Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode , dropping the third week of every month! This November, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Sagittarius man obsessed with YOU. Get ready to discover: 🔥 How to capture his adventurous spirit and keep him intrigued. 🔥 Foolproof ways to balance his love for freedom with your desire for connection. 🔥 What he craves in a relationship (and what will send him running). 🔥 The signs he’s losing interest—and how to reignite his excitement for yo...
Nov 17, 2025•18 min
You don’t want flowers. You want reassurance. If he can post a story, he can send a sentence that says “I care about you.” This episode is for every woman who feels crazy for needing words - because guess what? You’re not clingy. You’re not insecure. You’re under-affirmed. We’re unpacking why hearing “I love you,” “I’m proud of you,” or “I’m here” hits like emotional oxygen… and why silence feels like abandonment. If his silence makes you overthink, if you keep replaying one compliment for three...
Nov 13, 2025•26 min
The evil eye lives in your group chat. Did I stutter? Ever notice the SECOND you share good news - your life collapses faster than a Nature Valley bar? Same. One minute I’m being loved correctly, soft life era unlocked… Next minute? Like not even 24 hours later - I break my foot, bleed from my privates, and end up crawling around my house like a feral naked raccoon throwing up on my hardwood floors with my milk bags hanging low, while I genuinely wonder how I got here. The evil eye is REAL. But ...
Nov 12, 2025•35 min
Struggling with your goals? then listen to this. Today we dive into my dumpster fire of a life before diving into the science of habit formation with a sprinkle of sarcasm. We’re breaking down the game-changing insights from James Clear's Atomic Habits to help you build habits that actually stick. I'll walk you through the four simple steps to form habits that work for you, not against you. It’s educational, it’s real, and eye opening. Tune in to stop overthinking and start automating your way t...
Oct 29, 2025•31 min
What do you do when your hot‑girl era turns into a medical horror story? I broke my foot on a date, got a UTI, and spent the day being gaslit by the ER - who sent me home TWICE with a literal displaced fracture… but not before charging me for wasting my time. I can’t walk for two months, might need surgery, and now I’m side‑eyeing my friends because my scorpio senses are tingling that one of them definitely gave me the evil eye. It’s giving delusion, humiliation, and the American healthcare syst...
Oct 23, 2025•37 min
Start with the PSA - it’s your biology lesson in detachment. Send it to every girl who caught feelings after he came inside her. Then we dive into vag myths, s@x lies & the patriarchy - we’re breaking down everything men still get wrong about women’s bodies. What’s the craziest thing a woman’s admitted about her taco? The biggest myth men still believe in 2025? And is it true a fishy taco is actually HIS fault? Yeah, I asked all of it and more. :) The founders of Winx Health join me for the ...
Oct 16, 2025•50 min
Thinking about starting that business, becoming an influencer, or finally posting that video?? If the only thing standing between you and your dreams is worrying what people might think.. then this episode is about to set you FREE. Truth is, other people’s opinions are keeping you Broke & boring babe .. which is why today, we’re unpacking Mel Robbins’ Let Them Think Bad Thoughts . And once you get it, you’ll realise other people’s opinions have zero power over you. This is your permission sl...
Oct 02, 2025•28 min
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode , dropping the third week of every month! This September, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Libra man obsessed with YOU. Get ready to discover: 🔥 How to charm the ultimate romantic and keep him captivated by you. 🔥 Foolproof ways to balance his love for beauty, harmony, and connection. 🔥 What he values most in a relationship (and what will tip the scales against you). 🔥 The signs he’s pulling away—and how to bring back the spark. 🔥 S...
Sep 22, 2025•25 min
Think you’ve had the worst date ever? Try going out with a musician… WORST. DATE. FINAL. BOSS. From men wearing my Skims to guys with kids my age, the dating pool isn’t just in hell… it’s swimming in piss and UTIs. Welcome to Part 5, besties. Buckle up because this episode is UNHINGED and will have you laughing your socks off. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....
Sep 19, 2025•33 min
Welcome to the narcissist playbook Think you’ve never dated a narcissist? Think again. From love bombing to gaslighting to the classic “I’m sorry you feel that way” non-apology—these are the Top 5 Mind Games Narcissists Play that’ll have you questioning your reality, your group chat, and maybe even your sanity. On today's episode, Violetta is breaking down their playbook, exposing every trick, and telling you exactly how to spot the BS before it wrecks your self-esteem. If you’ve ever left a dat...
