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Cupid's Coach with Julie Ferman

Julie Fermanjulieferman.com
Are you Single? Wish you weren't? I'm your host, Julie Ferman, join me as I challenge today's evolutionary, modern day dating experts, through interviews that are frank, courageous, open-hearted and often hilarious. We'll shine light on your blind spots (yep, we've all got 'em) and we'll laugh through our A-HA moments together. You'll hear about couples who did dating well and found each other, and the flops -- those who are doing dating badly -- we'll learn from them too. How might you do dating differently? What subtle and not so subtle changes might you make that might just change everything? Join me on this journey as we listen, laugh, learn and love!
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Episodes

Ep. 185 - Orna & Matthew Walters

Orna & Matthew Walters, author of Julie's favorite new dating book, "Getting It Right This Time". Are you suspicious of people who like you? Accidental Love, meeting the "right" person - Is that the answer? Fantasies, myths, and why team sports help to prepare us for relationship. And the trouble with the meaning we assign to emotions.

Jan 14, 202555 min

Ep. 184 - New Year Reflections, Plans & News.

What are your goals, dreams, and aspirations for this new year? I'm sharing mine in this New Year Update, and I'm curious to hear what your goals are. Making 2025 an epic, lovely, fruitful year - we'll do it together.

Jan 07, 20251 hr 1 min

Ep. 183 - Where Does Romance Come From?

Matchmaker, Cat Cantrill has been in your shoes. What rules did she wisely break in choosing her husband? Rethinking your presentation for first impressions in dating. Care to care what you wear. About beards...Singles Events from the producers' perspective.

Dec 31, 202444 min

Ep. 182 - Wake Up Call

Wake Up Call for deservedly selective women. Evan Marc Katz, Dating Coach for strong, successful women. Foreplay, sex, intimacy, money and communication - what role does each play in a great relationship?

Dec 24, 202459 min

Ep. 181 - Grandpappy of the Dating Industry

Jeffrey Ullman, Grandpappy of the Dating Industry. Founder of Great Expectations Video Dating Service. What inspired him to invent and develop the franchise model? Married life - What are Jeffrey's ABCs for making love last with Cindy over 30 years?

Dec 17, 202453 min

Ep. 180 - About Sex

My guest is Elizabeth Ashford, founder of Beyond The Beez. Her mission is to normalize the conversation around sexual health and self-discovery. Virgins, born-again virgins, what does sex mean and what does it look like today?

Dec 10, 202452 min

Ep. 179 - We're Disconnected From Love

We're disconnected from love, says my guest, Kailien Rosenberg, Love Architect/Celebrity Matchmaker. What is it to be in love? Can you handle tough Love? What's it like to match Celebrities? Can a drinker partner well with a sober person? Why we should NOT listen to our girlfriends' dating advice. Managing the Money and Love dynamic through confronting ego and status.

Dec 03, 202449 min

Ep. 178 - Who's Getting it? Who's NOT?

Four men, two are flunking dating and two are succeeding beautifully. Where are the blind spots? Why does one man stumble while the other dances through his dating journey? Where do you see yourself in these scenarios? I know, Uh oh!

Nov 26, 202443 min

Ep. 177 - Matchmaking Miracles

Human Spirit Beats Fantasy & Instinct. How is it that two clients are suddently having more success in dating? They're puttling fantasy and instinct aside, to make intelligent choices, by breaking out of old patterns. Do you have the courage to do the same?

Nov 19, 202421 min

Ep. 175 - How They Met. Part One.

Real, live happy couples. How did they meet? Why did they nearly miss each other? Each story has a lesson. The issues: Kids, Religion, Politics, Age. Readiness. Marital Status.

Nov 05, 202436 min

Ep. 174 - Abuse is Real

Storey Pryor in the Hotseat, sharing courageously her Storey. A survivor of domestic abuse, now a champion for self love, resiliency and fortitude. And she's got the secret for sculpting those sexy legs we all want.

Oct 29, 202456 min

Ep. 173 - DON'T Hire a Matchmaker?

What's the smarter alternative? Nicole Middendorf, Financial Advisor, shares how a simple dating coaching consultation can change everything for a high-value, accomplished woman.

Oct 22, 202453 min

Ep. 172 - Dating an Evolved Man.

Love Facilitator, Barry Selby in the hot seat. Are you dating to be entertained, protected, or to be distracted? Are you happy enough already to be chosen? Why an "evolved" man is tough to match, and the qualities he truly needs to see in a woman in order to pursue her. What is the Red Flag that disqualifies a woman in his eyes?

Oct 15, 202455 min

Ep. 171 - Singles Event Strategies and a Surprise Set-Up.

