Ep 291: I've Never Swallowed (Ft. Flame Monroe)

I feel like I first watched you on the Breakfast Club, but then I could not believe my mama was like flame from the news. I'm like what you talking about? And I absolutely loved your energy. I met you for the first time when we did the Black Effect Show with eighty five Stuth and you hosted. I think I think I'm still half from that. Had so much smoke up and there I thought it was a fire. One shut my boy Chico being in Carlo Smiller and DC. You'll d you too young for me? You have an

age like I just d I was just joking. I was like, oh, oh wait, you would go off the way down to twenty one go out with Yeah? No, no, no, you didn't ask me right? Dat did you say? Do I have an age requirin on a day to tw What we're gonna talk about? You? Right? I mean, there ain't much to talk about that damn show, ain't nothing to talk about. But what's the room number? Do you prefer in cal out col um? I don't know what that means? And do you prefer to to somebody number

that means you're going out? Do you prefer to go to day house or do you prefer them to come h tor house. I'd like us to meet at at at a neutral place, a hotel. Oh you really? Are you a hotel girl? Okay? Well I got kids at home? Say you know what I mean? And you left? Yeah, I'm still the day. I know I looked like a gorgeous mother, but I'm still ad just not a mother of children. I'm a motherfucker. I need to give it to y'all, not mother. I'm to go out, it's just

to go out. Well, I wanted to start off with a quick ice rerecord, not like we have to warm you up. But we're gonna get there just a little bit. I want already wanted to hear me standing and let me just put them on blast. Let me in the heat for twenty minutes, because the buzz that didn't work today. Now mind you, it worked yesterday, but it didn't work today. I'm just saying, O transphobia. I know you joking. No, you didn't. We said we need somebody, we need flames.

You know you know who's very mad at us. Uh. Non binary people aren't really fucking with Explain that terminology to me. You gotta explain it easy, because you know they don't know me. From what I've learned from talking to non binary people and I work with a few of them, they don't feel male or female, and so they haven't figured out what gender is theirs, and so

they they have decided their non binary. So let me ask this question when you let me, let me simplify to the world, because you can identify as this vase, this chair, or my ask when you go to bed with somebody, do you want some penis or some vagina? You see how easy that is. You can want both. But that's more sexuality, not identity. That is I want some dick or some pussy or I want both. They made it, they made it difficult. I know who I am,

I know what I desired. You know what you desire sexuality. Gender is a fact. Identity is how you feel, but sexuality is what you desire. Right, So I identify as a transperson. I enjoyed the vagina like you wouldn't believe. But and my, my, my, my gender is I was born, my verses, my birth certificate says sex, male, black, everything else out that came became in life. I created that

or it was already in me. So it's gonna come anyway. See, they're making it so difficult with all the muddy in the waters, with all these l g they have stolen the entire alphabet, except you know everything is an acronym. Well no, then you'll tell you to say no. And isn't that that's the only thing that's left. Everything else BBT a air party, LGBT, uh l l BT, And

it's ridiculous. And I know we're tired of the LGBT converse, Q conversation, but I will say that I do think we've got to have more grace for like people that are older generation because people that are non buying, I get very angry about mis gendering them. And it's like, there, you just said there is no gender. They don't identify as anything. So what am I supposed to call you nothing? You're nothing. You just said that. They said that they

don't identify as male or as female. So when I see a non boundary person, hey, nothing, because you're nothing. And that's not a read, that's not a dig. I'm only going on what you just explained. You're working with the right one to day you love. I won't get to that. Yeah, icebreak, Yeah, let's go to the icebreaker. Icebreak at first, spit or swallow for a female on a female? What do you everything? I've never I've never swallowed.

I've never swallowed. You never swallowed ever ever? Wait, I mean if he's kind of all right, No, no, I've never swallowed, You've never swallowed. I'm not baby sitting your kids. Your kids, I got that's called babysitting. I don't baby sit. Goodness, Oh wow, I'm not gonna oh millions nine. I love swallowing. I actually crave it. But actually maybe recently I'll get back to you. So I actually like to put it in my mouth and then put it back in yours.

So how are you gonna complain before the show talking about you're not gonna cull your head because what was on your sheets? Okay, you've had way worship on your sheets, and I watched it and it come out, come out, that comes says I do like, what do you prefer for you with with your partners? For them? For them? Oh I can't even bust off here. They ain't gonna do not for me. I'm not gonna catch old school seventies nigger. I must be in a trade to the end. Do you do you like? Do you like to pull

out and see it on them? Like? Do you like come shot? Space shots? My soldiers are still launching. So if I know you ain't on the peel and playing B is unavailable, I'm gonna have to play be is always available. I pull out game as a motherfucker right now, right now. Oh yeah, I got much better than last than last two kids. Was damn I was weak. It was we magnificent because I know I want the children. Okay, Well, with sex, would you rather have sex the only last

three minutes or only three hours? Huh? Oh? Yeah? Do you like, would you rather have sex you have the big three minutes or three hours? I can do the three hours. You like to go along time for three minutes. That's the only to set up. The head needs to be about seven to seven to ten minutes with of head. Yeah, well, I'm saying what I'm getting, not what I'm giving. You asked me what I prefer and I am the dominant

person in the bed room for the three hours. Can you go multiple rounds or you think you can hold it for them three hours? Oh? No, I can go multiple rounds. My my session is usually my straight penetration section. Usually it's a good thirty minutes minute that's straight. That's a good amount, and that's position changing and talking my ship and want to look at it. That's not your lady. You know what's funny about you saying that. My last question was would you rather have sex with someone that

stays completely still or someone who stays completely silent? Now comy, No, don't do that. Some people pillow princesses. I don't understand that. Like I don't write somebody didn't enjoy Kim Kardashian and pillow princes ship both sexes. Have you ever seen a good celebrity sex tape, Like is the one that you actually did? Like what's the Irish? The black girl who's the act after Connor to somebody I know with the dark hair? Did not see this one. I didn't talk

