Ep 210: Swinging While Black (Ft. Tribe Chat)

no not. You know, we actually prefer African American vernacular. You know what's crazy? What I was like, but the new acronym to sound, I'd be like, first of all, I'm a BIPOC, talk about it. I really think BIPOC just it's just too much indigenous, which I don't know if I'm Cherokee, but it's coontaginous people brought over here, not necessarily, don't girl. That's a story for a fucking

serious ship. I think they're I think they're on bipox to y'all, we're not sure because we don't know the origins. But once we do a spit test, well, if I figure out who the tribe chat is, we have some special guests here, um O, Mari and Pegasus from Tribe Chat, and they've we're supposed to be on the show for a long time. I think you were. I don't know if you knew peg I didn't know, but I'm look, I'm a whole ship show. So yeah. By the way, people who are on audio and listening to this via audio,

please go on YouTube so you can see Peggy pegistus. Sorry, because you are the type of vision. When I'm walking out show, I'm like, she looks funnest, but like, are you listen? I'm I'm a lot of ship. What do you think if you're subscribed to our audio, subscribe to our YouTube? Yea, what do you do? Well? Actually, um by trade, I am in here stylish. I was gonna get that if you would have gave me just one guest. Don't get that. I was gonna say music or makeup.

Now well you know, makeup would have been my second guest. Listen. I wanted to be a mermaid growing up, so I style this is the closest thing I can get to it in real you know, and practice being a mermaid and ship like yo, you fell for that ship. Listen, you don't feel out for it. But you do practice in the tub by yourself. Do you gotta hold your breath on the wall, and then you gotta learn how to How does the mermaid sing mandy? Huh? That's bottom

mermaids do watch the lower bottom half. You have to be a mermaid to find out where to stick your stick. Got mermaid porn? Wait, it's like a white woman fantasy. But where do you Where does the dicks go in your mouth? That's it? They only do oral things. They probably scissor. Let me look, all right, where would the go? Actually, I'm about to say that's some real lock right now, mermaide porn. Let me see where y'all think it goes. I mean, technically, have you ever seen a dolphin? Oh?

They look like avatars. It's like you don't see the scales anymore. It's just like blue pussy. But most of us just dolphins is cool because they like us. They be having orgies and ship they do have and they rape they have ye? Wait, menates and dolphins be rapists, yes, and they will suck around. Dolphins are some sentence to motherfucker's. They will working around and rape a porpoise, which is

like a smaller dolphin and they eat it. You know what you wait, you know what I don't like now though, If we're gonna talk about dolphins raping, how can they be rapists and life savers? They saved me. Listen, they out here saving lives and rape is not cool by the most absolutely feel what's crazy is. I don't really know if y'all saw, but chop Now. I grew up in Orlandos Fall seven chopl City, went to Sea World. Them dick penises be big and long as it is

literally the size of like two foot long penises. Bro like them things be that from the Museum of Sex. And they have three dolphins on top of each other. And I learned it from Sea World. Bitch. They was fucking in that aquarium. But they didn't teach us. Look look at me. It's not expedition exception. You know. In a Florida public school, as you know, they don't teach science to Mandy. But they did say science to Mandy. That's it. We want to her. But you skipped or something.

This is what we're doing. What were you doing in science class? Biology? Biology? I didn't like because in my ninth grade they did make us start cutting up animals and ship and I didn't like that. But my lowest grade, ironically in school was chemistry. I got it. What do you mean ironically? It's not? First off, I was a top tier fucking student. I graduated a p top of my class. You know you're at my graduation, don't remember? And chemistry I thought was gonna be the deal then.

But I do think you forgot some forgot No, I just volunded everything. I question every all. Ma'am. You told me a few days ago that someone in your life is a flat earther, and you said, I just love his perspective. Why did you lie? Nigger? What? What is? The figured out that the earth is around for a long time? But you know what you want to know? Here? Here's the ship right The ship is. The ship is all of even those like pictures of space. Like y'all

thought we leaned on the moon. We didn't didn't exactly, So how do y'all know this is even true? Like niggasn't? Even The earth is round, beca is everything is around? Life is run right here? If you can, I feel I can't do this right now, let's not Let's talk about sucking dick and licking, but no, they want to round. It feels the best when you go in the circle.

In the circle. Remember that song that was about first off, y'all just did the whitest version of throw that as the circles that you're not chill, throw that in the circle. You know what I mean? Certain songs? What circle song? Where you know? This tri chat chat right now in the circle? Ye ask anybody beside you and they got anything in Spanish about circles? What they call a circle and circle circle? Putting on the spot here do they have what circle? In Spanish? Yeah, we have circles. You

don't think we have circles Spanish? Say, I'm a want to say, wait, spattle got smart? Look at that girl ciculo culo like sure that's French, which is closed? Just feel we're just supposed to watch Spanish French all this ship is please Anyway, I thought we have a show about sexy guys. My bad if you've never heard it before, But we really have some a D ship right now.

This is just my favorite type of chat. So let's get into some vanilla ship, which our segment about sex and the news, this one I love Rudy Giuliani's daughter Caroline graphically details why she loves threesome she must really hate her father's politics, and a piece for Vanity's Affair titled a Unicorn's Tale three way sex with couples has made me a better person. His daughter says, I want

to watch my boyfriend bend you over. The thirty two year old daughter of her of Rudy Giuliani says, I had known for a long time that I was bisexual, but I barely explored that side of my sexuality. I knew I wanted new dynamics. And she's on a dating site called Unicorns, where women who agree to have sex with couples get on there, and she says one woman I chatted with mentioned she was looking for someone to

have her dominated but be submissive to her boyfriend. And I am typically more sexually submissive, but as I was texting with them, it turned into this authoritative sexual persona. Let me tell y'all something she is. She's a white woman, do you think she is? Damn? Yeah? Well, I want to talk about unicorns because I felt like it made sense for you guys. So Tribe Chat is about what that's the name of your podcast? So do you guys start with a swing club? How did you guys know

each other? We started with this week. Actually, um I met him through my cousin who we started the group with. She since dropped off and we've we've been rocking out of his song on your lifestyle. Swinger group is a family affair? Is now that's white listen? No, no, no no, it's not white people. Ship. I'm gonna just tell you something, us folks do not always talk about the things that are hereditary. It's a lot of ships whole hereditary. There.

You got me and Pegginsters had a friend that back in the day when we originally was in a group, her and her daughter was in a group together exactly exactly, and it was all black listen, And we then't had a group member who was married in our group who put pictures of his cousin who he's also first cousin. Wait, yeah, we was gonna come on here and talk about all man is a sex and prehism and all of that. Ship.

