Ep 264: He Put A Ring On It (ft. Hannah Berner & Des Bishop)

the white people here today. She's a quiet mind you like anytime we have white people and I'm not gonna lie, like, so I have these white people, but they're cool and I know it's not really our brand, but they're they're amazing, And she think you're really gonna like She's put us through a lot of tests to get here because the courses and ship. What did your first recording with with his Dave? I think so because Dave told me he was like, Oh, there's this girl that comes here. She's

on TV and I'm like, bitch on TV. Shve Oh I love me some h motherfucking real house slas some below day a show at one of the real Porsche. Oh yeah, Porsche Giselle staying from below Deck. We had actually Gazelle on the podcast that was amazing wedding. Does that comin joined us? So they're part of the Black Effect family. Shout out to um reasonably shady because they were also just dominated for n double a CP Image Awards for the pandcast because you don't why because we

don't have a fucking publicist that's why. Okay, okay, but it a lot. But yeah, that's that's amazing that you're in that hole. Well was it real quick? Because we do a bad job at this. Can you introduce you go introducer? We gotta keep going. So first I research who Hannah is Hannah's arrival? Yes, So I find out that people on the internet hate you know, like if you don't have research doing your research, sir at peak, Hannah hate time, right, And I'm like, okay, well who

is this person? And then the other thing that really pissed me off because great she comes to the studio black o and let's go. This bitch only gets one angle, but you are about to have all these millions of people watching people. You've only got one angle, jewish to please, please, I'll get it to you for free. Just get some time. So whiteco comes in and I started asking for free angles. That makes me look bad, you know. I was like, okay,

she's kind of popping. And so anyway, we started chatting. We followed each other for years, and I remember you followed I think some other black people like Mouths or something. So I was like, guys, next story. I did them way back. But it's interesting though, for real, like when you're having it's two different podcast worlds. So I'm just like, who does she know that I know? And I did her show and we went to eat and the first thing she told me about was her hate online. And

I never said welcome to the club. No, because I thought that we have people that don't like her this, or that I have people that hate me. I did hand No, No you're not no, no, let me be in it. Okay, this is another level of witch I got. Actually, I what upset. I hung out with Hannah. I like her, I understand how TV editing works. People were like, oh, you you don't know who the funk she is? Bitch? Did you meet the bitch or did you read something

about online? Well that's when I knew about a person I met in real life. Are you out of your mind? People set me Reddit think pieces about her. That has really set me off because now you're telling me that the person I choose to collab with or talk about or want to work with again, I don't know what the funk I'm doing? Fuck you and white people got some nerve, bro, So they really were coming from me talking about they thought better of me. So wait, wait

for those listening. Can you explain where people may know her from and her name? We are trying and nobody knows who the funk you're talking about? My point, I had no idea share it with the audience, Mandy, Can I get to it? Go leet up? Is I still at this point I have no magnitude of Hannah And you know I wanted her the personality as the hand of the person. Yes, you've met hand of the person I have? Like who the fund is Hannah? And how do people know you? And also your partner is here

who was also on TV with you? So I want you to tell us about that, like how do people know? First? Can I just on that point before you get into that past. We were living together, just just like people message you. We were literally living together, right, But she was on the show and I guess it was like episode six or seven, and somebody messed me and said, you need to watch a summer house than you need to watch the show to know who you're living with?

Wait are you kidding? Like, no, No, that sounds like a joke, but that is literally the because because I think Hannah used to say on the podcast that Dez doesn't watch the show, which I didn't watch the show, so somebody messed me said, you need to watch the show. You need to know who Hannah is. I'm literally living with her. Do you know what's crazy about you saying

that too? In therapy, I've talked about the comments that I received because we share and are so vulnerable here on this podcast, I've had like I've had to separate the comments because when I say, here'll be like, man, they don't know who I am. They don't know about me. They will sit here and try to tell me about me, and I'm like, but who you think I am is not who I think i'm. Just because I show up every fucking week into your fucking podcast, that doesn't mean

you know who the who the funk I am? You not only have a podcast, but you are also on reality quote unquote, I was. I was okay, So I'm sure I started as like a comedy video producer. I was writing like a bunch of tweets and memes for this company, Betches. I was like making the content for them, and that's where like I learned a lot about joke writing. It super fun, got a d M to go on

a reality TV show. I said, let's go, let's do this, and my goal going into it, I was like, I want to show that women could be multifaceted, Like you could be hot but also sad, and you could be like strong but also like we we you could be nice but also a count like you can We're all And that's the thing the Internet likes to oversimplify, like this woman's evil or this woman is like the Holy Spirit,

and no, it's it's way more complex than that. Why do I sound like I'm making myself I'm talking bad about myself again. But anyway, long story show, I get on the show, and in your career, you're gonna have hot times and you're gonna have low times, especially when you're putting yourself out there. And when I first hung out with Wheezy, it was a real hot time online

where like I couldn't do it. I had someone handling my social media for me because I couldn't go near my phone or I would have like a four day, you know, depression naps. So every now and then I'd come in and I could see she was like in a bad, bad way, and she was like I had a weak moment, and also like what's great is like all I want to do is make people laugh and entertain and make also put myself out there to make people think twice about like their lives and what they're

doing or fill us alone. That was like my only hope for getting. I wanted to make the world a better play than you've been, just like only only in this third season. Yeah, my, that's the problem. The first two seasons were like epic people like people were giving me all this love, which again is fake, like you don't know me. I'm not as great as you think I am. And then people love like when but you're as bad as they think you already exactly, so like

when you get really popular. And then they started to show like they started to show me reacting to this guy I was having a fight with, and and they weren't really showing what I was reacting to, so they were like this girl just lost her mind. And I hate the crazy girl narrative, but I just kind of had to be quiet and then when I was with you, you got these messages of girls being like, watch out for her. She's crazy. She's crazy, she's a narcissist, she's crazy.

Showed her. No, no, no, I didn't have to show her. It was in my threat after I did her show on Twitter and I'm like, which I don't know the same, but you could. They were like and then the way yea so good of all time I met. I met Azell after being a six year fan of the Potomac franchise, and she ended up shout out to Gazelle Robin. They came to Our Lives show the very next day after recording. But I literally told her after recording, I said, y'all are so amazing, and now I have to like you.

And I didn't realize because of what I was being shown in mind you. I liked her in the beginning, but then she wasn't who I liked from the beginning. And I literally told her to her face, I said, I loved the franchise. I would never have recorded with Candice, but I was anyway what happened, I would have never liked. I don't give a about Candice. But when I was like,

I was like, I don't like them now. And so when I met Robin and Giselle, I said, you know, first off, I knew Robin was gonna be late, and she was. No. She was on time because because I made sure to tell her thirty minutes earlier than the time she had to show up. Um. But after meeting them, they literally talked like you and was, well, we get what they show on TV me and we were like, we get what we show on the podcast. We're still people.

