Ep 237: ZADDY (Ft. Sarunas Jackson)

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excited to see you pussy us holding a letter. Georgia, so excited. And now you can flirt with the guests. Hi, babe, you know you're this is your third time coming on? We can you introduce them? For three is in you know, threesome and as in all of it that we have been rumored. But what one of my favorite And I'm looking at you just confirming ship. I didn't confirm North time, okay?

Us three? Oh oh? Never us three? Honey, calm because to be fair, it would be a very Can you imagine the light skinned look just going on this way much? We need some balance this colored babies all around hopefully hopefully someone's parent bleed through. You know what I'm saying. I'm saying I don't like blow at all. Oh wait, what are you talking about? You know I thought you was gonna tear a Buddha hole and see blood. I was like, right, do you know guys? By the way,

the person speaking is Mr sheronas Jackson. That's right, guys. You may or may not know him from Good Trouble Insecure and games people play, speaking of which I did not realize how much Good Trouble is like a thing until And by the way, I really love you in Good Trouble. Actually, I think that's my favorite role that you play. Marthe King is very I liked you playing insecure, the nigger insecure that I think you played yourself. We we we we are. There are a lot of similarities

for sure. Yeah. Really like what the hohleness, you don't know? He's honest. D was honest and he's really only really active during that duration. He just got a whole vibe. And by that I mean like maybe he was a former hole but toned down. I believe he was active as when he was younger building that character. I'm like, yeah, I mean I think everybody has. Are we talking about, okay, when I was young? Can I believe you? I want to ask you a question because when I was looking

for the Vanilla ship, I typed in your name. One of the things that says you had them right in dro Oh no no, so not okay. So originally he was, um, actually, I can't even take it back further than that. Originally, Drove was two different characters. He was supposed to be a guy that was in an open relationship that Molly folded around with real quick she was like not for me or talked to was interested not for me. And then like the childhood friend where they kind of start

were kindling something and that was the season. I think it was supposed to be ten episodes in the condensed a tent eight and so they just combined the two actually saw something interesting with it, and then that was a birth. And then he was supposed to be black and Mexican, but I was like, well, I'm black in Panamanian and go ahead just making Panamania. And then that's when I had Mexican makes sense for I got it. Yeah.

So but then, um, but um, you could be black, and I mean, you know, you know, but Carlos Stosko played my father on there. He's an actual Panamanian actor and that was his first time in his like twenty thirty year career where he played at Panamanian on screen. So like and um, so I was really excited about that. And people you might not know the name, but you know who he is. He was in Blood and Blood Out.

He was on the movie Speed with Sandra Bullock. He was like driving a bus and he was all fen I thought that was ka No, Kiana Reese was in it. He was, but I'm only laughed because of Panamanian Ship. I was thinking that used to be my favorite movie. You know, like if he was is it how you would say that. No, man, I'm not gonna like Kean. I mean, but Keyana the way he spelled it, they'd

be talking about black people in their names. Who the fun came up came up with spelling it spelled n eight like it's k and you knew it should be Kia, knew what it is. It's Kian Reeves' do you think it's Kiana? It's Keiana Reeves. You've just been saying that with you wait for real? Yeah, you've been. I definitely Kianna No, no, but it reminds me of what I called him, Jake Glennen Hall. Oh my god, that's that's worse. That's that's which is worst. Kiana k Well, you're not Hall,

That's what. It really don't matter. Can we let him get to the story anyways? Um but yeah, he was in that movie too. But you know, if you look him up, he you know he's done a few things. Um, but and that a lot of the well who plays Daniel in there, he's Panamanian as well. People don't realize. Um, I want to say Natasha who plays Kelly, I want to say she has Panama in her family too. Okay, Well,

we have apparently down there and dance. My brother Leroy had like nine baby Mama, So damn are they like Jamaican's in because he is Jamaican, So Jamaican Panama have Yeah, so there ain't niggas there too. That's why you're the way you are. Got you? Oh my god, what is ja Jamaican? Nia? My daddy Jamaican? No, no, no, my daddy is Jamaican and he is the reason. I ain't know. Dada's why you are the way you are. Yeah, that's

my mom. But I told my mama more black night and she white, So that's a whole other Let's just say Tammy is a lot of soul. She does. She made the best ox tale I've never had before. Well, my daddy definitely taught her dad. That's the only thing that my daddy been fair. If white guy when white guys, they when black men date white women, I'm like, she'd be cooking. My mama could throw down my grandmother. Um

she was. She came up from Germany when she was seventeen, was raised my black family, and all she knows how to cook her solfu. That's it. That's all she knows. So why is that the person that because because she made really good soulfu, they say, have you ever tried it? She could be the white version. She should have been say talking about niggas or slaves and we canceled it.

But that's what I'm saying. I don't go with her because maybe she learned all that cooking from being her family was definitely slave masters, and the slaves saw her how to cook, which means I am not supporting her. She is old as she is old as she doesn't say she n word us or ship she isn't she ever used the N word? Yes, of course in one content whoa not? But she didn't have of course it was probably when a black man burst into the bank and I was working and he put a gun to

my head. Work. She definitely said it with the e er. She's done. But she's done because you know, sometimes they say nigga. But no, no, no, they said, listen to this. Did you use it when he was pointing the gun to your face? Absolutely not? When did you use it? Probably telling my husband in the comfort of my own he's head, Oh no, not you using Since then, I'm sure I have, but it's been a long time. Can you tell us another context told you how she was

giving it up. I told you she definitely learned how to cook from from being a slave masters. Wait, wait, this kills me. Had it occurred with sufficient frequency that you cannot recall in the various context she said, No, No, it was probably while repeating something that was said to me like a joke. No, probably a conversation between blacks. I don't I don't know. She called him blacks as well, let's go no more, no more, take it off the screen.

