Ep 275: Competitive Dating

the independent women. That's really all we have. We had June Team, which by the way, um to me, and we got Martin us the King day. I really yeah, that's right. No what I'm saying like June Chea just passed, but like the studio either closed or double pay, like this is some big sheet and I'm telling you right now, like I want to make sure that since other companies are doing federal holidays a certain way, I gotta do the black Ship right because we only got a few.

And I understand we got Dave and Yomi and Eddin, but I don't know the Hispanic ones really yet. But when I figured out out. Do you guys do y'all celebrate the fourth of July? Like because it's our independence But we've never really got in deepending. I don't know. I thought Shena saying they're not Mexican. No, I didn't know what she's gonna say because I can't think of another big like Latin holiday. But we just eat, bro, what is the big? What is holiday? They barbecue the

day before Christmas? I was gonna say Christmas when y'all make the best knee he like, oh wait, the bitch deal delos. I don't know how to say, but that's how it goes. That was good. Yeah, yeah, that do you know what that means? That's Halloween Day day, but that's like, don't go around Holliday, don't do us. Mexico City goes up sign for like you wonder why I was trying to get you to make sure that you guys do what that men do it again. But you

lived in Mexico. You can do it better than that. No, it's too it's you're coming in here during the Okay, okay, heyst up about okay? Uh speaking of Mexico, I want to make it a little l a announcement. So you guys have seen that we open the l A student maybe you haven't. Maybe you have Hollywood Boulevard. And I just wanted to shout everybody out um that has sent in applications, but please still send them in. I do wanna, um, you know, start hiring um without people that are like recommending.

Like I feel like sometimes you know, whenever you open a business, like you know you hired someone before you announced, right, Like I do want to like leave the floor open for people to come through and work there. Um, it's in Hollywood on five six three one, um Hollywood and Grammar. See it's like East Hollywood. It's nice, it's dope. There's six K cams. We've got two sets come through. It's five. But we will take the black brown and the Mexicans.

We got Mexicans that work here, dog and in l A. I feel like you've almost got to like if I don't have a Mexican under the w TF umbrella? Am I doing l A right? You got Latinos, but like Mexican, Mexican Mexican because it's okay, you don't feel that flooded with Mexican. Yes, like you have to sucked up. It's almost like you build a business in Harlem and you have no black people, so I would like to have a Mexican. Don't have no Asians here? We buy Chinatown?

Thank you? How no, this is Chinatown? Well you thought Yomi was Asian and a lot of passive Jesus. And not to mention, the building is Chinese own it show is so they you in the building, they're right there. You just don't work for you? Um, who is it? I haven't really I don't know. I haven't really met any Asians that have ever asked for a job or anything.

I don't know, maybe because like my demographics so many niggas that I just only see the Latinos because that's like, oh, if it's not them, it's them, Like you know what I'm saying. We don't like even when we go to live shows and we see like an Asian person every like what up? And I always think it's the same girl.

I kind of thing yea, And I one was, you know, everyone else in my studio is black, and I mean, I'm just now reaching out for interns, so if you want to entern but I was like, we've been in this space for six years, and I think that that's kind of how this happened to Like we first wanted to reach out to people that worked with us in some capacity, like, hey, are you looking for something a little bit more consistent, And so that's kind of where I was, like, Oh, now I can have my friends

do something more consistent when you're in this creative space. And we left our jobs in twenty nineteen, um Assante and a lot of our other podcast friends left their corporate jobs or wherever they were working years ago. This ship has its ups and downs. I know that that's

why we're also as busy as we are now. Like during the pandemic, bro, we was on tour ship quit and we both were just like fun, we gotta find like you either made it or breaking, like like seriously pandemic, Like this is where the idea came from for me.

And like even like just through the pandem like I got hired, you know, working through even Audible and like now like our studio is full production house post pre fully like able to compose different ships and you really don't know until you like I have nothing else to do. And I think that a lot of my friends did well during the pandemic, But the ones that didn't were the ones that we're okay with being bored. M hmm.

Like think about Official box owner you were talking about, how was your idea there in the pandemic, Like maybe you would have came up with it later in the years to come, but if you were as busy would you when you really sit and we weren't going on to I was like, do we do a love That's how we started town Halls? Yeah, I think so. For Patreon, I loo I hate zoom now no No, I mean like, oh no, I love Tom, I just hate the zoom is zoom. I just did my heart go boom boom

supernova girl. Here you go, there you go. That was I mean. I just I mean, I do like still seeing people like I love the down. I could see faces and I don't have to worry about to see him us nor more because that ship was annoying. As I know, I couldn't live in other parts of the motherfucking world. That ship was wild and even just made me think about that day she said, I'm women with a beautiful thing on her son. Did you meet the women with the heat drop that listen to horrible decisions

at the roots picnic. I was too busy trying to get us paid this woman. I know it'll get done, so I'll just be like I try my best. And I think this is a difference with you and I like, you need things to be right so you can enjoy the moment you do and that's okay. Like some people are like, this has to be right for me to let go, right when you're a person that's like needs to be in control, and that's a very managerial thing about you, which is a really good uppose. It's not

we gotta hire manager because I'm sick of it. Oh no, no no, But I'm saying, like that's a good trait to have, right as an entrepreneur starting off. Yes, you can have a team now and do things like that. But I'm the type of person like I'm going to live in the moment and deal with it later. Like honestly, if I like was on my way to a party and my fucking ankle broke, I'd be like, oh, we'll

go to the hospital. Like that's the type of first name man you would be like, we're gonna call the ambulance, We're gonna get it fixed. We're gonna I'm not that wet. And then we showing up to see after party, I'm still going to funk. I'm hobbling. I'll be like, no, it's a little I know it looks like a fucking you know, tennis ball in my football. We're okay, um. But anyway, I say all that to say I was

able to have a good time that day. And I was on the high of our show and this woman comes up to me with a huge job and I'm not going front. When she was walking up to me and this is fucked up, I was like, what is she about to say? And she holds her phone open. It's a picture of us sitting with Hannah Burner and her husband. She goes, is this you? And I said yeah, and she was like damn, I just lost three hundred dollars And I was like what. She's like, yeah, route