Let's get back to the mother. And so they joined in a lot of porns, that's like, and it's a were they playing together. They were playing together. But it's enough to see your mothers sucking dick or watch your daughters. They were at the same parties, they weren't in the same word. One was an organizer, and it's like the daughter was like you know what I mean, like you have a group with the mom, the organizer figure, like

you know, it's a mom thing to do. It's not well, I mean, it depends on how you look at it. If this is just your release and there's no taboo attached to it, then how old were they are they? Oh sorry, they're alive. Yeah, you know, like how old were they at the time? Um, we still talk to the mom to this day. Yeah, so like a couple of days ago. It's the daughter like eight twenty like that. Not the daughter is, I believe, like nine and mom is close to fifty, which is about I was about

to say that. I wasn't gonna that's like between I still do not want to see my mar I don't want it. I don't want to see it either. I listened to it because my mother shot the funk out. That's y. You know. My mother is eighty two and she got some ship, she got some stuff to tell you. And my other sisters don't necessarily like to listen to it, but she's a woman and I have to. It has to be discovered by me. Where the came. I feel really bad because I was like, how do you guys

know each other? And all I heard was mom and daughter at the sex time. Let me if I can get back to that, all right. So when she was talking about this as a cousin that she had, we talked about this on the our show, which we also shoot right here, and what the studios? All right, come on, give me a little advertising? Yes, what the studios? Just games family here. But we did meet on Instagram. I

spoke to her. There was a group and she said, listen, you could come on board because I have some experience in our life style with another group, which is where I got the name Omri to Rebel. And she was like, yo, um, we could use a little help change in the direction. But then she had other things she was dealing with it, so she's said, um, hey, I'm gonna turn it over

to y'all. And then that was in nineteen. So there's a couple of things that I was like, all right, I think we should do this and such, and we got here. We together. It's psycho. Um, we we have different jobs. Um, I am purely ambiance and excitement and wow pow. That's who I am. What you're trying to say, not no, no, no, that's not what because I say what I am, don't say what i'm the advertising. Here's the here's the analogy that I use all the time. Me and my wife we joke about it because she's

on the team too. It's like, yo, we're like the Avengers of swinger Clubs. Right, she is like Captain America. You see how like Captain America has powers and such. It's the shield, just like like here, everybody loves Captain America. You can see that visual symbol. Me, I'm like the iron Man of the group. Like not as beloved. I'm beloved, but like when it comes to all of the nerds ship, I have to do it. If everybody needs new weapons or new armor and stuff, I have to like condoms,

like what do you need? It is like just like I mean I do a lot of the like the boring stuff, you know what I'm saying. Like you make the flyers, organizes the fliers and say we need you don't even make the flyer, you just organized like that's Mandy when we first started our show, saying you're like you were more like the organizer. You were able to make our sheets. You're able to schedule stuff for us

like email. Now it has to be done. You know what I'm saying, Like somebody is like, you know this because I got a corporate background. You know, when I first came on board, I was actually working in a caution to which also is where where I met my wife and um, I was working on the administrative side. I got a real strong pack win and sales. So I know as far as what it sound like, you used to work in a call center. Let's practice. I don't know what's going on, but it says no sim

my phone is fucked. I'm sorry, man, So listen. What we need to do is we need to direct you to our technical department. Do you have any other question now? But that youth have answered everything. Also, we're gonna get some dick Tonite at Missourikabala's party, which is going on on March. Go ahead, so you guys start a tribe chat. What's your podcast about sex, sex and and exploration of sex? Do you bring people from the club in there and

they'll come sometimes like it, they'll call in um. But we we actually want to dispel all of the myths and the negativities around this lifestyle. So that's why we have the podcast so we can be able to say you can have Q and A with people. Because people come in with if you're not a swinger already, for the most part, they come in with a preconceived notion, you know, like like like somebody has has ordained them,

you know, I know everything. So we we have a conversation to kind of answer the question is the popular question is and they're not so popular question. If I could describe it, yo, trap chat is a lot like horrible decisions, will make you laugh, will make you think, and we'll make you come. You see. What we do is yeah, not for real. So what it is is it comes down to commentary on sex and relationships from

a very black, like black andy black perspective. Because there's also a lot of podcasts, a lot of lifestyle podcasts. When people are in because you know how podcasting is developed and ship, there's a lot of other people who do what we do and we're friends with them and such, you know, and even in the context of what we do like, even in the context of the fact that we're talking about sex and an alternative lifestyle, we're still

even edgy in comparison to them. And like, because I'll be doing ship like you know, I'll be talking and I'd be like, yeah, his podcast and ship like fun. But I do want to talk some right now. Yeah, See, you guys are friends yet sex we have plenty of, like I mean, because is the Swingers group. I mean, that's that's not something we do want to rag. But does it feel weird now to funk now that you guys are involved in this podcast? I mean, we don't do it anymore, but you know, do you feel like

you could still funk while running a business together? Yeah? Really, Harry, I'm just gonna say this, this is my release. I am not emotionally detached, but that love element, that jealousy, I don't deal with that. I don't deal with that in this because I understand what it's for is for release.

I'm here to bring joy and and and fun. And should I just say that I love that you bring that up because a lot of I guess thoughts around how women engage in sex and wee thin and I have had this kind of back and forth for quite some time, as far as a lot of people just believe that women tie emotions to section that there can't be a disconnect. So I guess I want to ask

you at what age was there early on? Was it as you got older, did you really lies you were able to disconnect emotions and sex and use it as a release. Well, I've always known, but Um, growing up, I was a people pleasing. My mom was the one person that I'm wanting to please, UM saying understanding that this was not something that we talked about. My sexual proclivities and desires was not something that I brought to her,

So it was always pushed to the backside. And and and being a girl the way we're raised, you know, um pious and keep it until you get married. She never taught me that, but that was what the world did, so I tried to conform to it. I think I've always known, Um, even in the space where I got cheated on, I was never really angry because I understood that ship. I get how you could do that because

