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Culture Builders

TOC Culturewww.tocculture.com
Culture Builders Podcast shares thoughts, tools, and tips for leaders to improve relationships, raise standards, and grow personally. We’re all about working to do better and to be better. You can learn more at TOCculture.com
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The Question Every Coach Should Ask Every Player at Every Practice and Game

Tired of your athletes just following orders? 😩 Let's switch from telling to empowering. Ask them: "What are you noticing?" and "What do you want to try doing?" These simple questions can transform passive players into proactive leaders. Watch the reel for the breakdown! #AthleteDevelopment #Leadership #CoachingTips #SportsPsychology #Mindset...

Mar 25, 20253 min

See the Person, Not Just the Behavior

What would YOU do? 🤨 Imagine these scenarios: a compared soccer player, a frustrated basketball player, an overwhelmed football player. How do you respond? Your reaction shapes their identity, their perception of themselves, and their future actions. See the good inside, understand their struggles, and speak to their potential. It's about building people, not just winning games. #athleteleadership #coachlife #empathy

Mar 20, 20256 min

The Heroic Perspective: Assuming Positive Intent

Ever struggle with someone's behavior? Instead of assuming the worst, try seeing them as the hero of their own story. This "Heroic Perspective" exercise helped Coach Ramirez understand Sofia's disruptive actions. 3 steps: 1) "I'm trying to..." (their view) 2) Another perspective. 3) Push for a third. It's about understanding, not excusing. #mindsetshift #teamwork #communication

Mar 18, 20256 min

Beyond the Yelling: The Power of Belief in Coaching

What does it truly mean to be a transformational coach? This episode explores the enduring legacy of Coach Fitz, as told by Michael Lewis. We delve into the importance of seeing potential, fostering new identities, and the power of belief. Discover how to move beyond tactics and connect with your players on a deeper level. #coachingphilosophy #mentorship #potential

Mar 13, 20256 min

6 Words to Transform How You Deliver Feedback

Want to deliver feedback that actually lands? Try this: "Tell me if I am wrong..." or "I might be wrong, but..." Openness and responsibility follow. #communicationtips #feedbackstrategy #leadershipdevelopment

Mar 12, 20251 min

What Makes a Team Special?

It wasn't the buzzer-beaters or trophies that made my high school basketball team special. It was the feeling. The feeling of belonging, found in the most unexpected place – the back of Ian Roof's beat-up Chevy Blazer. 🚙 Those moments, those bonds, they're what truly matter. This story is a tribute to the leaders who create spaces where we all feel like we belong. Share a memory of a place or person that made you feel truly at home in the comments. 👇 And if you connected with this, follow for ...

Mar 06, 20259 min

Is the Way You Are Looking at Things Working for You?

Three coaching mindsets. Which one are you? 🤔 I recently spoke to FIBA Level 2 coaches and saw the same pattern: Tick-the-box, Learning, or Growth. Some were ready to defend their 'old-school' methods, while others were open to new perspectives. Ironically, those most resistant are often the most frustrated. If you're not happy with your results, you have three choices: do nothing, change your methods, or change your perspective. Which will you choose? #Coaching #Leadership #GrowthMindset #Spor...

Mar 04, 20253 min

The Problem with Your High Standards

Are your standards for commitment, reliability, and work ethic clear—or just assumed? 🤔 The way we judge others vs. ourselves can reveal more about us than we realize. This article explores hidden biases in judgment, the misalignment of expectations, and how leaders can create clarity through conversation. Listen now! 👇 #Leadership #TeamCulture #CoachingMatters

Feb 27, 20256 min

The Quickest Way to Build or Break Trust

From 'break your arm' parenting advice to building unbreakable trust in your team – yeah, we go there. Join us for a candid conversation about the surprising power of consistency in leadership. Forget fluffy motivational speeches, we're diving into the real deal: how to actually do what you say you're going to do. Ever wonder why your team isn't buying what you're selling? Or how to stop being the leader who's all talk and no action? We'll unpack the secrets to building a team that trusts you im...

Feb 25, 20254 min

How to Get Your Players to Hold Their Teammates Accountable

We expect our players to hold each other accountable, but are we showing them how? In this episode, we dive into what true accountability looks like—not through punishment or public shaming, but through leadership, trust, and empowerment. We’ll break down practical ways to model effective leadership, equip players with tools to hold each other to high standards, and challenge them to step up when it matters most. Whether you're a coach, team leader, or athlete, this episode will help you transfo...

