Guess what decision We're about to make Horrible Decisions cohort time. Yes, I this is a special episode from me, you guys. This is UM an episode with two people that I have to talk to every week. Came out fine, So welcome, guys,
another episode of horrible decisions. That's right. Today is an episode with Mandy, who I've worked with for four years, known for fifteen and ironically a repeat guest that I do for fact sake with who we've already had on And when Mandy and I were starting our podcast, we talked to Eddie and I'm just really grateful that my co host get along. Oh yeah, I mean we follow each other and everything. It could no, no, no, why not. It's like the X Men. Everyone's got their powers, facts, facts.
We're all doing our own little challenge. She can make it happen. I'm like aunt man, you know, running around all right, So I want to direct you guys before we always talk about the end of the episode. Mandy and I have structured Patreon differently. We have new tiers. UM. Of course you know you get bonus episodes. We always talk about them, but now we actually offer four monthly. We offer video for all of our Patreon episodes at a new tier for the town Hall. That's right, except
for the town Hall. Um. And honestly, we've been super excited to offer behind the scenes stuff. Um, we've been having our cameraman Wolf follow us in our homes and getting things after and before the episodes. If you want to see some content like that, run over to Patreon. Now. I feel like Eddie's like the least disgusting person. I know. I don't even know if you've never had sex, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,
lots of work. I think that that's going to be the funniest thing, and I don't think I'm still gonna get over it. Like we don't have many white people on the I know you're not white, you're actually half, but I sound very very very Bobby is so I sound like you even just said, yeah, you know, I get vagina. You know, it's just like that's going to be the funniest part about this whole appen Why because the way he talks is like not many of the guests on this show. I sound like we just left
at a girl saying weiner. He just said, oh yeah, I get the vagina. Sound like I'm gonna like I'm interviewing people on the street and when they saw a crime? What did you see? Sir? You know what? I like? No, do you talk sex, Eddie? I have your sex voys. I do have a sex voye. You have to give us your sex I do she cover her ears? We do it all the time, like we moan. We'd be like, yeah, give me that dick. You see how she can't hear me? Like I want to hear you. Give me your sex voice, Eddie?
What is how do you sound in the bend? You know what? I've done a lot to do it. No, you gotta give me warm dump in here. I can't just jump into it. I'm not like you grate a slide. I like, I'm I'm a face grabber. I like a good face grab, pinched the cheek in kind of like that. A little dominance is nice. I'm a big concent guys. I was gonna touch. I'm a big concent guy. So I'm like, I like a discussion before and if she's like it's all good, it's all good, I'm like you sure?
And then I like grabbing the face, getting close and really like I'm not whispering, but like stern whispering. It's like it's like when it's like when your parents reprimends you in a store, like get the funk over here, you know, like that's your voice. A little bit with that, a little bit of your voice. Listen. I'm gonna send this to my girlfriend's family. So hey, check out what I didn't you hate mom and dad. This is what my boyfriend does to me. Character right, Um, we went
to we had we had food yesterday. That was a lot of fun. We had s car go. Oh yes, guy, I let akh. I had it for the first time. A paired under the apple towel and I was like, give me another thing. Well, it's just it's just like there's no t m I in this podcast. I don't think so okay, So I've never had it before. She took me there French restaurant. I'm like, all right, I never asked skr go. I had to ask her go to the bathroom. It was bro I don't know what happened.
It is my second time in New York City. Diarrha two days in a row. Because you're eating with she's really worked it. It's snails and like both those words don't sound good. So I ate it, and then when we were walking around, she was like, let's take it this venget shop. The whole time there's like there's like there's like a little riot in here. And then she was just like, let's go in here and can try
this song. Like get the funk out of the store. Lady, I'm gonna fucking destroy you say when you need to ship around wheezy, I'm not. I think that's thing. She's like, look, listen, if my holes are ruined, your holes ruined. So I think it's gonna be one of those things. So any any hole. So I went to the bathroom. I don't ever had one of these when you sit spray pray, but I was in a public bathroom. No no, no no, my hotel room. The point where you're like should I
switch rooms? It was bad. So like I just want to say thank you. I feel I'm ready to be on camera. I feel great, thank you. I'm drained of all my fluid. Shout out to Lucien and Zach. There's my one of my favorite restaurants. And Eddie literally sits down and he goes, oh man, this is New York back and he opens the men he goes, whoa twenty six dollars for a burger. Listen, I have a weak stomach. You live in l A. What does that mean? How is that a lot? And then what do you mean?
Oh no, no, no, no no, it doesn't mean it could be cheap. I mean l A is expensive. Yeah, it's true. So you can't say New York has expense when you live in l A. Like I could see if you was coming up from Alabama or even Lando's a regular city. Bro, you're coming from l A. It's got to be good though, So it was. It was good. Yeah. Anyway, the point is going to say is I have a weak's stomach, but I'll eat pussy, So there you go. Anyway, I know your ladies like that sort of tick. But you
ladies like that, so would you rather? Okay, we have to bring it back to the classic. Man, you're not even looking at it. What's the classic? Would you rather? Oh? Eat ass or suck toes? Oh? My god? Eat ass? Same like when eat ass? Like we're talking like clean, like a clean app clean no ass always. I'm not a big foot guy. You look like you would be. Why I just feel like people like shoes. I'm like inside the Jordan's you know what people look like? Yeah?
What did they look like? There's a little something we don't Yeah, there was like scheming like just it. I disagree because now I'm from the ass to the toes actually really a T T or eight to T whatever that should it's now at the toes and I am going from the asid in my mouth to the motherfucking toast bitch, and I fit like two of them in my mouth at a time. I got a big old mouth and I spread I'll be stucking toes. Now you spread it with your like his because he's a size fourteen.
