Ep 292: And The GAG Is (Ft. Keke Palmer)

and is well. Not only that, I didn't realize if you guys have listened to horrible decisions. I'm at the pool, and as I'm in the pool, I say, wait, this is public. It was the Church of Science, Pology for the world. I tried to get your ass. Welcome, y'all. We have a guest here joining us on bot Way. We're gonna be all over the place today because we are really because we want to talk about gagging. Lets

I want to be gaged. Okay, we got knowing what y'all do over here, So dag me with the interview question. You be on the floor. Yeah, we have Kekey Palmer here, but about why you're here today. Clab it up from Mr key TV network. Thank you. We have some stuff working in the things that kids don't know, but they're not not I'm about to know when this is out. Yeah they are. Okay, that's right to go back now, Kiki, we're here to celebrate the launch of your network, Key TV.

Tell us a little bit about it before we talk about my whole ship you didn't do. Yeah, So, KETV is pretty much a network I launched based off of what I learned from doing digital. Obviously, I started out traditionally and I really found my freedom through, you know, honing in on my audience and being able to really

have creative freedom digitally. And so I thought, Okay, with my platform and just whatever I can use to expose other talents, let's create a network and not only show how to get from point A to point B, but also show how to do it without having the color within the lines. Because I think a lot of people think they gotta go through certain doors in order to break through in the industry, and you don't. And digital is one of the main ways that I think people

are able to get through, you know. So that's what KETV Network is really four and about, yes, the content, but also to say like yo, we can make our own ways, um this way too, but you to be in like the digital space is interesting because where I met you, of course was loving basketball and also acquil in the b b Oh, yes I was not, but I'm so happy to all the guy she did what everybody doing what I do. I'm not kind of pratt and I years did I do that too? But Aquila

the b look way also another KP. But also here's the problem. KP was sucking a cartoon in real life forever, so we really didn't know her until she like got on the TV show that nobody wants. What about One on one Girl, Come on One on one Gang Gang she didn't love? But what was that on the w b W y'all are clothes you PN before they merged? Y'all know what y'all talking about? Lady the second I mean fan, that's where I'm like, I'm wait, wait, wait wait, but wait, but outside of that, you did do a

killer in the b as. You were a whole spelling b as bitch. Can I have seriously, because because you're gonna well, you're gonna test her on some ship later on. But oh what were when you did that role? Did you really know what the funk you was spelling? Did they completely tell? Like girl, it was not about the memorization. It was all about the members that I don't know't have no no, like literally it was a whole like really good question because did they gotta feed you the

line to the word now? So I did it like lines? So I just you know, learned it just like my memory. But I was and like all of a sudden, words with word, you know, I don't actually know how to, like me, tell you a really hard word that I can never spell? See what I mean? Even spell check? I can't get this thing. Is it gonna be a paraphilia spell? Clamydia, clamidia clamidia cold spelling bitch? Okay c l A M D No, I feel like you're already wrong.

I y a clamitia. That was kind of good. I think it's a wine in the beginning, but anyway, no way, c h l alum a spell again all right? See the h A am I right? See ah, excuse me, see h L right I M y d I A clamdia. You know how to spell. It's got clamidia, clamdia. I never had clamidia. And let's make sure that that's on the dot. Bro me that craps because crum arabs the sex podcast we are. But but what? But what is crabs? Because when you go to the doctor, they don't be

like bitchybot crabs, Like that's a sling term. So what is the slang term for what? Bitch? What's your We're a sex watch term for company, clap the clubs. So what's the said? Wait, so what's this? Okay, wait a minute, what I main word for? What is this? What is the crabs? The slang word for crabs disease? I'm a gonna tell you right now, it's it's eliminated. They ain't got it no more. I'm serious. Black people don't get

it because we don't get lace. Now now now, I'm I'm not able to learn here ridiculous that a cubist, Oh no, we want that spell that, Oh my gosh, just scared out a key little subdiculoumiculoom cubist. Give it a pubist. So let's get back to Key TV and how I was shocked that you even had a show at this name. So Kiki sends me a text and was like, yo, got a network launch, Like congrat She's like,

I have a show I want you to host. Now I'm like, wow, I don't know when she thought I would be actress, but this is is it for me? A call from her producers don't know I have any idea what it is, but I'm like, yeah, I'll do it. My producers. I love that she gave me the day. I'm like, I'll be there. I get on the phone with Chelsea and Nora and Chelsea goes, hey, so we have a great show. It's called ho and tel I started laughing immediately. I said, oh, and this is what

he shows for me. Yeah, she thinks she'll be great. Sure I will. So you really stepped into your whole like it was. It was fitting. It uncomfortable and fun, and you know, sexists have to be such a real uptight thing. And that's what the show is about. It's just about life and these girls living their life and just being being chill and also not being afraid to like tell they stuff. Someone got there pussy eight on

the first episode. Well, and it's crazy that you're doing that too, because you recently have been playing more risk a roles like, um, there was a role that you played where you were I don't know if you were a sex worker being pimped out, but you pimp left you see what I mean? I don't know, That's what I'm saying. No, no, no, no no, there was no yeah, but there was a no I was a pimp, thank you? Is this where my mom was freaking out? What was

the name of the movie? That's the one? Literally no, and she played a role where it was just like, wait, she did you not know about this? Your real pimp name be my real pimp name, and you was a real pimp, so my real pimp name would be something like Shoddy Louke gird You like like, I like, wait, wait, wait, wait wait name thank you? I only know my only fans name. It's gonna be Wheezy Wiggles. That's too nice for my piles nobody take. But as a pimp, you

can't slap a bit with the name Wiggles. I don't like a pimp name. Ready, I'm a sub What about you, madam him being ready? You're ready because you was ready. But it's been there, done that. Um. But in seeing like you take more of I met you was a child actor, and so to see you in like more of these like even nope, different wait wait wait, sorry I'm siding you're like, but she was different bit and nope, you played a lesbian, but she could have been fluent.

