Ep 227: I Enjoy Being Pegged (Ft. Mel)

So I go to versus. Okay, it was fun, and if I got an invite to something like that, it's a very Mandy thing to do. Mandy went out last night and did Molly at a sex club. That's me, bitch. But also it sounds like if the two things happened, someone went out did Molly and party last night, or one got invited to some industry ship. What do you think?

But also, here's the thing, y'all, I'm blaming the fact that I'm still high in grinding my teeth on our guest today because he too was at the sex party with me last night. And so I would like to introduce our guests. Do we introduce ourselves first, No bitch, you'll been listening to us, you know what the funk this is? Anyway though, So if you're watching on YouTube, oh wait, there we go. There is some an anonymity this episode, just because you know, we like to protect

our brothers and sisters that want to be anonymous. So today's episode is about hacking. Hold on, hold on, hold on, because bad this siding in the building, y'all to mother, he's been way too motherfucking long. Our guest today we will call him Mel. He is like it's been tall six three, beautiful chocolate man who came highly what is remember what a beautiful chocolate man? What the whoa Mel? Thank you for joining us again. He comes highly referred by pretty much half of our fan base who has

been in. He was referred, He was referred. And then when I just mentioned I said, oh my guy, we finally got a black man who likes to be paid coming on the show on the town Hall. When I got off and like four bitches, was like, I'll bet you I know who it is, So you, sir, have a name around these streets. Thank you for joining us, Thank you for having what's on your glasses. They look a little wet, probably come from last night. I was like,

definitely set a little booty scratched. So last night, Melan I I he invited me to the Brooklyn uh Swingers Club. Is that what we called. It's a private party, don't necessarily have a specific name, but they like it like that. They aren't you know, it's kind of an invite only thing. It wasn't. Yeah, and I'm not gonna lie because it wasn't really like a club. I was expecting to walk into like a hotel room scene, like one of those

like you know. Yeah, I was like a little nervous, went in there, beautiful, bitch like it was super beautiful. Everyone was super friendly. Um and literally I guess by the ten minute mark, I was doing Molly with him because I'm watching Mandy trying to process some of the things. Because so because Mandy talks really fast. I mean, if you listen to the show, you know, and me too. Yeah, you talked when I'm like funked up, like I talked really slow. The next am I talking slow? No, But

I'm just watching you think about thinking. I'm thinking because not only was there a lot to remember, hold on bitch, don't be laughing. I'm really trying to see her focus. So not only was it a lot going on while I was on drugs, um, I am trying to remember the high points because it was a new and roam it for me. I will say, for those of you who are not aware, there was like not even one white person there was there, so it was all of it was. There was one There was one um he

came with. His friend was a guy I definitely don't and they were kind of like, I mean, they're they kind of developed a really cool reputation in the group, so we're like, okay, you know, he's like, we're trying to give Justin pieper right. Yeah, no, no, these guys allowed to cook up. So I didn't get to peg him. However, I was strapped by a woman surprised me. I literally turned to the right and it was like, oh really no, no, no,

not giving you who does here. I sometimes feel like I can't even get too drunk in places when people know who I am. The fact that you still get lit at sex parties because after people going the next parties, let me get it out. I'm lifestyle because I think that like a lot of people know about some of these places because you mentioned it, and like you're still get naked on the beach, You'll still get Like I think that's really dope because naked, I can't do it.

I know you can't because you ain't a realized bit give a about nigga like baby, but that you don't. I got I got pegged, and what's crazy? As she brought all her toys and I went with a friend and uh, she was like, pick which one she can take? And because first she brought like three over and I was like, them things a little, but I don't want you to strike me with that little lest thing. She said, Oh I got more, I'll be right. Um yeah, at the at the first second, um yeah, I'm cool with that.

But then yeah, we were just feeling on each other all night. It was just fivees, you too, not feeling on each other all night? Was I mean, well, I guess we won't know. I'm just saying, like, I guess we're talking about the effects has on we can talk about that. So literally, the whole night mail is just like get drugs off of the street. This is awful. I hate it. So him and my friend we all took molly together, they dicks. Just it wasn't right, is that?

Like you know, if there's any drug that makes that happen, then yeah, it can go. So let me ask you this, when getting paid um, is the is orgasmic goal for you? It is it UM as long as it's done right, because you have to know. Like even when I first got into it, like, it was a lot of studying and learning about mail anatomy and like how it actually

it brings pleasure to a guy. So it's like and so a lot of times when I do do it, or if I actually introduce it with somebody, like I'll talk to them about like knowing the areas of about to like focus on because it can be really just nothing and it can be great, Like it just depends on the level of expertise. She happen. But I did ask him, he's you haven't paid correct in a sex

club environment before? And why is that um? Generally? Well, generally for me, peggy is more of an intimate thing, so it's more of a like a lot of people, Okay, so this is another thing. I guess it will in

terms of like UM, like I guess masculine rule or masculine. Um. I guess the thought process towards it, like being very um, it can be kind of well, a lot of people when they do it, they're automatically thinking that it's going to be more of a dumb type situation where it's like, you know, this is my bitch or this is like, you know whatever, and they're being they A lot of times they think of Peggy and they think of like, uh,

the degradation and stuff like that. Whereas like for me, if I do it, I like it to be very sent I could be very like it's it's a whole scene, how is essential in a train that story coming up? I'm high, but I know, but I want you to

get into your moment. That was very much more comfortable situation because I knew the people that I can also see how like I feel like with really vulnerable sex, like for example, um, if I wanted to get like slapped or like using like let's just say, certain kinds of toys on me, or maybe if it was a leash or a call or something like that. I don't know if I could do it in a sex club either, because I want I don't want to think about anyone else watching me like or thinking it's just and you

know what you're doing is already taboo. I'm not saying that you're not comfortable with it, because I think I'm comfortable with my sexuality, but just I don't know how I feel about everyone else being involved in it sometimes when it is certain type of sex. So I want to ask you to just so there are sneers can get an idea of who you are, your age, your height, and how do you identify what is your sexual orientation? So I am thirty three, I am six three, I

am straight? Yes, okay, and you clearly do the sex club. How would you identify relationship wise or lifestyle wise? Where do you fall in the spectrum? Um? I well, okay, So I guess it depends on which part of the life style you' talking about. So B D, s M right that whole realm. Consider myself a switch so UM or dom leaning switch? I guess you would say generally.

The only reason that I would even consider myself submissive in that sense is because in trying pegging, I realized that it's best enjoy when you give up control, right and so um. And that was a little difficult at first too. Like what they called topping from the bottom. You're trying to direct and like tell her to do whatever.

