EP 259: Heaux Mails & Tales

what animal, but it's an animal. It's a it's giving like you know, a liger. It's like it's this is only tiger because it could be it's just tiger because it's brown but white. You could be a zebra. Okay, is also a is it it's giving tiger? I'm not sure it's giving classed it's given players clubs, bucking ground. Then him jump suit that ain't given class bit huh, bitch, it's capriz. How did bitch? I'm here? Ain't I know? But like how what was it? Like? Um? Well, I

just with the nail text were there? No, they weren't because my attorney um rescheduled because bitch. My ship was during a blizzard. Both of us was like, we're not going to court tonight. It's fucking snowing. Um, so I probably I hired a private attorney, uh, and he was He was able to like reschedule and I went in and baby he handled everything by the time. By a time I got in there, it was just like yes, sir, no, sir, I understand. I forgot what I was supposed to say.

And then I remember y'all said your honor, but I didn't know if that was like disrespectful or not, so I just said yes, sir, no sir. The whole time, I just called him sir because I didn't want to, like, you know, I didn't know what I could call him. I've never been in there, so even the whole time, like my attorney is like explaining the proceedings and what my options are, I was just like, I just don't want a criminal record. Was it giving people's court? What

was it giving? Did you get to watch other people's like trials and ship? That'd be fine? Well, first off, I didn't realize that this was taking place where bookings is, and so I didn't notice until later that as people were leaving out from day court that they were getting released. And I noticed when I started looking down and no one had their shoelaces, and I was like, oh, y'all are just getting out of jail. So and then, of course this is a different one. I was at a precinct.

I was just in the holding cell. This was where they was booked, waiting on arrangements to see the judge. That's like I didn't Yeah, that's what I got booked on a weekend. Yeah, I didn't have to see a judge. I didn't have to wait for a judge. That's why. So I had a d A T, which is a disk appearance ticket, which allowed me to go home that that same day. Now, if you're booked and you got to see a judge that day, you just gotta wait. I ran into a girl. She was locked up at

three am and got out. Bitch, when I was going did they look like they have been in jail all night? Well, this girl had on pajamas and I said, oh, honey, did you need she thought somebody? No, she saw her daddy Carr, and her daddy uh called the cops. I said, bit, you better never thought your daddy again. I set O Latina. What do you have to say for them? But I mean it was I'm just glad that it's over. Oh. I had a few options, UM and I decided to go with the option where I took a lower plate.

So I ended up just taking disorderly conduct time served and that allows the case to a be closed already sealed, and I don't have a criminal record. I just have a violation, but it doesn't show up in the background check, and that's the thing I could have got to dismissed. But they do like this thing where it's a journed for six months, so you pretty much have to stay out of trouble for six months and then it will

be dismissed. You didn't have faith in that. Well, my problem is I have a lot of things going on and background checks are gonna have to be ran, and in background checks it would show up as an open criminal case and I didn't want that to be I didn't want that to shine. Remember when UM, I was doing this show for Viacom and you had to drive around with people and they were like, oh, we just gotta do a check on your license and stuff. I was like, okay, well someone will have to drive me

around because you're not gonna find that now. Do I still drive? Yeah, well, we know you have a Mexican license, so she at the time, I didn't have my Mexican license, but she was like, okay, we'll figure out because you can have a co host anyway. Then I think, um for Fuse, I had a background check and it was funny because I was like, y'all know all my sins, right, and they were like, oh, we just want to make sure you can't go nobody. I was like, okay, but

we had a large issue with subs. We had some subs that were gonna be on the show that didn't want their ship ran and Fuse was like, oh, absolutely not, We're not I can let you do all that. I mean, of course not, because I mean we see a lot of things now. I mean she y'all know, I love Real Housewives of Atlanta, uh, Salt Lake City, New York, Potomac, all the housewives, and bitch one of them had a whole bunch of racist tweets on her face and now

got fired just from tweets. Were tweets were insane and you know what, no sympathy because I also found a black nail text, so I'm super hype. I'm going to her on Friday, so I'm excited because it the girl in Williamsburg. No, here's the thing. I love, y'all black nail text. But goddamn, y'all think I'm supposed to know that I need a new set a month and a half from now. Then bit just be booked out. I'm like, bro, y'all, let y'all open your calendars one day and the ship

be filled. I don't know what I'm gonna need my nails done, bit I am a busy person. So and then a lot of black nail texts also hands only the girl I'm going to. So now I still gotta find somebody to do my toes. So yeah, but do you does no? But I do jail polishing petties, just a lot of like the nail takes to do all the design stuff. They'd be like because my ship grows so fast, the cuticle, so I have to get them

done everything. Speaking of that, you know, suddenly after I did my episode my feet out, now many just want to do this all the time. Yet are both out this time around, and I just did it first. I was the first rapper to have their feet out on horrible to say if you don't, was I not? No, I was the first who was it was giving me And then the next week man he was like, I

only had my toes out too. Well. No, Also, I bought this outfit and I have no clue what the shoes I would wear anyway, So that's what black look at. Why do you keep having this happen? Is it? Matt? It's uh lip liner would just chapstick, and it's a chapstick, a lip liner with chapstick. Love to see how much effort you put in. That is a lot of effort because I don't like I like the own bray effect. So I just do the liner and then once I

put the chapstick, then I go like this. And when I kiss my nigga, don't be all over the place. It comes way off. If would love to give I'm not pregnant announcement, whoop whoop, um, I am not baby mama numbers sinko fun times which I started bleeding the day I got on a plane back to New York and I said yes, I said, I mean, technically you could still be pregnant and have your period Okay, the blood is giving miscarriage as heavy as it is. I said that, my god, can you not it's the thing

as a heavy if it was morning. Jesus, I can't see anything on here. I think a portion is way. I said that they get a picture of the pad on the airplane. You go back, question mark. I said, you know what this is, and I want you to act like you know what it is. He goes, O, that's a tampon. You don't know what it is. I mean, the fuck? You know how many times I've seen a tampon in my life. You don't know what it looks like. I know what it looks like. You know how many

times I've seen one? Seven? Damn? How old is that? Nigga? You don't be seeing tampon? No? What what? I don't use them? You never lived with a bit? No, he got you. First of all, he has four baby mamas. He definitely seen the tampa. He's seen the tampon, clearly, not after you know, four baby mamas, four different kids. Anyway, y'all right, Clearly there was no announcement that appearing game after you don't think about it. Actually, that's a good point. Um.

Speaking of the Lambeau. A few things just off the top of I thought were really funny that have happened

since I talked about the Plan B story. Um whether I gave too much detail or too much detail about Baby Mamas or the car that Nickel texted me and said I'm getting a new car and I was like, oh, I thought you're gonna get one in Atlantic because he was like he likes to get him hooked up there or whatever, and he's like, Nigga, people listen to Horrible Listen Like he basically was like, people be shocked that

people actually listen to this show. I think it's just because when you're not a podcast listener, you don't understand the consumer, which I get. But anyway, he texted me this ship like all of these holes listen to podcasts and then were sitting down, love them all them. I told you when I broke up with my nigga, I tried to dipple back with mother seven. He said, what I thought, you hated me. You need more podcast content and I was like, well, fun, I hit you on accident.

