk, trying to apologize, saying he's sorry, and all I do is burst into tears and I say back home. They kill y'all. And that's all I kept saying because he was so like getting so snappy with him, and I just did not want to be a part of Like

I'm about to cry now. They were like, you're so pussy, But I literally was like, I didn't realize how much seeing all these black men die from the police affected me because I don't put myself in those situations, and to be in that situation, like I'm literally like I

literally had to tell my mom. I said, I think I need therapy now, Like I didn't realize that me seeing the videos on Instagram, me reading the news articles and seeing how many of our black men die, being in that situation right there, I was just like I was scared for him. I was scared for me because I know they looked at were black women, so I know they wanted all of us gone, and I didn't

realize how it affected me. So before I go to cry, I go to say, this is why I realized when we talk about dealing with hood niggas, street niggas, scammers, this is why I know I don't put myself in those positions because truth is many. The sad thing about it is it ain't gonna take a hood. No, no, it's not gonna take ni gonna die. However, my friend just got a new job, I said, just because we were in the car with them, this would have affected

your new job. I said, do you think if I would have just called my my my job and said, oh, by the way, I'm in jail right now for drugs because that's what they have me in here under wait till I get out. No, I would have lost my job.

And so even it's something that and this is a tip to you ladies who if you're into men who may sell narcotics or carry around large loads of narcotics or anything that could cause him to go to jail, don't get in the car because even if you don't know that it is there, if you get pulled over and that is found, you're both. So there's a documentary caught Up HBO. I can't think of the name of it, but there it's it's about a woman who goes to jail by association. She was with a dude who had

a bunch of cocaine or drugs or something. I watched this month ago. He dies, she gets married. Years later, they pinned on her. She goes to jail. She's still in there. She got three kids. Seeing the fucking camera crew is like showing the husband with the kids. They say that it was her, Like, bro, it's insane. It's so sad and just getting caught up in that type

of lifestyle. Like I get it. If you want to be a writer, die, But I will say, this is why I deal with the guys that I do deal with um and I don't have anyone in my phone right now that does involve themselves with even though I was looking for a scammer just not to deal with because I wanted some shoes like cheaper, but I don't deal with those type of guys. And this is this is why I feel like because I feel like it will affect my livelihood just being around. So what you

went through. I'm sorry because I misspoke. I'm meant to say the to sit so I know that the UK, maybe I knew that they didn't have guns and I didn't. Maybe that's why he was acting like that. That's what I meant to say when we were saying he was talking about I didn't know. That's the thing that's crazy, right, It's like we watched something happen in the abuse of power. And something very interesting I learned while in Paris. Um

So Scissors and I were walking. We're staying on the Chalanza Lise and we're going to get brunch on Saturday. I know about the Yellow Jackets, heard about it, did not know Saturdays for their day. Yeah, that's when I went to Paris. Was on a Saturday. I phone really quick, y'all, be like literally, So I'm walking with her. We see smoke, and I'm like, do you want to see what that is? And I'm like, just not even that was the way to me. We were walking closer shore I'm not I

was walking away. I said, there's there's too many cop cars around here. Now, No, no no, no, no, we didn't see that. I didn't see that picture. This is so far away. It looked like a mistake, like like it didn't look like I didn't see them protesting yet, right, So we start walking closer, literally in front of me. You'll hear it. This is me. It's just recording. Listen to the sound that happens. They're fucking bombing the middle

of the streets. So just like by the time I got out there, there was a lot of windows, like in the shop area by the little look at the blast things that burned down. So basically, the yellow Jackets are protesting because they don't like their president. Um, the left and the right are getting together. What I've heard is life, livelihood has become very expensive for the white middle class. Now there's a few things about this. I'm

all about a fucking right. I believe in riots. I believe in all of that ship because I believe soldiers dian warre and that's how we get it done. Sometimes that's just the way I protest. Now, what I've learned about what they did is crazy. They are out of confucking They're ruining the stores, the glasses, the everything. Also, country that has thirty hour work weeks, the most public like crazy public holidays, six vacas, paid vacation, paid vacation.

So they fight for what they funk they want. And they're not on some pussy ship like we be. But like we be, we do be on some fucking scary ship. Like our protests aren't real protest. Let's keep it a stack. I like the protesting. That is nothing. I like it marching my women's march, sing that's a nice time for camaraderie, but that does not get shipped dined. However, we're not scared. They're not scared to die, and that's that reaction you

had is because that's how we feel. And this woman said to me, So, me and sisters sitting having brunch, We like, damn, should we even sit outside? She's like, no, you're safe, telling us everything, and she said, I was like, you know what, our police have guns. You guys are allowed and ship we have guns. And she goes, why would our police have guns when we pay for them? Why would they kill us when we pay for that? Can you imagine that a world you're living in where

you pay for the police and they killing you? My nigga. When she said that and said to me as simple as a concept as it was, I was like, fuck yeah. And it's not even like we can fight against the fucking regime because look at what they do. But what's crazy? You're telling me that the UK doesn't even have guns. Like I didn't even see a gun pulled, nothing, but I was still just terrified at a black man with

all white cops and I was terrified. Yeah, So, like I've seen videos of how to disarm people in the UK. So what I was thinking when you were saying that, was like, Okay, well maybe this is why he's like it. Fuck it. But my nigga, me and sisters in the car coming from fund spot in Orlando just had a red light. Dude was getting pulled over and we're like, oh, this what's going on? Suddenly he starts running real fast

cross the street cross cart. When I tell you, I almost threw up from nerves that he was gonna get shot while he was running. First of all, we live in Orlando, you know, Trayvon Martin when I was living there. I don't think you were in the Stanford Nope, but I was definitely that is around the corner. And it's like my body, the way my body reacted, like the fear I had. I couldn't stop talking about it for two days. I felt this, So it was it was just I don't know, it was crazy. So I'm glad

that you even had a thing. I'll try to talk about sex right now. Yeah, I had sex, did you? Oh? Who would have thought? I thought this? Pussy so um Beard Bay and Scissors and I did not have sex. Yet. We're planning a fucking trip. We're all gonna fuck. Okay, I'm really excited about it because I just couldn't have curated this better. Like she wasn't really into it at first, because I remember you saying that because she's started, she

thinks I like them, you do so whatever. So but my my feelings, I believe that now after Paris, I think she knows that it's more like she's my person. So I think she's feeling more confident about that. However, with him, my feelings are getting deeper and it's almost a little bit scarier. Like he came right you know, we're hanging out. He's in New York, and we had dinner together and I was like, damn yo, like I funk with this nigga and blue Check remember who that was.