Knoxville's Matchmaker, Ella Scaduto, engages and entertains us as she shares strategies for success at singles events. Why live events are more impactful than ever and how her mom tricked her into meeting her future husband.

Oct 08, 202458 min

Ep. 170 - Dare You Date the Dating Coach?

Jonathon Aslay, Relationship Coach in the Hot Seat, digging in with Julie on exclusivity, monogamy, and standards in modern era dating. Who drives, who pays, who drinks and who doesn't and do these issues really matter? The importance of addressing key issues in the vetting process, before the first date - Dating for Grown-Ups.

Oct 01, 202450 min

Ep. 169 - FROME: Bringing Back Real Dating.

A new dating app that requires the couple that matched to meet in person within 24 hours. Interesting. And a marriage that started at a dinner party, old school. How are YOU meeting candidates today?

Sep 24, 202423 min

Ep. 167 - You, psychic?

How in touch are you with your powers of intuition? My guest is Shannon Swallow, founder of the Clairity School. Is our intuition affected by sex and related hormones? How "healed" do we need to be before engaging again in dating? And can we actually manage our energy? Join the conversation.

Sep 10, 202450 min

Ep. 166 - Managing Uncertainty

How comfortable can you be...being uncomfortable? Cultivating our capacity for being fully present, engaged in the current moment, vs trying to "get somewhere" - this is key to doing dating well. How to plan our days, weeks, months and the year ahead in the series of NOW moments before us.

Sep 03, 202424 min

Ep. 165 - Couplehood. A Therapist's Perspective

Therapist Marina Edelman is in the hot seat. A Gottman level 3 trained therapist, she specializes in transforming relationships and nurturing personal growth. We address the importance of couples therapy, managing communication challenges, listening skills, resolving conflicts, and divorce recovery.

Aug 27, 202455 min

Ep. 164 - Online dating: Its Evolution and Future

Online dating: its evolution and future. My guest is Mark Brooks, renowned dating industry consultant, who gives us a bird's-eye view of the love search process. And we address resiliency, the key to navigating REALLY hard things that happen to us. His story is mind-blowing, and we're fortunate to have him with us. Join us.

Aug 20, 202454 min

Ep. 163 - Confidence Building, the Outside In Approach.

My guest is Kimmy Seltzer, Confidence Therapist, sharing the essentials for developing authentic attractiveness. The power of vibrant, solid colors. About beards, heels, and those awful Duck Lips. Join us.

Aug 13, 202446 min

Ep. 162 - Politics and Dating

Who are you missing and who's missing you, because of the way you've got things wired in your mind about politics? Your survival / thrival guide is here.

Aug 06, 202423 min

Ep. 161 - Mindset Matters

How two women keep getting referrals from the matchmaker and why one woman .... doesn't. Why some folks' calendars are nicely populated with first, second, third dates and ... some folks' calendars are empty. It's mindset. Let's check yours.

Jul 16, 202432 min

Ep. 160 - The Dating Industry - Transformed.

Listen in, to find out WHY and HOW. Alternatives to online dating, Personal Matchmaking WITHOUT the whopper fee. From Free to VIP, multi-tiered client engagement process. Service at all levels. Imagine that.

Jul 09, 20241 hr 1 min

Ep. 159 - What’s true...and what’s horsesh*t?

Three Mitzvah Match Victories - how did they happen? What’s surprising and remarkable about each? The Zen of caring for horses, dogs, critters. The beauty of the open space between relationships - what are YOU doing with the dash that this time is? Community updates and invitations galore for you. Please join us.

Jun 02, 202456 min

Ep. 158 - Bright Spots & Blind Spots

Engaging with "strangers" - Why you should do it. How distance can bring two people closer. How flexing your flexability muscles makes you more lovable.

Apr 30, 202420 min

Ep. 157 - Think It Be It with John Mitchell

John Mitchell, creator of Think It Be It, is my guest, sharing the solution to most all of our problems in life - by influencing our subconscious mind, by design, on purpose. He used this process to achieve monumental success professionally and more importantly, to manifest his wife, at the age of 50, having never been married and after lots and lots and lots of dating. It's an honor to share him with you..

Apr 12, 202452 min

Ep. 156 - The Cupid's Coach Community

Who are you guys? What are we creating together? Who gets to participate, and who doesn't? Why do I LOVE providing free Mitzvah Matches, every chance I can? How might you be the recipient? Where do YOU want to be in the Cupid's Coach Community. Why Boot Camp is co-ed, all ages. How to get invited to retreats? Why are free introductions more powerful than for-fee introductions? The future starts now.

Mar 29, 202454 min
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