Ep 221: Sex Sells on Fuse!

It'd be baking my mouth drying. Bitch, is this supposed to do that? Well? Let me feeling like I'm drinking weed. I'd be like, why is my mouth? So? I know it's a t but I drink Earl good bit, Mr Earl Gray, I'm feeling good. To the show, y'all, this is horrible decision. So you I didn't just say that. And I was going to say, my name is Wheezy and I'm Mandy and he has a red cup in

her hand. For those of you are not watching on YouTube, bitch, I came WTF Studios and I'm like, y'all, rich right, what a look at, bitch, I'm drinking fucking Bacardi gold. What the fuck listen? It's giving Caribbean vacations now, panu coloda. I don't know, bitch, but this Riccarti is not you know, put it back up. That is Dave's I'm making tan baby and the bitches at the oil up because I'm feeling that's my that's my white side. I say you got oil cis because I didn't want you to see

my skin feeling like a repettalion. Repettalion, I don't looking fuck is wrong. I'll take the cup and can we get a sap for hills? Let's get a wall? Is that for hills? You don't want it's not Avian? Bitch? What is it? Your goddamn alcoholic brain? It's heavy on tequila. Wow, you want a damn bro Okay, what ya a dope? Announcement today is the release of sex Sell on FUSA TV. If you don't have FUSE, please figure out how to get it because they gave your girl TV show and

I need a season two beach. Listen. This show is the first show ever hosted by a black girl about business. It is about the entrepreneurs that make money from sex without having it. I know you may have seen previews and it looks super skanky, and it does. I'm not gonna lie it is, but you filmed in a sex club. We took the sex out of sex, sexiness out of it. That's literally in my logline when writing the Episodic Bible, I said take the sex out of it because I

really wanted people to forget they were watching a sex show. Bro, there's a girl we interview that does like a querk class who does a full un lesson about s c O in Google searches. Like, every single person that you watch, you're gonna really respect their business acumen, not to mention like every episode is themed on how these people make

money from sex. And before anyone could even like cast somebody that was like whack, I was really going through horrible decisions and I was like, who has in my brain? You had pretty much all of horrible decisions on there. But I'm not gonna lie, but you and I have sat here and been like, what you don't fuck dick? Like, there's been so many guests on horrible decisions where we're like,

you are the epitome of a sex worker. You make money engaging in sex work without having sex, and I think that for a long time, it took us like so that you you don't this client at all? We questioned a lot of people don't realize that, and we did. We would like, say, you're telling me this Nil paid you how much? And he didn't put his dick. It's almost insane. Like the first episode you guys will see tonight. You've seen my mom in the trailer Young Maze and

the trailer I basically connected with women. Almost everybody in the show is black, And I said, I really thought Fuse was gonna be like, we gotta get this ship BT, but no, because honestly, like I barely like they barely chose ABT also is only playing baby boy currently. I don't know what what to me was so special about.

It is like I really wanted this to almost connect with horrible decisions and new people in a way, and like you will see some of the people that we've interviewed and now really learned about like their money and how they have created their business. UM, shout out to Dash.

I hope I'm not spilling this secret, but I asked Dash to come on, and one has been He's like and I'm not I don't remember even you've reached out to me and was like, hey, what's Dash his contact or but the fact that he traveled in the way he did for our touring Dash has been that was part of his explaining his business. One of the really one of my greatest gems I think from the show and learning what he does, and so many of our listeners go to Dash. I mean, bro, he said on

when we were filming the show. I don't know if you will leave it in there, but he was like, bro, like what horrible decisions did. And for me, it was like, this show is so much about the Kinks, but these people really make their living, Like Dash has not only just done like rope bondage and clients like he's branched into making boxes and product and creating ship like and he talked about that. He talked about growing his brand, traveling for even shows with us, like each person like

I looked at totally different. They taught me so much and like, granted, you know, we threw some people y'all may not know in it, and no shade to them, they were great businesses too, but like it just was so dope to be able to have black people explaining their entrepreneurship and it no matter what you do, there's a lesson learned from each one about their business. And at the end of every episode their businesses are highlighted. You'll you'll take away the the acumen that they have

how to implement it on your own way. Like I learned something from everybody. Lisa splips in shout out to her when she came on. She was saying to me, like bro as far as like video conferencing platforms and electronic payment, like how those work, like all of those things. And it was just such a big deal to finally really validate what we do and what these people do. And I'm just so glad that most of men were black. But I will say, um, you know there's an Asian

owned business. My wax lady. She was you did her penny. I was like this, okay, I was telling the caravan spread my pussy open. And she was so grateful. She taught us about group on and percentages, about how much they take from you, like the ship was lit. People really teach you how to market, how to make sure that you're not doing some illegal ship. But yeah, nobody on there is fucking for money, or at least doesn't know what they explained to us. Maybe, but they have

ways of which they're making very few. I would say maybe one or two people could have possibly fun for money, but for the most part, no. I mean, you'll learn about products, deal dough makers, and you'll see some ancillary characters that you may know from my life or whoever. Fucking Mandy was supposed to do a twork class with me, but we couldn't get the time right at all. Why it was because I did not do well and I just ass but you know what, now, I'm gonna hold you.

I feel like I could do it on a dick. That's it. I cannot. Yeah, I mean it's like and why and and shake your ass. I was like, oh no, But you know, like people that don't want to feel the pressure of going to the gym, they do like dance classes and stuff like T work classes are really special, Cardia. I was I needed an inhaler in the middle of the ship, but I'm convinced you need one for sex to like you. I'll watch to watch this as a family with me every Monday. It's going to come on

at eleven PM. I like really, am just so excited and proud, Like you guys have seen us do HBO, you've seen us do Vice. We've worked really hard to get to where we are and just on some real ship. Like something I was just thinking about when doing the show, Like I had to write my intros and out shows and they're long, like you really got to write them

and craft them and get my jokes. And when I was sitting in front of there like the vout, like why I'm able to do this, Like it's not only just because I have a business background, but like as podcasters, we have truly grown as entrepreneurs. And I know you guys may be sick of hearing it, but we're just

so proud of it. Like I think it's just such a big deal to have come from and started this from a corporate world to like really making our own money in different ways together and separately, Like when I counted the streams of income when I was writing one of my intros about like, oh, this is how I've learned how to do this, like all from a podcast, all from Stuggy Deep. But I mean, but you know what you're saying that, And again, I know a lot of you guys. UM want to hear like I'm not

gonna TV. Is like we've been trying to get us to do TV, and I was just like, match, I didn't president. I'm sure people are probably like, why is Manny not a part of it? Um? I think that through our ups and downs and learning each other and I mean honestly horrible to still horrible decisions, is still both of our babies. And trust me, we have definitely

been offered the TV too. Yeah, but we've we've both tried to see what more we want to do outside of horrible, how much we want to do with each other. And like, I'm in the e commerce space, so even you're talking about uh having someone on your show to talk about s c O and stuff. I literally was not able to get Google search ads because of the artwork in my box. They wrote back and said, you're not able to show on Google because here show me out.