for you there, Okay. She was like I just lost three hundred alls. I bet my sister wasn't you We couldn't see your tattoo. So I walked over to them. Her sister was also in a huge job and I was like I'm thinking about those like yeah, and like she was like yeah, we listened, I knew it was you, and I was like, I made a joke. I was like, maybe you couldn't see my tattoo, but you know my teeth are normally tell tale. She goes, yeah, that's how I knew it was you said it. Then just you

said it. She agreed. I don't give a damn. I want to say, you know what I mean, you allied. You allied to me with the fucking money that she won three d son. Just who has been three hundred dollars for that? I look at that. You should at least I came up with a three hundred. I was like, oh, I really want so um you said, who says that? I make that dumb? I'll do that dumb sh it

all the time all the time with my friends. Like we just started getting ridiculous with numbers and Alexe doing me and Dennis do it me and fucking video do it like we will literally make a better on something and like just know we're so right, And he goes me like, fuck you fifty hard. I don't give a funk. I know it's so much of fop for it. I was like, I literally just did that with my friend Crystal we was actually talking about at that we made

in the car. What was it? H So that's how they show what me and you bet I wouldn't suck a dick and we came out was horrible. Oh yeah, yeah it was. It was. It was all but no. I made a bet with Crystal. We were at the Jets game. And this was maybe a year after I had left Starlett. But I was a big fan of Cardi on Instagram and Cardi yeah, Cardi b so uh, Cardie dropped. She was dropping her mixtapes at the time, and this is maybe Bodak Yellow just came out and

I said, but she's a star. I've been told you. I've been trying to tell you that. She was like, it's gonna be a one hit wonder, she's not gonna get it. So literally, on the way back up for Ruth's picnic, we're driving the card of like, bitch, you ain't never pay me my motherfucking huntred dollars. I told you Cardi was gonna be something, and now she probably owed me a thousand because she super exceeded by anybody thought Cardi would be. But now we was I said, bitch,

I'll bet you one hundred dollars. Hundred dollars is really where wet it was with Christopher and Duelipa. I said she would be a one hit wonder and she's not not at all. Oh, Julie was doing state like in the other markets. Yes, okay, I mean she's I don't listen to our music. Let me take sucking Um the baby? What was? How does we're not acknowledging the baby in twenty getting soon? We just got done with five months and you're acknowledging the baby on this podcast saying that's

how I know it? Okay, okay, how does that song go? How do it? God? How does the song go? Looking now? I want you? Okay? Okay? And then yea yeah, yeah yeah? And then what's the other one? Don't start? You know what I mean? You know anyway? She big? So okay? Um? What then? Was I just thinking about two? Oh? So? We were talking about July four before we ended up starting the cameras, and I was telling Mandy how I was out with a hotel. Um, no, I leave be

hanging with hotep. It's not by the way, I know. I mentioned nineteen Keys and how like he's hot and horror But it wasn't him. This actually was a dude who is Samoan. How's up some Republicans? You really have quite the group of people you hang, okay, but but he's a Samoan in black dude. And we were like making a joke about dr umar and I said we were at sucking chilling drinking. Was four of us. I said,

all right, what's the most hotep ship everybody believes? And I asked the table this and one of the guys said, I don't know if his hotep, but I believe TikTok is like building to become an ai. I believe TikTok is like taking all of our ship, and eventually it'll will we won't be able to figure out what a person is. I was like, okay, that's that's a good one. And so I said, I ain't gonna lie. I got one about white people. But there my homeboy goes, is it what I'm about to say? Are you gotta say

what I'm about to say? I? Here we go. He also has a dangly earring, which makes even more fun. He's just a toxic Oh yeah, So he goes, all right, think about white people if they were real people? How come they burned everywhere they sell sunscreen in Alaska? They are so far from their planet that was further from the sun that they burned easily. So now right now, obviously this is ridiculous. But now I'm just having fun

with this. Right just what does it mean? Had it's oh you known people for real, say some people at the same time. So right now I'm just like fucking you know, you're funking with somebody because they in their bag and you just like it's like almost rolling. As I said, Hey, yo, you know it's crazy dog. When I went to Israel, like my skin got better. Now

this is actually I really believe a fact. So um, I grew up with exema and my skin got good, Like my hair was silky and not silky, but like, um it was shiny, like I could see it, and I was using pink moisturized no, son, Like I really believe when you go to where you're from, Like think about when like Dominicans go to the Dominican Republic, my friends be talking about how good they feel the food

they eat. When black people go to Africa, everybody suddenly feels this crazy connection like and I was like, yo, where do white people get that ship because they ain't getting it in London. He was like, and that's what I'm saying, they got nowhere to go because they ain't faking Europe. Europe. They said, they ain't got no see European spicy white black people. Saying earlier he said the Nordic blood, it ain't real. The bodies are flat, ain't no curvatures to him, ain't no no thing. They fact,

they are not real people. Man, the oregans are the same, but they came to conquer because they ain't from here. It's like, does he really believe this? I don't know, but we was in a dog I'm sitting there with my best count Mark read like, but I wish Rory was sitting there because he said redheads is the epitome of him. He was like, he was like in them, He's like, they're just like bleeding through the skin. You know what I'm saying, It's coming out through their hair,

the fire in their blood. I was like, he talks about how like they didn't exist in the originals hy of Homo sapiens. So it was so crazy and I was so wish they do say so when I was learning about the hieroglyphics of ship, like and I swear to God, don't don't laugh, but when I'm talking about

my mother education. But for real, when I was learning, that's why they say the Egyptians, the kings and queens, they was all black, no one in them, little pictures, in the art, even in the figurines, in the in the temples, not the temples the pyramids because them is different, but the pyramids even them think, don't you know, I'm in it? But they even colored inside of the people, like there were color in those people. There were no

white people. Even the sick figures had motherfucking color. So I'm just s well, I mean, we all know that. But they basically saying white people just landed in his bitch. He's like, you know how everybody say that all people

come from Africa, They don't, okay. And when he mentioned the Nordic blood ship, because I made the joke like yeah, we're they're gonna o Fielder ship at like in London, and he's like, yo, some white people, you know, have a little bit of it, right, And he's like, maybe that is when Pani and white people have a little bit of what like the spicy white, they maybe brown and they maybe not burned, or their hair texture is different, like an Israeli person like the Kardashian. Yeah, I would