That's wild. Don't ever shut her out her uncle, buy no more, Bobby, take it off the screen eddit because we will literally sit here and read the whole conversation. I just want to know what the hell is just like that's how you know, like the privileges, because she said all this, that's what I'm saying, that happened. That's what I'm saying. It's about this thing here, and then that's what I'm saying. Cry was gone, cray. I'm anyway.

Um the other day, we're we've been all friends for a few years now, and the other day when um, we were talking about the first episode you did, and I was like, Yo, did I say something on Twitter about the train and it was Instagram. Well that's how it happened. So I posted, so this is back before we had someone on our social media, we not just used the post crazy. So there was a picture with you and two of the fine niggas and I literally

posted it. That's like keep fine. So I posted it and it was fun Mary Kill is the game that I chose to play with those three. And you know, as soon as the thing was posted, he said, so. I just looked in his d m asked if he would come on the show. Um, that's because when you had you didn't play the game, right? No? No, no no, you just said She said no. She said, well at first she said the two true thing. But she was like, nah, but I feel like Joe's nasty, so I would. She

didn't even answer the rest. She just shot, ye, go ahead home. You know. Up. I was like, what's going on here? Because I was getting I was getting so much like like you know, I was on my Instagram. I was like, why am I am? I getting added so much? Posted me. It's like who then is this? So I go on here and then but you know, it's funny. I had heard of you guys, before that's a funny thing this uh and she had mentioned y'all before whatever, so um. But I was like, oh ship.

And then when I had replied in the comments and this was a thing, and then that's when you had asked you like, oh you should not. Just so happened was like I was coming, you were coming to New York next week, we got too, and it just all lined up and then that's how that's how that happened. But yeah, I agree because and then again, if y'all have even join, uh, come to some of our Lives shows. You opened up for our DC show, you opened up for one of our New York shows. Um, and they

opened Mandy up that time. I didn't for the table, and I was very jealous. And I want to say, girl, he was not jealous. You put it in the script, in the outline, I show up and go in like that. I didn't think he was gonna let you. Today, when you do the hard dirt, I would like to participant. Yeah that's just slide and wear a skirt. Just say say you want to be fun right here? Bro, I didn't say right here. Good guys say that. Consolation prize

for those of you who watch us on YouTube. I know a lot of you were so upset that Weey did not kiss Jared. So could we see a kiss between the two of you? Show get that? Who come on? Yes? And she said I want't kiss sham boy kiss. No she is, but she opened up that house. She actually wants to see him fun more women. She she wants to share him. You know what I'm which is my camera one. I commend you. I like you. No, that's hot, so hot, she's so cool cool? Is I briefly man before?

He's really cool guy? But I did uh but hur she had hurt too, so that was fun. But she's so fun, she's and so pretty. That baby is adorable. But yeah, they didn't kiss. So now consolation prize. You want to see y'all? If I had to pick, I want the position put and put my leg up. I got a look loss on one of my other favorite positions. Okay, right now, let go wait some bit of the comments fucking in the last one. We us thirsties, bitch, so think I care? Did you think I had shame? Do

you think I am ambarrased, bitch? Because I am not. You come and sit up here and tell me that. But I am in the crowd fucking when we say Sharona is hosting the show lifting my titties up and then get signed to I don't like all this I think you're doing right now because Sharonas ran into Bay. Oh no, no no, I tell the story Sharonas ran into Old Bay in the airport and over it hits me off, like, oh pretty as tall I was like skiing Nike. I was like, yeah, yeah, as I ain't

gonna lie. Yeah, everybody except for niggas in the hip hop industry, but other than that, Yeah, because they don't want your ass around, You're gonna take the bitches. It's weird, It's true. It's like four nobody want them. They gotta stand on their pocketbook. You just want to fucking him, and you know, panties start to moisten up for our vanilla shipt um. Mandy and I talked about it briefly on Patreon, but I want to talk about it one

more time from a male perspective. Brittany Renner and your feelings about the step Daddy video for context, everybody, Brittany Renter, Mandy, you get you know the rundown he gave us a sports Rundown one more time. I mean you want the full like relationship things. So basically, Brittany Renner, who's been linked to a ton of celebrities, UM started. UM. I don't want to say scouting, although if she wanted to be a sports agent, I think she would be phenomenal

because she scouted out good talipool. I don't hold her roster is lit like she got a nice line, but basically she pretty much was um showing up to Peach Washington, who now currently plays for the Charlotte Hornets. She has been showing up, uh supporting him since high school. He also went to Kentucky where they were confirmed dating when he was in college. Um. They recently had a child two weeks after birth, they broke up, and there's that news.

She is she's my age of the league, and he's like, I can't believe she went to the high school games. I didn't know that until Mandy said it. I thought that was she started dating him, showing up supporting him when he was seventeen, and then they started dating at eighteen. A lot of that happens often. I'm looking at her age, yea too old to be in the most high school game unless it's your little brother, bitch. That's fucking weird.