My bad, sorry, and then was like would that mouse still do Yeah. I'm like, nig because I'll be talking about you. No, I don't need more podcast content. I just needed to get my rocks off. But I'll say, well, I do so a few things off the top. I was like, what do you want me to like stop talking about it or whatever, and he was like, no,

I ain't gonna bit so. Um. One of his baby mamas doesn't really listen anymore, but she says that when she heard like about him, she said it sounded like him and she knew it from the car and she texted him and said, surprised it's not Nandy, because I guess you're his type. He always talks about how like he's gonna support me keeping his way because he wants me to have a fat ass. So I can't understand why she thought he would want a Mandy because it's

giving little booty here, but it's growing. Um. Anyway, she loves horrible decisions. Um. I forgot what she does in Atlanta. But I was like, oh, they still have you on the shot. Let's talk about the deck tails, like you know what I'm saying. It would be fun. I was like, tell her and he was like, no, Um. The other thing he said a bit she used to fun listens and was like, why do you let her say, yo, kind Nane, there's gonna be niggas looking for you. Bit

shut up, um. But anyway, he's gonna get another car now, because he said he really feels like he said he was at the gas station. This was dramatic. But he's like, these black girls are looking at me, and I think it's because they saw my car and they know him. In l there is more niggas. Dog they're looking at your but not the only nigga with a lambeau. Bro, you can you win acting like he the only nigga in the whole U s of Ay with a goddamn lambeaux.

I think he just feels polarized. I said, they are looking at you, and he was like, how you know? I said, they're looking. If you're looking at you, nigga, you're fine. You're fucking fine with a ambo. They're looking at your car. I mean they're probably looking at you to holliege you, not because they did. Oh my god, I heard about a black man who drives a lambo in l A. I wonder if this is who Weasy is sucking the thought the fact that that's where he thinks,

or you think or y'all. Both of you gotta remember though, when the nigga been into jail, they think everybody looking at Adam. So then we go out. We go to this place downtown. Is it called Continental Club? I think it is. That's where I was supposed to go after Our Lives show. That's where I got the table I fun with Continent the club. So I go, bitch, not too bitches coming up talking about because they could let you valet outside. But she was with him, right, yeah,

they don't even talk to me, Mandy. They went straight to him. He was loving it, and then he was like, I understand you. I mean, so that's a very valid point. Now we know that b d D wasn't into the lifestyle, but is that something that Lambo's into? First of all, I'm not about to have three sims with a naked that I just started sucking with you almost, You're right, you know what I mean? You almost got a baby

into this world week. I not almost you talking about you can't bring another bitch into the bedroom like that's not your emo. The bands of the live shows, I think when you brought your old bay up on stage, somebody may have asked, y'all looking for somebody to fo the night. Bro everybody knows, was like, yo, I have never He was like them girls were going crazy. He said, they already knew who I was before I got to want to stay like they were wilding out. Is that

his sister was there, old Bay sister. He was like, she went to the green room because she was like, I'm not she was tired of it. Her son was there. That's what I'm saying. So me and Eddon's point exactly, are you not going to bring other women into the room with this nigga, especially if it's dick? Is that good? You don't want to share it? I'm just not in

the mood for that right now. And also like I feel like so many people want to have a three so with me because they know I'm into it, and it's just like, calm down, I'll tell you, you you know what, I'd be really honest with you. I like when I go out, I really like having girlfriends just for the night. And for whatever reason, I had a girl in Orlando, a girl in d C. I have and they've all hit me like the next day, let me know when

I can come to New York. Offered to fly themselves here and everything, and I'd just be like, all right, well, it was a fun night. But I don't I know, I don't know how to go beyond that, especially, but I also just don't want to waste a girl's time. I guess no, that's fair because like we know that women get emotional. This they do and babe, I got

the time, but not pussy. I just don't want. I feel like I would have wanted pussy that night, Like I'll make out with you that night and if you happen to come to my room at my house, we're gonna fuck, but then I probably won't talk to you anymore after that, or I'll funk you again if we go out, make out, get drunk, and come back. Girls are down for just a lot of I have not

met like they Okay, I don't know. And see the girl that I made out with in Norland, though she was would have stud so I thought that was her girlfriend, and you know, so I was just playing with both of them. The next day she said let me know and I'll come up to New York. Hey, Babe, like I had so much fun. Lest sign I was like, was that not your girl? No? Girl? That was just my home girl. I said, oh, because it was given. It was given. It was giving, y'all. But I guess not.

You look hell again. But I love it. I like, I know what it is. It's the glasses too, but that no, not to have the glasses give get Yeah, is this or a snap Are you trying to bro? She has she has a fitted bro. That is it's definitely the fitted is given, is given. Women don't don't wear it when I'm having a bad hair day or I have a wig on. You wear a dad cap, or you wear a bucket, or you wear a snap back. This is a fitted cap. Bro. Huh, you don't know what if fit it is? I no, yeah, I do.

I'm thinking about you know what I mean? Hat no hat saying all the same, Oh, this is a fitted bro. I said. This is like back when I was in middle school and I was like, oh the nigga'm dating, I'm fitned buy him and fitted. But then you had to sneak and try to realize his hat size. It's like, damn iss, he's six and three quarters and he's seven and one four. It's like them ships a size. Bro. You gotta know that you are on the side of your nigga head. And then don't let that nigga have dredgs.

You may as well just get that nigga eight do they have like eights rights big? That's all I know. That nigga umme yea his hat to the side because the dreads too big. And I just that's what I'm saying. You gotta get a nigga. Yeah, but that's the hardest thing ever buying a nigga fitting who got dredgs, because you know that used to be my type. I used to have a dreg head radar growing up. We will walk through the mall and I just looked behind me

and nigga with dreads. I turned down the motherfucking hall go to another store. Nigga with dress I had a draghead radar. I used to love them. I still gold. My boyfriend in high school had permanence. I mean, I grew up in Florida pan permanence. That's the word we're talking about dress though. Yeah, but I'm sorry, I just said I liked him with goals too. He had promout goals. I don't yeah what you mean down his back, bitch, and he drove a motherfucking um what was his car?

I just know it had to spinning rims and it was loud, so everyone knew when he was coming to school. He was a junior. I was a freshman. Good shout out to dre at Evans. No, that was okrag was get it right? Uh? Well, what I was I meant to say was all y'all are saying you love any stories, but sna gonna be in Atlanta for a little bit because he love to be his kids. I'm like, you're getting that. You are you getting back with the bitch, just tell me but whatever. He's like, no, you can

come to Atlanta. And I was like, oh, oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no, I don't need to be I'm okay, that's a commitment. Oh the baby mama, the kid. I thought you met the kids. I'm about to say that's that's not really a commitment meeting kids. I thought, no, the baby mama cool. I told you. I don't know who. I'm not think she's sharing an episode. She works at a place in Atlanta. Damn, I wonder no, no, no, because you lived there for a minute. But like apparently she's been like a bartender

out in there for a while. It's giving. She used to strip because he didn't want to tell me how he met her. But the nick loves strip clubs. But I was like, but um, he was like, now she'd be out and ship like she coolest. But he wants to move there to be closer to his kids and get a big house. I understand. Am I coming there? No? I love Atlanta? I said you can, you can come back. Tell leeve your card that you can do. Oh my god. So I don't know. Maybe I'll need to get a

new boo. No more Plan B stories, I'm done. That was my last one for the year, I would hope. So I don't want you to be popping him like that, I'm done, no more plan. But when I tell you no more plan, I'm not gonna lie, you look like you're trying to convince yourself this like I'm sorry but nothing. If y'all are watching on YouTube, it looks like she she wants to believe herself while saying she's not gonna take a Plan B for the rest of the year.