And after like having just dope conversations with them, we were like all night, Giselle, Gizelle. The reason Giselle is doing so well is because I'll talk to her and she's like, oh, I got something good for the plot, this this, Like she's the one who's pushing ship and she's the one who's like, get sitting here, you with

your TV you want. She's very authentic, very authentic. No, but no, but she serves every day at work like she could you could sit back and have no drama around you and let everyone else fight and just kind of look pretty in interviews, or you show up to work and you're like, I'm gonna get involved. I'm gonna try to make this most entertaining TV show. So this show gets picked up the next summer. You know, you guys think me and we ate each other, Oh my god,

we love each other. And I just come in and give attitude ships for YouTube viewers like, definitely are arguing now they're actlutely. It's funny because there when y'all think we're arguing, But no, days, bro, it'll be they'll say, we're are doing it will be a day where bitch you just like the last episode. By the way, y'all they just watched this change. They didn't see no nipples

and titties. But we record two episodes in a day, so they'll watch two episodes that we record in the same day and they'll be like, oh my god, there's definitely drama brewing. And then the next episode they'll be like, this was so great, the energy, the chemistry. We love it. We have people project their ship onto you. But also, if this didn't have attitude, why would you want to watch it? It's fun for two people to hate each other.

First of all, a tweet came out. I want to shout out to you, Oh god, no, don't talk o drums? Did you guys literally like a Bravo show. Yeah, we are one of those reality polls instagrams. You ever see them with the likability ratings go up and down. I don't think we get paid like a Bravo show, but they should be. You're right. We actually a little bit tweet that came out with this girl's like, I'm so

tired of these friendly bitches. I want a podcast for two bitches, and I'm like, go back, we got in it. I has to get on Twitter for a day. I retweeted it and I'm like, bro, hey, it is a very strong word. Yes, Like I love money, but I have more pride than that. Like, I'm not gonna work with someone I hate. No, but we're here for the money. Stop lying to do. I don't hate you. Maybe you hate me, but I don't hate you. Guys. Hey, I

love is a very close. I don't love. I don't have I don't love money that much to where I could walk in here if I hate it somebody, But you guys hate like a boss I've worked for. At the end of the day, I feel like there's moments where I've been angry, but at the end of the day, like I'm doing something that I love doing I'm doing it with another black girl. I'm making great money. I'm

making strides. Like she's saying she hates the more people more, I'm saying, like she's like, I hate her, but not the most. But the sweets were crazy because they started going into like episodes where I was like, damn, I'm not glad. I thought you guys and we tease each other a lot, and they think that it is nasty. I mean, but that that engagement and you guys is great, It's amazing. I hate I'll be honest, We'll have an

Alex and Sophia. We might have broke up so a bit because you can't just keeping like that was an amazing story. I love that for you, and that was you have to be like I disagree and have people oh no, no, no no. As women were not allow to disagree because now we're having a full blown argument and I'm being offensive and aggressive. They don't know a lots of space for women to disagree. You with your partner,

can disagree. You as a man can disagree with another man and dap it up if and you guys are podcasts when they start arguing, bro, they love how it goes viral, but me and really disagree. It's fucking oh my god. They're so jealous of each other. You've been around black people when they say who got my money? Then who? Or who's a better player, Jordan or Lebron? Yea, we always talk about my black people every party and

who all time. But this this seems female sports, like this is our sports, And like when you watch Bravo, it's like the w W, like they simplify the storylines where like with the whole word villain, like you see early on Who because of confessionals, people talk to you about who's going to be the villain, and it's not based on the reality of what happened day to day.

It's based on what they want, what they're for, and they will purposely create gray where there isn't great, Like someone will do something fucked up, but they'll make it like, well was it not sucked up and add things so that you're more confused and you can fight with your friends about it. Because if it's black and white, no one wants to watch and listen skinny five, skinny five ft five white guys are shouting at the TV saying Lebron is ship. So like this is what you're dealing with.

You're dealing with people that don't know what's going on with strong opinions. JJ Reddick is not saying that you know how toxic it can be. Why did you choose to bring does in there? Or did you want to go like did you? Honey? I was None of that had anything to do with the reality TV, But go ahead, you can. Oh, you grow him because people got to see a relationship on TV and talk about it, and when I met, yeah, I never watched it. We don't like, literally,

we don't even care. But also, but also with howevery I'm so glad that the relationship is still standing because my co is on other podcast brought her relationship to Love and Hip Hop and said she would never bring her real relationship to reality TV again because it drew so much of a wrench between the relationship that it would have never happened. So I just want to So I want to be clear. I brought him on for three days, but they put it into like three episodes

because it was the only drama. Yeah. Yeah, I don't want to get I don't want to get too into I literally can't. I can't stand all these as no, No, what I'm saying is, I know I don't want to have any of the chatter build up. But in terms of our relationship, we had just met. Actually, so we we literally hadn't you just met on tonight? Just met?

So what happened? So they were in that house for a long time, longer than people actually no, because there was like some time where they weren't film U but they weren't allowed to leave. And uh so we had a lot of time to build up a relationship on the phone. I mean we were in like a sexual Yeah, we were a little bit of less blind a little bit actually, So I just wanted me to I didn't give an Actually I didn't. We did have getting you were an inmate and look at I mean, that's not

my j It was a little like that. I was like, sho, I just got a burner. I just got a burner, still smells like my friends asked anyway anyway, Um, so I just wanted to see her. I literally care. Now you got instance. I had my own career is very much Irish based, but like in Ireland, I'd be well known enough that going into that show is kind of like insane. So I did not tell anybody and tell

my agent. I didn't tell anybody. Have to complete on the download because I knew it was madness, But literally I didn't care because I was just dying to see her. So I was just trying to shorten the time between when we saw each other again. Yeah, you know. But in the meantime, she was having this like this other type of season, which was an experience I hadn't had before. So when when you asked her, like, oh, what did you think it was a good idea to bring him in,

like she would have never known that. When the season aired, I was flabbergasted, and I had so much trust and like my producers and the people around I had two seasons where like I felt like everything showed authentically. I was that bit when they were like, Oh, bring this guy, it's gonna be great TV to add romance to the story. I was like, absolutely, whatever you guys want. And then when it aired, I was like, yeah, just trips me. You know, he tripped me. I don't I don't watch it.

I didn't watch it at the time. I tried to encourage her not to watch. What is like having sex and having to sneak around a camera, so there's no camera the bathroom. You put the bathrooms the bathrooms, and you put the faucet on really loud because everything you can't take your mic off, you get in trouble. You know, it's like that seeing what was that the Tom Cruise movie? You know whatever, Like he knows he's being watched, or you turned up. You make as much noise as possible.