And remember the first time we got into this like power struggle, this girl was just like, yo, just shut up, like just let me let me do this, like stop trying to you know, take over, and just let me let me do what I do. And I was like okay, and then she's like, you know what, turn around and get on all fours. And she was like that way, you can't touch me, you can't see me. You literally have no control. And I realized I enjoy it. I found out I enjoyed it like certain physicians make you

feel that like different. Yeah, like was there a difference from back and being on all fours originally, but that that was because especially especially if you're doing with somebody that you are not fully fully trusting in, or like somebody you haven't been around a long time, like some people know, like I've had it. Somebody say like, you know, I could never see you as like a sissy or a woosy or whatever, because I know you in real life.

I know how you are as a person. I know you run to your life very like in a dominant way. So she's like, I can never think that even if I wanted to, Whereas like, there are a lot of women who they'll put on a trap one. They get this power a little power trip, and they want to go off, you know, calling everybody, calling the guy bitch or you know, my little sub boy, or you don't

like being humiliated necessarily in um while getting packed. So that's really what it is, and and UM for context when while he's using some words like that, A lot of some of the pegging videos you can watch or

things like that, people enjoy being talked down to. They like the um degradation like you were talking about, Like, that's the reason why a lot of guys don't won't come out and admit that, because that's automatically the first ums that like, you're, you know, not really a strong person, are you very just like submissive in that sense, And so a lot of guys don't want that stigma, so

they just don't say anything. I love that you brought that up because there's so many girls and men who are like, wait, you could still respect that guy after you did that. There's a lot of like conversations as to how a woman perceives a man who even allows them to do that. But I want to nothing is wrong with a guy that does like ship like that, right, It's like I think it's more so that, um, it's

more commonplace for women too. I'm trying to find the word because I feel like every time we talked about pegging or we've had the discussion and we talked about it so much right over the last few years, but like we talk about it always the conversation about women talking about basically that niggl like being her bitch or not wanting to have that dynamic. It as like so I've seen I've seen a huge humanity of both women.

So like there's been a community where you know, and it just depends on your background, like what you have kind of raised, what you've kind of been raised as

like your things that you require in your man. Like some people they're like, no, I don't want my man to seem like he's you know, weak in that sense, and they want a man who just doesn't give him any question like like, um, I can't question this man sexuality, whereas UM, you have some women who like I remember the first time I kind of like came out and told this woman that I had met a out it.

Um it was actually a munch and she said like she was just she started smiling as I started telling there and and she waited till the very anti I told her everything, and then she was just like, you have no idea how many women wish they could find a man that was into that, that was you know, down to earth, cool, laid back, not like can I have something to that? Though? Specifically black men, that is

that is the conversation. And that's why I like, every time I even say I've picked someone, they'd be like, well, what, I ain't never white person, but they are so shocked that I've been able to peg black men and black men, none of them under six three? So what do you think about why that is? Like, why why do you think that, um, it's not as commonplace for black men

or would a lot of black men are. They're raised to be like they're raised to kind of taught that they are supposed to be in control of a situation, their situations, and so you know, even as a even as a kid, you know, being on like the playground, somebody messes with your girl is very much like yo, like you know, you gotta you gotta buck up and

you gotta, you know, protect your territory. And so it's it's a lot of it comes from like this whole territorial thing of um, we're not really necessary territory, but it's it's definitely people feel like to feel pleasure down there, what kind of automatically constitute you as somebody who could be interested in any form of receiving that same type of pleasure We're not to be from a guy from wherever. And it's and it's like, no, like I don't find guys attractive. I don't see a guy and be like

he's you know, he's a tractor. I want to know it's it's literally and that was a little bit of the connundrate for me. I was introduced to this like to an know played by a partner of my long time ago, and and I was just I've always been like very much a curious So we're gonna try whatever um at least once or twice, maybe three times. But the ain't trying the third time. That didn't even try

no more, you're a pro. But luckily, I think for me, I've had so many like good experiences sexually that it's just increased the curiosity. So some people go through the situation I don't necessarily have a great experience with it, um, and then they don't want to try to move on

anything further than that sense. But I just had a lot of great partners who were very like like, they were very caring, they were very like attentive, they were very much like they kind of they may knew what they were doing, and so it just opened up more and more curiosity down the line where your relationship wise, uh, currently I'm single, Well not that, but what is your relationship dynamic? Are you a swinger? Are you non monogamous

when you're in a relationship? Are you monogamous? So I've had a mix, right, So I've done monogamy, Um, I've done polyamory, I've done UM, and I've tried different and and so some of them, I mean, they both all have their ups and downs. It really just to ends on the type of partner you are able to come

in contact with and like their level of communication. Um. It's interesting, Like a lot of people, I think that polyamory is a good way to kind of like sec like to fix some of the things that they see is issues in monogamy. So say, it's like you're in

a relationship and you guys are going through situations. I've seen couples try to come into polyamory saying like, let's try to be Polly to help our relationship, where it's like, no, you kind of need to fix your relationship first, because polyamory, Like a lot of people do have this notion about polyamoraies being like I just get to have sex multiple people, and it's like, no, it's not as the case, you necessarily have to you have to take a monog relationship

just multiplied. So if you can't make a monog relationship work, then you're really not gonna be able to make a describe polyamory like multiplying the monogogy. I really like that because when I describe it, I'm always thinking of or saying people that are in relationships separately with each other and maybe they'll blend. And the reason I don't like polyamory, it's because it is outside relationships opposed to something more casual.

But that was great, but it's and it's also like it's another level of honesty that a lot of people

just have. No they don't really understand, like, um, I'm not ignoring you were pulling up our outt like, but it's it's a it's a level of like of honesty that people are just not used to and because you in order for probably amy to really work, you have to really be very uh like open about like your sexual history and like your your desires like um, because it has to be like this huge lize once you start bringing to other people's emotions, a level of honesty

and trust has to be so much higher. So it's actually not to be successful in polymor is actually a lot more work than monogamy. People think it's a cop out like Polly and like, oh, let's just be Polly people emotionally physically like just having sex with motile people. It was like, yeah, you know, I deal with your emotions in the moment when we're together. But it's like probably amory, you remember birthdays and you gotta remember like

you know, the that graduation. Yeah, it's still it's still very much like like a communication thing where you have to be able to manage all of it, and so people people will go into it and not know their limit in terms of how many people they can manage at one time, and then they get caught up, and it's like, you can't take care of everybody's I'm back to the streets and I'm gonna take care of these dicks. I'll be lying, I'll be lying. Withey, why do I

be lying? Because it's like I was ready but the streets, but I just don't know. Um. I want to get into our vanilla ship because while we were speaking about kids, Oh god, a mom age and daughter are so close in fact that they view each other's sex tapes to swap till physicians and lingerie. Wasn't that TLC Discovery okay, which also hosts t LC. And I just want to say, which cameras on me? Jordan? This one right here? I want you to know whoever works for Discovery or TLC.