say that like like like a Middle Eastern right. But then he said, um, something about I need I need to see this YouTube video. So I normally do the YouTube rabbit hole. I need to find this YouTube video. Bro, everything I know I love. I love conspiracy theory videos. You know. Mainly he talked about the flat the flatness and the body, and then I thought you were gonna say. Then he talked about how they weren't as athletes, don'tline

and all this ship. And then I was like, yo, it's just why there's a difference of pink dick and brown dick white people. And he was like, I've never seen any like you see white digs that are brown like those are probably, bro, this is the thing. This is where niggas just belong. I don't think no, no, no no, I don't think men realized white men could have pink. Let me let me you how niggas be lying talking seen a dick exactly, But I don't see that he'd be on Twitter now, Okay, I didn't know

when the dick. Have y'all ever noticed a pink or brown dick in porn? Do you know colors? Bro, there's clearly a difference. I don't think people noticed that. They know they know the difference, Like I just don't be looking at dick. I'm sorry, bro, when the dick a different, Yeah, thank you. He knows when the dick is white, when it's brown, but you don't notice when it's pink or brown. I've never bro, there's a pink dick and there's a brown there's a pink dick, but we really nicks a

white white. Well, the only reason that's that's what I'm saying. Well, the only reason is it's pink is because it's so translucent. The blood is lent. And I'll see how you what a? You better be high on this life, because damn, they're back in the office. They wasn't listening to us yesterday. It was eating Motherfu hot dogs. Well, I'm sure there's a white person listening to us pink talking about I'm a real person. You didn't just say they weren't real people,

and that's exactly how you started this ship. I didn't say, y'all, wasn't I said my homeboy said, does he have a kufy on right now? Was the words of a feather flock together? Do they not bitch? The second that I said, what's everybody's home? Top thought, they all like took a while to get it out. And he was like, so, I think you all with me. I think you got this.

I think we donna say. And you know, we made like a joke about how when something feels off, like we're doing something off, we make the joke that's white people ship. He's like, you know why, because they don't sit right in your body. This ship ain't right. It's the white devil shit yo. That she was crazy, Yeah, like casserole on the holidays now, definitely don't sit right, bro, Like what the fund are we doing? And why are we just eating the castle? It's like a canned soup

with some vegetables with some crunchy ship on top. It was like a one pot stop shop. It is, but it normally has it's really good. It has the cancer like the it has like the castrol large deep pit pan or bowl used for oh so caster all The word came from the name of the dish. The dish was deep alright and then people call it a cast role dish. If there's chopped vegetables, meat, what I tell you because because to bind it all, to buy it all you put in the oven, but you put like

the mushroom, soup, the chicken, the cream and chicken. It normally I'm gonna ship it literally says pieces of meat, fish, tuna. Okay, that's I'm talking about. Like they it all has like a bind. I don't see soup, bro because it's can of soup. It's soup. Can you were thinking that French onion that they prove that the same thing. That's what I'm talking about. That's what they put in the in the in the green bea castrole. Oh my god. Anyway, let's get into our vanilla ship. But it's with the

nigger castro. Are there any black cat Latins have a counsel road that's not really up? What's what is it about? Hey, hey, real quick. What we're not about to do is she's not gonna sit here and allow y'all to have motherfucking Latina lasagna, where she wouldn't let me sit here and have my Haitians spaghett That is not what I could I could ride with you. This bitch rolled me for you my Haitian motherfucker Spaghett and heans trying to die on this hill that Haitians and eating the hot dogs

and spaghetti. There are how many people have sent you dog domerans also to me your mother fucking emails to stop motherfucking coming from me, because let's time we did it. It was thirty percent? Was it not? What was? I don't know there was? Okay, So basically she lying about these locks. But the Republicans and the hotels follow you, they're not gonna know. Allow, what do you mean I got Anthony? That it does about? If that what got you? Always say that you know what I remember? I doesn't

really think Anthony's my only Republican friend. And you know, it's so funny, like every time we go out, he's such a mess that it's embarrassing. Like I've been taking Anthony to black Ship and then people are you got a barn? Wait? Even saying all the time it's so bad Anthony. If you guys remember that episode, he's just very wall Street, He very like Italian. He was like, look, I don't give a fuck you think that I'm sucking out here in the streets, like saying George Floyd should

have been No. I love black people, black lives matter, but at the end of the day, I'm not paying fucking taxes like this motherfucker. And unfortunately, some Republicans just do not care about social causes enough. And I do believe like that's why when you find a black person that's a Republican feels like a trader, like I don't understand how we could even go that way. But you know he ain't on his Candice Owens, He's just a

rich asshole kenness. Owens is acting like the nigger at the end of uh queen slim like the fact that she is creating this whole process to get the motherfucker's from Black Lives Matter that was spending the money on mansions, that she's kind of funny, ain't It's it's funny the thing that's embarrassing about it. I almost to the documentary in her old age, she will realize this. You have

made it your effort, Candice fucking Owens. I don't even know which camera to look at, but Candice Owens has made it her literal effort to embarrass the black community. You must really hate your black skin enough that you have to tear down dead people every single time they die and be a contrarian when people are in pain, in pain as a women with children, you've got the fucking white nerve to sit your ass up on every piece of social media and embarrassed men and women that

look like you. Black babies, black women, black men. You are a fucking joke in disgrace to people. Bitch, So without the bitch, you could add everything she just said to Little Busy as well and going on to I'm not cana. Little Bullsy is embarrassing, bro. He is embarrassing to that with women too, That nigga is embarrased, Bro, that nigga embarrassing everything. Tommy Lauren isn't as bad as Candice Hall, all right, I will never say that I disagree Tommy Lauren is like she tries to do the

shock value things. She's not as smart as Candice, which makes her not as bad. Candice is smarter than that, right, Like we can't take to me like Tommy Lauren also is white, so like I haven't seen or heard that name in years where she Yeah, tomm Lauren failed was swept right on the rug under tuk her Colls Night this week Vanilla Ship. Guys, we're gonna get into it. Um, a Chinese feminine care brand is under fire over an intimate wash. Um. This was um hor Hives submitted, So

thank you for this. Um enlarge the eyes, heightened the nose, bridge, reshaped the ears like an elf, removed the muscles from the calf, slim down the waist, shaved the body here and now the latest brighten the vagina. Now I'm not gonna see here and try to even read this motherfucking name. This was sent in, by the way from UM someone. I think she's living in China right now. Shout out to Jess. She sent this in and I was like wow.