We don't know what, don't don't gonna give it. It was given and I know she definitely que and when I saw that, and I remember watching it like she feels talking rough, it's just just a pair of jeans. Or have you ever do you know what the Kinsley scale is? Nope? So it's basically the scale of where you're talking to homosexual, how you feel throughout the day and about the day. Was do you do the month?

A month? So for the most part, I know you're being straight, But have you ever thought about being with women or ever dated a girl? And what do you do? I'm definitely in the middle of the scale. I'm definitely like even across the board, like really like I feel like love is love, life is life, Like do your thing, live your life? Like I feel that way, you know what I'm saying, Like, that's that's how you ever had a girlfriend? Oh? Yeah, girl, they've never been locked up

and would love me. I mean neither, we neither never been locked up. Well you do have a boo now and I don't know what girl your little checks. First off, I love that you said, but that nigga hacking up right now, that's what it's given. No, no, no, we don't feel we don't even an no. But like I think, set your ticktie. I like as far as I knew it was out because y'all been doing and ship do you know want me doings? I plead the girl once this guy is that nigga the dance I said? They

love as soon as you can get. And it's crazy because like we're in this phase now where people feel like either a super private as soon as a man put you on social media. Now it's serious, right, So the fact that you guys are may be potentially making tick tocks or being public? Yeah, way does that look like for you as someone who's growing up in the spotlight. I like what you just said because you know it

is a thing, right, it's the things. And I feel like even if you're not a celebrity that you feel this way because it's like, yeah, you're happy, you want everything to be just Yeah, let me be happy. But then you realize every that's all that everybody talks about or want to talk to you about or think about when they you know what's going on with the boot, and it's like everything ends up being so it's just like you feel like there's no happy medium of it.

When it comes to social media, everything feels like a statement, so it just becomes a little spooky, you know, for all parties involved. I think so for me, I feel like I just try to really be private with it, just because of the fact that I don't want that to be my dialogue. Well you comfortable being single in the spot, right or do you feel like when you find I do I do feel the root it must be worse, not even necessarily single, but just not not

attaching me to anything out side of me. I think sometimes that can be a lot, especially like a woman in any industry is like it's annoying. Sometimes it can be seen as a vulnerability or people feel like, oh, I know what you about because so many judgments that are made on you, made on your partner, made on what people perceive you as, and it's just it's to

me unnecessary and don't want to stress. Um just from the experiences that I've had of just you know, and it shouldn't be that way, but I do think more people than just entertainers do it that way. That's why most people don't you know, they could be in whole

full marriages and they don't post not no line. And that's what I was gonna ask you to, like, do you feel like, as women, even the men listening, that there's like this pressure to your relationship doesn't exist unless the masters know, unless you're being claimed publicly, like especially as women, like right you are until and they canna claim you publicly? You know what I mean, that's not true.

And I think that, yes, I think in some some occasions somebody could be keeping you private for sneaky reasons. Obviously there's always that snarior where somebody isn't your fake. I don't know. For me, it's always been because I don't want people to be subjected to what I'm subjected to. And then when the subjected to it, they're like, yeah, let's go back over there in the shade because it's a lot of lights on you, and everybody got something

to say. Oh yeah, that's why I'm lying to all of y'all right now about what's happening over here in my relationship? Girl, I'm lying, I'm making up people. They're all the same person. And this is the thing, the moment that you do show someone that can relationship or people think your relationship. Even if I do a joke about in the gagheads or and I found out and it's like, oh wow, she's going shade, everything becomes person. Yeah. Also, hey,

like man, I'm just doing a sketch. I'm trying to get a check because I got to do what's going on in my life for real. Also is annoying too, because it's just things become too personalized. You know what I want to know? You do know how to get a check? If it was a whole lot of checks? What job do you think? Wow? Okay, So I don't Honestly, I don't know, like right like, I don't know what jobs I could do. I think in my mind like I probably could be a good hair stylus. I still

know how to break about I'm we've down. I feel like I have a good conversation piece, so I would be able to get my clients into it. Like took up somewhere I put the on in them. I feel like I would be good as a stylus and you would like because you know, and you would like to come to sit in my chair. And then on the other end of things, I think, like, you know, I could be on somebody's political standpoint and what do you need, you know, President, so on, so, and I think I'll

be able to help write some speeches. I'm going with my words, nothing not to care. I think I could get some public some of some some public service. I got to tell you all about what you got some ready. So this is our segment call van Ella Ship, where we basically take a news article and figure out what's in the news about sex. Have you heard about the man in New York that then made a sex tape

to show you he's sex positive. That he's a New York House candidate and he basically in his congressional campaign released a sex tape to demonstrate his commitment to positive sex. His name is Mike Idis. It kissed it. It's a white man, yeah, but anyway, it's a white man. He's an independent and he wants you to vote for him in New York and it was given independent from the start. He was sucking on camera. He did a thirteen minute video with a sex worker and wanted to pretty much,

that's it, that's to help us. No, well, well it was it was the showcase which which which is? I think can lead into something great, But it was the pretty much let people know not only he was sex positive, but to get his name out there and so in where you've been in this fucking lane for so long in terms of getting people to know like where you're at, do you ever feel the need to go viral or with these new movies, do they say get popping on TikTok or all of like the new ways to market things.