I haven't heard of you mentioned him at all, so that mean sucking beard based. So he hits me up like on some oh I got the wrong number ship, and I'm like really, He's like, oh four or seven? Oh oh yeah, I thought it was my nigga from Orlando, But what's up? Though, I just wanted to say congrats on everything. So then you didn't know. So I told him I got an attitude because I kind of like just say you want to call me right. I had a little attitude about it, and he's like, you're clearly

fucking another nigga, That's what he said to me. What's the problem. And I'm like, oh my god, is that when we reject niggas like it is and they know it be I wanted to be like, no, no, when you got a new dick that you like kind of more into that other day. Oh So to wrap it up, um whatever, went out with beer Bay, We hit up Max Fish, had a good time. We get back to my place. We have sex. It's great. We're watching Jessami and I'm rubbing his back. I stopped. He starts having

my legs. We're not having sex anywhere. This after sex, and he puts my toes in his mouth, like all of them. Oh a lot of the fucking toes. I had all of them, and then like proceeded to go on to the other foot and like got all of them, like every toe And then you know what, wait you you want to know? Did you like you didn't hear you alreaty see my ig live at all? No? I just met a guy who literally said he wants to gag on my foot. Yes, I'll show you. Let me

show you his picture. So he was, okay, you know, I'm not in the feed like that. But the way he licked them, so like, let's prestend this is my toe, he like traced them so that he this guy literally that I just met and we haven't had sex at all or anything, but somehow, of course got into the kinks and he said he has a major foot fetish. He said, I want to do everything to your feet. He said, I want you to make me clean them,

he said, I want let me see. He said. Something else that I want you to do is make me gag on your foot. I said, well, how will I know when? Like it's no, he said, you'll know. So I don't know if that means he wants to throw up on my foot or not. So I'm I'm a little just like you don't know about gagging on a dick. So so I thought I was gonna be totally disgusted by it, but I'm so turned on by Beard Bay And I was looking at him and he was kind of doing it real sexy. This that nigga want on

my foot? Yeah, yeah, yeah, another model nigga yep. And he looked like super super into it. Look at this with his family. Yeah, no, I'm not sure, but yeah, I mean family doesn't know he's gagging on feet. He has a whole mother. Look at that. And I said, I don't know if it will fit all in your mouth. And his response was it will that. That was his response, two, my whole foot fitting in his mouth, He said, it will. You know, I'm my nerve. He has a video of

him gagging on a foot. Well, he didn't send it to me, but he said he sent me the picture of Lorrie Harvey's foot on Trey Song's face and said, I want you to record when your foot is in my mouth. Like, so he's gonna let me record him gagging on my foot so I'll be able to do that. We haven't fucked yet at all, know, but he's super. No, this was damn stop No, this is a nagger. Damn you're making to sound bad man, asking cud. We haven't we haven't cuddled yet, we haven't even gone out yet.

Like this is new to him, but I am telling him, Um, if I experienced this kink with him, this isn't something that I think I would into. So I did tell him he has to let me pay him, and he said he's never done that before, and I said, I'll be gentle. So now I'm I told him, I said, if you want Joe King, can I have my kick too? Cana too? There go to goddamn. So we're gonna get into the kick of a week speaking of Cank Hope, and the kick of the Week is actually from you guys.

I do want to say if you have if you guys don't follow us on Twitter or Instagram, you guys really do help a lot with the outlines more than you think. So the kink this week actually comes from someone tweeted a video of a woman twerking on top of a cake and was like, this has to be a cake. And first of all, we've actually talked about this. Yeah, so I want to get into the not really into this, not really into the even maybe maybe feeding. We did a vanilla ship on it, yeah, a woman who was

making money, like smashing it something like that. So basically the king guys, and I want to shout out Michelle Hope. She's the one who sent me. The actual name of the kink it is sindophilia, which refers to the sexual arousal or gratification achieved through the use of food. Now, I do want to say this is different from feeding. What was the feeding did the king? Feeding? And feeder? Feeding and feeder where you like people, where you like to watch people eat food. This is just through the

use of food. So the Urban Urban Dictionary says it's a form of sexual fetishism in which participants are aroused by erotic situations involving food. So I would say the fact that she was working on a cake made that more of like an erotic thing. Um, it's weird because a lot of comments under it was like her pH balance gotta be sucked up now because she was literally fauston just going all in your let's see, that can't be healthy. You'll be talking about the yeast, that's the problem,

and sugar, sugar probably shouldn't go down there. Well, that's the main problem, is the yeast. Like you really want to stay away from that. Like I have a friend of mine who has candida right now and their whole body and it's so serious, like the foods that he's had to change in his life, Like yeast can really

fun your body up. Like what that's like Gluten right, Yeah, I mean, yeah, sure, I guess isn't I don't know if you could have like allergic reactions in that sense, but it more so can fund your body up as far as like productivity, but like, yeah, it'll completely Do you have any food on your body? Would you recommend any safe foods like so like dairy free bit maybe? Honestly I have not. I've never had anybody right in at least to me in regards to pH about food.

And I think it's because normally food doesn't have to do with entry, like but if it's around there, so like maybe the whipped cream on the pussy or I like peanut butter, I don't know if I want to because that's on top. What if his body? What is it's not on top? That's what I'm saying. I don't even have someone whip cream on me. It's still what is? What if what if I put whipped cream on a tippio dick and a little bit of a whip cream getting your pe hole? Is that gonna affect your p hole?

Could you get you could get a yeast affection in your pee hole? Right? Well? That affected negatively because you don't have pH balance, So well, the problem is like when men have like you can get men can get U T eyes. You want to something funny. I was just telling someone this story. Oh god, this is embarrassing. I went to a class called Aqua Aqua cycling and Tribeca the day of course you did. You want to

be drowned? Go ahead, of course, she say, talking about some guy damn aqwa fill you with an Awkway anyway, I did it the day that you went to Paris. And I was like, you know what, because I was sitting talking to the structure for a while and I was in that water along top was like, let me take one of them little azo pills because I was like, I don't even want to be sucked up. And when you take a U t I pill it makes your ship come out orange. So me and Scissors go to

the club. We go to this place called Jungle in Paris, bomb as hip hop spot. We go to the bathroom and we're leaving flirting all night, and we know we're ready to funk, right, So we get to the bathroom and I wipe and I look at it and it's like deep orange, and she goes, you see, you told me you won't even be on your fucking period. Dog like wait wait wait, so she so she ate your orange pussy. No, And we waited a day. But I was gonna say, when men take it right, you know

how we pee and it comes out orange. I was sucking a dude that took one because we went to the beach. It was orange, not the dickhead. He was black. We went to the beach and I was like, yo, I'm like, I'm feeling kind of weird because the sand. We had sex in the sand. I'm like, let's both take these. So I text that name. When he came it was orange. No way to call my mama all my mama all her life. That was something else, fucking orange.