I just want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart because I fell into a deep depression around two thousand eighteen where I discovered ninety D Fiance and it took me right out. Not to mention, has it not only taken me out of depression, I am now known for doing NINETYD Fiance voices, to the point where ninety Fiance cast members have asked me to send them voice messages of their voices. Also, on top of that, it has been such a joy to just have nothing

to do. And then I just click on that Discovery app because now the commercials are on and they're seeking sister wife breaking on that okay, six pound life. Then on top of that, my weird obsessions eating fucking cotton out of a mattress. It's just you guys, never stop. And now we have a mom and daughter shaving each other's asshole on is that really what they're doing. I watched the video sou Mother Dream Sisters where the sisters fuck the same nigga and want to ovulate and have

a baby with him. It is just like, I don't know who does the cast. Wait, I went to a sex party one and twins and were they playing with each other? Not each other the the guys there. It was weird because the guys there had this fantasy they wanted to see it happen and they were like, no, no,

we're not gonna do that. But they were like right next to each other on the bed like when girl was with one guy when girls and I don't know if I could do that with I have seen on the only fans a mom and daughter like like they were like dance and you know, we're lingree together. But then they have their own like separate pages as well.

And but the mom that the one that they had together, they would like they might bring in a guy and like they're together, but they you know, they wouldn't touch each other, they wouldn't be there all that, but they played with the same guy together. Yeah, they this This says that they discussed different sexual positions that they could try with their respective partners and the outfits that would

best please them. But they do admit that they're significant has um have not really appreciated their closeness in a relationship. Uh what's crazy is that both of these women are black as well. So I know y'all thought it was white people ship, but no people then it was like

we'd be working together. That The pairs say they have been inseparable since the passing of her father who died in a car accident and when she was seven, why you right, you right, the daughters he passed away in a car accident, and it made them closer to got it. Here we go and we live in Jackson, Alabama. Okay together, Yeah, I mean everything watching them together, cooling together, I can't imagine my life without my mom being a know what to do, how to function. I've had people say that

we're too close. All right, you got to spread it open a little. My mother and I have been wax in each other for quite some time. Okay, that's not awful. I showed her my first six tape about two years ago. I showed her my first six tape maybe a year ago. What kind of positions do you think I should do? Or what do you think we should do? And she was just like, oh, girl, propped your leg up in this angle. Maybe you're not been a little bit more

arshed than this position. And he was like, you, my daughter, Bro, that was TLC. I'm telling you them nigs deserve a raised over there. So you've never been in a in a sex pub space where there was a mother daughter duo, No, not that I have. I think I've ran into two men that have sucked a mother and daughter. I think old Babe sucked a mother and daughter, not at the same time, but like the mom was coming to him after.

And then I knew an other guy that told me that he sucked them like literally went room to room, get the funk outta here. Sick to me. You wait, you saw the white girl from TikTok and she posted and she was like, I let my man play with my mom. Da you see them? No, because I'm not on TikTok because I'm all commit either people just tag

me and stuff on Twitter. Listen, I ain't gonna hold you ere time I see the little tickettok because I'm like, oh my god, and getting old because how long does it take to edit these taking just to get a little real done with the pr team that told me not even lying. They were like coming up with strategy for my TV show and they're like, oh, we could also do horrible decisions. I'm like, what kind of stuff would you recommend if we brought you on. She's like, well,

we've got to do a TikTok. I was like, We've got it in the conversation. No, I mean we could do it, but we just gotta have somebody know we can upload clips to TikTok. When you think I'm about to be out there with Mandy like this, she made it, I'm not doing I'm not doing that. So I realized I can't dance, So bro, I will say I love black TikTok straight right now, that's funny. Oh, I didn't realize that was even a thing because the white people

ain't made one a dance yet to make hilarious. It's like, it's great. I love a good like Twitter TikTok drama. I just be like Twitter used to just be the ship. It's still Twitter. Twitter is still the funniest ship in the world to me. I want to get into our hoard Derve because now, guys, the moment you''ve been waiting for all we get into the real conversations with the pagan beach. So our hoard Derve segment is sex tips.

Mel we come to you, Mr professional. I mean I'm a pro too, but you're the man now, So I would love for you to give I would love for you to give a tip. First two women who are interested in pegging. So the standpoint that I want to give is, this woman has her strap on, and like you said, what advice would you give to a woman to make sure she ensures that the man enjoys himself what like some dudes and don't. So pegging is definitely a I mean yeah, it's it's something that people do

and they enjoy the power trip of it. Women love to like walk around waving their strap ones in there, but it is definitely a an activity that you have to be very conscious about your partners. So you have to be very like communicative, make sure like they're you know,

like make sure they continuously okay. Um. A lot of times people can go into you know, power trip and they forget that they're you know, forget about him, and he might not want to make any noise or say something because he doesn't want to feel what about the words that he's Like Mandy calls it her dick? Do you like, like, are you okay with women calling it their dick? Like? Do you work for the words trap? To be honest, I've never really had something called a day.

They call it a strap, you know, they're like, I call it a trap. But I've heard you'd be like, it's my dick, okay. So I have heard them like joke like they'd be like, oh, this feels like I got a dick on, like you know, I'm talking about when it's inside of you. When I'm like when I'm oh wait now, I have said that, I've been like you like this dick like wall like because I do. Like the man actually heard that at one point in time,

but I wasn't thinking about it. I was like, you know whatever, right, I mean, yeah, I mean I'm not gonna yeah, I think I do. I'm okay with letting them have their moment, right so they you know, I'm like, let big dick. It's big, that's what it is. It's big. You're a big dick. That's why you don't care big. Honestly, it's big. It's even a big song. Let me tell you something. I'm not kidding. Like the older I get in big dick energy. I understand it's like confidence or whatever,

but like they're certain little things. Once I start talking to someone to tell me it's either maybe I'm saying something emasculating like nick in it and they don't get too testy with me. That's big dig shit. And if you ain't getting bothered by a girl saying like that, that's because you're a big day. Yeah. I mean, it's plenty of times where like that's just that, oh yeah, which do you prefer? Oh, in terms of oh, it's it's both for the sharp one like okay, So that

that kind of leads into the whole like group. We'll get there. We'll get there right after. So um, definitely more of a thin but like okay, so once you kind of learn more about like the anal canal, you learn about like taking the prostating. Like like a lot of women think that they're gonna walk in there with like a twelve inch like strap on. It's like, no, like that's not how this works. That's the one that's the one that was picked last night first for me,

Well for you, that's fine. Put that ship on and it was down to her knee because you're right, because you're yeah, you know, imagine can now I can take more than that? Like like there's like a certain if you So I bought an actual set, right and so the set itself it comes with a strap one that has or one of the attachments, and it feels it seems like they perfectly playing out the distance, like the length of it, like it doesn't go too deep, it

doesn't like hurt you, it doesn't you know whatever. Um, but there are people that come in there with these you know longer the hey, who's gonna take this? And it's like no, nobody doesn't take that. That always shocks me when I watched more like I'm always in pain. It makes me like, well, the thing is like okay.

