In the final episode of 2024, Raeann and Kristina share personal experiences about uncomfortable situations with friends and the societal obsession with being thin. The conversation shifts to their travel plans for 2025, including trips to Japan, Puerto Rico, Greece, and potentially Disney and The Cayman Islands. They also share highlights from 2024, with a focus on personal growth and career achievements. They touch on the pressures of New Year's resolutions, the importance of easing into the n...
Dec 31, 2024•39 min•Ep. 210
In this festive episode, Raeann recaps her restorative Canyon Ranch trip—three days of much-needed wellness despite the rec center aesthetic. Kristina shares that her dog Dué is heading into surgery to give them a little more time together. The girls also chat about the Matilda Djerf workplace controversy and the mysterious drones flying over New Jersey. They reminisce about the magic of Christmas, sharing favorite childhood memories, best and worst gifts, and the nostalgia of holiday traditions...
Dec 24, 2024•45 min•Ep. 209
This episode is all about the struggle of saying NO and how to break free from people-pleasing habits. Raeann and Kristina chat about the balance between honoring your commitments vs saying no with conviction. Kristina shares her progress in setting family boundaries, while Raeann reflects on the regret of skipping her family’s safari trip. Saying no takes practice and is a hard skill to get good at, but sometimes you just have to put yourself and your priorities first. And for the other people ...
Dec 17, 2024•45 min•Ep. 208
Today, Raeann and Kristina are chatting all things pop culture—from Wicked’s whimsical set and goosebump-worthy music to Vanderpump Rules’ fresh new cast and Lala’s Photoshop fail. They fan-girl over Ilona and Alan for single-handedly reviving Dancing with the Stars and applaud Steve for his undeniable star power. Meanwhile, Jacob Elordi’s beard debut? A unanimous flop. Oh, and is it just them, or is every influencer getting engaged right now? Thanks to our sponsors: Get 15% off OneSkin with the...
Dec 10, 2024•43 min•Ep. 207
Before this week’s Ask Away kicks off, Raeann shares her sister’s Breckenridge house chaos and Kristina agrees that homeownership isn’t all sunshine and roses. They also get into the Christmas spirit by sharing Christmas highlights from childhood gifts to nostalgic movies. In today’s Ask Away, the girls dig into relatable struggles, from ending the cycle of dressing to look skinny and overcoming wedding dress shopping anxiety to embracing cellulite with confidence. They also unpack the uncertain...
Dec 03, 2024•39 min•Ep. 206
Today, the girls are chatting all things Thanksgiving—from Friendsgiving highlights to niche family recipes. Raeann explains the lore behind her family’s infamous Watergate marshmallow salad while Kristina’s family keeps to their Greek roots. They also recap their best-ever Friendsgiving with fellow Confidants. It was a safe, judgement-free space where everyone could open up, rock their cutest holiday outfits and celebrate their curves with confidence! Shout out to Maybelline for sponsoring this...
Nov 26, 2024•31 min•Ep. 205
This week, Raeann and Kristina get real about body confidence, reflecting on the pressures of “thin is in” culture and how it affects their mindset. Both girls have faced a tough year with their body confidence—Raeann’s ups and downs of feeling hot vs hating her body and Kristina’s struggle with clothes that don’t fit and the suburban skinny bubble. They also discuss balancing body positivity with health goals, the power of habits, and checking in with how you’re feeling. Remember, confidence na...
Nov 19, 2024•43 min•Ep. 204
Today, we welcome on Brittany Ball, a social media personality, who shares her journey of motherhood, self-discovery and dating. From life in Hawaii with her ex-husband to starting fresh in NYC as a single mom, Brittany turned her challenges into a journey of self-discovery, creating a beautiful life for herself and her son. She talks about her peaceful co-parenting dynamic, balancing motherhood with dating, and how she carves out time for herself. While in eras of uncertainty, embracing the bea...
Nov 12, 2024•56 min•Ep. 203
Kristina’s tackling hair struggles, from finding the right cut to using a silk bonnet, while Raeann talks about doing a strict wellness retreat this winter to focus on her health. Plus, we talk about motherhood and our latest obsessions—Kristina’s encouragement to strike up a conversation with new people and Raeann’s Spanish lessons with Gabe. In today’s Ask Away episode, we chat about confidence, relationships, and the ebbs and flows of life. If you’re 27, single, and new to dating, we offer ad...
Nov 05, 2024•31 min•Ep. 202
Today, we sit down with Kerry O’Brien, a powerhouse in real estate who pivoted her career in her 40s and quickly became a billion-dollar seller in Monmouth County. Karrie shares her advice on how to go after what you want in life, from doing things out of your comfort zone to going the extra mile to embracing the hard moments. It’s never too late to go for what you want and Karrie is proof of that. She also gives her tips for first-time homebuyers on how to set yourself up for success and how to...
