Monday. Nobody really just like say your motherfuck. And I just want you all to know these vocals gonna be hitting because we joined today with a vocalist and I don't know she gonna hit y'all with the vocals, but just one time, just know I'm gonna do the ad lives like like Mike Smith. We're gonna do it. Just who I don't know, I do like, okay, y'all, y'all hear two other voices. Um, we have had them on our show before, maybe oh my god, what like a
year and a half ago or so, maybe two years ago. UM, I want to let you guys know that we are joined today. I was gonna say in the motherfucking studio, but we're not. Um went two of my favorite ladies, um XP and Dre and Nicole of the Poor Minds podcast day And if you have never heard our podcasts, we are Mandy and Wheezy of the Horrible Decisions pod. If you're listening for the first time today, this show
is disgusting and these bitches are nasty too. So maybe skipped down to an episode that you know it's about health or something, because this episode is about whole life. I mean, it's really gonna be about too much whole life. I thought, you know, I think, if anything, it's four girls, we all kind of raw, uncensored, and we all have I think, quite a few different takes. So Wheezy and I have both been guests on Poor Minds, and there were conversations where Dre and I ain't gonna hold you.
I thought, bit we was gonna agree on everything, but we didn't. I don't know why I don't. I mean because I like the BDB. Yeah, why you wouldn't think why? I mean, maybe like because maybe first of all, because maybe like some fresh out of high school actually, bitch, actually were in a group. Chare hold, don't act like I ain't got to salt and Pepper's on the squad, bitch. Finally, he's still fucking high school niggas. You got, you gotta have at least one. No, I got two now and
both of them are over forty. Doesn't feel good to like talk to a man that knows what like a rath It's like, I mean, no, I'm not talking about rath as with my niggas unless we're getting married. What're we're talking about that? For? I'm mixing bad bitch. I'll be interviewing Nigga's first date. So what are you into? What's your medical insurance? Like? Because I'm trying to get on the plass that ain't when I'm talking about it is it is. So we're gonna start off this week's
episode with an ice breaker. So this is where the girl's gonna get to know who y'all holds? Is? Uh? So I um for this? For icebreaker this week, we're starting off with two games. The first one I actually introduced on our Patreon when we had Medina from Cocktails on and the game is a nice way to say it? That's what I titled it. And basically, I am going to give you some rather awkward scenarios and you need to tell me what is a nice way you would
tell somebody this? Alright, okay, okay, So I'm gonna let you go who out of the two of you. Let you're just just pre guessing who do you think is going to be the nicer one? I'm very classic. So the first one is um. For some reason, men really like to ask if we came or not. What is a nice way to let your partner know that you didn't come? When he asks if you came yours? Honestly, I'm too old now, I'm not gonna be nice in this situation, motherfucker. I would probably say lest less funk again,
I don't say the same thing, just like it wasn't this. Yeah, let's again. We can wait? How much time do you need? All? Lets them? Though? We need to keep doing some things. So the now, I was just trying to keep it going. I'm not I don't be like, what's you about to do? Are you kicking the mout olex? This is a nice way to say it. We'll not be a nice way to say So what is that? I mean? That's like what I'm saying gets a nice way to kick somebody out?
The next one I specifically chose for y'all because I know y'all talk about this a lot with your beat bees, and we're gonna get into that later. So how oh, what is a nice way to say it? What is a nice way to say? A man doesn't make enough money for you to talk to him, I'm not interesting? Okay, that's nice, that's not without so you wouldn't even mention Okay, no, I wouldn't even mention the money because I mean, once he tell me his occupation, I'm gonna be like, what
occupations are you doing? That is not y'all, That is not nice. You guys are going through different phases in life. I mean, a teacher, what kind of professor? I ain't say, a profess to teach you? Okay, so the teacher don't make enough for you. Some teachers make like sixty five seventy Okay, okay, okay, let me let they do this scenario. What about a teacher that makes seventy but they already own their own home and car out right, so essentially
they don't have any bills because money? Kids? How many kids? If I didn't know, no future kids? But like, let's say, if you make it, if you make it seventy k, I better be getting which No, first off, you're not even seeing sixty five because of Texas. That's what I said. Let me tell you something interesting. I read about men in the seventy K field, which probably most of our
listeners make. Men in the seventy K field, on average, are eighty percent more likely to have more in their checking account versus someone over because they're spending more because they think they have to have better things and they are saying that someone it does, so someone at seventy K might be able to trick on you, you know. But I always sell this to my listeners as well. I'm like, I would rather have a man that makes like seventy eight K than a man who's a millionaire.
Don't spend nothing on me. So I mean, so it's like, you know, it really doesn't matter how much man. Yeah, I know you're getting it, but you're spending That's the fact we do always talk about. They like it's Morris, so about what he willing to spend on you like, but not only that, I think it's and I'm abstinent still, I'm absinent on this podcast. Um, but the nigga that I'm currently well, yes, the nigga that I'm currently entertaining, y'all know about him in the group chat or whatever.
But um, he's actually retired, so I don't know what his like salary or income is. But I thought it was really nice. We were talking the other day and I've been getting weed, y'all know, I've been trying these edibles and dying at home, and so I ordered another eight. But I'm not like the best with rolling and so bitch. He came over last night and he had a gift in his hand and I'm like, what is this? He like,
you said you wasn't good at rolling weed. So he got me a whole like machine that I just put the blunt like I just put the rapper in it and it makes it makes the blunt for me. And I was like, that was so like that. I'm abstinent not roll. First off, I bought my old weeds. It calmed down. He just bought the I've heard in a long time. Yeah, I was like, oh my God, like thank you, Like I didn't like it was just the thought that like he heard me, like he took into
his mind. I wasn't the best blunt roller because my ship be loose as hell. But since I'm not passing them, I'm not embarrassed. I'm gonna smoke my loose as blunt and be happy. Hello. When you roll the little loose ship, you you got to spend my weev my blessing be loose hell to I should have just always super wet. I hate that. And then I'll be trying to make your boss know her booty don't be wet. She talked about her blunt, even booty lube. I know people be
saying my should be super weig. I don't believe it. I just shout out to Adam and Eve, who's a constant Um supporter, and what do we call them? I forgot, but they'd be doing ads on our ship. But I just actually bought some ship using our promo code, and so I bought but plugs and and I also bought antal Loup because I was like, well, there's gotta be a difference between lube and an'tal loube, so I'm gonna
try that it freezes. I just bought this off Adam, and even before I left, I felt like it was if you guys are watching YouTube, you can see this. But even though I don't recommend jelly toys because it's like more ship gets stuck to them, I was like, I don't know if I'm ready for something hard in my ass because what if I reject motherfuck girls? But see this is what I went with you. I said, let me go with a skinny top, so it's like, okay,
it's not that bad. And then way when it goes in, you know what I mean, Because most dicks are fair the bottom see legs. I feel like you real, judge, I ain't even gonna show you what I'll be putting in my booty because you're gonna be like I'm colossal. Just go get it. I don't push it in my booty. Hall, I didn't get it yet. I haven't gotten my order yet. Um. I want to get into the next game. The next game is a quick would you rather? And it's gonna
