Dr. Hughes tells the listener the two most vital things related to sexuality for the higher desire partner. The first is that their soul is in separately sexual. The second is an action step of being present so that the higher desire partner‘s soul feels accepted, valued, desired, cared for,and seen. Dr. Hughes provides the insight to the question of, “so what do I do now that I am learning all of this about myself or my partner.” He discusses the two negative outcome options and the two positiv...
Dec 13, 2024•32 min
This episode creates the understanding, language, and “way out” for couples stuck in issues of sexual desire discrepancy. Dr. Hughes is the first to put forward clear and concrete words, understanding, and ways to move forward for couples plagued by these discrepancies. Dr. Hughes has created a sexual playground analogy that enables couples to do this. The higher desire partner yearns for their partner to play on this sexual playground with them. Playing on the playground isn’t just doing sexual...
Nov 15, 2024•27 min
Dr. Hughes provides the roadmap for couples that are struggling to resolve sexual desire differences in marriage. The high desire spouse is really saying “Come and get to know my soul. My very being. Not my entire soul, but a main part of it.” Couples can get the stars to align when their soul communes with their spouses. Dr. Hughes talks about how that can happen, within this podcast.
May 14, 2024•22 min
In this episode of Dr. Hughes talks about the impact of sexual neglect and abandonment for the partner that enjoys bonding and connecting through sexual intimacy. Understanding where the partner that has experienced sexual neglect and abandonment is coming from sets the stage for the 3rd and final step that couples must take to resolve their sexual desire differences and embark on a coupled journey of sexual fulfillment.
May 07, 2024•26 min
This podcast discusses the process of transformation for people that struggle with sexual addiction or out-of-control sexual behavior, also known as problematic sexual behavior. Dr. Hughes has created a program that is built off of 24 ways to transform and live for those struggling with problematic sexual behavior.
Apr 25, 2024•16 min
LDS (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints) couples dealing with a sexual desire discrepancy within their relationship are provided the second fundamental change required for these couples to resolve their sexual frequency and quality issue within their marriage. This second fundamental change is “ensuring that bids for connection are witnessed for what they are, and accepted”-there is a special way of ensuring that all bids are accepted that is discussed in this podcast.
Dec 08, 2023•19 min•Season 1Ep. 1
The first of three steps for couples struggling with different sexual desires is provided and expounded upon. 1-ensuring each partner differences in sexual desire are accurately seen and respected.
Dec 05, 2023•26 min•Season 1Ep. 1
In this podcast Dr. Hughes talks about the high sexual desire/low sexual desire problem and avenues for change. Most couples fall into the gap of fighting for their spouse to be more like them. This may be the case for some couples where there is an unhealthy relationship with sexuality that gives rise to either a high or low sexual desire, but for many others differences need to be respected, bids for connection need to be accepted, and the couple embarks on a new way of exploring sexuality.
Dec 03, 2023•8 min•Season 1Ep. 1
The 4 low desire partner types are discussed. These include Inaccessible/Cold; Accommodating/Disengaged; Misguided/Wanderer; and Engaged/Open types. How the low desire partner and their high desire partner experience this type is also highlighted.
Dec 02, 2023•16 min•Season 1Ep. 1
The broad overview of what doesn’t work and what does work in high desire/low desire marriages is explained. The listener will be able to see why their high desire type doesn’t work and which one does work. You will quickly see what fundamental characteristics are requisite for a happy sex life for high/low desire marriages
Nov 30, 2023•22 min•Season 1Ep. 1
Dr. Hughes goes over the 4 different kinds of high desire partners, what high desire partners that aren’t jerks are really looking for, and the impact of rejection.
Nov 29, 2023•27 min•Season 1Ep. 1
Dr. Hughes talks about what sexual play is and how vital it is in marriage. It is correlated to being “in love” or “falling out of love”. Sexual play is one of the three indicators of strong romantic loving relationships, along with meaningful time and vulnerability and connection. Part two is brief
Sep 13, 2023•9 min•Ep. 2
Dr. Hughes talks about what sexual play is and how vital it is in marriage. It is correlated to being “in love” or “falling out of love”. Sexual play is one of the three indicators of strong romantic loving relationships, along with meaningful time and vulnerability and connection. This is part 1. Part two is brief
Sep 13, 2023•24 min•Ep. 1
Dr. Hughes talks about little known facts and research about the vulva and vagina and what arouses them
Jul 26, 2023•37 min
Dr. Hughes talks about some new research related to the clitoris. This stuff is exciting and is certain to draw your attention
Jul 21, 2023•20 min
Dr. Hughes talks about what is required for members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to transform into sexual beings/couples that have healthy sexual relationships. Specific examples of how people transform are provided and related to the sexual journey individuals and couples are on as members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Jul 16, 2023•48 min
In this episode Dr. Hughes talks about how our Soul yearns for improvement in various ways. He goes into some detail concerning tools for achieving these sexual goals. Dr. Hughes also provides information to a group he will be running for female sexual desire issues
Jan 03, 2023•17 min
In this episode, Dr. Hughes talks about the quality of sex that satisfied marital partners have. He discusses what the research says about how frequently they have hanging from the chandelier sex or great sex, vs good sex, okay sex, or mediocre/dysfunctional sex.
Oct 19, 2022•18 min
In this episode Dr. Hughes discussed the work that he is doing with members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He talks about how members develop their relationship with sexuality through a new viewpoint called SSTANCE. SSTANCE explains how we as sons and daughters of God develop sexually.
Oct 13, 2022•30 min
As you’re making plans for improvement this year remember that if there isn’t space for one’s soul to exist in your life, us minus roles and responsibilities, our sexuality will also not exist.
Jan 01, 2022•10 min
In this episode I describe what sexual scripting theory is and how it impacts members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I go into ways in which we as a cultural group can make healthy shifts that fit our value system in a highly sex positive way as well as how we as individuals and couples can personalize these within our relationships and as sons and daughters of God.
Dec 28, 2021•21 min
This episode covers the blending of love nests, meditation, tantra, and covenant sex for members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
Sep 10, 2020•13 min
Dr. Hughes continues to mentor members of the Church of Jesus Christ of latter-day Saints that have sexual addictions in normalizing their experience and working towards congruent sexual expression and values. He provides directives for how to get in line with values and sexual expression
Feb 27, 2020•29 min
Dr. Hughes builds on the Tantra positions of the last episode and the couple moves into penetration and two new Tantra and Covenant Sex activities bringing together all that has been taught and practiced to this point on the Tantra recordings.
Feb 26, 2020•21 min
Dr. Hughes discusses two traditional Tantra activities and how members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints can do these and build their healthy sexual intimacy. Future Tantra activities will build on these and prior Tantra podcasts so practice these as a couple regularly.
Feb 25, 2020•20 min
In this episode Dr. Hughes mentors members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to nurture healthy principles of sexuality and provides examples of how someone with a sexual addiction can do this on a daily basis
Feb 10, 2020•29 min
Dr Hughes covers abstinence only, comprehensive, Netherlands comprehensive, and ELearning sexual/intimacy sexual education for members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
Feb 03, 2020•17 min
Dr. Hughes summarizes part one of tantra and members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He goes on to talk about creating a space or love nest that’s conducive to souls having a covenant sexual relationship
Jul 30, 2019•20 min
Dr. Hughes discusses the parallels in tantra and principles found in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. A model for a fulfilling sexual relationship as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is discussed. Several follow-up sessions on the same topic are yet to come
Jun 21, 2019•21 min
Dr. Hughes discusses how Latter-day Saints become sexual in a way that is in line with their value system
Apr 25, 2019•23 min