So a leading Chinese personal care brand has bat filled, baffled and outraged the Chinese Internet with a controversial advertisement which isn't in Chinese. Posted to Wee bow on Um. This was actually two months ago in May, that claims one of its new products can't suppress dark tissues and remove odor causing bacteria in the vagina. Multiple taglines for this high a Laurnic acid and acid and rose flourishing intimate wash are included in the now deleted post. With

one reading wash and bring out a girl's pink. Yeah. See, that's it's for women who are dissatisfied with their quote unquote loose, dry and dark vagina. The company advised them to reduce activities like working out, which might lead to exercise friction in their private parts. Wearing skinny pants and having too much sex are also apparently two of the main factors causing darkenings of the volva, the post claims, but it offers no assurance of the safety and effectiveness

of the product. One of the top voted comments on social media called out the problematic nature of the post and says, is it not clear enough that your target customers are women and it's us who keep your business afloat. Other commenters also called the post a blatant insult to women. I want to say out your paint. Yeah, it's discussing, but also the fact that you are assuming that the darkness in the vulva area is caused by an extra

amount of sex is why. That's why. Also, they referenced the friction when you're exercising as to why you can

also be dark down there. Now, I'm not sure because I can't speak from the um Asian experience, but as someone with melanin, as someone with a lot of black and Latina friends, like we have just dark spots in different parts in our body that don't even have frictions, like which look at my mother sucking elbows, like my elbows are are are darker than than normal, like even my knees and I do have definitely and I won't say it's from shaping, because my my inner thighs have

been dark inside of them far before I even started fucking.

So I can see why this was insulting. But what's also more insulting is the fact that they're pretty much pushing out this false narrative around already a part of our body that we're still learning because when we were in cool there was an education on how to properly clean, on what what feminine products to really use, what harm we were actually putting into our bodies with certain feminine products, And so I just hate that this is now also to me one of the things where a lot of

these companies are just pandering two women, because we are consumers for a lot of things. We spend money on beauty, we spend money on on so many things regarding the skin, regarding our hair, regarding our our nails, eyelashes. That I feel like that market specifically. You know how I feel because I got into my nail shot debacle. I just hate that they really just try to pander to so much of our dollars. It is young favorites in AFRO. When I lived in Singapore, deodorant had bleaching in it.

The lotion had bleaching in it. When my friend Jazz came over, I said, can you please just bring some products that don't have bleaching in it. I couldn't find face washes, deodorance, lotions, no bleaching eaching there like a lot of positive there, huge share was a lot of um uh stuff in Japan that I saw with like changing your eyes and widening the eyes, and it was like a huge thing um where they would like do advertisements of that, but bleaching. I did not bleaching. Well

that's the things. Well, we're not only being Western, right,

even though they're not white and black. The treatment in Asia of the dark like when I went to Malaysia, when I went to the Philippines, Uh, they're dark, they're they're dark there and Thailand they're treated over in Asia like the blacks and even when you won't actually want jump into that for a moment, I don't ever, but they're treated like black people in everywhere else in the hanging in l A. A lot of people, um are coming from the Bay and there's a lot of Filipinos

in the Bay. And I know there's a lot of Blazians, but what there is also a lot of it is just Filipinos and regular Asian people hanging out in l A. Can you stop saying you're the niggas of where you're from? Oh wait, they say that. Yeah, so anyone ever heard this before? Actually they say the word. Yes, Oh no, I heard it. I've met a Filipino person at last LAP last day. They're the niggas. They say the inn word.

And she hangs out with a lot of niggas and her man Man is a very popular black dude in the industry. And I heard her say nigga and I was like, and I made like a joke, like, oh, I don't want to cast it like a live and then she was like trying to convince me, like, oh, I'm Filipino, Like I'm also a person to call her I have a nigga. Um, But then he's got on this high rate of like how Filipinos are the quote

unquote black people of Asia. And I was like, be that as it may, man, they could be treated poorly. And I understand you want to do this whole analogy thing here, but you're not a nigga. Yeah no, the date, babe, the history that we have, I mean, although the history over there is pretty bad too, well, they're not the way they got conquered by the Spaniards. Like just being over there and really talking to the locals. Yes, they're not black, Like, they're not niggas. I'm gonna tell you

what I haven't heard. And I'm not sticking up for him because my father is Jewish, but I never heard a Jewish person walking around saying, Hey, at the Holocaust, we were niggas. Said, I never heard that, but for some reason, and I think it's because Filipinos feel and they are people of color, right, And I understand that, like we've welcomed Asians in the black community, but like, yeah, I think so, I have not about you. You haven't

been in New York long enough. There you go all the way back to Rodney King beatings in California and here in Brooklyn, there's a huge divide between the Asian community and the black But you also have to remember how there has not that top culture clothing bro music. Sound like Asians are their culture voters. They're not accepting. I'm not saying don't accept them is, but they are not not accepted bro, Like, are you serious? We have a different take on this this actually and you know what,

it could be right down the middle. But yeah, Like I think, especially on the West Coast, like more than I've ever seen in my life, they I have never seen. Almost every black home girl I have from San Francisco is blazing. That just means that Asians and Black people are fucking. If you're mixed with if you're black, the communities are now mixed up, right, So like as a product of that, you have community. Like that's how they plan, and that's how Latinos and black people come together. You

start fucking and then you build ship together. There are a lot of Asians and black culture. Bro. Literally, my talent producer on sex Cells is a fucking Asian dude, right, He's got me my birth find isn't like niggas is. They're a part of this ship and he was like, yo, I worked at death Champ and also like diversity hires, you gotta remember to right you start hiring people at labels in different types of industry. I don't believe Asians

count as diversity highers. I worked in finance. We don't have to cut super insensitive to say I don't believe that they do. I worked in finance. This is my experience. You can think Organs aren't diversity highers. No, not in finance and accounting, they were the majority. They them and white doesn't because the majority are known for working in tech does not mean they're not a diversity higher. The way diversity higher has even been brought up in current

times it is for black people, and I don't. I will sit here and say sorry, maybe we have a different experience. In finance and accounting, Asians and whites were

the majority. There was never And I will also say when we went to d and I when we did our diversity and inclusion events down in Baltimore, it was just the black and Latina's that were that were offered to come, not the affirmative action and diversity higher or two to know we I literally had a trip for the diversity an inclusion trip on the New Hires at a top four firm. Asians were not included in this trade, bro,

