Ep 228: That's Just My Baby Daddy (Ft. Ian Dunlap)

about me like a no nigga, no mo. I'm gonna have all the hose. Okay, Hey, and I am joined by are you saying that's how you bright? Thank you? I I am busy. Someone told me I have white girl diction but in a black girl tonality. Jesus, I don't let me know. But yeah, it means you by Rachel Okay, I mean which? Okay, my name is Wheezy and I am mathematic and we are joined by um some you may have heard his ads on her show before,

or maybe on a Patreon episode. A fan of Horrible Decisions who is now a friend of mine and hoping Mandy can get into some stocks chat because I think you'll like them. I mean, Sure is getting me in there. Ye shout out, shout out to earn your leisure. And I know we talked briefly, but then we were supposed to do drinks and you just act like you got too busy to pull up so heat. He would be real, he would be a real like have like tendencies. He Zulu ship now though I don't do the quincys on here,

but yeah, oh didn't you introduce him? Yes? Ian Dunlap, the master investor. UM tell us about the project you're on how where people may have known you from. You may see me on market Money's with earn your Leisure and shout out trying and shot um working on Unfiltered with you. Shout out wayo, Alex you and uh I got a couple other projects coming out to people not sure do know to be excited about pretty soon. So you know a little bit of well talk. I heard

a little bit, but help people get the back. We're not here to talk about stocks today. On Patreon. He did give us some stock tips, but Ian is a daddy and me these things to be daddy's are like Twilve good. That's true, but I thought it would be cool to talk about just being a single dad conversation with your children, like we talked about it women so often. So it was just like, wh're not And I think

we've even talked about doing this episode before. But then when Ian came to town, I was like, this is perfect. So here's the icebreakers I have for you, which you got to be ready, but you're about to start hot right of course, last time you came, how was it when it was not? Not the was it came here? Last time you ejaculated out of your dick? Thank you? If you watched kurbyan through Jackie, was it in someone's mouth in your hand from a porn? Tell us about

that moment? Just what welcome to horrible decisions shout out today? Um? They did? I think? I know you don't want me to go too crazy, but yeah, it was amazing, I'll say that. So it wasn't from a porn. So now that you're not now the gen relationship like being in a relationship, do you watch porn often or is it like what you'll what's your what's your? What's the thing you search um latino, big gass, step brother, step brother,

w incest, watch everything? Why step brothers? Is that considered incest? Not really because through marriage and ship right now, because you'll be trying to time when you talk about sucking people with their fathers, but they wouldn't be sucking each other that I would just be in the middle. Bro that so much. Technically they're both just having sex with me. Oh, but it is a three sona a three song. So

wait wait step brother? Are you a step brother? But this is category that just comes up just like whatever, it just comes up. Its like the acting seems Yeah, the acting is fantastic. That's what I'm going for. Yeah, why what do they say? What's your no? No? No? I mean it's just it's not like a rhyme of reason to it. Like I don't be like, oh I don't have like a favorite to catalog or like collection and ship save. It's like I have been looking like

what babysitters. It's not weird and it's bad as stepbrother, but weird your log or what you look at on you poor? I have no shame book hockey have any teen gang gang because they just only because they'd be like smaller and like tinier and innocent are looking like because I like girls that are subs, so I only type in team because they normally have to play the

act up of like being a sub. You know what I'm saying, because it's difficult to find porn where I feel like a girl is in a gang bang and totally stepping out if it's not rough, because I can't handle when they're like too. If someone's too rough with black girls important, it ruins me. We're more Freddie Gibbs that I got Black Lives Matter pussy. Yeah, it's true. It's true. I do get Really i'd be like in the middle of it and be like, oh, this is racist.

But the babysitter ship I do like, probably because that's the life I want to live. I want like a cute little babysitter that's in college and she's just like, thanks for the extra money this week, or you want to take advantage of your Is that what it kind of take advantage if I want her to suck me too, But like, yeah, she's a college college and you gotta

just started college and be nothing else. I feel like the backstory of it, you know, watch for stories so then when you just said you like to acting and the stop, brother, that's the little bullshit I put on top of it. Let me do my thing. Do you ever do like the acting? Would? I love it? I told you That's why I really liked when Lisa Ann came on, because she's normally like a rellator and the moving man coming gang banger and ship like. She's a

really good actor though, but that's but that's all. You might have down payment? But do you have DP for me? You know what I mean? Like, I really I do like acting. However, now and I think I mentioned this, I'm really and maybe because it's the only fans culture. I really like amateur porn now, but like you know, it's getting in the summer time and I do like to do it by date. I do not want to see your motherfucking floor ceiling the floor fan in the

porn because now I know the room is hot. I don't like the when when the environment just looks messy, like I don't watch niggas on mattresses on the floor and I'm like, get a frame, but it still looks claw but it's still just like no, like do some decors somewhere like I've literally watched I have literally watched porns where they have sheets as curtains over the windows because then but it's the niggas that got them big old dicks. But they just they just holped us right now.

They're homeless right now, so they showcasing it so they can get a home. Clearly, hobo sexual girls are on me that she was watching some hood point the other day. I was like, like, what's the good port and she's like, you know, you could tell us like a gang bang initiation. She was like, but I try to zoom in just to make the make sure the girl's consenting. I was like,

look good for you. Yeah, And you know what's real hood porn because they still go to the motels with the like flowered sheets and wallpaper, and I'd be like that y'all couldn't have just all collectively gotten a better hotel room to do this scene, and yeah, it'd be bad,

I will tell you, bro. Eddie and I were like, whenever I'm in l A, I'm normally staying at hotels and Eddie m from for fact sake, will come and we'll record together and he always has equipment and he was like, dude, every time I comes to your hotel room, I feel like people think we're about to shoot a because that's what they do in l A. Right. Yeah, So he left his camera equipment and so I was a lot of time I stayed there. He said. He came back and he said they were so rude. He's like,

they thought we were making for him, bro. But I mean, it makes sense. The last time that we went to record, um, I was like, I was on a guest on the podcast and I remember like having a bag in my room and they were like, what are you filming, dada? And I was like, oh, like, it's just a YouTube thing. It's just content. Are you sure it's YouTube? So at first I thought that they were talking about like a

feature film, because you need you need to. Then I realized, like the bishop was with yeah, and so did I. I was about to say, but you don't act like it was just the girl you were with. Look at you. It's hot girls something out there. You look like a home you show me. I look like a lesbian sometimes, so you look like a lesbian hole I've met by the clothes you It's not my life, But I don't show you the girl. I mean I would porn star,