ship to that black girl. Magic, Yes he did. That was a good one. That was probably the best. That's all like in the Saint so everty sex, No, that was a good one. Put it on and he had him. Baby. I'm telling you know who watched that tape and learned? Prince Harry because whatever, Magan guy, she could change that nigga man, I love you, Magan mark change. I want what you got. You know what, jay Z cheated. I don't want the watch man. I don't want the man

kept cheating on her and shot her. I don't want that coach. You don't want that coach. Riana might have some good pussy because here's the thing. Okay, she did get the print. The billionaire who did Brihanna stop? Rocky ain't now but he's fine though, fine and broke what were you broke? Flame? I didn't say he was wrong with y'all said a billion No he not. She'd be all talking about prince, that Arabian guy way back. Yeah, he didn't marry her, so she ain't got the good

good that Megan got. The ring did you listen to me honestly say if you like you put a ring on? I know, put a ring on, but I left many rings around it. You know what? You know what? You know what? Again? I say, whatever, Magan Gap, I didn't know that. I'm really surprised you want a sexange. I don't. Oh, I said, if if and my boyfriend, my ex workfriend, you said it was a fifth, we'd all be drunk. Not now for the listeners, they just heard you say

ex boyfriend. But we know you love pussy. Let's talk about what I have. I have always enjoyed what I enjoyed. I've never let nobody tell me what I could or could not do. Who I was when I was I lost my virginity to a brother and sister in the same three days to her first he heard us in the room, and three days later me and he was together when I was fifteen or sixteen? Wait one moment did they find out what happened when they found down?

He was really clearly he knew, But what happened when she found out, and she said, I knew he was gonna be a freak. I knew he was gonna be a freak. She told me that. Wait, she found out down the line like years later, years for like two weeks the project stop. Both experiences were great, okay, and my me being with him, I didn't get penetrated. We just fond, you know, did things that boys do. So because I didn't actually have penetration until I was like seventeen,

I was a junior in high school. And I want to ask you that too, because you actually said you good on dick, like you don't even want it? No, I don't. I have no design for I got my own dick. Oh that makes sense, But i'd been wanting plus even though I got my own plussy, do you get you something? Sometimes? Oh? I love me some pussy, and so you pussy. It is what again? Sexuality is what you desire and then you may not. Of course, for three months, I do, I do it first. Yes,

That's what I'm saying. It is a desire. That's why they keep putting all these labels on everything. How do you feel? It is nobody's business how you feel and what you want. But until you tell them. When you tell other people, you have brought other people into your being room, my being room secrets, my being room secrets, and my partners and we have, don't you know what

I'm curious about? Two? Because to date trans men obviously fulfills the desire of you, And you said you love masculine men like you remember you talking about men with us when you were first dating. Was it more difficult because nowadays it's a lot easier for us to meet trans men and get into relationships. Well, my trans men did not become very popular into maybe the last ten twelve years with a lot of women. They were very masculine and study. They still had their boots And I

love frests. I don't like big breaks. I like I like very small people, some little bitty booties, because I've only that would have had sex with a big girl one time. Wrong with nothing's wrong with it, just was not for me. But it makes sense too because you also said you're very dominant, very dominant, And I'm not a navel watcher. I'm not gonna search for your navel if I can't rub it right there, I'm not gonna

look forward. I'm not gonna And if y'all think that's fat shaming, that's not such a thing as fat because here's it is the same time it takes to get it on, it's the same time it takes to put it on. That's not that shaming. You're gonna want. You want to lose the weight you exercise, you want to gain the way you keep eating. Y'all keep eating, slave slave, Give what you need, cash your check. She makes the money. We spend the same bit, say the same thing is

what we're going. So back to ten twelve years. You're right transmitted, we're talking. You feel like this is it for me? Finally? Yeah, because I don't care what people think when we're walking down the street, that I'm a gay man, or that that you'll gay that's your boyfriend. I don't care what you think. It's not your business to me how you feel and what you My presentation is this so and I have me and lusted after me. Hear me when I tell you you're never gonna get

a win. If there is not a vaginity in the room, nothing will happen, including me. Stand have you had a lot of transmitt that you've dated struggle with being no touch or not being comfortable being penetrated, Like, have you had to work through that? Absolutely not. You know exactly what you're getting when you come to my restaurant. You see what's on the menu. Everything comes with a pickle, everything not. Everything come with a state, comes with a per Eggs come with a pickle. No insane and I

love it. I'm eating this up. Hey girl, you better be over there with the tom stamps like a motherfucker. Damn goddamn well. I wanted to get a starlit ship and this will get us a little bit some more talk to get back to the trend. So and I think what has happened with transpant because transmanting, I'm not out here screaming and yelling for acceptance and see me and here transmit a chill. They have accepted who they are. They embrace who and what they are. I'm sorry a

lot of my other people part of the community. You know you're holding this fag and fighting for something that we see you. I have been a comedian for twenty years and I am so respected in the industry because I never forced my way in the room. I let it happen organically. They treat me like one of the others. They see me as a girl, but they treat me like one of the which is all I ever wanted. That's a very secure man that treats you like that.

And well that was the problems and the and then once trans people and gay people became so transparent on TV and we everywhere now so I think it helped because it made people less fearful. But now the directions seem to be changing because now so many of the LGBT community in my own community, not everyone are angry, but frans men are its no, no, no, but they're more passable. Trans women have a lot of beauties out here. We got some beauty. No I'm not saying we don't.

I'm just saying, like, it's a lot easier to live in the life of a trans man than trans women. That trans women die at insane trans women who let's open that Candra oms, please don't because they already hate me anyway. Close. Trans people myself included, keep forgetting not me on this one. Acceptance. Acceptance is a blueprint that starts with you. Period. I'm not looking for you to accept me. We see if you don't fuck you. This is my mouth. This is my motto. I accept me.