But she just don't know. You know how how it works to go back when I had to, like want you funk raw, you don't go back the condom out and he looked at me like, bitch you're talking about I'm like like, huh, I'm like, nigga, absolutely not. And he was like, you in on your ovulation no more. And I'm like, it doesn't matter if I'm on the opulation, nigga, no bro, do you know how uncomfortable it is to get your fucking I hate STD testing Like I do it because I have to, but I hate it. I

hate it so much. Oh and I got so much anxiety, and I'm such a hole. I just I'm just sure they're gonna come back and say something I was so they're not be worried. I'm like i'd be surprised when they're like, yeah, everything's dorrible. I'd be like, yes, what great decision it is, But but you gotta go. Like and I go to the sex club, and mind you, that's the thing too, Like I get oral, like I use condoms well, even on toys and stuff, but my nigga uses condoms when we go to the sex club,

but never with him. And honestly, I'm one of those like if he is sucking someone else, don't want to know about it. So I just get tested just because And I'd be like, I'll be waiting, I think just because it's definitely because you have to. But you have to, you guys, trust these names. I went to a guy on Beverly Drive. I wish I could give you their name. It was a man, but it was like all black staff except for the kind of colleges which I didn't know.

His last name is Johnson. I thought it was giving um, but no um. And when I put my feet in the stirrups, the first thing out of my mouth. He doesn't even ask me a question. You know, when you're like scared, you of your parents need to start telling the truth or whatever. I put my feet up, I was like, I just started to sleeping with somebody. But I'm just sleeping with somebody else, and I just want

to make sure that things there's tobe be good. Look, but don't go to d because I'm a little nervous hoping I'm not pregnant. If I am pregnant, poke around some more because I don't want it. I mean, by the way, and I know, guy knows can be like pretty expensive, um, especially if you have to go through insurance. If you don't have insurance, urgent cares do STD testing like CD M D gives you everything like they do everything. I think even is not affordable. Free clinics exist, Orlando.

I always shout out that lgbt Q center. All they make you do is pissing the cup. You can get the theatrics if you want to. But I love this pan cup and good what's the theatrics because like you know, the theatrics that could be blood like all that wish is what I had to make sure um and then after I got the test, obviously and still used condoms. Not the most famous nigga line and Mandy, I would like you to say it for me. Oh, you ain't got nothing. I ain't got nothing. We're good. There we go.

I don't understand you gotta use the ship. Why we gotta use the ship? You just got? We ain't got ship. That's why, no, nigga, there is like incubation periods of the ship. You could have just sucked the bitch during the break that I went through and got tested and waited for my results and now you could about now for maybe okay, wait for you would have been singing. I believe he's fucking all over them to say they're not you. I know you got a good name. Five

you know what you just actually y'all. That's how we're gonna start the homemail because we have one about this, so guys, you don't even read it. He's so this week, this week's episode, Weezy and I are going to be giving some advice for homemail. Um, just because of time constraints, we have missed quite a few. All of these were sent in in January, so these are the most up to date ones. Yeah, I found like five or six of them. UM, so super super super excited. I just

forwarded them as well to the Horrible Decisions email. By the way, UM, please please please send your homemails or hotels too, Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com if you can label it homemail so that we could be sure to flag and start so that we can read it and give you advice on a future episode and this one that we're starting with. I can't stop my baby dadds. I can't stop sucking my baby daddy. Didn't we read this? Now? This was just since in Oh maybe I read it.

Maybe I sent it to him. Yeah, no, yeah, this this is just that. Then like last week she said he got three more kids. Well, let's get into it. So, guys, hope you enjoyed this week's episode of Nothing but Homemail and Hotels. So hey, y'all, I've been in a ten year situation ship with my baby daddy that's already one of the kids. For a long time, he would make me feel like a hope for hooking up with other people, even though he was doing the same thing we've never

been to being a mother. Having said, listen, this is listen. These homemails ain't short, let me get through them. So we didn't dis set these holes. I need to add some color. So for a long time, you would make me feel like a hope for hooking up with other people, even though he was doing the same thing we've never been in a public relationship. And as an impact, I feel like I was being mind fucked by his narcissistic

and manipulative ways. Your podcast really helped me break out of that and I can say that I'm honestly really happy and living in my truth. Thank you guys for being so transparent with us. My story today is that I moved out of my hometown almost three years ago, and my baby daddy flies in on certain schedules, and that's how we co parent while we live in different states. I'm not gonna lie. I still love him, and we

slip up sometimes by having sex. He has always been the guy to cheat on his girlfriends, which never really fazes me because I was always single. Things are a little different. Things are a little different now though. I've been seeing a new guy who also lives in my hometown, and and he's already flying me out to a resort in the Caribbean on vacation or a second day. He seems like everything I could ever ask for, but he's kind of lacking in the looks department. I'm going to

give it Boks and the looks department vation. I'm going to give him a try. But I'm nervous that if I fuck him during the vacation, during the vacation and I don't like it, I may still end up running back to my baby daddy for sex. I don't want to make everything about looks and sex, but those things are kind of important. Although we are more open now about our personal lives, I'm constantly fighting myself to create healthy boundaries with my baby daddy. It's like my pussy

has a mind of her own. What would you guys do if y'all were in my position? X O x ope not adding with that first of all, on the last day, Oh, on the on vacation, Yeah, because why would you do it on the first day. Now you gotta stay on vacation with this guy who has wagons. I'm not gonna want no more. He gonna know if you but to me, if looks Here's the thing, ladies, we do all have our non negotiables. You just put looks in sex seemingly very high onto your list. I

don't know why his. Ladies, we try to convince ourselves that sex with someone else makes sense when we know already that they're not checking off the boxes that are high on our list. It's like you're gonna It's like you're dating with potential. I hate fucking and dating with potential if you already know he's not a looker, and now you're worried that if the sex isn't good, you're gonna go back to sucking your baby daddy. I say,

go to therapy first. But also before you create a healthy relationship with anyone else, you need to create the boundaries for yourself with your baby daddy before you even try to involve anyone else, because it seems like the fact that you're even calling in a situation ship but you've been single forever. I don't believe that you fully identify as single because you keep sucking your baby daddy. Daddy. Yeah, you keep lapsing into the baby daddy. What are your thoughts?