This politician was like, y'all gonna know I'm sex positive by making a thirteen minute sex video. You're gonna see my dad is there? We I think it's a he was white. You know. I didn't watch it. Um it was giving pink and I was cool. I UM. I think that there's a fine line between like wanting to get your make your stuff exciting to look at, and like doing anything just for uh, you know, response and reaction. You know what I'm saying, Like there's a fine line

between it and I think, uh, I don't know. I know for me, I never think to myself, how do I get viral? I say, how do I do something that's really going to connect to my audience? Like it's more marking than anything like what's gonna be exciting, what's gonna make people love this? Or what's gonna be funny, what's gonna be enjoyable? I think about my audience and in getting to them as opposed to just getting the

word around. And I think a lot of times we do see people are just like I want to get the word around, I want my name out there, And there's sometimes can be a loss of integrity in that because you're not actually focused on making sure what you're saying is heard. You just want people to see you, and it's like, okay, well when they see you, what they're really looking at for real? How do you know

the lines between going viral and being genuine? Only because I've and you make so many videos about who you are as a person and not as an actor. You've also been open about your skin journey, You've been open about your journey as a woman. What makes you decide to move forward with having those conversations to the public instead of just living through that by your own, like

on your own. You know. It's such a good question, especially when you talk about like the skin stuff, because that's also like hormonal and that's like, so yeah, so I have like the the pretty much. It's an issue with like, um, your your hormone levels, things that you are just born with. It's something that you can really control.

Um And that can get personal because who really want to talk about their medical I don't want to talk about my medical but what I do want to want to say was like, you don't know what people are struggling with. And so while you're thinking that because I'm whoever you think and I'm am my skin should be this or I should look this way because I'm in this field, I think I just felt so much pressure all the time to be so perfect, um and to be so whatever people consider is uh, you know perfect.

But I just kind of want to say, you know, I'm not perfect. So let's leave it there speaking of perfect. You know, had you ever gone through a phase like where you watched the way women are starting to look now Instagram ship like that? Have you had a should I get a BBL phase? Oh? I didn't know he's

gonna say that you're actually where are you going? I definitely have looked around and be like, wow, times are changing, because you know, when we were kids, everybody wanted to like hide everything, even their weight, like we I remember the change when we all started being like, yeah, I wear weight. But there was a time in place where

people would be like, don't something. You've been straight up lying like oh, this is all me, you know what I'm saying, or like don't ask me that like anything just swayed from telling somebody, but you voted its mind exactly. And so I have seen the change of people being cool with like I'm a Barbie or I'm at this, I'm that, and I got this, I got that I've

never wanted. And I think the reason why I never felt that way was just it's not that I don't see the pressures of it in that or not even say pressures, but it's not that I don't see that like dang, Like there's a lot of you know what, people like this, You see that people like it. But I think for me, I just always felt like, man, you know what, I'm scared, and I just feel like I'm I want to be different. I'm good with being with standing out and not having whatever whatever everybody else has.

That's all right. What's your favorite part of your body that makes you feel the sexiest? Rellie? Honestly, I mean honest, this is gonna sound so booty because you said my body, I'm goin. You got really good legs. Oh my gosh, thank you you talk feel like that little like that little all right on the knee. You know. I'm like, we can slim the top and you know what I

mean right now right there? Um So I think, honestly, I think and I always think this, and I really feel this way, and it sounds cliche, but I really do think the sexiest thing about me is my personality. Like if I feel like that's what sells the body, does that make sense? Like I feel like it's the attitude that I talk about that all the time when I was on everything was old bitch. I'll walk into a room and it don't matter that I'm a big bitch.

I would walk into the room and because would be with like these build a body girls, and as soon as I start talking, they would want me. When I when I get into all that, you don't want to talk. It would have a good profile though profile is shit. How do you how did you get comfortable with As women, we believe we have to lead with our looks? Right, yeah, how did you get comfortable with leaning and feeling so confident with your personality? Because as women we believe looks

come first. A lot of women don't feel like they're personality matters these nis at all. A lot of times to Joe like this, I've seen it, and I'm like, why she ain't gotta do not boring? Like and she was just that should be crazy to me. I've seen a couple of times. Now, I got so many plea friends I'm like, looking at I'm like, wow, Mama, yeah, I get it. I get hit the life that you're looking heavy. I'll be honest, it unintentional that that happened

to me. I just started to realize in my life that the damn personality overshadow, Like I feel like I could look like whoever we could think and imagine whoever is the hottest damn person in the world is. I feel like I could look like them, and that with overshadow, my personality overshadow the looks. I think, no matter what, my personality is always the biggest thing about me so so because of that, I never had a chance to rest on my looks because everybody would always compliment me

for something else. You're so funny over I love how dramatic you are, so no one ever compliment me. No, ain't nobody ever could ask fat once I'm online alright, speaking of here we go, here we go, question we ask? I remember reading through this and people are like, you gotta ask the main question. I was like, I feel so bad, but do you if you had to? He'd asked you had to pick one if you don't do them already, So exbody guns my head and gave me just I'm not good. I mean I have no um

transgressions or hate towards Tsson Salad. I mean, I think you know this. This the choice I'm gonna make. It is not because I think there's something wrong with Tyson Salad. And I want you how to know that. I want you how to know they need not care. If you don't want to, I'm gonna ahead and do them soul. Have you ever been when a guy that had a foot fetish? Never been a guy that had a foot fetish, you know, But I'm gonna let you something know somewhere. Now I take this boot off and show you to