Have something Else's yeah, bro, that was something else. Anything that comes out of your na, Bro, he has something else. It's the as you swallow it or was it on your face? You had orange come on your face? Did glow in the dark. I was sucking. I started laughing, and it was funny because when he saw I come out, because he didn't know it's gonna be orange, he knew his was orange. He was jerking off into my face.

I saw I'm laughing. He's laughing while he's coming like that is funny that it was the worst orgasm he ever had, because he was like that is hilarious. It was really weird. Speaking of the beach, one of the places that we're going on this three way trip is beach. Don't be honest with your dog. I want to make sure everybody's your ether is safe because I plan on getting sucked for the three days that were there. We've already playing this and I'm like, we are you gonna

take us as the next restaurant. He's like, yeah, I'm gonna be like table for three, And I want to make sure that nobody he has bullshit going on. Scissors may possibly have her period and I'm tired of eating pussy with Like I'm like praying by that time, I'm not dealing with my period right Like, I'm trying to be on the beach right on. Like, so we gonna get all into motherfucker. The horrible decision, the horrible decision this week. We didn't skip Vanilla Ship, but the horrible

decision this week is mad Vanilla Ship. So I have four articles that I want to go through talk about see what we have our thoughts on. The first one, I love Mike stinks. I thought it was me. I thought it was like, no, it's not. I'm showered after the gym. This Mike smell stink because we'll be spitting on it. I was just on that mic, Puss, not me, but no, but I was just on that mic. So

she talking shit. Oh bit she talking ship. That was such a smart idea terrible Listen, don't be doing this on camera because look, if that ship get funked up, I ain't paying for it. It's been out of with these check no, no, it just so. This one comes from the sun and this is actually hilarious. Newly engaged Jennifer Lopez claims that all men are useless before their thirty three that I love it. Um, what about us?

What do you think our ages? Oh? I think we're good as soon as we like seventeen eighteen because we need to get that who out. You think that. I think the whole could come later. It can, but if you can enjoy, I think we need till and I think niggas needs seven more years. So so j Lo had a reason why she said this. She said it can take men into their early thirties to establish their professional career. That's why I'll be dealing with these not

athletes straight out like I do. Like young niggas, but they still be millionaires most of them. Um okay. She said that it can take men into their early thirties to establis us their professional career and feel a sense of financial stability, which helps them feel more secure in life. As a result, this can give them the maturity that

comes with accomplishment, experience, and success. Sometimes you see a guy who's in several relationships, but then in his early thirties suddenly he meets a woman and is ready to marry her. Um, you think that a woman is useful, you said at I'm not saying that we're useless, but I think twenty five is a good age where we've

lived a lot of life. For example, when I was straight out of high school, I met an older guy and he moved me into his place, and there was a lot of times, even though he was a cheating asshole, that I couldn't understand the concept of female friendships. And I think that that took growth and maturity. Um, I just wouldn't understand. I was like, why do you need friends? At are girls? Or if you had sector or how

could you still be friends with her? And when I got older, I realized like, oh, like duh, of course I need to have male energy in my life. Um in a platonic way, of course, you know. And it's so confusing to people. We I've said on this podcast before or made a joke about how the first time I went to movies with Alex, he was like, is this a date? And I was like no, and he's like okay. Because I think we're always so confused. But once you establish a boundary, you can really have a

lot of growth, really good friendships. Yeah, and I agree. I think that's something that takes. It takes age, and you got a little life that takes. Yeah, And I would say that does take a lot on the man's side of things, because even like I could be texting a guy and that's all a little go to and a lot of mental be like, oh yeah, we used to talk hold on. Just because we were having a conversation does not mean that it left being platonic. It

did not leave us being leaving a friendship. Nothing about that was sexual. And I think that relationships like with I mean lesbian relationships with women. I think that should happens probably too, you know, because we we can be emotional or react or whatever. Like, um, I've just had a thought when you said, oh, I'm watching a show called Temptation Island. By the way, I'm thinking about doing a Patreon episode doing just accents and reality total TV

ship because that's all I want to do. And it's crazy you watch all the different ships like I'm really into like Married to Medicine, Real Housewives of Atlanta, like those are the So Temptation Island, there's a couple I'm not gonna talk about this but the show, but there's a couple at the end that stayed together. And one of the things she says, she says, the only thing I wanted. I realized we need friendships with other people.

We need to live our own lives. They had no other men or women in each other's phone, and they've been together since they were sixteen, and to me, all that you know, So basically the couples go in the house they live with single people with single people. That really shows you like, Okay, I'm not attracted to you, but yes, I can't only have women in my life. I love them, but yeah, I need I need that sestastone from time to time. Yeah, I agree, Nope, I

don't want it. Um. So the next conversation, a lot of you wanted to hear our thoughts on and we are pro sex workers, we are allies with sex workers, and so I wanted to bring this part up. As you guys know, Cardi B was under fire this past week or so UM with a video that came out of her I G live. You know probably well hey, nonn um. But basically Cardi B said that she drugged and robbed men because she had limited options. I want

to read exactly her quote UM when she said that. UM, she said, I made the choices that I did at the time because I had very limited options. I was blessed to have been able to rise from them, but so many women have not, whether or not they were poor choices at the time, I did what I had to do to survive. So I've been seeing a lot of people say that you have choices even as sex workers, like you didn't have to sign up to rob and drug men and take their money the way you did.