but I ain't. No, I don't know would you if you ended up, let's say, ever dating a point star in your life. I'm good on that. Why I couldn't do that, I think it's lame. A suddenly agree. Why is the lame? I wouldn't do that, it's not what not what I'm into? Well, if you did and she was anonymous and she just needed your anonymous dick. Do you know Leo and Leia whatever, the white couple, you know, I don't know white people. They're like, really, I don't

know many. They go crazy on Twitter, like even black people. You're tweeting them. That's not obviously them because I don't really have white points. So I was on my Twitter but maybe even be nasty put them on my ship. But they don't show their faces. They do really elaborate porn and like the Amazon for us, like we've talked about that we would we wouldn't even be able to do that. Like I can't even give a hand job because of my tattoos, but I have too many. I

have too much ink to do anonymous point. I was thinking to myself, like if I had no tattoos, would I ever do it, and I feel like I'd have a dead give up. Or I did tell you I was gonna do it. Uh. Back when I was talking to Lawyer Bay, Yeah, he wanted to do like comic con type ship, and I said, I said, I don't mind dressing up like Wonder Woman with a hole in the cross area for you to funk me because I knew it would cover up all my tattoos. I would have a mask on. I was ready, so I would

probably do it that way. Actually I don't know how much right now. Yeah, but I don't know how much My ask woul jiggle in latex. You were talking about doing your feet point with the dick. Oh yeah, I would do like right now, I would get foot jobs on um only fans, but I don't have my only fans anymore because bits you have three pods. I'm doing

all this other ship. Like people don't understand either. Like I was just I was just talking to a guy points Porno Starry, but then he let me know right now he doesn't have sex outside of work, not that I was trying to. We would just have a conversation, but he was like, um, we were talking about it, and he was like commending me on like all the stuff we do. He was like, you'd be putting in work and said, nigga, so do you. I watched it, but also like shooting that content for even only Fanship

is just as complicated as you do, Master Investor. We do horrible decisions on other podcasts that Only Fanship is a lot of work. So when it comes to the foot Ship, it's just too much work. Even though shout out miss a photographer, he willing to still do it, and I'm like, nah, it's too much work for me to upkeep it is holding to film you with Nick. What a nice person. If I was like he he features in some of it, so that's why I was curious.

I'm like, oh, he's doing other dicks. I'm just oh, yeah, No, I think he wanted his dick, which is why I was like, no, I would want another dick. I would want Sure he wanted his dick, Mandy, I'm sure you're sure. I want to whose dick? I'm sure he wanted his dick. Of course he did. And I was like, let's just tie my feet up, just just put oil on them. We're not gonna do come, just do oil. Are you sure? Alright,

So you know what makes this even funnier. Anybody who wants a church to me, if you see this ship, shout out to the congregation. We know y'all home man being the chain since he was a little boy. You're an adult now look stock everybody in the church. The church. Of course, it goes up and down. I know, freely fired greenly you've been talking about church and tell us if you have you ever had a threesome? Yea in a threesome? Curious to know did you? Were you dating

one of them? So how did this start? Because a lot of people ask us questions about how threesomes start for us, and I feel like Mandy and I, it's easy for us to have up no offense, but just because just because we're already like speaking. Oh no, I actually was gonna say that. I was gonna say horrible decisions ship. But then also what I sunk on my friends, we'd be out a lot like we'd be parted strangers. I sucked my friends. That's the difference. Don't whoa bro?

You go down a bar? Oh my god, you're cute. My nigga is cute too. You want to join us? And they're not strange people. They're strangers people. Yes, I'm not judging. I'm asking. I'm not judging. It's a question do they me you breathe? I didn't say strange it on YouTube right now, y'all, y'all were strangers at one point. See everybody was changing at one point though. Okay, so anyway, not my friends when you had yours, where they were they quote unquote strangers? Did you know him? Was it

a college thing? How did it happen? It was like college. It was just like drunk being out. I think it was like sports, like the popular bar at the time. Did you feel pressure to perform m because I didn't didn't know him being cared about them, so it was about me. It's different if you like gave a funk about one of them, you're telling me you would have

put a little more efvidence. Man felt more pressure. But it's like when you're college, you drunk, you're having you're just having phone Like I'm not like, oh my god, if I don't give my best dick ever, I'm gonna feel so funked up like I would. I'm definitely my best dude, Like I'm giving my best Actually, I at you. I didn't have to do this a lot work. They didn't both get a hundred. They both didn't get percent

out of me. I thought you were high. I mean, I wasn't handed the most effort to there, so that that was the problem. My man that brought me into it at the time, so well, he wasn't my man. He was like friend. He was boom lover that ship. He brought me in and I sucked him and his best friend. But I was so high at one point I didn't know who was really fucking me. But then I noticed the friends dick was great. So literally the problem was the friend was the friend's dick was good.

So I was just making all these extra noises with the friend and I was like, I was high. I didn't you know. Well, my friend at first thought that the best friend was doing something wrong, like he was hurting me or something. He was he was he was and um, he thought you were hurt. He thought. He was like, man, what you're doing? And I was like, he's good. Yeah, like and it was like two like the next morning, my friend, Uh, y'all know, I ended up in the ice bath that night. The edibles really hit.

Oh no, well, so the edibles really hit me. Mind you, this was my first time best friend, so at the time, he was in the NFL, so he brought me to fuck him and his best friend. And that was why you came. What like, that's why you flew out. Oh yeah, I knew I wanted to do that. So I thought this happened because you were lit. No, we had already talked about It was kind of bland. And then when I saw he was nice. He was like wanting to

take me to the food trucks. I like, this is my first time in the city, you know, so anyway, even just being real nice. So anyways, we were all supposed to go bowling that night, but they pulled out these edibles. Mind were on the West coast, so they pull out these edibles from the freezer. Hey, if there's edibles in a freezer, y'all better just leave him ships along. So because I had got highway him already before. It was literally a gummy bearer one one fucking gummy money.