these stocks. You're gonna have a foot fetish and you have hid everybody that I've seen these faith always a gas Wait do the gag on it? Do they put their your whole foot in their mouth? I gotta big gas foot, but oh bit, just be do you have a staircase toe? Like? Does it go like this? Or is the long one? When I tell you my ship even you can see all my nails, y'all know that that's a big deal. You don't see any nails even

the baby foe. Okay, now now one going and they're like a little thick, so they're not like, you know, not to slip. It's like, do you know this is the richest thing you said? I don't have one. Nothing's wrong? You can I ask you because it was something that that happened to me when I was living in the Bronx and I only in the Bronx. Niggas will be like, yo, can I take a picture of your feet? Have you

ever been walking with some slides? And niggas stopped I'm sure wicky feet and requested somebody did it on like the carpet They took a picture of my feet. Wait again, you have a getty images of your fitty images, I try to tell, trying to take and because the feet it ain't. I didn't choose this life. So then let me go. So there, let me ask you. What is the thing that turns you on most about a man? Oh? My god? Yes, but hey, I'm gon saying that I know what I hate and got everybody what I handled

should be. Don't do good? Okay, I see I hate that guy? Who is it? Just this guy? This is to me talking, I'm gonna be the guy O game Okaye? Good? I like them shoes, so for really, thank you? Rude? Are you free this way? You're the man? Bro, I'm being y'all. Don't know this guy? Everybody that personality. I suck that nigga every time I have sex. So wait, so you you like like that guy? I like the goofy guy. Wait give us the many wait wait wait, start over, start over, give us the man that you

hate right now? This is the man I hate, y'all to talk to. Yes, basically, we're calling you. I'm gonna be hancil plans and you gotta leave me a voice message. Hey, hey, what's up? Look? Look are you mad at me? I mean, let me see you, let me let me face. I want to see I want I gotta see your face. Hold on, hold hold, hold wa wa get up, wait wait wait wait wait, get us up, hold on, hold on, wait one moment, FaceTime ree, go ahead, bitch and see.

I know I canceling everything. You're mad at me. You're mad at me? Great, some do that. Don't do that. My mom and m called mom and called. I had to go over there and make sure she was good. You know how it is. You know how this is work, Sam, But I'm gonna see ship. When are you gonna see me? Though? What time is he ship? I gotta be somewhere in five am. But I can come over it right now. I come over right now, and you stay for it. I just told like the cool guy, you know what

I'm saying. The guy that's like that gives you the bare minimum and and he's just too cool. What's normally the profession, any profession I'll be honest, anyone in the industry, in the industry, any guy in the industry. And y'all know my personality. I'm like, what's up? Maybe like, hey, Kei. I like what you did, right, I can't communicate with this with that normal the wait, the way he gives you the bare minimum and he's like cool and I'm gonna come over and you take what I can give you.

So then on the flip side, what lets you know and for all the women listening to, well, let's you know when a when a man is really interested in you. Okay, So so the guy that I'm interested in period is the guy that's not afraid to look stupid. Now, and I'm not talking about the guy that's like, I'm goofrey, and he's not the guy that's really like awkward and has a has a huge sex. Know. I think people try to be too damn quaft and too I don't like what I think. I think you're just right up

a goddamn boy. I'm just trying to pick you what they're trying to be too smooth, like I'm not looking. But let me ask you something. You said something to me at dinner the other day, and I keep thinking about when you said you were talking about someone. You said he acted like he didn't know me, and they they'd be liars and that'd be fraud. But That's the thing though, when someone that was what can they because I remember I interviewed someone that was like yo, someone

super fans out that's too much. But if someone is a fan of your work, are you okay? I'm okay because I look, especially if you're black, I know you don't seen something something at the bare minimum, I was just the man made him with Medea and you might not bring we're not breaking up. Stop popping that. God, I understand, but like god, damn video. They probably oh my god, that crying one. That was one's been making this round on the Twitter anyhow. You've been making your

wrong on this Twitter. And I just told you that before we started, Like bitch kidten, they not keep recycling you. I'm leaving for it. I'm hey, y'all, you know it's your girl. Anyway back to it. I feel like, what was your question? Dam We're be gonna so many places. This is a d D podcast, Okay, So basically let's just scratch that. If a guy wants to hear on you, can you answer a d M. What'sh the way? So you asked about the fame level. Yeah, if a guy's like, yo,

I really you'll be doing your thing. Girl. I'm not gonna hold you do anything. I don't want to do all that, but you'll be doing your thing that I think is a natural vibe. Like you could. You could shout me out, you can say yo, you'll be doing your thing and leave it at that. And it's not you know too much? You know okay. If a guy wants to get at me, this is a it's a hard game. I'm a virgo at the end of the day. You gotta be because if you go too much, I'm

not waiting real quick. I'm not a starry. The moon's as bitch. You just brought up a goddamn burgo. What the hell does somebody have to do for a virgo? Very nicky, sad true burgers are very finicky because they want somebody else can chase them and be all up on them. But at the same time, don't be thirsty, don't expect too much for me. Like it's very weird the level you have to be with that. You have to be willing to tell us you want us. But

then when we say I'm not ready yet, you gotta be. Also, all the menalists and there like y'all bitches, don't know what y'all want, and we we like, we like like because what happens is you'll see somebody like they're fine, and then you'd like, but do I like it for real? And then you have to get a couple of more talks and conversations in before you can like them for real. But you want to make sure that they like you before you even know if you can let yourself like them.

Where you meeting somebody out the gate? What is the immedia turn off? Want? I meant somebody out the gates in the media, the media turn off the cool guy trying to touch and feel me too much? Don't it's not giving consent. And it's just I don't want to feel your sexual energy so quick. I don't want to feel it. Let's get back into sexual energy you. I would love into that. Have you ever had a whole phase?