But I'm like sixth cents a long time ago, actually back to the threesome. I feel like you guys got back to the threesome. You didn't. There's no preface of a threesome. You're just asking if they've had him because I was making a joke, but I wanted you to know. So you know, Mandy doesn't have a taste for what she likes to call pink dick. But I think we can you. I've never been with a white man, would

you not? This man? Like you're tall, which is normally a requirement, and I have been loving the silver Za is what I've been calling it. Um it depends if it is it down to your knee, like I mean, I don't know you need a big dick as I do. I mean I would definitely I mean, I would Hanna, it's just Nna wasn't the with lingerie on, I'd be like, I would be like, oh, she seems eccentric, you know, she like you guys, don't all bottom. I feel like I would, and then like it would be like he

can watch. I don't know if I would literally like put his dick in my mouth unless you say, you know, unless it turns to drunk. I am with drugs them on, true, but I would for sure I might suck. I just have to be out of like you know, all ea or alcohol. Yeah, that's basically. I love attention so much I'll go gay for attention. Oh so you're so then back to the three esom y'all. I was gonna say, have you had a threesome because I feel like we haven't because she just said she but you guys, So

I'm saying, like, you don't like attracts to have threesomes? Well, I wasn't say serious. Even attractive couples get people to like come in, No you don't. That's but we're pretty year and a half we her I was at the sex club with my partner during the pandemic at month four. Were talking about that no, no COVID COVID role. There was only fifteen of us, however, only a couple of droplets however weight at the At the first sex club experience with my partner, we got into an eight person orgy,

so there were three other couples, so six. Yeah. There. He was like, what's your favorite color again? And I was like, damn, I didn't. Okay, you were kissing her, and okay, what's like my A D D chaotic energy. You're like, you don't even know who's there, who's dick you're touching? Oh no, no, no, I was really there for the women, like the men were all just kind of watching. We didn't play with Brilli that that's not really her thing. That means you would want it if

you can get it. It doesn't even come up for us because we've never even had the conversation. I mean, why not, because you just know she not down. It's what it never even it hasn't even come up. I've never have you ever had one of you ever wanted one way? But I've had threesome, but not in like a relationship situation. It's never been like myself and my partner at the time being like let's throw somebody else in the mix. You were just like tall, daddy hot.

I'm not trying to up. It just happened to you. It fell in your lap. Have you ever had a through? No, you feel like a threesome girl, which is fucking crazy. No. No, I'm like the girl that people are like, oh, I'm gonna give you coke and like a crazy and I like, I'm like, it doesn't realize that step one, I feel like a bark really loud and was like that girls so fun and then I'm like, you guys, don't go sleep. I'm tired. Like I'm actually like I leave midway after

my stand up shows. Everyone's like, let's fucking party, and I'm like, I know I seemed fun on stage, but I actually like watch like the Food Network after What do you mean you know? No, it's not you. You're gonna see your lie right now, Mandy. You make fun of me because I won't go to out after the shows? Are you serious? Right now? What one time I'm gonna bump in l A? Dude, I don't want you in l A? They offered us, Okay, what do you want

me to say? That was at one time? You outside but it sounds cool, cool, You're still with the guy. So we just broke up because he didn't show up on Valentine's say how you need to flowers? Yeah, but we talked about that statement. I'm not gonna lie. We talked about that with a couple of therapists. But I mean, I'm past it. Yeah, what's crazy is the problem in our relationship was never the orgies or sex clubs. Mind you.

Pretty much every friend that came to New York to visit both of us, um, so we were having a lot of sex. The sex was never the issue was more of like the commune occasion and the boundaries, and so we did. We did. It's not that I have to bring it up here. Real He's also someone on this podcast I broke up with and got back together, and broke up and got back together for the for for enough time that now I'm just like, I'm cool,

like I'm cool on it. To be fair with you, though in the realm of dating, which I have zero time for it right now with work, I know that that's still something I would want in my next relationship. I actually enjoyed the sex clubs because I like women. I got the guy for you man? Who is it? John? Comedian? I ain't gonna hold you comedians. I don't know my pussy dry up. Guys, they're both comings. Have you ever dated others? Comedian? Comedian? Alright, comedian, the podcasters? Those are

the two things. Last sex. How you gonna make me look him up? Let's get that about talking like a little way. He used to be a basketball player. That Actually, I'm telling you John is just crushed me. Good boy. It can't just to smiss comedians out right, No, I mean look him up. Number I'm telling you why. I'm telling you why I'm bringing him up. First of all,

he created the act the app Black. He's also an entrepreneur b l A p l a p Slack owned business app right just started entrepreneur black, entrepreneur, super funny but literally said to me recently, I cannot be in a relationship but a woman that doesn't want to bring other people into the relationship. How everybody minute future hire Sego was drawing. But he might not be a type. Now he's not my type. He's super famous. No, he's not. He's not super he's not reckless. I know who the

person is, you know, I don't like super famous people. No, no, no, not get him up too much. He's a great guy. I just one of my let me see any swag. He's sick, sick, sick, he's six. No, I run away. I don't want to give away and I don't know you know. All I'm saying is that he sounds like the guy for you. I don't want to get in trouble, but no, no, And that's would place. I mean, that's

that's the experience life. So what you're saying though, in terms of three sims and bringing out the people into the bedroom. Before my last relationship, it was only with people that I didn't see myself being with so I didn't have to worry about being judged or it was just something fun. But now that that's something that I did experience, I realized, like, nah, I'm gonna need you to let me like be with other people. And it

wasn't even men as much as it was women. But my problem is women be wanting to go on dates, maybe one too much, but just be fucking wanting a lot, and I just want to find I'm not away for the right person. Was their first date like, oh not? He was in a dark place. I had had sex and eight months I was living with my parents with four cats. I was like face timing, like football players and ship who were like injured and had CT. It wasn't. I wasn't in a good place. Their brains were mashed

potatoes and it was fine. This dude, I saw him performed like six years ago at the comedy Cellar, and I was like, this guy is cute, but he talked about LEVI in Ireland, so I'm like, I guess I'll never date that guy. Fast forward because of pandemic. He's in Long Island. I'm in Long Island. He sees him out there and he just sends me a straightforward text. He goes, are you out east? And I said yes, and he goes, do you want to do you wanna get coffee and zide harper. I said, yes, here's my digits,

not coffee. I know, I knew when handles like my boyfriend has. Yeah, I'm not. I was a bit im. I'll be honest with you. I've had a I don't know how I would connect with someone who doesn't drink. I'm drinking both not drink, so I'm I love eating drinking. I'm not. I'm not great at I don't get sucked up with you. But when you're just taking out, I don't need a glass, so I'll be honest with you. I think a lot of people this is an interesting conversation because I might have said on this podcast, I

couldn't dat someone who doesn't drink. I've hung out with Hannah who doesn't drink. Um My homegirl Brianda doesn't drink right now. I think it depends on if someone comes alive when they drink or not. You always seem extrovert and have that energy, so I and you know when you feel bad sometimes that someone's not drinking, so you're like, that's how everyone always thinks I'm high because I'm always giggling and eating, so like I already have that when