The hardest hard is dealing with you when you looking at me. Or we all got other people living in us. You know your other personalities that nobody else don't know. You know the wicked thought you when you looking at me, or you better give them their time. You see them people, I see all my personalities. A lot of people don't say I ain't that wrong with me. I'm fine. Any person that tells you ain't sipped wrong with them? Run Forest Run? But why do you think trans women are not?

Just because I speak the truth. Because I am a female person, I admire women, even if I got I never wanted to be a biological female. Let me say that, okay, and I speak up because I didn't learn how to be a girl feminine watching the Man. I watched women, sisters, mother, grandma, aunties. Most gay people, most trans women. As young boys, they're best friend was always a girl, a female. The first person they really told how they felt about somebody else,

usually ninety percent at the time, was a female. But when they found their transgenderism or when they found their gay, then they better than the girl that they came out to. Do you understand what I mean, it's fucked up, and they hate that. I put the ship right in the box and put a nice bowl on it and deliver it to him, because that's the truth. You come out if I came me and you grew up together, and I'm twelve years old and I tell you, we say I feel I like boys, I like I like David,

but that's not a secret. But then when I discover that David like me back, and I'm gay and I'm open, and I'm proud, or you ain't good enough for me, but you were the person that came out to and now I want to be you. I am emulating a woman I learned watching you do your hair, watching you do your makeup. Just don't forget it. It's all I'm saying. It's not saying that we are better than y'all women, or women are better than us. Women are the blueprint.

Understand that I will never disredded that women are the blueprint. But don't forget we all came from a woman. It's also crazy that you say that, because there's been conversations recently and Saucy Santana said it that women's blueprint is now gay men, that gay men are are the blueprint for how to be a woman, how to do makeup, how to dress, and so it's interesting hearing you say that, just because, on the other hand, this is where men are.

Gay men specifically are coming out saying that we we emulate them. Gave men wearing the persons and the beards and walking around with the makeup phone. It's fifteen years old. Women were brought here to breed from Africa. Women have always and will always be the blue blueprint. Did you hear who you used as a reference? Exactly? I ain't even gotta respond to did you hear who you used as a reference? I'm just saying he just said it. I didn't agree a lot of unt Yes. Well, well

here's the thing. So it's called recycled. We stole how to be feminine, how to wear hair, makeup from women, y'all just still in our language, our dialect. So it is a shared process. And until we reached that plateau is saying, I'm sharing who I am with you, and now you you live in my life and I'm living yours. Why can't be a circle? Whe has to be competitions,

not competition. Women are doing the whole bequeen. How do you feel about women that are like taking over a lot of gay spaces that don't For example, the drag Brunches, you barely see any men there, You barely see any gay people. I mean, I love going there because a lot of women don't have spaces where a they can go where they don't feel like they're being harassed or hit on. It's a safe space for me and my

friends to offer to be around. Club supposed to be a safe space for you or a space save space for gay pe interesting, it's different, different to say what's safe now. Look at the clock at the Posts in Florida. They shot it up. So if you just hanging out

with your girlfriend. So if you just hanging out with your girlfriend at the club because you wanted to get away from the men or somebody who hate gay people coming and shoot up the club, you just happened to be there on that bad night and your collateral damage. I think that the recent drag shows are so popular is because women love to look and I love when you go to a good drag show and you see female impersonators, girls that look like women, Sasha Kobe's Mimi Marks.

You know, people like that as opposed to all of the clowns. Because there's a lot of clown drags. It has become popular. But are you laughing with me or at me? How do you feel about women drag queens? I think the great email was Wendy Hope. Wendy Hoe used to work with us here when I did direct your usually the direct shows here and she's sang lab and she why not? Why not if we learned how to be feminine and be a woman from a woman,

why not have a woman be a partnership? What is that taken away from your talent or you're that's interesting? And I wasn't aware that women were doing d there's not a female female and person that they let one on Drag Race recently is that she was identified as a trans transit, but she definitely was not a transmit. That was not a good representation of a tran She phipthy and but they now they're gonna they're gonna have

a trans woman on there this year. That's gonna blow I can't say it, but she's gonna blow you all out. I can't wait. I love perfect person for the first trans woman for them to have on drag I stopped watching Dragway she years ago because they didn't have any trains women on there. If you don't do representation, how are you gonna keep asking representation and you're not doing

it in your own community? This is the first trans woman, or it's just very first, and all of the sea everyone everybody else was gay boys until after they're taping, and then they got on hormones and identified as trains. Wow. Wow, I didn't know that because you couldn't sit in the dressing room with your shirt and off and everything because she got boots there. So it this is the very

first one. I want to talk about something controversial because this thing this time, it's out of your mouth, you see. So we had an episode six years ago where we were confused. We were talking with a friend of ours. It's been removed since, but I said the word trans transsexual. Then I said, what's the difference with transvestite? And then obviously I said the T word, which I heard you say. We ain't a lot to say. But here's why I bring it up, because over time, I don't really know.

I know the difference to me cross dressing, which I believe is like sexual king for the moment, drag queen, which is performative. But a lot of people don't really understand these some of these umbrella terms. Can we walk through them with you know? Could? I didn't understand what non minor were you talk? You have to get a representative from the community that that speaks that language. But but you did say you're a trans woman and then I identify as a trans woman, right, But but a

woman and for using it? We heard the term back in the day transvestite. Is that now a slur? I don't know because I don't want to say this without being offensive. My generation, my error. We fought for years and using years to be respected as a trans woman period. That was great, That was a compliment, that was respectful. Now this new generation wants to be referred to as a woman. Female. I'm a woman. A woman is a

social construct. My mother's name is Valerie. If I call her a social construct, she's gonna punch me and my dad damn throat. The disrespect starts, I don't know where, But when does it stop? Is it really disrespectful though? To call a trans woman a woman? Though? I don't know. They want to be called now women instead of trans which is what I'm saying. My r trans woman was good enough. I'm sure the ror before me. Maybe transvestite was good enough, maybe trans sexual was good as a woman.