be this is like fire style? Okay, bitch, so both of you, Lex Andrea, would you rather have sex with your favorite celebrity crush once or have guaranteed orgasms for one year? Guaranteed orgasms is not guaranteed. They're not been the same because these niles for everybody, they who are your celebrity crushes? Just so so I know, and you can said you ain't really fun? How about that we know you'll be sucking the blue chair. No, I have a big I've always said this, I said this on
my podcast. I have a big crush on which you can't have. Get off that's me him and judemics or literally break him. Your ass is like his two thighs together ain't the smallest thing either, A you know what about you? Andrea, Well, your celebrity crush, Medina gonna keep my she'd be ready to read. Uh, she'd be ready to fight me over Drake. Y'all? You really is that? She earlier today talking about stop leastening to my man
every day. Beach is it? Is it Drake's I feel like I'm into Drake because Drake got an energy he gotta he gotta like, bitch. I don't hurt, not in person. I disagree, I think, but I do swag like. But I also think that's because I like corny niggas. I think that like niggas that I hope y'all nigga out in the background listening right like he always see like, bitch,
he knows I love me a little geeky nigger. We ever go out somewhere and somebody telling me a little goofy jokeuld be like they're going, my little whole ass bitch, I know she in it. I just think that I want Drake y'all, because he literally the only celebrity that I've ever had like a beat crush on that ain't sleading my d M. That was the biggest I've heard trying the fun. He really eased out. He's the only one that I have a that I've had a crush on that has not lead in my d M. And
I've never made him. Y'all believe I've never the same room with him, but I've never. Like what's crazy is we was in the group chat talking about his type because we feel like he like big boot booties. But then we look at other bitches he didn't dated, and they skinny, So both Medina ANDREI feel like that his type, and clearly they're not the same type of brown girls. Though maybe I'll know I'm he's type. Already told me
a look, never in the same room with that. The same time Lex already told Alex, I'm gonna tell you right now, and you in the same room with Dre, You're gonna be over there contemplating what you're gonna do. Is she gonna already be over there slicking. And that's the truth. If you want a nigga Andrea wants the same nigga, you better get to him before she keep them. That's money. So the second question is would you rather have a sugar daddy who asks for sex a lot
or one who asks for nudes a lot? One? Do you ask for sex a lot. I like to fucking. I don't know a sugar how all DC, I don't cared none of my sugar. That's what I think. I'm assuming the sex ain't that great a people to die anyway. I'm surprised you ain't saying I'm looking. I was about the same news. I'm gonna say sex because if he's a sugar daddy and he all all, he is one orgasm away from debt, I gotta make sure I'm in the wheel I got a plan, but why not just
seeing him news and he wasn't he? Dude? I want money from about the exactly? Thank you somebody who would say was the best video I've ever seen on the internet. If y'all don't know what I'm talking about, please look at me. Put the cigarette. Oh I want to do that anyway, because that's how I am, That's how pod. So the last would you rather? Is one that's problematic, guys. This is a kink. It's kind of out the wheelhouse, but it might make you think, would you rather have
sex with a corpse? Or never have sex again? Never have sex again? Did y'all see that? Dall? On YouTube? I mean not YouTube? On Twitter where that lady was talking about some type of one nice thing that she had and a man had ejaculated on her chest and she ain't got to be So the story is they said the only way that she could have got he could have parasites in his seamen is if he sucked the core or if something else. And then she found out work for well, let me trust how could play
the clip? I do have it readily available. Y'all want to hear it? Everyone go crazy clip It's fifty seconds. But this is one of the wildest things I've heard. It was wild stories. Never want ever more nice saying this is a true story. Um, I read about it. It's a wild that I story here again recently I was like, wow, that's crazy. So he this woman meets the guy on tender. She goes on a date with their she go better this place to stay. That's six.
She allows him to exactly on her face and chest. Um. After that apters the next day, it's cool because she noticed is a rash. She's concerned, So I see she uses out the dude, the last person she has for um, that's a notice. That's a notice. She's going to see your doctor. She goes to the doctor. Doctor says, you don't have an n c D sensor. To her dermatologist,
it's where it is crazy for dermatologist. Dermatologist said, you gotta do with parasites in the guy's human Who you have sex with those parasites on eco for one of two places, either somebody who has sexual animals or somebody who has sexual corpses the guy or Facebook, he works in the morgue. The entire physic out of here now that necrophilia necrophilia, yes, can I ask all of y'all would you rather have somebody that fox corpses or animals?
This is real problematic, I know, but I don't know how because I gotta mind my business anyway, how much I guess the animals, I would definitely say animals. I don't know. I feel like you're disrespecting the dad. Somebody can come around us. I don't know that a yard. Have you picked you one yet, Drea, No, I don't. I don't think I can. So I want to get into our vanilla ship. However, um, it's a story that
I got from New York Daily News. But because we've kind of been recording where we haven't been booth recording so much I do whenever we can want to bring up current event topics and so without getting too much into the actual people, I wanted to have a conversation with you as well as you wheezy, if y'all have a bitch, if y'all have social media, Future is showing his motherfucking ass um. If y'all do not know Future, what is it? Novedadius? Whatever the mother? Whatever? He uh?
You don know how to say your people? Isn't he? Isn't he a resident of your town at lunchur So basically, guys, what's going on when him is? It has just been reported that he is indeed the father of a one year old baby girl um with an Eliza Rain and so he recently show the YouTubers by the way, while Mandy's talking, I'm gonna pull up a picture of what she looks like because this is very crucial to the story. Yes here it is black to say it about this woman,
I will put on the screen. So um Future decided to go on a Twitter rant and talk about how you can't treat up treat a ugly girl like a pretty girl, and pretty much just went in about how ugly. This girl looked um, So I wanted to make sure we get on board with coming up with with First off, I want to have the conversation about is a man allowed to call you ugly if he beat? Because bitch, you beat though, and I think that go ahead, let's
go ahead. He did not just beat once. He was working with this girl for years, heavily, and not when she first had and now she was pergnitty came out and she had been sucking with him for like five Yes, this is not no new bit of his. This is a very big this is a bit show. This girl is gorgeous. Okay, okay, okay, okay, wait literally believe it like she she I don't think she's I don't think
she's just okay. I think she's above average looking. You serious? Okay, but wait, the conversation is whether a man can call you ugly. I can't even be leave y'all right now. I literally was just on your show last week where you were saying, I don't know why people be talking about this girl like and y'all want to tell me that this girl is below average or average? You know what, I didn't know. I didn't say below average but I definitely don't think you know, she looked like she looked
like Bambi. She looked like scrap this girl. This is a picture where she has no lashes. You think that this is average? How do you all know what the average bitch looks like? Yeah, I'm shocked. And why I wanted to bring this up to is I wanted to have the conversation because clearly he is in an open like a public relationships with Lorie Harvey. So my question now is especially stemming from a lot of us having either abandonment issues with our fathers or our fathers putting
our mothers through hell. If you feel like you could be with a man who is not taking responsibility of taking care of his children. Also, do you think it says anything about a woman that is claiming and being with a man that doesn't take care of his children. What are your thoughts on that? Yes? Well, for me personally, i feel like I'm like, I'm thirty, so I'm dating older guys. So i feel like I'm not into that bullshit no more. I'm looking for something more serious now.