I drink, I'm like I ruined the party. I'm like, I'm just like shaking my butt in the corner, like I'm way more fun right now. How do you in page get along? You're partnering Giggly squadrother podcast page. She has her side where she likes to like party, go out, but me and her at our core, we like to sit around and talk ship and make each other laugh

pretty sober. Great because sober. But with I feel like a lot of my girlfriends, they get into a lot of fights, like when they're drunk with their significant other, he's going out whatever, they're going out, Like, we've never had drunk sex before, We've never had playing very cautious. When I first met her, our first day was was great, like in terms of we just hung out and then

she left. We didn't even kiss. And then the second day we actually went and played golf, played nine holes of golf, and I was like, playing this is super cautious. And we finished playing nine holes of golf. Now I have a house on the beach in West Hampton, so that is a that is a I guess a bonus. No, this was so. Then at the end of the nine holes, she goes, uh, do you want to do you want to go to your house? I had to see the house. I had to see who we're working with. We did

have sex in the second day. So the second day we had sex. How was the house? Very basic? Man? But it's a course the street from the ocean. On the ocean. I saw it and I said, I where are we? No? No, no, you know how it happened. I don't know. This is like it's like a beach bungalow. That's how I would describe it. Okay, this is my thing. If I was gonna giving them all, like what are you talking, I'm tolding nine. If I'm gonna invest myself in someone, I want to see this beach house. I

want to make sure it's lit. And I was manifesting a beach house in my life and I saw it lining up. And the problem is I was trying to be cute, like I was in my bikini and it was all wet, and we went back to his place and you know how you want to like slowly strip, but I was like, funking, this ship's wet. So I just took all my clothes off and I'm like, let's go. We fuck, and then I give the whole like you know, I don't normally do that, and he's like, I don't

give a funk, I don't have time. I'm old, why did you give that? I normally don't do this speech. I think her grown age because she's getting all those like five date rules ships in her head. You know, I mean to be fair, we do as women Unfortunately, like I just thought, especially because you want to make sure someone invests. I mean, I'm not gonna lie. I hate. I didn't have sex with the people I liked too, So it's like, I think sex with people you liked

in your twenties, No, I didn't. I know. What I'm saying is I know that's the problem. What would you even? I just met I just met one last week and thought I was sister, was a little friend of mine. And I was like, no, I didn't suck him because I actually liked him back in two thousand nine. No, you have to suck them to know that the sex is good, to know that you're into it, to know that you like their smells and their stuff. And I

merely was into it. And then two days later I was like, I have to go some reality show, The Devil's Entertainment, And and then I called him every night crying, and I have to say he showed me that, like, you don't have to play the cool girl, you have to play perfect. I was a fucking mess and this guy was like, I want her to be the mother of my children. I was like, I'm going to fix that. The mess. The girl that was the mess, right, the one and like the hardest time of what made you

propose to a person like that? Because see, we needs to know that people needs to know. Yeah, you want to know the truth? Man. I knew from them literally within ten minutes of meeting Hannah that she was the one that I knew really like I don't believe in the one like destiny wise she was the one. But just like I was forty five when we met, and like within ten minutes, I was like, Oh, she's like a winner for real. So once we had this deep connection,

I didn't need to wait too long. Plus we were kind of like joking about it from pretty early on. Do you think if you were younger when you met Hannah you would have proposed? Well, if I was younger when I met Hannah would have been she would have been like, but I would have been awkward. I probably would have kept it on the down low high. I never dated an older guy like this. The oldest I dated was thirty six. What the old guy does he do?

His back is always hurting? Well, yeah, everywhere he's snort and advil. I say, if you want to me to Daddy, go to Walgreen's hang out in the pain section. They will come. The thing with these older guys, they're like, it's jealous of my love for j Low. Okay, that type, that's old man ship. The thing is he is pre trained, like he has almost fully baked, Like all these women have already like set kind of good boundaries with him and trained him in a lot of ways. So and

I know what I'm getting. It's it's like I'm adopting a senior dog, like I know what he's getting. Also, he's wheezy, he's fucking exhausted, Like I joke, I don't have to worry about him chasing women in the streets anymore. Like he's on the verge of my thread. It's like he's tired, fucking and I kind of last real quick, how old you are? I don't believe any of this. The man, my my ex just turned fifty. It was all further taken man, the sex. But that's what I'm saying.

Like he was still very much like we went like probably no minimum than four rounds a night, minimum, Like what did she say in the pain section? And he wasn't. I mean, we did massagy each other before we got into it, but then we went I type like she wasn't suggesting that we don't yeah about me being out of the game of one note like he was in the game. Now you still in there. You're still in there at forty nine, Well you're still in there until

night break. You already get married. Man, He's like, motherfucker, you ain't done more. You were spreading. Also, he is lying to you out of trash thing. But I do think if I met him in his thirties, we might have missed each other because he's like, wasn't a very I think in the pandemic you said you you were feeling like, Okay, I actually do value maybe having a partner because the world was about the fucking end. That's

the same time I got into a fucking relationship. I saw your rejected thinking as your normal self because it was there in the fucking pandemic. And mind you, but the pandemic and will have the pandemic still over? Do you know I have to get COVID tested tomorrow. Sucking over? Okay, Wait, do you have a three sum? Is that what you trying to say? I mean, he would be I would

circumcised to us. You're circumcising you like that, But I would totally just be into Like if you let me just eat her out and you could watch, I mean, if that was her thing, I would allow it. But I don't think it's her thing. But does she like head? If you liked does she like? That's the only question like that, I would be fine with it, but you know you wouldn't. I think I told you, Like, I'm like a former athlete. I have a lot of really

good lesbian friends. I mean, they are strong women. When you I've had d m s from girls just being like, hey, like, I'm super attracted to you whatever, and it's just never happy into me. I feel like I'm almost lame at this time in my life that I've never experiment with a woman. But it just never. It never. But everybody loves the funny hot girl. Everybody wants to the funny hot girl. Stop you're making me blush. It's true, I mean, and also the funny hot girls insecure, and she wants

everyone to laugh at her. I don't care what you are, where you're from, what you're attracted to. I want your laugh. Who would you? Who would you? You're a fantasy woman being well, we're starting up a question that was cute you just created a safe space for us to explore something. I know this is I was an elevator. I'm like, we're about to get the next level. Um ship, Um okay, you gotta and you you gotta pick someone like in