What would you do to me? I think she need therapy and she doesn't need to be trying to date right now without getting over that and not that. I feel like this is the I'm trying to like take myself out of in b biased. I feel like one baby dad, these and baby mamas get together, Like there's a connection that obviously you have that nobody else can recreate. Right, you guys made a kid together. It's super special. You're

always gonna feel attached to this person. I don't think there's anything wrong with fucking your baby daddy or your baby mama as long as you know what I mean, Like, I really don't know. As long as you guys um um. I like, even if even if they're single, I mean to me, it just creates those uh to me, it

creates a lingering effect. It creates a long term effect, and I think that a lot of women do, especially if you create a life with someone, there's still that inkling in the back of many women said not all, but but that you would like to have that family together. And so I think that it has a negative long term effect for you to keep jumping back into something that clearly didn't work. You're not with the man, he still shows up to co parent. I believe in drawing boundaries,

but that's also what I saw growing up. My mom was very adamant in drawing the boundary with my daddy, and we even just had the conversation yesterday, like my dad used to be so disrespectful when my mom even had boyfriends living with us. My daddy will pop up and just walk in the house. And it took a long time for her to draw those boundaries where I don't care that you my baby daddy, respect the other

man that's in this house now. And so to me, no, to me removing sex, removing even the lingering idea that this could be something, or you have that ownership over me because we have kids. So if you feel like it's like being safe, right, like I've gone through really long periods without sex and if I had somebody I felt safe having sex with, and it just happened to be my baby daddy. Fine. Um. Now moreover on the

vacation thing, very since just easy answer for me. I would not go away with someone that I wasn't going to have sex with or or I was scared to funk, or I felt like I'd have to be avoid fucking. Like I did go on a vacation with a sugar daddy, and I remember before I got on that plane. I don't know if it's Binny or Christopher that I talked to about it, I don't know, but I just remember like I was like, oh my god, what if I

have sex? And it was just like, well, flying you out for well know, because I wasn't sleeping with him, right like not, then that's why he gave you a vacation. Oh he's gonna give me the pussy. I don't know. He did get me those Beyonce to the whole Miami, That's what I'm saying. But like, so, okay, we had it was like a thing before where we didn't have sex. But also I was like there was a lot going on, so maybe I could get away with it again. And

he also knew I didn't want to have sex. But even if he knew that, I still got to know him in a foreign country with the man, I gotta be okay with it, And honestly, by the time I got on that plane, I was. I think I talked talked about it, how I watched him fuck like a hole that he paid for, but I was still okay with it if it happened, Like I was totally fine in that feeling. And like, I think, if you're no

vacations worth that you will literally have the worst time. Yeah, you will, I mean, and I'm not gonna lie to I want if you're avoiding it as women, though, I want to get away from the idea that we are these dumb women that don't understand what an invite on

a vacation or Caribbean island is. Like I hear even because I even hear Mom talk about it, but I'm not sucking offering to fly you out on a vacation with me to the islands to talk about euphoria over coffee and tea the fuck, Like it's not a home girl homeboy biber trip. Like if if a man is willing to spend that much money. This goes nigga's first off, Nigga's expect pussy from dinner, that I'm gonna ship the

funk out the next day. The fact, like, women, let's not be blind at the pace that this nigga is sucking flying you out with hopes of getting pussy, real good pussy. And I don't hurt Nigga saying if I'm flying you to an island, don't even think I'm getting condom dick. I'm giving wrong. Oh no, yeah, but I've heard men say this. So the fact that we know the intent behind it. Ladies, don't put yourself in a situation, especially being flown out if you ain't gonna get a

pussy up, because that's what he's flying you out for. Nigga, I'm gonna tell you. Uh well, I hadn't make it, offered me a trip to where was it. It wasn't far, but it was far enough. Oh it was the Hamptons. It was this summer. I met this guy and he was like, oh, let's go to the Hamptons for the weekend, dada. And I was very very explicit about being like, because I wasn't having sex at the time, right, when I was like going through my depression ship because to me,

when I'm sad, I get super attached. It's like I don't know if the feelings would make me go up or down. I was like, bro, I do not want to go to the Hamptons. Like I was like, I'm not trying to fun, like I'm just in this really weird like a sexual moment in my life. And he was like, I think it's the Hamptons, Like what the funk? I was like, I still a vacation overnight is a vacation. To me, overnight means you want some pussy. I said,

you know what's gonna happen. We're gonna be there, We're gonna go out, and then you're gonna look at me in that bit which I don't even gonna hold you overnight, which I would take a train down to Philly, come right back same night. It still got bussy because bitch I crossed state lines. What I'm saying, like, you don't do another city means you okay, that's fair another scene, you know what I mean, except for except you don't

go to Jersey for what? Oh bitch I used to be all up through that g w b baby, I was going straight that nigga that I was going straight for that. Oh my god, I just realized I got another baby, Mama. Remember the nigga out man in l A. We had a great day and he ended up living in New York, but he really lived in Jersey and he lived in the baby Mama. That's awful, girl. What's with you? And I don't know who I mean? Even though there's Fort Lee Edgewater programs all that little area

over there. I looked a lot of niggas that lived in Jersey right there, because it's like tip, Oh my god. And when I used to go Dear and Booty call hours going across the g w B at two am in the morning, four am in the morning, bitch, great shot a few minutes from Park Chest That's when I lived in the box. There's no way now I would set in Jersey. Well, not only because so far. Not when you live in the Bronx, I get it. I don't even know that you could do the tunnel. You could,

you could get Hoboken, That's what I'm saying. She could set Hopebo. Why do you guys try to tell Y invited me to this The New Year's party there ye had I wasn't even here and I was like, I love you, friend, but you thought I was gonna go there. And he's like, you see the party we got invited to? Uh oh, by the time, just come out, it'll be done. The party for your leisure, the surprise party. Oh it's in Jersey. Do you see that? Look your face? You

can't you have money? Uber a bitch. Honestly, I just kind of feel like it's it's like it just feels far. I don't even like Newark Airport. I mean, I ain't gonna hold you right. I don't hold you right. So shout out to good Mom's back Choices. They gave me a two dollar spot credit for my birthday, but it's first Sojo spot and I'm like, this is gonna cost me two hundred dollars ship that's a flight to it. This is not like, this is a very pretentious vibe

by giving. And the vibe is simply because I don't like to go far anywhere, nigga. I had to do uh an interview for something like for TV, like on set and they told me that the location was on D Street and I was like, I know you guys are sending me like a car, but like, can we figure out like a time where I don't want have to sit in the car a long time like this is like I live in the Lower East. I ain't gonna hold you. I ain't noticed it until I moved

to long On the city. Far bitch. I think I've been to the Bronx one time in a year, and that was to go collect mail from my old apartment. Why would you, guys don't. But now I see why nobody came to see me in the Bronx. They was like, bitch, the Bronx, nigga. I like the Bronx when I did live there. They have breweries. Now they're totally gentrifying it um.