I'm not gonna lie year on me. Dude, I would have a funk. Are nigga doing on his kids. Hell, no, Laurie Harvey is dated and she's doing what she's supposed to do. She getting the bags, the rollies, the trip, she's having fun. She has absolutely no responsibilities. Now, as you get older, the type of men that you're attracted to and things that you're attracted to does that. But I feel like for Laura, she's two, she doing what
she's supposed to be doing. I agree with it too, because I feel like now at these age, no, I can't date no nigga, they don't take care of the kids. Like you brought these kids into the world. You need to take care of whether you like the mama or not. Like especially with that situation with you Tuo, did nobody tell you nothing that ladies fucked her raw for years? I agree, I just what you thought was gonna hid. I just know that that's kind of definitely I feel
like a trait that I look into. I know that so many women that date men that don't take care of their kids and for some reason still want to have children with said man thinking that. I think the grossest part is how we've seen him afterwards the kid's mom online. But how do we know he's not taking care of the kid. Is that like a public thing? Yes, it just came out. It just came out. Yeah, this this baby is one years old and she claims that she has not seen one dime from Future because they
haven't had a fraternity test. They had a fraternity test. It just came okay, but she hasn't seen He didn't want to take you for She's been asking for the paternity test. You remember the story. I think, to be honest, like the obviously this dude is rich, we know he could take care of his kid financially, but really a good father, I think it's not just taking care of
the kid. Like as we've all seen people make jokes online with Russell Wilson and Future and how close they seem in videos and how connected they look, and then you look at Future online and all he's talking about is this bitch. It just doesn't I don't. I don't understand how we can understand him to be such a
stand up guy from that aspect. But I think what it does raise is a great point of everybody online stock that he's calling this girl ugly, but they date niggas that talks about other women all the time, and I think that is a very big deal about when you're dating a man, especially for women. Like I know everybody doesn't claim to be a feminist or doesn't understand what it means, but the least that you should expect for two things for when you for for the way
that you know how a man will treat you. One, how they treat their mom, and to how they talk about women that have been in their lives and or their friends deal with or around them. I've been around men and have talked dog shit about women they've been with, even if you've had a bad breakup, you shouldn't be talking about that person like ship. And when you see that, that is a shitty fucking quality because at the end
of the day, they love that. It's the same way they're loving you right now, and it could all go to ship. So when you see somebody doing ship like that, which is a big reason and meant to be honest, like you know, we we always discussed on the show Married Guys or whatever. I think the scary thing about that is like, Okay, how good will these men be
to me? Not being your side nigger, sugar daddy whatever I'm talking about getting in a relationship with someone that has somebody, It's like, well, then what all of this ship is in essence disrespect in some form or some way and being public like that to call a bit ugly that isn't when you're hugly. I just say, people
show their true colors and who they are. So even if you know we're bringing up even if a guy is not married, maybe he you know, has a girlfriend, or if just I do still believe too, you get them, how you lose them. That person is always gonna be who he is. You either gonna figure out how to accept him for who here who he is, or you
gotta keep it going. Um. We had a Patreon where y'all know, a woman came to me, woman a woman, and I told her she knew what bit And I told her, you knew what type of dogs you had, because if I was with that nigga, I wouldn't know what type of dog as nigga. I'm so embarrassing. How come you writing back like bitch in your nigga? And my thing is I feel like women like at what point this like, Okay, I understand you want to funk with a nigga. You've been working with this nigga for years.
Maybe he doesn't treat women the best, But at what point, like when you get pregnant, are you like, okay, I want to have his baby. I think it'd be about to check about this. I feel like a lots of thought that she was gonna get a check. I mean, she probably still is. I mean, she probably been working with him for years, and she's well, I don't know how old she is, but she looked like she at least in her thirties. So I mean, she did say that that's part of the reason why she decided to
keep the baby. But I'm saying but I mean because I see all the ship that he went through with and Sierra has money, Sierra is a prominent person. We see everything that she went through. You see how the ship that he went through with Brittany, his other baby, and Joy, and I mean, we ain't gonna list all the baby mamas. God damn, it's gonna take us the whole episode. You know how to do this. So they're like, I'm gonna do it on my own. I'm gonna take
care of my baby on my own. It's like, well, I think that a lot of women they go in these situations and they think, oh, well, I'm going to be the one that's different. It's not gonna happen. A lot of women go. Every time I talked to a woman and she's like, oh, I want to have a nick baby, and it's something other little baby mama's in the background, They're like, well you know me, girl, I'm like,
it's pellow talk bro. But at the end of the day, the worst part about that is, even if you were the one that he treated better, where do you feel like ship? Knowing that he has seven other kids that have had moms with trematic six of the baby mama I actually overshot that number. I thought he had five six kids. Oh no, he got like that. He has like eight. Now how old is Future he has? I think thirty. I think he got nine kids by eight
baby mamas. That's the tally I heard. Wait, now you know there's another girl that has the baby by him, that the baby is the same age as a lot of baby. The reason they found out it was definitely Future's baby because they got a test on the on the girl and the kids are siblings, and the kids are siblings. Yeah, so this is another girl that hasn't even been a dressed. How many children the future the rapper has no I think it's nine. I think it's nine.
Compedia saying four. I know this. Al nah now they said six, but that was in two thousand nine. How many kids this future? Unknown number? I feel like this is a goddamn spades game that nigga got nine and impossible not noinecause we might have to reach shuffle the deck because bitch I got all the books. Anyways, Um, I was gonna get into one real quick as well, um because we're not gonna do a hord um this episode, so I wanted to get into this. I want you
all to guess the state. The other Vanilla ship for this week's episode says mother and daughter arrested for selling too for one sex services. Guess the state Florida. Bitch I'll be so mad. Florida be embarrassing us. Hold on, did you see this Florida state the separation thing today? So here's a picture of the Florida Florida state and it says, for up north people, this is the difference.
And right above the Orlando County line, they call it Florida state, and below they call it flower to state. So you got a flower to which is Orlando, Tampa, Jacksonville, Miami, Palm Bees County. All that ship? So we okay, so says. It says that a Florida mother and daughter were arrested Tuesday in charge with so listening to for one sex deals police and boy and beach said, so that's the
south side of Florida. Um. It says that Ramona forty three and her daughter Dalla advertised their sex special on back page dot com and online class. Damn, I didn't even know back page was still up. I thought it was closed. Yeah, it might be low. Um. But it says that they advertised to rock your world with two for one specials with a name like Ramona. I know she's sucking me. She even't been around the block of you. So what what? So we know we listened to what's
the what's the um? Freaky leak? What are some hole ass names? Real quick way, I'm telling all these all people, they don't get down, They're gonna take off them dingers and go to work on your never o you you ain't never heard of nig Have y'all watched hookers at the point on HBO back in the day. What were their names. It's this show where like they basically would go city to city and cover the process was in the area. So they used to do Hawaii, Atlantic City,
Atlanta wherever. And so most of the holes that was like crack holes always would take their teeth out and they would have footage of them like going to suck a dick, and they'd be like, okay, we if I take them out, it's gonna be tam do. Like yo, it's sad. Period have the section of crack holes. I will not do. Y'all know if guys that have admitted to y'all to get in their dick sucked with a
bit with no teeth. No, I mean, first of all, um, I mean, I'm not trying to be funny, but the type of men that we date, what they ain't gonna be around no crack anyway. They shouldn't be. They shouldn't but they shouldn't be. But these niggas be warny and I don't like to give them no credit. And then it's the thrill of she said the baby girl would have suck that not all the issues if your name guy as on. So the next segment that we're gonna
get into guys is our horde derve. I found this sex tip that I really liked, especially considering I'm abstinent um and when I'm done lex Andreya, I will be asking y'all for a sex tip. So go ahead and have in your mind what sex tips you have for our audience. But the sex tip for this week is
the thigh rub. Nothing turns a guy on more than being teased will knowing that he cannot have you there and then, so, during your dinner date or a night at the movies, use your hand to gently stroke his thigh with slow firm movements up and towards his groin, fill his erection grow, and leave him longing for the bill to arrive or for the film to finish so that he can whisk you home and into the bedroom.