your you can't say, like beyondus famous. I get turned on watching girls who look like me masturbate online because I think, oh shout, I was trying to prove I'm not narciss damn it. Okay, so Monica Bellucci is he likes? I think I might be interested in like a blonde because they like short hair, like short hair and like a big ass, like listen, don't we're colorful eyelashes that she pulls off somehow. No, but I haven't even thought

about it. What kind of girl i'd be into. It's we're like I just haven't went there in my head. But she's like, stop pushing sexuality onto I think alcoholic. We can't even watch point like she gets to get it in uncomfortable. We try different points, comics, watching she was watching you see the blame game. We go online and and he starts to making fund of the guy. I started making fund the girl. And then it's a bit and we're like, can't be serious. We do have

a point where like we need comics. We cover our intimacy through humor, right, But that's how me and him connect, Like that's our love language, humor. But then we have to work on being intimate and not like making a joke out of it. Wasn't one of the five languages I looked at. Actually, I recently did it my own podcast, and I did a whole thing about the love languages and how they're not broad enough, and I said, humor should be a love language. I believe that's that's our

love language. Is that what we connected straight away. We sometimes have trouble being serious with stuff, We sometimes have trouble expressing emotions, but we never have trouble each other. I was dating someone in l A that told me, you don't all of that at this point, I'm talking about d d Okay, he said, Dave big, dig big, because they're gonna put two and two to basically not

the ding', not the DN. He's a very serious person and he will try to compliment me or tell me something about myself, and he will tell me all the time that I can't make a joke, and he gets angry with me because he'll try to say something into me and I'd be like, don't you know, I don't know how to stop. And I think that when you meet someone who he was on, how do would you turn it stuff into jokes all the time? Yeah, not even like not even more uncomfortable then because he understood it,

because that's me. But he's just like, you need to unlearn this ship. You need to unlearn when like you need to be serious, you need to like meet me there like stop kind of light in the mood for everything. There can be a time and place for like a dark and deeper conversation. And I think for two people to like bond on humor is perfect. But it's like, can you ever fight? Do you guys fight? We fight?

What'd you last fight about? I feel like I thought we were going to fight more because he's a scorpio, I'm a Leo. We are like big personalities. We're not going to start in moments of this podcast that He's like, I get a girl, and then I feel like we don't. The only thing we thought about is, honestly, some external situations like reality TV was that stuff was stressful. But

other than that, what was it. I'm trying to think of what were really I want to know why people fight about No, we'd fight because he'd be like, don't look at the comments, and then I look at the comments and be upset, and then he says, I told you I st look at the comments, and I'd be like, but I need you right now. After a while, that's all we thought about. After while, the the energy that

that creates, like the negative energy. Eventually you're like, you know, it's it's difficult, but it's a normal quote unquote people. Do you know what that is? That's when you've got drama with your friends and you keep venting about it to your partner. Men need a break from that, sheep, get a therapist or another persons. I got a therapist.

But I remember once I was like, he went to bed early, and I'm on TikTok and someone did like a whole TikTok about how much they hate me, and I just I felt it, like it just and then I'm like, I need to tell my partner and I like wake him up, and I'm like and I can't now. And so honestly, when people say there's no perfect relationships,

it's true, because there's no perfect lives. So when we came together my life after a couple of months, my life went through the worst public like I want the gott to fall in love with me, while the whole world hated me, and it was really difficult for me, especially not to get deep of growing up in my life. I thought people love me more than more successful. I am talking about it right now, to get into that ship. Yeah, but I think it's important it helps you. Yeah, I

love someone because that's it's like a type. I think a lot of well, you know a lot of type hard workers girls. Yeah, a lot of type of hard work and girls listeners podcast probably. And I always felt men would love me more than more successful. I am so I get this man, who I fucking think is amazing?

How do you this is that bullshit millennial? We grew girl being independent, girl ball ship and to be fair, as women who are now super successful now become even harder for us to date because, to be fair, men now don't understand their position with us. They don't understand if they're needed, they don't understand where they show up because now you make your own money and you're this girl bass And we had the opportunity to get all

of the jobs that men can't. We grew up with the anything you can do, I can do it better, and it's caused men unfortunately presents us specifically in dating, not me. I can't wait to net work. Oh my god, Look so this is fine, Like, man, I can't wait to go out there and make that money. Man, I'm gonna relax. You want to be you want to be a house husband. This is how I fell in love with this man. He looked at me, he goes, I want to play golf and take care of the kids.

And I said, where do I sign? Okay, where do I sign? But also this is a man who has had his own success, his own fame, his own money, who's done it and is able to watch me doing it and give me good insight and kind of be there for me because we're at different stages. Was hired. It was the only reason we were. I think you're hired. I didn't high was only joking around. I'm going to tell you something, Hannah. So they met old day and he's he's forty four, and um, he has a great career.

But there were moments where I was like, I can only tell from the Dog. I was like the fact that, like I could do a show this weekend, I could bounce around, he could kind of be home. I was like, I kind of like this ship because he's already owned his ship. You know, he's gonna get another property and do this, like he's got it with him. Are you with him in a fight right now? I really like you. He is that guy that and it's how I you know,

I fell in love with him. He's the guy I feel like, I'm a girl that could blend with any friend circle. Like if I want to go to the Hampton's Bitch, I will. And then when I get home and I want to go to Last Lap or some hoe to Ask club, I'm gonna go there too. And I can influx that ship, and so can he. We'll be at fucking Sole House. I'll be all right, I'm ready to be he'd be like me to. That's how I feel with him, to like I compare him in any situation. Throw him with the fucking wolves and he'll

be fine. Put him on reality TV, he'll be fine. Yeah you need somebody that can be a chameleon any relationship, what are Yeah? Yeah you need you need I mean, I agree that, like those are the things that really matter. I know we're joking around all the crazy ship, the orgies and stuff, but she was very real. I told him at my long Honors to your partner City, it's giving big rich town. Look at the view Emerald City.

You feel me, it's always been more important to just like the majority of your life you're not fucking so Actually it's really important to have somebody who you just can chill with most of the time, and more importantly, well as importantly take them anywhere. That's actually a real Irish thing. You could take her anywhere or take him anywhere. That's like an expression they have. Yeah, it's like an important thing to Irish people. Lady in the street, is

she a freaking the sheets? What's the freakiest that? I felt like it finger in your ass? I love a fingerbout if she's not great with the with the anal ship. Wait, bro, you don't even have a Cralic nails. These are perfectly

I just kind of up to talk about that. I started to get have long nails, and then I felt like a dude going through puberty trying to finger someone for the first time, where you I just was like, oh, and he was like whoa, whoa, whoa, And I was like, I'm sorry, but um, he's open to that stuff and I'm open to it too. I just couldn't navigate stuff. Yeah, butth I like it, none of it, you know what I mean. Like it was always like we we never got past the kind of like let's try this phase

with that. It never became like I didn't even talk about it. No, no, no, we discussed it. You discussed required a discussion. Okay, you haven't done much but play before that, right with other guys. No. Yeah, so it was love I have about that. They were like, I'm very openly into the I like a real quick, real quick. Then this is a great conversation. Hold on, so strap up. I'm into pegging and my partner would not let me peg him. However, he bade me eat his ass in

front of a whole set. Like I mean, it was I was a little during that point, but I'm not. I'm not into pegging, like I've never been stream however, even just fingering and licking up the ass, that's something you were into and you were like, I've never done. How was that conversation then? And you been like, I'm in SUI would you do it? Like you can't remember?