Sep 11, 2025•37 min
No intro. No filter. Just me crashing out mid-coffee jitters, questioning a man’s job, his five passports, and whether I just met my future husband or the next Tinder Swindler. The dating pool is in hell. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Aug 21, 2025•34 min
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode , dropping the third week of every month! This August, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to getting a Virgo man obsessed with YOU. Get ready to discover: 🔥 The secrets to understanding his perfectionist tendencies—and how to meet his high standards. 🔥 Foolproof ways to earn his trust and keep his attention. 🔥 What he values most in a partner (and what will make him back away). 🔥 Subtle signs he’s losing interest—and how to win him back effortless...
Aug 18, 2025•23 min
Okay besties… it begins. I’m officially back in the dating game - I'm talking Hinge, matchmakers, awkward dates I already regret, and I’m taking you with me. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Aug 14, 2025•37 min
Think getting ahead is about luck? Think again. In this episode of Almost Adulting , I’m giving you my unfiltered playbook for turning every 'no' into a 'hell yes,' getting hired when you’re underqualified, nailing interviews, and beating the competition for the promotion you deserve. Today you’ll learn how to: • Get a YES (even when you’re not the obvious choice) through manipulation • Turn rejection into opportunity • Outshine everyone in an interview and get hired on the spot • Position yours...
Aug 09, 2025•36 min
Why Women Are Choosing Younger Men This week on Almost Adulting , I’m joined by the power couple that broke the internet—and probably a few age-gap double standards. Caroline Stanbury (yes, that Caroline from Ladies of London and Real Housewives of Dubai ) and her hot husband Sergio (ex-pro footballer, full-time golden retriever energy) are here to prove that age is just a number—and chemistry is undefeated. We’re talking: Vagina Watch 2016 —where the love story began Sleeping together early (an...
Jul 31, 2025•51 min
Do you ever feel weirdly lonely in your relationships? Like you’re the one always doing the work—overthinking, overgiving, overfunctioning—and you still feel...empty? You’re not crazy. You might just have grown up with an emotionally immature parent. In this special Benson Book Club episode, I break down the first chapter of Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents and walk you through the hidden patterns that are silently shaping your love life, self-worth, and ability to trust your insti...
Jul 27, 2025•27 min
If you're in your twenties then listen to this. Your 20s are all about embracing mistakes, growth, and becoming the person you’re meant to be. In today's short episode, I’m sharing 20 things your 20s are too short for—like staying in toxic relationships, letting others define your worth, and holding back from living your best life. Plus, stick around for a powerful manifesting mantra at the end to help you shape the future you desire. <3 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and Cal...
Jul 21, 2025•19 min
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode , dropping the third week of every month! This July, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Leo man obsessed with YOU. Get ready to discover: 🔥 What he craves in a partner—and how to become his ultimate desire. 🔥 Foolproof ways to grab his attention and keep his spotlight on you. 🔥 Subtle signs he’s losing interest—and how to win back his fiery passion. 🔥 How to handle his bold personality and keep the romance alive. 🔥 The best strategies...
Jul 21, 2025•23 min
Ring ring… hellllllo? It’s your big sis Violetta coming to your rescue! Hi besties!! It’s the second week of the month, and you know what that means: a brand new episode of Ask Violetta . But today, we’re doing things a little differently... We’re answering just one question. But not just any question—the one that haunts your group chat at 2am: “What if they’re your soulmate… but the timing’s off?” You swear they’re the one. Your twin flame. Your human dopamine hit. Every text gives you fanny fl...
Jul 10, 2025•30 min
Why are we so f*cking mean to ourselves? This week, we’re diving deep into that nonstop voice in your head that tells you you’re not good enough, smart enough, hot enough, just... not enough . You’ll find out why it exists, how it got there, and how to finally shut it the hell up. We’re talking: · The real science behind your inner critic (yes, it’s a thing - it’s called the Default Mode Network ) · Why comparing yourself to everyone on the internet is literally frying your brain ( hi, Social Co...
