CALLING ALL WORKING MOMS AND MULTI-TASKER SUPER PEOPLE!!!! Parent or not, we all know the scene that this society paints onto women & caretakers - YOU CAN’T WORK AND RAISE HUMAN LIFE AT THE SAME TIME! While obviously we all know thats BS, we can’t help but sometimes feel guilty or ashamed for finding the balance of being a working parent, caretaker and busy mom (dog moms count here too!) THANK GAWD we have Jessica Mckay, author of Always With You, Always With Me to guide us on how to get thr...
Jul 05, 2022•47 min
well confidantes...we recorded this episode a few weeks back and as if it were some ass-backwards manifestation...here we are this week with a historical move from our SC, overturning Roe! And we have 2 licensed therapists and best friends, PLEASURE COLLECTIVE (Anja & Hannah) here to talk us through it and hold to hold space for ourselves and others, FOLLOW THE PLEASURE COLLECTIVE: https://www.instagram.com/pleasure_collective/?hl=en https://linktr.ee/pleasurexcollective BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! A...
Jun 27, 2022•53 min
GOOD FRIEND OF THE TRY GUY WORLD and naturally crossed over into new friendship with Kelsey, Andrew Gurza, host of disability after dark podcast and award winning Disability Awareness Consultant and the Chief Disability Officer and Co-founder of Bump’n, a sex toy company for and by disabled people, CUMS on the pod (hehe no pun intended) to chat disability awareness and what it's like to CONSTANTLY talk about having sex as a full-time wheelchair user and disabled sexy queer man! p.s. Kelsey will ...
Jun 21, 2022•53 min
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!! Polyamory and Relationship Agreements Outside of the Mononorm!!!! Jenna wrote in to the ConPod to talk about POLYAMORY and Kelsey absolutely wanted to hear more! Jenna (no socials) is an advocate for non monogamy and is polyamorous by orientation. SO HOW DO THEY DO IT?! WHAT ARE THE “RULES”? HOW CAN YOU BE POLY IF YOUR CURIOUS?! All of these questions answers and more!!! BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW! BOOK: https://shopc.at/dfp MERCH: https://shopcatalog.c...
Jun 13, 2022•54 min
You know when you have to unlearn fat phobia and challenge your own beliefs on the healthcare system and fight all the trolls in the comments section??? WELL HANNAH FULENDORF HAS! AND TEACHES US ALL HOW TO in this weeks episode!!!! Hannah talks about her experience in the healthcare system and what lead her to being the badass activist and therapist that she is! FOLLOW HANNAH: linktr.ee/HannahTalksBodies https://www.instagram.com/hannahtalksbodies BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW!...
Jun 06, 2022•53 min
WOHoooHHHOOAHHHH!!! We've all known one....those people you have come across in your life that are one of the following: a narcissist, an addict, or a love addict! WHAT ABOUT ALL 3!!! WHAT IF YOU HAVE A MANIPULATIVE PERSON IN YOUR LIFE OR UPBRINGING?! How does that effect us NOW?! Fear not confidantes, we have a SPECIALIST this week - BRYNN CICIPPIO who is here to teach us everything we need to know about managing these relationships in our lives! FOLLOW BRYNN: https://bcatherapy.com/ https://ww...
May 23, 2022•50 min
BOUNDARIES!! HOW DO YOU SET THEM?! Where do you start? How do we tap into what kind of attachment style we are drawn to? Not only in sexual relationships, but also in family relationships! ALL OF THIS ANSWERED with boundaries expert Silvy Khoucasian - author and relationship coach! FOLLOW SILVY: @SilvyKhoucasian https://linktr.ee/silvykhoucasian https://silvykhoucasian.com/ BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW! BOOK: https://shopc.at/dfp MERCH: https://shopcatalog.com/shop/tag/kelsey-...
May 16, 2022•46 min
imagine being KIDNAPPED from your room when you're in high school to be taken by strangers into a WILDERNESS BOOTCAMP THERAPY...a common form of THERAPY CAMP happening all over the country...and yet, being GRATEFUL IT HAPPENED?! and then you use that experience to change your own life and invent and become the founder of a peer-to-peer support group therapy app for young people called CHILL PILL!?! ....well, confidantes, meet HAYLEY CADDES FOLLOW HAYLEY AND CHILL PILL: https://hayleycaddes.norby...