First off, I doubt she's even a sports fan, so to show up at a high school game, I mean she's she's a fan of the players who played the sport. I don't know if she's a fan of the sport. I taught you what I'm at at her for that, because sometimes I go to games just because, like whether it be work or free ticket, I'd be like, oh, go go nineteen. I mean, I could just watch porn if I want to be turned on. I don't have to go to a sport game for that. It just

makes it that much more. Like I remember, I would like sometimes, like if I was waiting for practice the volleyball games were going on, I watched the other two. I was like to me, really, lady, if you if you really want to get into it, show up to the y n c A. Because them niggas be playing shirts and skins, so at least you get the niggas with their shirts off and a little they did be still, they don't be wearing compression shorts really at the Y. It is just giving at his mind. Do they're not

getting paid to do it? Though? So can. I want both of you because Mandy used to be a sports journalist. You you're gonna say I used to athletes that too. I was trying to be kind, okay, but I was getting okay, Um, you're here, right, I was, I was really there. Um, you played basketball. I want you to give us a tip for how to get a guy at a basketball game or how to slide into damn. And I want you to give us a tip on

something you would do like vice person. What's something you'd like to be honest bro, nick, I mean you, oh yeah, that happens. That happens, you know. Um, I think the easiest thing to do. Guys, men are so easy, especially attractive women. All you gotta do is catch eye contact with him multiple times and he's in there. That's it the game for win. So y'all are easy, of course, the game, nigga, because you got you gotta understand, like we always coming from a point where we're trying to like,

you know, approach the woman right. And there's a lot of like pressure on guys that get like, you know whatever, And that's why somebody's immature men they get mad and they'll cut you out when you say no whatever. But like all that so when you are giving them, they're feeling confirmation with the eyes. Now you're taking a layer of pressure off and they're like, oh shoot, I could go and talk to show the show over here looking

at me. I know, I'm not tripping, like if you get in eye contact, because that's I know for me, that's the only time I'm really a approach and I've only really done a code approach. Is what we call a code approach, is what we call it code approach. I'm not gonna that's where you send someone no, no, no, no,

that's what that's what. No. If I ever said someone I send a woman no, But anytime I was playing a game, I've had the only happening and they'll send yeah yeah in that aspect yeah, But a lot of

times I'm just talking about any other. Like I'm sending a woman a female friend to I'm like, go make a little drunk friends with or whatever, you know, like drinking alets drink whatever, and they get branded like my boy wants me, he think he cute and like because they get like a trust with the girls and ship. My girls only looked like she's showing the picture and she's like, where you over here? Good job? You know, I feel like you're good at as if they didn't

spot you before. Yeah, but you know, if I'm sitting down the whole time, they came in later, that's what I do. Like, I feel like you're good at that. I gotta say that. I'm literally even the one now like because my whole way man, Yeah, no, niggas don't even want to still the dams anymore. So I'm the friend. Hey, my friend that plays for he had to crush on you. He's just shy. Yeah. And now because I'm a blue check, so all the bitches respond to me. Now my life

the blue check. No, my own boy made me do it. He was like, yo, I really want this bitch. I just saw her world story and I was like, I got you. He gave me, he gave me bread. What was she doing on the World Star? I got six grands? Just that's what I want. On what this is listening? Damn, she's hell of rich world on the world this name wanted somebody out world. So let me tell you something that one place last place, I was like, oh I

want her. Well. It was something where she went viral from just It's like, you know, if you're just now looking girl, what's she doing like holding a cup of her asks. No, I'm cooking with her out. She just looked. Oh she wasn't making a regular girl, regular regular fine girl. Ship man a bare minimum that should be like damn, But I get it. You know what I'm saying is a simple man. We hunt, you know, hunter, god gather.

You know what. I have a friend of mine who's that hot, just like so hot that like you just a kid in everywhere. Be like damn. I mean it's not like she's natural. That's what I would have said her name otherwise. But at the same time, when I'd be like, you know, you paid for the ass and titties and face, and you know what it's doing wonders. It's like getting an amex. You spend annually for it, but you got some perks that you paid for. That body was crazy. I love me build a body, bitch.

But as soon as they start touching their face, like when I go to l A and sorry for you, you're talking about feelings. No, no, it's everyone. Well I'm saying I don't like a bitch to touch their face. What's crazy they do it to make them look younger, but then they just look like a good face. You don't know it though. Yeah, I'll tell you that one thing you're not talking about looking like Kylie. I don't know.

Now you look like a white white woman, white woman like the order the number two, you know what I mean, it's the same one of the men. And I didn't know. A guy tell me when I did a teeth cleaning he also does like botox and stuff in the office. He was like, have you ever considered botox? I was like, no, but I'll do it. I was like, what're you thinking? And the first person he said out of his mouth was we could do like a Kylie And I was like wow. Then he said, or we can do a

belt not Bella or maybe it was Kendall. He said, we could do Fox. I we could pull this back and and every person he named I knew it. I was like, people must come in there, like and pick the face the fox. I he told me the fox. I know, that's a little bit of the skin. Crazy does it look at her? I mean, her healing process was real nasty, but I can imagine you give You're just giving the girls a little bit of you know, just a little bit of freshness. It's kind of scary.