I remember when I had did it to you. And Okay, I understand I'm just telling you that, but I understand how you got that way, so can we move forward? Usually it doesn't work that way. Um, but I've always been able to comp I like men, yeah, because stuff doesn't get not with me, it doesn't get cross. You know, you understand what you do. Let me just explain this to you. I I go to a lot of parties, and my name usually precedes me, especially around or your area. Wow,

they see me coming up the steps. But no woman in a couple usually has a problem with interacting with me because you know, I'm not trying to take your man out your house. I'm not trying to see him after that. I'm not even trying to see you after that unless we're at another event. It is very specific, very swinger is very specific. Like one of the things like I wanted to weigh in on, like you know,

sexual life and stuff like this. One thing is that even like when I listen to the horrible decisions, it's like we always have to listen to the area. It's like when we say vanilla, Like when we're talking about vanilla's just like everybody isn't like having We have different levels of how we have sex. Of course I'm having sex and my wife this Enemcy did, and then it's like somebody that I'm friends with and such, like we even having like we're having sex with like our business

rivals and ship you know what I'm saying. Like there's a lot of sex. Yes, Like there's other people who do what we do like this, there's you know what I mean, they come to your parties to do what scout well whatever they're doing, but they come in the fucking suck and take that. Now we're we're friends with the quote unquote rival pot. I'm trying to think, who do I want to have sex with? The lip Service Stephanie. It's so weird because I don't feel like that. I mean,

people compare pod the word rivals just trivial. I'm just talking to it, but like people will always compare you to something, and I think people compare us to lip Service because cocktails too, but like lip Service when we first came out, I feel like it's what people talked

about a lot. And um, honestly, I love all the black sex pods that we have all right now, and they're all very different, and I'm so grateful that we've been able to work with all of them because there's just no point not to you know what I'm saying, like if there's another black swinger group, like, how can we not fucking connect? This is what this is and that is the whole thing with us. So, like you said, rival is a trivial word because we're not all doing

the same thing. Every group is like geared towards something different. So there's really no rivalry. It's really not. It's just that they don't belong, you know, us, and we go over there. But you know what the white people do that ship. There's a bunch of white sex club, white sex groups, lifestyle ship and they always be connected. They

put niggas against each other. Anyway, let me get to some really important ship are Black Sexcellence, which our We have two segments that got named by people that listen to the show. Horre Dirt for one was by I think La Tasha right okay or that episode and Black Sexcellence by Omari so Lori. Lightfoot is who we're covering today, a former prosecutor with no experience and elected off is.

She has swept all fifty of Chicago's wards award in the two thousand nineteen mayor runoff election after promising to end the city's um back room dealing. She is the first ever black female mayor and the first ever lgbt Q plus mayor. Um. Yeah, I think that's dope people talk about Lorie. I ain't gonna lie. I barely know our mayor, so I'll just be trying to keep tracking where the funk I'm at. But I've definitely heard about

Lorial politics. Huh. Apparently I'm bad with everything. Well, I know I've heard of Loria just because she's a black woman mayor. But thank you. I try to keep up, you know what I mean. Like I was talking on our show last week about Cuomo, and you heard about Cuomo, right, Yeah, with the sexual harassment with the nursing home ship. I think it was six thousand, three hundred people they said that died, and it was really fifteen thousand people in

nursing homes had died. Um. They were like covering that up. But they're saying it was his aids and not him, and he had the kids that was not consented to that ship. Yeah. You know what happens is how we get involved. How I get involved in politics. Yeah, Like how I get involved in this is because like there's the intersectionality of how things relate to stuff like, for example, I'm also a biopocket as member have a background in

the adult film industry, you know what I mean? And like how certain things factor into things like legislation Sesster Forster, how that affects everybody. You know, that affects if you just think about um, if you just think about your social media. What we're trying to get across is whether you sex worker or not, the censorship is gonna affect

everybody who gets shadow banded and such like this. So this is not just what we want to do, is when from the political space, I want everybody to understand it's not so much an attack on sex workers, it's an attack on liberty and free speech, because this is going to seep into how everybody gets to freely express themselves and be whole. They off, We're all gonna do, like do you heard about what the funk it in ut hole? There's yo, We're gonna talk about this on

our show. The filter. There's a filter that that a politician passed a woman. She didn't even have any experience in politics. She's thought her off as a real to and they passed this so that you can now they can they're requiring the servance of filter porn in that state. So that's like the first step what we can see, what you can get. I can have eight fucking wives, but I can't watch porn. Have you seen the Wives?

Did you? Did you know that in Utah for sister wives? Right, it's illegal, but the fine or whatever, what heck, what can happen to you is lower than a traffic ticket if you get caught like having more than one wife. I just think that's interesting because I think there's there's still just a separation between church church in the state, and I think that that's the thing with Utah is that a lot of them follow their religious beliefs, and so even even if they go about that way of life,

they don't. I don't think everyone is on paper, and I think we talked about this a couple of weeks ago, but they're not that you can not on paper, you can't. I did an episode on for facts sake. What's the funk was it about? I can't remember, but we talked about that, and when in that conversation it was like, it isn't legal to do, but apparently you can just go up there and be like I'm married to this person, this person, this person, so they could take your name right.

Nobody's really checking all these documents, and if you get caught, it's like a traffic ticket. And you know why, because it's white people doing it and they saving their friends. And not that I don't want people to have eight wives. I'm just saying what I'm saying. Anyway, folks, let people do not to get too deep, but I do want to talk about Sensta Foster for a second because I really didn't understand. Shout out to Lisa Spliffs in um Carmen Life or I think Herman Knife is also her name,

Madam Nambio. She's a dumb that told me because I didn't really understand Sesta Fasta too much. I thought it was supposed to it was made to quote unquote help people and sex workers and help save human trafficking, but

really what it's done is the complete opposite. And a lot of people, especially Democrats, were voting for it because they thought it would help save people, and really what it's done is removed so many websites cross referencing um uh websites you can do for like escorting or whatever. And now about this in depth, with if you guys want to go to the Raquel Savage episode, we talked

about them in depth there. Uh, I think we've talked about We've talked about this in depth with quite a quite of the sex I mean you brought it back up because I hadn't really heard much about it. I just know some people have fought for sus to false and then I kind of didn't hear ship. But since that episode, like within the last six months to a year, it is literally taken women to street walking and put

them in like way more jeopardy. And what's ironic is they did that to stop human trafficking, like removing it from online when now being in person and being on the street and has really made women disappeared. So it's crazy how like we thought this whole time, we were voting for advocacy, voting voting for a all right, So with like organizations like bipoc a i C. Also, there is a union dedicated to protecting sex workers. You can talk to about a p a UM union. A lot

a lot of events actually runs this organization. If you have your only fans taken down or if you get shadow been on Instagram, you can actually talk to a lot of events about that. But legislation needs to look more like getting the law on the side of these women because things should be different. A sex workers shouldn't have to be afraid to report if she gets assaulted

or such. She should be entitled to getting. When I say sex workers, their strippers are actually considered independent contractors, so they get no benefits. They get no they get nothing that everybody who works on nine of five is entitled. They need to be included in the labor conversation. They are contributing members to this because only fans they charge your taxes. So sex workers pay into the economy, but they get no representation and a lot of what they

do get criminalized. So we need the lord to be on the side of them so that they don't get exploited, they don't get taking advantage of, so that they deserve to have a safe working place where they get compensated just like everybody else. And their wages are already taking by the website on top of the taxes and right exactly not to mention porn in sex work is such a major major contributor to the economy, how do you

criminalize it? So so so ferociously, the same way that marijuana look exactly and that and now it's all of the benefits in the world and oh it's so great. People, but they're white people blaze the trails, just like how we talking about exactly why they had to do the millions Only Fans. Now, if you guys don't know who bella Thorn is, she basically made an only fans and people were very angry about it. You can watch the