And so I kind of wanted to know if you had any thoughts on that because I've spoken to some of my friends and got their feedback and definitely wanted to share. Um, what what I spoke about. I think the reason it's easier to digest the Cardi thing than it is a Cosby thing is because Cosby's intention was more. I'm hurtful. Um, I know that you're still hurting these men, but maybe because I had to do with their bodies. Yeah,

that's not saying that. It's hard. It's a hard thing to say, much like if someone you know, I don't believe a sin as a sin, Like you know, if you rob someone or you rape them. I don't think robbing is that bad compared to raping. No, I agree with that, And so I spoke to a couple of my friends who are escorts, um and try to get the sense to where a lot of them were defending Cardie and of course the men were like odd as they changed it that I don't want to get into

the rackspect of it. No, but not only safety. Um. She said that what you guys have to realize because a lot of people were thinking it was bullshit, with her saying it was a means of survival and things like that. So speaking to my friends and I won't say their names, the ones who do it. They came back and reassured me, every time we meet a guy, there's a fear of if that person is going to kill us, if they're not going to give us the money they said they were going to give us, if

they are going to violate and rape us. And they said that a lot of them have an instinct with this. And so in the case of her saying it was a means of survival, it could have been that maybe this person she felt wasn't going to pay her up or felt like he was going to do something, and there is a human and I think she said she was why she was doing it. Well, yeah, well this is this is where it's It's not to to sit

here and dissect what Cardi said. It's for what my friend said, why they may go to a means of robbing a nigga drug and a nigga doing that they is that they do in this field of work, because essentially, you're in a space where a you are doing what you're doing to make money, but there are a lot of ways where the men still have the upper hand even though you're laying down the rules, you're asking for the money, you're setting the price, and you're letting them

know what they have. But there's a lot of incidences where you're in these rooms and you don't feel safe, and so I guess it's the flip side to choosing to do this. And so I would say, maybe it wasn't her intention even in saying it, but in a means of survival, she could have also been saying I resorted to sex work as a means of survival, not the didn't Cardi wants say that? And I remember Ali triple X was saying this when I was in Houston,

were no I was in Dallas. She was like, fuck card She didn't say fun Cardi, but she was like CARDI was shaming sex worker sex I was stripping, but I never did that. So never had sex for money. That's the thing. So the guy who even allegedly came out and said the whole Cardi thing said that I remember Cardi twerking on me. Next thing, I remember, I look on the floor and there's a used condom in my iPad e fifty dollars and up, and jewelry was missing.

So there was allude to sex. But he didn't say I remember sucking her, and so I don't believe the cardis for money talking like that, No, I wouldn't believe that she's never fun, but that may have been her means of resorting to it. I'm meeting you on the sex club. You think you're gonna suck me after for more money, and instead I'm that was her means of making money is drugging niggas and robbing niggas. It wasn't

necessarily ever planning to have sex with them. I mean, it's aweso hood ship and the rapping and the rapping you mentioned. I saw Leah McSweeney said something like and as much as I really funk with Leah like I like her a lot of her opinions, I don't know you hate them. That's why we had to wait to get her on the show. But she said one thing. She said, you know, we've listened to rappers for years talking even Rick Ross, who was talking about put them molly. Damn.

I can't remember that put the molly in a drink and she enjoyed it. She ain't, No, she didn't even know what that's right, and we didn't. We gave him a little bit of ship for it. But not like this. I mean, I think social media is probably a little bit bigger now. But we lost he lost money over

that line. Okay, so but that's the thing. We've glorified rap for the robbing, the killing, the fucking holes, the doing this, the cheating, and now a bitch coming out and saying and she doesn't even rap about this, but this was her life. She is a rapper, she's in hip hop. Why are we gonna see him be mad at her? Would mind you? I was just with with my homeboys last night. They said, these new niggas really about that life, which is why why I mean Nelly

he said, NBA young boy? He said, Oh that nigga got shooters. He said, like, these young boys are walking out of here, but they bout that life. And so we've sat here and glorified the rat music for what it is, and now this is really shooters, which is why we have Bobby Smurder and Jail six nine in jail, why m whatever, Melly killed his goddamn friends. The rappers live in the life. They that we essentially really liked.

What did Drake saying and going bad? Talking about got a sticky and I leave it in my dog's plate. That's what you gotta do. By the way, we should definitely take a moment to shout out our today's sponsors, Lola. Let's get into that as Yes, I'm so excited that we have partner with Lola. Guys. If you guys do not know Lola yet, it is as a subscription base where you get all the goodies coming straight to your door in a in a discrete box. You don't even

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when I was in Atlanta. This is hilarious, and I figured we would take a little cackle at this cackle cackle. I mean, it's just you know, a woman bakes her own kidnapping and death after discovering her boyfriend's poor So the woman surnamed You had been dating her boyfriend Lynn for a while, but she only learned that he was poor after visiting his home during Chinese New Year. It was something she apparently just couldn't get over, so she

decided to leave him. But, fearing that he would get clingy and refuse rejection if she simply told him she wanted to end the relationship, you devised a plan to make herself disappear. Wait, so how did she like about to tell you? How she made it obituary with the she said on February twenty one, shortly after returning from the disappointing visits to Lyne's hometown, You disappeared from the couple's dormitory at the Hong fight jang dong Dong Industrial Park.

Her name is you, Her name is you. His name is Lynn, And a few minutes later, she called her boyfriend to tell him that she had been kidnapped by her ex husband. Come and save me. My ex husband has kidnapped me. Come quickly. I think I'm on the highway already, the thirty seven year old woman said, before bro bro To make her kidnapping seem more believable, You then sent her boyfriend's several text messages pretending to be her kidnapper, warning him that she would be killed if

he dared called the police. She then followed up with more texts informing Land than she had been killed and her body had been thrown in a lake. Unable to negotiate with the kidnapper, a distress, Land eventually called the police. After being informed about the situation, local police started investigating Surveilian's footage and Wuhan, and three days ago they were able to track down You to a small motel and