I mean, you could also just get to the African braiding shop and when they like, honestly, is that for like a couple of days much much cheaper than going under the knife. Just get you a nice straight back. Do you have a facelift? Eat? Every time I get my hair freshly braided and like people tell me my face looks good, I'm like, oh, it's because it's a little just back. You want me to answer the question? Or what was the question? And her step daddy video? Yeah,

I thought it was girls. Do you you thought it was girls the video? You know, well you're a father, so that's you know. Yeah, so yeah, so I think, yeah it Dominique didn't. Yeah, right, Like at least say that she was a step daddy's season and you're gonna meet her child because the car seat is in the back. Because here's my thing, like, look, man, she's gonna have a partner in life, and I want to say I trust her judgment that she's not gonna have some nut

that's nick around my daughter. That's all that matters to me, right, Um, I think though, well, I don't know Bunnie Renter at all, you know. So I think though, if I'm just judging book by its cover, right, I think she's like has to stand hard on this character that she's I don't fully believe that she is this like rob person that

she's put on shows me. I think she likes to funk with people because people talk so much ship and certain people when that happens, because I've noticed that happened to me me a couple of times where I'll be in comments I'm just about to funk with people. Now some people respond like that's how they want to respond. Yes, what I'm saying like that exactly. I think she built this character where now she's just kind of like, well, you know, because of what happened recently where people and

I don't know where people get these numbers from. How they that you guys talking about, like I know, like from what I've seen, like the contract that he has. I'm like, no that no, but like right, I know a lot of NBA niggas playing like four month oh yeah, Like like seriously, a depends on the state be also depends how many children they already have. Like what you can receive goes down like the number, I spent thousand

dollars on a dollar. No, but I literally know multiple NBA niggas that don't pay over two grand a month. So if y'all thinking you're just gonna come up, you gotta get like a Lebron type nigga also, But also like I just even me, I just honestly don't think I would want to give just making the money that we make is just like I wouldn't just want to just you know, I don't know anyways is sick. If

I'm making millions, I just even be comfortable given that. Mean, but to be fair, a lot of that that's that's that's that's that price. You want a second contract, That's what I'm saying. Millions. He's still on his rookie contracts. Okay, okay, he's still on his rookie contract. But a lot outside of like maybe the top three h three or four people, let's like even a lot of guys right now are taking the VET minimum. VET minimum is like two point five three mills, and then you have taxes for that.

You also have your PJ. You have lawyers and there's a lot of them, have a lot of in your home families and family, you know what I mean a lot try to tell people like yeah, I know, you'll think that that's they're making a lot of money, but then there's also way more responsibility that came with. Let's not talk about if the nigg is living in a place like Cali or New York where the state taxes. So I mean, yes, it's a lot of money, but not to where realistically someone First of all, nobody needs

that because a good dollar was going through that. I was like, yeah, what is that? God damn, what is this all the smoke? Who is that? No? I think he's an NBA veteran. He's won championships with the Warriors and stuff. He's been he was. I think he just required though, because he has he decided injuries, he decided that Sorry, this is not dick. Let me tell you how Male asked. When I was in the Bahamas, they

had the Big Three. Yeah, yeah, and I'm walking downstairs like some of you know, I love to the Campbell. I was like, a damns, a lot of big niggers in the motion. So I was walking around like and that's not even really me, but it was just so many of it that I was like, maybe this is

a blessing from God. I was kind of confused. So I'm sitting at the table with this man playing blackjack, older dude, and um, I'm like talking about how my god day that so like he's laughing and he looked and when he left this guys like, do you know who that was? I'm like, no, he's like, that's Charles Oakley. He's on the fucking Knicks. Aren't you worries? You were at a gambling table with Charles? Why what did he do? Girl that I know? Yeah, he's like he's a Hall

of Famer, course, but he a gambler or something. No, he's like he's he's a partyer. I partied with him during the sp Awards. This is maybe two be outside young man. Yeah one that year. I was like, yeah, that's about the age I was. Yeah, it was two thousand and ten sp Awards. It was in l A yes uh and it was okay, yeah, oh yeah, he's yeah that nigga fun drink drink. We don't getting a dove? Okay? Does that right? The old dove? Or do or do bit? Just go? So sex tip one whether be ladies or

for men? And then second, which we never really do position. But let's start with the tip first, just to warm up. Sexual tip. It could be for men to do to ladies or something you enjoy that you might want to give women for men or lesbians or dicks, like a tip people of penises. I don't know. I'm trying to be inclusive. I trying to think if I could do like one for each man and women, because this naken knows so much, right whatever. Um, So okay, you know

I find it unfortunate. I didn't realize, like when I talk to women, I'll talk about like, you know, their experiences and ship. Um. I didn't realize, like as far as when it comes to eating plusity, how much men are not good how Yeah, they'd be hurting. They really be trying to eat it. I don't call eating it. Yeah. So I'm like, I just like I guess for men is just like man really like to me, it's a couple of things. One, it's also a plus if you actually enjoy it, right, enjoy it man. I think you

take time with it. I think it's like man treat it like it's delicate. I mean, you do your thing whatever. Man like, I think for them, they get too excited, they eat all rough. I'm like, bro, this is what this is for. You know what I'm saying. Your fingers could do all the hard work and then just you know, and then you get all in there. But like, but yeah, just I don't understand how. I don't understand why it's so hard. Why is the thing that I like? It?

