Join us for an insightful episode where we delve into the hidden narratives that often hinder our confidence in dating. Discover how stories such as "I'm not good enough" or "I'm broken" can unconsciously affect your search for meaningful connections. We explore how to replace these limiting beliefs with empowering ones, shedding light on the beauty inherent in our humanity as believed by Christian faith. Also, learn about an upcoming in-person event on May 29th at the Dutch Goose, where we invi...
May 20, 2025•13 min•Ep. 25
Join Lisa and Candice as they dive deep into the complexities of heartbreak recovery. In this insightful episode, psychologist and author Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby shares her wisdom and experience on understanding the physiological and emotional processes involved in breaking up. Discover the stages of healing after a breakup and the importance of embracing dark emotions as a path to personal growth. Lisa explains her eight-step process to help individuals move beyond pain and grow into stronger, hea...
Feb 11, 2025•40 min•Ep. 24
Greetings, Dateology! Welcome back for Season 3. Today, we will hear some live audio from our most recent event. Have you ever struggled with how to date in a large group of available men and women? What if there is more than one person of interest? In this episode, we explore getting to know people in a respectful way that makes it possible to date more than one person in a group. Follow us on IG @dateology_events Check out our new website www.DateologyPodcast.com This week, I will be speaking ...
Feb 04, 2025•19 min•Ep. 23
Welcome to another captivating episode of Dateology, hosted by Candice Thompson. We're excited to announce that Dateology now has a presence on Instagram (Dateology_events), where you can stay updated about our exciting in-person events, including the upcoming gathering in Menlo Park. Dive into today's episode as Candice shares invaluable insights into building meaningful relationships by focusing on what you create together rather than individual infatuation. Learn why understanding joint value...
Jan 14, 2025•17 min•Ep. 22
In this episode, we delve into the complex intersection of dating and politics. With the 2024 presidential election season in full swing, tensions are high, and political discourse is unavoidable. Our goal is to help you navigate these challenging conversations with thoughtfulness and respect, whether you're dating or engaging with others who hold differing views. We'll explore the importance of self-assessment to understand your political stance and its impact on your relationships. We'll also ...
Jul 28, 2024•34 min•Ep. 19
Welcome back to Dateology with your host, Candice Thompson! In this episode, Candice celebrates six years of the podcast and dives into a topic that surprisingly hasn't been fully covered here before: online dating. Candice discusses the importance of online dating in today's world, especially for those who may not have many opportunities to meet singles in person. She provides practical tips on how to navigate the online dating world, from choosing the right platform to creating an attractive a...
Jun 19, 2024•26 min•Ep. 18
Greetings, Dateology community! Candice here. Jumping on to release a bonus episode & to provide you with some updates. In this episode, I explore the idea that sexuality beyond sex could involve moments of deep connection with God, providing a sense of oneness and fulfillment. This perspective could empower singles to find fulfillment outside of traditional sexual experiences, promoting a holistic understanding of sexuality. Thank you for joining me on this journey. I'll be back with more f...
Jun 05, 2024•11 min•Ep. 17
What a good ol' fun time it's been, and now we're at the season 2 finale! On it, we do a total recap of some of our favorite moments on the show. Think of it like our greatest hits! This marks the end of Matt's consistent involvement with the project, but he might pop in from time to time. And Candice plans on continuing to deliver some sweet, sweet nuggets! To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ ....
Dec 11, 2020•1 hr 10 min•Season 2Ep. 15
This is a very timestamped episode on the weirdest year of our lives: 2020! Matt and Candice are back to discuss what it looks like to date digitally and safely in a pandemic—including how there might be lots of room for creativity! To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
Nov 01, 2020•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 14
Is Valentine's really just for lovers? We think not. On the market, off the market or somewhere in between, Valentine's day can be enjoyed by all. How? We are glad you asked... -Happy Valentines Day from all of us at Dateology. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
Feb 14, 2020•37 min•Season 2Ep. 13
Holiday season is upon us, and the office parties, trips home to family, and New Year's preparations are in full swing. In this season, dating seems to get extra amplified with each new Christmas romcom. What's God's message of empowerment and grace for dating couples and singles this time of year? Join Matt and Candice as they talk it through, share stories, and toss out some ideas and opinions about dating around the holidays. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, v...
Dec 10, 2019•54 min•Season 2Ep. 12
In some ways, all Candice and Matt do is talk about dating and faith on this show. But let's dive deeper into the number one question people have for us about dating: what do you think about Christians dating non-Christians? Join us as we seek out wisdom from the stories we've gathered and open the Bible to guide our path. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ . Audio engineered by Joey!...