Feb 20, 20253 min

A Simple Shift That Changed Everything

🔥 Coaches, your words shape your culture! 🔥 What if the key to unlocking your team’s intensity wasn’t pushing harder—but believing louder ? 🚀 A simple shift in language took this basketball team from struggling to thriving. 💡Visit https://www.tocculture.com/newsletter to get the Calling Up vs Calling Out Guide!

Feb 19, 20254 min

Change Your Thinking, Change Your Culture: Thinking Drives Behaviors, Behaviors Drive Results

Great teams don’t just follow a strategy—they build a culture. 🏆💡 In 2010, Donegal football was at rock bottom. Just two years later, they were All-Ireland champions. How? It wasn’t just about tactics or training—it was a complete mindset shift. Jim McGuinness didn’t just change how they played; he changed what they believed. Culture eats strategy for breakfast. 🍽️🔥 Discover the leadership lessons behind one of the greatest turnarounds in Gaelic football history. #Leadership #TeamCulture #Ga...

Feb 13, 20255 min

Culture Is Conversations

Culture is built—and broken—one conversation at a time. Are you being intentional with your words? This video explores how to cultivate meaningful conversations that strengthen your team and transform your culture. #leadership #culturebuilding #communication #intentionalliving #teamwork

Feb 11, 20253 min

You Can't Change What You Don’t Notice

🤯 Even Phil Jackson, the Zen Master, had to learn to let go! His story with Michael Jordan and the Bulls is a powerful lesson in leadership, self-awareness, and the power of noticing our own blind spots. It's not just about the system, it's about the people. What are YOU clinging to that might be holding you back? Subscribe to get weekly culture builder episodes! #leadership #selfawareness #philjackson #michaeljordan #change #growthmindset #powerofnoticing...

Feb 06, 20255 min

Event is Not Equal to Explanation

Ever caught yourself making up a story when something ‘bad’ happens? 🤯 Lost a game? Your team is doomed. Got feedback from your boss? You’re getting fired. Kids tossed Tupperware in the cupboard? They’re ungrateful! 🤬 But what if these stories aren’t the truth—just our version of it? 🤔 The reality? Your team had an off night. Your boss might be bad at giving praise. Your kids were in a rush (or, let’s be honest, the cupboard system is flawed 🤣). If your results aren’t working for you, check ...

Feb 04, 20253 min

4 Questions to Help You Process a Hard Loss

🤯 Ever feel like your team should have won? 🤔 Byron Katie's "The Work" can help! 🧘‍♀️ Four simple questions to challenge those thoughts and find peace, even after a tough loss. 🏀⚽️🏈 Is it true? Can you absolutely know it's true? How do you feel when you think that thought? Who would you be without that thought? 🤔 Share your thoughts in the comments! 👇 How do you deal with those "we should have won" moments? #ByronKatie #TheWork #Mindfulness #SportsPsychology #LettingGo #WinningAndLosing #...

Jan 28, 20253 min

3 Big Problems of a Lack of Candor within Your Team

🚨 The silent killer of teamwork isn’t just lying—it’s withholding. 🤐 Staying silent drains energy, erodes trust, and holds your team back from greatness. 💔 Discover how open communication can transform your team’s performance and build unshakable connections. 💬✨ 👉 Read more and start speaking up! #Teamwork #Leadership #TrustBuilding

Jan 23, 20253 min

5 Criteria For Asking Great Questions

💡 The Secret to Asking Great Questions 💡 The questions you ask shape the conversations you have—and great conversations drive change. 🚀 But asking powerful questions? That’s an art. 🎨 ✨ Here are 5 keys to asking game-changing questions: 1️⃣ Open, not closed: Instead of "Did you try hard?" ask, "How do you feel about your effort?" 🗣️ 2️⃣ What or how, not why: Swap “Why did you do that?” with “What led you to that decision?” for better responses. 🤔 3️⃣ Thoughtful lead-ups: Set the stage to i...

Jan 21, 20255 min

How Rory McIlroy Went from Self-Blame to Radical Responsibility

From heartbreak to triumph: Rory McIlroy's journey from his crushing 2011 Masters loss to a record-breaking U.S. Open victory teaches us the power of radical responsibility. Discover how shifting from self-blame to accountability transformed his game—and his mindset.

Jan 16, 20254 min

How To Speak The Truth

🎤 Speaking truth in love doesn’t have to be so tricky! Here's a game-changing tip I learned: 💡 Instead of saying, "I think your decision was selfish," try, "I had this thought that your decision was selfish." This small shift makes a BIG difference. It lets you share your truth—your personal mix of observations, feelings, and thoughts—without presenting it as an unarguable fact. ✨ When we hold our truths lightly, we create space for connection, understanding, and collaboration. 🙌 🗣️ Give it ...

