Ep 247: & Then We Had Secks (Ft. JRod and Kristen )

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We have another couple on and feel like we've been on a roller coaster every couple of weeks bringing a couple on to the show, and our couple this week are the hosts of And Then We Fucked And Then we had the word funks would have been better, but I was loving it. I understand, I understand what love I'm not gonna And then we had sex. Sex is just I mean, but sex and funck they really go hand in hand. And I really wish but I understand. I understand because you would have had to spell it

with the asterick. It would have been hard to find. So I just looked at ticket Master for our tickets and it was said, w h A horrible So I understand what. Guys, they just had sex, that's all. And they they also happened to be an actual couple. So I would like to introduce Kristen and Sir j Rod to the show. What is our podcast about? Um, it's just about sex and kind many really, I'm a comedian.

But we talked about when we first met, like what ended up happening, Like we fucked and then we had twins, and then we had like it's a whole bunch of other ship that happened. But he used to be a hope. So it's mostly about they don't know about him together? UM, actually do it? You always asked me. I'm going to say that, have you been with me? It feels like I've been with you for eternity, Bay, probably we've been married almost four years? Okay, and together for how long? Six?

When did the baby come? How long I was together before you got pregnantat I ain't because it sounds like off the first rip you gotta it was a little bit like that. After about six months of us dating, I proposed to her, and about two months later we found thought we were pregnant with twins. But I thought, like you got pregnant? He was like, you were already engaged. I was in a relationship, and uh, he came in and tried to be my friend and then tried to

fund my relationship up. I didn't. I never Yeah, I would never be that kind of guy. The guy thought I was trying to push up on her and I was just being a nice friendly But now look now y'all are married. So he had every right to believe listen, I don't know. He was clearvoyant and stuff like, can I ask you you got engaged in six months? Six months?

I knew it. Had you been married before? Wow? Before before I got with her, I already knew that I was looking for something and I met her and I was like this exactly what I'm looking What was it tell us? I mean, first, I need somebody to make me laugh, like I'm a big goofball, so I need the same He said, let me find a comedian. Yeah listen, And I was crazy because I hang around a lot of comedians anyway, and yeah, so we look like this better be funny. But that's what I'm saying. I God, damn.

But now she was sweet. She understood we both came in with children, so she understood that whole dynamic with your other child. Um, and you know she was my best friend right off rep So he's never been as nice. It's only because I'm not saying you listen to three women. I gotta make sure that my record. Questions, though, are going to get spicy, and I want you all to tell on each other. Question. You said that you both had children, and that was the second thing you said.

Do you think that when you're looking for somebody and you have kids that it is better to date another partner with children? Um, it depends on what you're trying to do and who they was working for you got there. I don't know who I want to deal with if I'm gonna deal with you two like I'm gonna have to take both of you all into account. I don't know about that. Well, if someone's having, like once a long lasting relationship, do you think it'd be better if

a parent dates to parent. It depends, Like we have older children. I think when you have younger children makes it a little harder. You got to be with them twenty four seven. But when you got older children, it's like, oh, can still like the relationship? Yeah, y'all, y'all can make food, right, Yeah I can. I can leave you all home alone. But honestly, my first the first thing I wanted was not a woman with a child, and she just ended

up being that dope. So it was like, I, we're gonna do this all right, but let's see how dope she is. Um, after we get into these questions. UM, I did take these from a card game Last Couple Standing, and this is from the UH pack where COVID happened. These are specific two questions that y'all would probably ask each other if y'all were just chilling by yourself. We're gonna start with the ones for her. Is there anything that your partner does sexually that you dislike but you

let him do it? Anyway. Oh, I told him it's uh. When he when he's eating, like he doesn't he forgets the clipes there. He's like, no, want you want to be all he just everything else around. He's like, oh, we tease an, that's what y'all like. And I'm like, you don't know, you don't see it. It's waving as right now. I know the clip is there. I know my job, but I like the taste of vagina, like I like to be up in it, you know it. Just gotta let it be my next goal. Te you know,

I know that's right. I don't like your pussy devours. Yeah, Like I want to actually participate. Do I want to have fun to instead of sitting there and be like, well he's enjoying this like this for me? He said, he just want to slurp. You know, it's a crazy thing about you saying that. I feel like so few women can say that their man enjoys and their pussy. Really, why do we? Like? I know, I think like most women they feel like they have to beg for a

lot of people. Ahead men say the same too. I mean, we're talking to dick suckers in the room, right, So it's like, all right, obviously we like it, but yeah, we always get homeowners like, how don't you get my friends to do this? How do I get them to be better? And you're talking about this isn't devours your pussy and you're like, I've heard so. But that's probably my problem is that everybody out come in contact was like, yeah, I love doing that. Why won't you let me do

it more? And I'm like, I don't. I mean, just know what you're doing? What kind of six months pretty pussy? I don't know. I'm just I'm just saying I don't know what happened before. Like I was in a relationship for seven years before that, and it was something that he thought was fun and he did it too, and then I got him do it better than me. Look at you as you had another question, that is the next question. It's sex with him, your best sex? Yeah,

because it's legal and watched. Oh yeah, yeah, it's going to jail. It's emotion I mean, it's intimate, like you don't feel different when you're connected, Like it feels like, so you were with someone for seven years and it wasn't intimate or connected. What happened was My life is blurry before I got to this stake, you know what I mean a little I forgot everything that happened before him, Like this is my life now, so yes, the best in my life that I had now. I want to

ask you two questions. What is something you've seen your partner do that you wish you can unsee? Oh fuck, oh god? Kissing my baby after she like hey, and it surprised me. It's surprised because we were doing what we do is I'm finishing, the baby started crying like immediately she was out of the room. And yo, I can tell you. I can tell you exactly when too. They were they were like six months at this time.

