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Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman

Cultivating H.E.R. Spacewww.spreaker.com
In a world where black women are often underrepresented and misunderstood, we need more safe spaces to just… be. Every Friday, join Dr. Dom, a college professor and psychologist, and Terri Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker, as they initiate authentic conversations on everything from fibroids to fake friends. If you’re a Black woman looking for an extra dose of inspiration on the go, pull up a seat and join us on the Cultivating H.E.R. (Healing, Empowerment, Resilience) Space podcast.

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Episodes

S19E1: The Power of Black Sisterhood: Allow Us to Reintroduce Ourselves

Hey lady! We have a question for you…what about your friends? How are your friendships going? Are you happy in your established relationships or are you looking to make a new foundation with like-hearted women? This week, Terri and Dr. Dom sit down and reflect on the highs and lows of five years of podcasting. What started as a chance run-in at a conference turned into a strong and meaningful friendship between the two that bears a lot of fruit, namely this podcast. Tune in to hear more about th...

Jul 07, 202355 minSeason 19Ep. 1

S18E13: 9 Signs You May Need to Let Your Relationship Go

Hey lady! Have you ever been in a relationship and something is off but you can’t quite put your finger on what it is? It’s probably your inner compass telling you to pay attention or something more definitive – like it’s time to end the relationship. This week, Terri and Dr. Dom offer a strong perspective on the common ways we are lulled into unfulfilling relationships and ideas on when it’s probably a good time to cut your losses and go your separate ways. Leaving relationships can be hard whe...

Jun 30, 202343 minSeason 18Ep. 13

S18E12: Black Romance Isn't Dead with Toni Judkins

Calling all the lover girls! Lady, if you identify as a sweetheart and you are a lover of love then this episode is for you. Toni Judkins, Senior Vice President of Programming Development for Hallmark Media, joins Terri and Dr. Dom for an illuminating conversation about her journey through media to becoming a key decision-maker at Hallmark. Toni shares the wisdom she’s gathered along the way about how perspective makes all of the difference in whatever path you choose to take and offers heartfel...

Jun 23, 202354 minSeason 18Ep. 12

S18E11: Talking Tarot with Leona Nichole Black

Hey lady! Get ready because this episode is juicy! This week, Terri and Dr. Dom welcome Leona Nichole Black, a tarot reader and author of Tarot Therapy: Harness the Healing Power of the Deck . She offers powerful perspectives on practical ways the use of tarot can help guide your decision-making and real tips on how to tell the real from the fake in the world of tarot and spirituality. You’ll want to tune in and hear some of the gems she drops after pulling Dr. Dom and Terri’s cards. And, if tar...

Jun 16, 20231 hr 8 minSeason 18Ep. 11

BONUS: Choosing Faith Over Fear: Join Us In Person for Our Live Show in Oakland, CA on July 8, 2023

Hey lady! It's Terri and Dr. Dom here popping into your world with a short bonus episode. No matter how you found this episode, we're so happy you're here and we truly believe that you landed here for a reason. Okayyyy, we see you universe! Today we're talking about choosing faith over fear and we want to invite you to our live podcast show in Oakland, CA on July 8, 2023 at 7PM. Register here: https://bit.ly/herspaceinthebay or visit herspacepodcast.com to get your tickets! This event is for you...

Jun 13, 202314 min

S18E10: Tough Conversations: Calling Off A Wedding, Cohabitating, and Speaking Up During Sex

Hey lady! There comes a time in life when you’ll have to open up your mouth and speak up. But, certain situations require a deeper level of skill than others. How do you navigate tough conversations? This week, Terri and Dr. Dom outline a few scenarios where they’ve had to speak up or observed others having to speak up for themselves and provide feedback on how we can show up in those situations as our best selves. The key is self-compassion with a whole lot of self-respect. So, how do you get t...

Jun 09, 202359 minSeason 18Ep. 10

S18E9: 7 Practices to Empower You to Shift into Intentional Mothering

Hey lady! Are you a hot mama or know one? Well, if you are one and if you know one then you know that being a mother is a full-time, no-days off job and when done well can bear great fruit. This week, Dr. Dom and Terri sit down for a practical conversation about the various ways mothers can incorporate intentionality in the way they mother. A lot of what constitutes for good mothering is making the intention to fill your own cup first. So, how does one do that? Terri and Dr. Dom offer actionable...