Only Fans documentary on Hulu. They're not paying us to say that, but seriously, I learned a laugh from that because in that documentary. In that documentary, um they talk about how she basically went on a million people joined or she made a million the first day and then said, oh, by the way, I'm not getting naked, and a lot of sex workers were very angry. Rose did the same thing. Well, no, did she lie. She literally was reposting her Instagram pictures.

She made it seem like it was nude. She put a thing over it. It was a brawl. She was wearing and panties. She was not nude on there the whole time. And she did the same thing with her father. I mean at Lease Cardi b was like I'm not gonna show my pussy. But with Bella Thorne, people felt like it was very true. I changed the pay scale of how sex workers are. Sorry only fans, um I would say. The problem with that is so not the

problem with that is she got on only fans. The same with Ruby Rose, the same with all of these celebrities. They make an only fans account, and because of the stigma now attached to only fans, you automatically think that you're going on to only fans to see fucking, sucking or naked someone being naked. So just because and I don't want to put blame on her, because if she falsely advertised, hey I'm gonna be sucking dick or hey you could see my vagina on only fans, I would

get it. But the problem is she made an only fans that carried the stigma, specifically last year in the in the pandemic that people were going on there to make money, but they were selling their bodies, they were selling sex. And so she went on there, which we know was actually a platform that was similar to Patreon, where y'all go ahead and join our patreon Patreon dot combat last horrible decisions, but you know what I mean.

But but but the problem is that because of the stigma it carried, people were like, oh my god, sex workers are were upset that she made that money? Where also because they automatically assumed But the pay skill is a big thing though, because when you have celebrities pillage of fucking platform. You know what I'm saying, That is the real problem. Like if I was getting paid a certain way and now I can't even have my earnings because of an influx or whatever, like, that's fucked up.

It's the same Robin hood shipped with stocks. You know what I'm saying. You get these motherfucker's do it, but when little man get into it, no like But anyway, I say all that to say, bellow Thorne. I actually liked her. I thought she was fun. She's kind of started to annoy me. And today I just heard her new song. I just want you guys to hear it. Okay, sure, is she not an actor? I don't be knowing about

white people. That's really shaking. That's not like some she would love like you would probably clean your would probably love that like some weazy ship. Right Is it really yeah? That that you know what that goes back to what she was saying about price gouging and you know, getting the value of things taken down that was horrible used to famous. They just keep trying to make you famous, right Like people are like, um, I think I told you the other day. Charlottage was like, you and Mandy

need to do a book. And I was like, really, I feel like y'all gonna say we need a perfume next or a candle like they're watching and listen. That was the first thing I asked. I was like, was it who decision? But I am currently writing a book. I'm going to throw that out there. I don't know when it's gonna drop pobic It's probably gonna have to come out after our hard deal. But I am currently working on the Congress. But people do try to get

you to like to do everything. And I think someone gassed that bitch up on like Bella, you ain't showing your pussy, so you might as well be a rapper. And she was like, okay, watching move watch watch watch me. You know what's crazy though, that was one of my it's in my bucket list. Um. I've always said I wanted to be a one hit wonder and so I'm not an artist won just like you want to be a rapper. No, I don't want it, don't be tiny for the party, and I don't even want to release

that hit until outside of the open. So just just one, that's it, Like Cassie, that's it. I want to track. That's actually a great way to look at that. It could I got someone, I got someone better. I want to be Lumini. Yes, that's who I want to be. Yes? Did she die someone from Ninas skuy? Why do you wanted to kill people? Everything? Bro? Someone died from back then or not? She had people died. The problem is

that she wants to kill everyone off alive. And then we was on I don't remember what we was recording,

but this bitch was talking about. Yeah you saw Muhammad Ali was out here saying he didn't Mohammed Wait I said, Muhammed Ali was saying what weezy he just had a new documentary or what he was talking about how he doesn't like how today it's like that Mohammed Ali back to life, but want to kill all this is this is a people look alike apparently, But like Mike Tyson, I'll lead us what we're doing for real, which one of them died? Are you dead? Because that was really

gonna about me. It wasn't movie. It wasn't the checks for Nina's guy who died. Man, we don't just be trying to kill back doing one that had the interview with lu Busy last month. Wasn't that one? Wait? Who did that? Thinking of which R and B singer didn't I think maybe it was one of them from Nina's Guy. We have an awful scream anyway, God damn don't we don't. We don't get facts checked while we pot and edding

trying to do. First of all, maybe that's racist just because you think he's gonna work harder like this is. He's Not's not so funny. They're shaking okay, okay, okay, that's bringing him back to this one was dead, That's what it is. Didn't have to search this up or dirt for this week. I wanted to know if you guys don't have a stand. Actually, that's what happened to when motherfucker we do the outline. Just now getting to the word dirt, Well, we have someone that's eloquent and

articulate about politics and sex. I think that's done. Okay, you know what I'm saying. Bit you look like you're about to come in here and say this, how is an ask here you are? I might that's what you're gonna get to. Give us a tip for that, give us your hoard dirt for that, if you could a great pegging tip. Well, um, a great pegging tip. Um, it depends on Well, if it's the first timer, Okay,

you want, I typically start with them on their back. Um, yeah, you start with them on the back exactly, make them, make them comfortable, eye contact and all of that eye contact. Oh that's your tip for Peggy. Why does eye contact make them comfortable? Why does eye contact make them comfortable? Because now it's a connection. Um, it's it's not a det catch. That is a something especially for um, a man,

a new experience. It's a very intimate something. Not that anybody didn't think that, but it's a lot more intimate than you would think. And they're experiencing and allowing of vulnerability not often seen every day. So when you connect with them, it makes it a lot easier, um, for relaxation purposes as well. You know, to to to to actually get in that thing is there a stigma you may wanna tell our listeners about that Peggan like dispelling. Well, Um, what I definitely want to say is that if a

man wants to be pegg does not automatically make him homosexual. Um. It is a scientifically known fact that the man's prostate. You reach that through the anus type of science. I believe y'all to say, you know, I believe your body is going to react anyway. It's it's like, um, if you ever go to fertility clinic, if you're not able to perform him, is something called milking. That's what they do. They massage the prostate and you're gonna calm whether you

don't like getting It's called milking. They're going to massage your prostate to to expel the ce. Not like here, but like here in the spot. Right, Yeah, do you know what you say that you haven't been coming? Wait, wait, hey, hey, hey, I got a question. Let's let's ask the guests. We're not going to direct things about his as silence. Yeah, No, he just told us last week he wasn't coming like that.