Just to me? I guess you know, you you gotta expect, you know, people aren't like you. So I was just like, what the funk? Like when I would get so shocked every time, Like to me, I'm like, man, I feel like I'm doing a normal job. And when the girls like damn, I never had like I'm like, for real, stop what you do? It's just I do it so well? And then people are like this is so good. I'm like, really, so how do you think? How do you think everyone sits here and feels when you say you give the

best head a one stop? That's what he's doing. Let's him. Let's I don't say I get you by, so maybe he's been sold. Let him. You know what I think it is. Here's what I think it is. I know this game, right, I'm a vet in this game. I get a veteran minimums. At this point of manimum, eighteen years in the career, I'll take a vetman, I'm past my problem. You've been eating pussy for eighteen years? Well then, my damn no, but we're approaching right since it was, well,

come on the first time, I'm just the same. We're approaching. Okay, six time was the first time. But so the thing what she's doing right now, like it is to lurer me and to prove myself to her because now she's challenging me, right and being a competitive macho man I am. I gotta. I gotta confront it and be like, you know what, watch I was like what you doing later on? Like okay, and then let me okay cool, because I'm gonna tell you what a bet in the game is

noticing is with you as well? Go ahead, okay, he wants to casually and this is where the sag after whatever the ship is called. Not just for black actors. Okay, well, I did one TV show. I am never that Mr Method actor over here is trying to be so perplexed and confused when he says, you know, women are just telling me that, Wow, this is the best I've ever had and I'm just like, really, because he wants you bitches listening. Look, and he's smiling, and he traveled a lot.

He's gonna get all of y'all in every city. You do travel a lot down now to New York, l A. I'm not sucking in every city anymore. Back of the day, I jealous at me, like the show she was me work, I said, and this is the one that bought me the laptop, and this is the one you got attached them to something to remember. Yeah, I'm not doing that alright,

eating pussy tip. Yeah, So like again, so I think if man could just honestly really take his time and actually find a way to enjoy it, treat a little bit more delicate than fucking trying to like really be rough with it, you know, and let your finger. You know. Depending who were growing up in the nineties and even early two thousand's didn't even want to admit that it was one of those. So maybe there is built in

trauma with that. I would want to ask you, how would a man get past the idea that eating pussy is not something he should enjoy? Man? You know what's crazy about that? I remember high school, like they remember this one guy my teammates car you black. He said, look like he eat pussy and I was like yeah, and then they were like like Rupin was like and I was just like huh. I was like, I need y'all to come out to me right now. Just this

is your coming out part. Tell me your homosexual because that's wild to me that you're trying to shame me for eating pussy. I thought it was so wild because I didn't come from a family like that. From my family, like my dad told me, I didn't come from a family Jackson and my dad told me. He said one time he was asking me like the sex cush when I was young. I was like, no, I've never done that. He was like, you ever pussy? I was like no, and he goes like, all right, well don't worry, you'll

be good at it. With Jackson's just we're just all good at it. I was just like, huh, Well, that's what mom said about her dick sucking skills as well. No FaceTime, you're on facetim one time. My mom loves like anybody that like is famous or on TV that's been on horrible or that she knows that I know she's just like, Oh, I'm gonna what's the show? Like Schartas has an episode in a show that I love called Made for Love? Have you watched it yet? It's h it's good and um I told my mom. I

was like, oh my god, that's a good show. You should watch Charon say what number? What number is he in? And because my mom used this the TV guy, she doesn't not a stream so I'm just trying to teach her to click. Okay, I'll watch that one. I'm like that that's better than my mom. She would be at a bar, which number is he? I wouldn't tell my friend which number he is. We're watching the game right now, and I would be like, Mom, I'm not now, I'm not telling me he's the number. No. But also, it's

funny because both of our moms have like this. My mom has an session with kind of to two people. Well, her obsession Charlemagne. But when I took her to the Brilliant Idiot's Life show, she said him and them Timberland boots. Goddamn, it reminds me of the Jesus and Marrow. She loves them so Charlemagne the Timberland boots made her wet and

Van anytime I'm with vanil Oh, my God like Loves Loves. Charlotmagne, I forgot my mom is but mainly I mean my mom was watching Insecure, so I think that's where it came from. But Charlemagne, oh man, there definitely show you all the video of my mom in lingerie on the set of Sex Cells. So the first episode I ever shot was my mother's and Charlotagne was like, yo, he sent me a text good luck, like this is what you're meant to do whatever, and I was like, oh,

that was really sweet. My mom, go send him this. Hi, Charlemagne, I'm going to post it for y'all. She is in feathers and a fucking black lace. No. I mean, it was so embarrassing. Do your guys parents have a Google on you? Because my dad does Google. Anytime my name is mentioned, my dad sends me things that I know about myself. He'll send me something like Toronto's will Appear and Made for Love season two, and then I'm like, yeah, that's actually really sweet. I want to I'm gonna be guys.

I want to share with you guys how much I am my mother's child, our very last conversation, she took a screenshot of my story at the verses and said, what was that in his pants? I mean he was gribbing it. Then it grew. I heard he had to pick out with an anaconda. Don't get mad because I noticed she screenshot it and saw bulge and jaw rules pants for me, and I said, I said, I don't know, Mom, get out my phone. You see as you get older,

how much more you are like my dad. There's things I'm like, wow, Wow, did you ever realize there's a point I'm started to finding out my mom as a whole, Like right, my still you can you not call her a hole? Yeah, but that's what she changed. But what I'm saying when my mom never had a job and my mom knows that the men covered everything my mom was, you know, I just loved her very fabulous life. I'm like, when when you lived in Europe, what did you do? Well?