I know, so he made handy when you have like routines and like Instagram, he's getting drunk your routines all the time, and I remember him being like, yeah, let's try it. I personally loved the power of inserting something into a guy, being able to because you're getting fucked all the time, and I was able to actually like add sensation to him. And then I joke, my asshole, if it's unkept, is truly scary. I'm Italian and Jewish,

so it's Harry. It's a lot of things, asshole. I mean, I've been working on it, but great part so I was I was nervous about going down on him and he's Irish and it was beautiful and very well kept. I love a pretty buddhole. Did you wink it? Did you wake her budle? Like you know, you can make up defense. We hadn't unfortunate period of time. There's probably too much information. We had a portunate period of time.

My butt hole was going through some issues that perhaps it wasn't like the best place to face, so that probably that happened between that stuff. Wait is your but was it nice and clean? Because you were My boat was real nice and clean. But then there was just like a there was just like a short period where you know, whatever, it doesn't matter science, it's just what do you mean hemorhoid? Yeah? Yeah. Basically My favorite like immediate story about a hemorhoid ever was Andrew Schultz talking

about his hamorreid. Have you guys ever heard him talking about it? He's actually I don't know if he's joking, though, it's very like he had a really bad hemorroid and his now wife her father had to help him with medicines and ship. He said that it was so bad he was in a restaurant and he couldn't sit down because it's like spread it. He had to get pellos or like, uh, what hellos? What? Why are we doing this? Agame? Why does it always come three months later and you

still don't know how to say pillow? Hello? Hello, Hello, it's a pillow. It's okay, that's a thing, Okay, it's pillo. We know what, we knew, what we knew even met with the word and he said he got no, he can't take anything seriously. But so you wouldn't separate his fucking hemorrhids. Bro, and I really want to can't separate hemorheids? Like, well, no, I said, I've never had it like that. Yeah, he extreme. I was like, you know that maybe if you like it,

it feels better. You can't. Can't so nice because you were used to like or you wanted out there. I always feel like if we were going to do that, I would make sure that it was in good orders? How do you do that? How do men make sure that? But just wash my butt? But that I just watched about a little bit of like if you got to go in there to get it out? Oh douche. I've no,

I've never douched. But if if if I knew that we were gonna do that, probably the time, like any time that might come up, I will make sure I will do a little. I will do a little. Make sure I love you. You just said I'm not going to drink coffee that morning. That's that's what I smart. No, no, no, I'm not. I will, but you know what you should be like thinking like that. I'm sure it's respectful that he'll be like sometimes I'm like, do you want me to to be like not today. It's not set up

like that. And I'm like, I appreciate you. It's not that I'm not prepared. I feel like it's also I would lick, I would lick harrass all the time, but you you know, you're not really like it doesn't really do much. I mean, I'm into it, but but I get nervous because I love Mexican food. I eat all the time. You love you always Mexican food. I eat, sleep, breathe Mexican food. Honestly, I think I have ibs or

some ship because I'm hot. But I do think that I don't like having a partner because you have to change the whole way you like consume food and all that ship. So yeah, that's my own issues. Yeah, she got like a little paranoria. What kind of stuff have you guys had to like since living together? Change or like, you know, nothing. We're both very messy. We don't want to give each other a hard time about mess And you got a cat. Oh can't you not make that

fucking face. I have a cat too, and you sound real judgment you're Bessie and you got a cat like cat clearer than dogs, dogs, little pists and ship all of your fucking house. A cat know to get his motherfucking letter. He just always pists and ships in the house. Yea, And a cat always ships in his litter box like a dog. If you leave, if you don't come home in time, Yes, you were going to have piste and

ship in your house. I can leave my cap for three days and it's going in this litter box, you know, I mean the cat. The cat thing is convenient I have to say about. Yeah, it's catty. We have to learn from cats. Like my cat. He's been feeding her every morning for over a year, and she just started to let him pet her. And that's called boundaries and self respect. Like this bitch. She finally would sit next to him, but like turn away, like I don't want you to pet me, but I'll let you. And she's

aspirational butter, she is a self respecting independent woman. Can I tell you something I stole from you? You have your cat's name as a name plate. Oh, Nana, Simone is getting made right now, have to I got it in Chinatown. I got it one of these places in Chinata. Did Alright, let's get back to it. And then your sex light. Yeah, we give a good blowjob? Oh yeah, great blowjob? Really great blowjob? Give us tell us why because you put a ring on it? So I feel

like we've never had these talks. What's the best thing she does when she sucks your dick? We don't say cock, but you got a great mouth. First of all, if you look, it's a very good not to v fool it's it's it's a cupid do you. I don't know. I think I've never really thought about what is it specifically about hand burn? Is that it's that I love I love his cock'dication you don't like the word cock? It bothers me. Oh, and you guys don't say blow

jobs either. Right, I hate the word, but I wanted to give it a little for you guys to sation. We could say schlan with all terms. Yeah, he said, I don't say either. Yeah. Cat to me is just like cock, a chicken or a tail tail when I think of cock. You know, he had as a performer. So when she's when she's sucking my dick, when she has my penis in her mouth, I want to say the thing that makes you most comfortable, dick pish my deck is in her mouth, you know, I know that

she's she wants it to be good. You know that. To be fair, we've said that in terms of women, like giving good head or blow jobs, it comes from whether you enjoyed or not. If a woman doesn't enjoy what she's doing, the person receiving it is going to feel that they're not enjoying doing this. But that goes back to my toxic trait that to be loved, I need to be good at things. So I'm like you, I clus to heres does. But in college, I was a Division one tennis player and someone guy, some guy

told me, I'm do you want a sucking dick? And I never forget that and I bring my best, but I do I want to feel somebody's I want to feel somebody's dysfunction when my dick is in them out. That's really what gets me off sports at all. So I was like one good. So also I have stupid things that I had a girl who loves sucking. Take in college, you always just have time one girl and

she would give me, like or a gay guy. True um to deep throat, you put your thumb in between your fore finger and your middle finger and you hold that and it helps you not gag, I'll pull that ship. And I also think you have to think of like your own rhythm when someone's touching you. Like guys aren't completely different, where like when you keep the rhythm that you want and don't be just like showing off in