Nov 18, 2019•38 min•Season 2Ep. 11
What about when your friend starts to seem oh so dateable? Join Candice and Matt as they discuss friendship and dating. Maybe the friend zone has more to it than first meets the eye. What if your next date might be with a friend from the past? To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
Sep 23, 2019•1 hr 5 min•Season 2Ep. 10
Back for part two of the conversation on Attachment Theory, Candice and Matt ask the important questions about attachment in dating: How would it actually if people who were psychologically secure dated one another? And how does the security of God help bring us into the freedom of more secure relationships? To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
Aug 16, 2019•1 hr 8 min•Season 2Ep. 9
How do our early established patterns of relating affect how we date? Listen as Candice expertly teaches about the psychology of attachment. And listen as Matt tries to keep pace with her psychological wisdom! Referenced: How We Love by Milan and Kay Yerkovich To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
Jul 26, 2019•44 min•Season 2Ep. 8
Sharing a quick nugget of wisdom (ain't it so Christian to refer to bits of wisdom as "nuggets??"), Candice speaks from her psychological expertise about boundaries. What are appropriate emotional boundaries to keep in relationships? When is self-disclosure a good idea, and when it is right to hold some vulnerable parts of your story for another time? Plus, Candice announces our need for a sound engineer and the upcoming Happy Hour event in San Francisco on Thursday 6/27/19 To learn more about t...
Jun 21, 2019•16 min•Season 2Ep. 7
How do you know when to get exclusive and when to keep it casual? Candice and Matt explore what goes into the conversation: "I want to be exclusive. How about you?" Plus, why not talk about Saved by the Bell and the Archie comics? To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
Jun 01, 2019•57 min•Season 2Ep. 6
Taking a slight detour from a show all about Christian dating, Candice and Matt discuss singleness. What makes it so difficult? Why's it so beautiful? And hold on a sec... Jesus was single. That's a game changer. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
Feb 22, 2019•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 5
Candice and Matt chat about the reality of rejection and its foreboding presence in dating. What does it look like to let someone down easily, and how can connecting with Jesus help us handle the pain of rejection? To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
Feb 08, 2019•57 min•Season 2Ep. 4
Candice and Matt discuss all that is amusing, strange, illuminating, and sometimes painful about meeting your partner’s family. And ultimately, they discover how as followers of Jesus, there is great opportunity for honor, redemption and writing a new story. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
Jan 22, 2019•46 min•Season 2Ep. 3
Candice and Matt talk with Mark Scandrette about the many complexities of city life and how they can make dating relationships challenging — but not impossible! Mark has been doing Christian ministry in San Francisco for 22 years, so this an episode full of wisdom and opportunities for reflection. Mark Scandrette is an author, teacher, activist, and coach, and you can find all his books and other resources at https://www.markscandrette.com . To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt ...
Jan 08, 2019•59 min•Season 2Ep. 2
Candice and Matt return for the first episode of season 2! This episode is all about where to meet people. And the question they spend a good amount of time on is... where are YOU? To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
Dec 25, 2018•43 min•Season 2Ep. 1
How about we reflect on and celebrate some of what we’ve learned in a season 1 culmination? Join Candice and Matt as they enjoy a fun retrospective. Plus, they have a special word of blessing and gratitude for all their listeners. And... they announce a new website where you can reach out! To meet, visit https://www.dateology.org/
Aug 30, 2018•36 min•Season 1Ep. 14
How do race, ethnicity, dating, and the Gospel all come together? Race is a complicated thing to talk about, and Candice, Matt, and their guest Steve discuss it all in this vulnerable and thoughtful conversation. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
Aug 14, 2018•38 min•Season 1Ep. 13
So the relationship is progressing… what happens now? In this episode, Candice and Matt talk about serious relationships and how they can trigger fears of intimacy and commitment. Plus, the team chats about how great it is to pray for God's guidance as a relationship becomes more serious. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
Jul 28, 2018•44 min•Season 1Ep. 12
Why are people drawn to one another? Join Candice and Matt as they talk about what tend to be attractive qualities and what theories explain attraction. Plus, they'll consider how living according to a God-given calling might be one of the most attractive things of all. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
Jul 16, 2018•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 11
Ever had a crush on a friend? Or had a friend say they have a crush on you? Candice and Matt interview Emily, who shares her experience dating a longtime pal. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
Jun 30, 2018•41 min•Season 1Ep. 10
What can we learn from Cale’s reflections on the end of a relationship? Join Matt and Candice as they chat with Cale about our tendencies toward selfishness in dating. Plus, what about that one wild date with the woman who enjoyed dining with the dead? To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
Jun 16, 2018•47 min•Season 1Ep. 9
When the breakup happens, where do we go next? Candice and Matt talk about breakups — in the midst of the conversation and in the aftermath. There's hope in knowing that God is always near to the brokenhearted. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
May 17, 2018•52 min•Season 1Ep. 7
What do you do when messy, broken stuff comes up in a dating relationship? Is it worth it to keep going? Candice and Matt talk about the brokenness that inevitably surfaces in every relationship, and how the good news of Jesus empowers us to persevere and grow through it all. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/ .
Apr 19, 2018•33 min•Season 1Ep. 6