But also I got the best chop cheese bro. The food in the Bronx bro, the ship that I used to be able to get, like the Tostones, the all of like, oh my god, the food in the Bronx everywhere, Like I'm not gonna lie at long On the city, A Long and city. Okay, I have a cheese bark and dumplings cheese bar. What do you mean a cheese a cheese and wine bar. And I got done like it's all Asian food. I said, like a bar cheese, no bit. But I'm just saying I do miss the

food in the Bronx speaking of a bar of cheese. Uh, y'all knowes. I was walking Nina and there's always a really long line um at this hot dog k hot dog place on Orchard Street. I don't know if anybody knows I'm talking about the Cross hot Dogs. Yeah, it's a crossroom pianos and the line is long, bro like even in the snow, be like fifty people. So we just happened to walk by there while they open and I was like, yeah, I gotta try this ship. So I had a fried whatever it was hot dog. There

was some cheese in it whatever. Um. Some of you know, if you're on Patreon that my apartment is getting renovated. As my apartment is getting renovated, I can't go in the apartment. So what happens when I eat and take a bite into this hot dog? It's amazing. I finish it. Now I have to ship my pants because it's so much meat and cheese and fried ship. When I tell you I've run up to the apartment, they're like, you can't get in there right now, because it was like,

you know there they got the drill out. I was like, no, no no, no, after he's a bathroom, you can't get in there right now. Oh my god, I think I called Ena get ready to tell them the story. I had to ship so bad. I went into the bodega. I had to give you in a bodega. They know me, but I don't give a fuck. I didn't have a try you sho. I went to I Where did I run to? I went to UM, I went to Mr Taka Ramen. I went to Sauce Pizza. They weren't open yet. I went to a bunch of places in the neighborhood,

and then finally I went to the bodega. And I looked like I was in a panic. I was red in the face, sweating. I had to hand them my dog. Do you know what he's like? I was like, First off, He's like, I can't take the dog. I'm only here. I have to cook the food. Now it's me and Nina in a fucking janitor's closet while I'm shipping, and this dog is looking at me, judging me. She's just sitting there with her little christy ass like, it's like

a mop bucket next to me. Mandy is bad. And I was in there so long that I was like, oh my god, they're gonna think. I'm like, like, is everything Okay? It was a lie. I don't think if you're not from New York, you will not know the terror of having to ship or piss while you're just out in the city. Because baby, don't nobody want to let you use that motherfucking bathroom. Like Starbucks don't even like. But you've got to be able to show a receipt.

Sometimes they'll have a cold. They go now. Anybody can use it ever since that incident, but only start Starbucks on de Lante was too far. They got hot dog was so strong in five it hit my stomach in the middle of it still being in my head. Okay, I was there. It was bad. It was so bad so you'll never eat it again. No, And I really think it was just a mix of meat fried cheese.

Anyboy's not gonna lie. By the time I got out of there, I didn't have any cash on me, but I knew I needed to pay for what I had just done. Somehow. I'm not saying it was a mess. No, I didn't blow it was clean. I'm just saying I felt guilty because I knew he knew I should. The customers probably walked in there thinking there was some bad meat in that death. Oh my god, I thought everything was wrong. Bro. Going bed, I was like, I don't have any I don't even have right now, like you know,

I just want to leave you something. He's like, it's okay, don't worry about it because I come all the time. And I was like, no, can I just take like Apple pay for twenty dollars? And now he's laughing and he goes because I keep offering money? Is it a problem in there? So now? And that's Orchard Street grosser okay, which, by the way, he used to be the bodega had been going to for years. I can't do it anymore. And the shame that I felt after leaving the bathroom,

it was just bad. But you know what you can't feel ship That is a humanly bro everybody everyone. I didn't feel like sometimes I'm too pretty to ship, like I don't think work at me and I don't want them to see me as a shitter. All right, We're gonna get to that. You don't know what I'm saying, Like do you talk about with your man? Yes? What is why we had to change the right after a bitch, I have antal sex many nothing when you have to ship, like you say, I told you, I don't let him know. Baby,

don't eat back there today. It was kind of rough this morning, like when you have to go to the bad It was a little wet that morning when you have you tell him I have to ship because you say, and I hate that you use this word piss. But every time I don't know what something not being crazy about me saying that I got a piss. I mean, I ain't gonnhold but he talks. But he talks about my delivery all the time. I'd be like, oh, you're gonna give me that dick even, like why you talk

like this? He hates Like again he hates when I get into like my sex sock because he's like, you have a fucking sex podcast. Ain't nothing about anything you're saying for something, let us not forget. You can pat it back there. That's what I'm saying that Like, I like, you don't give me that dirt, Like no, but I'd be real open, like he isn't like I'll be like, man,

a bitch gotta piss. I tell him about when I ship it, not when I have to ship, and then I'll tell him what I'm bleeding, like I'm about to die. And he does tell me t M I he said I think that I may. He also says, I don't know why it has to be an announcement, but I'm just free like that I told my friends. He'll be like, bitch, I'm gonna take you off FaceTime because girl, this ship is not coming out. Like when I like really have to focus on getting the ship out while I'm on

face I have to hang out. I'll be like, oh no, I just pushed the screen over. You're gonna be on pause like so o. Bate told me like he knows when I ship, which will really embarrass me. Why does he know when you because he hears the double flush like that, bro, right when it comes out, I know

that's the courtesy flush. That that's when you shipped really bad, like solid dollars just don't need two flushes, bro, Yes, it does not solid coming out, and like that, you basically ship and flush while it goes and then if I have enough double flush when his thing, a double flush. If something comes out of my ass, Mandy, it don't stay called in tide. We keep the home. You know what I'm saying. And so he's so o c D like he goes when the bottles turned, and I'll be like,

I just don't want him to know. I don't want anyone I have, all right, because I don't you step backing like you're like you're fucking grown. It doesn't, it does. This is not a high school thing. It's just like I feel like childish thing. Everyone all adults know, the adults other adults. Shit. No, alright, the next question, guys, Hey queens, I just started listening to your podcast, and I'm obsessed. I listened to what at work. May not be the best time because I get turned on, but

I love it and I'm always cracking up. I am thirty years old, and yes I have orgasm before, but my boyfriend now makes me squirt and I love it. The only thing that sucks is I can't ever do it myself, and sometimes it's hard to make myself even come. Other times he will get off, and again sometimes I don't come. But I love turning him on and pleasing him. I also get off on that. I need some pointers on how to do this myself or answers on why

sometimes a woman just doesn't come? Is that bad? I also have never had a threesome, but now I'm all for it. I think it would be so hot to squirt on another girl while your man is helping. Any pointers or tips you can give to help make it easier for a first timer would be great. You guys, rock, I'm so happy about this podcast. Keep on doing the horrible things you do and inspiring women to be just like you. One love So. The question here, One Love So.

The question is basically, is it bad? Um if a woman doesn't come all the time? Also, how can she make herself come? And then any pointers on having a threesome with her man? And also maybe I would assume there would be a conversation with squirting on the other woman. Um, well that's why I said she wants to squirt on the other woman. He's in the conversation for threesomes. You

take that over. I feel like we've had so much threesome dialogue and not the three so I'll take it over because I just said the conversation will be about squirting on the other woman. This is an act now more more than the threesome. She knows that her man can make her squirt. She wants to ejaculate onto another woman. So to me, that sounds more than even just a threesome. She's she literally said, I think it would be fun for my man to help me squirt on another woman.