They keep saying that it's evolving and evolving and evolving, but when are we going to know the difference of what is what? I don't think it's disrespectful to call a trans woman a trans woman because she is a trans wore. You still call all in her a woman, but you are letting her, letting your partner know, or letting whoever you need to know when they need to

know that that's what's up. That's why I'm actually glad you said that, because we've had the conversation here often, and I think that where now they do want to be referred to as women. There's so many trans women not identifying as trans women, and so I have said on the spot, I do believe that if I'm dating someone, I do want to know if they're trans, for whether

they're transitioning or not. Like you know, that's none of my business, was there, But if that's how you identify, that is something I would want to know out the gate. When you when do you believe it's a good time to disclose they want. That's because what it's so for me, I've never been a possible training Let me said, I've never I've never been a passible trans. Uh. You always

knew the body was banging. I was the best dress, I had the weittiest personality, but you always knew which worked for me, because I mean, when I was young, maybe I would have done some strange things, but I'm glad I never had the luxury of being in that position. I had a girlfriend who met a guy. She dated him for about a week. She never told him. He kissed her in the mouth. They hold hands and public. He took her out when it was time to do

the deed. She told him. She didn't die, but she was beat within a inch of her life, all because all she had to say was, Hey, I'm a trans woman and I actually say that. Everybody said, well, how do you feel about that? Do you feel like he was wrong? Violence is always wrong? But was he raped? He had already got feelings for this girl. She was a lovely queen too. She passed on beautiful queen. I'm not going to even speak her name. But this is

a dangerous game that you're playing. When I was younger than men would beat to shoot out you this new breed of guys, cancel you because the internet, social media, you can run. First of all, let me just put this in the box and we're gonna get past this gay ship then. And I'm part of the community. But this is not what I want to talk about. I

told you too. Um here's the thing. Identify, that's what you won't play whatever game you want to play, but understand that you cannot put a person in a place where you have not given them a choice. If you're already there and you're beautiful, and the man like, if he's going to play, allow him and afford him the opportunity to say yes, I want to play, and let me just say to wait a minute, don't break my strap hold on, I won't And if he don't want

to play, he will say that's not for me. Respectfully. I respect you, I see you. That ain't for me. You have and I hate when they keep saying, oh, trans women don't the man didn't have a choice. I food here, my food here. You didn't see if you want to got twelve kids and then baby mamas. They've never seen the pussy but they never mistake the dick for a pussy. Understand, these men need to stop with that bullshit. Oh I didn't know we had sex. A pussy and a penis don't look or smell or feel

nothing a lot, So stop with that bullshit. And it's like they say, well, girl, you got a choice. The man got a choice. He didn't have to date you. The queen has a choice. If I'm a trans woman, I want to date a man. If he ain't gonna hold my hand and take me to the barbecue and make me feel safe, kiss me in my mouth, why I won't this nigger anyway. I'm never his woman, I'm

his sad piece. I'm never his woman. But they always said, well, when just like the man have a choice, trans woman have a choice, and you cannot get with these guys. That's a trick. I can't get with an athlete of NBA player, a football player, rich man as a trick, and knowing my role with him is as a trick. This is a business transaction. But then I didn't caut feelings for him because he can't be with me on my birthday. The married man with a whole career and

a whole life everything. He can't be with me for the holiday, so I get mad and I decide I want to out him. Your story is never for me to tell. My story is my shory to tell your story. So if you're doing that and then you call and this time, I'm gonna tell your wife, I'm gonna tell your kids, I'm gonna tell your fama. In your career,

it's a dangerous game. There was a woman in Miami that just recently did that to a lot of the promoters, and she was a trans trans woman but had gotten everything surgically um done and I didn't tell anybody and decided to out all these men had them recorded videos. It was real nasty and we literally said that what you just said exactly on point. I agree with everything about that, And I hate to say this public good. I'm gonna say it didn't get that way because I

had apple what shared? What part did you play? Yeahs for me, I was gonna say to you what I was breaking in stride. We it's so difficult to not talk about it with you when we're talking about sex with you, because you're such You're not a new voice, and all we hear is that. So when you have someone that's lived the life you live. It's like fun, it's it's almost hard not you, and you know I hate even baby, we can get it. That's pussy. Huh. How you jumping to the horse there? Let me get

to that. I want to see if if she thinks about sex. I don't want to know, how do Yeah? I think you're pretty good. Actually, are you a fingers person? Are you you pay attention? M you mean I'm looking like fingers because you don't do the nails because I lost the nail one day and he took three days where to come out and it wasn't in me. Wait

you lost a nail in somebody? Wait? Hold on, wait wait wait wait, no, I need to throw I need the story because I just know I've told you because I lost I lost the rhyme stone on one of my fingers, so clearly I do my fingers now where my nails are short. So for y'all watching on YouTube, who I was gonna be like, damn, then Mandy break two nails? No, nigga, this is done purposely. Oh. In the comments, they're constantly like, why her two nails broke?

Why this broke? Every week? Bitch, it's on purpose. And this because whether it's a male ass or a vagina, I'm not gonna hurt you. It's thoughtful, okay, um, but she was the scene said, but I used to also do all the rhyme stones, and outside of a rhyme stone fall into some college greens one time when I was making it, No, I I didn't know where Ryan still win. So I never wanted a rhyme stone to fall into somebody bout hole and then make their ship

glittery or into somebody's place. What was the conversation we know the story, I need to know the conversation of you being done, you realizing your critic now is up in the vagina. It was a press on what should help him get it out him? Yeah, you look at me, don't do that, okay? So what was the conversation? Where did it fall out? In the toilet on the bed like were y'all searching for here? Y'all tracking it? And I don't know if we was we was in it were I found the second hold and part of the