His big toe is really big, so I can only fit the big toe in the pink bro here go to look as feet. Yeah I had some woman's feet too, But have you seen some of these guys, nigga, I used to eat pigs feet like yeah, I wouldn't need a knox the tail. But it's not you know but no, I mean like a guy like pulls out his shoe he's got a big old toe on it, or like like a nail where you can like, oh I can draw on this man. I gotta man, got a big old so you gotta dancing. I don't know. I've seen
some bad feet on dudes. You don't want any point. I mean, so they're not bad, but no, I think so you would eat as what's crazy in the beginning. Oh, I've got two vaccine shots. Give me some asks. Oh my up, what you got? Mandy know you didn't get I got blood blood type an I thought you you recently like I'm getting vaccine next year. Yeah, I chilled on it. I mean, I'm I'll eventually get it. No, I know they were doing COVID testing right here. I mean,
I'm not gonna lie. Um. I think me and my boyfriend are the only people that I personally know that don't have even one shot. Like my co host on my other pods she has both are engineer has. Like everyone is getting the shot um for me. I just let's not wait. I didn't. I didn't say you were I have. I'm not vaccinated yet either. I'm just saying, like, I feel like this vaccination conversation about it, everyone gets passionate about everything that we talked about here. Uh, I'm
just saying I'll get it eventually. I'm not an anti vaccor. I'm not saying I'm anti vaccine I actually had COVID something. Yeah, I had COVID. I didn't have any of the symptoms. So to be fair as someone who got it, um and as someone who wasn't like immediately, I would say, you know had or knew someone that that left. I don't know. To me, I have a different experience with COVID because it didn't put me on my ask Now my mom also said I ain't getting it. She caught COVID.
We thought she was gonna die. She's getting vaccinated. Um, she's she's amazing. Yeah. I just feel like everyone has had such a different experience with this. I would never shame someone for getting a vaccine and for anyone who hasn't gotten vaccinated. It's also not my space too, you know,
just question why and if they are. Like I had to talk with Mila, who is an anti vaccer, and so I think that there's been a lot of I think about her a lot because there's a lot of happening on our episode about anti vaccent and what's the COVID shot. And I was like, I will say that dating you have to be interesting. Now people can put that little needle emoji in there, like I mean I
got the herbs who know for sure. I think it's gonna be are gonna go through the roof the way that they say it's gonna be a big back summer, like the women are already like back then I shot girl Summer. I think I think it's shot shots. I think it's gonna be something that does become because there are so many people that could be the first question you asked before vaccinate if you're even like on any kind of birth control or if you're like an ad
is gonna vaccine? Cool? Oh? What's that on your lift? While and out? Dude, when I tell you I'm so mad, I meant to bring her up on our last episode. Let me let me read this. Wait, are you doing the vaccinated ones or the fucking postpartum tweets? Um, let's just start with the one that Nny just said. I'm I'm girl friend Venus and Dennis, and he sends this ship because he already knows he's gonna rail us up.
And he says all caps of the healer, I'm alarmed by the amount of women in my TM is complaining about abnormal bleeding and miscarriages after coming in contact with someone who's been vaccinating. Bitches, what you're telling me? I walked by a man who's been vaccinated on the street, and now it's the reason for I want to say too wheezy, and I oftentimes root for everyone at this point, it doesn't matter what industry you're in, especially in the
creative space, we want all black people to win. Hood Hiller, however, is an idiot. Not only she's an idiot, I feel like she is a voice for a lot of the women in our ulture, and it's sad a lot of women follow her. She has the zodiac ship that she does, but she speaks down on so many things that I feel like, truly marmal illnesses with depression. She's okay, isn't. In Detro last week, she was discussing how postpartum is
an excuse for lazy mothers. Bro when I tell you I she said, the postpartum isn't real and it's just an excuse that women use when they want to be lazy. People don't And I was just like, this is a black woman's like like give me a good old like I've got crystals, bitch. But she's out of her mind. Her tweets are private now they should be because she's being dragged right now. Damn bro on Twitter, it's more on Instagram, and she has blogs and websites where she
spews all of this information. I wanted to listen to her on Karen s Civil's podcast Gilly Be because I have never heard her speak like in like long form that wasn't like her Instagram. And I was like, I wonder if she would say to other people. But I was like, I'm not even give this on there. I mean, I cannot stand that she's played us out. Like I followed her for a long time and she taught me
so much about like moon cycles and vibrationally pluto. All right, my last have you ever would you rather have a sex tape of the last time you have sex leak? Or would you rather have the last time you masturbated leak? Oh man, well both are kind of the same for me, um define leak. What are we talking about? Yeah, let's just say, like I don't have the influence to be like do you see Eddie who? You know what I mean? Like in the world, it's just out in the world.
I have to go sex tape. You gotta be sex tape. It was better than your last because at least I'm getting laid like, oh wow, he's I didn't think he was into that. Really got here's jerking. I'm just like, oh man, I imagine if it's I don't wanted this out there like I thought the other day, like how awful I look while masturbating. So I don't masturbate with my computer. And a lot of people do if they look at porn. But if I'm going to look at porn, I'd use my phone. You really use the phone? I
love my phone. That's all I use. You know, I do laptop? Really, yeah, I do phone. What do you guys use? Everybody in the room make hands for laptop imagination. That's a special occasion, in my opinion, imagine to say you got to be a specially like I do too. But when I do use port, it's it's phone. It's always phone on my porn. But y'all know I watched porn on Twitter, so Dave, you're not anything that's a
good A great source for porn is Twitter. I didn't know that I touched scored, Like, wow, man, these people are giving this for free only up to two minutes and ten seconds. Some of them just like I'm just like they just like put it in, put it out like this is why only fans work. So I'm like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I would rather go. Yeah. Do you ever get the scam emails and it's like, hey, I have I have video of you masturbating, give me forty bitcoins or else it's gonna leak out to your
friends and family and your context. I got that email recent the camera on the emails, the scam emails, what websites? I get the same junk fail. Maybe you don't read your junk. I read my junks. You never get those, and just some guy in Bangladesh get I get the I get the ones that people in Africa that claim they need help coming over or like the prince needs to need your help right now. They please send some Prince of Nigeria or somebody that you ever get those? Know?
Why are you coming to me? You never know? Bro. I've had my mom almost so recently like really yeah. She was just basically like I don't know how to fill out this form, and I'm like what form. She's like, I've got to do this for about this so the security or something. She said, No, this is another time, like, no, Bullshit's like I have to do security. And so basically they sent a whole form about how her payments were going to stop, and they required her Social Security number
and her bank account information. Oh man, they just praying older people. I know. I don't even know how I got her. Yeah, So what I was gonna say was I used my phone and the other day somebody was face timing me. And when I saw how I looked, because you knew how it pops up, I was like, huh, I got a weird face. I'm all about the shower lately. I never used to be growing up, but it's like a think tank in there. It's just like a little steam the water. It could be with whever you want,
you know what I mean. You do it in the shower all the time. It's a drand it sufficient that's what you do when you're a late thirties, like, how do I get this out of my body as clean as possible? You know what I mean? Less mess? How's this going to be? Like sneaky? But also getting that every time it just goes down the drain and just
way about it. Can you tell your girlfriend when you're about like, does she know that you're masturbating, Like yeah, yeah, I put like a little put like a thing on the bathroom door, like a little red non sign doing on enter having fun. Would she be insulted if you were home and she was doing it? What? Like I caught her having masturbating, I'd be like, good, you know, and I closed the door. He really don't get vagina bro.