I think that that kind of goes more beyond threesome. I think she's envisioning doing that. It's a fantasy of doing it on another woman. I'm not sure if there's maybe a humiliating factor, a um like maybe some sort of um big letter factor of wanting to do that to another woman and your man doing it. I'm not sure in her mind where the pleasure comes. And just I feel like, if it's that specific, you gotta get your ship off at a sex club or something like that.

Like I feel like how women don't st like squirting is often like it's often what women like refrain from. Like, bro, you can make a mess and ruin a big area of where people are playing to squirt, like women that squirt normally will hold it in like squirters know, Like you can ruin a whole area sex club by ejaculating like the thing that you're trying to get off. I mean, I would say that's something to do in the privacy,

not of the sex club. And bis I go to sex club, what I would love to see that that's interesting. I never know that that would be taboos. I'm sorry. Guys can do Bookaki on a bitch and I can't squirtch sexist and the sexiest as much is as much because I mean a lot of sex club coming out of a hole depending on the space, though, like it's

a little selfish thing. I would say to do that to make it so where now there's a large portion of the club that no one else wants to use because it's faked or drenched, Like I've been a couch where you sit down, like you get up immediately that area. People will let you know, don't go in that area. So now there's a large portion of the club that's I don't get it. So you could go there if it's dry, but there was someone else's ass juice on there,

and it's just not. I mean the same way how when I have sex at home, if the sheets are are dry, like there's no someone else's but if it's soaked, I'm removing. What I'm saying is no one is sucking on what sheets. Nobody even no one's sleeping on what sheets, like even at home, it's my own juices. If the sheets are wet, I guess I'm not thinking of the

squirt being like so much is so like. But what I'm saying is no one really likes I Also, when I'm talking about squirt like, I think we also have to stop this idea of like squirting being this fucking fountain of youth that we're watching in porn. Like you know, I don't think it's gonna be that, and say, and if it is, then saying bring it howls okay. As someone who goes to sex climps, that's my advice. I wouldn't suggest it, but that's you suggest I think somebody

wants to see that. But then on the contrary, right, so that does make me wonder about the Bukaki thing. What if some what if a dude? I mean, it's weird because again, as many as I've been to, first off, nutting is a lot more way small. Mind you, when you're nutting, you're either nutting in or on something, which normally you will move until it's wiped off like a lot of times. I mean, and again there's courtesy and

sex clubs. Again that's not something that's normally just like you don't go to sex clubs and niggas are just jacking off all over the fucking sheet like it normally goes somewhere. So for squirting. And again, I've been in places where we all let each other know it's really what over there? You don't want to go over there? Or I've literally went somewhere it was wet, got up immediately, like it's not enjoyed with not only are my own juices,

but damn show not somebody else's juices. I would say, Um, this is actually advice that I thought you would have went a sex worker. If you just want to ejaculate onto somebody, um, and you just want to squirt and you want your man to make you squirt onto somebody, get a sex I only said sex club because I feel like it's a chink that sounds like somebody else would be. But what about those apps you guys usually

kind of like field, there's there's fat life. I mean, if you can find people that I mean, if it's the one specific thing. I think sex club or sex worker, right, But what was the other first question she had? She also said, kind of a man can make her come, but she cannot make herself come, which is ironic because we also talk about here you can't expect to make a man come if you don't know how to make yourself come, like learning your own body, what pleases you.

That's like kind of a tip that we've given for years on this show. Opposite try a vibrator. I honestly, I prefer to come with my own hands, hands that come really hard with my own hands. Vibrators sometimes too fast, and then I just like, I feel like I didn't get to have a long enough orgasm. But I think if you just want to experience doing it alone and definitely a vibrator, a vibrator and make you go quick outside of a vibrator, I would say, this is my

thought on this. So most women, high percentage of women, come from clition. So when you masturbate, a lot of women assume that's the place I gotta be. If you're only coming in orgasm ng with your man, maybe you should throw something on the wall and maybe you come like me from penetration. So maybe you should actually try penetrating yourself without him. So, whether it's something that you stick to a floor, maybe it's a dial dough that you can actually pull in and out of yourself, make

sure you're looped up. Um. You may also be someone who's visually stimulated. I can't really get off with masturbating without porn. So maybe creating the same scenario that you have with your man. Maybe you like lingure helps, though you gotta feel sex, you know, I'm saying, like getting like, you know, feeling sexy, like even if you want to do something like you know, making a video of it, that really turns out the mood, you know, accept the mood for yourself because I'm at the point where I

can masturbate with anything going on. I literally this is embarrassing, but it's true. I had a deep conditioner in my hair and it was for forty five minutes, and I was like, well, I guess I just binged my shows, so might as a little masturbate And like, yeah, I did it. While I was doing that situation, I believe it, you know what I mean, especially with the plastic cap or whatever. But I got my shirt off. I'm just saying like, if you're someone that necessarily can't get your

off that quick, you know you should do it. Where is something another place I masturbated recently that wasn't necessarily the best place? Can I say it? Um? Sure? I can't remember where it was. It was in a place that I was in a room alone privately. Wasn't the kind of collegist? Why was I in that room? Bathroom? No, she masturbated while that ship was coming right out. It was not a Blumkin. It'll come back to me. I really don't know what Blumkin was. I waiting on a

procedure consol tell you ship. That was it. I was in a doctor's office for the consultation for um Cool Sculpting its Cool Sculpting before I did lie, but because I learned that there's like a lot of ship that could go wrong with nerves and pregnancy with cool Sculpting. And it took thirty fucking I didn't seem locked the door. That was the seller. Sorry, go ahead. I want to have a baby at some point, Okay, I would you know what I mean that you almost did. I do

not want to be baby mama number five. If I bet it, do they had one kid. Even if he had five kids with one woman, fine, but like do I want to have to be like so? I mean, I ain't gone. I was considering what the niggader sucked him in his baby mama. I think she was like his second and third baby mama. But he has five baby mama's nine kids. And I know he was going to tin because you get a real big text right off with tin kid. Maybe maybe you get a really

big text break after that. Ten kidd whose baby mama did he just it was something breathe She's another wadling out girl at this point. I know we talked about that concubine, the nigger that had a sex club and in his little thing, and we talked about the cold. At this point, you were hiring women to be wildling out girls to be but I didn't see his dick. That's who are gorgeous. I mean, all of these baby mamas are beautiful. Let let me not even say all

of his baby mamas are beautiful. The reason, uh, everybody in the year looked like me and Wheezy ain't nobody because that nigga ain't got one black baby mama. Sorry, is that bad? No? Maria carries black. She is, but I'm talking about skin tone. I feel like, and so all their babies is about to be can I tell you, though, I do be judging when I'd be like, damn, you only house. Let's you just let me be the spice. Let me just let me be the razzle dazzle. You're

not the razzle dazzle. You're like, what are you talking about? You know what I'm saying. When they only girls, you're not the wrestle dazzle. I don't. I don't like when niggas have a fucking light skin girl type. That's what I'm saying. Oh, I feel objectified. I want I want to know you do everything except for like. But I'll tell you this though, Nick Cannon, do you think it's difficult to like? I think it's got to be hard to stop the charm one. His dick is huge, as

we've seen. Then on top of that, he's rich and he's attractive, and it's like he might sell me a pipe dream. He might be like, look, I know you're tired of doing a podcast. Been six years, bitch, probably tired. You gotta fly back and forth. Let me set you up with a nice crib a little stipend you wanted a family anyway, we know I ain't going away. I would be a good baby dady. It's gonna have a whole.