The last time I was with him, he thought I was gonna die because I was like smoke weed. So I took half a brownie, half a turtle in a gummy This time, I was like, I'm just doing it gummy bear. So we were I took the gummy bear. We're supposed to go bowling. Next thing you know, I'm in the bathroom like I'm crying, laughing. He's like, I don't think we're gonna make it bowling, so let's just go in the room. So we go into the room and I started, you know, doing what I do, and

then the friend we just start sucking. And the next thing you know, in the middle of the fucking he actually made me squirt. So maybe I needed my fluids, which is why the friend was making me squirt. And I was like a luckily, luckily like my dudes that I was lit at a time, I think, not that he's a cut, but I think he really enjoyed seeing me be pleasured. But in the beginning, it was just like a bro abra chill out, like don't hurt, hurt,

and I was like, I'm not being hurt. But at one point I didn't even know who was can me until then I in my highways figured. But then so when I got done, a bitch was exhausted because the bitch just took you know, football, dick. These are big body niggers, so I'm exhausted. Well one didn't make it to the NFL, but he did play at one point in his life. At one point that's where they met, you know. Um and so I'm tired. So bitch I can't move. So they're like mandee and they're gonna like this,

bitch I can't move. I'm like, I'm hot. So they go and get ice packed out the freezer and put it on me. Bitch I didn't even feel them bitches they mind you. He was still in the league. He said, oh, bitch, you can't die here. I'm still playing. They're going to get ice, the ice bags because we was drinking, so we had like ice, the cubes. They had like the jacuzzi tub in the master bed. They just start running cold water and they picked me up and it's like, nah, bro,

you gotta be alive. So they put me in the goddam ice bed and my niggas and there just talking to me, making sure like you good. Many like he started bathing me and s I'm like, okay, I'm good now. It took a while, but yeah, so that was my three some edible never again. You probably had that hyper me sit it. No, that's not he would not have to. Yeah. God, it was bad. And he was just like, hey, bro, alright, we're not gonna do edibles the rest of the weekend.

Did you said? Please just bring my look at did you? Him and his friend again? So I was an awful lover. I ended up actually sleeping in the friend's room that night because I had my own room. We all had

our own rooms in the house, and I snuck. And when I started sucking a friend and then that's the friend that also fell in love with me and wrote me a love letter, and they wanted to wanted to like be with me after this threesome, and I was like, I can't because I'm still working with this nigga, and this nigga look out for me son, so I gotta keep sucking him. He still look out for me of his day. He's great. He's one of the only niggas that remained a friend even though I didn't talk to

him during my relationship. I was like, I gotta I got a man now, so I can't really talk and now we're back talking. Hold on, wait, I need it. Wait, but you went and the friend while the other one was sleep Why didn't you sleep with the other one if he was your boo at the time, like sleep in the bed with him because he's married. We didn't cuddling ship like that. We all had our rooms in the house. He was married, nigger, We wasn't cuddling. We're friends, lover.

Did know you, homeboy? He knew? Uh yeah, No, he wasn't, man because I told him. But also I had to start telling him like, Yo, your man's just like writing me poems like so I'm sending him the poems like your man's want me to come back out there without you like I had to. But this was the second friend that did Mandy b in the beast for beautiful. Don't do that? I know? Literally, Oh it was. I might be able to find the poem. Find the poem. I'm gonna put it on, gonna put on Patreon. I'm

sure I can find the poem. It was. It was intense. He still he still mind you. This was maybe this happened maybe five years ago now that Negga to this day texted me every birthday, still happy birthday, hope everything going good with you. I see you doing your things still to this day. That's why when I tell you this puts it good, baby, like how you really want me? And I sucked you and your friend and then told

your friend and almost died. He said he had never felt that connection friend talking about how I was a demon, but almost threw up. I think we'd be putting on our best performance. We do. You gotta put your best performance on moving forward? Okay, alright, alright, best performance? So the only last one I had was for all of us to do. Since this is the baby Daddy episode, Oh, you picked the hottest milk. We picked the hottest baby daddy. Who do you think the hottest milk on the planet

is hottest? Really? I didn't even know you love Beyonce like that. I mean I don't. But she fine, she is, and she had a lot of them, and every time she pops another one out? She who else had one? Yeah? Who else thought that it was hot? I thought you was gonna say, j low, little Latin. I love Joel nice. So she bade she looks great for a daddy. Let me see, Jason Momo. Can I be honest with you? I feel so funked up to say this because he's married. I don't give yes, I do, Okay, I like, really,

I believe in karma and I'm terrified. I want to have a family, and I'm really scared if I, like ever fu married dude or do something like you never know nobody who married, like probably when I was like younger and didn't even really know it. Like I've really tried not to My first real boyfriend I ever had after dating him for three months. You remember how traumatic a us I found out he was married. We had been on vacation together, wasn't at two cities, Puerto Rico,

New Orleans. Like then I found out he was married. He went to Hawaii on a work trip, but I couldn't talk to me at certain hours, and oh, I gotta broke my heart. And then they got divorced. And I really feel like when they got divorced, we ended up together like that was my Like I feel like it was my fault. Um, and I was only eighteen years old. I was terrible. So now I feel like if I do, if that happens, I'll be fucked. Maybe

that's why God made me a hole. The rest of the years, he's like, oh yeah, we gonna fuck you. But anyway, so um for a baby daddy, I didn't know how attractive Lebron was, and so seeing this person and oh my god, and his wife is super cute in person too, like she's hot, and then they're really hot.

And I was just thinking about all them kids. And then I started clicking on videos of him being a good daddy, and I was like, all the NBA players got kids, So I think the whole lead find Actually I'll take all of them, but dad make it look good. How many are there in the league. It's like on the thirteen. I mean, I got a year and a half of fun if I won a day what they find? If we're talking about baby daddys, all the nigga's got kids, whether they know it or not, it's about that MANI

I think in the league, white one. So I ain't gonna hold you. Chandler Parsons fine, um, Kevin Love fine, Adam damn something Adams. Uh, oh, you don't know sports. I don't think, Oh, oh my bad. Well there's another guy that just looks like a Spartan and I can't remember his name, but it's something Adams. Well, i'll tell you Luca Duncheon's whatever. I don't know how he'd be shooting like that with a body like that, why is

he not a shade bro? I went to that every game because the Lover Boy when I was in l A and I was like, Niga, this has got to be one of the worst. Like normally he's like literally one of the best players I'm but he's like undoubtedly right now, probably one of the top five, which was crazy because I thought he was gonna be like super rips and I was like, damn, I mean, but James