And we and walk out like it's a baby, okay, and she's kissing him baby No technically and needed kissing the sibling. It's kind of like, no, not kissing the siblings. Yeah, like you know what, but yeah, he don't want to send me in there to take care of the baby. But you had to kiss the baby boy because she just took your ouf the baby. And yes, listen, those babies don't even know they're the things babies. Okay, last question, This one gets us a little bit more kinkier when

she takes the number two, What doesn't smell like? And would you do scat play if she requested it? No, that's no, that's a hard part. Not for you really, even Oh, y'all are married. Now, what if she really woke up one day? Y'all our life partners are gonna be together forever. She's like, baby, I came across this video and I really would to shoot on you, talking like that happened to you. Second, I'm like, hell, no, Like, you can leave if if, if you need to. I

can't deal with that. Damn not leave break up? Don't. I don't know how much you want to shoot or just say no. Would you let another nigga? Oh? Now that's a good question. Honestly, I probably would. I probably really yeah, because I'm a jackass and that would be hilarious to me. Oh wait, so you would have to be in the room and watching you got damn right? She get to tell me nigga could lead to man, I want to be there, like, like, oh ship look she caught though. That's crazy. I know. Every time I

think of somebody shipping on someone, it's so crazy. How like some of the wildest things you've ever seen are in grain in your brain. I think you two girls one cup just completely like, no, I can't and it had it was giving, talk about it was it was giving. It was giving lactoast and they just went to serendipity. It was giving that I literally had carvel last night. This is fucking with You had carvel in your room though, right, like chocolate ice cream? Yeah, okay, as long as it's

in your room and a toilet is nearby. Oh ship, maybe it's okay. I can't even eat mother fucking regular ice cream. Oh no, no, but like I'm not lactoast, but like I just let's just say it a lot. But I did want to tape where he was like, oh, like, let's get some ice cream or whatever. And when we did, I was like, I want to just be a little healthy. Let me just do like a gelato because that was like a lot of milk. I think smoking it's still milk.

It's definitely not eggs and gelato that I've had her Like, okay, start right this week's Vanilla Ship. If you guys are listening for the first time because you came over and wanted to see the beautiful couple of and then we had sex. Um. We do a segment where we talk about sex in the news. Um. This one came across my timeline and I was rather disturbed, and I don't become disturbed quite often. So the headline for this is that a woman says she lets her mother an sister

sleep with her husband. This girl was originally known for just her mom. It was a TikTok that went around and then when I saw the sister come in, I was like, what, So she is famous on TikTok. Her handle is Brooke Macklin two on three. That's right, of course, she's a white um. She shows her mom in one of the clips under the caption my life, don't judge, hashtag swinger, hashtag hot mom and says, me and my

mom are both swingers and it's great. You know why, because when I'm not in the mood, I can just let my husband have her. This is my mom. Yeah, I love my hobby have her a couple of times a week, and I'm that kind of wife. She also added that her sister has joined it on the fun and said, you want to know how I keep my man happy, I let him play with my sister. Bitch. We don't want to know. But so, yeah, so I wanted to kind of talk with you guys about this

because I think it's wild. Of course it's crazy. Her husband looks Latino, and yes he does. He's definitely a POC. I'm just like a little confused because I just kind of feel like, aren't they like really close to their families? You know, Look, do we have a volume up for this? Oh? My god and that kind of life? Yeah. I keep my man happy. I love him. Find with my little sister. Oh, I'm almost not my little sister and not her looking all the stuff. She looks her, Yeah, she looks. That

was a mom because that's kind of okay. Yeah, we don't have to hear it over and over again. I'm click on the video, click on it. Yeah she has the mom. Actually, ye'd be like, I mean, I'll do Yeah, I'm not kind of white. Okay. He's also not giving Latina anymore. He's just giving a tatted white with a tan. He's given a He's given a tatted white with a tan. I don't know what it is, right, you feel me?

My mom is pretty. It's crazy. What's crazy is what I don't like about this is it's not giving swinger, it's giving incests. Absolutely, So I hate the um. I don't know the correlation between a certain lifestyle that goes against something that's not Like having sex with your sister and your mom is way different or even well, I guess she's not having sex with them, is she She's

just letting her partner. Don't know? She mus with you the way that like he was touching her mother in front of her and touching his sister, like I feel like she'd want to watch. I just got that vibe that they're sick and then you're like exploiting it. Like that's making me feel a lot worse about kissing my kids. I'm suck. That's all I can think about right now. We know, by the way, if you've never I'm not going to tell you how this matters, But watch the

movie Oh Boy. I am obsessed with squid games and have started getting into Korean film, so I've asked a bunch of weird niggas that I know, like, what's the best Korean ship? Because it's weird, weird how weird ship? Old Boy is one of the best Korean films apparently have made of all time. I'm not gonna say how it correlates just watching it. But now we gotta see I know you do watch it. You gotta like power. But do they do they dub it or do I

gotta read? No, I ain't reading ship when I watched movie. If I want to read, I'll read a book. You can watch. You're serious, you didn't watch the weird games with subtitles with They dubbed it, and they did a great job dubbing it. Yeah, but don't you want to hear the actors Like No, I don't know them. Next, I don't care about how they did it. So I like dubbed it when I was cleaning the house because terrible. The old women had young voices, like you gotta listen

to the ship. When they're like their Korean, their voices be different. Anyway, Oh my god, I'm cool. Dubb das ship. If I want to read, I'll read a book and dre I say, some dumb ship like this and everybody got on her house and maybe get on just at dumb ship. I don't want to watch. I don't want to read a movie. Who reads the movie? I want a lot of the movie. Globally, we have the biggest and there we are worried, and I think it's weird of watch some ship. I did a passion to the Christ,

and I think that's where I ended. Um, do you know that came out when I was not a passion of the Christ? Like I stopped right there, like passion of the Christ. It wasn't Wait, they didn't speak English at all in that movie. What did they say? They didn't tell me that when I got there though. Wait, what did they speak in that movie? I'll tell you right now. In the Passion of the Christ it was Spanish of the Arabic Aramic, not Aramaic, lane Hebrew. That's

a lie. Oh that's what it's said. Yeah, okay, well, isn't it crazy. I just looked at it, said box Off has made thirty million dollars. No, when it was thirty million, it made six hundred and twelve them. I was thinking, like, don't Podcaster get that? Now? That was that was their budget they made to Jesus movie. That's a lot. No, that's a high budget, but that they definitely got that return. No, I don't, but yeah, no, can you imagine fighting for that budget, like we're gonna

give you guys, it's the Lord. Are you kidding me? I mean, I'm sure Black Jesus had a way lower budget. Black Jesus gotta move here the season they did a few seasons of Black Jesus. Oh you don't love Black Hello? Wait wait bitch, huh tear that ship to the passionate us. To be honest, I've only seen Passion of Christ like a half the time Jesus. I thought made you were talking about some films that like came out with, like Sundance. No, I didn't know. You know, I've been watching all right. Well,