This is the reason they wrote back butt talks because one of the drawings in my box shows a butt talks. This is why I was not able to show up on fucking Google. So I love. I mean, I also just recently partnered with a black artist and do you know that certain artists get shadow band just like sex workers for having art that showcases women's vaginas and women's

bodies and women's tits. And we've talked about this with a lot of people, so for you to be able to go on TV, there's so many heels to climb in this space. I go back to say, Weezy and Iron are in space where I know the lane I want to be in, and Weezy has excelled in the

lane that she wants to be in. But I'm still glad that we're able to come back here and do horrible decisions and still continue with what this show started off of, which was our hole asses, even though you don't think I'm a whole no more because I got a niggad, but like to be able to grow from. Like if they go back to Wei was talking about eat the net and ship that I don't know what that is, and I was talking about a fucking final exam that I had and we were, oh my god,

if you go to our YouTube, we look disgusting. We're coming in with sucking pants and card again. It's okay, we said, but I will tell y'all one thing I have learned from doing TV. Oh am I a podcast? Maybe? What does that mean? These niggas cut me? Excuse me. By niggas, I mean the people I worked with. Shout out to Beery and Hidi and John and Brandon, everybody at FUSED, who's Ryan sell, everyone who's helped me make this show, particularly Brandon. Um. Brandon came to Mandy and

I to do a show. He ended up leaving that network. Um, we didn't end up doing it. They Oh we did talk to one network. Remember they want to go twelve box the show like some I don't even know if we got to the money per show. We did, got through development and it just wasn't But Brandon told me two years ago at max Fish that he was going to give me a TV show, and he did. And we had to really work to be able to put sex on TV in this way and honor people. So

fun fact about this show. Talk to me the company I told you that I was supposed to do with me. I wanted to call it sex it and how people left the sex industry. But this isn't this, This isn't them leaving it. And I said, I do like that name though. That gotta be an episode well, I said, I cannot be sex positive and save people because also there's a pride. There's pridefulness in saying this is what I did and I don't do it no more. There's almost like a shame in what you used to do

and you being able to leave it. So I'm so glad because which we would have looked like hypocrites. No, there's no way. I'm so glad, Brandon, and I can see I should have said a splash a coake, nigga, Mandy, we have another two hours in here, like this looks like pure coke, not not that Coca cola. I can't wait for you to sip that. And you're like, thanks Eddin, Okay, thanks at it, y'all. But Ray cup shot it. First off, wheezy.

If you're watching us on YouTube, by the way, shout out to all of you guys who watch us on YouTube. Search horrible decisions on YouTube. We zeed. This episode for sure is the stud Dike and I am the Femi lesbian. Um it's giving bisexual you were giving you don't know, but the only dick shape anything is that banana. The show was called sex sell That didn't suck up with this outfit. But Mitch Right, I thought she was gonna

give me sex you were giving me. Yeahs were so crazy on that show that like in sexy and over the top, that like I needed address like a little less today. But no, the show is honoring people. And I will say this for anyone who has thought maybe you will see a repetitive guest on from Horrible, there's

a reason for that. There is no room where I could have done something on TV without honoring how I got in the space to even talk about those people, and that includes dropping Horrible on every episode using the butts on set. Okay, Like I do not believe that you don't um lift those up and show love to those who have been around. And I felt like it just didn't make sense if I'm gonna talk to a Finn Doom and want to write that episode out, that

it shouldn't be someone that people know from Horrible. But I also but I also want to make it clear while I was, while I was not a part of this project, I love that through this four years of this journey with us figuring out ourselves sexually, growing sexually and being in the space and really meeting good people, I love that you reach back out to a lot of those people. Like I said, Dad showed up when we really had like we've had great sex, and you knew you had to cast people. What the fund do

I look like? Right? Like? That's really what I was like, I can't My waxing lady was so in shock that, like I used, she couldn't even believe it. And I was like, bro, like if I'm gonna talk about like the episode is particularly about just taking care of your vaginant that and I was like, how could I not that you ain't hit me on there official box owner base.

I didn't do a health episode yet by the episode, Ok, yeah, there ain't no spot, but bitch, that's like so you know what it I'll be I'll be very honest with you too, like I said, with us doing different things now, a medical episode, well one of the well I ain't no doctor, bitch, you know, I don't even believe science really. But one of the things that I've found through this show to me was the importance of feminine feminine health and hygiene, only because I have friends who I've we

laugh but their pussies are always broken. So much happens. But not only that, like I have friends that like my best friend at thirty four has been diagnosed with breast cancer. The opening of Honestly Now. Also being with a partner where I can share at a different time of the month, I might be a little dry, let's use lube, or I might smell different this like right now, I just drank this is how my vagina is gonna react.

Also to have a partner over the last year where I can communicate why my pussy may smell, taste, look at whatever, different and any time of the month. But being able to open up with my friends about that, that's so important and so I love that you're being able to showcase like this show has brought us through so many different avenues to still educate and show and

support the people in our lives. If there's no way, and I think, like you know, when you gotta you say you gotta put people on like or like you you really do have to do that, because people have done that for us. But we have put on more podcast It is okay. Many seek you see how she was trying. June this month is coming and we have no room to do this. We don't. We just did African American April. We did melon in May. This is Mother's Day, June bug June. Okay, hold on, let let's dance.

Come on the click? Can you hit the little music? But I don't want to make sure my arial and don't pop out. But yeah, no, anyways, I say all of that to say, I think, to be very fair, you and I have done nothing but support all of the people we've come across. So I love that in different ways we're still able to push that forward. Um season two because y'all better give me one. Um, I could do an e commerce episode or I really want to do a health one, but man, do you can't

say anything about the science if we do this? Because do not let a health episode? Why did you bring your black ass up a healthy series? What are you talking to? Bit? You've been talking about a sad nigga's out here doing two parts of ship. I'm just saying, give me two, three, four parts. Okay, there's two businesses highlighted each episode. Relax. What I'm saying is you're not about to get on there with these goddamn gummies on TV and be like, yeah, I can compton a formula

but saw it? Okay, Well, actually guys, look up the health benefits. You know what, Before I even put my little plug in here, we'll tell them sex cells, what channels station before we get to the gun damn house ship, because we're gonna get to it, bitch. Oh yes, tonight eleven PM and every Monday after that, um, the series premiere. I hope I'm in Atlanta watching it with you all, niggas. I really do, because I have to be. I really hope I'm watching it with some niggas in Atlanta. Damn

beat you on TV. That's the ship. I don't want to hear it, but yeah, do you think you're gonna get offered multiple dicks because you're on TV? Like? You know how, I'm sure niggas would be like, I never really want to fund no other nigga, but if they get the opportunity to Rihanna, they might take a backseat

to another name. People that don't know me. When when I posted the trailer, they were like I was a listener first, I was like, oh, y'all love putting the claim they do just like the same niggas they want to play. Oh my god, we went to middle school together. Bitch. Alright, alright, alright download, all right, well, and before we get to um the Vanilla Ship, I do want to say, for those of you who are not aware, I am the