Maybe you should try to get milks. Next question, right, No, you just seemed confident when you said yes, that's the g spot in the ass. No, never never been. You know, something that I've been interested in such you know, I want to make sure that I create the space or that everybody can do what they want to do and be comfortable and such. You know what I mean. But No, that's not something that ever appealed to. Is this something that has happened at one of your swinger parties? Well,

it's hard to say, because it's hard to say. I mean, especially on the pre COVID days, it's really difficult to say because there's so many people and ship like that. The only thing I know is that everything was safe in his condoms everywhere and such like that. But like, Yo, there's a time with I was in a room and

East Flatbush. I couldn't really see so much. The only thing I know is that I was there, She was there, and she was there, my wife was there, and there was twenty other people and all you heard was that type of ship. I couldn't really see much off. Well, I want to ask you, um, just and this could possibly be another tip. Uh, if we're gonna be on the pegging topic, do you put condoms on your trap? And and is that with just your one partner because

you use it with other partners. But what would you say, it's a It's just you should definitely UM with any sex toy that you're using in sex. But you should always unless it's with your your partner, you should always wrap them up always. They're usually the materials on the softer toys are a little poors. So even with cleaning you yeah, so you always want to use UM. You always want to use condoms. And it also it also fosters a good, you know, relationship between like you understand

that this is what this is what I expect. Even if peggan is not the only thing UM that you do. If sometimes you have insecols with those people that you peg because it's just an experience for them for the first time. Sometimes speaking of UM sex, I have two questions I want to ask each of y'all. All right, is it the same? No UM One? When I first met Wheezy When I walked in here, I said, Hey, how are you doing? We was talking about Wheezies pregnancy

tests in Mexico and ship right now in Mexico? Right was like, what did I tell him? Now? Remember? I remember I asked them about Mandy, so you guys are monogamous. No, I mean me and we go to sex clubs, so like relationships right now? So yeah, but I'm not we're swingers. But I mean we really only played together. That's what I was going to ask. If you played together? Who is played together? Many? Yo? What if I happened to

like yo some throwback ship? What if I happened to Mr Salt and Pepper Yo, y'all remember when Mandy had a dude on Yo? He had a Salt and Pepper bid and she used to be like, he sent me videos and him smoking the black and ball and I think that should have sexy? Is that the voice? Oh you want to know what? You want to know? Who was crazy? I actually, uh no, he was one of the guys. I think I shared this on UM maybe

on Patreon. Uh, we're just friends. Uh, he's married, but I wanted him to join me and my boyfriend, and my boyfriend is just like nah because he's a ballplayer, so he don't want no other ballplayer in the room with us. I can't. Yeah, I like and me feeling like, yeah,

your girl don't. But we did actually have that conversation too, because I brought it up like when we go to the sex club, there's another guy that's there and I'm just like, you know, uh I do if I get my m M F three from the where I wanted, I want to six eight. Motherfucker's pounding me. I don't want a five nine and a six like I just want to. I need. I need like motherfucking the twins, like you know when people like going down the stairs

in a video. One thing that I want to know onto you, this is something I already didn't ask the question of peace. We got to get into our home, and this is something I really wanted to know. This Wheezy talks about all the time. I ate cream pies. Yo, can you explain that? Na Man, Well, she's pregnant now, so some of them probably stayed in there. This is you need to be back with me. I'm just kidding. Yeah. It was when I was in the trouble my my

ex girlfriend. He was a relationship with the three um man, it was so great. But they both like laugh about this moment all the time because they were like, that's when this bitch was like in heaven. So like everybody knows that like BUCOCKI porn, that's my favorite come slutship whatever. I've never done boukocky. I feel like I couldn't do it just because of like my own neuroses. But I'm into watching come so like and I love eating pussy.

So basically, you know whatever, it was a cream pie and I ate it out God, what do you mean to say? Yo? I was just trying to get the time frame, like how often had happened? Like he was like, you ate cream pies out of it? Like that's basically like to me, the sexiest thing of having a threesome.

Like I don't know why, because like I like the second dick, I like waiting for the com to come out, but also like even pussy, so it's just like it felt like real life foreign And then they both would laugh, which I thought was so fucked up, but they just knew it was like my favorite. So let me ask this in the comedy school when you were just dream like, it gives me joking about how like because I would get tired and ship you know what I mean, and they'd be like this B is just waiting for you

know what. Just reminded me. She talked a lot about like Wheezy and Mandy they talked about how weird it was for us to be in a group chat which they had a mother and daughter um membership. But YO, didn't both of y'all have your mother said your show one song? That's not the same thing. That is not the same as a sexy depends on who you ask, that is not the same. If I was getting pounded next to my mom, Yes, that would be a little weird,

I mean. And granted, I don't think this is a king shaming thing because to me, like mother and daughtership is not a king. I don't know, but I don't think that they're thinking of it the king. So I don't want to say that in front of them. I couldn't my mom no way in the same quarters. But I don't know they was both involved. Now, I wouldn't need want my mom to get Wait, like I said, who was it? What did I say said? I don't

know about them playing in the same quotas. Let's just know that they was both involved in trying to They was both involved in the Swingle organization like or not organization. Well, let's talk about our horrible decision for this week. Is you know your tribe and um, I do want to get back to. Every time you're on our Patreon, you join our town halls, you talk about these swinger resorts, tell us about those, because we only know about I mean,

excuse me, or maybe even listeners only know about hedonism. Really, I know there's I know about the ones like in Mexico and and Poconos. Uh, you mentioned one in our Lando tops you can resort in Orlando. Um. One of the people that actually helped in Zouri Cabala, friend of mine. Um, it's just open. One of the people that actually worked with she's a friend of mine. Her name is Bree.