What do you consider a whole phase? Like what do people mean when they say when we talked about but you still have I like been single and just enjoyed it, Like just the whole phase is when like maybe you've had a one night stand here too or you could toss a guy to the side. It's not too much day and you're really exploring. I've tosked some guys to the side. I've never done the one night stand only because I'm I'm so scared of it. Like yeah, but

that's that's what I really mean. Like, can you have a whole phase as Key Palmer? I mean you could do it, but it's just about like, and I'll be honest, I'm a very you know, I like, obviously I can like somebody just based on how they look. I'm not blind, but I in order to get comfortable and sexual because I'm very like, you know, I can be what what what is that girl away? Copd is making? Shut up?

What the fun is that? Quit? I'm not. I'm not actually like I don't actually jump into a sexual personal I'm not. I'm not that girl. It's gonna be like so what's good. I could do it in the acting role, you know, like, but I'm not gonna be that girl that's like come on here, Like, I'm not gonna be like that. From zero and there, I needed to be a rocky rag. I needed to be like we're laughing, like I'm gonna stop stop and the like yeah, way to be yes, Yeah, Now, somebody gotta sense of humor,

watch out because they're gunning fun. So can I ask you the hand? He's all I feel like the funnier niggas be ugliest fuck like. But that's all right, you're like an ugly nigga. I'm fine with media uglies. It's really okay. As long as you've got a good attitude about you and you've got a good you know, you got a good attitude about you. I really would love some hype. We can't have you, okay, So what is the queen? Wait? Wait, waiting, and let's go back to

hype birth of this side? No, let's say go back to Dick. Are you a side queen? She said? I want to kick Sam, So I think I think this is the thing right. Size could be great, But do you know what you're working with, brother, because I don't want you just slamming some ship on. That's a bit much, you know you you I don't care about I care more so about the delicacies of the arrangement. I need, I need things to be comfortable. I can't stand the way you talk kick, and I wanna I want to

jump over next week. You think gonna be like the way Kiki the delicacy of the arrangement. It's true. I don't by the way, I got this made up just today and I really love it. Well. One of our segments here on the show is and we would love to know if you have any sex or dating tips to anyone listening, because you do want to do it. Maybe you stay in relationship for the last couple of years. We see you, bitch, we see you on the room

shape bit, So how do you be landing them? By the way, when you end up on the shade room. I don't know if there's any other black person in America that we don't care what you do. We we hit you, and we'll be here for I really really love my community for that, because one thing they're gonna do. Even they dragged me every down, then that's normal. That's how we love each other. They'll be like, we always

have my back. Now that's say you get draped what you've been dragged for last I mean, I really don't. I mean I think everybody gets dragged, you know, everybody, And I've been dragged on and I'm like, oh my god, they dragged me. But I'm just saying everybody, if you don't get dragged by the community. You're not love you know who you were? Honestly, it's checking us a compliment. They paid attention. Yeah, that's true. So you know I'm cool with it because you sounded like a fifty seven

year old right now. I can pay attention. They do it nor folks. It's like, damn, they can't even get your attention. You know I can't. Okay, So what would be your tips women day or wanting to land aman or even in the bedroom, what has been something that's worked for you? Wow? So I'll say for the bedroom, say what you want, say what you need, say if it doesn't feel right, if you want to do that, just be honest, because I think um Horn has really

ruined our ideas of sex. And I think for years, like I realized, you know, wow, the what what I was, what I was doing before, wasn't even really experiencing anything. It was like I was just going through the motions of something I wasn't actually actively being intimate with that

person I was with. It was almost just like a flesh to flesh engagement as opposed to wow, we were actually communicating and talking and for having an enjoyment with one another, like that I could laugh right now, I can say, now, boy, what was you trying to do with that? And we have said that before? Have you said that before? Yeah? I'm like, now, now you know

that got weird there. Let's walking around like I love to be normal, but I think I always felt like everything had to be so beautiful that I can't do this serious ship. And so I think I think that's me because I know there's somebody out there that's like, yo, I'm serious, and I think that's that's great too, but

not for you, but not for me. And so I think if yours is not like that, if yours is a little bit weird or that or whatever you think it is, it's okay because it's yours, and that's how you're gonna find your right partner instead of trying to think you gotta beat somebody. So that's what I think about the sex one, and for the dating and stuff.

I mean, it's different things, y'all. Because if you want to be single and you're just trying to get laid, there's a couple of things for that, and then if you want to actually get you a partner, there's a couple of things for that. So let's let's get into that one. So we talked about this partner, Well, how do you lead when you're intentional about dating? Boof being intentional about dating, I think is first of all, not dating somebody that you know doesn't follow follow along the criteria.

And what I mean by that it's not not being judged. Excuse me, it's a pH nine point five like water that the mic um. I think that when you're intentioning with dating, it should be that person should be at least uh, how can I say this, like this should be somewhat what you truly want to end up with.