Another thing I had to learn about it was that as a tip for men interested, so um, okay, now if you have a partner that is very willing, then yes that you know, we'll say that different once take But the one I will give for that person would be make sure you train ahead of time, like they're a whole Anal training kids. You can order from Amazon.

There are videos and like um and lots of articles about like understanding, how to relax, how to um you know, kind of like gradually train up to a point where you can take a certain size like strap one, um, and so like take your time doing it, like don't try to rush into it. A lot of the reasons that a lot of women that I meet have this really bad stigma tooris Anal is that like they ended up with somebody who just tried to shove it in

like and they didn't. They weren't they didn't have the patience, they didn't have the knowledge, they didn't have them they kind of like know how on how to make it a pleasurable experience because once you actually get to a point where it is pleasurable, like it is pleasurable an orgasm before I know, I do want to add a tip to uh, and we spoke about it. You actually have your own strap and deldo, which I love because I'll say for and this is an advice for for

men um. What I've first did pegging for the very first time, I went to the sex sort of travel with it and she just gave me like a prostate dildo, but it was literally just a cylinder with a hook at the end. Didn't look like a dick dildo. It was like that, but it was definitely harder than like the dildos that kind of feel more real. But I think in his head he for sure did not want it to look like a dick. But when we when I ended up using my dildo, the feeling was much better.

So I would suggest a for the man to go and try out what feels best in his ask because that hard one was not very enjoyable. And also to just get out of your mind that you don't want a dick hard like no, no, like it was like it was really hard, but what is it. I'm gonna give a plug? Right, So, like like I've experienced like the silicone I experienced, like and I don't like it. I don't like to feel a bit hard. Um. I actually found a strap one set made by Doc Johnson

and that's what I have. And they've been trying to come on horrible decisions and I really keep like it really pisces me off, like coming on, come on and send a representative like pay us. And then they had the nerve to say they wanted to send some free toys. They've been doing this for almost five years and that's why I'm annoyed. But go ahead, plug. I'm not gonna they got they got some product, but you know what

I'm saying. So they have that and it's and it's has like a skin field kind of so it feels softer like yeah yeah, but and then and then so then um trying it. At first I thought it was great, right, but then I found out they had like a vibrating base like that you can attach in there and the old thing vibrates. So it actually provides a little bit of pleasure for the woman because a lot of times women they're not really they're like, okay, you know, I'll

do it, but it's done. Double ended stuff. Double ended um um nor huh for her, like because like with a strap, you could have a double ended one like I've used that for myself with women not from um oh, like the insertable one, like the what did you mean you only got one? I thought she was like a woman.

That's what I was hold on I've met like the strap because they could have the double ended joint, but also like they have okay, so they have the insertable one that has like a little piece that goes inside of you and you're supposed to be able to hold it with KEI was technically right, But they also have the long one with two used that I have. I

have not used it. Actually i've used it, and it's so difficult because it has to be long for it to be good and like scissors, and I kept trying to use it and it was like fun because it kept slipping out, So you have to be very close to each other. Right, it's jelly and it bends or like whatever whatever soft it was. But like it's hard because you're like basically one. Well even the girl the girl last night that pegged me, um, it's still it's still pegging when it's the girl on girl, Well, she's

trapped me. There we go, she's trapped me. And when she when she went, she also let me know that she was putting a whole different toy in her pussy. So while she sucked me, the dick vibrated. Also, her pussy was vibrating. And not even that she had a vibrating ain't plug too. She looked well black version of me. She had pink hair and everything big like she was leaving. She was like, where's my have to drop this tomorrow? Bro? Pride weekend for one for two? Now, we're not dropping

this tomorrow? Why not? Because I don't need people knowing that this weekend was this weekend. I like our ship being untimely. Y'all don't know what then going untimely? Yeah, bitch, I don't need people clocking this pussy the Sunday. Sorry June, nob you can't be all July sixteenth, Yeah, that's gonna come out of uh what it is? Okay, July just no, no, let's open the booty. Okay, it's gonna it's gonna drop in May Jordan. Okay, wait, it'll drop into Yeah, bitch,

they don't know whitness ship. Now we're gonna drop it in may fools. All right, so let me let's get let's get into let's get into the Peggy. I want to hear the stories because, like I said, you came highly referred. Every time she says referred, what he was referred, only laughing because like he wasn't referred, you know you was. When you use that term, I think of like you're hiring someone like we need sound panels done, we need like we need somebody we got referred. If you need something,

it's asking. Well, to be honest, I don't know't know that's why they referred, but they probably referred because they just I think one night talking about it could have been from my you know well, I mean they know that I'm okay, they know I'm okay talking about it like, well can we talk about okay? You are thirty three correct? You got into pegging? When and how how were you introduced to it? What was your first experience like being pegged?

So a couple of years ago. Um, the first experience actually well actually scratch that, first experience with anal plate in general was like two thousand, like fifteen or something like that. Um, And it was a girl who we were She told me that she you know, was freaker than me. And I was like, nah, you're going to prove that. And so she she got some toy out of this at her little drawer and and I was like, like I said, I was always I was up for like just trying it. And I think you say that

all the time. Watch your mouth, watch your fucking mouth, like y'all. Y'all could go round and rounds when you're not gonna say. I'm not gonna say. But she beat me like competition, but like she um, she definitely open eyes to something different because I wasn't didn't know how it was gonna feel, and she was very good with it. And um, I guess they call it milked. I got milk And I was like, can we elaborate that jump for people I don't know? Okay, So your your prostate

is um. It's a sack inside of your anus about three inches up three inches then and up um. And it's where you're kind of production scene of your sperm. And so when it's stimulated, it produces more so like like to get to a point where you're like shooting knows, like huge like nuts off. Like massaging the prostate will build that up in a person um. It's very similar

to female g spot. Like if you do it correctly, you might feel like eventually like you have to pee and you're doing this like squirt right, so it's the same actual feeling. It starts to feel like something's filling up inside of you, like as it's like massaged or play with and and doing it is for a guy. Doing it continuously is like a form of edging for us um. But yeah, once that prostate is well, once you're you ejaculated, it's easily like the first time I

think it had is shooting everywhere. It shot, hit the wall. It's fun and air. She was like, she was like, I didn't expect it to be this much like she like covered it and I was like, well, people, people are right, but the fact that the time it surprised me too. Tongue and the fingers are the gateway, THENTO pecking right, it'll get you there potentially, in my opinion of vibrating toy, because one just think there's a muscle and so in order to relax it, the use of

the easiest way is to use a vibrating toy. See woman, that gets like, because whatever we all have an asshole when you know you want something in it. Tongue doesn't make me want anything in my ass. Actually it doesn't not for me either. Actually, I mean I like, well, I feel like once someone is comfortable with getting their

ass eight, then they're probably okay now with fingers. Once you have the fingers in there and you see that you actually enjoy the penetration of it, then you may consider then you'll be like, well, damn, yeah, what else can I put up in here? So when the girl said that she was freaking at me, that was the first thing she did. And I was that was the first time I've ever had that done. So I was like, okay,