She used to stay down there. It just launched. It opened. Also, it's a big scene down there because there's a publication, like I mentioned on my show called a s N Lifestyle magazine. That's where you would lead, that's where you would read about organizations, events and things like that. It's located there, and they actually having an award show that's coming up, and where they're going to have the award show would be in Florida, but they just recently opened up.

They have that there. But um, but like many even just said Poconos, I didn't know about any in the country. I thought they were like the Love Resort. I forgot what was the name of it? Me and my wife was looking at all right, But why because I feel like whenever I hear about them, they're always like in Mexico, Jamaica, somewhere else. How why aren't there more? Like are these

places legal? There are a lot of them. I'm sorry, but you know, sex is so America is one of the most bitch ass countries when it comes to what you can do and what you can't do, and what they do that they tell you not to do. So they're not It's not a few of them. There are a whole lot of them. But it's mom's the word, you know what I mean. Like we had guests who um when they got into a little bit of controversy over on the past couple of months from Naughty Nights.

They have a resort which is based on New Orleans's out there. They have a little parade and ship like once a year and ship. Um they got like a Marty Gard parade. Yes, when you see this, like you cities is out during Marty Guard. Anyway, it's just like the size of this room, It's like they really do that. No, no, I'm just saying that just says, no, I know what's over sare feet and ship. That's interesting that it's so what it's legal to be in a sex resort, So

let's talk about that. You guys know about the galities. I think that's interesting too. I do not know all of the particulars of the legalities, but what I can say this is this is key. Do not pay for six you could present. So I was gonna say, let me help you out. People always wonder finished we just talked about this on the Patroon. Well, I know she was saying I don't know the legalities. I was gonna say, I'm gonna say, what, don't pay for sex. I'm just

building on that. So people wonder how sex clubs are legal or not legal. When clubs charge an entry fee, when hotels charge and entry fee, lounges or anybody, you are only charging for an entry, right, And what keeps it from being quote unquote prostitution, which is illegal, is basically saying that these adults there don't work there, right. So performers having sex in a sex club literally there's a lot of shit about them having to be clocked

out because if they have sex. Well, let's just say it's a strip of the works at a sex club. They have sex like with within a certain time frame of the performance, they can go to fucking jail, which is insane. Also, everybody's trying to get these places shut down, right, So Daniel st from NSFW, he got arrested for like cannabis possession at his sex club because they're trying to find every way I'm I mean, yeah, like his operation.

You know, he has to move it around a lot and ship like that because what he's doing is legal. It's just frowned upon. It's even funny the way that, uh, you just even brought up Daniel completely brought me to the Billy Holiday doctor uh doct I didn't watch it yet. But basically because of strange fruit in them not wanting her to perform that song, they would try to plant

and bust her on narcotics. That's how they tried to get Billy Holiday to to just shut up and stop doing what she was doing, was basically by planning drugs because essentially, like they can't tell her not performing. But yeah, so if if they have a problem with with Daniel or anyone hosting these sex clubs or sex parties. Again, legally, they probably can't tell these people that they can't you, especially because a lot of these are also um not advertised,

but they're presented as private parties. So essentially someone can't tell you what you can and can't do in your own home there were in a private place, you know how in strip clubs, like you maybe wonder like, okay, well, how come like that you can't even get naked in some strip clubs like Florida. Right in Tampa you can, in Orlando you can't. They kind of panties on all this ship. Liquor has to do with a lot of

the reason, right. So for example at nsf W, it's quote unquote by O B. But he has liquor there. So it's really like I think it's just a community. People bring liquor, but are a lot of the things that keep it from wait wait no, don't talk about I was I started talking about you all this show. I do because I've been to a ton of sex clubs and a lot of people that's one of their

main questions. I do want to say, if you haven't been to a sex club yet or a sex party, A lot of it is B y O B. Sometimes they will have a bartender to serve you just so that the bottles are away, and I would I'll want to ask you guys then, as someone who constructs and organizes swingers club swingers parties, what are your thoughts on B y O B? And do you like it? Do you not like it? In like I said, because different the NSFW, there's a place where you can go, but

it doesn't lock away the liquor. And so I know that as women, there are a lot of fears in open containers how you drink because of what can be put into those drinks. What are y'all thoughts on on B y O B as it pertains to these parties. So with what what we do is um our guests with the entry fee, you have to bring a bottle the bottle with the entry fee, you have to bring a bottle. So the bottles are a way. We usually

have a bartender manning it. So even though you're not paying for the liquor and you've bought it, it's it's monitored, you know. So so do people drink their own liquor? You just have know they drink their own look and they drink other stuff. They you know, we have a bar, we have a space for it. They put your name on your bottom. But as you can't, you can't, Yeah, you can't. You can't drink out of anyone else's bottle unless that party offers you a drink from their bottle.

So you would go up to the bartender, give them your name, and then they would just for you a drink. Now, what's the most people you guys have had at your parties at one time? Yore? Probably the ones that got to shut down. We wouldn't even that we were there. But I just want to say, you know, she the person who had that event. Missy is a friend. It was Missy. We met her at Heito. It's her party

at Hito in July. She's the one she fought me with a strap on a sound she bought you That sounds like she loved me with a strap on at the party. So when I'm in these spaces, I don't want dick and so I actually, yeah, I don't want dick. And this is a conversation that me and my partner having, You guys should talk about that. Why is it that two girls who are sexual, I mean sex podstive like, fucking you don't want Dick in a second, I don't want to. I'm going I can get Dick anywhere all

the time. I'm a weekend bisexual. It's not like I don't I'm serious. I'm just why I brought here and says you buy every day. Absolutely, child. Listen the conversation I've been trying to have, like with my partner. He's like, well, I'm I'm allowing you to get Dick. I said, Yo, Dick is enough, I promise. And so I just be wanting to chillwork or play with girls, play with girls. I like to let me just explain this. I do

like Dick at parties, but I prefer the ladies. And it is just because, Um, the appreciation is different, the response is different, our interaction is different, and I love being watched. I'm gonna make this bitch do some ship she probably ain't never done before, and me and her due may have a problem after that. I just started speaking back to somebody who had a problem with me behind something that went on with their lady, And I'm sorry,

what do you say? How that conversation go? Well, Actually, what happened was, um, she told me that he was having an issue with the fact that she would not stop interacting with me when he was ready. So um, I would pop up to other events that weren't mine and see him there, And twice I was there before they got there, and once he saw me and I was with um my constant. Now I don't I don't do monogamy, but I do have a constant. Um. I was with him by that word instead of primary. Um,