All right. This vanilla ship I found um because it was like being passed around on Instagram like a meme, and it was a guy that was making his own sex dolls in prisons. I saw that one one of them look really like one of them looks like Mandy. Know which one? Let me show you. I'm not even kidding. You don't at this point if it ain't judging, it's shading now a little all right, No, I'm not being mean. It was like blond. It was thick. Look it was like, no,
ma'am shady. It's giving, man, it's giving cankles, and bitch, I wish you would it's super small. Look at my ankles, bitch, that is cankles. It looks like Mandy Bro. The waist is super small. The tits are fucking popping and it's like blonde. I was like, look, what's the stuff with? What did E stuff it with? Fucking Cheetos. Basically, they are saying that if if people have more sex dolls in prison, that they may not, you know, get so violent.
So here it is a UK prisoner has called for inmates to be given a sex doll molded um of their other half or you know, just whoever, in a bid to offset the effects of pent up testosterone in the penal system. So there's seventeen years and a man named Jack Square's seventeen years. He's serving for drug dealing and he feels like his long stretch would be easier served with a familiar companion. He's laid out his theory in prison publication, explaining that he was inspired by a
documentary about men living with sex dolls. He said, I noticed all these men look very happy and stress free. And as the UK doesn't allow contragal visits, sex dolls could be used instead um these companies who manufacture um doll women. If this idea was taken up, everybody could purchase one center phone of their loved one and they basically pay for it at their on a spense If they can afford it. He says. The trouble is our young prisons are filled with men um with testosterone outrages,
who would give their right arm for passion. There's rape going on, violence, and he believes it would alleviate that problem. I will say this about the sex doll in prison, as long as the private sectors involved and the families kind of get the money for that. I don't want government sex dolls because I don't know they're taking care of them properly. I don't want to be like, and here's your sex doll, kid, just throw it in there, just like like you get what you get, you know
what I mean. I don't want that ship. It's got to be like imagine, no, no, no, no no no. I wanted an Asian. I can see somebody saying that ship. This one's a dude. You get what you get onto our Horror Derve, and our Horror Derve is our segment where we give a sex tip, and generally we've been tossing it to the guests when we have one. But I don't know how what do you mean you want me to have a sex tip? Yeah, I told you
I don't have any sex I will for men. I will say for men, I think I've been with women ladies, I swear um. I guess for guys in general, I will say that from the friends I've talked about, I think men underestimate how much I, bliably I know about these guys here, they're all staring at me, like what the hell you're gonna say about? But about how under
how undergroom men are? I feel like I feel like men are so undergroomed, and I think women appreciate that because think about a men's crotches, Like a hotel room. Would you walk into be like someone's sleeping here already? You know what I mean. You wanted to be a clean nice I want to have fun in here. You don't want to be like, oh funk. This is like a work in progress. The longer the longer you spend on there, the longer she'll spend down there. What I
can conc agree, I'm not gonna lie. And one of one of the things you can do, uh, y'all know. I So I just got a man escaped kit too with the fucking light right so, with the fucking light, and I was like, I was like, go ahead, please send it, send it to me because this is we've talked to actually about this on the show. So I told my man. I said, oh, now you're in the life to get free gifts because I get free gifts
all the time. So anyways, we got the man Escaped kit and I was like, babe, can I use it on you? And he was open to it. So we got the shaver and we went into the bedroom. I laid down a towel. Yeah, listen you and with the light, you know, it was like, just take a sack and just really get in there. I shaved his ball perfect, and it's so weird because it was down there. Of course I saw the hair falling and I was like, babe,
do you feel it. I didn't hurt you, and it was just in the waterproof, didn't hurt him at all. And I was like, oh, this is cool because I've done it when I nicked myself and that's like, sorry my point because of the period thing. But right now, I was like, that's brutal to say, ladies. I I thought I was a barber right so after I wouldn't got in my hot howel because that's service. Yeah. But then he was like, Babe, that I don't want that. I guess he would have preferred a cold one. My
landscape kit had ball toner. Really, I thought was so cool. Yeah, you tone your ball. I'm gonna be forties soon. My balls are like sagging like you want to believe, like I gotta lower the water my toilet. You know what I mean, any hole. But I will say this about it. I saw the manscape on Shark Tank when they're pitching it shut up. Charles Barkley said no, and he goes, well, I've never I've never shaved down there and I never will.