But I'm not gonna lie. It's giving that that's probably what a lot of the women, I mean, they're all models and live in like they're all like, they don't all live in l A. But they're all like the model type. And I know that that's a lot of

their goals. I'm saying, like, it's not is it really that bad of a deal, Like we keep judging, but like, bitch, but something just really want to get pregnant and get I mean not judging him, I don't really judge the women because they're all like a lot of my friends. Because these babies have all also been announced within the time frame of eighteen months at least the last what six And I'm just like, to me, it's just irresponsible. What if you are responsible irresponsible in terms of health.

You're not exclusive with these women. These women are probably other women. To me, it's just dirty in the pot out here now I'm only playing Devil's advocate where I kind of agree, But what if he is, you know, and he's been clear. I think it wasn't breakfast c ever. Somewhere he was like, Yeah, I take care of all my kids. This is the kind of family. But that's the problem to me, the idea of taking care of

your kids because you got money. There's no way for you to co parent six different households because he has two sets of twins. There's no way realistically. But my daddy lived across town. There's no way across state lines to realistically be there for all of these children at once. And to feel like taking care of a kid is just being able to pay the rent and whatever your child needs financially, that's not taking care of your kids. Also, come to think of it, something I was just thinking

about two. I would love to know the conversation, like all the baby moms are they in a group chat? Do they find out that the next bitch is pregnant? Like all at the same time? Are there two baby mamas that are closer than the other ones? There be like b I don't think they know. I'm not gonna lie. The fact that there was an announcement of a new baby literally three weeks starfter the announcement of a death of a baby, and then the girl but that's not

like she had. But then the girl who had just lost her baby posted about mourning that during the announcement of the new baby, and it didn't give off like she knew there was gonna be this elaborate announcement. However, the girl who had the baby shower actually said, I wanted this to be private, and I hate that my announcement was made through the blogs and not by myself. So but that's what I'm saying. So it's just don't think they all know. And to be fair, as women,

we are still very primitive. I wouldn't doubt that all of them are hoping to be the main or the primary or I mean, I don't know, I don't I mean, obviously you know. It's not like you know, and I gonna anyone do that would happen. What happened to interview? She made it seem like I'm the first, I'm done. No, she made it seemed like her kids ain't gonna even interact with all the other kids. She had. An interview was like this was to find the interviews had to

go through one more. This one is for you. Um it is a thruffle of questions since you ain't want to talk about no got them threesomes? This few love the show. Definitely looking forward to your next tour, now you ready. My husband and I have been together for a long time and began attending sex club and having threesomes about five years ago. Well, in the past eight months we have been in more of a relationship with one woman. We initially here we go, y'all, this is

why you gotta join uh Patreon. We initially met in the w d group chat and spent a lot of time together, whether it's just chilling out for dinner, drinks, and of course having some bomb mask sex. Oh you might know who they are now. We all came to Weezy Sex Sales Live event into the live show in d C. We waited too long and missed the opportunity to come on stage, and I regretted every single time you mentioned the d the d C Show in an

episode insert face pomp. It's just say you don't know how to be on time anyway, Oh my god, Mandy, It's okay. Anyway, just say she and I have spent nights together one on one. We have hung out just the two of us, and she and my husband have hung out together for drinks as well, but they have never spent the night together one on one. Never in a million years what I have thought that we would be in this type of relationship. It had always been where if we had a threesome, it was just that

and we kept a pushing. But this woman, it's different. We're both really feeling her and I don't even like a lot of people. I don't do new friends, and we damn sure, I have never spent this much time with a woman. She and my husband vibe and connect on things they like, and she and I vibe and connect on different things we like. She really is the perfect fucking unicorn for lack of a better term. Well, the bond between me and her seems to be much

tighter than between her and my husband. She and I are so into one another and spend a lot of time chatting just the two of us. My husband says he has often felt like an outsider except when we're all together. I certainly don't want him to feel like this.

I want us all to be in this together. On the same page, he has mentioned that it would be it would help him feel more involved if he got to know her a little better as well, so that he's in the loop and recently started chatting with her just to found out more about her and vice versa. My husband has recently shared that he is really into her too, which is cool. I do want the ship to work because we both are really into her and

she's into both of us as well. We always keep open communication between one another and what we call the no weird zone. I really like that we're no topic is off limits and no judgments. I mean, we talk about anything and everything together, so I know this is a conversation that we will revisit. My questions are which, because they in this trouble space, if this were a throuple, what are some different ways we can we can explore

our relationship deeper? Is it possible to maintain How can we explore our relationship so the three of them deeper together, because clearly it seems one her answer is trying to separate and make each of them closer to her. Deeper together is um? I think going away together, stay, staycations together, having something on the calendar, whether it be bi weekly, monthly, something you only do together. Um, sharing a series together like a movie. It sounds really silly. But I think

in my trouble like it was really cool. We were all watching the same thing, group chats of um things that have to include each other, like said their names. I remember when Beard Bay and Scissors, like they didn't have joint FaceTime back then, and when he was traveling.

I remember he was like, maybe I gotta call you back because you know FaceTime, you can't go and hold right, I gotta call you back on the phone song and so I mean our scissors like I'm sorry, I'll call you back, and like we couldn't all talk at the same time. Like, so I think having something that makes you included, like if we could have used zoom nigga, my throat would have been a little bit. You could use sky but we didn't really think about it back then.

But I mean that you could do zoom on phone now. I don't think I knew about it then, But no having stuff on the calendar, sharing a movie or series together, having a cooking night ship like that. Does that person's name start with the end? It does? Okay, I know who it is, all right? Um. Next question, is it possible to maintain separate types of relationship between us as well as the main relationship between all three of us

and no one will excluded. Is it possible, Is it possible for them clearly to then maintain separate relationship types like you have to do that because if you don't do that, then the throutle falls apart. You have Really, that's how my throuble fell apart, right Like her and I weren't really on good terms even though the three of us were, and then it was at the point where the three of us were getting along better than her and I that him and I were gonna like

it was just okay. But when you don't have and when you don't enrich those personal relationships with each other, then no, what are some things we should do to be sure to be mindful as we move forward? And that was the last question. I don't really not to answer that. I mean, I guess it's something that you spoke of yourself. I think that no weird zone is awesome, and the idea that no topic is off limits and there are no judgments. I think one of the things

jealousy you gotta talk about. I would say that's the biggest thing. Jealousy is huge. But you know what, I think is one of the bigger emotions that we don't really touch on UM, and it's something that I've recently discussed with trying to stay away from UM through therapy. Is resentment. And so resentment comes from not communicating or from wanting something but feeling like you're not in a space to ask or or request that from someone else.