Harden is the same. He goes in and out of his body and he's one of the best players in the league as well, which is insane, right, Like it's really I mean it's but it's skill, Like you don't have to be ripped to do this, I know, but you would. I don't know if I agree with that. I think you do have to be like super at football players, hpe, But they be hitting niggas in football, you sai, no baby, pushing them over, push them over. Yes,

that's exactly what they do. Basketball you gotta run up, down, up down. I mean, but you could also cherry pick. You get breaks as water boys like you, like the whole break happening. I could catch my breath. We all I gotta do is stand on the line, all right about baby daddies v nella ship for this week. I saw a video that I thought was sucking, insane. He came out a few weeks ago of a father tossing eighty thousand pennies. Did you see this? I was so

happy that they were a white family. Oh when I clicked on and I was like, this on a shade room. Let me see. So what started as an act of spite triggered a domino effect of kindness. Um. The man's daughter says, he pulled in front of our house, turned the trailers so it dumped out all the pennies. She was eighteen year old. He made his final child support

payment in eight thousand pennies. How much is that? That's it? Oh? Nick? Well, anyway, they ended up donating every penny to a domestic abuse center. They said next, while I was on CNN, it was on a ring camera or something, which is how we

all saw it. But it's just terrible. And then they got mad donations after that, forty seven thousand dollars, and people from all over the world are trying to uplift the daughters, saying this is like amazing, we want you to keep donating, and so they just keep helping her out. So donate to something better than that. Goddamn no I'm talking about like, but it's going to the daughter. No, no, no, she's allocating it over and over and over. But it's

going to the domestic abuse. That's not going to her, right right. But people gave her the money and she's not keeping anything. Okay, okay, know what I mean. So fine with me. She's like, oh, like whatever, fun him, I'm gonna be fine. And so she's just trying to help out other families. But I did uh during the pandemic. Actually, um, if I'm not mistaken, there was an employer who paid someone their last check and pennies as well. This was

during the pandemic. It was something petty, I guess because they that's so to me, so evil and mean and nasty, like dollar bills. At least I do like making it rain bro. I was in the bank the other day. I know this is really random. Meal, I'm so sorry this is a d D. But white people are fucking insane. Well, they're calling this guy didn't want to wait online. I was at the Chase and aster place. I guess he's

a private client. So we started flipping out and the lady was like, I'm so sorry, we're understaffed and it's a Friday. We'll try to get with you in ten minutes. He was like, I'm a fucking private client, so I can have someone take me whenever the funk I want to take all my money the funk out of here, and like starts flipping out, And I was there while he was there the whole time, real quick, for real quick.

It was right. So it was a Georgia man uh Android's flat and his former employer dumped ninety thousand pennies on his driveway as a form of final payment for his work at an auto shops. And they had but yeah, this happened because they trash hundreds. So I don't know how much money the dude had. I would flip out, like if I was like mad about something, but like I wouldn't start cursing somebody, especially when a staff you could tell it's Friday Friday security guard. This is something

I didn't even know. I don't know how much money he had his account, but he was so evil to everybody. They're like, fine, we'll take the money out. The security guard was like, no, there's not enough security in here to help you remove your money. And I'm here to keep the people in this bank safe and keep you af No, you can't take it out. The security nick of it I was, girl, did you want to leave the bank? I was sitting there and casting my little check, Like, wait, girl.

The security guard starts arguing with the dude. He's like, I can't keep you safe unless you want to call private security to take your money out. I have to keep the patrons and the employees of this bank safe, and if you walk in the street with money like that, you put everybody else at risk. He's like, no, you can't take it out. He's like, who the fuck are you to tell me he said, I can't take it out. He's like I heard, and I are I'm telling you

you can't take it out. And he starts going off on the bank tellers telling them do not take his money out. And I don't know how many millions he had, but girl to security guards say it now, And what I learned was I didn't know that that was possible. Girl, you should have want it to console him. I'm so sorry. You retreated, let me, let me get you. But you

don't know how much money that Nigga had. He could have been a sugar daddy if you would have consoled him in that moment like being maga energy though, because the girl was black. So I was kind of like everybody already. But the one thing I will say that I didn't understand there's a certain amount of security guards like us per what's the trucks with the money armor blink bring trucks or whatever. They need a certain amount of security per like whether it's millions or hundred thousands,

So that's security guard. I don't know how much. Again, they were like nigging out. So the dudes that's flipping out. I was like, you know, I was no because I was just like, bro, actually, recording is now, like you need to just do it it. Plus I didn't want him to start cursing me out. Plus he was outside, and like sometimes I'd be feeling like when Nigga's recording ship, it's put agram and I was just like that's where we would cameras, bitch, but the banker putting out what happened,

we want to see it on social media. I felt like Okay, if you hit the bitch, it's gonna be on camera. Anyway, what do you Let's talk about child support really briefly, because we talked about the eight Are you on child support? You are? I have heard from some men that they don't want to be on child support because it puts them in the system, Like are you how to be on child support? Because she feel like it gives you a regular way of paying, Like,

how do you feel about being on child support? I think it's a misuse because I do so much of my kid anyway, Um, I pay so much for it, like talking to my baby Xander. Lexander is an expensive as kid. So like I think family court divorce law was a mechanism to destroy black and brown families. Because yeah, but so if you like begin to put people in the system, now it's different if people are paying. But like anybody who knows me, knows how much I have

my kid, how much I do for him. I would make the argument if I wouldn't have been put in the system and his mom knew how I felt about being in the system, I would have gave more. But I felt like because the elevation began to happen, there was some this day there and this is like the only way that I can try and punish you. But how do they decide how much? Can you talk about how much you pay? That I won't do, but I would be happy. I was like, I would bring that

ship in a gift wrap box with chocolate. Like I'm saying, I'm curious because aren't yours like capital gains, Like, how do they decide how much you It's still based on annual income in Okay, so, but but there's a cap in the state of Texas. Certain states don't have a cap, so they can run, Like I know some people that pay. So when I saw that, I was like, I don't know that his relationship with his daughter and family. But I'm like five thousand dollars a month for a millionaire,

who cares? I mean, but it's but I mean, I'm I'm I'm someone who received child support my whole life. I've had this conversation with my mom. My sister right now is filing for child support as well. So in terms of child support, I think one of the major misconceptions and people who haven't either been put into the system or gone through the process, um how they do it?

Now and I'm not sure if this is Florida or New York, but how they do it now is they still do put into effects how much money the the parent that would be receiving makes, So my sister the same way, you have to provide the same way that the father has to provide all of his documents for income that would be receiving how much they make, because there still is a percentage to where it's the overall aspect of it, so it's not solely just on say

he makes a hundred thousand and she makes a hundred thousand, that means the percentage of what he may have to pay would be less than if she made fifteen thousand. It's still a collective thing, so you may have to pay more if she can't provide uh more, Like it's still a percentage base, So they still want both parents incomes. So I understand how it could be perceived as, oh, well,

you just want it for personal gain. If in fact the mother receives significantly or makes significantly less than the father, then yeah, I'm taking you to child because now I need this money. And the money, yes, you know, maybe going towards more things than just this child so here's an interesting question because you're a general person and dad, right,

why say you would have gave more? Like why I know you want to give your son everything you type, because like, so what do you what did you feel? What do you feel like your money is going? Like why would it bother you to give more or less or whatever? Because she knew how I felt about the courses in in general, because I know like one and two black men as someone gonna end up in the

course system. So like because I'm not an in criminal court, so I'm like, okay, I escaped that, and I don't wait all this time to be in my thirties have a kids that then end up because I'm like like, if you know how I feel, don't go that route.