So say what you want from you what America? This is my experience and you are talking with your finance and you've got a moment, and I agree with your Asians are literally a part of diversification in America, Bro. It is the biggest continent, It holds the most of

most people. They are the majority on the times going against there literally with a a p. I like, I don't know if you don't have enough Asian friends, but like that's insane to say, Okay, you don't think Asians diversify this country or like, like are you saying that. I'm just gonna say, okay, you're just just grouping in white people in Asians right now, I'm saying they are the majority of this planet. They are not the minority.

And so when a diversity hire them to get up the same area you did and you're telling and Asians were the majority of where you live. No, I'm saying for the globe, for the globe, there's a diversity hut. They are the Jordy on this planet. I can't fight you on this Okay, we're not. We don't need to fight your opinion my opinion. Y'all leave it in the comments where y'all stand on this, and we'll let it go. Yeah,

let me get forward. Let's move forward, back to candionsways as a cunt, I mean yes, and you're more than welcome to say that she is all right. Well, I want to ever tell you what. She probably hates the Asians, which means they're diverse. No, she ain't everybody, but she probably hate herself especially. I doubt she's even getting who knows, because that's how she's so miserable worried about everybody else. Listen, when you are getting dicked down, and when you are

getting dicked down, I supwere to guy. Nobody else matters, Nothing matters like job. I'll be late because I just got some dick friends called calling back. I'm getting dick. Okay, they'll collect to call it. I'll never answer for them. I'm getting dick. You feel me? Favorite show is on TV? Catch it on DVR, Getting Dick Everything the way when you're getting dick. Candice Phone got way too much free time to really be out here. But what's crazier about her?

Almost more than Stacy Dash. Stacy Dash was just like republican as fuck. She wanted to get another act. And Canada's Owens known for like being a piece of ship to black people, so like you had to literally come up from being that person. Stacy Dash was just like the black girl that we all knew that loved Trump. And you're like, what, but like she is literally on a tirade. I think she'd take her white pink dick

out of her mouth. Jesus to fucking talk about black people on the internet to make a school shooting suddenly a trans thing? Wait what so you didn't see that? There were like um pictures and I don't believe they were real of a trans woman that like had a similar look to the shooter. And Canada's Owens was like, oh, mental illness is a thing trans people, which being trans is a mental illness. If you you saw your son in a skirt, you should have had him treated for

mental illness. It's not about the guns, twitch you did all of their and his reaching his hand out to the air. He that was the whole last craziest thing I've read. And you're thinking about all these people in this terrible moment in time and kids and like, what how was that the first thing? Yo? Black ass? You know what I mean? That's what everybody's trying to do.

What let's get it to the hor derve. The hord Derve comes from Esquire dot com, where it actually says, Jesus Christ, you wouldn't even know that it was this simple. The key to better sex is all in your breathing breath. I can believe that breath is like the siren going off in your body if it's screwy. There are more sinister forces at play, like stress, tension, and anxiety. None of these are making the sex you have any better.

To really enjoy sex, you've got to connect yourself and your partner in a fuller, deeper way, says Jimmy Burgio, an instructor at Pure Yoga in New York. And the easiest way to do that is by doing exactly what you're doing right now. Let's do it breathing, but with more control, hold it at least so during I feel like I would do that during anmal Oh you have to, oh, but you have to let your bootahole like relax. So during sex, and especially during sex with a new partner.

You can get nervous or agitated. You might hold your breath or huff and puff erratically. You're thinking about a thousand things at once when you only want to be thinking about one thing. Controlled, mindful breathing quiets the excess noise and relaxes your body. You're tuned into what's happening in front of you, and the sex is actually more enjoyable. I'll admit I've definitely almost like been unconscious from eating pussy from not breathing. Wait, what is it like? You

know how you're diving in and I did not? I was just in there? Wait? What but you know you can breathe through your nose, right, you know? You just forgot to breathe out of all holes. I forgot to breathe. That was dedicated. It was great. Did you maybe do you think subconsciously that you're into maybe suffocation of some sort, because maybe subconsciously you you liked the idea of not breathing in some pussy, and that could be what you might really be into stuffing. You just you almost died

eating position and not some ballership. Yo, what I feel like I'm being judged here and that you you look like you're being judged. I'm just trying to see if you may have an un unknown because not that would be smothering. But like you're just saying you forgot. That's what I'm saying. Smothering and suffocation might be a thing.

So maybe you tried to do it although she wasn't on top of it, and so maybe you like that problem you have a nose, like that's why what are you trying to say here with your nose in her? But how did you forget to? Okay, see not the sound effects that you feel up there? Thank you wolf. Well, if you got a whole beard, you don't gotta put your nose and eat out your beard in your mouth. Oh wait, ed, and you're official here too, But wait,

you're saying like okay, and you're instance. You're just saying that you're working both of them. So you're freaking you got lightheaded from eating pussy? Yeah, get on the mic, Get on, get on the mic. We don't want to hear people in the background. We want to enjoyable, audible experience. Is saying, I think it's easy to not prioritize breathing when you're thinkin we're crazy if I got a dive about a pussy on the do you hear you? Thank you?

