Kelsey and Zach are all about getting better, but this ep takes woo woo healing practices to the next level 🫣 we’re talkin everything from kundalini body twitchin’ to literal rolls in the hay 🐴 and what wellness episode would be complete without discussing the benefits of hooking up in saunas?? Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy...
Feb 27, 2023•49 min
lights...camera..LUBE!!?? Have you ever made a sexual film before, confidantes?! This week Kelsey & Zach catch up after being apart from each other for 3 whole weeks. Zach recounts his gay cruises (and the poles and holes that came with it) while Kelsey spills on her time in a sex dungeon with sir while making a sex tape. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle....
Feb 20, 2023•48 min
Are you gearing up to celebrate V-day in the arms of your soulmate?? Well gooood for you 🙄 This episode, however, is for all the people experiencing singledom on the most love-oriented day of the year 🥲 Take notes as Kelsey and Zach give you tip after tip for how to celebrate your one and only ride or die—YOU ❤️🧡💛💚💙 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/...
Feb 13, 2023•52 min
If you’ve ever fantasized about unaliving your roommate it may be time to take the plunge and live ALONE 🥲 Lucky for you Kelsey and Zach have both gone through the hell (and heaven) of becoming the alpha of their habitat 👸🏼 Let’s talk financial safety nets, household upkeep, and being as naked as you want to be 🍑 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/priva...
Feb 06, 2023•45 min
confidantes? we're CALLING MONEY INTO OUR LIVES ALWAYS!!!! so whats a side hustle? and why are we hustling? we're TIRED BABY!!! So zach and kelsey are here to give you some ideas for PASSIVE INCOME!! Whats your favorite way of making a small chunk of change so mama can get her latte and extra guac? let us know in the comments! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle...
Jan 30, 2023•48 min
soooo what is "pegging", you ask? Is it an art? Is it a sport? Is it the hottest thing we're doing in our pretty girl era 2023??? YES! Pegging is basically fucking your boyfriend but we're going WAY deeper (no pun intended) to show you the history of pegging and why you all should be doing it to your straight boyfriends TONIGHT!!!!!! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://re...
Jan 23, 2023•51 min
well well well - you've found yourself in the place again....that place when you've met someone whose face you love sitting on AND you like having deep conversation with..That person who you think about when your brain aimlessly wonders throughout the day...and hell maybe you're even thinking of them ON PURPOSE. ARE YOU FALLING IN LOVE?! Fear not!!! KELSEY (recovering from Love) & ZACHARY (never been in it) ARE HERE TO HELP YOU HOW TO SCIENTIFICALLY NOT FALL IN FUCKING LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sup...
Jan 16, 2023•44 min
New year, new host!! Welcome Zach Noe Towers to the Confidently Insecure family 😍 This season is starting with a bang as we give up New Year’s resolutions for something a bit…smarter 🤓 Plus we need YOUR help narrowing down all of our amazing ideas for future segments (get ready to have your WHOREoscope read, confidantes!!) 2023 LETS GOOOO Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: htt...
Jan 09, 2023•49 min
SURPRISE CONFIDATES! After a much needed couple of weeks of for the holiday break, we're BACK BABY!! AND WE'VE GOT THE SURPRISE OF THE YEAR (i mean, we're only 2 days in..so how surprising could it be??) --- CONFIDENTLY INSECURE IS GETTING A NEW CO-HOST BABY!!! THAT'S RIGHT! The convos are about to get twice the spice...so...who could it be?? LEAVE YOUR GUESSES IN THE COMMENTS BELOW! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://red...
Jan 02, 2023•6 min
HERE IS YOUR 2022 HOLIDAY WISHLIST: PLAN B: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00NKMY5E2?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details Magnetic Screen : https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01ESSA9VO/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1 Bio oil skincare : https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00AREGVUM/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1 Electric spin scrubber sweepurlie: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09NDMLHCM/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1 Smart girls...
Dec 12, 2022•37 min
Confidantes - you already know and love her from all her queer and nostalgic youtube videos that go viral every upload...but did you know ELLE MILLS MADE A MOVIE?! Thats right! Elle ventured outside of her comfort zone and made a coming of age short film called REPLY thats available now to watch on Creator+. Kelsey & Elle talk cinema, Timothy Chalamet, and being overall badass director babes. FOLLOW ELLE AND WATCH REPLY: https://creatorplus.com/reply https://www.youtube.com/@ElleOfTheMills h...
Dec 05, 2022•47 min
AH, tis the season...FOR A HOSTFUL EPISODE!!! Kelsey just has a quick update to tell you the biggest news of her entire career...NBD...SHES DIRECTING THE DOCUMENTARY MOVIE ABOUT BUZZFEED!! YES!! THAT BUZZFEED! She walks us through the process of pitching, selling, and now MAKING a real ass documentary movie. She's excited and wants to know what you guys are looking forward to seeing in the film! HOW WAS YOUR TURKEY BREAKS BTW???? Let us know in the comments!! Support this podcast at — https://re...