Like Charles has gotta what are you doing? You're an athlete, man, That's how richie are we be? Like some girls go down there like holy fun, this hard. No, I love like a jungle down here is like whatever. I love him being groomed. So I got that and my girlfriend was like, oh, you get yourself a gift. I go, I got you a gift. I also use it in the crack too. I go right in the middle too. I go right in the middle because I've got a
bad one. It looks like I'm holding a tale, but like it's like I just go right in there clean and what my poops have never been a great So guys get out. Alright, alright, you do that one more time and show them out. So you go down, you go under. Look around there it is the light. I love the lights. Okay, calm down, the lights light is It's so today's episode, uh is all about religion, and oddly enough, we don't have Brianda here shout out to
Bible stories with Britanda. But I felt like this would be a really fun episode to dig into together because none of us are that religious and I don't think that I don't think you can when you're talking about stuff. But I watched the movie are the series Unorthodox on Netflix? Did you watch Mandy? No? But I just watched Exterminate the Brutes? Same ship? What's ah? That was that? History? Well Unorthodox? They kind of showed a little bit about
like the sex, the sex. It was disturbing in that. Yes, And I've had a lot of questions about Hasidic Jews and sex. And I heard a rumor when I was a kid, and some of you know, my father's Israeli and I grew up Jewish that they have sex through a hole the sheet. Yes, and it is actually a widespread myth Um, the talmood is like kind of like a tour type of thing, but they mandate that sex must be done completely naked, So the myth may originate
from the Taliit Katan. It's a shawl with four knotted strings and it hangs from each corner, and ultra Orthodox Jews wear it under their shirts for the entire day. The strings hang out the side of their pants sometimes you guys may and to make the garment simple, they cut a hole in the sheet to put their heads through it and then they wear it. So when you ever see them with like the strings that are coming down,
they put their head over it. They wear it like that, and so um, they do this because cleanliness is a big thing in Judaism, so they washed it all the time, and they want to make sure they're clearing themselves from other clothing touching them and non Jews and the villages would see the sheets hanging from the clothes line with a hole in the middle, and so they thought people were sucking in them. This episode is going to upset
a lot of landlords. Why golden, Yeah, but let me tell you, you can't do act but I can't do because honey, they are located in Bay Redge, and you know, there was a guy he showed me my house and I knew he was Jewish just from the name Elliott Shutting Stewing. And I was like, oh, I'm about to not be on my black girl ship. You know what I'm saying, Like I am geel lout to day. I get there and I'm like, so if an he saw the name, it must have lit up. He must be like,
oh yeah he did. He was like, you're Jewish. Okay. I was like, and my father is from Israel, but he's been a town called Betasheva and it sounds really jewey. So whenever I say, they're like, oh, like, I confirmed it, give you the discount. Oh my god. So when I walk in and they tell me, I already knew I was going to take it. And it's funny because everybody I sent that link to it was like, this looks
like ship, but I really did it up. But anyway, the thing on the door, if you guys ever seen it that's slanted, it's called the little thing on the door called my old apartment had where it used to be. And I was like, what is this? I didn't know what to work. You got to leave it on. It's like the Jew luck. But anyway, UM, basically when he was because I felt like he would go up on the price with me because he knew I owned a business. So I was like, um, you know, do you have
someone who can put the mississa on for me? And he's like, yes, yes, I get you, my guy. Like I wasn't really trying to like connect, but he's like, I know you're a nice girl. I'm gonna work out. So the sheet is a myth. Um. Now the traditional age from like mary um for boys to twenty five and girls anywhere from eighteen to twenty um. But basically like with them and love, um, you know, they are very sacred about sex. They do not um permit losing
your virginity before marriage. Um. And there are a few rules with menstruation that I thought were really interesting. So the Taurus says, and now they did show this, I feel like in unorthodox and maybe I just google it. But the Taurus says to count seven days of your period. Rabbis say to count five days followed by seven days of no bleeding to make it twelve. An average woman ovulates on you guessed it date twelve. So the mikva visits on date twelve um to con concede. That says,
concede with optimal days to get pregnant. They basically have a conversation with the woman about it, and most observant women refrain from sex until those twelve days. A lot of them don't even have physical contact, not even sleeping in the same bed, which is what you saw in that thing with their husband and all they're ovulating. It was like to build a anticipation, like I can't wait to get into the bed, and now a mika is like a ritual bath, and so basically it's like it's
like essentially a jacuzzy. But they recite a blessing and they're I guess getting their pussy's ready for babies in there. Man, man, crazy rabbis gonna have sex though right not in google it yet. No priest can't have sex. That one's wild to me. Yo, that's kind of wild to me. That's why they're out here doing all that crazy ship all right. I wonder if confessions are weird for them. It's like, what did you do this to tell me your consents?
Like I had this orgy? He's like what's that? Like? Hell, so another religion with weird sex stuff that we kind of don't know about what we kind of do because a shout out to t l See and all. The sister wife ship is Mormonism. Yeah, I learned about that from real ass while I was Salt Lake City. What are they story talking on in there? Oh? God? Like they don't believe in divorce. You're not supposed to drink liquor.
I mean, clearly, you can't have any outside. Uh. Like the women like once you're with that guy, you're with that guy. A lot of the women actually based their entire value upon getting married and doing the whole purpose of life. That's the purpose of life. And so they actually get exiled from the church for doing any of the things that come on like I'm going to start my own business, like you're babies divorcing, get you completely
exiled out of the church, which was really right? They too right, they believe I think they believe that they can have multiple wives. Right, it's wild, but it's only recognized under the Mormon Church. No is like it used to be. We're gonna get into it that like sister wives like nine guys, like they're all hanging out, but they're only married to the church. They're not recognized in like this country because I think it's illegal instate of Utah. But they still kind of do it. But they still
kind of do. They renounced that practice a while ago. Um, but I'm gonna get into more of the sexuality thing because it was sucking crazy. So a few weeks ago, Manny and I did an episode where I brought up this term called soaking, where basically it's a rumor and apparently it's real. Mormon's will put them like they'll put their dick inside of a vagina, let it. So I've heard of this before. They just let it. They just hang out like I'm not fucking, I'm just hanging out. Yeah,
that's my man dig that all the time. Just end up. But I just I just can you just lay in me? Huh? Like I don't think. I don't know if it doesn't doesn't do anything, I mean, bless me, yes, I don't know. Like there's like those two ends in the morning. Can you just lay in me? I asked him to lay me between sometimes between rounds. But I'll ask if we're just he's just laying me like you're just like the one person just lay in me. I just want to fill your dick, not moving, but just cut it off
and take it with her to worship. I think I would. I would have it in me right now. It's kind of like it's like really intimate, Like really it's intimate. I sent him lunch money one day, like like I don't know who I am. So he's just like laying on top you or you're like side by side, you're on top and you're just like hanging away. Sometimes I want them behind my ass and I'll just be like
you just checking. Yes, we're checking. Literally, I'm on Twitter scrolling and he's just laying at me because I just want to cuddle. But the hood Healers said postpartum isn't really no, but just lay it just just late like Megatron, you like come together. Yes, and we're not called Bumblebee, but I'm gonna come up with another with another name. And he's like, I got to the bathroom, cool, wipe up, get back in here. You know you got bumblebeing buttercu
so mormonism and sexuality, this ship is kind of budding crazy. Damn. I'm kind of man. We should do this for fact, like right, but it was sexuality. So I really wanted to do it on Horrible because I feel like, I don't know, we've discussed like different rituals on this show on Horrible, decisions about different countries and rituals during sex
and things like that. For particularly with certain religions, I feel like we've all heard rumors and things like that, and Mormonism I've seen so much on TV LAS, So we had to do it. Now. Here's how they feel about masturbation. Yes, church leaders have taught members that they should not masturbate as part of obedience to the Law
of chastity because they teach LDS. Church UM teaches the Law of chastity because it's a code of morality and modesty, and under that they're supposed to be morally clean in their thoughts, words, and actions, no pornography. And violations of the code include adultery, being without natural affection, lustfulness and constance, infidelity, filthy communications, and purity. Filthy communications. I mean, that's that's filthy communications. If we ever start I like that, that's
that's kind of hot. What are you trying to do tonight? Communications? UM, like, they are also including all sexual relations including petting, sex, perversion, and pre occupation with sex, and ones that won't you have any hint of it. You can't be like, hey, you know your top looks great, like you know what's in the tops? Tits? You want to talk me like? I swear. Now, the members are expected to keep this up, and so basically with masturbation, they um they have a
guide proving that you can stop masturbating. In the nineteen seventies that came out and they had another youth pamphlet where the Lord with states the lords specifically freaking masturbation, and then another two editions that has statements forbidding anything that arouses sexual feelings of your own body. Was it like pictures in this pamp like just some kid jerking off and God's like, what are you doing? You know
exactly what I got him look like. Now, as far as kissing, church leaders have stated that outside of marriage, passionate kisses um defined as more intense and lasting longer than a brief kiss, and prolonged kisses are not allowed either. They are off limits now. Their church president and Spencer Kimball called the soul kiss an abomination and it leads to legitimate baby. So wild all about control. I want to control your thoughts, even the dirtiest ones. That's it.