let's get into a hood dive. The deal for what? Don't look at me like this? I get really fed up and people see you looking like you know where YouTube, they see how you look at me? Weasy ship? Well, the hood deal for this week? Um, which is the sex tip? Which, by the way, I want to ask you guys, we are talking about role playing ideas. However, I wanted to get out of the norm because of course there's teacher student, there is a professor student. There

is the stranger you medity, they're different. Professors get paid more. Professor, you're an adult teacher student makes me think of high school. It's just weird. Okay, what there is a difference, there's a different Are we gonna do teachers who didn't know professors student tonight? Their salaries much much higher? Um, I want to be a U C L A professor c U B L. Woods. What I mean? There's what is the police officer and the other? I guess if the

who are you? If you get the criminals? There we go. I got one? Okay, you got one. Well. I wanted to read these systems from best Life online. I wanted to get three that I came across that I thought were very interesting. Well, you couldn't even get three normal ones. Man, how are you gonna hold you? I don't know who other people would doctor, patient, I would say to doctor, nurse, to cop, and like the criminal or um or you could do the inmate, prisoner, oh, prisoner and the CEO.

God damn, there's all these words. Okay, maybe the same, and I just be getting confused the people in the prisoner right, prisoner? Oh you know they probably really be. Also, I'm also not going to make this uncomfortable for you, but I am because I want I've seen you see you? What? No nothing nothing? No? Wait, what do you do for work?

Are you a ceo? No? No, no, no no no no no. I was I'm good, You're good, okay, because I was go talking about my gay porn video that there really was a CEO fucking a prisoner and it was so sad. She said, there really was like they had a candid camel. It wasn't like a real cell. I was like, I pulled this off. And I don't know if they like built the scene or something, but it looked real and mean. I guessed that they built it, Mandy. I didn't know porn budgets for that. I do know

somebody that was sucking in the prison. So a man? Yea? Was he straight? They put their pussy up on the bars. They said it was he was straight. He was straight outside of jail hunt. But the CEO was a guy or girl. Girl. Oh, this doesn't make it real with you, because you know I love the hood nd. I just it was like a big beach type nig in there, and I knew he was gonna get out or I can still get paid either way. Come on, bro, I'm putting my ass on the glass. What you mean why not?

He's surprised? What if he killed somebody, I would only the people that I was in there for like something. I don't kill that. If it was like a big beach prison, you'll think maybe he didn't get his hands dirty. Oh god, I like coke dealer type. Nigga, she's fucking help dealer type. I like big chain jury. You know what I'm saying. I like when they have dude boys around because they ain't too busy. I just need you to know real because I used to like we'd dealers

maybe having a lot of ship going on. If you fought with a coke dealers, they ain't as busy, they got like time on her hand, they got somebody running for them. Yeah, that's the type of the drug game takes lives right. Okay. First of all, we've purchased drugs from dealers before, so oh my god, I'm not dealing with you from they don't deal with me. Deal with a dealer I told I'm stoking with was only dealing good, but different dangerous word that was worse. It's material, big dealing.

What's gonna kill you anyway, that's gonna kill you. But you might make it through a coke bitch. You ain't gonna make it through the bullet. It was for hunters. They were getting dearer. Well, I like that you look at me if they come through here. You said, right, cattle being right and down, So we all know what's wife talking about. They said I had never seen nothing happening, and the side bitch told, oh wow, she had no idea. That's hilarious. Shoote, I don't know nothing. I never see nothing.

You never never tell me. But but when when you see the movies, that is what they tell their partners to do. Like, I don't want to tell you was going on because it will make you guilty. So that's for you, all right. So here are three role playing um ideas that take you out of the norm. So one, this one is called under your Spell. What about a role play scene in which there's the hypnotist and the hypnotize.

The latter is no longer in control of his actions or her actions, and even though the hypn the hypnotized party is just pretending to be under the hypnotist power playing out. The scenario is perfect for those looking to push their own personal boundaries and to potentially get over inhibitions, even if temporarily. So that's an idea, teach me everything you know. This is the other one. Even if you and your partner have both been around the block a

time or two. Assume the roles of someone who is sexually inexperienced and someone who has sexually um some special techniques to share. I was about that sounds that sounds like fun. That sounds fun. This scenario is an opportunity to rewrite your sexual history and recapture or create the exciting thrill of first time over and over again. The last one, this one I chose because it's me. This one is called in the name of science what and

I don't like to sound by solf up. One of you is conducting is conducting important research on sexual responses and recording the kinds of stimuli that provoked the strongest reactions. The other the study subject, who has to submit to the rigors of science. What. No, I don't know if I could do that one. I like that one, right, you bring all the tools. Let me put your comment

and Petrie Dish like, what do you do? I mean, I feel like I feel like I kind of did this when I went to the dungeon and I had electro play, so like he put the electro play tool in my pussy. And he didn't take notes, but he controlled like the that was just science being used to So that was he could have acted like he was taking notes and being a scientist, he could have electro play scares the funk out of me. I'm not gonna lie on it did at first, so we we we

we barter. So I said, okay, I'll do the electro play if I could put your dick in a cock cage and if you didn't tell that part of story because you always bring up the electro play. Oh yeah, So I put him in a chastity vote in order for him to do the electro play on me. Wait, he was wearing it when he did it. You would want that? How white was he? Have I ever been with a white man? I only eat them? Wo I do. And it's fall so I can't wait to put it in my chili's. I want you. I want a cracker

in my chill um. But yeah no. And then I also did electro play when I went to Orlando. I went to a dungeon and I was suspended in bondage and one person flogged me and the other person like actually like zapped me with electric and where did they uh that it was on the areas that was left out, So like I want to say like my arms and my ribs and my thighs maybe thighs. Yeah, it was fun. So have you guys role played with each other last week? Oh? Yeah,

we don't know. We did. We did ticking, like even little central like hand some of that stuff just kind of gives me I can't do Yeah, I can't. I told you I choose violence. Don't you got to do this? Have you guys ever role played with each other? And if so? And what and what capacity? Man um. Honestly, role playing is something that we've tried a couple of times, but we never get like you can't get it too characters. I am such It's like it's weird because like I'm

a freak. When I'm a freak, but like the lead up the storyline, like I'm like, yo, think this is you. I can't this is you. I can't. Well, you're not a teacher. I'm a really bad like actress. I did a short film recently and the writer even was like I just made the part like you because like you're gonna laugh, And all my lines were like me flirting

with the nigga, like Dan's with you. I can't I have I have like a scenario that I want to happen, but I don't even know, like you have to suppris what let's talk about it and he breaks in, Well yes, you said you surprised me. Well no, this is what I want. I want to get robbed. Somebody breaks in and I have to fund them to keep my family safe because I don't have money and I don't I can't fight. But if it's like a big nigga, like it's like, oh my god, it is my bussy, Like

I don't know. I don't don't know what to do, like just take it, take it off, but I want that to have. It's like what do you want? Let me give you my boot, I just for the night, take it. And I've told him about that before, but it's like you gotta sneak and you gotta get me. But I usually know when he comes home, it's just like I can't but I want to have funny. I'm so serious. She wants to save the family. Will help pussy.