I can do right, because I'm a roam on. How do you transition to a lot of people just don't do a lot of women expect for a play, but don't do it themselves because they expect that men are generally going to be the initiator. By the way, shout out to Latasha that we had on. I actually was wondering the other day Mandy and I when we were like a few months back trying to figure out new segments. I'm like, where the funding horde derve came from. I think she made that ship up, so shout out to
you and whoever it was on Twitter. But I got one more that I did the other day, and I think that it was fun as fun. So I don't know how to spice up sex anymore because I'm tired of like having sex on I don't know, just outside and in the shower. There's nowhere else to go. So bitch,
I did some home a ship. I sent that nick guy outlook invite because he was acting like he was too busy, and I wrote it for four to four or fifteen for him to suck this pusty at central time and you met an appointment to get your post Google like a Google invite, the calendar and note on this out look. I guess they did. And when he came in the room, bitch, my pussy was spread open and I was he was like fifteen minutes, and I was like, well that's the time I need to come.
I don't know about you, but you can send your own in. But that ship was the funnest product and I'm sure he's gonna fell like it up the likes. We'll start with you, what is a sex tip that you have for the girls? UM. I actually talked about this on the pod. On my podcast a few weeks ago, we were talking about sucking a dick from when it's a gummy. I hate su I said, I'll said exactly, but I said, this is because a lot of girls, um, they write to our show asking how to deep throat.
And I said, whenever you start when it's gummy, it makes it easier to go down because it grabbed. That's a very, very very it ends. So it's like you won't gag because it's just slowly rolling in your mouth. So sucking dick from a gummy, that's all the fact that you're calling it a gummy dick right now, not gummies. You know what. I'm not gonna lie to me, and
I've said this on the show. I feel like I'm so used to dick coming rock hard that when it's a gun, I know that's you know, you bet, I ain't really used to seeing it as a gummy until they come, and then it's just like I'm playing with it because I ain't used to seeing it like that. So that's a very good tip that I would have never gave. So thank you, Lex, thank you for for shouting out the gummy dicks. Shout out to the well, you know, niggas be soft because I'll be cracking jokes
and shep and they don't be hard. Yeah, but they don't know whenever these titties pop out in his ass coming about. So I got I gotta get it from the gummy a lot ship. It's funny because I like knowing that I did the whole like like I did that, I did that nobody met the other day. I think I really insulted my nime because I was like, he really is all the way soft. He was on the couch. I pulled it out and I was like, wow, you are a grower. I mean, whoa, it was like growing
out of sarwood. I mean, where you grow, you grow. I do love a growing as Dick Drey. You got any sex tips for our audience book? Yes, I mean, first of all, I think we all, you know, we all kind of think or whatever. I don't like ridingdeed myne okay, So this was me. I am okay at it because I am not one of the two that you're talking about. You you yet can I'll be honest with you, how I really was able to start riding dick.
He did a show in Chicago with Taomi where she was talking about like resting on the knee and you got to use your lower But now all I do not even weights. I just do the squats where you're holding place. Bitch, now, Kara, dig easiest fusten are you talking about on your listen, I'll just make sure I'll throw it back from the back. So it's like, see, I do work, but getting on top now, um, so Joya, you gotta tip um for the non riding dick girls like said, and I got sciatical. I feel like this
is my pro two. I feel like you gotta ride deep from the bag that nigga's gonna come south, So like, yes, because you're clean on your words. Yeah, if you could lean on your horn, you can roll up on the balls from the top. The reason I like, I think it gets so difficult is because you can't put your body weight, like even your chest all the way down.
But when you get tired, when you're writing Dick from the bag, you can literally and only put them on the bed and just keep when I you know, if I'll be smushing my TVs, y'all know, I'll be working with football player, so I'll be having to look at that black ass tone. Now. I can't do reverse cow girl telling you if the girl any time I ride in front the bag, own god, nigga's nothing like five minutes. You don't never take long any five for real, like
went away to again. I mean, damn, I being my ass. I'm not saying the whole session me five minutes. I'm just saying, like if we've been working for like teamingue or something, and I'm like, hum, ready for the nigga, I'll just get on top it right in front the bag and then we're done. We're done, so you you finished when you're ready to finish. That's approxive. I wouldn't wear a little boy because you know what, niggas visual.
I was gonna say that when you ride, when you do reverse cow girl backwards, you might want to make sure that a little budda hole looks like a clean starfish and not a not a you know what I mean, Like who got a dirty star cleanse my side out, But it's not I'm not talking about ship. But if y'all don't know hair grows, they're the same way to grow on your pus. So you might need to make sure the little buda hole, the little hairs in the bud hole is is is wax or shaved in the body?
Not in the body but around the seat, right, Lex, thank you, Well, let's get out of hairy assholes and get to the horrible decision which I just found out about really like seventy two hours ago, Drea, and let y'all that is so I'm sorry, Yeah, but I will just talk about black Tone now. And he just sexy is that his name? That's his new name for the podcast. You gotta call him black tone now. Okay, So I had never heard this term before, but just this is
no slight to y'all. I don't listen to any sex podcast because I'm worried I'll start using some words and it'll like be mine on accident. So I'm on this show and it's poor mind. Last we check out the episode and these bitches say beatbs at the same time, and I thought they said beati beads like in the back of my head, but they said he d bes that is be as in boys and Dog and be as a boy again, and it stands for big dick ballers. And then when I was going through poor Minds, I
realized that everybody uses this terminology. It is like, yeah, came out of no where. I think one day I was six in Lakes and I see it it. I was like a big, big bowl anys is like. And then we just started saying it on the show and the girls she just ran wee, they love it. There's a girl that follows me on Twitter. Her her actual
name is bedb Whisper. That's fired. Well, I don't know why. Man, he said it's gonna be problematic because really all this and I mean everything, well they're talking about um future if you hold your man accountable, the in in with the ice breaker. Instead, I think I wanted to get back to the roots of horrible decisions with bringing y'all on and literally getting into some whole stories. And you
guys talk about bad bees all the time. So for the girls, I actually want to know before we get into some stories that y'all have about any particular batbs, if y'all have any tips on eight how to land a big dig ballah and b if you have one or two tips about being fluid out, oh we actually have done um. So for me, the biggest thing about snagging a BDB this is like the basic what you have to do is you have to have a look.