Wuhan Tanglong district. This pitch was in a motel, but when they arrived to the scene, officers were shocked to find the legend victim casually lying on the bed watching TV. Ha ha, Did she go to jail for this? Let me see if she would have jail. She was questioned by the police after her kidnapping. She was surprisingly calm, and she told them she recently found out that her

boyfriend was poor. She faked her on kidnapping and murder, hoping that that would just give up and move on with and that he would give up and move on with his life. Um eh. She actually had was detained by police for d days for disrupting social order. That might be bad, that might be worth it, you know. And then when we get out that, you know, I don't want you now, don't ask me why I did what I did? God damn. You know he's gonna be But why what happened? I think, Oh, yeah, I don't

know what that is. I thought. I thought, I don't know Filipino I can do. That's Filipino is different from Vietnamese. I'm doing I'm thinking about that was definitely vietnames because that's who that was. Vietnamese Filipinos were like, um man, I'm still Basically what I'm trying to see is that your phone is going to be working, and about two hours you're like, no, that what is philip I'm Filipino customer service. That's Filippino. That's Filipino customer service of when

you call like sprint. Where is the lie to this? Oh? He said, okay, trap trap gang gang. I I can't do. I'm done with y'all. So I get wait Chinese is Oh all I know is like ni how but ni ni ho? No? How damned. I just want to say that, honestly, I've never failed. You leave someone because you found out they were broker than you thought they were. That's the question I wanted to ask. The question is how broke? What is broke to you? Because we didn't have had

that question? Oh man, I mean like I was talking about Homeboy last night. He said here he said he he was talking like man when I was regular, because we were talking about the CARDI B thing, and he's like, man, when I was regular, I used to easily be able to take strippers home and have sex with them. He was like, man, and all I threw was five hundred dollars. I said, you're not you're not, You're not regular. I said, they went home with me because you threw five hundred dollars, sir,

so they thought you they were gonna get more. I said, a regular ni nigga working at FedEx ain't going into the strip club throwing five hulls on a regular FedEx ain't throwing five in the club. Fact, but FedEx isn't broke, but it's not throwing five hundred in the club. You're right, I would say broke to me, I don't be don't be shaming the broke. He's listening to the no like like you don't have your own place. Okay, we're in

New York. Oh, roommate is that fine? Um, I'll do what a roommate, I guess, but I don't want to, Okay. And honestly, I haven't really had to because of their age, right, I mean, and I'm talking about mid thirties. Um Jeeves had a roommate, but he's not his Brooklyn artist ship, you know what I'm saying. A different scene. It is different. Give me a salary for Nick? To me, is you can't take me out. If you can't afford to take

me out, I can't do it. It's funny because I was telling my my friend at this point, um, and we were talking about dating regular guys, and when she was dealing with the guys that she was dealing with who could drinks some food but just two hundred dollars, I said, A regular guy cannot afford eight hundred dollars a month on dates just to take you out once a week. That's a lot of money for a lot of guys. So that's a regular nigga. You would not date a regular nigga then if he couldn't take you

out once a week. I mean, okay. When I was dating Jeeves, I would say he was the most modest of the people I've dated in a long time. Um, he was able to afford to take me out weekly. We went out every week. Um, I don't know. I saw him so often when I was taking him, like three or four times a week. We ate at home,

one night a week we went out. Yeah, okay, I mean I don't know if we were spending to one at dollars like, but see, you're not also one who's gonna order three or four drinks when you go out like that's me, that's her and a hookah's. We'll say this though, there was a difference with me going out of Jeesus and were going with Beard Bay or me going out way a blue check type of you know what I'm saying, Like with me and check out like

it was you know my cocktails. Jeeves is a type of nigga who's like, yo, I found this Japanese underground. Now we're going underg Yeah, but it still wasn't And here's the thing too, What I had with him was so enjoyable because we did do so much sh it outside of the box. And I think that the idea of that two D date like I hear you and it's true, but also like I mean, I'm not necessary.

They're not necessary before someone like myself or my friends who a night out is going to get hookah it is going to get multiple drinks because we are we drink a lot. To me, to expect that from someone is a lot. So I yeah, if that's what I like a lot knowing that it's going to cost you two hundred dollars a week if we go out once a week, that's eight hundred dollars a month. A regular person can't sign up for that. And I here's the

other thing. Is it really a thing to where every weekend would be two hundred dollars because you might have it might be between dinner at the places that I may like and drinks. See, I don't think you don't drink a lot. I'm not saying that where you're you're the way you're talking is like no boo stk drinks.

Not even that. No. If I go to Applebee's and we sit here and we both order meals ten dollars, ten dollars, if we sit there and we're sitting there for an hour or two, you can easily spend on drink easy dollars a drink, Yeah, like one twenty He broken? You know that could be saying so like, okay, you don't stay it back. I mean, you know you can call himself broke. You carry a job on the video.

I'm glad we paid you. So okay, you're saying you're broke when you're when you meet somebody and you want to go out, what's your like, what's the lasts of somebody else? Just because less than fifty dollars on a five hour day. He just said, doing what talking in the park, getting hungry. I'm just I'm just like coffee. Yeah, so you've got the girls you find out with coffee. You're not one of our former guests. Hold on, you're not only one years old? Are you a baby? You

could be broke. That's fine, that's twenty yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's that's allowed. That's allowed. Okay, So I guess there is an age that yeah, no, you're not gonna do this. Don't mouth ship while we on air. Ask him when we get all bit well yeah, hold on, no, no, no, I want to say twenty one in that age, I don't you have to remember where almost daughter. Don't say that we're twenty eight, like I don't like favorite Hole three.

Let's say we're twenty. Don't say we're all expecting man at my age to be I would not expect that from that time, one year old, and I wasn't going on dates like that when well, yeah you was, because you was having niggas paid to take you on dates. Bitch. What's your price? What's your price? So we're gonna go ahead and get into the whole let me counter off it for them to accept, and I was like, ipe,

I hated you if. If you guys are patrons, I will go ahead and post these articles so that you can delve into them and read them and then do all that good ship. So we're gonna get into our homemail. I have one, and then we just gonna read off the second one. So this one the title I just latched when I saw it. I fucked his teammates. Is the time that came in. Yes, it just came in today. I consider myself to be somewhat of a groupie. I

love professional athletes. I've dealt with quite a few recently. I've been dealing with one and things have started to get serious. We've met each other's families and everything. I've never gotten this serious with an athlete before. The only problem is that I fucked two of his teammates in the past. I'm scared that he will find out somehow. I know that my name has been brought up during locker room talk because one of the teammates I fucked hit me up and was like, I heard you're talking

to some and so. But my boo has never said anything about it, nor asked me anything, So I don't think he knows. Should I come clean and say something to him before he finds out, or should I just hope it never comes out. Maybe Mandy can help me because she's had dealings with athletes before. If I do was similar situation, and how I give you deal with? Sincerely, groupie, hope maybe many can help you. Actually, Maybee just take

my piss break now? No, So, I actually wanted to bring this up because this doesn't only have to be in context to professional I was gonna say I would. It could be just to um. It could be two groups of friends. It could be to someone where you met on Instagram and then you see down the line, O ship, he got a picture. Let's related to real life. Let's related to real life? No, damn, bro, what's she? What's we gotta looking for? Em? I don't see what

she's looking at. I have been in this situation actually kind of recently too. But I'm very honest with the people who I dealt with. I've had these relationships and so even one guy that I saw recently, he came back from the past and he's currently on the team. What a niggad that was also on my phone and he knew like so long story short, we talked about it. Um. I think that you'd be surprised, um how much niggas talk. They talk way more than than the girls. So I

wouldn't doubt if he does already know. I think just to give yourself the peace of mind, you should bring it up and be like, listen, I would never want to embarrass you while we're out, and I would never want you to feel blindsided by anything. So I do want to let you know this happen. I hope it doesn't change our relationship. If it does, it wasn't meant to be. But you can't take the bodies off your