You can't be like, I'm trying to be serious and I want to have a new situation with somebody that i'm with and then get with somebody with three kids, you know, because it's kind of like that's probably gonna be different. And even if it's one kid. You know what I'm saying, it's just like, if that's not what you if you be ready for whatever you ask for. So if you're gonna get serious with somebody at a

someone what you thing? Because three kids? If you're in your forties and meet someone with three kids, that's you know why, because you probably already have kids as well, and that's different. I just think you need to find somebody that your lifestyles can match with. A lot of times we say we're serious and we're intention with dating, but then we find somebody that's like they don't have

a visa, you know, you know whatever. It is like we we we don't really was like and we're like, but I love off them, and it's like, girl, you don't want to see that girl. He's a selling he can't go to Canada. It is his fault. He got

a feminy do what I mean? His reason? Like it's like you really don't you We really sometimes say we want to be intentional with dating, but like the dating we're doing is actually like we're just doing anything, you know well, and we're hoping that eventually we can change whoever we find attraction to to be. That's when we want them to be. When the dick is good, he I was telling the bullshit. I like, broth kick, Here's why I have a job. When your dick is that palm? Why?

But I want to know, But that's already I'm scared because because now you're gonna and why is it like that? Why is it like that because you're not home at do we need to start the only things do we need? But why is you? Can I do that? That's the job? Would you do the parson that? Would you ever do that with him? On? The only thing? Would you ever make a tape with a person? Can't coming your way through you? I didn't have a question. I wanted to

come back to. Can has definitely been something that's sucked us all up. But when you've watched porn, When you do watch porn, what what do you type in? I only like I only like girl on girl porn because it's nice and beautiful and everything the arrangement, and I don't like all that. I don't like all that rough stuy, Hey real quick, are you hoop me? You're trained this misch before she came in continue. I think we've been

play something with the delicacies of the arrangement. I think that's the gag is But you know what's back to gag? Where we coast the gag? Okay? I want to because I think that over the years you've been sexier, Like when you're starting to wow, it's like no, no, no, you got you started again? Like the glasses on bit was a sexy and the kid's sexy. Now swe Women's healthy with sexy the Glamor mag he was sexy and what's my favorite pick? I told you with the white

Talk you're note premier. Oh yes, I love that. So when you look at sexy and they're ready to giddy, are you normally like the sub girl? Do you like to be told what to do? Ye? You are? Yeah, because I'm already bossy in real time. I don't need me up, you know what I mean? I feel like definitely when I'm an intimate space was someone I'm very much so like at your service? Who have you ever done? Role play? Yes? What kind? I need to know? Fol script,

I'm going to come on actor. Honestly, it turns into a wrong con. I really do enjoy it, Like, Wow, who knew that I'd see you at the high school reunion? And then he'll say he's lying, let's she did the me you Okay, I did not expect to see you at the high school you what's been going on? I mean, you know, I've actually come into my sexuality. I found out I'm a lesbian. Really, I did ki well me and I mean I think I felt that in high

school with you, I never mentioned it. I always had feelings and thoughts, but I just thought to myself, you know what, like she never be into me? And is this is why you called me over to hang? I mean I wasn't. Look, I can't do it. See what I mean? If I was thought to be ready to be like, well, the bathroom is over there, I was ready, Well you should come over. I would love to show you how I make dirty, extra dirty, all of martinis in my crib. You know this is this is pony,

This is bony. But the act at home. But but no in terms of being like, in terms of engaging with women, so you would prefer someone a little less aggressive. So to me, you seem like someone and who would not be aggressive at all. But also where I would be more direct in tone, like because you're not going to teeth me all night, because I ain't got time, I think I can give more of that stem energy. So it's somewhere in between. Okay, So then, but well

in the way that someone then hits on you. Of course, with women, it could be different. Some women loves someone who's more direct. Others like someone who's more shy. I like them to be directed and now this had though it's unfair because I don't like if I don't like with guys same girls you can touch do with touch, it can be. I'm cool with the girl off girls making a move and she's trying to get me into

the vibe. I'm cool with that being like stop and just hugging me for no reason because I'm like, I know what that means. I know what that means. You like you have my hand a little bit too long, I know what that means. So I'm cool with with with girls if they're that, If that's a level of aggression, I'm cool with. But if it goes to the level aggression being like, so what's up, oh ship, that spooks me?

Why why does that spook you? From a woman and man? Guys? Well, and it's weird to mean to me, I'm actually the opposite because I've dealt with so many women where girl still play a lot, but girls played too much, girls tolay or not like like And so to me, the playing I would rather know out front because I play a lot. To them, No guys will suck a chicken sandwich, so like to me, like literally, they don't be playing you know what they want with women, though, it's like

I would actually prefer knowing. Are you just starting with me or do you actually like women? I feel you want to feel me, so I understand the directness, but it's just it's just like man, with that directness, you could break the moment. So it's like it's just a teeter tytery game moment. Better end up like can have a song and dance? Yeah? Yeah, I want a song and dancing now. I want to know if we can get into some terms. I just really very curious to

see how much you know about kink. I won't know how much because King has some ranges, guys, so let's get into it. This one an easy one, okay. Tea bagging. Tea bagging is when the balls go bun. Cuck holding, that's what said again. Cuck holding is that when you watch your girl do something with somebody else, good golden shower, passing on you, passing on you. A rim job. A rim job is when you lick in the around the booty the boot A pro necklace is when you give

her pro necklace. Right, no, no, no, what what is the pro necklace? That's delicacy is the arrangement when they come a fluid and it it ends up hanging on your net. This one is one net your team didn't know which I love very snowballing. Oh damn, y'all stop me. Damn. I thought everybody with the frank okay snow was white. Yeah, I know, it's I know. It's got to do with to fig out the ball. It's the balling that's thrown me off. Just tell me. It's basically, when a dude ejaculates,

you can come into your mouth and y'all make out. No, he spits it into your mouth like there's a whole, Like it's not just looking out, bro, But like I don't know what it is. No, I just thought it was like you can't know, But you back and say, it's like, it's how do you get to that level? I want to know? Not even spinning? Not even spinning? How do you? How do late you ready? Keeping you ready? No? You ready? You ready? With the road plate? Is how

you're going? Because I've been there many times kicking. How do you ask? Oh baby, I let it so so they're from the back. Can you come to mouth when I want you to come to the mouth so much? And so then my mom was and on and then time I'm like, he's like and so he moved out and I'm like uh, and I'd be like uh, and then I keep it and I'd be like, in my mom, stay right there, and then I lean over him. You don't performed my biggest this? How is that so performed?