Jun 02, 202354 minSeason 18Ep. 9

S18E8: Expanding Your Horizons with MeryAnne Loum-Martin

Lady! You are in for a treat this week. Dr. Dom and Terri have the privilege of having an enlightening conversation with a one-of-a-kind visionary and they want you to tap in! MeryAnne Loum-Martin is the owner of Jnane Tamsna, a luxury boutique hotel located in Marrakesh, Morocco. MeryAnne tells her amazing story of how she’s lived an extraordinary life and how her travels and experiences have given her a path to fulfill her life’s passion. If you are in need of bold, audacious inspiration then ...

May 26, 202348 minSeason 18Ep. 8

S18E7: When Your Reality Isn’t Matching Up With Your Dreams

Hey lady! When you look at your life does it reflect where you thought you’d be twenty years ago, or is it completely different than how you imagined? If it’s radically different than what you imagined don’t fret. In fact, rejoice because that can be a sign that you’ve been following your unique path. This week, Terri and Dr. Dom sit down and reflect on their lives and process the ups and downs of their respective paths. In some areas, they still have goals they are aspiring to reach and in othe...

May 19, 202343 minSeason 18Ep. 7

S18E6: Practical Techniques to Enable Black People to Win at Work with Ben Adkins

Hey lady! This week, Terri and Dr. Dom are joined by Benjamin Adkins, a business strategy, career, and individual coach, who is an expert on the power of the personal pivot. Ben provides impactful coaching to clients to help them develop the skill of agility and being able to be nimble in their work environments. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself shouting “Preach, Preacher!” as he drops gems on how to make smart, strategic decisions that will propel you toward success in your career and be...

May 12, 20231 hr 6 minSeason 18Ep. 6

S18E5: The Value In Listening To The Wisdom of Your Elders

Hey lady! A true community is made up of all ages. It’s the way we pass knowledge and traditions – you know – keep recipes in the community. This week, Dr. Dom and Terri reflect on some of the best pieces of wisdom they’ve received from the elders in their lives. In the community, there are ways we engage to help us keep our lives together and functioning well in a civil society. What are some of the life lessons that have been passed down to you? Let us know on Patreon and Instagram some of the...

May 05, 202348 minSeason 18Ep. 5

S18E4: 30 Affirmations to Empower Black Women to Raise Their Vibrations

Hey lady! You go, girl! No, for real, why don’t you go to your mirror, turn this episode on and repeat after us? You go, girl! This week, Terri and Dr. Dom share the affirmations that help remind them to fix their crowns and walk out in the world knowing how special and valuable they are. Affirmations and mantras are powerful tools that can help change the narrative you tell yourself. And, when done regularly they can transform your relationship with yourself. Look at the list below and create a...

Apr 28, 202342 minSeason 18Ep. 4

S18E3: Oh You Blatchet?™ Celebrating Our Bougie, Classy, and Ratchet Selves

Roll call! Where are all of our bougie, classy, and ratchet ladies? This episode is for you. Over the years we’ve provided some bomb content with useful tools, but let’s talk about the essence of you. Lady, you are a masterpiece! And this podcast celebrates all of the pieces that make you…you. This week, Terri and Dr. Dom sit down and invite you into the pieces that make them the multi-faceted dynamos that you tune into every week. How are you accepting yourself these days? Hopefully, you are ma...

Apr 21, 202352 minSeason 18Ep. 3

S18E2: Ghosting: How to Deal, Feel, and Heal When There's No Closure

Hey lady, are you out here dating and running into interesting situations? What do we mean by that? We’re talking about ghosting. It’s lame and can feel not so fun but it’s a part of modern dating life. So, what exactly is ghosting and what can you do if you’re the one getting ghosted? Terri and Dr. Dom dip into all of the factors that go into why people ghost and how to handle being ghosted. They also talk about why it may be appropriate to ghost someone. Everything is on a case-by-case basis s...