Nov 28, 2022•39 min
DEATH. LOSS. GRIEF. Do these words scare you? YOU'RE NOT ALONE! What if this episode was going to make those undeniable chapters of life...seem...a little more....friendly??? to talk about? At 40 years old, Krista's life was immeasurably changed when her husband was killed by a drunk driver. While moving with her own grief, she learned that her life's purpose was to turn this pain into something that could help other people move through theirs. She's on a mission to demystify DEATH and the griev...
Nov 21, 2022•46 min
Avalon Warren has been THROUGH IT on the internet. With millions of strangers commenting on her "baby voice" or "weird relationship" (AHEM TO HER HUSBAND BECAUSE SHE'S AN ADULT WHO IS MARRIED) or even talking endless about her body...SHE HAS MAINTAINED A POSITIVE OUTLOOK WITH A REAL FEMINIST FLARE! And when she came out publicly about her Autism Spectrum Disorder, she started talking about how every part of her life is affected by ASD and how she manages. SO HOP OFF HER D*CK INTERNET TROLLS! Sup...
Nov 07, 2022•45 min
SO MANY QUESTIONS WILL BE ANSWERED IN THIS WEEK's EPISODE!!! WHO IS THIS NEW DUDE? HOW DID WE GET HERE ALREADY? WHO STILL HAS PHONE SEGGZ? Kelsey and "Sir" dive into the conversation of what it's like to be dating again in your 30's. FOLLOW SIR: Just kidding, guys. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy...
Oct 31, 2022•53 min
Now that Kelsey is a BONE-A-FIED dog mom, she realized that she only wants the best for her doggo, Hippo. We bet you've never heard of the HISTORY of dog food - have ya?! What about WHY we started feeding dogs in canned food? WHAT DOES YOUR DOG EAT NOW?! COULD HE BE ADDICTED TO SUGAR?! Luckily, Heather and Natalie from Just Food For Dogs & The Adoption Project are here to teach us all a lesson about the things we never knew about dog food. USE HIPPO'S CODE FOR 20% OFF YOUR FIRST JFFD ORDER! ...
Oct 24, 2022•47 min
Meet Kelsey's new BFF...therapy!! Dr. Jamie Arnoff from BFF Therapy is here to talk about the newest treatment for chronic pain....and it requires no doctors appointments...no surgeries...and no medications. Take it from Dr. Jamie and Kelsey - THEY'VE BOTH BEEN DOING IT FOR THEIR CHRONIC PAINS! So tell us, would you try PRT for your chronic pain? Follow DR. JAMIE: https://linktr.ee/BFFTherapy https://www.bfftherapy.com/therapists https://www.instagram.com/bfftherapy/ Support this podcast at — ht...
Oct 17, 2022•49 min
SO. Miles has been busy lately - ya know, not just dealing with the ....THING thats been happening over at the try guys....but also launching his own podcast PERFECT PERSON, producing the hit podcasts at Try Guys studios (GUILTY PLEASURES INCLUDED), and finding a way to direct/be creative/PROCESS GRIEF?! This pod really gets to know who MILES is beyond what you see on screen! AND THERES LAUGHS TOO, WOULD YA BELIEVE?! FOLLOW MILES: @perfectpersonpod @MilesBon Support this podcast at — https://red...
Oct 10, 2022•56 min
Kelsey recorded this episode DAYS BEFORE HER BREAKUP so you will hear it in the way she speaks and talks about her relationship that she was READY but AFRAID of change! HELLO BRAIN?! R U THERE?! WHY ARE YOU SO AFRAID OF CHANGE??? Thank GAWD we have Harvard JD + Yale BA + Master Feminist Coach, KARA LOWENTHEIL (host of UnF*ck Your Brain Podcast) to coach us (kelsey) through (her breakup). FOLLOW KARA: https://linktr.ee/karaloewentheil https://unfuckyourbrain.com/ Podcast: IGL https://www.instagra...
Oct 03, 2022•42 min
AND YET WE SAY AGAIN - WE DON'T NEED NO MAN! KNOCKING MYSELF UP chronicles Michelle’s choice to get pregnant and have children as a queer, uninsured, single, 40-year-old woman. Along the way, she falls in love with a wholesome genderqueer a decade her junior, attempts to biohack herself a baby with black market fertility meds and witch-enchanted honey, learns her eggs are busted, and enters the Fertility Industrial Complex in order to carry her younger lover’s baby. CASUAL. FOLLOW MICHELLE: http...
Sep 27, 2022•55 min
Dodging capitalism around self-care is already hard enough...but even tougher when you're in a vulnerable state like GOING THROUGH A BREAKUP (it's almost like our host Kelsey isn't over her breakup...) BUT luckily we have Angela Jai Kim, founder of Savor Beauty and spas and author of Radical Radiance: 12 weeks of Self-Love Rituals to Manifest Abundance, Beauty, and Joy to teach us not only how to cultivate a routine thats good for our outside beauty but our INNER SOUL as well. FOLLOW ANGELA: htt...