I don't understand make sure of this. First off, I had the performance and seen bitch, you didn't you? That was very good? And it's like you better swallow nick. I don't understand how you would taste good? Right, you better be we know who's called writing home and tell season dude, Oh my god, you better be healthy and have the performance, has the performance stature? How it gets there? I just didn't. So she's saying, how do you get to that? That man? How do you get you? How

does it? Just? Let me just last? What do you think is the nasty thing you're in too? Honestly, gods, I think my sheet is a must be wag because I don't mean nothing crazy. You know what it is because I'm I'm I got a person. That's how I don't got a person that's like what else your intimated your intimate? I'm cool with that, but I don't don't

know how we get fair. I don't. I just said it's also so so happy, it is so nice, and everything is just like all right, all right, it's like a little bit of chalk I can feel, But like, how does it gets up when you're like, because you know what, get there and I get there by like you letting this person know I love every single thing

about you. It is like I don't lick this in between his nigga's toes, so of course I can take your slive in my mouth and your cum should go back into yours and we love each other fully, you know what. You know how they say like blood brothers when you like you cut each other opening you you just bit thing that is given the craft. So shears something. I think that's basic. Okay. Hotel sex maybe on the

balcony public, but not so public. Are you into that or do you feel like do you think like my coming right on that balcony like just huge your mind because be real point, I do like a good like we on the balcony, people coming back. I think the public kind of think it could be quite fun. It could be quite fun, depending on where you're doing it at it could be quite where you do it. You know. I really love the vibes of like being out of the way, like you know, Joshua Tree, you know, I

like to go out and that's hot. Just I don't know who rode here with you? Ki Man. I love the outdoor in the middle of in the middle of you saw or know what it is? Bitch, that's where? Bitch? What are you say? Okay because the buffs be driving out there, like hey, all right, let's get the listener questions. Gosh, listeners ask We already talked about how fame and navigating relationships role play. Um oh, this one I like in film? How awkward are the intomy's intimacy scenes have you had?

Very awkward? They're weird because ain't nobody doing that. That means like, you know, we're just like trying to hold ourselves up and you know, trying to get the right position, you know what I mean. Like, I think the most fun love scene that I had, please was with the girl from Pimp. We had a blast Rihanna, you know baby, this is what your gang was and we were just having a ball ball we both were. I was like, you ain't got to be scared. Girl. I was like,

she's like you don't either. I'm like, let's kill it, girl, And we just started making out and it was just like a foint that I'm rolling around. It was just I really enjoyed it. It was the most fluid type of quote unquote love scene that I had, and I feel like I really love The other ones are very like can I can I ask you? Because even because they want to be in terms of even seen an out scene. So you know you're a fucking actor to the fucking court, but you also can fucking sing. Have

you ever seduced the man with your vocals? Yes? And what did you sing? And can I can I hear how you seduce them? Well, it's not even like I would sing to them. I would just do stuf where it's like, you know, will we be kicking? I'm like you know that one song like like do something whenever and I'm like you can sing and I'm like, yes, you know, And then their hood they're like, she's sallenged.

People love challenge. Don't love any type of like even if you even if you could juggle somebody and be like wow, people love to see you do something. The people love it, love it. Yo, You're right, and that's why I do the most Conflix after a lot. But that's also why I would never did an R and B thing. You're not gonna sing here and get me. You're not gonna get me. That's the thing. When you were when you were also into the singing, you can tell I know what you're doing. So, I mean because

I'm like, I do that trick. Okay, I think the last question, We've got one more. What would it be this? Yeah, I didn't ask myne. I didn't ask mine, all right, I know mine kicking. If you had a podcast, what would it be about? Okay, it would be about all It would be about diving into all the all crazy type of ship ship like you know, what the hell is time from my space? It would be like it's time all right for me? Wait? Is he really? Yeah? Absolutely?

You you matched him? Or was it my home girl? Dad? No, I feel like that's a serial killer. They'be using Pike picture. Y'all both know what home really is? Better? Um, it would be about just my I would curious, I would I would support my curiosity. So it would just be about any type of weird, deep subject from metaphysics to sexuality,

to psychology, to any category. It would just be about all these different things I would have obviously, you know, I think I really would love to talk to experts and people that would like just wound me with the information. They know that I could just you know, pick their brain about any topic. But I would just want to be curious about all this, like I'm very I'm a very curious person. You said I would want to be

the black woman Joe broke. Great, that's pretty much like that's literally and it's cool because he got a hundred million dollar deal, so of course you would want to go for I would want to see you in a space where people have to teach you something you don't know. I feel like watching you, watching you and on YouTube, just sitting there being like, what would be the best? All right, now, tell everybody where they can watch the TV the shows that you're in. No's over here doing

hands seed media. I don't, but I really need you all to know that this is really fun and enjoyable, and next time you do what The only thing I would say is, you know, I would love at your coolery board just right there, because when we I would just that's one thing. I'll bring it the next time because I really want to eat with y'all too and laugh with y'all. Can we do if we did episode me back for that would be so much fun. I would love that. I would do it. I'm not gonna lie.