You might you might be like little Brook mccalvin, what's that I don't want to my family, but I want to. I want to Rob to come in. Just Hopeully it's not a cousin, and then I can suck him and then my family be safe. You know mine is not the same. But I used to have this, like I wanted to be a stripper fantasy, and I would I have dreams. I would say, this happens a couple of times a year. I have dreams was being a stripper,

and I gotta like funk for money. And it's like strippers don't always say escort, no no, but I'm stripping in and they like pick me out and I saw my pussy. Bro, that's part of it for you. She she says, she's going straight to She said, a couple of times a year. That's how we're going Yesterday club where I make more money with my But I have to because when my family needs we I'll be like, oh wait, you sucking dick in the strip club too, Bro, it's the whole thing. The boom boom room. That's my

broadcast name. You giving it TV? Now, are you sucking the dick with a condom or not? Man? Like it's like a death though, Like I have to think about it. It's like a death though I've never really done it. But I mean, if you're a whole, you're not just gonna be sucking random dick. What It's like a niggative little like trunk going there then he got money. I think that means no condom. I've never really thought about like sucking, Like obviously i'd use it for penetration, but

I never really thought about it in my fantasy. I'm bare back bro. You know what, in the fantasy I'll be saying. I'm like, oh my god, I can't potential non consensual in my dream. Don't do it? Please? I stick? Yeah, you're stick, You're just a little sick. You want to sucking a Spider Man outfit? Did I and me a Ninja Turtle and Ninja Turtle? I knew you was wrong. I ain't say Spider Man. I want to do the Ninja Turtle. It thinks I don't think I would be

in the Spider Man. Which is more wild. You telling the nigga that you've a fantasy of being sucking a Ninja Turtle costume and saying, O, yeah, I want to be a stripper and like, you know stripper you and like I like a little I just think I really liked the word the name Leonardo, Like I just like I justly Jeff Bezos girl, clearly and clearly, I just want to scream Leonardo. And then when you go get pizza afterwards, like I really thought this through. No, come

do you say bonga? You know what? Now? You can it so forward for you? Maybe that would be the safe word. I like that being the safe word. Well, I wanted to get into our horrible decision now for this week, UM, because you guys have been married for two years, together for four so six total? Correct? Did I do that? Math? Writer didn't gather for saying damn? All right, my look, he's still ain't he's still ain't robbed me yet, but goddamn it, I've been in this

marriage for four years. Um. So one of the videos that I saw on your page, UM, that came from one of your podcast episodes, UM, was where you decided to ask him this brave question of how many people has he what is the most people he has had sex with in one day? And his response, could you go ahead and share with the audience please? Three? And that is not a threesome. That is not a foursome.

These are all at different times. But I watched my dick with like you knowaby wife, all right, that was like I believe because the person you did a baby in the third year, No, no, I was. I was very I was worried about my hygiene and I wanted to come in this were you exactly you can't hygiene and not her pH that's what right. I ain't know about that back, I mean the first second and third

like tell us about that was your come weaker. What I do remember is the second time I barelynt it, and then the third time I net it more than any time that day, probably because you were like thinking about the other times I did that. I don't remember, but I know it was good. Did you tell any of them that they were like, yo, the second one knew was good. The second one new was the second one knew that you had already sucked up? That was a whole too, So you know, alright, can talk together.

That's kind of hot a little bit, right, And she was and she was older than me, so she never really like judged me or anything like that like you got some earlier. Okay, okay, it was we had a really good relationship. We we had that for years. Is like the restaurant when her husband was also at the restaurant. That was different. So now we're gonna get into the horrible decision for this. So, um, what kind of restaurant was Wait, I want to get into it, Logan Lowan

with the peanuts on the floor. Not it on the floor. It was in the bathroom. But yeah, she had she had a fantasy of being in the bathroom and somebody walking in and sucking her. So I did that. But oh so you did her fantasy, but you can't do your wife fantasy that everybody that I think did happen that day or you know, I knew, I knew, I was man. She was like, so it's gonna happen, be gonna be gonna sit down. What she wanted me to do is bring my actual girlfriend that I was with

at the time. She wanted me to bring her to the restaurant and then walk off. So that's what I did. It was kind of hot. It was me. It was me and my girlfriend came into the restaurant. Her and her colleague had came in at the restaurant as well. They walked past us. I get scared. I'm like, oh no, it's it's it's crazy. So I see her walk up to the bathroom. I go to the bathroom. We fucked for for a couple of minutes. Um, I know I didn't not. She may have notne it. I don't remember.

But all all I remember is coming back to the table and her and the guy her colleague actually moving up closer to me and my girlfriend just to be an ass like. And we sat there and I was like, yo, if I get caught, it was worth it. It was worse. At first it sounded bad, but then it's like, no, it was. It was. It was what it was man like. But I was in college though, like I was experimenting. It was one of the first times I was having sex. Like it was. It was amazing. Did you tell your

girlfriend you were taking a ship or something? No, I just said, I gotta go to the bathroom. And she was good with it. She was good with it. You had to do the number two. I didn't. I didn't tell me anything like that. She was just like, you took a long time. I was like, yeah, she didn't. She did not. Did you ever tell her, Like, if she's watching this episode right now, well, she know what

because how often did you go to logan? We didn't, you know, I didn't think about that, but yeah, I mean she married with a child now she definitely know who she is now, right, she knows who she is now. So I wanted because you sat there and listened to this, the horrible decision for this week is over sharing your sexual past. Um only because even in my last relationship,

I shared a lot. I shared a lot of what I did with other people, with other guys, uh, sexually, non sexually, just kind of what my sexual life was like prior to being with him, And I wanted to ask the two of you before getting together how much that conversation was had and if oversharing you think is a good thing or a bad thing. Um. He shared a lot in the beginning, and then at first I wasn't like I felt like I'm supposed to not be okay with this, Like I felt like I was supposed

to have an attitude. But I really didn't care as much as I thought I did. So I would have arguments with him all the time like oh so that must be the best that you did this with, and this is the best that you did this with. But then as it went on, and we started having more conversations, and then we started he like he knew I was by, and we started finding out we both wanted to go out and go venture out and do a little shit.