What you said one word, what embarrassed. I know I'm saying embarrassed when we know we go out, but that's not something that should be shameful. No, no, no, no, I know what you're saying. I don't, but we need to change that thinking. And I'm gonna tell you why. You know, niggas we should not go okay, So I don't want to crush your ego. But if a man and we brought this up, I like the word blindsided

more than I do embarrassed. I'm gonna tell you why when we use words like that, it implies that maybe we may be ashamed. And even though you may not that give that that's not that I'm has nothing. What I've done should not be an embarrassment to you. You walking into room with someone I fu should not be embarrassed, you know what? You know what, because I'm a fucking adult and I've fed. That's a very big deal. Though

using words like that, I don't want you to feel embarrassed. No, I love what you said about blindsided, because that's a better word. I just want to make you aware because I don't want you to just be caught off guard in case it happens. So eliminate embarrassed out that, but pretty much let him know that you're telling him not to start anything, not to be you know it. Also, don't make it a big deal. No, just say listen.

I yeah, I would say, let him know. Let him decide whether it mean a lot to you or not. I will say, a lot of these niggas don't even like each other, bro, so it might not even be that their friends. It might not mean anything to him at all. And a lot of them get traded and end up on other teams and have all new teammates next year, so it may not even be a long term issue. So that's how I would do. I agree. I think that um making people aware of who have

you slept with is a nice thing to do. I don't know if it's necessary, but in this case, I would, because they're technically colleagues, you know. I mean, if you fucked my coworker, I would want to know. I'm just walking into office, like, so this everysoning I'll come in here has even gonna be funny, now I know. And you also don't want to feel talked about behind you know,

someone's back. But just the only reason I made a big deal about that word embarrassed is because we have unknowingly presented things in ways that it may seem like it's shameful, but it's not. And I want to make sure that like, and it's hard not to because my mind's work this way. We grow up society being women being shamed. That's the second. That's the first thing you thought of, And that's what I would thinking. I don't

need to feel Nah, stand in your truth. You don't have to be a horror because you got exactly because nig on the team and well and I won't bring up names, like I'm not a pillow talker, but if it's in a situation like this, or I see that, oh they know each other, or they're tweeting or their

Instagram things like I'm not gonna lie. The person that I cuddled with last night knows my the m c M that I post often, And so that was brought up because he's like, oh, um, you deal with my homeboy, and so that was kind of awkward and I was just like, Um, the only thing that saved me was I don't think he realized I really knew the nigga, because he was like, you can't know him because you don't post nigcause you really funk with And I was like, actually,

so why do you post this guy? I really like him. We vibe, he supports it's everything that we do with the podcast. Um when I met him, like, I mean, I don't know, I just really vibe with him. So like he's never ashamed, he comments under all my pictures. He loves what we do with the podcast, he loves the drive that I do. And because he's a creative in a sense, he supports me as a creative kind

of riot bro. I love. Honestly, that's probably like Jeeves came to our show, right, I got them, and it is always so like fuck yes about what I'm doing, And I realized, I love that he's on that creative ship. It right, Like I could sit there and with hours and talk about content about guys I used to talk to and he's like, yeah, like I think I love that story. It's great, and that's yeah, that's why. My friend that I was with last night, he brought me

around millionaire like white people. But they're in the tech space, the radio space. They do algorithms and all this stuff. And literally he's a Dumbo house. We went to dumble house, like met all these rich people. We were at PhD. So he's bringing me around them and we're having these talks about numbers, algorithm stats, all this stuff that has to do with music but also relates to podcasting. And literally, as he's introducing me to these white men, he's like, Yo,

this is my friend. She has one of the dopest podcasts, like Supernumbers. They're on tour. He's selling me to these people. And then as we're having these conversations, these rich white men are asking me how I'm doing things, and we're having these long conversations. So at the end of the night, while we're cuddling, he's like, man, I like you. He's like the fact that I could bring you around these people that I want to do business with, they respected you.

They all give me their business cards. He's like, do you know how sexy it was to me that another like just a woman that I could bring around wasn't embarrassed to suspeci I'll show you. I'll show you him and we just bought you. Just really made me realize when I started liking Beard Bay when I went to New Orleans. We're eating this New Orleans, not like not like I was into him, but not like this when

we were in New Orleans. And it's mainly because that conversation how with Shan Booty, where she was like, bro, the thing that the last dude didn't like about you, this next one is going to love. She was like that last dude didn't like that you were too wild. He's gonna he's not gonna be able to stop telling people how wild you are. The next one, it's for you. And I'm not saying he's for me or anything. But

we were out and he ran into it. He knew he couldn't even he was more excited than that podcast. And he was like, yo, she got this podcast and it's like crazy and and he's smiling talking about it, and it was it was nice that morning. It's Monday morning. I'm sitting on his lap. He's showed me a video on his phone and um, Horrible Decisions has a new episode popped up. And I was like, you subscribe to my podcast. He was like, yeah, I subscribe to your podcast.