Oct 29, 2024•43 min•Ep. 201
This week, Kristina and Raeann break down the return of the iconic Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show, from their favorite walks to the curve model representation. At the afterparty, they reaffirmed that they ARE big girls and Raeann now manifests her runway debut in next year’s show. They highlight favorite moments, from Ashley Graham owning the spotlight to Lisa from Blackpink’s stunning performance, but they also drop some critiques—pointing out the lack of glitz and glam and the small percentage...
Oct 22, 2024•38 min
Kristina took a peaceful but semi-chaotic bike ride to the podcast studio today. Raeann chats about her wholesome weekend with her parents and how her dad will strike up a conversation with literally anyone. Kristina also shares her perspective on school uniforms and how parents put pressure on themselves just to impress other parents. They also talk about their frustration with brands that claim to carry larger sizes but don’t, and on a more positive note, they share their excitement about atte...
Oct 15, 2024•35 min•Ep. 199
Today’s episode is all about the art of delusional confidence, but first, Raeann chats about her birthday plans for Gabe’s 29th and Kristina tells us about her upcoming suburban block party. Plus, they share everything that’s on their fall wishlists—think apple picking, chunky sweaters, and fall re-runs like Practical Magic and Gilmore Girls . Now, get ready to embrace your delusional confidence! We break down how to embody and apply this unapologetic belief that you can achieve anything. Delusi...
Oct 08, 2024•35 min•Ep. 198
Today’s Ask Away is a good one, but first, the girls fill us in on their trip to sunny Los Angeles. Kristina and Raeann chat about their live show in LA with Naturalizer, where they interviewed Deepika Mutyala, Founder of Live Tinted, and celebrated the launch of Naturalizer’s most inclusive boot line yet. They also try to decipher the question of, are you are innately cool or popular, and chat about Kristina’s fascination with the P Diddy scandal. The girl’s questions today are hard-hitting, fr...
Oct 01, 2024•44 min•Ep. 197
In this * Live* episode from Los Angeles, Raeann and Kristina, along with special guest Deepica Mutyala, engage in a lively conversation about confidence, inclusivity, and fashion. Deepica shares her journey in the beauty industry, challenges of representation, and the success of her brand Live Tinted. They discuss confidence in dating, career hurdles, and the significance of a supportive community. Audience questions further explore business failures, inspirations, and the essence of genuine le...
Sep 26, 2024•43 min•Ep. 196
Today, we’re joined by Payton Sartain, content creator and podcast host of Note to Self . We chat relationships, city vs. country living, and how to navigate life transitions. Payton talks about her frequent moves—from the Midwest to Fashion Week in NYC to preparing for her next chapter in South Florida. As someone who thrives on new beginnings, she offers advice on navigating life in a new city, making friends as an adult, and finding your community. Payton also gives a peek into her relationsh...
Sep 24, 2024•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 195
In this episode, Raeann talks about her first few days doing 75 Medium (75 Hard Rae edition), focusing on consistency, routine, hitting her hydration goals. Kristina celebrates her 7-year wedding anniversary and shares marriage advice on communication and how to balance life with kids. They also dive into their latest obsessions — Raeann’s dopamine menu of little joys like iced matcha, fresh sheets, and ocean dips, while Kristina raves about her new pilates princess era. Today, the girls are tal...
Sep 17, 2024•52 min•Ep. 194
In this *LIVE* episode of TCC, Raeann and Kristina sit down with the iconic Lauren Chan. Together, they dive into the world of fashion, body confidence, and how to authentically show up as yourself. Lauren shares empowering insights on choosing outfits based on how they make you feel, not just how they look. Plus, they discuss fashion inclusivity, give a shout-out to brands making an impact, and share advice on finding emerging designers. Tune in for style tips, real talk, and a whole lot of ins...
Sep 05, 2024•40 min•Ep. 193
We're back, Confidants! Raeann and Kristina are back from their summer break, settling into their new sunroom studio! They dive into the joys and challenges of suburban life and how they’re striking the perfect balance between that and their city roots. Rae shares her summer adventures, from horseback riding to hiking in Colorado, while Kristina reflects on her relaxed, family-centered summer and some heartfelt thoughts on motherhood. Rae and Gabe are perfect - are they not? Raeann gives us an u...
Sep 03, 2024•46 min•Ep. 192
In the final rewind episode of the summer, we turn back the clock to one of our personal favorites! Remember when Rae dropped the big "what are we" question? And Kristina rocking the neighborhood mom scene. We're also spilling tea about the craziest things we've ever done in relationships (hint: it involves jumping out of moving vehicles! 🚗). We chat about Rae’s wild Breckenridge girl’s trip, tackle troll comments, and discuss Kristina’s obsession with Mike the Situation. The girls are thriving...
