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Cupid's Coach with Julie Ferman

Julie Fermanjulieferman.com
Are you Single? Wish you weren't? I'm your host, Julie Ferman, join me as I challenge today's evolutionary, modern day dating experts, through interviews that are frank, courageous, open-hearted and often hilarious. We'll shine light on your blind spots (yep, we've all got 'em) and we'll laugh through our A-HA moments together. You'll hear about couples who did dating well and found each other, and the flops -- those who are doing dating badly -- we'll learn from them too. How might you do dating differently? What subtle and not so subtle changes might you make that might just change everything? Join me on this journey as we listen, laugh, learn and love!
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Episodes

Ep. 155 - How Traveling Solo Prepares You For Partnership

Robin Fisher Roffer, Brand Stratagist, author and solo travel enthusiast shares why traveling alone makes you a better, richer, more interesting and more lovable person. What a mature partnership looks like and why being with the Evolved Guy can be a problem....

Mar 19, 20241 hr

Ep. 154 - F the Fairy Tale with Damona Hoffman

Damona Hoffman is my guest. She is the author of "F the Fairy Tale" and the host of the Dates & Mates Podcast. She busts the four dating myths and highlights the four pillars of lasting love. How to beat the online dating algorithms and the importance of bringing empathy to the dating process.

Mar 12, 202453 min

Ep. 153 - Making Quality Connections After 50

Andrew Dowling, founder of Stitch is in the hot seat. A 50+ Community in 5000 cities all around the world for 10 years, Stitch connects people for companionship, shared interests, and activities. Combatting loneliness, making social connections, enriching lives through natural passions of all kinds. How walking/hiking together solidifies relationships.

Mar 03, 202429 min

Ep. 152 - Dating Can Be Fun!

Really? Dating Coach, Sally Landau shows us how! Flirting - what is it, really? How is married life with Ken, after 20 years, and what did she do to SAVE the introduction from falling apart?

Feb 27, 202454 min

Ep. 151 - Words To Use Before, During, and After The Date!

Nick Notas, Dating Coach for Men, shares must-know advice on early engagement. What to say, how and when to say it. Confidence building, the KEY to nailing down the first / second date. How to say difficult things, and what a woman must do to save the guy, save the date and transform our dating culture.

Feb 20, 202446 min

Ep. 150 - Two Dating Coaches...Comparing Notes!

My guest is Lisa Shield, Dating / Love / Relationship Coach. What are The Four Agreements? Initiating is whose responsibility? What is it to "take the Feminine Lead" ? Do we need to be needed? How transparent to be about the desire to have children? Join us.

Feb 14, 202454 min

Ep. 149 - The Great Love Debate's Brian Howie...plus Mr. Ferman!

Great Love Debate host (and Cupid's Coach podcast producer!) Brian Howie is in the Hot Seat, with Mr. Feman - Julie's hubby since 1990, former franchisee with Great Expectations Video Dating Service - where Gil sold Julie a membership to his agency. 34 years later, what does Gil have to say about Dating and the Dating Industry today? What's happening with The Great Love Debate in 2024?

Feb 06, 20241 hr 3 min

Ep. 148 - From The Horse's Mouth

What's it like being The Guy who's deservedly selective, sincerely seeking a relationship, struggling through the dating process? What does he need in order to engage with a woman at the coffee shop? What are HIS pressure points? When the matchmaker can't get his Yes for the introduction, why is that?

Jan 30, 202447 min

Ep. 147 - Who’s good? Who’s bad? Who’s ugly?

Why are some people one-date-wonder specialists? What does “doing dating well” look like? Good dating, Bad dating, Ugly dating— How would you rate your behavior of late? Edu-taining stories await for you here.

Jan 21, 202444 min

Ep. 146 - Grown-Up Dating Demonstrated Beautifully

What "doing dating well" sounds like. Jonathon Aslay and Dr. Corinne Devin share insider perspectives on modern dating. What's intimidating, what's alluring in today's world? Alignment, the deception of chemistry, and the Sniff Test. How proactive to be? How much work should it be to do dating well? And how to say difficult things.