I on someone's hand or on their strap. No never how he said, study, Like I said, it's about the research I studied, learning about you know, doing an enema properly, you know, making sure you're cleaned out. That we don't be planning. You don't eat a bunch of cheese and night. You know what I'm about to say, we don't be planning anal and I drink coffee every day, So depending on over and depending on the milk that was in that coffee, what brought this was so much hotter before

you started. I mean, but the crazy thing is too. They also always assumed that a straight man's ass is not as taken care of as a give man. But I don't assume it. I think it's just I just your partners. I'm very big on I'm gonna stickler when it comes to Hadgi. Right. So the last thing I wanted to do was to be in a situation where like I'm shipping on a strap like that's that's crazy. And so because I mean even like everything will just turn off the whole situation, like the smell, the like

Paul's just like okay. And so I make sure like like I said, I did my you know, resetarch ahead of town to make sure. I because all the all the articles and blogs were all like make sure you learn about cleaning yourself, like how often would you want to be paid or do you get paid? Like, so

there's an interesting thing because there's a lot of work. Yeah, of course, as the episode is about picking right, So um, I actually it's not something a lot of people think that once you get it, it's like, oh now I might here feeding for it and I'm not here like yeo, we gotta have this every time. No, this may happen like once I was yeah, maybe like once a month, maybe twice a month. But it's like, but it's like

doing it. Like I haven't even had people who felt like a little insecure because they're like, you know, do I have to do this with you every time? And I'm like no, like I don't. Really. It's not like a then something it's great to have, but like i'd rather have with somebody who was extremely excited to do it, versus somebody who's like, I gotta feeling like I got to do this as a chore to make you happy, and it's like, no, it's not the case, Like I

can still have regular sex and be perfectly fine. I mean that's that's why I went to So when I went to the other type club, they did a pegging demo and uh my X was like, you should go because I know that this is your thing and if this needs to get you off, because we never did that, and it's just been very like you could go and do it if you won't because you're not getting here, but if it's something you need to go do it.

And I'm like, I enjoyed that more than what you're saying where it becomes a chore, because anytime sex becomes a chore, it becomes unenjoyable. I do want to get to though, the first time you experienced it and who you had get you in there because it wasn't a partner, correct, No, So I actually reached out to a a dumb who

who identified as lesbian. And I did that because I didn't want I wanted her to be able to focus, like you know, I wanted to make sure that she was focused on me, focused on making sure it was a good experience where it's like, um, somebody who I felt was like attracted the men might you know, be all in their feelings or I don't know, they just might be really horny or whatever. I wanted her to

be able to focus on it, right. You reached out to a lesbian dum So I was in like a little group chat and like we were, and I knew some people in there, and I knew that she was she was done identified as lesbian, and so I reached out to her and she was like yeah, sure, and like we she was very good because she at really knew the right questions to ask, like she knew like

all the things to negotiate before the whole scene happened. Yeah, so she wanted to know like whether or not she could pull my hair, was or not she could, um you know, call me names, whether or not she could slap me or spank me or um. You know. She was like, we're gonna set up a safe word just in case, like something goes wrong and you you know, you want me to slow down or stop. Like she was very big on, um on trying to understand my pain tolerance, understand like how far I was ahead in

my training. And she even like gave assignments, like she was like, I want you to do this tonight, and that night she was very good. Yeah. And um, and so the first time, like it wasn't like a huge like it felt kind of just natural, like we we were already friends and it was it just kind of felt very chill, um. And it was actually a very enjoyable time. Actually, the first time was actually was watched

by five women. Watched by five women. Is that the story that I'm hearing from shout out to the hor Hive? That's actually that's actually a different one, right, Okay, So tell us what the hor Hive did to you? Um, so that one actually kind of happened by chance. Right. So we had, you know, taken this little like mini vacation um. And it was a group of ten of us and we're taking a mini vacation. Um. We were um like a little like a cabin thing that we

had read it. And so there was a girl there who actually was also bisexual, and she had brought a strap one and they and they had known that I was into it, so they kept saying like, hey, man, bringing strap one, bring a trap one. So I was like, all right, I just bring the stuff whatever, just in case it happens, which I wasn't planning on it happening.

But this girl like did the same thing. She um, she was trapping another girl and everybody was like watching, and then she was like, you know, I'm gonna try this on you next, and I was like okay, you know, but she actually had a much larger trap one and I was like, no, we're going to switch over to mine. Um. And it was actually maybe like just three of us

in the room. UM. She started, and then people just kind of like started coming in the room while it happened, and then everybody would just stand around watching and people like, oh, I want to try, and are you getting nervous when people often no. Actually, to be honest, I wasn't. I A lot of these people that were in this group are people that I've had like in group chats with and I've you know, people posting news all the time.

So I knew these people like, you know, I've seen him at other events as well, So it was very much a comfortable thing. I knew that people there were very non judgmental, and then people were okay, wait when people said, hey, I want to try. Now, how many people ended up getting in your buddole um, let's see one three three, And it's funny. And it's funny because they they were all scared. They were all super scared, and I was like trying to like, yeah, I was trying,

and I was trying to ease. Like they were like, oh, I feel like I'm gonna hurt you, like I don't know, like whatever, and I'm like, my girl, it's okay, like and they're like they're like, oh no, like I feel like you know it's going her. Did you get your dick sucked while you're getting pig also with straps? One of the actually been written while I was getting strapped too.

That's higher. Have you sucked a strap? No, that's something you're not interested in either, because that's the one thing I haven't done, and I just wanted to get to suck my strap. Sometimes I just don't don't if it. If it did, it would be purely for like her like her like. But no, if it did, didn't you purely be for her like It wouldn't get me anything. It wouldn't give me anything. Okay, So in that scene you were strapped by three women? What is an ideal

pegging scenario for you? What? What haven't you done that you feel like would be the ideal scenario? And pegging and and and take notes guys, because if you see him out and about how you'll know how to please man. The interesting thing is that, um, my ultimate fantasy had always been a what I called a reverse pegging gang bang, right, So, and that just will be multiple women with trap ones, say, like I don't know for plus maybe three, four to six. Right.

Um So the event that I was just talking about before, there was like one trap one being passed around like and so it didn't really necessarily feel like a gang bang per se, like it was kind of like, oh, let me try next, like you want. I don't know about that, like you always so people have to get in and out putt putting trap on on a lot

of words. You got to actually adjust the strap and that's the thing too, depending on your thigh size, hip size, like you really have to adjust the herd, right, So yeah, it's it's the adjustments and you have to like make sure like they're comfortable with the position. And even when they get on the bed, like they have to make sure it's a good height. And as a tall guy like different because you have to like sometimes they have to prop me up. Sometimes it's like you know, the froggy.