You gotta have hair gotta be done, makeup gotta be done, lashes, nails, the body gotta you gotta have the body be right. I'm not saying you gotta have a big booty and big TVs that you don't even have to have that. You just have to have a nice little you know, you gotta know what you're nobody just gotta. I'm something about body too, is making sure that your body is fit for whatever size is. If you're a big girl,
make sure you got your ship looking right. If you're make sure your ship is looking I ain't even it's like cool. But if even if you're not the fiest bitch with the fliest body, because I have been that girl, if you walk into the room and own it and have person really think the confidence in the personality. Yeah, I mean when I say look the part, I just mean like, have yourself together, look polished. But you don't have to have a small waist and a fact, don't
you do not? You do not so you can. They'll pay for it and a lot of money. Be cup booty, that's what it is. Honestly, it fits exactly into a man's hand. That's what my booty fitls like. It's like one hand, it's like the titty cup fits in and the bottom of my ass. But you know that was a great tip because yeah, so you definitely have to
look polished like And he said the confidence. And I think another big thing because it's easy to get a BDB to fuck you because these niggas every personality, the personality. You gotta get a nigga to really fun. You gotta be the girl you got. You want to be around you all the time. I got to funk with you for the long haul. Address them out. Don't ask that ship isn't all because why do we even matter? Why do you want to know if I think beat cheese,
I don't give. As long as we're going out having fun, I'm getting my money, we're going shopping. I'm cool. I've seen something. My niggas shown me some ship. That bit just up said to him, And it's like they'd be so cheesy where it's almost like they're trying to get like, oh, wow, you're going away this weekend, wish I could have some sun, Like, no, let me tell you something. You should be upfront, be like, cool,
you have a great weekend. I want the next time you tell me where we carry like, don't don't edge on in this unconfident way. So where they got to be like, I don't. I don't do that at all. It's corny. I just feel like right like when I was talking to one of my dudes other day, I was like, when this is all over, going to say he was like, okay, bad, just let me know. I'm not about to be like, oh, well, what do you want to do when this is over? Nigga, know what
you want? Just tell the nigga what you want. And I say that all the time, like so many girls be writing us and they'd be like, oh, I want to get this from a nigga. I want to get that from a nigga. You think is that sheet from niggas? Don't ask? You think they just keep their mouth clothes hoping that the niggas gonna do she for them, Like, no, say what you want. These niggas ain't a fright to
say they want some period. And I've said it to like, I think that for whatever reason, we love to have the power to say no, but for whatever reason, we can't accept hearing no. And once you put in your mind that the worst thing that can happen is this nigga tells me no, that's really not that bad, Okay, But at the end of the day, you've put out into the universe what it is you want, not only
from him, but it's what you want. So I think that you need to definitely say what you want if you want it, so I would have Really, what has I think turned men off? And what makes you look corny as fun? Because nothing is more than what did you say? I said that, the the uncertainty, like the teetering, there's nothing worse than like a nigga posting a picture and be like l ols, no invite no bitch, Like my mind went completely somewhere else when you started that.
My mind went. Ain't nothing worse than hopping on the flight hoping the nigga break you off without talking about getting broke off. So, and that's another thing too, like why do we just do that? I don't not understand, Like how you want to expect the nigga. So this happens to one of my home girls, Well, we're not
cool no more, but like we was cool. She agreed to go on a trip with the nigga, and she had told him she needed her rent paid, but they had never had an actual conversation and he never truly agreed to pay her rent. And then she was mad when she got back that he didn't pay her rent. Talk about she feel like because he knew that she had took off work, he was just host to automatically paid like in an ideal world. Yeah, but you should have told that nigga. Hey, I'm not going on this
trip with you because I got a miss work. But I've said that on the show. Even I wrote a book in two thousand thirteen up on Games We came Go. Yeah, but in that book, I tell every woman, and you know what, I want to take this down to um. Not only the women that are being fluid out by these big dig ballers or millionaires or athletes or rappers. I want to take it down to you know, the nigga who work at FedEx, the nigga who works at the hospital. I don't think that no man is worth
missing out money for. So that is the last thing. If a man is asking you to call off work or or switch your schedule or stuff like that, I think it's important for you to let that nigga know my money comes first, My bills come first, and if you're not paying those things, it's kind of a sign of disrespect and I'm not gonna go on then he would even ask you to to to take off work even wish dump it down to women that just want to trip. I think there are women that just want
to go away. Like I think all of us are speaking from a place that experience where not every I mean you said, say chills. You know how many people don't know what that is. I mean he's like, they're like, where is that a hotel? You know what I mean as a cruise, Like there are a lot of people that I was like a kale. But if that is what you want is money, all I'm saying is exactly. But if that's what you want, that's what I don't
act like. All you gotta do is let that know upbrant And if he say now, then who you know, you don't need to go take your ass to work? Clearly you ain't got the money for your And I'll say this, a lot of men, they will try to play with you because men enjoy, they love nothing more than doing the bare minimum. So a lot of times
they're gonna try to applay you. They're gonna ask you to take off work, and hopefully you're not gonna ask him for money, because a lot of it just just be like, oh well, I just want to be in his presence. So no, girl like you have to make sure that you you're straight, because he gonna make sure he's straight. He gonna go so quick. We do have men listening, believe it or not, and maybe some of them want to know, Oh I wonder if I'm a b d B? What is a b dB? Like how
much money does this man need to make? How big does this dick need to be? And why would you look at him as a baller? How does a man know if he is a b d B? To me, a b dB is somebody I can go out with you and I can have a great fucking time. It ain't no like, oh well I want to go here because that's two weeks here. It ain't no money. Not money is not an issue and I'm not saying we're going out and spending five K at night. I can go out with a BDB and we just spend two
hundred dollars and that just be what it is. You know what I'm saying. He's not complaining, He's no matter what complaining. It's like, whatever you wanna do, let's do it, baby, Like, let's do it. And then at the end of the night we have some bomb mas sex and we wake up and you know it's a man that doesn't make you feel think right now, it's not exact amount that he has to be worth, right, he just question for y'all. So you have advice for women that are getting blewed
out stuff like that? Can you tell us about a time pre knowledge that maybe a situation happened to either one of y'all where you were like, oh my god, where you learned enough to let I got the part. I already know what story is gonna be for real, for real, But go ahead, you do which one you think it is? The one where you he almost had to call the cops on you at the airport because you wouldn't get out of his car. But that's not okay.