That's filthy communication. Now, even when you're dating, it says a time for a kiss should be clean, decent, sexless one like the kiss between a mother and the sun. And he sayd that kissing during casual dating is asking for trouble, and kisses should be not handed out like pretzels. Physical expressions of romantic feelings between unmarried people should be kept to those that are comfortable in the presence of
your parents. What do they feel like when they see when they see p d A, they must be like, what the fun is going on? I don't know. I was just thinking that two couples are young. He's like knuckle knuckles deep inside over here. They must be like anysm. They might come no, but you know what I was thinking about. UM. We had James on one of my friends UM some years ago, and James talked about how his mom made him cut out like or his mom cut out boobs in newspaper, and how he had kissed
his wife. I think he kissed her before the altar, but like they were supposed to kiss on their wedding day. There was like an old baseball player that was Mormon, and he, uh, he wouldn't keep his shirt on when when like uh uh, broadcasters came in, like like a female interviewers, She's like, so, how was the game today? He would make sure he had his shirt. He would not let them seem without a shirt. Yeah, he would
just be he was that religious. He's like, no, you can't have me like seeing my flesh that only men can as a wild You're like in a prison in your mind because you're punishing yourself for any sexual thought and human beings that probably can't control a lot of the urges to even just look. We we like what we like, like, we can't help our eyes on those things. And so for you to look at a woman and just automatically feel like you're sinning has to be like
you you're you literally are in prison. It must be. I wonder if the fetishes are big in that community, because it's it's like that loophole that look like more guys like look at her feet. No, I just think they're nice. That's a really really good connection. I didn't think that nice knees, you know what I mean? They probably really have become around the other parts of the body. That's ah, God, it's only her knees. You can't knees now,
This one is hilarious. In the early nineteen eighties, the church explicitly banned oral sex even if you're married, it's unnatural impure. No. Just this early nineteen eighties, which recollected burbiage for sexual misconduct in the church. Church is general handbills and eight two a Latter day Saints Mormon church.
They just figured it out. They got a follow up letter in two that stated that they received complaints of church leaders inappropriate delving into sensitive matters with explicit questions, but basically they would ask people about their married relations in The oral sex band was never removed or modified, but basically it hasn't been brought up as much over the years. They call it oral love making as a
degrading perversion. Wow, so they like that they banned blowing in. Wow, that must be like they must be like feel like, hey, you can go down on me like it's in the nineteen rolls around have that law and like funk, it's like that took away booze or something asking for oral love making. I love that and that is it. We are sick that makes love with you orally like like oral love make it. It's not way better than him.
It's like, I don't even know where he came from. Oh, when you're wait your head, A man definitely came up with that, for sure, what give me something? It's it's like the most basic things like that about how where did it come from? Ludicrous? Uh No, he didn't come up with He not come up with. Okay, this one I find hilarious. Blown't even talk about that sounds like the word sounds awful, sounds don't you blow me? Lady?
That sounds like terrible. But you're also not doing the acts of blowing, so like, yeah, that's right, you're not doing that with a day because her mouth looks like maybe the guy came up with blowing had the smallest dick. He's like, hey, it's like you're blowing me like kind of now that you think about it, no one blows this. They like, oh he was a little Oh the nigga was that blow me? He really wanted to come up with something else for whistle? Yeah, because while that is
that what that man give head? Why are you really remember that old song in the nineties, the ones don't know Small dick Man. Remember that movie Don't Want No Small dick Man? Remember that song? Do you remember that song? Don' don't know? I do not. Don't you don't know that song? Hold on? So I don't want no short shake man, That's what it was. Yeah, you should be This sounds like music the club mix. Talk over it. This is like copy right it. Hey, I don't want no shorty.
Where's your boys? Yeah? They another track? I don't know, Hey, turn it off, turn it off, short man. Sorry? Fine, anyway, it was like a club banger back in the day. I would love to go outside and saying this on all summer, I don't want no short date me and all right, sexual orientation now get ready to get your minds blown. No fun. The church recognizes and welcomes gays and lesbians and members as members. Recently, right, wasn't it just recently? They didn't put the date, but yeah, I
think so. Under the condition that they attempt to live in the church's moral code, they teach that homosexual feelings, as distinct from behavior, may sometimes seem to be something you're born with, and although they may be unwanted. They can and should be controlled. So you can bring your gay ass in here, just don't suck a day. I think that's all money that the church is not allowing them. The churches like we're running low on money letting the gays.
You know what I'm telling you, it's all all money. I think it's donations and families have money, and I'm not just like a family rich family has a gay son. Was like, I don't want to do this, and then like my kids. They don't like my kids. I think it's about money. Man. That sounds like they don't believe in gay marriage, saying but you can come in without ramification that you can put a dick in your mouth, but not a ring on that finger, all right, Like
you know what I mean. I just don't know Mormonism and polygamy, okay, plural marriage. There's so many fucking shows out right now. Okay. I was telling Mandy the ship earlier Doe, So fire Seeking Sister Wife is my new ship. We have to do a cinema on this, Mandy, please, what I'm telling you it is probably documentary fiance. It's a series. It's a show where basically there's already a marriage and someone is looking for a second or a
third or whatever. One of the recent ones, the reverse Bachelor, he's already get all the chicks and what's a new one in? Is that what it is? Yeah? Kind of. They got two black couples on there, one of them richest buck. One is like a security guard. He's a hot mess. But anyway, the couple that really is blowing my mind is a white couple. They've been together thirteen years and they decided that they want to open their make their family larger. So he meets his Brazilian girl,
who's pretty as fat. They go meet second day. He proposed it to this tour. Now the wife says, well, we said unless there's a commitment made, he can't have sex. And so suddenly you just put a ring on that motherfucking fatass. I didn't say fatassing have already already just want they She lives in Brazil, which means it's very hard for her to come over. She can only come over if they get married. And in order to marry her, he has to divorce his wife of thirteen years and
tlcs PA make it legal. She can't come here unless they're married. K one visa stay legally, so he's like, oh, I gotta make room, so I gotta divorce my wife. Hold up every three months the way the wife is like this, um, you know, and we're just let me see how they was in because you know how they've been trying to do the interviews because look like they're in love. And you know, he was intimate with her.