third the you know what? And I have not had my head nails not since because of that story? Do you se? No? Too messy? No, I just I don't know. I just I love Va Dina, you know, and my trans sisters beat me up about that. But hear me when I tell you a lot of my transistors that dinifest the most feminine and beautiful bitches. This dicking and niggers like you wouldn't believe that's what I want. I know, I know. No, I feel like when you have a big dick the assid just a little too. That's actually

what I do. This is how I asked, got a big no, no, No, I I do. I do. I put my dick on all the time. God, have you ever got funk with your dick on? Yes? And I actually like that. And then I've also had my dick trans man that love that. That was really I'm not gonna hold you the way could just be jiggling and hitting my thigh like from I really, but no, it's it's on the strap. I used to whatever visual and

whatever that made him feel the organ his orgasm. There's a there's a visual thing because I used to like well, it took me a while even find I only had one person ever do it, but someone to suck my strap. And even though I couldn't like really feel their mouths clearly because it's it's it was the visual. But you know what's crazy? I want I want to ask you. I want to ask you the visual thing because at the end I actually had something like you can't sell

no dick. Even though I didn't feel it, it didn't look like he was doing a great job. So even though I was watching him like put it in his mouth, he definitely didn't know what he was doing. What is don't you prefer that if he was too good at it? Who was she practicing? Oh wait? Okay, okay, okay, one of them. You will never get everything you want life and train off. Now, if you'd been experienced, you'd be like nig who you've been practicing? You're right, you're right,

actually valid, valid, you're right, you're right. I do like watching porn where women wear straps and they get funk like it's hot. Because for me, even when I was sucking my ex girlfriend, we had a guy in the room. He was joking about like why do y'all even have this here? And I'm like, well, what do you mean? Why do you have the what the adildo? Yeah? Because

he because conversation. So when you and your girlfriend had the guy did y'all sat by, sat on the end of the bed and kiss what he went from you from you to her from Yeah, but we were eating a lot of pussy too. No, no, no, I wanted you all both. My fantasy is to have to transmi and sad by sad on the bed. But if the transmn don't never really sexualize with the trans Really, I didn't know that, And I want to go from flower to flower like I'm a beat and I'm just pollinating

and I'm just polling. Oh my god, I think about it all the time. But you know what that but that's very about it all. If that's actually possible, because well, outside of the kissing part, you having a threesome and I've had me three three that's my desire treat. But but even with two trans trans men like they don't have to play outside of king, it's not gonna do nothing. I want you want to see them, Okay, that's going

to be the hardest podcast. Most trans me and are not attracted to the masculinity of another trans. Interesting, there's exceptions, right, that's exceptional. Don't meet my body requirement. It's given. They kept eight. It's giving me big girl Lizzo, and I like Lizzo for her confidence, but I ain't gonna be able to smash big Lizzle no name, no man now with the flute or without. And don't come after me, y'all because I like big little I already say I

love it. It could just be little though, actually could just be toxic. Katie yea beyond her confidence an he's talented. Why you are attracted to Lizzo in that way or not? Listen has sex appeals and she does she does. But here, when you are sure of what you want and who you want, I'm not going to go because I like they got a nice personality, will do nothing for me in the bedroom when you get when you're getting naked, the thought are you about to give yourself to me?

And I'm gonna see what I want gets me going. Come on, queen, just like me, I fucking date the same saying I mere people were more shallow than so many loves wouldn't be. They would be more requirement. When it comes to do you like hair, no hair, resilient wax you like you're talking about you can have pame gris effort from the seven of Me. I love the hair.

I don't like the hair this, but if I want to say too, I do feel like it's because generational wise, like now, they do not like they be like this old Barbie as bullshit because it makes me feel like I'm with the It makes me feel like people at a and then be somebody's Wooden's pussies don't match the rest a body. Somebodyse pussies are very honest. I had a bitch with pussy looked like an astray. She told me to eat it, gray and dusty and ill like

have sometimes saves the relationship had some ship. The hand was the couch. You just look like you had a lot of mouths on that. I don't do that all the health. I was like, why I look like that? Turned the light out? You remember Eddie Murphy and Boomerang with the kid. I couldn't look like an asstra sounds eat that bit. You don't even smoke nugg at off. So when you have to tell somebody about the pussy,

have you had to do that? I am. I am a very masculine male on that compacity, because you know what I would do, think about one of my children and go straight now then Dick can't do nothing. How do you tell someone like or has that been a conversation like regarding after that one? Never went back. I need to see it before I before I eat it. I need to see it. I haven't had to do that anymore since that one. Okay, so I sort of look then, smell is that something that you tell a woman?

And I know you like puss? So how do you have the conversation if it doesn't smell? How you wanted to smell? Everybody has a different thing. I actually love the smell of the sweat and all day work now not to feed, so I am attracted to that. Now if I wanted some soap, I would just put some guy there. I'm soap in my mouth. I don't want the soap. I want to smell. You know how you and the attraction. I'm gonna educate some of these young

brothers because they don't know the attraction of that. When you were very attracted to when they're her pheromones and your hormones link. The smell was what made me have two babies. Bad woman, Dad I knew didn't even love me. Look that got deep. That was the truth. Pheromons are a very real thing pheromones, and a lot of young men missing, a lot of young women missing because because they're trying to hide it. With that, the male is

the especially when your pheromones and his hormones jail. You can t other pussies, but you didn't get that smell. It's not that one. It's a different feeling. And I always say that too for women, like meeting a man when you finally like start sucking unprotected and one that doesn't funk up your whole biom, your whole everything down there, the scent that everything, like that's your niggas. But that's

about that too. That's also a man. That's not when men are kind of running in the streets, they could also throw you off. That part two, that part two, Yes, okay, I got, I got yeah. Do you have a rotation? What do you prefer? Do you prefer you a monogamous person? Like? What's um? Oh? No, I'll go get another word, Like how can I say this without offending anyone? You wouldn't

already offended? Girl? Just keep offending because now you know, like the loyalty of even if you're in a relationship and we got our thing on the low, I'm the only one is because most of my trans men, or if I'm data transman, he usually has a female. Oh so if I'm the only dip off, he getting me good. I did not think about that. I don't think about that. But yeah, you're right. Yeah, and he only come and