I would do what'd I said, stop doing that, like, let's make it the director clear right now. I never been to a fan, you know, That's how you said. I just want to do it correctly. I heard you speaking Spanish, kicking you you did anyway, looking, I really love this time. Honestly, I've actuallyised that I had to leave because I love all this stuff. You know, You're great,

You're k and real quick too. I do just want to say for those people who have not ran into you publicly, like you were at our new at our l A Life show, and when I ran into you BT Awards, you embraced me and you were always you you. You were always the same energy. And I know people like famous people be really weird. You have always held the same energy every time I've seen you, every time we've been in the same room, And so anyone watching who maybe like that's my home girl, I hope she's

really like this. You have literally been the same energy every time we've been in the same room, and I just wanted to be sure that the public knew that you were that girl. Oh my gosh, seriously I saw the guy like you you really are, just because these bit should be weird and you're not so like. Just to make sure everyone who was watching this know that you your this cool. We'd be shocked. I love y'all. Well, happen me back. I'm here for the monk bonk and

when you come to New York, let's go. Oh my gosh, that's what I thought we was doing this, So we do that. We was a little time. Yeah, so glad that, y'all. We can't have you of the arrangement anyway. I um, you can catch key TV. It's free, okay, no subscription nothing. You tune, Facebook, all of the stuff. Check the key TV network Instagram page for any information, and you know you could catch your girl everywhere all at once, like the movie Give where I mean, I'm a Hulu. Um,

now we're gonna look Patreon. No, thank you so much, so so so very much, y'all. Make sure y'all support this queen wherever the fun she acts, she is that girl, and we are so appreciative to having you here on Harvard. I love keep killing it and I love those live shows very very because there up there, I host the Home Hotel after show on key TV AM I on their howing No, but I made every single actor uncomfortable. Thank you guys for tuning in to get another episode

of Horrid Blair. This is That's the next time by car when I knew that they could just take my car and charge it instead of me parking, and I was like, oh, I want to live here, but wait for you. Did you have like a tesla? Yeah? Um, that's amazing. I didn't know. Wait Columbia Square, would you do that? Or the place that? So I almost moved in, but then I kind of wanted to live in a house and its probably I liked so so cute though Columbia Squirrel. I love it so five of my best skirts.

It's right here. Yeah, I was like three minutes away, okay, per ready h um. So Mandy starts it off by saying it's bonus beach, but I can't say it with our inflections, So now I feel like I failed. So I would like to say we never really have white guests, So I'm gonna get right, we don't pumpkin spice. Well, Mandy loves that, you know what it is? Though we actually yesterday I was thinking about that. I went to a Spotify dinner and I was the only black girl there.

There was a lot of Asian girls, no Latina's, and I was like, oh my god, there's so many podcasters I want to have on, but also like, are my followers? And I think our listeners gonna think we sold out. So we have a white guest, they have to actually be really interesting, so no pressure, but then tell us

the nun ship. Actually I'm trying to think who it's really just because our podcast started on the premise of having sex talk for black people, right, and over the years, um, I mean, we've had guests that we felt like, okay, we've got to have them. But it's moreover because the conversations that were happening before horrible for me when I was listening to sex podcasts, weren't necessarily relative to my life. So I just wanted stories. I felt like things that

actually happened to me, whether it be. But now white girls were clippings and stuff, so that was my main thing. It was like, you know, oh, how do I explain my wing or my ponytail? And like all my white friends, now where we do you? Uh? No? But sometimes no tape ins, nothing not right? Now? Give got something? What's the blackest thing you do? Um? Oh my gosh, you know I did so I did? Uh And then I was making out with a guy and he felt the back of my hair and he was like, what is that?

And when I stopped, that's so big. I got busted and I was like, oh man, but it looks so good. Everybody does it. It looks so good. It looks so healthy and so like full and I know and also like if you get the right kind that are good enough for your hair, like the protectives to anyway, Okay, I won't get into because we should be talking about sex.

But we have Katie in the house. When I say owner and creator of the company, and it's called La Lavinia, Yes, every time I like I'm reading it, I think of, like, where did that come from? So she's like a Roman mistress? Okay, it's from a movie. Who's the famous Lavinia? It's like she's like a Roman mistress, like a goddess like it's from mythology. Why that become it's become like a popular first name too, okay, but why Roman mistress for the

end of a I do. I actually keep trying to keep that on the download because I don't want to trigger anybody. So sometimes they say, like mistress, yeah exactly. Everybody who listens to this has probably been one at some point. But yeah, what's lavinia? So yeah, so it was just a sex god basically. Um, I mean your company that we're still talking about the name, um So, our whole goal is to enhance people's sex life through cannabis. So all of the products that we're working on are

exclusively designed to do that. We launched last year with the silicone based lubricant, and then we're working on some really exciting products where we're hand some we're an R and D for some anal sex products R and D research and development R and D. Oh wow, yeah no, No, that's if you don't know what R and D is, you don't know whatever. Um, but if you'd like to try out the product, you can and give us feedback that entally. But like also at the same time, I

do like smoking and sex. I've done like I don't know. I've had a lot of experiences with cannabis and sex. Some are good, some are bad. But I have heard of THHD and fused products. I just never I don't know. I never use them, but I'd be willing to try to love. I have a new partner and we are using condoms, so oh great, I need help. Great. Um. Cannabis is a vaso dilator, which essentially means that and increases blood flow. So you know, like when you smoke

weed and sometimes your eyes turn red. Basically the blood vessels are actually increasing in size and the blood flow is increasing as a result, and so the same thing happens. You're asking you are we are we talking about? You know? I'm just thinking where do I really need to be opened up and dilated