I was married, I did like what about before then I was dating? And he's like, oh, y for ship, you just met rich Niggas and then my mom put a job. That is a job. My mom was very attractive. Meeting rich Niggas is a job. When I was. I was going on seeking arrangement dates all the time, trying to get my bills paid. And imagine, back then, my mom was black girl in Europe, skinny party girl. They were like, if you don't have a lot of this,

that's right. My my mom was. My mom was a very attractive woman when she My mom is still prettier. So when she was younger, man, it's like she was very like I don't know people who know who Vanity or Apollonia is, but she was very people should no, no no, no, no, we have a we have I don't think you know, like you don't know Apolonia or Vanity. Yes she does, Vanity of fair. Go ahead about your mom. Did you

see the words struggle again out? Yeah? If you, if you could, please pull it a picture of Vanity like Vanity six or Appalona. You're like please, So you have reference for women? Said white? I mean, you're like, I don't know you already sat Panamanian, So I assume she's white. But white? So how Flina thought his mom was white? Eighties or something like maybe a young PHOTOO Like, yeah, you see her right there, younger like she was she was in purple rain. You never seen the movie Purple Rain.

The girl she wouldn't. Oh man, you see her like yeah, so that's like kind of and she does. And then my dad he was trying to have got his six six six seven, you know what I'm saying, and he was fit, so they, you know, they My mom wasn't on that type of time. My mom is almost foreign, but she was one of the foreign people that came over to America. Like education, gotta make a way, you gotta send money back home. So she was on that

top of time. So she wasn't like and she got she got printer early with her boyfriend when she when that's where my sister just sell sampson. She had my sister and then but my dad, my dad was in the why you got a little smart grain names proud of him. That's why. That's why you ladies. So I wanted a mother father's child. I was to say, Shermon's

will eat your pussy and then go right back. Speaking of which, let's go back to the position der you know, I'm just weren't even sitting here moist the whole time. I don't know, we just have to do the show. So anyway, um, I was thinking I need to hear any back. No, No, I'm joking, but I'm also very serious about what I want done to me for people to hoard derv segments. Um favorite position. That wasn't the one that you gave Mandy because I just feel like

it's very secondary and I don't want to do that. Yeah, and by the way, guys, this was done on an episode. Sharonus has never put me in a position. Okay, I had to jump across the table because you just caught me annoying yesterday. So now said I'm an annoying and I was like, whoa what I'm saying about? I need niggas and not think I'm annoy hand the fun shit? Can I can you say I'm an amazing woman? Things

can be true? Amazing you know when when people like ask me about how like things are going Mandy when we're fighting, I'd be like, look, Mandy is really smart. She's like really pissing me off. She's smart and she's great. We have great chemistry. I want to kill her sometimes, but like it's a really good show. Things can be true. That literally is like have you talked to Wheezy? No, but we recorded yesterday, so technically we're not talking right now,

but we did just talk yesterday. We don't talk, but we're here. We're here. Kept driving me up. Um, just just hop on the dick already, bro, I'm can't even thing. Okay. Honestly, the fact that she was so out of doing anything with only fans and here we are her begging you to put her in a position at this point we didn't do. This isn't not for me. This is this is theople got to see it with you when I jumped across the table. Now, I feel like it's only

fair that they see it with me. Maybe that was for a big booty body type, you know what I'm saying, right, Yes, you did serve the purpose very well. Thank you very much for that. Okay, whatever, Okay, Basically what I'm saying is just so you know he did get hard. I felt you, Oh my god, idiot, you know when I felt a boat coming through on you? Oh? I know you. You was making it hard for me. Don't stay close, all right, So I'll shaw you because it's like front

with the reverse of it. But honestly, this is this is perfect. Right. We're gonna do the reverse first, and I'm gonna show you what I really like what to bring it home? It? Okay, but this is first. Are you going to explain it into your microphone while she does it? Or would you like me to? Uh? Okay, well, I mean is this feasible for me to do it? Yeah, she loved to do this ship like this ain't an audio podcast. I want to make sure they can hear. You don't get to talk. You're not on a mic. Heay,

but you do have dreams on it. I mean, I'm I guess maybe I should do here because you do kind of need to be like your fee to be here. Oh god, oh my goodness. Okay, well how I bring it home? Right? Okay, Wheezy, I don't want you to talk right now. You are off the mic. Please do not speak. We want to create an enjoyable listening experience. Yes, So basically, guys, they are looking at each other. Wheezy's legs are crossed around each of um or the side

in sides. Okay, okay, he's grabbing her. Ask the little that she has. Now he's on the left handles. This feels right now you swivel this way more? Yea, they go. You also cannot speak unless you were talking into the mics there h So now also then they're right here. I actually this is where I like to first start with like it's slow, and then I get get the okay, shut up. So this I said, is where I bring

it home right here, so bone, thank you. So so I do some slow stokes here first and then and then I'll start going to work really right at this point, we can't check the audio out stop talking because you're not on a mic. Yeah. I want the people that work to still enjoy this, who are not able to watch this on YouTube. They got a computer at work, breast right here, but where they were the breast right here,

some bones, so we get them here. I get a good little feeling here, great great work, great work here. Okay cool, So they're going we do that and then I really go to work here. So that's one way, okay. Now the other way we're gonna reverse you. I'm normally more dainty. Where's my so bomb? Now you got it? Like though? Okay, so bring like here here. They're changing out positions in case you guys are wondering people at home. You know, I'm saying color commentary. I don't think this

sounds good for audio right now at all? Well this right now, edding, can you like do minute marks for this? I want a lot of this moving around. Yeah, but you're not even there and it's a whole you're off mic and it's a lot of just this is not gonna sound good audience. Yeah, but you're talking and he's talking. I can't talk over y'all. So cut all that out. Start over again, yes, son, now okay, So now she is reverse cow girling is pretty much what it looks like.