get service when you know he needs to. I want to throw it to another field here because we have talked about sex, but I want to talk about sex. Maybe I was listening to the I want to talk about politics with you. Come on, let's do it. How did you suddenly become the faith of like? To me, it's crazy because it did happen. You know, politics was never interesting to me when I was a kid. That's even when I'm in my young adult life. You know, when I got interested in politics when Bill Clinton won

the second term. That was the first time I ever voted because he got of getting his dicks out. I said, oh, this is a brother. I liked this lad stop. It made it made it relatable to me. And then at that time, I was posting like three drag shows in Chicago from Chicago, and money was I was making money crazy. And then we went to the Bush years and I realized that the economy trickles down. You know, we say, oh,

my vote don't count, it don't affect me specifically. Yes, And then I started having kids and I really realized that, oh my god, I am an American. That's a part of this economic economic system. So it made it important for me to vote. When I watched politics, as I'm seeing the in crazy person, I listened to it, and I don't listen to respond. I hear what you're saying to me. I see what's happening in front of me and my birth certificate again, says sex male black. If

I'm stopped by the police, they see my titties. They might understand that I'm a transfers, but they see this black skin first. That is the dangerous part of me going stopping and stop saying being stopped by a police office. So I'm an American and I love to push that. Yes I'm OGBT, Yes I'm black, Yes something comedian, Yes I'm a dad, I'm a lot of things. But I am first an American citizen of these United States, born and raised in these United States. Look made in these

United States. That people miss that because if we all would come together and realize that we are Americans. What doesn't American look like like us? Like you like like me. We're Americans, but we keep making it different. The exterior is different, but the interior is really look American because if you go overseas, as soon as you open your mouth, even by the way you dress, so many like people in the eastern part of the world know when when

when you're in America. If we could be treated fairly as Americans, everybody, everybody, I think that would be What isn't that what they said that America was a melting pot of everybody coming from whales to give you opportunities to be whatever you want to be. We have these opportunities. A lot of my a lot of people don't understand that if you go to other countries, a lot of ship that we get away with here, you couldn't ever

get away with. You would be beheaded, including all these women dying in our ran right now because they have voices, just because they want to speak. Because oh she didn't wear her he jobed correctly, and she had a heart attack at fifteen. She ain't had no heart attack. Y'all

kill this girl. This is what I'm talking about. We take advantage of all these advantages that we have, and we are so entitled, not not our era, but they feel so entitled that you don't understand that people fought to make sure that you can get to this luxury and you still complain that out everything. What do you think is a focus that we need to be And I would say just demographic of black people in the thirties, right,

I think that's our average listener would agree. What do you think our focus needs to be when we are voting, when we're coming to our congressmen and women, when we're thinking about politics, what's you to be? You should think about you're going to have children and your future and your children's future. Because you let somebody, because I'm some all skin, he black, I'm gonna lect him. He might

not be for us. Maybe he politics, you know. Candice Owens wrote me back on something I posted about George Floyd comment that Kanye made and said to me he wasn't able to breathe before. I implore you to watch my documentary. I was the only one trying to help his family. It's so insane to me that your first rebuttal is to drive me to your documentary like this, Let me go breakfast because capital capitalism. How unpack this bitch. She's she's going she will see this. This is directly

for you. Candis owns you. You went to college for two years, didn't work. Then you went to New York and you got a job working a Vogue and got were very influential people, but you sue them back with the W with the L because you felt like they were being racist. You married this white man who I'm sure cause you every nigger he can when your when your back is turned or when he's angry with you, and you come here and you attack your own race because you're looking to get a come up or some

gs with them. So if the revolution does happen, guess what you're going to be that same nigga that we are. Understand your place and your position. I don't let Candid's own shakes me. She's an idiot, she's a lost woman already. Let me tell you something if Candice, this is how when when I saw her family and her friend pictures and this one black person in there who I don't know maybe about default because they'd have known you forever, Candice,

we could tell black and don't funk with you you're hair. Oh, white women don't need That's not true. You should see there is an army behind her that is just like Hersha Walker, There's an army behind him. This is the same nigger who's saying I put a gun to a woman head and threatened to kill her, but I don't remember listening. Get me, when I tell you you have to listen to what they're saying to you. I'm not saying that you ain't wrong, but I do believe that

someone's empowering these people. Can this is a pond. When I tell you, and let me tell you who, they're gonna be mad at me. Not when I tell you they used to use us as slave. I wasn't a slave. I'm not that m the stories that I heard from my great grandmother, they would pick black folks against each other to get massive favor. I'm a trick on Hub because I'm gonna get an extra biscuite or pull chopper, I might get a worker hour early. Has anything changed

because now it's called reality TV. You will sell your fucking children for a check just so you want to be popular, and everything is ratchet. Bitch, you ain't ship my man better than yours. I can't keep her husband. You can't keep her husband, and your children see this. You give your children all these luxuries because the money have made you sell out your soul, and then your kids end up fucking mostly all reality. I don't want to put it the cars on the table, but the

truth is the truth. Like you're wealth, he's gonna grow from from just you. You don't need to subject your family and when y'all go to politics. So last night I spoke at Karen Karen Bass rally at the Hollywood laugh Factory and uh, there were two forces. I'm not going to mention their names. They're really trying to keep me off the stage. Did not want me to be seeing this was a room of Katzenberg and staying late them and Magic Johnson and um Holly Robinson, Pete's husband,

uh Ronnie p all these people in there. I went to support. I can't even vote for Karen Best because I live in Long Beach. She wants to be, but I support who she is. I support her policys and what's going on, and after what went down with the city council, I'm like, yeah, I need to be there. So I came all dressed up and done the city council.