May 09, 2022•52 min
Aaron Kubal, A DOCTOR OF CHIROPRACTIC, is PISSING OFF THE CHIROPRACTIC WORLD and he doesn't care because GUESS WHAT?! HES BASED IN SCIENCE BABY!! NOW LEND ME YOUR EARS because even when I first started hearing about the things Arron talked about on TikTok I was skeptical because i've been going to chiropractors since I was 12!!!! But heres the truth, whatever works for you and makes you feel good is all that matters. Arron is here to make sure we're not getting MISINFORMATION and spending out co...
May 02, 2022•1 hr 3 min
CALLING ALL MILKY MAMAS!!!!! This week, FAT POSITIVE GORGEOUS HILARIOUS CUTE SEXY Only Fans model GWEN ADORDA (@gwenadora) is here to tell us what the life of a fat sex worker looks like, how the pandemic affected work, and what is takes to fullfill the role of being your only sexy milky MILFY fav! FOLLOW GWEN: https://gwenadora.com/links/ https://twitter.com/gwenadora?lang=en BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW! BOOK: https://shopc.at/dfp MERCH: https://shopcatalog.com/shop/tag/kels...
Apr 25, 2022•47 min
you know the one and only GABBY BERNSTEIN AS THE QUEEEN of manifesting... and her new book HAPPY DAYS (out now!) goes back into her past and shows you how she healed her trauma and how you can TOO! Your trauma does not prevent you from finding your happy days. Tune in to this week’s chat as podcast host, New York Times best-selling author, speaker, and spiritual leader, Gabby Bernstein shares about her own trauma treatment story and the role curiosity and compassion had in it <3 FOLLOW GABBY:...
Apr 18, 2022•38 min
LETS TALK ABOUT SEX WITH THE CHILDREN! Why not? ...does that freak you out?! well then YOU should be listening to this episode NOW more than ever because its NEVER too early to learn about body autonomy and CONSENT! And all of this gorgeous convo is thanks to our guest, JANIELLE BRYAN. Janielle S. Bryan, MPH CHES is an empathetic public health practitioner and educator whose work focuses on community health, sex and relationships, and health equity..and is just cool as hell in general. Listen to...
Apr 11, 2022•49 min
how do we center down, get some healing, and maybe even some laughs in during what we've all been going through?! LOOK NO FURTHER FOR THE ANSWER because our philly based podcast hosts and therapists SHRINK CHICKS (Jen & Em) are here to help us out during this much needed time! So sit back, relax (or try to )and enjoy these ladies talkin' THERAPY WE ALL NEED RIGHT NOW FOLLOW SHRINK CHICKS: https://www.shrinkchicks.com/ https://www.instagram.com/shrinkchicks/?hl=en https://podcasts.apple.com/u...
Apr 04, 2022•44 min
STRAP THOSE VAGINAS INTO YOUR SEATS CONFIDANTES because you're about to LEARN A WHOLE LOT MORE ABOUT YOUR LADY DOWNSTAIRS AND LET ME TELL YA it's going to PISS YOU OFF when you hear how big the health gap for vaginal health is! BUT LUCKY FOR US we have EVVY Co-founder Priyanka Jain (shes like super smart yall) to teach us all about how her company EVVY is changing the game and accessibility to take care of our kitties! FOLLOW EVVY: https://www.evvy.com/ https://www.evvy.com/about https://www.ins...
Mar 28, 2022•44 min
CALLING ALL ACCESSIBILITY BABES!!!!! Lets talk about the hottest dance team around - THE ROLLETTES!! and how their leader and CEO, got to put together the dance team of her dreams...A BUNCHA SEXY LADIES IN WHEELCHAIRS!! Beyond advocating for disability inclusion, Chelsie chats with us about life as a dancer, community leader, and all around bad ass babe! FOLLOW CHELSIE AND THE ROLLETTES!: @ChelsieHill www.chelsiehill.com @rollettes_la seeks to empower women with disabilities to live boundlessly ...