That's what it is talked in fee. He also has her Brave in his hand, and I need to touch the feet, and she, oh, you're a foot past guy, So are you massaging the feet while she's writing you reverse cow girl? It's like that time we went to get that foot massage, you remember. So the only thing that I think is better about this. For one, if you're doing reverse cow girl and like you can't because

I can't squat too long. If your feet are tucked in a chair, you almost got leverage for a little you know what I'm saying exactly, Okay, I mean, but also the man has to have a really long dick for this to work. As well, because if it's small, the dick will slide out like it's not gonna saying like, you have to be really a direct and you about to have a really good to really manage. A short dick is not gonna work for that. It's gonna no, it's just gonna the head will be in your couchie,

pretty elevator what you call elevated. Like I have tall average dick. So it's not average right sizewise, it's tall average, a tall nigga in a way because we expected to be so big because but but it's bigger. But it's bigger than but it's bigger than average. But they no, it's not though it's not regularly because when you're six eight, they want you to have twelve inches And I'm like, bro, we do is that what it is? That's what they expect.

It's a lot, you know, that's what you won't but yeah, but but what I'm saying is you're still gonna get like it's still gonna hurt. But anyways, so but at the end of the pain, puzz your pain. Because we

don't want any woman to depend on the position. There is some position work that position that I showed you my favorite position like that, the one I showed you on that one that sometimes to cause and so I the position uh that we did is actually the one I just I demonstrate next week in the episode where um I was trying to hold in a part and yeah, that is. And my ass was like, have you got a girl accidentally fart when you were working him? You

know what? Not while i's when we were switching positions, and she was like, she went to the country, so sorry, she said, did not want it to happen on you. But when you you risk the fact that it it smells like ship, because then I'm like, Daniel, pussy smells like ship. If you say it's your pussy and you said I quick, I'm like, you shouldn't expect it to smell like ship. But if it's just air, that doesn't happen all the time. Silent ones too, is crazy. Sometimes we all judged ourselves

being like, whoa that came out of me? That's all happened to us before. Imagine that happened? And why your partners there just evan essences out of my body. Okay, anyways, so that was those those ones right there sitting on a chair where there's leverage for both of us. But it really happens to me. I feel like because we always do the same ship, we always go home, we're sucking the bed, were sucking the couch. Maybe you know. I mean, like that's just that's what y'all do. You

just said we we Yeah, we as people. Oh I thought you're talking about I mean we like anything I'm thinking for all of us. I kind of was speaking like a generalization, like when we have sex, we're generally having sex in the bed. And I feel like, yeah, I hoel sex. If you're gonna do something different, maybe you funk on account like you're watching TV. Counter is my thing because I'm a tall nigger. Counters are lit.

I love counters. But when I say the chair, like, how often are you gonna get a chair in your house? You like your I got I designate one counter counter nik it was six eight. I can give them dick sucking up. We can literally funk anywhere. Oh no, I like having sex with the kitchen. Yeah, but like the floor, I wouldn't want. I didn't get picked, and you can't

only do that with tall niggas. That's true. Ye, yeah, anything where I'm like where I could finally stand up like if I had like when I've had a high bed, I can stand up at action high bed now yea. When I was poor, I used to get like the little platform bed that's actually platform bed. The Floyd bed is like are si, Yeah, I'm talking about the ones

from here, but platform beds that are really low. I remember like a lot of my tall guys like, we're not platform So then I call it the adult bed and I got to hire the only time the little lower one work ever worked as that my I put pillows on the floor and my knees were there, and then I was really there. But I was like, okay, cool, but like if I made a stand up and now I could really perform to my potential, you know what

I mean. And I get serious anxiety about like low, low, low platform beds because I just think a book gonna jump up and get my face. Why are you thinking about birds? They climb, don't get anywhere and fly? I know, but there's something about it, literally feeling. I just feel like it, and I know it don't sound like like I mean, I don't know. It's something about the little bit I feel like I'm too close to dirt. Oh

my god. Anyway, okay, Zaddy Charonus. So when you I think the last time you came on, we talked a little bit about being a dad. But I'm curious to know because we talked about Bernie Wrinner. How soon is too soon to meet Zen for you? Oh? Man? Daughter by the way, right, So I mean, well, look, if I think just even just in general to me, I

don't think there's a time period on it. I think it's whenever you find that person, right that you've connected when you see like, okay, there's a future here, So that's immediately like you know, then that's that's what it is. But um, and if that's not to like at this point in my life right now, like for someone new to meet my daughter, I mean, man, I gotta really really be sure, like really really have strong feelings for you,

because um, you know, I'm just not gonna yeah. I mean that's such a that's such a vulnerable like privilege to me as well. Um, And I don't want to confuse my daughter as well. She has a mother, you know what I mean, And she doesn't need to know about she doesn't just need to get close to another woman. Because like, you know, I get sad when there's like a five six year old who got close with somebody and then they break up and stuff like that. I feel sad, like where such and such like that's a

sad thing to mean. I don't want to put my my daughter. I don't want to press any in that position. What do you think about casual sex partners that have been around in your life for a long time. I feel like we all have maybe somebody we've been talking with for years or they're cool enough to where we know it won't be a bad breakup. Do you think it's okay to have casual sex partners around your kid? For think about single moms that live at home with

their kids. You know, um that you know. There's like to me that I think about it in two ways. I think one if it depends if your cas sex partners, but you're also like really actually have a genuine bond friendship and you guys hang would hang out anyway without the sex, possibly for sure. But then it's just like if you have if you're just casual sex, and then now you're around my daughter. Now we're starting to blur some lines here, right, because like it's just like that thing.