because he's constant, He's not necessarily primary. I fucking love I've never heard someone say that, but that makes so much more sense. A primary though I don't have a primary. So primary, How how do you differentiate between primary? Mary? Primary is he takes, he takes preferential, the primary he is what it is. The constant is just what I happened to be doing. Oh that's what was. He was just a concept for a little It's just what I happened be doing. It's like, oh, you're available. Did you

make that ship up with you? I make up a lot of ship, make up a lot of ship. But um, when they realized I was there, the coats were coming off, and it was just like, oh, Pegasus, is it all right? Y'all? I went to go and get a drinking. I went to get a drink for her because I know what she drinks. I'll come back with the cups. And they were closing the door, and the whole party just turned around and looked at me, like, bit shoot the problem. But I just I just said, I don't even want

to steal up, Amari. Have you ever had to I mean, like be quote unquote security or pacify a weird situation that happened at your club, like ex boyfriends girlfriend, and there's um, I could. There's a whole lot of stories that I could. First of all, there was just one time we was in East Flatbush. A lot of things happened because I'm in the hotel takeoversn't been that at somebody's house some dudes trying to come in and we had to step in. Um actually even in them, you

shoul shift them in right down. There's a time where, like you'll imagine being somewhere in a sex party and it's like your ex is giving your new girl a lap dance and ship like that. Like I don't have that happen. Um, But when it comes to being security and stuff like that, you're always gonna have to check egos and stuff like that into stuff room, regardless of what situation. When even in the vanilla's space, when it's on the dance club, you never know who's dancing on,

who's girls. Those are always factors that come into that. But you you gotta walk in first of all knowing yourself. The second of all, Like I'm a person that's big on being prepared and having a plan, so knowing how to deal with that situation, expecting it to be some confrontation and trying to have a plan for some tools that will be diffusing it because you want everyone to keep having a time. You don't want to poke out

your chest. You don't want to you want everything. Almost a matter of fact, at one of my events, yes you know what I'm saying, I almost did get into a fight. Matter of fact, it was just the fact that it was a naked girl right there, like you know what I'm saying, And like I really got real angry or some real ship because it was like, Yo, you come up in here and our space and you want to try to disrespect and I'm like, Yo, what

the fun? And then like yo, I had a thought like yo, am I gonna hit this dude or not on them, like you know what, it's literally a naked girl right there, like we would have been rolling on top of it. Was three naked girls there. She said, you forgot two bodies. It was players client, it was I mean, it was dark. It was dark. So we had a conversation. For those of you who listened to our Patreon, it was about a week ago. We had

a and uh in the town hall. There was a guy who asked us a question and everybody with your been down his throat. But there was a lot of dialogue in there and it was kind of controversial. So if I could sum it up, tell me if I'm wrong. There's a dude in there who's like, look, I've been dating this chick. She's a stripper. She wants to get serious, but I told her not until she quits. I can't be doing nothing like this. Um. Everybody was like, what

the funk? We basically said he was slood shaming things like that. He did. He dove into it a little bit more and he said, um, he came from a military background and he felt like, um, you know, he may be walking somewhere and someone said somebody's girl. He doesn't know how to handle those type of things. But he made mention, which I didn't like, that he had dated strippers in the past and that they had a

plan or way out. I felt like that was kind of problematic because it's like, basically, you're implying that this is just for the moment because they don't like what they're doing. When they met, they made it her a year, by the way, not to mention she's okay for him to funk right now and be walking down the street with't same energy. But jumped in there and gave some good advice. So yeah, tell us about that. Well. First, um, shout out to everybody on patri Feld on the topos

Um that was really specific. I didn't think that you was because I ain't want home. We feel like we was continuing to come from him. But Yo, look, if you know a lot of the fans are women and women was sex positive. It didn't go overwell. It wasn't received well for anybody to feel like there was some judgment. I thought was gonna first it was so what I what I um? One of the things that I wanted to say was this, Yeah, I was like, yo, homie, when it comes down to it. Your problem with her

isn't what she's doing. Your problem with her is the way that the world treats her and the way that

the world treats sex workers. So what I said was, you got an opportunity to come and be a part of You get with us being part of the good fight, because when you do what we do and fight for sex positivity, it gives everybody the freedom to be who they are, so that we never have to continue the status quo of a system that continues to oppress women marrying their virtue to their chastity and tell them that, oh, you're not as valid because she will be wifed faster.

And then also we as men, I wanted to get with you know, this is an opportunity for us to do better because when it comes down to when we talk about sexism and misogyny is women are talking about us. They're afraid of what we're gonna say, or they walk

down the streets afraid of us. So we have an opportunity to one to check ourselves, Like I want to make sure that I'm doing what I need to do, even though I know I have I'm actually going to take a little bit more time to make sure, like even like from starting right now that I'm doing I need to do so that if I do what I'm supposed to do and I tell my homies and stuff that we don't look at sex so predatory, then like what t I said about thought prevention and ship like that,

I have two daughters. In doing this, I don't have to create a world to contribute to a world that makes them have to be afraid. By teaching the men that they may be around here to pray on women. If I teach the brothers that are coming up, yo, listen, this is how we should really value women and human beings.

That I won't have to worry about protecting my daughter or more so than that, this is how secure I should be in myself and my decision about who I choose to be with her sexuality is just one faster of who she is. If I chose to be with this this individual for no matter how long, for the period of girlfriend, for the period of fiancee, for wife, or forever, it's still a choice that you made and

you need to understand. Men need to understand that she's not the only party in there, your equal party, and I don't understand how the funk we've allowed them to absolve themselves of that equality. If she's a thought, then so the funk are you? We shouldn't think of sex

or something that happens to a woman. That's part of what happens a lot about Also, what I would say from Weezy from the conversation coming back to that, is that when we have situations like that, it's like we think what we think, but let that rest of the spot come, Like, let him even though we're not feeling him right now, Let's give him some time to actually learn. And what do he said? Wasn't it bad? I feel like it's just I honestly think no, I think he

can't help it. I think he was being honest. I actually really wasn't mad at what he was saying. Look, you're paying for a sex positive podcast, like you're somewhat on the right track. I really just don't think he should be dating her at all. I think that, and I think he just can't. I think he should be a single period. Not to mention, it sounds like he likes her. He likes her, but does not like what the world says she is for He calls her more pain bro lovely very much, and I was, and he

loved me for what I did. Who weez he was, he'd been to my shows. He was very proud of me. But at the end of the day, the more he fell in love with me, he realized how difficult it was to handle wheezy right Like, I remember going on Flagrant last year and he watches that show and he was like, Bro, like you can make it. Dick Joe's about Nigga sending you a pictures they like how they should right now? Like what about me? Like how could you be talking like this? Let me bro, Like I'm talking.