Mar 21, 2022•43 min
CHA-CHING! Lets talk MONEY, HONEY! Bola Sokunbi is a Certified Financial Education Instructor, money expert, and the CEO, best-selling author, and founder of Clever Girl Finance whos here to talk about what making, saving, and spending for gals like us in 2022 AND! Pre-order her new book, CHOOSING TO PROSPER coming out this summer! FOLLOW BOLA: https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/about-bola/ https://www.instagram.com/bolasokunbi/?hl=en BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW! BOOK: https:/...
Mar 14, 2022•41 min
THIS IS PART 2 OF A 2-PART CONVERSATION! IF YOU HAVE NOT WATCHED PART 1, GO BACK TO LAST WEEK'S EPISODE! YOU'RE BACK!! AND SO ARE WE!!! This time, we're getting more specific with Dr. Zoffness about more specific and controversial chronic pain and invisible illness pain. We're talking about the active plans that you can use to LITERALLY CHANGE THE WAY YOUR BRAIN PERCEIVES PAIN! Don't forget to check out Dr.Zoff's workbook, which helped me change my view of living with chronic pain! FOLLOW DR. ZO...
Mar 07, 2022•45 min
Calling all chronic pain babies! I'm talking back pain, fybro, POTS, CRPS, ANYONE AND EVERYONE IN CHRONIC PAIN!! Listen up! Dr. Rachel Zoffness, chronic pain specialist, is here for a whopping whole 2 part conversation about CHRONIC PAIN!!!! in this VERY IMPORTANT first episode, we chat about what exactly IS chronic pain and WHY do we have it?! Why and HOW does pain become chronic in the BRAIN (thats right, THE BRAIN, NOT JUST OUR BODIES!!!) And i'm so excited for you to hear this first part of ...
Feb 28, 2022•1 hr 6 min
SOUND THE ALARMS!!!! Yall. Confidents. This woman has changed my LIFE . AND SHES GOING TO CHANGE YOURS TOO!! I am SO excited to introduce you to NYT best-selling author, EVE RODSKY. Her book, Fair Play (and newest book Find Your Unicorn Space) teaches couples how to find FAIR balance in your relationships. Eve teaches us ACTUAL SYSTEMS to put into place to change you and your partners life to make fair household responsibilities and find your unicorn spaces!! I could truly listen to this woman s...
Feb 21, 2022•42 min
HELLO FABULOUS SCIENCE BABIES!!! We have a special experiment for you - what are the results of one GORGEOUS QUEER SCIENTIST mixed with changing the world for the better + a dash of sparkle?! YOU GET TIKTOK STAR AND LAB SHENANIGANS creator DARRION NGUYEN!! we talk things science, gay, and even a bit of covid!!! BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW! BOOK: https://shopc.at/dfp MERCH: https://shopcatalog.com/shop/tag/kelsey-darragh-collection/ Follow Kelsey & Keep Up with her life! h...
Feb 14, 2022•48 min
well well well - are you surprised, confidantes? WE'RE TALKIN' 'BOUT SEX AGAIN!!! But...GAYER. And more...UNIQUE!! Because WHY in the WORLD do we all need SEX THERAPY? Well, Todd Baratz is a certified sex therapist and couples psychotherapist and he's here to tell us all about the who, what, when, where, and WHYS of sex therapy! FOLLOW TODD: https://www.toddsbaratz.com/ https://www.instagram.com/yourdiagnonsense/?hl=en BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW! BOOK: https://shopc.at/dfp M...
Feb 07, 2022•50 min
CALLING ALL MIND EXPANDING CONFIDANTES! We've been following Kelsey on her tiny fungi journey, and then we chatted macro -dosing for chronic pain. ...but what about psychedelics that are used for THERAPY? And not just therapy for the mind..we're also talking about shroom therapy for lady arousal?! MINDCURE is a company on the cutting edge of new-age therapy including psychedelic assisted therapy and Kelsey was lucky enough to sit down with fellow-Kelsey, that is, Kelsey Ramsden CEO of MINDCURE! ...
Jan 31, 2022•1 hr
SOUND THE ALARM BELLS! YOU GUYS HAVEN'T STOPPED ASKING SO WE FINNNNALLLLLY DELIVERED!!! It's none other than yalls fav segment with your FAV guest ....HOES THROUGHOUT HISTORY WITH @JAZZMYNEJAY ROBBINS!!! This week we are looking at seriously the most insane f*cked up love story of all time...Your queen, Anne Boleyn. From sister fuckers, sweating disease, and playing the LONG CON this episode HAS IT ALL!!! FOLLOW JAZZMYNE: @jazzmynejay on ALL PLATFORMS!! BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OU...