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you can get work acids depositories. We also have sheet orgasms. So if you are looking to enhance your sexual health, uh, fix your b V, your yease infection, or kind of balance your p as dry as hell. Listen, it really smells broken. I hate you so much. Going over to Official box owner dot com and use promo code w DP you'll get fifteen person off. So w d P. That's it. Let's get the Vanilla ship. Say, I just want to read a review, real quack, we read a

review that be This one is so cute. The caption is say bye and he says, we love say bye because many of you saying say bye edding, Oh like not like say bye like you look not even have But what what review say bye? You mean? Like? What how many stars? Five from? We're reading five stars? We ain't reading like them? A little trash bitches that you're leaving one right, Be says we love edd and I think he has a funny perspective more edding. Um wow, that's I haven't seen many of those ed He needs

to get his own part. If he wants, you know what I will like let me just say do you want? Do you want to talk about it? When you're podcasting in a room, you really do need a little gratification, especially for people that entertain. Do you bet I know what?

I'm funny? I don't need eddings laughing and no, no no. To direct things to the person like another person is a lot easier, Like it's so much easier when there's someone to look at or like nod to, like behind this screen, behind this mike, whatever you're listening to, Like, it's not that easy to just look at each other. When Mandy and I disagree, you have to turn like, not only disagree. I'll tell you right now, Wheezy and I can talk to each other, so when we cannot

eddin is our what's sex? But I thought that was really great. And the next one is the one said I love this podcast that helped me with being more comfortable in my skin and my sex life. Love you both, We love you back, bitch Now Vanilla ship boy? Are they talking about me? In this New York Post article people who are into kinky sex most more likely to do a list at drugs? Oh? Is that one my boyfriend? Okay, never mind, go ahead, Oh, we're not going to talk

about it. Is he my kind of people? Um, he's experimentive. That's so much drug users spend less time in missionary. So they did a poll of a thousand attendees at a music festival about their drugs and sex habits and the anonymous Data music festival where they were already of course they're already going to be on drugs. But no, no, basically saying for the people that were like basically testing the sex they have and the drug use at the festival, Like,

what are these people into? But we've also read an article about at these festivals, there's a high rate of herpies that is transmitted and all these other things. So of course you're on drugs, you're having sex, and you're transmitting STDs. That's what happens at festivals. Well, someone I

don't like, I don't like this pool. The anonymous data they acquired linked that there was a strong connection between substance and sexual practices, including casual sex with a friend and anal and b D s M. The normalization of drugs and liberal liberalization of consensual sex practices is actually related, and the higher the drug use, the more the leisurely

actually at ease. Our study revisited the well worn phrase of sex, drugs and rock and roll, and basically fact, sex hip hop who report to taking to illicit drugs a year or um sorry a month are more likely to engage in non traditional sex, including the sucking dick if they snored coke. But no, no, I don't know. That's what I know. I don't think. But what are the doing that I drew a connection with? Like think

about anal and like poppers? Those are drugs. It's illegal. Um, it's a substance that it's leather cleaner, that's what you have to ask for it for it to be illegal. It's leather clean. It's a substance that will like make your body warmer, make your head a little lighter, so that you can take a dick. But also I just had I ain't gonna hold you. Okay, this ain't even a part of motherfucking vanilla ship. But bitch, I just

use this desensitizing lube for my ask. And let me tell you, not only did I not feel my ass for two days, my lips because somehow it got on my mouth. Don't ask me how, bitch, I felt like I had fellers. I was like, babe, does my face looked funny? But it's just because I could not feel my lips in the middle of kind of sex, I said, babe, we go use that ship no more. Because he wanted to sun my ass, I said, cool, We'll use this little desenthetizing jail. And I don't know where it ended up.

Maybe I sucked the dick after I asked him out. I don't know, Maybe I ate his ass. It got somewhere else that My lips were numb, but I felt like they were balloons, but they weren't. I was like, babe, I don't like I literally had to go and like scrub my no no, bro, so I don't know what type of drugs this is. But also uh de synthetizing loup, Let's not do it? How about that? Sorry, that's my sex ship for today. Synthesizing loube. Don't do it. Don't buy that on the next sex story, bro, I probably

give you. The hard nerve for the week is about the meadest, the whole the tip of your penis the mushroom, which is the worst name, the mushroom? No, the whole, little a little split thing. Was it the po not youreath? Was the actual like line like the stream? What are you talking about? The whole at the top of the dick? Why? I just wanted to say the thing from xenon penis the latest metest, Like when when she is this what we're doing? Anyway? Can we not talk about sex in

the Disney Channel? That's kind of when the meadest is the whole, the tip of your dick, it's very sensitive during the arousal. But the po, yes, it is the peo? Right? Why are you calling it the meades? She's teaching people things. It's really called the m E A t U S I swear to God. Yeah, okay, carry on car okay. So the meet us, if you apply pressure to it, medium pressure on and off, it'll actually be good. Now.

Not to be confused with the front of them, that's like a little we know you talk about the front of them all go, I'll be working. She'd be talking about the goddamn friend of them. She she's the front of them, queen he k. That's what we're gonna give every other episode. We know what the front of them is, do we do? It's a little it's a little thing on the mushroom that lead from the head to the chef, a little vain part and what's the pole called the

meetest bit. That's an easy word. Though front of them is real like extra meet us makes sense because well we call it meat and it's for us, the meet us, for us, by us, the food dick in honor of sex Cells being the first business show hus by black girl. What else they set these two black girls? They let you get off get that off? Oh yeah, yeah, absolutely. Do you think I'm not about to tell everybody of

that because it is ma'am. Okay, just make a show, you know, they don't really want to get that to us, although we are for us by us. You know, I'm saying the sex Cell shows the first business show. But I know, but they let you get off that you're a black woman. Oh, I'm just playing only because we get all the hell from it, bro, We get the