Jan 13, 202558 sec

🚀 Six Standards of Transformational Leadership 🌟

Ready to take your leadership to the next level? 💡 These six principles will help you move from simply teaching to truly transforming . 1️⃣ Focus on Transformation, Not Transmission – Growth isn’t just about sharing knowledge; it’s about sparking meaningful change within. 🔥 2️⃣ Integrate Character Development – Every practice, every drill, every game is a chance to build character, not just skills. 🏆 3️⃣ Foster Personal Improvement – Can your athletes articulate what they’re working on to gro...

Jan 09, 20253 min

Recruiting Principles for Transformational Coaching

🚨 Coaches, are you recruiting with fear or focus ? 🤔 Bo Schembechler said it best: “Miss out on the right guy, he beats you once a year. Recruit the wrong guy, he beats you every day.” This article breaks down the 3 biggest fears of recruiting and reveals the 6 principles you need to build a roster that fits your culture, not just your stat sheet. 🏆 ✅ Avoid the fear of losing players ✅ Focus on quality over quantity ✅ Stop chasing clout—choose character and culture EVERY time If you want to r...

Jan 09, 20257 min

3 Questions to Help Your Team Be More Focused on the Journey

🚀 Want to help your team focus on the journey and not just the goals this season? Here's how! 🌟 Transform your culture by asking 3 powerful questions that shift identity and clarify vision: 1️⃣ How do you imagine our team being different in 3, 6, or 12 months? 2️⃣ What do you hope to experience during this journey? 3️⃣ If we were truly [selfless/resilient/inspiring], what would we start or stop doing? Leaders like Captain Mike Abrashoff and Coach Dave Brandt used bold vision statements to insp...

Jan 02, 20253 min

Every Unacceptable Behavior is an Opportunity, Not a Problem

🏀✨ Complaints or opportunities? A youth coach turned unacceptable behavior into a lesson in character. By focusing on values like effort and support, the team grew stronger on and off the court. See how shifting your perspective can build better athletes—and better people! 🙌 #YouthSports #Teamwork #LeadershipDevelopment

Dec 26, 20244 min

The Power of a Consistent (and Sometimes Boring) Review Process

🏀💡 What’s the secret behind a national championship? It’s not just skill or strategy—it’s consistency! Discover how a “boring but effective” after-action review process became the foundation for one team’s extraordinary success. Reflect, refine, repeat. 🌟 #Leadership #TeamCulture #SuccessThroughConsistency

Dec 26, 20244 min

The Secret to Your Best Performance

🏃‍♂️✨ What’s the secret to breaking limits in sport—and life? It’s not grit or gear. It’s joy . From Coach Joe Vigil’s journey with the Tarahumara runners to Courtney Dauwalter’s record-breaking performances, discover how love for the process, not the prize, creates extraordinary results. 🏆 Learn how athletes and teams like the Golden State Warriors fuel their success by prioritizing compassion, joy, and character. What could you achieve if you fueled your life the same way? 👉 Listen to find ...

Dec 18, 202410 min

Design Your Life. Daily, weekly, monthly

Inspired by the book indistractable, I built a system of daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly commitments—and it's been a game-changer. It’s not about perfection (trust me, I’m not perfect 🤷‍♂️), but about having a clear vision for the life I want to live. 🌟 Every year, I revisit and update these commitments in my trusty Clear Harvest Journal (7 years strong!). By zooming out to take a 10,000-foot view, I’ve learned to balance work, family, hobbies, and friendships in a way that aligns with my v...

Dec 18, 20242 min

Structure Organizations and Systems to Support Development

How do you truly support growth and development? Leadership coach Jennifer Garvey Berger highlights the power of structured systems in her groundbreaking book, Changing on the Job . This video unpacks the three essential elements for personal and professional development: reflection, experimentation, and time. Learn why these factors, paired with intentional conversations and scheduled check-ins, create lasting change and unlock leadership potential. Are you building the systems your team needs ...

Dec 11, 20243 min

Make It Hard to Be on Your Leadership Team: 2 Ways to Demand More from Your Leaders

Leadership isn’t just a title—it’s a responsibility that demands action. In this Culture Builder, discover why simply appointing a leadership group isn’t enough and how to empower leaders to step up. Learn actionable strategies like unit leadership and assigning specific roles to create a culture of accountability, raise team standards, and foster real growth. True leadership is challenging, but when done right, it transforms teams and drives success.

Dec 11, 20244 min
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