And then I was like, oh so the whole time, I won't even that mad at you about all that. Wait a second, not you being a whole leading to find out she like women and that I was old. So for real life, we can I want now, I don't care. I wanted to make sure when we first got together that she wasn't worried about anything about my past she might have heard about because because everybody knew about from Virginia M Radio. He did all that ship

and everybody knew. So what's your relationships as now? Are you guys? Open? You monogamous or swing? Okay? Well, how do you describe swing A Jason? Uh? Well, honestly, it's the idea of swinging. Um. Well, we haven't really gotten into it too much, you know, we're still we've done three sings and ship like that. We haven't I don't know completely if he's okay with me a dude yet?

Are you? I don't know yet, but it's and it's okay to know, I really like that both of y'all are just like I don't know, because I think a lot of times even we talked about it with with a lot of the swingers or sex club couples or people like uh, Holly and Dollar, they called their relationship customized. Sometimes you don't have an answer, you don't have a

bucket that you're falling because you really don't know. I know when I went to the sex club, like we kind of went in loosely with boundaries because I didn't know what I would like and what I wouldn't like, and we just both had to be open to being upset but talking about it like nothing that happens in year, we'll break us up, but it's something is the boundary is something you don't like, let's be okay to talk about it after and acknowledge each other's feelings. I think

it's also very important as well. Well. That kind of happened. I'm sorry not to go ahead. That kind of happened when we went to the sex club for the first time. Let's hear about it, um, because I guess which one was? Where was this? In part? It was the party party we went there, um, real show every the atmosphere was cool. We get up to the floor where everything saw us popping and nobody's doing anything. So I'm like, baby, we gotta something. We gotta get this popping. Yeah, we gotta

start like that. I got start so um. So we saw it. We saw engaging and everything, and we're enjoying ourselves and this dude comes This dude comes over with his dick out and he's jerking it and he's saying something to her. And immediately in my mind and I'm like, WHOA, I don't know, I don't know. I feel that doesn't sound consensual, that that doesn't it. It was it was really he was like touch my in my head, I guess I was like, I think I found the boundary.

I think I found I think that's it right there. He was just like I was like no, no, he said no, did it at least walk away like two times. But it was just I was like, I don't have no but I'm here to be free. I'm just gonna do whatever the funk I want. He was like that my dick took. I was like, Nope, that's it, that's that's what you are interested. Maybe it was him, I

think too like that's too abrasive. Yeah, it is. That is that as the first experience, literally just walked up to me and it was just like him right here and then with his dick out you I'm sucking him at the time, I'm sitting on him, like when he's coming to her, he's like in the middle. So shouldn't get better though, Like did y'all did he get that? That was real drunk? So to be honest, I don't know, you was the way a lot of it. Yeah, we every everyone, we went and we started it. We started

the party. Um, but like I said, it was just those type of things. I didn't know what was what to expect. I ain't know the dude came up to what I wanna be good or anything like that. But um, I'm very willing to find out, you know. And we have the we have the type of relationship sail me out no no, no, Now, we have the type of relationship where we're super open even in the moment. So if I'm not viving, I know, I'm I'm I'm comfortable.

I'm comfortable and confident that if I said, baby, I ain't with that, then are there are there things in both of your past that you haven't shared with each other because you feel as though it would somehow change the way the other person thinks of you or views you, or even the dynamic of your current relationship. I don't think so. I don't know. We talked about way too much ship. Yeah, we talked about a lot of ship. Have you learned something about each other since you've started

the pod? Like when you were oh hell yeah, a couple of a couple of stories. He told me what um little ship, like when he went to massage parlor and he got violated and didn't like it was. I didn't know about that, Like little stuff like that. It's not anything like really serious like that. I know. Have you found anything about me? Yeah? I found out that you would hope for a robber, you would hope for everything else. I think we've talked about before that like

that's different. I want you, she wants you to be You got the key in my house. Don't use it that, don't use the But yeah, we we learned stuff every day. I mean, because I think when you're in a relationship and you're talking about stuff, you don't really think. Oh, let me mention this, Let me mention that. Let mention this. But with the podcast, we get a chance to just talk free form and you'll say something it's like, oh, ship that happened. Oh I remember this, you know. It's

like a lot of my stories. I didn't remember until we saw there doing the show. Wow. So she got a lot of stuff right there. I didn't learn one thing. I learned one time that he had this woman, uh say a poem she wrote while she was sucking. That was here, like literally saying a poem while she was sucking his dick. That was interesting, but but you definitely couldn't understand anything she was saying. No, No No, she was just she was a poet. She was she was like,

it was amazing. It was she So we went um I was hosting his open mic. Okay, say what happened? No reliving, No, I'm just I was excited. It was amazing open I see her perform. She comes out afterwards and she's like, yo, you know, let's come to the crypt, like I'll go to your house. I'm like, al right, cool. But it wasn't on no sexual thing. It was just like I'm just gonna come over. Why else would someone just come out I do that. I wasn't thinking like, yeah, exactly,