And I was like, because when people say they funk with you, I don't really know if they fucking do. I'll tell you now. Bitch, all my old niggas all coming back, and it's disgusting, like one is disgusting first off. No like discussing first off. And a lot of them now are free agents and not even in the league no more. But they all they all like all my old athletes like that. We just didn't really do nothing. Like one wants me to consult him because he wants

to start a podcast now. The other one hit me and was like, yo, I was talking to my cousin and my cousin brought you up. You know you popping another one was talking about the tour. But they all they ain't got my number and I'm not hitting him back on my new number. But they're all hitting me through Instagram, through Twitter, my email. You had a new number from when I was sucking them. But the one nigga,

what's what I was taking? The one nigga we fucked six years ago, and he's hitting me like yeah awesome reminists and ship. I was like, I don't remember, like we I don't. I've had a lot since then, um sir, and I'm not interested in you know, more like what like, don't come back? You remember this? And Nigga I fucked? He plays ball overseas and I just recently found him again. He I don't know how we found each other. But the point is, bitch, he said his dick and he

was nice and chocolate. You don't remember it? I mean yeah, but it was I remember it being big. It's just like we didn't really connect on another level. Like you know, I'm emotional, but bitch, hold on, look at this dick. Do you remember him? And I went to Europe when he was playing in Europe, I went to Switzerland. We might not have been friends and we were you don't remember him. I was living with Coolie at the time. I don't remember him. He find no bitches ship and

he slapped the dick on his stomach. Bitch, I hate you. I've literally come to all them like I don't. I don't know why they're all coming back. Ront you see that slab I love a mushroom head. But no, I really think like it's it's it's. It's to the point where just like I feel like we've had conversations like the I hate you. We don't want to see you slappy dick on your stomach. No, thank yeah, no, not

not even just a little bit. No, oh, I gotta pay to see you slack you dick on you sum First of all, actually I don't pay for dick ever, I get it for free. But now I think it's weird though, that a lot of them are coming from the past and now are just like, I'm so proud of you. I always knew he was gonna be a star, like and it's just kind of like then we could.

It's an awkward feeling awkward. But even if they got sucked in high school and came back high school broke, because we've been doing this for two years, right, we come in the studio with the same energy. We'll be head sometimes we don't, you know what I mean, And we've been putting the same energy. It's just now other people are getting energy, you know. And it's funny because like some people would be like, oh, like y'all piped up about nothing but my nigga. Anytime we've arrived at

a city the show was sold out. And I don't even want to knock on wood because I don't think I needed to, because that's just the fucking trend. It is what it is. It's not you know what I mean, y'all fun with us. I've been to enough live podcast now to know there is nothing like we do. I don't know what it is. I don't know if it's because of the audience we have. We have great audience. I don't know if it's even when they sucked, the

show was still good. And I'm not gonna say what city was, but you know what I was talking about that was in your opinion, you just didn't We're not gonna get into that. I don't think that audience had the energy that we've had at other shows. But even that show, when I thought I was going to open my d ms and people people are like, I can't. This is I'm so glad I drove all this way, and I'm like, they love it, they thank us, and

it's it's engaging. It's also reflective as to what we do on the podcast, like we don't really deter too much, and it's I read a comment where someone said they're exactly what I thought they would be, and I was like, perfect, yeah, what I want people to think me too, and like that felt good because sometimes I've been to a live podcast where I was so excited to see them and

I was like, oh right. I did have a good time at a Brilliance, the one we went to together with your mom my, my first my first um time seeing the Joe Budden pot actually at Highline was really good. They had the live that was a great thing. That was that was a really good. They had the stage set up exactly like the venue. But you know what, and it's funny, what Highline is no longer open? No, No,

it wasn't Highlight. I'm wrong. I like the Sony Music Theater, so I think I went to but they did have they had the couch and they had the background and like, I love that Tony that one too. That was a great one and it was a good one. Um. I guess before we had out of here though, guys, UM, we do want to thank you again. I do want to shout out, um homie Don Cannon sent me to shirts shout out to Don Cannon. I do also want to say that is the studio we use when we

are in Atlanta. So if you're in Atlanta and podcasting, mean Street studios is what. Oh I got three, I got three, you can have one of you by the whole bit I was gonna hold, I was gonna give you one. You take the black one because I wanted Neon green one. Uh, I'll give you the black one. But thanks John Canna, shout out to you everything you've got going on. You were creative. So he supports everything that we got going on to UM. I guess is there any other um things that we want to shout out?

I guess, um, we've they've supported us and everything that we've done. So if you are in Atlanta, Cocktails Podcast with Kiki and Medina, they added a second show. That's right. Yeah, So if you guys are interested in crating us about Atlanta. Go and support these black girls in your city, nearby your city. They are so sweet. I know, necessilly thing to say, but like this reported us. Um, she's coming

to Houston, kicks coming to you from Texas. Yeah, she is so um check them out, super dope, check out. I think they're doing their show to say time we're actually you know, it's so funny, it's like almost unspoken. I think if I had to compare myself to anyone cocktails, I think I'm more like Medina, I think, and I'm more like Kiki, And now I gonna Kiki right and

Medina schools out. But we both talked to another one. Um. And then I also to want to give us a shout out to wind Down Wednesday and my homegirl Lakes p Indria. Um, they both have been on this podcast and they're building there. Like that episode a lot fun there. Yeah, so check them out. UM, I don't know everyone, We're excited to see you guys on the rest of the Oh god, I'm still sorry. I got to shout out the team really quick. Small podcasts. It's in Connecticut. They're growing.

These girls have treated me better than I've treated people that they gauge in it on us. I'm at you posted all that because now people don't think we need to treat them so guilty. So Hi Rise chocolate covered strawberries, well, goddamn they they brought it out because they knew I was allergic to eggs and my birthday was that week. It was that Sunday and they fucking it out with a sparkler. They were just so They wrote me to thank you know, about how much we're an inspiration to them,

and like the pictures look dope too. They were so sweet. She was like, we just like a leve hip hop reunion. You know, Bro, I'm gonna talking about funk with them, my nigger. She had to receipt and my money. The second I was done, I was like, thank you. You know, I had my deposit at first, but I funk with that ship because not to say that your words here,

I'm like, it's gonna be some black people don't be paying. No, I was gonna say for somebody that is not I didn't know their name at first until they wrote me for something smaller or something not, like, you know, they had their ships so seamless. Bro shout out to that manager. I Legit was like, I think I want you. She was giving these girls towels waters. They didn't do nothing, Mandy, and the way we'll be running around. I've been told you about this ship, but you don't want to give up.

She was. I'm telling them how you don't want to pay nobody a percentage. Hope. It's not a percentage that we did all the door. But if we got a manage it, now we gotta. She's I want to pay her. I told her, I would love for you to be part of our growing when I when I arrived with Enoch, she drove me up. She wanted to die. She had she was outside the whole dope. I want to hold her. She was ready outside and willing. Okay. She was like, we have someone assigned to you for the night. If

you need anything. Bro. They was treating me like I was fucking Beyonce, and I'm telling you right now, the fucking Tito's cheese and crackers. Bitch was ready, No eggs, little do that. No, you don't even drink like that, but I was drinking it though. You and I just fun with this and you know, just meeting our listeners and you know, different plays. It was dope, and I realized, like that is the kind of ship we need. We hired that girl that was running around. She was insane.