If it's always had a nigg eat her pussy that didn't want to live, she would have been a better person. You know what, I need gonna hold you and you got to come to work wolf, So please, now that you're talking about it, I now don't even want knowing you could eat my pussy unless he's gonna risk dying and not for him while he us wants the pleasure of Hey, this is the next? What the next? What

the god motherfucker ship? Anyway? What's the god motherfuckit? I'm really learned how to curse differently, okay, crazy, Like we like the solo episodes are really like just something. They're like whoa many things. It's an outline. No, this is an outline. Take it too. We get into I don't know what we like. Maybe it's because we're too niche in our podcast, like Mandy doesn't music and a sex podcast,

you know what I'm saying. Like, so maybe you feel like this is where you just gotta O. Don't know. I I do see the thing is too all the time, okay, because you do, it's half all the time. I do it all the time. We talked about transparency and not transparency, like literally transparent pine is not real. Oh that okay, get into the horrible decision this week. I thought it was only right, especially with us being single and not

testing the waters. Now I came across the clip on Twitter where a woman was saying that women are not competitive anymore, that we don't go out of our way even knowing that the person we're pursuing may have other people pursuing them. There isn't any any inkling for a woman to get in competition mode, which is why women aren't catering, women are cooking for niggas, Women aren't showing up in a way that bitch. You know, there's probably other women that want the men you want. You know

why women are competing? Why because at the end of the day, men love to chase, and so what happens is if you're giving it up too much, suddenly there's nothing for them to chase, and then they'll literally get so fucking bored with all the fucking food you bag that they start chasing another pussy because niggas get bored. That's just no. I really believe like a lot of women give too much too soon? Do you feel like

you've done that. I've seen the success in relationships where I kind of cable things a little bit, you know, I've I've stopped myself from doing things. I almost bought this nickel like a little gift or something recently, and I remember, like, that's not, that's not. That's a really great point though, And you have to agree with that. I have to. So what is holding it in? Right?

So let me ask you? Right, So, if y'all, if you're dating women, though, do you not rank which one is showing up a certain way more than the next, Like aren't there still things that y'all want from women? And when when one isn't doing something and another one is,

you might lean more towards this one. Because I've had men feel like I'm completely just not that interested in them, and maybe because I'm entertaining other men because I don't show up for them in certain instances, they just feel like I'm not that attracted, like I'm not into them. So a lot of men aren't gonna also want to be chasing after a woman who they feel like may not even be that into them. That's you know what

I mean? And so that's where I've been just like, damn, I actually feel like I've dropped the ball even thinking of how I've shown up on this podcast and the things I've said in terms of not cooking for men or really just maybe going some days and weeks without hitting the nigga. Maybe I should have been a little bit more persistent and be it. I mean, and that's been subconsciously because like, yeah, I don't think that wanting

someone means you show up more. I like as far as like cooking and doing things for them, I mean, more so show interest, not not like doing not not like actors services, just like even just a reply or thinking of you, or just small little things like that, not like the big you gotta do. You don't have

to do like wifey stuff. But I'm thinking I'm not talking about wife This is the issue we've had, I feel like as men, or what I've had as a man, where I've I'm definitely guilty of doing boyfriend things for women who I have no interest of being my girlfriend.

Why And again I yeah, but that's that's bad because where I've done it, I've done things where it's like I'm just trying to be kind or trying to be you know, cute, or sometimes it's too much and the next thing you know, you're over here hyping them and you're like, why are they trying to like get with me like that? I was just trying to like we were just trying to suck each other. And now I'm almost in boy from material type of game, and it's

not good. I'm trying to think of where I'm at in this moment because I am up someone that will cook for you and do really nice things and I'm a good partner. But hmm, I'm thirty one and I'm meeting men around my same age. I meet dope asked women too that are doing dope ship. But I know that I'm special. I know that I'm one of a kind, and I know that I'm not someone that's easy to find in terms of like all that I can offer. So there's very few times recently where I felt like

I've got so crazy. You said that I'm gonna send you the audio. Now I had to play the clip because you literally just said what this woman said in this clip, and now we have to fucking go at it. I'm I'm gonna finish this out I'm not I'm not saying that I can't do these things for you, but I know for a fact, men finding a partner like me is just not really gonna happen. Like men have to work so hard to become this fucking dude that's

larger than life for women to want them. And I will literally elevate a nigga with the ship that I'm going to bring to the table. And when men recognize that and understand that in me, like it's it. I don't have to. I shouldn't be having to fight this hard like I was fighting hard to you know, be everything for a nigga when I didn't have much to offer. Maybe I was cooking ten times a week because I

didn't really have anything else to give. I'm still going to cook for you, but maybe now it's maybe we're too on the move to where we're going to dinner together, like Josh, just it. I'm gonna show up in other ways. Um, But those literal things like yeah, it's a different, it's different.

Let me hear this clip and I sent it to you on The text is to bring a man a plate, rub his feet, just basic things of the attitude of so many women that I see now is they don't want to cater to a man in any It's almost like it's a dirty word. It's they don't want to compete for a man. They want him to just pick her because she's so special. But it's too much competition. There's too much out here. What are you doing to outbeat the competition? What are you going to win over

a man? And a lot of women they don't want to do it. They want to have attitudes, you know, not be in you know, working themselves in any kind of way physically, mentally, spiritually. Just think they just just to show up. Me being a lie, being a woman with a vagina is enough for for a man to choose me except me as I am. All the men need to change, all the men need to stop being this way. But us women were perfect out the world. I could see what she's saying, But like, that wasn't

the conversation I've had just my pussy. I don't think it's gonna work. You know, I'm someone that offers way more intellect than that, and I know that and literally my daily fucking regimen shows that I would be a different type of partner. You know what I'm saying, like the way that I handle business, the way that I'm moving in the world with goals, Like I don't think it's just like I've got pussy now. I do believe back then I did just have pussy, and that's why

I was topping it up with other things. But yes, like I am someone that is hard to come by and and and I don't know what she thinks is special, but I'm not talking about aesthetics or pussy or anything like that. Um And I think when you're talking about someone like that, I actually find it to be a disservice to be a woman in the world moving like that. And also think that you have to fucking push out all these like modern housewife e, cook of your feet,

rolls just to keep someone right. I do believe we should be treating ourselves like we're a catch. I've met so many men that will say things like they're the table or their X y Z are asking women what they're bringing to the table now too, though, but putting in so much time and work into getting your degrees and doing things like that, it's things that we associate with men. So when women are able to accomplish goals that most women are seeking men for you are special.