I'm a personality. I feel like when I sit in front of here, this is what I do, much like a dancer, Like I only think they be getting an at least my homeworlds that trip, don't be Like I was so wet. I couldn't wait to fund that nig They're an actress, actress, you know what I mean. It's weird. I just think he just shouldn't be dating here. I think this caused a lot of trauma for women. I feel like you should just be in himself, not to mention,

not to mention himself and hurt people hurt people. And this is what I was this is what I was struggling to say. There's a situation he needs to work on himself because it's self acceptance. Um, how she's viewed is automatically put onto him in his mind, and that's why he can't commit to her beyond where he is. That's a self something that has nothing to really do with her or how the world treats her. Because let me just say this, if you love something truly, you

don't give a funk about everybody. See, that's your love. When you work on yourself, man, it's an actual good idea to try to be as good for yourself as possible because you don't accept you actually don't want to force your partner to perform the emotional labor of having to be a therapist and having to fix somebody that's broken more to be on the track of doing that, you know what I'm saying. And it's difficult, it is.

I'm actually trying to make space for that myself, you know, So that will cause problems if someone always has to wrap the relationship around being understanding of how something that's toxic is instead of you know, you're moving moving forward. I just don't want to shame him. That's why I didn't like how many people are jumping down to throat his throat, because I really feel like what he's saying, he's clearly being honest about this isn't for you, And

I really want people to have a choice. If you want to be like super weird and homophobic about ship cool, have a choice not to funk around and be around with me, like be in your own element. Not saying he's even close to being that, I'm not. I didn't mean it that way. I'm just saying, like, if you know that you can't like funk around with a stripper from a deeper level, like just don't do it. Make

the choice the data fucking reception. It's because I know something much like right, because he also wants those those those perks that come with being what they want, to take what they want and then leave the rest. But um, like, um, there's gonna be as home where people are actually going to move forward a little bit and they're gonna progress. And I guess like part of that is like these conversations to help a lot and also to provide the other side of such you know what a lot of

what we call the top till hole. I'm a top till hole, you know what I mean. We're up no, because they get into the politics and there they'd be like, yo, I'm a top tier hole. You're a file out of hole. It's gotta here like that. But talking about our patre holes is good, is good. I'm over here. I'm shut up, y'all. Let our listeners know where they can listen to you, where they can find you. Trap chat is recorded right the funk here and what the doing? Yes you know?

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to us. All right, So everybody sent us this article and I had to do it. What are you doing? You're not doing a catch up first. Oh you wanted to catch up? Yes, look everyone's shaking their head, bitch. This is the only one where they get in and on time, real catchup. And you want to go into an article. Well, I just love to feel gym Old Bays here across from the screen. I know your niggas think we broke up. And he's hearing say hio, old Bay, that's his cool voice. Um, he's only over here because

he wants to get some pussy. So I got wax, and I've been really insecure about having sex with a wax vagina, Like I've been having hair on my pussy so long that now there's wax. Even when I masturbated this morning, I was like, it feels like my leg. Can I ask you a question because you data old nigga and data old nigga, But my old nigga is very old, bitch. Whoa bandy's man is old? And I love you. I can't wait for him the term fifty

but he got three more years. But but my band does not like when I even shave or trim my he he'd be playing with my pussy hairs. So Old Bay, sit you wax? Or has there ever been a conversation where he's told you to keep the couchie here. No, he don't like it all gone right, You like a little bit of hair on it. He likes a little landistry. Can y'all hear him? Yeah, my nigga said, a landis strip pain enough he he likes. I mean, it's like

a little peach fuzz. But I will tell y'all I had a waxing scene in my new show, and the show got pushed back due to COVID so much that I was growing it for about two months. I had to tell the cameraman. I was like, look, if y'all see it, normally it's not as long as the hair on my head. I normally have a little bit of it, you know, a little stubble. But this ship was crazy, and the waxing lady made it even worse. She was like, oh wow, A long time gal, A long time. Um, yeah,

I don't know. I kind of love not feeling like I gotta keep that ship up, like because my nigga will be laying in the bed and he'd just be doing his hand like this, because I'd be liking to play in pubic hare, But now him playing in my pubic hare is a little different. And I was like, okay, but he'd be playing with and everything. I'll be thinking that thing about the corner all my ship, but it don't really be that long. But he really be like

intertwining his fingers in my coochie here. And I've never had a partner that that liked that. Let me see Avian and just said, I love getting a wax. I feel weird when I don't wax. The wax ladies are stroking the furry patch. Okay, see, let's talk to Barry since he's in five K. Why not? Wait? You just want you want to talk to carry about furry couchie Berry. I want to know what kind he likes. He's hair in his face. I bet I bet he's gonna be the type of nigga. No, no, Berry looked like he

my nigga age? Serry Berry? How old are you? Oh? So you got damn for black? Really don't crack be doing right? Say that ship? But you know what's crazy, Barry? Have you ever died your beard because you were talking to a younger woman? No? So he pulled that shirt on me and showed up to the new beach. Would a would have died beer, and I said, naked. Don't you ever little? I said, don't you ever die your beard again? Nig I like the salt in public. Give me some season and by let me ask you your

fifty one? How the fun did you find this podcast, you fucking old dirty man one. I've been in the podcast for almost twenty years, and now you've better been listening to the podcast for almost twenty years. I ain't even know you know what I was about to say, Barry, can you tell me where the hell you listen to a podcast twenty years ago? What device was podcast on your phone? To get compared? I mean they were mainly

like tech stuff back then. It wasn't what ted stuff, tex tech, this weekend tech with little important things like that. I mean, it was all nerdy stuff that sounds boring. Okay, so you listen to it on the computer, all right. I mean I want to say, I found Mandy on something one time, and I'm a sex I like sex. I like talking about sex. So you just like that? Go ahead, Barry? Oh yeah, and you just started following it.

I mean, especially with everybody references their own product, and you're finding and I found this one and it's stuck. I used to be in too, the read I used to be in lip service. They got kind of did you just call them? Oh what y'all put them on? I mean they started having the same things. I love the way y'all do your show, so I just started following it. And real quick, real quick, Barry, do you

think we're gonna get old one day? And you ain't gonna want to hear about us popping our coochie because we're too old? Like no, look, he laughed, all right, how much time we got? How much time we got based on your story? You already got a lot of a lot of traction on that box. So h the hell you're not alright. I'm just gonna mute him real quick. And let's not believe this. Let's get with my virgin pussy.