hell from it. That's all. Well, we see bit me today now speaking of business, A lot of people right in asking about how to trick on nigga don't know how to get me get a trick on them, Sugar, your daddy's all that stuff. I want to take a different time of this episode, and it actually was my I've had this idea for a few weeks. How to branch off into making money with niggas, take money for niggas, how to structure the conversation around it, things for them

to invest in and fellas. If you read a meet a rich bitch, ladies, gays, whoever, and you have somebody in your life that's wealthy, follow these steps with their steps. Bitch about to give it to you. Now, wait steps. I just want to be clear what you're about to teach the people? We we we we, But you just sent me the outline. I just learned this is a free flowing company. You have a lot of experience with here you go, here you go. Now you're about to

just say you've been prostituting. I did it. I felt like she was going there at It's one of a lot of experience with getting in large sum of money. At one point in time, we're going to talk about how to bitch because it was africans and athletes. Are these gonna be tips for like the average people? Or they got a bag a millionaire first? So there's a few different types of spenders. Tell me which ones I'm wrong. Let's know it. Here's the ones I listed that I

could come up with. Men who will buy you things, that's what, okay. Men who will buy you vacations, Men who will only take it eat. Wait what was that one? Take it to eat? Oh? Oh god, Oh we're going really low, okay. Men who will invest or a partner with you. And I already said vacations right now. The men that will buy these are the different type of spenders things, gifts, vacations, food, and no, that's not it.

So so let me add to this. Then you have those who want to feel like they are your night in shining armor savior for livelihood. So you have men who will not gift you things or take you anywhere. They will only pay for necessities such as rents, such as school tuition, degree such as such as those things. So your rent can be say your dollars. That same man will never give you just two thousand dollars cash. It has to specifically go to something for your life life.

When I said men who would invest, that wasn't what I meant. That was a good point. Yeah, I was talking about men that be like, well, what do you want me to pust? What do you want to do? Because I've had many men asked me that when I didn't know what to do. Oh bitch, same I apparently

wanted to say fucking iPhone accessories at one point. Let's not talk about that question like niggas be like, oh, if you want to put your money towards something, so we're gonna talk about it like that too, because some men do want to partner with you on time because

they don't want to just hand you cat. But wait, can I also add one more to that, men who will be with you for a good time and spend money on everything, but you so I've been with men who will want to show me a great time and they feel like because they just spent two racks in the strip club on other women, I have pockets strip club money anything, So there's so there's that. But I mean a lot of times like I've had friends get caught pocketing strip club money and nigga that ship look

bad on me, and niggas was like never again. But I'm saying I've also been out with a nigga to a strip club that would was only tipping twenties nigga. So I'm getting like, I'm at the strip club, I ate, I had a great time and the bitch I went home with nothing. But I realized there were dancers that just went home. So with this isn't you know what I mean? Right? Because I've had men that if I've ever been out with a nigga and they'll like go to the mall with you and only buy themselves. They

want to show you they spending money. Who when I was when I was sixty, We're going to the mall together? What am I getting? I When I was about like eighteen, I remember niggas would like take me to eat. We go to Millennia or some ship that's shout a seven shop of city, and they would buy themselves something expensive, and I didn't know what to do, how to ask. And I think that the asking in particular is something that we're all kind of uncomfortable with. Uncomfortable with. Hold

on for everyone listening to this right now. If you're with a man and you're going out and he's like, yo, I gotta go pick this up real quick, y'all together, and he stopped at the Louis Store and think it's like it's okay for him to just buy himself something. He's trying to show you that he got money their significant other. If we're working with each other and I'm with you, I'm spending my time with you, I'm sending my day with you, and you gotta go pick something up.

You go to the Louis store and just buy shoes for the evening, let me tell you how they mean nothing. You just trying to flex that you got that buying a fucking bottle and telling your friend they can't drink out of it. I swear to go. That is buying a bottle at the club and saying, oh, this is for me. That is I didn't you genuinely came to want me to see you flex? Bro? Have you ever taken out one of your friends that just ain't making

as much red as you? And like you think I'm about to eat this ship in front of your face and not share my ship with you, I'm not inviting you. Oh yeah, you know what I mean. I'm gonna roll with people that you agree. If I know you ain't got it, I'm gonna I got you. Or if I'm rolling with someone they on the same ship like that is some disrespectful ship. Niggas have done that to me and we go No. Um, I mean I think that now we can speak to it from a position. I

know you don't want to be called an untie or anything. Oh, but we are our thirties now and I think we can now reflect on ship differently. You don't think it's that that I'm at now. Okay, you're not auntie because you have no siblings, but we're in the anti age era. No, we're not. My sister has a child. I'm literally an aunt I will not call you onto. We are not at the auntie age. I believe auntie age is thirty five and up. We are thirty. Man, you think Auntie

is what me because I didn't learn my life. But it's because I got a man now. I'm not y'all really hate me. It's because I have a man now. I've learned my lesson. I think Auntie is learned from the mistakes they've made in their You and I repent everything I didn't. Oh lord, this is okay, go ahead, Um, I found this list. I thought it was pretty cute, but I want to uh go over what the internet

says are great times to ask men for money. Let's start with that, then we'll go look at how to use this is the fact that you laugh is so hard and you can guess what as soon as you ask so pissed about that ship online, if you ask me for pussy, I can ask you for money and I will. Yeah, and I will Smart lazy hustler dot com your resource. I swear to god this is not the Washington Post. But say that again, smart lazy hustler dot com, because that's what we're about to be. Okay, Now, honestly,

that's the battle of this. Can we do that? No, it has to be sex? Oh ship, never mind? Sorry, Yeah, have a smart lazy hustler maybe, and the factors to consider before you ask the money, because you can't just always ask the money. One are they happy? Make sure they're in a good space there, n ask what they paying me because they unhappy and they marriage. So let's go past this one. Nig's happy they paying you? Now? This is the unhappy niggas next do you? But she's

about to give Do you understand now? If happy? Is it maybe like after they come or something. Damn Now, this is one I really love. Anytime that it hurts you and apologize this This is a great time to getting what you want. You should know it should be something serious like a forgotten birth, forgotten birthday, a cancelation of a date. Promises to call whenever they fail to do something you make their request because they know they have to famil you something. I'm about to stay here

and be Devil's advocate. Straight up. Cutty got flamed. She came on see the thing is and said that when her nigga sucks up, it's okay when he sucks up as long as she gets something in return for the funk up. I say that for a woman who really likes the man, don't accept a gift as a consolations side for them. Yeah, but I'm not gonna lie I wait, wait, wait, wait, Yeah,