Aug 27, 2024•50 min•Ep. 191
In today's throwback episode, we got some great tips to help you embrace your "Main Character Energy" all year round. Plus Kristina shares an epic story involving a magical Tesla, a lost purse, and a white fig tree that led her to realize her current house was meant to be. We also dive into the Beckham documentary and discuss why it’s so captivating, and whether David and Victoria Beckham might have one of the greatest love stories of all time. Naturally, this leads us to chat about the Spice Gi...
Aug 20, 2024•40 min•Ep. 190
Even the most confident among us can be deeply hurt by fat shaming. Intentional or not, overt or covert, no one wants to experience it. After a recent conversation with our friend Rosie about her distressing encounter with fat shaming on a plane, we found ourselves asking: Why does this still happen? Why is "fat" used as an insult? And why do some people think it's okay to say that? In this re-released episode, we’re diving into the roots of fat phobia, exploring size stereotypes, and discussing...
Aug 13, 2024•58 min•Ep. 189
Today we're revisiting an enlightening episode featuring Kiana Reeves, a leading voice in sexual wellness and Chief Content Officer at Foria, as part of our summer rewind series. Kiana shares her expertise on how to enhance your connection with your body and experience more pleasure in your sex life. Join us as we explore the holistic approach to sexual wellness, encompassing emotional, biological, social, and spiritual aspects. Kiana discusses the importance of self-care through masturbation, t...
Aug 06, 2024•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 188
Welcome back to another summer rewind episode of the Confident Collective! Join us as we revisit a fan-favorite conversation with Ashley and Taryne, our fabulous co-hosts from the Unsolicited Advice podcast. Together, we dive into a variety of intriguing topics, from navigating the complexities of the dating scene to confidently setting boundaries after undergoing personal transformations. We also explore how to reignite the spark in long-term relationships, drawing from our own unique experienc...
Jul 30, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 187
Dusting off a gem from the vault! Join us as we revisit a classic episode packed with all the vibes. Raeann reflects on five years of singlehood, embracing every moment along the way. Meanwhile, Kristina, amidst the NYC hustle, dreams of sandy Malibu shores, contemplating a sunny return to LA. We also dive into Kristina's obsession with Vanderpump Rules, the ever-shifting world of influencers, and a peek into Travis Kelce's surprising side. Plus, get ready for some male perspective as comedian J...
Jul 23, 2024•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 186
In this revisited episode, we boldly explore the audacious comments men have thrown our way. From ridiculous remarks about our looks and mannerisms to downright bizarre statements, we recount personal anecdotes that showcase just how surreal these interactions can be. Additionally, we revisit some of the most jaw-dropping stories shared by our TCC listeners. Join us as we reflect on the bizarre thought processes behind these comments and collectively address their absurdity. Podcast episodes of ...
Jul 16, 2024•25 min•Ep. 185
Join us as we revisit an insightful conversation with Kristina, Raeann, and special guest Rosie, exploring Raeann’s evolving views on casual sex. We delve into Raeann’s reflections from her ‘hoe phase,’ where she embraced casual encounters without regrets, to her subsequent ‘celibate era.’ Discover how Raeann navigated dating during her 'siren summer,' prioritizing connection over immediate intimacy. This judgment-free episode encourages reclaiming sexual freedom while ensuring personal comfort ...
Jul 09, 2024•41 min•Ep. 184
We had the best time at our 2nd Annual Confident Collective Pool Party this past Saturday in Los Angeles!! The sun was shining, the outfits were slaying (shoutout DSW), the girls were hyping each other up, and everyone was just living their best lives while feeling confident in their own skin! We were so happy with how everything turned out, from the Americana-themed food to the curated gift bags to the Argi Daneli custom jewelry bar. We also share some special moments that highlight why we host...
Jul 02, 2024•40 min•Ep. 183
On today’s Ask Away, we’re delivering candid advice to your burning questions! To the person that asks why every photo they take of themselves looks bad, we remind you that everyone posts their best angles online and that even lighting can make or break a photo. Have a crush on a coworker? Go for it girl, flirt your little heart out!! We also address how to navigate dealing with a new sister-in-law that you have bad blood with, and how to navigate splitting finances in a relationship. We also fe...
Jun 25, 2024•45 min•Ep. 182
Today we welcome special guest Katie Austin, a multifaceted fitness personality, recipe developer, Sports Illustrated model, and app creator. Known for her attainable and balanced approach to health and wellness, Katie gives insightful advice from how to change your mindset around nutrition to creating a simple morning routine. She shares how growing up in a sporty household with fitness legend Denise Austin influenced her passion for staying active and fueled her competitive spirit, leading her...
Jun 18, 2024•48 min•Ep. 181