Jul 03, 2025•30 min
Think you’re low-maintenance until they stop texting back? Can’t breathe unless you’re together 24/7? Sounds like you’ve got a ‘Quality Time’ love language. But don’t panic... needing time isn’t the problem, ignoring it is. Hi besties!! Today we’re breaking down everything you need to know about the second most common love language: Quality Time. So before you call it quits, LISTEN UP. If you’re feeling unloved, or they swear you’re “too needy,” this episode is your playbook. I’m breaking down h...
Jun 26, 2025•28 min
What if I told you the reason you don’t have your summer body… is because of your situationship? This week I’m joined by Sarah Perl , aka The Hot High Priestess , and we’re unpacking why your anxiety, trauma, and bad taste in men are literally showing up on your body. We go deep on: Why your nervous system is hoarding fat like it’s hoarding toxic men What it really takes to make a man obsessed with you How to manifest your ex back - and when to not Law of Detachment: stop obsessing, start attrac...
Jun 19, 2025•49 min
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode , dropping the third week of every month! This June, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to getting a Cancer man obsessed with YOU . Get ready to learn: 🔥 What makes him the ultimate romantic—and how to use it to your advantage. 🔥 Foolproof ways to connect with his sensitive side and make him feel safe with you. 🔥 What he craves in a relationship (and what will push him away). 🔥 The signs he’s withdrawing emotionally—and how to bring him back close...
Jun 16, 2025•26 min
You’re not single because you’re broken—maybe you’re just asking the wrong questions. In this deeply personal and hilariously honest solo episode, I share 30 questions you need to ask yourself if you’re serious about finding real love—not the situationship, not the trauma-bond, not the 2-week high followed by ghosting. We're talking love that lasts . I also open up for the first time about being deaf —how it’s made me feel small, different, and deeply afraid of being pitied… and how I moved past...
Jun 12, 2025•41 min
Today I’m joined by viral creator MJ Gray to break down everything from the Wizard Liz drama, delusional men who want “traditional women” but can’t even lead… to why the 50/50 dating fantasy is officially dead. We’re talking cheating, bill-paying boyfriends, men who secretly resent powerful women, and why you should think twice who you have a baby with. If you’ve ever wondered why the guy who chases you ends up trying to humble you, why some friends feel like emotional leeches, or why men always...
Jun 06, 2025•1 hr 2 min
One random act of kindness, a stranger on the freeway, and a moment that changed everything. Listen to this to restore your faith in humanity and discover how a split-second decision can reveal the goodness still left in the world Wanna listen to this episode AD FREE?? Go to my ad free subscription at - almostadulting.supercast.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info ....
May 29, 2025•39 min
Welcome back to Benson Book Club ! Today we’re diving into Chapter 4 of Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay Gibson—aka the one that explains why you can’t trust, love, or text back without spiraling. Think your mom’s a narcissist? You might be onto something. Convinced your dad’s emotional unavailability ruined your love life? You’re not wrong. This episode is your Roman Empire. If you’ve ever felt unloved, emotionally starved, or like you sabotage every relationship—this m...
May 22, 2025•1 hr
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode , dropping the third week of every month! This May, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Gemini man obsessed with YOU . Get ready to uncover: 🔥 The secrets behind his charm and dual nature—and how to make them work in your favor. 🔥 Proven tips to spark his curiosity and keep him endlessly intrigued by you. 🔥 What excites him most in a relationship (and what will make him lose interest). 🔥 The telltale signs he’s getting bored—and how to ...
May 19, 2025•18 min
Ever lost four teeth and exposed your tampon string on a first date? Chloe has. But guess what hurts even more? Friendship breakups. Today, joined by Alexa & Chloe from the Unbothered Podcast, we’re getting real about the friends who ghosted us, the emotional vampires, moving on without closure, and the painful truth that sometimes friendships end because someone stopped pretending. At what point do you stop performing for someone who’s not even clapping? Tune in for some unhinged, hilarious...
May 15, 2025•57 min
Wanna get spoiled and stay in charge? This week, I’m breaking down how to play the game like a princess with a PhD in power. You’ll learn how to make him think he’s leading—while you’re actually driving the damn car. Tap for the cheat code to his ego. The secret sauce? Tune in. I’m not giving it all away here, babe. Wanna listen to this episode AD FREE?? Go to my ad free subscription at - https://almostadulting.supercast.com Today's episode is brought to you by: AQUA-TRU - Get 20% OFF any AquaTr...
May 09, 2025•28 min