but I've dipped out with tricks. If you want your trick to behave in a certain way where he doesn't like funk up with your time and and really funk with you, know, you gotta get your disagree tricks have to be in line. Because my tricks, trick niggas I've had, I don't give a funk about what fucking feelings are hurt. I'm gonna pretend I'm sad and you're gonna buy anything. No trick niggas. Yeah, I really thought you were Like, I just can't believe we're not spending a week. Yeah,

but trick niggas. At the same time, I have to know that they can't play with you, bro, Like a trick nigga can't be like, yeah, we're doing dinner, then we're gonna do this, then we're gonna do that, and then last minute they cancel on you. Trick niggas, you still have to hold them accountable to the same regard and you should be getting gifts and money from them, whether they funk up or not. So so you sucking up isn't why I'm getting a gift. You should be

giving me a gift and ship. I mean, yes, they should be giving. But I do think it's a good if you have to put a time place and asking, I do think that's a good one. I will say, I try. Don't don't wait to ask for something when they sunk up. You should already be asking for something that you could bitch. This is one of the options. Damn. And I'm telling you, I'm telling you, we got to

rewrite this article. That's what I'm saying now. The passive aggressive asker, which this happened in my let me tell you how do not like? They'll be like that could not be amount. So this is how I come on passive love. Her boy saw the clip about where we made the tip of the dick of your ass whatever, we made a joke, so we were in the same was the joke? What was the joke? Something Ibo'm giving a tip and you said, here s your tip, like the tip of the dicktive. He loved that. So I'm

on FaceTime with him. I'm about to be in the same city. I haven't seen him in years, and I'm in the car with my home girl and her and I was shopping and I said on FaceTime I could not believe he ended up doing it. I was like, I shouldn't even be spending my money. This doesn't even feel right. I was like, I've had a birthday that's past Christmas. I was like, when you see me, I know you're one of those something. I was like, I should be getting shoes or something. He was like really.

I was like, yeah, you wear Gucci. I should have Gucci. I should have nice things. I need a new pair of shoes. Bitch, don't you know you sent him the shoes. I didn't send him anything. Literally showed up. He had the Gucci bag ready, beautiful fucking Gucci. Luckily you like them anytime normally a man came with a gift. Okay, good ladies, there's a tip right there. Make sure you get the gift for seat, because a lot of these

men in their styles is just a little question. There is something I said that I realized it was a little bit different. Then you get, bitch, just cant and heels and ship they do. We don't want that ship. He was making jokes about like I gotta buy you this, and I said, listen to me. I said, I buy myself these things. You buy yourself these things, and you know how I roll out like if I do what you need to be doing it facts And he did not saying he's never brought me nice things. He's definitely

brought me Gucci when we were dating. But I was just so impressed and he was very much like, you deserve it. And I did pussy drip when you got that gift? Did you pussy start throbbing? Damn? How a man just put it? Fucking like, don't get me wrong. Oh, BI gets me things all the time, but like I know they're happening, like it's a birthday, it's Valentine's Day and he'll ask me, I'm gonna buy you something. Someone just puts a Gucci back in my face like that's

for you. You know what's crazy? And you know I've been on my Black Lives Matter ship, bro, so I could believe. And what's crazy is I get boy was white for those sin sumit that it's so different now, Like yeah, y'all can fast forward. I'm about to talk about my man in terms of gifts though, um my dorm I have packages downstairs I'm like, I didn't order anything.

My man sends things to my house constantly from if he just notices I'm out of something, or he's at the house and he feels like there's something that can make my life easier, he buys it for me, and I'm like, Nick, you haven't asked him. And I only know because he spelled He spelled my last name wrong,

so I know when I get shipped from him. He actually he adds the actual letter, don't add the don't don't say here, but he adds an actual letter, So I normally know when things are from him because he

speolls my last name was an extra letter. And then it'll literally be all household items, like things that he just realized that, which is right he and not just feminize him at all, but he does stuff like that, Like when I was in Jamaica, I came home two hooks and everything being hung around my house because he's like, you put a lot of things on the floor, hang it up now, bitch a sweet. But I'll tell you how Old Bay does his will. He's such a fucking

bougie ass nigga, and I love him for it. But he'll come to my house and be like, what is this mark? What are these candles from bed bath and beyond? Wait? What la labo margella. He's not working around. He likes all candles, No, bitch, I'll be right there at Burlington. Give me my seven dollar candle. When I tell you, I'd be feeling like I'm doing something when I spin above eleven dollars on the candle and I'd be getting the ships. That'd be like this big would be like

the side of my head. I'd be like, damn, like I'm not gonna line. You want to talk about things that make you come. I don't know, but this makes me come right here. I took the sticker off. But when I tell you, as an adult, honey, give me a twenty dollar candle for eight Oh I'm orgasm, Oh my yahnd wash? You think I have regular lab under soap? Now it has to be a sop geranium like he's not fucking around, okay, Burgermont like it has for what hands?

So asp like body wash Like that's cute, but you're gonna wash your hands with soft soap and you know that. And I got so I got six bottles for twelve, nine and nine off Amazon officers shout out to the soft soap. Also, if you like it, you love you buy it for me anyway. Come So that's my type. What do you do once you get the money now there is you spend it. The men that want to just invest, I want to talk about some of the women that I've met and the things they've invested their

bread into it, niggas. I thought it would be cool for us to talk about things that, maybe in a good way, that we flipped with a man's cash. One of my home girls, um, you know who she is, but she used to get mad bread from these scammer niggas, And one particular dude was like, oh, you ain't doing shape of buying clothes and holding around it up. You

better come up with a business. And she fucking started selling hair a bit made him fly here to China, picked out the weave herself, like, started a whole company from it. And I think that when men would give me money or would ask me what I was doing with it, I didn't really have a plan. So I did think a great thing and a great way to start. Mandy even does. E commerce is one figuring out drop ship, whether it be candles or whatever like have that nigga.