He was and I felt some feelings jealousy. Um, you know, but she's my sister too, and I have to get over that because that's what God wanted. Does this lady, do you think that, like even the way that's made, like if she was like that, do you feel like any of them are like the beginning of some sort of cults. That's very culty for for it to be like that, for her wife to be that brainwashed, it's for us, it's for the for her, I agree, I feel like it's brainwashing. Now the Black family, Okay, they
already be on the hose type ship. Low key. She they live in Atlanta, lit house. Now they want in l a. She wears this like little thing in the middle, like the third eye, and she was yeah, but like more like the hood healer. So they start up and they were like, we are not doing this for religion. We are doing this for spirituality. They are plant based, alkaline heavy. Okay. They all the kids got dreads and so do they and it's like they are are some
real wolf ship. Dude. It's so funny. Are they good looking couples? Yeah? Not all of them, not all of them, but I would say yeah, some of them. Um. But anyway, the best part about you finding out they need to get divorced. They finally do a face time with their sister I have, who uh doesn't speak English. So now they're holding a phone to talk to their sister wife and she's like, okay, I mean you hold their phone, say something to her, hold it to the spacetime so
she can understand what they're saying. Bro, that's how much pussy rules this world. He's going to divorce his wife of thirteen years FaceTime. He's like, hold on love. She's like okay, because he gotta translated on the other end. Yeah, she the heart is a brainwash someone who doesn't speak your language. That's hard. I was about to say, that's what I'm wondering. Why the wife is brainwashed? Maybe maybe she needed a house to know, you gotta see the man.
It's sucking. That's that's Colt, Like, I mean, we would you be a sister wife, bitch, I'm asking no, I would be in a threatle. What's the difference besides the marriage. So polygamy in itself is really when the man has the relationship with the women and there's not Their separate beds are separate omans. You're you're not really sharing each other.
To me, um, I could only be attracted in that instance is if I had a connection with that woman and romantically, then I wouldn't feel everyone's having a good time this playing me. One guy leads everything, and then when everyone gets a turn with this guy, there's kind of play gunny, which we'll get into, but I didn't want to make mention that if any of you guys watched the third season and you can jump into it
if you want to skip around. But this Nick gets on and basically he's like, you know, I am the king of the house and I do have my queens, but right now Kelly ain't acting like the queen that she's supposed to be. She had an attitude and then him and his wife point in the closet. They were like, why is she acting like that? These guys a feature and does coaching and training on the size money. How do you even pay for all these women? How do
you pay for everything? Everyone's hungry. They'll they'll dress the same though, don't they They share clothes, they have to be the same. And he's kind of look and they brought a girl from South Africa. They flew her in and they're like, we got a girlfriend. We're dating her now. But listen, last season the wife was basically like they fell in love with someone. They ended up marrying her.
And she was like, Okay, now that you guys are ready to have sex, you have to go on a diet of alkaline for twenty one days so that your pH can match my pH and then you can get some dick. So she was like, I've never done anything like this just to have sex, But here we go. I don't think. Maybe you don't have to be rich. And here's why, because you already brainwashed them because they're like, hey, I don't want to share a dress. You're sharing me. Like,
I guess you're right, you know what I mean? Like that's what I'm saying. They're all super brainwashed, so you don't need to be rich, you just need to have mine control of these women, which is insane. Yeah, like I'm going to keep you safe. She's going to take some of the duties away from you. And part of it what it is. It's just I feel sorry with the women because they have probably a data one of sense of belonging. I'm part of the family. They probably
lost her wayward. They're just like I'm part of this house. I feel like I'm part of something, and then this guy takes advantage of and like, yeah, you're also part of here. I don't know how it religinated. I don't want to say much about how it originated because I've learned some things from watching his Sister Wives or whatever
on different shows and ship. But people that do this, I believe back in the day, they've talked about instances where like, if you were rich enough, you had multiple wives, so you could take care of these women, you know, have a plural marriage. But as far as it comes to the Mormons and the LDS Church, they actually denounced it in eighteen ninety UM, but there's various denominations of it, where there are certain churches you can go into and practice,
but not all of them. Right. So like even in the documentary I mean docuseries I guess you're watching, Like they'll talk about how they can't go to a certain church and they have to one couple has to worship at home because they can't go in their church, even though they're doing it to honor God. It's so fun. There's a lot of Mormons in Mexico. Here's why because a lot of American Mormons like a polygamus story. A lot of Polygamus in Mexico because that are American, because
they all would like it's illegal here. They went to Mexico and there's like a border town where there's a whole gated community full of Polygamus. And Mitt Romney, who ran against Barack Obama in the election. His father, he was more his father was born in Mexico in one of these communes. Wow. So they're all like, yeah, you know he's uh, I think he might be Muslim. Bro, you got like a Muslim, polygamous fucking grand kid here, Like what you're talking about. They were so obset with
Thebama and Muslims, Like what are you talking about? So other weird religious staff things with sex, public masturbation, ceremonies. Ceremonies an't. In Egypt, they believe the ebb and flow of the Nile was was caused by the god of their creation's ejaculation and thus jerks off in the river. What are you talking about? Doesn't stream the opposite way? I don't know, bit something. It does something because I learned about it when we was doing like what we
were doing the pyramids and stuff in school. It was learning the hieroglyphics. And I don't know why we were learning this stuff. We were we learned about mummies. We like, there's a part in grade school where you actually learned about special and the Nile river. Maybe it's the longest in the world the world. It flowed different. The Nile is special somehow? What did do? Why is it unique longest river in the world? I knew it special? So
explain the jerking off? So they would ritually masturbate into the Nile to ensure the wealth of water for cross you jerk off in the water, guys and Egyptian fial
it's got a light. During the ritual festival of the god Men in Egypt, who represented the pharaoh's sexual power men would regularly masturbate in public into the river because God created it with his ejaculation, they thought, and so they wanted to keep So guys are just on the edge of the river, just jerking off and if you miss your like, give me about half an hour and I'll come back. Isn't that nasty? That's weird. Imagine what's in our waters? Probably the same thing I finished, but
I do like I like swallowing jizz. Anyways, now, um, this one's pretty weird. Near Ireland and in his bag, people make love with their undern wear on basically like dry humping. They're so sexually repressed they don't want anyone to have sex that even deer sexual And of course they want you to just like be like you have to pull it to the side, you have to put it right back on what in Ireland like back off the coast called in his bag. You can tell a