Apr 14, 202351 minSeason 18Ep. 2

BONUS: Taboo BDSM Play with American Sex Podcast #170

Today, we’re sharing a preview of one of our favorite podcasts: American Sex. On a mission to change our dysfunctional relationship with shame & pleasure, hosts Sunny Megatron & Ken Melvoin-Berg tackle taboo topics with lighthearted humor & down-to-earth relatability. This clip is from episode 170 Taboo BDSM Play . In it, guest Mollena Williams-Haas discusses making sense of our darkest, deepest, most unspeakable kinky fantasies. Why are dark, disgusting fantasies some of our biggest...

Apr 10, 202313 min

S18E1: Why It's Important to Show up Even If You're Not Ready

Hey lady! Is there something on your heart, an idea you really want to get off of the ground, and you’re just waiting for the right time? Are you aware that there is no time like the present? Sure, maybe you’ve heard that old adage plenty of times, but it’s true. The only way to get better or even gauge where you are in the process is to start. This week, Dr. Dom and Terri sit down and have a frank conversation about how they use fear to fuel their internal fire. This internal fire keeps them go...

Apr 07, 20231 hr 2 minSeason 18Ep. 1

BONUS: When Magic Happens: Body-ody-ody-ody with Michaela Duerson

Slim-thick, bean pole, pear, apple – how has your body been categorized? Cheryle, Jennifer and Taylor discuss body image and their relationships to their bodies over time. Then, we hear from Michaela Duerson, a plus-size model, talent agent, photographer and former gymnast, who explains the importance of appreciating our bodies at their many stages and why everyone is wrong. Tune in here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-magic-happens/id1672672616 Become a supporter of this podcast: ht...

Apr 03, 202334 min

S17E13: Leading at a High Level with Clothilde Ewing

Hey lady, calling all the go-getters! This week Dr. Dom and Terri sit down with Clothilde Ewing, VP of Strategic Communications at the Chicago Community Trust and author of Stella and the Mystery of the Missing Tooth , to discuss everything from the power of perseverance, self-belief, and tenacity to the importance of intentionally telling stories of joy for Black children. She has a light and real conversation about her cool life experiences and how the skills she’s learned along the way have t...

Mar 31, 202348 minSeason 17Ep. 13

S17E12: How to Shift Your Perspective and Change Your Life for the Better

Sometimes in life, we have choice points in how we’re going to handle a situation. We can take the information presented to us and choose how we want to view things. In fact, we get to do so. See, lady, life is full of opportunities to view things in your favor…or not. It’s all about perspective. This week, Dr. Dom and Terri offer their, ahem, perspectives on how powerful the decision to make shifts in our internal dialogue can result in big changes in our external world. They provide ten fire t...

Mar 24, 202346 minSeason 17Ep. 12

S17E11: Green Flags: Signs That Your Partner is a Keeper

Hey lady, we have a question for you. So often we hear about the red flags in relationships, but what about the green flags in relationships? What about the signs of long-term compatibility and healthy respect that trigger feelings of safety and trust? This week Terri and Dr. Dom discuss all the positive traits that help you keep a balanced perspective in relationships. Can you spot when you’re developing something meaningful with someone? If the answer is no, then this episode is for you. And, ...

Mar 17, 202356 minSeason 17Ep. 11

S17E10: Best Practices for Living on Your Own for the First Time

Hey lady! We talk a lot about the tools to keep you out here living a healthy, safe, and productive life, but what does it really look like when you go out in the world and live that beautiful life you’ve cultivated for yourself? This week, Terri and Dr. Dom have a fun chat about what you need to know when you decide to live on your own. Regardless of what season you are in, there is a ton of value in spending time with yourself and navigating the world as an independent human. As with everythin...

Mar 10, 202344 minSeason 17Ep. 10

S17E9: It's Bigger Than Me: Changing the Conversation About Weight and Obesity with Yvette Nicole Brown

Hey lady! You’re in for a treat with this week’s episode. Yvette Nicole Brown stops by the Cultivating H.E.R. Space podcast to have some fun girl talk with Dr. Dom and Terri. Yvette brings her warm personality and positive energy to discuss an initiative that is dear to her heart – It’s Bigger Than Me. The movement helps shine a light on obesity and addresses some myths about obesity, primarily that it is a disease and nothing to be ashamed of even though feelings of shame are normal and underst...