But then you have to influence of friends, family. You see a person elevating, it's like, well, I think you can probably get this out of him because now he's doing X y Z. So I know it wasn't because if it was after me, like if there was no drama, I would do everything what I'm doing for Xander and would have provided more and still like a boy the time xanab So can I ask you a question then, because this, I gonna hold you. This triggered me, like

what you got to do with her? Yeah? But no, because here's the thing outside of and I hear what you're saying. I know men and specifically also men in my family who then throw that in women's faces all the time, like oh well, you could have even been getting more. My thing is maybe had you shown up and started giving, there wouldn't have been like, oh well, let me go to the court to get it, like

we'll see. But but that's the thing too, when when it's not court ordered, like my sister baby daddy was given ship early on then just stopped and then I was like, oh, well, I'm gonna send this, then stopped Like as a as a parent, now I'm literally at the will or having to ask you, hey, when you're gonna send that, when you're gonna do that when ordered, it comes, when it comes. Don't doubt that you're you're

always giving to Xander. My thing is, like I wondered sometimes because because had money his whole like this whole time, planned on having a kid, always has his kids giving his kid money. If a dad like that who's financially stable enough to pay for his kid I wonder if then somebody really wants child support because they want no ties with you, they don't want to have to ask you. That's what That's what I could That's what I could see.

I know, I know you're bringing up the court system and how um it you know now makes the baby mom a villain, But I do, I'm messing this villain. But if I tell you, like like I've even had people that I didn't like that have hurt friends, and my friends have hurt them. They didn't go to court, and it was like life, it's like certain rules I just have, like like even if somebody crosses me, like unless you put my kid in danger, I'm not gonna

take somebody to court. That's just me though. But I tell everybody like, this is how I operate, this is how things will go. But if I'm already doing and everyone I know everybody has two sides. But I know what I have paid, have been paying and been given and also what I put away, like not to like if Xander doesn't want to work when he turns, so

he doesn't have to. That's because it is true that when we talk about the child support, it always makes women feel like ship but also in the same time, it's like we obviously are all, you know, pro social justice and black men and women winning, but at the same time, it's like from for every home girl I've had that's been with a nigga who ain't ship, which is difficult because maybe those men didn't have money to pay for their kids and intern with you. It's not

like it's got money. No, no, no, I'm saying like I'm saying, my home girls have fun with some broke niggas that be like I ain't got it, I ain't got it, within it's not the case. So it's interesting because those are always the one that goes on child support, and I feel like this is a different who's the ones who always going to support? They're always having to beg these niggs for money, so it's like fine, and

we have to take it out your check. Now. These are the instances and cases I've had with friends they didn't have affluent baby daddy's their baby daddy always like I ain't got this, blahlah blah. But also if there's not a relationship there and now maybe y'all have other partners, I understand why now I don't want to have to call you every motherfucking time I need money. Now, I know I get this amount of money a week or

this amount of money bi weekly or monthly. Now that's that's the less that I have to talk to you. I know, when you see your child, come and pick them up. But now financially, I don't have to call them to ask you because realistically too when you're not

in the home with a child. And this is the thing that I always say about child support because my daddy legit, well my my daddy legit did not talk to me and my sisters over my mom wanting to raise My mom was getting four hundred dollars bi weekly for two children, and we knew my dad made more. So when my mom went to court to get more, because she's like, cool, you're buying them named brand shoes. I have two. No, it was no, that was what

she got told on eight hundred a month. So find you and at the time, yes we're on Section eight, we have food simps. But also as we get older, I want to be in sports. I was playing violin, I was doing things, and yeah, he showed up and got us the name brand shoes. But that's the thing that that I think a lot of fathers that are not in the whole home don't understand. My mom could only take certain jobs and take certain shifts because we were home. She had to make sure we had someone

to pick us up and take us from school. So her entire life, the amount of rooms in the house had to be worn just because we were there. So even when it comes to oh, well a kid, don't take that much. Literally, my entire life takes more because of these children that nine times I'll attend. The fathers don't even they just think, oh, the child support is for you know, my entire life has changed because now

I'm the sole provider of these children. And that was my that was my experience, like child support, Like I didn't really I mean, my parents are still together, but I didn't really understand it until I've grown older and had friends and even at this age now feeling guilty now with men that won't even speak to them just trying to get child support and not guilty like having to be like, damn, I gotta put this nick in. A lot of women don't want to put you all.

Oh my god, one of my best friends, she tells me all the time, like bro like that story doesn't get told enough too. I wanted to ask you as far as like quote unquote baby mama drama, Um, how do you have dialogue with your six year old about when things are tense with you and the women you're to kill with. I was just telling the truth, like, m if I don't see you, it's not because that's how I wanted to be. I still want you to be respectful with your mom. But if it was up

to me, I will see you every day. How often do you guys split time? Uh so it's like every other weekend and then a couple of days throughout the week. But you know it should has challenges, man, like she changes sometimes if she gets in a mood. You know, some games get played a boy restricting access and ship

like that, so you have to adjust. But like some of the greatest advice my dad told me, like when I was going through it, he was like, you had the money to pay, so pay it and not as if you have not been paying the same or more so, just provide and then everything eventually work itself out. It's tough like so for me, it was just the audacity of being taken to court over when I know what I was already pouring in and me being solid like you know me, Like I don't give over just because

I funk with you. Like so if I give like that to you and people that we know, imagine for what I'm doing for him. What about when it comes to um men that are feeling like they can't spend enough time with their kids. What kind of have you ever looked into court ordered things or third parties? Like what can you do to ensure that you got a lawyer up and whatever you agree to in that paperwork?

That is the paperwork. So your paperwork when you when you do child support, you mean so what like yours says every other weekend, you have to fight for what you want and that paperwork or you have to be willing to go back. And that's that's the part about court that I don't like. Because the funny part, like when we went to court, my lawyer and her lawyer were friends, so he would tell me ship behind the scenes, like yeah, after I'm done with your case, we're going

on vacation together. So I'm looking at it like and I respect honesty, but as a business person, I'm looking at if he has a case sload of four or five people and I'm paying ten grand, somebody else's paying ten grand. They're running this ship up like crazy off of black and brown families. So that's a business. You're feeling like it's nothing, But if family law and child support worried one entity, it would be a fortune company.