They have flowers ready for me, bitch. I'm not saying we're doing all that, but you don't even want to pay for extra mic and she talks you think she's for pay for I don't want to do all that, you know, I'm just saying. She's like, wait, a wireless costs forty dollars. Actually will take the wire thing said like this makes me live like a little pussy. The same people TV. I don't want to buy flowers, but her the way that they didn't stress and she was

running around. We'll just hand the mic off. We don't have to pay that forty dollars. Like, shut your dew ass because you eat cheapest. Fucking you all you're talking about flower. I'm appreciating what they did. I say I want to do it. Saying I appreciate what they did, I didn't want to say I do it, want to do it for other people. I just wanted a manager to come and do our New York. That's all I'm saying.

I want thatch halls. It's like all right, but like not a lot, right, I'm not saying with you anyways, guys, as you guys don't be we are able to be on the tour because of you. There are still tickets left because of you, because of my patrons, by bad and I'd be because of all of them, but because of our patrons. Um. Again, we do have tickets left for the second show that's in l A. It will be at the Hollywood Improv on May twelve. Please check

us out. The May eleventh Saturday show is completely sold out, but we have tickets left in l A. And there are a very few tickets left in Toronto other than that which we sold out everywhere else. Houston is officially sold out. UM Miami is officially sold out. Both Chicago shows that we have already done were sold out. Everything sold out for the rest of the tour except for that second show in l A on May twelve and

our very last show in Toronto on May eighth. There are less than ten tickets for that though, so we're looking forward to seeing you guys again. This is all because you guys support us and have become patrons and allow us to now travel with the country and give you guys this show and meet you guys in person, So we want to thank you before we get up out of here. We are going to drop you a clip of one of our bonus episodes. And again, this

is just a whole another episode that you get. As of right now, we have about thirty extra bonus episodes, so if you are all caught up on all hundred plus episodes, you can become a patron and listen to more. So once again, this has been yet another episode of four Decisions. By the way, I didn't let anybody know until now. Actually I'm ready to talk about it. Not not fully married. He was the one. Yeah, I did. I did. I didn't marry for money because he didn't

have it. Um. I'm married because and that's not say that's the truth. I was a breadwinner, you know, Um, and still am. But in terms of I'm married for love, I'm married because I saw someone who I considered my egual and someone that I wanted the best for in

us to be able to work and grow together. How many like loves do you think we get on sex in the city, they say you get two great loves, right, But there's other things that we read about, like twin flames and this kind of soul mate and blah blah blah. How many do you think we get in life? Do you think as much as I think we have multiple soul mates. I think that um, we go, our bodies go. We are in a constant stage of evolution. And as our minds and our hearts and our spirits continue to

grow and we continue to gather information. Right because our bodies are we store that. We store that in our skin, we stored in our minds, we stored it in our eyes and our hearts. With that comes life experiences and over time, you can, yes, have I do believe have multiple soul mates. I don't know necessarily all at the same time, but I do believe over time, gradually you meet people in life that you connect with and maybe it's a different connection from what you had before with

the other partner. I have a twin flame. May he rest in peace. He will still be my twin flame. You know, He's someone that I can still feel every now and then, or I'll see these little glimmers and I'm like, Okay, you came through you, you showed me you're still around. And I believe in that um and so to answer your question, I think that we, over time can have more than one soul mate and not

just too. What about when you've had them, Have you noticed anything that's the same, because I have when I meet these people, have you what is it like for me? I think, Um, what is the same? Is feeling something familiar? Oh my god. I was just gonna say, whenever I meet a guy that I know will be around, or a friend I know i'll see again, I'm like, I feel like I know you already. Yeah. What I and what I say to that is I'll say it's nice to see you again, and they know what I mean

because they understand it. Really, Yeah, it's nice to see you again the first time you meet them. Like the last person I met like that, who was Jeeves, the guy you saw at the show. It was actually sitting across from me. Yeah, that's super fucking depressing breakup I had right and I was like, I'm never going to be anybody else And it was a date that I didn't want to go on, and it was just like, fuck, I meet this guy. It was like ten minutes, maybe

less than that, Maybe I don't know. I was sitting there and I texted my friends like, oh my god, he's gonna be my next boyfriend. Like I could feel it, feel it. And it's so crazy because we go on these dates with people and we immediately know we may not see them again or they're not that interesting. Why do we stay because we I think for the why we stay is because it's innate within us to not give up right away and still give it one more try, like let me see this out one more time or

two more times and see where that goes. So that's why I think we we do stay for an extra day or third date is to say, well, sometimes people are nervous on the first try. It's just like nervous sex. You know. It's like, let's just get that ship out the way, like true, you know, and maybe be able to Is the one going to be like that? Probably not?

Probably not. I've had I've had soul mates that are you know, because they are these are former lovers, but we're still good friends and they know who they are. And I knew just by them walking in the room. My throat felt like it was choking up because my I just knew, like physically and spiritually and emotionally. I was like, oh my gosh, my body the compass is towards him and it felt the same way and body compass,

my body compass. Now the person that you're dating, you've been friends with, I'm curious to know because I always feel like if we didn't immediately get together, and maybe we're not supposed to be together, right so I think, um,

and you're so in love. I think for me, the space that I'm in right now is where the older I get, the more that I realized that love comes in many ways, and I'm in a headspace to be able to communicate that to anyone I'm dating or who I'm currently dating, is to be able to say, like, this is where I'm at. Um. It can also sound

like I'm saying open relationship or a polyamorous relationship. I'm not saying that, which I do support, by the way, like, if if it works for you, I support open relationships, I support polly life, go for it. Definitely, it's not for everyone. I've done it, but I think that's also

two case by case. I also think monogamy is beautiful if you have someone that you are interested in and it's consensual, for sure, But the kind of love space that I'm in right now, is experiencing experience Wow, that happened. Is receiving, delivering and receiving all forms of love, and that could be anything from self love. It can also be love that I want to exchange with you, that

I want to exchange with the person that I'm dating. UM. And why I say that is because for me, one person cannot be my everything and that sounds that sounds horrible right now, How does that factor into monogamy? Because I agree with that statement, But which one the monogamy or no? No, No, you're saying that one person can't be or everything, so you don't necessary You're saying you don't necessarily need to have another boyfriend to be everything.

You just need to have those people in your life. Yes, and