You know, that's what happened. There was an l a city council meeting where a Latino woman was saying like, oh, they looked what she said, they were a dark skinned no no, no, she that one of the representatives he oh, he supposed black because he had adopted a young black kid. And then she and referred to in Spanish, and uh, they grant crazy. She stepped down, and they fired, They let her go, or she she resigned daily has not he's still and they outside protesting outside his house. And

I was saying that to say so. When they needed a host to close out the show, because the host had to leave, they'd scrambling around looking for a host. Jamie Massada, my boy who owns the Laugh Factories. See it, Give the mic to Flame Monroe, the person who's hopes to say, are you sure, as if to discredit my talent. Jamie Masada, see it, give the microphone to Flame Monroe. I went and I got that microphone. No introduction, they never said this is I just went up there and

I see it. Who the person was? I was him and dre Then I had money in my titty so I gave it was a fund raise. I gave a two hundred out the Democratic titty. I gave a hundred out the Independent titty. I told, if you want the Republican money, it's something my dress. They had stuff, so I'm having it too. Broke the talked about just when I just told you, I'm an American. Y'all, y'all see what y'all want to see. But I'm in America. Got asked last night to speak at the Democratic National Convention.

This is what I'm talking. Go ahead because I to speak for the LGBT, black trans Dad. I am an American and when we push all this other ship to the side and realized whatever party you represent, we sell all Americans. Whatever affects you affect every ye. Can you tell people how to before we get out here, because I do think it's important, how they can get involved in some way or even other content creators like us. How can people push forward the message of voting and

being more involved. You please go and read, don't don't go to the internet. Get you some old books and find out what people, black people, women, Latinos had to go through just to have the privilege of being able to vote in this country. We die. Black people die, hung from trees, oursercize houses, burned down, beat and whipped everything just to have the right to vote. And I hate when I hear people say my vote don't count.

If ten people say they votes don't count and choose not to go, and we lose the bat, we lose the vote back. If Stacey Abrams loses that ten votes, you the ten motherfucker's that I'm talking to. Take the time. You take the time to do everything else. It is very important to go and vote. And if our black vote was not so important, they wouldn't do anything and everything that they could to make our black vote as

hard as possible to vote. Registered in Florida, register, go to make sure that all your that's because they have changed the voting laws in so many states to make sure that your I D matches, your birth certificate, masters where you live. Everything needs to be perfect because they are playing hardball. And saddest part is that the trump Letkints are playing chess and the Democrats are playing checkers. And they played and if rather and that was a word,

then motherfucker's this rather that baby? They the herschel Walker get a hand in the cookie jowl. This nigga sold the kitchen over at Party City getting badges. Did you hear what that Republican woman from I think she was from Arizona or South Carolina something said. She said, I don't care if he's pulling the ears off baby buddies, we just won't control of the sin. I respect her more than anybody because the bitch told the truth and

you offended that. I called you a bit, and me be to my face, I'm gonna call you worse than that. It's Sun is up here running up the muck. Have y'all seen the sun? The gay boy? The gay boy put it on blast, didn't he? What did he do? Telephones or I can't say that chance that that's improper words that used to be old. He was known. It's like there was a video of Colonni and he called her out in the Starbucks. Oh that's the son, that's the Sun. Who that person, that's the Sun who said

you got folk kids? Ain't took care of none of us while you running around doing what you're doing. First of all, I heard you Walker said it was fifty three stakes. I'm gonna stop right there. No, he didn't. No, he didn't, he didn't. Walker said that it was fifty three stakes. I'm gonna stop right there, and he pulled out of Maybury Fast and said he was the police, you know what, riding with that food like it's nothing.

Speaking of which, because down there in Georgia, have you say you asked me about what can we do to get more people to you have to listen to the people that think like you think. When a few years ago and Bidby was running, we heard these rappers and all these black influences talking about and two we found out what the black agenda is, hold your vote? Could you imagine have we held up vote? What situation we will be in now with what's happening in the Ukraine

with Putin. I'm just asking a hypothetical question. And then after we won with Biden, did silence from these same people who told you to hold your vote because we're still trying to figure out what is the black agenda? The black agenda is what is your black agenda? Not what is one black agenda for all people? What is your black agenda? What is your black agenda? Black agenda? You know? And and then they're gonna come out because we are go into voting again, and oh, I'm gonna

support this candidate. I just heard that t I and um Mike, uh, Mike killing Mike came out and endorsed Brian Kemp. Yeah, yeah, I don't like that either. Now I'm gonna go at the get aggressive and I own him. It's Killer Mike. There has been actually a ton of threats, especially after his um and shout out to Charlemagne. He was on Hell of a Week, and there's been threads about how he is specifically gone after going just against black women. Again. Let's go back to what I see

ten minutes ago. Yes, Master used us to pick each other against each other for years or a pork chopping the stake. Now it's a check. Please pay attention, ladies. Jim ain't ship wrong with me. I just look like this. Please pay attention. I don't listen. I Jeezy out here with Stacy on that stage. Yes, he know the way with her and Tiffany Hatti. It's with her, so many

people and Stacy Abrams to the table. What I love about Stacy Abrams is if you when you come to debate or come to anything, you would say you better have your facts so right, cause Stacy Abrams is spectual, she's concise, Her temperament stage the same. She she's knowledgeable. You cannot get her up or down. She's gonna FoST the board. She's gonna multiply thevad add and subtract your ass running your face and then smile and look at it. Did you got me fucked up? Now? Stacy would never

say those works. I'm standing forward, she's looking at you, that black wom rest in black woman's face. Well, then you definitely are telling us all to make sure to get out and vote in Ballet. When you're sitting there feeling out your scratchers, then fill out your ballot at the same time, but research the candidates because it don't start at the top. Local important yet the locals that's going to grow up to the top. Make sure they have the same values that you have. They think like you.