Dec 24, 202354 min

Ep. 145 - What Does Your Living Space Say About You?

Does it reveal that you’re ready for and prepared to have someone else around? My guest is Marlena Boardman, Interior Designer, whose company, Hello Handsome helps single men up their game in the arena of living space. How’s your Zoom environment? Your car? Decluttering does what for us?

Dec 19, 202338 min

Ep. 144 - Matchmakers, Behind the Scenes

Be the fly on the wall, as two world class matchmakers talk turkey about what it’s like behind the scenes. My guest is Laurie Berzack, founder of Carolinas Matchmaker. Sex - when to go there and why we’re wise to wait for it. Why women are smart to be dating online and how to do it well. And the evolution of the planning of The Date.

Dec 05, 202348 min

Ep. 143 - What a High Quality Man Needs

From the Horse’s Mouth! My guest is Thomas Carouso, MFT, sharing the grown-up, mature guy’s perspective in dating. What is it that he is most seeking? Beyond attraction, what qualities are essential for a conscious, evolved man to see in a woman, to take her seriously? He’d rather be single forever than partner with a woman who isn’t ….what?

Dec 04, 20231 hr 1 min

Ep. 142 - Chemistry Preparedness

Looking for chemistry? What are YOU doing to seed it, to set the stage for connection? My guest is Dating Coach Hunt Ethridge, master of “chemistry preparedness” - sharing with us what tangential questions to ask in the dating process. What’s a positive emotional question? How can we set the stage for chemistry to find us? Why do men sit next to each other, vs. facing each other? And the power of respect, appreciation, a compliment in creating the space for chemistry.

Nov 12, 202354 min

Ep. 141 - Relationship Attraction: Creating Your Own Love Story

My guest is Kristina Court, who is on a mission to empower and support single, modern, professional women, using both spiritual and practical tools, accelerating the unseen desire for truth. She walks her talk and her British accent is delightful. Join us.

Nov 05, 202357 min

Ep. 140 - Who’s Getting It? What Growth Looks Like

Those who aren’t getting it are easy to find - the folks who are looking for an unnatural match, who are polluting the waters with sloppy, discourteous, dishonest behaviors. AND there are miracles happening - Boot Camp Clients who are reinventing their dating lives. They’re planning their own events and they’re bringing the magic - willingness to rethink things, reorganize their priorities, their practices and behavior. Those who are getting it are practicing causing what’s been lacking.

Oct 29, 202335 min

Ep. 139 - Dating Blind

Let's rethink this. Dating "your way" isn't working well? Might you be game for truly trusting your matchmaker - having a date with someone whose photos and "checkboxes" you've not seen? My guest is my colleague, Genevieve Gresset, Director of Communications for The Matchmaking Company, with 40 offices throughout the U.S. What possibilities and surprises might there be for you if you took your hands off the wheel?

Oct 08, 202357 min

Ep. 138 - In the Hot Seat: NYC's Matchmaker Maria, Agape Match

My guest is renowned, enormously popular NYC Matchmaker, Maria Avgitidis Pyrgiotakis, host of the Ask a Matchmaker podcast. What partnership looks like, with a strong, accomplished, "intimidating" woman. Once and for all, we handle height, wealth and religion. And, how to have better first dates - masturbate first. Who knew?

Oct 01, 202354 min

Ep. 137 - Who's Getting it? And Who's Not?

When dating goes beautifully and when things flop. Why? Did he blow it? Did she? How might she have saved him? How might he have saved her? Where's The Man with the Plan? Where's the woman who's low maintenance, easy to please? It might be the person in the mirror, with a bit of insight.

Sep 20, 202354 min

Ep. 136 - The Cupid's Coach Boot Camp - Taste it here

Can true transformation happen in 60 days? Yes, indeed! Listen in to the Group Zoom Webinar, to find out how we are indeed transforming how dating is done in today's wild world. What's Julie's Boot Camp actually like? Find out here to see if it's for you. The real question - Are you a "grower" ?? Let's find out.