I had the knowledge. That's why we got into that confrontation. Okay, So tell the story. Okay. So I was like twenty three and my best friend Jordan, he lived in New York at the time, so I used to always come out there and visit him. He introduced, well, his one of his story, agrees to talk to these dudes they lived out here there white it was he was a white man, yes, and he had a hall bunch of money and she and Jordan was like, you need the funk with him because he brought up with his girlfriend
and he loved black girls. So I'm like, okay, cool. So he slided my d m. He like, oh, I'm going to Miami next weekend. This is when I was still living in Houston. He was like, I'm going to Miami next weekend. You should come out. We're gonna have a good time whatever. So okay, I go out there. He book us some room at the Mandre and nice ass little sweet We had a great time. We was going to eat at all these five stars, expensive ass restaurants. I told him I wanted some red bottoms. He took
me to the lubotint store bought me something. Okay, we had a great time. The shoes we can't walk in, but that's cute. Keep it going, girl, Like three times they're still in my fuzzy so so yeah, so we had a great time, and then you know, he wanted to fuck. I wasn't ready to fuck. I'm just like nigga, like, I don't want to fuck you yet. I'm not ready. He got a hall attitude and instead of just keeping
it one honey about how he felt. Do y'all know this, nigga just up and left the next morning, left me in the hotel wrong by myself. And this was before I knew about making sure nigga book you are a round way. So he only booked me a one way flight to Miami. Then he left me at the hotel by myself. I had to end up booking the last minute flight back to Houston. It was like five dollars really and truly, I pay for my own damn shoes almost and beat y'all know, I got three dollars. I
don't have had to take them. So okay, it's like so I was just so fucking he's Then he blocked me because they don't blocks me on social media and from his phone, so that I couldn't call him and say nothing to him about the fact that he just was a community as a collective and asked for you know, him to give us the money back. Can we write him as a community as a collective and asked for him to return that money. But we need to I'm gonna find out he's Audrey. I'm gonna see this to
y'all because I probably stee a blog. But you shouldn't have hopped on that flight getting read bottoms five star mills. Give me his phone number and let me leave a voice me and be like, Hi, I'm drein to Cole's attorney. We had an issue of abandonment. And if we can go back to two and sick and from Miami, Florida, a young glod woman, might I say, African American? This is a really anazing deal and and these trying times, um and now it's increased to about three thousand, I
will give it to you. I was so fucking mad, like I could not believe this, Sue. I was like, what the funk these think? It really left me out here by myself. Thank God I had the money to get back, and I feel like that's kind of something that's funked up. That happens to women a lot, you know what I mean, especially younger women. They'll go fly out to see these niggas who got money and shaping.
They don't want to nigga, don't want book safe like, so I want to have both of y'all because a lot of our listeners, mind you, I don't know if y'all know, but the Patreon group chat, they'd be talking about niggas and our Patreon is flying patrons out. So this is listen, So I want to it is. I ain't gonna hold you. So I want to ask you, ladies, what is the conversation that a woman should have with a guy that's offering to fly them out. Do you go ahead and be like, well, listen, I just because
you fly me out don't mean I'm sucking you? Or do you ask because you're flying me out, do you expect us to have sex? What is the conversation that you think needs to happen if a guy offers to fly you out? What these days? If I'm flying out, I'm that's and I was right on that because honestly, at this point, if I'm not flying out to you, if I don't plan on fucking what's the point that you might as well just come to my seat to get you a hotel when we can hang out casually.
But if you want me to fly to you, you're getting some play man. Yeah. Um Now, if it's somebody I haven't they got that blue check or I gotta I want to see the driver's license, I would do a background. I don't. I don't usually fly out to people I haven't met before. I always usually make like Nigerian baby, like he wanted me to go to Legos with him off top. I had met him at this point and I was like, well, no, the girl he ended up coming to Atlanta first day was sitting at
the dinner type. We were sitting at the dinner type when he bought my ticket to Legos. He was like yeah. I was like, yeah, I'm telling you know so. I always feel like, if I don't know you, I'm not flying out to you because I know what you're expecting. I would say that that's what. That's great. He's just like, if a guy expects you to literally travel through an airport,
change up your whole scheduled to accommodate him. If you guys haven't met maybe you know suggesting, Hey, I don't really feel comfortable hopping on a flight, but you're more than welcome to hop on a flight and come to my city and I'll show you that. Well, you're in a lot more control at that point to if you make sure that you know you haven't come to your city.
But I have made the mistake of flying out to someone before I met them twice and the first one one great, and the second one didn't go some great so great, and I remember I sucked him and remember getting on that plane, like, I just want to tell my friends that went well, because I don't even want to make them feel like I was on But I was like, what do I do? I'm at I'm in his place, like that's what I gotta do. It's it's it's hard, you know, I think the great it's very
awkward and it's uncomfortable. I think a lot of women have been in that position where they fly out to a guy they think that they can finesse their way and not have sex, and they ended up getting pressured. Something bad ends up. Hanna, hold you, I had an incident where I flew out for a guy. Things didn't go well, I ended up in the hotel by myself. But I was a little ratchet back then. So back then, I mean, I don't think I'm as wretched now, but I wasn't. I wasn't. I didn't have the money I
had now. Um, he did get me around trip ticket, but just no. Because then they didn't come back to the hotel. I decided to sneak off with all of his electronics, so I sow bitch. I sold all his ship and sold that ship when I got back to Atlanta, and oh my god, you're not gonna leave me in a hotel. You're my nerves. She always was, always got a cope with the morals safely. She needs to me in that situation I was in that you was talking about,
because I don't. He left his debit card in the vaccine and I took that hall and I seen myself two thousand dollars on care shown. I told l somebody, she that's really stealing jail. I think I think you the fans listen, I see the band you sold from a nigga's bank account. That's like federal bitch. I just took some ship that was laying around it and you're
probably I wasn't proud of exactly. I saw a computer, not a credit card, as if she was, I shouldn't return it to go down and say, bitch, I ain't gonna hold you. I saw the BlackBerry, I saw, I saw the lastome. You know. So this was back when niggas used to have like poor doble like DVD players and ship that you could play movies. I was ninety s fresh out of high school. Home bitch, so all that bitch I was what he saying. I mean, I just saw him recently, so he must have forgave me.
Um ye sid that walk? Why did he leave you? Um? I don't know. You know what's crazy? I ended up finding out he was just a a hoass nigga. Um, and there was another girl in town. Ironically, that other girl ended up now become a one of his baby mama's. So, um, he was just a holass nigga and he like was playing the field between two of us that were in town. But but what did he say to you when, like
when he realized that stuff was missing? How did he We didn't We didn't talk until years later that nigga slid in my d M S, and I was like, does this nigga know that I'm the same bitch, the soul of ship? I don't even know because we met on on Twitter. Now he's slot into my Instagram d M S. I don't know if you know I'm the same bitch. I don't know, but I'm not gonna like now because we've talked it through and we've like, we're
like really cool. Now we talk about mental health and all, um nothing no, So like now when we talk he's like, damn, we've really been through a lot. We known each other for a long time, and I'm like, you've seen me through my growth with BBM. First off, anyways, before we get out of the b dB conversation, I want to know if y'all have any more tips or any more things that maybe a bit should not do, should do.
What would you suggest to a lady that wants to really get into her I would say her home bag, because a lot of these men I think we deal with out really with any expectations of a relationship or moving forward. So a lot of our our listeners listen to the show and it's like, oh, I want to go through a whole phase. Oh I want casual sex. Oh, I just wanna baller. I want to suck a blue check. What advice would you give to a woman who's literally just looking for that and nothing more. I'll say these.