I wasn't thinking like that. It was just it was she comes over and she's like, can I read you a poem? I'm like, she's time, not even but she said, I'm starting to get arousing everything, and I'm like it was she was a sex she was, I don't know, I don't want to humble the poet. No maya pussy poet. No no, no, I can't be her name. No no, yeah that's her name. But anyway, so she read the first poem, I'm hard. She sees that I'm working with myself and she comes over. So you just started so

you were working with your dick. Yeah, she was reading the poem, but she just came over to read her She could have run another poem. She didn't have to read that one about the dick sucking. That's fair. He's like, you know you had one about your track, you know what I'm saying. So she so she sucked it and she was like, I'm gonna read you another one. And by reading, she wasn't like had the paper her hand

like she knew that. No, No, she wasn't free. This beach good because I'm sure they were it's the fact that he remembered that they were good poems. Like I was like, I put on my jury just to suck my exactly good times, man, good times. That sounds like fun. Actually yeah, until she wanted me to fun. And then I was like, I ain't trying to do that. So she read a poem on your dick, and you wouldn't even give her to day. First of all, I gave you a performance and yeah, I undertay you. I get

paid for this. And you couldn't even seen the tip jar earlier. You ain't et Wait, so did you leave lee? Hers? Was the poem better than the head? Oh that's a no. She she taught me some stuff that day. Okay, well damn, look right, you'd be doing your things. I taught him ship. I never knew that you could, uh, you can nut and then get hard again, Like she sucked my dick. I nutted, she swallowed it, kept sucking. I'm hard again

and she's sucking again. That that was the first time that I think she taught you something more than like most people are used to men pushing them off when they come like there are a few things I've read about I mean, it's worked sometimes for me. I think it's been on the person. But like it depends if you're giving too much stimulation, you keep sucking at the tip, it's too sensitive. That's why I mentally like STAPs, how stop. But it has to like fully go in your throat

or your pussy. If you come in her pussy, pull out and then just put it back in and just stay in her pussy for a little bit, you'll grow again. Yeah, that's yeah, I'll be liking that like that. That's not like maybe shaved me so much for cream pies. I literally have been with the name guy for the last year and a half. I nick, we did nothing else. Hello, okay, thank you. She was like, this is disgusting. We got

a new girl here. He was like like, when you hit it right back, and I'm like, it sounds like a cream pie. Maybe because I'm not calling it a cream pie. He would come and just go back in and be hard again. It's not like I was like waiting for it to ooze out of my couchie. I'm like, he's going now, he's just using his comings lube, right. But the cream pie idea is just yeah, it's just I think it's just come in. Yeah, it's not like he's coming. And then I'm pushing it out to see

the cream ooze out. And actually, don't think I think about cream pie just means someone comes to me. In my head, I'll see in my mind it's the whole act of I'm coming, and then I'm pushing it out and it's a cream pie, you know what I mean, Like I'm thinking of the m pies. You see the feeling like I'm thinking of a pie. You looking at a pie, a custard, the apple. That's funny because I'm thinking, I don't think of a doughnut hole. Maybe you're thinking

of you getting open, getting crispy cream. She got cream. A cream pie is on the top. You're getting busted. Don't know. I have an egg galergy. I do not do Boston cream. But I mean that's basically what it is. Well, you know what, I'm not listening to anymore anyway. By the way, speaking of that some dumbass nigger and I'll never forget it. And I was so turned off. He was like, you got an egg galergy? Right? He was like can you still And I was like, dude, don't

say it. Okay, So here's my question, though, I do have a question because we is, you know, around the holiday season, and deviled eggs go with the meals. You feel me, eggs is in the Mecan cheese. There's a lot of things with eggs. If a man egg knock, a man eat a lot of eggs, can't kiss me even But what will it be in his sperm? No, I don't think that. Could you get allergic reaction. I'm allergic to the protein in a yolk and egg whites, right, so I don't know if it comes out of there, dick.

But I mean, the only reason I remember this is my dad used to kiss me goodbye when I was a kid, and he always ate eggs and it would always be a rash on my cheek. I thought it was just beard. And then I've been out with dudes that have eaten some wagg and like I'd be like, funk, why is my mouth shingling? Oh yeah, Oh damn, that sucks. I know that really sucks. But if I don't want to get no dick, like I'm a bad I'm already dying with the fact that all these Muslim niggas from

Harlem don't like pork. Right, So I'm not really eating my bacon, egg and cheese no more. But the one thing I realized I cannot do. I ain't dating no nigga with a shellfish allergy because the way I'm eating lobster when we go out and the way I like my prawn nigga, you just we just can't be together. Take your shellfish allergy. And someone I did go out and want to the niggas we went to learn that. I didn't realize like he was on his no pork ship.

He was like, you gotta need soups on me in and he was like, yeah, we got claimed how they got pork in it? Oh fun, I can't do no more fucking pork y'all. And I was like, god, damn, bro, like why your names? I always have something wrong with you? We get fucking no pork. Didn't athlete niggas be like, I ain't drinking right now? What the fuck? They ain't

drinking right now? They're lying I had a shellfish allergae and she didn't know, and doude want to go eat out and it swolled no. She just told me that she didn't know, and they had to get ben and drilling all that ship and tickets to the hospital like it just swell. All I knew was it swelled up. I ain't see it. I don't know, but I didn't know she in paint. I think it was it was patient. Yeah, yeah, Sometimes I get like hives. They don't hurt, but they

just looked crazy. Maybe your pussy to look the little nuts. I ain't gonna nuts. I'm going straight to the r. That's if it looks like nuts, don't look it. Does it look like how Will space Will Smith space looks? Can you imagine when you get there and you're like, what's going on? Because you look funny like? And I didn't want to and I didn't want to bring up Will Smith before we get into our homemail. Will Smith uh is recently released a book Um, and he talks

about his insecurity of Jada's love for Tupac. I want to ask both of you if there is any X that has left that much of an impact in your life that bothers your current part? Are you trying to shake the way? Oh? Both? I think that he might think there is one, but I don't care anymore. There is. It's a little big lives in this city. As a matter there is Okay, yeah, we're going to not I don't.

I don't know what the issue is. As a matter of fact, I've tried to set them two together on camera in front of each other, that worked their situation out, and I thought everything was good. Obviously it wasn't. Um, this was recent. This this was about a year and a half two okay, yeah, um, but yeah, they sat down. I thought everything was gonna be good. I was like, I'm in the building too, so it's no problems, like

you see, we're just friends. Not that. Um. It was very much like, oh, that was his friend that wanted to call him all times in the night. And I remember one day I went to his house to go he had to go somewhere. You don't want me to talk about it, No, No, I'm just saying, you're not going to preface the story by saying, hey, we weren't married. This was right before. But I went to go pick him up somewhere. And when I went, I want to

drop something off. And I knew, uh, this person was supposed to be bringing him to like another a city or something like that, so I knew she was going whatever. But I get there and he's in the room with the door closed and the door locked, and his son is calling up there like hey, daddy, daddy, such a suches here and he don't come outside, he don't come downstairs,