And so when that person doesn't and so when that person doesn't act the way you want them to act, but they don't notice how you want them to act, you start being resentful towards them because they're doing the things that you don't want, or they're doing the things that you haven't. Actually, I want to build on that really quick to UM you were saying or you talked about Austin, like how you'll say you need a break

from your partner. When I was in the throuttle, I felt like I had to be a team player, and you don't because when I'm not in the mood to be out, and then I gotta go out with all of us, and then I'm the one who's a bit, but y'all are in love now, and I'm the one who looks like I'm a bit, and y'all just gonna be like in love without me because I'm the one who doesn't wank be in this mood. And now it looks like I gotta sit across from y'alli is at dinner while you in love with each other, fuck you

and fuck you? Well, then can I ask you a question about that? Did you ever feel at times like saying no when say two of themed to do something but you didn't. Did you you felt like you had to go out with them because y'all were all in orations of course, like they know, I don't want to be the poor sport. I'd be tired and ship Oh bitch, I don't even hold you when my no is my favorite words She didn't either too, She know is my favorite. My friends will come into town, not when I know

I don't. But a trefle is different because it's not just like you feel like you're letting down the people that you love, not just like it's it's something about it as harder. I can't explain it. Even for sex, nigga, I'd be tired. But actually I feel like the only time I really remember is when she fell asleep, and I remember she was just like, I don't care but I wasn't that. I wasn't able to say no like

she could. So like something I'm saying, I think there there is a It's a huge reward to be able to say no because you don't want to do like once I once I was able to say no. Oh bitch, I love saying no, no, saying that it was a good thing. So that's all. That's all my saying no it was a good thing. Um, anyway, that was really fun. If you guys want to send us in homemail, we've actually been kind of lagging on getting a lot, so please have an influx of them. We just ain't been

saving them. Those don't know what I'm saying, Like, we haven't been like uh doing homemails and some of the episodes like so we want to make sure we get those in. Please send them to Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com and try to make them different from the other ship. Give us your drama. Let us judge you, because I will. If Mandy won't, well, I'll share. We do get a hotel, but I'll save that for another one. By the way, I love the title Broken Ivy League

Dick in exchange for Taco Bell. So I'm definitely gonna read that in an upcoming episode. Um, listen, honey, and that the hotel. So, by the way, guys, you can't send in hotels, so there doesn't have to be a question or you don't need advice from us. But if you just want to share a wild, horrible decision, I fear, feel free to send in your hotel too. I would love to get into the hose and just laugh at

you say. I think you were saying hotel like Marryott hotel, the hotel you head that too, hotel a hotel and sending your hotel hotel And how you can you send in a whole hotel, bro, I I don't know what I have to teach. Did you say, Palo that you didn't understand I was breaking up home and tail and you almost had a job, guys, make sure and you almost had a child. Y'all not gonna do this. Let me let me just say this, thank you for listening to horrible decisions. I might not be here next week

because clearly these niggas got a problem. We're not gonna be not pregnant. Maybe I'll be at a hotel, a hotel, having a hotel and making a hotel. No, because I don't have a hell a hotel. Anyway. We are gonna leave you guys with a five minute bonus clip. Again. If you loved everything you heard or whatever, make sure you go on over to our bonus exclusive content on Patreon. That's patreon dot com back slash. Horrible decision. You can't search it, so if you can't find it, you actually

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a lot of uh kettles and pots. However, I mean my take on it was, of course, just the accountability part. At the end of the day. Yeah, I guess we could sit here and sit on the fact that we've all fell for niggas that wasn't shipped. But to me, at some point you have to be able to see who the person is when when they show you them. And first off, you were never the only one or the main one, me, me, the baby mom and other women were also in the picture. Um. And then outside

of that, he left you while you were pregnant. That's fair, but did you ever think that man could degrade you on Instagram live and put your baby on there and keep you you while you were pregnant And according to the family you also did she was already pregnant baby. Yeah, but you also didn't even show up for the baby shower. You didn't show up for me or the baby before the baby was here. Baby, So I just feel like

no to me. Like that's the thing. We all date men with the lens of the idea of them or the potential of them, without really just acknowledging who the funk they are right in front of our eyes. But what is she supposed to so like? And here's the other thing. I understand. He left her when she was pregnant. He didn't show up to the baby shower. Okay, she has the baby. He's like, y'all move in with me. It's your first kid. I'm gonna help you out. Who's

gonna say no to that? Your emotions are crazy. I've never had a baby. You've never had a baby. We've only had friends with babies. Right, they're all fucked up with hormones. And you're telling me I'm gonna say no to the father of my child inviting me in his home and possibly making it work. And granted, she probably is in love with him, Like, no, dude, you're gonna recap the happy memories. What are you gonna do start

fucking with another nigga? No, you want to feel that community and that fatherhood and that feeling is crazy because girl, the first baby mama that you've been back and forth fot she prayed it right now again, So you don't move in with this thing and he's expect I think another child with the woman that she's supposed to do. She's supposed to be a grown ass woman. She wasn't supposed to sell her home in l A to move half across the country where she knows nobody, has no friends.

She said that that's why I took her so long to even leave the house. Like to me, no, I'm sorry, it's a grown ass woman. This being hasn't showed up for you. So for you to put all of all of your hope into this man who hasn't been able to show up for you since at some point you gotta you gotta fault yourself. I think that you can't say that when someone has just had a baby. I think you could say that for someone to like it's just with and they've been in love, like we've said

this and this is a problem with Danny. She probably thought that baby was gonna get them back together. A lot of people keep a baby, have a baby and hope that it makes a bond stronger or but or a man can show up differently. You can't see the same way of a girl that just had her first child. She's young the same it's the same way, And I'm gonna say it, it's the same ship. I said about Summer Walker and her Raggedy Ass album. Yeah, you sat here and argued with all the other baby mama's thinking

that you was gonna be different. Danny thought because she was a yellow bone, she was gonna be treated different than he did. But and and trust me, and I saw this tweet from Crystal that I really liked. It was like, y'all really got me sticking up for this. He want me because I'm yellow bitch, because that's how trash the baby is. But you're saying that we know this, but he ain't gonna stay blahlah blah. Mandy, she she was twenty four, like I think she's twenty five now

or six? Like do you really like, can you really say that? But that's what I'm saying, Like can we and by we I mean people that say you should know better? Can we really say that if you've already been through a shitty situation with a nigga like the girl is young. I just don't and I really feel like he exploited her. I feel like what he did

was fucked up. I just don't like using that young excuse for someone who's twenty six, because we still have niggas in their thirties and forties who's still a like to me, No, there's a lot more resources now. There's a lot of people telling you what to do, what not to do. There's you've sat here and been dragged by the internet. You've seen how bad this man has treated you over the years. It's been in your face.

And she literally said she was like, I feel so bad that I didn't listen to the internet, the fact that you have to be like, damn Internet, you was right. Everyone was telling you. You chose to ignore all the red flag. We just spoke about how everybody was posting the red flag. Bit them ships was flaming hot. They wasn't even off off white. They wasn't even hot pink. They was read the whole time Like so to me, No,

at you're eighteen year an adult. You're twenty, you're twenty one, you're twenty two, you're twenty five, you're twenty six, you're thirty or thirty one. I'm not gonna just call someone in their twenties, late twenties, mid twenties young. Oh my god, it's not like she's in high school. I