It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by The Golden Bachelorette herself, the one and only Joan Vassos, and her fiancé, Chock Chapple! Today Joan and Chock chat apartment hunting in NYC, their early relationship hurdle, and of course, how they fight! Plus, Andy gets to ask Chock about his name! Finally, a delightfully juvenile Newlyweds Game that will have you laughing! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use ...
Jan 30, 2025•58 min•Ep. 362
Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.thrivemarket.com/SHANDY to get 30% off your first order plus a free $60 gift! - Go to https://...
Jan 28, 2025•1 hr•Ep. 361
It's a BIG day, Shandies! We've been wanting to pick Nick Tramontin's brain since we recapped his season of The Ultimatum, and that day is officially here. Plus, it's been awhile since we've had a Confessions episode and we're thrilled everyone's favorite Tortured Artist agreed to join us! Today Nick shares the most common misconceptions about him, whether or not he thinks Netflix plied him with alcohol on purpose, his HONEST thoughts on Sandy, Mariah and Vanessa. We also find out whether or not...
Jan 23, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 360
Happy 2025, Shandies!!! We're excited to be reunited with you! In keeping with tradition, we're kicking off this new year with something special. That's right... we're back with volume 5 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks! We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, t...
Jan 16, 2025•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 359
It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by Love Is Blind's latest (and coolest) power couple: the iconic Taylor Krause and Garrett Josemans, now the Josemans-Krauses! Today Taylor and Garrett chat their true first impressions of one another, the early relationship hurdle they're still navigating, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a competitively uncompetitive Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Get to https://www.oneskin.co and use c...
Jan 09, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 358
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps, *finally* recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the third batch of season 3, aka the Finale and Reunion! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! - Go to https://joinbilt.com/SHANDY to earn points by paying rent right now! - Go to https://...
Dec 20, 2024•1 hr 22 min•Ep. 357
It's our last non-recap episode of 2024 and today's all about reflecting on past year! In keeping with tradition, we're answering YOUR questions about our personal bests and worsts of 2024. THANK YOU, lovely Shandies, for yet another year of being the friends we've never met (but in some cases have!) Happy, happy holidays and see you in 2025! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://fromourplace.com/SHANDY to save over 35% on your order now through January 12! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHAND...
Dec 17, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 356
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps, *finally* recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the second batch of season 3, aka episodes 6-8! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://lolavie.com and use code SHANDY15 to get 15% off your order! - G...
Dec 12, 2024•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 355
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your maid of honor feels you should have a dry wedding to accommodate your mutual friend, are you the A-hole for taking issue with that? Is it normal for your boyfriend to follow numerous "Instagram models", or is it just today's culture? If you dig up past dirt on your husband's phone, who's more wrong: him for lying, or you for spying? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https:/...
Dec 10, 2024•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 354
Shandies, you asked, and you shall receive! By VERY popular demand, Shandy is recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 3, episodes 1-5! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use co...
Dec 05, 2024•1 hr 23 min•Ep. 353
Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the FINALE and REUNION for season 7, aka episodes 10-12! Thank you to our sponsors... - Shop the Skims Holiday Shop at https://www.skims.com/shany ! #skimspartner - Get a free travel bag with your first OneSkin order over $79 with code TRAVELGIFT at https://www.oneskin.co! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:20 - Alex & Tim 9:47 - Hannah & Nick 31:13 - Marissa &...
Dec 03, 2024•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 352
HAPPY THANKSGIVING, SHANDIES!!! It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! We're all told not to quit growing up, but when you're an adult making adult decisions, is it ok to be a "quitter"? Is there anything wrong with a "sexless" but otherwise happy marriage? And if your friend who owes you $1000 then has the audacity to ghost you, what should you do? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and...
Nov 28, 2024•52 min•Ep. 351
Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 7, episodes 7-9! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! - Go to https://fromourplace.com/SHANDY to get up to 40% off your order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE gift AND a 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 + 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first subscription! - Go to https...