Sep 19, 2022•48 min
SOUND THE FRIENDSHIP ALARMS!!! ALLISON RASKIN (best selling author, podcaster, and fellow former buzzfeed co-worker) IS HERE TO PARTY ON OVERTHINKING BREAKUPS!! WHY DO WE OBSESS? WHY DO WE INSTA STALK?! wHYYYyYYyyYYy ARE OUR BRAINS THIS WAY?! EVEN IF WE'RE THE ONES WHO ENDED IT?! How can we learn from 2 women who have self admitted to overthinking their love relationships? Tune in to find out! BUY ALLISONS NEW BOOK: https://www.amazon.com/Overthinking-About-You-Navigating-Relationships/dp/152351...
Sep 12, 2022•42 min
NDE, NRE, and ZNT!!! Zach Noe Towers is here to listen to Kelsey spill all her new tea about NEW D*CK ENERGY (the energy that comes with sleeping new people after your breakup), and NEW RELATIONSHIP ENERGY aka NRE and what is IS and IS NOT (it's not love bombing!!). You get to hear all the juicy details of adult summer camp and why Kelsey recommends it for EVERY ONE going through a life change! FOLLOW ZNT: @ZachNoeTowers on IG https://www.zachnoetowers.com/ https://www.instagram.com/goodsodpod/?...
Aug 29, 2022•56 min
ooooo always an awkward convo - money - isn't it? Well how could we make it more awkward??? LETS ADD A BIG OLE EMOTIONAL BREAKUP ENVIRONMENT TO THE CONVO SHALL WE!? Kelsey chats with pal of the pod and friend IRL, Tori Dunlap (@herfirst100k) about her real financial uncoupling with her ex boyfriend. From moving out of the house, to shared items, even their car - its about to get EXPENSIVE UP IN THIS EPISODE!!! FOLLOW TORI: https://herfirst100k.com/ PRE ORDER TORI'S BOOK: https://herfirst100k.com...
Aug 22, 2022•49 min
THE FIRST DAY after a break up typically looks like a lot of ice cream or strippers depending on which side of the breakup you were on! Kelsey walks us through her first week as a single woman in over 5 years! How shes doing...how shes doing it...and what she's learning along the way. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy...
Aug 15, 2022•43 min
This ones a little different confidantes....thank you for being there for us for the last 5 years. It's been a crazy journey and I hope this episode shines a little light on what's been going on...how I'm moving on...and how I've been okay with not being okay. I love you guys so much. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy...
Aug 09, 2022•35 min
Are you tired of "being straight"? Do you FEEL THE GAYNESS IN UR BONES?? DO YOU FEEL LIKE SOCIETY HAS MADE YOU ADOPT COMPULSORY HETERONORMATIVITY (...and what is that giant word anyway?) ?! Then we've got the pod episode for you! Marlee Liss (sensuality and somatic coach, friend of the pod) and Eva Bloom (Queer-Inclusive Sex-Ed coach) are 2 besties and fellow queers who both came out and RE-came out during the pandemic. After their new arrivals into the queer space, they wanted to know WHAT WHO ...
Aug 01, 2022•48 min
Whitney Eckis (host of Under The Influence podcast) has built a career in marketing for some of the biggest brands on EARTH! But what about YOURSELF?! How do you go from being a global social media queen for the coorporate life into starting your own business and following? Whitney's here to break it all down as we learn the power of community! FOLLOW WHITNEY: https://msha.ke/whitneyeckis/ https://www.instagram.com/whitneyeckis/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/undertheinfluence.pod/?hl=en @eckis...
Jul 25, 2022•55 min
Her new show is as intimate as the episode title its self! Jacq "the stripper" Frances talks us through her life as a famous stripper (who came out as queer during her career) who fell in love...and out....and ultimately made a show out of it! From Dancing to Divorced, Jacq is a wild ride! FOLLOW JACQ: http://www.jacqthestripper.com/ https://www.instagram.com/jacqthestripper/ SEE JACQ'S SHOW: ⭐ Divorced in Paradise ⭐ 7/19 Nashville 7/22 Chattanooga 7/23 Atlanta 7/24 Charlotte 7/28 Philly 7/29 Br...
Jul 18, 2022•38 min
HELLO DO YOU LIKE TO SELF-SABOTAGE JUST LIKE YOUR DEAR OLD HOST, KELSEY DARRAGH?! (bonus points tell me how many years you've been listening by knowing that I always call my inner voice the C-word!) What does self-sabotaging look like? Why do we do it?? AND MOST IMPORTANT HOW THE HELL DO WE STOP?! FRET NOT! We have expert, podcast host, Certified Trauma Support Specialist, Holistic Life Coach and Reiki Master Practitioner AMY FIEDLER here to teach us how to connect the dots, bitch! FOLLOW AMY: P...
Jul 11, 2022•46 min