It's like billions of dollars put through this system. So I get for the people who won't pay, or like you said, if they won't pay for months and they're like skipping out on ship. But I see the business behind it, like even going back into the nineteen sixties, like when they took the black dad out of the home and then like that was designed to get black and brown families to break up. There's a lot of talk like I recently saw in some posts and different

ship about um DNA tests at birth. Did you see that they were talking about, oh, should this be mandatory? Was like a Twitter thing that was going around and basics, well, there's now like you can do a DNA test while the baby's still in in the belly. Yeah, it's you can literally, like because well that's the thing too. A lot of a lot of women feel entitled to still get some sort of um, you know, to be taken care of because maybe she can't finish out work. Uh, definitely.

A lot of dancers, like once you reach a certain level of pregnancy, you can't dance. So if you're in different industries like that where you can't show up to work because of your your pregnancy. I know that there are now ways for the man to request the DNA test while the baby is still in there, because you are asking for some sort of support while you're pregnant. So there is a way actually to do a DNA test. Yeah, cause I got your baby in right. I funk with

that actually. So when it comes to like DNA tests them and then requiring them, what do you guys think? Do you think that should be something done? Ain't gold you? That's what happened with with us. Like when my mom went to get more he said, okay, before you get any more DNA tests, everyone, let me make sure these are all even my children. And clearly we knew, like you know, but it got it got Oh, it got messy. We ended up having to do a whole DNA tests

and everything on all of us. Yeah, so I looked up if mom mother's paying child support curious to know what you guys think the percentages mothers that pay child support to me, probably lesson like, well, most men don't have full custody, so it depends what that stat is, because a woman is not gonna pay child support if she has custody. And not many single parent dads have full custody of the children. There's not there's not as many singles. What do you think? What do you think?

I mean a lot of women keep the kids and it's easier in corse, I don't know what. I'm actually shocked at it. I don't know six percent of women paid child sports. I did not think almost eight percent because probably probably because eighty five percent of women keep the baby, I know, but I thought it was gonna be like way lower than that. Oh, it's just we very seldom run into single single dads now. Um, I'm also curious you call yourself a single father because you

don't like the turn baby daddy. Why is that calfather, Because I think when you say baby daddy, it means that, um, the choice to how the child was unintentional, that wasn't the kid like Xander was playing. I just think if we say baby daddy, we broke up. That's what I think. What do you think? I'm very particular how I'm labeled though as a black man, as a business person too. Baby daddy is a word that to me, it describes unintentional, unprotected sex with somebody that you didn't know was just

fucking with and it was accidentally. I mean, I think that that's the same with women and the baby mama title, um, and it's always like they annoy it, like you feel like but but what's crazy too is even the connotation though all of those when it's attached to women are always worse, like well, why didn't the man stay? Why he left you? Or they or there's a label of promiscuity on the woman, especially when there's multiple baby fathers.

No one ever says when a man has three different kids by three different baby mamas, it's looks right over like as a woman, there's a difference. And also when a woman's labeled a baby mama, I think just again, the value is deductive, the same as if she's even called a single mother. If you're called a single father, there's almost praise to that, like, oh damn, that's what's up.

A single mother doesn't even get praise in the same fashion that a man does when he takes custody, Like and again, this was all growing up in a single parent household and witnessing this, like I have a lot of only trauma and experience with how all of it manifested. But now that I'm an adult and my sister is

now going through the system like I do. And it's because the nigga not trying to show up because he feels like, oh, well, I got for the kids to take care of, so maybe you shouldn't have laid down with this one. Bitch, pay the motherfucking dollars and and

and I don't want to deal with you. Women will always be blamed, like where you had a baby with him, And it's like, yo, I've dated men with kids, you know what I'm saying, Like if I decided to have a kid with that one in that relationship that was in like funck, now is my goddamn fault? Like it's just strange. I agree with you how women are always blamed, but I think that sometimes there is an interesting side to men that want to be better death And I

honestly think it's a small person. I feel like we mostly know women that are going through the hardest time. When baby did that part time and money, you know what I mean. But I also didn't know that it had to do a percentage how much they make. Okay, let's get to the home mail. You already, Stewart? Wait were there already? For real? Damn shiit? What's the what's the time on that we're Can you cut that out? I don't want people thinking that we're just a little mark,

but it is plus the five, So ho mail. Hey guys, A little backstory to my now uncomfortable situation. Seven years ago, I had a new neighbor move in the house next door off the bat. I fell in love, pictured us getting married and everything, just because of the way our relationship hit off. That's me, girl. I hit it off with his cousins and he would always make comments about

my friendships with them. Fast forward a few years ago and he chooses someone else over me, gets married and moves on, and naturally I stopped hanging around the family because it was awkward. And now his wife doesn't like me, so we haven't spoken in two years, and then it just got worse. I started talking to one of his cousins. They aren't the closest, and he used to always tell me had feelings for me and hatity when I talked to you is because the other night I had a

night of drinking and hanging. We fucked and after finishing in the middle cleaning, he says, don't you regret choosing my coversin over me all these years ago? I was speechless and I didn't know how to answer. It's been a week now and he turned into a cocky asshole, ringing it up whenever he can. Do you think that he used me to one up his cousin? And how

do you think I should take it? Side note? As I was writing this, I literally got a d M from my best friend saying my neighbor d M her asking if she knew why I was hanging out with the cousin. What are they playing at? Do you think that the cousin revenge fucked her or he really have less? I don't think he had feelings, but he just you know, I don't think there was feelings at all. They said they went out and they was drunk. He said, I've had feelings for you for for years, That's what I said.

I think he gaslighted her to get in some pussy. I don't think it was a revenge thing, but if he's being a cocky household now and rubbing it in but also that, but also they went out and we're drunk, so I think he just also said what he needs to say in that type of environment to get some pussy.

I agree. And one other thing I wanted to bring up about this, so when it comes to fucking home boys, do y'all think, because I really do believe this, maybe want to be better than a friend, especially when they know, let alone cousin, let a home let alone a homeboy. Like I really do believe there's a little thing where it's just like I got it too. I don't think

they care. You don't think so do you think? And I don't crew loved a couple of times, Like I don't think any of them have been like, oh was mygic better than his? Like you don't think men compute with each other? Look at all the like rappers that date this, ye, I mean I think that's to stroke their own ego though, Like I just want to know that I could suck the same bitch is a Kanye or something like that, because now it makes my ego better.