Aug 31, 20231 hr 22 min

Ep. 135 - Loving Life After Divorce

Designing life while divorcing and afterward. My guest is Kelly Bonanno, Creator of the virtual Summit: Loving Life After Divorce. Kelly is a Wellness and Life Coach, specializing in guiding men and women through the transition and upheaval that occurs when a marriage chapter ends and a new chapter begins. Why to and how to prioritize self-care, self-love and the personal development that is essential to overall wellbeing and the preparation for the tomorrows ahead.

Aug 13, 202330 min

Ep. 134 - The Value of Dating Discipline

In the hot seat is Confidence Coach, Cameron Schwartz, shining light on the value of discipline in developing the personal confidence which is essential to doing dating well and being successful in our relationships. How becoming the most optimized version of ourselves and falling in love with ourselves is essential to attracting a healthy partner. the value of a power nap and how to get the gift you really want from a guy.

Aug 06, 202352 min

Ep. 133 - Getting Raunchy with Madison Malloy

Do guys like raunch? Can we girls handle raunch? Let’s find out. My guest is Comedian / Podcaster Madison Malloy, author of “Time to Lighten the F*ck up - a Self-Help Guide with a Side of Humor.” What’s dating like for a comedian who’s 40, adorable and quite outspoken? What’s a guy to do with all that? Love her, that’s what.

Jul 03, 202358 min

Ep. 132 - Preparing for and Manifesting The One

Back in the Hot Seat is Arielle Ford, sharing the keys to preparing for, manifesting and keeping love alive and thriving. Do you kill a guy off quickly? Developing receptivity and how to not inspire "Limp Dick Syndrome." The Key that Shared Vision is. What is the Kiss of Death in dating and is love at first sight reliable?

Jun 28, 202321 min

Ep. 131 - Men, Sex, Porn, and Blind Spots

Lessons from the GUY's perspective. My guest is Scot McKay, Relationship Consultant / Media Personality who boldly addresses hotspots in modern day dating. Pornography, sex, unspoken fears and the importance of open-hearted authenticity as the ultimate turn-on for both men and women.

Jun 18, 202353 min

Ep. 130 - Get ready for Boot Camp!

What's Julie's new 60-Day Boot Camp all about? Is this virtual learning / growth opportunity your next important step in your dating / relationship journey? We'll find out together. Wherever you live on the planet, this is the course to take BEFORE you hire a matchmaker and BEFORE you throw yourself into an online dating process to dramatically increase your chances of success. Your invitation is in this podcast episode.

May 28, 202320 min

Ep. 129 - Are Men Afraid Of Women?

My guest is Dr. Avrum Weiss, best selling author of Hidden in Plain Sight: How Men's Fear of Women Shape Their Intimate Relationships. Dr. Weiss addresses the socialized expectations related to "What it is to be a man" and how these fears impact communication, conflict, sex and child-rearing. He sheds light on what we can do as women to ease the tension and also what men can do to move beyond these fears.

May 22, 202349 min

Ep. 128 - Dating in LA just got safer

In the age of scammers and posers, there's a new cop in town. My guest is Cameron Wetherby, founder of Kupple, a new online dating site that verifies each user's identity. Launched first in Los Angeles, rolling out in other big cities next, the site appeals to women, and then, of course, smart men join in.

May 19, 202334 min

Ep. 127 - Making Plans Just Got Easier

What do you want to do on Saturday? I dunno, what do YOU want to do? Sound familiar? My guest is Jordan Scott, Founder of Cobble, an app that makes getting together a whole lot more fun and lots easier. Listen in on the discussion and see what happens to your social life.

May 07, 202324 min

Ep. 126 - The Art of Social Magnetism

The magic that is love - how do we spark that in ourselves and in others? How do we bust through self-consciousness to reach outside our comfort zones into the eyes, minds and hearts of others? Discover your inner magician with me.

Apr 16, 202346 min
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