Just put the money into it because at the end of they guess what if you're not going to spend it on yourself, it's literally like free capital, like just take it, make it and if it fucking fails, whatever, but at least you didn't fucking So I'll be honest with you, coming from when I was really getting money out of these niggas. Um if I'm talking to the

women in college or the women pursuing degrees, um. The capital that I was given went towards my bills because it allowed me the freedom not to have to work. That's smart. And so when I look back at it, even my African I told you I got like thirty grands on them twice, but I got like thirty thousand in a year. And it was the first year that I decided to go back to school. And at that time I had worked only retail bartending things like that

was like my yearly income. So the fact that I got thirty thousand tax free off of a nigga, I was able to take seven classes a semester, I was able to lead up. It was twenty one credits a semester. You know, at Leman, I was able to speed up my process in obtaining two degrees, and so I looked back now loans a little bit because so I've never taken a student and then I took student loans just also live. So between loans, I will say, when you get a lot of cash from a dude, whatever it

may be, I'm a firm believer. If the loan is fixed rate, I am not. I'm sorry if it does not take me like give me any advantage for paying it down, you cannot um what do you mean you fixed rate? As in it won't change like there's it's just this is what it is like if it's not really gonna like accrue more interesting whether you paid off or not. For example, like a lot of PPP loans, whether you pay them off early like they're gonna kind

of be the same. Do not waste your capital by fucking spending all of the cash paying off a loan so you're debt free, because I know that's where I may not even help you in the hold you the s B a loan that I'm able to get last year only three percent. That's a very low interest rate. And right now I'll also say, with my e commerce business. Um, we need a lot of inventory. Inventory costs money. Like even just my first run I spent over. I spent over inventory just my first run of inventory, and we

need more. And so even looking at inventory, that fixed interest rate of of loans is the only thing I'm doing, Like, you can't do do that a pr Yeah, like something is over sent or or they're able to change with the market fluctuation of what interest rates can be. That

ends up. Now for sure, you can like do some refi on your own a little bit like one of the smartest things I was able to do so and this wasn't smartly also real quick for those of you listening who like are like, what then are these but just talking about? But also also here the breakdown. Say you take out a tenth that I'm going to make the numbers super easy. Fixed interest rate what she's talking about because it's also what I'm going through right now.

Say you get a ten thousand dollar business loan, they say, hey, out of this ten thousand dollar business loan, we want ten percent interests, you know, to this company, you only owe them eleven thousand dollars. That is what they want back. And when it's fixed. That means that it's not gonna keep growing. It take longer to pay it off. Now a lot of school loans do, however, for there's a lot in the parnament right now happening. The loans are deferred.

They've been deferred for like the last year. Here's my advice for anyone that's got a large sum of money and and and loans and all that. Ship. One thing I did for myself was I only rid myself of debt that would immediately change my credit score in order to do certain things that I needed. For example, when I first moved to New York, de greated the sugar Daddy got me the apartment, but my credit was maybe

like a six fifteen. I had to put down first, last, and two months rent, which was like twelve fifteen thousand whatever the help. So when your credit is higher, you can actually spend less because they're requiring less and you can keep some in the bank. So what you should be doing, if you really have go on your credit Carma look and see like, okay, hard inquiries is my highest,

They're gonna fall off in two years. The debt to income ratio hard your cards lower than spread them out if you have one card that's ten thousand dollars and another one that's five, it's thirty of each. Don't just fill up one card and keep the other one zero. Because they really watch those ships. So make sure you're paying towards what's gonna change your life immediately. And that's why I say, do not be paying off them loans that quick if they're fucking fixed. Hell no, Now another

thing I think that's smart to do. No, we're talking about how to trick on these. Okay, let's just say you have a nigga that wants to take you on vacation. That's what he wants to do. Okay, I think I'm cool with that. Wait, I have a tip on this. Can I give a tip on this real quick? If you got niggas that are flying you out build miserably in this, get show as a fucking uh frequent flyer program on one airline and tell whoever is flying you out that you will only fly out on this airline.

There's nothing wrong with that, because when I tell you, even being gold medallion right now on Delta is amazing. It takes so much like pressure off of whether you want the nega to pay for extra check luggage and all this other stuff you out tell him you will only fly out on one airline and rack up those miles and points, because even if you're fighting, yeah now, yeah, making money on your own trips is a big fucking deal. That's what I was gonna say. If you're doing vacations,

let them pay yourself back. And I have a firm believer in that going on even a free vacation costs me money. Like, don't you spend more money getting ready for the vacation than you do want a god da vacation? Um, yes to no. I gotta give my hair, go give my ship. We do. And that's the thing too. A lot of times we not only have to get our hair and makeup, nails toes done, we do like to

buy outfits because we know we're going on vacations. And to be fair to when you're traveling, especially if you're coming from like a metropolitan area, you have to also take into consideration you're either paying for uber or you're paying for your car to be parked at the airport, You're paying for food at the airport. This it's never a free trip for the woman. I know. The men listening are like, oh my god, but you got there for free. It still comes out to be a fucking

flight is not that expensive anymore, not anymore. I mean they're going back up like for real, like people like we just can't afford flights. I don't know why. The person that I had a meeting with in l A that I was talking about, he wanted to schedule our meeting for the next day. I said, I have to leave. I have to go back to New York towards. He's like, I'll pay your change fee. I looked at him and said, there are no change flight fees right now. I said, one,

there's no change fees too. Do you think I was going to cancel my plans for a hundred or two hundred dollars? Don't nig You've got me fucked up. Niggas really be talking a bit, just like we ain't got money and I don't know how to do so because black women got all the money. When it comes to those vacation things, making sure if you sincerely cannot afford the prep that it takes to go on this vacation, be very clear in saying, because they're gonna offer it

to you, anyway, bitch. They're like, Yo, I'm gonna take you to Miami. We're gonna do three days today. I'd be like, look, I would love to go with you. Should I really want to suck your dick on that balcony. But I'm gonna be real, I need to get my outfite together, like it's just kind of stressing me out to work, Like I just have a lot of things to buy. Use that word. Use that word. Don't say you have a lot of things to get together. Don't

say you've got things to prepare. Say I have a lot of things that I need to buy to make this trip happen, to make this trip happen. Because you need to kind of be clear with those words. If asking for direct money is kind of scary, but this that means you can't show up with your lashes falling out, your nail is not done, in your hair not done because nick is no nowaday because niggas be no way now. As far as buying you things, um, I'll be real. I never really said no to gifts. Um, immend I

told you I was. I was so poor it one time I returned gifts. Oh, I was gonna say I never really said no. Two gifts I returned. Trappers was buying me gifts you could they buy him with cash,

I'd return them. I feel like based on the comfortability is how forward you can be about not being able to have a two thousand dollar bag, a thousand dollar bag, whatever it might be in saying I actually really need this cash like kind of watch your words with this, I think, watch your But also to me, just know the type of nigga you don't look. That's the thing. There are men that don't want to feel like tricks paying and getting cash they're gonna have a problem with.