I think the main thing a lot of women need to stop doing is like getting on Instagram and thinking you gotta look like you know, Miracle Watts or Bernie said, stop looking at other women and what they're getting a lot of times you're gonna sunk with a nigga who don't like giving you money, so but he don't mind taking you shopping. Like I have a nigga he don't really care about giving. He don't really like to give
me money, but he don't mind buying me stuff. So you know, I get what I can from each that it makes you feel better, right, I guess they just feel like it's not like they're not a trick. But I ain't gonna hold you. But you already know I buy. I'll buy a little luxury thing, be like, oh I were luxury, And then nigga, I actually want this too, so so I'll say, and nigga's love to see you with some ship already they make them want to buy you more ships. See you already got it. But not
only that. I feel like women we need to not be afraid to say what you want, like, don't be timid and be yourself Like I feel like a lot of times they get scared, like, oh, I don't want to ask him for nothing, or oh I don't now, don't be a beggie beach. I'm not saying be begging niggas for ship, but Bundy, I'll let niggas know, like you know, you make sure I'm straight. I'm gonna make sure you straight. We're gonna enjoy each other's company and
we're gonna have a good time. I feel like there's nothing wrong with letting the nigga know, you know why you're here, because we know why we're here. It's like it could be fun. It could be a fun I'm manna pop that pussy. You had to spend that busy, It's gonna be fine. And it's like and women like they think, oh, I'm suking with a nigga he worth eighty million dollars, I'm gonna try to get a g
wagon sis. That's not gonna happen. Nine times. Stop yes, stop googling them net worth and thinking this you gotta google. I mean no, but I would hate to fly out to go seeing me. They only got two hundred in the bag, he might see. You want to go back to what Drea said real quick. There was a dude that bought me at like a really expensive person I had and it was out of random and he I was like, what makes you think? I like, like I wanted this right. I was sucking around because I want
the wires out bag. But he was like, oh, I see your lipsticks fly, so like I've seen your little makeup ship, Like I see how you wrote that I would never fucking forget because I didn't. It's not even like I threw it in his face. It wasn't just the one bag I had. He saw the things that I had in my home. He saw the different way that I was like picking out food in a restaurant. So it's like, Okay, when you show that your taste level is at a certain place, the men know they
have to funk with you in a certain way. Don't be like, oh my god, we're gonna got bitch google it not telling it before. Now it's scar guy, and tell the girls and be ready when they take you shop and don't be walking in fucking win being like can I get a size eight? Like no, you've been girl, Yeah, you need to know what bag and she you w before you walk in the story already had that she saved, you know, in an album. I do have one little counter thing, and I want to know how you guys
feel about it. If they're fucking with a corny sugar daddy, like a secret arrangement type of guy. I actually think they kind of like when you're a little okay, like oh my god, that they sometimes they do meet the BDB that like putting you on like, um, we have
a character on my show. His name is Big Papa, and he liked to buy me ship or whatever, and like we went to the you know, you know, I'm about to bring up the watch fucking oh fucking brothers because he got a Richard Miller so you know, Richard Millier was like they started six figures, like it's an expensive ass watch. So I've seen his risk and he was just all I style got all this ship on his race and I was just like, oh, I was like,
I gotta get my ship up. I gotta He was like, oh, don't worry, baby, I'm gonna get you right, like something is like doing stuff like that, Like they like putting you all like, oh, this is this designer, this is this thing you should wear, like especially when you're in college or they know, like, yes, you just work a regular job. Men like to be kept to save a whole. They want to make it feel like putting you on the ship. So just no, you gotta kind of know
the type of dude that you're dealing with. I think also they'll kind of bait for it to Like the first time that happened to me, he took me to this restaurant that I had been before, and he was asking me questions like he wanted the response. He was like, oh, have you ever had a porterhouse? And like he did this thing. I was like, I don't, I don't, I don't think so, like and then I was like, oh
he likes this ship. Now facts about this man. He was shorter, not saying that that means anything, But Dick wasn't all there right, and he wasn't that cute, and I feel like he needed that stroking by getting excited. They're gonna be certain men and it's only probably you'll notice from the repertoire of the women that they've had around. You know what I'm saying, Like, if you know that they're you're a prize. You can tell when you're the
first bad. It is so obvious, but it'd be so good because that's the ones you can get so much out of, Like son, I love it. Yeah, I don't think I ever was the first one. Look at you, you know what. I hate you anyways, trying to shut the funk up. I want to get into it before we get out of here. We don't have a homemail today, but we have a whole confession, um. And the whole confession for this week is Revenge of the Camp. Y'alla, this is some This is some ship. Okay, mind y'all.
Everybody say hi to body. Oh hey, I got him from That's true from Densher's Dane from from so y'all, Revenge of the Come. So. I kept having sex with my ex after we broke up, like most people, hold on,
hold on anyways most Yeah, you know. One day his car was down, so he told me that he was about to walk around the corner to his uncle's house for me to pick him up because his baby mama lived around the corner, so I thought, back towards the end of our relationship, he kept saying he was over his uncle's house, but he was always but he always
thought that that particular uncle was corny. I thought it was weird, but thought maybe he just wanted to get away back then because he didn't have any friends since he wasn't from Detroit. I put it together at that moment that he was cheating at the end of our relationship with his now baby mama because she lived around the corner from his corny asked uncle. On the day that he told me to pick him up from his corny uncle's house, he walked around the corner from his
baby mama's house. I had sex with my baby daddy not even an hour before he called, and he came inside me. I didn't even get a chance to shower before my ex called me. When when he said that part, revenge clicked on. When I picked him up, he stuck his finger in my pussy and put it to his mouth and said that I tasted good, and then proceeded to eat my pussy. Yeah it was good, all right, You was eating my baby daddy's nut. Pis to all men don't play with a woman because we will get
you back in crazy way. I kind of this now that sit Unicorn, she sent a picture of herself. I feel like I remember this girl. I remember her picture. She would do that to you, you say, she looks like she has a little bit of eric about do energy, and I feel like about doing this. So before we get out of here, and before we let all of our listeners know where they can where they can check you guys out. Have y'all ever done anything for revenge?
I'm not spiteful like that, Like if the nigga do something with me and I don't funk, and I don't funk with it, I move around. I'm not a spiteful or like. I don't get try to get revenge on people. And that's what family friends. Niggas carry the way in if somebody does them, I don't. I don't like that negative, bad energy weight on me because I feel like that starts to drag me down. So somebody does the wrong, she to me, I'll just move on. I'll take my
ill and I'll just keep you. Can I ask you a question that comes to happiness, though that's not an easy thing to say. If you know a man cheats on you or is lying to you. Have you ever felt the need to cheat back or lie back because he did it to you? No, because I'm not really a cheater. I just feel like if a nigga is cheating or if I feel like I gotta cheat on you, I'm gonna just break up with you and cheat because I won't do yo. I mean I'm gonna cheat anything
because do you know what? Nigga is lying and he's like, I'm not gonna be able to catch him and we're doing eight, so let's just cheat. And I'm not really avengeful person either, Like I don't really do Look, Yo, been looking at you like you lying on horrible to sing? How now? Girl the hell? No, I'm not lying it? So what have I ever? Don popped up on the isisland and but that wasn't for but that But see that's what I'm saying, So I guess my Yeah, it's
it's not like I'm going after you. But it's like, Okay, you feel like you could go on a trip with a beach. You felt like you could. That is exactly what we're talking about. That's what I'm saying. Little bit but okay, but we was but we wasn't together. But you did it just But I don't feel like that's that man because I didn't take it too far. I didn't know. Yeah, she don't be taking it too far, but she definitely does. But she makes she makes some stories.