he don't do nothing. And then all of a sudden came out like, oh you know he was here, Like I'm just like, why then are you in there with the door closed with this person in there by yourself? And you knew like we together, and I can I ask you, is it something? Because now you guys are married and have such this strong bond, would you guys ever bring anyone from the past into the bedroom with you? Guys? The whole story, because I mean we were I was packing my bags like legit, and I told her this

from get go. I wasn't doing nothing. I've never cheated on it. I don't care anymore. But at the time it bothered me a little bit. But that's why. So when you did the FaceTime zoom thing, whatever was going on or was it in person? It was a person? Okay, So how did it go? I just left. I dropped, but I had to drop off and I got in the car and I left. Yeah, she gave me attitude for a while, and I was like, listen, we were

in the room. It wasn't no issue. Like the door must have closed by itself, Like I don't know, I must have closed or not. But I don't care. Now, I don't care. I don't. Okay, that's cool. We can meet up late later. No, I'm okay, all right? And so would you guys ever bring anyone we have? Oh y'all have? Yeah? Yeah, somebody from his past we have? Would you would you allow her to bring someone from her pass into the bedroom? Was there another? Okay? I don't want me to know the dicks. I mean, maybe

that's been that's been my problem. I had I had the past to bring another guy into the bedroom, but it was just nobody from my past. And I was like, well, I at least know what's good already. Why not that's the problem, right, I wouldn't want that either. Don't be reminiscent on. I ain't with them, but it was at least good. I at least, No, I want to be pleased.

I'm gonna have me if this nigga fus another bishop he used to with, Right, we all started sucking and then she'd be like, yeah, I know you like that she exactly are you're responding? You can suck it, but don't moan, don't say nothing. All right, well, let's get to this holemeil real quick. I would love you guys input because it is from someone married. Um. This homemail is called logistics of Sex. Hello ladies, I recently discovered your channel on YouTube and you too have the most

amazing energy. Absolutely love you guys. Oh thank you. I am emailing because I have a question about the logistics of sex. I recently got married to a man that is six too versus my five ft four I have only ever had sex with one partner prior to being married, and he was the one that took control of everything. So now that I'm with my husband, I am trying to figure sex out. I really wanted to figure out

how to be on top in a comfortable way. My husband is super understanding, but I get so embarrassed because I can't figure out a comfortable way. I am a thicker girl, but I have shorter legs. So if I am on top and my legs are bit, my shins don't touch the bed or couch. I would really appreciate any help with positions to be on top, thank you

in advance. Now I'm short that not to get on top, there's there is the froggy position, which is of course using your mega stallion knees and listen, you and me both. But I did want to ask because there's a bit of a height difference. I can tell with you guys too well you have feels not that much, not that much, I mean, don't don't act like look okay, okay, well okay, Well I wanted to know what other ways you get on top? She don't You got to do is reminiscent

think about what I did. But my when my legs, you know, my knees was I'm to be thirty five, man, I just feel like I don't know, like I would, you know, the little I would do that, but I don't. She just got her head. I forgot. I mean more, that's I'm more like from the back. That's like my ship, like you just from the back. She like being folded like a press shoe. I had to learn how to funk in different positions that I've never done before. But

that's not good for somebody that's tall. And then somebody like he gonna be real uncomfortable. My ex was six nine. I'm oh, yeah, we made me like the certain positions aren't difficult. I mean, but we've done a lot of positions where I think that that to be in my advice to her actually is outside of maybe focusing on you writing, maybe maybe do it on a chair. That's

a good way to ride. So him sitting down on the couch and you just keep watch on the video with um when we had Sharon's in here, Yeah, and I did the chair thing. Yeah, you have to put them sitting down on a chair. You're like back is to them, right, but your your feet were tucked. I would say that. But an easier way for me to ride dick would be if he's just sitting down on the couch, then all I gotta do is stand up and go like this, that's gotta go up and down,

because that's a lot of a lot of work. Yeah, because if you tuck your feet, all you gotta do is move your hips that man as long as the dick is aside and around and keep the dicks don't like, wow, that's crazy. I gotta go through all this where do I sit just the legs like it's a lot of work, like our legs just aren't a strong and like I don't know, I got bad knees. Yeah we all do that. I'll say we all have bad nick out of party

or now. Hell yes, but he looked like he got a baby leg, So I think he sucks the sh out of her, Like you see how happy she is. Yeah, he definitely got a good It ain't the money, it's because she's rich. Yeah, it's the baby. It's the baby leg. It's the baby leg. And like the way that she passed in. That's how I know. I get like over I over exposed myself and my relationship. When the dick is crazy good, I just start posting dumb ship. I'll

post that nigga's hand everything. When baby cooking again, Yah know that was my thing, like cooking like he did the dick so good, Like it was definitely cooking for me. That's probably why I'm such a good white. I cook every single day, every every meal, every meal, every single Do you have a job of comedy? Literally all that's okay, and that's late and spend time. Yeah, and then kids mad kids, so they gotta eat, so he gotta eat that.

Guess Yeah, he's like another kid. Yeah, no, no, no, no, I tell her I would cook, but she does such a good job. What would be your advice for people? Uh, for marriage, A long last relationship communication that's not so cliche, but that's really it. I mean, y'all shared each other's whole sexual path. Now, it's the This is the best relationship I've ever been in just the last one. Goddamn no, But I'm saying this was the best relationship from the

get go because we just communicated. We overly communicated in the beginning. Um, and it wasn't like we were doing it for any particular reason. We were just communicating because that was just our vibe together. I also love that you mentioned just over communicating be a good thing, being a good thing, because, um, my friends said that I over communicated too much was my last partner, And I was just like, how is that a bad thing? Like overshare?

They said I overshared and I overcommunicated thing. But he used your past or something you said to weaponize against you.

And yeah, and I think like the only thing like that, there's one basketball team that just doesn't get played on TV now, But outside of that, like you know what I mean, Like outside of that, there's really been nothing, like he's just always been like I understand this was you before we were together x y Z elemental P. But yeah, Like so it's I love that you said that y'all overshared in the beginning, because I think a lot of people when dating come in with masks on.