a lot of different ways. There's like something to be said about a good rhythm to it now that you live together, because this is great for our horder, which is our sex chip segment. You live together. A lot of people say their sex life dies. How do you keep it alive? Quote unquote? And if it gets stale? Do you take a staycation? Do you guys have better sex off? Like tell us about that. I mean you definitely sometimes have to like make the effort. You're probably

better these days at like bringing it up. She's actually better. How do you bring it up? Like look like literally it's just like honestly sometimes it can literally be I think we should fuck like in other words, like it's

we need to funk now before. I'm so sexually attracted to this man like I've normally after like six months, I hate every man I've ever been with just six months, something happens, and this man I've been with for a year and a half and I would just see him sitting on his phone and I'll be like, I want to pounce on this man. And I would just like take my pants off and be like, do you have

sex with me? And then he looks at me and because he's probably thinking about like taxes or some ship, and he's like wait, wait, wait, and then he'll be like okay, let's go, and then we just go in the bedroom. She's more of a masturbator for coming. I mean, I mean the pressure is like love most that you just said that with no fucking ego. Do you don't have any idea how many people say if they don't know how to tell their partner, they're not making them come.

It's not always about them, and sometimes it's about our sucking pussy. So were you to say, oh, pressure is off me? We are very simple where he's And also I feel like he gets turned on when I make myself come, So he'll be like, okay, make yourself come, and then I do it and then it feels so good. Well it's only a couple of times, and she's a little you know, like well we were playing her ound finger and lower her spot. Honestly, you need a fucking

like the US Army tracking device to find her. So like it's like it was there a second ago, now it's lower. But anyway, whatever, I'm just joking around. Anyway. You know, she's good at like telling me where to be, which I love, you know, and uh so, but then sometimes like it's taken a while, I'd be like, yo, you want to just take over, and then five seconds you know, she's like, what are the boom? It's done?

And then it's like I'm in there afterwards because she likes to get sucked after she comes, So that's what's great. That's high and I come first. Yeah, and then I like that. I mean feminism, right, feminism, you damn right.

I meant to do this, so I will say, is there any part of you that like has felt a little insecure that you can't or that in hand and needs masturbation to come quicker or anything like, but first of all, you think honestly, like literally that was like because I actually had a sex podcast before, but my partner,

Irish Girl, was actually quite inexperience. A part of it was just kind of like her learning and me being like the old fucking creep saying home back in my day and anyway, Uh, it came up a lot, this issue about the masturbation, and I've always been comfortable with that, and I've always been like, tell me what's works you like, guide me around. I have routines about it about like google maps, whatever you know. So like, I've always been

comfortable with that. I understand that some guys have egos around that ship, but for me, I love women coming. That's my turn on. So what am I gonna fucking cut off my nose despite my face and be like, well, it's gotta be me that makes you come, because I don't care how you come. I just want you to come. Yeah.

I love that because whenever I tell the dude to like jerk off, if I know I'm not getting them there, Like there's a part of you sometimes that are like are they going to think that I couldn't make them come? Or you make it come a different way, like they jerk off while they're looking at you like touching. I've not that a guy didn't make me come. When I do come, I'm never like, oh, well he didn't do it. I had I really don't do because also you're with

him like clearly you're turned on. I can't come if I'm in a bed with someone who's grossing me out. But also it's my issues too, where like for me to come, I joke like the moon has to be like in a certain like I have to be in the right mindset if a guy's going down on me. Sometimes I feel like it's too intimate. Sometimes my legs have to be straight for me to come straight when I have to like like, I can't come like this,

I have to be like just straight leg comer. I think it's because when I was jerking off because I feel like not but because I wanted to be like was that hot? You have come? But I can't not hurt. It's not her easy way coming. We're going down to the once normally. I even have a joke that you can't because you can't know she don't. You haven't come that off of when I've gone down here. She's more of a straight leg finger. I appreciate you for not

being a liar. Oh, that's only I'm not hunting. Straight leg coming is wild? No, that's yes, that's really yeah. Before we also a girl who had a sushi piast on her body and like she got gang bang with a lightsaber. But that is wild. No what you said? If so, this is my thing. When I started touching myself when I was younger, I was laying down, so I would like, I like to you know, you want your like squeeze your butt cheeks and your legs are out, and they's like me, you get what I was saying.

So then when I changed my leg position, I wasn't able to like do it like I did it how I made myself come, you know. And that's normally what people should practice for anybody who's listening that was happening trouble worgasm and drink sex. Try to do it how you do it alone. Yeah, that's super helpful. Yeah. Yeah, I don't give a funk if they're there. Yeah. If I need to watch bou cockey, I'm watching it. All right, let's get into the hope. No, is that? Like? Is that?

A Greek food? Cockey is a term for when a bunch of people will ejaculate on someone's face. I prefer it like after a gang bang. Sometimes I like when they're getting sucked. In the book, why do you guy had a camera? Arm me? Dave? It's a folding cameras have moved there on you. No, no, no, I'm watching what he did. He change the angle to just me because because you're talking about yourself. No, we can have a collective experience. Let's David is very fast. It's a

group group. I like it when they all come on the girl's face and sometimes at the same time. I don't know why, I just like it. Anyway. Fo mail is about the sex club, so Mandy probably should need to answer this, but let's all join in. Hey ladies, love y'all want to thank you for the knowledge you drop on your show. I went eighteen months without sex, and now I'm ready for some dick. All caps see our audience. Let's any to your show has really made

me come out of my shell. Me and my home girl went to a sex club for the first time, and it was her second time, but she invited me. I had it in my head that I was going to go in, even packed a hobag with condoms, deep throat spray, platorial stimulating gel the words I got in and I was so shy. I ended up just watching all night. There was a guy in there with the biggest dick I've ever seen. It was like a pringle can sized dick. Damn. I was amazed. I couldn't stop watching,

and he came over to me. At some point in the night we vibed. I got his number. While we were dancing on each other. My home girl slipped in and started dancing on him too, so I let her do her thing. She ended up taking him home after but damn, I still want to suck too, especially after hearing it was good. Is there DIBs on sex club dick? Ps? I really hope you come to Toronto again. We got cocked. Like from the COVID, there's there's there's de dig period.

To me, the fact that your friends ask your friend just it's it's still to me, your loyalty is to your friend, not to if you're at a sex club and everyone's fucking, everyone's fucking. Like I was gonna say, I would have sucked him if we were still in the sex club, But if you took him out of the sex club, I feel like, now you gotta because she might really like this guy. Yeah yeah, but then but then to me, I ain't gonna hold you depending

on a friend. There'd be friends that be acting like Dick is off limits when it's like that man means nothing to you. You can't hold everybody's dick constant. I need you to let some of them. Any feelings do you have? Yeah, I think she should ask, only because it was so soon in the timeframe. Um, I think that's important, and you went to the club with her, like,

I think there's a lot of factors to that. I mean, but to be fair in the sex club, I've I shared my first experience at the sex club where I'm at a bar talking to a woman and she's like, yeah, my man was just eating your fussy upstairs. That's my

that's my husband. And so like the fact that I was just sharing drinks at the bar talking to someone whose husband was just eating me out, It's like that's where in the sex club there are there's really no rules except at one at the scent, but not really the It's weird because, to be fair to my partner, when we were to the sex clubs, he didn't even a man couldn't really talk to me without coming in first.