So the last nigga that I packed was six six The first thing I pegged though was six eleven. I'm five ft one, so I'm literally so you're just scaling the tree. I'm right, So there's something right, and it's funny.

One thing I actually love seeing is like when women decide that they want to trust trap ones and then they realize how much work goes into actually stroking as even as a guy, right, because you're like your legs will start burning and like and I'm like, now you understanding like what we have to go to, I ain't gonna hold you. It gives you a whole new appreciation. It really does that. Some niggas don't put it in work at all, So I go appreciate all niggas here

not really like stroke game. That's why athletes because they are athletic, and it takes an athletic person to really fuck. I feel like, yeah, I feel like we're just ten minutes sex. I don't know, I never heard of that. You know what I'm saying, Like you know when you're

like I never heard of that. I'm sorry, I don't have a loud voice today, but what I'm talking about ten minutes sexes like couples that like know how to get each other off as like their version of a quickie, like I want the experience I want, I want like the full Like I said, I'm more of a cential person. It's like just I can if I wanted to know, I can jack myself off, like if I'm having sex.

And it's funny because my boys just tell me like bro, you gotta stop giving this like d dick every single time. It was like you gotta like yeah, they because they were like because you know, women get attached, you know, or women are like so it's like all the time, you gotta stop giving this hundred Yeah, they're like, you gotta give us Like I'm like, no, I don't. I don't really know how to do that. I don't know

what that looks like. I want to ask you this when I watch porn um where men are getting sucked by other men and they're not always hard all the time, right, I don't watch pegging porn really, but they're not always hard all the time and they're still really enjoying it. Um, particularly with you, are you always rock hard when you're getting picked? And even if you aren't, do women get insecure because they think you're not enjoying it because you

aren't hard. Sometimes they'll ask about it. But like, there are times when yes, I will get hard. There are times when I won't. But the reason but the more you experience it and the more you get used to it,

the easier it is to stay hard while you're getting paid. Like, the reason that you are getting soft is because all the blood that you have focusing your penis you're now focusing all that on your ass, Like your your ass is like requiring the um like the attention of your nerves and your concentration, and so you stop thinking about your dick, like you're only thinking about like making sure that this person isn't like going to wreck your ship.

So you're like trying to focus on relaxing. And that's why you're not and you're diet soft. Now, if you now, if it's something where you're starting to enjoy it and doesn't like you know, you don't it doesn't hurt or doesn't anymore or doesn't like, you know, feel weird anymore, you'll be able to start focusing back in and and you'll get hard again. Like that's a really good explanation because I didn't get it. I was like, they like, right, I love as hard as dick while I'm pegging. And

that shows that shows a little experience. That shows some experience. Oh wait, so they did it before. I wasn't. That generally shows it, Yeah, unless you have some super small delta, like if you have a regularized detta, that means, yeah,

they obviously have done it before. Because it's like you still you know how to like multitask in your head, like like if you can't, I mean most guys are not really the best multitaskers, right, So like if we are worried about that, then usually we're either self conscious. We could be a little subconscious about it, maybe the first time you do it, because you're like, you know, I don't know what she sees. I don't know. It's

so you're focused on that. Like, but if you are, you know, just taking that ship, then yeah, you get hard, like because you're back to like you trusted, you're not really worried about it. You know it's not gonna hurt. Your favorite position being packed, like do you ride? Do you get it from back on your back? What would your favorite position be? Probably missionary? Missionary because because again essential, so it's like you know, you're there in your face

and it's kissing and like you know, touching. Um yeah, um well I are gonna say, um dogs was great to watch on camera, like to watch back on camera, Like if you record it, it's that's a very sexy position you record yourself. Yeah, do you ever get the videos? I need to phone you or want to see the tall before they told you I got my video? But

it was missionary? Yeah, sometimes because sometimes people want to know, like even even the time when I had like the girls they were kind of trading out the strap on, Like one girl was going in like and she's like worried I'm hurt, and I'm like, honestly, you could go a lot harder than this, like like come on, like let's go like and she's like, I just feel like I'm hurt. I'm like, girl, if you don't like go

like because like you know, it's like slow shorking. But that's because like, um, like they I may show my video where like this girl's going on home like like

you probably see a video. Yeah, but like like the point where like she was going so hard to the phone, like fell off the bed and like hit the floor and like it's just and it has this crazy angle of us and we're just like I love when the phone gets fucked up and you still here and she's still like she just we heard the phone drive and me just she just kept going like and and it created it actually took like a really dope angle of it.

But m yeah, a lot of it is just how comfortable you are and how like I guess prepared you are for it. But yeah, I love it. I want to get into the homemail before we get out. Shout out to our our wore hip member who set this in, because this adds another element to this whole conversation. The title is he wants me to peg him? Hi, Mandy, and wheezy. I love the show I started listening to in the pandemic and now I'm on a mission to

start from the beginning and listen to every episode. Oh God, when y'all do that, she says she's up to episode one, so you're about halfway. There's good. I love hearing the progression of the show and you both as women. Okay, so here's the t y'a already. I met this guy and we went out a few times and eventually had sex, which was amazing. After that first experience, we talked about the more kinky things we liked, and he brought up pegging. I'm all for it. I never pecked a guy before,

but I have eaten ass and I enjoy it. So from listening to y'all's older episodes, I know to get it wet, eat his ass, lupe, et cetera. But he has a hairy ass. How do I bring up manscaping in a way that's not offensive or turns him off. Thanks in advance for y'all's help. If y'all and then uh shout out to her. She's in d C. We will be doing live shows soon, guys. Um and yes, so I wanted to ask you, um, the landscaping, the manscaping conversation, it's all gone. It's gone for you, but

clearly that's it's not for him. And he wants to be pegged and she's like to be I'll consider it, but it's there. To be honest, I feel like it's actually more enjoyable when there's no hair, because hair we'll we'll get get caught, like it'll get caught and it'll pool and it'll like you know, it's like pulling a hair out of your your vagina. It's like it'll sting a little bit. Like you don't want that. You want

as much like little resistance as possible. Um, So how would you I would tell her to offer to do it, like offer to and I did that before. I was saying, you don't even have to say like his ass. You can be like I want to do it and then just get the ass. Like now some people are like, oh, you know, they don't want to try. They don't want to do acting or they want to do whatever. Like honestly, in my opinion, depend depending on I guess it depends

on your hair typing, your skin type. But clippers are a great way, Like it's just hair clippers, regular hair clippers, even it's just cutting down short using regular hair clippers and just all of it. But having somebody there who's actually using the clippers, you get to you be more careful when you got you know, worry about catching anything. Did it and it was fun and intimate, like and like years ago I used the razor, but we got a manscape kit so there has like a whole light. Yeah,