But I don't think, oh, I think it's weird as I think it's grouping as fun it's but I also don't think niggas are like, oh, let me outperform my homeboy with this bitch. I think it's just like if we fought the same bitch, we fought the same bitch, made the best one. Hunger games may the best sequen. So I'm to get in that I sucked like friends. I totally forget about it because they were such a

large fan and they aren't friends anymore. Yeah, like it was maybe like four years in between it, and then they didn't sunk with each other anywhere. Something they nigga said, like they be fan want to shoot each other. But anyway, Florida niggas, one of them asked me recently when I was in Florida that no, he didn't ask me. He was drunk. He was like, you know, I know you sucked so and so I hate when they do that.

And I was like, who told you that? I didn't even say no, let us teld you, And he was like, I already know a few visites all of them tell me about Dick is bigger and even though it was bigger that he bothered. That was Lane. That's as much bro he hat on his homeboys. What are you doing? And that's Lane? That lame is fault. You should have been like you all puss That as Lane mass nigger right to his face. Since in Florida that's some labor's lane, so fucking small. I was like this nigga, really no

because he I sucked him first. But the point is, like nigga like huh like lame? First of all, it was his his dick was bigger. But the homeboy had better dick, if you know what I'm saying. He was pussy better that that was your That's that was your time to be a real afga. No, that's where you gotta be like, well, actually, I ain't gonna hold you because the way that nigga ate my pussy you might be able to learn as you think you know that's me. I'm old Karen, boys. I was like, we had sex

eight years ago. You want to be diplomatic about it. I'm going to remember that your dick was bigger, and for some reason you want to tell me that other bitches have said it. So basically, every woman that you slept with has went and sucked your cuter homeboy. I mean, I ain't gonna hold you. That happened to me. Uh And it wasn't I guess the revenge. But one of the things that I was really in love way, and I talked about him on the show, so I'm gonna

say his name. But I ended up sucking his college roommate, and the college roommate actually let the college roommate got a smoothie the morning. So when he tried to come at me and shame me for fucking his college roommates, where they roommates when you were no, no, no, no, my nigga was in the league. Now this nigga wasn't, but he was playing ball overseas. But we ended up sucking when he was. This was when I lived in Miami,

So this is how long ago it was. So we fun when I was living in Miami and the dick was good. So of course years later, the nigga that I was still working with try to throw it in my face like yeah, and you did this, and I had to be like, listen. As awful as that was, I ain't gonna see him said. I regretted it because the dick was actually good, and I told him to his face, like I know you're trying to sit here and slut shame me because I sucked your friend, but

we weren't talking. I didn't think we would still continue talking, and the dick was good, So what are you trying to slut shame me or throw shade at your friend? We both enjoyed it because he's still trying to get it, so I don't know where this is going, but I let him know straight up, like you're not gonna shame me. And I think that it's real wacked that he sat there and kind of tried to throw shade at his homeboy.

I know, Like that's why who was be hating a lot though hater and all the time, Like women are so much at in the middle of that ship and it's just annoying, Like can I get some decks damn anyway and tell the people where to find you. You can find me on g at the mass investor what is your only fans account? I don't have alright, masturbator coming for me. A man know a little bit a little bit um join red Panda dot com. You can find me on market Monday. So with my guys. Um

a tramp shot shot at Mike. Damn everybody over there, give us a little horrible decisions for your text, for your stop people. We need to do that for real. What we're gonna make it. Let's make a w d ye. Make it you can make you create that right, make it horrible, make it right now? Well and let them know, uh, let let them know what. Red Panda is like the

easiest platform ever to know how to invest. So if you've never invested before, I'll tell you where to get in, where to get out, what's buy, what stops to try,

what to leave alone. I made you a little bit of money, so you can tell you how to make more money than your baby daddy that ain't trying to pay your right you tell them no, let me talk about okay, yes, Like so I'm in a Red Pantic club and I've learned and really it was, um I joined over quarantine and I started teaching myself how to invest.

And I will just say this, this is sucked up to say because Ian was like, oh, you guys should learn how to do your own stuff, and like you should know what you're doing, Like if not, if I'm ever not around and basically saying, like, know where your money is going, and I will tell y'all it is. That ship is very hard to do. And there's a reason I had to pay to get in this club because a bitch tried to just take a little bit of a guess at what was gonna make me some money,

and it didn't. So my ship was up until I started making my own choices. And so now I just basically click on this little telegram chat he got and when he tell you what numbers to get in, what did you invest in that didn't work? Big tip for for the entire hor hib you know, with y'all hold everything for at least five years. BlackBerry during the game really now but it's searched am C but and I just sold it. But BlackBerry was at one point supposed

to come back. It was just going crazy. The game stopped, time stopped shorting type ship. But when I had you get in Tesla and shopify and matching all that ship last year though I didn't get in match but Tesla was really my money maker. I probably made like Tangeran on Tesla just last year's numbers alone from like a few and then I jumped in back in when it hit four hundred bucks and like, I really get in

at good times. UM. One that I did on my own, I did okay with Uber, you did good on that, um maderna Ian told me to get in at my Apple. Ain't really doing nothing, but I will tell you two happily you just keep you just have forty shares at Apple. But Microsoft, I'm up on that. Um. And then I bought a bunch of little medical stocks that Nick was talking about online. I found that's so funny. Those are the ones, uh suggested. He said, you get to something,

to something and here we go, there we go. Yeah, shout out to my guy. UM. But no, like um, it was really fun to like learn. And right now I just don't have time, so I'll just be clicking on what the NiCoT. You don't have to learn because like especially for women like business people, you have to have the money working for you. So while you're doing working on other ventures, even if somebody does bad business, like,

there's money there. I always telp people like put the money into the companies and CEOs that are better than you and have them. And I know everybody online think that they have a perspective is not from a place of ego, but most people who talk about investment, they haven't been doing this long and then they have no money. Like so when I asked people like okay, they'll tell you, hey, you should invest in this. I'm like, are you free?

That's the only question you should ask, are you financially free? If not, they don't know. It just be a lot of because like invest in now is a new hustle. The rap ship didn't work, so everybody want to come up, well if you get this, and I'm like, bro, no, like you don't have enough money. Like and that's why even like investing for Xander, if you have kids, please put every dollar you can in for your kids. Like Xander six, probably by the time he's twelve, he should

probably be up a million and a half. Well, even if we're not financially free, investing is still locate even more important because like you can buy all the stuff that you want to in the world, but like we often buy a lot of luxury ship because we're not where we want to be financially Can I ask you real quick to Then as someone listening to this episode down, they're like, oh, well, I actually do want to invest but I know I'm still in debt. What do you

what would you say to someone? What would you say to someone who maybe has a heap of credit card debt or student loans, should they not work towards paying those off before investing? What would your advice be to them? Invest first and then the second half pay off the debt. So if you only have five bucks, I will split it, because like these, it is going to be rich regardless. American Express is going to be great. Citalong's gonna give a funk about you. They don't. They ain't never get

any money. Like they just wrote me, like, um, I think we need your updated number and address. No bit, y'all ain't gonna find me. Send someone Oklahoma, you know, sen send that ship somewhere. Because like, even if you pay off all your debt and I'm debt free, but being at zero, what happens when you go debt free? Well I was gonna say that's the thing too. They if you pay off all your credit cards, now that even works. It gets your credit in an odd way.