Nov 26, 2024•1 hr 28 min•Ep. 350
Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by not one, but TWO lovely callers: Sally and Cat! Sally's situation is from several years ago but she still wonders if she was the A-hole for sharing what her husband told her about their mutual acquaintance. Where is the line when it comes to "breaking" the Bro Code, and are you the A-hole if you're the one to then share that information? Cat, meanwhile, is at a crossroads with two platonic friendships. She has felt disappointed by both friends, ...
Nov 21, 2024•1 hr•Ep. 349
Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 7, episodes 1-6! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.branchbasics.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to get 15% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.storyworth.com/DEARSHANDY to save $10 on your first purchase! - Go to https://www.lolavie.com and use code SHANDY15 to get 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHAN...
Nov 19, 2024•1 hr 36 min•Ep. 348
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand Finale of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% o...
Nov 15, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 347
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find out your therapist used to be your mother's therapist, should you "break up" with them, and if so, how? If your friend keeps asking bothersome requests of you, is there a way to get them to stop? If your partner is against marriage, is that a dream you should let go? And if you tend to play photographer to your friend group but are saddened when they never seem to reciprocate, is this a fixable friendship dynamic? Come ...
Nov 13, 2024•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 346
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down Men Tell All for the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Shop Skims Bras at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a free gift + a 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first subscription! - Go to htt...
Nov 07, 2024•53 min•Ep. 345
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to http://www.goodamerican.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get $50 off your first pair! - Go to https://joinbilt.com/SHANDY to earn points by paying rent right now! - Go to https://hexclad.com/SHANDY for 10% off your order! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - If you’re 21+, go to https://bit.ly/vi...
Oct 31, 2024•57 min•Ep. 344
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find yourself in a flirty dynamic with your (married) boss, is this pre-mistress territory? If your sister is interested in your brother-in-law but you question their compatibility, how honest should you be? If your friend sleeps with the ex of another friend of yours, is this friendship-ending messy behavior? And how do you make friends if you're not "pretty"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to o...
Oct 29, 2024•1 hr 19 min•Ep. 343
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to http://lomi.com/SHANDY and use the promo code SHANDY for $50 off your Lomi - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit fo...
Oct 24, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 342
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off...
Oct 17, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 341
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! When in a relationship, is it inappropriate to get dinner alone with your opposite-sex friend and his parents? Is closure within reach when the object of your affection was hot and cold to begin with? And if your boyfriend tells you your singing annoys him, is that a nothing burger or dealbreaker territory? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use...
Oct 15, 2024•58 min•Ep. 340
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Shop Skims Bras at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on $75+! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Get a free travel bag with your first OneSkin order over $79 with code TRAVELGIFT at https://www.oneskin.co! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for...
Oct 10, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 339
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://eatfungies.com and use code SHAN...
Oct 03, 2024•1 hr 14 min•Ep. 338
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you name your friend your baby's guardian but she doesn't live up to the role, is it OK to rescind the title? Does not wanting to attend your friends' kids' birthday parties make you an A-hole? How to choose between Mister Nice Guy and Mister Good In Bed? And finally, the age old question: Just HOW does one go about hitting on their COUSIN?!?!! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction...
Oct 01, 2024•1 hr 14 min•Ep. 337
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - If you’re 21+, go to https://bit.ly/viiashandy and use code SHANDY to receive 15% off! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to ht...
Sep 26, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 336
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the hotly-anticipated series premiere of the Golden Bachelorette! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.keepertax.com/shandy for a free trial plus 10% off your subscription! - Shop the Skims Soft Lounge Collection at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://www.huel.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.fatt...
Sep 19, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 335
It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 4 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received a particularly fabulous selection of Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, and of course, the random stuff in between! Thank you, Shandies, for another year of making us feel seen, understood, and like we're in the company of found family. We love you guys! Come join us in our living room to chat! Thanks to our s...
Sep 17, 2024•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 334
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does breaking a promise more than once make you a "bad" friend? What about costing your friend $$$ because you bailed on her birthday? If your roommate won't stop "complaining" about getting hit on—after always wanting to get hit on—how should you proceed? And another GYM question!!! Woohoo! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% of...
Sep 12, 2024•1 hr 23 min•Ep. 333