I'm just saying but nothing. No, But I say it's to say I agree not only with eating, but with pegging um. A clean ass is I think probably mandatory. I believe a lot of people are very big on this, like like do you have groups of people who feel like hair is like it has to be there, like it's part of your natural and whatever and you have

to have hair there. But for me, it's like pegging holds odors pegging holds like I mean, not sorry, pegging hair holds oders um hair like like I said, we'll get in the way and then at the same time it Um, I mean it doesn't look good in the video. I think these videos. Advice to our Horror High member who sent this in. Would one be that if you feel like you're gonna offend him if he told you he's interested in begging, I would say, maybe you sound

like a pro a little bit. They just say the pain too, Like I was gonna say, just just you come in and be like, well, I want us both to really enjoy this experience. Um, I've heard it could be painful. Let's let's man escape or let's you know, let's take a shower beforehand and let me like be intimate in that. And so some people use I'm not a fan of raisers, that is, like and all stuff. Uh clippers prevent raizor bumps because of just the anglic

cuts of hair. But like, um, I've always actually wanted to try. I wanted to try waxing like once, just to go for the experience. Yeah, I want to go with right, that sounds like everything your china because the skin is tougher. So like I've been aning wax for years and when I do my pussy the only part that doesn't hurt is my ass because the skin is

just tougher and it's not as like sensitive. And then like your period sometimes it's like like like if it's between or it's after, it's like it's the worst, but your ass will not hurt that much. Now, I think like the balls are a little more sensitive. You can't wax balls, right, can But like there are people who literally, yeah, we'll get it time. I can't, Like I'll use clippers literally and just do that like that, can I like, y'all take care of everything else, but I'll give you

She's number, her name replaces my brows. She's really adorable, tiny little lady, and she's like, yes, we do, man, we do. Everybody. I want to go, like I want to do it, like like it's like a group project like you, but I want to go. I want to go. I would love to go with somebody like to like see you know, I go with you. But I'm scared of waxing. Wax am I niging now? Like hair? So I'll be chill. I only like clip a little bit

down there because it's summertimes. Well, I like a landing strip, but I still like it to be like works on the side. So at the end of our episodes, we always ask people to like tell people where they can find you, but you don't want people to find you. Correct, but not necessarily. Well, I mean I have a I have a like an nsfw G but and so and it's private, so I can accept and deny who I want to. Um, So that handle is Mel the Scorpio King,

Mel the Scorpio King. We will put that in the description of this episode if you were interested in slang. Is some straps well like profile in s Yeah, I'm not even allowed, like even when it comes to that, Like I'm very selective about like the energies that allow

and that. Like I've had people who have hit me up on set life or something like that and very clearly like, um, you know, like hey, like oh trap one, like do using a strap when it's like in my fetish list, I would love to try that with you. And I'm like, you know what I'm saying, Like, but I've had people who wanted to genuinely get to know you and then you know, they bring it up later

and like, you know, it'd be cool to try. That was gonna be my last thing to ask you actually was uh feeling like a prop because this is something not only so taboo, not a lot of black men do it. Do you feel like you're approached more just so that someone can get that experience off. It's kind of like also like the BBC experience, right, So, like a white woman will go like looking for a guy

because they think he has a beautiful chocolate man. And so I have people who do literally specifically come and requests just like hey, you know, are you looking for a mistress? Would you like to be pegged or whatever whatever? And I'm like no, I'm good like um because it's like, yeah, that's just what they're looking to get their knock off,

the fantasy list, like a bucket list. Um. So you generally, when it happens to me, it's generally somebody that I'm actually like taking something to get to know, very cool with the person. Um, I have a degree of trust in them that they're going to actually they have my best interest at heart. That's the part that makes me the most wet knowing that a man, especially a black man, relinquished so much not only power, but exudes so much trust in me. I think that that's a very vulnerable

position and an act to do with someone else. And so a man has to really trust you to allow that to happen because it takes a lot because people they also automatically think, like I said, like you're gonna throw it in their face later or you're gonna the world, and so it makes you know what I mean, that's something you can talk to many other guys about. Like I remember even just trying to bring it up um or just bringing up the idea of ass play to like my boys, and I was like, yeah, like do

you ever let a girl each has? And he's like, you know, like they like she go on there. I'm like I'm fighting it like off that. I'm like yeah, okay, like you know what I'm saying. And they're like would you And I'm like you know, and they're like, when you think it doesn't open the conversation to more, do ask you questions the way women My boys are like, yeah, that's you, Like they just kind of like they don't

they don't they know that. I'm just like very adventurous in that aspect, like um, so they're like, yeah, that's you. Like even like I was always a guy in college who was like experiencing everything before everybody else, like a like a threesomele for most of my friends experienced like orgy before all of my friends like, um, and so I'm coming back to me. You're just to step ahead of them right now, That's all. I don't know. I always just end up with like the right people in

my in my like that just makes it happen. Um, Would you be willing to answer questions from men um if they decided to write I have plenty of guys who have hit me up to say like, hey, look, and they'll DM me privately like it will be in a conversation. Could you just keep your handle that probate and say, hey, like, I'm looking to start it. I want to introduce to my girl, but I don't know how to like say it or like how did I

go about doing it? And yeah, I've given Now if y'all don't listen to this ship for an hour and you can get enough advice, I'm just like, make sure it's real specific. But I think this was really crazy of us to like finally been able to sit down and talk to someone that it was black, and I picked the guy that I pegged it was some Australian dude man. He was like, no, let's wait, and I was like, years ago, yeah, I didn't want to bring a white man on here to talk pack And I'm

glad we finally came. I only met you one piece of really big advice that a lady gave me that kind of like made me because at first, yes, I was still very self conscious about it, like telling it to people. I was like always nervous that people would be like, oh, this is gay or something like that. But um, I remember there's nothing wrong with that. I mean, obviously you can understand what guys are gay like that

as play is very enjoyable. Like but like I remember, um this woman said, she was like, if if these guys aren't the ones bringing you pleasure, why are you worried about what they think? And it was like she was like, there are plenty of women who loved this, So if they're the ones that you're actually you know, out trying to impray I start trying to like go after and they want it, why are you being like

about it? Like he's like, yeah, the guy, that guy isn't about to make you nuts, so like, why are you worried about what he thinks like and so it was kind of like okay, all right, and then you know I was I became more open with it and you just start to see math people just come out to wolwork. It's like, oh my gosh, like I can I believe there's a black man who's into this and like,

you know, and he's attractive, you know whatever. You had the air quote you attractive, you're tall, like again, like you're an anomaly like for like I said, and also very very very masculine. Well let's hope you're not amally. Let's hope there's a million and and things like I talk.