I hear that, woman, But to me, that's just that silly ass podcast talk. You know when people have the same podcast conversation like splitting a check or whatever. That's stupid ass podcast talk. When you really live, walk and breathe in a purpose where you know you're hard to find, like you ain't. No, And I'm not saying I'm too good to cook for a nigga, A really a nigga. I'm right now. They know your worth, you know your

self worth. Yeah, it's it's just weird because as women were, we know when there's other women pursuing a man that it is. It's an unspoken in competition that's happening, and a lot of women do want to be chosen. You're not entertaining any of any of the men that you're entertaining now without maybe if you want to be with them, you do want to You want them to choose you as who they're gonna with, whether they're other women or not. It's also weird though, because for men, men, although they

are the chasers, right, they fucking hate competition. If they know you're entertaining other niggas, they feel like you areho and now I'm good. I'm not even gonna look at you as thee. I know that there may be women that want to be chose, but like now that I'm at this point, there are niggas that want to be chosen. Of course, you know what I'm saying. I have multiple men right now that would like want to either sleep

with me date me. But like, huh, there's a reason that, like old Bay has done all of these things to get back with me. Men unfortunately don't realize what they have until it's gone. But like there's a grown ass man that has made every effort to get back with me, right when you sucked all these holes and you've done all these things like take my phone, do this have the keys to my house? Like all these outlandish things.

And I really believe it's because you now went out in the world and realize, oh, I really can't find a dish like you, so I don't have I don't believe when you have a lot of suitors like he did want Maggie, but no, no, no, we go to jazz weekly, Maggie and now look at Maggie. It's insane. But you know, when you have a lot of suitors, Like I don't believe you need to be you know, men recognize that ship too. When I go out, they

see the men that are on my dick. They know the people that I roll with or who was on my line, and like, you see my world, so you understand, like it's not hard to get another one. And when you walk talking act like that, that is how you get a lot of men on your dick. And I believe when women are so fucking focused and trying to win at one, you will literally lose your chance at other men. So you are only as good as your options. I've been told that before and it is a real

fucking thing. Man, damn that I'm good as watch. It's kind of little. I do want to you know, No, God, I'm like, actually, you gotta get out there, like you sitting there texting that one, like can I drop you off food? Do you want to eat today? I'm like with one nigga and watching the playoffs like do we have to watch fun that I do? And I'm just like, I will say that you do it when it's for SI.

Then niggas drops singles and now we gotta listen to this Nigga's song in the Car like options right now, they will they were, They're crazy, They're crazy. I did before we get out of this, I wanted to characterize some of the competition framework that maybe actually ruining some of our listeners love lives. So if you're dating, these are some things that they also consider quote unquote competition where you're putting other people against each other and you

might not even know. So when you're dating, sometimes you're seeking the best or hottest person according to the standards of other people. Okay, that's one attempting to acquire attempting to acquire a man or a woman who is in heavy demand, So one who a lot of men or women are chasing because you're motivated by the sport or the challenge of it. I know you heard that. Don't do that. Don't do that. I've been talking to my mother. He be like, goddamn country. I'd be like, hey, freend motivated,

don't do that. Don't just in Atlanta not too long ago. I got back to my roots, you know what I mean. I've been in New York too long. All right, over emphasis on physical appearance and other words, rejecting other men or women on apparent flaws, such as things as their feet are too big, sort of like a judge at a dog show hide his death. I'm sorry, that's a require. I don't give a fun house. And I had this

conversation I'll never forget. We talked about sharonas and uh we went out somewhere in Sharonis was out, I can't remember, and like he was like, damn, isn't gonna be getting mad course tales and oh Bay six feet and he said he said we would have never been together. Yes, he said I would have been, so he would have been. That's wow. Not a sixth book man. Honestly though, it's because like I think, like women just don't see like men that are attractive, and that there's just like men

are pretty trash. When you find a decent one, like you just be on and so I think that's just what happens if you ever found yourself wanting guys that were wanted that bad. I mean I'm sure like like primarily I've actually been shot. Yeah, well I've been shocked in some instances, like you mean wanted to be with them, not just fucking with men that are wanting. Um, I mean I've definitely. I mean, I've talked about the niggas don't sucked on this podcast. Um, they let niggas, but

they are um. But to me, it's more so going into that not with the idea of monogamy, not with the idea of exclusiveness. Like I don't believe men can say no enough, like even people say, man, Kevin Samuel's bitch today, I don't believe that men will say, well, I said no this many times, so you should just be okay that I said no this many times. And yes, I sucked up this one time, but it's because I said no this many times. And it's because like litt

niggas will have ship thrown at them. But then there's also a bit just like me, and yes I said like me where I don't give a funk about you being in a relationship. If I want you, I want you because women are that way the same way as niggas. Like like, I like to hold both parties accountable in this fucking space, And that to me is what it is. What was that people if someone's taken I heard you. That's not all the time. All the time, bro, she was talking about you guys want to bring up my

ex girl. He didn't have a baby, Lambo, you said she looks baby mama. If he had, that's worse. No, no, no, I don't. I really like, seriously, I really do not like you know what if I do, like it's literally like maybe I've had sex with X and like like seriously, like I don't meet men that have girlfriends And I'm like, this is what I'm gonna do tonight. How many times

do you think that they didn't tell you though? Oh knowing, I'm sure because I'm sure Lambo's baby mama thinks she's his girlfriend, right well, probably why he's like, y'all be so you just go to New York and you just basically do all these episodes and they just come out. That was I mean, because I was getting together, breaking up, getting to other Mondigga so much. When we got together, I was I would literally just have to be like well for the next month and a half. I'm talking

about you on the on the show. Sorry, just so you know, even though we're in good space right now, I just don't listen to the pod please, I'm talking all this ship about you. Anyways. I want to get into our homemail before we get out of here. This one is called confession. Come off, give it to him. So during the pandemic, I slept with over fifteen plus different people. For the first year I was in a relationship, so it was just her and it was long distance.