Jan 24, 2022•57 min
come one come all to this absolute SHIT SHOW of a mish-mash episode with none other than BFF, host of GOOD MORNING SODIMITES (szn 2 out soon!), Dating No Filter Co-Host, and current fill in host on Nightly Pop on E!....ZACH NOE TOWERS! This episode has it all: Khloe Kardashian SCANDAL, Your Moms Vagina Problems, Tiffany Haddish's DUI, TikTok Idols..you name it, these wanna-be GenZ babies ARE TALKIN' BOUT IT!! Don't forget to check out @confidentlypod on instagram for a FREE THREE MONTHS OF THERA...
Jan 17, 2022•1 hr 4 min
soooooo anyone else get major anxiety about talking to strangers?! How can you be the most interesting person in the room and in this episode, learn a few questions to GUARANTEE A GOOD CONVERSATION!!!??? Danielle Robay teaches us the ART of conversation using her QUESTION EVERYTHING deck to walk us through a few examples :) FOLLOW DANIELLE: https://www.instagram.com/daniellerobay/?hl=en https://pod.link/prettysmart BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW! BOOK: https://shopc.at/dfp MERCH...
Jan 10, 2022•53 min
HAPPY NEW YEAR CONFIDANTES!!!!! Hope your year is off to a happy and healthy start. WE HAVE A FUN ONE FOR YOU TO START THE YEAR OFF RIGHT!! Kelsey chats with Kat Stickler, a fellow Tampa BB, and MEGA VIRAL TIKTOK STAR WITH OVER 8 MILLION FOLLOWERS!! Oh yeah, and not to mention, she's doing ALL of this while having gone through a public breakup and RAISING HER TODDLER AS A SINGLE MOM!! She's a true gem, breaking that dam myth that women have to pick a single thing to be in this life, showcasing t...
Jan 03, 2022•42 min
Tis the END OF THE YEAR! THE LAST EPISODE OF 2021! MY GOD! We've done so much work, so much learning, so much absolutely sure-ing we don't know everything-ing! SO LETS HAVE SOME FUN SHALL WE?! Lets talk all about sex with your new fav sex education and host of the Seggs Ed show on TikTok! Danielle "DB" Bezalel! FOLLOW DANIELLE: https://www.instagram.com/djbezalel/ https://www.sexedwithdb.com/ https://www.sexedwithdb.com/theseggsedshow https://www.instagram.com/sexedwithdbpodcast/ BUY KELSEY'S BO...
Dec 27, 2021•47 min
TRIGGER WARNING: CONVO ABOUT SEXUAL ABUSE AND RELATIONSHIP TRAUMA These two incredible women, Isa and Nina, started a viral non-profit straight out of college to help with their own healing journeys and are now helping thousands of women and people recovering from abusive relationship trauma! While the topic might seem heavy, these women have found a way to make the conversation less scary and taboo - inviting all into the fold when navigating this intimate subject! FOLLOW IAMEMPWR AND ISA &...
Dec 20, 2021•45 min
SO LIKE ....how is therapy changing as ~*we*~ we as a society change? What are therapists doing differently that they didn't write in those Freudian papers all those many years ago? How have our resources changed? Dr. JD Barton, doctor of psychology, working with university students, cues us in on what young people care about today and how he helps :) OH YEAH AND HE WAS ON WHO WANTS TO BE A MILLIONAIRE AND KELSEY CAN'T STOP TALKING ABOUT IT!!! FOLLOW DR.JD: https://www.instagram.com/drjdbarton/?...
Dec 13, 2021•57 min
WHO KNOWS ME BETTER?! In this holiday special, Kelsey challenges her sister against her boyfriend of four years in a wild and crazy game of who knows me better?! From arrests to fetishes, WHO WILL COME OUT ON TOP?!?! HAPPY HOLIDAYS YALL!!! BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW! BOOK: https://shopc.at/dfp MERCH: https://shopcatalog.com/shop/tag/kelsey-darragh-collection/ Follow Kelsey & Keep Up with her life! https://linktr.ee/kelseydarragh Sign up for Kelsey’s new company at swapsk...
Dec 06, 2021•38 min