Also six eight, So when we walk in the fucking club, everyone else why I walked in with no man should feel like they can approach you without asking me first. That's that's the first thing. However, if this is your friend and y'all came across a man in the club with a big old dick, I still think he's for everybody at that point. So then, but but but only because you and your your home girl are not in

the relationship like me and my partner. In terms of man and ego in a club, I think that if you show up to a sex club with a man, any other man that approaches you, or any man that deals with you outside the club should probably talk to You're saying because they're not in a quote unquote relations Because her and her friend are in a relationship, I think that she can move kind of forward with him as long as her friend is now not seeing this

person as a possible boyfriend. If it's just sex, the sex club is just sex, to be fair, there's not really feelings involved. I have a girlfriend for the night which I've gone to the club. I don't know the girls. The next time I go to the sex club, Hey, what's your name? I remember last time I forget names. I think, as you're my girlfriend for the night. But the next time I go, yeah, we had a great time,

once time, what was your name? Again? And we reintroduce each other because in the sex club, you're kind of in like this realm where yes, everyone is consentful, but the emotions are kind of detached from sex, not consul No, it is consent ful. I thought, that's given work. What happened between between Pello consentful? I get exactly what's going on. I think if you have to ask if you should

ask your friend, you should probably ask. You should, just as if you're wondering, just when you're wondering, should I break up with this dude, you should. So there's two things that came across that friend. One, sometimes people are like really nervous about telling others about their sex live.

I ran into this situation recently where um, I was visiting New York again and there was this cute guy that has a mutual friend with me on Instagram and her and I are friends friends, but we've gone out a few times and I was gonna funk him, and I was like, damn, should I hit her up? But I don't. Also, if you consider her your friends. But I also really wouldn't have told anyone I sucked him, And I came into this place of like, I would have never have called this girl to tell her I

was having sex with someone. I don't really want people to know who I'm sleeping with. So it was really difficult for me because I had do you know they before? You know that? I didn't want to ask him. It's just mutual friends on Instagram, but come on New York. Just vibe. They're both hot. They both lived in Atlanta. At one point, I'm like, they've a right so and it was your me. Sorry. I also wanted to add, this is not like a guy that's like you live

in New York. I live in New York. Like everybody follows everybody. It was just like these were the only mutual friends. Like okay, but it's also like you're not responsible to be the FBI and figure out like her whole past every dude. So for me, I was having a hard time. I end up saying it they did fuck. She was like, oh I had a three years ago. I was like, okay, great, and she was like, but

I don't know, maybe I would feel a way. Yeah, you called, but I didn't want to tell her because I wouldn't have naturally called this person and told her about my sex life. So you had to open up two things, you know what I mean. And I think that was like something that was weird for me. So I get that. But um, as far as this particular dick, you guys were both there, I would definitely hit her up because but also but also the nicks in the sex club baby for everybody. So you, Mandy, you just

said he's like a sex story. Do you ask her? So you're saying no, no, no, I'm saying I'm saying, like, no, no, no, no. I didn't say not ask her, but she should let know, she should let it, she should let it be known, or wait till you'll go not asked. You're saying, Tyler, I'm gonna suck him. They're not in a relationship. They met him at a sex place, she didn't even know if he could. He wants to hurt a lot of conversations, got a lot of conversations to happen. That's actually valid.

That is, how does she know the man even wants to suck her? Valid? She wants to check with her before she even tried. Everyone does, Mandy, how often do you think people meet in a sex club and like become full on relationships. So to be fair, we we've had a we've had a couple on here um Mr Slithers and mistress. So they met, they met in the style and they met a cup called lifestyle. They met in cup holding it referred to the lifestyle. No, no, no,

calm down. There's a difference. There's a sex club in the lifestyle. Lifestyle would be so I want to the sex club. But I also engaged in swinging where where swapped. There's lifestyle. As far as if your Polly, if you're an open relationship, anything that's non monogamy is considered lifestyle. She hates that work. I just laugh at it because it took a lifestyle brand. I love for two reasons. One because people say it, and I this way of like I'm trying to be low key about what I'm saying,

but like pitch, it's not at all in the lifestyle. Yeah. It's like when you talk to a couple and you're like you're gonna have a baby and they're like, we're trying. I'm like you're fucking every day. You could just say I'm just like we're trying. Yeah, it's like this low key with like no, no, you stuck everyone's day. You know, I do us know what kind of lifestyle, but yeah, you know, I just joke about the term. But yeah, well and the story and TikTok. Since I'm in the lifestyle,

that's your algorithm on TikTok. Like every now and then I get you because my rhythm is the press girls like all right, you know, like these video nails and cats, nails, cats and recipes. Why are you can enlist? It's not random, man, No, it's not random. It's based on your searches. No, not you blame in TikTok for your out there baby, I don't know how to fun game. Man came up, A man, don't come up on my I think they just think.

I mean, I think a video probably came up and I like watching it too long and just be told, I have no interest in the lifestyle, but I do find those videos about the lifestyle pretty fascinating. Yeah you think that that we couldn't do like a sex club because me and you both have main character energy too much? Do you just said a worried and we're at a sex club next week? It's sad. I'm blond and right,

but also I'm literally like the Troubled Guide. Any of my friends that come and want to experience sex clubs, I end up having to take them to them. And it's weird because you said main character energy when you go into a sex club. Like me and my partner my ex at the time, we didn't have the same type of women, so we would separate after we enjoyed each other, we would separate. He would go up, it's fun, and I would grab my fun with whatever girlfriends it's getting.

You guys are going to the sex club before the wedding. I feel it, yeah, and I think it'd be super fun if you guys went many loves to be the fucking tour guy. Should anybody who walks in here. I swear to you, this is a compliment. We've not met people before. I feel like y'all have been in the room. Mandy be like, okay, that's the sex of me. I'd be like, this is a cult leader. Like everybody ends up of the sex of the most unassuming people. They end up were going with Mandy. But also, I've one

charge like two thousand dollars. Now when you're with me, how do you know that? I just know would be really fun. You guys probably won't have sex when you but I know I have a few friends that have been and we've chatted about they do. They charge men astronomical rates, which let's just say. I said to one of my friends, like, I'd love to go, and they were like, oh, they charged two times and for a guy. I was like, all right, I'm not going. I'm gonna

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