Mar 03, 202333 minSeason 17Ep. 9

S17E8: Girl Code: Unofficial Rules that Black Women Should Live By

Hey lady, no matter where you are in life or what age you’re currently enjoying, we all know there aren’t any rules to life, but there are social graces that help us journey together. Especially, if you’re a woman or femme. Girl code can seem superficial but is real and actually a useful way to be in relationship with other women. Whether they are your friends or just other women out here living in the world, there are things that we as women do and just don’t do. While some things change, some ...

Feb 24, 202348 minSeason 17Ep. 8

S17E7: If That Happened to Me I would Have...: How to Respond When Things Catch You Off Guard

Hey lady, ever have an interaction with someone that just felt…off? Or, have you responded in a way that wasn’t your finest moment? Don’t beat yourself up. Being a human is interesting and complex. There isn’t a rulebook, but there are frameworks that we can work with to help us navigate challenging situations with grace. This week Terri and Dr. Dom have a special surprise (check out Patreon for the deets) and talk about the moments in life when we weren’t operating as our highest selves. Those ...

Feb 17, 202354 minSeason 17Ep. 7

S17E6: Life Beyond Likes with Isa Watson

Hey lady! Has doom scrolling got you down? Are the lines between your real life and your online life starting to blur? Well, then tap into today’s episode. Join Dr. Dom and Terri as they welcome Isa Watson back to the podcast to discuss her new book Life Beyond Likes: Logging Off Your Screen and Into Your Life . Isa dives into her personal experiences and how it took a significant life event to help her reevaluate her priorities and check herself about how she’s really showing up in the online w...

Feb 10, 202355 minSeason 17Ep. 6

S17E5: Navigating Life's Embarrassing Moments (Get Ready to LOL)

Hey lady, you smell that? Is it you? Probably, lol. That’s ok! Body odor, farts, grown lady smells, tripping, falling, and so much more are all a part of what makes being human a full-body experience. This week Terri and Dr. Dom tell their business so you can feel better about yours. You are definitely going to want to listen to this one with headphones on. They get real about how to handle when your wig starts slipping while you’re getting your back blown out, and how queefing is kinda cool now...

Feb 03, 202357 minSeason 17Ep. 5

S17E4: How to Stand Your Ground and Hold Gaslighters Accountable

Last week Dr. Dom and Terri discussed how to identify various forms of manipulation. And, we heard you. It was a much-needed, albeit tender topic, about how we function in our interpersonal relationships. This week, Dr. Dom and Terri move out of the tender area into a place of power by outlining concrete steps you can take to stand 10 toes in who you are as a person and how you want to be treated going forward. Lady, the secret is it all starts with you and how you view and treat yourself. We to...

Jan 27, 202346 minSeason 17Ep. 4

S17E3: What Gaslighting, Red Flags, and Manipulation Sound Like

Lady, healing isn’t linear, and it doesn’t always feel good, but with tools and strategies, you can navigate life with grace, clarity, and lightness. Dr. Dom and Terri have a deep conversation about the truth of gaslighting, red flags, and manipulation. Maybe you’ve heard these terms recently, but do you really know what they mean? Accessing the language around these pieces of the cycles of abuse can help you create a toolkit that can help you identify them earlier in your relationships. Knowing...

Jan 20, 20231 hr 9 minSeason 17Ep. 3

S17E2: Evolving to Your Next Level with Saman Munir

Hey lady! Is one of your goals this year to lead a more fit life? If the answer is yes, then this episode is for you. If the answer is no, tune in anyway because maybe you’ll find some motivation that has nothing to do with the scale and everything to do with how you feel inside. Saman Munir, a fitness professional with EvolveYou, joins Dr. Dom and Terri for an inspiring conversation about how she turned a passing interest in losing post-partum baby weight into a brand-new lifestyle for herself ...

Jan 13, 202333 minSeason 17Ep. 2

S17E1: Reminders You Need to Remember If You Want to Be Successful This Year

Lady, it’s the start of the New Year and whether you are a “New Year, New Me” kind of woman or you’re just making improvements to your already dope self, we all know that what takes people from good to great is a healthy mindset. Terri and Dr. Dom sit down with some helpful things to consider as you strategize for your most abundant year yet! They offer their perspective on how subtle shifts in our attitudes can go a long way in our success. Now, lady, you know this is a grown-woman podcast, and...

Jan 06, 20231 hr 3 minSeason 17Ep. 1