They're looking out for your future, your children's future, because we only here. We gotta make sure kids are taken care of. But people don't think this instant money, this instant gratification is same and it's Internet. I'm the I got just thousand likes on the Internet. I get a check from YouTube everyone for has completely dominated every way, in every crevice of your being because your mindset is different, because all you see is the money. Money is the

rid of all evil. You'll say, you ask some money, I used to. We like we bring it back. Well. We started off at a high with glass and I love that we ended on more of a serious, both caring bass l A. We need a positive sister, and not just because she's a black woman, but we need a people, a person in office that's for all Los Angeles people and wherever year, at whatever city. Please make sure you do look into your local like, don't discard it is very important and this is a crucial time.

You see what's next week, y'all? Okay, so please make sure we had to come out here and give you he she we did pussy and politics. I like that deep deep. Hey guys, make sure y'all follow us on our Patreon this patreon dot com backslash heard decisions for bonus content. We are gonna leave you guys with a five minute bonus clip plane. Please also, before we get out of here, let everyone know where they could catch you. Listen to you, watch you because you do be on

stage on a weekly so let him note. I am on Instagram, met Monroe, Flame on Facebook and my whole legal name Marcus Flame, Monroe Parker YouTube on Flame Monroe and we have a pike. I have a podcast me and my partner Lauren Hogan called Laugh and Learning that we tape every week, um and it's on the Black and Pack Network. It's on I Heart, under the Black

pig Net by Apple, Amazon wherever. Thank you, Charlottegagne, thank you, will piercing, Thank you kind of And I want to say this publicly because I've had so many people say play when Charlottagne mess with you like that when Charlemagne worked WITHOOO, because Charlottagne is a comfortable and who he is as amazing. Charlemagne sees my talent and sees my heart. Let me don't give a damn about all of this. He never got a plus Nicke too short and laugh

for me anywhere. He didn't even if I'm gonna get out, I'm gonna get out and I love you. That is my boy. And ladies, thank you so much, thank you for I mean, you gotta have a conversation offime, but we can talk dirty. But you know, my God than episode of Pison. Welcome back, y'all. We are in a um right. Uh yeah, No, I don't do the Stars and Moons, but Libre season Birthday October eleven. You already know what are you gonna do? You two? Absolutely nothing.

I told everybody, don't throw me a party, don't plan me a dinner, leave me alone. If anything, everyone can donate to my teeth fun I will be going to get my teeth done. I'm gonna go to Columbia. I am gonna have a doctor already. I'm excited. Isn't it crazy how we used to think going out of the country for stuff meant it was bad, and now it

is in I got no people. I mean, people think going out of the country for surgeries isn't bad, but it's literally like some of I don't like anyone I know that's even rich for she goes to Columbia for their d like. I used to think it was the cheap way out, but it's literally definitely cheaper. I was not they're more skilled. Well, no, they're definitely skilled. I mean it depends on who you go to, because there

are people getting bad teeth done overseas. I was gonna go to her doctor, but I decided that I did not want my teeth fully shaven. Um. I'm really against like having little tiny teeth. So I found a doctor who does not shave down your teeth um drastically. He also doesn't do chicklets. Um. It's the same time frame, So I'm excited I may share that journey with you all when I go, so that you have to see the before and after and everything. But that's kind of

my birthday gift to myself. Last year, I I got the Rolex that was my birthday gift. This year it'll be teeth um. But I just realized to the stress that comes with planning, and I just I don't even want my friends to stress. I don't want to stress even well yeah, and then like, uh, I just went to Crystal with its birthday and it was amazing. Got to see Dug. Everybody was Crystal, So I thought, I thought you meant your Crystal was forty Oh no Crystal.

From the read, I'm not Crystal. But even like just knowing how many people travel in town and setting it up because it was the Sunte's and it was just like, oh no, I don't want a birthday party. I'm good, like, just work. I'm good. I'm one of it's coordinating. I just I'm good. One of my friends did a shout out to Miko. He's actually a talent coordinator for FUSE. He set up like and I missed it because I

was so sick last week after I got back. But he was basically like, did a crazy rich Asian He's Asian, by the way, crazy rich Asians theme party, got a sprinter and all this stuff for his friends, and he was like, he told me to show up at dinner, and so when I couldn't make it, he was like, gillyot understand, Like this is like a really big party. I'm like, why didn't you tell me he was a big party. He's like, I don't want people to feel overwhelmed.

I just told everybody were black and come to dinner. But like I decked it out, and he was like, I spent so much money to have my friends enjoy themselves because I really want my birthday to just be around the people. But I want to be around and bro, when I tell you, when I thought about that, I was like, I remember paying for everybody for my thirtieth birthday and it was like a nine bill and it was Orlando, so that that was kind of cheap because imagine

the New York party with fifteen people. But like I actually I was mad I spend the money, but and I know people wanted to pay, but it kind of felt good to like treat my friends, to like actually hosting something. Because if you throw a party at your house, you're buying the liquor, you're supplying with the food, you're doing all that stuff, so you kind of do spend money.

But that's I think the only good thing I would say now about making some extra bread is like that feels good because you don't want the stress of other people feeling like they're stressing on yellow ship. And then what about your broke friends. I don't know if you have broke friends, but I got some broke friends, and I don't want them niggas to freak out. It's just

a lot. It's crazy because I know I'm gonna sound like a dud because I know last week or a couple of weeks ago, I talked about how I was shallow and had certain friends that I am I didn't invite out. I feel so blessed and I don't know if I just distanced myself or it was just organic. And I brag about my friends so much. I have no broke friends. Like when I go out with my friends, bro would be fighting, so who's putting their card down?

And that's so not like it's a great feeling to go out with people and know that you can do what you want. I love it. But then also that's why I'd be trying to chill them going out to l A. Because every time I go out to l A, I'll go out with my home girls and all my home girls because everybody got money and they eat good. Bitch, we our Billy Katana has never been unders and would be like four bro. I just ate there last week. It was me Alex and an employee. That's what I'm saying,

is the scow when he was just nine dollars. How do we get there? I don't not excues me twenty two. That's why I don't know what you read v