They come in feeling as though they can't show up as exactly who they are, either with fantasies their sexual past. Like a lot of women feel like if they did a MMF threesome, damn the guy I'm dating right now, maybe I can't share that because he's gonna look at me different or judge me. And so I like that you guys said that y'all came in sharing a out

of those. Yeah, the last relationship I was in was definitely one of those where I was like, I feel like I can't do anything because he's gonna judge every thing I do. And then I got here and I was like, yo, so I like fucking and like all ship Like he was like, oh, that's fine, that's cool. So I think that over share. It's your partner, so

you're supposed to be able to share. You shouldn't really be I mean, you have your own thoughts and feelings and all that stuff, but you shouldn't be like keeping secrets, like you shouldn't feel like you have to keep us. Honestly, the more you show yourself to like, because one person could say maybe it's over sharing, but yeah, the more you show yourself, the more someone falls in love with you. You You feel so comfortable. Like this live show we

just had. I mean, my nigga see me at the live shows before, but I just didn't give a There was a cute nigga in the front. I was learning when with the same nigger and he was there with his girlfriend. Damn what it was. And I'm talking about how I didn't use condoms back in the day. I don't like, I don't care, like at the end of the day, like how with you like? And I feel like sometimes as funny as it is to say, like, oh, money is a hole, when someone is comfortable telling you that,

ship it's because they really trust you. And I do believe people share things that are from their past. If you were still a home, maybe be a little reserved. By the way, I'm not gonna lie for all the holes listening. Find you another hole like I know, my nigga, it wasn't hole because even when we went to the sex club, I literally the way he'd be sucking me. I'm like, so you're just gonna put her foot in your mouth too, like damn. Like, but he sucks so good.

I'm like, Okay, it makes sense. Pos should just be with hos Like I think it really makes sense because you don't you let that all of those sexual judgments just leave your mind, like, okay you are. It's funny to ask about together too, Yeah, yeah, do it all the time. Like I ain't gonna hold you. I'll be like, damn, so I'm getting that ragged dick. Now you're giving me the redge. You'll give everybody this, don't you come up? So find your homemade. Find you find your homemade because

y'all y'all found each other. Y'all are each other's homemade. Y podcast name change to find you guys, your podcast is called And then we had sex and what about your social media's um well, and then we had sexes Instagram on Facebook and all this stuff. I guess Christensville's for me. That's my Instagram and I don't use a lot of other stuff. But just that, and you're gonna have it in the description too if you can't find him. But what's your favorite episode so people can go and

look at this? Yeah, uh, maybe the one? What was the one? The case spot, the one we just did and Louis VI vagina. Oh that's Louis VI Vagina like password like hoodie, I like that vagina. Al right, well, and guys, we want to thank all of you who pulled up on us at our New York show, our d C show, our l A show, um, and of course we're wrapping up one in Atlanta, Georgia. Also, if you are still looking for stocking stuffers, go on over to hor hive dot com. We have tons of things

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a five minute bonus clip. Make sure you check that out. Um, this has been yet another episode form Decisions. Bye, thank you guys, thank you, it's bonus big Hey everybody, welcome back to another Patreon episode of Horrible Decisions. We are recording in two different time zones. We are I don't know, we've done that a few times, I think, but um, yeah, I'm back in New York. You stayed in l A. UM. I guess I wanted to start off by uh thanking

everyone who came out to the l A Live show. Um, by far, um my favorite to date, I would say, um, especially because like my vibe was really off that day, like, um, just a lot of things that were on my mind really unresolved. And then like I got an accident on the way to go pick up the dog thing for the show. Um, you guys will find down in Atlanta what we do. But like, oh it was a hot mess and then it was just such a great chow and then yeah, one like and I wasn't expecting it,

Like I didn't even have a makeup artist. I completely had forgot. I was just exhausted for that like that week in general. So I was just like, uh, y'all know. I also am not a fan of l A. So I was just like I'm just ready to get back home. But it was like the energy the crowd, um, it was. It was really really really phenomenal, Like absolutely, I think,

um something that definitely affected it. Like we are We asked the audience, you know, is this a show that you guys were planning to come to but it got canceled for COVID and so many people were screaming, And I wonder if Atlanta will be like that because their show got canceled literally that week. You know, like you guys were expecting to see a show come to a show and fucking COVID happened. But um, I had a few things that I was thinking about. So I was

sitting in the chair. I got like three texts back to back of can't make it blah blah blah blah. In the most l A text ever, I screenshot at them. Um, I have one girl I've roll with heavy in l A. Shout out to Brittany Um. I talked about her often. She is an amazing designer. She works um. She does all the women's designs for Russell Westbooks brand Honor the Gift, and that's my bit. She couldn't make it because of work, like for real, just couldn't get out right like in

time because our show was early. But these are the text messages that I got from just like you ask people in l A. Suck my life. I have to cancel last minute because I have a brand deal. I have to turn in there pressing me us. I hope you kill it the next one. So sorry about this. I'm stuck in a casting right now at the office. I don't think I'll be able to make it from tonight show. I'm at Paramount still. I know I'm the worst. Then this is all on the same screen, by the way,

then the other one. Oh my god, I'm still on some I'm so fucking annoyed. I really want to support you, but also I've been around so many people today hoping, H'm neggie what so l A so l A. But I will say it was amazing because Sony and my people showed up and I just felt really warm welcome, even fuse, which is interesting because like, yeah, they know I do horrible decisions, but they know me in this other realm. One of the guys was like, oh my god,

like I forgot to have this other life. And really that's what this l A show was for me New York d C or any other show we've ever done. It's my friends that really know me from horrible and this time around it kind of wasn't. And that was funny.

Like remember even Kiki was hitting me after and she was like, grab, you're forgetting you got a podcast, and you know, it was just dope, Like I never talked about my podcast, but we're always talking about TV and ship and just to be able to have people experience this part of our journey so far in the game when we're better at it. A dope and I actually kind of like that, you know, it's not the only

thing I've been holding onto. Like it's nice to be able to know that Horrible is one of the most successful things I do, and it isn't the only thing I do. That's why it feels really great, I think, because it's such a great brand. Yeah, um for for l A for me. Uh. At the end, y'all know we haven't been doing meeting greets because of COVID, and just meeting that many people is a lot. And um.

One of the things that just touched me the most was a woman that came up to me at the end of the show, and this was right when I was actually gonna leave off stage, and she was like, UM, I don't know if you remember me, but I was one of the families that you sent groceries to last year on Thanksgiving, and she just said, I want to let you know how much you changed my life. Like she was like, I did a complete one eighty from from you sending me those groceries on instat cart when

I didn't have it. She said, I now work for instat cart and make a hundred thousand dollars a year And I was like just like full circle, knowing that you don't know you know HM