So we're very calculus. We're not doing the stars and moons, not on this podcast. We're not. I'm just saying I'm very you know what, will post that same and let the nigg know she at st kir we do the stars in moon. Okay, I post a little Rowley, the little warm you know how to be saying? I hate that. I hate it with shout out to sky too funny how he posted the bitches on Instagram like may so annoying he can't stop playing. I don't did y'all see what he put his foot on? That man? We know
you saw that. Since you can't wait something, but do you know that's coming on dreg close friends, real so quick, real quick, so before we get out of here. Um, something that you are sure to hear every poor mind's episode is legs hitting them vocals and bit you ain't hitting So I don't know what you've been tuned into what you might be fucking too. What lets us know that we have realized bitch give a funk about a nigga? But could you drop some tunes for the girls before
we get up out of him? I would like for you to say return of the Man. I don't know all the songs. I don't know a couple can look yes something you know. We don't want to do karaoke. I'm gonna let you do the ad libs. Okay, since I'm gonna be quiet now we need to This is how we're gonna leave off on the show. Lex Whenever you're ready, Baby, give it to them. Baby, I'm ready because I'm I'm not a word now. While I try to tell you, wait, you from we getn't excited it.
Y'all can tell this is our favorite part of the show. Okay, come on, Yeah, while I try to tell y'all, but I guess you didn't know. Hell it does now I got them because I knew it from the from wing. I broke my I have to come. I coming that I come around. You're like, wait, oh my bad? You like like all about you sound like yes, I tried, yes, I you sound like the black version of a white nineties alternative being you know how to be like share.
Everybody always says she's sound like a black ship, and then the last note, but I do, but I do. That's always say, Okay, I'm gonna add a little applause in this bit. Great ladies. Tell people where they can find you, and tell them, tell them. We didn't even get to discuss it because even having so much fun with y'all, what Poor Minds is about? Yes, Um, honestly Poor Minds believe it or not? It is not a sex podcast. We really talk about she said, believe it
or not? Or not or not. We don't talk about second dig a lot, but it's like we talk about a lot of like our personal lives. How it is dating, um, Drea's in her Lights twenties, I just turned thirty, and how it is like dating in Atlanta, UM, dating men with money that men who don't have so much money. Um, And we talk about we'll talk about this. We're like I said, I'll be Davis Broke, that's you. Um. And we've had episode we talked about like you know, mental
health issues. Uh, we're just really talking about our lives, sex, dating, relationship type stuff. So yeah, you can listen to Poor Minds every Wednesday. It's all all platforms. You can follow us on Instagram, it's p o. You are underscore in my indep which I love. So if you're looking for it, think of you pouring wine into a glass. So guys, can y'all go back to see Lex Andrea on the podcast. At that point, their show was called wine down Wednesdays.
Um so the the poor in it comes from pouring a glass of wines poor minds making those decisions maybe a little kneebready after glass the one class over. I'm so glad you ladies came because I think that, um I had a great time, you know, last week on your show. But like I said, your episode was one of my favorite solo episodes that Mandy has, So I'm just glad that we all got to do it together. If you guys want some more of Lex and go check out Poor Minds. We're gonna put their handles in
the description. And if you want more horrible decisions, you can enjoy this five minute clip. That's all you're gonna get after this show. But you can go to patreon dot com slash Horrible Decisions for five bucks a month. You get bonus episodes. I did a fucking workout last Saturday with everybody. We go on Zoom and we have live episode that's a new Quarantine. I don't know if we're gonna keep that up, but I feel like we should as fun as fun. We just do our episode
on Zoom. Bro. It's like, which, yeah, and we've had I ain't gonna lie, We're gonna talk about it. But I liked having maybe a hundred people in there. The two fifth it was a little was a lot. I think we had. We ended up having about two hundred people the last time. Do y'all put everybody on you? Put everyone on you and then either weezy or I like will tell them to raise their hand or put it thumbs up, and that's how we know they want to speak. So it's really dope because we've got to
hear stories from our patrons. Um, We've had a swinger couple come on and talk about how they're going about, you know, having sex. Darren Quarantine. Everybody's just like minded and fun, and we talked about with a whole room of people, Yo Nicks in there was talking about Nick curve dicks. It was great. But if you want to check us out, it's patreon dot com slash Horrible Decisions. You can't search horrible in the search bar because it's rated X as an extra slutty, but you can't type
it in. Um. We love you guys, enjoy this clip and thank you for listening back you guys, And this is another episode. I gotta leave it this way of Horrible Decisions by Hi hor Hive. This is Wheezy and our guest doesn't have a name today because because he's anonymous. Not really, why do you put that bandanna and nobody can see you? I have my old baby because actually the guests canceled off me last minute and I was like, let me do so I have my boot say hey
o his Brooklyn voice right now? Okay, So I actually did the show once before with somebody I sucked. It was a girl though, remember the skinny model girl, the blonde one. She had a boy your kind of body ms. Anyway, Mandy was so mad at me. She was like, never again, can we have on somebody? Fuck? What's too? I feel like breakups are part of history. But anyway, um, you know, we always do icebreakers when we come on the show, So it's only fair that I do it with my lover.
Makes sense? Okay, So we're gonna go back and forth and see how well we know each other. What's my favorite position? Mm hmmm. I probably would have to say if I limited it to one, because I feel like you have so many different favorites. But um, probably from the back. Probably from the back it is, but it got to be at an angle, gotta be sometimes onout
my stomach because it's minimal effort. Yours. You told me once when we were watching the Zoom Orgy that yours was reverse cow girl, but it got me a girl with a big booty. Yeah, I mean I think you know I'm a very static individual. So what you trying to say now, I'm just saying visually that reverse cow girls it's a vibe, like aesthetically looking right. What about when I do it? No, it's a vibe vibe as well. What's your favorite with me? From the back? Yeah, from
the back, From the back. We just gotta, you know, make sure the angles are always always right. What's my favorite thing to you for breakfast? Uh? Ship avocado toast? I was gonna say, but I guess yeah, yeah, I think, yeah close, it's close, But avocado toast is to go to. I feel yours avocado so as I feel like you want the chicken apple sausage with the almond latte. M yeah, yeah for sure. What's my favorite thing to drink? Mm hmm. Well it's not water, we know that, we know that,
um should. I would say it's some nice cos of meges uh, a little casum meges some some juice. Yours is mess cow. But whenever you're feeling a little fancy, I feel like you drink like whiskey or some ship. Yeah, I mean you know, I like the whiskey at the at home chill vibes grown man ob OBIVI you know what I mean, like one distinguished gentlemen ship. Because I know you. I think I know you. When did I begin to fall in love with you? Mm hmm Probably the first time we uh we sat down on the
head had dinner together. I think I think I think you saw I think you saw it then. I mean obviously, the potential, the potential what dinner before we walked her, after we started before it was before. I mean, you know, I think I think the falling in love process is you know, it is not just instant, you know. I think that kind of takes time. So I think that process began when we sat down and we had a meal together