You gotta keep at least and keep paying and then keep paying. If you have an emergency, then you go back into debt. People and miss out on ten years of growth trying to pay off debt. And then it's like you could have been up Sells episode about how like it's the fucking interesting and crewing at least, like what what's the point you know, if it's set it's fixed rate. Well, but but that's who I come again from, not only a single parent household, one with uh not

much financial literacy. I was one of the first people in my family to go to college. So also me quitting my job, my focus was having a savings account. Good god, me having a savings account is a big deal accomplishment. That's a huge accomplishment for how I grew up. So that was of course my focus. And again through quarantine, that was just talking to people. They're like, it's just

sitting there and it's not doing anything. You can at least take a third of it invested and let that make money for you because right now is just sitting there. So yeah, and if you do half and half, like you get to a place where you're comfortable. I took a third half with a lot can we do? But once you find things that grow like same thing, like I was like, I was like, shut up with that. But if you get some good stocks that will make you like mad like for those in the stock got there,

they're up like. So it's about what you invested. Now, if you're only gonna get seven, I'll see why you wouldn't one of us have. But for all creatives especially, I won't created to be in a space where they can create and not get robbed. So then if you invest money into the market, no one can really tell get us another durna bro, I got that ship is seveny all this ship at two oh to today? Okay, tell us and if you would have spent shut up

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including a town hall for fifteen a month. You get the merch and the video the hor hobby fucking too so a fellows who're trying to they do wait no, I'm not in a hor hibe, but some of my guys, like after I did the first one, bro Tom got it, I was like, damn for real. So fellas, if you need I told you, no, we have our Patreon, but just maybe ready to like they'd be looking for dick am plussy. All of protos went in there drunk the other night and one's talking to I was like, let

me out what I'm done with fans. I ain't even gonna tell you. So we do have hopefully I'm gonna lock him in. We have an upcoming episode with finally a black man who enjoys being pegged. And after the last town hall I mentioned it, bitch five of our patients was like, oh yeah, we ran a gang bang on him, Like oh yeah yeah, so like they already knew who he was and everything. I was like, well, and you got some hole ass for instance, all right, it's bonus, bitchy. Let me tell you about how he

doesn't have a name. But my l a naked basically was like, bitch, you got me sucked up last name. Oh oh that's oh, you're coming in spicy with it. I ain't that spicy, but it's just like why he as he funked up in what way? I have him packed up? Now? Oh everyone, I love Brent France and Brent Friya's has been doing a party called Wasting Time Wednesdays. So I hit up my elen Nic and I was like, yo, we out, like we're out, we go out right. So he's like, um, He's like no, like you know, my

weeks be crazy. Um. I was like damn, like we gotta fund to Brent. We gotta get some Brent going. So I did forget that he does know Brent. And I mean I didn't really forget like I knew it, but like, let me just explain. I'm not like a fan like I want to sunk the ship out of Brent Fridace. I just love his music, I would say, like a J Cole thing for you, right, Like you never really be like that nigga is so fun. You just love his ship, right. So then I started playing

in him on FaceTime and dance around whatever. He was like, why do you keep like playing this nigga ship talking about how you want to suck me? Like you know what, I'm cool with that nigga? And I was like does it matter? Like because I want to suck you to

this nigga ship, Like are you serious? And he's like every time, like you send me music or like you try to get sexty and me you keep playing Brent yo, And he's like it's sucking awkward And he was like, and you'd be on this thing of the dick all over Twitter and like, no, I funk with the nigga. I was like, yeah, I know, and he was like

no easy. So like a week ago he was chilling at Rents house, they were just smoking or whatever, and he's like, yo, like what about if I talk about you and then they can click on your ship and it's like, god damn, I wanna be with Brent right now and all caps on Twitter and I was like, it didn't say that. Do you think they're Where is their line where you sound like a groupie and then where you could actually be a fan and also, excuse

the funk out of me. If I like playing music to a nigga unit, sorry I masturbate to it being a masturbation playlist for the last two or three years now, and I'm not ashamed of the ship, but like, now I gotta be wrong. And then he's like yo, like when you get here, if we go out and I'm around his nigga like how to funk you about to be active? And I was like, Yo, what do you think I'm gonna do trying to suck his dick in the car Like no, I just like his ship. Um.

But I also, I don't know. It's a tough one. I mean to me, I mean I immediately went to thinking insecure, like that nigga's insecure, he's projecting his insecurities. Um. But then I did go to thinking like nah, like seven is not played in um. And I mean I even remember going all the way back to one of

my ball players. We would watch these YouTube videos of people singing covers and one of his he ended up working with a bit that was on one of the YouTube videos we was watching one night, so like I would never want to see that again. Um, okay, And I do mean I mean, well yeah, and that's the thing. I mean, there's a there's a different with with all of that. I mean, it's weird because most people don't

have these close proximities to people. But I mean, if that's if that's someone as well, because you do go out in l a and he knows that at any moment, you could run into this nigga and if he's not there, he doesn't know how you would act. I wouldn't one know when gasing or sweating about my friend. Okay, here's the way to think about it. Remember when you went on the date and someone has asked you how Ki Ki and Medina were or whoever was in personal where I saw him at May But but I'm trying to,

like I'm paralleling it. You don't want to hear about someone that you're with fanning over someone you really know out of respect for them. It's not even you could be a fan. But if that if he's already but if he if he's already said hey, that's my nigga, and this you fanning for him makes me uncomfortable out of just pure respect from him for him, I just don't do it. But I didn't. I didn't know Mandy. I didn't know that he had a problem with it until last night. I mean, but if he's like kind

of hinted, like, yo, why that's my nigga? Chill last night he made it like adamant because maybe he felt like he told you enough times you know, chill out on that nigga he said to me before, because he was like, you feel like we never had this conversation before. I was like, I really thought he was playing with me when I would be playing Brent and he We've been around each other, and he'd be like, God, damn, you love this nigga. And I'd be like, yeah, I don't