lot about people's sexual preference by their food. A lot of potatoes, no spices. You guys fun bad probably, do you think so? Like the UK you got a fund to English Jude Mandy No, no, but you talked to cribbing a guy though, right, that's a lot of fun. I'm sure a lot of spices they do. What Like I sucked the Jamaican guys. I'm training guys like they're fun. Oh yeah, but they're bla. That's why I think of English,
I think of white. The oscars I had not. Yeah, they shoved it like I've never sucked a guy with an English accent even. Yeah, I'm surprised. So you gotta get into gett. Yeah, and now they're doing it a little smoke music. Yeah, I really haven't. They're popping, bitch. I really haven't get you in English because that counts in New York. It's hard because if there's so many European people floating around French anything. Now, I mean I
had an African spoke French. Okay, close, we're getting somewhere. Technically they were colonized by the French. So yeah, I've had any foreign accent, a slide from the Caribbean, um, a foreign accent. I mean I had a nigger from New Orleans one time. It was crazy, but no foreign. I did have a guy. He was German, but German and black. I don't know if we'll give it to you. He Yeah, he definitely had a German that's hot, like Mandy, he would come to bed let me. I don't know, Mandy,
can I use that scottishirt? That's what I'm doing. No, it has like some fucking no, I don't know what's happen German that is that's the one that I had like, not the one that wasn't me. It didn't sound that. It didn't sound like that. Let me tell you about Germany after Jerry accent. Okay, And I'm not going to do that because we respect. I definitely can't do that, okay. Okay, so now we are going to you did nippolie. That's really good? Am I rhind you? Thank you? I can
laugh at it. I can't do it. Okay. That's that's maybe accurate. I'm not sure. Okay, that police trying about two more Their brothers share one woman. Uh and this is in Nepal basically because all of the brothers will share with one woman so they don't have too many children. Um outside of like their farmland, like they want to basically keep it local. Yeah, shop local. Wow. I like that to keep it in even in the fams. And the last one that I thought was kind of wild.
It was very sinful to not have sex. In Greek history, um and there are accounts of a form of worship for the goddess Aphrodite that basically condemned a woman if they weren't offering themselves up to people, and the ritual would proceed as follows. The woman would arrive at a temple wait for the first man to cast a coin in her Lapably. We talked about this on Patreon ones um the amount was irrelevant, but they'd have to speak
sacred words when that was done. And whoever the man was, whether a king, whether shepherd, old man, they were obligated to have sex with them, and refusing was a sin because the money given to her was given to the temple. So wild, this archaic view of sex, like it's like not even like a thing, it's such like no, just something. It's like, I don't know, it's wild. I know, maybe
it is. They separated from their from their soul. It's like this is something I just did for money or whatever, and then now I'm blush like I'm I'm someone else. I mean, I mean there's a lot of there's a lot of ways that I mean, there's a lot of hypocrisy.
I think just when it comes to all religions, not even more religious specifically, especially like the Catholic priest thing, they're just like, you know, we're this, and then they do bad stuff like oh you know, well he's he were working on it, like they're always there's constant like nothing. No system is perfect, regardless of government or religious institution, and people a human beings were flawed and we have desires to suppress that to me, is I mean, you're
just you know it'd be gay. Just don't anybody if you're in the latter day stage. Yeah, alright, the whole mail his cousin is this the subject? His cousin is the subject? Male. Hey, ladies, I love your show. I'm almost caught up on all the episodes. I love Mondays because of you. And here is my question. My best friend is a guy, and we've never done anything sexual
or had feelings for each other. About two years ago, I started sucking his cousin on and off for about a year, but we don't talk anymore or have sex. Her and the cousin, she's saying fast forward. My best friends now told me he's always had feelings for me and wants to see if it could actually work out, and I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to come in between family and ruin a friendship. But I heard is Dick is good? Would it be wrong
to start dating and fucking? I need some horrible advice. PS, Wheezy is my spirit animal. Well, so what do y'all mean when you say that I need you know? Yeah, that's like the second one I know, like, literally had one a few weeks ago. Now, if you fux somebody's cousin and you fucked him years ago, would you tell
that person? I would one's family I lived half bitch, Because if you say you just try to be sneaky and you now you're best friend, realistically, what if you really start growing feelings for him, You're really in love with this man, and then you got to go to the barbecue and the cousin come bro and he finds out that way, you could literally miss out on a blessing by not telling him up front, because it could
be something that he would be fine with. But you can't blindside a nigga when you fucked any of his friends, like I think anybody, even when it's friends anything. A matter of fact, my first real serious boyfriend. I broke up with him because he cheated on me with this girl. The girl ended up being the sister of the woman he's still married to this day. Wow. I'm always amazed when people are willing to invest so much time and
then oh, by the way, this could ruin everything. Here you go, it's been a year later, Like, just say it up front. You gotta say it up front, you say that's all. It's like, I need this person to want me like me. I don't wanna. I don't want to ruin it. It's like, no, but you're ruining them if you don't tell them because I have to make a horrible decision. Sorry guys, but you have to make a decision where it's like, oh, my cousin, we're a
year in, I have to dump you. But I don't want to know what I'm saying, Like I wouldn't have broken, Like I wish you would have gave me this information. It really is your best friend. Be a decent person and just tell him. I know how you guys feel though about good dick, because like I'm saying, I'd sacrifice a lot. She only heard it was good. That still don't mean it was good because what's good to you might not be good to me. So the fact that
she heard his dick was good. Bro, if you want to find out if the dick is good honestly and you don't know where it could go, if he wants to take a step further from your friendship to something more intimate, like this could be something he doesn't care about, because if if you like him and now he may have those same feelings for you, Like there's a lot of things that he would appreciate coming from you as
a friend. There needs to be like an underground Yelp review for penis for women for guys because it don't matter because still what's good to her and be good to meet ain't will be good to the next. But I'm not gonna front. It's still if someone's bad in bed, they're generally really bad and bed for everybody though. That's true men, yeah, but then you have your back that may have bad night. I still want to okay size at least, but some women aren't size queens, which would
help the dick. Facts. You can't fake height, you can't fake size, so if he's big, he's big, and then tall guys stands up. That's cool. All right, let's tell everybody where to find Oh, I guess us, they find you check us out on for fact sake, Every Tuesday, Eddie and I do deep dives on random mass topics. Um, what do we have coming up? And we did an episode with Charlotta on parenting or no sorry, New York, New York, Cuba Olympics. What else do you do? Everything?