But gifts, if they're materialistic type of nigga, a gift is nothing to them because this is what they enjoy buying. So I would say, be be careful with that. If you got a materialistic type of guy, don't say you need ran our bills paid and said because you may you may get nothing. So when I had my sugar Daddy, like granted he was super lit and he's the one I've talked about who had a plane and all that and bought me my first and buy me the apartment, so you paid for the rent for year. When I

moved to New York. But I genuinely needed cash, bro like seriously, it just needed a few racks before the move, like and I didn't want to tell him. After he did the whole apartment, I was like, you still need a few thousand a move. It's just you really do moving your stuff, the flights, like all that stuff, getting my ship together, buying little things for the place, like I needed like maybe three or four grand that I

didn't have, and we went shopping in Miami. Well, I told him because I was like, um, I really like, I know you want to buy me this stuff, like I feel really bad to take it because like I have a lot of stuff to do with this move. He got very irritated with me. He was like, this is our day to have a good time, Like we're not thinking about moving like you want. We want to have fun, we want to enjoy this. It was like

I ruined it for him. And I remember that feeling in his face like, oh, now I'm gonna shop all day with her, and she thinking about how she can't you know what I'm saying. And when she's talking about materialistic men with Mandy just said I know that person to know they just enjoyed. He flew. We flew to Miami on the jet for a day to shop, and inside I was dying when he was trying to buy me these expensive shoes because I was like, bro, I

need the Miami, but he was crazy. I have friends that always got the red bottoms, the persons, the gifts, the men that I bonded and connected to, Like you know, I got put on payroll for almost a year. I gotta check every two weeks for nigga that I saw once a quarter. Um my other really good friend who got me my MacBook and who paid for my summer school classes and who helped me through school. I could never hit him up like, oh my god, there's these twelve shoes they want. If if I hit him up,

it was because I needed it. And you have to know what type of man you're dealing with, because yeah, there's a there's a huge difference, and you'll have men that'll be like, bitch, aren't paying your bills. But then you'll have another guy that'll be like, what do you need? Well, I want to be here to help. I will say, if you're fucking win And this lastly, hood nigga that's making cash pass, which I never dealt with. My men

made money legally. I know you like the trap stars like that one thing they would go in like I'm here for the tr aps. They are no get another water, big shoes and the car. She likes it. She likes the trap sharing water. So you don't know the GZ song? Now is that game? Are we going to act my shoes on a car she likes? Okay, I'm just making sure. I'm just saying I'm on TV now as remember Jean seven. If you don't want hood niggas, one thing I did

not do the last week pointer. Seriously, who many? That's what you said? He bleep that? Then damn? But wait wait wait wait, this is really like a demo. This is a tip. Can I ask what is the niggah? A hood nigga is somebody that doesn't have a regular job. You may not know how they' getting their cash. It could be scam and trapping. It could it's just niggas that got cash that like spending in weird ways like fast. They could still drive a fucking focus, but they take

you to a five hundred dollar dinner. Bro, you gotta chill, not the focus on a like I had a nigga that lived in a bro the trap car dog like I like the car is the Chrysler three D. No, Bro, niggas have a fucking car to do runs. And I'm telling you row like I knew nigga had a Porsche and a fucking focus. And then y'all went to find if he had to make a run and some ship because he's spending the bread by life. But I didn't. I never met a nigga would a with a with

a portion of focus? Not gonna I'm not gonna hold am I fucking around with? Like? Okay, do y'all know people like this? They have portions and focuses. I mean it was like not focused. Maybe it was like a Sonata, don't that was the first car. I'm not kidding. He had a two daughter. It's a charger, a Chrysler, and then the luxury chargers. I was on to say. And Paula, what did she talking about a focus? She had trapping in volkswagons out. I'm telling you I had a niggad.

It wasn't a focus. It was Sonata. He did not call him me a trade and no, fucking no, My Sonata was Polo is a nigga cars. They're not fucking moving away and the ships anymore. You gotta be smart. Oh this is like new age trappers. Okay, So anyway, sorry, I when I was young, I never knew how to really get more like a larger investment from them. And today, if I was still working with them niggers, I would have told them to put their money in someplace they can grow it. And this is just being a bit

that sounds like you're on your investorship. He was not here, one was not here at one. We can't That's what I'm trying to tell the girls them, Tell these men that you're gonna put their money in someplace safe and grow it. And I'm telling you they got money stashed at some bitch house or their mama house. They have cash that they can't spend quickly, and if they can just put it somewhere and know that it may grow or have the potential to grow, bitch, do all that

motherfucking little street talk. I'm telling you, I'll do that ship with niggas. Now, Okay, do you think that a lot of this ship in the studio? Look, are you suck dick for the couch? I don't have to suck dick for anything. You have a food job. There was a pod I didn't give aud job. But what I'm telling you is we have a second studio space that we're trying to trying to grow. Did you spit on the meat? No, but I'll tell you what I had

to do ship for that meat. The niggas want to sunk with me, and I told them my ship's already grown in ninety days. I have a second space coming, and I think that you should invest in some of it and just gain a little cash back on it instead of me taking out Why would I work through the government when I could work through you. I'll pay you back in like a year and a half. Equipment. You're gonna let them get the head passed so the cheft can experience the boodio. Let's get onto the home mail.

I hope you guys liked this type of episode many and I made talk about stuff like this on Patreon at some of the But trick, no, let the nigga trick on you. What are you talking about? Trick on these calling them my tricks and just use the word free. Get tricks on stocks, drop ship futures, reinvesting it into your business, all of it. Home mail hole confession. Here we go, let's go. Not real crazy, but kind of hoey. I love how short this is. I love it. I

recently learned about grinders. Y'all. Being in the South, homosexuality is frowned upon. Well, last weekend I went to a guy's house to funk. We started on the couch and ended up in the shower. Lots of fun, but quite enough. So I drove back into my town and found another one. He wasn't able to host, so we met at a gas station and we messed around in the back seat, just kept using grinder. He seemed super nervous and I

had trouble standing up, so we just quit. I had home for the night, kind of disappointed, but the next morning I hit up my regular finally got what I was looking for it, and then I came home and fucked my wife. I mean, well, not nice, but no, we don't condone the d L here. I don't care

about DL. I care about cheating. I well know, well, I the thing about this show, yeah yeah, but if we're speaking of if we're if we are two women who have sat here and wanted to uplift people in their sexual cravings, their sexual endeavors, their partners, and them being their true selves as women. I would like to think we've had enough guests to feel as though you

can do that as a man. And so while you're sitting here saying that you don't condone cheating, I think we've only fairly touched on the d L community and with me, even with the partners that I've dated who have either let me peg them, who have been curious about and aging in sex with trans women or slight engagement with men, my very, very main main point in talking to them was I love how honest you are with me. You should be honest with every other sexual partner that you have. No d L men a lot

of it. We shouldn't get into this hot We don't have to, but you know, but I get that it's not easy. But to me, if you can be your full self with somebody, period, you should be able to let someone else know that you're engaging in sex with that this is what you're into, this is what you like the things that you do, period. So here's what I was gonna say. I was gonna say, crazy ass hotel that you shared with that confessional. We appreciate you for sharing it. We do. The cheating is what I

don't like about it. The thing he said, I don't know what southern town he lives in. Her homosexuality is brown upon So I understand why you can't necessarily come out, but I would semi start by sharing slight fantasies with your wife, seeing how she feels about videos and stuff like that, only because maybe you won't have to cheat and lie if she's she's like, wheez your eye Like that's the thing that I will say, Yes, women in general, I won't even make this a black women thing. Women

in general are just as homophobic as men are. However, there are there's a huge community of women. I've met them, I'm friends with them. We've had a podcast for four years where we have different women who have come on and been like, it doesn't bother them. They just want their partner to be a upfront and honest and honestly if a woman will leave you for you being your true selves as people, we need to be okay with

someone just not being for us. That's the problem. Whether like I've had male partners that didn't like me being bisexual, or fearing that every time I was hanging with a homegirl was probably having sex with them. I've had men intimidated by that, but I've let them know up front, well, this is who I am. If that's not what you like, then maybe we shouldn't funk with each other. And so I think that men need to allow that same grace.