You know what we talked about this one time where I said, you know what niggas would be like, you know, I don't want to seriously, but then they start giving you boyfriend tendencies. To me, I'm giving you some some some tendencies doing that where if I'm bringing you around my daughter, then I'm giving you some type of relationship type of vibe because for me, because that's where I

hold the standard of my my betting my child. Even with that, like if if we're just casually having set I don't even like kids, that motherfucker better be with his mama. I don't even want to see the kids. Like.

But also I'm bringing a casual thing. Also, yes, that that completely blurs the lines as far what really our relationship and if it is just casual and we both want to keep it there, but I don't see the reason for you to bring me around you like like my yeah, so like because even I'm trying to even think, I'm trying to think that if there was only ever exception, it had to be on some late night she's asleep and and I'm the only reason I'm thinking that's because

of the way my like I have a townhouse, so like there's like three different levels, so like it's such a separation. Every time I say anything about me, Yeah, yeah, you're rich, lunch on you, I got your no. But yeah, it's so I'm thinking because it's such a separate thing, it makes me feel. But if like let's just say my room was right here and then Zen's rooms across the hall or something like that, I still wouldn't do that,

I don't think, so not the way I'm picturing. If you don't know what type Like it depends on the type of woman too, if she could hold it in. I was about to say, I ain't being quiet exactly the well the way did he just shook up the chair and the way he claims he pussy guess she got to be on mama. But I do have a question speaking of her mom, Yeah, have you had a conversation with her before you've introduced her to someone? And what did that? What was that? Like? Did she want

to meet that person first? Yeah, I'm sorry, this smirk is it's giving baby mom and drama. No, no, no, not at all. It's just I'm trying. I'm like remember everything. So yeah, so like, um, No, The thing was, no, she didn't. For her, she didn't. She didn't want it, like she didn't feel the need to to meet the woman.

She just had. All she had to do was have trust in me that I'm not gonna have just any woman around my daughter and that she um and that she was made aware of this woman anyway from previous time whatever. So yeah, it was like it was. It was more so that, but they was never really like no, like they got me yet. No, she doesn't want to ever meet anyone. Well she doesn't know that. She doesn't have to know, but like, uh, but I just I don't whenever that with time, there will be a time whenever.

She she liked, but I don't know. It's not like and it's not like she ever said it like nasty. She's been like, well I don't have to do you good. That's just how she is. I'm like, okay, cool, what about you On the opposite end, I'm meeting nigger. Why did you say that? Because for me it's different. So it's one thing, you know, not meaning women, but you know men, right, you know, to have around my daughter. I gotta make sure you're a solid dude, because let's

just say something. Let's just say something where to happen to go left feel Dominique can't protect them physically, you know what I'm saying. So it's different like if I catch the wild ship with the woman, I don't want to you know what I mean, because normally I'm the man.

You know, it's the woman, like you know usually whatever we have to start from all that, So I just want to be sure, like you know, I want to feel this dudes energy, you know, see if I could kind of get to feel, like hopefully intuitively that he has a right spirit and everything. But again, like I trust Dominique enough where I knew that she she won't

have no not that's thinking about my daughter. So you feel like I still want to meet You're also in a situation where your co parents and works so well, Like, yeah, I can't. I feel like I would feel even if I wasn't with that person, I would probably feel a little jealous, only because I'm like if it's another woman and I'm jealous more like for my kids, Like but if they connect, what if they like her too much?

But you also want them to like her too much because I want you to like love the person and be happy. But then I'm like, that's not going to be a thing though, Like honestly that I know people have worried about that, But honestly, if you are um, like an emotionally mature patient, loving, you communicate well, and you know you're that type of parents, um, then you're

I mean, you're gonna have a wonderful relationship. And I would never and if anything, I want them to like the manner, like I would never want my child to living angst. And of course, you know, and I think that's the other thing too, that jealousy of not being able to control it, right, Just like I've been watching Nine Perfect Strangers, great show. Shout out to Melvin greg my boy, like, and she's like, she's a lovely woman and like, but my kids love her and like, at

the same time, it's probably like it cuts you a little. Also, her situation was so different because she got left for that. It's way different, like see me, like obviously and different. I know that now that I understand that has to hurt, especially you get left for that woman and your kids love her, right, that gotta be hard. But eventually got to get through that, right, because I mean, what else are you gonna do, especially if your kids are happy at the end of the day. I always say, put

the children first. You know there's gonna be some instances because a whole lot of women also have kids, hoping that it keeps a man around. That's a whole another that's a whole other conversation. We don't have time for homemail this week, but if you have a homemail, we really want some good ones. I've been going through the email and not giving So how do we meet somebody? Yeah, like girl, the world is open back up, or just

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