I try to talk in an open way so that guys can feel more comfortable talking about it, like, um, already see somebody who's like, you know, a business owner and like doing this thing, but still openly talking about it. And like people, I'll have guys coming and thing and my d m s that will think that becau as I'm mento it that I'm into men, and they'll you know, come and try to hollow me and I'm like, no, I'm good, Like I don't I'm not into men straight

up tell them. But um, people, you know they're definitely a lot of women who will come in and just say, hey, like it's so refreshing to see this, like, um, maybe you know I can send my guy to talk to you, or maybe you know you talking about it more openly. No. Literally,

I've had people who like recruiting agency. No, but it's a lot of women who have men that are on the fence about it, and they and they're like, maybe you know one day and like they know me and they're like, yeah, I want my man to talk to you, like I want you to get him comfortable, like make him feel like it's okay because I want to try. Yeah sometimes like sometimes sometimes because yeah, because I'd be like, bro,

trust me, it's nice. Like I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, as long as if you are worried about what people think and just keep it between y'all, don't you don't have to go tell everybody, you have to like lay it off people. Just let that be between you'll, but make sure you can trust their with keeping that. Now. On the other side of that, they're being men that have that stigma towards it. There's also women who are

very much like they will clown you. They find out you you know, are in the trap one play and or if you do tell them, they immediately get nervous and they're like like, do you like men? And and I'm like no, and they're like, oh okay, well okay, I got a lot to digest now, like people are and and you know, it's it's a new concept. Um. I was about to say it's because you don't see

it all. Um. This was really informative, I think for especially because we've just been talking about this for so long, and I think it's great to finally hear from someone that enjoys getting pegged and can explain to people what the entire time when we speak about pegging, it's constantly even women we bring on asking them advice or like even if we have to bring on a game man to just talk about anal play so that we can have help from listeners. So we're really grateful that you.

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we gotta get you in there now. We should do like just we should definitely bring um maybe even did like anal training class at one point, like you need to try to do this, bro, you do an anal training class. Oh yeah, it's easier to train and once you've experienced it, like and so yeah, I can gonna throw an event one of these days. Literally I was talking, I'm gonna throw an event, God dammit, a sex event.

And yeah, I need you to be one of the performers. Performers. Well, guys, we're gonna leave y'all with a five minute on this clip. I want to thank you all for it not only listening to another episode of four Decisions, but shout out to the Black Effect Network. That's where we are, that's a home. So shout out to all the pods on that network along with us on I Heart Media. Make sure that you tell a friend to tell a friend to check us out and be sure again like we said,

to join our patreon. We are going to leave you with a five minute bonus clip and If you like what you hear, go on over to patreon dot com bat Slash four Decisions and become a subscriber. Anyway, though, there's being another episode a whole but Decisions bad inside because y'all know that bitch safe fuck is she uh it was her fault, but we can't deny or confirm that. But what I can tell you is no, I would not have threecome pregnant only because I just don't want

any energy like addigital energy. I wouldn't be I'd want to be monogamous. So I think your baby would take the energy of the third person. I just don't want. I just need to keep myself healthy, like I don't want to put myself at risk to other partners and keep my baby safe. But a but a woman, you'll be eating pussy that ain't got nothing to do with your pussy or your root canal or whatever it is down there in the baby part I it is. It's the canal for you baby and the root canal Mandy,

it's a rule. Did the baby go through? That's a yes. So our homemail this week, Molly relationship invite but married to someone else. This is long, but hopefully it's good. Hey. Oh, by the way, there was a white girl that came up to me a Melrose Trading post and she like comes up to me and she goes, oh my god, wheezy, I love you guys so much. She's like, I sent in a homemail. I'm one of your twenty seven but you and I was like, oh, do we give you

good advice? She was like, well, you and Mandy didn't really you read it, but she didn't really give me advice. But it's okay, it's totally fine. Wait, we don't be giving advice when we read homemam. We'd probably just be talking ship. Oh, because she really I was like, well, what what advice did he give? What homemiler are you? She's like, you didn't really get to It's bad she was twenty two years old. Oh she really needed an advice.

Well sorry, okay, hey, ho. First, I gotta say I love you both so much and I love the podcast and there's not a single person I run into and don't tell them about it. This is kind of long and maybe hard to follow, but I'm gonna try my best to condense it long. When you know I can't never follow, it's not that bad because it might be juicy. The title was good. Part one The Husband, So I wanted to get some advice about a situation I'm in currently.

I've been married to my husband four years and lately the vibe been off. We've been arguing so much lately, and we spend no time together and he doesn't take me out. I've been depressed and just haven't been in the mood for sex. Now. I love him to death and we've had our good times, but the relationship isn't the same. I work two jobs. I'm in school. He worked sixty hours a week. There's no time for each other.

We've been unkind, neither of us feel like we're benefiting, and we've recently got into a huge argument and it send it up ended up into a long text, real ghetto about how we should break up. Now we're on a break So Part two The Polly and Right. Three to four months ago, I got a new job and as soon as I got there, I had a feeling like it was going to change my life. And then I met a guy there so fine, but I never gave him this time a day because I was married.

He's spiritual and in the last two years, I've become more in tune with my spirituality and when I met him, I instantly knew his tea and there was an instant connection like undeniable. I mean, the energy we share is unbelievable. So fast forward to the present when me and him, when me and my husband to take a break, the dude and I started talking more and more. I asked him, just to bait him, if him and his girl were also spiritual. He said yes, and I said, so basically

I should have married someone who was also spiritual. He said, him and his girl are Polly and told me he has two sister wives, and I thought the convo would in there, but then he basically shot his shot, bitch. He said when I was done, like completely done with my situation to HOLLI at him and his sister wives and basically laid out with the relationship could be. And I was so shocked, but not turned off because I've

never been against the lifestyle. My husband and I are in a space where we still lived together, but we sleep separately. We are trying to work out our personal ship. So now the guy and me been exchanging pat crazy, passionate energy like I'm scared to fund because bitch, give big dick energy out of the world. And if he's so intelligent girl, and I can't even handle this. And he keeps saying things like we're gonna get together soon.

You can meet your sisters. Girl. I finally broke down, gave him my number, texted me when he was three, and I told him when it worked to pick a date and we could link. He basically told me he'll give me the details. He's trying to surprise me with something, and I'm so intrigued. My husband is nothing like this. He's absolutely against my spiritual belief and the dude got me all in. I'm not sure I feel about sister wise, but I don't know where my relationship is going. There's

so much gilt. Please give me advice. I'm sorry this was long and unorganized, but I really need help. I love you both so much. It had no period. What is what is the help asking for? Is she asking whether she should become a sister wife or go back

to her relationship. I'm confused with what she's asking. I think she is going to be so fucked up if she starts working with this nigga who has a healthy relation ship with his other wives, becoming jealous that her husband can't give her that, and then let's just say she falls all into that, then she'll start not being able to handle coming to second or third. Then it's gonna be a whole thing. And he's fine, and he got a big dick, possibly, so she just is excited

about it. And it's also super easy to get excited about it because she's going through something with her husband.