If you feel like a woman is not going to fully accept you and who you are, that woman is just not for you. But there are women out there who is who are accepting of that. It's difficult because I think that once you get to the point where you're married to someone, you have no idea what to do. They said they married has to happen because you're only gonna want to But not only that. If if and I don't know what the prenup is, I don't know what y'all uh, you know what what type of arrangements

y'all made. But if you're out here fucking with with with with with other men, I don't know what the stipulations of divorce would be. But there is something aware if you went against the vows, she could rape yours as far as economically and in firms in terms of taking the money that you've built up in in in your job and everything else. Like I will say, there is an unfair treatment and divorce and child support and all these other things we've talked about in terms of

it being on the woman's side. So whether you're being unfaithful with a man or woman, you're being unfaithful to your partner and that will probably lead them to be more spif there there's a way, there's that too. Aside from hotels, you can check us out on Patreon and

get for a bonus episode. You just said any more advice, Well, yeah, it got a little deep, but I will say I will say before we wrap up this episode, anyone listening to this podcast now, if for whatever reason, you feel as though the person you are engaging in sex with, the person you're in a relationship with, the person who you're pursuing, will not fully accept you for who you are, it is okay with knowing that that may not be

the person for you. And I'm just I'm just frustrated in this dating pool of us trying to change ourselves to get into relationships and have have someone accept us for the people that we truly aren't. And if we're dating and trying to find someone that is our soul mate, our partners, someone that we can grow and build with.

You need to show your full self to them as early as possible to not waste your time, not waste their time, and also allow that person to choose if you are the person for them, and it's okay for that person not to be for you. We need to be We need to be cognizant in the fact that who we may want may not be for us, and

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So that's every Monday. They're very short, anywhere from twenty to forty five minutes. And then you can also catch me every Tuesday on See the Thing Is with my co host Bridget Kelly. That is on the Joe Button Network. And from time to time we have our friends with benefits join us on the couch. So check that out on YouTube, Apple Podcasts and uh SoundCloud. By tonight watch Sex Get You Refused, and also again stay tuned for a five minute bonus clip for our bonus Patreon content.

If you like what you here, going over to patreon dot com backslash Horrible Bowl Decisions. All right, by guys, this has been another episode of Hormon Decisions. It's bonus bitches. Hi guys, we are here for another bonus episode of Horrible Decisions, and I am here with two people that you, guys, are already familiar with. So I am here with Shade and Chelsea from the Black Girls texting podcast. Hey guys, sweaty girl, go ahead, go ahead and tell on me.

Go ahead and tell them that I made y'all record this at eight thirty in the morning on a Friday, Daring Memorial Day weekend, on a Friday, a word Day week and she proceeded to purchase us round. I'll take just one round. I won't say round, the round of shots last night, and then I went out and had more drinks. So that's who you need to blame, is the guy. It is the guys. So, guys, um, this is of course a bonus episode, and we really wanted

to share with you. Guys are experienced because I did bring these two ladies um to the sex club for the first time. So for any of you who have just wondered what someone's first experience was like at a sex club, I know we normally bring the freaks on and while these bitches be talking like they are and

they're there baby towing their ways there. But before we start, I know a lot of you guys have seen what's been going on with the other network that I'm a part of um, with everything that's happened with my other podcasting.

The thing is, and the crazy part is, I'm not gonna sit here and talk about it like you think I am, Um, but with with what happened and what was said and what was um what transpired as far as how people felt, and then of course the titles and labels of sexual harassment, sexual assault, assault, and also simply being uncomfortable. Those were a lot of conversations that were being had, and I know that we talked about those things a lot as well. Um. But what's crazy

is the very weak that that happened. Our episode with Black Girls texting dropped, and immediately my heart kind of went to it just sank as I started reading everyone's comments regarding it being a workplace you can't say certain things to certain people. My defense also to why I

wasn't uncomfortable is because I had buil up overpport. I've known Joe for over ten years, so I'm hearing I'm seeing all these think pieces on what happened, and drunk as funk, I did hit you drunk, Chelsea, but I I hit Chelsea up and I said, hey, when you came onto horrible decisions, I didn't make you uncomfortable, did I?

And I said that because if you go and listen back to the episode, I was clearly flirting with Chelsea and also said multiple times I wanted to funk you when I saw you, you'll be playing I've been trying to fuck you. Those are the things that I said to Chelsea, which is what has Joe and hot boiling water. And what's crazy about that is, Chelsea, you told me you were not uncomfortable with my by my advances. However,

we don't have that strong rapport. I met you about three years ago, but I think I've seen you more in the last month that I have our entire lives. Yeah, it's such like a gray area, especially like in the world of podcast messing, right, because it's not like a corporate setting. Um, and like you know, people are very like loosey goosey, you're talking. I mean, you can talk about sex on horrible decisions, so I wouldn't go on. They're not expecting to talk about sex if that okay.

So that is what people were saying, and it made

me so uncomfortable. So a lot of people that I spoke to was like, yeah, we'll see the thing is isn't Horrible Decisions, And so people were like, when you go on Horrible Decisions, you would expect that type of stuff, And it immediately made me uncomfortable because I shot back and was like, Horrible Decisions is still not a space that I created to make people uncomfortable or to sexually assault them and for them to feel like they have to endure that type of behavior from Wheezy or Eye.

So when that was the response, I was like, Na, potting is potting. But I hated that people thought that, Well, if that was said on a Horrible Decisions, I think it would have just been fine, because you know, they know what they're signing up when they go over there, And I'm like, no, And that's why I hit you because I was like, if if Chelsea was uncomfortable with my advances just because of my show, that doesn't mean she signed up to be sexually harassed, you know what

I mean? Yeah? And I didn't mean like Horrible Decisions you signed to get sexually harassed. I mean more like it's a podcast and it's not necessarily