After we ended the relationship, I was going crazy on tender bumble and meeting people at events. I did a lot of things I never imagined, including to threesomes. One was two girls and I was the guy, and one was two guys one girl. One of the girls was in both threesomes. I was sucking so much, and I honestly didn't know why. I'm a whore and I payment. But now I met someone I really liked and I want to make her my main. But I'm having trouble letting go of one or two of the other girls

I used to mess with my mom. My mom met this new girl and she likes her so much. She wants her to be my girlfriend. If my mom gave the green light, it's because if my mom has the green light, it's because she sees something I don't, and I think she's always been right about those things. It's gonna hurt me to let go of my other partners, which are more than that, truly, they are friends and it's gonna hurt some feelings if slash when I go

public with the new person I met. Could y'all give me some advice as to how I should break off things with the other girls? And do you genuinely think we can be friends or will they hate me? Because they love me just as much as I love them, but more platonic love than anything. At the moment, we do still fun from time to time, and it's just because the pussy is available. I need to practice self control and focus on one. I'm scared of losing my

friends because they want me. I really like this guy. Man, this is actually a very very good honest Yeah, um, interesting he read of self control. Uh. Recently, the person I've been seeing talked about their self control with me and not having sex so soon and self control and situations and like being faithful and different things like that. And I never hear men talk about self control because nigga's just as like seriously, men understand that like cheating

from the wild, playing far far way. So yeah, I think, Um, it's a really good thing that you asked too women that on a podcast and I'm gonna say this, you don't really get great things in life without sacrificing something. Um I don't believe there's just things like handed to you. I believe you do have to sacrifice something. And I think letting those two people go because is you found someone that could be a great partner is a smart thing to do, particularly because now you can fully invest

your energy and time into that. And yes, they'll it'll hurt. But one, if you love and care about someone, you don't string them along. And too, if you could not coexist in your current relationship, if she wants to be a monogamous whatever. By having those women the way when you start ship sucked up, ship ends sucked up. So you have to make sure that you are acting out certain people out of your lives so that you can flourish in another space. And I don't really know if

there's advice on how to break off something. I think a lot of people work in different ways. But I will tell you that being totally honest that you care about someone is the best thing to do. Um Old Bay, whether he's lying or not, says one of the sideline chicks that he had to cut off. He said, I realized that the only way to have her understand was to tell her how much I cared about you and tell her that, like right, And he's like, that's not

easy because she cared about me. But if I could explain to her that this is how I'm feeling because obviously I've sucked her while with you, but like, I have to have her understand that because I love this person. You know I'm going to lose what I have because of this, so I can't do that to someone else. And it's okay to have a hierarchy on your feelings. Also, women will be okay. We know that there's kind of

like always the one up board and the other. Like I do believe it's okay to have a hierarchy and your feelings that I want to be honest, be real honest with them too. Yeah, they will be there so whether this relationship last not, But that when I got with my nigga during the pandemic, I'd let all my hos no. But also and maybe being too honest there now you already listen, as long as they're not married with children by the time this relationship comes to an end,

then they just will be there. The plussy will be available in a few years as long as the dick is good. No, I'm saying for other people, listen, this is about But what I'm saying is let them know that you're in this relationship. I feel like he's in fear of losing these people forever. Bro, if the dick is good, if the sex is good, you never really lose people forever. I still got niggas in my phone that I in high school, still willing to give me the dick if I gave him the pussy. Uh, Mandy's

fucking insane. No, I'm not, because here is the truth. Okay, nobody leaves. Everybody always is around, whether they're in the picture or whether they're not. Guess what's gonna happen When you and this girl have your wonderful relationship and then it ends, those two friends of yours will be right there like, oh, I'm sorry it didn't work out, and we'll still grab a drink a beer and give you pussy as long as they are now not in love. Now, that's what you have to be okay with lothing, right

hold on. What you have to be okay with losing is the fact that these friends, these women. You love the vaginas, that's so good. You keep going back. You need to fear that they may find a nigga by the time you get back single, and then you're gonna had to wait. That's just how the world works. It is a motherfucker's cycle. So when I tell you these niggas, these bitches, they always there, always there, bro, And I would love your relationship to last, but I'm a realist

over here it probably won't. So it's gonna be great while it's great, and it's gonna last until it down and then it's over. What. So I was you know how I'm white. Oh, I'm very right, but you could you know, I don't cause that you was sucking your old baby niggas. Now I don't necessarily, um, you don't just because you're saying it like this doesn't take away you know. I started talking like that's about to come

out of there. There's some white people that just booked our studio, and I was tell myself, I know I'm on my niggah today, so anyway, no, I'm just there the room. I was like, oh not. Then walking too with us said white people wouldn't really uh literally, they probably came to conquer your ass. That's what they do. They conquer. That bitch did tell me to get hers of water. She said that the white bitch there, white bitchund I said. I said, Joe, thank you for poking

with us. I know, what's your first time off? Yeah, I heard the waters in the other room. Could you get the water? I said, that's your a little slave on the fourth of July. Anyway, Okay, So I was saying all that to say, um, well, I would saying I didn't agree with you. Is mainly because he like sounds like he wants his relationship to work. So I don't want to wish that your relationship. And by the way, these bitches is not your friend, like you came relationship

calling them to your friend. They're waiting. They're waiting, buddy. So lover boy and I I'm going to Milana and like probably a few weeks with Gabby, my friend who's out there now for work. And he was like, oh, well, when you're in Europe, let's get together. And I was like, oh great. And I think I even said to you maybe do Iceland or something, which is crazy that that was even said. Why because if any of my friends

from overseas just lands in America. It's not like, oh, let's just meet up since you're in America, like you're as big as fun. But in my year, but we used to do that, we were together, Okay, I'm saying. So he's like, you'll be in Italy. It's only two hours away from me now, so like let's bounce around together. So I said, yeah, and did you on that dick? Now that I've bounced on another dick? You really got to catch somebody well, and I'm you do you do?

You gotta catch them. I'm not saying any single I'm just saying a little less interested in doing this one because like I'm saying that my pussy isn't open for Europe. I'm just saying, like to start planning a trip, I'm kind of like into someone else. It's like a little difficult and so I'm not as involved. And you really got to catch someone so emotional. Bit just just top on this old dick, because again, the dick is always gonna be there. So while you when you're go ahead

and take and it's just always gonna be there. Do you want to? She don't know because now she's getting in her feelings about whatever. Nigga, she's sucking now you multiple I'm sorking one day. I had a blip okay, how to be looking one day? Okay? And this when he becomes uh lover point is a blip TuS it but not if you're planning it. Two blips in a in a dick. She like, ain't that crazy? Two the

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