Random topics of Google effects? You don't have to. We've done weed, We've done like the gas stations, We've done every weird topic and we get suggested from the audience. So give us a suggestion on Apple, Apple, Podcast, slash iTunes and we might do your top Somebody was like, do black stereotypes. I'm like, you don't really want Well, this is going to be a solo episode. Yeah, we didn't.
We didn't laugh. We did Black Inventors. We did the Black Inventers was great stuff that we've really invented some wild traffic video games? What black man created the first video game? Like like, oh yeah, I think that created the interface actually or something. And he didn't even get paid for it. Yeah, what else was it? That? Traffic light was great? Traffic one was my favorite because I was like, damn, I mean like like you know, you
got peanut butter. Peanut butter is a big one. Peanut butter. Everybody some peanut butter. There's something with the phone receiver that black man electricity to write the electricity the fire heater woman black woman? Yeah, okay in New York. She did come up with it. Damn. That was a lot of the camera system in New York was for like your concierge and the I think they came up with a woman too. Damn, that's black. We gotta do la history for your people, from people. It's only half of
your people. What would be good it? What would you want as your topic that you like? Sports? Really interesting like that sports um st in Vinegard Chips. I love chips. Chips also, just so many chips. Did black people make the potato chip? What was the potato chip thing? Something did happen with a potato chip? I think they did? Or was it how the potato chip was made? Was on accident or something? Oh something like that. I gotta look again. It was supposed to be a French fry.
I think we did an episode of food. Yeah, you got some of it, like tribes do it, and that's why I said, I used a lot of Howard glyphics and ship. That's kind of the same thing. People want so much Greek mythology. Ship from everybody asked I love gods and goddesses that used to be that used the first influencer that used to really be my thing about seriously, the first employers, like what did he do? You know? Like, wow, we just celebrities sex tapes the other day. Bro, there's
Colin Farrell in his sex tapes a lot. So Colin Farrell sucked the Blackground his sex tape, but we had watched it and he was like, oh, this is my breakfast launch and dan Or right here and talked about her pussy. No I know. He had a second bitch, Tanya Harding. Do you know who that is? And she wasn't getting good good Colin Farrell. He was like bald for this role and yeah, it looks like a dick.
Oh no, no, there were some good ones. It's just weird because like, I don't know, I love googling and talking about dumb ship and sometimes on Patreon, Mandy and I get loose and we get to enjoy and ship like that. But you know, we really have to honor the guests. We have a lot and give them what they deserve, which you know, figuring out about their story and what kings are into and the second are into. But I mean, yeah, this was great. We google a lot of weird wild stuff and come to religion. I
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thank first off, all of the patrons. Uh not only for like y'all's continue support. A lot of y'all were like, you know what, whatever it needs because we hate it when y'all is arguing, because that fucking content be trash. So take all the time you need and I just appreciate all of you guys for your well whisches, your support, UM and rocking with us y'all. Honestly, like, UM, I wanted to post it like a week before, and I
was like, let me give it time. And I also didn't want to piss Mandy off if I you know, did it without telling her. But it's weird because I mean, we could be we could be as open as you want. I don't know how you want to tiptoe around this, but I'm I think we've and just so y'all know too, We've had we've went through therapy. We understand our levels of miscommunication, and we know when we really was communicated.
We did we oh no, we don't have to talk about the people, but but just oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yah, yeah, we are. For one, I'm really glad that you know, we were able to say that. I think it was super honest and like not like we'd be trying to hide when we be fighting, because we don't hide it. But it's more just like it just felt different and I felt violated. You felt violated like we and I'm
just happy we were both wrong. But I think something really cool that UM the coach, life coach, not therapist. I'm trying to remember. She said, was like, you know, you guys both have each other's best interest, Like the brand is still the brand, like basically saying, like why are we looking at each other like the other one is trying to suck the one other one over all the time. I think that's a good point, you know, like Charlotte Magne said to me months ago, like no
one's bigger than the brand. Always think about the brand and keeping the brands in the forefront of your mind when you get angry with each other. And it was when we fought last time, when we was on Twitter and he was like, y'all keep doing this. I don't know why you and Mandy don't and look at this please, Like everybody says that to us, but I will say this, it's not easy, dog. Like you know yesterday when we were doing BTS or whatever, you guys will see it.
Soon Mandy left the studio and I actually had to work in the studio and Alex and I had to have a meeting. And one of the things he said in the meeting was like I don't even know if it was on camera, but he was like Mandy and Wheezy. Have you've been around them? They are alpha females. And he was like, and they are different without each other because they're so alpha when they're together. And I think that's true. I think I'm the same. I'm the same
all the mock time. No, you're not. People even even your friends be like, I don't know why I can like that with YOUO, but my friends do the same to me. They'd be like, Mandy makes you get so tense, and y'all get so But I think that there's one thing about us that I've learned, especially watching this whole
ordeal happened, that people want us to talk about. Boy, we think about that bag, butch And when I say think about the bag, I mean in the future, not just saying we're doing this, you know, to push forward through the money. But we think about business before it happens.
And I think we're very fortunate to have both brought those minds together in terms of money, I mean, but outside of outside of money, what the thing that always I mean, I mean, of course, but the thing that always gets brought up, whether we're talking to legal counsel, whether we're talking to therapists or life coaches. Um. The one thing that is literally also always iterated in those conversations is that this brand now is bigger than the
both of us. Um. When you guys right in the emails and especially when we're on tour and we're able to hear how much just these open conversations have changed, lives have changed, relationships have changed, um, literally just how people view themselves and and their self esteem. I just know that we're touching too many people and we're on track to literally live in a purpose with this show.
And so every time and we even get into argument, be like, listen, this show bigger than whatever we arguing about right now. It's bigger than you, it's bigger than me, it's bigger than both of us. To get at this point, um, only because of how many people it touches. And I
guess upset. I already remember, maybe not even recently. I'd say maybe like three years when I had a job and people would confuse me for you are you Mandy or like you know, they just they don't know the face, they know the voice whatever, and I remember you UD be like, no, not many. I don't understand why people can't tell the difference or and it was like you know what, like I should be happy for all of these things.